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[ - ] SAHMs who are not married to millionaires, do your husbands have a problem with you getting an occasional sitter for you to do something for yourself? If could be a once a week tennis lesson or to get your hair cut or something? Or do you only get your hair cut on Saturdays when DH is home? I'm feeling frustrated because I realize we have a budget and my job is to take care of the children but I am envious of my friends who hire sitters so they can do things once in a while. 23 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 11:32 AM Flag
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op: To be clear, I'm not talking about being gone for hours and hours a week, maybe a sitter for 2 or 3 hours a week, or less. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 11:33 AM Flag
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So explain the problem. He tells you not to? Not sure what your beef is here. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 11:39 AM Flag
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Maybe set up a child care swap with a friend? You each take the others DC for 2-3 hours a week [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 11:40 AM Flag
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THIS [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 11:46 AM Flag
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op: this is a good idea. I need to figure out who I feel comfortable asking. A few of my friends have three kids and I'm not sure they would be okay with taking two more little ones. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 12:01 PM Flag
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OP: Correct, he does not want me to spend money hiring a sitter. I would like to. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 12:00 PM Flag
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wow, sounds like he considers you an employee, not the woman he loves [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 12:02 PM Flag
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No. No problem with it. Mine would rather me get a sitter during the week than cut into family time/ make him have to watch the baby... Also he was happy to just give me a few hours away from the grind (and I reciprocated). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 11:41 AM Flag
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OP: this would be great. You're lucky! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 12:01 PM Flag
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whats your HHI? I think your millionaire statement is odd. It could mean you have 1 MM in home equity but otherwise paycheck to paycheck [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 11:42 AM Flag
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You're annoying. It obviously meant being wealthy generally. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 11:57 AM Flag
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OP: I'm just trying to say that some families have a budget that doesn't allow for a lot of "extras." I didn't mean for my statement to be taken so literally. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 12:02 PM Flag
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Think of it like this. What if your husband said " I'm paying someone $150 out of pocket every week to come and do my job so I can go shopping and get a haircut." Would that sound right to you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 11:42 AM Flag
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That's not at all what she's saying. At all. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 11:45 AM Flag
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Oh that's bullshit. 95% of professional working people can take an occasional hour for lunch, to go to a doctors appointment, etc. or they can mess around on the internet throughout the day. I just about went crazy during my brief stint as sahm. Having NO ONE to talk to, nothing to do with your brain, day in and day out, sitting on your floor doing things that are only of interest to a baby/toddler, listening to screaming all the damn time- when you have babies and toddlers to young for preschool, it's really tough [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 11:48 AM Flag
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+1. Many people I know go to the dentist across the street from our office. All of the men get hair cuts during the day and many (mostly men) go to the gym. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 11:56 AM Flag
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op: thank you! You get what I'm saying. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 12:03 PM Flag
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Good Lord. Is he your keeper or your husband? Do you tell him he can't leave his job for errands? People need sitters, obviously. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 11:53 AM Flag
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Also, join a gym/club with daycare and ideally a salon. Makes things 10x easier. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 11:54 AM Flag
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Thinking an occasional sitter would be cheaper. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 11:55 AM Flag
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But do you have a go membership? It's also nice to have a place to go, meet with friends/adults. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 12:00 PM Flag
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My DH is cool with this, although I WOHM. My argument is that it's good for my mental health to get out. I actually come back happier and more ready to face the house....everybody wins. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 11:59 AM Flag
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If you are married to a millionaire, you too are a millionaire. Why did you word the question this way? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 12:01 PM Flag
[ - ] "Nanny poacher" here from MP, can I tell my friend: "Nancy, Maria (the nanny) made it clear to me that she isn't going back to work for you. I have nothing to do with her making this decision. However I really like her and plan to offer Mary a job. I felt that letting you know was the right thing to do. I feel it would not be fair of you to expect me to obstain from hiring her under given circumstances" 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 11:23 AM Flag
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You are like the other woman. Expect to be shunned by everyone Nancy knows. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 11:24 AM Flag
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I don't care about Nancy's friends. I do care about doing the right thing but Mary did tell me multiple times that she doesn't plan to go back. What's the right thing to do here? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 11:28 AM Flag
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I feel like this has to come from the nanny to Nancy. Can't the nanny say to your friend that she is looking to limit the number of families she works for to 1 and have a full time schedule. The nanny can also mention that she's extending the offer of full time hours to all the families she works for (you included). That way your friend has a heads up from her employee. And she won't want to increase her hours. So she'll take a pass. Wouldn't this work? Then you could a few days later tell your friend that nanny offered you full time after she refused. Eh? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 11:29 AM Flag
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*Oops, meant to make this a normal reply. Not a reply to first comment. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 11:30 AM Flag
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OP: it is my understanding that the nanny has an offer from someone else. If I don't throw my hat in the mix she will go to someone else entirely which may still happen either way. What do you suggest I do and TYIA [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 11:33 AM Flag
