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[ - ] Shutouts at TT, what are you doing instead? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Bronxville [ Reply | More ]
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This [ Reply | More ]
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I don't understand when people just move. A good public has to just take them? What if the grade is full? [ Reply | More ]
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Bronxville schools always have space. Same with Darien. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:13 PM Flag
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it is called "compulsory state education." [ Reply | More ]
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Watching [ Reply | More ]
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Np, Manhattan is a tournament. Just because you women have money does not mean you win. If kids can not get in to any private school perhaps you lost and should exit ... Move to Burbs [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:14 PM Flag
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This. Bwhahah [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Need a nice place for a celebratory dinner with large vegetarian selection. Any ideas? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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I'm vegetarian and am fine in almost all places (except maybe steak places). I find mexican food to be the easiest. [ Reply | More ]
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Nobu [ Reply | More ]
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Where are you? [ Reply | More ]
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Pennsylvania [ Reply | More ]
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there's a buddhist veg korean place on w 31st, at least there used to be. $$$ [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:12 PM Flag
[ - ] Can a nice UB'er who has BTDT walk me through the steps. Next week is private HS notification. If an accept do we receive a thick envelope via snail mail? If a reject do we receive a thin envelope, same way? Will any schools email? DS applied to Trinity, Collegiate, Dalton, Fieldston, Riverdale. Thanks. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:00 PM Flag
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DK HS but do know for MS for all but T and C. F called followed by packet and D and R posted on line. HM used to snail mail but even they email now followed by packet. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:09 PM Flag
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OP here: Thank you. I hope it turned out well for your DC. Were the calls only for accepts? Was it on the due date? Date for HS is February 18. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:13 PM Flag
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Brace yourself. Unless DC is a standout you are in for a world of hurt. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:11 PM Flag
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Accepts all came from a call or email before follow up with snail mail. Only some overlap with your list. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Advice needed: there are a few houses in an area in which I'm interested (generally a 2nd home market in the NYC area). The houses have been on the market for a while and if they've had a price change at all (some haven't) it's been a while ago with a price change of 2-3%. I need the prices to go down 15-20% to be appropriately priced (and what I want to pay). We have a few properties in mind (3-4). Do you think I should wait for a price drop then bid 10+% below ask or go in now with 15-20% below ask? We aren't using a broker so that could save seller 2+% if they negotiate with agent. TIA. 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:00 PM Flag
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This is why you should be using a broker. They can get a feel through the other agent how desperate the sellers are. Unless there is a divorce or loss of job, people with 2nd homes typically don't slash their prices but wait. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:03 PM Flag
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20% gonna be tough. not see it happening. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:03 PM Flag
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Honestly, I would approach the seller's broker for each property you are interested and explain where you are. Seeing as there is no broker on your side, they may be willing to negotiate to get the property sold. Even if the buyer won't come down now, the broker will no who to call when they are. Be clear that it is just a matter of what you can afford not trying to get a "deal". [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:06 PM Flag
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The broker will just try to represent both sides of the deal and take a cut or not take a non-represented buyer seriously. OP should be getting their own broker. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:11 PM Flag
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OP: I haven't found people not taking me seriously when I don't have a broker. They can google DH and I and think we have the money. One of the houses is listed without a broker also. Some of the houses would be tear downs fwiw so it's really just land value to us. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:16 PM Flag
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Cut to the chase and make an offer. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:08 PM Flag
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OP: My only concern is that we bid, they don't take the offer, are insulted and don't want to re engage at some other point. I suppose I could feel out the broker. I googled each properties owners so generally know their situation. I should also mention I have a markets based job including following the homebuilders so know the job market in finance isn't great (so less 2nd home buyers) and follow housing trends and know we are at the tail end of the cycle. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:13 PM Flag
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You are overestimating your importance here. You have a set price need. You aren't interested at current prices. If they come down, they are humbled and willing to deal with you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:16 PM Flag
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Advice - don't use the term "appropriately priced." We sold a second home a few years ago and refused an offer from someone who kept on using a similar term. I don't mind negotiating but I am not moved by being told I don't know the value of my property. Fwiw, sold for more than asking. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:15 PM Flag
