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[ - ] Is my DH depressed: he is cranky, unmotivated, avoids healthy dialog about himself (me wanting him to address his issues) and says he doesn't even like his work anymore (sick of the entire Industry not just his job). He told me yesterday to leave him alone and to let him figure out his own stuff vs me trying to offer advice. I am worried about him... 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:14 AM Flag
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Did psychic mom log off? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:21 AM Flag
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Probably. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:36 AM Flag
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Don't need a psychic to know that he is. Leave him alone for a week and see if he comes out of his shell. Let HIM come to YOU. Otherwise you will just piss him off. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:25 AM Flag
[ - ] Anyone take the Myers Briggs personality test? What type were you? Did you agree? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:12 AM Flag
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ENTJ, yes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:16 AM Flag
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I haven't taken that one, but took the Disc one and I agreed with that [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:08 AM Flag
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ENFP, though I feel like I could be INFP [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:22 AM Flag
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I'm INFP and my soon to be husband is ESTJ - bad? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:36 AM Flag
[ - ] would you date or marry a man with a non life threatening but nevertheless noticeable deformity? be honest. 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:01 AM Flag
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I would if he has the important qualities that I am looking for [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:09 AM Flag
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I'm asking because my brother has this: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pectus_excavatum and he claims that no woman would ever love him. he refuses to even try to get a date and it's really sad :( [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:00 AM Flag
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That's not terrible. I liked a guy with severe scoliosis when I was a teenager (one shoulder was slightly higher than the other). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:05 AM Flag
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It's an excuse. Don't buy into his self-pity. There's a lot more to attraction than just looks! If he's self-pitying and insecure that will self-sabotage than any deformity could interfere. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:17 AM Flag
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this! insecurity is unattractive, deformities alone are not [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:16 AM Flag
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This would not be a deal breaker for me. Can you even really tell when he is wearing a shirt? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:05 AM Flag
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You can tell if you are looking for it specifically, but it doesn't look too bad. He works out his chest muscles a lot to try to cover it up, so that's the first thing I think women would notice if they were looking there. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:08 AM Flag
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I think I dated a guy like this, though it wasn't so pronounced. Yes, plenty of women could love him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:18 AM Flag
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Does the deformity affect his penis? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:58 AM Flag
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yes, he has an extra growing out the base of his spine, like f*** tail. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:06 AM Flag
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I think when I was younger, maybe not, but as I get older and the ins and outs of marriage are SO hard with someone who is pretty attractive, that something like a deformity does not matter so much if the man is wonderful company. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:12 AM Flag
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I dated a guy who had moles all over 1/3 of his body (hey DeGrim!) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:13 AM Flag
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I know someone who was a thalidomide baby and it seems like he has a girlfriend who is "normal" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:19 AM Flag
[ - ] Poor Mrs. Sotloff. Heart breaking. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:48 AM Flag
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? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:03 AM Flag
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Don't you read the fucking news? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:09 AM Flag
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i avoid these days, for good reason. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:23 AM Flag
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Just beyond awful. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:09 AM Flag
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Horrendous [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:59 AM Flag
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Sickening [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:17 AM Flag
[ - ] Terrorists. Let's get rid of 'em. 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:45 AM Flag
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Too bad the republicans killed the best terrorist-killer of all time: Saddam Hussein. Assad is also very good at killing terrorists and yet, whose head were the republicans calling for just 6 months ago? Oh yeah, that's right, another great terrorist-killer's. Let's face it, republicans love their terrorists and hate their terrorist killing dictators. Why? because the terrorists are into religion and the dictators were literally socialists (arab socialst ba'ath party). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:48 AM Flag
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Brilliant post, thank you [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:53 AM Flag
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This makes no sense at all. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:57 AM Flag
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These guys may have killed terrorists, but they are also responsible for the deaths of thousands of innocents. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:46 AM Flag
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and the Islamic State will be responsible for the deaths of millions if it isn't stopped. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:50 AM Flag
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You can say that about the United States too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:51 AM Flag
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Um, no. This comparison is simplistic. The Islamic State will stop at nothing to take over the world. They don't value human life at all. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:55 AM Flag
