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[ - ] Oh God. Another hot air balloon caught on fire and crashed. That's like my worst nightmare. 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:27 PM Flag
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in NJ? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:32 PM Flag
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This is your worst nightmare? Are you ever in hot air balloons? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:32 PM Flag
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op takes hot air balloons as her main mode of transportation [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:35 PM Flag
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No way. I was in a helicopter just once out of necessity and I nearly fainted when I got out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:38 PM Flag
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Lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:39 PM Flag
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No, I have a phobia about falling from the sky. I am a very anxious flyer. Just the idea of skydiving, for example ... I just can't. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:37 PM Flag
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OR)I am afraid of heights too. But a hot air ballon crashing would not even register for me. I know I would never be on one. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:41 PM Flag
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I know, it's stupid. But I guess that's why they call them phobias, they aren't real. It's an elemental thing you can't explain. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:43 PM Flag
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Ok. I might be that way about snakes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:44 PM Flag
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^* lIke snakes on a plane. Lol. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:47 PM Flag
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I got a little better with snakes when we had one for a little while. It got loose at one point and we never found it. It was a young ball python (a constrictor, not a biter). There was an open window in my son's bedroom so we think it just got outside. They need an external heat source to survive so chances are it died pretty quickly as soon as the weather turned. Still, 6 YEARS later, my MIL still asks if we've found the snake yet and doesn't like coming over to our house. Like it's now 8 feet long and lives in the ductwork or something. lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:50 PM Flag
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There was one a little while back with two women from a university, I want to say it was a coach and a player. They were on fire as they fell. It jolted me right back to the jumpers on 9/11. I have really bad dreams about that kind of thing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:40 PM Flag
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Those poor women. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:45 PM Flag
[ - ] As New Yorkers should we worry that if Donald Trump should (God forbid) win, will he be here more often than a non-New Yorker president, effing up traffic and all that goes along with presidential visits? This alone would be reason for me not to vote for him, never mind his utter lack of anything resembling experience. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:04 PM Flag
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Given that Hillary is even more into fundraising than Obama and has her daughter and grandchildren here, you'll see her even more frequently. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:07 PM Flag
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Oh crap, good point. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:09 PM Flag
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He has family and a business here, not that this is a remotely important difference [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:10 PM Flag
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THIS [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:23 PM Flag
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When she was SOS she travelled to more countries than anyone else, ever. I wouldn't worry about it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:24 PM Flag
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Yep. Good luck with all that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:07 PM Flag
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If your biggest concern is traffic in NYC with a Trump presidency, then you must be very white and very rich. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:26 PM Flag
[ - ] Why does no one tell you how hard exclusive breastfeeding is? It's a big secret that you only discover once you begin and inevitably struggle and believe your body is defective. Breastfeeding is portrayed as so easy, natural and carefree by every proponent, from LLLI to celebrities. I'm finally getting the hang of it but I feel like I was totally lied to about what it takes. Anyone else feel this way? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:03 PM Flag
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Yes, it was REALLY effing hard. Totally agree. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:05 PM Flag
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Agree. And IMO, not worth doing once you go back to work, with the pumping at work every 2-3 hours. A lot of women drive themselves crazy doing this, I don't get it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:12 PM Flag
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I think it is really hard with your first & when both you 7 baby are figuring it out, but after the first 3 - 4 months it gets easier than bottle feeding. You always have it, you don't have to wash anything, and once baby gets good at nursing it's easy (assuming you're not at work, of course. Pumping very time consuming.) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:19 PM Flag
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It was SO painful and so stressful for me for the first month. I hated it and was miserable because I thought there was something wrong with me. Now, I'm 8 months in and it is pain free, natural, easy, convenient, and really special time with my baby. The first month was hell. Really glad I stuck with it though. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:20 PM Flag
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It's not hard for everyone. I did a lot of research beforehand and it wasn't the easiest thing in the world, but we got the hang of it quickly. Painful to break in the nipples but after the first few days, easy sailing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:23 PM Flag
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I was lucky. I had a friend who went before me. BF was in redo my easy for me. I also took a class while pregnant that dispelled all the myths women like to throw at each other. If you are warned about the 3 week, 6 week, 3 month and 6 month growth spurts in advance it saves you so much angst. There is a reason those are by far the times moms mistakenly believe they have supply issues. They don't. The system is working but no one tells them that. Do, I would like to dispel the myth there is some secret info about how difficult EBF is. There isn't. It's easier for some than others, just like everything in life. Glad you are getting the hang of it. Enjoy the bAby. The days are long but the years are short! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:30 PM Flag
