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[ - ] What do people have against youth football? I love it for DS 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:17 AM Flag
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My 46 year old brother's chronic back problems. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:21 AM Flag
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Concussions [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
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I would be okay with flag football, but my DS loves soccer and lacrosse. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:36 AM Flag
[ - ] I don't think I'll ever look at the Oscars the same way again. I really had no idea there is so much ugliness surrounding making films. I am disheartened. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:13 AM Flag
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what re you talking about [ Reply | More ]
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All the child-rape and molestation, presumably. [ Reply | More ]
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Has the Hollywood pedophile ring leader been outted yet? [ Reply | More ]
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Explain. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:14 AM Flag
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Shallow, stupid, selfish, egotistical prostitutes and perverts [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] So is it essentially impossible to get into Elro from outside D2? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:58 AM Flag
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Correct [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:03 AM Flag
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Pretty much. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:14 AM Flag
[ - ] Is it better to walk away from a ranting and raving homeless person on a subway platform or to stand your ground? I can't tell. On one hand they may try to throw you or your child onto the tracks. On the other if you stand your ground maybe they won't mess with you. They tend to attack the helpless because instinctively they know who to target. 42 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:55 AM Flag
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Ask De Blasio. He always seems to have the right solution to our daily NYC problems. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:56 AM Flag
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Specifically, if they are renting at you for not giving them money. Like I'm going to rummage in my purse and pull out my wallet in a subway with my young child beside me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:56 AM Flag
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Give them De Blasio's phone number. He is like sky daddy for the homeless. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:00 AM Flag
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Once I screamed back angrily and the mentally ill dude backed down. I was in fear for my life or my kids' lives so I was full of adrenaline. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:57 AM Flag
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Just move away. No sense in standing your ground with crazy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:57 AM Flag
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Even when they are screaming and walking toward you and your kids? That was my situation. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:58 AM Flag
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+1 they get angry you didn't give them money and start screaming bitch and etc while coming at you in a threatening manner. Sometimes you have to confront if threatened. If alone, run. If saddled with small children, scream back. Call attention to yourself. Hopefully people will help. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:00 AM Flag
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No one helped. They just stared. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:00 AM Flag
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Most people are cowards. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:16 AM Flag
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No one wants to help and get hurt anymore. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:18 AM Flag
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Too many mentally ill people who are violent [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:18 AM Flag
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Call the police, press the HELP button in the subway. These people shouldn't be there to begin with, most likely didn't even pay the ticket to get into the subway platform. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:02 AM Flag
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I pressed help. It rang and rang for many minutes. No one ever picked up. I got on a train finally. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:03 AM Flag
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Only you can assess the specific situation. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:01 AM Flag
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I'm kind of vigilant, so I get to see these crazies, often drug addicts and alcoholics, coming with time for reaction. Optimal is usually total avoidance pretending we are concentrated of something else, as if they aren't really there. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:01 AM Flag
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This guy was shabby but blended in with people on the platform. I didn't pay him any mind until he asked me for money. I said sorry and he started screaming at me [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:02 AM Flag
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My station doesn't get crowded, so it's easy to spot them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:04 AM Flag
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May you never be in a crowded station [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:04 AM Flag
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Better to give thesd crazies money. Next time keep your eyes peeled. Give money, then leave. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:17 AM Flag
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I was thinking next time of always have dollar bills in my pockets so I don't have to fumble with my wallet. However once at a bus stop a lady slapped me on the arm because I didn't give her enough and she wanted more. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:19 AM Flag
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I take every situation individually, but in general my rule is don't engage with crazy. Walk away, run if you have to. But don't think you are going to win an argument or anything. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:06 AM Flag
