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[ - ] Anyone take Celexa for anxiety? Thoughts/experiences...? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:07 PM Flag
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People process drugs differently. You will find that some find the pills to work miracles and others find it does nothing and gives them awful side effects. You have to test if yourself. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:11 PM Flag
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It works wonders for my depression, have never had a single side effect. But everyone is different... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:16 PM Flag
[ - ] Why is Boston SO MUCH CLEANER than NYC? And there's no visible underclass? It's so much better. 15 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:06 PM Flag
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No visible underclass? Wow. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:09 PM Flag
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I know. When to Bronx for the Bronx Zoo & Queens for the Museum of Science. It made me feel I went to 2 nearby third world countries. All I saw retail wise were bodegas with huge "WE ACCEPT FOOD STAMPS" and LOTTERY TICKETS! signs and liquor stores. Not a wholesome environment. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:09 PM Flag
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Oh brother. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:10 PM Flag
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Are you a transplant? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:12 PM Flag
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See ya! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:09 PM Flag
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Population of Boston: 667,157; population of NYC: 8.4 million. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:10 PM Flag
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^^correction: Boston population as of 2015: 667,137 (20 people aren't going to make a difference though) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:11 PM Flag
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Did they just die? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:12 PM Flag
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It was a typo on my part. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:13 PM Flag
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+1 and at this point more than 2/3 from some third world country. It is actually closer to 12 million including illegals in 5 boroughs and long island. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:12 PM Flag
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the downtown is tiny too, the set up of the city makes you less likely to see its underclass [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:13 PM Flag
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I'm sure that works for your sensitive self. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:14 PM Flag
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I actually like NYC better, I'm just explaining to OP why it is they way it is. The poor live in the sprawl, not the tiny downtown. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:16 PM Flag
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Go to places like Roxbury, Mattapan, Dorchester, Lynn, Lawrence and Lowell and get back to me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:13 PM Flag
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This. My grandparents were from Roxbury. Thanks, but no thanks. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] What is so good about The Book of Mormon? What is the best demographic for it? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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It's so funny and so wrong. It's for people who like humor that is smart but also really wrong. Age doesn't matter. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:06 PM Flag
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It is really funny. My DH hates broadway, but he really enjoyed this show. [ Reply | More ]
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it's totally OTT and irreverant [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:07 PM Flag
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what's OTT? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:10 PM Flag
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over the top [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:12 PM Flag
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I hated most of it - and not because I'm a prude, but because that's just not my brand of humor. It was shocking and certainly commanded attention, but I found nothing smart about it at all. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:09 PM Flag
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thanks! this helps a lot... guess not the place to take my religious MIL after all. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:10 PM Flag
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is that a joke?? no, do not take a religious person who is in any way serious. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:11 PM Flag
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Makes fun of upright, self-righteous religious folks but ends up accomplishing what religion tries to accomplish in a completely absurd and heart-warming way. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:12 PM Flag
[ - ] I hate flying makes me so nervous. Flying for work this week and I am freaking out. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:04 PM Flag
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Can you drink? [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:14 PM Flag
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After a couple of bad flights I started taking regular Dramamine (make sure it doesn't say non-drowsy on the package). Basically let's me sleep until the plane lands. GL [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:06 PM Flag
[ - ] I am trying to rebuild my work wardrobe post-baby. Although I am pretty much the same weight as before, nothing that I owned pre-baby fits. I am now a size 6 in St. Johns. Are there other designers with similar cuts to St. Johns (since replacing everything with St. Johns is going to cost me a fortune). 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:03 PM Flag
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What styles do you like? Maybe try a personal shopper at Bloomies. [ Reply | More ]
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I'm a lawyer. Most of my clothes pre-baby were Theory, but Theory just doesn't work for me anymore. [ Reply | More ]
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I'm a lawyer too and the previous poster. Bloomies has some good personal shoppers. I used them to re-build a wardrobe. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:12 PM Flag
[ - ] Could you ever be close friends with someone who talks negatively to you about her other 'friends'? 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 04:57 PM Flag
