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[ - ] Has anybody discovered their dh is visiting hardcore porn sites? I'm not sure whether it's normal, whether to confront. As far as I know this has all started in the past month or so. It's not gay porn, no surprises there, but I feel a little betrayed. And old. I can't compete with these young nubile women on the Web. Advice? 32 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 10:01 PM Flag
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he's probably visiting sex chat rooms as well and will strongly deny it when you confront. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 10:03 PM Flag
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ok, so ... what's your advice? try to be gentle if possible. i mean i'm a real person and I'm reeling and don't know what to do. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 10:05 PM Flag
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Why are you trying to compete with these other women? This is a war that you will lose. You should not have to compete with random porn actresses for your husband's attention. This is about your husband being a jerk and you not wanting to admit that the man you married is a misogynist jerk. If he wants something different from you sexually, he should man up and talk to you about it. Not sneak around and turn to hardcore pornography which exploits and degrades women. You should look at the porn he watches to get a glimpse of his character and see what he expects women to suffer thru just to please him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 10:14 PM Flag
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Is he still putting out as often as you want it, and getting the job done? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 10:05 PM Flag
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yes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 10:10 PM Flag
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Then what he does in his spare time should be up to him. If he can't keep up with you, he owes it to you to drop other activities and put more effort in. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 10:13 PM Flag
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ok, thanks. i'm leaning toward not confronting. the funny thing is he is a true gentleman on the surface. my friends have asked in jest if he even has a sex drive. it would be mortifying to confront him. for him and me. i'd rather let him keep his dignity intact. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 10:13 PM Flag
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Good plan. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 10:16 PM Flag
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You are completely mistaken about this man. The man you think he is and the person he really is are completely different. You're way too self-effacing for your own good. You will need a lot of luck to get through this situation given how little you can advocate for yourself and take any sort of meaningful stand for your own welfare. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 10:15 PM Flag
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ok ... i'm listening. can i have some concrete advice here though? I take it you think i should confront him? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 10:19 PM Flag
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What do you want to do here? On the one hand, you say you're reeling. On the other hand, you say you're upping your game, which sounds like you're trying to mimic the gross shit porn actresses do, Then you say you and him have been having a lot more sex recently. So what is going on here? You're reeling and doing debasing things and having sex with him more frequently? How do you manage all three? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 10:21 PM Flag
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op. i'm not mimicking the porn actresses. I am upset and thinking that dh needs more attention, so I am trying to be a more available wife. we used to watch lots of TV together. now I'm making an effort to watch TV less, have sex more. the sex is nice and not debasing. however, he continues to watch porn in his spare time (of which he has very little). so my efforts to improve the situation seem to have failed. this is very uncharacteristic of him. we have been married for more than 10 years and it has just started. please remember that I am a real person and try to be nice. i admire your feminist streak but your shrill tone is not helping me [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 10:23 PM Flag
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What feminist streak? You're the one who's fretting about her husband's porn watching habit. Women who aren't feminists wouldn't mind if DH watched porn. This is up to you. What do you want? You can write in nice, flowery language all you want about your husband needing to look at women debasing themselves just so he can orgasm. But what do you want to do about it? It seems like you can't take a stand on anything truly important to you. Either say something or shut up. You know your choices. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 10:28 PM Flag
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I think there are more options than "say something or shut up." you seem really irrationally angry about this considering it's not even your husband and you don't know me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 10:32 PM Flag
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Not really. You just seem extremely naive and ignorant and it's annoying. It's weird how worshipful you seem of your DH and how much you put him on a pedestal. Are you fat? Was he better looking than you when you got married? Is his family more rich? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 10:35 PM Flag
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I'm cute actually but I'm not going to answer any more questions because I get the impression you don't really want to help me and I'm not in the mood for a lecture. Way to kick somebody when she's down btw ... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 10:38 PM Flag
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If you're that cute, why do you want to compete with porn actresses for your perv husband's attention? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 10:44 PM Flag
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Ignore this one^^ she cray [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 10:50 PM Flag
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thanks ... I gathered [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 10:52 PM Flag
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But not enough to actually wise up that your husband is a pervert and that you don't really know him any more, right? You'll put on a show before others but in your home, he's the boss. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 10:53 PM Flag
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Nah. You're just as clueless and dumb as OP is. But hey, don't weep when your hubby also gets heavily into hardcore porn and makes you feel fat and old, sweetie. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 10:57 PM Flag
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Are you giving him sex? Most women are ok with porn unless dh is still ok love with an ex doesn't love you [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 10:07 PM Flag
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Say what now? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 10:08 PM Flag
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lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 10:11 PM Flag
