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[ - ] I am applying for jobs in a certain city (where I live, own a house and where DCs go to school) and recruiters constantly suggest other cities. If I say I am looking for a job in Chicago, how is Atlanta coming into play? This is really bad customer service! 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:18 AM Flag
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You sound difficult. Just keep saying no thank you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:23 AM Flag
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Lol. Difficult? Because I don't jump at some "opportunity" in Atlanta? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:24 AM Flag
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Yes. Be polite and repeat no thank you, that's not practical for me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:30 AM Flag
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LOL - you do realize that you are not the customer, right? Recruiters work for firms, not for the candidates. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:24 AM Flag
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The Aha moment [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:31 AM Flag
[ - ] FUCK! there is nothing left to puke up. I had a healthy dinner. help me to get back into the place where I am not bulimic! no flames. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:15 AM Flag
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Get professional help. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:17 AM Flag
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FU I have that. if you have nothing helpful to say, move on! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:18 AM Flag
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you seem dumb. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:19 AM Flag
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NP: I'm sorry for you. Is there someone you can call. What set it off? CAn you keep down some camomile tea? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:26 AM Flag
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I don't understand eating disorders if they go beyond puberty. Why do you feel the need to throw up food? Don't you think it's gross? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:28 AM Flag
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How do you do it. I am so repulsed when I vomit and heave with stomach issues. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:29 AM Flag
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I get it. I used to be bulimic as well. I stopped cold turkey 3 years ago. It's been freeing but sometimes the urge I still there To feel that relief, to eat, to be thin. Stay strong....think of your kids if they saw you [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:31 AM Flag
[ - ] My 11 year DS has been getting headaches at the front of his head, above temples for the last several day. No cold or sinus issues. Could this be hormone related or should I take him to doc?? 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:07 AM Flag
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How do you know it is not sinuses? It could very well be. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:09 AM Flag
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he has no cough or running nose, which is common for him [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:13 AM Flag
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dehydration [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:09 AM Flag
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Eye strain? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:13 AM Flag
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Maybe he needs glasses. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:18 AM Flag
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I don't think hormones. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:29 AM Flag
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Wisdom teeth? Maybe the pain travels? Studying, too much computer work/play, etc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:32 AM Flag
[ - ] Where does Ivanka Trump's daughter go to preschool? We toured with them at Chapin.. Wonder if she's going there. That would be awful for the rest of us families, esp in the rare case he actually wins the election!! 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
NY Schools 02.11.16, 12:02 AM Flag
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I've actually been in a similar situation and it was fine. The Secret Service wasn't that in your face and the family was very nice. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:04 AM Flag
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lol he wont win! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:12 AM Flag
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lol he just might! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:17 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:24 AM Flag
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Are you hoping that the card carrying communist Bernie wins or that the habitual liar and queen of bribes Hillary wins? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:26 AM Flag
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Chapin would be foolish to accept them again. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:16 AM Flag
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The other Trump kids go a diff school uptown - denied from Trinity, etc.. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:21 AM Flag
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prob shouldn't name it but not considered TT [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:23 AM Flag
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CGPS [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:24 AM Flag
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um, was trying to NOT out the kids...they should be left alone [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:25 AM Flag
[ - ] My male coworker is younger than I am, less experienced than I am, and has worked at the organization for only a few months. Nonetheless, when I ask him a question he answers me like not like he is providing information I requested, but like he needs to educate me. On top of that, he keeps interrupting me and interjecting in conversations in which he has no business. It is fucking annoying and I want to slap him. He is a spoiled rich-kid with a third rate education and is the embodiment of young white male privilege. 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:02 AM Flag
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It doesn't matter that he's rich. If you bring that up it will only make you look resentful. Just stick to the facts. Tell him to stop interrupting and interjecting. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:04 AM Flag
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yes, I know. I only mention he's rich because he is one of those kids who has had this carefully cultivated lifetime of pseudo-experiences which makes him think that he understands the world in some profound way. To those of us with actual on the ground learning he seems absurd, so his arrogance is doubly annoying. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:09 AM Flag
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everyone knows what is going on, roll your eyes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:09 AM Flag
