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General Topics 11.22.14, 04:45 AM Flag
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a lot [ Reply | More ]
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to make? or break? [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] if women stop being noticed as they age, then how do single/divorced older women date and marry? 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:43 AM Flag
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hard work [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:45 AM Flag
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They are not invisible. They just do not catch the eye of young men who catcall on the street. [ Reply | More ]
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THIS [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:46 AM Flag
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I got noticed a lot when I was 18-26. I still did not get married nor had many dates. Getting noticed and finding a guy to get married to are two different things. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:46 AM Flag
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why didn't you get dates even though guys found you hot? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:46 AM Flag
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I lacked self confidence. I was awkward and shy (even though I was working as a model), I chose bad men,... all really because I had not an ounce of self confidence and didn't really like myself. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:47 AM Flag
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sorry to hear. how did guys meet you and ask you out on dates then later in life? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:52 AM Flag
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I think as you age, how you look takes a second place tbh. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:44 AM Flag
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2nd place to what? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:47 AM Flag
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kids [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:47 AM Flag
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They go to the next age bracket up [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:48 AM Flag
[ - ] s/o At what age does a woman become "invisible"? 17 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:38 AM Flag
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35 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:40 AM Flag
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Not at all. IME, 45-ish [ Reply | More ]
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50 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:41 AM Flag
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47 [ Reply | More ]
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Happened to me 35-36 [ Reply | More ]
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I'm 41 and I don't feel invisible but I notice that men in their 20s no longer look twice. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:43 AM Flag
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This [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:45 AM Flag
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well that is a good thing. Who wants that? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:46 AM Flag
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OR-I'm not lamenting the fact, just observing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:47 AM Flag
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Never, unfortunately [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:44 AM Flag
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I'm 50 and have been noticing it the past year or so. So I'd say late 40s. To poster saying 35, no way. I was at my hottest then! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:44 AM Flag
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NP- I was my hottest when I was in my 20's but lacked self confidence. In my 30's I was alright looking but had a lot more self confidence and that changed everything. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:47 AM Flag
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Same here. I was definitely at my peak around 35-38. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:48 AM Flag
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21 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:44 AM Flag
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In NYC? At 33. That is, without the benefit of 1) a "real" earner gig (non-profit / teacher gig = deferred exploding economic liability - guys are on to this one), 2) family money, 3) non-SUNY / Rutgers-esque schooling, 4) veneers, 5) A David Hidalgo rack (Google: Dr. David Hidalgo). Operating with anything less and you're ready for that weird mullatto guy who delivers your Zappos packages to your cubicle. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:46 AM Flag
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Trolly troll troll. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:49 AM Flag
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Late forties. Best years, looks-wise were 35 - 45. Invisible now, at 52. Still look great for my age, but no one's looking [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] craft idea for 3 & 4yos at xmas party? not too messy 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:30 AM Flag
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gingerbread men decorating [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:31 AM Flag
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Party for kids or a family party? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:33 AM Flag
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If a family party you could all create gingerbread man houses. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:37 AM Flag
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Have them decorate paper snowmen. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:36 AM Flag
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This. Gingerbread house/man decorating is messy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:40 AM Flag
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glitter is worse [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:44 AM Flag
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Make paper chains or decorate cookies [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:46 AM Flag
[ - ] Who predicted an SVU episode about the nude hack scandal? ME! 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:16 AM Flag
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Is it on right now?? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:17 AM Flag
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Nope, I'm watching the most recent ep on hulu. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:18 AM Flag
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In the most recent season, literally every single ep has been a pop news story. They take, "not based on an actual event," very, very loosely. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:18 AM Flag
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LOL [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:25 AM Flag
[ - ] Yet ANOTHER mass-shooting under the Obama regime - this time in Cleveland: 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:16 AM Flag
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http://www.cleveland.com/metro/index.ssf/2014/11/four_dead_10-year-old_injured.html - horrendous. Why has Obama's administration failed to do anything about America's mass-murder problem? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:17 AM Flag
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NRA. Republicans. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:18 AM Flag
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hey, how long have you lived under that rock? you do realize that obama tried and the nra and the republicans destroyed any and all chance of gun control? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:21 AM Flag
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Then Obama needs to find some other way, like building more federal prisons, hiring more prosecutors, and sending away criminals who use guns for decades rather than allowing them state-level plea deals that result in little or no prison time. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:23 AM Flag
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Wow! Members of the Obama administration must be really busy working in Washington and then traveling the country to commit mass murders! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:18 AM Flag