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I wanted to run but I had a toddler and a larger child with me. I couldn't run without risking him grabbing one so I stood my ground and pointed my pepper spray at his face. Told him not to f with me. He backed down. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:08 AM Flag
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He was angry that I didn't give him money and started cursing me out and coming at me and my kids. I had no choice. But I wonder if that was dumb because say he had a gun? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:09 AM Flag
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Wow, this story gets more complex by the minute. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:12 AM Flag
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Not really. That's it. Still shaken. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:14 AM Flag
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Np, everyone has a story like this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:14 AM Flag
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I know, I have quit a few myself. Like I said above, assess the situation when you're in it. Not every situation calls for a stand your ground scenario. It may be more dangerous. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:18 AM Flag
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Quite, sorry [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:30 AM Flag
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So you did all this and called for help and waited for many minutes? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:11 AM Flag
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Yes I walked away, pressed the button and waited the 5 minutes until the train came. I could not leave because that meant passing him as he was near the stairs/exit. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:12 AM Flag
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It rang and rang. Finally I got on the train and he went to another train car. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:13 AM Flag
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Don't worry OP, there are crazies on this board as well who think every story is fake. Be well. I'm glad you and your kids are OK. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:17 AM Flag
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I don't think it's fake, but I do think that there's no right or wrong answer. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:19 AM Flag
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These days people have guns. Better to run. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:21 AM Flag
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I wouldn't run if I had small children. If I had mace, I'd use that first. You can't run fast or far with kids and he'd grab one and throw him over. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:22 AM Flag
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Never turn your back on a threatening person. Ever. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:22 AM Flag
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Fine, but give him money first. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:18 AM Flag
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Np, but you guys pull out your wallets easily while confronted by a homeless person while wrangling a toddler? Brava [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:20 AM Flag
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NP: prepared people have their mugging money on them. Don't ever pull out a wallet. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:24 AM Flag
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I guess now I have to carry around mugging money. Sigh. Good idea, though [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:33 AM Flag
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I generally say sorry and quickly walk away. But one time I saw this situation handled differently and I was impressed. A young 20 something woman sat next to a man who was clearly disturbed, mumbling to himself and bothering the people next to him. I was surprised she sat there. When he started to talk to her she got right up in his face and shouted stop over and over again. He was stunned and eventually did stop and move away from her. No one moved to help and I am not sure what would have happened if it escalated. I myself did not agree with how she handled it at the time, but in retrospect I really admire how she reacted- it got results. Fwiw I don't anyone liked how she handled it, so no one stepped in to help. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:33 AM Flag
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^^^ I don't think anyone [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:34 AM Flag
[ - ] Do you think Trump is going to trot out all of Bill's past flings and plop them down on the front row of tomorrow's debate? You know Trump has operatives scouring the globe right now looking for all the Paula Jones and Gina Gershons they can find. 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:49 AM Flag
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Gina Gershon?? [ Reply | More ]
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Total rumor and she has denied. NP [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:51 AM Flag
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Hopefully, they don't reflect on Hillary at all. If he had some boy toys to counter his filandering that's a different story [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:56 AM Flag
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Is Tiffany Trump coming to the debate? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:50 AM Flag
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^^living proof of Trump's infidelity to his 1st wife. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:55 AM Flag
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I HOPE SO!!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:53 AM Flag
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Gennifer Flowers ? [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] It is so boring to hear people talk about their children. Makes me never want to say another word about my own. 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:46 AM Flag
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Ikr [ Reply | More ]
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I tell my mom tons of stories about her grandkids, she cracks up all the time. It's better for her than any medicine. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:48 AM Flag
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I think even my mom isn't that interested sometimes, lol! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:50 AM Flag
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My kids are a lot of fun though, and I know her very well. Know what things she's going to enjoy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:54 AM Flag
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That's the point, everyone thinks their kids are a lot of fun, so interesting, so cute, athletic, gifted whatever. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:24 AM Flag
