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[ - ] Please UK send us your Poles! We Americans want the Polish people. Come on over Polish people. You are welcome here. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:24 PM Flag
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Like things aren't bad enough [ Reply | More ]
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Someone is obsessed with the Poles. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Did your child participate in the Math Olympiad? My DC scored top 2% in the world. She is in middle school. I am trying to decide the best way to nurture her gift. 19 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:12 PM Flag
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Stop posting. She is in middle school. You don't nurture anymore. She d&e idea. What HS does she want? [ Reply | More ]
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She decides. [ Reply | More ]
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She's 11. We are not sure about HS yet. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:20 PM Flag
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Just finished 6th grade? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:33 PM Flag
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Your responses on the other thread make it pretty obvious you are making this up. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:17 PM Flag
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I am not making it up. I didn't even respond on the other thread. I fell asleep. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:18 PM Flag
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You responded quite a bit actually [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:29 PM Flag
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eye roll [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:17 PM Flag
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Congratulations! That is a huge accomplishment!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:23 PM Flag
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Wouldn't this be a question for her teachers? They will be able to give you some suggestions. [ Reply | More ]
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I will speak to the school. Was just asking here, too. [ Reply | More ]
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I am glad for your child but you realize that she scored in the top 2% of kids who participated, not the world. Hope she had fun. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:25 PM Flag
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Exactly. Not that many participate. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:26 PM Flag
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Don't fall asleep. [ Reply | More ]
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Stop being annoying [ Reply | More ]
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Amazing. That's great. My kid got a certificate for participating. Not sure where he placed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:29 PM Flag
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Top 2% is not high. At our school, they consider top .5% impressive. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:31 PM Flag
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What is your idea of nurturing her math abity? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:32 PM Flag
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Where do you live? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:32 PM Flag
[ - ] If you were going to get a gift (under $200) from someone right now, what would you want?? Can be material object or an outing. DH wants me to give him bday gift suggestions and I can't think of anything good! Any ideas? Thanks! 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:08 PM Flag
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I like Roundies. [ Reply | More ]
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Gift certificate to a spa. [ Reply | More ]
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Wine club [ Reply | More ]
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Dinner. [ Reply | More ]
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cash [ Reply | More ]
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Gift cert for Nordstrom, Bloomies etc, dinner or spa. Or a case of wine. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:30 PM Flag
[ - ] Wise women. I need your advice. One of my best friends doesn't like my boyfriend. Her reasons are silly, but I understand it. He would be happy to be friends with her if given the chance. He's not happy about how she affects our relationship. What can/should I do? Is the friendship more important or the dating? I guess basically I either need a way to bring them to a peaceful place or cut one of them out. 18 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:06 PM Flag
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WTF. How old are you that you can't manage a bf and a f? What is this cut out BS. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:10 PM Flag
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Well, I'm just asking for help. Because I want to manage it and be fair to everyone. But it's not easy for me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:23 PM Flag
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i don't know why they need to be friends. you just deal with them separately. i would question a friend who told me she didn't like my boyfriend, though. unless there is abuse, there is no place for that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:14 PM Flag
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+1. You are way too "close" to your bf if she is essential to your daily existence. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:17 PM Flag
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Yes there is. I was engaged to an ass. My friends didnt like him. They were right. That's what friends do. Tell the truth. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:18 PM Flag
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wrong. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:18 PM Flag
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Well, all of my other friends like him. He's not a bad apple. She has her reason, and I understand it, but to me it isn't worth breaking up with him. But he gets annoyed when she's involved in something so he's excluded. My 30th birthday is coming up and obviously I'd like them to both be there. I don't think it will be a major issue, but I am a little nervous. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:22 PM Flag
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what is her reason? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:24 PM Flag
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He rejected her friend. They didn't even date. So I get that she doesn't want to talk to him or befriend him, but she doesn't want me to either. And well, obviously I do. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:26 PM Flag
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Her other friend wanted to date him and he said, "no thanks" and she doesn't want to talk to him now?? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:28 PM Flag
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Correct [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:30 PM Flag
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Then, you either don't know the whole story or she is crazy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:32 PM Flag
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np: if this is it, then she should dump this "friend." this is really weird. I woudn't "get that she doesn't want to talk to him or befriend him" she sounds like she is 8 years old. how old is this idiot? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:31 PM Flag
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This is what we are trying to say to you. Why can't they both be there? If she can't keep her opinions to herself for one night, she's an immature a-hole. Same for him. This would be a non-issue for me at all. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:25 PM Flag
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^^I would add that, if her "reason" turns out to be the undoing of your relationship, you cannot go to her for sympathy. You lose that privilege when you ignore a major red flag. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:26 PM Flag
