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  • i wish my dh could pull himself together... i'm 39 wks pg and he is just so freaked out and stressed at work and not at all himself and i kind of need his support rightnow but i feel like i have to take care of him... it's so exhausting. i feel like i nee him to be strong right now and he just can't be. i've been contracting on and off for 2 weeks with little to no sleep (contractions wake me up every hour)... been puking... and i know it's hard for him to see me like this, but i wish he could just try to be a little more normal... because my instinct is to take care of him right now, but i feel like i need to be taken care of a little. just needed to vent.

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    04.20.08, 05:02 PM [ Flag ]

    • at 38 weeks we had to go together to see my therapist bc my dh was pretty much losing it - withdrawing, being completely unhelpful. my therapist helped us both!

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      04.20.08, 05:04 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]

    • he's going through alot right now too, but I'm sure all will be fine when db comes. GL!

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      04.20.08, 05:07 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]

    • That's really tough. Are you dilated?

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      04.20.08, 05:08 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]

    • I know you need help now but do not underestimate what dh is experienncing right now. It is crazy stressful for men and I think they do not feel like they are at all prepared and expect the worst. Baby him a little while you remind him that you need sup port too.

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      04.20.08, 05:08 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]

      • ^^FWIW, this is what my dh was like leading up to the birth of both kids and is the most amazing father and husband other than that period. Good luck.

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        04.20.08, 05:14 PM [ Flag | link to this post ]
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