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Sometimes mine do really cool things that I want to tell people about, other times I want to smack them and ask what they are thinking. However the smacking part is no socially acceptable so they just get asked what they were thinking. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:49 AM Flag
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My mother is the only one who wants to hear stories about my kids. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:11 AM Flag
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Agree. Plus when people talk about them, it's all brags or veiled brags. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:19 AM Flag
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oh right lol, so true. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:23 AM Flag
[ - ] So disappointed!!! "Gennifer Flowers will not be attending the debate tomorrow night." Why not? Finally I had a reason to watch that freak show! 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:45 AM Flag
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Probably going to dinner with Bill [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:47 AM Flag
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Men! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:49 AM Flag
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#Devastated [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:10 AM Flag
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Trump doesn't do old women. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:12 AM Flag
[ - ] My DH is unemployed and I'm about to have a nervous breakdown given my current work situation and incompetent boss. Please send good vibes my way so I can stay calm and not have an anxiety attack this week at work. :( 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:42 AM Flag
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Just take it day by day and do your best [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:44 AM Flag
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Boss is clueless and then when I realize he didn't tell me something or stalled, I take on the burden. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:44 AM Flag
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Is your wage enough to cover your basic expenses? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:46 AM Flag
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Yes, but probably not in the long-run. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:49 AM Flag
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I'm not a pill popper, but in your situation, ... I'd be taking something (just this week). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:52 AM Flag
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I am not really a good vibes type, but I just said a prayer for you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:45 AM Flag
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Thank you. I have nowhere to vent or look for hope but here. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:46 AM Flag
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Done. Tons is positive vibes for you. Have a stress free work week. Don't forget that in the grand scheme of things, professional incompetence and stress don't matter. Treat the job as just that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:29 AM Flag
[ - ] How do I kindly and sensitively tell my 9 year old daughter she talks to much and she is obnoxious? She is really embarrassing and over the top in front of my friends. Tried to become the center of attention, keeps interjecting her own stories into our conversation, etc.. 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:40 AM Flag
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Tell her children are to be seen and not heard [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:41 AM Flag
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This is not a one time conversation. Susie, the adults are talking. Please go play [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:41 AM Flag
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Teach her to ask questions and act interested in others [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:44 AM Flag
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While this would normally be correct, when I am with adult friends, I do not want to talk to their children. Sure, I will listen to one cute little story. But I don't want them participating in our conversation. I gave my kids the example recently of when they have friends over. Do they want me in there with them, sitting on the bed chatting away? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:49 AM Flag
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Is she an only child? Are you and dh older parents? (I am not trying to be mean) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:45 AM Flag
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No, she is the oldest of two. Her brother is 3 years younger. We are early 40's. This is recent behavior. Like she is suddenly thinking she is older and should be hanging with our friends and not with the kids. Very over the top behavior though, and constant stories ahe needs to tell. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:48 AM Flag
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You don't have to tell her she is obnoxious or embarrassing, you just say "Go play with the other kids." Parents have being saying this for generations [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:03 AM Flag
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My 9 yo is the same. I have to remind her that although she is very mature she is still a kid. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:11 AM Flag
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Um, you have to teach her that she does not belong in adult conversations, not polite to interrupt. You know, basic manners. Teach them. It's like getting a new puppy and expecting them to come house trained. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:52 AM Flag
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This is recent behavior. So, umm, thanks for your, umm, helpful response. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:54 AM Flag
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This is called Jewish listening, i'm jewish too so relax. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:52 AM Flag
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Np. What is Jewish listening? Never heard this phrase. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:58 AM Flag
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Jewish listening is basically waiting for the other person to stop talking so you can get in everything you have to say. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:28 AM Flag
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Rule #1 should be Don't Interrupt people. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:53 AM Flag
