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[ - ] Please give your best advice for looking past all the little annoying things your DH does (messiness, forgetfulness, etc.) and appreciating the bigger picture. I find myself operating with a low level of resentfulness at all times (and yes, I WOH full time too.) Trying to accept that after 14 years of marriage he's not going to magically become a neat or conscientious person. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:16 PM Flag
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Don't we all quietly seethe? Hey, there are only four cabinet doors open out of 22 right now, so I'm actually pretty happy;) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:18 PM Flag
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Everytime I get in that state (like every 2-3 months) I reread "Forgive for Love". I took the author's class at Stanford and it ruled. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:20 PM Flag
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You just need space. It's like anyone else who gets under your skin. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:26 PM Flag
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Wow, I could have posted this. I try to push down the resentfulness and irritation too. Like: 'how did I get here?' [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:28 PM Flag
[ - ] I am professionally successful, 30 yo, but my personal life is a mess. I have severe anxiety and am probably a high functioning alcoholic at this point. Is there any hope? I want to get married and have dcs. 18 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:07 PM Flag
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why are you on a site called urban baby? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:09 PM Flag
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Because I'm urban and I want a baby [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:09 PM Flag
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This. I'm so tired of people asking this question. I'm married and live in NYC, but not having a baby for a couple of years. I'm on this site all the time. It's the only site where there is constantly new content to read, and there are plenty of conversations that have nothing to do with babies. Rant over. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:27 PM Flag
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You can definitely change at age 30. You just need to pick a plan and fully commit to it DAILY. Whether it be therapy, meditation, self-help, whatever. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:10 PM Flag
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Am I too old to meet a decent guy? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:11 PM Flag
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Of course not, but you are too much of a trainwreck to hold on to a decent guy. You need to mitigate the anxiety and alcoholism before you get pregnant because these things affect the prenatal environment. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:13 PM Flag
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Thanks. I am also on psych meds which I need to get off before getting pregnant. Ugh. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:14 PM Flag
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Yeah, sorry, you may have to scrape by on the pregnancy-safe meds. Prozac for TTC/pregnancy and Zoloft for bf :( [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:17 PM Flag
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Not at all. Plenty of women irl i know and on this site meeting dhs in 30s and marrying late 30s. One of the biggest myths we perpetuate on women is that we have to be married w kids by 30. Ridiculous cutoff and doesnt take into account the many peronal paths we all take, whether it be career, emotional healing, etc [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:15 PM Flag
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I don't want to wait until late 30s and risk infertility. I'd like to have a db by age 35 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:17 PM Flag
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Life is risk. Always put yourself and your happiness first always, even over imaginary children. Read the stories of "married single moms" on this site trapped by settling too young. There are millions of different ways to be happy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:19 PM Flag
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Np. This. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:20 PM Flag
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Don't marry just to have kids! Why would you perpetrate an unhappy marriage on yourself, your dh, AND your future offspring who had no choice. If you meet the right guy, great. If you don't and still want kids, consider adopting or artificial insem [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:23 PM Flag
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Life is a series of ebbs and flows. I haven't had struggled with alcohol, but I've had other challenges. For me, the first step is acknowledgent and then making some sort of plan and following through. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:13 PM Flag
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Treat the alcoholism first, whatever you have to do to do so. Substitue it with healthy living. As you do so, your comfidence will go up, anxiety will go down, putting you in a better spot to meet someone [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:16 PM Flag
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A man can be found at any age but fertility doesn't last forever. You may want to focus on single motherhood first. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:24 PM Flag
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Omg. She's 30, not 40. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:26 PM Flag
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I am you except I am dating a great guy but unemployed. You are most of my friends with varying shades of alcoholism/anxiety. You need to make dating a priority and get rid of all men that exhibit signs that they are not interested in you or not interested in marriage/family. Also be really honest with what you can pull. Many of my friends are single because they are picky. Don't confuse the attractiveness/prestige of your non-serious suitors for the serious ones. There will be a palpable difference and it's best you accept that however, once you meet a great guy that makes you happy and wants marriage/family with you the rest of that checklist nonsense won't matter. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:33 PM Flag
[ - ] My EBF baby is hugely fat. 7 months old and already 29 pounds. There's no way I'm over feeding right? We started solids about a month ago, and I've given only healthy things like fruits, veggies, yogurt, cereal etc. 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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What does the doctor say? is there anyway you could have given your 7 month old anything "unhealthy" at this stage? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:07 PM Flag
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Agree, ask doctor. That's off the charts. Growth like that doesn't have to do with feeding. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:12 PM Flag
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Huh? My dc was 30 lbs at 6 months. Off charts in length too. Some kids are big. He's 14 now and 6 foot 3. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:13 PM Flag
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Eww, gross [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:15 PM Flag
