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[ - ] Is counting calories unmanly? 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:58 AM Flag
[ - ] s/o from blow out post. How do people work out and not wash hair afterward? 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:51 AM Flag
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stripping the hair of natural oils is very bad for the scalp. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:53 AM Flag
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Lol. Sure. Whatever makes you feel Better about being gross [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:57 AM Flag
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np: some people (i.e. black) can't wash their hair on a daily basis. I have a relaxer in my hair, and when I wash my hair, it's a huge ordeal. I can't just wash it and let it air dry OR wash it and blow dry it. It's damaging to my hair b/c of the relaxer. Hence, I wash my hair once a week whether I work out or not. I usually don't work out so its not an issue. Hope this helps you understand a different perspective. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:49 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:01 AM Flag
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i'm not AA but i can't wash my hair every night just b/c it gets super dry and looks awful.. and hairdresser told me to wash no more than 3 days a week. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:57 AM Flag
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I get it. I know plenty of people who do this ( I am Latin American, from the Caribbean. So I know. It's still nasty) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:01 AM Flag
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I saw Chris Rock's movie Good Hair, so I know all about your situation. Why relaxer? Why not go natural? Why are you changing your body to fit the white man's standard? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:53 AM Flag
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Natural here. 1970's just called and want their provocation back. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:04 AM Flag
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This. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:56 AM Flag
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"I totally saw this movie about black hair so I KNOW what it is like for you! How can you go natural, you're betraying your gender and your race! OMG! White men! OMG!" said the white privileged woman. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:57 AM Flag
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That poster is a dude. Mark my words. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:09 AM Flag
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because my hair is easier to manage when relaxed. I'm all about making my life easier. Plus, my mother decided to relax my hair as a kid and it's a pain to grow out. I tried when I was in high school, and eventually just gave up and relaxed it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:58 AM Flag
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Nothing is worse than catching a whiff of someone's dirty-head smell. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:07 AM Flag
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My ils' guest room pillows smell like this. Ugh. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:58 AM Flag
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Don't tell the poster above she's going to call you a racist [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:58 AM Flag
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coffee breath is worse, right? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:09 AM Flag
[ - ] Where do you find gay guys who want to get married, have kids with a woman? I want one of these! 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:45 AM Flag
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Sorry, but we have standards. All of the gay men I know who had arrangements like this were married to beautiful, intelligent, put together women who could have had a straight man if they chose. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:36 AM Flag
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How do you know OP isn't? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:42 AM Flag
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If she's actively asking around for a gay man (on urbanbaby, no less), I can bet she isn't. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:59 AM Flag
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Wow a thread for me! My DH was significantly older and my boss for 2+ years. I have been SAHM for 10 years plus plus. It's different but a lot the same as any suburban SAHM with a DH who travels. I don't get love notes or have sex. But I do get affectionate friendship notes from DH and the ability to raise beautiful children in something other than squalor. They will all be able to choose the college they want. They all can do whatever they want. I have an unlimited vacation and spending budget and the house is mine. I really just give up the loving romantic relationship and sex. And after a while you get over it and it's the new normal. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:44 AM Flag
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Wow your life sounds horrible [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:57 AM Flag
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How about one who doesn't want kids? I crave a gay husband to pick out my clothes and furniture. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:45 AM Flag
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My husband does all of those things (he's sweet and caring, and has a very "gay best friend" type of personality) AND we have amazing sex! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:49 AM Flag
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Why would a non-closeted gay guy want such an arrangement? Why would you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:46 AM Flag
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^^^that is not sarcasm. Is this really a thing? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:47 AM Flag
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Only if he is closeted I assume. And really no need today. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:52 AM Flag
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(Gay dad) Really depends on where you live and what your family is like. Some professions wouldn't go well with being openly gay (even in NY). The world is far from tolerant. I feel fine in NYC, but you go a few states down and it is a whole different world. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:55 AM Flag
[ - ] Have you ever identified a poster on UB with 100% certainty? I could have sworn I identified an old college friend of mine in here ( from CT) the other day. But I am doubting myself. We all go through similar issues at a specific stage of life, don't we? 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:44 AM Flag
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Many times I've been shocked at how close someone's story is to mine. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:50 AM Flag
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That doesn't mean you know them. That means your problem is universal. We aren't that unique :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:53 AM Flag
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That's my point. Someone who knows me might erroneously think these posts are by me. We agree :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:57 AM Flag
