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[ - ] If you ended up at a school that was not your first choice, what was it and where was FC? 20 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
NY Schools 02.27.09, 08:08 AM Flag
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no one will answer that post [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:19 AM Flag
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Got into Calhoun/ ECFS was FC. Going to PS 87 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:19 AM Flag
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good move [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:20 AM Flag
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why did you apply to calhoun if you weren't interested? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:30 AM Flag
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when we applied we were interested. But at the end of it decided it was too progresive for us. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:34 AM Flag
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gotcha. our first choice was ecfs too, #2 calhoun. seem equally progressive to us [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:36 AM Flag
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FC's were Dalton/EC/CGPS. Going to Trevor. Now that I know much more about Trevor, quite happy about it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:44 AM Flag
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you'd love it! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 09:53 AM Flag
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you're wasting your $$ [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 09:54 AM Flag
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Completely disagree about wasting $$. Small classes. Happy kids who thrive there. Great for the arts. Wonderful, accomplished, intellectual parent body who care more about educating their kids and having happy kids and less about social cache. One would only waste their $$ if the place were filled with the kind of vapid jerks who make a comment like. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 12:55 PM Flag
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who make a comment like that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 12:56 PM Flag
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you're probably the "good move" poster from above. she didn't ask your opinion. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 01:17 PM Flag
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You're right! Didn't ask for her opinion, don't care and don't agree! Never understood why some people feel the need to make the gratuitous nasty comment. Oh wait, this is UB after all. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 01:37 PM Flag
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not or but ita with her. why waste your money on bottom of the barrel private? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 01:39 PM Flag
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only in your opinion. see the post above. are you SO? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 01:41 PM Flag
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so? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 01:42 PM Flag
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no why? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 01:42 PM Flag
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speaking of gratuitous and nasty... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 01:43 PM Flag
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there is nothing bottom of the barrel about a progressive school with small classes. you have no idea what goes on at these schools or how happy the parents/children are there. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 03:21 PM Flag
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congrats. gf has dc at trevor and loves it, as does dc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 03:23 PM Flag
[ - ] I have been fine waiting to hear about preschool for all this time--now suddenly freaking out. Talk me down. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
Preschool/Kids 02.27.09, 08:06 AM Flag
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I am you. I fully expect to be a basketcase on the morning of the 3rd/4th. Sorry, not much help! What are your top choices? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:07 AM Flag
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all brooklyn. Friends and International school are our top two. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:15 AM Flag
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we applied to all ues schools, so i can't dissect those with you, unfortunately. but best of luck. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:19 AM Flag
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I'm getting anxious now because my friends who've applied to non-ISAGNNY schools heard back along with friends who applied to ongoing schools- I did none of those so pins and needles here! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 09:47 AM Flag
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Nothing a vat of vodka over the weekend can't solve! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 10:02 AM Flag
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has anyone heard from ongoing shcools? if so - what did you hear? me - calhoun, wait list. Rodeph Shalom - accepted. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 10:41 AM Flag
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got dinged at Calhoun, accepted at Rodeph. Wondering if I should go there given that I'll probably apply out at K --- or maybe even pre-K (since some privates start there). Still waiting to hear from other pre-schools only next week but am thinking Rodeph might be better than those .... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.28.09, 02:37 PM Flag
[ - ] Anyone know how many spots are open at GHS this year? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
Preschool/Kids 02.27.09, 08:04 AM Flag
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wish i knew the answer to this about other ues nursery schools, too. brick, pac, map, pam, reds, etc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:06 AM Flag
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How many kids do they take over-all at GHS? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:44 AM Flag
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It's a bigger school because it has 2 locations. 50 maybe? but then there's sibs... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:46 AM Flag
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There are 7 or 8 toddler classes between the two locations (morning and afternoon). Lots of sibs the past few years, though. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 09:50 PM Flag
[ - ] Suggestion for quick carribean vacation w 2 kids in may? lkooking for direct flight for a few days. went to cayman isl. last year - would like somethign different. can you also rec. good kid-friendly hotels? thanks! leaving from NYC 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
New York City 02.27.09, 08:01 AM Flag
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Club Med Cancun. Fabulous. Great kid's club. Direct flight on JetBlue [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:02 AM Flag
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ritz carlton grand cayman - terrific. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:30 AM Flag
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Ditto. Was amazing with two young kids. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:49 AM Flag
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El Conquistador in Puerto Rico? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:37 AM Flag
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many direct flights to puerto rico. we also like st thomas [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:42 AM Flag
