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[ - ] I work part time as a wing woman. Is this socially acceptable? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:28 PM Flag
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Splain wing woman. As in air force? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:19 PM Flag
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How did you get this job? For a man or woman? Are you a beard? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:19 PM Flag
[ - ] I want rotisserie chicken. 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:24 PM Flag
[ - ] School rankings - someone give me the skinny. Anything new wrt Anderson, Nest etc? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
NY Schools 08.22.14, 11:23 PM Flag
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?? What do you mean? You really cannot rank public schools that way. There are good schools, mediocre schools, bad schools and very bad schools. Those tend to stay the same, except that over the last 9 years, a fair number of mediocre and bad neighborhood public schools are now good. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:16 PM Flag
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1500 kids get score of 99 and these schools have 150 seats given out by lottery. that's 1350 kids equally qualified that don't get them [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:18 PM Flag
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no - meant Rankings that came out... Have any of the usual good schools shown any major changes - like dropping or rising [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:33 PM Flag
[ - ] Help! Have a very bad blister / wound. It's not healing very fast. Now the worst - the bandaid is horribly stuck on it, and it won't come off. I've tried soaking it in warm water, pouring saline solution /wound wash on it...no luck. Any advice? It's so uncomfortable. I don't think it's infected. Just want this damn band aid off!! 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:23 PM Flag
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Can't you peel it? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:13 PM Flag
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No - STUCK. Really stuck. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:14 PM Flag
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BTW - it's not the adhesive that's stuck on my skin...it's the actual bandage part that's stuck to the wound. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:15 PM Flag
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Can't you peel it? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:13 PM Flag
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Use a solvent where the adhesive is. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:27 PM Flag
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maybe try putting Vaseline around it to dislodge the band aid? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:27 PM Flag
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Just pull it off and let it heal without being covered. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:31 PM Flag
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Take a shower and get everything wet, then try to push bacitracin around it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:32 PM Flag
[ - ] How much should I charge to organize and fill out K applications for a client? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:21 PM Flag
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$500 and allow her to apply to several schools. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:23 PM Flag
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Right now it is four schools. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:25 PM Flag
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lol, 1k per pop [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:23 PM Flag
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We paid $650 for 2 kids, we applied to 6 schools, she helped with interview and gathering all documentation for application. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:15 PM Flag
[ - ] s/o pimple post: ladies, do you seriously run to the dermatologist for a cortisone shot whenever you get a huge pimple? 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:06 PM Flag
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I do with cystic acne. If you let it continue to 'grow', the scarring is worse. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:07 PM Flag
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but the cortisone cannot be good for you. it messes up your body's own production of it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 10:56 PM Flag
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np - never had it done but I can't imagine it's much damage if you do it once or once in a while. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 10:59 PM Flag
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It's fine as long as you're not doing it frequently over a long period of time. Once in a while is totally fine. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:11 PM Flag
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I pop whiteheads. Not cystic acne [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:12 PM Flag
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I did in high school. But not again until my wedding. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:02 PM Flag
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If I can afford it, yes. Otherwise I pick at it. They are painful more than visually noticeable. Have you ever had cystic acne? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:18 PM Flag
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yes, as a teenager. it was bad but i never got shots for it. i just let it heal on its own. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:13 PM Flag
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My deem highly recommends I do it. I told her cost was an issue and she said she wouldn't charge me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:28 PM Flag
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Had cystic acne in grad school but didn't have money for derm. Wish I could have gotten a shot bc it left a few of those pit marks on my face. Terrible. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:33 PM Flag
[ - ] Just bought my first French sole shoe. Will I love it? 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:03 PM Flag
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No. You need two, really. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:08 PM Flag
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Lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:10 PM Flag
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If your feet were not bound like mine. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:09 PM Flag
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Seriously? Please elaborate ... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:10 PM Flag
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No I'm kidding. I just read Snow Flower and the Secret Fan. Sorry. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:12 PM Flag
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Aw man. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:15 PM Flag
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Did you get French Sole (know as london sole in the US) or the other French Sole? I have a few pairs of the former, and I really like [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:18 PM Flag
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I guess the latter? Was I duped? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:22 PM Flag
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No, I don't think so! People love both I think. I just did not want to give you misleading feedback :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:23 PM Flag
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I love mine. I put inner soles them. Otherwise you may as well go barefoot. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:25 PM Flag
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No arch support. Not for me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:33 PM Flag
[ - ] had a first round this week for a job. have not heard back yet. bad sign? large organization. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:01 PM Flag
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could go either way at this point, IMO. Where was it left off ? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 10:53 PM Flag
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the secretary showed me out ;-( [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:08 PM Flag
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or - didn't you ask what are the next steps/when will you hear before you left the room ? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:00 PM Flag
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Doesn't mean anything. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 10:57 PM Flag
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did they tell you that that will contact you for a second round? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:10 PM Flag
[ - ] What do you do when you hate your child's teacher? Do you complain or suck it up for the sake of your dc? 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
NY Schools 08.22.14, 10:58 PM Flag
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Why do you hate her? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 10:59 PM Flag
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Is this the first time your kid goes to school? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:11 PM Flag
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You suck it up because there is nothing you can do. Lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:00 PM Flag
