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  • Getting remarried and have a huge role as a stepmom (they live with us, Fiance has custody). Some issues have come up and I am adament about going to blended family/stepfamily counseling. Fiance first agreed, and is now dragging his heels. Now I have weakening interest in marrying him because we had agreed that we'll go to therapy if need be. WWYD?

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    06.03.08, 06:01 AM [ Flag ]
    • when I ask him, he says

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      06.03.08, 06:02 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    • ^^ when I ask him, he says "we'll see". so friggin passive aggressive.

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      06.03.08, 06:03 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
      • You know that the passive-aggressive thing won't change over time, right? And will get worse with stress? If it bothers you this much already, that's important information for you.

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        06.03.08, 06:14 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
      • very p/a. not a good sign - sorry.

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        06.03.08, 06:18 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    • Seems like you really need to put your foot down. Just make the appt and tell him where to show up. If he really doesn't want to do it, this may tell you this is not going to work. Sorry but better to know now than after you marry. The stats on 2nd marriages are pretty bleak. With a little help you can probably make it work but if he reufuses, it's a really bad sign

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      06.03.08, 06:05 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
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