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Yes. I'm aware that she might choose to never speak to me again. And this makes me sad to think about. But if I had to choose between the two, I choose him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:28 PM Flag
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You are right. I will ask him to try not to go out of his way to be friendly to her (give her some space), just polite greetings. Send her an invite and let her decide the role she wants to play in my life going forward. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:27 PM Flag
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Dorinda? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:33 PM Flag
[ - ] List the top 3 tips that help you get through life - meaning they help you be happier, healthier, more organized, etc). These are tips that you would want to pass down to your dcs at some point. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:05 PM Flag
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Make your own happiness in life. Have low expectations of other people, and you may be pleasantly surprised, but you won't be let down. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:09 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:28 PM Flag
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Save money. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:12 PM Flag
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The Serenity Prayer. Signed, an atheist. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:16 PM Flag
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:) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:22 PM Flag
[ - ] Professional moms:I'm a mid level at very good, very well known firm in nyc. Things are going ok, but not great. I have offers in my niche practice area at other firms that aren't quite as sterling but I think the work I will get will be better. Should I stay at my firm to be a third-class citizen for the next few years, but have the name on my resume, or jump ship? Afraid to leave the name behind. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 12:59 PM Flag
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how long have you been there? always in the same position or have you made moves? do you have upside there at all? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:01 PM Flag
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Three and a half years. The upside is better exit opportunities later on down the line [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:12 PM Flag
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np: I would leave. That is a respectable amount of time to be at that company. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:30 PM Flag
[ - ] There are lice salons in NY? 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 12:47 PM Flag
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Yes. Very expensive. You go the first time but then learn to do it yourself [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 12:50 PM Flag
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Op: how do I find one? Am on the UWS. I hired lice ladies last time we had a breakout and it cost 750 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 12:57 PM Flag
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Google [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:00 PM Flag
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Licensers is what I used. Friend used hair faires. They advertise in those free kid papers. Ask friends. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:11 PM Flag
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Licenders [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:12 PM Flag
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Lice enders. The is also one on the lower west side but I can't remember the name of it. They all check your heads for free to see if you have it yet. They are all expensive. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:11 PM Flag
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Apparently. I have to say, I've been impressed every time this question comes up. New Yorkers have some go-to places and people for that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 12:51 PM Flag
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if you have lice, go to the Jewish orthodox ladies -- they are cheaper and more thorough! One of those places found nothing on me or my dh; same day the lady I went to found some on both of us; they are relaxed and friendly (when I asked what I should do while I waited the two hours for an appointment, she told me to take my kids for ice cream. Also it's a trip to be in a household with 13 kids. Here's a web site: http://www.liceconsultant.com/read-what-s-been-said-about-ushttp://www.liceconsultant.com/read-what-s-been-said-about-us [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 12:57 PM Flag
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But you have to go to brooklyn [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:12 PM Flag
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There's a place in Brooklyn that will come to your apartment. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:12 PM Flag
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PLEASE ITS BREAKFAST TIME. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:17 PM Flag
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Then go eat [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:19 PM Flag
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Vomtastic post. I can't. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:21 PM Flag
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Wow! You get grossed out easily. I'm eating while I'm reading this post. :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:31 PM Flag
[ - ] Did you ever know anyone who mostly expressed themselves using clichés? What is your impression of that person? 20 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 12:42 PM Flag
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Such as? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 12:52 PM Flag
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Oh. There are people who use clichés almost constantly. Until I caught myself about 15 years ago I think I was one of them. It's very easy to do but it is not something that helps you or the person listening to you. I made a conscious effort to stop. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 12:56 PM Flag
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Op here: I just did it again. haha. The expression "conscious effort" is a cliché. Honestly, I have to be more cognizant. I think part of the problem has been that I worked in a medical field and spoke that jargon and then, in my private life, I used an even easier, more fluent jargon. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:00 PM Flag
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"Conscious effort" is not a cliche. And, no, it is not "very easy to do." [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:18 PM Flag
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I disagree. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:24 PM Flag
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Six of one, half a dozen of the other. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:29 PM Flag
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hehe "Touché!" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:31 PM Flag
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You mistake idiom for cliche. Boom. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:26 PM Flag
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Again, when idiom is overused it becomes tired and cliché. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:30 PM Flag
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Been there, done that [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 12:58 PM Flag
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a loose cannon [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:02 PM Flag
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all your eggs in one basket [ Reply | More ]
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go against the grain [ Reply | More ]