[ - ] Your children's names: your idea and DH was on board or his idea and you were on board? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:36 AM Flag
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I think I thought of the name, but we were going back and forth on a couple of different choices and both agreed on the name we ultimately chose. [ Reply | More ]
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the first. although i introduced like 345 ideas. [ Reply | More ]
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My idea for the most part, my DH vetoed anything he hated. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:40 AM Flag
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Our first was mutual and easy. Second was grueling but we both ended up happy with it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:54 AM Flag
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I got first names and he got middles. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:13 AM Flag
[ - ] Should I go play tennis before work once a week? I feel like 30 minutes with a coach should be enough exercise (I am not fit enough to do more). I would Have to get up early that day.l and probably play from 8-8:30 or 8:30-9 am (second option would make me come in a bit late for work. 21 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:28 AM Flag
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as a form of exercise? just run for 15 min. More effective use of time. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:29 AM Flag
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I hate running. Tennis makes the running part more fun. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:48 AM Flag
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If you love tennis. Yes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:30 AM Flag
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um, you would have to get up at what, 7:15? 7:30? you poor thing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:31 AM Flag
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No, I would have to get up between 6 and 6:30. I have other things to do in the morning in addition to this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:48 AM Flag
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Tennos can be good exercise if you are a good and the coach is running you side to side and you hit a ton of balls. Can also be crappy exercise if you aren't good or if you are hitting back and form with a friend. Signed former tennis player who had to workout on top of playing tennis [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:31 AM Flag
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+1 I took up tennis and gained weight. I had to make sure I ran and lifted weights as usual, or cut back on food. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:37 AM Flag
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OP.mi am thin so I don't have to worry about weight gain. I just need to exercise. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:49 AM Flag
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Yawn [ Reply | More ]
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This. Zzzzzzz. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:54 AM Flag
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Go for it, sounds like a lot more fun than a treadmill! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:36 AM Flag
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30 minutes of mild to moderate exercise once a week wont do anything for you. if you like tennis, then do it. that would be the only reason. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:36 AM Flag
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It's not the only exercise I do, obviously. But it's the only thing I would do during the week. I play tennis on Saturdays and go horse riding on Sundays. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:47 AM Flag
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well la di da [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:49 AM Flag
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What is la di da? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:50 AM Flag
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Still not enough exercise! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:07 AM Flag
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OP. Well, I guess that's all I can squeeze in. I don't have a lot of time, so 3 times of decent exercise per week is really all I think I can do at this point. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:14 AM Flag
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An hour would be best. And tbh you sound very lazy, complaining about having to wake up early one day a week. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:53 AM Flag
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Luckily you know everything about my life to be able to judge like this. No offense but you sound drunk and/or miserable. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:56 AM Flag
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Reading your previous replies, you are the one who sounds miserable and defensive. People are giving you advice and you just give excuses and explanations. So whatever. Hope a ball clonks you on the vag. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:00 AM Flag
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Klassy! [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Anyone order groceries online? Fresh direct vs Amazon Fresh vs Instacart prices? Anyone compare? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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I have never used Insta cart, but I prefer fresh direct over Amazon fresh. I like the boxes better. Amazon fresh was nice because it could be delivered so quickly [ Reply | More ]
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send your help [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] bored mom, can't sleep. Any suggestions for a sexy but really intelligent movie? 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Debbie Does the Library. [ Reply | More ]
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Debbie Does the Bar Exam is hot [ Reply | More ]
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red tube [ Reply | More ]
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SHAME! It's excellent. [ Reply | More ]
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Secretary is nice. [ Reply | More ]
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The Double Life of Veronique [ Reply | More ]
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I need to watch this again! Forgot about it. [ Reply | More ]
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Swimming Pool [ Reply | More ]
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The Woman in Red [ Reply | More ]
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Crash (1996, not 2005) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:56 AM Flag