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The interrupting thing is a real problem. I either keep on talking - often louder - and give him the same look i'd give my kids, or I tell him to let me finish before he starts talking. don't say 'please let me finish' - that's weak. No please about it. just do it. Our issue is stepping back and being submissive when a man butts in. What we read as polite, they see as weakness. He'll think you're a bitch, but that's his issue. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:11 AM Flag
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That is exactly my problem... I don't want my irritation at him to come across as competitive or unprofessional, so I am always careful to ask for his help (rather than tell him), to say please & thank you, etc. I think he thinks that because I am asking, he is in a position of power. I am not his superior, but I am actually more senior in my dept. than he is in his, and as I said am overall more experienced. I am thinking I may just have to get real with him and, like you said, let his reaction be his problem. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:19 AM Flag
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I have always had issues with insubordination with some guys. They can't accept a female boss. It's really lame and it actually surprised me when I was first in a position to supervise juniors. I thought those days were over and the younger generation was more receptive. Boy, was I wrong... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:21 AM Flag
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Take a long hard look at his scenario UB women. This is what happens when you let men go through life being subservient and overly accommodating. This is how you end up being called a little girl by a do worker who can't park for shit. This is what happens. But please, all you just continue learning to take jokes and get used to being treated like a doormat. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:24 AM Flag
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wtf? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:28 AM Flag
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Are you black? You sound totally fucking retarded. But even more so if not black. But then, maybe not. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:30 AM Flag
[ - ] Who are these dirt bags with their weird & fu@king extremely long transaction at the store? Wtf are they doing? This lady at the drugstore is dropping hundreds out of her bag & showing her ID. I just want to get in & out. Sorry. Vent over. 22 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:45 PM Flag
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they should have lines for 5 items or less [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:47 PM Flag
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100%. I can't stand it. Theres always some problem with their rewards card and the shampoo is supposed to be 4.59 on sale but it rings up as 5.29 so they complain and then someone has to go look in the aisle to see what the tag says. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:52 PM Flag
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Omg can't stand these people. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:56 PM Flag
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lol. ita [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:57 PM Flag
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and it always takes 2 people to locate the item. And when they find out the product is not actually 20 cents off, they ask to speak to a manager. Then they proceed to ask for the discount just because. Or sometimes people are returning something they bought 5 years ago and don't have a receipt. I need to start shopping online only. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:57 PM Flag
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Sounds like the lady was shopping for her meth lab. Lol. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:52 PM Flag
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There were 5 salespeople helping a lady return stuff from 5 seasons ago at the gap this evening. Eventually most people in line just left. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:54 PM Flag
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Lmao f ppl. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:57 PM Flag
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I always end up behind someone at GapKids who is returning 40 items. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:54 PM Flag
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omg hate them [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:55 PM Flag
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Yes returning .99 t shirts. Losers. Just donate. I know a nanny that has to return things for her employers. Things like tomato sauce or jars of pickles. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:59 PM Flag
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Lol. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:00 AM Flag
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Sometimes they've stolen the t shirts. And they're returning them for credit. Free money. Annoying. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:28 AM Flag
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OP HERE: thank you all for making me laugh and not calling me an intolerant bitch. I am usually very nice but just having a really bad day. So thanks for letting me vent. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:08 AM Flag
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General Topics 02.11.16, 12:10 AM Flag
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:) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:16 AM Flag
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How. Tell me now. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:19 AM Flag
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(⊙︿⊙✿) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:23 AM Flag
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What the heck? Lol! How do you do that ? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:26 AM Flag
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٩(ఠ益ఠ)۶ [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:28 AM Flag
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Ily. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:29 AM Flag
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Don't be an idiot. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:31 AM Flag
[ - ] My wife isnt coming home for dinner. My boys havent eaten yet but they have been playing very well together for 40 minutes since I got home. Laughing and having a good time. Should I make them stop playing to have dinner or should I just eat myself and let them eat when theyre hungry in 40 minutes? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:43 PM Flag
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how do you function? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:47 PM Flag
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how do you function? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:47 PM Flag
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Thats not my point. Every other time I make them stop what theyre doing to eat. But they're having such a good time that I dont want to stop them but I also dont want to be lazy dad who lets the kids do whatever they want. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:49 PM Flag