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She just told you. Today offer the nanny but ask that she tell the friend tomorrow what PP just said. Then on Wednesday, you can tell the friend that nanny came to you and you understand that Nancy told nanny that she doesn't have more hours for her [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 11:49 AM Flag
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Issues is that Maria (the nanny) doesn't want to call Nancy. She feels that she doesn't owe Nancy a call and will only provide an explanation when Nancy calls her to ask to come back. I get Maria's position on this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 12:00 PM Flag
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Abstain, first of all. Second, fine. Be up front. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 11:33 AM Flag
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Can you please clarify? Do I abstain or should I just be upfront with Nancy? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 11:36 AM Flag
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No no, it's abstain. Not obstain. Tell Nancy what you're doing and hire her. If she wants full time and doesn't have it where she is, it's a no brainer. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 11:38 AM Flag
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Oh. TY. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 11:39 AM Flag
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You plan to change her name while she works for you? Weird. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 11:55 AM Flag
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Lol, I got made up names wrong [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 11:56 AM Flag
[ - ] Have you ever had an encounter with a UFO? Seen strange lights? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 04:12 AM Flag
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No and no. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 04:16 AM Flag
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Neither. But, I like to look up in the night sky and imagine. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 04:23 AM Flag
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Yes. I would have sworn I saw one. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 04:29 AM Flag
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put down the bong [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 04:36 AM Flag
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Unidentified Flying Orange. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 04:48 AM Flag
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Actually, yes--in the literal sense. In the mid-80s I was up very early one morning (like 4am) in the desert with my mom. We saw something in the sky that had absolutely no lights, but stood out slightly against the sky--it looked incredibly geometric, and like no plane we'd ever seen. We didn't think it was alien--we assumed it was military and classified. A few years later the Stealth Bomber was unveiled and it was absolutely what we had seen. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 08:31 AM Flag
[ - ] What's the worst mistake you ever made, and how did you keep from beating yourself up over it? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:56 AM Flag
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buying that gold stock with fairly large dollars committed in 2012. Even after almost tripling this year, I am still down 50% on it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 04:22 AM Flag
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Historically gold does not keep up with the equities market. Why do people get suckered into this....."it's an investment you can touch!" As dh says, you can "touch" dog shit. So what. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 11:35 AM Flag
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Probably getting addicted to this. Such a time suck. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 04:39 AM Flag
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I beat myself up for quite awhile for marrying my now ex-husband, because our divorce was so awful and the immediate aftermath was even worse. Things have gotten better with time and I have come to terms with the fact that every mistake is a learning experience and we're all flawed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 05:05 AM Flag
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Hmm. Describe the immediate aftermath. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 05:32 AM Flag
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Not taking a job at a prestigious financial company to get experience in finance sector. Let my dh talk me out of it to keep my mommy track position as one parent needs to be primary. FF 10 years and I am both primary with kids and the equal earner to dh at my mommy track job with 0 upside. I am an idiot. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 11:26 AM Flag
[ - ] Anyone on? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:32 AM Flag
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On what? Weed? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:47 AM Flag
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me! pax 2 baby [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 04:37 AM Flag
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The pill? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 04:03 AM Flag
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Yep [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 04:05 AM Flag
[ - ] Anyone take Evening Primrose supplements? 43 and some signs of perimenopause hitting a bit early. Doctor recommended I take this. Any down side? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:32 AM Flag
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Most supplements do not have the active ingredient. Send samples to Consumers Labs. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:41 AM Flag
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What? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:57 AM Flag
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Consumers Lab is a company which will check supplements for ingredients. Most supplements are fake. There have been many, many exposes about supplements, including ones recommended by Dr. Weill. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 04:05 AM Flag
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How is barlean's [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 04:14 AM Flag
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Don't know. You have to send the supplement to Consumers Lab. Maybe it's listed on the website. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 04:46 AM Flag
[ - ] If I were to go to Antarctica, could I drink water straight from the glacier? Or do you still have to treat it. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:18 AM Flag
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Where is Bill Nye when you need him? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:27 AM Flag
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Go right ahead. No treatment required. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 04:06 AM Flag
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I would not. I would boil it at least. Might have some unknown parasites that survive frigid temps. Then I would filter it with charcoal filter. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 04:14 AM Flag
[ - ] Heard a conspiracy theory that someone created Zika by injecting the mosquitos with it for population control. Made me wonder why it suddenly is this rampant problem.. where was it before? 17 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:10 AM Flag
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What morons are you listening to? It's been around since the 50s. It was just a matter of time before it reached an area white people care about. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:13 AM Flag