[ - ] I'm surrounded by rich Persian moms from Great Neck. All beautiful, thin, stylish and they all have 5 kids at home. Feeling blah about myself. They must all be rich, no way someone can do this without constant live-in nannies and housekeepers. 18 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:23 AM Flag
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Or deeply in debt. Appearances can be deceiving. [ Reply | More ]
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What does having 5 kids and being thin have to do with being in debt? Just curious. [ Reply | More ]
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The appearance of being rich can cause people to be in debt when they need to finance the appearance. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:26 AM Flag
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These people put the east hamptons crowd to shame. [ Reply | More ]
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Since when is EH the gold standard? [ Reply | More ]
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Do you live in GN? They must be wealthy, have good genes and amazing surgeons [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:31 AM Flag
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Here is the thing. They can't ALL be wealthy, or can they? Most DHs are in jewelry and clothing industries. [ Reply | More ]
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They are all rich, likely have cash from the old country [ Reply | More ]
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I know some who are literally rug merchants [ Reply | More ]
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I think they are all very wealthy. The cars, jewelry and the way they shop says there is money [ Reply | More ]
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they are out in CA too [ Reply | More ]
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They're much less religious in Tehrangeles. The ones in Great Neck all have 4 kids and $3k sheitels. [ Reply | More ]
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Tehrangeles is mixed, mostly Muslim or non religious [ Reply | More ]
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Shahs of Sunset [ Reply | More ]
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Park East? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:36 AM Flag
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Why are you surrounded by them? I was shopping there today's d they really are thin and beautiful. The cars that even the kids drive are insane. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:14 AM Flag
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Do they have big/defined/prominent eyebrows? [ Reply | More ]
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Telnet definitely are not beautiful. Glitzy jappy maybe but not beautiful. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 03:23 AM Flag
[ - ] What do you think of the term "White Trash?" I have heard two separate well educated, UMC mothers use this term around their children recently. Personally, my kids don't know that term and I don't plan on teaching it. It is offensive and reeks of snobbery. I was surprised that people still used it. Thoughts? 74 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:14 AM Flag
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I hear that term all the time. [ Reply | More ]
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I think it applies to the Trump family perfectly. [ Reply | More ]
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You should teach it to your kids and explain why it's offensive. Honestly, people used it when i was growing up, but times have changed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:17 AM Flag
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This. I think about the things that people yelled at sporting events and cringe: "Some day YOU, will work for US!" "Safety School!" Ugh. [ Reply | More ]
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Jer-ry!...Jer-ry!....Jer-ry!....Jer-ry! [ Reply | More ]
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It is the families whose kids play youth football. [ Reply | More ]
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Lol. Wrong [ Reply | More ]
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I think of guests on the Jerry Springer show. [ Reply | More ]
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I actually think the term is racist to black people. It implies that people other than whites are assumed trash, but only certain whites are bad enough to receive the designation of trash. [ Reply | More ]
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lmao. [ Reply | More ]
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? This is the reason it is considered offensive. Not because it is insulting to white people [ Reply | More ]
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rotflmao. [ Reply | More ]
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Its actually insulting to white people, but nice job reaching [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
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It's insulting to both. FYI if you're going to claim the term is mostly used by white liberals who love people of color you are very out-of-touch. [ Reply | More ]
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I didn't claim anything outside of its insulting to white people [ Reply | More ]
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You said she was "reaching" by saying it's offensive to blacks. It's not a reach. [ Reply | More ]
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She could touch the moon with that reach. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:40 AM Flag
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^Let me add that I probably over-reacted with the comment about you thinking liberals are the ones that use it. I went there because I have seen/heard soooo much crap lately from Trump supporters about how white liberals are the ones who REALLY hate poor people and keep them enslaved by offering them govt. benefits, etc. [ Reply | More ]
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OMG that's a new one. [ Reply | More ]
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np: No, she's got a point and I've heard this before. It is definitely offensive to poor white people but it's not saying great things about blacks either, she's completely right that it implies white people fall into two categories, "trash" and "not trash"...and then there are blacks. If this was entirely about class/behavior and race-neutral you'd just say "trash". Keep in mind that this term is/was widely used by wealthy, old-school white Southerners and I think we know how some of them feel about blacks. [ Reply | More ]
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Take your meds. [ Reply | More ]
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Is that the best you can do? [ Reply | More ]
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urban dictionary is your friend. not me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:39 AM Flag
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You posted that already in another place. You sound kind of confused. [ Reply | More ]