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I'd have dinner ready so when they get hungry you don't have a meltdown on your hands while you're putting the meal together. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:52 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:00 AM Flag
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Eat dinner together. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:53 PM Flag
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Make them eat now because this nice play time will change quickly when they get hungry [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:55 PM Flag
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Leave them be. Enjoy quiet dinner my yourself. Shouldn't even be a Q. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:31 AM Flag
[ - ] I understand why FAA is banning a mobile app like Uber for planes when it is a private pilot, but why can't that same app be used for booking commercial pilots? like NetJets etc 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:41 PM Flag
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NetJets operates under FAA regulations Part 135; that controls charter flights, not commercial flights. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:11 AM Flag
[ - ] anyone here stop using adderall? is it hard? 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:36 PM Flag
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I had no problem stopping but I was on a low dose [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:41 PM Flag
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how low was it? IR or XR? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:41 PM Flag
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Whatever the starting dose was, it was just old school adderall [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:43 PM Flag
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oh ok. how long were you on it for? years? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:43 PM Flag
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A month or two which is why I don't remember it all too well. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:45 PM Flag
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I only used it to lose weight. Straight up crack if your aren't adhd. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:46 PM Flag
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how long did you use it for?was it hard to stop? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:48 PM Flag
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Not too long so not hard to stop, but I can imagine it would be difficult. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:50 PM Flag
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Who are these doctors that prescribe address for weight loss? Do you just fake being adult ADD? I am a borderline case and only wanted to try it, my doctor refused. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:07 AM Flag
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No, I bought them from a guy I knew, young and dumb. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:08 AM Flag
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I stopped when I was TTC. It was tough. I was very tired. Immediately constipated. My thoughts were everywhere and I began to fall back in to depression I had been in for years because I hated myself for not being like other women. It was difficult. It affected my mental health more than anything. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:47 PM Flag
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did you get back on it? can i ask you what the dosage was? this is what i am worried about. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:49 PM Flag
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I was on 20 mg twice a day. I did go back on it. I nursed dd for a long time and actually started taking 10 mg a day towards the end of her nursing because I was struggling. I currently take 20 mg a day, sometimes I cut it in half if we don't have anything going on that day that I need to be super organized for. What is your situation with it? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:54 PM Flag
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^and i'm sorry. i know the feeling. it's hard. we expect way too much of women. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:50 PM Flag
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I am you, I need to go on aderall, ADHD is making me very depressed, I have trouble completing even smallest tasks [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:00 AM Flag
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I take holidays once in a while when I am on vacation. I have been on adderall for almost a decade. I think it would be very hard to quit at this point. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:28 AM Flag
[ - ] I am sitting on such a huge secret, I wish I could tell everyone but can't say a word. In 2014 my dad died and I had to clean out my parents beach home. It was filled with stuff and at my mom's begging, I purchased it all from the estate before it could be auctioned and had it all moved to my home, where 80% of it is in the house and the rest is taking up a bay in our garage. A small bureau with a bunch of little secretary drawers ended up in my bathroom and I was using the mostly empty drawers for my tampons etc. Just realized one random drawer had a back section and I picked up the lid. I just counted out nearly 17K in cash. AAAAAAHHHH I wish I could tell someone, anyone !!!! 44 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:34 PM Flag
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Were your parents drug dealers? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:35 PM Flag
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Old people have a habit of squirreling away cash. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:37 PM Flag
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why do you think this is [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:39 PM Flag
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Haha no. But my mom hasn't said anything, my siblings would start holding their hands out, DH would want it put into our joint savings .... there is no one I can tell. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:37 PM Flag
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possible your mom doesn't know. my dad hides all $ stuff from my mom. she doesn't care. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:40 PM Flag
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Oh please. This is typical depression era behavior. Not at all unusual. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:30 AM Flag
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Is your mom still alive? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:37 PM Flag
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she's alive. She's got enough to keep her comfortable so I don't feel guilty. Our worst problem is that she has enough to gamble every weekend. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:46 PM Flag
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congrats!! i think many old people keep money stashes like this around. generational thing. what will you do with it?! treat yourself before telling DH! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:38 PM Flag
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why is it a secret, assuming the cash was obtained legally [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:39 PM Flag
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i wonder how this would be taxed... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:40 PM Flag
