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HELP! My 3.8 yr old dd is very comfortable about being naked. Today her teacher at school said she "exposed herself" to the whole class saying she was showing her "peedie"(she calls it that). I don't want to over-react, but I want to know if this means she has some psychological issue. Is this kind of normal? I am freaking out b/c the teacher acted horrified.
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05.16.08, 01:50 PM [ Flag ]
- totally normal. surprised the teacher was horrified. it can't be the first time this has happened in one of her classes
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  - was the teacher horrified. or just letting you know what dd did that day.
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    05.16.08, 01:54 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    - she was letting me know but had a look of horror as if it had never happened before. It was odd
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- years ago this would have been laughed off as cute. But now your dd will probably be diagnosed with something
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  - this is why I am freaked. The teacher gave her a time out. My dd said she got yelled at :(
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    05.16.08, 01:52 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    - that really sucks
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  - so true
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- have you had the "privates" talk with her? My dd is the same age but she's aware that her privates are just that.
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  - yes. She doesn't get it. She doesn't think being naked is wrong in public. I hope she now gets it
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    05.16.08, 01:53 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    - well just have that talk with her again. I find it has to be more than once..reminding them when you get the chance
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      05.16.08, 01:55 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    - i'm so sorry she was yelled at for something like that. what did you say to her?
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      05.16.08, 02:19 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
  - np: good point. there's nothing wrong with it, she jsut needs to learn that private parts are private
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    05.16.08, 01:53 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
- start wearing clothes at home.
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  05.16.08, 01:55 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
  - are you kidding?
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    05.16.08, 01:56 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
- nip it now because my friend was very relaxed with the naked issue and her dd started taking her clothes off when guest her over..butt naked (at 4 and 5yr old) and sitting with everything showing. PPL were very bothered by this
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  05.16.08, 01:57 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
- my son has started stripping down to nothing when he's on the playground. that being said, he *has* been dx with something. if i were you, i wouldn't worry about it. talk to the teachers and let them know you're talking with her about appropriate places for taking off clothing.
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  05.16.08, 01:59 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
  - np: if you don't mind me asking what was he dx with? My best friends ds does the same thing and he will be 5 yr old this summer
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    05.16.08, 01:59 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    - autism -- high functioning. the dx came way before the desire to be naked, though.
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      05.16.08, 02:04 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
- LOL! She sounds hilarious. Good for her for being so free-spirited. ;)
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  - op: I LOVE you!
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    05.16.08, 02:00 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
  - I'm old school but there's a place and time for that kind of funny (np)
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    05.16.08, 02:00 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    - np: oh pleazzzzz grandma, she was just making a joke
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      05.16.08, 02:01 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
      - well TONE is hard to read online. If joking then you know what to do
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        05.16.08, 02:02 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
      - OK freak. I think the kid sounds really WEIRD. Really weird.
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        05.16.08, 02:03 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        
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        05.16.08, 02:04 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        
        You are really WEIRD for thinking she is really weird.
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        05.16.08, 02:05 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        
        Well, we know there is at least one poster here who did not get laid last night....or maybe any other night for the past year...
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        05.16.08, 02:06 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        
        You need a nice hard c*ck shoved up that ass of yours to loosen it up.
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        05.16.08, 02:07 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
- i honestly wouldn't worry about it. the teacher sounds like a pill. have another talk with her, but at that age, no big whoop imo.
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totally normal. surprised the teacher was horrified. it can't be the first time this has happened in one of her classes

was the teacher horrified. or just letting you know what dd did that day.

she was letting me know but had a look of horror as if it had never happened before. It was odd

years ago this would have been laughed off as cute. But now your dd will probably be diagnosed with something

this is why I am freaked. The teacher gave her a time out. My dd said she got yelled at :(

that really sucks

so true

have you had the "privates" talk with her? My dd is the same age but she's aware that her privates are just that.

yes. She doesn't get it. She doesn't think being naked is wrong in public. I hope she now gets it

well just have that talk with her again. I find it has to be more than once..reminding them when you get the chance

i'm so sorry she was yelled at for something like that. what did you say to her?

np: good point. there's nothing wrong with it, she jsut needs to learn that private parts are private

start wearing clothes at home.

are you kidding?

nip it now because my friend was very relaxed with the naked issue and her dd started taking her clothes off when guest her over..butt naked (at 4 and 5yr old) and sitting with everything showing. PPL were very bothered by this

my son has started stripping down to nothing when he's on the playground. that being said, he *has* been dx with something. if i were you, i wouldn't worry about it. talk to the teachers and let them know you're talking with her about appropriate places for taking off clothing.

np: if you don't mind me asking what was he dx with? My best friends ds does the same thing and he will be 5 yr old this summer

autism -- high functioning. the dx came way before the desire to be naked, though.

LOL! She sounds hilarious. Good for her for being so free-spirited. ;)

op: I LOVE you!

I'm old school but there's a place and time for that kind of funny (np)

np: oh pleazzzzz grandma, she was just making a joke

well TONE is hard to read online. If joking then you know what to do

OK freak. I think the kid sounds really WEIRD. Really weird.

ittta

You are really WEIRD for thinking she is really weird.

Well, we know there is at least one poster here who did not get laid last night....or maybe any other night for the past year...

You need a nice hard c*ck shoved up that ass of yours to loosen it up.

i honestly wouldn't worry about it. the teacher sounds like a pill. have another talk with her, but at that age, no big whoop imo.

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my son has started stripping down to nothing when he's on the playground. that being said, he has been dx with something. if i were you, i wouldn't worry about it. talk to the teachers and let them know you're talking with her about appropriate places for taking off clothing.