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How old are your kids? If they are little, Club Med Punta Cana may be a better option, as they offer Baby Club Med and Petit Club Med programs (covering infants to age 3). Only Sandpiper and Ixtapa also offer these two programs. Other Club Meds are more likely to offer Mini Club Med (age 4-10). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.25.09, 05:51 PM Flag
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second this: direct flight newark to punta cana. Five minutes from airport to hotel. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.25.09, 06:02 PM Flag
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tips on visiting Club Med Punta Cana with kids at puntacanamom.blogspot.com [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.28.09, 07:58 AM Flag
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Just got back from Buccaneer in St. Croix. VERY kid-friendly, but toally not overrun with screaming brats. It was delightful. They even produced handsome Yalie swim team guy to teach DS how to snorkle. Breakfast buffet awesome, conciereges went above and beyond, it was just fabulous. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.28.09, 04:08 PM Flag
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We stayed there 4 yrs ago with 2.5 yo, and ITA, it's a very nice low-key place that is very receptive to young kids. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.28.09, 05:23 PM Flag
[ - ] All of you rich folks complaining about tax increases need to get some perspective. You sound so ridiculous complaining about how hard it is to get by on $250k. 20 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:56 AM Flag
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It's not just about "getting by." Of course I will not be homeless on that salary. But I work hard to make that much so I can do MORE than just get by - so that I can afford afford a nice home, nice schools for dc's, and nice luxuries [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:00 AM Flag
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Oh please. I challenge you to tell me your income and how much MORE in taxes you will pay. (And, by the way, rich people paid that 8 years ago before Bush reduced taxes. They weren't crying their eyes out saying woe is me). What "luxury" will you have to cut out? You should be ashamed of feeling so entitled, more so than any American in previous generations. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:20 AM Flag
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do you live in NYC - have more than 1 child - have a nanny and a child in pre-school????? obviously not [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:00 AM Flag
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OP: Actually, I do, I have two dcs and work full-time. The point is that we CHOOSE to live in NYC, where there tons of benefits, cultural and otherwise that we have access to. Whether you can afford "luxuries" or not, the wealthy have not been paying their fair share of taxes in this country and that is finally changing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:03 AM Flag
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I make more than $250K and don't consider myself "rich", but I'm fully aware that I'm A LOT better off than A LOT of other people. And don't appreciate the "woe is me, I work so much harder than the unwashed masses" posters making everyone else look bad. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:05 AM Flag
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As one of the complainers, I am perfectly willing to give up more money in taxes if it is actually going to help the situation. Based on what I've seen and heard so far, I don't believe this is the case. I see useless projects being started, government becoming more bloated, and corrupt and inefficient corporations being bailed out. If I am giving up more money in taxes I DO retain the right to judge where it is going. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:11 AM Flag
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I think any taxpayer has the right to judge where the $$$ are going, and I think questioning the public policies underlying the tax increases is totally valid. But that's big picture stuff and very different than a lot of the narrow, self-interested view of many here. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:18 AM Flag
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I think it fuels a lot of the bitching, at least a lot of my bitching. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:20 AM Flag
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It doesn't matter whether you consider yourself rich or not -- you are in the top percentile of income earners in the country and my point is just that there is way too much "woe is me" on this board from people who clearly have never really wanted for anything meaningful in their lives. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:13 AM Flag
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Um, yeah, that's what I was saying. Wouldn't you rather argue with people that actually disagree with you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:15 AM Flag
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I'm not complaining and I do make more than $250K, but people DO have the right to complain. Perspective or not, everyone's situation is different. If you make a $100K you live differently from someone who makes $250k. It pinches anyone who has to contribute more. There are people in the world who live well on $10k a year. So if you want perspective, really, you should talk to them. But thats not reasonable, because we all have different expectations. Reduction in means is also difficult, no matter who you are. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:09 AM Flag
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Exactly. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:11 AM Flag
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this is all democrat class warfare. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:11 AM Flag
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it's so pathetic to hear about people giving up "treats" when millions of children lack healthcare. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:15 AM Flag
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and it's so pathetic to hear people complaining that children in the US lack healthcare when children in Africa are dying by the hundreds every day [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:17 AM Flag
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^^ of starvation [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:17 AM Flag
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np: that's such a stupid comeback. Complaining about losing "treats" has no comparison to the various things children lack in different countries. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:21 AM Flag
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Let me help you with facts. Out of 47 million without healthcare 17 qualify for Medicaid, about 17 make over 50,000.00 but choose not to buy it. The rest allmost entirely illegal aliens. You qualify to be counted as uninsured if you lucke insurance for more than a week in a past 2 years. Personally when Obama raises my taxes, I will fire as many employees as needed to make up for my income. That way I will not have to pay for their healthcare twice. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:25 AM Flag
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If you can "fire" employees on a whim, then they aren't doing anything for you, so you are running a pretty poor company. Or, that means you will take on that extra work yourself. So you will keep your high income at the expense of working more. Which is totally appropriate. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:28 AM Flag
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I question your "facts" but in addition to the problem of those that are uninsured, Americans who are insured pay more $$ every year for less coverage and that's a huge drain on our society. It would have cost me twice as much this year than last year to maintain the same level of coverage (my employer reduced the amount of its contribution). Now I have crappy high-deductible coverage that is basically like having no coverage at all (yet I pay almost $400 a month for it). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:34 AM Flag
