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[ - ] What are some things I can do to increase my attractiveness to men? Turning 30 soon and Manhattan is such a fight for women. I am already very skinny so weight is not an issue. Could use any tips. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:40 PM Flag
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Move to an area of USA where the odds are in your favor. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:42 PM Flag
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That would be alaska [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:47 PM Flag
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Not give a rats ass. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:45 PM Flag
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Wear pheromones that attract men. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:46 PM Flag
[ - ] Spin off, what do yiu think of of the woman below who plans to have sex with the husband of a sick woman? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:37 PM Flag
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I don't judge. I thought she was considering not planning [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:38 PM Flag
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not my business, does not bother me [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:39 PM Flag
[ - ] For all the snarky remarks about SAHMS who work out - I was one a few years ago. I did it to relieve the stress of a marriage heading south. Then I got a job and started running at 6am while I was initiating the divorce. I am still running at 6am because between work and being primary caregiver, that is the only me time there is in addition to relieving stress. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:34 PM Flag
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Who watches your kid while you run at 6 am? or are they older? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:41 PM Flag
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They are toddlers but they are asleep. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:44 PM Flag
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Do you have a treadmill? Are you leaving your house? I'm so confused. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:45 PM Flag
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Yes I run outside. But they are asleep. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:47 PM Flag
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You dont owe anybody an explanation of what you do with YOUR time. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:43 PM Flag
[ - ] Spin off... 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:33 PM Flag
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To the best of your knowledge, does your DH still have naked photos of his past girlfriend or girlfriends? Don't know how to deal with this [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:33 PM Flag
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No. No one I does has naked photos of anyone. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:34 PM Flag
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He does not. But to be honest, it doesn't matter to me what he masturbates to. Nbd [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:35 PM Flag
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Mine does :( [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:35 PM Flag
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,! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:37 PM Flag
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no, i don't think he ever had any [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:38 PM Flag
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I wonder if my ex-bfs still have pics of me. Really, it was only one ex bf. But still, I wonder. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:44 PM Flag
[ - ] Have interview at Saint Ann's for DS entering K. What to expect from anyone who has been through the process? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
NY Schools 09.25.16, 08:32 PM Flag
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Uh Lena Dunham went there and often talks about it ! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:37 PM Flag
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Wow she's so fucked up though [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:47 PM Flag
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Is this a parochial school? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:45 PM Flag
[ - ] I am divorced and have no time for a boyfriend and honestly don't really want one until my kids are older. However, I do want a lover. My old boyfriend who has been in contact with me for years has told me he wants to be this person, and yes he is married. He says he and wife do not have sex due to her Crohn's disease, they basically are a roommate situation but he will not leave her due to their 3 children. Should I even consider this? I do not want to break up his marriage. I only see this as an occasional thing for us both to satisfy out natural desires. We totally trust each other. Am I nuts to even consider? 23 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:27 PM Flag
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This made me sad for the wife. And the husband. Sounds like a safe situation for you, but it's sad all around. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:30 PM Flag
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Yes, you are nuts to consider. How would the wife feel if she were to find out? Unless she contacts you and asks you to fulfill her husband's sexual needs because she cannot, then go find an unmarried guy to fuck. There are one or two out there. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:31 PM Flag
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I don't want some random guy. I've known this person for 30 years and I totally trust him. He says his wife is not sick- penetration is just painful and/or she just doesn't want him. They haven't had intercourse in over a year. Whenever they do, she says hurry up it hurts. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:38 PM Flag
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Give the wife a call. Ask her if she's ok with your proposed arrangement. Let us know what she says. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:44 PM Flag
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if all you want is sex, do it....don't do it if you want more from him than that [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:32 PM Flag
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I do not want anything more than friends with occasional benefits, maybe once a month? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:39 PM Flag
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No [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:32 PM Flag
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You should not consider. What is wrong with you that you have to ask! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:33 PM Flag
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Imagine being the sick wife. This is horrible! I would not do that to another woman. There are PLENTY of men who just want a regular lover and I have two friends who have this arrangement with someone or multiple men. You're a jerk to consider it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:33 PM Flag