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It's just a secret from anyone I know. I'm pretty sure it was legal, since it is stacks and STACKS of cash and a lot is in smaller bills - there are over 600 $1 dollar bills. I just walked through the logical outcome of telling anyone, and it all keeps turning into ... it disappears as something that belongs to me and turns into hands out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:54 PM Flag
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Keep. Your. Mouth. Shut. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:40 PM Flag
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+ 1 million. Shush! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:41 PM Flag
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i agree. she is doing this tho. we can be happy for her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:42 PM Flag
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+and keep it. Finders keepers. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:43 PM Flag
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This [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:45 PM Flag
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I need more details. Why did you have to buy the stuff from the estate? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:41 PM Flag
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She and my dad considered themselves "collectors" of art and antiques and felt very personal about their weekend home. It was where they put anything that wouldn't fit into the NYC apartment. My mom was apoplectic about it all being sold piecemeal at auction, she was freaking out about it, so the attorneys and I came up with a figure that would save them all a bunch of trouble having someone come in to value it and arranging an auction. The house is NOT in the hamptons and it wouldn't have brought a lot, things would have been sold for dimes on the dollar. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:49 PM Flag
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that is so cool [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:41 PM Flag
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So you are stealing $17k from your mom? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:42 PM Flag
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in her defense, she did buy it from the estate. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:43 PM Flag
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This [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:45 PM Flag
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No, I bought everything as a lot from the estate. Free and clear. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:50 PM Flag
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who cares? peanuts. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:42 PM Flag
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No it's a nice little emergency fund for me. You never know. I'm not putting it anywhere where it can be documented. I think my dad must have been hiding it from my mom, because she has never said anything. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:51 PM Flag
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Was he a high school science teacher from Albuquerque? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:43 PM Flag
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haha [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:44 PM Flag
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haha no but I get that reference. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:51 PM Flag
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Well it's technically yours now since you bought it. Unless there was a special clause about finding 17k stashed behind a drawer. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:47 PM Flag
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This. Technically. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:50 PM Flag
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Take it to the bank and deposit it, stat! My grandfather had a bunch of $$ hidden in his house that my dad found when cleaning it out. When we tried to use the $, certain stores and banks gave us a bad time because the bills were so old. This $ is yours fair and square and you do not need to share it (though you may want to pay some of your good fortune forward to put your conscience at ease). Congrats! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:51 PM Flag
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Thanks, they're not old bills but I like your idea, and what else do you do with $1's (since I don't go to strip clubs). I just found this about a week ago, counted it out in total secret (like a criminal) and so far just keep going to look at it. I currently have it all stuffed in a coffee can. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:04 AM Flag
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Rad [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:09 AM Flag
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17k in ones fits in a coffee can?? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:09 AM Flag
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No ... only like 600 ones, the rest are 20s, 50s, a few 100s. No change at all. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:21 AM Flag
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Oh sorry forgot the 5's and 10's but for some reason they are scarce. I had like 200 in 5's and I think sixteen 10's. No accounting for why. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:22 AM Flag
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If you take it to the bank, deposit it in $1,000 increments so it doesn't get reported. Actually, I had a hard time depositing cash into my son's Chase checking account. I don't have an account at Chase, and wanted to deposit $800 into my college son's checking account and they wouldn't let me do it! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:12 AM Flag
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Stupid bank [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:19 AM Flag
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Be careful if you deposit it all at once. If you put $10K or more in the bank - in cash- it has to be reported to the IRS. Hide it back in the drawer and live off iot for a year or 2. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:15 AM Flag
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Your parents may not have even known the money was there if they bought it from an antique dealer. How awesome! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:57 PM Flag
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I'm not sure it's an actual antique since I can tell it's fake-crackle-distressed, but there's every chance they bought it from a reseller. They liked to antique and flea market a lot, though, and I'm pretty sure it's not Pier One. There's really no way of my knowing at this point. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:19 AM Flag
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Best post of the day and lucky you!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:15 AM Flag
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I bet it was there when they bought the antique! They had no idea. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:15 AM Flag
[ - ] Are Ben Affleck and Jennifer Garner back together? Are both he and his brother Casey serial cheaters? Got any inside gossip? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:33 PM Flag
