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General Topics 12.17.18, 05:24 AM Flag
[ - ] I have lost 40 pounds and still can't seem to attract anyone under 60 (I'm 43) . What else can I do that won't cost me much money? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:31 AM Flag
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Stretch, esp torso, and focus on posture and carrying yourself with confidence. You will get more positive attention in general. Keep a smile on your face or at least in your eyes. GL. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:56 AM Flag
[ - ] Is Washington Heights the next up and coming neighborhood? 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:08 AM Flag
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That was true 20 years ago. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:14 AM Flag
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What do you mean? It's not desirable now, but seems natural that it eventually will be, especially as people are priced out of Manhattan and now Brooklyn, and as flooding increases. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:21 AM Flag
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Inwood rezoning will price out the working class [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:23 AM Flag
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Inwood rezoning will price out the working class [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:23 AM Flag
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if you like dog shit everywhere [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:23 AM Flag
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?? Can't possibly be more than Chelsea, Tribeca, Flatiron. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:28 AM Flag
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meh. it's so far from midtown and everywhere you want to be, except i guess it's a decent commute if you're going to work in midtown west. i'd prefer jackson heights for a midtown commute. or even better - roosevelt island. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:48 AM Flag
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so many rent controlled places up there. will take a while for those all to turn market rate. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:48 AM Flag
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Yes, but they are dropping regularly right now. I think in 10 years it will have evolved. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 05:16 AM Flag
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Lovely prewar apartments but the commute. Those schools! How about somewhere with more diversity and less mono-culture. It's still the DR up there. I agree with other poster - I'd sooner go to Jackson Heights. There's real diversity there (plenty of Asians to improve the schools and middle class people in those garden apartments). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:50 AM Flag
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Too late, Lin Miranda lives there. It's already in vogue. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 05:30 AM Flag
[ - ] i'm only 41 but my eyes are so saggy and kind of hooded. is there anything i can do beyond blepheroplasty? 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:51 AM Flag
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I don't think so. I was very heavy lidded. Both my parents were. I got the upper lid surgery at 39. Very happy I did it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:56 AM Flag
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Np: did it hurt? How much did it cost? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:59 AM Flag
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OR: I don't remember much pain. It was a pretty easy procedure. I actually didn't pay for it. My father was the head of plastic surgery at a university in California. One of his colleagues did the surgery and we just paid for the anesthesia or something. Google says it's 3-5K. My main advice would be make sure you find a plastic surgeon board certified in plastic surgery. There are many general surgeons who say they are board certified (but it's not in plastic surgery) performing plastic surgery procedures. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:02 AM Flag
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Np my mother's procedure was covered by insurance because it was considered medically necessary. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 05:47 AM Flag
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Did it darken your eyelids? Can you see the line if you don't wear any make-up over it? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:03 AM Flag
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OR: It didn't darken my eyelids. You can only see the line if my eyes are closed and you're looking for it specifically. I show it to friends and they have to kind of look. I really don't wear much make up. I just wear powder and lipstick. After the surgery, I'd go to the trouble of putting plain powder on my eyelids to cover the lines. But I only did that for a month or so and haven't gone back. I don't wear eye shadow. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:07 AM Flag
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Thank you. A couple more questions: Did you have a lot of sag? I can pull my eyelid skin out about 1/2 inch. And if so, did it change the shape of your eyes at all? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:10 AM Flag
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OR: I was very heavy lidded. So when my eyes were open, the top of my eye lid looked straight. I've mentioned this on UB before, but the reason I got my lids done was because I was rejected when I went to a botox consultation. They said because I was so heavy lidded, that the botox would essentially relax my forehead kind of causing even more heavy lidded issues. I called my dad and asked him about it since he's a plastic surgeon. He had me walk over to a full length mirror and put my forehead 'at rest'. Then he asked me where I was looking and I said 'the floor.' Basically in order to see straight ahead, I had been shoving my forehead up for god knows how many years. So while I definitely am very happy with the aesthetic looks results of the surgery...I am even more happy that my forehead can finally sit down. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:35 AM Flag
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Nope. Get thee to the plastic surgeon. It does not get better. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:58 AM Flag
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My mother had this done. It was money very well spent. Luckily, I do not have the same kind of eyes, but if I did, I would not hesitate to have the surgery. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:07 AM Flag
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How long for recovery? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:24 AM Flag
