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[ - ] What time does your DH gets back from work and how much time they spend with kids? 29 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:29 PM Flag
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6pm. 2hours [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:30 PM Flag
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8 and 10 seconds [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:31 PM Flag
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Why have kids then? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:33 PM Flag
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it happens [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:34 PM Flag
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Why don't you call him and ask [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:34 PM Flag
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He provides [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:35 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:36 PM Flag
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+1000 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:31 PM Flag
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Usually by 4 or 5, spends about 4 hours with dd. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:33 PM Flag
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That is cool. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:35 PM Flag
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It is nice to have a lot of family time. Sometimes his schedule is more hectic but his good hours make up for it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:43 PM Flag
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Lucky you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:40 PM Flag
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What a lazy sack, minimum wage? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:35 PM Flag
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Such unnecessary hostility. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:32 PM Flag
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Doctor who has a great schedule actually. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:33 PM Flag
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So yes minimum wage [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:34 PM Flag
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You're right 600K is definitely minimum wage. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:41 PM Flag
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Un no I call bs [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:43 PM Flag
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Uh not BS he's an Anesthesiologist with a specialty that pays more. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:44 PM Flag
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op: My dh comes at 830 and he only gets to spend around 15-20 mins with him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:34 PM Flag
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The few times he gets home before they are in bed for the night I put those "Hello, My Name Is" name tags on our DCs [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:29 PM Flag
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lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:36 PM Flag
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Snort [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:32 PM Flag
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ahahahaha [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:32 PM Flag
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Any sex [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:34 PM Flag
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We work together - usually whoever wakes up with db spends 2 hrs with him in the morning, then we have 4-5 hrs in the evening after work before he goes to bed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:38 PM Flag
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8 2x a week - 10 the other days. It's the main reason I have help 4x a week. From morning to night with no help would be awful. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:34 PM Flag
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I hear you. In the same boat. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:38 PM Flag
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He does school drop-off and has the walk to school, can be available during the day for sick days but really doesn't get much time in the evening. He's home by 8ish and usually does a story or two. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:40 PM Flag
[ - ] Artist moms: my ds is 13, getting to be quite serious about painting. What store has the best prices on brushes and paints? I'm willing to shop online or in NY. Thanks. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:27 PM Flag
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Pearl in Soho [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:28 PM Flag
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thanks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:31 PM Flag
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^^I feel like they are little pricier than Dick Blick? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:31 PM Flag
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Dick Blick. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:32 PM Flag
[ - ] Psychic Mom: I am getting news on 3 deals at work which will get me over my quarterly sales goal. Will they all come in? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:25 PM Flag
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I think PM left a long time ago or was fake. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:34 PM Flag
[ - ] What's your favorite special night out restaurant with dh in nyc? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:22 PM Flag
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Steak and no undies [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:21 PM Flag
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Damn, that sounds better than hash browns and creamed spinach! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:22 PM Flag
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Hot dog stand *wink wink* [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:29 PM Flag
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Blue Hill [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:31 PM Flag
[ - ] I want to here your story if you're very well-off and have no one to thank but yourself. I work my ass of year after year, and I just want to know it's possible without mommy and daddy, or marrying rich. 17 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:11 PM Flag
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It isn't [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:12 PM Flag
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yes. married rich but made $400K/yr in derivatives. firs to grad from college in family. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:21 PM Flag
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That is not rich honey [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:16 PM Flag
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say what you will. i was very proud to make that and it still put me in top 1% of country. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:17 PM Flag
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also, she said very well-off. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:23 PM Flag
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OP OK, reasonably well-off is fine too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:22 PM Flag
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if you're hoping to make $5MM/yr, you might be disappointed somewhere down the road. most people are. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:36 PM Flag
