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[ - ] Pregnant and dh is finding any excuse to distance himself from me. I use a less than sunny tone of voice "you're hormonal" and sleeps in the other room. I am walking on eggshells since one slight "wrong" (in his opinion) move means he won't come near me for a day. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 04:18 AM Flag
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Divorce. This is crazy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 04:19 AM Flag
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That sounds really hard, OP… Any way you can cocoon yourself away from him for a week just to get your strength back and not need him? I mean, just ignore him? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 04:54 AM Flag
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I think you mean chrysalis. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 05:01 AM Flag
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She's eating a lollipop [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 05:07 AM Flag
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you guys are the same person [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 05:07 AM Flag
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Horrible. My DH was the same way after years of begging for children. Once pregnant he treated me like a pariah worst period in my life. I stayed because I could not physically/emotionally/financially deal with divorce but I planned to once baby was born. DH is still an ass but better then being single and poorer and having my kid 50% of the time. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 05:29 AM Flag
[ - ] I'm totally craving dessert right now! Anything delicious. I'm on a low carb low sugar diet. Have anothe r20lbs to lose. Lost 16 so far. What can I have? Going crazy!!! 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 04:10 AM Flag
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Apple with sugar free almond butter. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 04:14 AM Flag
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Any other ideas? I think I'm just going to have a kind bar. I have the dark chocolate sea salt. 200 cal and 5 grams sugar. Maybe just eat 1/2 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 04:16 AM Flag
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Grilled pineapple. It's very sweet and satisfying, [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 04:20 AM Flag
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seriously? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 05:17 AM Flag
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Np. I haven't tried this but could see it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 06:00 AM Flag
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Oddly I find the individual dove dark chocolate squares surprisingly satisfying. They're 2 bites, rich, and somehow I can walk away happy. And I never, ever walk away from desserts . . . [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 04:29 AM Flag
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Lexapro [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 05:10 AM Flag
[ - ] Seriously, who wants to rape Lena Dunham? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 04:09 AM Flag
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a blind man [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 05:17 AM Flag
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ed mcmahon-fanciers [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 05:55 AM Flag
[ - ] Feeling down. Turning 40 and was never married. However i have one child. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 04:08 AM Flag
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oh no... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 05:17 AM Flag
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Kids are such a joy :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 05:47 AM Flag
[ - ] I am so tired of stupid black people rioting whenever they're pissed. They are like little children throwing a tantrum. 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 04:04 AM Flag
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it's worked since the 1960s [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 04:05 AM Flag
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They have a lot to be pissed about. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 04:05 AM Flag
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So do toddlers. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 04:07 AM Flag
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Black issues are a much more significance. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 04:08 AM Flag
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Not really. At least toddlers have no independence or control of their environment. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 04:11 AM Flag
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You gotta admit their complaint/aggrieved event ratio is a lot higher than that of other maligned races [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 04:08 AM Flag
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THIS! white SOBs like OP are disgusting [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 05:17 AM Flag
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Yes, everyone should just listen to YOU and do what you think they should. And society's problems would go away. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 04:08 AM Flag
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Society's problems seem to have been much less during segregation. It was better even for black people. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 04:12 AM Flag
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T-R-O-L-L [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 04:20 AM Flag
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& you seem so reasonable, mature and intelligent! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 04:13 AM Flag
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I actually am. You sound ridiculous. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 04:14 AM Flag
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Lol. Calling an entire race stupid? I guess our understandings of those (maybe most?) words differ. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 04:16 AM Flag
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defending rioters, way to win a most reasonable award [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 04:15 AM Flag
[ - ] any psychic moms on here now? 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 04:02 AM Flag
[ - ] Do you think the man they arrested for the murder of IU student Hannah Wilson may have also killed missing IU student Lauren Spierer who went missing in 2011? The media isn't saying much. 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 03:54 AM Flag