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Poster from earlier. i did it on a Monday. I was fine going out on small errands the next day in Jackie O's. But I wouldn't have gone to work for a week. There's light bruising. I think the CVS clerk thought I was a domestic abuse victim. Not black eyes or anything. But some yellowish bruising. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:36 AM Flag
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Thanks for the info! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:50 AM Flag
[ - ] Were you a full time student or a part time student? How many hours per week did you dedicate to classwork? 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:44 AM Flag
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Face Palm. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:44 AM Flag
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Probably about 10-15 hours/week studying. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:48 AM Flag
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20 hours [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:00 AM Flag
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Full time. Also worked at Kinkos 30 to 35 hours a week and pretty much spent the rest of the time in the studio (fine arts major) except studying fore core classes. Went out on Friday and Saturday nights. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:03 AM Flag
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For, not fore [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:05 AM Flag
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25 hours at U Penn [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:09 AM Flag
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I think it depends on the degree. Can def add up to 30-40 hours. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:10 AM Flag
[ - ] S/O: how much does your botox cost and is it done by a plastic surgeon, dermatologist or med spa or other? 22 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:37 AM Flag
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$600. Doctor [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:44 AM Flag
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$14/unit. MD at a medspa. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:45 AM Flag
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How many units? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:48 AM Flag
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20. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:48 AM Flag
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1000 plastic surgeon [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:48 AM Flag
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$11/unit. 20 units. med spa [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:16 AM Flag
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750, dermatologist in NYC [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:16 AM Flag
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you ladies are seriously overpaying for botox [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:16 AM Flag
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I don't really get what the point of botox is. I feel like all the aging is sagging, the fine lines really don't look bad to me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:29 AM Flag
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True. Botox does not address the inevitable. Gravity gets us all in the end. In the meantime, you've spent $90K in Botox and fillers over the years only to find out you still need a facelift at 60. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:31 AM Flag
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Im only in my 40s the little lines around my eyes seem cute to the jowls not so much [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:37 AM Flag
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Jowls at 40? LOL. You ain't seen nothing yet, honey! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:39 AM Flag
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I know I just don't get the botox [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:46 AM Flag
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Botox doesn’t address gravity but it does cause muscle atrophy from long-term use; in that way, you only need to get it in your 30s/early 40s to stave off the worst wrinkles. Filler actually stimulates collagen production. I’d rather spend my money on Botox and fillers than fancy topical creams that promise everything and do little to nothing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:56 AM Flag
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Spend the money on the facelift. Your lower face and neck are going to sag. It is what it is. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 05:01 AM Flag
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I’ll do both. Why wait till I’m sagging for a bit of a touch-up? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 05:03 AM Flag
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Botox can lift. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:46 AM Flag
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Not really. Talk to us when you're 60. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:54 AM Flag
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Who cares about 60? By the time you’re AARP age, the jig is up. But in your late 30s, a little Botox and filler can make a big difference. You can buy yourself a few more years of “lookin’ good!” — not just “looks good for her age.” [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 05:00 AM Flag
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Nice. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 05:07 AM Flag
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I guess it's not for you then. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 05:14 AM Flag
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I don’t mind the fine lines but I hate the 11s (lines between the eyebrows). To me it’s money well spent. I look less harsh. I also do fillet for undereye bags which makes a huge difference. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:50 AM Flag
[ - ] I'm starting this as new post. If I'm old and unattractive do I need to chase a man if i ever want a date. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:28 AM Flag
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You received replies on your other post [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:31 AM Flag
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Do what you want. If DH passes, I'm a free agent without men. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:04 AM Flag
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you have a big enough social circle without dh to occupy yourself? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:30 AM Flag