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I would steer clear. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 04:59 PM Flag
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This. I wouldn't really engage too much with a person like that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 04:59 PM Flag
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And tell her NOTHING that you would want to keep private. She's basically not trustworthy at all. [ Reply | More ]
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Right, don't say one word about yourself. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:09 PM Flag
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I know this sounds ridiculous, but it's not that she spreads personal information - it's more like she picks out something to judge - like someone's house, or that she's a SAHM - and ridicules the person behind her back. So childish, I know, but it just rubs me the wrong way. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:11 PM Flag
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That is personal information, this woman sounds like a 7th grade bitch! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:13 PM Flag
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OP - LOL, maybe that's what is eating at me - our DDs are in 7th grade now and going through all the girl-drama that comes along with it, so maybe I'm just more sensitive to it now. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:16 PM Flag
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It depends what she says and who the people she's talking are to you. There are negative statements and then there are NEGATIVE statement. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:01 PM Flag
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I wouldn't say it's anything over the top, but it just bothers me that she'll be 110% nice and friendly to someone's face and even spend time with them but then will say later how obnoxious someone was, or just generally criticize. I really like her but just can't get over the reality that she's capable of treating me the same. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:03 PM Flag
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If you really like her then continue to be friends. Just don't tell her things about you that you may not be comfortable sharing with people you don't know. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:06 PM Flag
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that is always a red flag to me! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:02 PM Flag
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Fade! Huge red flag. [ Reply | More ]
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I probably would. She's probably fun [ Reply | More ]
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No but I have a friend who is still close with this woman (former friend) who used to gossip to me about her all the time. And I told her. She's either a bigger person than me (more forgiving) or it doesn't bother her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:11 PM Flag
[ - ] I was thin with a very nice figure prior to getting pregnant with my first db (due in one month). I gained a ridiculous amount of weight with pregnancy. I'm 38 and so worried that I will never have my old body (or anything close to it) back. Has anyone done Weight Watchers to lose the baby weight? I'm thinking I might try it after the baby comes. Thanks. 17 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 04:55 PM Flag
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Just get through the rest of it, and the birth part. Don't worry about any of this now. And I'm 100% not being snarky. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 04:58 PM Flag
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+1 you can totally but most will come right off esp if you can BF [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:02 PM Flag
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I was 40 when I had first DB and got my figure back within 4 months, but I didn't gain more than 30 pounds and I worked out my entire pregnancy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:00 PM Flag
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np: my least favorite UB response. Unhelpful in any way + VBA! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:00 PM Flag
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I felt like I'd never be the same again after both babies and somehow it all went back to normal. For me, it's true what they say- 9 months to get that way, 9 months to go back. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:05 PM Flag
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I did WW after DB and it worked well. You may find that the weight comes off more easily than you expect. I wasn't able to lose the final pounds until I stopped breastfeeding, which my OB/GYN said is not uncommon. Take one step at a time and don't be too hard on yourself! [ Reply | More ]
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Yes. I had to do it TWICE and used WW both times. while at 46 i do not have the same body i had at 33 pre-kids, I am actually a bit thinner and more fit and can still wear a bikini ;) but i didn't get it done right away, i carried a lot of weight for a pretty long time after each baby. [ Reply | More ]
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How long did you carry the weight before you worked to get if off? How much did you have left to get off? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:10 PM Flag
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i carried 30 extra lbs w the first. didn't really commit to losing it until 2years later, but it only took 6 months. w the 2nd one, i was 5 years older and there was a lot of other shit going on in my life, gained WAY more weight and kept it on for 5 years - lost 75 lbs - the last 10 lbs though made me thinner than i was since my 20s. have kept it off for a few years now. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:14 PM Flag
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Everyone I've known who's done WW was wildly successful - it seems to be a reasonably balanced diet plan that people can stick with over the long term. [ Reply | More ]
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it mostly teaches you portion control - i think it works best for people who never had to think about it their weight/eating too much and maintained a "normal" weight so they don't really have a sense of how calorically dense some foods are. it works least well for those who don't really know to eat healthy and think that as long as you stay wi your points it doesn't matter what you eat - it's hard though to stay full/satisfied if you don't take advantage of the 0 point veggies and eat junk instead [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:11 PM Flag
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completely agree with this. I'm in that first category of never having to worry much about my weight, but now at 48 I have to be way more mindful of where my calories come from, and limiting my carbs to 30% has done wonders. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:15 PM Flag
