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[ - ] Waist training when your hips are 38 to 43 say, is one thing. But you can't have hips pushing 45+ inches and you are waist training. It doesn't look nice or natural to have a 25" waist and 45" hips. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 09:19 PM Flag
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ok [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 09:20 PM Flag
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ITA. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 09:21 PM Flag
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waist training? we are slowly but surely going back to the middle ages. sad. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 09:22 PM Flag
[ - ] What would be a good career for a 16 year old who loves to play chess most of his spare time other than being competitive chess player or chess instructor? I'm asking for my DS. TIA. 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 09:09 PM Flag
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Whatever ds wants. Some people just have jobs not careers [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 09:10 PM Flag
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Op: DS is clueless. I meant to ask job ideas as well. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 09:16 PM Flag
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Have him think about all the adults he k ows and their jobs. Look at a college catalogue and check majors, research jobs with that major online. My ds is great in math and s is cd but wants to be a park ranger [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 09:18 PM Flag
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Science [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 09:18 PM Flag
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Drug dealer in WSP. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 09:11 PM Flag
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Military strategist [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 09:11 PM Flag
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Is he talented at math and/or science? How are his grades? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 09:14 PM Flag
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He is in an advanced math group in his class. His math and science grades are As, but wouldn't do anything math/science related at his spare time. He was in a math proof kind of program and he quit. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 09:18 PM Flag
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Old man in Park [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 09:19 PM Flag
[ - ] Is it true that if I'm a student, I don't pay capital gains tax (since my income is zero) on any stocks I sell? Someone told me this, and it sounds too good t be true. 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 09:01 PM Flag
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Of course it isn't true. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 09:08 PM Flag
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No [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 09:08 PM Flag
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Never take advice from that person again! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 09:10 PM Flag
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Lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 09:13 PM Flag
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If you have no other income, yes, the lowest band of income which would have been subject to talk at 10 or 15% will have zero rate. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 09:13 PM Flag
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For single taxpayers, this stops at about 36K of income. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 09:14 PM Flag
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As long as you are not subject to Kiddie Tax. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 09:15 PM Flag
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May have state tax [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 09:17 PM Flag
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If you have zero other income, the first 30K or so of capital gains will not be taxed. If you'll be earning a lot shortly (say, last year in med school) and you have unrealized capital gains, this is a good time to cash them in. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 09:15 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 09:23 PM Flag
[ - ] 2013: Maryland passes some of the toughest gun control laws in the nation. 2015: Baltimore's murder rate explodes to historic levels not even seen during the worst days of the crack era. Coincidence? Liberals, when will you accept the real-world evidence that gun control doesn't work? Meanwhile, over the border in gun-friendly Virginia, murder is much lower. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 09:00 PM Flag
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But the murder rate in Baltimore is all due to the gun laws in Virginia! That's what O'Malley and Clinton say so it must be true. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 09:16 PM Flag
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The ghetto folks in DC are mowing to Maryland. They don't really care about or obey the gun laws. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 09:19 PM Flag
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^^moving [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 09:21 PM Flag
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USA has a TON of nut cases. You can't give these people guns. Tons of them are not diagnosed, yet crazy as hell. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 09:24 PM Flag
[ - ] Have the evening to myself and want to tackle some great literature or a book that has to do with my work but I'm too lonely and go back to UB! Ugh! :) 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:54 PM Flag
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I think that's what draws women here. Loneliness, isolation and wanting to be part of a village. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:58 PM Flag
[ - ] I can't stand boyfriend anymore. He is under my skin. We have kid together and aim afraid to disrupt DC life but aim at my wits end. I wanna leave so bad. 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:49 PM Flag
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He never asked to marry me , well he did then sold my engagement ring when we were broke. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:50 PM Flag
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I have such resentment toward him. I don't want to be with him anymore [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:50 PM Flag
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Why can't you stand him? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:50 PM Flag
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Are you in the ghetto? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:53 PM Flag
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No. He is highly dysfunctional. He is a gambler. We live on The UES. I can't stand him because he never gives me sex, never sticks up for me and never married me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:54 PM Flag
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What does the co-op board say about all this? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:55 PM Flag
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Does he have a job? How old is your kid? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:56 PM Flag
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Has he gambled away all of your savings? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 09:00 PM Flag
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Aren't you glad he never married you? You are free! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 09:01 PM Flag
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Leave. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 09:01 PM Flag
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How old is the kid? Maybe you should put him up for adoption to an UMC class UB mom. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 09:17 PM Flag
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He is low IQ. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 09:20 PM Flag
