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[ - ] Judging by the scores I'm seeing around me, there's some inflation going around...helps them show there's been a "modest improvement". 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:51 PM Flag
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You do know they jigger this thing to show what they want, don't you? It's meaningless politics & press releases. OMG PASS RATE WENT UP!!! [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Pardon my ignorance but how are you getting your child's test scores -- mail? We are out of town and wondered if they were online. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:44 PM Flag
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mystudent.nyc account. [ Reply | More ]
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Thx so much. Wish I'd remembered to set that up when they sent the info! [ Reply | More ]
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online [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:47 PM Flag
[ - ] Here's the real reason wives prefer to criticize criticize the OW and not their cheating DH: wives have an underlying envy that a woman can actually do what pleases her, be selfish about it, and actually enjoy it without repercussions while the wife is working zoo hard trying to stay married. OW don't care about your treasure husband as much as you think they do. He's just a diversion, a toy she can use when it fits her schedule without the burdens of having to cook his meals or wash his dirty underwear. And one more note: most OW don't was to break up his family because she'd have to deal with the crazy ex wife and her spawn. The OW is boss, supremely confident, calculated and emotionally mature and that's what bothers you. 32 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:41 PM Flag
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Been boiling bunnies have we? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:41 PM Flag
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hee hee! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:42 PM Flag
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"most OW don't was to break up his family" I knew it! OW are the extremely low IQ that cannot even anticipate the obvious, along with very low self-esteem, they don't think that men who aren't married will be interested in them, or that they are worth that interest (possibly true). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:44 PM Flag
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I see your point but I think what bothers the wife is that her husband is sleeping with another woman. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:42 PM Flag
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OW are so delusional! They cannot anticipate even the most obvious thing: that the married men they are sleeping with today will start cheating on them as well at the 1st opportunity. What a bunch of morons! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:45 PM Flag
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No, they are special. They have magical sex powers and are completely irresistible. He would never cheat on her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:56 PM Flag
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LOL They are super special, I give you that. Taking care of kids that aren't theirs, later on taking care of the old man they so savvily captured between their legs. WOW! They provide a truck load of free services to the original family just in exchange for that amazing sex they could have paid for (without all the strings attached). Special women indeed! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 05:29 PM Flag
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OW are so delusional! They cannot anticipate even the most obvious thing: that the married men they are sleeping with today will start cheating on them as well at the 1st opportunity. What a bunch of morons! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:45 PM Flag
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I see it's Other Woman Day on UB. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:42 PM Flag
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Google must have an icon on their homepage. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:44 PM Flag
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THE OTHERRRRR [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:48 PM Flag
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I have a brain and common sense, I don't open my legs to married men. It's not that tough. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:42 PM Flag
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I sort of agree. But more for me I think it's about wives believing that they are supposed to be the ones who control the family, including their husbands. They expect that they decide when he gets to go out, have sex, be home, be at work, etc. Then some other woman comes in and undermines the entire paradigm and they realize that there's no way for them to actually keep their husbands on the schedule they want him on. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:43 PM Flag
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"control" that psycho talk. There are TONS of men available who aren't married and let's face it, OW are the kind of psycho who is turned on by married men much more than by unattached men. They have mental issues. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:46 PM Flag
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Sounds like you are describing a serial killer: calculated, confident...lol! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:43 PM Flag
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A psycho, which most OW are btw. It cracks me up when OW try to play victim because the married men they picked ends up cheating on them. Honey, what could have gone wrong!? LMAO!!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:48 PM Flag
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LOL. Many times they want his money. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:43 PM Flag
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That's the least of the OW's issues. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:46 PM Flag
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Sounds like single women have it the best. plenty of fun without the guilt or sneaking around [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:44 PM Flag
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OW who succeed in "getting the married men" are the morons that develop a laundry list of complaints when they have to take care of the aging married man, his kids, his alimony and child support payments. The drama these bat shit crazy ladies cause is never ending. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:49 PM Flag
