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[ - ] I think DH just caught me masturbating. 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 04:51 AM Flag
[ - ] Real Question-- how do you dispose of your empties? How do you keep the porters from calculating number of bottles/week and which apartment? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 04:33 AM Flag
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..Uhh - I don't???? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 04:33 AM Flag
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I break the wine bottles over DS' head so I throw out JUST a huge bag of glass shards every week. [ Reply | More ]
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Huh? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 04:53 AM Flag
[ - ] You gay. 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 04:31 AM Flag
[ - ] Why is SNL not on tonight? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 04:24 AM Flag
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season ended last week [ Reply | More ]
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crap. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 04:33 AM Flag
[ - ] In my late 30s. Spent most of my earlier years being insecure and therefore ruining any budding or existing friendships. Now most people, including myself, have kids and commitments and it is harder to make new, real friendships. Especially because well, most other people already have existing friendships. What can I do? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 04:18 AM Flag
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It's never too late to make new friends. That's what I'm telling myself now. I'm in my early 40's, finding I don't really connect with most of my neighbors and fellow moms, and that I have little in common with friends from high school and college. That said, I've made efforts to reconnect with a couple of old friends with whom I lost touch during the intense parenting years. But even that is kind of like making new friends, because we've all changed in the space of 10 years. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 04:26 AM Flag
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^actually, once I went back to work and dc's started at new schools with a new group of moms, I met some people who could be close friends down the road. Changing the group made all the difference. As for finding the time, that's hard, but you find a way. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 04:29 AM Flag
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It's hard though. As we get older people make less of an effort, I think, to make new friends. Usually bc they already have a bunch and it takes time. I really try, but it's been hard. I also have three young kids so schedules and logistics can get in the way. Even if we did manage a play date, conversations during play dates are touch and go and if the kids don't play well together it usu turns out to be a deal breaker. I hope I am not sounding pessimistic. I am earnestly trying. I admit to not being the most socially savvy person! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 04:36 AM Flag
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My mom is in her late 60's and is still making new friends - like actual good close friends so - hold out hope! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 04:35 AM Flag
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most people have hard time making friends because most people in their late 30s and beyond aren't interested in friendships. they're just too busy. we get less social. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 04:56 AM Flag
[ - ] Good place for kids' furniture (age 6 and 8). No Pottery Barn, PB Teens or Ikea. Other choices? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 04:16 AM Flag
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Land of nod. [ Reply | More ]
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Stickly Audi if you like Mission style. Ethan Allen. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 04:18 AM Flag
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I like PB teen. sorry. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 04:33 AM Flag
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Ethan Allen [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 04:39 AM Flag
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Bob's. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Going to a Batmitzva. How much cash should I give? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 04:06 AM Flag
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I think we gave dd's school friend $150; dh's boss's dd $250. We are in NYC. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 04:15 AM Flag
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Thank. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 04:16 AM Flag
[ - ] Hosting a birthday party for DD. It costs me about $80/child. Someone asks me if she could bring 2 out of town guests (cousins of DD's best friend). How do I graciously say no? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 04:06 AM Flag
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I would offer to split the cost with the someone. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 04:08 AM Flag
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What do you mean? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 04:09 AM Flag
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I'd offer to take them out for ice cream with dd and friend another day of the visit, but say that there's a limit imposed by whatever place is hosting the party. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 04:10 AM Flag
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Thanks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 04:14 AM Flag
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I'm sorry, but not on this occasion. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 04:10 AM Flag
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So sorry but the numbers are already in. She has no idea you are having an over the top party that is going to cost you $240 for her 3 little kids. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 04:36 AM Flag
[ - ] Returning to work in a new job next month. Should I use my full name (Kimberly) or nickname (Kim) on my profile and business cards, etc.? I've had conflicting advice. I have no preference, it's just for work. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 04:04 AM Flag
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OP: I've been told nicknames are too informal, use nicknames to sound more approachable and avoid people asking if I go by a nickname, that "Kim" sounds down-market, that "Kimberly" sounds like a stripper. [Sigh] I didn't pick the name myself. Trying to decide what gives the best first impression to clients. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 04:07 AM Flag
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My sister is a Kimberly and has ALWAYS gone by Kiim, work and social. I think Kim sounds fine professionally - short and to the point. Kimberly sounds very 70s to me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 04:10 AM Flag
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OP: Thanks! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 04:14 AM Flag
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Generally i go with full name but in this case I would go with kimberly on card but Kim to everyone from the get go. Like Catherine and Kate. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 04:38 AM Flag
[ - ] My parents have gone through all the hoops of being certified for foster care and haven't been called to host a child yet (it has been 7/8 months). This is in Pennsylvania. Can you think of any reason why? I feel as if they are far more qualified than most families... 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 03:39 AM Flag
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How old are they? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 03:39 AM Flag
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Late 50s. My mom is a retired teacher and my father has a good position with a bank. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 03:40 AM Flag
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82 & 87 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 03:40 AM Flag
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Why do you respond to other people's posts? Weirdo. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 03:42 AM Flag
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I honestly wonder if social workers choose shitty homes on purpose. We're in Brooklyn, took us forever to get certified/called in. It seems like all of the horrible FP get kids thrown at them with no discretion and yet our family had to work extremely hard to get a placement. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 03:44 AM Flag
