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[ - ] seems dcs of high maintenance, anxious, overly protective moms are more likly to have allergies. is it because they protect them from so much, these poor dcs don't have a chance to develop proper immunity? or some other reason? are they more likely to take their kids for testing? are they over doing it in some way? 23 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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NP: I have a kid w/food allergies. It's pretty nervewracking with her and food.... not so much with other stuff. It does not help when nitwits like OP post stuff like this b/c you just think "these are the idiots walking the earth?" [ Reply | More ]
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luck had nothing to do with it, sweetie. [ Reply | More ]
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i wish you only good things. [ Reply | More ]
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Ditto. Allergies don't run in the family, and I have a boy so even if I wanted to keep him away from dirt I couldn't. Gave him a cashew and his ears swelled and his legs started itching. [ Reply | More ]
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you are right, we all have munchausen syndrom. [ Reply | More ]
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no -- moms are always more relaxed with #2. [ Reply | More ]
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I was very relaxed with #1 until dc's first allergic reaction & trip to the ER - watching your child gasping for air will make anyone anxious. [ Reply | More ]
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^^and I was also much more anxious about my diet while nursing #2 & was worried about #2 also having food allergies, but #2 has no allergies, so again - this disproves your theory. Never thought about food allergies until #1 had an allergic reaction. [ Reply | More ]
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Beware that you are suck into a scheme like that Madoff thing. [ Reply | More ]
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I hope you are not a scientist as your "hypothesis" fails the test of cause/effect. Have a kid w/food allergies. I am anxious about some stuff with her (food) and much less about others (e.g. climbing at the playground). You are obv. blessed with kids in good health (congrats) but lack compassion for the experience of others. Good luck learning something called empathy. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] If you don't have a wine fridge, where do you keep an opened bottle of red? On the counter, in the regular fridge, someplace else? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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We have a wine fridge but usually vaccuum seal open bottles and leave them out. They only stay open for a day or two! They are gross if you don't vacuum seal them. [ Reply | More ]
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We have a wine rack in a buffet. I think its best if they lay on their side. [ Reply | More ]
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Oh, just read opened. i leave it on the counter. [ Reply | More ]
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open bottles rarely last more than one night around my house.... [ Reply | More ]
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Buy a vacuum seal, they are inexpensive and really keep the wine fresh...at least for a week. [ Reply | More ]
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Go to Seville instead. You can actually go out for a small cup of coffee in little squares there and enjoy the fragrance of the orange trees. mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm. [ Reply | More ]
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Friend With Benefits. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Went to OBGYN today for bleeding in between periods. Found out I had miscarried. Had no clue I was even pregnant. Took Home Preg tests and they were negative all through out. Is that normal? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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that's kind of weird. One time i went to the dr. and was basically told that you can't be "a little pregnant." She said that if you are pg then the hormone would show on any test....then again I'm certainly no MD! [ Reply | More ]
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I was on serious antibiotics for pneumonia. I think that could have marred the results. I can't help but feel bummed right now [ Reply | More ]
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maybe, but I'm sorry for you. I know that's so hard. That happened to me, too. It's very hard to describe how you feel to someone who has never gone through it. It is a bummer. I wish you the best. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] How much do you sacrifice for your dcs to go to private school? Examples. 73 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Where do you both live? Not Bed Stuy... [ Reply | More ]
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no, not bed stuy [ Reply | More ]
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Yes, rejected. 3 call backs at Laguardia but he didn't make the cut. If I had known what his public HS experience would turn out to be, I would've killed myself finding a way to pay for private school. [ Reply | More ]
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what part did he apply too? [ Reply | More ]
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^^^to, not too. what grade is he in? [ Reply | More ]
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Institutional racism runs too deep for simple answers. Private schools like any business, cater to the customer so parents and children are respected. Not so in public school. One big change should be insisting that everyone who makes policy for the DoE (and earns more than a $75K puts their own children in the system. What an idea-- make what's good for the goose, be good for the gander! [ Reply | More ]
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VERY TRUE. Mom of color here (DB is under 1 so getting prepared for what we have to do). DH and I are from suburbs but went to private/boarding and catholic schools... [ Reply | More ]
