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[ - ] Lots of sexy questions on here tonight-- I have another one. Does you DH ever pull out at the last minute and ejaculate onto your body? My DH does this sometimes and I don't know why. 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:33 AM Flag
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no [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:33 AM Flag
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+1 but a boyfriend liked to finish on my stomach. i let him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:34 AM Flag
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Pull & pray? All the time [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:39 AM Flag
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Is that the technical term? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:39 AM Flag
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he watches porn? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:40 AM Flag
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idk, but probably? He doesn't watch it in front of me, but probably does on his own time. Is it a porn move? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:42 AM Flag
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YES. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 05:16 AM Flag
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Yes, but only because I'm not on BC. He'd prefer to come inside I'm sure, I also have no tits. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:59 AM Flag
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No titties(?)? How's that relevant? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 05:23 AM Flag
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I assume some men like to come on titties? Maybe I've seen too much pr0n? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 05:24 AM Flag
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All the time. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 05:14 AM Flag
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Scared of MOAR kids. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 05:25 AM Flag
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What is a moar kid? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 05:30 AM Flag
[ - ] Feeling really sad for Nepal. I am Indian and there are lots of Nepalese in India. DD's nanny was also Nepalese. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:19 AM Flag
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yeah, life is hard. we're very lucky. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:21 AM Flag
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Very sad. :( [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:24 AM Flag
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its awful... the country's economy depends so heavily on tourism and this basically decimated the tourist industry there for the foreseeable future. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:25 AM Flag
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I'm embarrassed that the Obama administration offered the grand total of $1 Million in disaster relief. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:43 AM Flag
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Even Canada gave 5 mill [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 05:14 AM Flag
[ - ] There are a lot of bugs in the south 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:14 AM Flag
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yep. all the diseases are in the tropical places. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:17 AM Flag
[ - ] Best/worst things your dc have received in bday party goodie bags? So not into party city crap but having hard time figuring out alternative and my dc bday coming up. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:07 AM Flag
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DD got lots of dollar store crap yesterday. I would say give edible items. chocolates or candies. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:16 AM Flag
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something that gets used up -- chalk, candy, crayon, erasers, notepad. edible candy jewelry. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:18 AM Flag
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Sticker books are nice. No to bags of candies. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:24 AM Flag
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Just went to one today where the kids got little birdhouses to build. Pretty cool. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:34 AM Flag
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AG pet dog and groom set, melissa and dough giant coloring pad, personalized lunch box, personalized water can. Can't really think of any bad ones. The kids love the candy filled bags. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:45 AM Flag
[ - ] White women in NYC are not open to interracial dating, which is surprising given how diverse NYC is. This is evident from online dating and my minority friends (good-looking, well-educated, great jobs, outgoing) have a tough time dating white women because they're just not open and are racially intolerant. 29 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:06 AM Flag
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I know plenty of white women who date interracially. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:07 AM Flag
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So do I. OP needs to broaden her circle. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:25 AM Flag
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Are white men less racially intolerant? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:11 AM Flag
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Guys in general don't care about race as nearly as much as women. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:23 AM Flag
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i think prob b/c the men don't look at the women as economic partners as much. does that sound right? women want the "alpha males" (meaning the highest socially ranked animal in this case) whereas the men have to be the alpha males. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:30 AM Flag
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Are you yourself open to interracial dating? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:11 AM Flag
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absolutely. have dated women of all races. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:23 AM Flag
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male or lesb? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:34 AM Flag
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male [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:36 AM Flag
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i hope you don't take this the wrong way but i'd have sworn it was a woman writing this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:39 AM Flag
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What made you think I'm a woman? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:48 AM Flag
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this is just something women think about. i don't think men think about this or any other dating issues too much. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:49 AM Flag
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they're racially tolerant. but white men are still top dog in the dating world. they do, after all, are the most socially powerful, connected and influential. but it all depends on the $$$ the guy makes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:14 AM Flag