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Can you believe that DH actually wants to take care of his children, who I completely knew about when I started sleeping with him, but now I think he should drop and only spend money on me and my precious babeeees!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:57 PM Flag
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LOL The biggest free service the OW provides though isn't the free sex and free childcare services, it's the elderly caregiving she will provide the cheating husband, completely freeing the wife. It's nice! And we don't thank these amazing women often enough. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 05:27 PM Flag
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This is so sad. I can't believe you actually buy into this stuff? Any OW just lacks self respect. When I was single I did exactly what pleased me with SINGLE men. I guess the difference is that I could keep the attention of a single man. Sounds like you can only keep the attention of married men. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:47 PM Flag
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I am the OP from earlier, I know I am better than the OW, I was just curious what the appeal of a married man was, especially an average 40 something and what their expectations were [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:48 PM Flag
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your DH relation status status is irrelevant. OWs don't care if he's married, it's mostly about physical attraction. Please don't think of yourself as better then OW - none of this will calculate int phis decision to leave you or not. It's all in your mind how good you are or whatever. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:51 PM Flag
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OR probably is better than the OW. Because any woman who doesn't care if a man is married lacks basic respect for other humans. I, personally, make a lot of choices each day that impact other people. I try to make choices that I can be proud of. If you can be proud of yourself for screwing a married guy, have at it, surely there will be plenty of opportunity. But out of the gates, it confirms that you have less integrity than someone who wouldn't. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:55 PM Flag
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EVERYBODY is better than the OW. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 07:57 PM Flag
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When I was single I was looking for a man to marry, so was into single men. However, once you are at the point where you don't expect or want to marry, it's a whole different thing. That said married men treat divorced women like shit assuming they are desperate losers who don't deserve any respect and treat them accordingly. [ Reply | More ]
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The ones that get the least respect are the losers that weren't able to get married to begin with. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 07:56 PM Flag
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Are you accounting for all the married people who have affairs with each other (married women and married men)? I think that is probably a big dynamic that you're overlooking. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:53 PM Flag
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I hope OW gets married one day too and has the same thing happen to her. Wonder what she'll say then. What immature way of thinking. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:54 PM Flag
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Lol Ok. Sorry nobody was brave enough to claim you as the main one. We can understand why by this post. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 05:15 PM Flag
[ - ] What is the highest state exam score? 4.5? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:40 PM Flag
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yes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:46 PM Flag
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Yes [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] New year's eve cruises in Manhattan, which one would you recommend? Sick and tired of staying in my tiny apartment while people celebrate around town. This year, I want to celebrate it too! 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:40 PM Flag
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Please don't. New Year's Eve is the epitome of amateur hour. Just stay home. Only suckers go out on NYE. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:44 PM Flag
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Please... In NYE I get these disturbing texts of guys I've met a long time ago looking for a "it's still 2017" booty call (in just 4 months) or "she was my first one on 2018", who knows how they record this in their achievement spread sheet. I want to be busy doing something. For my own protection. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 05:52 PM Flag
[ - ] Which ub characters post incessantly? 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:39 PM Flag
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Crazy mom [ Reply | More ]
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LOL those are like... a hundred at least. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:41 PM Flag
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UB is so full of crazy women! :-) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:41 PM Flag
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Isn't that everyone? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:49 PM Flag
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Used to be stepMIL, clearance Mom and Lilly [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:42 PM Flag
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Is Lilly gone? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:53 PM Flag
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She's here, hidden as different characters. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 05:16 PM Flag
[ - ] what high schools should dc consider with a 3.55 ela, 4.02 math and about a 93-94 gpa? D2 resident. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:36 PM Flag
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Are the scores out? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:40 PM Flag
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Yes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:41 PM Flag
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Would defeinitely make sure you have good back ups. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 06:40 PM Flag
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Backups for what? everyone should always apply to a wide range. She is asking for suggestions for sweet spot schools given those stats. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 07:17 PM Flag
