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[ - ] I really love my MIL. We are close and I help her as much as I can, driving her to appointments,cleaning her yard, shoveling her snow, etc . We live in a small house that she owns, paying rent that is bellow market value. It works out for everyone involved, she seems dc often and we are around to help her. However, lately MIL has been bad mouthing my dh (her son!). Butting in in our finances, calling dh irresponsible. Dh is beyond pissed off and ready to move. He also resents me for throwing him under the bus. How can I fix this? I feel like I've opened the door for her behavior because I do confide in her sometimes like I would a friend. 17 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:07 AM Flag
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you shovel her snow? is your dh disabled? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:11 AM Flag
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Op: He works so is often not around. I sah so do it during the day until he comes home. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:12 AM Flag
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A woman is incapable of shovelling snow? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 06:15 AM Flag
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try babycenter [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:11 AM Flag
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Op: Why? I live in NYC. This is URBAN baby. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:13 AM Flag
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I guess the small house, yard work, snow shoveling sounds flyover. Queens? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:18 AM Flag
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Op: Yes, Whitestone. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:20 AM Flag
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like I said, go to babycenter [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:27 AM Flag
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STFU about DH and move [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:15 AM Flag
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You’ve got to talk him up to her. Tell her, mil, I’m so sorry I’ve given you the impression that dh is irresponsible. The truth is that you raised a fine man, who is a great husband, father, and provider. I’m really sorry for seeming imbalanced in my assessment of him, because the truth is, he’s wonderful, and I wouldn’t have anyone else in his place. And then stop badmouthing him. To anyone. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:18 AM Flag
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They live with her, the mother sees firsthand what kind of husband/father/provider he is! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:19 AM Flag
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Op: We don't live with her. We are on the same block, a few houses down. Close enough though. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:23 AM Flag
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any man who has his wife shoveling snow doesnt need to be bad mouthed [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:27 AM Flag
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You are sexist. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 06:15 AM Flag
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Yes, he’s her son, so she has opinions about how he acts. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:29 AM Flag
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Stop badmouthing your DH. try to smooth things over. You have a great set-up here, don't ruin it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 01:14 PM Flag
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If this is a change in personality for her, encourage her to get a complete physical with review of any meds she's on. That's abnormal. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 05:42 PM Flag
[ - ] Does Retin-A really work? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:04 AM Flag
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yes but you have to get through a month of extremely dry peeling skin first. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:21 AM Flag
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What does it do after the peeling part. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 04:01 AM Flag
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yes, but it's a very slow process. it faded a lot of my freckles, and gave me a more uniform complexion. Basically, I need a lot less foundation these days. Have been using it about 4 years now. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 01:39 PM Flag
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Yes. It is all you need. I also found that you kind of need to be heavy handed with it to see results. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 01:47 PM Flag
[ - ] I adore my best friend but I feel like I don't have the capacity to be a good friend right now. My DH is in a dark place and I am actually afraid of him sometimes, I have small kids, and work full-time and I'm barely keeping my head above water. My friend sent me several texts today wanting to plan her birthday party. What should I do? 15 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:03 AM Flag
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Why can’t you tell her any or this? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:04 AM Flag
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I have tried telling her and she sympathizes but ultimately I think she believes my life is perfect since I have a DH, kids, and am wealthy...but it's the opposite. I don't think she gets it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:05 AM Flag
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I love planning parties. I can do it for you and you can pretend to her that you are doing it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:15 AM Flag
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Tell her more directly. Not in a text or online, not qualified with "buts", not with drama. Meet her in person today and tell your *best friend* what is going on in your life and why you can't help with a party right now. You are not communicating with her, so she does not understand. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 06:18 AM Flag
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op: friend is single and no kids so I know that we're in different stages also, but I want to keep her in my life. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:04 AM Flag
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Just sit down and tell her that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:10 AM Flag