[ - ] need recommendation for girlie restaurant (mid $) in midtown east tonight with bff who is in town. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:56 AM Flag
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I just ate at Sinigual with a friend. It's not girlie, although it's not not girlie, and it fits the other criteria. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:01 AM Flag
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Thanks. I will check it out. I usually have to select restaurants based on how much food they serve when i go out with dh. he thinks "pretty" restaurants don't serve proper portions. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:04 AM Flag
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If you eat girlie (ie split and have a a great margarita) Rosa is pretty reasonable (east 57th); for good different Japanese, try SEO (east 50th), (great non-sushi options) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:54 AM Flag
[ - ] What is the most difficult issue you are dealing with in your life right now? 113 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:54 AM Flag
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pregnancy loss and all the resulting issues...panic attacks, conflict with dh, disappointment in the actual loss, worry about the future, etc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:57 AM Flag
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my dc may have a learning disability [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:57 AM Flag
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Worrying that my high-paying job is taking a toll on my mental and physical health and disqualifying me from ever receiving financial aid for dc's for private school or college, and yet still not enough to be able to comfortably pay for those things without scrimping on family vacations and other treats. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:58 AM Flag
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lol. good one. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:00 AM Flag
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uh, not a joke [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:00 AM Flag
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be thankful then. you have a highpaying job (why you would worry about financial aid in that case is beyond me)and you still take family vacations and "treats". [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:02 AM Flag
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I'm saying I will no longer be able to afford these treats. What good is a high-paying salary if it's causing me stress and I don't even get to keep most of the money? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:08 AM Flag
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it must not be very high paying. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:12 AM Flag
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high paying jobs with high level of pressure and stress incurs higher level of expenses in your personal life (eating out constantly cuz too exhausted to cook, need to purchase expensive clothing for work, lack of time to shop around for best deal on anything, etc...) in the end, it all seems to zero out doesn't it? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:44 PM Flag
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i know what you mean. i looked at my options: a full time job that was taking up so much of energy and life and time. or just quit, take something part time or cut back on all my work-related expenses and we'd be in almost the same place. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:08 AM Flag
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Oh yes, you are correct. You should be entitled to purchase the best schools for your dc to attend. You are also entitled to have the most fabulous family vacations you desire. You are also entitled to have every treat you want, and make sure your dc has everything his or her heart desires, because you work hard. Well, it's all your fault because your job doesn't pay enough. Get a higher paying job. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:24 AM Flag
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uh, my job DOES pay enough. that's my point. however in just a few months (days) i won't be receiving the benefits. you will though, so congrats. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:25 AM Flag
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np: first time you mentioned losing your job. isn't that what you are worried about more than losing vacations? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:32 AM Flag
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Actually, I won't, since we're at the highest tax bracket. NO, your job doesn't pay enough, just like you complain that people working 16/hours day at minimum wage should get a higher paying job. It's all your fault, and given that you got a tax break for the last 8 years so we could get into this mess should have meant you saved more, but you spent it on stupid luxuries. We didn't, so we are happy to pay the added taxes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:34 AM Flag
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WTF are you talking about? You are happy to pay the added taxes in the midst of the oncoming depression. Real Estate is falling, investments are down 50%, automakers are going down... and it is just the beginning. Seriously, you are not paying additional taxes. You are looking a redistribution of wealth to line your pockets. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.28.09, 03:42 AM Flag
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unemployed, depressed DH and my lack of empathy and attraction for him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:21 AM Flag
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Well, this was the "for worse" part of the vows you agreed to on your wedding day. Those weren't just quaint words to say in a white dress before a big party, you know. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:59 AM Flag
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me too on the depressed DH and my lack of empathy and attraction for him. What do we do? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.13.09, 01:44 PM Flag
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how to keep my job this year. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:58 AM Flag
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loss of my job, inability to find a new one, running out of money to pay the bills [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:59 AM Flag
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same here [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:07 AM Flag
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gl to you... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:11 AM Flag
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us too [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:31 AM Flag
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infertility [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:05 AM Flag
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poppy seeds stuck in teeth. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:07 AM Flag
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finding a restaurant for tonight w/bff [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:11 AM Flag
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I'm sitting here sobbing because I'm so in love and suspect he's going to break up with me on Monday. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:32 AM Flag
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why? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:49 AM Flag
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If you think such profoundly negative thoughts, it will become a self-fulfilling prophecy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:49 AM Flag
