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[ - ] IWP here. I have nothing to say and that's fine, because I don't give myself obligations. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 11:03 PM Flag
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You're not actually here. Because here doesn't exist. It's a sim. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 11:05 PM Flag
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No I'm here, enjoying my life of zero responsibility, money for life, delicious subway sandwich I'm eating with diet coke (250 calories under daily limit today woohoo) . . . life is good. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 11:06 PM Flag
[ - ] How do I get my husband to sleep with me again after reconciling due to infidelity. I've tried everything and we can't fix our issues if he isn't even willing to fuck me. 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:52 PM Flag
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Who was unfaithful? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:52 PM Flag
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Me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:52 PM Flag
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You have an uphill road. [ Reply | More ]
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This. Men are less forgiving of infidelity than women are. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:55 PM Flag
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How did he find out? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 11:02 PM Flag
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Bad idea. The other guy should not exist. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 11:09 PM Flag
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Start by sucking him off? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:58 PM Flag
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what were the circumstances around your affair? one time thing or long term? why does he want to stay with you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 11:01 PM Flag
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Interesting thread. Celebrities you two sort of look like. Celebrity the other guy looked like? Have you made fun of the other guy in front of DH, like said he was dumber or his penis is smaller or something like that? THat might help. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 11:04 PM Flag
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its over [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 11:09 PM Flag
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yep. you fucked up your marriage. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 11:10 PM Flag
[ - ] DH saying I stole from him because I set up a 529 for our kid that drew $1200-1500 from his bank account monthly. 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:51 PM Flag
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And? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:53 PM Flag
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I think he's crazy, he is calling me a thief. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:54 PM Flag
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Explain how you're not a thief. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:58 PM Flag
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Did you do this without his knowledge? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:59 PM Flag
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It's his bank account (actually it's a joint account into which he deposits his paycheck, there's a separate joint account the receives my paycheck). It is there plain as day, not hidden. I think I told him, he says I didn't. But how is doing normal financial planning but setting up a 529, stealing? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 11:06 PM Flag
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He's really out of line using that word. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 11:09 PM Flag
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Tell him to report it to the police. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 11:04 PM Flag
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are you or he the account owner? If so, then it isnt theft. It is a transfer. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 11:05 PM Flag
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It's a joint account, the contents come 100% from his paycheck. It is done by a monthly transfer. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 11:07 PM Flag
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lol he's an idiot. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 11:08 PM Flag
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You can't steal from your husband in a community property state. All money earned by either spouse belongs equally to both of you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 11:07 PM Flag
[ - ] Is rape on airplanes the new thing? I am flying tomorrow and feeling nervous I will be assaulted. Think they will make female only sections soon? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:45 PM Flag
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What are you referring to? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:47 PM Flag
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I read two articles recently about sexual assault on airplanes. Apparently it’s easy and people are too afraid to report it and it places where they don’t have or know the resources. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:48 PM Flag
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No one wants to sexually assault you. That's only for attractive people. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:51 PM Flag
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I don’t think rapists are that picky. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:53 PM Flag
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Oh ffs... are you the fat lady from the post below? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:49 PM Flag
[ - ] I have never dieted. AMA. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:44 PM Flag
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what's there to ask? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:45 PM Flag
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Weight, height, BMI? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:47 PM Flag
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124, 5ft 8in, 18. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:48 PM Flag
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Who cares. Bye. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:51 PM Flag
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lolz [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:56 PM Flag
[ - ] I have ne re dieted. AMA. 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:44 PM Flag
[ - ] I am so far. I gained twenty pounds in a year. I’m starting a diet on Monday. Fruit or yogurt for breakfast, salad for lunch, and meat and veggies for dinner. No carbs. I only need to lose five pounds. I will also run until I fit in my pants. 20 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:42 PM Flag
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It's easy to lose 5-10 pounds. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:43 PM Flag
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Skip the fruit. Need protein and fat. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:44 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 11:08 PM Flag
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why not start tomorrow? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:45 PM Flag
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Because I’ll be on a plane so I have to eat what they give me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:46 PM Flag
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Lol excuses [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:47 PM Flag
