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yes. i know. thing is. dh and i have been together almost 2 decades. we're both sort of at the end of it, you know. have had very civilized talks about whether or not we want to keep going.
[ Reply | Options ]How long have you felt like this? I'm guessthing the problems started awhile ago and weren't addressed.
[ Reply | Options ]we've been addressing them for the past year. bf that, we did deal sometimes. at others didn't. i've had some happy times and some very unhappy times int he last few years. it's not an easy thing.
[ Reply | Options ]I hear you, not trying to judge just wondering how it got to a point where you feel like it's too late to work it out.
[ Reply | Options ]people change. i'm at a different point in life than he is. we seem to want different things. and after spending so many years together,really needsome time apart. it could be that we'll take time apart (not in terms of separation or divorce, just much more alone time) and we'll start to appreciate each other again. we'vealso had a huge amount of stressin the past few years. it's been much less in the past year, but bf that it had been awful.
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UrbanBaby Asks...
When I ride in a taxi cab with my DC I:
- Use a carseat
- Buckle him/her in his/her own seat
- Hold him/her on my lap
- I'd never ride in a taxi with my DC, it's much too dangerous!
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