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hello? you read this post and you think her biggest problem is that he will in fact break up with her? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 09:08 AM Flag
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why such mean responses? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 10:44 AM Flag
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My husband's unemployment. I don't think he is ever going to be able to get another job again. Seriously. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:46 AM Flag
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He must not be trying very hard. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:48 AM Flag
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Thanks for your kind words. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:50 AM Flag
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Sorry, but it's true. We're at 93% employment. There are jobs out there. Methinks he's just being picky. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:52 AM Flag
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np. wait, what? that's not equal across all industries though. banking and journalism (for example) are not hiring at all right now. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:11 PM Flag
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Not necessarily. I was just hired in journalism. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:44 PM Flag
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Why never again? Does he no longer have the required skills? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:52 AM Flag
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Bingo. He was an equities trader. Never made crazy amounts of money. A liveable wage for NYC. His skill set is so small. Very hard to go into an entry level position when we have 2 small kids. The answer has been for me to go back to work and him be a stay at home dad. I was hoping it was temporary but now I am not so sure. He is going back to school at night fwiw. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 09:11 AM Flag
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Good. I am a trader myself, and no offense to your husband, but I also see a certain lack of skillset among some desks (I'm guessing he was a cash/"flow" trader). What classes is he taking? Hopefully he can get back to work, perhaps as a financial advisor or consultant or accountant. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 09:26 AM Flag
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So he IS being picky. Has he even entertained the notion of re-inventing himself as a welder or electrician? Maybe a plumber? Bricklayer? I'm guessing not. These white collar pansies who are afraid to do anything that gets their hands dirty disgust me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 09:35 AM Flag
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np: And the bitter filth who have nothing to do but name call anonymous posters who they don't know from a hole in the wall disgust me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 10:45 AM Flag
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np. That would be "WHOM" they don't know. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 10:47 AM Flag
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Do you know how long it takes to become a skilled worker like a welder, plumber, electrician, etc.? Years and years. And it is a struggle to get into the union. I would be beyond happy if he has the ability to do one of these valuable jobs. Why would we be looking down on them? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 12:05 PM Flag
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My finance DH was laid off last year and is now a fully licensed electrician. Took less than a year. And trust me, the IBEW was THRILLED to welcome him ... and his union dues ... into the fold. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 12:09 PM Flag
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Interesting. Did he have to complete an apprenticeship? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 12:11 PM Flag
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Yep. 6 months. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 12:14 PM Flag
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I cannot pay bills. Cannot finance production orders I am receiving in my business, so cannot deliver. choking here. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:50 AM Flag
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no offense, but why are you on UB. shouldn't you be out there applying for a small business loan??? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:52 AM Flag
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I have tried. My business credit sucks, as I cannot pay my bills. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 09:05 AM Flag
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Whether or not to abandon the book I've been working on for three years. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 09:02 AM Flag
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persistence and flexibility = success! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 09:06 AM Flag
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OMG. Are you me? Okay, I've decided not to abandon it because it has been three years of my life, but I am terrified that I've wasted those three years and if this doesn't sell my career will be over. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:03 PM Flag
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Want to swap book projects? I don't think I can look at mine for even one more minute. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:05 PM Flag
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maybe it would do us some good. (or maybe neither of us should be on UB.) what kind of book are you writing? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:06 PM Flag
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^^^oh, did I mention I'm pg and HAVE to finish this before db arrives or the gig's really up? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:07 PM Flag
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A biography. You? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:10 PM Flag
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Really? Wow! So much research. Fiction. I've also let some research hang me up though. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:11 PM Flag
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remaining married [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 09:06 AM Flag
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sig decline in my business due to economy resulting in lower income, restructuring at dh's job, sig decline in assets due to markets, all w new baby at home [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 09:24 AM Flag
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we're twins. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 09:42 AM Flag
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or: i'm sorry. things will get better. i say that every night before i go to bed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 09:56 AM Flag
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same to you :) i try to keep positive, say this is only temporary and that this too shall pass. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 01:28 PM Flag
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being the breadwinner, sick dh and currently going blind in my right eye. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 09:32 AM Flag
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going blind in my right eye [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 09:33 AM Flag
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Oh my goodness. So sorry. Please read "The Power of Your Subconscious Mind". I'm reading it right now. Trust me, it couldn't hurt. Good luck! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 09:39 AM Flag
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do you know why this is happening? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 12:22 PM Flag