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I'm tipsy but real [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 10:22 PM Flag
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so your husband is into porn and you don't mind? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 10:28 PM Flag
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Still in love [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 10:22 PM Flag
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And doesn't love you [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 10:22 PM Flag
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op here, yup we still have sex. however, not as often as we should. i have been upping my game since discovering the porn. i'm almost wondering if he's leaving it for me to find on purpose? since this started we have been having sex a lot more. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 10:10 PM Flag
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All men watch porn. Yes, hardcore porn. It's not a big deal. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 10:53 PM Flag
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Dh here. We're all pervs and its hard to resist. Yes, goody-goodys will argue its degrading. Whatver. It's just too stimulating to resist when some rare private time is available. Doesnt take that long to beat off. If he starts banging whores, then u have a problem. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 12:04 AM Flag
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The OP's giveaway is the term "hardcore" porn. I'd be far more concerned if my husband watched softcore. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 11:42 PM Flag
[ - ] So who is going shopping today? I hear the stores open at 5pm. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:42 PM Flag
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me! baby sitter is here and I am off [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:44 PM Flag
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There's tons online. I've already bought a bunch. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 11:55 PM Flag
[ - ] Oh for Fuck's sake, Someone at thanksgiving just asked if my SIL is my daughter. I am only 8 years older than she is. 17 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:34 PM Flag
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sil must have loved it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:35 PM Flag
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Eek.. Sorry. I hope you said "No, she is my SIL, and I would have been 8 years old when I gave birth, but thanks." [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:34 PM Flag
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Dh's aunt has been going on and in about India and mentioning every single India person she knows. She thinks I am his ex girlfriend and apparently us brown people all look alike. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:34 PM Flag
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Why doesn't your DH tell her to shut her racist ass up? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:38 PM Flag
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I've never met thus woman and doubt I will ever have to interact with her. Not Roth the drama in my opinion [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:37 PM Flag
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Worth [ Reply | More ]
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It is probably better that she thinks I am Indian than middle eastern. She is from the Jewish side of the family and I think being middle eastern maybe worse in her eyes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:38 PM Flag
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yeahh jewish women can be very racist. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:42 PM Flag
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what did you say? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:35 PM Flag
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I said my daughter is adopted from China, she's 12 and she is here somewhere. (It was big house and the guest came late, it's the special friend of a great aunt). He said "oh is that your daughter now?" and it was my 39 year old Korean SIL. I just said "no ... that's my sister-in-law ..." [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 12:25 AM Flag
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Basically it was sort of a race thing. There were only two asians in the whole gathering. My SIL does look amazing and she's super petite, like 5 feet tall, but come on. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 12:26 AM Flag
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So dh dated an indian woman, they broke up and then he married u? Is that right [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:46 PM Flag
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Time for you to start sleeping on your back and eating a more copper-rich diet. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:53 PM Flag
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what? why? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 10:00 PM Flag
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You're only 8 years older than your SIL, but you look old enough to be her mother. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 10:04 PM Flag
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+1 If you start now, by next TG you could look closer to SIL's age. At least young enough not to be mistaken for her mother. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 10:14 PM Flag
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Do you wear too much makeup? The wrong kind of makeup, layered on too thickly, can really age you, especially in the wrong light. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 10:17 PM Flag
[ - ] Why do young women freak out and get furious if you criticize men to them? Women in their 30s and 40s are a lot smarter about guys and don't defend them as much in such a furious and protective way. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:28 PM Flag
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Example? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:32 PM Flag
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try talking to any 22 year old girl about guys and see. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:38 PM Flag
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That's because she is your daughter. I am 25 and have always defended my bf's to my mother, but to my friends it is quite the opposite. You always want your mother to like the guys you're dating. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:39 PM Flag
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This [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:44 PM Flag
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+1 (also 25) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 10:31 PM Flag
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No one wants to feel like the mom is vetoing guys. Vetoing guys is the job of friends [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:45 PM Flag
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I've never noticed this to be the case. No matter how much I want to tell people to eff off about my choice in men, I listen to what they have to say and nod my head. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 11:00 PM Flag
[ - ] Sober Moms check in here 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:25 PM Flag
