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[ - ] DB HAS STINKY FEET. 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:59 PM Flag
[ - ] Huma dumped him. 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:44 PM Flag
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Weiner clearly has a sick addiction. OR he is trying to sabotage his wife. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:46 PM Flag
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Yep and not a moment too soon. Here are a few comments about it.https://secure.urbanbaby.com/topics/55609113 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:46 PM Flag
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It took long enough! Still, she has only separated. Let's see how long it takes to divorce or whether that ever happens. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:51 PM Flag
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She doesn't exactly have a lot of time to deal with this at the moment. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:53 PM Flag
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She should have dealt with it years ago--the first time he was caught. Heaven knows how many years he has been sexting and doing inappropriate things before he was caught! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:55 PM Flag
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She took her own humiliation in stride, but couldn't stand to see her child used/humiliated in this way. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:52 PM Flag
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Ugly, gross, selfish, asshole, conceited, sex obsessed, trashy, stupid, unemployed, short, past history of bad behavior, shitty parent and husband. What is wrong with her? Why did she even give him a pass the first time? What is there to like about him? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:52 PM Flag
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At the time many people thought he had a great political future in front of him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:54 PM Flag
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She had a newborn baby and an extremely high-profile and demanding job. I can easily see where divorce would have been just one more burden she couldn't bear back then. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:55 PM Flag
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Im sure Hilary gave her an incentive / ultimatum to do it. It looks bad on her campaign. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:56 PM Flag
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Plus it was dangerous for a loser of such proportions to be that close to her campaign. Honestly, for Huma, he is a huge liability as well. Hillary should replace Huma. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:59 PM Flag
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Hillary should have told her they don't change [ Reply | More ]
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A muslim and a jew, would never work. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] I'm sitting across from a skinny mom in McDonald's eating a banana and Justin's peanut butter. I now feel like a fat pig shoving these supersized fries down my throat. 15 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:43 PM Flag
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Nathan's fries are so much better. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:44 PM Flag
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+1000 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:47 PM Flag
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Ok? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:48 PM Flag
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If you're going to eat fries, eat the best! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:49 PM Flag
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Eh [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:51 PM Flag
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Are you a fat pig or do you just feel like one? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:44 PM Flag
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I'm not super skinny, but I should lose 10lbs. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:46 PM Flag
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In that case don't beat yourself up - you know you could choose to never have McDonalds never again but make peace with yourself if you choose otherwise. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:48 PM Flag
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Thank you. I wish I had the discipline this woman has. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:50 PM Flag
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Did she bring her lunch to McDonalds? [ Reply | More ]
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It looks like it, but I'm assuming the happy meals are for her kids. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:47 PM Flag
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what is justin's peanut butter? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:53 PM Flag
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We get Justin's almond butter. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:55 PM Flag
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STOP EATING NUTS TREE KILLER. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:58 PM Flag
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Peanut butter [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:57 PM Flag
[ - ] If a female relative reached and picked a stray eyelash off your DH's face while you sat next to him, how would you react or feel about this? 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:41 PM Flag
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I would not think anything of it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:42 PM Flag
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same [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:42 PM Flag
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Is she 89? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:58 PM Flag
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I would think "My MIL is such a bitch!" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:42 PM Flag
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Haha, nice. This is not his mother though. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:43 PM Flag
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His relative? [ Reply | More ]
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Yes [ Reply | More ]
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Wouldn't think anything of it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:47 PM Flag
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Wouldn't bother me. If it bothers you there's likely a lot more to the story than this one incident [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:44 PM Flag
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this [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:53 PM Flag
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I would find it odd [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:54 PM Flag
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I knew a woman who figured out her DH was cheating with her friend when they were all out to dinner and the OW took a bite from her (the woman I know) DH's dinner plate. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:56 PM Flag
[ - ] How do I get an air bubble out of a laminated document I made? The document got folded in half and now there's a giant air bubble in the middle of it. 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:31 PM Flag