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Trying to figure out why I'm addicted to a this site when there are so many mean people on it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 09:50 AM Flag
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ita [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 01:21 PM Flag
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trying to convince this guy to hire me so i can have a second job and some guarantee of income, my "real" job is commission only [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 09:54 AM Flag
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My hard-headed 19 year old son. He's making bad choices and I can't do anything about it. I guess I can be there to pick up the pieces. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 09:56 AM Flag
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Why can't you do anything about it? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 12:20 PM Flag
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Waiting to hear on new job which will give me life raft out of current job which is sinking. Primary breadwinner and don't think I have ever been this scared for my family's financial health. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 10:37 AM Flag
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widowhood [ Reply | More ]
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bipolar dc [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 10:56 AM Flag
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My weight and PCOS. I had stomach stapled, lost 115 lbs (was over 310lbs before that- do not flame!!) had 2 dcs, now 40lbs heavier than I should be. I have PCOS ( polycystic ovarian syndrome) and cannot lose weight. Exercise, working with nutritonist. Nothing is working. No more reg periods, feeling like I am losing everything I gained. Wanna crawl in a hole somewhere. Petrified I will gain ALL the weight back and not be able to take care of my family. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 10:58 AM Flag
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You need willpower. Eat less, work out more, simple equation. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 12:20 PM Flag
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np: so not the case for those w a medical condition like PCOS [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 01:26 PM Flag
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Are you working with a RE or other specialists? Have your tried metformin or any other medication? (I had success with Metformin, but am lucky my symptoms pretty much disappeared after I had DB#1. My sister also has PCOS and is seeing a specialist in Chicago who has her taking some kind of anti-androgen drug (not met) and she's doing very well with that.) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 01:25 PM Flag
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my tendancy to procrastinate and not take care of things I should. also can't find my passport and I need it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 12:24 PM Flag
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np: My 18 mo old may have a serious disease, my 4 yr old was just diagnosed with asthma, and I may have a blood clot in my lung. ALL THIS HAPPENED THIS WEEK :( [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 12:35 PM Flag
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I'm sorry you are going through this. Hope things turn out to be not so bad for you and your family [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 12:39 PM Flag
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trying to get my dc into kindergarten for sept and losing weight. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 03:44 PM Flag
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The death of my dc [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 06:51 PM Flag
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oh my god, I'm so sorry. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:05 PM Flag
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Thanks, it has been two months since dc died. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:08 PM Flag
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There is nothing anyone can say to take the pain away, but I am sure you have people in your life who love and support you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:13 PM Flag
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Have you been in touch with Compassionate Friends? I know many people find comfort there. [It wasn't at all helpful for my goddaughter's mom, but another friend said they saved her life.] [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:25 PM Flag
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no, but it was suggested by a friend of mine. An acquitance asked me about a month ago if I was OK and I said "I will never be the same" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:30 PM Flag
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No, you certainly won't. I've been walking my best friend through this for almost three years now. [She lost her only daughter, age 18, after a 20 month battle with cancer.] Just yesterday, she said there is a wall that exists between people who have lost children, and the rest of the world. She described it as a curtain of water that you could see through, but not quite, and the sound of the water would drown out everything at times. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:35 PM Flag
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She added that what was more amazing -- to her, anyway -- is that no one on my side of the curtain (which is to say, those of us who haven't lost children) even knows the curtain exists. Yet anytime she talks to any of the other moms from the cancer ward, they instantly know what she's talking about. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:37 PM Flag
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I feel like it defines me - people avoid/pity me because I am the woman that lost a dc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:40 PM Flag
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I always worry about that actually. This happened to a very good friend of mine and I am very concerned that she is experiencing this and I am far away. This also happened to parents of a very good friend of mine who died in her 20's. Even my parents who were there friends made an effort in the beginning to always include them but just fell off from the friendship. My mother feels guilty and yet... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:43 PM Flag
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^^^ I am sorry that you feel isolated. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:45 PM Flag
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Or people are afraid to be around you because you are the embodiment of their worst fear, and proof that we really have so little control over things that can happen. My friend's therapist told her, "Death rewrites your address book." There is a massive shift that occurs because people no longer know how to talk to you. For the first six months, I was the only one who continued to make jokes around her. The jokes sometimes made her cry because she would become acutely aware that no one treated her as a person anymore. I desperately hope that you have a friend who provides whatever comfort you're able to receive. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:49 PM Flag
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You sound like a very good person and it sounds like you really took the time to understand what your friend was going through and be a true friend through her trials and a continued friend. What a good person you are. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:52 PM Flag
