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doyou judge women who get pregnant out of wedlock? sad to say that i do
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04.22.08, 01:55 PM [ Flag ]
- not at all
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  04.22.08, 01:56 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
- nahh, I used to but not at this age.
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- since I am daughter of one I don't
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  04.22.08, 01:56 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
- no I don't. Why does a woman need a man to raise a dc? They don't. More power to them
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  - thanks signed single lesbian mom
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    04.22.08, 01:57 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    - or: you're welcome!
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      04.22.08, 01:58 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
- in this day and age? nope.
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  04.22.08, 01:56 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
- nah, we need more bastards in this world
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  04.22.08, 01:58 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
- no, we had db before we were married
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  04.22.08, 01:58 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
- No but I judge those who judge them.
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  04.22.08, 01:58 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
- me too. Except for my super duper crunchy friend who doesn't believe in marriage (she thinks marriage is a social and sexist construct) but is essentially in a lifetime partnership with a man (basically a marriage without a marriage license)
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  04.22.08, 02:00 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
  - ^^Oh I also don't judge gays with children.
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    04.22.08, 02:01 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
- That's the same as judging women who have premarital sex. Most people judge those who don't as emotionally stunted. You're strange.
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  04.22.08, 02:01 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
  - np-not really. I think it is not the same thing because I think it is sort of trashy to have a kid when you are not married
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    04.22.08, 02:02 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    - ^meaning, you could abort (assuming it is an accident, which it usually is)
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      04.22.08, 02:02 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
      - So having the baby is trashy, but having an abortion is klassy in your book. Enuf said.
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        04.22.08, 02:04 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
        
        Realizing that bringing an unwanted child into a world where his/her parents are not in a long term relationship/are not prepared is not "klassy"--it is wise. To do otherwise is trashy imo
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        04.22.08, 02:07 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
- nah. but i do judge unplanned pregnancies.
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  04.22.08, 02:03 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
  - It really could happen to anyone. Rare, but there is a statistical margin. Why judge?
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    04.22.08, 02:05 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
    - eh. i more meant if you aren't using birth control.
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doyou judge women who get pregnant out of wedlock? sad to say that i do

not at all

nahh, I used to but not at this age.

since I am daughter of one I don't

no I don't. Why does a woman need a man to raise a dc? They don't. More power to them

thanks signed single lesbian mom

or: you're welcome!

in this day and age? nope.

nah, we need more bastards in this world

no, we had db before we were married

No but I judge those who judge them.

me too. Except for my super duper crunchy friend who doesn't believe in marriage (she thinks marriage is a social and sexist construct) but is essentially in a lifetime partnership with a man (basically a marriage without a marriage license)

^^Oh I also don't judge gays with children.

That's the same as judging women who have premarital sex. Most people judge those who don't as emotionally stunted. You're strange.

np-not really. I think it is not the same thing because I think it is sort of trashy to have a kid when you are not married

^meaning, you could abort (assuming it is an accident, which it usually is)

So having the baby is trashy, but having an abortion is klassy in your book. Enuf said.

Realizing that bringing an unwanted child into a world where his/her parents are not in a long term relationship/are not prepared is not "klassy"--it is wise. To do otherwise is trashy imo

nah. but i do judge unplanned pregnancies.

It really could happen to anyone. Rare, but there is a statistical margin. Why judge?

eh. i more meant if you aren't using birth control.

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