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[ - ] Please give me your best advice on divorcing a brilliant silver-tongued manipulative narcissist who makes three time my income. We have a 6 yo DC. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 11:26 AM Flag
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how long have you been married? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 11:27 AM Flag
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7 years [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 11:33 AM Flag
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i would think you'd hire the very sharpest lawyer you can find, do everything they tell you to do, and keep your cards very close to your chest when dealing with DH? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 11:32 AM Flag
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How does anyone afford divorce? Lawyers are hundreds an hour and the conversation stats with a $10K retainer. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 11:37 AM Flag
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Best attorney is your only chance [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 11:43 AM Flag
[ - ] can you train a four year old dog to sleep through the night and not pee on a wee wee pad? I might have to adopt someone's dog and I don't feel like getting up at 3 am every night to take her out. Is it too late? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 11:12 AM Flag
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That dog should be sleeping through the night. How about a crate? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 11:22 AM Flag
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I can't believe someone takes their dog out that late. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 11:22 AM Flag
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Most dogs sleep through the night without peeing. The fact that this one doesn't suggests there may be a medical issue, which would be my only concern. Otherwise, yes you should be able to train. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 11:23 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
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General Topics 06.26.16, 07:32 AM Flag
[ - ] Is Cyprus part of Europe? Or is it Asian? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 05:25 AM Flag
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Cyprus is technically Spanish territory, but it is not part of the EU. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 05:27 AM Flag
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You're thinking of the Canary Islands maybe. Those things are off the west coast of Africa. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 05:28 AM Flag
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Omg, idiot alert. It's half Greek and half Turkish. In the Mediterranean and part of Europe [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 06:06 AM Flag
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Cyprus is half Turkish and half Greek. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 05:32 AM Flag
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Cyprus is African. There is a large Mongol contingent though. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 05:34 AM Flag
[ - ] Watching the big short. Outrageous! 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 05:19 AM Flag
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It was surreal to me. I was deployed all of 2008, so I don't think I grasped how huge it was until much later. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 05:23 AM Flag
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Interesting. Finance mom here. What do you find that is outrageous? I'm curious. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 05:37 AM Flag
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NP. The fact that everyone was selling nothing? Everyone who made a fortune that is. And that they were duping people and knew it but didn't care because of the money they were making. The proof is in the pudding, no? They brought down the world economy with their shenanigans. I'm sure that in your circles, "finance mom," as you put it, is a perfectly reputable thing to say, but in my circles, there's a tinge (at least) of the bogus, the shady. Because we all know, that ... without regulations, people in "finance," (another word for crook?) are right back to stealing, bending rules and amassing fortunes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 11:07 AM Flag
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Buyers were just as greedy. All of the legal documentation explicitly stated that the products were without any inherent vlaue but everyone was so desperate to make a quick buck that they were willing to ignore all of the warnings. And don't get me started on people buying way more house than they could afford. Grred from bottom to top. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 11:28 AM Flag
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And it seems to be happening again. I see ads all the time for "quick, easy" mortgages. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 11:31 AM Flag
[ - ] I am very uncomfortable with unrequited attention, interest and love. Romantic and platonic. I avoid, and I get narchy if people persist. Why is this? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 05:09 AM Flag
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I'm the same way. It feels like an imposition and that they're putting you in the position to be the bad guy when you inevitably don't give them what they want. It's also boorish of them to continue when you're not interested. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 06:46 AM Flag
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OP: Thank you for verbalizing what I mean. I absolutely feel imposed on to respond in the way they want, and when I don't they push me to find out why I don't want to be friends, for example. An acquaintance I have to deal with for work insisted on having exchanges where she asked me about my weekends and vacations. I was polite and professional but gave every indication I wasn't interested in chatting. She continued to ask and then would ask me if anything was the matter just because I wasn't more chatty. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 11:30 AM Flag
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I can't imagine this happens to you, on the regular. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 10:37 AM Flag
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OP: It has happened enough for me to recognize a pattern in my behavior to it; I'm ungracious and repellent. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 11:21 AM Flag
[ - ] Leaving Europe is to Brexiters what building a wall with Mexico is to Trumpians — a guillotine on the cacophonous multiculturalism of 21st-century life. 17 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 04:22 AM Flag
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CSB [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 04:24 AM Flag
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Very true!! and well said [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 04:26 AM Flag