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you can bring with you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:48 PM Flag
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No yogurt or hummus. What would you bring? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:50 PM Flag
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You gained 20 pounds but you only need to lose 5? And why are you waiting til Monday? Sounds like a bunch of excuses already. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:45 PM Flag
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Yes. Went from 93 to 113. I’d like to lose 5 pounds so my 0’s fit me. Don’t want to buy new pants. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:49 PM Flag
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Sorry, you lost me at 93. Boring. Are you a 11 year old girl? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:57 PM Flag
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I’m in my 30’s. I just want to fit into my clothes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 11:00 PM Flag
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Kill yourself. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 11:02 PM Flag
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Sorry. As you age you're going to get heavier and heavier. By 50 you'll likely weight about 130. Get used to it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 11:05 PM Flag
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Oh no [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 11:06 PM Flag
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Skip breakfast and do IF instead. Easy as can be [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:46 PM Flag
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Fruit and yogurt are full of carbs you don't even know what the fuck you're talking about [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:47 PM Flag
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Oh, it's a troll [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:53 PM Flag
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Have protein. You're going to fail on this diet I think. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:56 PM Flag
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It’s only five pounds. Won’t it fall off if I stop eating dessert for awhile? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 11:05 PM Flag
[ - ] Are deleted text messages retrievable? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:40 PM Flag
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they can be. if on an ap no way [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:41 PM Flag
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In what circumstances are they retrievable? What do you mean by "on an ap"? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:42 PM Flag
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like if you are texting on viber or what's ap- you cannot get those texts back once deleted. if you want texts deleted that were on your iPhone those can be retrieved. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:44 PM Flag
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What if I'm no longer using those phones, but I am still using one of the phone numbers on a new phone? Old number was reassigned. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:46 PM Flag
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that I don't know. call your provider. but if you bring to a tech place they might be able to. you might have to go to a forensic computer person. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:47 PM Flag
[ - ] What a difference a year brings. Last year I was dating a man who could run a hundred miles (and is doing it again today). Now I’m dating a guy who’s drinking champagne on a bus and hasn’t been to a gym in a year. I guess I could have worse problems. 19 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:40 PM Flag
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Which man do you prefer? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:42 PM Flag
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It’s a toss up. Neither was perfect, but the one I’m with is my only option. He is kind to me and wealthy by UB standards. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:46 PM Flag
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But he's on a bus [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:48 PM Flag
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Touché. He’s with friends though. I think there were too many for an uber. And they don’t want to drink and drive. Is there a north fork helicopter? Maybe he will take that home so I am less embarrassed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:52 PM Flag
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If it's the jitney it doesn't count as a bus. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:53 PM Flag
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What does it count as? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:57 PM Flag
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Jitney fares are like $40 one way. Not exactly city bus fare. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 11:01 PM Flag
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But he could have afforded an uber. I think it’s nice not to be wasteful with money. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 11:04 PM Flag
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Like a greyhound bus? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:46 PM Flag
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Jitney. He’s going to a wedding on the north fork. He thinks it’s the Hamptons. I tried to explain...sigh. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:49 PM Flag
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This is a bigger tell than him being in the jitney. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:53 PM Flag
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Right? He’s not from the area but he doesn’t get it and refuses to admit he’s not in the Hamptons. Eyeroll. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:56 PM Flag
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Kind of telling that he didn't bring you along as his plus-one, isn't it? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:54 PM Flag
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We just met. I think it’s ok within two months of dating. After 3-6 I’d expect the invite. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:56 PM Flag
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What jitney is he on? I just got off the jitney on the NF and there were people going to a wedding [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 11:01 PM Flag
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That was probably him! He went to Greenport and was drinking champagne. He’s blindfish. Has nice hair. And hasn’t been to the gym in awhile. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 11:03 PM Flag
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Neither of those things means anything to me as far as what a guy is like in a relationship// [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:58 PM Flag
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What do you think is very important? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 11:00 PM Flag
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Some caring about health and weight but not exorexic or anorexic. A great sense of humor. Above average intelligence but not smug about it. An interest in the world and empathy for others in it. Probably hobbies that keep him busy but nothing that he gets so involved in that it leaves me out. A kid at heart. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 11:07 PM Flag
[ - ] I know it has to be someone, but why does it have to be my son coming in last in every swim race? -mom who remembers placing third of three over and over. 30 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:30 PM Flag