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Wtf? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:15 PM Flag
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That's the weight of my 3yo. Poor little guy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:19 PM Flag
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My friend's kid is like that. A gentle giant. Funny thing is his mom is a gazelle, rail-thin, and his dad is not huge. Anyway the little gentle giant has grown up to be a delightful fat genius kid - big body, big brain, big heart. He is their pride and joy. [ Reply | More ]
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^ Just double checked in my email, yep, he was 25 lbs at 5 months. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:24 PM Flag
[ - ] Have a two year old and the nanny gave him his Christmas presents Friday. He played with them all weekend and has "grown" so much. Makes me think we need to be buying more toys throughout the year. How often do you buy your kids toys to help with development? We were trying not to spoil him, but now I see he needs new things more frequently. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:00 PM Flag
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kids need variety. Rotate the toys you have and add to them from yard sales and etc if you are on such a budget. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:02 PM Flag
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Kids that age have "growth" weekends with or without toys. I try not to buy my DC toys, instead I take him to a different playground or museum every weekend. But if your house is big enough for toys, get some every 2 months or so! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:16 PM Flag
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I would donate when he "advances". She bought him new puzzles and I had no idea he was ready for them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:25 PM Flag
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I would donate when he "advances". She bought him new puzzles and I had no idea he was ready for them. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] S/O... One of my friend's is trying to join a country club. I look at her differently now. 50 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 02:57 PM Flag
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You are weird [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 02:58 PM Flag
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I don't think she's weird. CCs is an upper class thing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:02 PM Flag
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^ friends [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 02:58 PM Flag
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Why? I belong to a country club and I think I'm a pretty nice person. What's the issue? [ Reply | More ]
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Op: not saying she's not nice, but I'm getting the sense she's trying to climb the social ladder. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:03 PM Flag
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Oh. Well maybe. I've belonged to my club since birth, but if I moved to a new city, I'd probably try to join one for the benefits of golf, tennis, dinner, etc. I wouldn't jump to conclusions. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:04 PM Flag
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Some friend you are. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:03 PM Flag
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I'm sure you're just the most amazing friend and never thought something a friend did changes things. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:05 PM Flag
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You sound poor [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:06 PM Flag
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Op: not poor at all. Why? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:06 PM Flag
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Are you jelly? You sound jelly... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:06 PM Flag
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Who says jelly??? Are you 16? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:08 PM Flag
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OP: DH makes 1.7 per year. I make 100K per year. This has nothing to do with money. But choice of people she wants to hang out with. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:09 PM Flag
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You sound low class [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:10 PM Flag
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Oh please... Someone who says a person is low class because a stuffy country club is not her cup of tea is most likely low class herself. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:11 PM Flag
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I don't think anybody would say anything this dumb unless she was joking. Right? (That's often the question on UB...) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:24 PM Flag
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Rest my case [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:25 PM Flag
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It's fun for a person to try new activities. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:08 PM Flag
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New activites? Like what... Tennis? Dinner with the elites? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:10 PM Flag
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Is there something wrong with tennis and dinner? You sound jealous. [ Reply | More ]
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Jealous of what??? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:12 PM Flag
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That your friend wants to brand out instead of being miserable with you [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:13 PM Flag
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Brand out?? What does that mean? I'm not miserable, but you sound very nasty. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:15 PM Flag
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Branch out. Typo. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:16 PM Flag
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Branch out to what kind of people though? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:22 PM Flag
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+10000, definitely jealous of her friend. Otherwise why post and "look" at her differently now. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:28 PM Flag
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Jeaous of what? Why is everything about jealousy on this site? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:29 PM Flag
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Fat girls do not like new activities. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:28 PM Flag
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Are you 16? You sound like such a snob. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:33 PM Flag
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I understand, OP. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:10 PM Flag
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What? How do you understand OP? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:12 PM Flag
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Maybe there are a few nice people in country clubs, but most of the people suck. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:32 PM Flag
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your loss probably, why would you judge over something as silly as a club? are you afraid she will like it better than hanging with you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:13 PM Flag