[ - ] Hillary Clinton slut-shamed all of bill's girlfriends. 24 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:41 PM Flag
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Like you would wanted to have been bosom buddies with all your DH's exes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:43 PM Flag
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she blamed the women and not Bill. [ Reply | More ]
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Liberals hate cops. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:46 PM Flag
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Not too many women have nice things to say about the OW, which isn't surprising. If it happens to you though, I'm sure you'll say that the OW seems like a wonderful person! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:46 PM Flag
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I would if i were going to run for president and play the feminism card. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:47 PM Flag
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These are all accusations that never went anywhere. If Bill or Hillary Clinton were supposed to be in jail for crimes they committed, you'd think they would be there. But they aren't. Accusations are not the same as convictions. I mean, come on. Trump's been publicly accused of rape, too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:50 PM Flag
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Clinton agreed to a settlement in 1998 and paid Jones and her attorneys $850,000. And it was during that case that he initially denied having a sexual relationship with Monica Lewinsky. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:52 PM Flag
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All that says to me is that there either wasn't enough to support a rape conviction and her attorneys told her that she should take the money, or that if she believed she was raped and took the money instead of pursuing criminal prosecution, she let her dignity be legally bought and paid for. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:21 PM Flag
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He denied having a sexual relationship with Monica Lewinsky because married men lie. He got caught. He was impeached. He didn't resign office. This is all in the history books. So the F what. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:22 PM Flag
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THIS. Thank you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:27 PM Flag
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The feminism card? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:26 PM Flag
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They're saying she can't care about the rights of women if she didn't support the women accusing her husband of sexual harassment and/or rape. Because a true feminist would have more loyalty to the women who sleep with her husband than loyalty to her husband. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:29 PM Flag
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I want to see Bill's bent Peyronie penis [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:50 PM Flag
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There you go again. It's obvious you're one person. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:50 PM Flag
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Mistresses you mean? So if someone knows someone is married and still goes after them, they should be OK? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:02 PM Flag
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If it were my husband having sex with them, I would, too. If anything, she's the one person who gets a pass from other women on that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:23 PM Flag
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You posted this last night. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:25 PM Flag
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Trump disrespects ALL women. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:37 PM Flag
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good point [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:39 PM Flag
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So? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:51 PM Flag
[ - ] Martha's Vineyard vs. Nantucket vs. The Hamptons. GO. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:39 PM Flag
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Nantucket [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:41 PM Flag
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I hate GO posts. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:57 PM Flag
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+1. It's offensive. As if, do your own damned research. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:03 PM Flag
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+2 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:23 PM Flag
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SAME. We're not in gym class. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:27 PM Flag
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You would get farther with please rather than GO [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:32 PM Flag
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MV if you are wealthy & brown. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:35 PM Flag
[ - ] Jonathan DeGuzman, a 16-year veteran of the force, died Thursday night when a gunfight erupted after he and his partner stopped someone on a street in a blue-collar area of town. killed by illegal immigrant so the media isn't covering san diego 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:37 PM Flag
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Police swarmed the neighborhood where the shootout happened. About a half-hour after the shooting, they followed a trail of blood to a ravine and found Jesse Gomez, 52, with a chest wound. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:39 PM Flag
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Then, about a dozen heavily armed SWAT officers raced to another house about two blocks away, positioning an armored truck and robots outside. The possible suspect wasn't there either. Marcus Antonio Cassani, 41, was finally found several blocks away and held on an Anaheim arrest warrant. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:39 PM Flag
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Liberals hate cops. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:46 PM Flag
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this. blue lives don't matter. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:48 PM Flag
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Don't forget the SWAT team that threw a flash bomb into a toddler's crib and incinerated his body--and they had the wrong house. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:04 PM Flag
