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[ - ] Elementary parent here, so can still dream big. What are the top five high schools? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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smartest kids? Stuy, Bronx Science, Hunter [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] I LOVE DRINKING DIARRHEA 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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[ - ] Just met an amazing man, but he is REALLY BAD IN BED. Can this be worked on? He seems to have no sex drive at all. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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CUT HIS PENIS OFF [ Reply | More ]
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OP: c'mon, I need something to work with... [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] What the heck happened to Renee Zellweger? Is it really her? http://www.theatlantic.com/national/archive/2014/10/questions-for-renee-zellweger/381723/ 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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thx, sorry I just logged on. [ Reply | More ]
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LOL, cunt who reads the ATLANTIC like aSLUT [ Reply | More ]
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LOL, cunt who reads the ATLANTIC like aSLUT [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] I miss black people! I moved back to Canada a couple of years ago after spending most of my adult life in the U.S. I was driving around in Buffalo recently and started hearing urban radio stations, and even tho it was commercial rap and cheesy R+B it sounded SO GOOD. Listening to the DJs interact with callers too, it was so warm and charming and friendly...the opposite of Canadians. I know this post invites ridicule from all corners, but there's nowhere else to get this off my chest. In the US I was not one of those white people who gravitated to black culture. But I don't know if I can go back to a mostly wasp world, universal healthcare notwithstanding..... 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Niggers are SHIT [ Reply | More ]
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+1 they rape and kill EVERYONE [ Reply | More ]
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Niggers are SHIT [ Reply | More ]
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Niggers are VIOLANET apes [ Reply | More ]
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op. oh boy. sorry everyone for provoking that response. [ Reply | More ]
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NIGGERS ARE ANIMELAS [ Reply | More ]
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NIGGERS NEED TO BE LOCKED P IN KAJES [ Reply | More ]
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i like black people away from the major cities. blacks in nyc, dc, chicago and la are pita. elsewhere, they act like normal people and talk like normal people. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] I LOVE DIARRHEA JIZZ COCKTALES 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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[ - ] IMLOVE DRINKING DIARRHEA 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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[ - ] Parents with kids in college: Best application process advice? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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start early. be honest. don't miss deadlines. for the essays the kids write, keep your own voice. this is the only place where you aren't a bunch of numbers. (other than teacher letters.) [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] I have serious apartment envy. I know stuff like this has been posted before, but I hate dropping off DCs for playdates and parties, I make DH do it. I know I'm being a brat, but it's just the stage I'm in. I see a woman my age, maybe less attractive, maybe less educated and she lives in an amazing apartment and doesn't have to work. I was so busy not being a gold digger that I didn't think about money at all! DH and I have lots of problems, so it's not like marrying for love worked out that well anyway. I know I should be thankful that this is my biggest problem. I know. 35 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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So apartments should be awarded based on attractiveness? [ Reply | More ]
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lol. Interesting how she's sizing up the relative attractiveness and educational level of women with nicer homes than hers. Talk about shallow. [ Reply | More ]
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I know I suck, I do, I just feel resentful right now. [ Reply | More ]
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NP: Calm down guys. Giving her the benefit of the doubt here, she's not saying that's how it "should" be done, she's saying conventional wisdom tells you the prettiest girls marry the richest men, blah blah blah. She feels duped because she did all of the "right" things- she dated for love, she worked hard and focused on her career, etc, and it didn't get her as far as just playing up her feminine wiles and making it a priority to marry a rich man. [ Reply | More ]
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thanks, yes this. of course I don't talk like this in real life, I'm just pregnant, hormonal, exhausted from my job and sick of having to drop DCs at some other amazing apartment. [ Reply | More ]
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Maybe she's delusional about how stunning she is. [ Reply | More ]
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never said I was stunning and it doesn't matter, it's just bitter thoughts that cross my mind sometimes, never to be spoken of again. [ Reply | More ]