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Two ounces of wine. Almost drunk. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:31 PM Flag
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After 2 ounces ? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:32 PM Flag
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Hahahahahha. Wtf. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:34 PM Flag
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Yes I don't know what my problem is [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:42 PM Flag
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Stone cold. Ice water all day. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:52 PM Flag
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I've had half a glass. Nursing my infant today and debating how buzzed is too buzzed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 10:24 PM Flag
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Hi, I'm sober 3 years. Thankful today to have my life! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 11:08 PM Flag
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Pregnant and hanging on by a very thin thread. Everyone has been drinking all day and can't understand why I don't want to sit around and watch them get wasted. I hate everyone. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 11:11 PM Flag
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i was sober... 8years.. made a decision to drink about a month ago.. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:15 AM Flag
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How is that working ? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:44 AM Flag
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oddly enough, its ok. ive gone to aa for years and was very conflicted about drinking. so far so good... def strange [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:57 AM Flag
[ - ] shweddy balls 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:25 PM Flag
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Sweat potatoes? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:32 PM Flag
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Hahahaha! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 11:28 PM Flag
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My favorite part of the holiday season. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:54 PM Flag
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a gourmet delight [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 10:12 PM Flag
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So long as not floppy [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 11:28 PM Flag
[ - ] All drunk moms check in here! 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:24 PM Flag
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Not yet :( [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:27 PM Flag
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Not drunk but flagging. I can't drink too early in the day and eat. It is like drinking a bottle of NyQuil. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:30 PM Flag
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OP - I'm getting there. About 3 glasses of wine in. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:29 PM Flag
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Hi! [ Reply | More ]
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happy thanksgiving, i brought the champagne (plenty for all, but kept a bottle close to me), so happy to be done for the day and relaxing with another glass [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 11:09 PM Flag
[ - ] Oh dear. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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tell us [ Reply | More ]
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What now?... [ Reply | More ]
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*clutches pearls* [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:27 PM Flag
[ - ] White meat, dark meat or celebration roast? Go. 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:19 PM Flag
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White [ Reply | More ]
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cr [ Reply | More ]
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Dark. Like my men. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:32 PM Flag
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Dark [ Reply | More ]
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Do you know we started saying white meat and dark meat because we're such prudes that we wanted to avoid saying breast and thigh? [ Reply | More ]
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Nope [ Reply | More ]
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what's a celebration roast? i live both dark and white [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 11:12 PM Flag
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Veggie meat [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 11:54 PM Flag
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what's the point? why eat something so incredibly processed? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 12:11 AM Flag
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Because I like animals. And it's really not that processed. All organic/all natural. I made mine myself. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 12:35 AM Flag
[ - ] Burnt the turkey. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:12 PM Flag
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Alert the media. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:11 PM Flag
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Pour wine on it [ Reply | More ]
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Slice and pour gravy on top [ Reply | More ]
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Slice and pour gravy on top [ Reply | More ]
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Have sex with it while it's still warm. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:15 PM Flag
[ - ] How many of you will be puking this evening? 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:03 PM Flag
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Not I. I'm just not eating. ;) [ Reply | More ]
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I puke every evening [ Reply | More ]
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So bad for your teefs. :( [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:15 PM Flag
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my teeth and the rest of me look good [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:21 PM Flag
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Not for long. I only say so from experience. [ Reply | More ]
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uh huh [ Reply | More ]
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And I know from a friend's experience, wh has false teeth at age 35. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 11:08 PM Flag
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taking laxatives, tomorrow i evacuate. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:27 PM Flag
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I know UB frowns on this, but I had lap band put in a few years ago. I did not lose weight because I am basically lazy, but it is nice to never be able to binge again. I could not eat more than a salad plate of food at a time even if I wanted to, and even that takes me like an hour. It is a nice side benefit. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:32 PM Flag
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I wish I could get one of these. Not fat enough. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:37 PM Flag