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None really except I've met him. Before Jen. He was with a friend of mine, and he still had a roving eye. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:36 PM Flag
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Was he polite? I get the feeling both he and his brother are sort of douchebags but out of the two I like Casey's acting more. I read Casey's wife sleeps with Ben but I don't know that I believe that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:39 PM Flag
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i know someone who got married/had a reception at his mom's house on the cape. this person had the MEANEST things to say about how jennifer gardner looked in pictures in the house (insinuating she is ugly, etc). it made me sad because you know what, i love her and the fact that she keeps it real and doesn't pile on make up. his mom should think twice about renting that house out to her 'friends'. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:46 PM Flag
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garner* [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:47 PM Flag
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How rude, she looks very pretty to me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:47 PM Flag
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a friend in cambridge? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:40 PM Flag
[ - ] Hillary will stop at nothing to win. What do you think she promised to get these delegates. Sanders has no chance with this shady business going on. 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:26 PM Flag
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i also wonder what she promised. she must've been selling quite a bit. makes me sad, i probably would've voted for her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:39 PM Flag
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Super delegates are party leaders who generally support the party establishment candidate for simple reasons: they think they can win. No shady promises necessary. Historically, sometimes it works out for the superdelegate leader and they get the nomination (Mondale over Hart), and sometimes it doesn't (Dean under Kerry). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:59 PM Flag
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Right, because nobody else in this race will stop at nothing to win. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:44 PM Flag
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Super delegates are not shady business. It's how the process has worked on both sides for decades. Hillary neither devised this nor did anything wrong. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:48 PM Flag
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She is nothing less than a whore for power. Makes me ill. TRUMP [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:02 AM Flag
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Speaking of whores for power! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:05 AM Flag
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Hardly. He's a man of action, he's successful, he is owned by NO ONE, he understands the immigration crisis and he's the only viable candidate. Fuzzball is not electable, Hillz is a psychobitch lying enabler, Mr. Canada is not a legal candidate and the other one is a robot. You're telling me you're going to choose one of them over Trump? You're a fucking idiot. So he blows some hot air. He's what we need right now. This country is teetering on the edge of eternal fuckdom. Choose carefully. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:08 AM Flag
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So glad you are obnoxious (therefore unpersuasive) and have only one vote. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:13 AM Flag
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I have one too and it goes to Trump. They add up, you know. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:21 AM Flag
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you know hes gone bankrupt 4x and is only successful because his dad was rich right [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:29 AM Flag
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She didn't have to promise anything. She is the establishment candidate for the Democratic Party, so the party favors her and controls these delegates. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:09 AM Flag
[ - ] did you wear shapewear to suck you in after giving birth? If so, which brand? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:21 PM Flag
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Belly bandit. It will help your belly go down a bit but if you have a c section it is vital. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:26 PM Flag
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shrinx hips..or something like that [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:30 AM Flag
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No [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:29 PM Flag
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Not the first time, but I will with 2nd DC [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:35 PM Flag
[ - ] New guy I'm dating is still living with ex and 2 dcs. I have not met them and have asked to meet his children, starting to get weary, we have been together a year. Wwyd? 124 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:17 PM Flag
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Stop describing him as "new." You've let him get away with this for a year. Why would he give up his cake AND being able to eat it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:20 PM Flag
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They only live together for $$$ reasons. Not a cake thing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:21 PM Flag
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Oy. You are a sucker. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:24 PM Flag
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I am not. You have not seen his wife or myself. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:25 PM Flag
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What does that have to do with anything? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:27 PM Flag
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She is overweight, they are not sleeping together if that is what you're insinuating. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:30 PM Flag
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And? Puhlease. Many men still sleep with their ugly wives while courting a newbie. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:32 PM Flag
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He would not sleep with her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:34 PM Flag
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Yes, that is what you are for. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:33 PM Flag
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?? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:36 PM Flag
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This. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:46 PM Flag
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I'm fat. Hasn't stopped DH. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:00 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:02 AM Flag