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Yes. It was something extremely specific and exactly the story she told me a week before. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:45 AM Flag
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I swear I thought someone here was taunting me here the other day. They mentioned my name and my age and my dc's name in the same thread. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:46 AM Flag
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No way! I really think you must be overthinking this. No one has that much time or energy to do that. Especially if your kids are Henry and Olivia [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:59 AM Flag
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I identified someone with 100% certainty on YBM, and she was posting about me! Didn't call her out on it but I was horrified. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:50 AM Flag
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Yes, my SIL. And I texted her and asked if it was her and she said yes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:50 AM Flag
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Wow. She admitted it? In NYC area? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:03 AM Flag
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Yeah, we joke about this site a lot. Her post wasn't like, I hate my inlaws. If I remember correctly it asked about if it was possible to gain 6 pounds in one day because of doing a heavy dinner with wine tasting the day before, and I remember her heading out to that exact dinner. It was kind of funny. I told her no, you can't gain 6 pounds from one dinner. And then I called her out. :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:59 AM Flag
[ - ] Do you like these shoes? I'm on the fence about the colors, but love Cole Haan in general for comfort. Plus have extra sale code so they'd be about $50. 22 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:36 AM Flag
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Yes, I like them! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:32 AM Flag
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No [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:33 AM Flag
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Cute! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:45 AM Flag
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Yes, very nice [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:40 AM Flag
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no i don't really [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:33 AM Flag
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Well since they only have size 10 or above I would have to say NO. Because you must be the size of a man and these do not look good ok feet that big [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:46 AM Flag
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She might also be 5'9" tall. So they look perfectly normal for her height, asshole. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:50 AM Flag
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Why so nasty? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:41 AM Flag
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Because no woman, other than a transvestite wears a size 10. Or a really really tall woman. Nothing wrong with telling her not to wear these shoes!! They are going to look horrible on a but foot. Isn't that why Op posited? Jesus [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:55 AM Flag
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You're an asshole. Better watch it - us chicks with size tens are awfully adept at using them to kick someone's ass. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:00 AM Flag
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Lol! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:51 AM Flag
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Ok sure. Try it out with these fugly shoes and see how well that goes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:03 AM Flag
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The shoes are ugly. It's unnecessary to make mean remarks about wearing a size ten shoe. No one wakes up and decides they want to have a big foot. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:56 AM Flag
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np--Jackie Kennedy wore a size 10 shoe. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:05 AM Flag
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You can't change how big your feet are. Jesus right back at you. Many fashionable women and supermodels wear big shoes- Paris Hilton is a size 11. You really are nasty. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:55 AM Flag
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Uma Thurman Kate winslet, Elle McPherson, Cindy Crawford, Nicole Kidman- all size 11+ Yeah really "mannish". [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:57 AM Flag
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It's the way you did it- " must be the size of a man" - such a mean girl thing to say. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:58 AM Flag
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they're ok, not cutest but not ugliest. $50 is too much $ for those shoes IMO. I would find something cuter for that price. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:37 AM Flag
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Not bad [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:49 AM Flag
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I like the top part, but not the rope wedge. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:05 AM Flag
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I like the rope wedge but not the strap by the toe [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:08 AM Flag
[ - ] Which would you choose? MC Family here - HHI about $220k. 3 kids, live in a nabe with pretty good elementary school but not so hot middle school, Stay and try to get into a good MS but deal with so so nabe OR move to suburbs with guaranteed great schools but commute of about 45 minutes to work? DH says suburbs, i'm torn. He is tired of the noise and some of the not so nice part os our neighborhood. 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:36 AM Flag
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both parents WOH? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:38 AM Flag
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OP: yes, me only 3 days a week though. so commute won't be as much of a factor as it will for DH but he doesn't mind at all. He is ready for a house, space, kids to have great schools and says if we can't afford to do that here, we owe it to kids to go to the suburbs. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:40 AM Flag
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$220k is rough with 3 DCs in NYC. Go to burbs to better public schools. Especially if DH is the one who will be commuting and he wants to move [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:53 AM Flag
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or: I wouldn't move to the suburbs if I were you. I would stick it out in the city. Commuting can suck the life out of you. Is that 45 min to work driving or train? If driving, DEFINITELY NOT. If train, maybe??? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:44 AM Flag
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OP: train [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:58 AM Flag