[ - ] Do you like Smitten Kitchen recipes? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:59 PM Flag
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love them. [ Reply | More ]
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Best for desserts. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:05 PM Flag
[ - ] S/O to the interview thread: I interviewed someone last week that had an error in her resume. It was a commonly confused word that was used incorrectly. She won't get the job, for reasons unrelated to the error. She's interviewing for relatively senior level legal positions, so not good to have a mistake like that in your resume. Is there a way to tactfully her know about the mistake so she can correct it? 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:57 PM Flag
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MYOB. Peter principle. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:59 PM Flag
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How does the peter principle work here? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:01 PM Flag
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People rise to the level of their own incompetence. Let nature take its course. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:09 PM Flag
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Annoying individual at my job just sent a cc'd critical email that contained the wrong use of affect vs effect. Snort. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:09 PM Flag
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Post the mistake here. Maybe she is on UB? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:59 PM Flag
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I would want to know. Maybe frame it in such a way as to say you understand it's a typo (not an error) but you want to bring it to her attention. I'd be embarrassed but this would not offend me if worded tactfully. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:00 PM Flag
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I agree. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:02 PM Flag
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make sure you're right, though. I've seen more than one person purport to correct someone and they were totally wrong. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:01 PM Flag
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I don't want to post the actual mistake b/c I don't think she has been officially told she didn't get the job, but I am 100% sure I'm right. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:05 PM Flag
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^^^^so if anyone here is a lawyer and interviewing, proofread! LOL [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:07 PM Flag
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I pointed out a spelling mistake to an applicant during an interview once - I just pointed it out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:01 PM Flag
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I think it would be really nice of you to let her know. Say it how you said it here. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:02 PM Flag
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I would definitely tell her and also let her know that it was not why she didn't get the job. It is the nice thing to do. I hope someone would tell me. If she is relatively senior, chances are she had a proofreader who did a bad job. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:07 PM Flag
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I think what may have happened is she added her current job description to an existing resume and didn't have it proofread. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:13 PM Flag
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Affect/effect? [ Reply | More ]
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No. Not advise/advice either! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:14 PM Flag
[ - ] S/o SA video- I cannot stop thinking about it. I think if you are an UMC family in Cobble Hill with options like 29, 58, 261 and you choose SA for your kid, you are nuts, and I think you are going to regret it. But it's your choice. However, I don't want to pay for it! 27 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:54 PM Flag
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you're paying for all sorts of shit. you should advocate vouchers. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:54 PM Flag
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I know several families with kids there. All were zoned for 261 or 38 and didn't like those schools. Couldn't afford private but wouldn't have gotten aid (or enough). They have all "drunk the kool-aid" and are huge SA supporters even in the face of this type of criticism. I don't understand it either. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:57 PM Flag
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It's crazy, I'm sorry. It's draconian and backwards to treat children like this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:58 PM Flag
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But those familes don't care because THEIR child would never be treated that way! They watched the video and could not muster a single word of sympathy for the child (who they probably don't like because they agree she is "ruining" their own child's education by her lack of getting it right away. ) I don't know if all the parents are like the ones who were interviewed, but what a group of the most selfish women I have ever heard. "Oh she treats my little girl like a princess" so I know she just ripped up the paper of another child but hey, that child isn't mine and is NOKD so if she leaves, I'm happy! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:07 PM Flag
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did you see those kids with their hands raised high when the teacher said, "can someone else show the class how to do it?" the teacher is stern, stern, stern. but she obviously lavishes praise when due. that's why the kids vie to be picked. it's both negative and positive reinforcement. it doesn't seem the hell you seem to be concluding it to be. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:59 PM Flag
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This. It is like training a puppy, you have to be firm [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:01 PM Flag
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Nope. It is positive reinforcement for the students who know the answer who are fawned over. But you can't "negative reinforce" education! You have to TEACH! If a child does not know the answer -- obviously she just isn't smart enough to learn it quickly --- how does HUMILIATION and ripping up her paper make her understand the concept at age 6? It is so typical that these children are punished severely for EFFORT because that is a marvelous excuse for punishing a child who doesn't understand. It's not my teaching, it's you -- it's all you and now you must be punished. And the other kids see this and learn to agree! A bully teaching a class to be better bullies. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:03 PM Flag
