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General Topics 05.25.15, 04:46 AM Flag
[ - ] Does anyone have a friend who "triggers" them? I have a friend (we don't see each other much anymore), but whenever we get together, she makes a point of casually mentioning how she's really close friends with this person; always hanging out with that person; had a great time a recent party/social event. Bottom line, I always leave her company feeling badly. I'm trying to decide if I'm too sensitive or if I should just acknowledge that some people don't bring out the best in me (not necessarily Anyone's fault, just a reality) and stop seeing her altogether. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 04:15 AM Flag
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Yes, I have a friend exactly like this. I worried at first that I was being too sensitive, but I don't think I am. I've noticed she gets more obnoxious whenever she's in an unfamiliar or awkward situation. I think it's a defense mechanism borne from insecurity. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 04:41 AM Flag
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Thank you for the reply. There is something about the way she says these things that makes me feel like it's gratuitous. Like she isn't telling me about her many close friends and active social life because it's relevant to our conversation, but because she wants me to know that she has more friends and that I've been replaced (we used to be closer). I just leave feeling like crap. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 04:55 AM Flag
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I used to have friends like this but I think I outgrew them. Now I have mostly people who I find fulfilling and entertaining. Try to weed out those who bring bad energy into your life. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 05:03 AM Flag
[ - ] Spin off of workout clothes post earlier, do people still wear head to toe lulu to spin classes, other exercise classes where you live? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 04:08 AM Flag
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I prefer lulu yoga pants (for yoga). Not a big fan of their tops, though. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 04:10 AM Flag
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I wouldn't personally wear more than one piece of any brand at a time. Unless they are paying you, that's just excessive and ott. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 05:05 AM Flag
[ - ] MICHELLE OBAMA = APE NIGGER BITCH 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 04:00 AM Flag
[ - ] Shit, I fucked up. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:43 AM Flag
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Do share! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:49 AM Flag
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Hell no. But I do need a hug. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:52 AM Flag
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Stfu then. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:56 AM Flag
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ok bitch. (eye roll) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 04:03 AM Flag
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By the way, have you ever fucked up? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:52 AM Flag
[ - ] Anyone have a dh who slept with prostitutes during marriage (even if you were having regular sex) and you stayed together? How is it? 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:23 AM Flag
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How did you find out? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:30 AM Flag
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Why would you do that to yourself? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:35 AM Flag
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For dc's. I found phone numbers., [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:36 AM Flag
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And then he admitted it after 10 years of denial. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:37 AM Flag
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wait, you've been asking him about it for 10 years and he only now told you the truth? just trying to get the story straight [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:38 AM Flag
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Pretty much. I inquired sporadically over the years. The last time he finally admitted it all. He cried, apologized, etc, and I've been trying to move past for the last few years. But I don't think I can. Yet I feel guilty for not staying together. I'm pretty sure he stopped. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:41 AM Flag
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Don't kid yourself. DCs will someday question why Mom stayed with Dad who treated her like crap [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:37 AM Flag
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+11111 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:40 AM Flag
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What you should really do for dc is teach them the importance of relationships with people who care about and respect you and you won't be doing that by staying with your husband. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:41 AM Flag
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If I'm understanding you correctly, this went on for 10 years. That's not an aberration, it's an addiction (or something akin to one). Additionally, the fact that you haven't been able to move past it might be a sign that it's over. I believe that marriage can survive an infidelity, but I believe that both people have a role in that outcome. Your DH would have to reach a true understanding of why he sought out prostitutes and you would have to be receptive to building a new history together. But you can only do that if you see that he has truly changed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 04:04 AM Flag
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a person who jeopardizes my health like that would be kicked to the curb. There is no telling what type of diseases you could get from his escapades. I could never accept that alone. I hope you are getting checked regularly. Best of luck. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 05:01 AM Flag
[ - ] I'm Facebook friends with a DC at Sidwell Friends. Saw pics of Malia Obama at prom. 32 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:13 AM Flag
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Nobody cares [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:15 AM Flag
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+1 ugly bugly plus fat butt [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:16 AM Flag
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You need glasses. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:19 AM Flag
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mean [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:19 AM Flag