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OP: and i feel like as they get older and want to do more activities and sports and things (they are 3 boys) it is only going to get harder and more expensive. as of now i am spending a fortune on extracurricular. not that i expect the suburbs to be cheap, but at least by paying my taxes i get great schools. i'm already paying $1300 a month in taxes/co-op fees and the schools are okay. i'm also paying tuition for 1 child ($1400 a month for a part time SN program) and then babysitting for the 3 days i'm at work. i'm pretty much drowning... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:46 AM Flag
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OP: it is rough. i feel like all our money goes to bills and mortgage, there is so little left for enjoyment. i spend SO little on myself and DH. we take 2 very modest vacations (beach vacations/Cape rentals) but wow, i am a master budgeter... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:48 AM Flag
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or: you also have to factor in commuting costs when you move to the suburbs. At the end of the day, it all adds up to about the same IMO. There was a really great article (I think in NY TImes) that discussed how it's not much cheaper living in the burbs than in the city when you factor in expenses like commuting, maintaining home etc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:51 AM Flag
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Where is the burb with great schools, 45 minute door to door commute and family with 220k income can afford it? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:49 AM Flag
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More like 55, with getting to train, but you can get a coop in Edgemont, but two kids will have to share. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:05 AM Flag
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I posted above op. The other thing I would consider is that I've heard that dc that live in apts in suburbs are looked down on. why move to the burbs if you're not going to be in a house w/ a backyard [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:57 AM Flag
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I think you can do this as long as you don't expect to double your space. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:58 AM Flag
[ - ] Name poll: Charles no nn 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:36 AM Flag
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I like [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:32 AM Flag
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How could one dislike Charles? I don't love it, but it's such a classic. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:45 AM Flag
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Friends will call him Charlie anyway [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:43 AM Flag
[ - ] Serious question. Last night I had a very stiff neck and todaya bad headache. I noticed some recalled plums for Listeria in my fridge. I am afraid. Am just being paranoid or am I going to die? 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:35 AM Flag
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Did you eat the plums or just notice them [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:27 AM Flag
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I ate two of them on the weekend and noticed them today. Touched them and threw them out today. Thought I washed my hands [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:40 AM Flag
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Lol! I had the same symptoms yesterday too. I left work early. I woke up this morning and had the same paranoia. I took a sudafed and an advil cold and sinus and now I'm fine. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:38 AM Flag
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That's how my symptoms started and I'm now on Day 5 - the headache has been the worst part [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:38 AM Flag
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^^ if you're otherwise healthy and not pregnant, you should be fine and your body will work through it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:39 AM Flag
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Should I go to the doctor? -op + I don't want a lumbar puncture unless necessary. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:46 AM Flag
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You're an idiot. No you do normals listeria. Jesus [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:46 AM Flag
[ - ] I've been dating a guy for six months and he still doesn't want to have sex! 23 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:25 AM Flag
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Fake or gay [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:26 AM Flag
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Why would I fake this? It's fairly mundane. I don't think he's gay... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:17 AM Flag
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Then he's seeing so someone else. There's something up. Not normal. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:30 AM Flag
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Yes dh was seeing someone so didn't try for a few months. Np [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:25 AM Flag
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Wow, usually it's six minutes not sox months. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:20 AM Flag
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Six minutes? That long? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:31 AM Flag
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Haha! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:36 AM Flag
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Does he actually say that? How do u know? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:21 AM Flag
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No, but he continually turns me down when I offer. He got me off once and that was about it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:21 AM Flag
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Micropenis [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:35 AM Flag
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What? This seems weird [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:25 AM Flag
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How often do you see one another? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:06 AM Flag
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He could be a virgin. I have dated two 35-year-old virgins. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:21 AM Flag
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whaaat- where did you find them?! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:24 AM Flag
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In normal everyday life, where you wouldn't expect it. One was a college prof and one was the owner of an upscale shop. He might have been in the closet, not sure... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:29 AM Flag
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Yes clearly the shop owner was in the closet. FFS [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:47 AM Flag
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But he did tell me he was a virgin. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:02 AM Flag
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Yes. With girls [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:03 AM Flag
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Ugh [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:34 AM Flag
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i would have been outta there after 6 dates [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:25 AM Flag
