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[ - ] Chef moms or S Asian moms, I put too much turmeric in a curry dish. Anything that can offset that flavor? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:22 PM Flag
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whats the dish. coconut milk or pineapple come to my mind first [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:25 PM Flag
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potato or flour or yogurt, possibly tamarind or sugar or coconut milk [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:27 PM Flag
[ - ] I now have four half-finished projects going on around my house. Guess it's a good time to sit down with a coffee and UB. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:14 PM Flag
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i work 3-4 days a week and take 2 online classes. overwhelmed too so just sat down with coffee and UB [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:21 PM Flag
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OP: oh didn't I mention that I work from home and have a presentation that I also should be working on (before reorganizing my dd's closet)? But the siren sound of UB calls. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:23 PM Flag
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I have about 4 I need to tackle. But I WAH so ignoring them all until the weekend. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:28 PM Flag
[ - ] Am I being too uptight? Hung out with a group of couples recently- the wives are close but we brought our husbands. One of the husbands was extremely vulgar and joking his favorite porn stars and what they do, going to sex places in Asia and describing the women there, and talking about ideal breast shape, even though his wife is pretty much a double AA. She seemed to laugh along, maybe uncomfortably. I’m really disturbed not only at him, but how husbands would just laugh along at this graphic objectifying of women. My husband was upset, too. 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:05 PM Flag
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Sounds like a really awkward evening! How old? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:10 PM Flag
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It was a really loud restaurant. I think some people at the other end didn’t hear most of it. Late 30s and 40s. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:23 PM Flag
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Hmm, old enough to know better. Strange [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:25 PM Flag
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You and your dh being upset is a no brainer. I suspect this is a troll post to start a racist thread. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:10 PM Flag
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where did race come into it? do you think the wife is a double African American? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:23 PM Flag
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I actually appreciate that you’re accusing me of trolling because it indicates to me how insane the situation was. I don’t understand how the other people laughed along. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:24 PM Flag
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Why didn’t anyone speak up and say , “ save that for when you’re out with the guys”? I understand you’d rather that he didn’t talk that way at all, but at least not in your presence. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:15 PM Flag
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Or just forcefully change the subject? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:18 PM Flag
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I tried but he always brought the conversation back to something crass [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:25 PM Flag
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Well my husband and I were visibly uncomfortable and upset but this guy kept going because the other people were laughing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:24 PM Flag
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Ugh, we have been stuck in situations like that and it's horrible. You're not being uptight - just know that these are not 'your people' and don't sit near them if you go out with that group again. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:27 PM Flag
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I would have shared how I like my women too to shut him up. Nothing else works with those guys than being even more vulgar than them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:29 PM Flag
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It's an interesting issue for sure. A guy that does that is very uncomfortable in his own shoes, and feels the need to show off. He can't "read" his audience; but he's so anxious about being in a group setting that he tries to be the entertainer. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:30 PM Flag
[ - ] Please recommend some way to limit teenager's iPhone time. Tried Our Pact, but it no longer works for iOS. DH and I have old android phones, so we're incompatible. She is staring at that *&%&* thing for hours a day, and we're constantly fighting about it. 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:02 PM Flag
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I had the same fight with my teen son. I just canceled his data plan. His phone is good for phone calls only. I cut off wifi in the house, so he can only use the phone on wifi outside of the house. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:06 PM Flag
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OP: I tried cutting off data, but she was always able to use wifi. She's mostly at home, lounging on the sofa watching videos (and neglecting her homework). I can't cut off wifi in the house, since the rest of us need it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:13 PM Flag
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We have a strict rule: no phone time until homework is done. You're in charge! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:17 PM Flag
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Do the rest of you really need the wifi in the evening? I just unplug ours. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:30 PM Flag
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change the wifi password [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:30 PM Flag
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We gave DD an hour and a half a day, and she sticks to it. For now. How old? Mine is 13 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:10 PM Flag
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OP: 15. When we try to place our own time limits (or take it away), she acts like we took her heroin. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:14 PM Flag
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Tough love. It's YOUR phone [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:16 PM Flag
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There is no technology that is going to replace her respect for your rules. You three need to come up with the limit that really works and stick to it. For example, phones go down at dinner time and again by 8:30 (just an example). Then they get plugged in in the living room overnight to charge. And no phones until she leaves for school - it stays plugged in until she's leaving. Stick with it or she loses the phone, period. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:16 PM Flag
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Get him a cheap android flip phone with no data plan. He’ll never want anyone to see him use it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:17 PM Flag
[ - ] Regarding weight loss, is it easier for you to cut out carbs completely or eat then in moderation and limit calories (like weight watchers)? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:01 PM Flag