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PP: Maybe, but I don't think that's the problem here. Surely you know women who are not terribly attractive who married very well money-wise. You also probably know women who are gorgeous and who married men who are great in other ways, but not necessarily financially. She's not saying "I'm drop dead beautiful, I should have a better apartment", she's saying "Joke is on me, I could have had all of this stuff if I had sought it out". [ Reply | More ]
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no of course not, but I guess I think I should have married better! Having an alcoholic, smoking, money burning DH is the problem. When I married him he was in $50k of debt, I just didn't think money was that important, and now I resent him for many things. I was just dumb. [ Reply | More ]
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You really just need to grow up. [ Reply | More ]
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x2. Bitter. [ Reply | More ]
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You sound shallow. [ Reply | More ]
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Wore [ Reply | More ]
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Oh, my. In your zeal to insult, you forget a letter. Not a very good troll! We only do tt on UB, so time to move on. [ Reply | More ]
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KIEK [ Reply | More ]
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Again? Pathetic. [ Reply | More ]
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Your dad HSA aisd [ Reply | More ]
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Your dad HSA aisd [ Reply | More ]
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No wonder you can't get a bigger apartment.. you can't even spell. [ Reply | More ]
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who are you talking to? I'm op and I'm not calling anyone names, the responder obviously mean to type word. [ Reply | More ]
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Pipes it burn when,you fvdsnhvfsnuhfshivsfuhbvef [ Reply | More ]
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Maybe I am? I'm pregnant with my third DC, I think that's what's causing it, apartment isn't big enough, there isn't enough money, I should have left DH many years ago but I love/d him. [ Reply | More ]
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Curious as to how you know everyone's education level. [ Reply | More ]
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This. She must do a lot of Google stalking. Or she's interviewing everyone. [ Reply | More ]
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I don't know of course, and it doesn't matter, I just have envy. [ Reply | More ]
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So weird that you mentioned it, then. Like people who are uglier and less educated shouldn't have their fab apartments since you don't have one. [ Reply | More ]
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I don't think that at all, I just have jealous bitter thoughts cross my mind, wish I had been more conscious of money when choosing a husband that's all. [ Reply | More ]
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They probably are more attractive than you too, you're just deluded. [ Reply | More ]
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it doesn't really matter, I'm being bratty, it's just envy. [ Reply | More ]
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well, it's understandable. smart women, such as i, figure out early that you need education and your own career but you can't let that get in the way of making sure your partner is on board about financial security. maybe in the next life. [ Reply | More ]
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hehe yeah, maybe next time. [ Reply | More ]
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Grass is never greener. And it's okay to send DH. :) [ Reply | More ]
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thanks, yeah [ Reply | More ]
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I'm a DH. My wife is attractive, not smoking hot, and smart, though not Ivy. She IS loving, warm, caring, a good partner, and a good mom. And we live in a very large apartment. [ Reply | More ]
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cool, congrats [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] I think I just had a pretty woman moment. A friend of mind been raving about this new boutique. I walked in earlier, 3 females in the 30-50 range turn around look me up and down and resume talking. I walked around, pregnant one finally said hi then turned her head again. The other two continued to ignore me and gossiping about some other woman who travels a lot apparently. How on earth is this place successful? 22 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Are you fat? You sound ugly [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
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Nope, fit and very attractive. [ Reply | More ]
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MAYBE TEN YEARS AGO LOL [ Reply | More ]
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I am 32 you creep [ Reply | More ]
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SLUT [ Reply | More ]
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LOL, UGLY ALUT [ Reply | More ]
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I do not get snooty salespeople. It's like they forget that they are the people who have to work in a shop and you are the person who can afford to buy things there. [ Reply | More ]
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Loo, CHINK [ Reply | More ]
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This [ Reply | More ]
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just don't patronize the business. that's what i do. vote with your feet. also, let the owner know if it's really bothersome. [ Reply | More ]
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The thing is, I think at least 2 of them were owners [ Reply | More ]
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cannot be. owners would never be so stupid. what's in it for them? [ Reply | More ]