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np - still pretty impressive. Anyone who gets derivatives should be rich. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:23 PM Flag
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who ARE you people? Have you ever been outside your fucking bubble??? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:32 PM Flag
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i do wonder... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:34 PM Flag
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Why you say dat [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:36 PM Flag
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OP i mean *hear your story. Sorry, i hate that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:18 PM Flag
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Of course it's possible. Also, just because mommy and daddy give you stuff as an estate tax vehicle, doesn't mean you aren't wealthy already. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:29 PM Flag
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If they so much as paid for college, I don't want to hear it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:25 PM Flag
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Sorry. People don't all come from the same place. It's not fair but no one said that life is. Maybe you paid for college, but be grateful you were born in the US and not in Bangladesh. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:38 PM Flag
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So you just like to feel sorry for yourself, then [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:35 PM Flag
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I didn't pay for college. I had my full FA met. I had no more hardship paying off college than my DH whose parents paid 30K a year at the time. I don't claim any higher moral ground because my family had financial need. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:44 PM Flag
[ - ] Serious question, does your dh still make you come or do you fake it? I can't any longer with mine 62 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:10 PM Flag
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Yours does a good job with me [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:17 PM Flag
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Sorry he isn't gay [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:12 PM Flag
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lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:19 PM Flag
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Yes. Married nine years. He doesnt finish unless I do first. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:12 PM Flag
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How long does it take, I honestly would rather masturbate [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:13 PM Flag
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Just a few minutes of really going for it. Do you enjoy your hisband generally? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:16 PM Flag
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Yes but he doesn't get me wet [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:18 PM Flag
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Are you not attracted to him physically? Is he awkward? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:27 PM Flag
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No he is attractive just I guess a total bore in bed [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:29 PM Flag
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Are you also boring in bed? What do you expect? What is boring and what is exciting? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:27 PM Flag
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Was he always this way? What has changed? Sometimes you have to build up the tension a little bit, send him pictures, text while you are both at work. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:28 PM Flag
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Is he trying? What does get you wet? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:23 PM Flag
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Thinking of random situations [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:30 PM Flag
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So do that. I also sometimes masturbate before I call him to bed just to move things along quicker [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:30 PM Flag
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NP, I'll do this too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:37 PM Flag
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But a delay stops the motion.... So complicated. I have only been with my husband and I wish that wasn't true [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:41 PM Flag
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Yes, every time. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:19 PM Flag
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Newlywed [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:14 PM Flag
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11 years together and going strong. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:25 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:30 PM Flag
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np. Same here. Been together for >20 years. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:26 PM Flag
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And you still get excited, any cheating [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:44 PM Flag
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13 yrs and 99% of time. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:16 PM Flag
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Lier [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:17 PM Flag
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I believe it. Some women actually want their husbands. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:24 PM Flag
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some women also just orgams more easily or know themselves well enough to make it more fun for themselves. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:26 PM Flag
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In orgams you mean big breasts [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:37 PM Flag
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No way, who [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:36 PM Flag
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ha! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:37 PM Flag
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Me [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:32 PM Flag
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Vibrator? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:17 PM Flag
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or: ok, the caveat is that we only do it about once a week. but i wouldn't sleep with my husband otherwise anyway. what would be the point? also, no vibrator. but he's constantly going down on me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:25 PM Flag
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What do you mean sleep with him otherwise [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:28 PM Flag
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what do you think it means? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:25 PM Flag
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So if he isn't fucking you then you sleep in separate beds? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:37 PM Flag
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Most of the time. If I don't come, I don't bother faking it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:22 PM Flag