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Washington’s elites rightly fear that Brexit could spark a chain reaction that could lead to the disintegration of the EU. That, in turn, could trigger the collapse of the transatlantic alliance. US global power has always been magnified by the strength of its alliances. The self-inflicted isolation of America’s closest European ally could be the start of a great unravelling. Here, too, Mr Trump plays the ghost at the banquet. For the first time since Nato was formed, the US is fielding a presidential candidate who would be indifferent to the demise of the military alliance. Moreover, Mr Trump stands alone among US public figures in supporting Britain’s exit from the EU. “Oh yeah, I think they should leave,” he said recently. He added that it would be Britain’s decision to make alone. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 04:30 AM Flag
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Cameron hired Jim Messina, the manager of Mr Obama’s 2012 re-election campaign, to help make his fear-based economic case against Brexit; even the product managers are interchangeable. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 04:28 AM Flag
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Lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 05:45 AM Flag
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That's the craziness of all of this. Truth was sold as "fear mongering". Pills were genuinely shocked that their pensions lost half their value and the big financial services firms said that they would relocate jobs. It's like they hadn't been listening at all for the past two years. Heads in the frigging sand [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 11:38 AM Flag
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The can of worms is now open. It should be interesting times and the media will have to decide whose side they are actually on: the elite or the populist? So what comes now on either side of the Atlantic? Sweeping changes, for better or worse, but about time! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 04:33 AM Flag
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Had they actually been just a smidgeon more in touch with opinion in their own countries, they would not have shot themselves in the foot in the way they have. When élites won’t listen, you get a populist backlash. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 04:38 AM Flag
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Smart comment. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 05:07 AM Flag
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This [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 05:45 AM Flag
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This. People get what they deserve [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 11:23 AM Flag
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Well unfortunately the whole ship is going down now whether they sopported Brexit or not. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 11:35 AM Flag
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elites especially don't listen to the working classes. they think they're too dumb and easily led to know what's good for them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 11:35 AM Flag
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Is that why they dedicated multiple speeches and flew in Obama to break it down in plain terms what it could mean if they left? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 11:40 AM Flag
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I don't think it's a populist backlash so much as lack of education. Did you see the number of Brits who googled "what is the EU" and "what happens if we leave the EU" after the vote? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 11:38 AM Flag
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these may not be the same ones who voted to leave. could be a lot of people who didn't vote at all, and are only now getting interested.... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 11:41 AM Flag
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There is a camp of what libertarians would be in the US. They don't want EU regulations but want cheap polish labor. Generally speaking this group is politically stronger than the poor masses voting against immigrants but there a fewer of them. It's interesting to see how it will play out [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 11:30 AM Flag
[ - ] DH just told me, in all seriousness, that being with DC is my "raison d'être." I have the same degree he does, and write nearly ever sentence he publishes -- most recently a piece in Time magazine. This was also by way of criticizing my lack of interest in Brexit. 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 04:14 AM Flag
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Calm down! Nobody cares about his "achievements" either. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 04:17 AM Flag
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nice attempt at a humble brag. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 04:17 AM Flag
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mediocre attempt [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 04:25 AM Flag
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I was trying to be nice. I thought it was a horrible attempt. There was no story outside of her wanting to say she writes her husband's articles in Time. Both facts are probably not even true. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 04:32 AM Flag
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who cares about that? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 04:38 AM Flag
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Not a great job imho. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 04:55 AM Flag
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He sucks [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 05:28 AM Flag
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he probably resents you for being better at his job than he is, and to top it off he senses that you're only giving it 50 percent because what you really care about is your kid. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 11:37 AM Flag
[ - ] Omg! Kids and I stayed at a friends last night. I slept in one of her kids' bed and my kids Slept in the other. Kids shared hair brushes. Friend just texted that her kids have lice! We are all getting lice, right?! 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:59 AM Flag
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Go to a lice salon in the morning before it can even get started... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 04:00 AM Flag
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But yeah. You have it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 04:01 AM Flag
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No such thing here. In rural area. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 04:07 AM Flag
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I posted just below this and mentioned cetaphil. Go get cetaphil facial cleanser. Slather your heads and then comb out with a metal lice comb. Do not rinse your hair. Blow dry your hair. Sleep on it that way. Do this every other day for a total of three times. The cetaphil + blowdrying seals the hair shaft and will suffocate the nits. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 04:19 AM Flag
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This works even on the lice that is drug resistant and won't respond to the chemical treatments. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 04:20 AM Flag
