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General Topics 08.27.14, 06:48 PM Flag
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ask at your dc's school [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:36 PM Flag
[ - ] Can anyone recommend a pediatric allergist in Manhattan? We were going to someone on UWS at Columbia Univ at 86th but she left the practice. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:41 PM Flag
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my DD recently saw Dr. Samuel Grubman New york Downtown Allergy. He was quite good and had nice bedside manner, also one of the Top nyc doctors a few years in a row [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:42 PM Flag
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Food or seasonal? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:45 PM Flag
[ - ] Now that I'm 27 I've figured out that no matter what happens in life there are no guarantees that your relationship will work out. Even if you find a perfect match, he could stop loving you or run off with OW. So basically my plan is to have kids with the highest earning man I can find. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:38 PM Flag
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You're just now figuring this out? A little late to the game. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:50 PM Flag
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Seriously? She's 27. So young. Right on time. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:54 PM Flag
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Women have been doing this since the dawn of time, dear. You haven't discovered some secret. [ Reply | More ]
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Apparently Neil Young is available. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:53 PM Flag
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Dumbass. I just posted in that other thread that alimony laws are changing and have changed in almost every state. So the chances of you getting a windfall from your high-earning husband if he leaves you, are not very high, and in most cases you WILL have to go back to work. Lifetime support is basically over. [ Reply | More ]
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Yes but if she gets pregnant with a man who makes a million bucks a year she will get MUCH more child support than she will if she is pregnant from some artist or poet. Duh. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:44 PM Flag
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You are very very smart. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:43 PM Flag
[ - ] Okay. For the last time: what is red shirting? And should I wait to send my 3 yo dc to kindergarten when he is 5 or 6? 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:37 PM Flag
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It's when you don't send your DC to kindergarten even though they are permitted to attend. And you shouldn't do it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:27 PM Flag
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Unless you are going to use your son's July birthday as an excuse for his bad behavior even in 4th grade. Np [ Reply | More ]
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Ok. Thank you for the definition. Why do parents do this? Is there some psychological reasoning (to make dc feel smarter/bigger than others)? Is it bc they dont want dc to be picked on? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:41 PM Flag
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There are some studies to suggest that boys benefit from starting school later than girls. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:32 PM Flag
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So how late should I send him? At 5, or would 6 be better? When did this get so popular? Or was it always happening? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:46 PM Flag
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But also some that suggest that the benefits wear out over time. [ Reply | More ]
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By third grade. [ Reply | More ]
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I'm personally against it, but if it is done, just don't tell us how your 7 year old kindergartener is bored because he can read. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:47 PM Flag
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It's funny because 20 years ago everyone was pushing their little geniuses into school early. [ Reply | More ]
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I'm considering red shirting my late August DC for private school. I would rather DC be older by one month instead of younger by 11 months. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:54 PM Flag
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the youngest kids, who barely make the age cutoff but are enrolled anyway, ultimately end up on top—not their older classmates. When a group of economists followed Norwegian children born between 1962 and 1988, until the youngest turned eighteen, in 2006, they found that, at age eighteen, children who started school a year later had I.Q. scores that were significantly lower than their younger counterparts. Their earnings also suffered: through age thirty, men who started school later earned less. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] My parents just bought a home for friends of theirs who were about to have to move away due to housing costs and a lost job. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:30 PM Flag
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Are they going to pay for upkeep and property taxes too? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:54 PM Flag
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Your parents must have a lot of extra money laying around. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] How did people breastfeed before iPads and iPhones? I couldn't imagine sitting here doing nothing. 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:28 PM Flag
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I watched every single episode of "Baby Story" on TLC and cried at every one. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:43 PM Flag
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LOL. i did that while pregnant. After the baby came i wanted nothing to do with those shows. Not even with website pertaining to babies. Now that i want another dc I wouldn't mind watching the show again. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:45 PM Flag