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There's a woman on IG that is my body ideal. She's had two kids and her body is even better today. She does reasonable weights and yoga. Muscle bound yogi [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:06 PM Flag
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name? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:10 PM Flag
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Muscle bound yogi - all one word. Might have "the" first [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:13 PM Flag
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Her transformation is incredible. Her entire look changed including her face! [ Reply | More ]
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i know many women who became visibly overweight while pregnant and it all just fell right off over the first few months post partum. So much of it is fluid, or hormone related. I would be gentle on yourself for the first few months and just do what you need to do to get through it because you'll be sleep deprived and hormonal, most likely. If the weight didn't fall off the way you wanted it to by the time your baby is 4-6 months old, then by all means do WW but don't kill yourself trying to do something that's time consuming and possibly 100% not needed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:14 PM Flag
[ - ] I was talking to a mom at a playgroup when she suddenly went Trump crazy- it was super weird because I am hispanic and look it. It was almost like Jerry at the wedding with the anti-dentite. That is all. 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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LOL [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 04:56 PM Flag
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I don't understand what your issue is? Because you're Hispanic no one is allowed to talk to you about a candidate you may (or may not) dislike? [ Reply | More ]
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ikr. I'm Latina but nobody who knows me a little bit will confuse me with a member of La Raza. But then, I'm not Mexican either. [ Reply | More ]
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I don't think anyone should have to be 'talked to' about any political candidate. If she was just overhearing it it's one thing, but right now, in a playgroup? It's in very poor taste to be talking politics and presuming everyone there wants to hear what you think. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:07 PM Flag
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I have only talked to her once or twice before. I don't even know her name. [ Reply | More ]
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lol I'm Latina and will vote for Trump. But came to USA legally and nobody in my family is an illegal. So it's different I guess. [ Reply | More ]
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No. It's not. I'm white, here legally... Not different, he's still an awful human. [ Reply | More ]
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Hillary had the balls to say her best friend and role model for FP is the war criminal Kissinger. I'm Latina, from Chile. The monster is Hillary. [ Reply | More ]
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ok so this is your opinion....she may have another...why do you get so stupidly emotional about a casual conversation with one of the other parents. [ Reply | More ]
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Yes it is very different. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:16 PM Flag
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My SIL is Latina (Mexican and Puerto Rican) and in TX. She thinks Trump is dangerous. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:08 PM Flag
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How strange. Your SIL sounds like an outlier. Every Hispanic I've met is definitely voting Trump. He is polling very well with the Hispanic community and they will tell the truth when they are not afraid of being attacked by violent liberals for their views. [ Reply | More ]
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Right. And climate change is a hoax! Stop lying. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:10 PM Flag
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She is not lying. Baby daddy is from El Salvador and he's voting Trump and so is every person that he knows and that can vote. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:13 PM Flag
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If Trump wins and the total racist hate he encourages is sanctified I don't think they'll ask to see your papers before they attack you. Ask Jews who were in Germany in the '30's. [ Reply | More ]
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def some disconnect in those folks [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:03 PM Flag
[ - ] this would be me: http://nypost.com/2016/09/21/woman-totals-her-car-when-she-finds-spider-on-rearview-mirror/ I've only been in one accident so far, and it was insect-related 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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work on your phobia. If things continue as they are you may need to learn to use insects as a source of protein....mua ha ha haaaa! [ Reply | More ]
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Just moved down south and had two hornets in the car yesterday. Spiders everywhere and caught 2 snakes in the house already. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:11 PM Flag
[ - ] My friend and her husband (late 30s) are coming to NY for a visit. Which Broadway show should we go see together? It will be their first time! Thank you 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Did they say they wanted to see a show? Not trying to be nasty but it might not be their first choice if it's their first time to NYC [ Reply | More ]
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Yes, they want to go see a show :) [ Reply | More ]
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OK then! I liked School of Rock; On Your Feet is supposed to be good. [ Reply | More ]
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Book of Mormon [ Reply | More ]
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this [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
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Drama or musical? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 04:58 PM Flag
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if drama - The Humans [ Reply | More ]
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If they are looking for a classic Broadway musical experience (that's far from the Disney scene), then you can't do better than An American in Paris. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:15 PM Flag
[ - ] Was thinking of UB over the weekend. DCs will be almost 8 years apart (had a very hard time getting and staying pregnant with #2) and we just started telling everyone. Immediately went from 8 years of getting grief for having an only to "why are they so far apart in age? Was this planned? Are you at risk because of your age?" and the like. How about "hey, congrats Jane!" There is no pleasing people! 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Ignore, and congrats! [ Reply | More ]