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np: I just said a prayer you both get foster kids in your families. You sound like good people and it kills me to read about the bad foster homes all the time. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 03:59 AM Flag
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i think they have some stupid belief that black kids should be raised by black parents and hispanic with hispanic, etc. it's stupid. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 04:58 AM Flag
[ - ] Re: lead tests at 1 yo and 2 yo, what were your results? Include geographic area too. Just trying to understand how this can happen in NYC. TIA. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 03:38 AM Flag
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Paint chips [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 03:42 AM Flag
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Any lasting effect? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 03:45 AM Flag
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NP. Do you have paint chips in your house? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 04:03 AM Flag
[ - ] What are your weird food habits/hang ups/preferences? 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 03:26 AM Flag
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I will eat raw garlic and raw potatoes while chopping them [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 03:26 AM Flag
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Some people say it's weird that I like peanut butter and carrot sticks but I don't get that it's weird. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 03:29 AM Flag
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I like that too, it's a holdover from camping [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 03:33 AM Flag
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I don't really have any. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 03:34 AM Flag
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I've had an off an on eating disorder since I was like 15, so I have come and gone with all sorts of strange eating habits. It'd be a long list. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 04:09 AM Flag
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I LOVE snapper soup. Not red snapper soup - SNAPPER soup. The original. That means turtles. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 04:42 AM Flag
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i like sea urchin. i like huitaloche (?) corn fungus. i liked boiled silkworm larvae. i hate gravy. i don't like to mix two or meats together in one dish. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 05:00 AM Flag
[ - ] Tinder is the scariest website 21 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 03:24 AM Flag
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a little jealous that i will never get to experience it. Married pre dating apps [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 03:25 AM Flag
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Lol you can still join just to experience the creaminess [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 03:27 AM Flag
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Oops autocorrect,,,craziness [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 03:27 AM Flag
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Haha! Freudian slip. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 03:32 AM Flag
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Lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 03:32 AM Flag
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No, you were right the first time. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 04:30 AM Flag
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Lol, creaminess. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 03:32 AM Flag
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are you also jealous of people blacking out? same concept -- asinine behavior. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 04:44 AM Flag
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why do you say that? I find it hilarious [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 03:26 AM Flag
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Some of these guys are really scary. Here's one quote from a profile: "Manson married a 26 yo, I can't even find a date." Pro tip, don't mention Charles Manson in your dating profile [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 03:28 AM Flag
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yikes that is scary - Ive never seen a profile like that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 03:30 AM Flag
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What does Manson married mean ? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 03:39 AM Flag
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Do you know who Manson was? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 03:41 AM Flag
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Yes of course but what does Manson married mean? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 03:50 AM Flag
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Do you know what the word "married" means? Also, are you retarded?? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 04:01 AM Flag
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You seem dumb. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 04:40 AM Flag
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he was going to marry a 26. but i don't think he did. he needs to update his profile. it was in current event about 2 months ago. i don't think it's creepy but maybe it's not a great ice breaker. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 04:45 AM Flag
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Yes of course but what does Manson married mean? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 03:50 AM Flag
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The murderer managed to marry a 26-y.o. woman and yet the Tinder guy can't find a date. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 04:22 AM Flag
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"Man, this guy who mentions Charles Manson seems like a real cool cucumber" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 04:30 AM Flag
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Also a lot of these guys must be lying about their ages. They claim to be 31 but look at least 45 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 03:49 AM Flag
[ - ] Bizarre things you have learned lately? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 03:17 AM Flag
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DH used the word "charabanc" yesterday. I was researching my family tree and learned an ancestor owned a coach company in England around the turn of the 20th century. British DH told me that the proper term is "charabanc"--an early form of sightseeing bus. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 03:32 AM Flag
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I learned that David Lee Roth was an EMT in NYC for 6 or 7 years after his rock star career stalled. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 03:41 AM Flag
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his dad is a surgeon. he's not a stupid guy. a little weird but not stupid. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 04:46 AM Flag
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My bil hasn't trusted banks since the financial crisis and keeps all of his savings in his closet. He apparently has $100k+ in his closet in 20s [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 03:44 AM Flag
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buckwheat is not a wheat. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 04:46 AM Flag
[ - ] Would you hate sharing a room as a teenager (with a sister - same gender)? We're looking at apartments and our favorite is a 2 bedroom but the second bedroom is pretty big so there are lots of possibilities but I've never shared a room (except for college - I guess they'll have to do it sometime!). What do you think? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 03:04 AM Flag
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Why don't you ask them? I certainly wouldn't do that to my daughters, unless you can divide the room it's cruel. Teenagers need space. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.15, 04:02 AM Flag
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Yes I would hate to share a room with a brother [ Reply | More ]
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