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She's absolutely stunning. So sad you're so jealous... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:21 AM Flag
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Ewwww. Looking more like her ugly mom every year. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:23 AM Flag
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You're nasty. Malia is pretty, and so is her mom. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:31 AM Flag
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Pathetic asshole. If only you had an ounce of their class, brilliance and power. Go away [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:35 AM Flag
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You know nothing about her class or brilliance. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:37 AM Flag
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Why are you so jealous and bitter? Wow, very sad.try to work on your own little, insignificant life. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:39 AM Flag
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Ehh, malia is a fucking nigger ape [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:54 AM Flag
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Oh, I am sure I have more brilliance. They have zero class. And I also have more money. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 05:15 AM Flag
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NP. I don't think she has a pretty face but who cares? She has plenty of other things going for her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:24 AM Flag
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Yeah, like nepotism and affirmative action. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:25 AM Flag
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Yes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:26 AM Flag
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No affirmative action needed. The POTUS's kids always have plenty of opportunities. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:31 AM Flag
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Yeah, just look at Amy Carter and Chelsea Clinton. Actually, just look at all presidential progeny. Chelsea was smart but did nothing. The rest weren't impressive. But most important, all of them did squat. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 04:18 AM Flag
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Jealous, bitter loser. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:32 AM Flag
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Hi, angry black woman! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 05:13 AM Flag
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And? Was she happy? What did she wear? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:19 AM Flag
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I'm sure she looked great. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:21 AM Flag
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Yep. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:28 AM Flag
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Is she a junior? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:23 AM Flag
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yes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:24 AM Flag
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Was her date black? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:26 AM Flag
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So? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:32 AM Flag
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Odds are that she'll be as vile and disgusting as her parents. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:46 AM Flag
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S [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:54 AM Flag
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Do you think this gives you some kind of status? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 04:01 AM Flag
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LOL no. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 04:02 AM Flag
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Why would it? Malia is a fucking nigger monkey who literally eats Fleas and ticks that she picks out of her hair. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 04:04 AM Flag
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Literally, huh? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 05:16 AM Flag
[ - ] So upset. I think I'm having a miscarriage at ten weeks. Having all this brown spotting and a sudden loss of symptoms. My heart is broken : ( 28 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:09 AM Flag
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sorry for the double post : ( clearly my computer skills are waning, too [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:10 AM Flag
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don't want to get your hopes up but isn't brown spotting often ok? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:11 AM Flag
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Perhaps, but I haven't had any and now all of a sudden I have a bunch. I just feel like something is amiss. And of course this is over a holiday weekend so doc office is closed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:13 AM Flag
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I'm so sorry. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:13 AM Flag
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I'm sorry but call your doctor. There will be some coverage and they will be able to jet you know one way or another. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:18 AM Flag
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^^^ let [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:19 AM Flag
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Do you think someone will be there? I would imagine it's totally closed. I will try tomorrow [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:24 AM Flag
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There should be a 24 hour answer machine or pager service and your doc or a partner will call you back. I would definitely try. It could be previa or something that is ok. I'm no doc but I got spotting for Previa (and it was not serious). Hope you are ok. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:28 AM Flag
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Thanks.. I will try them tomorrow [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:30 AM Flag
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No they'll say spotting is fine and come in on Tuesday (or something but they won't be able to tell definitively) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:33 AM Flag
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Is this your normal time to get your period? I don't want to get your hopes up, but I spotted throughout my first at that time. So sorry. Np [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:21 AM Flag
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It's not.. It would have been last week. Thanks though [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:23 AM Flag
