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[ - ] Anyone ever successfully repair their marriage after infidelity? I'm wondering if it's worth the therapy or I should cut my losses. 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:22 AM Flag
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I'm the poster from this morning. Just found out and we have three young kids so I feel like I owe it to them to try [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:23 AM Flag
[ - ] Rick Santorum just endorsed Donald Trump. After all the talk, the GOP is finally getting behind Donald. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:21 AM Flag
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What choic do they have? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:22 AM Flag
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Rick is a religious nut who doesn't believe women should be leaders. Of course he backs the man. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:23 AM Flag
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USA is a country of religious nuts. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:25 AM Flag
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It's always been. Religious refugees. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:26 AM Flag
[ - ] Mexico has begun the process of exhuming at least 118 bodies from a mass-grave of murder victims near the town of Cuautla, Morelos, not all that far south of Mexico City itself. These corpses are reported to contain a number of gunshot injuries, even though firearms are VERY tightly-regulated in Mexico. Gun-control advocate moms - how is this possible? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:14 AM Flag
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Anything goes down there [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:15 AM Flag
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Do you think the cartel gives a fuck about the government? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:16 AM Flag
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Cartels just ask how much the gov cost, and buys it. That's about it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:23 AM Flag
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LMAO [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:17 AM Flag
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Not regulated at all is my guess [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:19 AM Flag
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I think OP is an idiot the issue is not guns and gun control the issue is why is Hilly inviting so many Mexicans to move to America when they have already screwed up their own country [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:19 AM Flag
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Let's take our cues from Mexican gangsters! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:23 AM Flag
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Mexico is a failed state. The end. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:24 AM Flag
[ - ] Anyone on with an au pair? What do you get them for their birthday? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:09 AM Flag
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A book she wanted one year. Bonus another. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:09 AM Flag
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$500 cash and Lush body products. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:11 AM Flag
[ - ] Is the person with "zero empathy" from Sunday on? I have some questions. 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:08 AM Flag
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are you talking about self proclaimed sociopath and former prostitute mom who lives in California with her 2 sons? I haven't seen her posts in a awhile, but she was interesting. Watching this [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:11 AM Flag
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Wow, no. She didn't go in that kind of detail. She said she was married with two children though. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:14 AM Flag
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Can you I've the summary of the post you are talking about or the link? The thread j remember talked about how she lived in California with her DH and 2 sons who didn't know she used to be a prostitute. They just think she had some family money and was a party girl after college before getting married. It was an interesting thread. She seemed very self aware and honest [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:21 AM Flag
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OMG [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:24 AM Flag
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Watching this. I find psychopaths fascinating [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:12 AM Flag
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OP: Do you read Sociopathworld? I'm empathic. Too emotional. Maybe that's why I find sociopaths fascinating. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:15 AM Flag
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Haven't read it, but I'm interested in hearing your thoughts on it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:20 AM Flag
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Ugh. No. Their brains aren't normal. Nothing to "study". They can't be fixed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:25 AM Flag
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It's a website run by a law professor sociopath. She also wrote a book. http://www.sociopathworld.com Reading it and contemplating it, I have come to see that empathy is important, but lacking it doesn't necessarily spell doom for a person. I worry about my df's son. He seems to be a sociopath and it gives me comfort that someone can be so without being criminal or too malevolent. Self-serving, but capable of acts of good. Capable of love even. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:25 AM Flag
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OMG. 26 year old SAHM wannabe. Jusf stop. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:24 AM Flag
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Why? They aren't normal and are the majority of murderers. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:24 AM Flag
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Sociopaths don't admit it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:23 AM Flag
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I have very little empathy mostly because whiny people annoy the shit out of me and I'm not interested in delving into their little issues and problems. Not sure this make a me a "sociopath” and I'm certainly not a psychopath. The benchmark on UB for these "diagnoses" is very low. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:23 AM Flag
[ - ] My DS is turning 9 and says he feels hair on his upper lip. Is this crazy early ? He is blonde so I don't see much. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:04 AM Flag
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Not really. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:12 AM Flag
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Thanks!! I was really nervous about it . [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:12 AM Flag
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I think my dd is starting puberty and she is 9. :( [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:19 AM Flag
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So is it too early? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:20 AM Flag