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yeah i guess, but i have tons of asian and indian friends who went to elite schools, make great money, and are tall and decent looking and they haven't had too much luck. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:24 AM Flag
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really? i'm surprised. know a few asian men with white women now. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:27 AM Flag
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Of course, they exist. My point is that the vast majority of white women in NYC (I'm talking about well-educated women with solid jobs, not some redneck) are just not open to non-white men. If you look at match profiles for instance, most of them specifically list white/caucasian only under their racial preference. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:29 AM Flag
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yes, it's been true for a long time that every ethnic group has a strong liking for white men. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:31 AM Flag
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but i'm still surprised for your friends. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:32 AM Flag
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Not sure why you're surprised by this. Most white women, even in NYC, are sort of racist. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:53 AM Flag
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It's not racist to prefer a type for mating. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 05:31 AM Flag
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Of course, they exist. My point is that the vast majority of white women in NYC (I'm talking about well-educated women with solid jobs, not some redneck) are just not open to non-white men. If you look at match profiles for instance, most of them specifically list white/caucasian only under their racial preference. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:29 AM Flag
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Are you sure that your friends are good looking? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:28 AM Flag
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*crickets* [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:49 AM Flag
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Have you checked to see if women of other ethnicities also show a preference for white men? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:34 AM Flag
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Yes. So black and hispanic women prefer their own men while asian women prefer white men by a fairly large margin. In a typical day in NYC I actually see more Asian women with white men than with Asian men. I thank the heavens that I'm a white male. I am especially glad that I'm not Asian because those guys get screwed over pretty badly. White women don't even see them as potential sexual or romantic partners because they've been so thoroughly emasculated by the media. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:38 AM Flag
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actually, no. asian women do have a fairly strong liking for white men but they still prefer their own. white men come in a very strong second, however. https://coffeemeetsbagel.com/blog/index.php/dating-statistics/dating-myths-exposed-do-jewish-guys-really-have-a-thing-for-asian-girls/ [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:43 AM Flag
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^interesting. Thanks for sharing (np) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 05:02 AM Flag
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Go look at the multiracial post in MP for some counter examples [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:50 AM Flag
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Well wouldn't the dating scene only be hard on them if they were intent upon only dating white women? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:58 AM Flag
[ - ] Husband lost 25 lbs in 10 weeks. Went from 260 to 235. He is 6'3 and wanted to get down to 210. IS that two low? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:00 AM Flag
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i wish i could lose half of that. sigh [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:01 AM Flag
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obv the 2nd 25 will be harder to lose than the first 25. one should expect any dieter to revert back a bit before making more progress/ [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:15 AM Flag
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He sounds hot. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:21 AM Flag
[ - ] Does your DH ever sort of force himself on you sexually? Mine sometimes likes it if I show or pretend to show a little resistance. Is this normal? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:56 AM Flag
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normal for you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:57 AM Flag
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No, but could be fun as long as he respects your "safe" word. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:01 AM Flag
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It is playful, not scary. I enjoy it and he would always respect my boundaries. I have just noticed that he gets very turned on when we do this. I think that it gets him really excited. Didn't realize that it was so unusual. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:05 AM Flag
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I don't think it's unusual at all. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:36 AM Flag
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Like twice when we were first together. Now only mildly. I wish he would more. It's a huge turn on. I need your dh. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:21 AM Flag
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Np-- could you tell him that it turns you on when he is a little more dominant in the bedroom? Or maybe tell him that you want to have a wrestling match? (This will probably lead to sex) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:27 AM Flag
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Haha, I think I've hinted. I should probably elaborate. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 05:00 AM Flag
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+1. ITA. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:36 AM Flag
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I thought this was what was done in relationships - that if one partner wanted sex more than the other, they'd convince you with physical suggestion. It's such a turn. Then I dated the guy who flat out refused me. What a let down! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 05:05 AM Flag
[ - ] Too stressed out to masturbate. Recommendations? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:54 AM Flag
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Just browse some porn. It will come. No pun intended. Haha. What's stressin' you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:56 AM Flag
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Ack, bad living situation and nothing I can do about it at the moment... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:17 AM Flag
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Swy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:19 AM Flag
