Repost, and long, so sorry if you already read it. SO Pissed. Please help me. I just got the third note home this year in my 5 yo ds' lunchbox from his admittedly experienced but childless prek teacher. he is there from 8:30-5:30, so I pack a big lunch with a lot of choices. today, I packed the following: pbj on whole wheat. grapes. pirates booty. an apple. cheeto type of a deal. pretzels. yogurt. cheese stick. cinnamon dried apple slices. he drinks water. everything was organic, low sugar, and from the whole foods place. they like us to include fresh veggies, but i stopped after throwing them away uneaten every day for 6 mos. so that was missing. i received this note: "i noticed ds consistenly has 3 crackery type items in his lunch with little nutritional value. could you have him choose one to bring?" i have also received a note chiding me for not reusing the ziploc bags and not providing him with raw cauliflower which he supposedly requested (he doesn't even know what it is), and another one that chided me for providing 'too many grains'. this is a boy in perfect health (2 colds this yr) who is very athletic and ate sole, black beans and broccoli for dinner last night. I really do.not.need this woman telling me how to pack a freakin lunch for my kid. Please help me compose a response, bearing in mind that my dd will be at this school for 2 yrs. THANKS!

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