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What is your friends arrangement? Male or female? Are they married? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:39 PM Flag
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No just don't want or expect more. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:35 PM Flag
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OMG. Just go to a bar and get a hook up. Don't ruin this woman. Her dh sounds like a dirt bag. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:35 PM Flag
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You sound like a selfish person. You're going to screw the husband of a sick woman who has three children!? You and the guy are assholes. It's extremely easy to find a SINGLE man in NYC to fuck on the regular. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:36 PM Flag
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I'm not in NYC and I don't want stranger sex! This is a person who is in my life For the long haul [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:43 PM Flag
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Wow. What you want. Too bad so sad. You sound like a 2yo. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:46 PM Flag
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you know that this happens ALL the time? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:47 PM Flag
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Is there anyway to verify with the wife? Maybe an email to establish boundaries. I see nothing wrong with this as long as all parties are in the somewhat know. If the wife isn't open to this, then no you don't want to be the OW. It will eventually work itself out with him finally getting fed up and leaving. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:39 PM Flag
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Say it's totally fine if you can speak with his wife and get her clearance. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:43 PM Flag
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She will never do that. She is very religious and conservative [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:44 PM Flag
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You're a troll. Please go away. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:47 PM Flag
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Then you have your answer. What you are proposing would deeply offend a sick woman who is the wife of the guy you want to have sex with. Come on, you know the answer to this. Her rights as a wife supersede your tingly parts. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:47 PM Flag
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This "we're really just roommates" situation is a classic would-be cheater lie. I actually know someone who was the OW and the guy told her the exact. same. thing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:44 PM Flag
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Op- I'm not surprised. I have found out most men are cheaters. This is not only man to ask or proposition, but he seems pretty safe. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:45 PM Flag
[ - ] Spanish company wants to rent our vacation home for 6 months (signed lease) for their employee who is here on work visa. What is the best way to get payment from them? Obviously not mailing a check. Should I give them my bank account info so they can wire it in? PayPal? I do not believe this is a scam but I want to be cautious. 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:22 PM Flag
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I do not trust spaniards [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:25 PM Flag
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I do not trust spaniards [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:25 PM Flag
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Scratch a Spaniard, find a Moor! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:25 PM Flag
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PayPal or wire transfer info should be completely safe. None of your actual account information is exposed to them and it has security layers/encryption. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:26 PM Flag
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So when they ask how to pay, how do I give them wire transfer info without giving them my account number? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:28 PM Flag
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I take wire transfers all the time its safest way, you give them the info you need, they cannot withdraw money with that information [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:35 PM Flag
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too much missing info: wire transfer is usually how I deal with Spanish Vendors and Customers - but how do you know this company? Do they have a U.S. presence? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:27 PM Flag
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O.K. I am out - have a good day [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:35 PM Flag
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would probably setup a separate checking account at the place i usually bank - open it with a $100 and use that - then have them wire the money - make sure there is no line of credit on your account [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:29 PM Flag
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Call your bank to see how to do this safely. I thought you do need account # to do transfer. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:36 PM Flag
[ - ] Anyone remember me? I'm the one with the Brazilian Victoria's Secret model type neighbor who was hot on the trail of DH for a while. She was living with her son with a divorced guy in town who obviously wouldn't marry her, and she gave off the vibe to me like she was searching for a new situation. I held her off for a while and eventually she seemed to disappear. I have an update. DH and I were having lunch and drinks today and she found us in the restaurant - complete with her new date, her son's "flying instructor" who looked about 5 inches shorter than she is and who seemed very eager to introduce himself to us and make it known that they were "together." I guess she found the new situation. 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:07 PM Flag
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is she still your neighbor [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:12 PM Flag
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No, she moved to the next town - got an apartment. For some reason she also changed jobs, which was more mysterious. She worked at the offices of an orthodontist where my dd was getting her braces, so it was kind of awkward because sometimes I would have to run into her with no escape. Like she would come out to the waiting room and ask to make plans with me in front of everyone. Sort of awkward. I had not seen her for the last year (maybe 3 appointments) and just figured we were showing up on days she wasn't there. No harm no foul. But I guess she's no longer working there now for some reason. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:28 PM Flag
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Thank u for the update [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:14 PM Flag