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So what do you do take care of it yourself [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:18 PM Flag
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np here but in the same situation - I don't even bother take care of it myself. I'm, unfortunately, at a stage in my life where I'd rather catch up on reading or sleep. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:31 PM Flag
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Wow that is depressing, why [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:32 PM Flag
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np: sounds ok to me. her drive is more tepid now. happens, i'm sure. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:27 PM Flag
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I don't know. Work, young kids, knowing that DH will be there for next time.... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:29 PM Flag
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How often [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:38 PM Flag
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How old are you? I'm afraid of getting like this. I'm hoping I want (and get) some hard dick all the way up into my 70's. I joke with dh that when I turn 80 all bets are off, I'm getting male hookers, smoking cigarettes, drinking whatever I want and just throwing all the good girl shit out the window. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:35 PM Flag
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How old are you [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:44 PM Flag
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No. I just go to sleep and know that in all likelihood he'll get me next time. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:31 PM Flag
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It comes and goes (no pun intended). Sometimes it's great, sometimes not so much. He puts in more effort than he used to and so do I and that adds up. Also, I'm fitter than I used to be and that helps too. 10 years married. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:23 PM Flag
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Any for play [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:19 PM Flag
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Yes, but not loads and it's more for him to get him hard than it is for me. I use lube and fantasy, but he takes a long time to cum so I have time to get there. I fake it if I realize I'm not going to cum and just want him to get done. We only have sex once a week, sometimes twice if I'm really in the mood. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:34 PM Flag
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How long, after five minutes I have had enough [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:38 PM Flag
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Does he know [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:45 PM Flag
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I just roll over and let him pump for 45 seconds and it is over [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:30 PM Flag
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Gee, how exciting. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:30 PM Flag
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Exactly, I hate it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:42 PM Flag
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S/O question: the only way i can come is if i master bate while he's in me. It works every time, and is better than masterbating alone. Does this count? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:27 PM Flag
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"Master bate"- Ahahahahahahahaah [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:30 PM Flag
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My iPhone does not recognize this word. Does yours? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:35 PM Flag
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NP I would love that, sounds sexy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:36 PM Flag
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OR: It took us forever to get it right, and it was well worth the wait! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:34 PM Flag
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Reverse cowgirl [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:42 PM Flag
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Have you tried anal [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:45 PM Flag
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Of course it does! [ Reply | More ]
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Does he know [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:39 PM Flag
[ - ] Anyone have a cocktail recipe that I can prepare a large amount of for party - outdoors 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:10 PM Flag
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Do you like sangria? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:13 PM Flag
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I guess a white would be ok [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:14 PM Flag
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Mine's red. Sorry. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:19 PM Flag
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np: would you share the recipe for the red? thanks! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:28 PM Flag
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Make pitchers of Blue Hawaiians [ Reply | More ]
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Ever clear and a glass [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:15 PM Flag
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Look up xrated fusion vodka [ Reply | More ]
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there are some great punch recipes on chowhound [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:20 PM Flag
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Lemonade and vodka [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:37 PM Flag
[ - ] Is MoMath worth it? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
New York City 05.23.13, 10:09 PM Flag
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No. Very disappointing. NY Hall of Science in Queens is much better. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:22 PM Flag
[ - ] Goldman Sachs likes to hire Mormons for the same reason the FBI likes to hire them. Goldman is growing in Salt Lake City rapidly and it is clear that much of the future investment banking analysis will be done out of SLC by Mormons 44 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:08 PM Flag
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Less hung over employees? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:09 PM Flag
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Yes, also mormons are more honest than non mormons. Few Madoffs, etc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:10 PM Flag
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Yup no Jews stealing [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:13 PM Flag
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yes, mormons are very decent people. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:09 PM Flag
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Shawn Merriman - aka The Mormon Madoff - $220 million ponzu scheme [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:11 PM Flag
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1vs 5000 Jews win [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:11 PM Flag
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love the antisemitism. you know jews are more heaavily represented in finance so it'd make sense more of them commit crimes in the industry. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:21 PM Flag