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lol, do their dh's support the business as some kind of time filling hobby? Who else would be so oblivious to customers. [ Reply | More ]
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i would rather have them ignore me than hover [ Reply | More ]
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+1 i hate being asked how i am and if i need help finding anything. i'm not blind/retarded [ Reply | More ]
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I don't like hovering either, but I am used to at least "Hello, Welcome, give me the lay out of the place, let me know to let you know if I need any help, acknowledgement that you saw me and are there and that I am not interfering with your gossip time...." that sort of thing [ Reply | More ]
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That happened to my mom once when they moved to a new trial an in the south. She never went back and if they only knew. My mom could drop some $$$on clothes. [ Reply | More ]
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New city in the south... [ Reply | More ]
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Yelp [ Reply | More ]
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I'm a DH. My wife is attractive, not smoking hot, and smart, though not Ivy. She IS loving, warm, caring, a good partner, and a good mom. And we live in a very large apartment. [ Reply | More ]
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Good for you, what does this have to do with my shopping experience? [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] What are the characteristics of a high maintaence friend?? Maybe you don't notice at first, but then after a year or so, you do. TIA. 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Someone who needs a lot of attention? [ Reply | More ]
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someone who starts every conversation by complaining about how long it's been since the last time you contacted them. [ Reply | More ]
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Interesting [ Reply | More ]
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Someone who is constantly getting angry at you for little things [ Reply | More ]
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Example? [ Reply | More ]
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I have a friend who got mad at me for numerous reasons - I couldn't make it to her birthday party, didn't invite her to something once, etc. It wasn't just telling me she was upset, but she would not talk to me for months [ Reply | More ]
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I HATE when people stonewall.... So immature and rude. [ Reply | More ]
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I have a friend who tries to be friends with everyone and wants to be everywhere. If she's not accepted, she gets very depressed. [ Reply | More ]
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Someone who needs to rehash a new personal crisis every week. [ Reply | More ]
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Op: I have a friend I've know for a little over a year and she'a beginning to take out her anger on me and getting annoyed very easily. Kind of like walking on eggshells. [ Reply | More ]
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A friend who always has to meet in her neighborhood, not yours, because she is SOOOOOO busy (even though she stays at home with her kids). A friend who talks too much about her own problems but barely even pretends to listen to yours. A friend who, even during a lice infestation in her home, puts her coat on top of your coat when you go out to lunch and then gets offended when you ask her to move her coat. A friend who always wants to get together, but only on her terms and only if it doesn't conflict with her daily workouts. A friend who is obsessed with her weight and needs constant reassurance that she's not fat. A friend who you wish you knew how to dump but haven't quite found the words yet. [ Reply | More ]
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Yikes, she doesn't sound fun. [ Reply | More ]
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Someone who never asks you how you are doing. [ Reply | More ]
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Someone who is chronically late. By more than an hour. I drop those people, and they're always so confused, "you're never around." No, YOU were never around. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Hi moderator. Thank you. 19 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
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Shit on my face or jiZz on my chest------YOUR CHOISE [ Reply | More ]
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I have a big fat smelly penis [ Reply | More ]
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MODERATOR^^^^ [ Reply | More ]
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Nigger whore [ Reply | More ]
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Go eat the Cheetos mommy left on the formica countertop in your sad little shack. Then go down to you bedroom in the cellar and do your remedial 3rd grade math hw. [ Reply | More ]
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Lol WHORE [ Reply | More ]
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Formica. Lol. [ Reply | More ]
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Eat a log of shit [ Reply | More ]
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This [ Reply | More ]
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Check out the Biggest Secret thread. [ Reply | More ]
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x2. What is this lunatic's problem?? [ Reply | More ]
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I couldn't even imagine. [ Reply | More ]
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IMAGINE BETTER, WHOAR!?));6,776,$;76;.75.76,$)?!$@ hfgfdcyrvguyfsrdrxctbyonnwjbwtf how has usurps iuv;6.6.7,&?&$,)657 [ Reply | More ]