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of course you can negative reinforce. i do it all the time myself. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:07 PM Flag
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Not teaching. BEHAVIOR. It's sickening that Success Academy parents like you think that the child in the video was "taught" something with some educational theory. She was punished for not knowing the right answer. The teacher didn't try because -- it was evident by the disgust in her voice -- she despised that child because she was obviously a low-performer. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:11 PM Flag
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puhleez. i am not even in nyc. education had been doing fine for thousands of years without education theory. it's just been all downhill over the last 20 years. the girl is going to get her shit togethr next time. fine. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:14 PM Flag
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link to video? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:57 PM Flag
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I am a working class married woman of color and I agree with OP. UMC whites have so many choices and really should not choose SA. But for my two daughters, Success Academy is what I want, So please please white women, you do what you want and let me do what I want [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:58 PM Flag
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Plus one [ Reply | More ]
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there ya go. what do you like about it? you don't have to go into it if you don't feel up for it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:00 PM Flag
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I worked hard this week and am tired and I do not want to justify my family to white people. Let's just say I like Success Academy because it weeds out disruptive boys and my daughters appreciate that [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:03 PM Flag
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Yep, and it weeds out girls like the one in the video who just aren't smart enough to deserve to sit in class with nice well-behaved children who know the right answer. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:12 PM Flag
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And if your kid was weeded out? Don't fool yourself into thinking it's impossible. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:13 PM Flag
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I support SA. There should be a place for kids who want this method [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:16 PM Flag
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I'm white but grew up wc/immigrant---really? I grew up in a mixed neighborhood with almost all friends who were black/Hispanic and I really wonder why the parents insisted on being so strict. It didn't work for most of my friends, btw. It only piled on more adversity where there was already more than enough. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:03 PM Flag
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do you think maybe it would have been worse with less discipline? things come about for a reason. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:08 PM Flag
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No, I don't actually. I think it's a kind of internalized self-oppression by the lower classes. My parents had it in their own way--always telling us we were aiming too high if it was beyond their experience. But my girlfriends of color were disciplined preemptively--for their own good of course. Parents meant well but it really kept the girls down. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:12 PM Flag
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^keeping them from all the "bad" stuff meant the "bad" stuff was always front & center in their lives. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:13 PM Flag
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I think a lot of parent do that because it is what they think they should do. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:13 PM Flag
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You watched that video and thought it was okay? I'm trying to see if you area fake or not. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:09 PM Flag
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I listened to the audio that someone posted where the parents (most of whom sounded college educated and middle class) raved about how kindly that teacher treated their children. Guess what? I believe them! If you are middle class and your child is an easy learner, the teacher fawns all over you. If you are a minority and your child is an easy learner, the teacher is fine. If you are a minority - and especially if you are poor - and your child struggles to learn, the teachers are encouraged to make the child feel "misery" until he acts out and they can suspend him. Cobble Hill suspended 14% of their 5 and 6 year olds and how much do you want to bet that it wasn't the affluent parents who Success Academy brought in to rave about the school. It's actually sickening that none of them cared about the child who was so obviously bullied. She is NOKD and they are more than happy to have her bullied until she leaves. if she is perfectly behaved AND learns quickly, they don't mind her in the classroom with their precious kids who the teacher fawns over. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:00 PM Flag
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This! I'm sure the parents I know with kids there have had wonderful experiences. They are very wealthy white people. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:16 PM Flag
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It is just like illegal immigration. All upper middle class white women want more illegals because illegals mean low priced cleaning ladies. But working class black moms like me are often against illegal immigration. You do not speak for me and I do not speak for you [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:00 PM Flag
[ - ] Firing up the oven today for an-all weekend baking marathon. Any good recipes that require 4-5 hours in a slow oven, beside baked beans? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:53 PM Flag
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God. Why would you spend 4 hours and only come away with baked beans? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:54 PM Flag