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Just curious..why did you not lose weight? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:39 PM Flag
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I wasn't disciplined enough to follow the program; plus I got the surgery as a last-ditch effort to hold onto my DH who left anyway. Combination of lack of discipline and ultimate motivation. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 01:02 AM Flag
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this is sick. please do not do this to yourselves. enjoy your families & treat your bodies with respect. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 10:51 PM Flag
[ - ] I want to buy something from my favorite baseball team that I can wear for most of the year. T-shirt or jacket or fleece? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Panties [ Reply | More ]
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Mmmmm [ Reply | More ]
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Haha, I did that on our wedding night. DH is a die-hard Mets fan (I am not) and I wore a cheesy Mets thong! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 11:58 PM Flag
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None of the above. Buy something that supports a women's team. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:56 PM Flag
[ - ] So it's a late dinner for us. I just put the Turkey in the oven. 23 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 08:41 PM Flag
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Mine's only been in for an hour or so. We always have Thanksgiving dinner at a normal dinner hour--not mid afternoon. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 08:43 PM Flag
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What a tragedy for you. Was it at least still alive? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 08:43 PM Flag
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what time will you eat? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 08:43 PM Flag
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When the turkey is finished. I think about 8pm. Everything else is done. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 08:52 PM Flag
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When the turkey is finished. I think about 8pm. Everything else is done. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 08:52 PM Flag
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Congratulations. You are such a good girl. [ Reply | More ]
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Is that sarcasim? [ Reply | More ]
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Of course, dear. But you really are a good girl and you should feel proud. [ Reply | More ]
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Quit with the condescending "dear" We all hate you [ Reply | More ]
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she is recognizable in every post. needs to go [ Reply | More ]
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you sound like a stalker with boundary issues. just sayin' [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:23 PM Flag
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Wow, you sound bitter and angry! Don't you understand when someone is just being nice to you? [ Reply | More ]
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Of course she doesn't. She's the grinch of UB who desperately needs to seek help. [ Reply | More ]
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Who the hell are you replying to? [ Reply | More ]
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Damn. [ Reply | More ]
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why? when did guests expect to eat? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:08 PM Flag
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No guests. Just DH & our kids. I wanted to stay home this year relax, and make dinner with my kids. If I do this again next year I know to make desserts the day before. [ Reply | More ]
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what did everyone eat all day? [ Reply | More ]
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Almost nothing. They are digging into the sides now, and I really don't care. I am just happy to not be stressed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:33 PM Flag
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This is me. The turkey will be done at 6:30, and the kids have been munching on mashed potatoes, sting beans and corn bread. DH is watching football. Decided to do just us today, eating Chinese with family tomorrow. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 10:05 PM Flag
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see, this would make me stress out! [ Reply | More ]
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I am a little stressed, and I wished I started earlier, but, oh well. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 10:34 PM Flag
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Just finished dinner, whew. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 12:26 AM Flag
[ - ] Montreal travel recommendations? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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I wrote a whole thing about Toronto. More wine... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:14 PM Flag
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In the summer there are festivals every week. Really great fine dining. Do not miss: Canadian "dark seed" and "white seed" bagels from Real Bagel, smoked meat, poutine. [ Reply | More ]
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You can spend hours just walking around their underground tunnel system. It's really neat. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 10:35 PM Flag
[ - ] No kids yet, ttc, before i get flamed. my desk in the LR of my 1,300 SF house. BIL is living with us until next summer, just graduated, paying small bit of rent to get on his feet. everytime he comes home, he walks in and expects me to talk to him, even if i am working. my husband is the same way, expects a greeting for coming home and just showing up, even though i am in the middle of something, so from 4-7, i always have 2 unexpected interruptions. already tried to move desk into bedroom, not going well! any suggestions? 21 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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why do you have to declare that you're ttc so no one will flame you? is ub anti-childless people now? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 08:33 PM Flag
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no. makes no sense [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 08:38 PM Flag
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Just tell them to held their hellos and chit chat til you're done working at 7pm. Maybe go out the door at 7 and come back in and say helo! to them. [ Reply | More ]
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^^^ to hold [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 08:39 PM Flag
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You sound nightmarish. The type of person who acts like everything is fine, never speaks up but then goes around gossiping about people behind their backs is just so difficult and scary to deal with. Awful. Why not just tell them that you need a little alone time? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 08:40 PM Flag
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wow, i would be sad if DH did't expect a greeting when he came home. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 08:43 PM Flag