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Thank you. Sincerely. But... No, I'm not a good person. In fact, many people would tell you that I'm tactless and an asshole. It just so happens that I was -- am -- what she needed. She's standing in a minefield, and everyone is standing at the edge of the field wondering what approach to take, terrified of stepping on a mine. I couldn't stand the idea of losing my best friend, so I had no choice but to walk through, get blown up a few times, and just keep walking. In some ways, everything I've done I've done out of self-preservation. I can't lose my friend. And I refuse to accept that she's lost to me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:00 PM Flag
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Well, I still think she's lucky to have you. And I'm glad you haven't lost your best friend. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:06 PM Flag
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your posts have been very helpful, thanks [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:58 PM Flag
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I'm here a lot, always happy to write or shut up as needed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:02 PM Flag
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I believe this. Do you have family around? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:35 PM Flag
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No, but they would not be much help/comfort. Two of my siblings didn't come to the funeral. Some families don't handle tragedy well. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:52 PM Flag
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I'm sorry. I hope you have/find someone like the other responder to help you through this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:57 PM Flag
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That sounds so unimaginably hard--that they didn't come. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:58 PM Flag
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My friend's [now ex] sister-in-law tried to have me arrested at the funeral. I dare say many families don't handle tragedy well. And I'm sorry you have one of them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:10 PM Flag
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oh god. there can't be anything more difficult than that. my thoughts are with you tonight. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:08 PM Flag
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Did you post this because you want to talk about it? If so, I'm here, happy to listen in silence or respond as needed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:09 PM Flag
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poster just above and I wanted to say the same thing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:10 PM Flag
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waiting to find out if the mole on my face that was removed this week is cancerous. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:08 PM Flag
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This is such a sad thread and yet it's so honest and brings a lot of things into perspective. I just want to give you all big hugs. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:18 PM Flag
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np: so- so- true. It really shows that when the going gets tough- you really just need your loved ones to support you be it friends or family. Your health is the main thing you need to be thankful for. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.28.09, 06:49 AM Flag
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How to pay for private school and preschool next yr and not blow through our life savings. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:56 PM Flag
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worrying and wondering who the father of my unborn child is. beloved dh or brief affair. if it's not dh, will i know? (dh and affair look similar) can i keep the secret forever? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.13.09, 01:57 PM Flag
[ - ] Does anyone have a recommendation of a place to get cool kids' sneakers downtown? Looking for colorful/retro, 35-40 bucks--not fancy, just different than the standard pink/white for girls. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:51 AM Flag
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order from endless.com and you will get them by monday. lots of options and good prices. i always order several and choose a few/one. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:55 AM Flag
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op Thanks! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 09:13 AM Flag
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If your child has small feet, sometimes Daffy's is a good bet for cool funky sneakers. Space kiddets also has neat shoes, but again for smaller sizes. Might be pricier than that range, though. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 09:19 AM Flag
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Geox? Near Union Square. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 09:21 AM Flag
[ - ] Just had job interview for job I really wanted. I was phenomenally nervous & I think I totally flubbed. They didn't make any small talk to ease me into, but asked me what I would do with job even though I wasn't quite sure what the job was. So sad. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
New York City 02.27.09, 07:50 AM Flag
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send them a thank you letter and include highlights [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:51 AM Flag
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op i colored my hair for this man. i brushed teeth with toothpaste & then baking soda, used mouthwash, & used Crest Whitestrips.... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:53 AM Flag
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were you looking to get a job or give a bj? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:54 AM Flag
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lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:56 AM Flag
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maybe you should have spent more time prepping for the interview and less time concerned about your breath [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:56 AM Flag
[ - ] I'm on first round of Clomid (50mg) and this morning's u/s showed 2 follicles at 25mm and 20mm. Haven't gotten the surge on OPK yet but assume it'll happen in a day or 2. Anyone have follies this size and have luck getting pregnant? TTC for almost a year and trying to stay positive. Thanks! 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
TTC 02.27.09, 07:41 AM Flag
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Follicles are usually larger when on clomid vs follistim [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:38 AM Flag
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np: don't most REs trigger follies at around 18-20mm? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:40 AM Flag
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Not with clomid. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 09:26 AM Flag
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I think it is great that you have 2. Not sure on the size but I have had 2 successful pregnancies with Clomid. Never had 2 follicles. Try to relax and good luck. Also, FWIW, I think it does help to lay in bed with legs up a bit after sex. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:42 AM Flag
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Congrats on your dc's - & thanks for the encouragement! I do the legs up thing too :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 10:24 AM Flag
[ - ] If the preschool letters go out next Tuesday, do we get them on Wed or Thur? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
Preschool/Kids 02.27.09, 07:40 AM Flag
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you get them (for the most part) the following day [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:41 AM Flag
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Last year, I received all of them the following day. I think they put them in the mail at 12:01 a.m. so you do receive them the next day. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:40 AM Flag