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You must be Russian [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 09:19 PM Flag
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I am mail-order bride. I do not want to be deported or to end up living with stupid moose again. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 09:23 PM Flag
[ - ] Anyone eat the hot dogs at the papaya joint? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:45 PM Flag
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The best one is on E86th St. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 09:01 PM Flag
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Of course! The best! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 09:02 PM Flag
[ - ] I love the styling here...I can't wait for fall!! 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:43 PM Flag
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It's only half a bloody bag!! All your tampons will be dropping out!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 09:09 PM Flag
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I'm not going to buy the freaking bag, but look at that cozy sweater, and the sleeves and the suede shoes, I can't WAIT!!!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 09:15 PM Flag
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burgundy and camel and all of the other wonders of fall!!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 09:15 PM Flag
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That sweater looks like it's had kids tugging at the arms. It would also make me look fatter. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 09:23 PM Flag
[ - ] Tomorrow is my one chance of the year to go sailing. Hope for no thunderstorms! 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:41 PM Flag
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You will be fine. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 09:02 PM Flag
[ - ] Is there such thing as a sound alarm? My DH gets worked up over the TV or politics and the news and just begins to yell. I am getting naggy telling him to tone it down. I wish there were alarm that would go off so he would realize himself. Can someone create an app for that? It would work great for kids in apartments also. 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:32 PM Flag
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This is a great idea and would work for kids who need to learn to modulate their voice in various settings. it could be on a smart watch and it could vibrate over x decibels. I am not even going to make this so I am happy to help build the requirements right here if anyone wants to play. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:34 PM Flag
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op: Thanks. Please someone invent this! It seems so obvious to me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:36 PM Flag
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op: It will help for all kids but I bet it would especially help with high-end Asberger's kids. The phone or device could be set to vibrate. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:38 PM Flag
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exactly what I'm thinking as well. I also think that the same app could be set to vibrate on motion for times when kids are trying to sit still. ADHH types. It could be built like an intermittent reward game. You don't know when it's going to check but you get a point if it checks and you are sitting still, or not yelling or whatever. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:40 PM Flag
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Install the "Noise Down" app: [ Reply | More ]
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op: awesome!! Thank you!!!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:53 PM Flag
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How old is he? My DH is only 40 and I'm convinced he doesn't hear as well as he didn 10 years ago [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:41 PM Flag
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op: He is 46. He may be hard of hearing but he also gets worked up. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:50 PM Flag
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I need to install this on my DW's phone. Any way of doing this without upsetting her, ladies? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:42 PM Flag
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We've stopped watching all news. It's mosly propoganda anyway, and it's not good for our health to get all worked up. I can feel my blood pressure rising when the music comes on. We're a news free house. FYI I can't visit my best friend anymore because her husband has Faux News on all the time, and it makes me nauseous. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:44 PM Flag
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op: He has been brainwashed by some psychotically republican friends who send political shit all the time. I started by cutting Fox news and then all news. Yesterday he was ranting about Ross Perot ruining Bushes chances 22 years ago. It came up because Trump may split the Republican party. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:53 PM Flag
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My dad used to yell back at the TV. Growing up, I thought this was something all fathers did. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 09:18 PM Flag
[ - ] DH's sister is coming to town for a few days with her two kids (our nieces). They are staying in NJ with DH's parents. Because of work, I was only going to be able to see them on Thursday (when they come in to NYC for the day) and Saturday (when we go to NJ for a family BBQ). Well, my work schedule changed and I now won't be able to spend time with them on Thursday and I mentioned that this made me sad because we rarely get to see our nieces (once in the summer and then at Christmastime). DH blew up and said that I shouldn't be upset because it's HIS family, not mine. Not sure where that came from and I am really upset. Am I being irrational? 22 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:27 PM Flag
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Not at all. But men like to solve problems, did he feel like you were laying a problem at his feet that he could not solve? Us women know you just need a little empathy but men are thick that way. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:30 PM Flag
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OP: Maybe that is what it felt like to him. Literally all I said was, "I'm so sad that I won't be able to spend time with you and the girls on Thursday, I thought I would be able to at least make it to dinner." [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:31 PM Flag
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Does he usually have a hair trigger temper or is this an anomaly? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:38 PM Flag
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OP: Anomaly. That is why I am so shocked. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:41 PM Flag
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Is he secretly annoyed that you can't go and that he has to go alone so he thinks you're faking it by pretending you're "sad". [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:42 PM Flag
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OP: I don't think so. I spent a lot of time coming up with ideas for things to do with the girls during their day here. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:44 PM Flag
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Is he upset that there are not more times when the family gets together? Is his mom giving him a hard time about not seeing his sister? Do you have kids? Does gma complain that the whole family does not get together enough aka the cousins don't know each other? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:32 PM Flag
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OP: No, it seemed more like he was annoyed that I am sad I can't be there. He is still going, I am not. We do not have kids yet. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:33 PM Flag
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I'd take him at his word then. He just doesn't get why you would be sad. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:35 PM Flag