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it's not really forefront in my mind. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 03:56 AM Flag
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op: You mean it didn't come to mind that the same guy could be responsible for both murders or you mean you aren't really following the case? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 03:59 AM Flag
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I mean I just don't really give a crap. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 04:03 AM Flag
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That's a different murder, not the one op is talking about. Very sad though. College girls should not be getting murdered. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 04:08 AM Flag
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But all other girls are fair game? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 04:13 AM Flag
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okay, clearly you're just trying to troll. Are you really stupid enough to think that saying college girls shouldn't be murdered implies that other girls should be? Is your IQ that low, or do you just like to try and pick fights? Do you lack ability to read context clues? The link posted above was about the murder of a college student in Virginia. The murder op is talking about is a murder of a college girl in Indiana as well as a possible murder of a missing college girl in Indiana. Clearly the topic at hand is murdered college girls. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 04:17 AM Flag
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accept it, you phrase that one really badly [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 05:19 AM Flag
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Np: weirdo [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 05:48 AM Flag
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i know! that came out so wrong!!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 05:19 AM Flag
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uh? somebody who isn't a college girl SHOULD be getting murdered? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 05:19 AM Flag
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don't know, but you sound like a good crime detective [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 05:18 AM Flag
[ - ] DH is so low energy and was so horrible today after we decided we would work on errands and things for the house. He just crashed and generally hates me every night anyway so we only have a few good hours on weekends before 8-12. He gets home every night at 9pm tired and mad. I get that middle age is not what any of us expected but..jesus, make a little effort. He was the one desperate to start a family and wanted IVF to have 2 sets of twins. He said he could afford SAHW. Nothing came to be true. 18 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 03:48 AM Flag
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Why does he get home so late? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 03:54 AM Flag
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He probably wants to avoid the chaos and work of 2 sets of twins. Op should have stopped at the first set. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 04:02 AM Flag
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this, it's OP's fault in part. who on earth can't anticipate that a house with 2 sets of twins will not be a relaxing place to be? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 05:21 AM Flag
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what kind of dough does he bring in? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 03:55 AM Flag
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lol very UB thing to ask [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 05:21 AM Flag
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This guy better make $2m to stick OP with 4 kids [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 04:03 AM Flag
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OP is to blame for that, her DH wasn't to blame given that they did IVF. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 05:22 AM Flag
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He gets home from work at 9pm? That is exhausting! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 04:06 AM Flag
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ITA. Being tired after a week of that schedule =/= "low energy". Jesus. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 04:10 AM Flag
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np: If he was a woman, though, he'd be getting called "veal" right now, and told, "YOU wanted the dc's, now take care of them." [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 04:23 AM Flag
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??? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 05:22 AM Flag
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You have TWO sets of twins? JFC. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 04:21 AM Flag
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op: I'm so so sorry to imply we have 4 kids. No. This was his dream and plan for us and only way to have his dream "4 kids" when we were in early 40's was IVF twins. I got pregnant before IVF apt with perfect dc and DH is still shit fit to have more although he does not make 25% of what he used to make and the fact that he gets home to a nyc apt at 9-930pm from work for like 150k base and 50k bonus. I also work fulltime and make about the same except I got every thurs afternoon off to spend with dc which has turned into homeowner and parental errands. And next thursday we will be meeting with retirement planner and thursday after that the attorney to make the wills, the window blind installations, Thurs after dc dental appt for dc. How do full time working women do all of this crap? I haven't even gone to a doctor or dentist in 3 years. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 04:53 AM Flag
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"he does not make 25% of what he used to make "??? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 05:23 AM Flag
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op: True: 800k to now luck to make 150k. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 05:33 AM Flag
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sounds like you are the exhausted one without any quality time. have you thought about working part-time only? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 05:25 AM Flag
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WHAT!!?!?! NOTHING?? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 05:20 AM Flag
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op: We are lucy to have a healthy dc. Too old for more children and he does not have the energy level anyway. Technically we could have more ivf, egg donor or adoption but we don't have much money. All the money he made when he was making 800k he put in an irrevocable trust in RE investments (most not great.) He says all I do if worry about retirement (we have almost nothing, like 30k) and he does not even put money in his 401K. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 05:39 AM Flag