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No, they say it can happen from 9 on. I didn't start puberty until 12. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:23 AM Flag
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Apparently not for them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:23 AM Flag
[ - ] Anyone here live in/near Princeton? We're considering a move in a few years and it meets most reqs for us - close to family, not really a NYC suburb, university town. What's it like? Are public pools and services good? Socially, we're laid back, not strivers. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:03 AM Flag
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Public schools are some of the best schools in NJ. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:04 AM Flag
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What about pools/parks/summer camps, that sort of stuff? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:05 AM Flag
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OR and I don't live there, my cousin does. I know her kids do summer swim team but outside of that I don't know. They have a really nice downtown area, cute restaurants and an independent move theater. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:06 AM Flag
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Plethora of all of those things. Hard to figure out which camp to send them to there are so many. Very, very education/enrichment focused here. Can be competitive for the kids. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:12 AM Flag
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Nice, new community pool plus a couple private ones. Lots of parks, playgrounds, preserved open spaces for hiking, picnics, etc. Like living in the country side with a nice little downtown and rt1 for big box stores. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:13 AM Flag
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It's very elderly. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:12 AM Flag
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We want to move there too! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:20 AM Flag
[ - ] Confession: I don't ever put my cell phone in airplane mode when the flight attendant announces for people to put their phones in airplane mode. I figure if it were actually important they would check people's phones not allow them in the first place. I keep my phone on during liftoff so I can listen to pandora as I look out the window and admire nature. Then once we pass the clouds there's no more service anyway, so then I put it in airplane mode. 25 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:00 AM Flag
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I believe that request is BS! They wouldn't allow us to have our phones if it were a big deal to begin with. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:01 AM Flag
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They basically look at our naked bodies to see if we have a bomb through our ass... but they trust us with "airplane mode"? Give me a break! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:02 AM Flag
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op: exactly. If it were actually a risk, the risk would be explained. I call BS. cell phones in no way harm their equipment or detection. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:04 AM Flag
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Imagine! All Bin Laden had to do is to use his freaking phone? Talk about over shooting. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:05 AM Flag
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Shush. That's probably next. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:15 AM Flag
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What? Didn't Obama kill Osama? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:24 AM Flag
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It's your funeral. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:03 AM Flag
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Melodramatic much? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:04 AM Flag
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Lol. There is no risk to cell phone usage in an airplane [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:05 AM Flag
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Really? I am in medical field and we don't allow them because they interfere with our equipment. Assumed the same in planes. Why do they tell you to turn them off if not that? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:08 AM Flag
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*^* and I don't mean every time but yes there is a risk . Why take a risk? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:10 AM Flag
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This is so dramatic, it makes me want to set myself on fire. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:25 AM Flag
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You're only hurting yourself, the phone continuously looks for a signal and it drains the battery much faster. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:03 AM Flag
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*clutches pearls [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:04 AM Flag
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And then your battery is dead? When you land? Do you not consider that a bad thing? Must be nice to never have to leave the house princess. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:07 AM Flag
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It's not the end of the world to have to charge your phone. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:21 AM Flag
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op: explain. I'm on the 4g network. While I'm sitting on the plane waiting for take off my phone is no more or less able to find signal than when I'm inside the airport. Then when we take off its about 5 minutes before the signal goes blank. So maybe 5 minutes of intense battery usage while I get an awesome soundtrack to go with the liftoff. I'll take it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:07 AM Flag
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Sorry I misread your post, I thought you never put it in airplane more. No you're fine with that, it's all a conspiracy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:09 AM Flag
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Wouldn't the roaming cost be insane? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:07 AM Flag
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Me too. Fuck them [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:03 AM Flag
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Yeah. Who cares if the plane crashes....you're going to stick it to the man! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:24 AM Flag
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I actually don't recall hearing this on fights lately. I'm probably not listening though. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:07 AM Flag
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This. these bitches are too afraid to eat carbs but they will bring down a plane because they are too arrogant to listen to a stewardess. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:19 AM Flag
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Lol. From the article above: "We can find no instance in which electromagnetic interference from a portable electronic device brought down a commercial plane or was a contributing factor in an accident." [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:24 AM Flag
