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[ - ] I knew my SIL worked for a hospital in Dallas, and dh just told me yes it's the one where the Ebola outbreak was. If they were coming to visit would you be nervous? I'm having a baby in 2 weeks and I have 2 older dc. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 04:10 AM Flag
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To add.....she works in admin supposedly a separate building but not sure of the truth of that because they know I'm concerned and may fib [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 04:12 AM Flag
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Why would they lie and put your life and children's lives in danger? Do you think this badly of your own brother? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 04:14 AM Flag
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No, you're fine b/c it will have been long enough and she prov works in a different building. There are 4, I think. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 04:11 AM Flag
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I think I'm nervous because my in laws are flying on 3 separate occasions in the next month and Europe is one. I'm having the baby and anal enough with germs as it is [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 04:18 AM Flag
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You'll be fine, don't worry. I know it's hard but try to relax and enjoy the new baby. Congrats [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 04:25 AM Flag
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Was she there while he the Ebola guy was there? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 04:12 AM Flag
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Yes. The day it was on the news I texted her and she acted like she didn't know what I was speaking of. Maybe the were told not to discuss it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 04:15 AM Flag
[ - ] I'm new to the whole ovulation tracking thing. I took an ovulation test on the 11th, which was negative and is supposed to indicate that you're not going to ovulate for 24-36 hours. I took one the next day (the 12th) that was positive. Does that mean I ovulated on the 13th? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 04:05 AM Flag
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yes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 04:07 AM Flag
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OP: So there's virtually no chance it happened on the day I got the first positive (the day after the negative)? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 04:29 AM Flag
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I know not what you are asking, but have you tried the temperature charting? Worked great for me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 04:09 AM Flag
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I used the ovulation kit that had the smiley face this way there was no guessing. Closer to ovulation time I would test am and pm [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 04:12 AM Flag
[ - ] What do you think of this list: Brearley, Chapin, Spence, CSH, Nightingale, BWL, Dalton, Trinity, LFNY, Avenues? TIA. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:49 AM Flag
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no marymount? why bwl? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:51 AM Flag
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It's a great school. I loved it on the tour and I didn't like marymount. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 04:04 AM Flag
[ - ] You don't involve the school in a teenage nude scandal. That is just stupid, and cruel. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:48 AM Flag
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Ita!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:55 AM Flag
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The DS could get charged with possession of child porn. It has happened. Parent needs to protect him from serious lifelong legal consequences. Can't worry about the obviously disturbed girl. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:57 AM Flag
[ - ] Can anyone recommend a summer camp or program that does coding? tia 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:46 AM Flag
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For a girl: Girls Who Code. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:49 AM Flag
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lol no but seriously [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:51 AM Flag
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When you say code, is it like real code for programming or some other crap no one outside pk admissions understand? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 04:26 AM Flag
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Coursera [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 04:08 AM Flag
[ - ] My husband isn't coming home tonight, we had plans. We set aside a date to have a nice meal and watch our favorite crime shows.... And now he is going to be at work well into the AM. Oh well, he isn't getting laid anytime soon. 15 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:30 AM Flag
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You're going to punish him because he slaves away to support you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:31 AM Flag
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A lot of assumptions there. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:31 AM Flag
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Yeah, because OP seems sympathetic. Sarcasm on. NP. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:33 AM Flag
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Please, he doesn't have to work the hours he does. I'm upset, we had plans. I bought something pretty, I set aside the last two episodes of castle... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:33 AM Flag
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You don't tell your boss/client that you can't work late tonight because your wife DVR'd Castle. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:41 AM Flag
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It is our show. We have been watching it since it aired. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:46 AM Flag
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Oh in that case I'm sure boss/client will totally understand. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:51 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 04:13 AM Flag
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Probably is getting laid ... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:36 AM Flag
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If he was going to cheat on me he wouldn't schedule his date with the other woman on the same day he knew he could sleep with me. He isn't stupid. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:41 AM Flag
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Are you for real? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:41 AM Flag
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What? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:44 AM Flag
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I use it when I mean it. Or at least I think I mean it. 11 years married. 14 together. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 04:15 AM Flag
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Wrong spot [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 04:16 AM Flag
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Enjoy your status as the first wife. 2nd wife to be is waiting in the wings, with her leather pants, heels, and a spur of the moment boob job ("I don't know, I just went for it"). Look out, SAHM-y whammy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:50 AM Flag
[ - ] When fighting w/ DH, how many of you threaten or bring up divorce whilst fighting? For some of my friends they say they never go there. Just curious if I'm the weird one. 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:28 AM Flag
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I've never threatened this and we've had some pretty heated arguments. Married 18 years. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:31 AM Flag
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I have never gone there. For me, it would just be something hurtful to say, not something that I'd ever mean...and I do try to fight fair. Divorce is a big thing, personally it's not something I ever really even discuss with DH, let alone use as a way to hurt him when our marriage would already be in a tough spot (the fighting spot I mean). If you want a divorce, the time to discuss it is not when you're both angry and throwing punches...just too heavy and words can't be taken back. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:31 AM Flag