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Oh here it comes, when are you going to throw down the hitler holicost card [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:33 PM Flag
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Go steal someone's land [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:34 PM Flag
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True, but statistically mormons have fewer criminals than other ethnic groups! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:17 PM Flag
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not an ethnic group. it's a religion [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:20 PM Flag
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Look it up [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:15 PM Flag
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I don't have to. I am one. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:16 PM Flag
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With all due respect, Mormon, mom, you need to read albion's seed. Almost all the original mormon stock were from one specific strain of anglo saxon stock! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:19 PM Flag
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Mormon mom, have you been to the pioneer museum next to the temple in SLC? It is all explained there [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:19 PM Flag
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They won't hire Jews or Muslims [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:17 PM Flag
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Correct. It is a religion. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:17 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:24 PM Flag
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So is Judaism [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:20 PM Flag
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Not according to jews [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:20 PM Flag
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*Ponzi* [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:39 PM Flag
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*fewer* [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:42 PM Flag
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The office rents are lower in Salt Lake City [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:10 PM Flag
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Are Mormons as good as Jack Grubman at picking nursery schools? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:10 PM Flag
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Investment Bankers have a better lifestyle in Salt Lake City. In Manhattan the cheapest possible three thousand square foot apartment costs $3 million dollars but that same apartment in Salt Lake City costs about $600,000 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:11 PM Flag
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Apples to apples, housing costs are 5x as high in manhattan [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:12 PM Flag
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The TT private schools in SLC are *much* easier to get in to [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:12 PM Flag
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It's all back office people, and they are in SLC for the same reason every other firm has back office people outside NYC - $$$. Lower rent, lower salaries, tax incentives, etc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:06 PM Flag
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True, except that Goldman has started moving front office people to the Salt Lake City office [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:13 PM Flag
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Goldman is grown in SLC for the same reason that most banks have an outpost there. They have an industrial bank designation that helps them save money. They also have cheaper labor. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:14 PM Flag
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Love the Mormons - the nicest people. [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
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thank you [ Reply | More ]
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NP: Me too. All very cute, too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:28 PM Flag
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I love Mormons too. I am Christian and don't accept the mormon doctrine but the people are so genuine, saintly and honest. I love them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:35 PM Flag
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They are good for the image, aren't out throwing money around in clubs. Instead they are buying their wives a ton of expensive stuff. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:16 PM Flag
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It's amazing that this kind of bigotry is still well tolerated in America. This board would be in such an uproar if this post was directed towards Jews. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:17 PM Flag
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I do not understand - we are praising mormons for being honest and hard working. No ethnic group would feel insulted with that [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:18 PM Flag
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I'm not saying it's insulting, but it's like saying Asians make good dry cleaners and Jews make good accountants, nyuk nyuk [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:15 PM Flag
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^^overtly insulting [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:15 PM Flag
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Yup. And one of the Racist moms calls herself "RM - a proud Jew". [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:20 PM Flag
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I think racist mom is a proud asian. She constantly posts all the data on asian IQ and how much higher it is [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:28 PM Flag
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Yeah, but not in Europe where it is ok to belittle Jews. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:21 PM Flag
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Mark Hofmann, good Mormon forger, could come in handy [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:37 PM Flag
[ - ] My nanny just shared that she will be spending the summer in the Hamptons , sharing a house with 9 other women. The impression I had is that she is attempting to find a rich boyfriend, which I think is incredibly tacky. What do you think? 22 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:05 PM Flag
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Got her number, is she hot [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:14 PM Flag
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She is just as entitled to a hot boyfriend as some TT girl working in an art gallery! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:14 PM Flag
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no shit. what is it to op, anyway? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:16 PM Flag
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Certain rich guys prefer to date nannies vs. evil snarky professional shrews. Good luck to the nanny [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:15 PM Flag
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yes, all nannies are sweet dodos and all pof women are evil and snarky. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:17 PM Flag
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What the hell is pof? you mean professional? And anyway, let the rich guys choose for themselves what they want. They do not need you telling them who they can and can not date!!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:20 PM Flag