[ - ] I am struggling with arthritis pain and it hurts to walk. I am only 46 and starting to get depressed because everything is a challenge now. Will this get better? 19 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:22 AM Flag
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turn over every rock-- you are young and there are many solutions--nutritionally especially-- for arthritis. Don't give up looking for ways to help yourself. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:26 AM Flag
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Please share nutrition? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:27 AM Flag
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Bad. Eating all the time to try to ease my pain. No strong meds ever just nsaids. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:35 AM Flag
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I have degenerative arthritis in my spine. The more active I am the better I feel eg walking running sports active lifestyle. Also warm water eg swimming laps in a 82F pool helps too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:26 AM Flag
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I hate the cold. Looking forward to relocating in a few years. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:27 AM Flag
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Are you the one with AS? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:28 AM Flag
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Angelman syndrome? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:34 AM Flag
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No. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:36 AM Flag
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No, ankylosing spondylitis. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:38 AM Flag
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Turmeric is an anti-inflammatory and supposedly great for arthritis. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:05 AM Flag
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I use turmeric, 1 tsp mixed in water w/ fresh ground pepper. You have to add pepper, some kind of chemical reaction makes the turmeric more effective. I have a lot of joint pain and I think it has helped. Also is the only thing that has controlled a recurring nail infection that I had not been able to get rid of for like 25 years. Turmeric + fish oil. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:31 AM Flag
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Can you please share the tumeric/fish oil suggestion for nail infections/funguses? How much did you take? In what form? How often? How long did it take to work? Thanks!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:45 AM Flag
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The fish oil is for joint pain (not for nail). I started the turmeric because it came up when I was googling for the nail infection, which has not been cured by multiple prescription treatments. The last doc I went to just said "well, these things are really hard to treat" and that was the end of it. So I just started 1 tsp powdered (the kind sold as cooking spice) mixed in a small glass of water with about 25 grinds from pepper grinder. Started about 6 months ago. I had two bad nails and within a month, one was cured. The other is not perfect (nail is still flat with abnormal cuticle) but it never flares up or gets sore like it did every couple of weeks for the past 25 years. For me it's a miracle. And it has to be the turmeric, no other possible explanation. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 05:13 AM Flag
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meant to say, 1 tsp per day. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 05:14 AM Flag
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Is this OA or RA? Is the arthritis in your hip? Knee? Ankle? Foot? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:21 AM Flag
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RA sufferer for many years. Total bs that nutrition makes a damned bit of difference. It doesn’t. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:28 AM Flag
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If it really did make a difference, millions of people would not be suffering from the pain of OA and RA and we know that's not true. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 05:03 AM Flag
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Arthritis does not improve. You need to stay at a healthy weight and walk a lot. Occasional cortisone shots will help. I suffered very painful bone -on-bone OA for 12 years and finally had total knee replacements the last two summers. Almost pain-free now, but these are tough surgeries. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:41 AM Flag
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I have OA in my thumb, jaw and shoulder. The shoulder pain is under control thanks to a cortisone shot a few years ago (and still holding!), but my thumb always hurts. My jaw hurts on one side when I eat, yawn or sneeze. Otherwise, it doesn't hurt at all. On the plus side, it keeps me from eating too much. ;D Getting old ain't for sissies! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:49 AM Flag
[ - ] Looking at Live Photo’s from last month hike. I see moving bright light and it’s not moving with objects. It’s zig zag like a hoping frog or a butterfly. My camera is still. It’s in many frames in that area. Looks like bunch of small blue flowers. I don’t remember seeing anything when I took pictures. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:08 AM Flag
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Sounds like lens flare. Light can hit the lens from a point and distort things. You may not notice it but it hits the glass curve and can cause weird effects. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:22 AM Flag
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Or a ghost [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:48 AM Flag
[ - ] Is anyone familiar with the word puzzle specifically in the NY Times mag on Sundays ? Is like a beehive shape with letters to make words ...does anyone know what that puzzle is called, I'd like to purchase a book of those types of puzzles for my DS. TIA! 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:04 AM Flag
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It’s a completely fun game but I don’t think they’re in book form yet. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:06 AM Flag
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It's daily BTW, at least online. It's a word search puzzle, but NYT has specific rules, like requiring the middle letter, and allowing the others to be used more than once. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:25 AM Flag
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Sometimes they're called word scrambles [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:25 AM Flag
[ - ] Does everyone get Botox nowadays? I am now obsessed with staring at peoples foreheads and all I see are smooth, line less foreheads you can ice skate on. So- who gets Botox and at what age did you start? 52 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 02:56 AM Flag