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Never ever. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:31 AM Flag
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Nope. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:39 AM Flag
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It's fighting dirty in my book. Unless things are so bad that you really mean it, you are sending the message that your marriage isn't worth fighting for. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:40 AM Flag
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no [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:47 AM Flag
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Used to all the time. Now, never. Married 11 years. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:59 AM Flag
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You're the weird one for using the word "whilst." ;) Are you British, Australian, Canadian, etc.? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 04:01 AM Flag
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Only one time and I really meant it. His heart and mind were not at home at all, he refused to admit anything was going on. So I told him that he can go I'm not going to fight it, but he refused. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 04:07 AM Flag
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I use it when I mean it. Or at least I think I mean it. 11 years married. 14 together. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 04:17 AM Flag
[ - ] Bought a big box of ferrero richer at Costco...can not stop eating them. How much is too much? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:25 AM Flag
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YUM! those f'ing things should be their own food group [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:26 AM Flag
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On my 7th...no end in sight. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:27 AM Flag
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jealous [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:28 AM Flag
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Me too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:40 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:47 AM Flag
[ - ] I am so tired of my DH snoring keeping me awake. I've tried everything. Tempted to make him sleep in the guest room but then we would probably never have sex. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:23 AM Flag
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Me too [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:25 AM Flag
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I leave and go sleep in dd's room [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:29 AM Flag
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OP: we are at my parent's for a long weekend. I don't want to sleep on the couch and give them anything to worry/wonder about. But generally at home, yes, I go sleep on the sofa and get some good rest. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:33 AM Flag
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Oh, I feel for you. bose headphones? kick him till he turns on his side? ambien? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:34 AM Flag
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^^or benadryl! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:34 AM Flag
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Op again :) I take melatonin at home and that helps too (was suggested on here when I was having trouble falling asleep-thanks UB!) but like a dumb ass forgot it amongst the 800 things that had to be packed. He has seen a doctor and has a spray that helps about 50% of the time. But until he has surgery to fix his septum I will stew in anger while he sleeps peacefully. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:42 AM Flag
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See a doctor [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:36 AM Flag
[ - ] Anyone else sensitive to other people's "energy"? I feel like I catch anxiety from dealing with extremely dark negative people... Any tips for dealing with said types? 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:12 AM Flag
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Need help with this too [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:16 AM Flag
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There are rocks you can buy and carry with you. They really help. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:17 AM Flag
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snarky snarky [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:21 AM Flag
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Which ones [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:23 AM Flag
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this comment wins UB [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:31 AM Flag
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OR- LOL, I have some at home and I love them. I bought them online after I heard someone recommend them. They are white. Just google them (I think they are called Apache tear) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:34 AM Flag
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I"m good with dealing with my own stress but if I have a bad interaction with someone it really stays with me...I get shortness of breathe etc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:17 AM Flag
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Meditation helps. Also recentering yourself by focusing on where you are. I am in the bathroom in my apt on 64th st in manhattan, the city of ny, ny county,ny state, etc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:24 AM Flag
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I heard that wearing black helps, especially tops. Whenever I'm around a lot of people I tend to wear black (not hard to do for me). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:27 AM Flag
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Don't deal with them. I don't interact with someone I get this feeling from. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:31 AM Flag
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I used to have a little mirror in my desk drawer. Would casually set it up to face the crazy negative energy person in the office [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:49 AM Flag
[ - ] STM are you here? 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:57 AM Flag
[ - ] Dear women at DH's work: He's married. Don't openly flirt in front of his wife. (Also, my DH wears a sexy women's costume as a running joke every year and they all practically fall over him. Ugh.) 23 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:55 AM Flag
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Amen. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:01 AM Flag
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What kind of flirting? Is it tongue in cheek or is it aggressive? I like the first kind, it gives hubby a self esteem boost, i tease him, we joke. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:02 AM Flag
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It varies. They aren't shy, though. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:04 AM Flag
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Sorry - what is this about dressing like a woman "as a joke" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:09 AM Flag
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Running joke since college. It works because he has a good body, sort of a parody on sexy costumes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:24 AM Flag
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He brought his college frat party joke into the workplace? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:26 AM Flag
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It isn't an official workplace thing, but it is his company and 90% of our college friends work for him, so... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:29 AM Flag
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And you're shocked at the quality of women he hires to work in the glorified frat house? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:32 AM Flag
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None of us were ever in a fraternity. And they are all perfectly intelligent women, they just don't understand that if you are going to flirt with a married man you don't do it blatantly in front of his wife. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:35 AM Flag