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Do I wash hair in between? What about swimming?? We are in a hot climate and kids are swimming every day. Ugh!!! So pissed! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 04:20 AM Flag
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So just go buy a lice treatment kit. It is not that hard. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 04:22 AM Flag
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The chemicals are so gross and it doesn't even work on all the lice now. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 04:24 AM Flag
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Rinse in the morning. Then go about your day. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 04:23 AM Flag
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Swimming is fine. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 04:24 AM Flag
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School admin mom here. Do this (above). It works. No chemicals. Google nuvo for head lice for more details about the method. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 11:26 AM Flag
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This this this. Put everything you took to her house in to the dryer or tie it up in a garbage bag for a few days. Go to a lice salon. Throw sheets on your furniture, pillow cases over your carseats and headrests and run all your sheets and pillow cases through dryer every day. ACT FAST AND THOROUGHLY! I haven't done a lice salon. We did cetaphil treatment and that worked. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 04:07 AM Flag
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Wow I would never. I'm so uptight. Why did you sleep like that [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 04:04 AM Flag
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??? We were staying over at a friends (visiting from another city). She has 3 bedrooms, her kids slept with her and we slept in the kids rooms. On clean sheets although I think there were some random pillows that were re-used. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 04:06 AM Flag
[ - ] Don't flame. Did anyone see Fat Greek Wedding 2? Thinking about renting it on demand and loved 1. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:47 AM Flag
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Never seen it but liked the first one. Same actors or different ones? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:54 AM Flag
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No [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 04:19 AM Flag
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If you liked the first movie and want to see the same people doing and saying basically the same stuff, it's good. Go in with very low expectations and you won't be disappointed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 04:29 AM Flag
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+1 I loved the first one and saw the 2nd in the theater, it's cute. Not as good as the original but it is satisfying closure wondering what happened to all of them after they got married. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 11:01 AM Flag
[ - ] A man who employed me as his intern 20 years ago is a good friend and means well. Except that he occasionally gets inappropriate and makes suggestive comments to me. I am single and he is not. It makes me really uncomfortable and while I appreciate his friendship and don't want to hurt his feelings - I really need him to stop. How do I do this firmly but with grace? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:41 AM Flag
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John, I Value Your friendship, But your innapropriate comments make me feel very uncomfortable. Maybe other women are ok with this kind of sexual banter, but I am not. I hope you can understand. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 04:06 AM Flag
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Too much and too conciliatory, IMO. I'd say something like, "What do you mean by that?" Directly and honestly. Maybe that will be enough to stop him. If he tries to pull some "We have a connection" bs, say it won't happen. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 04:16 AM Flag
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Get serious and look him square in the eye the next time he says something like this, 'Stop. I don't like you saying these things to me.' Go back to normal. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 04:54 AM Flag
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If it's occasional, just pretend that he never said it and move on. If he repeats in the same conversation, just say, really, let's not go there, and move on. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 09:17 AM Flag
[ - ] Please name one or two movies that you loved in the past five years. 26 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:36 AM Flag
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Brooklyn. Django Unchained. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:38 AM Flag
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op. Geez, I haven't even heard of the second one. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:39 AM Flag
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Tarantino. So good! But I teach US History, so biased. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:41 AM Flag
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I could watch anything w Christoph Waltz in it. Love him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:56 AM Flag
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just watched brooklyn on a flight and loved it! [ Reply | More ]
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Hated Django. Such a shit show. [ Reply | More ]
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The Grand Budapest Hotel [ Reply | More ]
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op. I watched it! [ Reply | More ]
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Now you see me [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:39 AM Flag
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Op. Wow, it's playing in the theaters but I can rent it on Amazon. I just learned something! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:42 AM Flag
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Ted [ Reply | More ]
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op. That teddy bear movie? Was it really good? [ Reply | More ]
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Np. Yes lol [ Reply | More ]
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American Hustle. Was Moonrise Kingdom with five years? [ Reply | More ]
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I saw American Hustle and loved the actors. [ Reply | More ]
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hated american hustle...so boring [ Reply | More ]
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The Martian. Star Wars. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:55 AM Flag
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Night Manager mini series. [ Reply | More ]
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Leviathan [ Reply | More ]
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Are you Russian? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 04:20 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 10:15 AM Flag
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Skyfall and Zootopia [ Reply | More ]
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The White Ribbon [ Reply | More ]