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Why were he and his gay partner stopping someone? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:24 PM Flag
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what's wrong with being gay, aren't you liberal? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:34 PM Flag
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HUH? The media isn't covering this? Funny, I learned about from THE MEDIA. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:28 PM Flag
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not covering the suspects [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] How many times have you been banned on UB? 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:32 PM Flag
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0 [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
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General Topics 07.30.16, 03:33 PM Flag
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once for calling michael brown a thug before the video came out of the strongarm robbery in the convenience store and later his dna on the gun [ Reply | More ]
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How do you know the reason you were banned? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:07 PM Flag
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Sometimes it's just the timing and you can take a good guess at something that crossed the line into the more controversial than usual. np [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:12 PM Flag
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1 x. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:36 PM Flag
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1x I can't remember why [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:56 PM Flag
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1. Have no clue why. [ Reply | More ]
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3 in 6 years. I think I was getting a little too creative here. Oh well. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:08 PM Flag
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ha - as in??? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:24 PM Flag
[ - ] WOHM, how often do you spend time with friends? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:30 PM Flag
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now sahm, but when i was working, a lot more than now - lunches and a usually one night out a week. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:24 PM Flag
[ - ] What names you used to like have other people ruined for you? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:29 PM Flag
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chelsea, hillary, brittany, [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:54 PM Flag
[ - ] Got an offer for I Phone 5S from Straight Talk for $149. The plan has 2 Gb data with unlimited text and talk for $45/mo. Feel better doing prepaid than a 2-year commitment, but does anyone have thoughts on this deal or the phone? Any other good deals out there this summer in which I should consider? TIA. 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:27 PM Flag
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It sounds good to me. Better than what i pay. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:29 PM Flag
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try cricket, they're owned by att [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:29 PM Flag
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Will do, thanks! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:34 PM Flag
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They have IPhone 5C for $199 and the cost/mo for 5GB of data is $50/mo. Doubt I would need all that. Lots of phones out there that are NOT I-phones. Never had an apple product before... Thoughts? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:40 PM Flag
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my kids love iphones. i dont use itunes or many apps so i love the samsung galaxy [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:36 PM Flag
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Is their coverage good? I've used ATT and found coverage even for them spotty. Otherwise it sounds like a great plan! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:32 PM Flag
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They use the Verizon Network. My boys talk about Cricket... do they advertise on kids channels? LOL [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:33 PM Flag
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I read up a bit and the most complaints were about terrible customer service--inability to get customer service on the phone etc. Not sure it's a deal then. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:36 PM Flag
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Try Virgin Mobile. I got a 5s for $149 after rebate, and pay $35/month for unlimited calls/txts/data (4G high speed data). No contract. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:26 PM Flag
[ - ] I love the rugs at restoration hardware but I can't justify the price. Any knockoff recommendations? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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maybe wayfair [ Reply | More ]
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There is a restoration hardware outlet in College point Queens and in Riverhead. I know they have carpets in the Riverbed outlet. Much cheaper [ Reply | More ]
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NP here. Thanks. How is the one in College Point? [ Reply | More ]
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Catskills [ Reply | More ]
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Overstock [ Reply | More ]
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crate & barrel - check the outlet [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] If you could buy a rental property anywhere in the US, where would you buy one? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:24 PM Flag
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Nantucket. [ Reply | More ]
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it's lovely when you get there, but it's such a huge pain to get to. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:33 PM Flag
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Close to where I live so I could manage it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:58 PM Flag
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Hawaii [ Reply | More ]
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College town, good neighborhood close to campus. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:25 PM Flag
[ - ] Thoughts on this. My husband was divorced with two children when I met him. We have been married for 20 years. We have no children together. In writing our will, my husband wants to leave 25% of his money to each child and leave me the remaining 50%. We are not talking about a lot of $, but I do not earn a lot and thought he would want to leave it all to me. The kids are grown, married and on their own. They are not particularly involved in his life and are not particularly close. Thanks. 88 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:18 PM Flag