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Oh stop. I'm from Cleveland. This is not a mass shooting, this is east side urban violence. Been going on forever. I'm no Obama fan, but this has nothing to do with Obama, this is life for the poor blacks of Cleveland. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:21 AM Flag
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A "mass-shooting" is defined by the FBI as any incident in which four or more people are killed by gunfire - or five or more people are nonfatally shot - over the course of a single continuous incident. This is a mass-shooting under either of those definitions. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:26 AM Flag
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You can cite all the technical definitions you want. They are meaningless in this context. And you clearly know nothing about Cleveland or you would not have posted with your ridiculous claim in the first place. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:38 AM Flag
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Np I am from the East Side of Cleveland (near University Circle). Yes, there is a lot of crime, but execution style shootings of four people at a time (including a child) are not everyday life even in the poorest neighborhoods, thank God. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:50 AM Flag
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^that said, here's hoping reporters can find someone with teeth to interview this time. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:49 AM Flag
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Isn't this just like the white guy in Florida that killed his wife and two teenage kids who were in private school, then himself? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:30 AM Flag
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^sadly, this is a DIFFERENT white guy killing lots of his family members [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:29 AM Flag
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See now that was totally Obama's fault. He should have done something. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:31 AM Flag
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Not Obamas fault. Propensity to commit murder is genetic in origin...The Colorado Adoption Project found that genes increase in influence as we age. Between age 3 and 16, adopted children grew to be more like their birth parents in height, weight, and IQ. By age 16 the adopted children did not resemble the people who had reared them. The heritability of height, weight, and IQ in infancy are all about 30%. By the teenage years, they are about 50% and by adulthood, they are about 80%. Thus, as children grow older, their home environments have less impact and their genes have more impact. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:35 AM Flag
[ - ] Remember in 80s movies, how the beautiful girl would be shown walking in slow motion? and guys would stop and stare at her in adoration? i wish i could have a moment like that 30 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:15 AM Flag
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Not that great. If you get a lot of attention in your younger years for your looks, you will get depressed when you get older and no one even notices you. This is me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:18 AM Flag
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wow i'm sorry to hear. i guess that is the other side. but you must be one of those really elegant older women that guys always talk about? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:20 AM Flag
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Ha, no, not really. Just old. I'm invisible to men now. It was really depressing for a long time. I think I have come to accept it now. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:22 AM Flag
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oh. gosh, sorry to hear. are you single? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:24 AM Flag
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No, married. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:25 AM Flag
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so then does your dh give you positive attention? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:40 AM Flag
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Me too. I was a traffic-stopper. Now 52. Still look good "for my age" but agree, I am invisible. It was hard to lose that power. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:29 AM Flag
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When did you realize you no longer had this power? And didn't it get you what you wanted for a while? You must have married a very successful/rich man, if you were a "traffic-stopper" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:30 AM Flag
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Ha ha funny, you young UBer's always want to know what age you "lose it". My good years lasted 'til mid forties, but I was just genetically lucky. Yes, life was easier for me in some ways. No denying it is fun and exciting to be beautiful. Also funny that you think I must have married successful/rich. Married at 22, my college boyfriend. I went for cool and funny as opposed to rich. Still married to same guy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:47 AM Flag
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women always talk about elegant older women, guys do not notice [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:21 AM Flag
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but guys keep talking about how much they like older women these days [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:24 AM Flag
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riiight [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:27 AM Flag
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This. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:26 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:22 AM Flag
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What? This is dumbest statement ever. Lets see, be ugly at the end of your life, or be ugly your whole life? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:27 AM Flag
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Me too. Sucks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:43 AM Flag
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The day you suddenly realize that you can't get favors done for you anymore through the way you look--that was probably the single most depressing day of my life. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:24 AM Flag
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but doesn't your dh still find you gorgeous and all? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:26 AM Flag
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LOL probably not. I have jowls, a belly, and probably an extra chin or two. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:28 AM Flag
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do you find him hot? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:32 AM Flag
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Honestly, no. I didn't marry him for his looks. I married him because he was kind and was the smartest man I've ever met. It turned out well enough-- we have a good life, can't complain. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:32 AM Flag
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My grandmother was incredibly charming and had men of all ages falling over to do her favors when she was in her 90s. Looks fade, but charm can grow - develop some. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:47 AM Flag
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Nowadays that's considered "rape" or something, and only lower-class guys still do it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:22 AM Flag
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don't minimize the trauma of rape and sexual assault, you ugly troll. don't pretend like you don't understand the difference between admiration over looks and imposing yourself on a woman. fucking troll. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:27 AM Flag
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spoken like a person who got raped/molestered. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:26 AM Flag
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spoken like a person who found the last remaining lobotomy practitioner. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:30 AM Flag
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Look at the recent hysteria over "cat-calling." People are actually calling that a form of "sexual assault." As a result of all that, "decent" guys are retreating from such behaviors, while the thug/criminal/etc. class is all that is left still doing it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:28 AM Flag
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how terribly tragic for you. we are all weeping. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:32 AM Flag