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That's odd. I don't judge people for that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:13 PM Flag
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People with glass houses shouldn't throw stones. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:29 PM Flag
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I like cliches. Make your point in a way everyone can quickly understand. Plus you drive yourself unnecessarily crazy trying to avoid them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:18 PM Flag
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It would be fun for your to just become aware of the language you use and the language the people around you use. Listen! It may lead you to having an epiphany. :) Enjoy your day. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:26 PM Flag
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Right. Kill two birds with one stone. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:30 PM Flag
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This is something I have never noticed about anyone. I have, however, noticed when people use the same phrases (which I suppose are cliches) a lot. My sister is always saying, "That's spot on." [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:27 PM Flag
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Is she Britsh? If not, annoying "beyond belief." See how common they are? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:33 PM Flag
[ - ] My ex wants to go back to court for higher custody and more time. He gets every other weekend, every other holiday and two weeks in the summer but I have sole custody due to very bad behavior at the time we settled. It works okay and I do not think it is in my child's interest to change it. This past year he cancelled visits for reasons I do not consider valid and et I still try to accommodate things like early and late pick ups. Anyway, and little thing I say no to - for instance having a pick up at my work to save 20 minutes of driving - he makes it a war. At the last ays he has "lots of evidence on me" and is taking me to court. I have tremendous anxiety anyway and when he does this I go into an emotional tailspin, can't sleep etc. Yesterday I started imaging - just a thought - that he was spying on me with a camera affixed to my neighbors house because he also seems to know my comings and goings more than he should. Do I have a mental disorder? This man gaslighted me and emotionally abused me but I thought I was over it. 25 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 12:36 PM Flag
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Try not to worry. Worrying doesn't help anything. Just remind yourself of that. Write down pertinent facts and go to court rested and prepared. He has what he has. Lets say he has been filming you. (Doubt it). Nothing you can do about that now. Live your life. Be wise. Go to court. Good luck! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 12:41 PM Flag
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And do t let him see you sweat! [ Reply | More ]
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Okay, indulging my paranoia, would the footage me admissible in court? Wouldn't that be illegal? He also records me every time he talks to me. I do nothing wrong. It's intimidation. What he might get is me acting crazed running back inside the house and leaving dc (6) in carseat) in the morning. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 12:44 PM Flag
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I have sole custody and it seems to count for nothing. He blew up screaming in the court and yelled at the child advocate and didn't pay CS for 16 months (held in contempt). Also tried to go to police on me twice over things like not including a medication (an oversight) claiming I was neglectful. He's crazy, yet attorney tells me that what happened a year ago doesn't matter. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 12:47 PM Flag
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He has t stopped being crazy. Just don't let him push your buttons. Live your life. Go to court. If you get upset - that's what he wants. You divorced him. You don't have to be the same role. He can say and do whatever he wants - you only control your reaction to him. Worst case, he gets more visits. Nobody dies [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 12:54 PM Flag
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What have you done? Converse in writing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 12:47 PM Flag
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Not illegal. When you're out in public nobody needs permission to film or photograph you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:02 PM Flag
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He is crazy. I doubt he will get more time. Did your neighbors allow him to put camera there? You need your lawyer to take action, seriously, this is invasion of privacy [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 12:45 PM Flag
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She is imagining a camera. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 12:48 PM Flag
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My neighbors have a camera. We are in a connected unit so it would capture me. Now they have footage of me peering at it yesterday. It is probably just there because they are gone a lot. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 12:49 PM Flag
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Forget about the camera. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 12:54 PM Flag
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What more does he want? Decision making ability? More summer weeks? Wednesday night? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 12:49 PM Flag
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Primary custody now that he has a GF who also confronts me angrily (in front of child). I think she believes whatever lies he tells. He and his GF allude to my unfitness and that they have a file on me or something. They have e-mails I wish I had not sent, none recent, and weepy messages I left when he was leaving me. The worst I do is work a lot sometimes bc I get minimal support, maybe one night a week. I have not even had a boyfriend for years. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 12:55 PM Flag
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DC is with grandparents when I work. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 12:55 PM Flag
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Ok. They have what they have. Learn to behave. Don't give them more and get on with life. Chances are great the GF does not want full custody. There is NOTHING YOU CAN DO about what they do. Act right. Stop sending and saying things you shouldn't. And stop worrying about some silly "file". Truth be told, most people collecting evidence against someone don't warn them! It's most likely all bluster [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:00 PM Flag
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He won't get that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:01 PM Flag
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They are trying to go for primary physical custody so that your ex won't have to pay CS to you and you would have to pay CS to them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:05 PM Flag
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^^They are trying to intimidate you so that you will be easier on ex regarding child support. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:09 PM Flag
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Put a camera up on your house aimed at where they drop off dd. don't tip them off. Make them wonder how long it's been there. Be stealth about installation [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:03 PM Flag
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Unless he's abusing the children, custody should be more even. Try to look at this calmly as what's best for the children rather than just trying to win the fight with your ex. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:04 PM Flag
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It's pretty good (and typical) except for summer [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:14 PM Flag