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Are you the OP? If so, you're really weird. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 08:44 PM Flag
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no.. not OP. she's saying she's annoyed bc her dh expects a greeting when he walks through the door. i am the opposite.. if he walked in the door and wanted to be ignored, that would annoy me [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 08:45 PM Flag
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She and you are completely different people, you know. It's alright for her to want to be left alone. But why doesn't she just tell her husband and BIL that? [ Reply | More ]
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bc it's such a weird request that she's embarrassed [ Reply | More ]
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And yet somehow bitching about them to strangers and criticizing them for doing something that they don't know is offending her is not embarrassing at all? [ Reply | More ]
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nothing is embarrassing on UB. that's why we're here [ Reply | More ]
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Are you kidding? The OP who asked about period bed sheets got totally flamed. As did the woman asking help for her anal itch. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:06 PM Flag
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anal itch woman didn't get flamed. it was the posters who said that her spouse should apply scotch tape on her ass that got flamed. i'm sure they aren't embarrassed because this is anonymous which prevents any sort of humiliation. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:14 PM Flag
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4chan is thataway, dear. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:12 PM Flag
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i am not your dear, you condescending little count [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:16 PM Flag
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Poor dear, you can't even spell. And you curse like a common fishmonger's coarse wife. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:19 PM Flag
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It's tough being a woman. They wouldn't expect this of you if you were a man. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:00 PM Flag
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Yes, this is the patriarchy's fault. Poor OP. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:01 PM Flag
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Put a headset on, wave and smile, pretend on a call. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:15 PM Flag
[ - ] Any guys here? Wanna flirt? 20 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 08:27 PM Flag
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Get a life. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 08:26 PM Flag
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You could probably make diamonds out of coal in your asshole from how tight you clench it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 08:28 PM Flag
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Thanks :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 08:34 PM Flag
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You're so welcome. In addition to taping your anus to check for parasites, your husband can now be your personal asshole-diamond miner. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 08:35 PM Flag
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np Could be a money maker! And they be conflict free, too! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 08:37 PM Flag
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I doubt OR is the type to give a shit about the problems of war and conflict. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 08:36 PM Flag
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Lol, OR here and I love me some blood diamonds. But I don't wear fur. :P [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:05 PM Flag
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You are a fascinating person. :P [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:11 PM Flag
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:) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:16 PM Flag
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Also with a touch of Aspergers. Okay then. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:19 PM Flag
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Retract that! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:21 PM Flag
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Hi [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:02 PM Flag
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Heyyy [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:08 PM Flag
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What are you up to after the turkey? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:11 PM Flag
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Probably just hanging out. You? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:22 PM Flag
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Nothing at all. I'm living abroad. Where are you from? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:49 PM Flag
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Hey baby, can I baste your turkey? Butter your biscuit? Stuff your bird? ;) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:27 PM Flag
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Can I shove this baster up your ass and make you spin on it? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:28 PM Flag
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Ima say no. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:29 PM Flag
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This is very sad. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:29 PM Flag
[ - ] Hey Guys, J here. I'm sure you're all busy with friends and family. Hope you're having a happy thanksgiving. Have fun and don't worry too much! Today can be your free day, just get back on track tmr. I'm still hovering around 143-144 myself, haven't lost much (sw148) more but at least I haven't gained. :) 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 08:26 PM Flag
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zzzzzzz you again. weight obsessed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 08:39 PM Flag
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Meh. I said I'd post everyday and I'm sticking to it. :P [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:03 PM Flag
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but nobody cares. yea, you're 5'8" and weigh 144. heard it a million times [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:14 PM Flag
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I'm not even close to 5'8. Much shorter and fatter, but thanks! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:30 PM Flag
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Sooo fat today but that's okay. Going on a long family walk after dinner. We always do. :) [ Reply | More ]
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:) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:14 PM Flag
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M here. In at 172 but I'm having stuffing! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:14 PM Flag
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Me too probs [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:30 PM Flag
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Hey J! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:30 PM Flag