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op: I tried steaming it with a clothing steamer and that just made it bigger. Should I try poking it with a needle and then vacuuming it? I don't want to destroy the paper underneath and wrinkle it though. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:32 PM Flag
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UBing like it's 1987! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:35 PM Flag
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op: documents aren't laminated today? Do you laser hologram your documents or something? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:43 PM Flag
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op: and I wasn't even born yet in 1987, so.... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:46 PM Flag
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That's even better. A millennial laminating a document. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:49 PM Flag
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That would be awesome. I miss the 80s. Hey, can someone help me with these dittos I ran off? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:48 PM Flag
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Who sells 12 packs of Tab? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:50 PM Flag
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the store next to the Z Cavaricci and EG Smith place [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:54 PM Flag
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Can someone recommend a good hairspray brand? I've got my bangs teased up a couple inches, but that's not high enough. I need TT bangs. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:58 PM Flag
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Rave is amazing. They sell it in 2 packs at Revco. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:59 PM Flag
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Start over [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:38 PM Flag
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Teacher here (so I do a lot of laminating): You can't. It might work to laminate again (over the first layer), but that can also make things worse. (Before anyone flames, I'm still on summer vacation!) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:41 PM Flag
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op: thanks, I may just get it relaminated. Could the print shop maybe peel off the first lamination and just laminate it again, or would it have to be over the first layer? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:43 PM Flag
[ - ] Anyone have any experience with premature adrenarche? My 8 yo was just diagnosed. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:31 PM Flag
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Too lazy to Google, what is that? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:33 PM Flag
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The adrenal glands kicked in early, so she is getting body hair and body odor. Her bone age (which is what determines the onset of actual puberty with breast development and menstruation) is delayed by two years so despite the hair and odor, she will be a late bloomer. I don't think it is a huge deal, just wondering if anyone else has some insight. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:36 PM Flag
[ - ] Are ponchos in for fall? Are wraps/capes? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:28 PM Flag
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Aren't they classic and always in fashion? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:34 PM Flag
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I have seen them in stores, also wrap style cardigans. They are kind of a fall classic (and always practical for travel and cold offices) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:36 PM Flag
[ - ] Huma Abedin Announces Separation from Husband Anthony Weiner 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:25 PM Flag
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We know. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:26 PM Flag
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Except Trump [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:27 PM Flag
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i didn't [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:29 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:32 PM Flag
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Pop goes the Weiner! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:27 PM Flag
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IT's about fucking time. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:37 PM Flag
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ita [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:39 PM Flag
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Weiner is a sex addict/narcissist. He's extremely ugly. His face is gross. His shoulders slope downwards and he is short. To make himself more attractive he is a gym rat and thinks just because he's got some tone he's Adonis. Delusional. Needs a lot more supply than he's getting at home. Take those kids away just so they have a chance at a normal life. Both parents are too weird to raise normal kids. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:44 PM Flag
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what is "supply" sex? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:44 PM Flag
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why is huma weird? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:54 PM Flag
[ - ] Shopping Help. Need a dress to wear to a bridal shower in two weeks. We'll be mostly outside (in LA) and it's going to be garden/tea party themed. I am the host. I'm tall (5'9) and cury (curvier than I'd like right now, but I "wear it well" - so they say). TIA! 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:25 PM Flag
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PS Thinking about doing Rent the Runway, but open to buying something. Would prefer something under $150. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:25 PM Flag
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Do you have an hour glass figure? Can you wear strapless? What does curvy mean, a size 8 or a 14? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:32 PM Flag
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Can never go wrong with an empire waist that hits between mid-thigh and knee. Flattering on every body type. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:36 PM Flag
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Look at Tuckernuck (online store). (Though if you find something you like, Google b/c they sometimes mark things up.) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:42 PM Flag
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Bring a shawl or wrap of some sort, gets chilly in the evenings. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:57 PM Flag
[ - ] If 10%+ of the graduating class enters an Ivy, is that a good % for a private school? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:23 PM Flag
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Not really, for a private in a big city. But it depends on whether they give out a lot of FA, etc. Which school is this? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:32 PM Flag
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It's decent but not TT. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:35 PM Flag
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What is the % of TT? Examples? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:41 PM Flag
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Spence last year was 50-55% to a list of top 30 schools (top 20 US News nat'l, top 10 liberal arts). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:45 PM Flag