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np - but that's still a mean thing to say. They're married which means DH nieces are OP's family now. I love DH's niece and nephew and if he ever said anything like that to me I'd be questioning our entire relationship. Because that means he doesn't see me as family and want me to be part of his. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:40 PM Flag
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OP: Exactly. It came out of nowhere. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:42 PM Flag
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or - "questioning our entire relationship" is a big leap. OP does not have kids and perhaps her DH does not see the big picture that you described. Or maybe he had a bad day. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:42 PM Flag
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He's clearly mad about something. Perhaps either not being able to make her feel better or being mad that he has to go alone yet she claims she is the one who is suffering. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:43 PM Flag
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OP: It sounded more like he would prefer to go alone, any way. :( [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:45 PM Flag
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That was a really mean thing to say. How long have you been married? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:34 PM Flag
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OP: Almost three years. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:36 PM Flag
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As annoying as that was, I would let it pass. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:42 PM Flag
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OP: That's what I am thinking. Just wasn't sure if I was being irrational for being hurt by the comment. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:46 PM Flag
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Have you had to cancel other things with his family in the past? Is he getting annoyed with you or resent your job? Some guys want availability in a woman and go into rage when they don't get it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:44 PM Flag
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OP: No, I rarely cancel anything - especially with family. Usually my job is extremely flexible, we just have a crazy week coming up. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:46 PM Flag
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If he is blowing up and you don't know why, I wouldn't have any children with him until you figure it out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:45 PM Flag
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DH and I have been together for 20 years and we still are pretty cognizant of whose family it is. It was mean of him to snap at you (sounds like he's feeling guilty - do you work longer hours than him?), but it would bother me less to miss time with his family than mine and vice versa. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:46 PM Flag
[ - ] need hotel recommendation near montclair, nj, preferably with pool. tia. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:26 PM Flag
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Summit Grand [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:30 PM Flag
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For how many people? If it is a group we use grouphotelbid.com and plug in what we want. Or hotelplanner. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:32 PM Flag
[ - ] Not a big fan of guns but I have to say, it was well used in this case (shot a drone out of the sky that was hovering over his property possibly viewing his daughter sunbathing). We are entitled to privacy. https://www.yahoo.com/tech/s/man-shoots-down-drone-hovering-000032027.html 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:25 PM Flag
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That's pretty damned funny [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:26 PM Flag
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The man was arrested for shooting down a drone on his own property. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:27 PM Flag
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President Trump would at least allow people to shoot down drones on their own property, whatever else you might want to say about him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:29 PM Flag
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Good point! Another plus for President Trump. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:31 PM Flag
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Love this story. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:31 PM Flag
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They arrested the wrong guy. You should be able to shoot down a drone on your property. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:51 PM Flag
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We should be able to shoot that shit right out of the sky, especially if ones looks in the window. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:58 PM Flag
[ - ] No one talking about make zuckerberg and his announcement today? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:24 PM Flag
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Which was? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:24 PM Flag
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zzz, though i agree with him about speaking-up about miscarriages [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:25 PM Flag
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Not really interesting news [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:25 PM Flag
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Billionaire Jew married to an Asian doctor finally expecting after 3 miscarriages? Throw in a nanny and beach house and it's got it all [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:28 PM Flag
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pffft don't really care. I find nothing interesting about MZ [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:30 PM Flag
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I didn't read the story so didn't know about the miscarriages but as someone who had multiple miscarriages, I'm so happy for them that they are expecting and presumably out of the danger zone. It's such a sad thing to deal with. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:59 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 09:02 PM Flag
[ - ] My DH has had a cross-dressing fetish since high school, which he said got stronger to the point that he was seriously considering gender reassignment surgery. But then he began an affair with a girl 20 years younger than him and said that "cured" him of his fetish. Do you think that's possible? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:20 PM Flag
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It might come back again if the young vixen dumps him. I'd watch out for that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:31 PM Flag
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Yes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:32 PM Flag
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Why do you think that? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:35 PM Flag
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Fake [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:46 PM Flag
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OP: Nope, not fake, unfortunately or fortunately (I am divorcing him). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:57 PM Flag
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Which was the final straw, the fetishism or the adultery? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 09:02 PM Flag
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OP: Adultery. I could have lived with the cross-dressing as long as it was done with private, but probably would have divorced him if he got the surgery or lived in public as a woman. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 09:16 PM Flag
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I would frown on that too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 09:17 PM Flag
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Fake. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.31.15, 08:55 PM Flag
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