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Lab, Baruch, millennium, nest, hunter science, Brooklyn tech, hsmse [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Did everyone you grew up with turn out about the same as you expected? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:35 PM Flag
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No, some actually got jobs and became productive citizens. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:36 PM Flag
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Some did, some didn't, but I've lost touch with many of them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:37 PM Flag
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Who didn't? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:43 PM Flag
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I was responding to OP's question. Can't speak for "everyone" I grew up with... [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Early November birthday. DD really cant handle being in school with kids almost a year older (nursery school total disaster). Need to apply for aid at privates. Should I - 1. apply to pre-k or nursery at privates 2. wait until K. 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:35 PM Flag
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Assuming she's 3 and a half right now and you're making an assessment for next year? I have a DD the same age, only she's in with kids within a month of her bday in preschool and doing fine - at age three vs. four it can be a bit different. My older child was also a December birthday so we went through this and came out alive. Remember that in public they're not ONLY with Jan/Feb kids... at least half of the class is July-Dec kids (and in our case seems like most of DC's friends were Oct/Nov/Dec kids). And remember that by the time they're 4.5, it's a lot different. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:39 PM Flag
[ - ] DC applying to college. 1450 SAT's, 3.94 GPA with honors/advanced classes (school doesn't offer AP's). Has strong extracurriculars and is an all-around good kid. Deciding between Wash U, Dartmouth (legacy) and Hopkins for ED. What does UB think?? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:35 PM Flag
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what does DC think about preferred area of study? Size of school? Urban vs rural? Sports/frats/social atmosphere? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 06:55 PM Flag
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And are you asking about chances for getting in or is this school a good fit? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 06:56 PM Flag
[ - ] State test scores. Do the Middle School look at just the level (4s or 3s) or do they use the scores? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:32 PM Flag
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They look at the 4.05 part too [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:32 PM Flag
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Great! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:34 PM Flag
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i am so confused....... dc 3.69 =3 in third grade. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 05:02 PM Flag
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It depends on the school rubric. Just ask when you tour. Some take into account the whole score and other give you x points for a 4 and y points for a 3, etc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 05:10 PM Flag
[ - ] Can anyone share what crazy shenanigans are going on at UES Mommas today? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:27 PM Flag
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LINK? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:33 PM Flag
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It's a private group. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] DS got a 4, 352, 4.05, 76-100. Entering 6th and really want Honors. Will he make it? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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You mean math? 352 in ELA gets you a 3. [ Reply | More ]
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Yes, it's math. There is no ELA honors. Only math. Will he make it? [ Reply | More ]
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no it doesn't. look at the conversion charts. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:47 PM Flag
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So he's not getting in? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 05:34 PM Flag
[ - ] 4s on report card, 4 math, 3.3 ELA - thoughts from those who have been through this already? Do we have a chance for places like Clinton, Salk, Lab? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:27 PM Flag
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Not Salk or lab. All 4's. but they have their own assessments - so you never know. But you will have to pick one. [ Reply | More ]
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do they only do the assessment after they applied? SO you have to make one your first choice to even see how you do on their test? [ Reply | More ]
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Yup! Welcome to the hell and fucking bull shit of middle school. [ Reply | More ]
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following [ Reply | More ]
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Yes, dc has a chance, but needs to pick second choice wisely. Would probably be fine at lab, but tour and then decide. [ Reply | More ]
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There is no second choice. Second choice is you zoned. You get one first choice and that's it. [ Reply | More ]
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That makes no sense. Is that a new policy'? [ Reply | More ]
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You can only list one of these as first choice. Lab does its own test [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 06:54 PM Flag
[ - ] What have you posted on UB that made MP? 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:27 PM Flag
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No, because I am not a troll. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:28 PM Flag
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Some list once, I think it was favorite funny movies. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:30 PM Flag
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A long time ago, for a brief moment, I wrote a post that made MP. It involved someone who disinvited me to a party (said it wasn't going to happen), and then sent out a group e-mail of pictures from the party (I was on the group e-mail). Otherwise, I don't start a lot of my own posts. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:31 PM Flag
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Oh dozens of posts. If I wanted to I could probably have an MP almost every day. It's not that hard once you figure out how the algorithm works. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:37 PM Flag