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but the comparison between say, the United States, which has killed terrorists and is also responsible for the deaths of thousands of innocents, and the secular dictators isn't so simplistic... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:57 AM Flag
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It's not simplistic, it's idiotic. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:22 AM Flag
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I'm a patriot but the USA killed hundreds of thousands of innocents in Iraq and Vietnam. There's no difference between someone like Saddam and the United States. Saddam killed thousands but he also brought order, stability, and progress to Iraq. The United States does the same in much of the world, but it isn't an easy or bloodless process. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:14 AM Flag
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Turn the entire Middle East into a giant sandbox. Otherwise, it will NEVER end. Ever. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:05 AM Flag
[ - ] Any HR moms on? Would a company not hire you if they found out you get migraines? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:43 AM Flag
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In theory they can't not hire you because of it. However, the reality may be that they will simply identify a legit reason not to hire you because they're not going to want someone who is always calling out or leaving early, etc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:00 AM Flag
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Basically, the message you want to communicate to HR is that you are an obedient worker-bot who does not aspire to rise too high but would gladly slave away 72 hours a week if you could (damn gubmint) and nothing short of a being paralyzed from the neck down would convince you to think otherwise. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:16 AM Flag
[ - ] Name poll: Babby and Agnes (twin girls, fraternal, yes I did IVF). 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Fug [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:47 AM Flag
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You don't these names sound "old money?" That's what I'm going for. I like them! - OP [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:49 AM Flag
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Barbara and Agens, nn Babby and Aggy [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:39 AM Flag
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TY I like that [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:59 AM Flag
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love love love Agnes. Babby not at all... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:44 AM Flag
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thanks. Any suggestions for an alternative to Babby..? TIA if you do! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:46 AM Flag
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Margerite, Jaqueline, Hazel, - [ Reply | More ]
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^-or [ Reply | More ]
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^Sofia -or [ Reply | More ]
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Fakey and Fakina [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:06 AM Flag
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I suspect you're making a jab at someone you know in RL. Not cool. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:34 AM Flag
[ - ] Best way to lose the ten pounds I gained this summer while out of NYC? Go! (Please!) 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:39 AM Flag
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Lemon water when craving snacks. Workout 3 times a week. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:40 AM Flag
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weights? cardio? interval? all of these?? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:43 AM Flag
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a bit of everything. you won't want to eat crap after you work out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:10 AM Flag
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Go back to walking everywhere. That's the problem with leaving nyc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:45 AM Flag
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I agree! My UP band goes back on tomorrow! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:02 AM Flag
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I swear, New Jersey means weight gain for me no matter what I do. NYC keeps me thin. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:10 AM Flag
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That is secretly one of the reasons I stay though I blame it on the more socially acceptable commuting issues. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:02 AM Flag
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Lol me too. I will stay and go into debt just so I don't blow up like a balloon on mall food. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:15 AM Flag
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Weight Watchers online. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:58 AM Flag
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never been a ww kind. i don't have the constitution for calorie counting! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:02 AM Flag
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Spanx! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:00 AM Flag
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Cleansing diet, exercise daily, eat vegetarian foods. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:13 AM Flag
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not low carb, high protein? you think better results with veg? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:16 AM Flag
[ - ] You're pretty much an insipid cunt if you're writing comments on here that put down women who have kids later, have IVF, or need to work to help support their families. 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:27 AM Flag
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"insipid" was an interesting choice. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:16 AM Flag
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life is a contest for most people. who's got the nicest stuff. the biggest house. the best looks. went to the top school. the highest paying job. the winners are exalted, the losers are taunted and ridiculed for all eternity. having kids later/IVF/working to support families means you lost. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:29 AM Flag
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you're an asshole [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:32 AM Flag
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I think she's just explaining the mindset. I hope. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:33 AM Flag
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oh ok. i hope so. believing this is true is pretty gross. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:33 AM Flag
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you are correct. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:36 AM Flag
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not my personal views. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:21 AM Flag
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And then you die. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:21 AM Flag
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Not really, it means you're not WT if you have them later [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:42 AM Flag