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... and if you’re super wealthy and interested in this, you could offer to pay whatever you expect to pay given your relationship if someone could step up with the time and attention. You needn’t pay anything of course, but if you are finding you are long on cash and short on emotional equity, that might work. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:12 AM Flag
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do you mean pay someone else to plan her bday party? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:14 AM Flag
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More like “can you go the planning and i would happily chip in $x for dinner (or whatever). If I were wealthy and my friend weren’t, and I was emotionally spent, that’s what I’d do for my best friend. Also, fwiw, you needing to plan your friends’s party seems over the top unless it’s a special one and that’s what you routinely do for each other. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:18 AM Flag
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Why are you afraid of him? Will he hurt you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:11 AM Flag
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I’m sorry you’re going through this [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:11 AM Flag
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thanks. At times I feel he is capable- like tonight. Explosive rage. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:14 AM Flag
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Oh my goodness. What will you do? Will you divorce? FWIW my husband has anger issues too. Thinking about getting out [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:15 AM Flag
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Yes very likely. Good luck to you also. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:41 AM Flag
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You can plan something small. If you have time to write on UB, you have time to plan a small party. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 11:01 AM Flag
[ - ] What do we know about this person who sued Harvard? I get the great test scores and grades, but was his essay compelling, interesting and any good? Teacher recs stellar? Interview impressive? Don't all these things go into the equaion? Maybe good on paper but not so much in person? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:59 AM Flag
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That’s what the law suit should figure out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:00 AM Flag
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It’s a class action [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:06 AM Flag
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This. When you look at the averages, it is obvious. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:29 AM Flag
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Not really. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 11:02 AM Flag
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gotta assume his lawyers vetted all that pretty closely [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:20 AM Flag
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This is going to be a joke for these people. Sorry life isn't fair in the sense you get that one spot. My dc (white) also had similar grades etc. He didn't get picked. oh boo hoo. But guess what? Resilience means you adapt to this and go to another place and make your mark there. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 11:03 AM Flag
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This. Nobody is entitled to a spot at Harvard, even students with top grades/scores. [ Reply | More ]
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They used to have Jewish quotas What it boo hoo, too bad for the Jews back then or an injustice? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 01:51 PM Flag
[ - ] I recommended the book the wife between us on another post, about a dysfunctional marriage and a-hole husband. Someone recommended another book. I can't find the post. Any chance that poster is on?? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:52 AM Flag
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thank you! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:56 AM Flag
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Last Mrs Parrish. Also watch sleeping with the enemy and big little lies.Any other books/movies you guys can recommend? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:12 AM Flag
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In a Dark Dark Wood by Ruth Ware [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:14 AM Flag
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It wasn't me but I have recommended that people like OP married to abusive asshole should read Sam Vaknin. He is an expert on narcissists. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 01:27 PM Flag
[ - ] As a mom...would you want to know if your nanny cursed in front of the kids, is always on her phone and not paying attention, and says out loud that she doesn't like her job? 17 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:49 AM Flag
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yes. obviously. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:53 AM Flag
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how to delicately say this? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:54 AM Flag
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You observe this in a nanny and you want to tell the mom? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:57 AM Flag
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yes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:58 AM Flag
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"So, this is awkward but I wanted to share some observations I had about your nanny. I have given this a lot of thought, debating whether to tell you. Ultimately, I'd want to know. I have seen her ABC. I observed her XYZ." Keep it purely observational and objective so you are leaving it to her to do the judging... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:58 AM Flag
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thank you! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:59 AM Flag
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I'm a sahm. I curse sometimes. I am on my phone a lot. I also cover my db in kisses, sing to her,cuddle her, read books to her and she absolutely adores me. I dont think these are red flags and also don't believe that nanny told you out loud she doesn't like her job. You seem like a busy body. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:58 AM Flag
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it's different...she doesn't do any of the loving things. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:00 AM Flag
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You’re her mother. You’re allowed to do whatever you want. A paid employee is not. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:20 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:32 AM Flag