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Angry yes, unhinged no. Only someone who hasn't had a child in a high poverty, Title 1 school with 99% kids of color could say that. Like you, I had NO idea that in our NYC public ed system, only 1 out of every 10 Black/Latino hs students earns a NY State Regents diploma and the rate is EVEN lower for Black boys like mine. I drank the kool-aid about new, small high schools in 2004 but most are just "home-boy highs" passing students along, fudging the data and not educating our youth. Majority of parents are uninvolved and those who are critical thinkers wanting to help improve conditions, are not welcomed. [ Reply | More ]
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Won't get an argument here. DH is Black and went to Hunter, but he still wouldn't hear of public school for DS. Kept saying, "You have no idea what public schools do to Black boys." Are in private now and very happy, even if it means no vacations and other frills. [ Reply | More ]
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Thank you for the post! Being Black and having my DD graduate from St. Ann's and my DS graduating from public school proves I know what I'm talking about. By HUGE comparison, son's higher ed opportunities were severely limited by brand new public HS with questionable coursework and floating standards. Thankfully, he's now a freshman in an upstate college but the process of educating and preparing him to do well in this opportunity was all on me-- forget the rhetoric-- his public HS never showed the intention of helping him or any of his classmates make it to college. [ Reply | More ]
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Why won't St Anns accept a sib? They have a strong sib policy. And they'll give generous FA for diversity kid... ??? [ Reply | More ]
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i'm the rice and beans poster. in a way i agree with you. i don't think private school is the be all and end all. for us, we are doing it for religious reasons and i'm ok with it. i can't say i love having to budget all the time but it's something that's important enough to me. [ Reply | More ]
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Not in all neighborhoods. Sorry this is naive [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Sorry but I think Daniel Craig is like a SJP. He is just NOT HOT, except for his bod. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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well, there you go. i'd take it. [ Reply | More ]
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op--well, i like a nice looking face with nice features. i like balance. [ Reply | More ]
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true. but with lights out, he'd be pretty fine. [ Reply | More ]
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ita. He doesn't o it for me. and why does he keep saying this guy or that guy would make a good Bond? Is he trying to lose his job? [ Reply | More ]
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He reminds me of that scary cop in one of the Terminator movies. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] What kind of hair coloring is in? I'm dark brunette and I used to do gold/blond highlights (I have long-more or less straight hair), but I think it looks too fake--should I stick with solid dark brunette? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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single process color with low or highlights to create a layering of colors. [ Reply | More ]
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OP. What color highlights go with dark brunette hair? I don't want gold/blond and I don't want any red hues. What are low lights exactly? [ Reply | More ]
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lowlights darken hair (blonde to brown, or light brown to dark brown). i think you should stick with dark brunette. sounds pretty. [ Reply | More ]
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On UB I've heard higher, but my dc had 99x3 and 135 [ Reply | More ]
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99x3 and 142 [ Reply | More ]
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Did this child take SB? ERB is not really a good test for high end kids. [ Reply | More ]
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yes, 157 in sb5 [ Reply | More ]
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sum of scaled scores [ Reply | More ]
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That's above 99%tile. Congrats! [ Reply | More ]
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Did you mean raw or scaled score? My 97/99/99 dc had Performance: 75 raw, 58 scaled score. Verbal: 109 raw (scaled score 70); Full Scale 128. [ Reply | More ]
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my dd got 99x3 and scaled score was 142 [ Reply | More ]
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percentile wise: 99.9, 99.7, 99.9 [ Reply | More ]
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How do you now the decimals...? [ Reply | More ]
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She doesn't. [ Reply | More ]
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I do, actually. They give decimals for older children...when they switch between WISC and WIPPSI. [ Reply | More ]
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Was it an IQ test or an achievement test? [ Reply | More ]
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the ERB ECAA admissions test (IQ test based) [ Reply | More ]
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I don't know what that is, but great score! GL! [ Reply | More ]
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yes, great score, congrats! [ Reply | More ]
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Tnank you. The ERB ECAA is the test that all NY private school kids take for admissions. We just all call it the ERB (the name of the company which administers it). [ Reply | More ]
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raw score: one meeeeellllion points. [ Reply | More ]
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ITA - the ss schools are second tier to the co-ed schools. [ Reply | More ]
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BS. Brearley has better college placement than any coed. Spence and Chapin better than Dalton and same as Trinity. [ Reply | More ]
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np - This is such nonsense. DD got into both and we sent her to Spence. Many of the kids we know at Spence got into Chapin. Many of the kids we know at Chapin got into Spence. There is so much overlap that it is nearly random who ends up at one and who ends up at the other. Spence feels a little more diverse to me, but I don't know enough Chapin families to make a very educated comment on that. [ Reply | More ]