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Hi! :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:31 PM Flag
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I will not be weighing myself for 3 days haha but I will post again after that [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:29 PM Flag
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Haha.. That's probably a good idea. :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:31 PM Flag
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152 and 5'7. 11 months post partum. Just ate brick of cornbread and tub of icecream. Still 10 lbs to go! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 10:56 PM Flag
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Haha [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 11:16 PM Flag
[ - ] DH is acting like a little puss bc this is his first thanksgiving not home. BOO effing HOO. btw i've spent the last 3 thanksgivings at his family's. This will be his first with some of my extended. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 08:26 PM Flag
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why did you marry this man? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 08:35 PM Flag
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i hate men like this [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:16 PM Flag
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the fact that he still calls his parents house home is not a good sign [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:17 PM Flag
[ - ] Is anyone watching their diet today? Or DH? 26 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 08:25 PM Flag
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No [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 08:29 PM Flag
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NO NO MAYBE NO NONO [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 08:38 PM Flag
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I am until we get to our Thanksgiving dinner. Then, HELL NO. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 08:40 PM Flag
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1600 calorie limit, just like every day. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 08:43 PM Flag
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how sad [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 08:49 PM Flag
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I don't feel sad. I feel energetic and satisfied. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 08:52 PM Flag
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that's hunger, my dear. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:09 PM Flag
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hunger is not energetic. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:18 PM Flag
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when i haven't eaten i'm often light headed and can't stop moving. she prob thinks this is "energetic." [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:21 PM Flag
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that's you [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:21 PM Flag
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you're anorexic [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:22 PM Flag
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you're a fatty with poor blood sugar that can't wait until her next feeding, dear [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:22 PM Flag
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compared to you, a bone is fat. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:23 PM Flag
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No, it's not. It's fitness, and joints that have never been overburdened. I know hunger - I'm a little bit hungry before every meal, and I wake up a little bit hungry every morning. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:58 PM Flag
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+1 If I eat when I'm not hungry, I end up feeling bloated and gross. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 10:08 PM Flag
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oh, you're a goop head. you have "that specific hunger" huh? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 10:26 PM Flag
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how sad [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 08:49 PM Flag
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Totally agree. I eat 1200 or less a day but whatever I want on holidays and special occasions. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 08:59 PM Flag
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is 1200 a little low? do u exercise? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:17 PM Flag
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+1 I don't have a set number, but I usually stay between 1400 & 2000 calories, depending on whether I work out. I don't pig out on holidays, but it's not hard, because all of the food is there every day. We don't exactly live in a Dickens novel! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 08:55 PM Flag
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This. This is also why we go out for TG dinner. At a restaurant, they don't insist you eat seconds and thirds - you can eat a normal meal. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 10:15 PM Flag
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Hell no. That would be such a sad life. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 08:44 PM Flag
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My eating disorder is in it's waning phase, so no. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:18 PM Flag
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Overeating is also an eating disorder. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:57 PM Flag
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Way to state the obvious [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 11:17 PM Flag
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i ate grain and know i will pay, but i love stuffing and gravy but hopefully i did not eat to much to make me sick [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 11:21 PM Flag
[ - ] So, my sister in law most definitely did not attend Yale. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 08:24 PM Flag
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I'd say something in passing...I guess it'd be passive aggressive, but just something enough for her to shut her mouth. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 08:26 PM Flag
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Do you have any proof you graduated from Harvard? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 08:26 PM Flag
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Did she say she did? Or is this a random comment ... like she also didn't attend Princeton or compete in the Olympics? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 08:38 PM Flag
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Yes there was a post about it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 09:21 PM Flag
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Did you get proof of this? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 08:41 PM Flag
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I think you handle it privately. If you publicly humiliate her, her family will turn on you, even if your facts are right. Say something like, "You can keep on pretending you went to Yale, and I'll keep on knowing you didn't." Finished and done. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.27.14, 10:10 PM Flag
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