[ - ] Do any of you know what it means if somebody has just joined Facebook and when I look at his account it says, instead of "Request Friend", "Friend Request Sent."? I didn't request it. This matters only because it's my ex. Sorry so dull... 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 03:47 AM Flag
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Sorry, you somehow hit the wrong thing at some point and requested it. You can rescind the request. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 04:04 AM Flag
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Has he been on FB in the past (even if a while ago) at a time when you might have friended him? I think if you disable an account and then later resurrect, prior friend requests are sometimes still there. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 05:16 AM Flag
[ - ] Welp, there goes Martin O'Malley's presidential ambitions as the city he ran in the state he ran is destroyed by riots. 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 03:40 AM Flag
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LOL now the Democrats have like 3 candidates, the GOP 13. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 05:26 AM Flag
[ - ] Has anyone lived in the rental at 400 West 63rd? Feedback appreciated. Tia. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 03:26 AM Flag
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Is that the super cheap one with a courtyard? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 03:31 AM Flag
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It has a courtyard and shares amenities with the Aldyn (pool, rock wall, health club, etc.). I don't think it's super cheap though less than the Aldyn. 3 beds seem to start around $9k. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 03:33 AM Flag
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Ok. Don't know this one. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 03:38 AM Flag
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Is the Aldyn good? How much is a 2-3 bedroom there? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 04:05 AM Flag
[ - ] My DH is so immature and depressed or something. I was perfectly happy living in our tiny rental but he wanted to buy. Now every single thing is WW5-WW100. (it was a fixer upper) So floors to walls to closet doors, now 2 A/C's need to be replaced/ blinds/ my ex-beautiful white couch with dc either needs to be replaced or custom slipcovers. DC's room is empty except for his crib and DH acts like I am some spendthrift to think he might need a dresser/desk/ carpet etc. He wanted to move into the apartment before we even got lamps. I found 100 dollar floor lamp on amazon. Why buy an apartment if you are going to be so depressed about making it livable. He has plenty of money but does hate me because I can't/woulnt have more children. We are 45. I did all the work all day anyway and took care of dc and DH went to bed at 10 with dc still jumping around. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 03:19 AM Flag
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why didn't you use the stuff you had in your tiny rental? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 03:24 AM Flag
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Of course I have and it was all my stuff but db was sleeping in the kitchen and it was an alcove studio. Now we had a fixer upper that needed new floors/walls had to be done/ baby now has a room as opposed to the kitchen/ neither of us had desks or chest-of -drawers. Couch had been trashed by DB. We never had a kitchen table and just ate on a coffee table but db is 2 now and he needs to eat dinner properly also. It is just weird because I am not a shopper or a decorator but trying to do this relatively cheaply and not only do I get no appreciation or enthusiasm or appreciation but DH acts like the "things" are for me. A rug or a bed or a dresser for db is not "for me." He should do it himself. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 03:33 AM Flag
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Sorry to bore you all with the complaining but this is the same guy who used to make 800k and still gives 10k to his college every year. We can afford for the baby to get a throw rug for his room and a lamp. DH did live like a crazy Unabomber bachelor before but still don't buy a house if don't want a couch people can sit on. He certainly felt comfortable paying for his BMW 7 series and taking it to get fixed every month. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 03:25 AM Flag
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Oh I remember you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 03:28 AM Flag
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He does not want to grow up. Sounds like he needs therapy. He is 45? Time to deal or do some therapy on the cause of this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 03:34 AM Flag
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Why are your do still up at 10pm?? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 04:03 AM Flag
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Why am I still up? I am 45 and it is saturday night and I watch saturday night live and I worked my ass off all day and deserve it. Why are you still up? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 04:58 AM Flag
[ - ] The ONE question I wanted Diane Sawyer to ask was whether he thought OJ was guilty. (he would know) 18 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 03:16 AM Flag
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how would he know? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 03:22 AM Flag
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He's not the lawyer. Right? The father of Kim is the lawyer and deceased. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 03:27 AM Flag
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yes, wth [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 03:33 AM Flag
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presumably, he would have told kris and she would have relayed it to bruce. but she's already said in her cookbook that she believes he is somehow involved in her death. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 03:48 AM Flag
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in a cookbook??? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 05:27 AM Flag
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LOL [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 03:28 AM Flag
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johnny cochran be dead [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 03:34 AM Flag
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really? oh, well. just a weasel. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 03:48 AM Flag
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oh please, they used to vacation together. all the kids and wives etc. both athletes etc. he knows. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 03:36 AM Flag