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i posted about my lease saying "heat included" but then i have to pay the electric costs to run these large heating units in each room (our electric bill ends up about $50-75 higher in the winter compared with spring). i was completely flamed even though i still think the lease is misleading [ Reply | More ]
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It is, I'm not sure why lease would say that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 05:17 PM Flag
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Totally misleading. What heat is included then? I would unplug the large heating units and then ask the landlord where the heat is, and your lease says it's included. Then I would threaten. But that's me. I'm a rage-aholic. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 05:33 PM Flag
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That I was hurt that my dad brought his step-granddaughter on our annual family vacation (my mom is dead and died before I had my kids). It was one of a few times a year he was with my own kids, his real grandchildren, whereas steps all live near him. I was roundly flamed including by one person who I think knew me and I think I know who she is. I basically accepted after that that when my mom died, my relationship with my dad died a type of death too and while we still spend time together, we can't be close. The whole relationship is on the surface now. That little girl has been coming on our vacation ever since and one thing I'll say is she is a sweetheart. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:53 PM Flag
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So the relationship with your dad is bad now? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 05:17 PM Flag
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No it is fine, it is just not close. Like, we get along, have a good time, but I don't feel he's that invested in my kids or knows them as well as I had hoped. He was such a great dad when I was a kid, and I guess I wanted some kind of validation of how much he loved my kids. Now I see he can only mostly love his wife and I was just lucky that when I was a kid, my mom was his wife. [ Reply | More ]
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A couple but the worst one was when I tried to post something kind wishing NYC dwellers good thoughts on 9/11, and I said something awkward about being safe out there and it was viewed as some kind of threat. I was flamed forwards and backwards and I kept trying to explain that it isn't what I meant and it just got worse and worse. Some kind soul finally said the equivalent of "I get what you mean, now shut up." and I stopped posting and it eventually faded. I learned that day that it IS possible to suffer vicarious embarrassment through a computer screen. [ Reply | More ]
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I posted about some woman I met at the park who insisted everyone call her son Penguin. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 05:29 PM Flag
[ - ] OW should quit the BS of claiming that the fault lies with the cheating husband alone, it's so fucking immature. "It was HIM, the fact that I opened my legs to a married man doesn't mean I had anything to do with it". Give me a break, at least grow a pair and accept that you are a whore whose into destroying families. 32 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:25 PM Flag
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It is 100% the man's fault. Sorry I don't feel you on this one. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:27 PM Flag
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+1 here [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:29 PM Flag
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Nah, he's not fucking a dummy, but a woman who should have picked fucking an unmarried man. It's not rocket science. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:29 PM Flag
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This is one of those situations where there's blame and fault to go around. I'm sure no honest OW really thinks that she's innocent in all of it. Whether she admits it or not, she knows that she did something wrong to someone. That's a different question than what a man does to his wife and marriage. No innocent people in any of it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:30 PM Flag
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OW is basically admitting that she wasn't good enough to get a man who isn't already married. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:33 PM Flag
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I don't know. Some of them probably have too low self esteem, but some of them probably have too high self esteem (see post above with the OW who thinks she's all that and a bag of chips). And some of them are probably just shallow and don't examine their motives or actions at all. [ Reply | More ]
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That's an act she puts on to try to mask her psychological issues. Only very insecure women behave that way. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 06:04 PM Flag
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Some women know that they are only good as a side-dish, not good enough as the main dish. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:33 PM Flag
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The woman my DH had affair with says she believed him that I cheated. She even told my DD that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:34 PM Flag
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Wait. What? The OW had a conversation with your DD? And she told her that she slept with DD's father because DD's mother had also cheated? That's all kinds of inappropriate. (And as a child, I went on a business trip with my father and his mistress, so I know inappropriate!) [ Reply | More ]
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It's a mental issue, in US women with very low self-esteem get turned on by men wearing a wedding right. Therapy cases. [ Reply | More ]
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+1 Disgusting. Women in my home country aren't that crazy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:32 PM Flag
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Lol, I'd love to see what country has no cheaters! Do tell! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:34 PM Flag
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Moron, it's about some women's attraction for men wearing a wedding ring. Totally nuts. We don't have that at all in my home country. Everybody would tell you that somebody into that is crazy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:36 PM Flag
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heee... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:37 PM Flag