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^ & Rich Hill [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 05:04 AM Flag
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ooh. Loved The White Ribbon. Broken Circle Breakdown and The Hunt. Both very heavy. So if you go for "Bridesmaids" and things of that sort, don't watch either of these. Mads Mikkelson is the best. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 11:10 AM Flag
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The Descedants, Blue Jasmine [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 09:54 AM Flag
[ - ] Online dating is a skill that I just don't have. I am so tired and I don't put the energy into dating and finding a lifelong partner. I feel my youth slipping away and my mistrust of men after divorce does not help matters at all. I want love, I just wish there was a litmus test for the assholes so I don't waste any more time. Any ideas? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:34 AM Flag
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This is one of those things where it's a total crapshoot and what you put in (time and energy wise) has no effect on what you get. You might be better off not thinking about it at all and maybe you'll just randomly meet someone. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 04:07 AM Flag
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So true [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 04:32 AM Flag
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It is not a crapshoot. The odds are much worse, given the fact that the pool of men have either already failed at marriage or worse, avoided it in their youth. You are right, OP, in that most of the men available are $$holes. NP [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 11:40 AM Flag
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I don't believe you can find love online. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 04:38 AM Flag
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+1. Internet dating is so annoying. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 04:50 AM Flag
[ - ] Does anyone have a dog they've trained to sniff for truffles? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:24 AM Flag
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lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:28 AM Flag
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No im serious [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:28 AM Flag
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Yeah but I only make him do it when I get really lonely [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:30 AM Flag
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Are you posting from Portland? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 04:16 AM Flag
[ - ] S/O: Why do people equate Russians as being gold diggers? Are the women always looking for money? 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:20 AM Flag
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The ones who court American men are [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:21 AM Flag
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interesting. there is a russian secretary at my husband's firm who was pretty aggressively going after him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:23 AM Flag
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Usually they find a nice guy with ok means and stay married long enough to stay here. Then leave him a d try for big bucks [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:26 AM Flag
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well my dh earns around 3million a year. is that big bucks to them? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:27 AM Flag
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what do you think? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:31 AM Flag
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yes, i obviously think this little russian secretary was going after the money. very manipulative girl. it's not happening for her though... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:32 AM Flag
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In Russia, men are expected to be hyper-masculine and women to be hyper-feminine and sexual. With these roles, it's expected that women emphasize their sexuality and men find satisfaction in providing for them [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:21 AM Flag
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yeah, ok [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:32 AM Flag
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satisfaction in providing for them and beating them [ Reply | More ]
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Why do you know rich man ? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:31 AM Flag
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haha [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:31 AM Flag
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ily [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:41 AM Flag
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idk, but my customers that are Russian are sometimes weird. They always ask for the most expensive items, not caring if they taste good (food business). It's all about the prestige. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 04:52 AM Flag
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tacky [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Could someone explain why there is a lottery for Aladdin? Is it so popular the tickets not available to the general public? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:20 AM Flag
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Up to the producers. Smart way of creating a buzz and filling empty seats. Also nice for people who want/need cheaper tickets [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:28 AM Flag
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op. Are the tickets offered at a discounted price? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:29 AM Flag
[ - ] Fighting the urge to walk out the door right now and never come back... just leave it all (DH and DD) behind. They will be better off without me. 41 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:14 AM Flag
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The dd absolutely will not be. Children never get over their mom leaving. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:16 AM Flag
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why leave your dd because he's being an ass? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:16 AM Flag
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why do you want to walk out? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:16 AM Flag
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DH tells me I'm ruining his life and hers, that I'm an awful person. Maybe then she'd be better off without me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:20 AM Flag
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What is it he thinks is so awful [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:22 AM Flag
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I'm ugly, fat, haggard looking. I am SAHM who only works part time, so just spend his money, I'm a killjoy, don't read enough world news, pay too much attention to DD, don't spend enough time on myself, complain too much... there's plenty more. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:25 AM Flag