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No. Those would be stats for a top public school system. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:44 PM Flag
[ - ] Do you think it's OK for the working parent to give the non-working parent a list of things to accomplish that day? 38 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:18 PM Flag
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Does the non-working parent never get anything done otherwise? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:20 PM Flag
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Of course. It's things like "these need to be mailed today, we need XYZ from the store, this appointment has to be made, and if you have the chance, please weed the garden." [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:23 PM Flag
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Oh, I think that's fine. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:28 PM Flag
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All but the last are OK. The first three he is telling you because you might not be aware like oh we are out of milk and need to be done asap. The last is giving orders to an end employee how to spend their time, it would piss me off. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:38 PM Flag
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"If you have a chance" is not an order. Dh and I both WOH and have conversations like this [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:43 PM Flag
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NP: we both WOH too but people should have a little awareness of what's going on in their own household and what needs to be done and it should come up in normal conversation around the dinner table perhaps. The idea of getting lists from the other spouse is weird to me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:54 PM Flag
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Totally. I often did that and so did my femal colleagues who also had sahd husbands. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:20 PM Flag
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Yeah but they're men. They need supervision. Kidding, mostly. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:22 PM Flag
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They do need supervision. Domestic stuff is not their domain. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:45 PM Flag
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No, but I see no problem with the partners agreeing to who does what and when. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:21 PM Flag
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Doesn't sound like a healthy dynamic. My dh is a big list maker and does keep a running list of things he'd like my help with. But he doesn't dictate my daily schedule. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:21 PM Flag
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This and +1 to the poster above you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:32 PM Flag
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Yes. Sometimes my DH will have me write down the things I need to get done. He knows I lose focus easily and it helps for me to see things getting "crossed off". Makes me feel less overwhelmed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:22 PM Flag
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What the heck went wrong that you need your dh to parent you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:26 PM Flag
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Not sure, but he's not unhappy and neither am I, so we have a lot of people beat! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:28 PM Flag
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That is dysfunctional on all kinds of levels. We're all dysfunctional in some way. That's yours, I suppose. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:33 PM Flag
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Np I don't see this as dysfunctional sounds like one of them is a better organizer in that way than the other so that person makes the lists. Dh and I both WOHM and I tend to make lists for him because I'm better at it and we're both fine with it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:41 PM Flag
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And it cuts down on him having to repeat himself. He doesn't have to remind me about things anymore. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:46 PM Flag
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+1 I sometimes suggest to my husband that he make a list, and it helps him, too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:35 PM Flag
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Yeah, it also helps him because many times he'll forget to tell me something (or he'll claim he told me!) and then he gets annoyed when something isn't done. Now he knows if it's important it needs to go on The List. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:42 PM Flag
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Of course, and the non-working parent should be eager to tackle it. My DH is currently unemployed and he proactively asks me (I WOH FT) what needs to be done, and he also takes initiative. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:26 PM Flag
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I don't dictate but we both identify things that need to get done and he willingly takes care of them, and takes care of things that were not so evident to me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:26 PM Flag
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Oh, and for you moms who are obsessed with "TT" - unemployed DH is an Ivy grad. :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:27 PM Flag
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You keep posting about him being unemployed. I don't think you're that psyched about it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:33 PM Flag
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Np. Of course she's not. Number one thing women want in a husband is a job. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:47 PM Flag
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No. If my husband needs a specific thing (can you pick up my dry-cleaning, could you mail this for me), that's one thing. If he left me a list, I would probably be pissed. I don't work for him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:33 PM Flag
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+1 (a list sounds like something you'd give to a teenager). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:34 PM Flag
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Exactly. It would make me feel like I was his employee or his child. I can manage the house just fine on my own. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:37 PM Flag
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No? Who pays you an income? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:37 PM Flag
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No, I definitely don't work for my husband. We are partners. But I'm not going to get in a sah/woh fight. MY husband doesn't leave me To Do lists. He acknowledges and appreciates what I do at home while he is at work. Everyone is happy at my house. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:39 PM Flag
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The way you explained above sounds totally normal. Are you upset? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:34 PM Flag
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Whoever takes charge of running the household should give out tasks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:34 PM Flag
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I don't think every marriage has someone who takes charge of running the household. We don't. I manage the DC, he manages a lot of other stuff. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:36 PM Flag