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Same reason my son was at the very end of every team that had to do a lap around the field. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:31 PM Flag
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I find it so irritating. Like why can't he just try harder? He can't be SO much less athletic than others. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:33 PM Flag
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NP. Are you intentionally trying to troll? Your attitude is the problem, not your son's abilities. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:35 PM Flag
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Last is last. It's objective data. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:37 PM Flag
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DNA is destiny. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:32 PM Flag
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This [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:32 PM Flag
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But his dad. Is really good at squash and not a weakling. Besides he's younger than I was when I started. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:33 PM Flag
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Are you joking? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:35 PM Flag
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What about this sounds like a joke? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:37 PM Flag
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Could you give him the chance to try another sport that he might be better at? Sports that you can continue to play as an adult seem the most worthwhile. Tennis, golf, skiing? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:33 PM Flag
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He already does tennis and skiing and is better than I was at his age. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:34 PM Flag
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Great! So why do you even care whether or not he is the strongest swimmer in the class? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:36 PM Flag
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Did I say strongest? I just want him to be successful athletically. I think it's really important to be good at sports, especially for boys. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:39 PM Flag
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Or computers. Maybe he’s a computer nerd. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:40 PM Flag
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Good thought. But does this give boys social currency? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:43 PM Flag
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Social currency doesn't matter that much once you've landed that silicon valley job. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:46 PM Flag
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It gives them money which gets them chicks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:47 PM Flag
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Swimming doesn't unless you are Olympic level. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:49 PM Flag
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True. But Tennis does. I love a good tennis player. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:52 PM Flag
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If he's good at tennis and skiing then he's successful athletically. Do you need him to be good at absolutely everything? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:48 PM Flag
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Tennis and skiing were sports last time I checked? My brother played college football and sucked ass at swimming. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:50 PM Flag
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Follow up question: best sports for a skinny boy of average to tall height? He's coordinated but not strong. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:36 PM Flag
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Tennis, Golf, Cross Country [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:46 PM Flag
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baseball too [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:48 PM Flag
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hand eye coordinated or big muscle group coordinated. there's a difference [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:48 PM Flag
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Hand eye. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:51 PM Flag
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Gymnastics or cheer. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:59 PM Flag
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Have you thought about trying a team sport where his individual performance will not be so paramount? The important thing is that he's active. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:48 PM Flag
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You boy has to be last so at least sometimes my kid can beat one kid. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:49 PM Flag
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Why is this important? Is it useful in life to be able to beat anyone in a swimming pool. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:59 PM Flag
[ - ] Breaking up with DH and coming to the realization that my closest friends aren't anymore, I don't have deep ties to anywhere (except historical ally Manhattan cause I grew up in the area and still have some friends there), and feel like a pinball binging alone through the world with DC. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:26 PM Flag
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You chose to go a new way. You will make new, wonderful friends. Hang in there! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:28 PM Flag
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Not big in the overall scheme of things but one of the assets that get divided up in a divorce is friends. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:30 PM Flag
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We don't have any close or couple friends in common. These are my own friends I'm referring to. I've fallen down their list. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:32 PM Flag
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Np: I'm sorry....stay strong. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:40 PM Flag
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Thanks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:41 PM Flag
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Just reach out and see what happens! I love to hear from old friends, even if we have been out of touch for years. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:40 PM Flag
[ - ] Looking for advice regarding compensation packages. My company reduced the dollar amount of shares it awards annually, which also reduced my overall compensation quite a bit (even though I received a salary raise). I want to discuss with my boss, but I'm not sure what to say other than noting that a reduction in compensation seems inconsistent with my performance review and the fact that I've taken on more responsibility. Any advice on how to discuss? 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:14 PM Flag
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Isn’t everyone in the same boat? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:16 PM Flag
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OP: Possibly, but it's not clear how they determined the amount of the reduction or if it was the same across the board. Others may have had the cut made up by higher raises. There isn't a lot of transparency unfortunately. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:26 PM Flag
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Exactly what you just said. If you can support it with numbers, all the better. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:16 PM Flag