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I'm married and have never been the OW, but sorry--OW took no vows to you. She gets to do what she deems is best for her, not for some lady she's probably never met. Look after your own marriage. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:33 PM Flag
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General Topics 08.22.17, 04:37 PM Flag
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I've only met Germans thinking this way, is this an anglo thing? Why wasn't the OW capable of finding a man who wasn't married? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:37 PM Flag
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OW gets to do whatever she damn well pleases, as long as it's consensual and doesn't break any laws. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:38 PM Flag
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As a society, we agree to live by rules above and beyond those that are coded into law. Sleeping with married men goes into this category. You *can* do it, but it doesn't make it right. I may not have chosen to have babies, but if I arrive at a door just before you arrive with your stroller, I am going to hold the door for you, even though I didn't make a commitment to you and your babies. It is the right thing to do. [ Reply | More ]
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No, "we" don't agree to your arbitrary rules, you idiot. Sorry you married a dud. [ Reply | More ]
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Lol, a great many of us don't need the help of the entire society to keep our marriages together. If you need that, you're already toast. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:59 PM Flag
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If the OW pretends to be a grown up, why cannot she face her crazy married-men fetish as a grow up too? Why is facing her own craziness so tough? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 06:05 PM Flag
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So can I take your car? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:46 PM Flag
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As long as you deem it is what is best for you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:50 PM Flag
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If you think of your husband as an object that belongs to you, I'm really not surprised he's looking elsewhere. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:52 PM Flag
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As opposed to the DH who made a vow and stuck his dick somewhere? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:38 PM Flag
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The DH has the responsibility to his wife and family, of course. But any OW lacks basic human decency. If you're a reasonably attractive woman, chances are, you've been hit on by a married men. But most women don't act on it -- because it's just wrong. Any woman who seeks to divide a family or one-up a wife is an asshole. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:38 PM Flag
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Well said. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:43 PM Flag
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Totally agree. Being a decent person should be the prospective OW's goal, being a decent husband should be the prospective cheating H's goal. They both have duties as people functioning in a society, their behaviors in an affair violate their respective duties, but their duties are not the same. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:53 PM Flag
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Yes. This. Just because you can do something doesn't mean you should, even if you want to. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:54 PM Flag
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Bingo! OW are scum as a person. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 06:06 PM Flag
[ - ] Kid got 3 and 4s on report card. 3 is ok.? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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All 4's are better [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:28 PM Flag
[ - ] Dh is having an affair with a divorced mom at our kids school. He is angry that I am spreading rumors and damaging this woman's reputation (I'm not. Why would I want to embarrass myself and the children?)WTF? It was fun while no one knew but now that they are found out, they need to blame me? 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Who is telling? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:25 PM Flag
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It's completely obvious to most people surrounding the affair couple that something is going on. It's an energy you can't hide. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 05:16 PM Flag
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Horrible. What a completely backwards situation. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:25 PM Flag
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This is most possible for the children involved. There is no good outcome here. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:32 PM Flag
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^horrible not possible [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:43 PM Flag
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DH and OW should have thought about this before. Mention that as you serve him with divorce papers. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:41 PM Flag
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He's having an affair, and is mad at you for spreading rumors. That's rich. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:47 PM Flag
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It assuages his guilt. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:53 PM Flag
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OP: he's doing a total U-turn and now claiming that there was nothing (after confessing to me) and that there is nothing to hide. They are just friends and I am spreading false rumors. Just gross [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 05:02 PM Flag
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How does it hurt her reputation? SHe is divorced. She can do who she wants. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:51 PM Flag
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OP: She is furious at him for me finding out and is pressuring him and he's venting to me. What stupidity [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 04:59 PM Flag
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OP: She cares immensely about her own repuation obviously. In her mind, she is a successful upstanding citizen and parent at our children's school [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.22.17, 05:00 PM Flag
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