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Oh, no! I learned from UB that nannies are just like family members and just as good for a child as its own mom! Maybe even better because nannies CHOOSE to make childcare their jobs! Now you're telling me she's just a paid employee, like the exterminator or the cable guy... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 09:12 AM Flag
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Yikes. Of course. What kind of cursing?! I feel so bad for the kid. Just one? Hopefully too young to understand? is she possibly abusive?? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:29 AM Flag
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Lots of f word. I don’t think abusive. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:37 AM Flag
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Absolutely--I wish someone had told us about our nanny. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 04:03 AM Flag
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I think you should examine what your motives are and access if you are coming from the same cultural background. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 04:10 AM Flag
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Of course b/c she'd be fired. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 11:03 AM Flag
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I heard a nanny saying terrible things repeatedly into her phone. I did not tell the mom because I did not know her well. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 01:53 PM Flag
[ - ] Can I sign up for every other weekend off without divorcing 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:49 AM Flag
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Sure. Would you be ok with dh introducing a step mom on your days off? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:59 AM Flag
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Yes. I believe kids always love their moms. Also they can be torture, I can’t imagine a stepmom would be dying to hang out with them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:03 AM Flag
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Oh, believe me, they love to spoil step kids in the beginning. It helps them gain points with their dad. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:08 AM Flag
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Then come the tantrums. Enjoy [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:10 AM Flag
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You would miss them more than you can imagine. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:59 AM Flag
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I wouldn’t. I see them plenty. Work part time and have time during the week. I enjoy kid free time [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:03 AM Flag
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Maybe not [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:06 AM Flag
[ - ] I live in California and have only heard the university of California at Berkeley called “UCB” on UB. It is either “Cal” or “Berkeley.” 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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I have only heard of Berkeley or UC Berkeley. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:44 AM Flag
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OP: right. UC Berkeley too. But never UCB. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:51 AM Flag
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Same. I only hear Cal or Berkeley. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:58 AM Flag
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Fascinating [ Reply | More ]
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BHF [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:07 AM Flag
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But in the land of University of CA acronyms it's UCB. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:57 AM Flag
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Darwin obviously didn't factor in enough variables. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 04:29 AM Flag
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The name is Cal or Berkeley. No one refers to it as UC Berkeley. Not any Californian anyway [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 04:31 AM Flag
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On the East coast I've only heard people say UC Santa Barbara, UC San Diego. Also UC Berkeley because we have a Berklee on the east coast and they are not the same thing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 12:25 PM Flag
[ - ] Prenup: would you prefer % or a set amount? eg 50% (or graduated, 5%, 10%, 15%, whatever) -or- $300k/year 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:34 AM Flag
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What makes someone agree to sign a prenup [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:44 AM Flag
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It protects both parties, not just the more monied one. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:58 AM Flag
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How would it help non monied party, ie, why do the papers always say divorce will be expensive because no prenup [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:04 AM Flag
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I would prefer set amount...but % is more fair. Though if you go that route you have to agree you'll each pay for a forensic accountant to confirm his total income. I receive alimony based on % and we do that, bc history of deception and lying. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:55 AM Flag
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How do you determine what set amount to be fair? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:36 AM Flag
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I think that's a question and process for your lawyers, based on assets each party is taking into the marriage. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 12:56 PM Flag
[ - ] Is it weird that I’m ridiculously excited to have gotten an invite for a birthday party for my preschool class from 2 years ago. Loved almost all the families there 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:25 AM Flag
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Not weird. It's always great to reconnect to the people you love. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:31 AM Flag
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No, I would feel the same way. I loved that place. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:49 AM Flag
[ - ] Does anyone own a Kitchen Aid mixer? Do you use it often? Is it worth the countertop space? 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:23 AM Flag
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Yes and yes! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:26 AM Flag