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I am an all-or-nothing kind of girl, so I cut out simple carbs completely. whole 30 is best plan for me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:02 PM Flag
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Same. If I have one bite of cake then the whole thing is gone [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:04 PM Flag
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haha - me too but in my case it is pizza [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:19 PM Flag
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Moderation by sticking with whole carbs and cutting refined carbs. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:03 PM Flag
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completely. just say no. then you do not have to count. easy peasy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:03 PM Flag
[ - ] Moms with college-aged dc with ADHD. What are some of the accommodations that were beneficial for your dc when they entered college? I need to get a refreshed neuro-psych report as my dc heads off to college and am not aware of the accommodations that would be beneficial for a student living away at college. Thanks. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:00 PM Flag
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extended time on tests (not on assignments, this does not benefit them in the long run) and ability to wear ear plugs / test in a separate rom if needed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:21 PM Flag
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Extended time. Lecture notes are provided. Reduced homework when it was just 'busy work'. Grade student based upon their knowledge via an oral exam with the professor as opposed to the written exam. Separate testing area for written exams. Provide a 'scribe'. Disability services meet with student weekly to work on a plan to complete work. Permission to record all lectures. Disability services meet with each professor so that the professor is aware of the disability. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:28 PM Flag
[ - ] How much prep did your kids do for the ela exam? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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none [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:10 PM Flag
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hung out with English speaking parents and siblings. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:19 PM Flag
[ - ] Anyone have a dc at Brooklyn Tech? What's the vibe? Do kids all head back to their neighborhoods after school? Do sports teams keep kids in Brooklyn all afternoon/evening? I know it's HUGE but are they broken down into smaller "units" per grade? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:51 PM Flag
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too bad the search function does not work on UB - I am done answering the same question over and over. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:01 PM Flag
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well, that's helpful. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:29 PM Flag
[ - ] Any LA people on who know what high school Lori Loughlin's kids went to? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:44 PM Flag
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I read it was Marymount but not 100% sure [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:48 PM Flag
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It was [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:59 PM Flag
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OP: Thanks. I am in LA but don't know the west side schools. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:08 PM Flag
[ - ] Looking for advice. A friend who is not illegally residing in this country was renting a room/bed from someone who has a government apartment in the projects. My friend arrived last night to find that some of her belongings were put out in a hallway and the locks were changed. She has money saved up which she hid in the apartment. She ended up calling the police and the apartment resident let her in but all the money she saved up was gone. The police said to go to court but did not give her a police report. Looking for advice on what she can do to recover her savings. 19 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:34 PM Flag
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I suggested to threaten the apartment resident with reporting her for illegally renting out a room, but she does not think that it will be enough to scare her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:36 PM Flag
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How much money was this? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:39 PM Flag
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I don't know but she has been saving this money for a while. I didn't want to ask her how much it was. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:41 PM Flag
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Op: I mention that she is illegally here because I am assuming that her status will limit her recourse options. Also she has been living in this apartment for close to 8 years. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:44 PM Flag
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1. She can still legally sue, however if her immigration status is made known she might be detained. 2. Does she have proof that she had money there, if not, she's SOL. 3. Does she have lease or any proof of an agreement with the occupant of the apartment. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:53 PM Flag
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No, she saved up cash. She is paid cash by her employer so she has no proof like a paycheck. Also she was illegally residing in the apartment, the resident was secretly renting out the shared space to her. She does have proof of packages being sent (shipping address). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:54 PM Flag
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She's need proof of the money and she needs to show something that they had an agreement to pay rent. Even if it's a text message saying she'll have the rent money to the person by X date. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:56 PM Flag
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Everything was done in person because they lived together. She paid cash. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:58 PM Flag
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She can't prove that she was a tenant than. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:58 PM Flag
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She is illegally here or not? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:45 PM Flag
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Yes, she is illegally here. [ Reply | More ]
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What state is this? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:49 PM Flag
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New York City. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:51 PM Flag
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I responded to you above with the 4 questions. So the occupant of the apartment just up and threw her stuff out? That's an illegal eviction from a most likely illegal sublet. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:55 PM Flag
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Yes, the apartment resident found a bank statement in which my friend listed the address and she told her she has to move. She found another place and was waiting for it to be vacated but then she arrived to find her belongings in the hallway and being let inside. She thinks that the resident found the money and wanted to steal it so threw her out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:57 PM Flag
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What is the problem with telling the bank her address? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:14 PM Flag