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My father died 10 years ago. My mom has been with someone for 5 years. I do not expect her to leave any $$ to him and vice versa. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:20 PM Flag
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They are still his kids. What do you mean by a lot of money? Is your home included, or does that pass to you separately? Retirement accounts have to go to you, unless you have signed off on? Do you have kids? Does he think (likely) that any money he leaves to you will ultimately go to them? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:20 PM Flag
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The kids are grown, married on their own [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:24 PM Flag
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YOUR kids, if any, OP [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:26 PM Flag
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We do not have children together. He had two kids when I met him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:28 PM Flag
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Can you answer the question - did you have any other kids? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:29 PM Flag
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I do not have any kids. First time married and never had kids with him nor with anyone else [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:31 PM Flag
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I said NOT a lot of $. Maybe $100,000 which is about all we have but yes, we do own a house together. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:25 PM Flag
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omg. That is not even enough for you to live on much less split it. Is he crazy!!!!!!!! Is it premarital? Otherwise why does he think he can give it away? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:49 PM Flag
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They have kids. It is the right thing to do. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:21 PM Flag
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Do you have children? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:22 PM Flag
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My DH's father has been married 25 years to his second wife. She has no children. He is splitting his money 3 ways. 1/3 each to his 2 sons and his wife. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:24 PM Flag
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you can't read? [ Reply | More ]
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Cant you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:26 PM Flag
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We have no children together [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:24 PM Flag
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That doesn't answer the question as to whether or not SHE has kids from a prior relationship [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:25 PM Flag
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Sorry, my first marriage. I don't have any kids. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:28 PM Flag
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My mom's father left all of his money (and my mom's dead mother's money) to his second wife. Nothing to my mom or aunt. They were really hurt by this. I'm glad to hear that your husband is much more kind and thoughtful. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:22 PM Flag
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This [ Reply | More ]
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Don't forget your dh is also a father. He is being very fair in my opinion [ Reply | More ]
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General Topics 07.30.16, 03:23 PM Flag
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Best thing to do, have him set up a trust that provides for you with the remainder to go to his children. You could live to 100, you need that money. Maybe he can give them a % of life insurance, not a dollar amount. His first obligation is to protect you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:23 PM Flag
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His first obligation is to protect me. THANK YOU. that is what I thought. I have been the main breadwinner and did feel hurt that he thought of me as equal to his kids. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:26 PM Flag
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If you were the main breadwinner, then you do not need his money or "protection" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:29 PM Flag
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Is the money he wants to leave to the kids from your joint marital assets? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:28 PM Flag
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That's not his first obligation. NO. It's his money. [ Reply | More ]
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We do not know what she "needs." She is an adult, she wasn't raising kids, she should have been working. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:27 PM Flag
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I have worked all my life. I never stopped working because I never had kis, and do not have a lot of $. I have always worked...him, not so much. [ Reply | More ]
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So how is it that you do not have a lot of money, were primary breadwinner, and he has money to leave anyone? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:31 PM Flag
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Don't understand this either. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:34 PM Flag
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Let me try again. You say "do not have a lot of $" -- where did his come from? Or is it so small, it doesn't matter. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:36 PM Flag
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That is me above. I am not understanding the financial picture. Are his assets premarital or inherited? Otherwise how can he give it away? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:44 PM Flag
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Your husband does the right thing since you don't have children. [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
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He is a very kind man. You have your own social security and pension, so getting 50% of his money is more than sufficient. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:29 PM Flag
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General Topics 07.30.16, 03:33 PM Flag
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+1 OP, people like to leave something to their kids, even if it's not a lot. This sum isn't going to be that meaningful to you anyway. If you don't like it, get a job. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:27 PM Flag
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I would not stand for that. You are not wealthy and will need money to support yourself to possibly 100. It is very expensive and you are not young and don't have the opportunity to earn. They are young and can earn. But wouldn't much of this money have been earned in the last 20 years? That is 50% yours anyway. He can only give away premarital assets. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:29 PM Flag
