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[ - ] When I begin collecting social security, will any income I earn outside of social security be deducted from my social security benefits? I'm thinking of starting a second career at social security age, but I don't want my earned income to cancel out my social security benefits. 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:55 AM Flag
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bro IDK [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:56 AM Flag
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No but it could make your SS taxable and it might not be otherwise. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:57 AM Flag
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I think you can only work certain hours if you're also collecting SS. It may apply to certain age brackets. Check SS website. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:57 AM Flag
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When will you begin? Trump will fuck up SS so it may not even be viable by next year. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:01 AM Flag
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I'll be working well into my 70s. 54 now so SS probably won't exist anyway when I'm ready. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:37 AM Flag
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Wrong [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:20 AM Flag
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Right [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:24 AM Flag
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Wrong to check the source? Okay. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:36 AM Flag
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You can defer taking social security if you dont need the cash flow and get an effective return on it (you get more if you start after age 62 up to age 70). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:02 AM Flag
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After 66, you can earn without reducing SS [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:35 AM Flag
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Whatever full retirement age is for her--it may be higher than 66. The year she reaches full retirement age she can earn 35k or so without reducing benefits. Before that it's only about 12K or so. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 04:00 AM Flag
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It's actually over $15k now. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 06:20 AM Flag
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There is a ceiling. They will tell you what it is when you go on SS. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 03:48 AM Flag
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The ceiling goes away once you are at full retirement age. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 03:14 PM Flag
[ - ] The antibiotics I took last week caused me to get a yeast infection. Is it possible it'll go away on its own or do I have to do something? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:54 AM Flag
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Vagisil and probiotics. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:56 AM Flag
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Why would you just leave that? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:58 AM Flag
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This. You enjoy those infections? Pig. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:02 AM Flag
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Harsh. Np [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 03:12 AM Flag
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Get antibiotics. Why would you put up with that/let it get worse? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:08 AM Flag
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One prescription pill fixes it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:18 AM Flag
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Get Diflucan [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:21 AM Flag
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take probiotics, eat yogurt. it might go away on its own if you do that! mine go away if i eat oregano oil for a few days in a row. a lot of juice places have it in shots called "candida killer" or similar. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 03:00 AM Flag
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Probiotics will help. Next time take them with the antibiotics. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 03:06 AM Flag
[ - ] I'm boreedddd 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:54 AM Flag
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Me too [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:54 AM Flag
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Wanna fuck? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:54 AM Flag
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People who are bored are generally boring. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:03 AM Flag
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I always tell dcs this. I know they think I'm annoying, but I do believe it! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:21 AM Flag
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They're right. You are annoying. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 03:07 AM Flag
[ - ] What did the Italian/Spanish poster name her adorable puppy? Did she update us? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:54 AM Flag
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obviously not because if she updated you then YOU WOULD KNOW [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:55 AM Flag
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I hope Cosima. I saw the pic and that beautiful puppy looks like a Cosima. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:57 AM Flag
[ - ] OK, I love my SIL! Our dh are twins and are the exact same. Because we know that we will be expected to 'nibble' tomorrow in front of our husbands and be on-show, SIL has booked spin classes and a massage for both of us. At least that is what we told our DHs. In reality, SIL has reservations at Sarabeth's for a nice slow and long boozy brunch. We will be stuffed, and then return to our DH to nibble. I am so glad that she is my SIL. Bet you never thought you would hear that here. 26 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:46 AM Flag
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This is so lame. Y’all are perfect for each other [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:47 AM Flag
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"nibble"? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:47 AM Flag
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I didn't, but for different reasons than you think [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:48 AM Flag
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Wait. What? You aren't allowed to eat in front of your husbands? You need to be on 'on show'? What the heck does that mean. This is a major fake post. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:48 AM Flag
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NP that would have been one hell of a short first date if I had been dating her dh. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:11 AM Flag
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I love my SIL too, but I don't have an issue eating in front of my DH. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:49 AM Flag