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Depends how you mean. A list of things he needs you to accomplish for him (agreed upon tasks you're in charge of that he's just letting you know need to happen this week, or whatever), sure. Actually writing out your schedule for the day would be weird. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:39 PM Flag
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Of course. And I would get them all done. Why wouldn't that be ok, unless they were impossible requests? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:43 PM Flag
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Because it is controlling and condescending? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:46 PM Flag
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Sometimes you have to tell people what needs to be done or else it never will get done. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:48 PM Flag
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Sure, I don't mind, but I am a happily non-working parent and see it as my contribution. Granted, my dh asks super-nicely, "hey, if you have time, can you drop off my dry cleaning?" and then I say sure and tell him if there's anything else I need to take care of for him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:48 PM Flag
[ - ] Can you give me advice please? My former colleague switched jobs to a better firm. He was making $54K plus overtime plus bonus, which totaled about $110K (overtime was $25K, and he totally fudged it). His new job is $80K, but no overtime, and discretionary bonus. Last year, his first year, his bonus was $4K. So he is really pissed. He also just had a baby, and his wife isn't going back to work. So that's a loss of income of $25k. He has huge student loan debts, $150K, and is basically screwed because he can't make them. He lives above a church for $1500 per month. He is fighting with his boss for a higher bonus, but his boss is saying he cannot give him $30K; he can give him maybe $5K, and the rest should come from the firm (there are two bonuses). So what should he do? He is at a better firm, and I think over time, it will get better (maybe a promotion, maybe a bigger bonus), and I told him his wife should get a job. He says she refuses to leave the baby, plus she won't earn much. I also told him to move in with his in-laws, the wife goes there every day (they leave down the block), and the house is huge. He said the in-laws find the dog to be too hyper. I feel bad for him, but he is making excuses, and just angry. 21 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:14 PM Flag
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Stop trying to help him, and yeah, his wife needs to get a job. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:16 PM Flag
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I know, he sucks like 2 hours a day from me. (We are at the same firm now). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:20 PM Flag
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Jesus, you're not his mother. Ignore him. You gave him reasonable, actionable advice. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:35 PM Flag
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He should go back to his old OT-heavy job. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:22 PM Flag
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he was miserable there. this is partly while I feel bad - because we worked together, I left, moved to a better firm, am very happy, and he reached out and said he wants to come too. so he came and now is in this dilemma. PS the OT was fake. And anyway, the old firm recently cut all OT -- so he would be out the $25K in OT anyway. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:25 PM Flag
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Do NOT bring this guy into your new firm. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:35 PM Flag
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Good thing this is not your problem. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:24 PM Flag
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What a whiner and a thief. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:27 PM Flag
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point out to him that the old firm cut OT, so he should think of it as making more money than he would otherwise have made. and since there is no OT, he can look into a second job since he refuses to cut expenses and his wife refuses to work. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:28 PM Flag
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he did discuss a second job, but says, the firm should feel bad if it comes to that blah blah blah. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:30 PM Flag
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they should feel nothing and remind him that we're all replaceable and he can be replaced in a heartbeat. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:34 PM Flag
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He's very entitled. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:34 PM Flag
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Omg, whiny, entitled child. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:51 PM Flag
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And he's a thief. Sounds like karma got him. No sympathy here. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:54 PM Flag
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Strange that you know about your colleague's finances in so much detail. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:31 PM Flag
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sounds like pillow talk [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:32 PM Flag
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I'm telling you - 2 hours a day of this. I feel bad, and now guilty that I have money. Not much, but I can't talk about money or things I do -- vacations, things like that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:37 PM Flag
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Why are you even talking to him anymore if he is a former colleague? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:41 PM Flag
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he came to my new firm; I came first, he then reached out, and is here now. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:51 PM Flag
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he does the best he can at his current position as he looks for a better job and since he is not working overtime -perhaps he gets a second job. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:34 PM Flag
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Why do you keep trying to help him? Some people just can't be made to do the right thing. Stop being so emotionally invested in this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:36 PM Flag
[ - ] i have not been getting mail in the suburbs for a few weeks now. post office manager says problem is due to mail carrier turnover and imcompetent hires. what can i do/whom can i contact to remedy the problem? tia. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:12 PM Flag
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Extremely usual. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:21 PM Flag
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Whatever happened to "Neither snow nor rain nor heat nor gloom of night stays these couriers from the swift completion of their appointed rounds." [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:37 PM Flag
[ - ] I fell in love with a guy 20 yrs younger than me and vice versa. I don't know what to do. I only live once and doesn't want to give up having been passionately loved even if I get hurt later. I have never felt this way about anyone in my 40 yr old life before and I don't want to give it up. 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:06 PM Flag