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Have her contact the Office of Victim Services. It's a NY agency that assists undocumented people with crimes and other services that would otherwise be unavailable to them. If anything, it's a good referral service. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:53 PM Flag
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Thank you so much! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:55 PM Flag
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She should know having a bank account does not have immigration status as an issue. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:11 PM Flag
[ - ] What does “don’t throw good money after bad” mean? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:29 PM Flag
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Same or similar to the saying: don't throw your pearls to swine. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:30 PM Flag
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Wasting money or energy on something that won't yield a positive result. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:30 PM Flag
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it means don't try to fix something that has already cost money to yield a bad result, by spending more money on it. So if you bought a cheap foreclosure property riddled with asbestos, you might not want to pay to remove the asbestos as the roi isn't there - but merely take the loss. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:53 PM Flag
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Is that like you buy a house with really ugly but functional cabinets? Don’t buy new ones? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:00 PM Flag
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No. It’s like you bought a crap car that keeps breaking down. Continuously repairing it instead of getting rid of it would be throwing good money after bad. Buying a house that needs cosmetic updates isn’t a bad investment. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:16 PM Flag
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For example, you are a former student or graduate of Trump University. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:05 PM Flag
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And went back there to get a doctorate. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:24 PM Flag
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Nice. I like your wit. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:27 PM Flag
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i think of it as piano lessons for a kid who hates it and wont practice. why keep payiing to continue? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:27 PM Flag
[ - ] Thrilled ds got int LaGuardia but found it odd that he didn't get any offers for round 1. He listed 9 schools and has a 95 gpa. 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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A friend of mine told me last night that this happened to her ds too. He received an offer at a SHS but didn't get any other offers. I thought that wasn't supposed to happen this year. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:21 PM Flag
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What are the test scores? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:28 PM Flag
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I don't ask people that and she didn't offer the info. [ Reply | More ]
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Really, that is odd! What studio? And congrats! [ Reply | More ]
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Why is everything so crazy?? My DD got into LaGuardia and Lab with an 87 average and low 3s on test scores just 4 years ago! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:28 PM Flag
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You listed the most popular schools and you aren’t in Districtt 2 [ Reply | More ]
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np district 2 here, ds going to Bronx Science, but got 10th school on regular. 97 average, all 4's. I don't know what the hell is going on? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:42 PM Flag
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Did these schools to only by numbers of six he have to submit essays or have interviews? [ Reply | More ]
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It sounds like a mistake. Everyone was supposed to be placed in a "regular" HS in round 1 (could be a school not on your list, but with your DS's numbers, that seems unlikely). Check with your guidance counselor. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:29 PM Flag
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I will check with my gc but I'm sure he is a bit busy with bigger problems than this right now. I can't complain-at least we got a spot. [ Reply | More ]
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You are being too nice. Think of it this way, you are helping point out that there were glitches in the system. Someone on YBM posted with similar issues that didn't make sense. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:57 PM Flag
[ - ] Do you think its possible for a guy from a culture that expects him to be financially responsible for his mother and other family members to NOT give them money every time they ask? Really love bf and want to spend my life with him but his mother and siblings constantly ask him for money. His mother is in her 50s and able to work. I told him it was a non negotiable for me and he said he would stop but has not. Best to end it now? 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:14 PM Flag
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I have this, to a lesser extent. Except my DH is from NJ, as is his mother. I think it's partially an ego thing, partially a guilt thing. It became easier after we married and we had a family. We told them we needed to focus on our home, our DC, their education, etc. It also made it easier because it was no longer his money but our money (I work FT). They still ask us for money, and we occasionally help with needs. But we have stopped supporting wants, and tell them to hit up their other children, to save, or to go without. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:17 PM Flag
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This. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:31 PM Flag
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It's his culture. You're incompatible. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:18 PM Flag
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Girl, this. I am Asian, bil (dh’s brother) married an non Asian girl. Sil is lovely, but is not a good fit for the family because of the cultural differences. The problems are with the in laws. Make your exit plan, if you marry into this and have children it will be problematic. I’m a spectator to this shitshow. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:30 PM Flag
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This. I married in to a family where my mil is Asian and fil is Caucasian American. If you can't accept that he has family obligations then you aren't a candidate for a successful multicultural relationship. My inlaws have made it work and hopefully dh and I will too. The other people (my inlaws) who married dh's siblings are also white (like me) and they are very generous people. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:08 PM Flag
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It's a red flag for sure. Joint and separate accounts help, but it will likely never go away. DH's sister is married to a DR and still hits us up for money for her DH. She does not work, I work FT. That's BS in my book. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:18 PM Flag
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You sign up for what you sign up for. If you marry him, you're accepting this as the permanent status quo as long as he's alive or as long as you're with him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:28 PM Flag
