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ok this is kind of scandelous - but here'goes.. dh and I are separating. guy I have been having casual affair w/ (dh has been having not so casual affair for almost a year now) recently dumped me. He said it made him feel bad about himself to be in his position, that I was a beautiful girl blah blah blah, that he would definitely want to date/continue a relationship with me if i were single, etc... Here is my question - was that just his way of dumping me? or WOULD he want to date me if I were single? I know, its an awful topic.
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No, he might mean that. You deal is pretty complicated to a single guy. But he was playing with fire from the start. Something I wouldn't do unless, I suppose, if it just happened on it's own. I'm no home-wrecker. Just being cute, I don't mean to be offensive.
[ Reply | Options ]complicated indeed. I sort of got the jist that he didn't want to feel like a homewrecker. I can't blame him for that, and he certainly has/had nothing to do with the reasons behind dh and I's demise by any means. Honestly - his participation in my life was an excellent distraction from having to face what I knew was coming with dh and I.
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How recently did he dump you? And did he know you and DH were separating at the time?
[ Reply | Options ]recently. He has no idea about anything having to do with dh and I other than that our relationship was rocky at best, and that dh had already been busted cheating on me. We never sat around talking about dh - I didn't want him to feel responsible for what I knew was coming. He wasn't.
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