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Lol. Love this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:03 AM Flag
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Oh dear, you are a shallow twat. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:03 AM Flag
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Typical UB. As if her being fat matters. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:17 AM Flag
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It is apparently part of OP's delusion. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:32 PM Flag
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Lol. This. Wait until she pops out two kids with this guy, gets stuck parenting his other two on his weekends, shares vacations with them, has to share his money, And ages 10 years. Maybe then she'll realize what a fool she was. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:35 PM Flag
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I am not an idiot, this won't happen. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:38 PM Flag
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Which part? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:42 PM Flag
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All of it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:56 PM Flag
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Then why are you still there? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:00 AM Flag
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Because we have a great time together. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:02 AM Flag
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If this guy proposed tomorrow you'd be jumping up and down. If he wants it to be all of the above will most definitely be happening. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:12 AM Flag
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As if that's all that makes a relationship. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:18 AM Flag
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Where I am in my life now that is all I need. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:20 AM Flag
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But you're starting to get wary, right? I suspect you need more. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:23 AM Flag
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Yeah, maybe [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:25 AM Flag
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Have you checked that he is divorced? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:21 PM Flag
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They are not officially divorced yet but are separated. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:23 PM Flag
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Over a decade ago, I was in the same position. DH & Ex shared "birds nest" custody (look it up). Here's the difference. I met his ex and his kids after 2 months because it was clear we were serious. We moved in together 1 year after that. Got married another year after that and now have kids together. If you haven't met this guys kids, there's something wrong. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:26 PM Flag
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I see what you're saying, but he is not the same person as your dh. Not everyone does things the same way. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:27 PM Flag
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So you seem to have this figured out. Why are are you here asking us for advice? Move along into your bliss... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:31 PM Flag
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Ok [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:33 PM Flag
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OR here. Listen closely. My situation was of a man telling me the truth about his commitment to me and expressed it by introducing me to his children and his ex. He took our relationship seriously. I was not a secret from his children and his ex. That's why I stayed even though the situation seemed strange. Your BF is not making that commitment to you and he is not taking you seriously. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:23 AM Flag
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I see what you're saying, but I think your relationship was a little bit more headed towards marriage serious where as mine is more casual. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:26 AM Flag
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OR here. Listen closely. My situation was of a man telling me the truth about his commitment to me and expressed it by introducing me to his children and his ex. He took our relationship seriously. I was not a secret from his children and his ex. That's why I stayed even though the situation seemed strange. Your BF is not making that commitment to you and he is not taking you seriously. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:23 AM Flag
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They are living together. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:26 PM Flag
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Yes, I know. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:26 PM Flag
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He is living with this woman. You are the one on the side. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:22 PM Flag
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Haha, no not at all. They co-parent and rarely speak. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:23 PM Flag
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According to who? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:26 PM Flag
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Omg, this. Op is dumb. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:27 PM Flag
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No [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:29 PM Flag
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Ugh [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:28 PM Flag
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No. Ok, then he is broke loser who wants to divorce his wife with two dc's and doesn't even have enough money do it properly. Either way, you're a sucker. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:26 PM Flag
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Whatever. You have no idea, [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:28 PM Flag
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Np. Pretty sure you've told us all we need to know. Nothing profound. Just a foolish girl being led by a manipulating man. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:29 PM Flag
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Ok [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:33 PM Flag
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That is the best spin you can put on this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:28 PM Flag
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And yet he won't introduce you to his children. Interesting. You're pretty stupid. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:25 AM Flag
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Op: I feel he wants to keep both lives separate, not that he is hiding anything. Sorry to mislead. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:26 PM Flag
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I would never go out with a man living with another woman. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:26 PM Flag