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THIS. I love my SIL and we will be eating everything and drinking a lot and neither DH cares. And no we're not fat. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:55 AM Flag
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I am fat and I love two out of four sils. Adore mil [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:56 AM Flag
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THIS. Really hope this is a fake post. There is not a DH rich enough to want me to live like this OP. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:57 AM Flag
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Melania lives like this [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:04 AM Flag
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I hope not. No one should live this way. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 03:09 AM Flag
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if you don't have a problem w her why are you telling us? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:51 AM Flag
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Control issues? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:54 AM Flag
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Maybe you can get caskets together from your ED. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:55 AM Flag
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They can share one. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:58 AM Flag
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An infant one [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:03 AM Flag
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I'm so confused by this post. So very confused. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:58 AM Flag
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And I have great SILs and love them so very much. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:59 AM Flag
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On show? Are you and your SIL poodles? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:01 AM Flag
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Not sure if they are poodles but they sure are trained. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:16 AM Flag
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what in the F are you talking about? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:18 AM Flag
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best response [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 03:09 AM Flag
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Jesus, yuck. I guess the Real Housewives aren't faked up after all. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 03:08 AM Flag
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What is this, the 1950s, you have to nibble in front of men? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 03:30 AM Flag
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Gross [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 03:49 AM Flag
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Either your husbands are really bad cooks or they are freaks. Good luck. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 04:19 AM Flag
[ - ] Man, I have two favorite hobbies but both are impractical and expensive. I wish I could do them much more often, because they make me truly happy. One is skiing, but I live so far away from any cool weather, that skiing can only be 1-2 times per year at most. The other one is horseback riding and it’s just expensive (I do it once a week). How do you find out what you love to do? What are your hobbies that really lift your mood? 30 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:45 AM Flag
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Discount store shopping [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:47 AM Flag
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That makes you happy? That’s nice, at least you’re saving money. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:50 AM Flag
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np: Love 'thrifting', and teen DD does as well. We think it is a legitimate hobby :). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:58 AM Flag
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Giant poo going [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:17 AM Flag
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+1 best part of my day [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 03:11 AM Flag
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Can you move out west? You can ski and horseback ride more often. My hobbies are traveling, scuba diving, biking, hiking, kayaking, reading, cooking, exercising. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:50 AM Flag
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OP. This would be my dream. I like hiking too, but I am in the tropical flatlands of South Florida. The west coast would be so great, beaches and mountains, what more could you ask for in life! Here, Even riding is iffy because of the weather. It often gets canceled.Due to building codes there are almost no riding arenas with covers (I know only one covered roundpen). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:53 AM Flag
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reading? lol duh [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:51 AM Flag
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Why is your response to reading as a hobby, LOL duh? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:56 AM Flag
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because people should read [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:57 AM Flag
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LOL duh [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:00 AM Flag
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Asshole [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:05 AM Flag
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Read UB Posts like you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:48 AM Flag
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Ah, I see literature has made you erudite. Algonquin Round Table, here we come. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 03:11 AM Flag
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Your Shakespeare is showing ;) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 03:49 AM Flag
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Playing my guitar. I used to be a professional musician but I couldn't tour once my kids were born. I occasionally play live about once or twice a year and it totally reboots my life. So I know how you feel. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:00 AM Flag
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are you famous [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:01 AM Flag
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Maybe recognizable in some circles but no, not famous. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:09 AM Flag
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Photography - can get expensive, but it doesn’t have to be. Hiking, reading and cooking also lift my mood, and have negligible costs involved. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:03 AM Flag
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Baking, reading, crafting. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:08 AM Flag