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I don't always have access or I need to be in a quiet room - with no tv [ Reply | More ]
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once upon a time people could read words on these things called books [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:32 PM Flag
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It gave me carpal tunnel trying to hold a book open. Screens all the way! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:34 PM Flag
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Screen time all the time, holla [ Reply | More ]
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It's hard to hold a book, turn pages [ Reply | More ]
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I had one before and one after iPhones. It was a lot easier to read the screen with one hand, but I did get to watch all seasons of Scrubs, HIMYM, Big Bang Theory, etc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:37 PM Flag
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TV and remote. I had my kids even before cell phones, though we had cordless phones with only one handset for the one base. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:40 PM Flag
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Books [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] VBA? what does that mean 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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veiled brag alert [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:19 PM Flag
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My house is so big that I can't find my dog. Please help me find my dear puppy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:48 PM Flag
[ - ] Is it true that most relationships that start out as affairs end up unhappily, even if they end up getting married? If so, why do you think that is? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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I don't think anyone can talk about what happens to "most affairs" because by their nature, most of them are unknown. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:34 PM Flag
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How could this be 'true' across all situations? So many different variables. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:37 PM Flag
[ - ] No surprise, the alumni of the elite specialized schools want to keep admissions merit based, as opposed to kow towing to political correctness by admitting students on subjective criteria in the name of "diversity" 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:25 PM Flag
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DeBlasio's plan is to give upper middle class politically well connected families, like his friends in Park Slope, the ability to take spaces away from dirt poor Asian children [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:27 PM Flag
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Read some of the speeches by DeBlasio. He wants Stuy to consider "extra curriculars" and "community service" What this means is that his politically well connected friends will pay to send their children to build houses in Cuba and shit like that. Then they will be admitted to Stuy instead of the Asians that are helping mom and dad by working. It is shameful [ Reply | More ]
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Yup. I always laugh when I read about these community service trips because it sounds so out there, but my neice is at a suburban hs, and all of her friends went away this summer to do this for their college resumes. Ridiculous. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:56 PM Flag
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When I went to Stuy there weren't any of these cram schools. The system now favors mediocre kids with exceptionally cruel parents. That's not merit based. It would be better if they changed the test every year so that it couldn't be prepared for. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:43 PM Flag
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I agree that it would be better if they changed the test so that the very smartest kids got in to Stuy, not the kids that studied for the test. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:33 PM Flag
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The mayor claims that he can alter the admissions criteria so that more blacks get in to Stuy, but I do not think he will be able to do it. Even the wealthiest black families in Manhattan have children that score lower than the poorest Asian families http://www.jbhe.com/features/49_college_admissions-test.html [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:34 PM Flag
[ - ] Litter box hiding options. I've seen this discussed a few times so here ya go! 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:22 PM Flag
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At the animal shelter. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:23 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:38 PM Flag
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This. Disgusting. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:27 PM Flag
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I meant to post a link and I copied the wrong thing! Ahhhhhhh trying to find it again sorry [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] anyone have luck with flipping a breech baby? when did baby turn? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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ours turned the day before Twins [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:25 PM Flag
[ - ] I don't mean to spark yet another vaccination debate, but I have a 6 week old boy and this is so unbelievably scary. Evidence of a 340% increased risk of autism from the MMR vaccine hidden by the CDC. What to do?? Does anyone here have info on a delayed vaccination schedule? I still want to vaccinate but this is scary shit. 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:18 PM Flag
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LOL, only 6 weeks and you've already fallen in with the tin foil hat crowd? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:07 PM Flag
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Hahaha [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:21 PM Flag
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Sorry! Forgot to include link! http://ireport.cnn.com/docs/DOC-1164794 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:22 PM Flag