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^If you were extremely wealthy and/or it was inherited wealth it would be different but if your retirement is not 100% funded to live comfortably that is not right. They can have what is left when you die. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:30 PM Flag
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What do you mean, you would not stand for? You are an idiot. You can threaten to divorce him, he can give her the will she wants, and do another one the next week. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:34 PM Flag
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pp: I mean I would not be married to a person who felt fine leaving me in a shitty position when they die. Her life means nothing when he is dead? If I didn't trust him I would have him set up an irrevocable trust or divorce. I could put up with a lot of shit but this is above insulting. Except in the case of inheritance from his parents. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:43 PM Flag
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We don't know enough. Asked but not answered, home and retirement accounts that will not pass through will. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:46 PM Flag
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If she is talking about 100k it would mean they don't have much money. I would not want to be with a man who did not care about my future beyond his death. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:03 PM Flag
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We do not know what is passing via will v outside will. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:27 PM Flag
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+1 You're an idiot; if she divorces him she would get half anyway. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:27 PM Flag
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That is right, exactly what he is now offering her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:35 PM Flag
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We do not have enough information to determine this. I have asked, she won't answer. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:42 PM Flag
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his widow can remarry another man, but his children are his blood. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:32 PM Flag
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Like she is supposed to pimp herself out to get a roof over her head at 60+??? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:33 PM Flag
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60s is the new 40s. Women have kids in 50s now with frozen eggs. [ Reply | More ]
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60 yr olds can't find sugar daddies. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:49 PM Flag
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People do it all the time. For awhile my 60+ mom was near death. The widows started swarming around my dad. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:38 PM Flag
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Easy for a man since there are so few. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:50 PM Flag
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He is very fair in giving you 50%. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:35 PM Flag
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More than fair. Very generous since you don't have kids. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:35 PM Flag
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This, I think most states only require 1/3 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:37 PM Flag
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Of premarital? The guy can't just just give your family money away. What makes it his? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:51 PM Flag
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I think yes, but not certain. He can give it away while alive. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:52 PM Flag
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are you op? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:03 PM Flag
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no [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:27 PM Flag
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Not at all fair. What is she supposed to live on? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:50 PM Flag
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She wont tell us enough to let us decide. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:53 PM Flag
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she gets his social securities and pension. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:56 PM Flag
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And where are they living? Any 401Ks [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:03 PM Flag
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How do you know he has a pension? SS is not enough to live on. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:04 PM Flag
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Do you own a home together? How it is titled? Does it pass to you outside of will? Retirement accounts? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:38 PM Flag
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Children come first. Always. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:48 PM Flag
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adult children?? np [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:49 PM Flag
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Yes, of course. They are his blood and he wants to leave them some inheritance. Completely reasonable. - OR [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:53 PM Flag
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OP is holding back too many facts. She is either an idiot or greedy. She doesn't answer re house, insurance, retirement accounts. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:53 PM Flag
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Exactly. If it's joint savings then he can't leave it to kids unless she agrees [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:58 PM Flag
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No effing way. Even if I died tomorrow and my dh remarried why would his spouse live her old age in poverty after her spending her years with him. My ds has his youth to make money. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:06 PM Flag
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It's not possible unless pre-marital assets and in case it's pre-marital then he is being generous [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:55 PM Flag
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Wrong. If not premarital, in most states he has to give 1/3. Either way he is more than meeting state law, at least in nY [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:04 PM Flag