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Why are you a racist pos? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:15 AM Flag
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I'm not - I'm from an area of the world that's had Zika for decades, decades when no one gave a shit about it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:17 AM Flag
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Really? I would think we would have heard about this if it is so bad where you are. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:19 AM Flag
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How often do you hear about any of the illnesses threatening Africa and many parts of Asia, or news from those regions in general? I'm a citizen now, and grateful to be so - but most Americans and Europeans are pretty clueless about what goes on in the non-white world. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:22 AM Flag
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Non white???? Do you think America is all white?? What the fuck are you talking about. There are many races here yet you pick out whites to be an asshole about. So damn stupid. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:25 AM Flag
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+1 really f'ing dumb [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:47 AM Flag
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I work in public health and she is 100% correct. No one cares about infectious diseases until they hit white people preferably white men. Look at HIV. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 09:02 AM Flag
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Why are Brazilians so salty? They are the worst tourists at Disney. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 04:08 AM Flag
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Oh for god's sake. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:24 AM Flag
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It has been around for decades. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:28 AM Flag
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You're thinking of AIDS. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:35 AM Flag
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This sounds like Mathusian population theory. Basically, that war, famine and disease limit population growth. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:41 AM Flag
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Malthus imputes no conscious direction or thought. Certainly not injecting Mosquitos. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 11:22 AM Flag
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Pretty ineffective method for population control [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:48 AM Flag
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Expensive too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 04:24 AM Flag
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ha ha! inject mosquitos!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 10:41 AM Flag
[ - ] Why do I hate millenials? I have seething rage when I see one in public. Primarily the girls. (And yes, I call them girls even though some of them are 32 years old). 45 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:10 AM Flag
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I rarely think of them [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:11 AM Flag
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Do you live in a basement? Do you post here often of your hatred of the fats? Do you like troll posts and trash people? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:12 AM Flag
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Ha no. I just fucking hate them [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:14 AM Flag
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Why? Do you work with them? Have a bad experience with one? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:15 AM Flag
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They are self-absorbed, little candy-ass whiners. What they say, do and wear pisses me off. I hate hearing the way they conduct themselves in public- so disrespectful and overly familiar. Like the world is their fucking joke- like we are here to serve them. Like everything they do is important and needs to be taken note of. Fuck you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:18 AM Flag
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I agree with that & hate people like that too. But I know a few good young adults though so not all millennials are like that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:20 AM Flag
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90% have at least some those traits. 50% have all of those traits. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:23 AM Flag
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Omg you're crazy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:25 AM Flag
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But am I wrong? Really? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:26 AM Flag
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You sound very old, senile, and full of anger. Yuck. Sorry for your kids and DH....poisonous lady! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:21 AM Flag
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I'm fucking awesome. Anger is a gift [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:22 AM Flag
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Haha no, delusional is what you are. Anyways goodnight. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:24 AM Flag
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Goidnight millenial [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:25 AM Flag
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I'm a hardworking, polite, 38 year old. I know how to conduct myself. I can't stand those who can't, I have a lot of anger towards them, yes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:24 AM Flag
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Get a grip. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 04:46 AM Flag
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That is a lot of people on the street to hate, unless you live in a nursing home. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:15 AM Flag
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I think it's the entitlement. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:26 AM Flag
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Do you follow 'millenials of ny' on Facebook? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:28 AM Flag
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What is that? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:49 AM Flag
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It's a satirical FB group that makes fun of millenials [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:51 AM Flag
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Because they're more attractive than you are. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:29 AM Flag
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Lots of people are more attractive than me, but I don't hate them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:32 AM Flag
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Are they younger than you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:42 AM Flag
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I'm 38. So I'm just beyond being one of them [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:49 AM Flag
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You envy their youth. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:42 AM Flag
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I despise their worldview. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:48 AM Flag
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K [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 04:06 AM Flag