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Me. 31. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 02:58 AM Flag
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How much it costs and where you go for it? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:04 AM Flag
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$14/unit, a small doctor's office not in NYC. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:05 AM Flag
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How many units you need for fire head ? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:09 AM Flag
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I get 20 units. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:11 AM Flag
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Thanks, how many days will it last ? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:12 AM Flag
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3-6 months. Go to realself if you want a better idea of the process from a bunch of different women. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:15 AM Flag
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No way. I'm only 38 and it's like 3 months, tops. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:27 AM Flag
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Everyone is different. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 05:17 AM Flag
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20s but I'm not reliable with it, I go a few years without it too, I'm almost 40 now [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 02:58 AM Flag
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a few YEARS? It that weird to go from no wrinkles to a lot and back again? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:42 AM Flag
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Ha! I just don't keep up with it. Similar to being a bleach blonde and then going all natural. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:45 AM Flag
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Wow! Weird comparison [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:12 AM Flag
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50 and no. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 02:59 AM Flag
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53 and no [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:01 AM Flag
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I think once you're 50 you can't really get it for the first time anyway. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:14 AM Flag
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Of course you can! Who are you people? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:25 AM Flag
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Really? I would imagine it would be too obvious of a contrast, like having a facelift? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:27 AM Flag
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Not in any way, shape or form like a facelift. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:40 AM Flag
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Going from lots of wrinkles to none seems drastic. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 05:23 AM Flag
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You don't go from lots of wrinkles to none. It relaxes some of the lines on your forehead; it's not used (at least not for wrinkles) on the rest of your face. And if you have lots of wrinkles, it will lessen some of them, but it's not like deep wrinkles disappear overnight. It works best, as someone said below, as a preventative. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 05:49 AM Flag
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Botox works best as a preventative treatment by freezing the muscles that cause wrinkles. Once wrinkles are present at rest, they’re a lot harder to treat. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 05:35 AM Flag
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Yes 34 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:00 AM Flag
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Yes, & 47 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:11 AM Flag
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Yes - started early 30s. On a break bc I’m pregnant [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:15 AM Flag
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I am 58 and I remember the first time I ever saw Botox in action. I think it was the late 1990s. Back then, Botox was commonly used by ophthalmologists to treat patients with eye spasms and other disorders. My friend, an optometrist, showed off her newly paralyzed forehead (injections compliments of an ophthalmologist with whom she worked) and I was astonished. I had it done once in 2002 or 2003. She got me a cheap deal with an ophthalmologist friend of hers. Even at the seriously discounted price, I didn't think it was worth the money so I never did it again. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:24 AM Flag
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I think things have changed just a little since then! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:14 AM Flag
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How so? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:24 AM Flag
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Botox application and aesthetics have changed. I think most doctors go for a much more natural look now. It's not black and white at all. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:28 AM Flag
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OR: It looked very natural then, but it only lasted 3 or 4 months. No way was I going to do this 4 times a year! It really adds up and doesn't change your appearance much at all. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:44 AM Flag
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I think Botox makes a huge difference in a positive way. It is expensive though. I’ve been getting it for years [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 05:25 AM Flag
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I get it. 41. I've been getting it 2-3 times/year for the last 4 years. In So cal it costs $11/unit. I get 20. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:26 AM Flag
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I'm amazed you all get 20 units! I'm 37 and get 67 units :( [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:32 AM Flag
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67 units sounds about right for forehead, between eyebrows and crow's feet [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:36 AM Flag
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Yes I get it all and the list is growing [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:44 AM Flag
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34 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:42 AM Flag