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Is your dc already in school? "Hate" is a strong word, especially at the beginning. If the teacher is doing something that negatively affects your dc, you contact teacher and discuss it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:04 PM Flag
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Can you talk to the principal and get kid moved? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:07 PM Flag
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Suck it up as much as possible; confirm conversations with e-mails. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:20 PM Flag
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Do not let your cild know that you hate the teacher. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:25 PM Flag
[ - ] DH and I have been having issues. We have an appt to see a therapist next week. He just texted me that he's going to kill me so I made arrangements for dd and I to stay elsewhere at least until after our appointment. He needs to cool off and I obviously don't feel safe and don't want dd around whatever else he has to say to me. Now he is turning it around saying I am kidnapping her and that I'm making the whole situation so much worse and why did I have to escalate it because I should know he was "kidding". WWYD? 19 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 10:57 PM Flag
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If you feel threatened, don't be near him. Go with your gut. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 10:58 PM Flag
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Since I'm pretty certain we are headed for divorce/custody battle I'm worried about this kidnapping accusation he's throwing around now. I have saved all the abusive texts. Is there a way to record calls on an iphone? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:00 PM Flag
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You can w google voice [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:12 PM Flag
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If you're afraid of him, call the police. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 10:48 PM Flag
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I'm not actually afraid that he will kill me (well, kinda not really, anyone could snap, right?) just afraid of his bad temper and don't want to have a big blowout fight that dd will have to be present for. I wish he could just be reasonable and say that yes, space is a good idea! It's not like I was saying he's not allowed to see her but that's how he took it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:01 PM Flag
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Are you afraid of him at all? Has he ever been violent or aggressive with you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:03 PM Flag
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Yes. I am. He was only physical once and it was a long time ago, we were young and very drunk. Recently though he does things that make me worry he would hurt me. He pretends he's going to hit me to make me flinch and tells me that he wants to/wishes he could. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:05 PM Flag
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Call the police and file for a restraining order. Don't let him make you or anyone else think you're the crazy one. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:06 PM Flag
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Is this enough cause? How does that work when we live together? I am afraid of overreacting and getting the "crazy" label because he has basically made it his life's work to make me appear that way. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 10:56 PM Flag
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He threatened to kill you. Doesnt seem to me that you are over-reating. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:07 PM Flag
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Save the text. No, when you are heading toward therapy, that is not kidding. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:02 PM Flag
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This is always his thing- he says horrible, unforgivable, line crossing things and then claims he was kidding. He said it out of anger, the context is clear in the texts. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:03 PM Flag
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It sounds like he has some anger issues that need to be addressed. He is not just kidding. At that moment in time you really did make him feel like killing you and perhaps if he had a gun around he would. This is not a joke. If you want to save the marriage he needs therapy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:30 PM Flag
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Save the text. No, when you are heading toward therapy, that is not kidding. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:02 PM Flag
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If you are certain that the marriage is over, get a police report immediately. Even if you don't think he would actually do anything to you. The report will come in handy if he ever decides to fight you for custody. My ex-dh threatened me so many times when our marriage started going downhill but I never wanted to overreact and go to the police. I regretted later when he showed his claws in court. You can't prove much without an official document like a police report. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:20 PM Flag
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You didn't happen to provoke him, did you? Why do I get the feeling you did, and he probably said whatever you did/said "made him feel like killing you" yet you are presenting it like he just threatened to kill you out of the blue? Can we have the rest of the story? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:11 PM Flag
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Are you insinuating that these types of threats are provoked by the victims? You are wrong. That is domestic abuse. If she said something he should have walked out to cool off. It is not acceptable to say you are going to kill your dw, unless you are joking. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:28 PM Flag
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He told me to leave for the rest of the month so I said okay, I will find a place to stay. I'll see you x (at the therapy appt which is on Tuesday). His next text back was if you take my daughter I will fucking kill you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:36 PM Flag
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Copy paste the text convo. Something doesn't add up here. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:30 PM Flag
[ - ] How do you search old posts? Forgot to FTP watch a post,of mine 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 10:33 PM Flag
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Flag [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 10:33 PM Flag
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?? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:08 PM Flag
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The searx function rarely work but sometimes you can google by adding urbanbaby.com to search [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:25 PM Flag
[ - ] Do you think ISIS is going to attack American cities? This is scary. 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 10:32 PM Flag
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What should we do? Is there something special we can do to make sure this doesn't happen? Please don't make this post about some idea that this is Obama's fault unless you tell me precisely what he should be doing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 10:34 PM Flag
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He let them over the border [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 10:48 PM Flag
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Do you mean from Canada or Mexico? How did they get there? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 10:52 PM Flag
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Mexico [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 10:57 PM Flag
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And you know this how? Are you with ISIS? What you did to that journalist was terrible. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:00 PM Flag
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Stfu biatch! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:13 PM Flag
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ISIS is not coming to 'Merica throughout the border, 9-11 terrorists were here with visas. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 10:48 PM Flag
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You are very naive [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:21 PM Flag
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I think right now they are f'ing with us via social media but the scary thing is how they are able to recruit westerners to join them in their murderous ways, it blows my mind that people can go from living a pretty normal life somewhere like the UK to killing in syria and Iraq [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:03 PM Flag
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As someone who lives in Chicago this is not surprising at all. We have a large middle eastern population and of course in a city this large there are going to be underground terrorists. There's not really much the average person can do about it other than choose to live their lives. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 11:20 PM Flag
[ - ] One more post and I'm logging off UB. OK two more. And I REALLY mean it. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 10:32 PM Flag
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so GO [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 10:35 PM Flag
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but I love your posts! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.14, 10:40 PM Flag
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