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  • Anybody here like their MIL? What's your secret?

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    04.24.08, 03:06 PM [ Flag ]
    • love mine

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      04.24.08, 03:06 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    • We live 2000 miles apart.

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      04.24.08, 03:07 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    • Adore her. She honestly loves me and treats me the same as she does her other DDs.

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      04.24.08, 03:07 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    • i did at one time.

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      04.24.08, 03:07 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
      • ditto-the older she's gotten the crazier she's become-and is now exhausting emotionally for all to deal with

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        04.24.08, 03:08 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    • mine is nice & helpful

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      04.24.08, 03:07 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    • nevercontacts us, could not care about db's. We send her a Christmas and mothers day card

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      04.24.08, 03:07 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    • oh, i think my secret was not approaching her like she was some appendage to my family. she is the grandmother of my dcs. she raised my HUSBAND and he is MARVELOUS. so i admired her from the beginning and wanted her ot mentor me

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      04.24.08, 03:07 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
      • did she accept you as part of the family right from the start?

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        04.24.08, 03:08 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        • well, yes, but we also know adjusting to another family's cultural nuances takes time. OH, i should add from the beginning she was team me because she and my mother are from the same home town (BIZARRE) and my grandfather was her pastor. she knew my whol family and my family knew hers. so she wanted me in the fam for that reason-- so we'd spend holidays with her family in her hometown!

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          04.24.08, 03:11 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
          • that's unusual, but it's great that your families knew each other.

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            04.24.08, 03:11 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
            • highly highly unusual.. and this is kind of weird but i wanted to hear everything about my grandfather from her because he died before i was born and here she was, my 'friend's' mother and knew my grandfather as her pastor!

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              04.24.08, 03:19 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
              • but there is something awesome about your parents and grandparents knowing each other! community, i guess

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                04.24.08, 03:23 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
                • no, that was totally kickass. that was for dh and the huge lightbulb to be like "DING!". we met ONLINE for christs sake (ashamed of that till this day). what were the chances? no chances. fate.

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                  04.24.08, 03:39 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
      • you sound awesome. YOu went into the relationship with DH as a mature person which I'm sure helps in your relationship with MIL..

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        04.24.08, 03:09 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        • i wanted a MIL. to have a second mother who only knows you as an adult can be such a rich relationship. she's also very brilliant and accomplished and i would like to think she'd hand pick me for dh had he not done it himself. OH, and my FIL and i have huge crushes on each other (2nd best grandad of all time) so she put up no fight

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          04.24.08, 03:17 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    • Yes. She's great, and DHloves my mother. They're both great women

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      04.24.08, 03:07 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
      • DITTO, this is strange, but i actually looked forward to having a MIL even before i married dh. that second mother thing, i love it

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        04.24.08, 03:09 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    • different continents

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      04.24.08, 03:07 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    • me. She's fun, nonjudgemental and lives is FL (we are in Boston), but even if she were closer, I'd still like her.

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      04.24.08, 03:07 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    • i like her well enough...i prefer to leave well enough alone.

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      04.24.08, 03:07 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    • she's been dead for 8 years.

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      04.24.08, 03:07 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    • Like mine, took some time for me to get her though.

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      04.24.08, 03:07 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    • I do. She is is just a really loving, giving person. The things about her that drive me crazy, I've decided to get over or deal with her directly about them (vs. waiting for DH to solve)

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      04.24.08, 03:08 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    • yes, no secret here- she is a good egg and we have a really nice relationship. She is kind and thoughtful to me and adores DS.

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      04.24.08, 03:08 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    • shes totally uninvolved and lives a thousand miles away and i only see her once a year!!

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      04.24.08, 03:09 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    • me. she's relatively young and does not in any way, shape or form dote on my DH, which I think has a lot to do with it.

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      04.24.08, 03:09 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    • no but mine lives in the uk - so she is insignificant in every day life

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      04.24.08, 03:11 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    • yah- she's eccentric but amazing- I see her and my fil often on my own when dh is at work- they are really good to me and my dh/ds

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      04.24.08, 03:18 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
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