[ - ] I come home around 8 from work, DH already ate so I make myself dinner. While my dinner is almost ready he says he wants to talk about something so I ask him what is it, etc. He says just come sit down and I say I can't while cooking. He is like okay, just let's talk after you eat. Okay. I eat and come into the bedroom - He is in the office behind closed doors presumably studying so I decide not to bother him, he will come to me when ready. He comes in super pissed off that I didn't come talk to him after I was done eating. Okay, I thought I was being considerate but fine. What do you think of this situation? 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 12:58 AM Flag
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Shit like this happens all the time with me and DH. When our marriage is rocky, it bothers me and I get into it. But right now, things are good, and we're not both consistently reading the worst into things. Just try to let it go. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:00 AM Flag
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Do you think I should go in and apologize or just leave him alone? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:03 AM Flag
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Yes. Apologize. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:08 AM Flag
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He's obviously already upset about something, so he's just sensitive [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:01 AM Flag
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And just a few days ago he was pissed off at me for annoying him while he is studying because I was bored. I never know what is right anymore... Always second guessing my every move and thought. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:02 AM Flag
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Hmm, so it's a larger issue. Send like communication is off [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:04 AM Flag
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"Studying" - is he a doctor by any chance? I posted above. This is so my DH. It always turns out he is stressed about other things when he gets like this. I'm finally figuring him out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:08 AM Flag
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this sounds tiring [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:04 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:12 AM Flag
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Scheduling to talk about something... sounds like work. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:04 AM Flag
[ - ] Sometimes I lost snarky things on UB to be funny. Then when someone says "why are you being mean?" I feel bad and stop 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 12:58 AM Flag
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it happens, at least you stop and don't continue on [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:03 AM Flag
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It's not funny [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:16 AM Flag
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Try to think about if you would still say it if it was not anonymous [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:18 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:22 AM Flag
[ - ] When a new apartment building is built, then filled, how do they deal with the school zoning issue? Will that building push existing buildings out of the zone and get priority if closer to the school? What if the zoned school already at capacity? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 12:55 AM Flag
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it's prob at the same 'level' as all the existing bldgs. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:08 AM Flag
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Spots given out within zone based on lottery. Then Wait list and assigned next zone that has space. If long waits lists for years, they eventually redone but maybe every 10 years or so unless area is really growing and big problem. UES was rezoned twice 5 and 7 years ago. Downotn also rezoned maybe 4 years ago [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:13 AM Flag
[ - ] I helped out with a bar mitzvah in a capacity that normally someone would pay for (think party planning, graphic design, videography, etc). I didn't charge, and I was hoping this could be my gift? 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 12:54 AM Flag
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What? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 12:55 AM Flag
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The boys mom asked me to help out with some aspects of the bar mitzvah that someone would normally charge for. I didn't charge. I'm invited and want to know if I need a gift in addition to helping them out with something that would have cost them otherwise [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 12:57 AM Flag
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Yes, you need to give them something [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:02 AM Flag
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Can it be less than I'd otherwise give? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:07 AM Flag
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Yes, for sure [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:10 AM Flag
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Give a related gift. If you did photography, give a framed photograph. If you did favors, do some sort of extra special favor [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 12:56 AM Flag
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Nice idea, but having a hard time thinking how to implement [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:02 AM Flag
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Don't do shit for your friends. They never appreciate it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 12:58 AM Flag
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They appreciate it! Just thinking about gift [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:01 AM Flag
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That's fine. If she ever makes it an issue, cut her out of your life. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:00 AM Flag
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She won't make an issue at all! Just trying to do the right thing, but on a tight budget. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:04 AM Flag
[ - ] My 5 months old has a few reddish spots on her forehead. My husband took her to the doc today and she was diagnosed with atopic dermatitis. Doc told us to use moisturizer. I was wondering if I can use coconut oil? Also, can you recommend the best moisturizer for babies? TIA! 20 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 12:52 AM Flag
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Whatever you do, stay away from topical steroids [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 12:53 AM Flag
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OP: Doc gave us a prescription in case it gets worse. I would prefer to stay away. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 12:54 AM Flag
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Very mild steroids used short term are ok - 1% hydrocortisone is an extremely mild steroid many many times less strong than some prescription creams. Some pediatricians go overboard with the strength of the steroid. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:03 AM Flag