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I think that girls in their 20s are always looking for a hot or a rich boyfriend. Let her enjoy her summer at the beach. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:15 PM Flag
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Girls in their 20s? Try all single girls in Manhattan. Look at all the desperate women in their late 30s who know their window is about to close - fighting each other to avoid cat lady status [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:16 PM Flag
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And this is out of the ordinary... how? Tell your ds to use condoms. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:17 PM Flag
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And why do you assume that OP's son is having sex with his nanny? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:19 PM Flag
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omfg, that's messed up!! I meant tell her ds in the future to wear condoms, sheesh [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:22 PM Flag
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Still I do not understand. why would the fact that nannies are in the hamptons trying to have sex with rich guys impact the op's son's future decision to wear a condom? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:21 PM Flag
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are you saying that if OP's son has sex with art gallery chicks he does not need a condom but sex with nannies means he does need a condom? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:21 PM Flag
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you are incredibly tacky. Mind your own business. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:23 PM Flag
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Better a rich boyfriend than her employer. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:29 PM Flag
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You would prefer that the nanny have sex with rich guys in the hamptons instead of having sex with the mom? What makes you think the nanny is a lesbian? What percentage of nannies in manhattan are lesbian [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:24 PM Flag
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I didn't mean the mom, I meant the dh. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:32 PM Flag
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I guess she saw that it worked for you, why not try it herself? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:29 PM Flag
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You ignore the fact that the OP felt "entitled" to a rich husband because of her background. And OP feels that nannies do not "deserve" a rich husband [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:32 PM Flag
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Lots of girls do it all the time. No other reason to make the effort to share with so many other women. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:30 PM Flag
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Isn't this what most NYC post-grads do? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:30 PM Flag
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She's been reading. UB [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:35 PM Flag
[ - ] Question from a Philly/Main Line mom here: My DD has attended a private pre-school for the past three years and will be starting kindergarten at a private, K-12 school in the fall. With the end of the year approaching, I would like to give the pre-school director a monetary gift of some sort as a 'thank you" for all of the help she gave us throughout our private school application process. Is giving a monetary gift considered crass? If not, how much should I give? TIA! 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
Preschool/Kids 05.23.13, 09:55 PM Flag
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We're not in the private school thing, but I was raised in that world, and I say ewww. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 09:57 PM Flag
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I couldn't agree more. I wasn't raised in this world, so I have no idea what the rules are. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:21 PM Flag
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Tacky. Buy her a bottle of champagne if you must. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 09:58 PM Flag
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Thanks for the suggestion and your honesty. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:23 PM Flag
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Visa gift card. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:04 PM Flag
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For how much? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:26 PM Flag
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i think a nice thank you note would work. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:01 PM Flag
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No! Looks too much like kickback. Gift card. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:09 PM Flag
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How is that different? I'd go with champagne or chocolates or a plant. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:05 PM Flag
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Thanks for the feedback. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:22 PM Flag
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Your PSD would much prefer tickets to the k d lang concert. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:12 PM Flag
[ - ] S/o of first b-day post. Do you get your one-year old a gift? If not, what age do you start? 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 09:55 PM Flag
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No. We started getting our oldest gifts when she was 3, will probably do the same for DB. (There were still gifts the first two birthdays, though, from other family members.) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 09:56 PM Flag
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Yes, it's fun to get them a little something. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 09:58 PM Flag
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Books, Elmo toys [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 09:53 PM Flag
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Not really, just something small to open. We had family give practical stuff like bigger car seat, umbrella stroller. At 2 we got away with manly clothes since the wrapping paper was still the most fun but at 3 the real gift giving began [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:00 PM Flag
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bahahaha manly clothes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 09:55 PM Flag
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Toys (I remember I got my dd a talking Madeline doll that spoke in French and English) and clothes. Plus we always spend the day with them and take them someplace. For ds is was Disneyland and for dd it was The Butterfly Pavillion for 1st bday. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 09:59 PM Flag
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If you love DC a pony or a puppy [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:07 PM Flag
[ - ] I need a nanny. For me, not my kids. 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 09:52 PM Flag
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Sure you do DH sure you do [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:08 PM Flag
[ - ] An old boyfriend of mine married a woman who has become incredibly successful. They married in their twenties just out of college. She is now a "Master of the Universe" type and he is a SAHD. Do you think they're happy? 33 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 09:42 PM Flag
