my family wants to do a family reunion vacation during a week that my dh can't go. debating about whether I should go w/o him, with (difficult) 4yo and 18mo. the resort doesn't have any condos/cottages available that week, which means no kitchen, and staying in the hotel part, where there is restaurant which you can pay for a la carte or as part of a meal plan. Not sure if it's worth it (will be expensive for us, and concerned about how well dcs will behave having 2-3 meals a day in a restaurant). OTOH, don't get to see my mom or other family often. WWYD?

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