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How do you function? They are the largest demographic group. You must see one every few minutes. And what about them bothers you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:50 AM Flag
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I see them and I seeth. I actually hate them. All of them. I'm a SAHM, so I don't see them that often [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:52 AM Flag
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I saw what you said above. You really think that applies to all of them? And if you don't see or know many, how did you develop your opinion? I'm kind of baffled. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:56 AM Flag
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How old are your kids?? I am a millennial and most moms I know are also. You do realize that you are talking about everyone 35 and younger? Very odd for a 38 year to feel this way about people only slightly you ger [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 04:05 AM Flag
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OK. You have issues about not having a career and you envy them. Makes sense. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 04:06 AM Flag
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Because they are insufferable. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 04:08 AM Flag
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Because you're lonely. You need ti go fi d some friends like Dorothy Sbornac, Blanche Deveraux, Sophia Patrillo and Rose Nylund to keep the aging blues away. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 04:16 AM Flag
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Sweetpea, I'm 33, but I am a Gen Xer, not a Millennial. Honestly, I'm wary of people who think in such strong terms and classifications of others without ever getting a chance to know them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 04:19 AM Flag
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If you're 33 you're Gen Y not Gen X [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 09:04 AM Flag
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Make America Rage Again. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 04:25 AM Flag
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Now you know how it feels when Humphrey Bogart's generation thought your generation ridiculous with your Jimi Hendrix and Beatle's fad. Or how your Led Zeppelin rockers thought Madonna was crazy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 04:28 AM Flag
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NP: she's not that old! I'm 53 and those groups pretty much predate my coming of age. That said, I don't agree with her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 04:46 AM Flag
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Are you conservative politically? Maybe you hate them because they represent societal change and that threatens you. I'm a millennial. Millennials are by far my favorite demographic. (Yes, I'm clearly biased.) Only people seem way to closed minded, anti gay, anti immigrant, and just anti lots of things. Millennials seem more clued into what really matters in life, ie happiness and life experiences. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 04:32 AM Flag
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You'll change as you get into your late-30s and 40s. Don't kid yourself. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 04:36 AM Flag
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Yep. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 04:47 AM Flag
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Boomer here and I don't really see a difference in what the OP is saying and what earlier generations said about my generation. There have always been people "seething" about generational issues. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 04:43 AM Flag
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Boomers are the only group I actively loathe. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 05:26 AM Flag
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Tough shit [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 11:25 AM Flag
[ - ] Tried okcupid once, a couple of years ago, and even though it went well (1st and only guy was nice, normal, went on a couple dates) the online-ness of it just felt too weird to me, and I had no urge to try it out again. The idea of meeting up with someone from a dating site/app still makes me cringe but I'm in a real dry spell right now. Not really looking for a relationship but would be nice to have a crush or some inkling of a love-life. Should I just try this online stuff again? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:09 AM Flag
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Yesm [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:10 AM Flag
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Yes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:32 AM Flag
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Yes. Try Match, Zoosk, Eharmony, OKCupid, JDate -- whatever site appeals to you. It takes a tough skin but you can find people online. Good luck. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:57 AM Flag
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meh. I met my DH on okcupid. I met all sorts of awesome guys on okcupid. And lots duds and creepy people too. All kinds. But I can't imagine a better match for me than my DH. I wouldn't want to meet someone in a bar. Chances are low that you will hit it off. I loved okcupid's compatibility match algorithm. DH and I are a 99% match. I don't think we would have ever met in real life and would never have known the happiness we know now if it weren't for okcupid. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 04:34 AM Flag
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Yes. And good luck! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 11:56 AM Flag
[ - ] Lost all of my friends bc I'm not on Facebook. They lead interconnected lives I am not a part of. When we get together, it's awkward bc they haven't seen me in awhile but they have seen and talked with each other online. I have zero interest in Facebook. Don't find new friends...maybe in the same boat or just quit friends period. 34 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:06 AM Flag
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I'm not on Facebook. I ignore this shit. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:06 AM Flag
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But do you find your friends ignore you or you are just not as connected as you used to be? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:07 AM Flag
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Not really. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:09 AM Flag
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I would think they'd be particularly interested in talking to you because they know every single thing the other folks have been doing including what they ate for breakfast. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:07 AM Flag
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I think they just think I'm weird bc I'm not ga ga about it and like don't know where I fit in anymore. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:13 AM Flag
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Sign up and only friend close friends. Saying you have no interest in FB is weird. Inget not wanting to friend random people but seeing pics of friends' kids and hearing what's going on with them is nice. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:07 AM Flag
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OP. I find it boring and don't want the hassle of having to post stuff. Truly not interested. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:09 AM Flag
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Then stop complaining about being excluded. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:10 AM Flag