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NO. She wants to get to know "certain" kind of people. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:15 PM Flag
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So? I am still not sure why this would bother you so? Don't you want to make new friends, kind of hard to do if you do not join some things like clubs and other organizations [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:19 PM Flag
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Ok, so people who don't join country clubs have no other choices? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:20 PM Flag
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Huh? I said clubs and other organizations [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:24 PM Flag
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Country clubs are different that other organizations [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:32 PM Flag
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Country club people suck [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:16 PM Flag
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OP must be fat and ugly. Does not fit in. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:16 PM Flag
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This [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:17 PM Flag
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Poor you, someone is dissing the country clubs! How dare she! [ Reply | More ]
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OP: not fat or ugly. Is this high school? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:19 PM Flag
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Is your vineyard vine sweater wrapped too tight around your neck? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:22 PM Flag
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Hahahahahahaha, probably!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:29 PM Flag
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OH BOY, you do know this is UB... Most of the women here are rich, upper class, and isolationists. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:17 PM Flag
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Did you get rejected from a country club? Upset that she got in and you did not? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:30 PM Flag
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No. Didn't even try to join. But this is exactly what CCs are about... Exclusivity. A certain type of person/people. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:31 PM Flag
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OP is very defensive in all her answers. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:34 PM Flag
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And? So what? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:35 PM Flag
[ - ] The baby on homeland seems very special needs. Wdyt? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 02:57 PM Flag
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She looks just like Brody. [ Reply | More ]
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Brody looks kind of sn as well [ Reply | More ]
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It's the forehead. [ Reply | More ]
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What did you think of the finale last night? I thought it was boring and predictable although the two previous episodes were exciting. [ Reply | More ]
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Yep [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:01 PM Flag
[ - ] My 13 mo keeps taking off his diaper and and smearing poop everywhere. He thinks it's hilarious. How can I get him to stop?? I tried taping the diaper closed but he reaches in through the legs. 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 02:53 PM Flag
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Zip up sleeper backwards [ Reply | More ]
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Thanks!! [ Reply | More ]
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And put diaper on backward for good measure. [ Reply | More ]
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Not this. [ Reply | More ]
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Backward zip pajamas. [ Reply | More ]
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LOL [ Reply | More ]
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Ds? [ Reply | More ]
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Momma Momma? [ Reply | More ]
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I guess those "restrictive clothes" they give dementia patients don't come in XXXS. [ Reply | More ]
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Lol!! My younger sister used to do this. She also would throw it across the room! [ Reply | More ]
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Did the s*** ever hit the fan? Bah dah bum. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] I give decent Christmas cash to the garbage men. The garbage men can help you out in a pinch. 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 02:50 PM Flag
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lmao [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 02:52 PM Flag
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Say you have a couple dead bodies on your hands...... [ Reply | More ]
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They took it after it was rolled up in a rug. [ Reply | More ]
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How much do you give them? I don't know how much to tip ours - we have 2 and they come twice a week. [ Reply | More ]
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$50 each [ Reply | More ]
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Thanks! Ours take anything, they're so helpful.... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:20 PM Flag
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How do you tip them?? Do you wait outside for them to come for the garbage?? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 02:58 PM Flag
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np: That's what I'm going to do, but they come at the same time every week and I can hear them before they get to my house - our community uses a private sanitation company so tipping isn't against city/county rules. [ Reply | More ]
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This is against nyc rules. Sanitation a worker can lose her job if caught accepting tips from the public. [ Reply | More ]
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I'm not in DeBlasioville, so not an issue here. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:05 PM Flag
[ - ] I want to give DH a nice suit for X-mas. Looking to spend around $800. Need recommendations other than department stores and Brooks Brothers. 22 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 02:35 PM Flag
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Hickey freeman [ Reply | More ]
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I got these half-price at the saks outlet. Np [ Reply | More ]
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Is HF better quality than BB? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 02:53 PM Flag
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I'd check Gilt out, they have good prices [ Reply | More ]
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...Or "yoox.com"-- excellent deals imho [ Reply | More ]
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How you do you get it tailored if you buy on Gilt? [ Reply | More ]
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you take it some where once you receive it [ Reply | More ]