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You don’t love him enough. Set him free. He should marry someone else. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:30 PM Flag
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You don’t love him enough. Set him free. He should marry someone else. [ Reply | More ]
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He will NOT change and if you marry you will divorce [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:31 PM Flag
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No... the guilt will always remain even if you make him stop it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:41 PM Flag
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It's his mom. You will someday be someone's mom, and you'll hope your dc upholds your family traditions, no matter what the new gf/bf thinks. Why does this bother you so much? Is it the money or the relationship that he has with his family? You should really figure that out before you go forward, but either way you should not be asking him to change what he does with the money he earns. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:13 PM Flag
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depends on his salary and yours. if i were madly in love i would just keep all finances separate. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:22 PM Flag
[ - ] And just like that DD has gone from being superexcited about getting into Stuy to feeling bad about it. 31 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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What happened? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:09 PM Flag
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The NYT article [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:11 PM Flag
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well i hoped you talked to her about it. [ Reply | More ]
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I did, but she still feels bad [ Reply | More ]
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Then she has a tough choice to make. [ Reply | More ]
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Oh, she's going, but she said she feels embarrassed now [ Reply | More ]
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Oh, that's crazy. SHE is not responsible for the situation. Besides, I thought that article was misleading. It focused on the absolute number of black students. It should have focused on the number who were admitted PER APPLICANTS. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:30 PM Flag
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What article [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:15 PM Flag
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OR: I haven't seen it yet. Link? [ Reply | More ]
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better that she knows now [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:16 PM Flag
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Ugh! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:32 PM Flag
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Ugh! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:32 PM Flag
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That means she has empathy and a conscience. This situation isn't her fault, it's systemic, and change will be slow. She must be an excellent student to get in and should feel very proud! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:33 PM Flag
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I am proud. She did it all on her own [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:35 PM Flag
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White privilege kind of sucks for everyone. She shouldn't feel bad, she should just acknowledge it and try not to use it. She can't help being herself. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:34 PM Flag
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Huh? The percentage of white kids there continues to decline. And I don't see why Asian kids should feel bad either, they work hard to get there. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:11 PM Flag
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white students are barely over-represented in comparison to the percentage of white people in NYC aged 15-19. It is the Asian population that is statistically wildly over-represented based on a single objective entrance criteria - hard to blame white privilege on this one - in fact if you divide the pie even more my Irish-American student is very much culturally isolated - in fact I may have just outed myself by posting here - [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:16 PM Flag
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Melania? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:19 PM Flag
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you know many Irish-Americans names Melania? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:29 PM Flag
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What does she feel bad about exactly? That she got a spot and others didn't, or the diversity of the school? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:35 PM Flag
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The diversity. She goes to a very diverse middle school so she just thought that's what all schools were like. [ Reply | More ]
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She can't possibly be that dim if she got into Stuy. Come on. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:11 PM Flag
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Okay, you're right. Of course you know my daughter better than I do. [ Reply | More ]
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Troll post [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
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General Topics 03.19.19, 04:41 PM Flag
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God, this is such a lame response. Not a troll [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:39 PM Flag
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So would she give up her spot to someone else? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:41 PM Flag
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No, she really wants to go. And worked really hard to get there. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:54 PM Flag
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to each is own [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:56 PM Flag
[ - ] Is a 64 yo man too old for 51 yo woman? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:05 PM Flag
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Depends on the man and the woman. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:06 PM Flag
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I hope not. I'm 55 and DH is 69. [ Reply | More ]
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Too many women marry older men and become their caregivers. They become impoverished because they use up their money on DHs care. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 04:33 PM Flag
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OR: well, I got married at 25, so it's been 30 years of being glad I married a person I loved. Of course, I could have married someone my age, but then it wouldn't have been DH. [ Reply | More ]
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i'm 45 and know the hottest guy who is almost 55. oh god his hair is so beautiful lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.19.19, 05:23 PM Flag
[ - ] Anyone used butcher block as a kitchen countertop or island? Did you have it sealed with Waterlox or something similar? How does it hold up over time? Any issues around the sink? Thanks! 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Yes; no sealant, just regular oiling. Still in great shape although has “character “. You can sand them down every once in a while if you want to keep them looking pristine, but I actually use mine to chop on so don’t bother. [ Reply | More ]
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