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I'm not sure if you can. If this is a move that is across the board a secting everyone I'm not sure how you argue that you should be compensated differently than others. I mean aren't certain things just policy? For instance the way that you accrue paid time off is the same across the board where I work for the CEO as it is for the housekeeping staff. You don't come in and negotiate more time off than other people. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:16 PM Flag
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It's not that she should be compensated differently. It's that her compensation should be based on her value to the company, and should not decrease when her value increases. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:19 PM Flag
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I get that. But if this is a new policy that is going to affect everyone in the company in the same way she cannot ask to be treated differently. Everyone else who got a great review and arrays will also have their share value changed in accordance with this new policy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:20 PM Flag
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* a raise [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:20 PM Flag
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Of course she can, and she should. And the company should be worried that their best people will look at the decrease and then look for other jobs. Don't take what you're offered; negotiate what you're worth. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:21 PM Flag
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Okay LOL good luck with that all of you. Sometimes a decision is made across the board and it's a Level Playing Field for everyone. If her boss had to take this reduction then so does she no matter how good she is. You certainly don't realize that most companies don't give a shit about losing their best people. They're happy to replace them for less expenses mediocre people. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:33 PM Flag
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OP: I wasn't given much information about it other than that they had reduced the share grant, so I don't know if it is affecting everyone the same. There was not a lot of transparency, and it's difficult to discuss compensation with co-workers at my company. Even if the share grant is reduced, I think there may be other ways to increase overall comp like a higher base salary. But I haven't really had to have this type of conversation before and not sure what to expect (my prior job was lock-step compensation). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:23 PM Flag
[ - ] They threw that fat ugly pig Sanders out of a restaurant. 25 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:03 PM Flag
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LOL wish i could have been there to see her cry. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:04 PM Flag
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NP. Normal non extremists do not want Invasion of criminals and low wage job stealers ! The noise from the MSM - Ministry of Propaganda is just that .... noise. Their numbers are much smaller than the ILLUSION they push. The Mid-Terms will see a HUUGE crossover of disgusted former democrats ! This continued LOSS of Democrat voters is the swamps greatest unspoken FEAR. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:04 PM Flag
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+1 including this Democrat right here. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:29 PM Flag
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What’s this inane drivel? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:48 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:11 PM Flag
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I suspect you are a trump supporter trying to make a mountain out of a molehill. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:13 PM Flag
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They usually come in from a leftist viewpoint, and then populate the comments with right wing talking points. Expect it. Happens every day. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:20 PM Flag
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And predictable and boring. Sigh. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:49 PM Flag
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Restaurant deserves to go out of business [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:14 PM Flag
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If that's true, then all cake-bakers follow. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:19 PM Flag
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Well that's up the the consumers. Yeah they can kick who they want out and the people who are offended by it have a right to spend their money there or not. We will see if this was a good decision on their part. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:23 PM Flag
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I agree. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:20 PM Flag
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They are up to 30 thousand comments. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:25 PM Flag
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What's her name hot it on the head when she said she looked like captain of the softball team. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:29 PM Flag
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I think this is eye opening. Republicans should be careful where they are eating. Who is to say that these liberal crazy people will not spit in your food. They are all so rabid and insane. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:30 PM Flag
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Truth is it's gross but won't make you sick [ Reply | More ]
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It will if they have hepatitis. [ Reply | More ]
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It's spread by blood & fecal matter not spit [ Reply | More ]
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And saliva. Google is your friend. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:39 PM Flag
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Crazy liberal people and normal human beings. It will happen anywhere people have a pulse. The people in the administration are truly despicable. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:50 PM Flag
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Disgusting pigs to do that. [ Reply | More ]
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Conservatives: repeal the civil Rights act, let businesses decide who they want to serve! Conservatives now: how dare you not serve a straight white person! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:32 PM Flag
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She should sue the restaurant. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:41 PM Flag
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I don't think they forced her to leave. I think they asked her and she agreed. So no grounds for lawsuit. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:51 PM Flag
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Under what law? Try again. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:51 PM Flag
[ - ] It's so cold. What should I wear out for dinner with college friends tonight? 20 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:01 PM Flag
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Where is it cold? I am in Lanau now and it is warm [ Reply | More ]
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Where? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:03 PM Flag
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Lanai [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:03 PM Flag