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Not sure you can get a nice suit for 800. Maybe we have different standards. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 02:46 PM Flag
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Np. Ouch [ Reply | More ]
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What a rude thing to say. I can tell you that plenty of excellent suits can be found at $800 if you take the time to seek them out. Snob. [ Reply | More ]
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Gifts are for children. Adults go to events to celebrate an occassion. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 02:48 PM Flag
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My DH is a child. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 02:53 PM Flag
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What a coincidence, so is mine! [ Reply | More ]
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Better to have made to measure. Rock's Custom Tailor is in town a few times a year. Suits are made in HK. My dh has been buying from Rock for close to 15 years. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 02:53 PM Flag
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How much does that run you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 02:54 PM Flag
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Dh says $700 to $800 in cheaper fabrics (nice, though) and maybe 1k for the high-end Zegna type fabrics. But suit will fit perfectly. [ Reply | More ]
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Checked out site Looks like they only come in September. [ Reply | More ]
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Really? Well, keep in mind for future. Custom right down to lining. Also, very nice custom shirts. Dh orders by the dozen. [ Reply | More ]
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Check out urbandaddy.com, they often have good deals for custom tailoring [ Reply | More ]
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Century 21. My dad can be snotty, but is now retired and has no real need for a closet of fancy suits, but has had luck at Century 21 (the downtown location, not the UWS store). [ Reply | More ]
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Ditto my dh. But you need to have a good tailor. Dh once got a Brioni suit there. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:21 PM Flag
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my husband uses Zoreh, at 220 E 54th. I think that they charge about that for their less expensive materials as well, but they are here all the time and if you have an issue you can walk right back into the store to have it dealt with. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:26 PM Flag
[ - ] I got drunk at a law school Xmas party and now I feel like a horrible person. How can I shake this? My friend said I was acting drunk and weird. 39 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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it's an xmas party. Im sure you weren't the only one. Apparently your friend is an ass with no editing features. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 02:33 PM Flag
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I was dancing with a classmate and his fiancée, and friend told me that was "strange." Now I feel so terrible. I keep replaying the instance over in my head. I didn't think I did anything bad at the time. [ Reply | More ]
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np: Your friend sounds bitchy. [ Reply | More ]
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Haha he is a male...but gay [ Reply | More ]
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^^and not usually bitchy, which is why I'm so paranoid. I feel like I must have acted really badly. [ Reply | More ]
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That doesn't sound too strange to me. What do you think he meant by that? [ Reply | More ]
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Op. I think he might have interpreted it as me hitting on the guy, but it wasn't, I was just dancing and having a good time. Maybe it came across wrong though. Ugh [ Reply | More ]
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NP. This is just a thought. You said your friend is gay. He probably has gotten drunk and hit on straight men before...which he felt weird about...he's projecting his feelings of weirdness onto you. [ Reply | More ]
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Were you hitting on him like a slut? Otherwise forget it. [ Reply | More ]
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Lol, I don't think so. But I can be very touchy feely when drunk. [ Reply | More ]
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Oh no... [ Reply | More ]
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What? [ Reply | More ]
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Eh, just move on. If you act normal from here on out, he will chalk it up to booze. At least you don't work with the fiancee. Do you come in contact with her a lot? If not, don't worry about it. [ Reply | More ]
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No, I've never met her before and I doubt I'll ever see her again. [ Reply | More ]
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Meh, who cares then. Some drunk chick was being flirty with her fiancé. Big deal. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:02 PM Flag
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Did you blow him in the bathroom? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:19 PM Flag
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Lol, no. [ Reply | More ]
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Just move on and never speak of it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 02:33 PM Flag
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+1 everyone has had a night like this. next time, don't drink on an empty stomach. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 02:39 PM Flag
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Same happened to me, and I said pretty inappropriate things. A class mate had to bring me home. I apologized to the classmate that I said inappropriate things to. He was fine, and I've moved on. Don't even think about it now. [ Reply | More ]
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Thanks [ Reply | More ]
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Lesson learned. Never drink at a holiday party. Someone's always watching. [ Reply | More ]
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Never drink at a holiday party? you sound fun. [ Reply | More ]
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at least a work holiday party where you care about what others thing [ Reply | More ]
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Op. It wasn't a work party, it's school [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 02:47 PM Flag
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still not good - but hopefully lesson learned about keeping your alcohol in check [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:14 PM Flag
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I've got a much worse work holiday party in my past than anything that happened to you. Trust me on this one. I got through it and am still here today. Compartmentalize it and move on. You didn't kill anyone. [ Reply | More ]
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You killed someone??? [ Reply | More ]
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A lot of drunk drivers kill people. Like John goodman. [ Reply | More ]
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General Topics 12.22.14, 02:58 PM Flag
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Now you've got to tell us what you did!!!!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 02:55 PM Flag