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Move on. Something is weird here. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:25 AM Flag
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Micropenis [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:26 AM Flag
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he's probably a serial killer [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:44 AM Flag
[ - ] NYC - anyone have any luck with any cleaning services? Recs please. 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:20 AM Flag
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zen home cleaning [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:00 AM Flag
[ - ] Bro, or Manzier? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:19 AM Flag
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Really hard to choose there. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:41 AM Flag
[ - ] Why is Marymount School bashed on here? Catholic? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
NY Schools 07.24.14, 01:18 AM Flag
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Is bashed bc it's catholic [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:47 AM Flag
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What's wrong with Catholic schools? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:53 AM Flag
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They aren't actively recruiting Jewish kids, and UBers are largely Jewish. [ Reply | More ]
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UB hates catholic anything. Jewish schools are fine though [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:04 AM Flag
[ - ] My nanny comes into our home after a 45 minute commute in the mornings and after washing her hands, the very first thing she does is make herself a cup of coffee. She is also the only one who drinks bottled water. We keep a supply for the kids' backpacks on the occasion they forget or misplace their reusable water bottles. Our family of 5 maybe goes through a 12 pack of water in 3 weeks; however, the nanny drinks 1-2 bottles/day even though I have repeatedly told her to drink the triple filtered water. She never bring her own lunch or dinner and often uses the petty cash to buy Enterman cakes and crap food. She is not a live-in and we pay her $800/week on the books (so much more for me) for 45 hours plus a monthly metro card. I am feeling fleeced. 104 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:14 AM Flag
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Shut up! I'm sick of you ladies complaining about your nannies. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:26 AM Flag
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This. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:18 AM Flag
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I suppose you could look for a different nanny that doesn't eat or drink? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:18 AM Flag
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Robots are in this season. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:19 AM Flag
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Reading comprehension? No one else in the house drinks bottled water, tap is fine in NYC. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:30 AM Flag
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Sense of humor? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:22 AM Flag
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So why are you wasting your money on bottled water? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:33 AM Flag
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Again, cant you read? Sometimes kids need for backpacks, NOT in the house. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:34 AM Flag
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So keep like 5 bottles in the closet for that emergency. Or, you know, don't begrudge your nanny a 75 cent bottle of water. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:24 AM Flag
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Do you take things at work when boss tells you not to? Time to get rid of nanny. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:36 AM Flag
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This. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:29 AM Flag
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My boss doesn't put a case of bottled water in the office fridge and tell people not to drink it. Let me guess, if your nanny drinks from the tap she is responsible for washing her glass afterwords, right? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:29 AM Flag
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So stop buying it. Or, consider it a 20 cent per hour pay raise and let her drink all she wants. 2 bottles of water a day? What's that, a 10-20cent per hour pay raise? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:33 AM Flag
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We always kept the things our nannies liked on hand, even if they weren't the things we would eat/drink ourselves. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:23 AM Flag
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You sound very petty. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:18 AM Flag
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I love Entemann cakes! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:20 AM Flag
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IDK, I have an hour commute to work and the first thing I do when I get to work is drink my coffee and eat breakfast while either reading work emails, private emails or reading the paper.... Everyone deserves a 10 minute human break after a commute. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:21 AM Flag
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Its everything, the wastefullness, etc. NP, [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:35 AM Flag
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You should check your emails on your commute instead of playing candy crush or whatever else you do on your phone for an hour. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:28 AM Flag
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hahaha - WTF? I do check emails...when I can....not all subway lines have wifi.....nor do I feel like replying to important clients on my iphone that will not look professional [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:43 AM Flag
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Driving and reading email...sounds safe! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:54 AM Flag
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My nanny drinks my bottled water and buys 2.99 donuts!!!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:19 AM Flag
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She is overpaid and uncooperative. Get rid of her. Summer a great time to get rid of nannies, you can get college girl to temp. do it soon. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:29 AM Flag
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38,000 a year isn't much. How is this uncooperative? I wouldn't see any of these as big issues with mine. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:20 AM Flag
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800 X 52 = 41600. Plus food and metrocard. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:33 AM Flag
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Plus yearly and birthday bonus and all of the taxes. Oh! And health insurance. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:36 AM Flag
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she sees you as very $$$$ so she doesn't care about spending your money. She's not respectful and I would think about finding a new nanny [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:21 AM Flag