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what do you use it for? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:30 AM Flag
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Baking, pizza dough, whipping, even for fluffy scrambled eggs [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:39 AM Flag
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I used to. I didn't use it often so I regifted it. It took a ton of counterspace, was tall, heavy so difficult to move and store. I had it for years and I used it maybe once or twice a week, and at that time felt like it was worth it, but now I hardly bake so don't need it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:29 AM Flag
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Once or twice a week is often enough! Did you only use it for baking? Will it inspire me to bake more often? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:30 AM Flag
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Pretty much. The attachments weren't as good as dedicated devices eg pasta maker, meat grinder, ice cream maker. I hardly bake and people can't tell the difference between homemade and store bought so why bother? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:33 AM Flag
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some boys on a sports team clearly care :) I wanted to get one specifically because of the meat grinder option, you're saying it is not as good as you expected? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:38 AM Flag
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Fair point. But I really enjoy it so it’s worth a bother to me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:39 AM Flag
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Yes and yes, agree. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:58 AM Flag
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I keep it in cupboard below. Use it a few times a month. Love it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:01 AM Flag
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Had it 5 years, used once. It's now happily in a storage cabinet. I feel like if I didn't have it, I'd feel like I was missing out. However, I don't really like baked goods so I should have seen this one coming. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:37 AM Flag
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yes, yes, yes, but I love to bake [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 01:32 PM Flag
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Yes and yes. Received mine as a gift and thought I would never want or use one. Use it several times a week now. Whipped cream so easy! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 05:43 PM Flag
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I barely ever touch it. But DD bakes a lot, so it gets used enough to keep it in the back corner of the countertop. My coffee maker gets the prime real estate. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 05:53 PM Flag
[ - ] I live near Vancouver. I'll be in Los Angeles next week for work. I learned today a wedding shower is next weekend near Orlando. Flip a coin? If I attend that's a lot of travel, expense, but I could work remote from Florida for a bit, avoid Vancouver winter weather, see family and do whatever wedding showers entail. If I don't attend, I could work remote from California for a bit, avoid Vancouver winter weather, and send another gift. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:18 AM Flag
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Florida is basically a shithole, so I'd take the CA option. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:40 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
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LA vs. a shower in Florida? I'll take LA, please. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:59 AM Flag
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If it’s a super close friend or family member I’d go. There are five people in the world I’d do that for. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:02 AM Flag
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Immediate family member’s wedding [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 05:01 AM Flag
[ - ] Anyone from Boston on? I'm trying to plan an event for 50-60 people in Boston and am looking for a private space in a bar or restaurant - upscale but not super fancy. Any ideas? I'm in NYC and have no clue what exists in Boston anymore. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:14 AM Flag
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The Mandarin Oriental has rooms that size. Mistral, or that famous restaurant that begins with an E, was on newbury and Gloucester for ages but has been in the mandarin for about 7 or 8 years now. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:32 AM Flag
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Espalier. I think it moved. [ Reply | More ]
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Group is a bit large for private dinning. Intercontinental has a French restaurant with a semi private dinning space. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:44 AM Flag
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Dinning? JFC [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 09:26 AM Flag
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Venuebook [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 04:21 AM Flag
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Look at hotels. Restaurants, for the most part, won't have a space that big. Any preferences for type of food? Location? Is Cambridge an option? Parking or close to public transportation? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 12:32 PM Flag
[ - ] Best show on Netflix right now? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:09 AM Flag
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I am watching Frontier. It's ok. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:11 AM Flag
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To me the Crown. Waiting for Season 3. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:11 AM Flag
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I'm enjoying Kims Convenience. (not saying it's the best, but a cute sitcom). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:11 AM Flag
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Yes I agree! Also liked the letdown (mentioned below) but not with dh [ Reply | More ]
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Ty, i'll take a look! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 11:04 AM Flag
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I just watched Sisters. Surprisingly fun series [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:34 AM Flag
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Ozark. [ Reply | More ]