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This [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 02:55 PM Flag
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Come on, tell us! Did you give your boss a BJ in the ladies room and have his wife walk in??? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:01 PM Flag
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It sounds like she drove drunk and killed someone. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:02 PM Flag
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term is over. no one will really remember and certainly won't care come January. Head high. move on. similiar things have happened to most people (including me, at the end of 1st year). if your "friend" won't shut up about it, trim her from you life - she is toxic. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:08 PM Flag
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Thanks [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:08 PM Flag
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I haven't been in law school in a while, but things happen. Hopefully you didn't have to drive home. Now move on and try not to discuss it with your friend, who shouldn't be trying to make you feel bad. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:13 PM Flag
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One of my coworkers, mom of 3, had sex with another coworker, dad of 2, in the coatroom. I caught them, swore I would never tell anyone, but somehow it got out, whole office knew about it. At least they didn't blame it on me. The woman ended up quitting 6 mths later for other reasons [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:20 PM Flag
[ - ] wah!very sick, bad cold since saturday. Snapping at children, husband, even the dog. Feel like I am going to ruin Christmas if I don't snap out of it fast. I know, i am just feeling sorry for myself. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 02:30 PM Flag
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Take a shower, dress in warm clothes, then go do whatever makes you happy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:03 PM Flag
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thanks... I am actually at work so cant' do that- but plan to go home early and sleep some more. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:21 PM Flag
[ - ] I'm hosting Christmas dinner this year. Not such a large group but would LOVE your suggestions for a somewhat elegant but easy meal. Last year I made this great broiled tuna with a lemon/caper dressing that was ridiculously easy and required very little cooking so I could be with the guests. Any similar recommendations?? Super grateful 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 02:26 PM Flag
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Salmon [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 02:35 PM Flag
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OP; great. Prepared how? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 02:37 PM Flag
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np: Bake a whole side of salmon, skin side down, with olive oil/salt/pepper, and covered with thin slices of lemon. 350 until it's done (under 20 min). Easy, delicious even when it cools off, so no worries about keeping everything hot until the last minute. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 02:42 PM Flag
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NP: adjust the following recipe for one very large fish served on a platter. serve with lemon slices on top. voila. http://allrecipes.com/recipe/baked-salmon-ii/ [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 02:42 PM Flag
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op: wow. That sounds almost too easy to be true... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 02:54 PM Flag
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No one else? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:13 PM Flag
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beef tenderloin is as easy as you can get I think - little oil, rosemary put in oven on high heat for a while, take out and let rest - green beans with caramelized onions and sauteed mushroom mixture and a salad [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:22 PM Flag
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tenderloin, prime rib, salmon (as mentioned above). If you really want to be with your guests, just get it catered. everything takes some degree of attention. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:22 PM Flag
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OP: how do you like to make salmon? Not everyone at the table is a meat eater [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:28 PM Flag
[ - ] Favorite appetizers/grazing food? I need to bring a few things to a family Christmas, for people to eat throughout the day between bagels in the AM and dinner late afternoon. I have some ideas but always love others' suggestions. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 02:20 PM Flag
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cheese and crackers, glazed nuts [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 02:21 PM Flag
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Cut up Veggies with a dip. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 02:23 PM Flag
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Spiced nuts. Super easy to make well ahead of time [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 02:27 PM Flag
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Sliced fresh fruit, perrier, crackers, cheese. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 02:50 PM Flag
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Trader Jo's artichoke antipasto spread and crackers [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:17 PM Flag
[ - ] 7 weeks pregnant with a horrific migraine (nausea, vomiting too). What can I take? Just tylenol? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 02:15 PM Flag
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Do not take any medicine.. Just suck it up.. I was pregnant with triplets.. It was worst for me.. I used to sleep most of the day. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 02:26 PM Flag
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I don't think this is good advice if she's vomiting and in pain. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 02:30 PM Flag
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So you conceived your dc in a plastic Petri dish but you think a little tylenol would hurt them? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 02:30 PM Flag
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damn that's mean and rude. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 02:44 PM Flag
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ahh yes, once a multiples mother speaks all shall listen and pale in comparison. geez. Take some tylenol and get on with your day. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 02:42 PM Flag
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I bet you are fun at parties. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:08 PM Flag
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OP any chance it's the flu or do you get occasional migraines? I'd call OB for this just to make sure, but Tylenol should be okay. Hope you feel better!!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 02:46 PM Flag
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Have you checked with a pharmacist for some options that are ok for pregnant women? I find them to be very helpful when I need some medicine advice, but don't need to go to the doctor. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 03:16 PM Flag
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