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So no one that works for him respects you. Hmmm...wonder why? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:36 AM Flag
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Dear DW, I flirt with them when you're not around because they're not insecure frigid bitches. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:11 AM Flag
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But you are a loser because you have to go home to your insecure frigid bitchy wife. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:18 AM Flag
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Oh no, honey. Tonight he's "working late". And tomorrow he's "having dinner with a client". [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:20 AM Flag
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Yes, and still he needs to return back to the frigid cold bitchy wife. Total loser not to have the life he really wants and be stuck with someone he hates. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:35 AM Flag
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Please, like you would enjoy men openly flirting with your wife. Can't have it both ways. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:21 AM Flag
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Women have done this with my DH. Maybe not flirting but overstepping their boundaries for sure. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:15 AM Flag
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Dear SAHM-for-life: In the grown-up world adults of different genders talk, especially when the work together. And no one thinks your DH-in-drag is hot. We have to be nice to him because he's the boss, but we laugh at him in the ladies' room. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:16 AM Flag
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I stayed home for six months and then went back to work, not my thing. I don't mind him having female friends, there are girls we have known forever but they don't cross that line with him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:22 AM Flag
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huh weird to deal with that. i would never flirt with another dh [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:19 AM Flag
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+1 when I know a guy's married, he's not flirt worthy. He's asexual in a way. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:29 AM Flag
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For most people it's so natural/spontaneous they dont realize they are doing it. Only a couple of nights ago i witnessed my female boss openly flirt with her boss while we were all out for drinks. It was clear that she was no consciously doing it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:40 AM Flag
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Ummmmmmm.., What?! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 04:04 AM Flag
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If you're secure it isn't abig deal. Be proud women want him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:55 AM Flag
[ - ] Is there anywhere on the UES that sells Wilton Candy Melts? I know that Michael's carries them, but I'd rather not go all that way. I'm sure that I've spotted them elsewhere, I just can't remember where exactly. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:52 AM Flag
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state news might have them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:54 AM Flag
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Np. Yes they do. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:11 AM Flag
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OP: Excellent! Third Avenue or 86 Street or both? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:15 AM Flag
[ - ] My sister didn't show up for my college graduation (she lived in the same city) - not at school and not the party I had at home either. How bad is this? 19 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:51 AM Flag
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We need more info. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:53 AM Flag
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Like what? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:53 AM Flag
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Like, her side of the story. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:55 AM Flag
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She hates you, for sure. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:59 AM Flag
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OP. I think this is actually pretty bad and she doesn't hide her hatred for me. She wants to maintain a relationship with my children (my college graduation was years ago but I just wanted to your opinion anyway). She has done pretty bad things in the past and I don't really care to maintain a relationship with her, not even for the children's sake. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:01 AM Flag
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what made you think about it today? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:08 AM Flag
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I am not in touch with her but she left a vm for my DD's birthday yesterday. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:12 AM Flag
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It might be best to pretend she does not exist. No relationships with the kids, she isn't their parent. Is there a compelling reason to let the kids associate with the loser anyway? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:14 AM Flag
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My sister always gives them gifts and acts like she is their best friend when I am in our old hometown. She has made it clear she will never visit (fine by me) but even when we all still lived in the same city she refused to come with me to pick up dd from preschool. This is after she professed to love her so much. My mom wants us to get along. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:18 AM Flag
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Older? Younger? Did you go to hers? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:55 AM Flag
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Older - dropped out of college. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:56 AM Flag
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I'm an only child, but my DH has a brother in MA and parents in two other east coast states. We went to college together. Only his dad showed up at our college graduation and no one from his side came to our wedding (low-key city hall wedding w/party). Personally, I think it's pretty bad. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:56 AM Flag
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Why didn't anyone show up? What happened in the family? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:59 AM Flag
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Nothing happened, that's the crazy part. They're all just totally self involved. My DH was the good kid who was always "just fine on his own". His brother was the one who sucked all the oxygen in the room. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:02 AM Flag
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^If she's anything like my BIL, your sister is the family screw-up who likes to suck up all the attention. She resents you for finishing college when she didn't, but will always find a way to take center stage and make it about her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:01 AM Flag
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I didn't realize that there were more of her type - I thought she was unique in that regard. She does hate me, is very jealous of my degrees and my family and always acts like her misfortune is either my or my parents fault. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:03 AM Flag
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Yeah, BIL is getting more and more like that as he gets older. In his youth he was flamboyant and "interesting". Now that he's older and no one cares for his games, he's blaming his parents for all sorts of things. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:06 AM Flag
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There are lots, trust me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:07 AM Flag
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College graduation is a punishment for your family, cannot blame her for not sititng through something excruciatingly boring. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:55 AM Flag
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