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He is going to be moving out eventually. Is isn't a permanent situation, [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:28 PM Flag
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Lol. Like more than a year? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:30 PM Flag
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No, soon. And I will probably meet his dcs then. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:32 PM Flag
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This is a totally weird situation and you know it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:36 PM Flag
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I know somewhat, why I am posting. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:42 PM Flag
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You are the side dish, face it. You haven't met his children? Why not? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:28 PM Flag
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That is the purpose of the post. Didn't expect this response. I will meet his kids eventually, [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:31 PM Flag
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So you're hanging around waiting for him to divorce and leave his family for you? He's not going to. Seriously. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:33 PM Flag
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He is not leaving his family. He is separated from his wife. He is moving out eventually, I never said I was marrying him or having kids with him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:40 PM Flag
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So then what is this about? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:43 PM Flag
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Why I haven't met his dcs. How to approach that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:47 PM Flag
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You haven't met his DC because he has no intention of having a long-term relationship with you. I married a divorced father but at my insistence, I did not meet his DC until I was sure I was serious. He would have introduced me much earlier. Your guy isn't, and that is meaningful. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:51 PM Flag
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Well our relationship is great otherwise. We have not talked about marriage and I haven't worried about that. I am young and enjoying our time together. It is what it is. Btw my dad remarried a younger woman and had a real family, it isn't unheard of. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:54 PM Flag
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I wasn't getting into your age or his age, I don't really care. My point is that you are not in a real relationship, so he is not going to bring you into the family fold. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:56 PM Flag
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It feels like a real relationship. But I agree, e not meeting his kids thing is kind of a buzzkill. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:58 PM Flag
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Move on, you'll be sorry later if you don't. Seriously. I'm a lot older than you and more than once have seen women waste their youth on some guy who was never going to commit. You think you're cool with it now but suddenly you won't be and it could very well be too late to have real choices. Leave him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:02 AM Flag
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Well ty for your advice. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:06 AM Flag
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Oh, so You're repeating the behaviors of your family. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:03 AM Flag
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After reading ops replies I am convinced she is really young. She does not sound like an intelligent women of sound mind. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:28 PM Flag
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Wow. Go away. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:31 PM Flag
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How old are you op? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:31 PM Flag
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Does that matter? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:31 PM Flag
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If you are counting on him having kids with you, it could be an issue. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:34 PM Flag
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Not even thinking about this yet. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:38 PM Flag
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It actually does. It matters more than your self-perceived hotness in comparison to his wife [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:37 PM Flag
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Self perceived, yeah no. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:39 PM Flag
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Yes, this. So curious too. She sounds young. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:32 PM Flag
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Mid twenties. I am not a baby. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:35 PM Flag
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HAHAHAHAHA. This can't be real. Or it is. And I am laughing and filled with pity for you at the same time. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:37 PM Flag
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Yeah, so funny...... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:41 PM Flag
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Oh my gosh. You are not hanging around a yet-to-be-divorced-father-of-two in your mid-twenties. You are wildly insecure and you don't even realize it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:39 PM Flag
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For over a year!!! OP, please run from this guy. In ten years when you're seething with resentment that you wasted your youth on this man you will remember these words. I hope you don't. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:40 PM Flag
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Well thanks, he is actually a pretty awesome guy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:42 PM Flag
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You poor thing. You need a father. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:45 PM Flag
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Have one. Whatever. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:49 PM Flag
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Yeah, seems like it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:45 PM Flag
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Ok. Never said I was marrying him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:41 PM Flag
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weary or wary? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:29 PM Flag
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Wary, sorry. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:32 PM Flag
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Any woman in your position is a side piece. Move on and find someone without a family. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:37 PM Flag