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My poor mailman should be wearing a Kevlar vest! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 10:03 AM Flag
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Just a reminder, ongoing schools that also have PS classes had the choice to send out their PS letters last Friday (Bank Street did this, for example). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 10:22 AM Flag
[ - ] Does anyone use earmuffs / ear plugs on their baby to protect their baby's hearing? If so, recommendations? Have a 2 month old, and the jackhammering/construction outside of our apartment, along with the screeching brakes of buses, is driving me batty. 17 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:34 AM Flag
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first time parent? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:34 AM Flag
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Yes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:35 AM Flag
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it's really nothing to worry about. what floor do you live on? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:53 AM Flag
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Actually, it's okay inside our apartment (we live inside a high-rise). It's just hard to avoid when we walk outside with the stroller. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:57 AM Flag
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really don't worry about it. your child will be fine. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:59 AM Flag
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I have 3 kids..and am in Manhattan. Your dc ears are ok outside. The dc needs to get used to sound. If the sound is too much then avoid walking in front of a jackhammer. I was born and raised here and my hearing is fine [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:41 AM Flag
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1st time parent or 1st time in a big city? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:44 AM Flag
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1st time parent. Am worried DB might inherit my hearing, which wasn't always great but definitely got worse since moving to NYC. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:52 AM Flag
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have u tried earplugs? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:53 AM Flag
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No - wondering what woud be good for baby without risk of damage to ear. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:55 AM Flag
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OP: would these look ridiculous in a stroller? honest opinion please: [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:53 AM Flag
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1. yes, they would look totally ridiculous. 2. why would you want to deprive your child of hearing? half the point of going outside is the stimulation, the busyness, the things to see and hear. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:55 AM Flag
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I figure he'd still get stimulation (just in muffled form), and would take them off in quiet areas like Central Park. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:59 AM Flag
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would a white noise machine cover the noise? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:55 AM Flag
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but the baby isn't wakign from the noise. the baby seems fine. it's just the mom that's worried. a white noise machine would be useful if the baby was waking up from loud or sudden noises. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:58 AM Flag
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My recommendation is for mom to take a chill pill. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:59 AM Flag
[ - ] Anyone else very nervous about dc getting into preschool? The only places we had stellar playdates are schools that have, like, one opening for next year. All other playdates dc wasn't feeling well or I didn't like the school. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
NY Schools 02.27.09, 07:33 AM Flag
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I am, yes. We applied almost entirely to places attached to ongoing because I thought I couldn't bear to go through the whole process again in 2 years. Regretting that now and hoping he just has a place to go next year. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:36 AM Flag
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op: I wish I had done that. I've vowed to move before ds applies to K. Can't take this again, esp considering how much worse the K appl process is. (That and I don't want to live in a city where you have to go through hell to get your child into private school.) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:40 AM Flag
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well, we're not moving, so I figured this was it. Don't know what I'll do if he doesn't get a spot as we can't afford to keep nanny. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:42 AM Flag
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op: We're probably not moving, either! :) But I will REALLY hate it here if we don't get in. There are always preschool alternatives but hard to think that no school wanted your sweet child, you know? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:50 AM Flag
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A few years ago, the only prechool DC got into was our 5th choice (we applied to a bunch of preschools affiliated with churches and synagogues neither of which we were members). We erroneously thought it would be next to impossible to get into a good ongoing from a non-TT preschool. Fast forward a few years, DC was admitted to a couple of great ongoing schools (TT and 2nd tier). It's almost all about the child and not about which preschool they come from. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 09:33 AM Flag
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Yeah- I have a great feeling about 4 of the 6 schools we applied to as my ds was endearing on the playdates, but we have no connections whatsoever so that worries me. Everyone I know had someone put in word for them in one way or another- I'll be happy if one of the 4 gives us a shot. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 10:02 AM Flag
[ - ] If DC goes to St. Ann's or Packer, where are good nearby neighborhoods to live, preferably in a brownstone? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
New York City 02.27.09, 07:33 AM Flag
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Um - Brooklyn Heights [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:34 AM Flag
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Op: I should have added that I was interested in areas other than Brooklyn Heights. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:36 AM Flag
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np: You need to tell us how close you want to be (walking distance?) And, your budget. I mean, brownstones in surrounding neighborhoods, even in this declining market, tend to be 1.5 - 2 million and those are the ones that need work. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:43 AM Flag
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Why not the Heights? It's the best one. Awesome neighborhood. Cobble Hill is fine too, Boerum Hill is in walking distance. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:43 AM Flag
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Cobble Hill is absolutely wonderful [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:04 AM Flag
[ - ] If DC goes to Packer or St. Ann's, where are good neightborhoods nearby to live, preferably in a brownstone. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:31 AM Flag
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You haven't been to Brooklyn yet? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:33 AM Flag
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Brooklyn Heights, Park Slope, Cobble Hill in that order [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:36 AM Flag