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I wonder if he comes across as normal-ish out in public? Wouldn't want to meet up with him in a dark alley, that's for sure. [ Reply | More ]
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YOUR MOHTHER HAS SEX WTH DOGES [ Reply | More ]
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YOUR MOHTHER HAS SEX WTH DOGES [ Reply | More ]
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+547756567856(76$6876854352736,7)(,86(86,(.77(.,676,78),$&?$? [ Reply | More ]
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And you need to go back to pre-k to learn to spell. Gl. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] My 2.5 year old is starting to refuse to nap. Has been going on for almost 3 weeks. He'll nap a some days. I think I'm doing everything right. Help!! 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Ha. Just when you think you have it right, they mix it up for you! [ Reply | More ]
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Many kids stop napping around now. It's normal. [ Reply | More ]
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No way. Not 2. [ Reply | More ]
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Yeesh, I suppose for some. Mine are older now but if they missed a nap at 2.5, bedtime was MISERABLE. [ Reply | More ]
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Kill your chuldren [ Reply | More ]
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My dd didn't nap after 2 yrs, 3mons - except in the car. [ Reply | More ]
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Did she die in a hot car [ Reply | More ]
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Normal [ Reply | More ]
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Sounds like the end of the nap. [ Reply | More ]
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Noger [ Reply | More ]
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+1 The good news is, he'll probably start going to bed earlier. GL [ Reply | More ]
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How could a 2 year old stop napping? My friend's 4 year old still needs her naps. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Lawyer moms: Just sold a property in the in burbs that I had purchased in '99. When I went to sell, it turned out that the septic was on my neighbor's property (survey that accompanied my purchase showed septic in a different location). No buyers' mortgage would approve sale w/o septic so I had to pay $20,00 for new system on property. Is anyone legally liable here? 19 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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You didn't clean out your septic system between 1999 and now? [ Reply | More ]
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why would cleaning it out help her realize that it is on neighbors property (assuming no fence)? [ Reply | More ]
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It would help her realize that it wasn't in the location the survey said it was. [ Reply | More ]
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we did, every year. The survey showed the head where it was (on our property) but the whole system (pipes, leach field) was on neighbor's. [ Reply | More ]
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Who would be liable and for what? [ Reply | More ]
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OP: I don't know -- surveyor? Previous owners for false representation? Title company? [ Reply | More ]
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Surveyor or previous owner. [ Reply | More ]
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Fifteen years post-closing the title company is probably your only option, but it would really depend on how the policy was worded and whether or not the property was marketable with the current septic system. Honestly, since you've already sold the home, I would just eat the $20,000 and do better due dilgience next time. [ Reply | More ]
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Not a lawyer, but if you had a survey done when you purchased, they might be. [ Reply | More ]
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How did you not know about the septic when you purchased the property? [ Reply | More ]
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did you dig up the septic and make sure it was located where the surveyor said it was when you purchased a home? [ Reply | More ]
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You could have asked your neighbor for an easement to allow the septic to stay on her property. [ Reply | More ]
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mortgage company wouldn't allow it b/c when that property changes hands, new owner may not agree to easement. we tried. [ Reply | More ]
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That's not how easements work. [ Reply | More ]
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It would depend on the type of survey, any contractual limitations on liablity and you are probably well beyond the statute of limitations in any case. [ Reply | More ]
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Not a lawyer, but something isn't right. Contact the surveyor who did the survey to find out where they got the information. Did they actually locate the septic field, in which case I would assume they are liable because surveys are certified to be true & accurate. They are legal documents. Or was some of the information reported to the surveyor by another party, such as the property owner or the septic installer? The records should note where the info came from. If a previous owner supplied the false information I would imagine that is the direction to go in. [ Reply | More ]
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Maybe title company. [ Reply | More ]
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Didn't you get a home inspection when you first bought it? [ Reply | More ]
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v good point! yes we did. [ Reply | More ]
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