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np Our dd also got into C and S and we sent her to S. ITA that there is a lot of overlap. [ Reply | More ]
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Kids tell me its pretty easy to score with either, but Chapin tend to follow you around for a couple of weeks afterward [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.08, 09:37 AM Flag
[ - ] Are kids learning (or are expected to know) a lot more than we did when we were growing up? I can't believe the stuff kindergarteners and 1st graders are expected to do in school. Am I not remembering? 40 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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I'm a SAHM and have no idea what sort of WOHM connection you are talking about. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.16.08, 09:50 AM Flag
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You're weird. this WOHM mommy comes home and helps w/homework. [ Reply | More ]
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General Topics 12.16.08, 06:13 AM Flag
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You can vote for politicians that will listen. You can become involved in your child's school. You can champion teachers that have a balanced perspective on child development & academics. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.16.08, 08:17 AM Flag
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I've tried and honestly that won't help with my dc's 2 hours of homework tonight (1st grade) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.16.08, 11:12 AM Flag
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np: part of the problem is that the world has gotten more complicated in the last 2 generations. there is an additional 50 years of history, 50 years worth of scientific discoveries, 50 years of developments in technology, plus more global awareness so foreign language seems more important, more advanced math is needed for the more advanced science/technology, etc. so we are trying to cram all that into the same K-12 schooling. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.16.08, 09:38 AM Flag
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if your child is at anderson, which sounds like she is given your description of the curriculum, and homework is taking 2 hours, then you should speak to your child's teacher. no way should it take that long. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.16.08, 11:50 AM Flag
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no my child isn't at anderson, but a public gen ed. I could see it in a g&t program where parents ask for this rigor, but not public gen ed. Yes, I've talked to the teacher and it's mandated by the principal. [ Reply | More ]
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a NYC public school? odd that it's accelerated then, as public schools need to follow the mandated curriculum (there is some flexibility of course, but grade acceleration isn't typical, accept at a G&T, and even then, you're more likely to find enrichment, not acceleration per se). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.16.08, 12:34 PM Flag
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Yes and nyc ps. I am finding that some of the underpreforming schools are loading on the homework. I think they are trying to push the kids for better test scores. BTW, a one year accelerated curriculum is the mandated curriculum every since Bloomberg/Klein took over. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.16.08, 01:44 PM Flag
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this is not true at all. i have friends with kids at 158, 6, and 290, and no way is the curriculum at those schools accelerated. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.08, 10:06 AM Flag
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I'm sorry, but it's true. The curriculum for 1st grade today is the same as 2nd grade 10 years ago. My dc's teacher told us herself and she's been teaching for 20+ years. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.08, 11:16 AM Flag
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They are learning more "stuff" on a topical level but not with the depth we did. Also, failure doesn't seemed to be allowed since it will hurt the child's esteem so kids are allowed to hand in mediocre work and get high marks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.16.08, 09:46 AM Flag
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nonsense. i went to elementary school in the 70s, and high school in the 80s, and then on to a so-called "little ivy" and law school, and my dc, who is in 2nd grade, already knows more about geography (for example) than i ever learned in school. i feel like school was rote for me, despite being tracked. dc seems to be learning far more creatively than i ever did. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.16.08, 11:53 AM Flag
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There is more information in one weeks's worth of the NY Times than a person was likely to come across in a lifetime in the 18th Century. Check this out (http://nickgs.com/archive/Technology.wvx) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.16.08, 10:24 AM Flag
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Exactly! We are overloading our kids with information that they may no even need to know in the next 10 years. It's time to slow down, not speed up. Their brains will never be able to know what a computer knows. It's time to stop and reflect. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.16.08, 11:18 AM Flag
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I would argue something a little different. We should give them skills not data. Teach them to reason, to be inquisitive. Show them how to work at a task in a methodical way. Those skills will serve you well forever. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.16.08, 12:05 PM Flag
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we got a pretty lame education as far as i'm concerned. have you ever spoken to a foreigner about their educational curriculum growing up? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.16.08, 11:15 AM Flag