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Thanks! [ Reply | More ]
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You should not be concerned about "pleasing people". I never am. What other people think about you is none of your business. [ Reply | More ]
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Not concerned about pleasing people - it's an expression. [ Reply | More ]
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Happened to me too and I did actually get pretty bitchy with people - a df of mine (or so I thought was a df), asked me if it was planned....and I said "what happened to congratulations and I hope you are feeling okay? [ Reply | More ]
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Ugh, I'm sorry. It's irritating! I had a family member respond with "is this something you're happy about?" Ummmm? [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] How did that poor baseball player die? Did he drown? So sad. 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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physics. reckless speed + bad direction + low visibility + obstacle. [ Reply | More ]
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Boat accident. Nothing good happens on a speed boat in Miami at 3 AM. Really sad, he was very talented. [ Reply | More ]
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Physical Trauma. Whoever drove is dumbest man alive- 3am no light at full speed into a rock formation every boater knows about. [ Reply | More ]
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So was he thrown from the boat & drowned? [ Reply | More ]
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Or did he bang his head on something ? [ Reply | More ]
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Look at the pictures of the boat shattered on the rocks. It's like asking how victims of a plane crash died. "Did they hit their head?" [ Reply | More ]
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Was drinking/drugs involved? [ Reply | More ]
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Idk. [ Reply | More ]
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No sign of this [ Reply | More ]
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Well, just that tmz is now reporting he was at a Miami club 90 minutes before the accident. I mean maybe people go to clubs and don't drink. [ Reply | More ]
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It was a speed boat accident, and the pictures look like it was pretty gruesome. Apparently the boat was going way too fast. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:16 PM Flag
[ - ] HR moms: Had a 2nd and final interview last week with CFO. Recruiter called me the next day to ask me about my projected EOY bonus and if I had any garden leave policy at current employer. Thoughts? I thought the interview went pretty well... 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Why did recruiter need that information? [ Reply | More ]
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I dont know... I am assuming the company asked. [ Reply | More ]
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Why would a recruiter need to know about a garden leave? because she wouldnt be able to start a new job for 1-6 months? [ Reply | More ]
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I have no idea what a garden leave is that's why I asked. No need to be snarky [ Reply | More ]
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It would have been clearer to ask "What is garden leave? I have never heard that term" [ Reply | More ]
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thank you for correcting me, oh mighty and wise UB poster. I bow to your infinite wisdom...so...what is garden leave? [ Reply | More ]
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You are getting the offer. You tell us if there are thorny issues around you giving up a bonus. [ Reply | More ]
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What do you mean? Current company has screwed me at bonus and raise time for the last 2 years so I don't trust them that they won't do it again. New offer should *HOPEFULLY* come in with a 50% salary increase [ Reply | More ]
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Calm down- just figured new co might wonder if you would leave now if you expected a year end bonus. You didnt say you were blanked in the OP. [ Reply | More ]
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when I got asked about bonus I expected, it was cause they offered it as a sign on bonus. Same $$ -- had I only known! [ Reply | More ]
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OP- Um- I'm perfectly calm. Was just replying to your answer. [ Reply | More ]
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Calm down before you lose your offer [ Reply | More ]
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?? [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] So, my 11 year old dd, has been sleeping in my room and my dh had been sleeping in dds room, because he snores. I know it is bad, but I hate the idea of going back to him going to bed a hours after me, waking me up and then 1t minutes later begins snoring. I end up on the couch because I cannot stand the snoring, even with earplugs! 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Why is DH in DD''s room if you are on the couch anyway ? [ Reply | More ]
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No, right now dd2 is in my room with me and I am living the sleep I can get, after years or interrupted sleep! But I know it's not a great arrangement! [ Reply | More ]
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Why doesn't he seep on the couch? [ Reply | More ]
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He needs a sleep study. BTDT (I'm the snorer in the situation though). [ Reply | More ]
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I know! I put DH and DS together in the same room because they both snore. I wouldn't be able to sleep with any of them. [ Reply | More ]
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Sleeping apart from DH was the best decision I ever made! [ Reply | More ]
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Op, well I feel better! [ Reply | More ]
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2 master brs. saves my sanity [ Reply | More ]
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Sleeping apart from DH will save the marriage. [ Reply | More ]
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have you tried noise cancelling headphones? lifesaver for me, in ear bose ones. [ Reply | More ]
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Your 11 yo should have her room. The issue is you sharing room with her [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Ack! Just took rescue cat to vet for one-year checkup and rabies and distemper shots -- $275. Is this normal? To be honest, we never took our indoor/outdoor cats to the vet when I was a kid... 43 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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That alot. Where I am it's only about $100 if that. I'm in a different state that for exam rabies and vax. [ Reply | More ]