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sounds like he has the issues. maybe he's having an affair. a little gas lighting going on? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:26 AM Flag
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this [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:27 AM Flag
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He had an affair in the past. Nothing now, 1,000% certain. Maybe missing it, though... me looking/getting old makes him feel old, and he hates that I actually don't have a problem with aging (as a lucky part of living). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:29 AM Flag
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the issues are all him. he doesn't feel good about himself. takes it out on you. hates being tied down. he sounds like a prick, actually. it's up to you if you want to continue living with someone like him or divorce him and take your child with you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:31 AM Flag
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I'd love for him to be hit by a bus. But leaving him just means fighting him. He will be meaner, crueler to me and DD if we divorce. So better if I just walk in front of the bus. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:36 AM Flag
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that's a pretty defeatist attitude. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:38 AM Flag
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I do feel defeated. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:40 AM Flag
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well, it's on you to not feel like that then. sucks. pull yourself together and think about all the good you are and have to offer. your husband should be lucky he's married to you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:41 AM Flag
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Love this advice. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:43 AM Flag
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Whoa. What an abuser. Take your child and leave. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 11:13 AM Flag
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he sounds wonderful and supportive. wtf? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:24 AM Flag
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do not do this to your dd [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:19 AM Flag
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Eh, she might be better off if I just disappeared. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:27 AM Flag
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doubt it. don't do it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:33 AM Flag
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Nope, he is treating you this way because something is wrong with him. He needs to be mean to you because he is not right in the head. I guarantee he will be this way to her by the time she hits puberty, if not before. You need to be there to protect her because he is a monster. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:39 AM Flag
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Honestly this is how I feel. Can't leave him because I have to protect her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:42 AM Flag
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Good. You need to go to personal therapy. You are a strong woman and a great mom and you can do this. Get a therapist who can help you see that he is the problem and you are strong. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:53 AM Flag
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I feel this way sometimes and sending you big hugs. I read something on Instagram that helped me at my lowest point when I wanted to walk out from two bratty dcs and no dh to speak of....will see if I can find it and post it below. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:26 AM Flag
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Make some appointments with attorneys instead and start interviewing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:36 AM Flag
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Have a fulltime job starting in the fall plus keeping a parttime position. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:39 AM Flag
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Good, get an attorney. You need to keep custody because he is going to try to get custody but he will be emotionally abusive to your dd too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:42 AM Flag
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You poor kid, don't leave your child. But see a lawyer. You might have options. He's to blame!!!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:41 AM Flag
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Stop the head trip. You know it's not better for DC to be without you, and you know that your DH is full of it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:42 AM Flag
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OP: Actually I really think they'd be better off without me... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:53 AM Flag
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NP: You need to read the post we are working on just below. http://www.urbanbaby.com/topics/55585676 And listen to the OR, it's not better for DC to be without you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:55 AM Flag
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OP: I do plan to leave him once she's off to college, so 2030 will be a good year! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 04:06 AM Flag
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My mom walked and never came back. Blamed myself for years and when I had a DD of my own, couldn't understand how she could leave her child. Had a great life, but had huge problems trusting anyone and their intentions. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 03:59 AM Flag
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OP: But was she dead or alive? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 04:03 AM Flag
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She was alive when she left. Don't be an asshole and do this to your kid. It's been 50 years since she left. I imagine the loser is dead by now. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 04:05 AM Flag
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np: Are suicidal moms assholes? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 04:09 AM Flag
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This poster didn't say her mom was suicidal, just said she left. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 04:11 AM Flag
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Pal: I've dealt with depression all my life. Suicidal moms need help. Don't ruin someone else's life and leave them to a life of wondering because you didn't seek help. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 04:12 AM Flag
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Fantasizing about escape is tempting but it isn't real. You can choose to stand up to your husband and say that you matter and will not tolerate this treatment anymore. You can also choose to leave him. Walking out on your kid is not an option. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 04:52 AM Flag
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This [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.26.16, 06:47 AM Flag
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