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Listen to music and have a glass of wine! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:57 AM Flag
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What music? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:17 AM Flag
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Try pandora. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:19 AM Flag
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Yoga [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:00 AM Flag
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Swim before the pool closes. Empty pool is pure relaxation. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:55 AM Flag
[ - ] When did you become a bitch? Experiences? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:50 AM Flag
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i've always been odd. i don't empathize well. aspie. but seriously? it was when my kids started school. i freaking hate everybody now. and now, world charities will be millions less rich when i die because the kids are getting it all. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:56 AM Flag
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You sound lovely. Really. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:56 AM Flag
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i don't have a lot of duplicity. what you get is what you see. some people don't like that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:59 AM Flag
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Hah, I like it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:59 AM Flag
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ty! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:00 AM Flag
[ - ] Posted a few weeks ago about mother coming in from the burbs (to babysit on a friday night and spend weekend) and she was drunk and maybe on some anxiety-type xanex or something also. She was supposed to arrive at 1pm and I get a call from nearby building that she was there. She said she had been looking for my apt for 3hrs and didn't answer cell phone. Then I had her in for weekend (fri, sat) 2 weeks later. DH was away first 2 days so I slept on couch and let her take the master bed/bath. She decided to stay sunday night and DH blew up air mattress and put it in 2 yr olds room and she said that would be fine. Headed out for work for 11 hr day monday and nanny was here to take care of dc. I got home mon night and she was still here in PJ's and went to bed again in dc's room on double air mattress. Tues she left before I woke. Wed she called and ripped on me in away that she has never even though she has always been abusive. "I treated her like an old dog." She needed to sleep in the master bedroom and couldn't put her make-up on in the guest bathroom because of bad lighting and she is never coming again. I thought I would get a break for a few months but just got a vm today. Anyone BTDT with a mother or MIL that is just completely spoiled and insane and a rage aholic if not also an alcoholic. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:41 AM Flag
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Sorry that was too long to read. bottom line is my mother is nuts and will not leave me alone with demands and anger. Anyone BTDT? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:42 AM Flag
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Never BTDT, but hugs to you. Sounds excrutiating. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:45 AM Flag
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op: It is excruciating and not like a DH that I would just divorce. She was so insanely angrly and said "all her friends are angry also" I thought I would get a few months off since she said she "never wanted to see me again and I will live a lonely life." Then I get vm today like nothing happened. I hide as much as possible from DH but she is so horrible to me in front of him and it makes him 1)know she is crazy and spoiled and 2) think that I am going to be like that or attribute some of my behavior to genetics "that is like your mother " type of thing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:10 AM Flag
[ - ] Do any of you wash your faces with plain old soap instead of having a fancy cleanser system? One of my girl friends chewed me out for doing this, but I think I look younger than all of them. I'm 30 and are often mistaken for 17-18. 28 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:38 AM Flag
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*am often mistaken [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:38 AM Flag
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Dried skin just looks dull and may create this viscous circle of wrinkles [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:39 AM Flag
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really viscous [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:45 AM Flag
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iPhone. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:46 AM Flag
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^^ are you a scientist? because that's the only way I can think of viscous coming into autocorrect first. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:49 AM Flag
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viscous means thick like sruyup. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:15 AM Flag
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vicious. ;) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:47 AM Flag
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of course we all knew it was vicious! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:51 AM Flag
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you might be fine. all depends on the skin. don't use ivory. my college roommate used to use tone. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:40 AM Flag
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Dove is just fine. 90% of people actually think they look younger than they actually do. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:44 AM Flag
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i dobut that. but don't you think most umc women under the age of 35 look younger? i'm 45 and the guy at trader joe's thought i was 36. i don't even look good. dressed like crap. but made my day! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:53 AM Flag
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I think it's really hard to guess people's ages. I am usually shocked when I see people pushing baby carriages because I figure they have to be in their 30s or early 40s and most I would peg at late 40s if I didn't see them with babies. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:55 AM Flag
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well, i will take 9 years the other way anytime! totally look like shit, though. have to fix that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:58 AM Flag
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i also said, "no. 37. getting up in the ages. sigh" lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:58 AM Flag
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Take the compliment, but, frankly, men should never comment on a woman's age. If they do, they should always aim low like your TJs man. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:08 AM Flag
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ha ha. you're right. i was asking about senior discount because my mother was shopping with me that day. that's how we got into the discussion of my age. he was really nice. another guy came into line and he said, "can you believe this lady is 37?" and the other guy picked it up right on cue and said, "no. i'd have thought 20s." it was great. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:16 AM Flag