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and shit, khloe could be OJs kid. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 03:37 AM Flag
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gtfo. she is too white. look at oj's kids with his second wife. they are much darker. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 03:48 AM Flag
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^^ she could totally be a Kardashian type. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 03:59 AM Flag
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no, she is much blacker. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 04:13 AM Flag
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and she's a fatty without any body shape [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 05:28 AM Flag
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the boyfriend is a fatso as well, a nice couple that way [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 05:29 AM Flag
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Ha. Can you imagine if he actually said that. The headline next day would be, OJ did it said the woman! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 04:24 AM Flag
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LOL [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 05:29 AM Flag
[ - ] Do you ever allow DH to touch your rectum zone or is it off-limits? 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 03:14 AM Flag
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Absolutely. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 03:15 AM Flag
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Allowed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 03:29 AM Flag
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I wish he would but he's not that adventurous. My last ex used to though, mostly just the around the outside or just the tip of the finger inside. Would feel amazing when I was on top. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 03:30 AM Flag
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mine has no interest in anything but stick it in frat guy sex so no. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 03:36 AM Flag
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I did and enjoyed it (needed a couple of drinks to loosen inhibition but it felt awesome and intense. However, it totally aggravated hemorrhoids from pregnancies... Now I'm afraid to "go there." TMI, I know. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 03:36 AM Flag
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Doesn't it hurt? Or you make him use a lubricant? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 03:51 AM Flag
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He has never tried to do this, but if he did, I would stop him [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 05:50 AM Flag
[ - ] I have joie d vive. Anyone else? So weird. Horrible things are happening all the time in my life...really there is so much pain but somehow these trials and tribulations reveal something new, amazing and necessary - and I feel euphoria at that moment. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 03:04 AM Flag
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I wish I were you. I'm happy a lot of the time despite some shitty stuff but I see the good. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 03:05 AM Flag
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OP. Well, I'd give a lot to just be in dull-normal zone without the lows and highs. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 03:25 AM Flag
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stfu [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 03:06 AM Flag
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are you the OP of the major depression post? I didn't see that until after I posted so it's just coincidence that we are neighbors here. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 03:29 AM Flag
[ - ] I am suffering with major depression and loss. I want to go to a retreat/spa but can't afford the Canyon Ranches and Miravals anymore. I have been there several times but my budget has changed. Any ideas? Thank you. 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 03:02 AM Flag
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Sorry, OP. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 03:06 AM Flag
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A hike in the woods? Seriously - best therapy there is. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 03:07 AM Flag
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Do you know of any reliable groups that host these trips? I don't want to go with sketchy people or places. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 03:08 AM Flag
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REI and Backpacket magazind will have good info. Jennifer Phar Davis (holds the record for fasted time completing the Appalachian Trail) runs something similar. Look Blue Ridge Hiking Co. http://blueridgehikingco.com/ [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 03:33 AM Flag
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Not being snarky but psychiatrist, behavior therapy and meds. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 03:08 AM Flag
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I think I want to try au natural. :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 03:09 AM Flag
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You need to be open to trying new things since what you were doing didn't work. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 03:39 AM Flag
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Would you consider a luxury rehab facility? Health insurance may cover a mood disorder (depression); it could help you to overcome this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 03:09 AM Flag
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I would love it but I don't have mental health insurance right now. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 03:10 AM Flag
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omg insurance totally does not cover this [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 03:35 AM Flag
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Appalachian Mountain Club hosts hikes and other trips [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 03:19 AM Flag
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+1. Lots of hiking clubs along the AT. You can also get in touch with the Appalachian Trail Conservancy - they should have a list of all the clubs. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.15, 03:50 AM Flag
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when you say major depression have you been diagnosed? [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Best umbrella stroller for use in Manhattan? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Uppababy g-lite [ Reply | More ]
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