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Brown blood is old blood. That's good for you. Are you bleeding through more than a pad/hour? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:15 AM Flag
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No.. not nearly that much. Very small amount but seems to be increasing. Started last night and has happened about five times now. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:16 AM Flag
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Also it's the first day I haven't puked. Feel completely un-pregnant. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:16 AM Flag
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When I had a miscarriage, I still felt pg until my D&C. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 04:31 AM Flag
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I'm sorry. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:19 AM Flag
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So sorry. I am hoping you are wrong... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:22 AM Flag
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Thinking of you and hoping all is okay! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:22 AM Flag
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Thank you. I truly appreciate it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:26 AM Flag
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I spotted at around that time, brown blood. I was worried but it was nothing. I hope and pray the same for you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:26 AM Flag
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thanks so much. was it one singular time, or a couple days? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:31 AM Flag
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This just happened to me too. Over the weekend too and I called doc, they said what everyone is saying "brown is fine" but I just knew. Hoping for the best but btdt, we just know how we feel :( [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:34 AM Flag
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It's true. On some level it's easier to believe everything's ok, but I just have a bad feeling about it. : ( [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:36 AM Flag
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Just offering a bit of hope: bleeding is not always a m/c. Bleeding during 1st trim is actually very common. I bled twice, pretty heavily both times. Was sure was over. She's upstairs asleep. I wish you the best of luck!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:38 AM Flag
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I was exactly the same. I was so annoyed at the doctor for saying it was probably nothing (irrational, I know, but what is she going to say? It's not like I needed to go to the er). Fwiw I had light spotting with dd but still felt pregnant and wasn't worried, this time I just knew. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:39 AM Flag
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You can go for a sonogram. Brown blood is old blood. Red blood is the scary thing. Hugs to you. The sonogram can show how then heartbeat is going. GL all is not lost [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:45 AM Flag
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Ladies, you should all be aware that this isn't always true. When I miscarried, I had brown blood. My second pregnancy, I spotted red blood and I now have a healthy 10 month old. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 05:12 AM Flag
[ - ] Why are people so up in arms about race? Do you really feel that victimized? Do you see your role in how people treat you? So sick of the whole thing. You can't stomp your feet and demand people respect you if you haven't done anything to earn that respect. 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:08 AM Flag
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+1 Jewish maneuvering [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:17 AM Flag
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You have absolutely no clue. I am betting you grew up in a school district that provided a decent education. I bet you've never been followed in a store or been stopped and searched and told you "fit the description" of a criminal. I bet you make assumptions when you see teens of color. I bet they are negative and I bet you don't hide it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:18 AM Flag
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Zzzzzzz stop being criminal if you don't want to be profiled. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:22 AM Flag
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That is the best you can come up with? Go back to watching Real Housewives and leave amy potentially intelligent argument to your DH [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:26 AM Flag
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No TV at the house. You lose. Quit being criminal. You are profiled for a reason. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:28 AM Flag
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Horrendous world view! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:37 AM Flag
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Sigh...unfortunately, with you around, we all lose. The crime of ignorance is the most dangerous crime of all.... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 04:18 AM Flag
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Np. Wow. Open your eyes to the real world. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:27 AM Flag
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You have absolutely no clue. I am betting you grew up in a school district that provided a decent education. I bet you've never been followed in a store or been stopped and searched and told you "fit the description" of a criminal. I bet you make assumptions when you see teens of color. I bet they are negative and I bet you don't hide it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:18 AM Flag
[ - ] dd will be going to europe for 6 weeks to study french. would love to get her a pair of comfortable shoes to wear for walking that are still fashionable (she's in college and would absolutely not wear sneakers to walk around). 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:05 AM Flag
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csb [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:08 AM Flag
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Look up Aravon or Jambu shoes, they usually have cute mary-jane sort of athletic shoes that don't look like sneakers. Or ballet flats, but not if you are doing lots of walking on cobblestones that day. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:09 AM Flag
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Ew. Get Nikes! All these posters are nuts. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:35 AM Flag
