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my across the way neighbor doesn't know how to close her blinds - i see her semi clothed/changing all the time. She must be in her 20s - perfect body. I'm a huge voyeur now cause of her
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05.17.08, 08:54 PM [ Flag ]
- she totally knows you're watching her
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  05.17.08, 08:55 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
  - thats what DH says - maybe she does! but she's never acknowledged it
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    05.17.08, 08:55 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    - Do you get annoyed that dh is oggling her?
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      05.17.08, 09:02 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
      - np: sounds like dh is annoyed with op for doing the ogling.
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        05.17.08, 09:04 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        
        my dh would so not be annoyed if I was oggling.
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        05.17.08, 09:05 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        
        he's not annoyed - finds it funny
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      - its mostly me that does it! i
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        05.17.08, 09:04 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        
        oops - its me 4/5 times doing it- he gets bored with it
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        05.17.08, 09:05 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        
        np...I would be fascinated (I am a dw)
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        05.17.08, 09:08 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        
        op: amazes me how late they go out, how long it takes them to get ready, etc. seems like ages ago that i was like that
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        05.17.08, 09:09 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        
        True, they probably get up late also though. I have a team of 20-somethings who routinely close down bars in NYC. Do you ever see them doing the walk of shame at like 8am?
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        05.17.08, 09:12 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        
        nope! never see either of them on the street - would be so weird! no clue their situations
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        05.17.08, 09:14 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        
        np...a comedian last year said that Halloween weekend allows you to watch a "double walk of shame" which is stumbing home in a costume at 8am on Sunday
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        np: seriously!
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        05.18.08, 05:55 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
- that si interesting?
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  05.17.08, 08:56 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
  - guess not to you@
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    05.17.08, 08:57 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
- We do this too.....forget to close our blinds. Not great bodies. We just don't think about it and sadly don't care. I probably should, but don't.
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  05.17.08, 08:59 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
  - OP = we rarely close ours either- but i don't parade around in a bra and thing like she does either!
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    05.17.08, 09:01 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    - parade? she is in her apartment
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      - OP: she tries on like 10 outfits a night, has a roomie - i consider it parading around. If i had her body - i would too!
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        05.17.08, 09:03 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        
        Is the roomie more reserved?
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        05.17.08, 09:09 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        
        seems so - never see her not clothed. But maybe her bedroom is on the other side, not sure
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        05.17.08, 09:10 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        
        np...when I first lived in NYC I shared a studio with another girl and after awhile we got so comfortable about it. We probably caused a stir sometimes.
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        05.17.08, 09:15 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        
        does the one woman actually walk around without clothes or just change?
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        05.17.08, 09:18 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        
        walk around in skimpy stuff- change for like an hour
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        05.17.08, 09:20 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        
        well, it is amazing what young women wear for clothes these days. I had an intern I had to send home because you could see she had her nipples pierced and she was causing a stir.
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        05.17.08, 09:23 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
- I do this, 25th floor and it gives me a bit of a thrill sometimes.
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  - to be seen? or to watch?
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    05.17.08, 09:02 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    - walk around and think about being seen. Try on outfits or walk around in a short open robe, etc.
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      05.17.08, 09:04 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
- I travel a bit for business and dh and I have gotten into the habit of having a bit of fun phone sex and he has me undress with the blinds open. It makes my blood boil.
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  05.17.08, 09:03 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
  - so say they are open and close them anyway
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    05.17.08, 09:05 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    - you're no fun
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      05.17.08, 09:06 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    - lol, he told me I could do that, but it is thrilling to be on display like that. it is usually a big city in a huge hotel.
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      05.17.08, 09:07 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
      - thats fun and hot! i leave my open at hotels too - fun to not know if someone sees you
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        05.17.08, 09:08 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        
        yes, ITA!! It gets me excited and business travel is such a pain any little harmless thrill helps.
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        05.17.08, 09:14 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        
        my dh used to travel all the time. pre DC, we used to come up with all these crazy fantasies we talked about having to do with his travel
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        05.17.08, 09:16 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        
        It is amazing how if I am travelling on a Tuesday night we can be more intense than if I was home.
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        05.17.08, 09:22 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
      - you like it? blood boil means angry try for another phrase
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        05.17.08, 09:16 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        
        Oh, I thought it could mean excited. It makes me think naughty thoughts.
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        05.17.08, 09:20 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
- when we bought shades for our place, i didn't realize that they only blocked out light...but at night, if it's darker outside than in, people can totally see in. oh, well. i figure if someone really wants to look that badly, let them.
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  05.17.08, 09:03 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
- if you were in philly I'd think you were talking about me - i'm sure my neighbors see me all the time
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  - nope- nyc!
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my across the way neighbor doesn't know how to close her blinds - i see her semi clothed/changing all the time. She must be in her 20s - perfect body. I'm a huge voyeur now cause of her