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seriously, if the kids are being dropped off at grandparents anyway then why not with the father. My ex out played me, he lost custody and then petitioned to have my mother (father dead) declared unfit to be alone with the children (She had had a stroke but was fine)...Judge ordered no change in custody but grandmother to only have supervised visits which knocked out my free child care. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:17 PM Flag
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Wow. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:20 PM Flag
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I hope you have a list of they days he has canceled or has benn late for pick up or drop off, courts consider that when giving more time more than anything else, the judge will say, why do you want me to grant you more time when you can't handle the time you have? [ Reply | More ]
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I think you have a mental disorder. You are imagining things. Any more time with dc is a good thing, regardless of what you think. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Happy Pride! 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Happy Pride ! :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 12:44 PM Flag
[ - ] Any advice on starting an herb garden in the kitchen? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 12:19 PM Flag
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go to home depot, buy pots, soil, herbs. pot and put on counter or window sill. the end. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:16 PM Flag
[ - ] Our wonderful nanny called out Monday bc her father died. DH spoke to her and said, sure if you need time off just ask. Several days later she called to say she was sick and would be out the rest of the week. He tells me this is fishy and he doesn't believe her. I was away helping my parents when this happened. I feel like he should have said "take the week off" from the outset and find it disturbing that he think she is lying about something like this. 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 11:51 AM Flag
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Did she go back to work in Tuesday? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 11:59 AM Flag
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It was last Sunday that she said she wouldn't be in Monday. Tomorrow will be one week, hasn't said yet whether she is coming back. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 12:06 PM Flag
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Yes, he should have given her the whole week off. She may have lied because she didn't think that asking for more time off due to grief was legitimat. She may be lying, she may not, either way, he should back off and let it go. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 12:01 PM Flag
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This. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 12:08 PM Flag
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who cares if she is sick or not...her dad died - you guys should have given her the week off from the start [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 12:06 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 12:08 PM Flag
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I'd just consider her sick with grief, and tell her to let you know when she feels well enough to come back. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 12:24 PM Flag
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First of all, one day for the death of a father?! Yes. This is grief. She does not feel comfortable enough with you and your DH for some reason to just be honest. We had a guy at work so this. He was South American. made me feel like maybe American's are more callous than other cultures that he had to lie to get more than a week off for his mother. She might also have financial business to take case of. [ Reply | More ]
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Sounds like vacation to me. Have you googled if her father died? Did you ask where to send flowers? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 12:46 PM Flag
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Most people don't lie about their parents dying. Bad mojo. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 12:52 PM Flag
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This [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:13 PM Flag
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Good lord. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:29 PM Flag
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omg! she needs a week off at least? is she going to funeral? where is it? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:02 PM Flag
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I took a week when my father died, and that was for a non-challenging office job. No way I could have taken care of children that week. Would you really have left yours with her? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:05 PM Flag
[ - ] If your spouse is physically abusive but never leaves marks what do you do for evidence? 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 11:46 AM Flag
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hidden camera [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 11:50 AM Flag
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I never know where something is going to happen [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 11:51 AM Flag
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These things occur about every two weeks how can I just leave a camera running that whole time? It would get found. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 11:55 AM Flag
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Turn it on when you sense he's getting angry. A lot of them have remotes. Start your iPhone recording and put it down somewhere. Make sure you stay in the same room with the recording device. Use your words out loud to describe what is happening, like "don't grab me like that, it hurts" etc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 12:01 PM Flag
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Nanny cams run all the time [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 12:01 PM Flag
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Why do you need this evidence? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 12:07 PM Flag
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this not sure why you need evidence, just leave before more abuse happens [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 12:21 PM Flag
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no need for evidence, get the hell out of there! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 12:31 PM Flag
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I apologize for the insensitivity of this question, but what abuse leaves no marks? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 12:26 PM Flag
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Hello? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 12:40 PM Flag
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NP. I thi k it's a good question. What physical abuse that can be used as "eviden se" leaves no mark? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 12:46 PM Flag
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slaps, hair pulling, punches to the stomach, getting beaten with a rubber hose leaves no marks, I can think of more, but that isn't the point, is it? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 12:53 PM Flag
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A rubber hose doesn't leave welts? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 12:54 PM Flag
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not often, google it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:05 PM Flag
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It was exactly my poi t. Asking OP what physical abuse she was trying to capture but thanks for your speculation [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:04 PM Flag
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"Hit them in the stomach -- it doesn't bruise, and then it's just your word against theirs." Advice from my late father, who was a police officer in the 50s and 60s. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 01:05 PM Flag
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