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The idea is to have something going all day. After the baked beans, I'll need other recipes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:56 PM Flag
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Brisket [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:57 PM Flag
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i'm making stew with brisket - takes forever but makes the house smell great and tomorrow it will be just perfect. Also making spaghetti sauce this weekend. I just have to get to the store to get the couple of things needed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:57 PM Flag
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^^and although I start the stew on the stove, I finish it in the oven for a couple of hours [ Reply | More ]
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Pears poached in red wine. That's 5-7 hours in the oven, according to Elizabeth David. [ Reply | More ]
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Do it yourself dried fruit or tomatoes [ Reply | More ]
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Turkey [ Reply | More ]
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THIS. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Any suggestion on good therapists? I have been doing psychonanalysis for the past year but think I am going to switch 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:51 PM Flag
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What are you focusing on? Therapists usually have a "specialty." [ Reply | More ]
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long term sobriety, marriage issues, perimenapause, old childhood issues... [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] unBREAKable ... 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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She's alive damn it! Females are strong..... [ Reply | More ]
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It's a miracle ... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:00 PM Flag
[ - ] let's say one spouse uses a word incorrectly. let's say the other spouse corrects them. this is at home, not in front of anyone else, etc. is that a negative thing to do, or not? the spouse that says it's a bad thing says it doesn't matter all that much, who cares, correcting spouse is just trying to prove their smarts/that they're right. The spouse that says it's not a negative thing struggles to understand that perspective since they do it out of love, not from some negative place, and that it actually seems bad and passive aggressive to let someone use a word in a way that's patently incorrect. Who is right? Assume both spouses WOH and are equally accomplished but in different fields, if that matters. 31 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:45 PM Flag
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i would say the spouse that corrects is right. happens with dh and i all the time. when i correct him, i tell him it's because i love him and wouldn't want him to make the same mistake at a dinner party, for ex. he corrects me too and i appreciate it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:48 PM Flag
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happens with dh and *me*. and I say that with love :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:49 PM Flag
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dh and i say, "is that how you say it? i've been saying 'xyz.'" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:50 PM Flag
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^^ how you say it, not what you say. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:50 PM Flag
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good point. that could work for some things, but may not work for others. [ Reply | More ]
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^^it also leaves open the possibility that the way the spouse has said it could be correct, leaving them to keep going that way if they want to, which defeats the purpose. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:52 PM Flag
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oh, please. you just look it up. dictionaries have pronunciation now. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:55 PM Flag
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you are completely missing the point. the corrected spouse would feel the same way if the correcting spouse said to look it up or suggested looking it up. they would say it's just a ruse to demonstrate that the correcting spouse is right. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:03 PM Flag
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the correcting spouse say, "i thought it was like this all my life." the corrected spouse says, "i have no idea. look it up." then you're done. you guys have a bad marriage. there shouldn't be shaming involved. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:10 PM Flag
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you're assuming the corrected spouse would say "look it up." The corrected spouse would not do that in this scenario. They would just take your statement "I thought it was like this all my life" as an indication of rudeness and superiority. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:13 PM Flag
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for what would it not work? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:53 PM Flag
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Total hypothetical here, but let's say it's over using the word "loath/loathe" in the wrong context. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:58 PM Flag
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but then can be easily verified on the web. and you could just say, "oh, i've been using it like this. maybe i've been doing it wrong all these years." [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:02 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:09 PM Flag
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Both spouses are equally accomplished, but one is in finance/is a quant and the other in law, where words are that spouse's currency. It's a nice suggestion, but such an approach would be totally transparent. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:10 PM Flag
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you guys have issues. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:15 PM Flag
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DH and I do this all of the time. We think that our marriage is about making each other better as individuals and as a unit. We don't have an imbalance however, we are equally able to "correct" each other and are both successful in our chosen fields. In this situation is there an underlying issue where one person generally feels superior to the other? Or on person generally feels inferior to the other? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:52 PM Flag