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How can he give q/3rd if 1/2 is hers? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:13 PM Flag
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^explain how he can give $$ that aren't his? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:14 PM Flag
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I don't get that either. How can he give away her money? She can't just die and give 2/3rds to her sister. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:20 PM Flag
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We don't know what is in joint name. She wont tell. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:27 PM Flag
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He's being fair, I think. Sorry, but I don't know why you'd assume he'd want to leave you every penny when he has two dc's who aren't yours. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:03 PM Flag
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Agree completely. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:20 PM Flag
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Because they are full grown adults now and she will be elderly and poor? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:25 PM Flag
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she gets 50% . Why would she be poor? He is just giving away his own portion to his children. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:26 PM Flag
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And you can tell that how? She may be living in a 2M house she can sell. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:28 PM Flag
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Who gets YOUR money? What if you die first? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:32 PM Flag
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that's for the OP. sorry. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:32 PM Flag
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Hope you are a troll. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:29 PM Flag
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SMH [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:39 PM Flag
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Is the house jointly owned? Do you have a joint checking account? If so, these assets will go directly to you and not into his estate. I'd focus more on increasing your savings rather than worrying about this unless your husband is close to death. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:40 PM Flag
[ - ] UB is like a family. We shit on each other and give each other a hard time, but when something really goes wrong we rallly to help out UB family. 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:17 PM Flag
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Yes. Thank you for sending me to rehab!!!!!!!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:31 PM Flag
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Wonderful! How are you doing? Congratulations. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:49 PM Flag
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I am loving life. I can't believe I suffered so long. 1000x better than I imagined. Only regret is that I didn't go sooner. Thanks!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:07 PM Flag
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WOW, I am so happy for you! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:20 PM Flag
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me too. Thank god. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:25 PM Flag
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Agree [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:36 PM Flag
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You are like all my friends I totally have but you all go to another school. In Canada. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:09 PM Flag
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UB is like a dysfunctional family, with that one crazy uncle who's voting for trump, the slutty cousin who talks inappropriately at dinner, the boring SILs who just drone on about their genius children and their schools and extracurricular activities... Why the hell am I here?!?! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:29 PM Flag
[ - ] A friend is selling skincare and raving about results when it's so obvious to me mort of her issues went away because she gave up dairy and consumes fewer processed foods. Do I even mention it to her? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:11 PM Flag
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Probably is the skin care stuff. Dairy gets a bad rap. The gluten of yesterday. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:09 PM Flag
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Smile and nod. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:29 PM Flag
[ - ] Tell me about being divorced with primary custody and dating. 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:03 PM Flag
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Dating is non-existant in my little world. Divorced with primary custody. Between work, kids, and my own interests, there's no time to add dating into the mix. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:24 PM Flag
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Are you ok with this? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:54 PM Flag
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I am. No interest in dating. If I happen to meet someone great, I won't run the other way. But I'm not going to spend time actively seeking out a partner and weeding tirelessly through bad matches. I'm totally comfortable going through the rest of my life without a husband. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:02 PM Flag
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thanks for sharing. I feel like I am basically in the same place, all though sometimes I wonder if I will kick myself later for not being more motivated to find love again, especially as I am only 36 and have a lot of years ahead. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:15 PM Flag
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It is hard? For me, the biggest challenge is that I am someone who needs a sliver of alone time here and there to re-charge and so it is hard for me to look at the couple of days (literally, maybe 2) that DCs are with their father as time that I want to spend with someone else. That said, I am doing it and have had a BF for a while now but I am always torn between parceling out my own limited free time to spend with him or for a few hours of recharging time for me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:28 PM Flag
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Expensive for babysitter. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:31 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:40 PM Flag
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Think about it. You already know the answer to this. Buy a vibrator. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:29 PM Flag
[ - ] Help. Live in Brooklyn and have out of town cousins coming to town and need a place in Manhattan for dinner that is fun, not that expensive and not too formal. So out of touch with Manhattan restaurants as we are too lazy to go. Downtown easiest or east midtown 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 02:59 PM Flag