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NYC, so I know it's going to be a lot, but Christ! [ Reply | More ]
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that is a lot! where are you? [ Reply | More ]
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also you should only need rabies shots every 3 years. and many people dont' give their indoor cats rabies shots at all. [ Reply | More ]
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That's what I was thinking! And yeah, the vet said this one is good for 3 years. [ Reply | More ]
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Rabies is usually required by law. [ Reply | More ]
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Not for cats! [ Reply | More ]
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It is here [ Reply | More ]
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in NYS for cats [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:03 PM Flag
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Village [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 04:45 PM Flag
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in the future just go yearly to the clinic at petco on Union Square [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:06 PM Flag
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yep [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 04:38 PM Flag
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Sounds a bit higher than what we paid in Brooklyn with our older cat. Second cat already had the shots from the shelter. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 04:40 PM Flag
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These were her one year boosters -- got her as a kitten last year. I mean, they examined her and clipped her nails, but I wasn't expecting nearly $300! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 04:41 PM Flag
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You can order the shots online 4.99, no joke. Well not the rabies but distemper. I don't know about rabies shots. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 04:41 PM Flag
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Good to know, thanks! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 04:42 PM Flag
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Rabies can only be done by a vet [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 04:43 PM Flag
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Or at a vet office. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 04:43 PM Flag
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Also try petco, they have a vet monthly that charges 50.00 for a package of shots. Vets are crazy expensive. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 04:47 PM Flag
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Ah! Also good to know, thanks! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 04:49 PM Flag
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Its NOTHING...You don't want to know my bills for two shelter cats..One has FIV and one has Bartonella. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 04:43 PM Flag
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wow! so lucky to be pet free! (my building doesn't allow pets) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 04:46 PM Flag
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Are you the same idiot who posted "wow so lucky I don't have a car" on the speeding ticket post? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 04:53 PM Flag
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NP: ha, ha, that was my first thought too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:00 PM Flag
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OP: Sorry to hear that. We love her but like I said, I grew up with strays who barely cost us a dime. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 04:48 PM Flag
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Long time ago (I don't know when you grew up of course) people thought pets were disposable. And if a pet got sick they let the animal die rather than take money away from more "necessary" expenses such as another dress or a new purse. I take responsibly of pet ownership seriously. If you accept a life into your home than you're responsible for that life. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:00 PM Flag
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I grew up in the 70s. We always had at least one cat or one dog or both at any given time. They all lived long, healthy lives and died of old age -- except for the last dog we had. He was a lab and had lots of medical issues in his last years -- which we of course treated. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:02 PM Flag
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That's a lot! I don't know in NY but here in CA legally you don't have to give rabies shot to cats. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 04:43 PM Flag
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That's normal. Once you get on the 3 year plan for rabies it's a bit better. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 04:45 PM Flag
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OP: Also, we feed her Friskies in a can. Vet said to get some of the "better" cat food. I've never spent so much $$ on a cat in my life! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 04:46 PM Flag
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ridiculous [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 04:48 PM Flag
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Please don't buy cat food from the vet. It's a scam. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 04:52 PM Flag
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Not from her, but she told us to look into better brands, like Wellness, Blue Buffalo, etc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 04:53 PM Flag
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cats get a lot of UTIs. buying better food is like insurance against future vet bills. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:02 PM Flag
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I tired the wholesome food for my two assholes. The flatly rejected all the expensive cans/dry food and would not eat until I provided them with tasty treasures (friskies). So too bad for them and good for me! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:04 PM Flag
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LOL. I know you meant that lovingly. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:07 PM Flag
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yea I did... but still...they're assholes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:16 PM Flag
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Meow! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 04:51 PM Flag
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unfortunately, vets like everyone else need to pay rent in nyc which is expensive. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 04:52 PM Flag