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That is not a legitimate source, some idiot wrote it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:15 PM Flag
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OP, see my explanation below. That's not a CNN report you're looking at -- it's user-generated content. Just some crazy person spewing the vaccine-autism myth, again. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:27 PM Flag
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^2 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:32 PM Flag
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Evidence? Link? [ Reply | More ]
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Are you aware that not vaccinating also carries risks? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:23 PM Flag
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Relax, OP. That's not a CNN report, it's user generated content. Look at what it says at the top of the page: "CNN PRODUCER NOTE CNN iReport is the network’s user-generated news community. This story was initially pulled for further review after it was flagged by the community. CNN has reached out to the CDC for comment and is working to confirm the claims in this iReport." [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:12 PM Flag
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You are taking your medical advice from the actor who played Deuce Bigelo professional Gigolo? [ Reply | More ]
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lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:24 PM Flag
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You have to be smarter about screening the information you get. He's only 6 weeks old! Put on your critical thinking cap ... [ Reply | More ]
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DOn't freak out, but do your research. I think the vaccine schedule is problematic in many ways, but I do not think that vaccines cause autism per se. I did spread them out as much as possible and delayed the live ones as long as possible, but still had dc fully vax'd to start preschool at 3yo. I would have split up the MMR if I could have, but one component is no longer available on its own. I also requested a blood titer before hte MMR booster at 4-5yo to see if booster was needed - and of course, it wsa needed only for 1, but since that one was not available on its own, had to give the whole thing. There are lots of books that will educate you without being totally anti-vax - recognizing that vaccines serve a purpose and might be necessary, but there are still many imperfections and controversies and lack of long term research. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:30 PM Flag
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Not "per se"? No, vaccines don't cause autism at all. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:35 PM Flag
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I have a 5wo boy and am 100% planning to vaccinate him. Don't be stupid. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:31 PM Flag
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Get the vaccinations and stop listening to quackery. Oh yeah: and if you don't mean to do something, don't. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:46 PM Flag
[ - ] Neil Young is getting divorced after 36 years of marriage. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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That is sad. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:15 PM Flag
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Their sad end comes after a sweet beginning that led Young to pen the song "Unknown Legend." In it, he writes lovingly of their early spark. "I used to order just to watch her float across the floor," the song goes. "She grew up in a small town/Never put her roots down." He also credited her as his muse for such other as like "Such a Woman" and "Once An Angel." http://www.people.com/article/neil-young-divorces-wife-pegi [ Reply | More ]
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She's well rid of that gross old hippie [ Reply | More ]
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I like Neil, but lol. [ Reply | More ]
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Dont worry - she'll get paid. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:10 PM Flag
[ - ] s/o: Someone mentioned the movie "Taps" below. We watched it recently, though it's kind of hard to find streaming now. We found it on Amazon. Amazing how the five main "kids" are all still pretty famous today: Sean Penn (his first movie role), Tom Cruise (his second movie role), Timothy Hutton, Giancarlo Esposito, and Evan Handler (probably best known for playing Harry on Sex and the City and also his role on Californication). They were all good actors, even back then. The scenes with Sean Penn face to face with Tom Cruise were especially good, especially when you consider how young they were. 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:12 PM Flag
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Loved Taps. That was a very anticipated movie when I was in HS - I think I watched it on cable again several years ago. Plus Timothy Hutton had just won the Oscar so there was lots of advertising him, George C. Scott and the man who played the National Guard Leader -I forget his name but he was great. Penn and Cruise were nobodies at that point, but whoa they were awesome! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:43 PM Flag
[ - ] Question. I have 3.5 year old twins who nap about 3 hours a day in the afternoon. Come this fall they will start preschool in the afternoon class. Should I start weaning them off naps now? Any suggestions to help for an easier transition? Thanks 18 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:03 PM Flag
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Just drop them off and the preschool can deal with it. [ Reply | More ]
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What is their nap time and bed time and what time does preschool start? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 05:55 PM Flag
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OP" they nap from 1- 4 and sleep from 8pm to 6 am. [ Reply | More ]
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School starts at 1 [ Reply | More ]
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I would shift bedtime to 7 am and nap to 11 before school starts then you can let them nap for shorter period before school and they will sleep more hours at night. Sounds like they still need the nap [ Reply | More ]