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NYC. Freezing [ Reply | More ]
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Blazer. Silk blouse. Jeans. [ Reply | More ]
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this [ Reply | More ]
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I did a cardigan instead of blazer. I’m so old. I should buy a fun weekend blazer. [ Reply | More ]
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Pants [ Reply | More ]
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Unfortunately I think you have to wear pants, closed toe shoes, maybe a leather jacket. It's absolutely horrible, I'm staying in. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:17 PM Flag
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It’s gorgeous outside. Yes there is no sun but I was out walking and it is really nice - did not even need a second layer. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:20 PM Flag
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You are obviously not where they original post is from. Go away. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:21 PM Flag
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You sound smart. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:24 PM Flag
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I am in New York. UES. And it isn’t even raining.... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:34 PM Flag
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Assume much? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:35 PM Flag
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Ask your stylist. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:23 PM Flag
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I'm going to go old school UB and say assless chaps. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:23 PM Flag
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Love you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:52 PM Flag
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Mwah [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:56 PM Flag
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Rain after 7pm [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:49 PM Flag
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Something to make you warm?? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 11:00 PM Flag
[ - ] Divorcing. Already living apart, DH said not to contact him and wants to use a mediator for communication. Blocked me on Facebook. However, our former nannies are now coming up as "people you may know." Does this mean he is contacting them for legal preparation? To do what? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 09:59 PM Flag
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It means nothing. Calm down. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:18 PM Flag
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You sound paranoid. What are you hiding? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:18 PM Flag
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Nothing. I'm just scared of the future. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:20 PM Flag
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I do think I've got some paranoid endencies, but so does he. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:21 PM Flag
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Try to relax, but be mindful of what you put in writing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:21 PM Flag
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Like what? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:22 PM Flag
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Or: don't ever send an email or text message that you wouldn't want your mother to read. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:38 PM Flag
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why so contentious? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:42 PM Flag
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OP: high-conflict marriage. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:44 PM Flag
[ - ] Best Korean BBQ place? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 09:56 PM Flag
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I like Kang Suh on e 32nd. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:53 PM Flag
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They closed a while back. (they were a regular spot for us!) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 11:00 PM Flag
[ - ] Rose Leslie and Kit Harrington got married ... they are both descendants of Charles II and they are both nobility. Never knew that! 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 09:43 PM Flag
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I didn't know that either. Cute couple either way. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 09:44 PM Flag
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Her birth name is Rose Eleanor Arbuthnot-Leslie and she grew up in a castle. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 09:45 PM Flag
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Doesn't everyone? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:21 PM Flag
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Her family has TWO castles that have been in the family for a mere 900 years. Her father is Chief of the Clan. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:23 PM Flag
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Who isn't? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:12 PM Flag
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A lot of people? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:16 PM Flag
[ - ] Feeling sad. DD's tutor suggested we use her being on a spectrum when we look for an internship for her. 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 09:36 PM Flag
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How will that help? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 09:38 PM Flag
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np: Yeah, it seems like it might hurt. I don't mean that in a nasty way, I have a friend with Asperger's/HFA who does well in a STEM job but has never shared the diagnosis with an employer because most people will treat you differently. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 09:48 PM Flag
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Telling this to me as a potential employer says "you need to provide her with special accommodations if you hire her." No thanks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:16 PM Flag
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Seems like a decent suggestion. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 09:38 PM Flag
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Fine if she wants an internship at the town dump. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 09:50 PM Flag
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Really? This mother is feeling down and you kick her? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 09:55 PM Flag
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How much does her autism affect her abilities to follow instructions and work with others? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 09:57 PM Flag
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Maybe she should not intern in the complaints department of a major department store. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:05 PM Flag
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If the instructions can be repeated when she asks, she's fine. Everything takes her a little longer, but she's got a great work ethic and a terrific attitude towards work. It was her idea to work. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:06 PM Flag
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My uncle has a very low IQ, like 71. He got a great job working in a bank scanning documents. There's something for everyone if she has work ethic. Help her find it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.18, 10:09 PM Flag
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