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These are my two favourite hobbies too! I ride once a week, and try to ski once a year (I live in a hot weather place). What's worse is we're moving to Saudi Arabia next year so skiing will be even more challenging, maybe we'll try to make it to Europe once a year. You can't help what you love to do, as long as you can ride once a week and ski a few time a year, I think that's ok. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:20 AM Flag
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Ha, you are me!!! Aren’t there artificial slopes in Abu Dhabi and Dubai? I saw a YouTube documentary about a guy who skis indoors almost every day, has never been to a mountain and he was really good! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:50 AM Flag
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Cooking and baking, running, and tap-dancing (a recent hobby). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:22 AM Flag
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I hear you in skiing. Can't wait until I can move out West [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:23 AM Flag
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Do you have concrete plans yet? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:53 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 03:20 AM Flag
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Mine is surfing. I live in the Chicago suburbs. Sucks to be me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 03:19 AM Flag
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That's my DH's hobby, and we live in NYC. We are from San Diego. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 04:20 AM Flag
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You're looking at it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 03:20 AM Flag
[ - ] Friendsgiving is Yet Another Lame Millennial Trend 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:43 AM Flag
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I had some pretty awesome friendsgivings in college. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:44 AM Flag
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+1mm but still called it Thanksgiving, like normal people. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:51 AM Flag
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PP: We called it a friend thanksgiving. Never actually used the word friendsgiving. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:52 AM Flag
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It sounds like you need to have friends for that. I am in my 50s and have one friend. That's all. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:48 AM Flag
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Why only one fiend? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:52 AM Flag
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This was super common when I was in the army, but like poster above, we just called it Thanksgiving. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:03 AM Flag
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We were invited to a Friendsgiving (so lame-sounding) last weekend. Hostess is newly married with 2 little kids from previous marriage. Her kids were away at their dad’s last weekend, so she specified on the invitation “adults only.” So ridiculous that she expected all of us to get a babysitter for 5 hours on a Sunday night. Everybody sent regrets. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:12 AM Flag
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Wow you guys sound like assholes. Someone throws a party and if your kids aren’t invited you stay home. Shiver me timbers at the sight of you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:26 AM Flag
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LOL. Not paying $100 bucks for a sitter and driving an hour away for dinner on a Sunday night. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:31 AM Flag
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?? Sunday nights were dh and I date night. I'd have gone. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:44 AM Flag
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What a bunch of dicks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 03:14 AM Flag
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Hopefully this will be a wake up call for that couple to find real friends and get rid of you miserable striver sorts. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 04:31 AM Flag
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Having thanksgiving with friends predates Millennials. See episode of "Friends" where Joey wears Phoebe's maternity pants and calls them his "eatin' pants." [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 03:15 AM Flag
[ - ] A few days ago someone posted that one of the Obama girls will go to Brearley for her senior year. Is this true? Could not verify via google. Sorry have no clue how old the girls are. 20 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:35 AM Flag
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Quit worrying about the Obama kids and worry about your own. Of course they want to get the eff out of DC. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:36 AM Flag
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I’m not worried about the Obama kids. Did I not mention that I have no idea how old they are? I figured some UB flamer like yourself would tell me they are both in college, married with children, etc. and I had just missed the past 10 years of life. Just wondering whether what I read was true. Thanks for your help. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:38 AM Flag
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You don’t know squat about them but all of a sudden you gotta know what school she is at? Liar. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:44 AM Flag
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Shoul I reframe the question? I read something on UB and want to know if it is true because I cannnot independently verify it. FWIW, yes, I am in the process of applying my DD to K and looking seriously at Brearley. Although I am not a fan of the Obamas, it would not influence my decision to attend the school one way or another. It came up in a conversation and I simply want to know whether it is true. Why is this tricky? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:50 AM Flag
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I think Brearley has to seriously look at you before you can seriously look at it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:53 AM Flag
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This whore [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:06 AM Flag
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Sasha is a senior next year (18-19) so it is plausible but her parents bought in Kalorama DC for the express reason to allow Sasha to finish at Sidwell so it would be a big change and why switch just for senior yr? Odds are they move in the summer of 2019 to Gracie Sq. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:53 AM Flag
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THIS. We don't know why they were at Brearley anymore than you do. Until they release a statement, we won't know. [ Reply | More ]
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They werent at Brearley- they were looking at the apt across the way. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:04 AM Flag
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Sasha is not a junior at Sidwell this year. Do better research. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:06 AM Flag