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it's true in both places. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:50 AM Flag
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Exactly [ Reply | More ]
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Wouldn't calling a black person ghetto be the same as calling a white person white trash? I see that as being the same thing. [ Reply | More ]
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Somewhat, yes. That doesn't mean the "white-trash" label is race-neutral though. [ Reply | More ]
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+1 Ratchet is race-neutral. [ Reply | More ]
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I don't even know what ratchet is [ Reply | More ]
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oh dear. [ Reply | More ]
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Why do you need the race modifier of "white" it implies that non-whites are already trash. The "white trash" deviate from the norm of not being trash. Completely racist term to non-whites. [ Reply | More ]
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Every race has a term for those that may not have the best behavior. You have white trash or rednecks for white people, ghetto or thugs for black people. I don't know what the terms are for other races, but they probably have them. It should never be implied that any other race is trash because that is wrong. [ Reply | More ]
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Agree. "White Trash" is actually a compliment to certain white people. They love it. [ Reply | More ]
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This this this [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
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Believe it or not, not everything in life or language is about blacks. [ Reply | More ]
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NP - I was always told not to use it because it implies that all black people are trash [ Reply | More ]
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Urban dictionary is your friend. [ Reply | More ]
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The correct term is Trailer Trash. np. [ Reply | More ]
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Trump Trailer Trash. Love! [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
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Considering we don't live near Appalachia or the deep south, we never actually use this term. My DH has used the term hick often in front of our DCs though, and then explained what a hick was when they asked what it meant. [ Reply | More ]
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I use it all the time. It's a warning to act right and act civilized lest you be confused with white trash, or - heaven forfend - become an addict of some sort and fall into their ranks. [ Reply | More ]
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For the Win! [ Reply | More ]
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LOL. So true. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:34 AM Flag
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+1 have we really become so sensitive and PC that we can't even call trashy white people white trash? I'm not offended if someone of another race uses it. [ Reply | More ]
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It is actually quite trashy to call anyone else trash. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:32 AM Flag
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I know right? Cant you correct them on their behavior without disparaging someone else? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:33 AM Flag
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Maybe that's how you ladies do things in Park Slope but in the South we have no problem calling white trash trash. [ Reply | More ]
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Class-ay [ Reply | More ]
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This is class thing though. The UC in the South didn't use that term because it is trashy to use it. [ Reply | More ]
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Wow. That's the problem of the Alt-Right Movement: How can they improve their lives without stepping all over everyone else? [ Reply | More ]
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This! [ Reply | More ]
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Pretty much, but I completely agree with you [ Reply | More ]
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Are you serious? Doesn't "Don't be vulgar" suffice in most situations? [ Reply | More ]
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Love [ Reply | More ]
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There's a new one. There's trash, and then there is Trump Trash. Whole different level of trashy. [ Reply | More ]
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I am listening to this book on audible: https://www.amazon.com/White-Trash-400-Year-History-America/dp/0670785970. She talks about the term "trash" to describe lower classes originating in England. America working at all depended on importing indentured servant class made up of people with debts, their children and orphans. The fact that appalled me was a lower class woman could become an orphan or widow and have an arbitrary "debt" to pay off - in one case the daughter's debt of her dead father's was doubled. Just because they could. One woman was even kidnapped by Native Americans and when she got back was made to work a debt off. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:29 AM Flag
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Okay, well I use it to describe the people high on meth yelling at their kids in Walmart as they shoplift whipped cream. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:33 AM Flag
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Where do you live? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:36 AM Flag
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DC [ Reply | More ]
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Really. There are very few poor whites in the city of DC. Outside city limits in parts of MD and VA maybe. [ Reply | More ]
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You're correct, it's not DC proper. It is within a 45min radius. [ Reply | More ]
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The thesis of this book is that these people are their descendants. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:36 AM Flag
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well they may or may not be, but regardless, what they are doing is trashy [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:41 AM Flag
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I have no issue with the term trashy, I think I just dislike white trash [ Reply | More ]
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I don't encounter anything even remotely like this where we live [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.26.16, 02:42 AM Flag
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Then you live in a bubble. this sort of person is extremely common in our country. [ Reply | More ]