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Park Slope is too far away [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:05 AM Flag
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Agreed, and the F train drops you too far from the schools. Brooklyn Heights, Cobble Hill, Carroll Gardens, in that order. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:17 AM Flag
[ - ] So confused. Is the tax rate actually going UP or are the Bush tax breaks just expiring and we are going BACK to the old marginal tax rate that existed till 2000? I know its hard to take away a benefit once its given, but these are financially hard times for the govt. as well. 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:30 AM Flag
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The Obama administratin wants to go back to the old marginal tax rate, but in addition to that they want to limit itemized deductions for people in the higher tax brackets, which will result in more tax. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:34 AM Flag
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Aah, I didn't read that. OK, so now I get the ire. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:35 AM Flag
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What I'm wondering and no one is talking about, is what the actual impact will be, if like most UMC NYC-area taxpayers, you are already paying AMT - you're losing the benefit of most of those deductions already and probably already paying significantly more than your liability under the current regular tax system. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:41 AM Flag
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I don't think this has to do with real impact. If you didn't like the govt., if you didn't agree that taxation was the way to go, it wouldn't matter what the real impact was. You would hate this change and you would bitch about it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:16 AM Flag
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^ In fact, there are no impartial logical observers. Someone who will compute (if its really possible) the impact and either agree with the changes or not. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:17 AM Flag
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And income tax goes up to 39.6% (from 35%) for those who file with more than 250K income... this is why Wall St. hates Obama [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:47 AM Flag
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lol. Yes Wall Street hates Obama because they've been overpaid for running banks into debt and now might have to pay higher taxes. boo hoo. PS, it's a MARGINAL rate, so cry me a river -- they pay that rate only the money beyond a certain income. You guys are horribly selfish. I don't mind the higher taxes because there's always savings to be had when you have a high income. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:55 AM Flag
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NP: Honestly, I'm more concerned about whether I'll have a job a year from now than about how much taxes I'll end up paying. I think that's the thought process we need to have - less "how will this affect my paycheck" and more "is this the right way to fix this awful sitation we're in right now? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:58 AM Flag
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But its the marginal rate, right? So you only pay the additional on the marginal additional amount. And I'm a Wall St mom (at home today) and not everyone hates Obama. What is he going to do? We had a 6% deficit even before the crisis began. You can't tax your way out of the problem, but it HAS to be part of the solution right? ITs either that, or leave it be and let the dollar devalue/inflation go up, till your marginal worth is a lot less than the 39.6% tax is leaving you with. -OP [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:01 AM Flag
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Then why not continue taxing the lower classes too? This plan is essentially just a shift of money, which may not be used wisely by those who receive it. I would be a lot happier paying taxes if I felt they were going to a good cause. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:03 AM Flag
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Lower classes? Where did you grow up. According to most economists, the lower income bracket has a larger propensity to consume. That means if you didn't tax them as much, they would still spend it on necessities. While higher income people will save some of the money and can afford to pay higher taxes. Marginal tax rates have always been around. Are you upset because the lower income does not feel a greater pinch than you do? Or do you not agree that a flat tax rate, say 35%, would be unpleasant for you, but completely choke a poorer person? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:24 AM Flag
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We are continuing to tax the "lower classes". [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:25 AM Flag
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It's not so much that the taxes are being increased, its what you get for them. Most people on this board will end us paying more than 50% in taxes (fed, state, city). Thats comparable to Scandinavian countries where there is a huge safety net (socialized medicine, education including college, retirement benefits) which justifies the taxes. What do we get for forking out so much? I still need to buy insurance, I need to pay for my kids' college, and I will need to save for my own retirement. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:37 AM Flag
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NP: That's the one thing that's bothering me as well - from what I read, the administration doesn't intend to provide any of the benefits that the tax increases will finance to individuals in the higher brackets. I'm happy to finance a better social safety net, but it should be there for everyone. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:44 AM Flag
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I agree. I think that we need a real reformist attitude here with some long term outlook. We are paying 50% taxes to get rid of part of the deficit. If the deficit goes down, then either one of these is true. 1) The taxes would go down or 2) the safety net would be planned that would justify the higher rates. Bush reduced the tax rates while increasing the deficit. I think his admin. was highly populist and short sighted in their policy. Obama is going with his only options now, the real test will be what he does later. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 08:29 AM Flag
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You are correct. However, the extra taxes WOULD have paid for all of that safety net had Bush and Republicans not driven the US into huge debt by LOWERING your taxes for years. So, unfortunately, all of us need to pay up. We're in the highest tax bracket, too, and it's a MARGINAL rate, so you are only paying higher taxes on money BEYOND a certain income, which means you should be able to afford it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:46 AM Flag
[ - ] Does anyone use earmuffs on their baby to protect their hearing? If so, what kind and would you recommend them? I have a 2 month old, and the construction/jackhammering outside our apartment, along with the screeching noise of bus brakes, is driving me batty. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:29 AM Flag
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lol. good luck with that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:30 AM Flag
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that's city life for ya. your baby will be fine. he/she will adapt. deal with the loud noise or move [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:32 AM Flag
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1st time mom or 1st time in a big city? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.09, 07:32 AM Flag
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