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OP get a new vet. This one is nickel and dimeing you. And be up front that you are on a budget [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 04:53 PM Flag
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It's funny: I had decided against another one in the area because the online reviews said they nickel and dime you. This one had gotten better reviews with no mention of priciness. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 04:55 PM Flag
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Tip: go to one in a poor area of town [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 04:58 PM Flag
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they're still expensive. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:04 PM Flag
[ - ] Hunter K Question: understanding that this is purely speculation, what does it mean if dc took 50 minutes to test. Do they come out with drawings and/or stickers? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 04:31 PM Flag
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It means nothing. Not snarky. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 04:36 PM Flag
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Thanks. Definitely reading into it... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 04:48 PM Flag
[ - ] I just bought Hamilton tickets for family of four. The problem is they are partial view orchestra. ( all the way to the left). This is the only way we could get standard ticket price and my kids are dying to see it. Anyone have experience with those seats? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 04:28 PM Flag
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OMG, what a great website. I can't believe I never saw this before, I'm a big theater fan. I'll certainly be using it next time I get the chance to see a show. -np [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 04:36 PM Flag
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I know I've also bought Broadway tickets before where the website shows you the view from the seat section, but maybe it was just a specific theater - I can't find it now. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 04:44 PM Flag
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all seats in that theater are great [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 04:38 PM Flag
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Just sell two and let your DCs go alone. Duh. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 04:41 PM Flag
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I was in a box and they said "partial view" - it was fine, great even. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 04:56 PM Flag
[ - ] Curious parent, what activities do your 7 & 8 yo DDs like to do at play dates? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 04:27 PM Flag
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They do carwheels, play dolls, make up games like going on a trip. Sometimes they color. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 04:37 PM Flag
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If I knew the mom would be ok with it I'd let them make cupcakes and frost them and eat one or two [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 04:53 PM Flag
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Crazy world we live that you'd have to ask the other mom about this! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:02 PM Flag
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I know! Seems so benign but I did it once without asking and got the whole food police thing raining down on me [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:10 PM Flag
[ - ] I have a colleague with severe Borderline Personality Disorder. This person -- who does not report to me, but with whom I work -- has regular, time-consuming fits of rage and self-pity, which they consider to be everyone's problem but their own. I cannot now avoid working with this person. How do I deal with him/her? How do you keep the BPD person from wasting your time in a pressurized, deadline-oriented, work environment. 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 04:26 PM Flag
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omg [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 04:29 PM Flag
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Set super clear boundaries. Don't get sucked into their drama. If she wants to have a tantrum, don't respond. Act as if she were your toddler and simply let her have her fit while you go on with your work. Don't indulge her. Speak to her supervisor when she doesn't meet expectations or when she is unprofessional. How long has she been working there and why hasn't she been fired? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 04:30 PM Flag
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If i try to walk away, I get screamed at for "not listening" and "not respecting" the crazy person. Most of all one cannot interrupt. This occasions hours of wasted time being yelled at about interrupting or trying to walk away and say one has work to do. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 04:55 PM Flag
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She doesn't report to you but do you report to her? Why do you feel obligated to listen at all? Let her scream. Walk away if you don't have to stay there. Where is her supervisor? Is everyone aware of this? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 05:08 PM Flag
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My sister has BPD so I totally empathize. What the poster said about ignoring and not engaging is right on. You have to let them spend out their rage etc and any input from you -- no matter what it is -- is only gasoline on the fire. What kind of work is this and how on earth hasn't she been fired?? My sister is unemployable because of this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 04:34 PM Flag
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how do people like this get a job? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 04:35 PM Flag
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They can get jobs because they can pull it together and be charming for a very short amount of time. It's keeping the job that's often the problem. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 04:37 PM Flag
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Exactly this. I'm the poster above with the BPD sister. She gets every job she interviews for but always blows them up. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 04:45 PM Flag
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op: this is a bright and hard-working person. Also, as far as I can see, very seriously mentally ill, and not treated. (I would add that this person has some kind of OCD, mania and narcissistic disorder on top of the BPD). Person may be on the way out the door, if they cannot get it together. But in the meantime, life is HELL here. And it's a hard enough job without this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 04:54 PM Flag
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