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LOL. I always go for the senior discount because they give it for 55+ at a few stores where I live. I have been asking for it since I was 48 (I turn 54 in a few months). I have no shame. Sometimes I get push-back. Haha. I just make sure I look extra crappy on senior discount days! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:29 AM Flag
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oh, wow. i'd have never thought to ask for it myself. maybe i should. this guy did start shaking his head right away when i said, "senior discount." maybe in a couple years. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:33 AM Flag
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Wait. Does TJs even offer senior discounts? DH is 60. We go to TJs 2 or 3 times a week. If there is a discount, we need to get it. I see seniors in my local TJs (senior citizen central) and I have never seen discounts being given. Am I missing out? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:36 AM Flag
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no. he told me no. so you're not missing out. but i'm not in nyc so maybe yours does. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:46 AM Flag
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he told me right away that i was not old enough to qualify. then he said they didn't have it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:48 AM Flag
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I just googled. No they don't offer a discount anywhere. Whew. I hate leaving $ on the table (written like a crotchety senior citizen)! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:50 AM Flag
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No. Soap and foaming cleansers leave my skin tight and SHINY. My face hurts afterwards it is so tight. I have to use cream cleansers. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:49 AM Flag
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+1. I do the soap when I feel extra lazy and then have to run for the moisturizer. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:54 AM Flag
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I remember my college roommate could not fathom that I used regular dove bar soap on my face. She had grown up believing every one used Noxema. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:58 AM Flag
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Really everyone thinks they look young for their age. People might complain about x,y or z but they think they look young for their age because people tell them. Who would ever guess older? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:17 AM Flag
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oh, it happens. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:20 AM Flag
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I wash my face with whatever hand or body soap I'm using, usually Dr Bonner's or Meyer's. I have a moisturizing routine I always do afterward. I'm happy with my skin. 37yo. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:49 AM Flag
[ - ] Wen hair care. Who's tried it? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:31 AM Flag
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Too rich for my blood. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:44 AM Flag
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It has been great for me because I have some mild psoriasis of the scalp and it calms it. But if I use it more than 2 days in a row my hair is limp. So I switch off or even use it as a second rinse/conditioner. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:54 AM Flag
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No idea. Want to know. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:22 AM Flag
[ - ] Would you or have you ever used whipped cream in the bedroom with DH? What was that like? 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:26 AM Flag
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Haha. No. I'd be worried about attracting ants. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:27 AM Flag
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Op: lol! Yes, sanitation is a concern!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:28 AM Flag
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I had an ex boyfriend who bought chocolate syrup. He was so into pouring it over my body and I just hated it - Filthy and sticky and we never had sex that night because I ran to take a shower. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:29 AM Flag
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How do you know that he was so into it? (Genuinely curious!) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:31 AM Flag
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Sorry, I'm totally cringing writing this but the massive erection and moaning. Meanwhile I was just getting more and more upset and grossed out. It's sort of funny now....I can't convey the horror of being covered in syrup. It's just awful. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:36 AM Flag
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Hahahahahahaha! This seriously made my night :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:38 AM Flag
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^ not intending to be insensitive to your plight btw. I am sure that it was awful at the time! But the way that you have described it is just so funny! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:39 AM Flag
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LOL [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:46 AM Flag
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:) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:40 AM Flag
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Gross! That would not fly in my world. No honey, either. It only works in movies. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:32 AM Flag
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Did it drip all over the bed and carpet on the way to the bathroom? I hope you didn't clean that mess up. This is a case where you should most definitely bail out early because you have "an early meeting in the office." Bye! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:21 AM Flag
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It melts upon application. BTDT. Then it slides off, leaving a greasy trail. But it was part of a hysterical laughing fit one night long ago w a college boyfriend. No sex that night, tho. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:35 AM Flag
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think ali larter said that varsity blues scene took forever to film because it wouldnt stay on [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:14 AM Flag
[ - ] Are you in love? Happy in your marriage? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:21 AM Flag
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Yes, and yes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:26 AM Flag
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no and no. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:28 AM Flag
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am i in love? that is a weird question. do i love my husband? yes. am i happy in my marriage. yes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:41 AM Flag
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Not really; happy enough: great life partner, wonderful kids, satisfactory hhi. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:03 AM Flag
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