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  • Our sex life was non existent for months and this weekend we had great sex twice and last night we were all over each other. I am so happy about it. i thought for sure we were going to have a sexless marriage forever. I have been in therapy and started anti depressants. Maybe these are helping.

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    06.03.08, 07:35 AM [ Flag ]

    • sometimes it's a double edged sword -- depression makes the libido go away and sometimes the antidepressants do, too. glad they're working. which one are you taking?

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      06.03.08, 07:37 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]

      • effexor. I've had the no sex drive problem in the past with zoloft and others so I'm surprised about it myself. I started effexor for what I thought might be ppd.

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        06.03.08, 07:39 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]

        • i take effexor and it worked for a while but numbed me out too much and eventually killed my libido so i added some wellbutrin. it's helping but not 100 percent.

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          06.03.08, 07:40 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]

          • do you mean the wellbutrin is helping with your sex drive or with your depression (or both)? Side question - if I get pregnant again (dd is 1 now and I am not a spring chicken), I'll have to go off the meds, yes?

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            06.03.08, 07:42 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]

            • wellbutrin helped my sex drive and depression, the effexor is more for anxiety. anyhow, i know you can't take effexor during pregnancy and i don't think you can take wellbutrin, either. being numbed out is just not being able to cry when you should be able to...

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              06.03.08, 08:23 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]

          • also, what did it feel like to be numbed out?

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            06.03.08, 07:43 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]

    • Not to burst the bubble but sometimes more means he is also getting it elsewhere. Sounds like its the depression that was holding you back in your case tho.

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      06.03.08, 07:50 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
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