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i stand by my assertion she graduates in 2019, you piece of shit troll [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:33 AM Flag
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Yes, she is. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:45 AM Flag
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Yeah they bought in Kalorama when he thought Hillary was going to win, or at the very least, Jeb Bush. Can you imagine living in DC and seeing all your policies being torn apart while the current President constantly talks about how great he is compared to you? Honestly, that must really suck for Sasha. She probably wants to move to NY. I know I would. [ Reply | More ]
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I don't know. Her social environment is Sidwell, which is extremely liberal/ democratic. I'm not sure she would be better off in NY! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:33 AM Flag
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What is your point? Obama tore apart tons of his predecessor's policies too..... Suddenly cheaters were given a hastily-put-together made up status, AT&T could recover its costsbof providing the country with Internet access, and we became pansiea on the global stage more interested in keeping Swedes happy than Americans. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:35 AM Flag
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I thought they were just renting. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:11 AM Flag
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Np: they purchased the DC home [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:55 AM Flag
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WTF are kids stupid now? 19 years old and still in HS? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 04:39 AM Flag
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No, it's Baron who will be having a sex change operation to make himself look like his "mom" Mel. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:57 AM Flag
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THe younger one is heading for college so no. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:08 AM Flag
[ - ] I am so thankful to be an American! 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:29 AM Flag
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Hi Melania. [ Reply | More ]
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Because everyone who isn’t Melania doesn’t love America. Liberal freaks all of you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:40 AM Flag
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I can you “love” your country. Weird. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:44 AM Flag
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gee, you sound like an intellectual [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:43 AM Flag
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I am too. Much better than many other options. Would rather b a Swede though. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:50 AM Flag
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please expand on that interesting statement [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:53 AM Flag
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Well the us has freedoms, relative economic security and rule of law. And much of the developing world does not. But countries like Sweden have better social programs and I’m ok with paying twenty percent more in taxes for that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:00 AM Flag
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What tribe are you with? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:57 AM Flag
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eh [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 03:16 AM Flag
[ - ] I'll be honest; I don't really understand all the vituperation toward the name "Dorcas." Yes, it's a bit goofy by modern standards, but it's quite lovely in its own way, and it has a rich connection to literature and a deep anchorage into the early currents of western culture. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:27 AM Flag
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CSB [ Reply | More ]
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You try being the kid who have to live with it. Why not go with Eugene or Higginbotham [ Reply | More ]
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Let me explain it to you. Dork-us. Case closed if you love your child. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 03:16 AM Flag
[ - ] The day before Thanksgiving, I’ve got a stomach bug layered on top of morning sickness (really evening sickness). I’m having a pity party here :( It’s my favorite holiday of the year. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:26 AM Flag
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I'm sorry - stomach virus is my worst nightmare! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:38 AM Flag
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eat turkey-flavored medicine [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:44 AM Flag
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Sorry. Can anyone help you? How many do you have to cook for? I'm sure there is a parent or aunt or niece or uncle who can help out. [ Reply | More ]
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What makes you think it's a stomach bug? Morning sickness, at it's worst, can feel like that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:55 AM Flag
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Ugh; so sorry you are dealing with that. I hope you can take it relatively easy tomorrow. [ Reply | More ]
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Sorry xo [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 03:16 AM Flag
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Ugh. Sorry. I have a UTI that I’ve had for weeks and won’t go away so I feel for you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 03:24 AM Flag
[ - ] Obese DH, low testosterone and we haven't had sex in 6 months. (4 month spans have happened numerous lay throughout the course of our 10 yr marriage)Dr told him to lose weight. He promised he would, never has been successful, even under guidance of dietician or My Fitness Pal. He has always been overweight but now he is 300lbs and I am in a sexless marriage with a husband who feeds me empty promises. I don't know how much longer I can take this. I see a doctor to talk about this. He swears he will change. 40 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:20 AM Flag
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Numerously [ Reply | More ]
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"numerous lay" was a great freudian slip [ Reply | More ]
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Op-lol [ Reply | More ]
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;) [ Reply | More ]
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You have my permission to leave [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:21 AM Flag
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We have two kids [ Reply | More ]
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Other than being obese and no sex, how is he as a DH and father [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:23 AM Flag
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Good man, faithful, excellent provider. I have my own full time career. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:24 AM Flag
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Have you discussed a lap band [ Reply | More ]