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Yes, in Denmark they don't even start school until 7 and beginning learning to read and math between 7-8. Yet, they are way ahead of the US in all achievement tests. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.16.08, 11:20 AM Flag
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But when you allow for the non-democratic segmentation of their schools, they are not way ahead. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.16.08, 01:34 PM Flag
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what? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.16.08, 01:45 PM Flag
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Many European schools are segmented. You test into one of three tracks. First out of grade school and then out of junior high. When they say our high school kids versus theirs, they are comparing every high school kid in the US to just those in the top tier/track in that country. Compare the G&T kids in the US to their elite kids and we fair fine. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.08, 06:27 AM Flag
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Well then their gifted kids do better than our gifted kids! And I image their kids in the middle and lower tiers do better than our also. Afterall, it's a socialist country. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.08, 09:35 AM Flag
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why do you assume their gifted do better? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.08, 09:45 AM Flag
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Because they do better on the PISA tests. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.08, 11:17 AM Flag
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I find it truly disgusting that kids are getting homework in kinderg, pre-k... then parents and all are testing IQs at such ages. isn't there a time of innocence or is it all about the adults' competing [ Reply | More ]
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I find this so sad. I really hope we'll be able to afford a private like Waldorf to bypass this ridiculous pressure they're putting on 6 year olds elsewhere now a days. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.08, 06:46 AM Flag
[ - ] What do you honestly think happens when we die? 30 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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That is lovely. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.16.08, 12:19 PM Flag
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I beleive this is well...we are energy and it is converted into other forms...it doesn't just "die" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.16.08, 12:23 PM Flag
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ah, yes. Matter will be converted. Our being, though, the thoughts, the memories will be gone forever, though. [ Reply | More ]
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That's what I think. The big nada. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.16.08, 12:21 PM Flag
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molecules rejoin the cosmic hum [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.16.08, 12:24 PM Flag
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well, having read stiff, very nasty things happen to us including turning into liquid. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.16.08, 12:30 PM Flag
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Lucky ones go to Hunter, unlucky lands at BWL [ Reply | More ]
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what an awful thing to say [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.16.08, 01:41 PM Flag
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funny, though! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.17.08, 04:12 AM Flag
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I have outgrown the heaven/hell dichotomy, but I still believe something of us survives death, albeit, not necessarily personal identity, so much as conversion of energy. [ Reply | More ]
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which is my version of returning to the cosmos, aka, the big nada (of course, its only the big nada narrative when viewed egotistically, since I won't have my eyeballs or personality to view it with). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.16.08, 01:19 PM Flag
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I'm a blasphemer. My head will be buried in fiery sand while a constant rain of fire balls pelts my raised and exposed naked ass. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.16.08, 01:17 PM Flag
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so not that much of a change for you, since balls already pelt your raised and exposed naked ass [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.16.08, 01:21 PM Flag
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That is a sodomite. I am not a sodomite. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.16.08, 01:27 PM Flag
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What did they do in Gomorrah, anyway? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.16.08, 01:28 PM Flag
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I think they were smited (smote?) because they did everything. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.16.08, 01:35 PM Flag
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is that what you tell your dh when he asks for a blow job? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.16.08, 01:28 PM Flag
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I meant it as a compliment! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.16.08, 01:31 PM Flag
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seriously, DH here getting turned on [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.16.08, 01:37 PM Flag
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Thanks, actually being a sodomite would (in Dante's Inferno at least) be an improvement on being a blasphemer. -op [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.16.08, 01:38 PM Flag
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For reasons I can't explain, since I was about 12 I've been convinced that we are reincarnated, in a continual effort to improve ourselves and take our souls to a higher level. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.16.08, 06:05 PM Flag
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great question. I hate to even write this, but nothing at all. Which scares the crap out of me. [ Reply | More ]
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