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The correcting spouse shares your view. The corrected spouse is EXTREMELY sensitive to criticism in any way, shape, or form, so they would say the correcting spouse is just trying to seem superior and make them feel stupid. The correcting spouse says they're totally flabbergasted by that statement and that the corrected spouse is projecting. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:00 PM Flag
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What is the general type of error we are talking about? Pronouncing a foreign language word incorrectly (faux like fox)? Using a word that is often misused in the wrong way (healthy vs healthful food). Using the wrong word all together in a not common way I can't come up with an example now but I know DH has done this recently... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:08 PM Flag
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if it's that bad, the correcting spouse should just always keep mum. why is the corrected spouse so sensitive? [ Reply | More ]
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It's not that it's that bad, it's that the spouses have different views about what marriage means. The correcting spouse thinks marriage is about making each other better as individuals, as OR aptly stated. The corrected spouse apparently doesn't share that view. The question is how to harmonize those views. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:15 PM Flag
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We like to use an Ingio Montoya accent and say to each other, "that word does not mean what you think it means!" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:57 PM Flag
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You killed my father, prepare to die! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:59 PM Flag
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I think that if the person who is making the errors has said that they do not want to be corrected then the other spouse should respect that request because at that point the correcting spouse is not doing it out of love but because they can [ Reply | More ]
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And if you are a person like OR, above, who believes that marriage is about helping each other be your best selves, how do you deal with letting something like that go? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:04 PM Flag
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Since your spouse doesn't agree when it comes to the use of grammar, you find other ways to help him [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:08 PM Flag
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such as? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:11 PM Flag
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Buy him a better wardrobe, workout with him, make healthy food, buy him interesting books to read..you can figure out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:14 PM Flag
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Grammar correcting is super annoying. If my DH tried to to correct me, I'd be livid. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:09 PM Flag
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Interesting. Why? What if he were correct? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:16 PM Flag
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OMG! You are one of those law review types that think they are superior. There is a reason why we have paralegals. I suggest focusing your time on client development as it is a much more valuable skill set. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:16 PM Flag
[ - ] How can I make crispy chicken fingers in the oven? Flour and Pablo?? 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:38 PM Flag
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^* I meant Panko. lol. I don't know who Pablo is . [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:43 PM Flag
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Don't know either, but flour and Pablo sounds dirty. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:47 PM Flag
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Slice chicken, dip in a little egg white, roll chicken in Panko bread crumbs mixed with a little garlic salt. Place on a tray that is lightly greased and bake for 20 mins. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:45 PM Flag
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Thanks [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:49 PM Flag
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It's a little tough in the oven, but if you have a non-stick pan you can first oven bake (with panko is fine) and then finish them off without oil. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:46 PM Flag
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Thank you [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:49 PM Flag
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I always spray olive oil on the bread crumb coated chicken fingers to get it crispy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:50 PM Flag
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Or just deep fry in lard. Yum. [ Reply | More ]
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jews can only use chicken fat. isn't it a shame? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:56 PM Flag
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chicken fat is pretty damn good too [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:59 PM Flag
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cannot compare to pork fat, i am sure. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:06 PM Flag
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They have duck fat at the Union Square farmer's market. Also yummy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:05 PM Flag
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prob, duck fat ranks above pork fat, as unlikely as that might at first appear. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:11 PM Flag
[ - ] Which are the best private K-12 with rolling admissions in NY? Don't want to move out of the city. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:38 PM Flag
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That's doesn't exist [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:42 PM Flag
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Dalton, Packer, Saint Ann's, Spence, Chapin, Collegiate etc etc [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:48 PM Flag
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They don't have rolling admissions. Or else you have a different concept of rolling admissions than mine. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:50 PM Flag
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Sadly, this. It's over OP, until middle school. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:00 PM Flag