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The 2nd season gets better as it goes on. I just finished episode 9. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:00 AM Flag
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The Letdown [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:06 AM Flag
[ - ] I am thinking of separating with dh but not sure if I should file in family court or directly to supreme...any suggestions? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:08 AM Flag
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I thought in NY, your initial filing had to be in SC. Was a while ago. Maybe only if you are getting a separation payment. [ Reply | More ]
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Have you consulted an attorney? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:00 AM Flag
[ - ] That UB post about Meghan Markle is like the most UB thing ever - how DARE she announce her pregnancy when someone else was still basking in THEIR DAY (wedding?). They miss the point that a wedding is to um, get married, as opposed to be feted and celebrated and to bask in the limelight like your inner Kardashian. Now tell me why I missed the point (LOL in advance). 20 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:06 AM Flag
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Obviously some people think it was selfish to take the spotlight from the bride by (in a way) upstaging with a pregnancy anncmt. But we don't know the details. Maybe family (including Eugenie) knew and it was planned in advance that she would share the news. Or maybe the queen wanted them to announce it to the family while everyone was together and before the public announcement. Either way, who cares. Eugenie's wedding is exciting and having a baby is exciting. [ Reply | More ]
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The last sentence is all that matters. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:03 AM Flag
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who cares? jesus stop reading about this family already. It has nothing to do with you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:12 AM Flag
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OP: Uh, I logged on to UB and read the most popular post. And TBH I don't come here for high level intellectual discussions. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:13 AM Flag
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^^and judging by the length of the thread, a lot of people care about the issue, if not the family [ Reply | More ]
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No, it was one confused/deranged person [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:16 AM Flag
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OK, enjoy your fantasy people. It's lame. [ Reply | More ]
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No, I don't either. But dwelling on a family you are no part of, will never be part of is silly. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:19 AM Flag
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OP: My point is that this did not even need to be about MM...UBers would have reacted the same way if someone said 'my cousin's wife announced her pregnancy on my wedding day!'. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:24 AM Flag
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Not a bridezilla here, in fact I didn’t even have a wedding, but I do find announcing a pregnancy, an engagement or any other big news during another family member’s event tacky. She waited 4 months, she could have waited another week. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:17 AM Flag
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She waited three days. Is that enough for you? [ Reply | More ]
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Fine by me, if she had indeed waited three days. She did it during the wedding reception. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:37 AM Flag
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No, they miss the point that the wedding was Friday and the pregnancy was announced today? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:23 AM Flag
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It was announced to the public today. The reports say they announced to family at the wedding. [ Reply | More ]
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They're all together. Good time. [ Reply | More ]
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Was anyone “reporting” that prior to the public announcement? [ Reply | More ]
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We fought a WAR so we didn't have to pay attention to the British royals. Does history mean NOTHING to you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:35 AM Flag
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You had better tell the US media that. People magazine for one seems a bit obsessed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:37 AM Flag
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I haven't looked at People magazine in 2 decades. You don't have to pay attention to any of this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:44 AM Flag
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ILY [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:36 AM Flag
[ - ] What makes people care about wht happens to their legacy after they die? I don’t care about having a public legacy in the slightest 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 01:56 AM Flag
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Ego [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 01:57 AM Flag
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To feel it was all for something. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:04 AM Flag
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ok eliza [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:21 AM Flag
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How I am remembered is important to me. Meaning making. Otherwise we are just spinning on a rock. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 12:58 PM Flag
[ - ] My in laws have 4 grandkids and play favorites with my sil kids. My DD is 5 and is starting to notice and be sad. Mil does not even hide it since she handed the cousins small gifts in front of my dc. We live 8 hours away while sil lives 1 hour, so mil knew we would be visiting. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 01:54 AM Flag
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Fade [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 01:56 AM Flag
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Tell DH to tell her either she stops it, or no visiting. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 01:58 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 02:11 AM Flag
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My sister blatantly favors my older DD over my younger DD. Sister is gross. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.16.18, 03:12 AM Flag
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