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granny mom? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:22 AM Flag
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No, I had my kids by 34, but I do work. I need to, and fortunately I also like to. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:35 AM Flag
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Your life will be much easier if you learn not to suffer fools. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:36 AM Flag
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Ok so using the c-word when you're scolding others for putting people down is not the most effective way to get your message across... thanks Mommy! Now go scold someone else. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:37 AM Flag
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It's fitting. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:47 AM Flag
[ - ] Go Warren! New York Cancels or Postpones Opening of 45 Pre-K Programs 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:26 AM Flag
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Nine private programs that were to offer free, city-financed prekindergarten this year will not open because of safety concerns or other issues, and 36 programs will not be ready to open on Thursday, the first day of school, New York City officials announced on Tuesday. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:27 AM Flag
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This is good. I would rather have a Mayor willing to postpone if there is any safety issue instead of worrying about the politics. Universal pre-k is a GOOD thing, no matter how much OP thinks it is not. And it is certainly sensible to try, but postpone some programs if they aren't ready. I'm sorry that seems to bother some people. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:18 AM Flag
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Poor planning is called good leadership? Mmmmm liberal logic? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:22 AM Flag
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"The 45 programs cited on Tuesday by the city represent a small percentage of the roughly 1,100 private sites that are scheduled to open on Thursday. Over 50,000 children have been signed up for full-day prekindergarten programs this year, an increase of 30,000 from last year. The city plans to add 20,000 more seats next year. About two-thirds of the seats are in private programs, which have undergone rigorous inspections by fire and health officials and employees of the Education Department. " [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:20 AM Flag
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^^^Shame on de Blasio for having an inspection process and holding up those that are not ready. I mean, what kind of leadership is that? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:20 AM Flag
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And they couldn't have made that decision two weeks ago? What are all those parents going to do? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:37 AM Flag
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this [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:53 AM Flag
[ - ] Is anyone striving toward FI and looking to retire before 50 or in their 40s? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:26 AM Flag
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Not going to be able to make it. Would love to quit at 60 though. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:37 AM Flag
[ - ] do educated people actually believe in god? 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:15 AM Flag
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Why not? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:21 AM Flag
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Some do. Lot's of educated people have not taken very many science classes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:35 AM Flag
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Lot's of people on UB can't differentiate between plural and possessive [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:47 AM Flag
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I can't. I studied engineering not whatever unemployable humanities subject you got your degree in. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:51 AM Flag
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Try a comma after engineering next time. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:47 AM Flag
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zzzzzzzzzzzzz [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:38 AM Flag
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I am highly educated and believe in God. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:44 AM Flag
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Probably when they are in a foxhole. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:48 AM Flag
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I believe in God, not so much religious dogma [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:48 AM Flag
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Yes, and many scientists believe that the complexity inherent in the universe is not a matter of chance. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:06 AM Flag
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I believe in God, but not the Christian definition/picture of God. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:18 AM Flag
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Yes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:20 AM Flag
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You mean someone like Einstein? [ Reply | More ]
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Unitarians [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:35 AM Flag
[ - ] How do you convince a guy who's given up on women to change his mind? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:14 AM Flag
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You don't [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:20 AM Flag
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If he loves cock you can't. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:36 AM Flag
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could be asexual. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:40 AM Flag
[ - ] Any PA's out there? Do you like your job? 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:13 AM Flag
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My dh's dd is a pa. It's a great career, and she is making an excellent salary. Loves it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:27 AM Flag
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how much? [ Reply | More ]
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What is the difference between PA and MD ? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:29 AM Flag
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Really? Pa have 2 yrs of school and aren't docs. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:30 AM Flag
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But hey can write scrips, test as well diagnosing, and can specialize. Great career path. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:57 AM Flag
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OP: I'm asking because I'm considering a career change, but not sure 2 years of school will be worth it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:59 AM Flag
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6 years of school. Undergrad degree plus two more years. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:07 AM Flag
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