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We always take visiting family to Spring Street Natural. Low key and food for everyone. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:08 PM Flag
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I'm not sure what exact price range you're looking for, but Otto is fun and festive. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:23 PM Flag
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Agree, love this place. Reminds me I need to get back there one of these days. Signed, UESider [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:00 PM Flag
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Minneta Tavern [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:22 PM Flag
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Do you have to go to Manhattan to eat? There are so many great places in Brooklyn. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:33 PM Flag
[ - ] Do you think Trump intentionally uses incorrect spelling and grammar in his tweets? At first, I thought he used “who” when “whom” was correct to save one of the 140 characters. Then, he spelled judgment “judgEment,” which wastes a character, so that can’t be the explanation. Maybe he is trying to connect to his uneducated supporters. 24 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 02:50 PM Flag
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Those uneducated supporters will Fuck your world in Nov [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 02:52 PM Flag
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You sound lovely and thoughtful. Thanks for your insight. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 02:56 PM Flag
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+1 Can't wait for you all to overrun the castle and burn us at the stake. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:30 PM Flag
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Not sure anymore. He's done it a bunch of times now. It certainly gets attention. Then again the guy who ghostwrote his book who spoke to the New Yorker was very open about how he pretty much doesn't read anything except his own press. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 02:56 PM Flag
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It must be intentional. It would be very easy for someone to proofread his tweets if he cared. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:01 PM Flag
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You'd think. But then again, look at the Melania speech disaster. Clearly unintentional based on the sheer level of damage control they were doing the next day. Leads me to believe it's intentional sometimes, and other times they just screw up because their campaign is so disorganized. Their candidate is good at what he's good at, and a catastrophe at the other things he has no experience with. The only thing is, these days, in the "reality TV land" we live in, where Johnny FairPlay gets to stay on the island and Sanjaya gets to stay on Idol way past his due because they were just so freaking watchable, and the internet is the wild west, Trump's doing much better than he should. Howard Dean gets flipped the bird for a war cry and Donald Assclown is the current Republican nominee? Fortunately, trolls can't go to the polls in November. Particularly if they are not actually posting from somewhere in America. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:00 PM Flag
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"Look, Wolf, Twilight Sparkle pony also talked about following your dreams, are you telling that My Little Pony stole words from Michelle Obama?" lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:10 PM Flag
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HIs handlers have no control over him. He is too impulsive to proofread. He is too controlling allow anyone else do it for him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:01 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:03 PM Flag
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Yes. Good qualities in a leader! Yikes! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:05 PM Flag
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+2 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:05 PM Flag
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ISIS is also made of a bunch of uneducated supporters [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:10 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:52 PM Flag
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Yes. True. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:34 PM Flag
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Do you think he personally writes this stuff or his staff does it? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:15 PM Flag
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I read somewhere he's pretty savvy about it. so I think he wrote a lot of it if not all. It woud've been perfect English if he hire someone do it for him [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:20 PM Flag
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np-imo, I think it's him and I think he's obsessed with it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:22 PM Flag
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He doesn't even put that much thought into strategizing how to spell wrong and bond with the common man. He is too arrogant think he needs to spell corectly. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:26 PM Flag
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This. And he doesn't speak correctly all the time either, so... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:34 PM Flag
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when the US press obtained copies of the affidavit in which Ms Jones details what she claims to be the President's "distinguishing characteristics". These, she is reported to have said, amount to three. His erect penis is about five inches long, has the circumference of a quarter (a shade less than a 2p coin) and heads off at an angle, presumably rather like a finger bent at the joint. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 03:33 PM Flag
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All that means is that she had sex with him. If it was a rape, she should have reported it. If she remembered that much about his dick you'd think she would have the mental wherewithal to realize she'd been raped, unlike the Cosby accusers, most of whom could barely recall what had happened to them. If there were enough evidence to substantiate an actual rape, Bill Clinton wouldn't have won the presidency. He did. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:05 PM Flag
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Otherwise it's just an affair. Which isn't against the law. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:06 PM Flag
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Wait, what does this have to do with Trump? Or Hillary for that matter? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:28 PM Flag
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He also spelled "lose" "loose" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.30.16, 04:33 PM Flag
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