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Ever know someone who behaved in such a slutty way that you feel bad for them? Still friends with freshman roommate. At school I told her that going from guy to guy was giving her a terrible reputation and that should figure out what makes her happy. Fast forward 16 years and her DH just left her and a two year old for another woman. I really hope she will eventually find someone where they are right for each other.
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04.22.08, 01:58 PM [ Flag ]
- that is an indicator of sexual abuse
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- his behavior has nothing to do with her's in college.
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- Are you saying there's a connection?
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  - b/w promiscuity and sexually acting out..yes
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    - np i agree.. had a friend in college liek this too.. low self esteem, slept with everyone, eventually married a loser
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  - OP: not saying there is a direct connection, but she has just had bad luck with keeping a connection.
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    - There are people who didn't date much who can't keep a marriage together.
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- sounds like she needs a good friend vs. frenemy. Her college behavior may have nothing to do with her marriage.
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  - OP: despite lifestyle differences, we are very friendly. She was actually my maid of honor.
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- you think that because she was a "slut" on college that is the reason why her DH is leaving her??
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  - OP: no, but I somehow get the idea that he might have gotten felt she doesn't value herself and in some kind of a way he also thought less of her, which is sad because she has a lot to offer - intelligent, funny, bright.
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    04.22.08, 02:04 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
- wow you're a good friend. i would love to be your dh.
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  04.22.08, 02:07 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
  - OP: why's that? I do think I'm a good wife, though.
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Posted June 5, 2008 (50 replies)

that is an indicator of sexual abuse

his behavior has nothing to do with her's in college.

Are you saying there's a connection?

b/w promiscuity and sexually acting out..yes

np i agree.. had a friend in college liek this too.. low self esteem, slept with everyone, eventually married a loser

OP: not saying there is a direct connection, but she has just had bad luck with keeping a connection.

There are people who didn't date much who can't keep a marriage together.

sounds like she needs a good friend vs. frenemy. Her college behavior may have nothing to do with her marriage.

OP: despite lifestyle differences, we are very friendly. She was actually my maid of honor.

you think that because she was a "slut" on college that is the reason why her DH is leaving her??

OP: no, but I somehow get the idea that he might have gotten felt she doesn't value herself and in some kind of a way he also thought less of her, which is sad because she has a lot to offer - intelligent, funny, bright.

wow you're a good friend. i would love to be your dh.

OP: why's that? I do think I'm a good wife, though.

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