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Why? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 12:55 AM Flag
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PLEASE google topical steroid withdrawal before using steroids on db. Decide what you think is best for db. I went through this and it was HORRIBLE. Would not want others to suffer as I did. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 12:57 AM Flag
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Can you give more details pls [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 12:58 AM Flag
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You'd have to google it to get the full story but basically your body gets addicted to the steroids and you have to use more and more to keep eczema at bay. Eventually they cause the eczema to worsen to the point where the creams don't work anymore and you have to stop cold turkey. Then you go through withdrawal which is painful and disfiguring. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:00 AM Flag
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And it lasts months or years, depending on how long you used. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:01 AM Flag
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Thank you! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:03 AM Flag
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BTW, do you know the root cause? Was it something in your diet? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:04 AM Flag
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I became allergic to the main ingredient in sunscreens in my 30s, one that is in many many face creams. I didn't know this until I had a patch allergy test waaay after the eczema started. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:06 AM Flag
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Aquaphor. Apply 2-3 times a day and continue for a week even if it looks better. If that doesn't cut it then use 1% hydrocortisone (ointment if you can find it but cream is ok too). With eczema you want to knock it out fast. Don't let it hang around or it's harder to get rid of. Coconut or other food oils are not recommended because when food proteins enter the body through broken skin rather than through the gut like normal it can sensitize the person to become allergic to that food. Just stick with aquaphor. It doesn't have any bad stuff in it - basically just mineral oil. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:02 AM Flag
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OP: Great, thank you! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:08 AM Flag
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This. There is also a brand called "Gentle Naturals" which is kind of a hybrid cream/ointment that works well. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:25 AM Flag
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Are you giving your baby a vitamin d supplement? It can be related. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:04 AM Flag
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OP: I am not. Should I? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:08 AM Flag
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Vanicream or try coconut oil . [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:06 AM Flag
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You should try to identify source, go no soap or all natural, don't shampoo. Use less detergent for washing. Natural fibers like Cotten and linen, beware of polyester, anything very soft and fluffy usually has poly in it. Try Apple park to find her a cotton natural silk lovey. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:08 AM Flag
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OP: Can it be something in my diet? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:12 AM Flag
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id try the coconut oil. just dont get it in her eyes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:21 AM Flag
[ - ] I'm looking for a way to help myself control my anger. I've been checking my husband's phone texts and discovered that my husband's officer manager is sending him pictures of another woman via her phone -- so as not to look suspicious if the messages are from her. I suspect this manager is trying to introduce this woman to my husband. I'm going to work with him tomorrow and want to say something to the manager. Or should I confront my husband. Or both? So many problems..... 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 12:48 AM Flag
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Confront husband. Don't bring issues into the workplace unless you want to be the talk of it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 12:50 AM Flag
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How should I confront him without letting him know that I've been snooping. I know his password. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 12:52 AM Flag
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Admit the snooping. Whatever he is doing is worse. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 12:55 AM Flag
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Send it from him to you. ask him if this is some sort if a joke [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 12:58 AM Flag
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Though I suspect others know about this. Just so despicable. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 12:55 AM Flag
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Wait? You all work at the same place? McDonald's or Burger King ?? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 12:55 AM Flag
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I don't work there. I'm stopping by tomorrow. He owns the business. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:06 AM Flag
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As you can figure out by now, he does not run the business in a professional manner. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:11 AM Flag
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Wtf kind of place is this? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:14 AM Flag
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Modeling agency [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:21 AM Flag
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FAKE [ Reply | More ]
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NOT FAKE [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 01:22 AM Flag
[ - ] When do we hear about MS appeals? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 12:42 AM Flag
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On what grounds do you get to appeal middle school admissions? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.16, 12:47 AM Flag
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No grounds. You just appeal [ Reply | More ]
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"My husband is a big donor to the mayor." [ Reply | More ]
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What are the chances of getting into Salk on appeal? [ Reply | More ]
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Small but still possible [ Reply | More ]
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You are only considered for appeal if others give up their spaces. [ Reply | More ]
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You may not hear anything until September. [ Reply | More ]
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There isn't a date for letting people know? That doesn't sound like DOE [ Reply | More ]
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