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^ 7pm [ Reply | More ]
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This. [ Reply | More ]
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Can you try and move the nap up until 11:00 AM and then cut it down to an hour? [ Reply | More ]
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vba? [ Reply | More ]
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LOL I know, right! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:17 PM Flag
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Her kids must need thatuch sleep. Pm preschool will be a nightmare. What's to vba here? [ Reply | More ]
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what doe vba mean? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:13 PM Flag
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OR: veiled brag alert. I'm just jealous because my 3yo DS stopped napping a month or two ago and I miss it. Good luck OP. They'll be fine. Maybe try the morning nap suggestion. But there's so much stimulus at preschool, they'll want to stay awake for it. They'll adjust quickly. [ Reply | More ]
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I'd say no nap and move bedtime to 6 pm. [ Reply | More ]
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What's your secret? None of my kids have slept that much!! [ Reply | More ]
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OP: I actually have to wake them up at 4pm They can sleep until 430. [ Reply | More ]
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You need to gradually just cut out that nap and push bed time forward. That's a long time for 3.5 years to be napping. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:19 PM Flag
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I am so jealous your kids sleep that much. My DD turned 3 last week, and hasn't taken a nap in months. She gets 10 hours of sleep a night, that's it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:41 PM Flag
[ - ] Serious question: my contract at work ends soon (after 5 years) and I'm really in flux and transition. Any books or methods to help me figure out what I want out of life and then how to get it? Thanks. 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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'What Color is Your Parachute?' is the classic find-a-career book. It's been updated for 2014 so may be worth checking out. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Have we discussed the 9 year old girl who accidentally killed her gun teacher while he was teaching her how to use an Uzi? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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yep, yesterday and on page 2 now [ Reply | More ]
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zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] The police are correct, crime is up and we are heading to the bad old days if something isn't done about it. Aggressive panhandling, bums sleeping on sidewalks in front of co-ops on UES, "doorman" at banks... 34 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Doorman at banks???? Huh??? [ Reply | More ]
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Extra security [ Reply | More ]
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homeless people who hold the door for you in hopes of a tip [ Reply | More ]
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I haven't seen that! [ Reply | More ]
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That's been going on for years. [ Reply | More ]
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this [ Reply | More ]
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Nearly disappeared under Bloomberg. Obviously you aren't remembering what it was like before [ Reply | More ]
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I've been here since '75. Obviously, I remember. And we have had those guys around the nabe forever. 3rd Ave/20s. [ Reply | More ]
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Trickling in...soon to your bank. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:03 PM Flag
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Never understood that. The ATMs spit out $20s. What am I going to do, give the homeless guy a $20? I THINK NOT!! LOL. [ Reply | More ]
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Bums that open and close doors for you when accessing ATMs. Remember this? [ Reply | More ]
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I lived in the city in the 80s with my parents and I remember this when we used the ATMs. Also the guys with the squeegees to wash your windows at all the stop lights on the ways out of Manhattan. [ Reply | More ]
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Shut it, RM. [ Reply | More ]
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Not RM and not racist to point out what I am seeing when compared to 1 and 2 years ago [ Reply | More ]
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Yes, this is true in my neighborhood. So many homeless, some of whom appear schizophrenic and off their meds. One in particular is a very big guy, aggressive and scary. [ Reply | More ]
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not UES btw [ Reply | More ]
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Think I just saw this guy on UES 94 and lex [ Reply | More ]
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Welcome to DeBlasio's NYC [ Reply | More ]
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I didn't vote for him, but not sure it's his fault. The rights of the homeless is out of control. [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
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Hey, Diversity is Strength! [ Reply | More ]
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The police are just another criminal gang. [ Reply | More ]
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Begging and homelessness are the worst "crimes" you can think of in today's world? [ Reply | More ]
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pan-handling is actually a 911 situation! i tried to call 311 to report a group of vagrant types who were grouped outside with signs asking for $- and they transferred me to 911! [ Reply | More ]
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If that is true (and I don't believe it is) it explains why the 911 system is so overloaded. [ Reply | More ]
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it's true! call 311 and ask! [ Reply | More ]