she totally knows you're watching her

thats what DH says - maybe she does! but she's never acknowledged it

Do you get annoyed that dh is oggling her?

np: sounds like dh is annoyed with op for doing the ogling.

my dh would so not be annoyed if I was oggling.

he's not annoyed - finds it funny

its mostly me that does it! i

oops - its me 4/5 times doing it- he gets bored with it

np...I would be fascinated (I am a dw)

op: amazes me how late they go out, how long it takes them to get ready, etc. seems like ages ago that i was like that

True, they probably get up late also though. I have a team of 20-somethings who routinely close down bars in NYC. Do you ever see them doing the walk of shame at like 8am?

nope! never see either of them on the street - would be so weird! no clue their situations

np...a comedian last year said that Halloween weekend allows you to watch a "double walk of shame" which is stumbing home in a costume at 8am on Sunday

np: seriously!

that si interesting?

guess not to you@

We do this too.....forget to close our blinds. Not great bodies. We just don't think about it and sadly don't care. I probably should, but don't.

OP = we rarely close ours either- but i don't parade around in a bra and thing like she does either!

parade? she is in her apartment

OP: she tries on like 10 outfits a night, has a roomie - i consider it parading around. If i had her body - i would too!

Is the roomie more reserved?

seems so - never see her not clothed. But maybe her bedroom is on the other side, not sure

np...when I first lived in NYC I shared a studio with another girl and after awhile we got so comfortable about it. We probably caused a stir sometimes.

does the one woman actually walk around without clothes or just change?

walk around in skimpy stuff- change for like an hour

well, it is amazing what young women wear for clothes these days. I had an intern I had to send home because you could see she had her nipples pierced and she was causing a stir.

I do this, 25th floor and it gives me a bit of a thrill sometimes.

to be seen? or to watch?

walk around and think about being seen. Try on outfits or walk around in a short open robe, etc.

I travel a bit for business and dh and I have gotten into the habit of having a bit of fun phone sex and he has me undress with the blinds open. It makes my blood boil.

so say they are open and close them anyway

you're no fun

lol, he told me I could do that, but it is thrilling to be on display like that. it is usually a big city in a huge hotel.

thats fun and hot! i leave my open at hotels too - fun to not know if someone sees you

yes, ITA!! It gets me excited and business travel is such a pain any little harmless thrill helps.

my dh used to travel all the time. pre DC, we used to come up with all these crazy fantasies we talked about having to do with his travel

It is amazing how if I am travelling on a Tuesday night we can be more intense than if I was home.

you like it? blood boil means angry try for another phrase

Oh, I thought it could mean excited. It makes me think naughty thoughts.

when we bought shades for our place, i didn't realize that they only blocked out light...but at night, if it's darker outside than in, people can totally see in. oh, well. i figure if someone really wants to look that badly, let them.

if you were in philly I'd think you were talking about me - i'm sure my neighbors see me all the time

nope- nyc!

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