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Look up Aravon or Jambu shoes, they usually have cute mary-jane sort of athletic shoes that don't look like sneakers. Or ballet flats, but not if you are doing lots of walking on cobblestones that day. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:09 AM Flag
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Omg. She said DD not great grandmother [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:39 AM Flag
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My Naots have been great for walking around Europe. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:10 AM Flag
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Let her shop, for god's sake. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:18 AM Flag
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this [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:35 AM Flag
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This. Any sneakers are fine. She's not an old lady who needs "walking shoes" lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:35 AM Flag
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Converse [ Reply | More ]
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Tom's [ Reply | More ]
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camper [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] where to buy a leather sofa/sectional in NYC ? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 02:59 AM Flag
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Bloomies, jensen lewis, crate & barrel, maybe room & board [ Reply | More ]
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IKEA [ Reply | More ]
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Don't do it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:55 AM Flag
[ - ] i thought terms of endearment was on netflix :( someone mentioned it here and i realized i hadn't yet seen it.... oh well 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 02:53 AM Flag
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Never? You've never seen it??? OMG. You'll need tissues. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 02:55 AM Flag
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Oh jeez, when she tells her older son, it's okay, I know you love me...oh my god. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 02:56 AM Flag
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i know! i'm 35. i think it was a little before my time? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 02:58 AM Flag
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op. so now i'm really intrigued! how do i see it?? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 02:58 AM Flag
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rent on amazon. so worth it, but really, you need to be in the mood to cry. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:01 AM Flag
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well, thanks op, I just followed my own advice and bought on amazon. I'm 37 by the way, and feel like it was just barely on my radar. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:10 AM Flag
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are you the one whose DH said your daughter would go with your family? we have been on this way too long today! That is the saddest movie of all time, I shouldn't have recommended considering the context, but I love the actors. Can't even dislike Jack Nicholson because of that movie. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:02 AM Flag
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op. no, not me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:04 AM Flag
[ - ] dh doesn't want kids watching tv EVER. yet he's only home about 10% of his time with them. 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 02:45 AM Flag
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He needs to be a lot more realistic and flexible or a lot more present to entertain and desk with their whining [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 02:46 AM Flag
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Then it sounds like the kids don't watch tv when he's home. ;) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 02:47 AM Flag
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ok, so aside from being pissed about this, i get his point that they're always after the TV or ipad. i do control it but it's a constant battle and we just want them to not feel so needy or dependent on them.... they;re older now (7 and 5) so not that into toys (especially the 7yo. any ideas for what to do when they come home from school, soccer, swimming, etc and they're fried? and they just want to veg in front of tv? i don't see the problem but dh is adamant... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 02:48 AM Flag
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Put out a puzzle? Hidden picture book? Lego project? Activity book? Action figures? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:06 AM Flag
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Np : personally I would let them watch tv after sports, but I'm surprised they are not into toys. They are still young. Maybe buy them new toys if they are not interested in what they have. My 7& 5 y/o still adore their toys. They are always looking for new toys at tag sales etc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:08 AM Flag
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are you kidding me?! a 5yo and 7yo not that into toys?! that's sad....not just for them but for the future of the human race. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:10 AM Flag
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ITA. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:20 AM Flag
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op. maybe i misspoke. they are into toys... they would just prefer TV or ipad if given the choice i guess [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:35 AM Flag
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then listen to your DH and act now to prevent them from being totally roboticized. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 04:04 AM Flag
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backseat drivers are annoying, as are people who don't let their kids watch tv. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 02:48 AM Flag
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he read a times magazine article about 'active learning' and how to get your kids to be smarter. and of course the main takeaway for him was no TV or ipad allowed in the house. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 02:54 AM Flag
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It's probably had to argue with the active learning point, but I'm big on rest and happiness [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:00 AM Flag
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I didn't grow up with a TV and we don't have one or an IPad. We play card games, read, board games, build forts, cook together, etc. It really isn't a big deal. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:30 AM Flag
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^^ my DCs are 8 and 10 for reference [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.15, 03:31 AM Flag
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