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Are you a Christian? [ Reply | More ]
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Because it is cover for other criminal activities - drugs, look outs for bad guys, etc [ Reply | More ]
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Are you fing joking. They commit crimes. You obviously are not from here and know how this evolves. [ Reply | More ]
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this [ Reply | More ]
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This reminds me of that graduation speech that made the email rounds in the late 90s, with the line something like, "Live in Los Angeles once in your life, but leave before you get too soft. Live in New York City once in your life, but leave before you get too hard." [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:13 PM Flag
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Remembering the 80s...OMG [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:17 PM Flag
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I love the mentality of the NYPD. Crime is up. In that period they were told to stop abusing a system which, by their own numbers, had a negligible effect on crime stats. The fault is the mayor's. [ Reply | More ]
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There is really no need to panic. The price of NYC real estate continues to go up. A few homeless people here and there won't scare the rich out of Manhattan. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:13 PM Flag
[ - ] Im sorry, I read all of these sad posts about women in their late 30s without significant others, and pining for children, and I think to myself: They brought iit on themselves. Unless they are heinous, most average to good looking women can lock down a husband by their early 30s. The women who go into their mid and late 30s, and certainly the women who have no man in their 40s, are invariably defective in some significant way (too picky, too inflexible, only wants TT earners, misunderstand their SMV, neurotic, career-obsessed, exuding desperation, etc) 21 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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You keep using the words "locked down", weirdo troll. [ Reply | More ]
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said the cat lady [ Reply | More ]
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I'm not trolling, so I'm doing much better than you are. [ Reply | More ]
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"locked down" is one of the nastier phrases on here. [ Reply | More ]
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Obv troll but a kernel of truth here [ Reply | More ]
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Your definition of defective is, well, defective. [ Reply | More ]
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I don't know where you are meeting all of these women. Every woman I know who wants to be married and have children, is married and has children. Every single woman I know is happy being single, and every childfree woman I know is childfree intentionally. [ Reply | More ]
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The single spinsters have convinced themselves they are happy, as opposed to having accepted the consolation prize. [ Reply | More ]
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That comment tells us all we need to know about you. Collapsing. [ Reply | More ]
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Np: BS I know many woman that fit OPs description [ Reply | More ]
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You must not know a lot of people. At least not well. I can think of 10 women off the top of my head who wanted marriage and kids and didn't find it, and are now between the ages of 35 and 55. the younger ones still hold out hope. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:20 PM Flag
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Listen, I am a beautiful intelligent woman who is married to the ideal man, Handsome, Extremely wealthy, kind and talented. I did not lock him down, I did get pregnant before we got married. NOW THAT IS A LOCKDOWN. Kisses from the Hamptons Biatchessssssss [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:12 PM Flag
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For every woman over 30 who turns down a nice guy for a date there is a kitten born somewhere [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:13 PM Flag
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ILY...you are one funny babe. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:37 PM Flag
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Lame troll attempt [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:14 PM Flag
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I'm single and about to turn 30. I would love, love, love to be married and raise kids with someone. My last relationship didn't work out because he wanted to get married and I didn't feel comfortable having kids with him (we disagreed on some big lifestyle things, and I didn't really trust his judgment in general, though he has a good heart). Life is not as black and white as OP thinks it is. Look at all the unhappily married people who rushed into marriage or settled out of desperation - I know a few, personally. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:17 PM Flag
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Mew [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:19 PM Flag
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I see a meow meow in your future [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:27 PM Flag
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All of that said, I do know women in their thirties (and some near forty) who are unbelievably picky. I have a friend on match.com who dates constantly and there is something wrong with every one. I had a neighbor like this, too. Too tall, too short, too rich, too poor, pointy chin, ugly feet. These are women claiming to be desperate to find someone. But they really want to remain alone. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:35 PM Flag
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I think for some of them it's a certain amount of bad-luck/bad-timing too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:34 PM Flag
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Best post of the day. Thank you OP [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 06:36 PM Flag
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