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I was really pretty (am still, I guess? I'm 31 now) and I got so much attention (mostly positive, but some really scary) that I had a really hard time leaving the house for several years (although I obviously was really prone to anxiety; it's not all my looks' fault). Now I never wear makeup, always wear clothes that are too big, etc. unless I'm going somewhere with DH. Being an outlier in any capacity has the potential to suck. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:43 AM Flag
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That actually sounds sad. Sorry. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:48 AM Flag
[ - ] New to NYC. We've lived in our building for 3 months. It's a medical college postdoc/faculty building, actually a complex of 3 buildings. There must be like 6 or 7 doormen, all of whom rotate. How much am I supposed to give each doorman for the holidays? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:15 AM Flag
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$50 to $100, however, if you can't afford that, put as much as you can in an envelope to be split by all. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:21 AM Flag
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If you don't give anything, would they retaliate in some way? We are just 2 postdocs who are struggling financially w/young kids. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:26 AM Flag
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bake them cookies [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:43 AM Flag
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No, they won't retaliate. I was not able to pay for many years. A nice card with a hand-written note and cookies will be fine. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:50 AM Flag
[ - ] Want to ask for a nice watch for Xmas. Less than $500. Prefer more of a men's style, something simple, classic. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:11 AM Flag
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skagen? [ Reply | More ]
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Movado [ Reply | More ]
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tag [ Reply | More ]
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braun [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Did your mother spend more or less time getting herself ready (hair/makeup/clothing) than you do? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:04 AM Flag
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same. which is to say: zero time! no makeup, etc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:06 AM Flag
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Much much much less. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:10 AM Flag
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slightly more one makeup & hair-- she always wears makeup and blow dries/curls her hair. i only rarely do these things. i probably spend more time thinking about clothes than she does though--i tend towards trendier. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:11 AM Flag
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OP- Same! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:12 AM Flag
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OP: Every single day, for as long as I can remember, my mother has blown out her hair and put on a full (but light) face of makeup. She won't even run a quick errand if she hasn't gotten fully ready. I really try, but I have no patience. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:11 AM Flag
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Same. My mother was always glammed up. I got it from her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:20 AM Flag
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A bit more, she uses a bit of eye make up and foundation. She also gets her hair done quite often, I do not wear make up. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:47 AM Flag
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More. I do not wear makeup. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:51 AM Flag
[ - ] Met a woman named after a vegetable today. Celery. Not even kidding. 18 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 03:55 AM Flag
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Kimble? She's a famous decorator. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 03:56 AM Flag
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I don't know her last name. Really? She's famous? She didn't act/look like it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 03:57 AM Flag
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Well, i can't say that you met her, but there is a famous decorator by this name. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:03 AM Flag
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^^ Actually I think it's Kemble. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:03 AM Flag
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OK, I just googled that name, but it is not her. Are there more than 2 grown women in NYC named Celery?? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:04 AM Flag
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* Celerie Kemble [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:01 AM Flag
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Demerol is a hell of a drug [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 03:58 AM Flag
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Know a boy named Kale... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:04 AM Flag
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Celerie Kemble [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:02 AM Flag
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No, not her. A different Celery. I just Googled and that is not who I met. [ Reply | More ]
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My co-worker has a dd named Cinnamon. I have to make an effort not to lol in public when her name is mentioned. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:03 AM Flag
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Is she a V.C. Andrews character? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:04 AM Flag
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dd classmate named saffron. *snort* [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:14 AM Flag
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is she AA? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:17 AM Flag
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nope [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:16 AM Flag
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OMG, then it's inexcusable. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:18 AM Flag
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you're telling me. white. jewish! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:17 AM Flag
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I taught a girl named Cinderella. Really. Not Ella or Cindy either--parents insisted she only be called Cinderella [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:42 AM Flag
[ - ] Better gift bag idea for 5 year old bday party? Girls and boys, don't want to give a bag of junk. 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 03:53 AM Flag
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What is the party theme? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 03:57 AM Flag
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The Nutcracker [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:04 AM Flag
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then give small nutcrackers. duh [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:09 AM Flag
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sugar plums. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:10 AM Flag
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gosh aren't you helpful [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:26 AM Flag
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My friend did this for her dd. Hershey makes a Nutcracker themed candy bar at the holidays ... a cookies and cream bar but in a Nutcracker wrapper. Not healthy but perfect. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:54 AM Flag
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book [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:01 AM Flag
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Watches, puzzles, tangram. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:11 AM Flag
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I like the watch idea, thanks! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.14, 04:26 AM Flag
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DD recieved a watch with Frozen characters in the dial. I think each watch cost $30 and there were 14 girls. [ Reply | More ]
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