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What is wrong with you women? How is this not "respectful"? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:22 AM Flag
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By drinking the bottled water, when tap is fine. How would you explain that? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:35 AM Flag
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Seriously? This is your argument? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:36 AM Flag
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how poor are you that 10-20 cents kills you this much? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:36 AM Flag
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Bottled water is more than 10/20 cents, and it is the insubordination that would piss me off. I dont need to fight with people I pay. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:39 AM Flag
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"Insubordination" over bottled waters. You're hilarious. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:32 AM Flag
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haha [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:44 AM Flag
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You have some serious power issues you need to work out with a therapist. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:22 AM Flag
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Agree [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:33 AM Flag
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Shut up, op! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:33 AM Flag
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actually, I'm an NP. Nanny shouldn't be entitled to the bottled water unless the whole family is drinking it all the time. If tap is the family standard, it should be hers as well. It's expensive. I don't think it's a power issue as much as people don't think about their nannies professionally or hold them to any standard, which is terribly condescending. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:31 AM Flag
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^the coffee is whatever, I agree, but may be part of a larger issue in which the nanny isn't helping OP with morning things when that is the sole reason she is there. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:32 AM Flag
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This [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:37 AM Flag
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The op did not say she wasn't helping out with the dc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:41 AM Flag
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she did - the nanny comes in the morning, there are things to do, she makes a cup of coffee. Drinks it while helping? I don't know. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:01 AM Flag
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Yes, this is the OP's big gripe - her nanny drinks a cup of coffee in the morning. Seriously? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:57 AM Flag
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I think you have valid feelings, but you're nickel and diming her. Reminds me of the article about the company that was docking employee pay for using the restroom for more than 7 minutes total per day or whatever it was. Will it save you a few dollars a week if your nanny stops drinking bottled water? Yes. But is that the work environment that you want to offer someone? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:32 AM Flag
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If I took someone else's bottled water at work, and they found out, I would be in trouble. POS nanny has been told to cut it out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:36 AM Flag
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I agree that the OP telling nanny to stop doing it, and the nanny not stopping, is more of an issue. But the OP is being uneccessarily stingy. Nanny is not taking OP's one bottle of water that she needs for her lunch break, leaving her with nothing to drink (like your scenario of taking someone's water at work). OP can also ask nanny to only use the lobby bathroom and to take the baby with her when she goes to use it, and OP could be upset for nanny ignoring her wishes, but her wish would still be ridiculous. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:42 AM Flag
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Tap water is fine. OP is not ridiculous, nanny is wasteful and dersrves to be fired. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:00 AM Flag
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It's not about the money for the bottled water and crap food. I think she is taking advantage of us in general. When she walks through the door, there is work to be done: kids off to school, DH and myself to work, etc. she can have coffee when she is alone once everyone is where they need to be. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:27 AM Flag
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I see what you mean. But, she has her routine, and she's being paid a fairly low wage, so I'd begrudge her the water and the food. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:33 AM Flag
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low wage? She's getting $$ for a nanny - not sure if she has a college education or not, but if she doesn't, she's got a good gig. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:51 AM Flag
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As you can see by the responses, most workers aren't "on" the second the walk through the door. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:39 AM Flag
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You need to move her start time to 15 min earlier. Or get a new Nanny this is not normal [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:51 AM Flag
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In any other professional position, making a cup of coffee as the first task of the day is inappropriate. She has 45 min to drink her coffee on the way to your house! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:22 AM Flag
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Really? Because I've always made my coffee first thing in the morning at work. They have a better machine and it's free. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:34 AM Flag
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+ 1 mil [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:35 AM Flag
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Me too. I get coffee while my computer boots up and I check emails. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:46 AM Flag
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If the nanny starts at 7 a.m. she deserves that coffee. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:36 AM Flag
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Seriously. No professional office would even have a coffee maker. Oh wait . . . [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:25 AM Flag
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This. I make my coffee first thing each morning, nobody has ever commented on it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:37 AM Flag
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Taking bottled water when you are told not to? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:38 AM Flag
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I actually used to work in an office where they kept a fridge full of drinks "just for clients" and, hell yeah, people drank it! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:36 AM Flag