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Well maybe I will. I am dating this guy, never said we were getting married. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:39 PM Flag
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The fact that you would date this man for over a year while being even an average looking mid-twenties girl really screams of deep-seated insecurities and self-worth issues within you. See a therapist stat. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:42 PM Flag
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He is hot. I am not average looking or insecure, he is actually an awesome guy and clearly this post doesn't show that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:49 PM Flag
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Wary or weary? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:46 PM Flag
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Wary!!! Someone already posted that. I already corrected myself, thank you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:48 PM Flag
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OW, is that you? Oh sweetie, I told dh I'd look the other way since he wanted some outside-p before his D stops working. I have some medical issues and yes, I'm overweight, and no we don't sleep once in a blue if we feel like it but know this: I've told him the door is open if he wants to leave any time. But he doesn't. We even talk about you sometimes, when we find time talk (we are so busy with the kids, cooking meals together, repairing our home, and visiting family members). Oh, and you aren't the first chickie whose fallen for this ruse. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:58 PM Flag
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I am not an OW if they are separated. I am his gf. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:01 AM Flag
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Marriage is complex ..we've been together since we were kids. I know he told other women he was separated, but he is not. We separated out our finances to a large degree, have separate friends, kiss hello and goodbye every day, share our information, kids, lives. But yes, we don't ask, or tell. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:06 AM Flag
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Oh, and the title of gf (vs OW) means nothing. I my dh lives with me, our two kids, and has had a gf, too. He told me the various he wouldn't want to be with her long term. I don't even dislike these women...they are gnats. I'm the wife, and the wife I shall stay until I decide otherwise. He's not going anywhere. And I bet your bf isn't going anywhere either. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:09 AM Flag
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Do you fool around too? This just seems unfair. And why does he like the gf? Not just for sex? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:22 AM Flag
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No, he's needy and needs a lot of attention.I don't have a lot of attention to give him. He likes her. She actually knows nothing about his past (substance abuse), or his future plans (to hang with me). Married people lie to get hot single people to pay attention to them!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:30 AM Flag
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So you think he is doing this? I have not met his wife. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:10 AM Flag
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It's possible. I'm really not trying to be mean. Worked at a college for years and so many girls were in your situation. You really should move on. If it's meant to be, he can move out, establish himself and so on. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:25 AM Flag
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Ok, well ty. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:26 AM Flag
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I'm we've been together for 25 years, since age 25. I really don't care where he puts his dick right now, I'm working on me, my finances, my health, etc. I'm not that unique...and we've talked about how other friends divorced, and regretted it, when mid-life shit hit, and that we'd just ride it out as we think we'd like to be on the other side of it together. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:27 AM Flag
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Sounds smart, but you must have a weak sex drive. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:29 AM Flag
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Dh must have $$$ [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:23 AM Flag
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We have a lot of $$ in joint assets ;) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:32 AM Flag
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You are basically his human blow up doll. Sorry not sorry. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.10.16, 11:59 PM Flag
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Dear OP, Please read the actually relatively thoughtful responses you have received unanimously. THERE IS 100% ABSOLUTELY NO WAY THIS GUY IS BEING STRAIGHT WITH YOU. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:03 AM Flag
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Yes, there is a chance, why I am posting. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:05 AM Flag
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OK, well we have confirmed that chance as a fact. I'm sorry, it's gotta be hard, but tell him goodbye. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:10 AM Flag
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Not fact. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:22 AM Flag
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Say goodbye. Tell him to call you when he's actually able to have an adult relationship if that's not too long from now. He has lots of baggage and the best predictor of future behavior is past behavior. He seems not together. Move on. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:06 AM Flag
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Ty for you advice. I don't think I can just up and leave though. We have a lot of fun together. He is hilarious and sweet and I am enjoying my time with him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:11 AM Flag
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Perhaps, but while you waste time on him that you know in your heart is not going to end well, you are missing opportunities to meet someone emotionally and physically and financially available. At least keep your eyes peeled! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:16 AM Flag
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Ok. Ty. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:22 AM Flag
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You sound very sweet and nice. Good luck and take care of yourself. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:24 AM Flag
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Thanks :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:27 AM Flag
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Basically men suck, and some girls are just super naive (and a bit shallow.) Happens daily. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.11.16, 12:28 AM Flag
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+1000 [ Reply | More ]
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