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  • so I just logged on. is there one weirdo here today? flaming th post about dh seeing a tantrum, being aggressive on mundane posts. what's the deal

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    04.19.08, 10:52 AM [ Flag ]

    • I'm sure it's not one.

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      04.19.08, 10:52 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]

    • honestly, when is this NOT the case?

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      04.19.08, 10:52 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]

    • I flamed the post about the dh seeing the tantrum, but haven't flamed others.

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      04.19.08, 10:53 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]

      • why would you flame such an obviously innocent post?

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        04.19.08, 10:55 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]

        • For starters, I didn't really flame -- just said that posts like that made me sad. I'm not really able to articulate what gets under my skin about them, but it's indicative to me of the way a lot of UB moms treat their husbands as sort of parenting sec class citizens. The moms are always the be all and end all, and the dhs are hapless idiots who haven't btdt.

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          04.19.08, 10:56 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]

          • OK, I am the op of that post and you are a loon looking for a deeper meaning to my post that what was there. I was stating that her tantrums are new and dh had yet to see one. I never even insinuated that he was a hapless idiot or a second class parent. I think perhaps you need to look at your own home if a benign post like mine got you so upset

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            04.19.08, 10:58 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]

            • It didn't get me so upset, and it wasn't flaming. I said it made me sad, and for the record, your tone WAS condescending towards your dh.

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              04.19.08, 10:59 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]

              • you cannot infer tone from the written word. however, I can assure that I was not condescending in the least.

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                04.19.08, 11:01 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]

                • You absolutely CAN infer tone from the written word. Have you ever read a novel? I will admit that I may have jumped to a conclusion, but you're being awfully defensive.

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                  04.19.08, 11:02 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]

                  • yeah, I'm bored. and you pissed me off with your conclusion jumping in what I thought was a somewhat amusing moment in my day.

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                    04.19.08, 11:05 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]

      • np: I somewhat saw your point. it bothers me that the dhs get bashed so hard on here, but in that particular case I think you were seeing something that wasn't there.

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        04.19.08, 10:56 AM [ Flag | link to this post ]
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