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Always good to hear how things are playing out. MY DH is very financially succesful and many models are gunning for him too [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:14 PM Flag
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eyeroll [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:16 PM Flag
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You also have this problem? The young model types are shameless. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:18 PM Flag
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+1 people might see it as a humble brag, but it's a real thing. You would be naive to think otherwise. If you have nothing else going on except for your body and looks - what is the best use of those assets while they last? I can't blame them, but it's not like I'm taking my eye off my husband, either. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:31 PM Flag
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This. They use every trick in the book to steal DH. Be vigillant!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:32 PM Flag
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Plus one [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:32 PM Flag
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Thanks for the update! I wish more people did this [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:18 PM Flag
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Me 2! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:21 PM Flag
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Sounds like your life is interesting to say the least. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:38 PM Flag
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OP. Pretty boring actually. It was just a weird situation going on there for a little while with this younger woman trying to be my best friend out of the blue. I was really uncomfortable there for a while and had even asked UB for advice on how to avoid her without being openly confrontational. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:45 PM Flag
[ - ] I'm very attractive & successful. Years ago I liked this guy & I don't recall why but it went no where. Last night I found out he married this very pretty but dumb girl who didn't go to college. He was such a catch. When I heard I felt like why didn't he want me? Because she is really pretty in a hot girl way? 19 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:05 PM Flag
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I think it has somehthing to do with your simultaneous narcissism and insecurity. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:06 PM Flag
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this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:10 PM Flag
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I'm not a narcissist for thinking this. I may be insecure . I would never say any of this IRL. But this girl didn't even have a job in her 20s & he was a professional. She was such an unlikely match. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:12 PM Flag
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Not unlikely at all. Many men marry women who make them feel appreciated and do not challenge them do not argue with them. Do not belittle them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:19 PM Flag
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THIS. Every mans dream. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:39 PM Flag
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And she made him feel like a million bucks. Because it's not about you. It's how you make him feel when he's with you. That girl is not as dumb as you would like to paint her [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:20 PM Flag
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This. So this. Wish i could upvote this thread!!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:21 PM Flag
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lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:25 PM Flag
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NP you should have pursued him more aggressively. Never rely on TT guys to take the initiative. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:15 PM Flag
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This. So this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:15 PM Flag
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+one [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:16 PM Flag
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Maybe you and he weren't compatible? Why does everyone think it's just looks [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:16 PM Flag
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Maybe. She was as dumb as a rock. I don't get it. But a sweet girl. I was too. I would never say this in real life. I just don't get what he saw in her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:18 PM Flag
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Snarky rarely gets them .. Be the opposite of snarky [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:19 PM Flag
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Because she has what he was looking for, pretty but dumb. Not something to be envious of. Actually, it should be a relief. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:24 PM Flag
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Some guys prefer simple, non-challenging women. One of my guy friends is crazy smart and always dates ditzes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:27 PM Flag
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This. Especially for second wives. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:29 PM Flag
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Men want to have children with a very smart woman, for genetic reasons. But actually be married to a non stressful easygoing one. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:29 PM Flag
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Of course!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:29 PM Flag
[ - ] If Trump wins all the states he is leading in today--including Florida, Ohio and North Carolina--he will be at 265 and Clinton at 273. If Trump then flips Colorado ( 9 electoral votes), he will win the election: 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 07:57 PM Flag
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^^^ You can play with this map by clicking on each state to change its color. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 07:58 PM Flag
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Good luck with that. Trolls can participate in lots of polls, but they can't vote. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:01 PM Flag
[ - ] http://gothamist.com/2016/09/25/trump_invites_then_disinvites_genni.php So Trump thinks it's fun to use and discard women for his own purpose. Who's the real loser here? 17 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 07:49 PM Flag
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He is a moron. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:01 PM Flag
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Gennifer who gets no attention. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:06 PM Flag