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You sound 14. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:11 AM Flag
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Why? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:17 AM Flag
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I enjoy actually seeing them and speaking with them in person and an occasional text good. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:11 AM Flag
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Then keep it that way. But the ones who interact on Facebook may feel closer to each other and you might get left out of things. I have FB. It's not a big hassle. I never post. I will just like friend's posts when I go on. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:17 AM Flag
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Same here. I have a Facebook messenger thread with my close friends and we do stay closer with it and it is easier to read than texting. I never post. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 10:26 AM Flag
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This. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:13 AM Flag
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I think Facebook is complete shit. I've never been on it and won't be. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:09 AM Flag
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...are your friends fanatic FB users and if so, no problem? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:10 AM Flag
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I have no idea. We don't discuss. But doubtful I'd be interested in someone like that [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:13 AM Flag
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Yeah you can't lose real friends just because you're not on Facebook. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:08 AM Flag
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OP. I totally have. They are seriously into it...the group communicates daily through one spouse or another. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:10 AM Flag
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The men too?? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:13 AM Flag
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Yes. The guys post just as much stuff as the wives and sometimes a couple will communicate with each other via Facebook. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:15 AM Flag
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Um...how do you know this if you're not on FB? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:34 AM Flag
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My DH has site and he tells me stuff. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:37 AM Flag
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Ugh. Men on Facebook....ugh. So effeminate. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 11:23 AM Flag
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You think you are above them and superior to fb right? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:16 AM Flag
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Ding ding. The real reason she has no friends. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:18 AM Flag
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Absolutely not! I wish I liked FBook but I read one post and just wander off. And can't imagine wanting to post just to keep friends. I find it strange that so many love but if feels like a chore to me...clean the toilet or go on FBook. My DZh goes on his site sometimes and will tell me to come look at something...my response...do I have to. Just me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:33 AM Flag
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Just get over yourself. Just like your friend's posts and be done with it. You can have an account & not post. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:41 AM Flag
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This makes no sense at all and I never post on Facebook. If my Dh tried to show me something going on with some of my closest friends and I found that as boring as cleaning my toilet than I would think I do not like my friends very much. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 10:28 AM Flag
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I do. Not OP. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 11:23 AM Flag
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Yes. Happens to me but I moved and made new friends. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 04:07 AM Flag
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Were they really good friends to begin with? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 04:09 AM Flag
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I'm not on it either. A few years back there was this mad frenzy and I got emails and phone calls..I can't find you on Facebook!! Sign up for Facebook!! It was a frenzy. So I joined it. And people were posting the most mundane things on a daily basis, I couldn't believe it. So boring. I got new friends. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 04:55 AM Flag
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This is exactly what happened to me. Then my FB was filled with inane things from HS friends and it got boring. My last post was like 2 yrs ago. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 05:06 AM Flag
[ - ] What makes a guy TT? I am dating at HYP educated architect who owns his own firm and is 12 yrs older than me (I'm 41). I am a single mom, cute, fit, funny, relatively successful academic (oxymoron?) Can't shake the feeling that he's out of my league. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:05 AM Flag
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If he likes you he likes you. Enjoy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:08 AM Flag
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You sound terrific, don't doubt yourself! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:10 AM Flag
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Aw, thanks. I just think he's amazing and wonder what he's doing with a goof like me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:12 AM Flag
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I doubt it. I left architecture for academia for better pay, QOL. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:14 AM Flag
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QOL? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:33 AM Flag
[ - ] Ladies in your 40s, what eye cream do you like? I'm looking to try something new. TIA 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 02:53 AM Flag
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Vegan Coconut Bliss salted caramel [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 02:54 AM Flag
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Sorry, i thought you meant ice cream! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:28 AM Flag
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lol!-op [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 11:29 AM Flag
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Nothing vegan masquerading as dairy tastes like anything other than utter dreck. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 11:34 AM Flag
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I don't use eye cream. I feel it's sort of a scam to get more money. I don't believe the skin under eyes is so dramatically different from the rest of my facial skin, that I need a separate product. I use Olay niacin amide regenerist serum, and I use CeraVe PM moisturizer. My skin has grown used to Retin-A, and i use that everywhere, with no problem. But that took a couple of months. to get used to it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:01 AM Flag
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Ok it's freaking expensive but I actually really liked La Mer's eye serum. Though honestly, the difference is negligible. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.28.16, 03:42 AM Flag
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