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I highly doubt a 20 year old has fallen in love with a 40 year old unless he has some serious issues. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:07 PM Flag
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I look like I am in my 20s [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:40 PM Flag
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You had me until I saw the number 40. Live your passion but know it's probably not for the long term with a 20 y.o. kid. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:14 PM Flag
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you did. he didn't. proceed accordingly. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:29 PM Flag
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He told me he fell in love with me and he never loved anyone before. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:34 PM Flag
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I have a 20 yo son. They're not the clearest thinking. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:40 PM Flag
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Do you have a lot more money than he does? Are you married? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:37 PM Flag
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Just from my age yes I make more money than he does and I am going thru divorce. He doesn't asks me for money or question my finances. He doesn't ever want to get married or have kids. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:43 PM Flag
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He is 20. He can change his mind on that in 20, even 25 years. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:45 PM Flag
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60/40 I could get behind. You're the only adult in the relationship. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:41 PM Flag
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So I'm in my forties also and recently found myself in a similar situation although no admissions of love or even sex. He likes me. I don't think he realizes exactly how much older I am. People usually think I'm 34-36. He's 25. Not sure if I want to proceed for some fun or just enjoy him following me around... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:49 PM Flag
[ - ] I didn't love The Night Of. I know, unpopular opinion 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:05 PM Flag
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No, I mentioned it below. I didn't like the way it ended. They didn't even conclusively figure out who did do it. Or rule out that he did do it. wtf. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:08 PM Flag
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I don't know what this is. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:37 PM Flag
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Then don't respond. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:42 PM Flag
[ - ] I recently lost a lot of weight- healthier eating habits and I have a good metabolism. I work in an exercise studio and there are endless comments about my weight, how thin I am, how great I look, etc. It makes me uncomfortable. It feels like way too much focus/excessive dialogue about calories, food, and body image. I would much prefer "You look great, happy and healthy!" but it never goes that way, they just go on and on. What can I say back to sort of end the dialogue or is there a one liner you can recommend without sounding prickly? 20 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:05 PM Flag
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How much did you lose? Just say "please don't comment about my weight now or ever, thanks" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:06 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:37 PM Flag
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Just tell them you're bored of the subject and switch topics. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:12 PM Flag
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How many lbs are we talking about here? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:12 PM Flag
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Tell them thank you and abruptly switch the topic to something totally unrelated. This will confuse and annoy them that they'll eventually get the hint. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:13 PM Flag
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This [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:44 PM Flag
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Just say "Thanks!" and move the conversation or yourself along. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:16 PM Flag
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OP: That's the thing, I work there, so I can't exactly get moving. They just keep going. They're image conscious and I think they are trying to compliment me but it's really incessant. Wondering if there's something I can say. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:18 PM Flag
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OR: That's the nature of your work environment. Assuming these are clients so you can't be rude/abrupt. Once the newness wears off, there'll be less talk about it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:32 PM Flag
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OP: True, that's all I can hope. Thanks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:41 PM Flag
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Tell them you had an intestinal parasite and it was a really upsetting time that resulted in unhealthy weight loss. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:16 PM Flag
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I know what you mean - when I was thin, all day long, every day, it was "ooooh you're so thin!" "ooooh youre so lucky, you're soo thin". "oooh, do you eat?" It was exhausting. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:20 PM Flag
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OP: Yes, this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:25 PM Flag
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You sound like a narcissist. Get some help and stop overthinking about yourself. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:22 PM Flag
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you sound fat [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:38 PM Flag
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Just say what you've said here [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:23 PM Flag
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OP: It feels abrasive to cut someone off and tell them they're making me uncomfortable, no? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:30 PM Flag
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you work in an exercise studio. of course people are going to comment. just say, i really had to cut calories and let my metabolism kick in. it seems like some part of you must love this attention because it honestly doesn't seem like it warrants a post. sorry. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:31 PM Flag
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This happened to me when I lost weight. I would just say thanks and be super vague "Oh, you know, I just kicked it up a notch at the gym." Or, "I paid more attention to my portions" That would end it - too boring and not trendy enough answers ;) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:47 PM Flag
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You don't look that great. They are just being polite. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 05:49 PM Flag
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