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Maybe Leman. Possibly. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:01 PM Flag
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Wait until early May and call the Parent's League. GL [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:08 PM Flag
[ - ] Cinderella Man kills me every time. 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:37 PM Flag
[ - ] Any suggestions what to do 0 degrees out, one six year old, dha and I off on Monday. Quick weekend trips that are more indoors, not sure I just want to do kids activities looking for a happy medium. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:35 PM Flag
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Hire a babysitter and do a 4 hour boozy brunch with DH [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:39 PM Flag
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You I like. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:48 PM Flag
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woodloch pines -- kids love it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:40 PM Flag
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must be packed now this weekend, think it is possible last minute? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:44 PM Flag
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you can try to book online. we were always able unless fourth of july, labor day or memorial day. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:48 PM Flag
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everything's already booked this weekend.. you're too late! [ Reply | More ]
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Museum. Look up Chinese New Year activities [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:50 PM Flag
[ - ] I have a super annoying, competitive SIL who is always obsessed with trying to lose the same thirty pounds. She does every fad that passes through including crash diets, coffee colonics, that belt you wear to trim your waist, fitness bracelets, HCG drops. For years I have been another thirty pounds heavier than she is, but have lost 20 in the last year by making the usual helpful changes. As usual, she gets upset when she sees someone else losing weight and is always determined to tell other people how unhealthy their weight loss program is. She never accepts reasonable responses (more out, less in) and is insisting that I must be doing *something* that I'm hiding from her. I know she'll immediately try anything I tell her I am *doing* and feel like coming up with something fake to get her off my case. What's something not harmful that I can tell her I am doing which will be amusing? Wearing a weighted vest? Eating tic tacs all day? I want to come up with something amusing. 23 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:29 PM Flag
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The weighted vest sounds hilarious, unless she asks to see yours [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:30 PM Flag
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Tell them you are practicing mindfulness. That will shut her up fast. No one wants to talk about mindfulness [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:31 PM Flag
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I wish more people were aware of that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:32 PM Flag
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Being an asshole adds ten pounds. Just sayin. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:31 PM Flag
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I'm not the asshole in this situation, just the fatter one. And she likes it that way. She is not at all happy that I am coming up on her weight, it makes her extremely uncomfortable. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:34 PM Flag
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Eh. You'll probably start gaining it back before you ever get there. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:35 PM Flag
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I hope not. I've been trying to take some weight off for medical reasons. I'll never be skinny but I'd like to have my numbers in a normal range so I won't die early. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:36 PM Flag
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Not in my experience. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:39 PM Flag
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hypnosis for weight loss [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:34 PM Flag
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I've got it...sit tight..a few years ago I watched some special that had to do with tapping your face to lose weight, and I know I saw an article about it a few days later. I'll see if I can find it for you. totally weird but semi believable to the person who will try anything. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:35 PM Flag
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LOL [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:09 PM Flag
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Tell her to put butter in her coffee and call it a day. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:36 PM Flag
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she's already done that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:36 PM Flag
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so tell her you thought you would try it anyway and you did not want to say anything since it is obviously working for you and sorry it did not for her [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:39 PM Flag
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good one. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:45 PM Flag
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Have you seen the Prancercize video? Google it. Then set up a hidden camera to film her when she tries it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:47 PM Flag
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NP - YES! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:48 PM Flag
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Here it is: [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:56 PM Flag
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Oy, that camel toe [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:05 PM Flag
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You actually engage with this person? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 02:59 PM Flag
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Make up some moon cleanse meditation ritual and chant. Please record yourselves when you teach it to her. Include a blessing over donuts or something. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.13.16, 03:03 PM Flag
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