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By responding, she let herself get used. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:08 PM Flag
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Maybe she's vulnerable. Guys prey on types like that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:38 PM Flag
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She's old. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:43 PM Flag
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"We never issued a formal invitation" to Flowers, says the campaign. Watch them back down on The Wall if he's elected. "The wall was meant to be metaphorical!" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:13 PM Flag
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I don't think he would do anything if elected. I do think he would let Pence run the show, which is equally scary. As for everything else, he'll just blame the congress he "inherited from Obama" for not letting him get anything done. I think that's more likely than a war, but the very fact that he is so unpredictable to me and that his followers absolutely love the idea of going to war is very concerning. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:33 PM Flag
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Nope. Am voting for Trump to avoid war, Hillary destroyed Libya and started other wars, she is a warmonger. Give peace a chance defeat Hillary. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:34 PM Flag
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Our brave soldiers don't want to die for something stupid, That is why our soldiers support Trump. Support our troops. Giv them peace. Vote Trump. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:35 PM Flag
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And ... more propaganda. You sound incredibly fake when you drop these quotes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:40 PM Flag
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Donald "I'm going to bomb the shit out of them" Trump ... so peaceful [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:40 PM Flag
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He didn't say that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:42 PM Flag
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You know you don't sound like a real American when you say these things, right? You might make an effort to sounds, you know, a little more regular and back off of the statements that are a little too poster-worthy [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:39 PM Flag
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The media makes shit up about him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:37 PM Flag
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You are acting like he hasn't been around in American society for the last 40 years. We all know who he is. We knew who he was before he decided to run for president. He is an American joke. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:41 PM Flag
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Still voting for him [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:37 PM Flag
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No you're not. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:41 PM Flag
[ - ] So jealous. A friend who works at the hedge fund, D.E. Shaw, just bought an amazing condo at the Mandarin Oriental in Columbus Circle. Early 30's and made around $7 million last year. 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 07:47 PM Flag
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the one on 75 FL? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 07:50 PM Flag
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I'm jealous too! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 07:58 PM Flag
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I'm usually happy for my friends. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 07:58 PM Flag
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NP Me too but i'm jealous of OP's friend, too! I am sure that apt is stunning. Apt envy over here [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:05 PM Flag
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She could get cancer next year. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:12 PM Flag
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She? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:14 PM Flag
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I hear you. Plenty of $$$$ in Manhattan now [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:17 PM Flag
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Is your friend a man or woman? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:38 PM Flag
[ - ] We're relocating for DH's job. I'll transfer offices but keep my role. What are your tips? Kids are elementary age. Should we move quickly and rent? I'd like to buy a house and settle in - but that will take longer. And we're unfamiliar with the area. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 07:45 PM Flag
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Of course rent if you are not familiar to area [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 07:50 PM Flag
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You can rent and keep stuff in storage (extra stuff) until you hunt out the neighborhood best for you and schools etc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 07:57 PM Flag
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Definitely rent first. It takes awhile to get to know an area. Everyone I know in our town who relocated and bought simultaneously seems to regret it somewhat [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:35 PM Flag
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why would you buy? you just said you don't know the area [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:42 PM Flag
[ - ] Can someone please explain what teaching to a test means in public school? I noticed my Dd now in 3rd grade is taking all these assessment tests and doing very average, even though her work shows she does very very well. Her scores average 75 but her work is 90-95% I'm not sure what this means? She can't take tests? I'm having a conference with her teacher on Thursday to figure it out. I'm very concerned. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 07:45 PM Flag
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That phrase is a silly political tool. Lets talk about your dd. her teacher might be an easy grader. Her teacher might really like dd and cut her slack in grading because she knows your dd knows the material. I wouldn't go straight to dd can't take tests. I suspect it's a little on both ends. Meaning teacher is easy and dd isn't used to the format of the test and having to show her work a particular way. Moving forward: 3rd grade score means nothing. You have two choices. Leave it be and see what happens OR go online and see what answers get what points and teach your dd the "tricks". [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 07:57 PM Flag
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What work? They have been in school for two weeks [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:13 PM Flag
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one is how she fares on state tests and the other is her classwork. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.25.16, 08:31 PM Flag
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