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You would not be the first to describe where I live as a bubble. And I am ok with that [ Reply | More ]
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It shows low class, such terms are ignorant and vile [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Trump is a counter puncher. Hil needs to respect him or else he'll unleash the TRUMP TRAIN!!!! 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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The first question is for you Mr. Trump: "Why should the American people trust you for the next 4 years, when you've spent the last 6 years lying to them about President Obama's citizenship?" [ Reply | More ]
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Hussein was born in Egypt [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] How old was DC when s/he started adding double digit numbers? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Are you talking 10+10, or 49+34? [ Reply | More ]
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Examples would be 51+ 3 or 48 + 4 [ Reply | More ]
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2nd grade I think. Well, simple ones in first. [ Reply | More ]
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5/6 (1st grade) [ Reply | More ]
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6/7 [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Who does the following in your family? If there is a split, what is the percentage? 119 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Earning [ Reply | More ]
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I only work very part time (20 hours). He earns 70%, I earn 30%. [ Reply | More ]
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DH 75percent, me 25percent [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
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DH [ Reply | More ]
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Right now I earn 100%. DH is unemployed. [ Reply | More ]
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50/50 [ Reply | More ]
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55 dh 45 me [ Reply | More ]
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Me - 75 percent. [ Reply | More ]
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80/20, DH is higher. We used to be close to 50/50. Makes me so sad. [ Reply | More ]
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Did you take a pay cut or did he get a raise? [ Reply | More ]
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Both. My career has kind of gone down the tubes. I definitely sacrificed it for the kids. DH never had to take so much as a sick day. I sort of resent him for it, even though obviously I chose this path. [ Reply | More ]
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DH 99%, me 1%. I freelance only for my own spending money. [ Reply | More ]
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Only DH [ Reply | More ]
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dh 60%, me 40% [ Reply | More ]
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Cooking [ Reply | More ]
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I do- 90% of the time [ Reply | More ]
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Me, ordering in [ Reply | More ]
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I cook 80% of the time [ Reply | More ]
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Me-90% [ Reply | More ]
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+1. And his cooking is freezer stuff. But that still counts! I've just never seen him chop anything. Ever. [ Reply | More ]
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me [ Reply | More ]
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me 95 % [ Reply | More ]
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Me - but it's my hobby. [ Reply | More ]
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Me 95%, although he's actually better at it. [ Reply | More ]
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Me 95%, although he's actually better at it. [ Reply | More ]
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Me, unless I'm out which rarely happens. He will prepare things like sandwiches for the kids. [ Reply | More ]
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We don't cook. Munchery and other healthy delivery services. [ Reply | More ]
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95% DH [ Reply | More ]
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80% me [ Reply | More ]
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Cleaning [ Reply | More ]
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I do 40%, DH does 10%, weekly cleaning lady does 50% [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
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Cleaning lady, both of us in between [ Reply | More ]
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50/50, plus the kids chip in [ Reply | More ]
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Me90% [ Reply | More ]
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cleaning lady. He does all dishes. [ Reply | More ]
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DH - 90 percent. [ Reply | More ]
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100% me. [ Reply | More ]
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60-40, me. [ Reply | More ]
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90% me [ Reply | More ]
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dh 25%, me 75% [ Reply | More ]
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Childcare [ Reply | More ]
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Nanny, both of us on weekends [ Reply | More ]
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I do 80%, DH does 20% [ Reply | More ]
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^(this is because I work part time. when we are together, DH does leave the logistics to me- in terms of what to pack in the stroller, what time we need to leave to come home for nap, etc.- but hands on stuff he is equal when we are all together. I think he leaves logistics to me because I stay at home with him most days so I just know better) [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
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Nanny and both of us when we are home [ Reply | More ]
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Actually DH is about 65% now! Huge change lately. [ Reply | More ]
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Me 80%, DH 20 [ Reply | More ]
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Mostly DH. [ Reply | More ]
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I pick DCs up from school or afterschool every day. I don't think about "childcare" on the weekends, just us spending time as a family. [ Reply | More ]
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50-50, although I do more trips outside the house with them. [ Reply | More ]
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95% me & nanny (I wohm). On weekends it's still me 85% [ Reply | More ]