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60, never [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:44 AM Flag
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No 60 year olds do. It was before your time to start. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:12 AM Flag
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I'm 65 and have never used Botox. My forehead is smooth, no bad wrinkles or sagging. The key- avoid sunburns, don't gain and lose weight, eat right, and- my secret- Vaseline around my eyes and mouth every night. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:44 AM Flag
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It's really a function of your muscle and facial structure. Some people have very animated foreheads and others don't. Some people have lots of movement around their eyes and others don't. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:48 AM Flag
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Exactly. My eyebrows move a lot, but I have zero movement around my eyes. As a result, I have lines on my forehead, but none anywhere around my eyes. I am 57 and have never used Botox, but I wear bangs ;) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:55 AM Flag
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So if you walk onto a college campus do you feel you have the same skin as the 20 year olds (no wrinkles or sagging?) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:13 AM Flag
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That's a pretty rude comment. Check yourself. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:20 AM Flag
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Excuse me? Get over yourself. I asked a question and did not mean for it be rude. There have been plenty of times here on UB where women in their 50s and 60s claim to have zero wrinkles and look like kids in their 20s. I'm asking if OR feels similarly. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:24 AM Flag
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Even your clarification is incredibly rude. OR never claimed to look like she was in her 20s. That's your inner bitch coming out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:32 AM Flag
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I never claimed she did. I asked her if she FELT like she did. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 05:27 AM Flag
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That's not what she said, weirdo. Even if she DID get Botox she would still look older than a woman in their 20s and I'm sure is fine with that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:57 AM Flag
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Hey weirdo, I never said she said that. RE read [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 05:26 AM Flag
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Of course not! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:24 AM Flag
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Duh. No. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:24 AM Flag
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You still look older though. Everyone says at 65. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:24 AM Flag
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I started at 35. I work in a young industry and I’m on camera a lot for work. It seemed like a career investment as much as a vanity thing. I know it may only buy me a few more years, but hey, I’ll take it while I can. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 05:48 AM Flag
[ - ] In the know moms: do you really need 1550+ for Ivy? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Yes, unless URM, recruited athlete (not just athlete) or child of serious donor (not just legacy) or celebraty [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 02:58 AM Flag
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Does it need to be even between English/ math [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:22 AM Flag
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Oh please. I have known kids who got in recently with a 1380, without sports or being a legacy or donor or being URM. SAT is one point but they do also care about your talents and what you bring to the class - helps to be really great at something. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:26 AM Flag
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this. maybe it's true for hyp, but i know plenty of ordinary smart kids with sats in the 1400s who have recently been admitted to other ivies [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:34 AM Flag
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I don't believe you, not for the Ivies. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:54 AM Flag
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agree, tier 1 award, 1480 didn't do it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:17 AM Flag
[ - ] Are men always clear if they are interested or is it worth trying to make the first move? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 02:28 AM Flag
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Men are pretty easy to read [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 02:42 AM Flag
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do they always straight up tell you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 02:45 AM Flag
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Pretty much if you pay attention [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 02:46 AM Flag
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what do you mean by pretty much. like they say would you go out with me? or something more subtle. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:30 AM Flag
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Only make the first move if you know the guy is super shy. And keep it light and casual. After that it's 100% him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 02:50 AM Flag
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what if im a woman who know man is really going to go after, is my only hope to pursue a guy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:19 AM Flag
[ - ] Confession: I hate the holiday season. Every year this time I'm in a foul mood that escalates until xmas day. I hate everything about it: the stress of buying gifts for 2 kids, the clutter that builds up everyday, a husband who overspends on holiday crap, the dead tree in my living room shedding needles all over the place. I grew up in an immigrant family w/o celebrating xmas and the nonstop consumption of the season irks the shit out of me. 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 02:28 AM Flag
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In my experience, this means that you see nearly everything as a demand on you. Which means you have probably never felt as if you have ever had time for yourself. The most dangerous risk of being a normal but stressed adult in late 30s, early 40s is to believe that everyone is taking from you, but no one is giving to you, so therefore you deserve more than you are getting. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 02:32 AM Flag