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He refuses. Next door neighbor had huge complications, almost died (so he says). H [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:28 AM Flag
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Well of course he's faithful. Who the hell wants to get a piece of that [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:43 AM Flag
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Op-When we married, I never imagined it was going to be this bad. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:45 AM Flag
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LOL. LOL. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 05:03 AM Flag
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OMG UB is the worst. Stay miserable with your fat, depressed partner! There’s no one else out there for you! Signed the sad women of UB. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:36 AM Flag
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Not a fan of the vows, then? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 05:03 AM Flag
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He needs a program...try Jump Start MD or other medically supervised program [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:26 AM Flag
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Op-Whenever we have sex I am sad because I know we could go without sex for months. I feel I am better off being sexless than being teased. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:27 AM Flag
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Get a vibrator [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:29 AM Flag
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Ha, the vibrator gets action for sure. Makes me sad how it has substituted the real thing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:31 AM Flag
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By teased, do you mean crushed? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 05:04 AM Flag
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ketogenic diet [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:29 AM Flag
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He would do similar but hid foods from home. He went through periods of eating an entire box of bakery cookies when someone brought them to work :( [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:30 AM Flag
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Op- he says he will go back to his old dietician but then complains that he truly knows what he has to do but he just needs to do it, [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:32 AM Flag
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Have an affair. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:33 AM Flag
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I would rather leave him completely [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:35 AM Flag
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You'd rather break up your family than have a discreet affair? This is beyond me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:49 AM Flag
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How affairs are solving the issue at home? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:55 AM Flag
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Do you have a solution to get her husband to be able to have sex? If not, is it better to divorce or to seek this one aspect of marriage outside? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:01 AM Flag
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I know it's hard for people with very shallow worldviews to understand that some people need intimacy. And it's VERY common for the spouse who withholds physical intimacy to withhold emotional intimacy. Living in an emotionally dead household is not healthy for a child. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 04:34 AM Flag
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That's a stretch. The kids don't know they aren't having sex. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 05:05 AM Flag
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He has a habit of following me. If I decide not to excercise, he decides that he needs a day or too off as well. If I have takeout that night, he will add on to my order even if he has eaten. I cook all the time but order in once in a while. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:34 AM Flag
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I used to cry for years. I don't cry anymore, I am hardened. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:36 AM Flag
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Stop whining on UB and do something about it. If you wanna leave him, then sack up and leave him. But don't pull this woe-is-me shtick when you have an excellent father, husband, and earner. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:45 AM Flag
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No sex is not an excellent husband [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:48 AM Flag
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You still want to have sex with him? Sorry for being crass but do you need to be on top now? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:58 AM Flag
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I don't hate him. I love him. He can be on top but he has weak upper body strength. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:00 AM Flag
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BTDT. You can't do it for him. And losing the weight may not be a magical cure. It wasn't for my DH... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 03:19 AM Flag
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Op-Did he have low t? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 03:27 AM Flag
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I don't think so. Turned out he was addicted to porn! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 03:50 AM Flag
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11 years and counting for me... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 05:12 AM Flag
[ - ] I enjoy “Curb Your Enthusiasm,” but isn’t it super racist? All the black characters are loud, belligerent, low-class people who curse like sailors. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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CYE is not racist but it’s also not woke or politically correct and maybe that’s why it’s appealing. Larry offends everyone, fellow Jews, minorities children. He’s a man of his era, awkward and dealing with the repercussions of his bad decisions/not pc behavior. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:23 AM Flag
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Leon is my favorite character. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:14 AM Flag
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A homeless unemployed illiterate guy who wears a wife beater? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:19 AM Flag
[ - ] This is the LAST holiday I am spending with DH. He has alcohol issues, seeing therapist at my request/encouragement but ha:”s yet to really address it. He’s come home drunk once this week and then tonight after having aperiod of decent behavior. I don’t want to be with him anymore. main reason for staying was to get him on the right path and place to deal with his alcohol/depression issues before I left as I didn’t want him to freak out and go on a crazy downward spiral... now I feel like I can’t invest too much longer. 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:18 AM Flag