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School appointments [ Reply | More ]
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Me [ Reply | More ]
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100% me [ Reply | More ]
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Me [ Reply | More ]
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Me [ Reply | More ]
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I'm not sure he even knows what grades they are in. [ Reply | More ]
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Medical appointments [ Reply | More ]
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Me [ Reply | More ]
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I do 100%- this takes literally a 4 second phone call. I am the poster who only works 20 hours a week so obviously I am the one to take them, since i'm home, if that is more what you meant. [ Reply | More ]
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Me [ Reply | More ]
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Me [ Reply | More ]
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I'm not sure he knows where the dr's office is. [ Reply | More ]
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About 90% me, sometimes he will if a dc is sick and I can't get the day off work [ Reply | More ]
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Clothes shopping for kids [ Reply | More ]
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Me [ Reply | More ]
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Me [ Reply | More ]
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Me, my DH tried once. It didn't go well. [ Reply | More ]
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Me. [ Reply | More ]
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One time he picked up some boxers for DS at the Gap. [ Reply | More ]
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Me [ Reply | More ]
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100% me [ Reply | More ]
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Scheduling classes, play dates etc [ Reply | More ]
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DH, nanny [ Reply | More ]
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Me [ Reply | More ]
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Me [ Reply | More ]
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100% me [ Reply | More ]
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90% me - there is one dad who emails DH sometimes. [ Reply | More ]
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Me, although he will tell me if he hears about a class they might like [ Reply | More ]
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Thankfully "classes" have been replaced by sports, which DH manages 100%. [ Reply | More ]
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Household fixing things etc [ Reply | More ]
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DH [ Reply | More ]
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DH [ Reply | More ]
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DH [ Reply | More ]
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Me 20% DH 80 [ Reply | More ]
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50/50 [ Reply | More ]
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DH - just fixed our AC this weekend. [ Reply | More ]
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Paying bills [ Reply | More ]
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DH [ Reply | More ]
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This is all on autopay. "Paying bills" is a thing of the past. If it isn't a thing of the past for you, you need to enroll in autopay for all of your bills. If you mean "writing a check for the cleaning woman", that shouldn't count as a chore as it takes 4 seconds. [ Reply | More ]
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You still have to pay attention to this stuff though, I think the question is who deals with the household finances [ Reply | More ]
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Well in that case, we have joint checking and savings so we each glance at our finances a few times a month- I guess it's on both of our shoulders to notice if our bills are out of hand. [ Reply | More ]
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+1. I'm amazed how many people don't balance their check books or even really keep track. [ Reply | More ]
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I refuse to autopsy my utilities, have had massive billing errors before. Also wont autopsy cc just in case even though we check charges as they come in. Will only autopsy bills that are same each month [ Reply | More ]
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1) Im assuming you mean autopay, but just didnt correct any of those 3 autocorrects. 2) you get email alerts when a bill is autopayed, if you wish, with most banks. all it takes is a cursory glance to make sure your gas/electric bill is within the range of normal, and then you move on. [ Reply | More ]
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I was over billed almost 2k when the con Ed man misread my meter. Wouldn't adjust it until someone came to reread and that took 3 weeks. Would rather not have to deal with being out 2k for that time. [ Reply | More ]
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I write my checks out when I have time in the hopes that a person has to open it on the other end. People need jobs. [ Reply | More ]
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me [ Reply | More ]
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Both of us [ Reply | More ]
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Me 80% DH 20 [ Reply | More ]
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Me 100%. [ Reply | More ]
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Investments/finances [ Reply | More ]
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DH [ Reply | More ]
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Me 100%. We discuss big decisions but mostly he trust me to do whatever. [ Reply | More ]
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Decorating, home organization [ Reply | More ]
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Me, though he does a lot of organizing [ Reply | More ]
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100% me. We would still be using boxes as end tables I'd it weren't for me. [ Reply | More ]
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Me, both of us with organizing. [ Reply | More ]
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Organizing - DH, decorating - me [ Reply | More ]
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Honestly? Neither of us. The place is a disaster. [ Reply | More ]
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Me - 75 percent, but that's only because I'm in law and DH works full time for the city. [ Reply | More ]
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Sorry, meant this for the "earning" portion of this thread. [ Reply | More ]
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