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Probably everyone in my office has the same first thing in the morning routine- put down bag, turn on computer, make cup of coffee, chat for 3 minutes with another coworker, and then start day. Takes about 6 minutes. Nobody has ever griped about me taking a second to remove my coat, turn on my computer, or press "Brew" on the k-cup machine prior to starting the day's work. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:37 AM Flag
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I posted above, I'm a doctor and I make a cup of joe when I arrive at work even if a patient is waiting. It takes 4 minutes and it relaxes me before jumping into my usually quite stressful day. It's completely normal. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:28 AM Flag
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SERIOUSLY. READ THIS POST AGAIN. TO YOURSELF. OUT LOUD. A POT OF COFFEE BREAKS DOWN TO LIKE .50 CENTS A CUP. WHAT IS A BOTTLE OF WATER BOUGHT BY THE CASE? $2.00 A BOTTLE? SHE CARES FOR AND ENSURES THE SAFETY OF OYUR CHILDREN EVERY DAY AND YOU ARE GRIPING ABOUT WATER AND COFFEE? I OFFER THESE TO MY EXTERMINATOR WHEN HE MAKES HIS QUARTERLY VISITS AND WE GET THE FREE MAINTENANCE TO ENSURE NO BUGS!!! YOU SOUND AWFUL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:34 AM Flag
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this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:35 AM Flag
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Hi nanny! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:51 AM Flag
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Hi nanny! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:53 AM Flag
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First thing I do when I get to work is make a cup of coffee, and I'm a doctor so sometimes a patient arrived early and is waiting for me. Does that mean I forego my 4 minutes of peace with my sips of coffee before starting my day? No. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:24 AM Flag
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Do you take things an employer tells you not to? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:37 AM Flag
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My employer doesn't leave out k-cups and a k-cup machine in the staff lounge and tell us they are just for him and not for anyone else. If he did, honestly, we'd probably drink them anyways every now and then, because that's just rude. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:32 AM Flag
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This. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:01 AM Flag
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but the family doesn't drink the water. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:07 AM Flag
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Wow. You're proof why doctors are always late and are legitimizing patient complaints. If i am in a client meeting and they show up early, I go in early!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:52 AM Flag
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Yes, my 4 minute cup of coffee is what is the problem with the medical profession, I agree. I shouldn't even be allowed to take a shit, because god dammit, you have a MEETING! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:53 AM Flag
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Do you have 40 client meetings a day, with almost half of them showing up late and still expecting to be seen despite the fact that their brief meeting window has come and gone? Do clients routinely tell you they want to meet you to discuss a simple matter (X) and then once they come in, tell you they are going to discuss X,Y,Z, and Q? This is the problem with doctors getting backlogged. Not a fucking cup of coffee when they walk in the door. Signed, another MD. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:07 AM Flag
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You're an awful, awful woman. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:27 AM Flag
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Omg. Here we go again. Why be so cheap?!?!?! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:44 AM Flag
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I'm sure the nanny spends some of her money on your dc. It's a give and take relationship. Don't be so petty. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:37 AM Flag
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And you are letting her near your children?!? Think about the nasty things they are picking up from this nasty nanny. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:49 AM Flag
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Most nannies do bring or buy their own food. We've had 4 nannies with our 2 kids and they always were responsible for their own food and drink. Granted when they cooked for the kids, they were welcome to that food too. But the general rule in NYC is that the nannies provide their own food. And she knows that [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:49 AM Flag
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Disagree. I always had an open fridge policy and I don't know anyone that doesn't. I had nannies that preferred to bring their own food (and one that seemed not to eat at all) but they were always still welcome to whatever we had. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:44 AM Flag
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This. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:02 AM Flag
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Were you explicit about that when you hired them? We have had 3 nannies over 10 years and the first 2 brought their own and this one doesn't. It was never something discussed with any of them [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:45 AM Flag
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I didn't force them to do this. They wanted to bring their own food. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:05 AM Flag
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Stop buying bottled water and I don't understand why nannies need petty cash. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:39 AM Flag
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For the unexpected cab ride with the kids, fresh direct tip, etc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:43 AM Flag
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If you can afford for nanny to take cabs you don't need to worry about bottled water. Stop buying it and leave tip money only [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:52 AM Flag
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Good point. Stow away your bottled water under your bed or whatever and only offer her $20 a week in petty cash. Was it discussed before hand that petty cash was meant for her to buy her own snacks with or was it discussed that it should be used for DC stuff? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:47 AM Flag
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It was discussed. OP shouldnt have to hide so nanny wont steal. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:01 AM Flag
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LOL, now you've leapt from "insubordination" to "stealing"? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:53 AM Flag
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If you take someone else's stuff when you are told not to, what do you call it? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:56 AM Flag
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Exactly. If the kids need anything just full up a supply cup or a water bottle from the tap [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:05 AM Flag