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Sorry for all the autotext grammar issue ^ [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:20 AM Flag
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Happens to me all the time :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:21 AM Flag
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OP: How do you deal? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:24 AM Flag
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I am sorry I meant about the auto correct [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:43 AM Flag
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Children? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:21 AM Flag
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OP: 1 3.5 yo and no more even though I would love to have another DB. I am 37 so if I make the choice to leave I may not have another : ( but I’d rather move on than be stuck in this situation long term [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:26 AM Flag
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That is sad [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:30 AM Flag
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Dramatic much? Your husband got drunk once this week. Maybe if you worked and helped make ends meet he wouldn't be so stressed out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:35 AM Flag
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OP: NOPE I work F/T but thanks for assuming. He actually gets drunk all the time. Don’t assume all women on here fit into one stereotype. Alcoholism is a serious issue and detrimental to partners but more importantly the children who grown up with them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:42 AM Flag
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You really are full of yourself if you think without you, he will freak and go crazy. He can’t deal with you which is why he drinks. If you leave, he will quit drinking. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:47 AM Flag
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God I hate this responder. There is always someone here who will turn the issues on the poster rather than constructively discuss solutions. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 03:34 AM Flag
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Let me guess - you got married at 33 after knowing him for 14 months and had a kid with him a year later? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:48 AM Flag
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This. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:56 AM Flag
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He needs to substitute negative behavior. Has he gone a long period of time without alcohol to remember how good it feels to be sober. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:51 AM Flag
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Leave him. My sister had to make this decision. It was a rough year or two, but now 5 years on she and her DDs are so much better off. You CANNOT help someone in this situation who is not willing to work hard and commit to helping himself. Go get your life. It will be easier while your DC is little. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:25 AM Flag
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You can't help someone who won't help him/herself. Staying with him won't guarantee solution, he needs to want it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 03:35 AM Flag
[ - ] Should I make chocolate mousse pie or chocolate cream pie for tomorrow? Yes I am making pumpkin too but have some non-pumpkin eaters. 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 12:58 AM Flag
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Good grief, it's a holiday. Make what you want. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 12:59 AM Flag
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Fuck the non pumpkin people. Make them lime jello. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 12:59 AM Flag
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I used to love pumpkin pie. I loathe it now and never make or eat it. I'll do some pumpkin bread though, yum! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:00 AM Flag
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Too heavy for me at Thanksgiving. I prefer something heavy like that at Christmas. I'm serving apple pie with ice cream and some leftover cheesecake with raspberry coulis. The cheesecake is very light and fluffy, not heavy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:00 AM Flag
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Dude I love cheesecake but "light" it ain't [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:00 AM Flag
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This one actually is. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:21 AM Flag
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Mousse [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:00 AM Flag
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I vote for chocolate cream. I made pumpkin pie, apple pie, and a strawberry cheesecake. I am kind of thinking I should have made a chocolate cream pie too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:01 AM Flag
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Chocolate Chess Pie [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:02 AM Flag
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Both sound great. I don't think you can go wrong. I say just pick whichever one you feel like making. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:03 AM Flag
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I have never eaten dessert on Thanksgiving. Always so full [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:16 AM Flag
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this is your big dilemma, isn't it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:45 AM Flag
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whatever is easier [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:26 AM Flag
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We do pumpkin and apple. Thanksgiving without apple pie is inconceivable. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 03:24 AM Flag
[ - ] I make some pretty kickass stuffing. Cannot wait for it tomorrow with turkey and gravy! 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 12:56 AM Flag
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Now, is this your opinion or do others concur? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 12:57 AM Flag
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Both :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 12:58 AM Flag
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Yum! Thanksgiving slaw! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 12:59 AM Flag
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You can't post that without giving us the recipe! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:41 AM Flag
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Recipe: go to grocery store. Buy stouffers stove top stuffing. Prepare as directed. Chop an apple, throw in pot. Claim it is your own secret kickass recipe. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:49 AM Flag
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I've found STS to be too salty and mushy. But if you enjoy--bon appetite [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:00 AM Flag
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What kind of apple. How do you chop it? Big apple or small apple? Details, woman, details! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:01 AM Flag