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What you are missing is that all you have, other people would consider the gifts of life, especially around the holidays. Basically, a lot of people would like to be you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 02:33 AM Flag
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yes this is too true. thanks for the reminder. I am lucky in many ways. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 02:49 AM Flag
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This is me. I'm.so.over.it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:27 AM Flag
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Don't try to do Xmas like you're supposed to. We go out for Chinese, everyone gets one gift that has to be under $100.00, no tree cause we go to a big tree lighting in our city. We go out around 2 p.m. to see the holiday windows and then go to Dunkin Donuts for hot chocolate and donuts. And, no, we're not poor or weird. We just want to have a lovely family day and not one filled with craziness. It is a very relaxed, low expectations day. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 02:41 AM Flag
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This is good advise. Establish your own traditions and if there are ones that are important to your H, let him handle those. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 02:45 AM Flag
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Er, advice [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 02:45 AM Flag
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op: I think this sounds awesome. everyday I spend 90% of my time picking up other people's crap around the house and the holiday season means I'm doing this 100% of the time. I work FT and spend every free moment on the weekend cleaning and tidying up after 2 kids. I don't have time to sweep up all the detritus from the tree and that's what I'm doing at 10 pm at night. I can't wait til this shit is over. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 02:46 AM Flag
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No DH? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:26 AM Flag
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I'm Dunkin Donuts mom from above. I saw my mother work full-time, clean the house herself (me helping when I got older) and then staying up till midnight wrappig gifts. You set the tone and the traditions that work for you. If your DH wants to shop for 20 gifts, let him shop, wrap them, and then clean up. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 05:25 AM Flag
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But you're Jewish. That's not what OP is getting at. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 02:48 AM Flag
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I wish I knew you IRL [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:32 AM Flag
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Change it. Say no gifts between you and dh except a dinner out just the two of you. Get an artificial tree. Pre lit! Create easy traditions - watch itsxa wonderful life together, cook Xmas eve dinner in. Church. Do something as a family out of the box for nye. Make it about you inside your house with people you live. Then it’s the most wonderful time of the year [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 02:44 AM Flag
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I second the pre lit artificial tree. I got one last year for our second home that we go to for 3 weekends during the holiday season. Spend money on a quality one. Takes 10 min to drag out and put up. I put no decorations on it. 10 min to put away. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:15 AM Flag
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Tip: do NOT buy your tree until 12/10 or later. Huge mistake of everyone else on UB. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 02:47 AM Flag
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Get rid of the parts you dislike and keep the parts you do enjoy. I like walking around and looking at lights; making mulled wine + cocoa and watching family videos with DH and the kids; planting paperwhites. We keep gifts simple (DC get their "big" gift from Santa, a simple stocking, and 2 or 3 gifts from us, usually books and clothes). I listen to Bing Crosby, say "no" to almost every invitation, make big batches of soup. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:15 AM Flag
[ - ] Classmate from 20 years age emailed to send me something he found that mentioned us from 20 years ago. Should I read anything in to this? I just got divorced. It is possible he heard about it through the grapevine. I think I'm just looking for any small sign of male attention out of desperation. I don't know if he is married. His facebook indicates no sign of a family but a friend thought she heard he had married. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 02:19 AM Flag
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If you want to respond, do so and keep it light. You can say it's nice to hear from him after all these years and that the thing he sent made you smile, blah, blah, blah. You can ask if he has a family (if he keeps the exchange going a little bit). Most important thing is to keep it casual until you know if a wife and kids are involved. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 02:30 AM Flag
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+50 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 02:48 AM Flag
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i could find out, by asking around more but I think I'm reading something into nothing. If I know he isn't married is it still nothing? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:17 AM Flag
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Yes, I would assume an innocent intent unless/until you have reason to think otherwise. Just offer a friendly response and don't make any assumptions. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:57 AM Flag
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Has he seen you in that 20 years? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 03:46 AM Flag
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not in like 15 years, so i assume you are right even if he is interested he probably wouldn't be once he saw me. It is weird we are facebook friends but he seems not to realize it as he sent a note to someone to pass it on to me. He said he didn't have my email. It was just weird. It is likely all in my head. Anyway we had a very weird relationship growing up. We went to a small private school together from preschool through high school so I guess it would be sort of incestuous anyway. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.18, 04:27 AM Flag
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