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She's taking too much. I just don't like the character that goes with that. Too presumptuous and lazy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:52 AM Flag
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A family is not a big company. Analogy is irrelevant. Families don't have to offer family leave. Even the government recognizes that a big employer must provide things a small employer does not. Those attacking OP are responding emotionally, not analytically or logically. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:55 AM Flag
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It's actually the people defending the OP that are making the (bad) analogies to working in a company. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:49 AM Flag
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+1000. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:02 AM Flag
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I dare some of you ladies to be a nanny for two months. These complaint post would stop immediately. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:57 AM Flag
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I dare nannies to get an education and a job that most here have. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:02 AM Flag
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Then who will take care of our kids? Lady, it takes ALL kinds to make this city go round..... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:56 AM Flag
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I have an education, thank you very much. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:58 AM Flag
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I dare you to be thoughtful of other people [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:06 AM Flag
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Don't worry, OP. Sounds to me like you are and many of those responding are likely nannies. I love our nanny and am happy to give her much of what is ours, but also appreciate that she would never enter our home with this sense of entitlement. We work hard and everything we buy here costs 4x what it costs elsewhere. She is choosing to have your coffee while you are paying her rather than picking up a cup on her own time on her walk to you. At 3 p.m.? Normal. First thing when she arrives? Not. And water bottles here cost $2.50/piece +. I don't think this is lost on her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:07 AM Flag
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$2.50/piece water? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:09 AM Flag
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this, pack maybe? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:09 AM Flag
[ - ] Wine vs. vodka. Who will win? 20 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:13 AM Flag
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Wine [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:16 AM Flag
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Just came back from Sanoma, so wine [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:17 AM Flag
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Would you be writing about Sonoma county, CA? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:53 AM Flag
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its rose in my apartment tonite! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:17 AM Flag
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vodka [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:18 AM Flag
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Tequila ftw! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:08 AM Flag
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Depends what the race is. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:19 AM Flag
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Vodka with lime...yummmmmm. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:19 AM Flag
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Wine [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:20 AM Flag
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Equal parts white wine and seltzer. Splash of St Germaine. Yum. That's what I'm drinking right now. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:24 AM Flag
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Vodka, Martinis. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:13 AM Flag
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This, blue cheese stuffed olive. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:27 AM Flag
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THIS [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:27 AM Flag
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gin [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:29 AM Flag
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So this [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:27 AM Flag
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Wine, but either one is fine really [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:31 AM Flag
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Wine, wine, wine. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:37 AM Flag
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Love, love, love! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:36 AM Flag
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a good German beer [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:37 AM Flag
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Vodka. Errryday. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:07 AM Flag
[ - ] A well dressed man wearing a wedding ring came up to my teenage daughter and hit on her, right in front of me, today. Then he propositioned a "mother, daughter special". 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:08 AM Flag
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So fake. Is this what we've come to around here? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:19 AM Flag
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Must be a porno plot [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:12 AM Flag
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Fake? Anybody who has lived a day in the life of a woman has heard a skeevy proposition or two. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:22 AM Flag
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this. btdt. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:24 AM Flag
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please stop crying fake at every. single. post. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:23 AM Flag
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Ew. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:10 AM Flag
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I remember being a pretty high school student in Manhattan. I had my fair share of weird men who could be my father do creepy things like this. It's funny cause you never expect the ones who look like businessmen to pull this crap! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:23 AM Flag
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No way you have a teenage daughter. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:15 AM Flag
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? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:16 AM Flag
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How old are you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:17 AM Flag
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37 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:17 AM Flag
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Oh [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:26 AM Flag