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My mom used to use the Pepperidge Farm dry bagged stuffing and just add celery. I loved it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:26 AM Flag
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My grandmother did this [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 03:10 AM Flag
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It is really simple. I use the stove top, Italian spices & herbs, and add some pepperoni slices. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:50 AM Flag
[ - ] UGH! Roy Moore is back way ahead in the race. 18 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 12:47 AM Flag
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Where? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 12:47 AM Flag
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Moore, at 43 percent, leads Jones—who lags down at 37 percent—by six points in a survey conducted between November 18 and November 21 by Atlantic Media and Research [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 12:47 AM Flag
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What do you expect? That election is a straight up or down vote on Trump. If that election was happening in Park Slope, Trump would lose cause no one in Park slope likes him but in flyover people love him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 12:50 AM Flag
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+1 Trump came out in support of him today. You know, birds of a feather [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 12:54 AM Flag
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Other polls show the opposite. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 12:53 AM Flag
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in Hawaii [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:39 AM Flag
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Democrats are so pathetic- cannot win ANY close races [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:00 AM Flag
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Please. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:03 AM Flag
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Fairly certain that if God himself ran as a Democrat in Alabama, he would not win. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:18 AM Flag
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This [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:24 AM Flag
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This. And the tales of fake news make this look as if big bad coastal elites are going after their native son [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:16 AM Flag
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yep [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:30 AM Flag
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UGH loathsome [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:01 AM Flag
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If Moore wins we are seriously f*&ked as women. It means this country doesn't give a crap about us. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:53 AM Flag
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sorry figured that with Trump [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:31 AM Flag
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I very much doubt this is correct. He was down to dead even before the sex story was published. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:03 AM Flag
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your mouth to God's ear [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:31 AM Flag
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lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:39 AM Flag
[ - ] business savvy moms: trying to create a website to start my business, have no clue... where can I do this on line? Possibly free or inexpensive. I need to see if this sort of thing takes off first. Also, do I need to register the name I chose? How does that work? Thanks for any feedback. I did a google search for answers but very confusing. 15 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 12:40 AM Flag
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Yes you need to register the URL. Use Go Daddy or Square Space. They have good web building software that is easy to use. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 12:44 AM Flag
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op- thank you, will try it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 12:55 AM Flag
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op again - just came across wix, is this a good option? they say they register domain names and help with website building. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 12:57 AM Flag
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Yes, reputable public company, so are web.com and Endurance [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:04 AM Flag
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Yes Wix is good too. They can register and help build but try the software yourself first. You'll be surprised how easy it is. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:04 AM Flag
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Hello, are you confused to find a shipping service in Bali? I recommend you to use www.gogopaket.com The first price comparison pricing website in indonesia bali. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:42 AM Flag
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If you can't figure out how to launch a simple website you probably aren't cut out to start a business. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:43 AM Flag
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Bullshit [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:12 AM Flag
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I am a web developer and set up a website for dh's side business last year. Just spend a couple of hundred and get someone to do it for you. Chances are, it will take a lot of time for you to do it and it will still be crappy. You are a professional in your field and starting a business - use your time for that. I am using hostwinds for hosting, FWIW. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:05 AM Flag
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+1. I am tech savvy yet still find setting up websites very time consuming/I don't do the best job. I have a couple (just for small stuff that I do) and it is totally worth it to pay someone else to do it. Even with a simple platform. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:28 AM Flag
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Spend the money to have a site built from scratch. Site builders like Wix, Weebly, Squarespace, etc. have shitty SEO. Some aren't even indexed by Google, so no one will find you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:37 AM Flag
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This is totally unnecessary. I've had two Squarespace websites that were well ranked. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 03:25 AM Flag
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If they were well-ranked, it was due to other factors (inbound links or something). Google hates Flash sites. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 05:20 AM Flag
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Squarespace [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 03:25 AM Flag
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Why not use Facebook? [ Reply | More ]
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