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Stop hating on Brad Pitt. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 09:43 PM Flag
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aint it the truth [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 09:44 PM Flag
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Maybe, maybe not. We'd need more information than just their job/SAH status. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 09:38 PM Flag
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Every couple has their issues. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 09:44 PM Flag
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OP again - is anyone here in that situation? I always wonder what the dynamic is like. Does the guy feel emasculated or is he proud of his wife? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 09:42 PM Flag
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As a SAHM, do you feel infantilized and lobotomized, or are you proud of your DH? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 09:49 PM Flag
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It's still different. Getting better but it is still different with different obstacles and different attributes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 09:51 PM Flag
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That attitude is so old fashioned, and IMO such an American attitude. Only a guy who is not confident in his masculinity would feel emasculated in such a situation. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:12 PM Flag
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i dont understand the implication? are you implying that sahd's w/ high powered wives cant be happy? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 09:38 PM Flag
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Happier than YOU! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 09:38 PM Flag
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Oh boy..here we go... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 09:45 PM Flag
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np-no she's right. wtf is wrong with this OP? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 09:40 PM Flag
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Nnp. She wants to know if the marriage us in the rocks, so she has an excuse to fuck the SAHD. She's looking for an opening. What a bitch. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 09:58 PM Flag
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Is that even possible, post-emasculation? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 09:54 PM Flag
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She wants to "help" him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:03 PM Flag
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why not. dh m of u and i am sahm. he retired 3 years ago and we're pretty content. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 09:45 PM Flag
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I wouldn't know unless I was a fly on the wall in their own house. That being said, I really don't care. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 09:46 PM Flag
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+5000 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:00 PM Flag
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Good for them, if that works for their family then I am sure it is what makes them happy, SAHD is nti that unusual [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 09:42 PM Flag
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sounds like pure awesomeness....married college sweetheart for love and ended up in love and rich...i'd be happy. i'm happy for them, means their hope for the rest of us who married for love. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 09:48 PM Flag
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there is no charge for awesomeness or attractiveness. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 09:53 PM Flag
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Many of the most successful female CEOs have stay at home husbands - I am thinking Meg Whitman, etc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 09:52 PM Flag
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I think Whitman's dh is a neurosurgeon, not a SAHD. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:32 PM Flag
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Plenty of couples make the stay at home dad thing work. The crucial thing is staying away from snarky bitches that question the husband's masculinity. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 09:53 PM Flag
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Yes! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:10 PM Flag
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i love that my DH is not quite stay at home, but PT/ able to pick up DD from school. We did it the other way the first 3 years of DD's life and now its reversed and we are so much happier. He enjoys the kind of things they do -- museums, playgrounds, garden -- so much more than I do. I just read something Amy Sohn wrote about this (not that I like her much) but really, it does work for some people if neither is hung up in tradition. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:00 PM Flag
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i love that my DH is not quite stay at home, but PT/ able to pick up DD from school. We did it the other way the first 3 years of DD's life and now its reversed and we are so much happier. He enjoys the kind of things they do -- museums, playgrounds, garden -- so much more than I do. I just read something Amy Sohn wrote about this (not that I like her much) but really, it does work for some people if neither is hung up in tradition. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:00 PM Flag
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I agree [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:09 PM Flag
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Doubt it; he probably complains that she isn't 'ambitious' enough and envies those of their friends who have more money and 'status' yet he will do nothing about getting a job himself. He wonders how good his odds are that he could divorce DW and find a new DW who makes more money. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:19 PM Flag
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LOL! you certainly put the skanky grabby grasping SAHMs here in their PLACE! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:25 PM Flag
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although I would never generalize that that characterizes all SAHMs [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:33 PM Flag
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Are you still friends with him? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:30 PM Flag
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I know a guy like this. Met him about 10 years ago in a toddler group. His wife is a CEO. I've seen him around lately, he looks pretty beaten down if you ask me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:31 PM Flag
[ - ] Applying from private school to public middle schools--what kind of CTP4 scores (4th grade) are required to be considered for the selective middle schools? Which category matters -- national or independent? And do they care about all subtests, or just some of them? Thanks 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
NY Schools 05.23.13, 09:40 PM Flag
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I'd think in that situation, national would be the big concern. And private school kids should be up there in the high 90s on every subtest. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 09:42 PM Flag
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Any idea how to find out the cutoffs? Just call the schools? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.13, 10:36 PM Flag
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