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It happened to me and my mom many times, when I was a teenager. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:30 AM Flag
[ - ] It is in the mid-80s here (near Boston) and I am baking a peach/blueberry pie because I donated one to a work charity auction and the agreed-upon delivery date is tomorrow. Not only the oven heat, but you have to boil water to get the skins off of the peaches...I am SO HOT. The woman who bought it had better find it DELICIOUS. 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:08 AM Flag
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Oh, make me one too! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:04 AM Flag
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oh, come on, I just did this... 3 minutes to boiling and then 40 seconds blanching, then go stand under a fan while they cool [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:15 AM Flag
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mmm sounds good [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:21 AM Flag
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Just set your air conditioning system to a lower temperature than the mid-80's. Problem solved. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:12 AM Flag
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wow, you should really unpack your privilege. where do you get off assuming everyone has air conditioning? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:32 AM Flag
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People in America have air conditioning. When I was in Phoenix, even ratty-looking chewed-up old Airstream trailers had aircon units sticking out of their windows. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:24 AM Flag
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+1 the poor are more likely to have air conditioning. The upper classes in the beach houses enjoy the warm breeze [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:48 AM Flag
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Gross. Is tour kitchen clean? Is tour hair in a bun? Your baking for third parties you need minimum sanitary thresholds [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:07 AM Flag
[ - ] S/o. Do you think that young looking and attractive people have better fertility? Do old-looking and ugly people have worse fertility? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:08 AM Flag
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I think rich people have better fertility. How's that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:20 AM Flag
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No [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:13 AM Flag
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I think Republicans have better fertility. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:25 AM Flag
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Christians have better fertility because they get God's help. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:25 AM Flag
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^He makes sure the sperms go all the way. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:26 AM Flag
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Pro life people have better fertility [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:33 AM Flag
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In my experience, no. I know several overweight, average looking women with likewise husbands who have gotten pregnant on the first try with 3-4 kids. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:41 AM Flag
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I have often wondered if things like symmetrical features and youthful appearance are markers of being fertile since those are the reasons men are attracted to women that look like that. Who knows. Not like money is a sign of male fertility! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:54 AM Flag
[ - ] I am a terrible cook, but am trying to learn. I read about marinating stew meat in coffee, so I made a couple of cups and poured them over the raw meat in a glass bowl, then put in the fridge overnight. I just read that you shouldn't pour hot coffee over the meat because it will start to cook it. When I took the meat out of the bowl some of it was a little brown, but I'm not sure if it was from the coffee or being cooked. If I simmer it for a few hours and make sure it reaches the proper temp, do you think it'll be ok? Like I said, I'm an idiot in the kitchen. Thanks! 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:08 AM Flag
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Just cook it thoroughly. It'll be fine. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:13 AM Flag
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+1. Food is very forgiving, and immune systems are stronger than you think. Cook it at a low temp for a long time and you will be fine. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:04 AM Flag
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I would that if it were I. It has been refrigerated - no doubt it was the coffee that made it brown. Bon appetit [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:04 AM Flag
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probably safe but sounds like it will taste gross. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:17 AM Flag
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agreed [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:22 AM Flag
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follow recipes - I don't think you did anything bad, but the best way to learn is to follow recipes UNTIL you understand the basics. And take a knife skills class because chopping vegetables quickly and correctly makes cooking pleasant and not a chore. (hint - 8-10" knife, not a paring knife!) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:08 AM Flag
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OMG you shouldn't be cooking. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:20 AM Flag
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What made you think that coffee was the best thing to marinate the meat? not trolling just asking. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:24 AM Flag
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I've heard that it adds a good flavor, never done it though. I shall to the google. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:28 AM Flag
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Are you having this for dinner? That would make me stay up all night! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:34 AM Flag
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You should try HelloFresh. They give you the ingredients and the recipes. Great way to learn cooking. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:38 AM Flag
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OP here - I probably shouldn't be in the kitchen, but I've got to try. I have a kid to feed. And Google 'coffee as a marinade for tough meat' - it's not that freaky of an idea. And yes, I definitely need a knife skills class, because it is generally a chore to me. Thanks to most of you for being so nice. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:29 AM Flag
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knowing how to cook is freedom - you're doing a good thing. Don't be hard on yourself. Once you learn a few basics, you can do anything. Also - I'm a fairly decent cook, but every once in a while something just doesn't turn out. It's depressing but don't take it personally. It just happens. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:53 AM Flag
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