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[ - ] anyone here has a dc with measles who hasn't gotten vaxed for it yet?? tia my dc has red spots on the back of his neck and his thighs. he is irriable 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 08:39 AM Flag
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Could be roseola, if your dc is a year old. Common and will go away [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 08:42 AM Flag
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op- no its not it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 08:47 AM Flag
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what do the spots look like? does he have a fever [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 08:50 AM Flag
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call your pediatrician and seriously, avoid any med advice from UB, especially about something like rashes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 09:05 AM Flag
[ - ] ate at Josie's (ues) last night. DH was one of two men there as customers. Is the place known to be a spot for gay women? Or was it just a fluke? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
New York City 05.25.08, 08:28 AM Flag
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Funny. I always think of it as a girlie place with its veggie food. Because of location, it's not a gay men hangout [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 08:43 AM Flag
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It's a kinda woman-friendly place anyway (healthy menu). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 08:44 AM Flag
[ - ] what did you refrain from (or however you want to word it) when ttc? for me, only rx drugs that are dangerous or they are not sure about. curious abut others. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 08:26 AM Flag
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nothing until I found out I was pg. I am fairly relaxed abt stuff like that though. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 09:05 AM Flag
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while ttc - nothing. we weren't actively trying (timing, opk, etc). so we just lived our lives, had fun and got lucky [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 09:50 AM Flag
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now is the time to do your partying, drinking, going out etc. Enjoy the life before kids, because it sure slows down with a new baby! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 10:00 AM Flag
[ - ] when did you stop doing sit-ups when pg? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 08:23 AM Flag
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Just to be on the safe side I stopped doing them about 5 yrs before ttc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 08:56 AM Flag
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LOL! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 09:21 AM Flag
[ - ] If your dh was negating, mean-spirited, and degrading toward you on a regular basis, would you consider divorce? In my case, he is a very good dh in every other respect.... 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
New York City 05.25.08, 08:19 AM Flag
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The food here is terrible! And the portions are too small! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 08:23 AM Flag
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Leave him. If you think it's good to stay for the dc, remember that the dc is living in this environment of you being degraded on a regular basis. Your dc is growing up with this as your spirit (or lack thereof) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 08:24 AM Flag
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what "other respect" is there if on a regular basis he treats you like shit? try marital therapy or a trial separation. failing that divorce when the kids are young is less trauma IMO [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 08:38 AM Flag
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OP: what if you kinda knew this about him before you married him, you just were so hot to trot that you made a decision to deal with it. that's not the case for me, but maybe 5% of it.... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 05:33 PM Flag
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you still need to be happy esp. for your kids. ifyou made a mistake remedy it. don't be a martyr. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 08:15 PM Flag
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if you have kids then yes i would, because i'd be teaching my dcs (esp dds) that being treated this way is ok [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 08:17 PM Flag
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Are you unhappy? Would you be happier without him? My exbf was like this. I was so bent on getting married I probably wouldve married him if I hadnt been lured away by another man... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 08:18 PM Flag
[ - ] Do any of you 98's out there think you have a shot at Anderson? Sounds like there will be 99s who get shut out. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
NY Schools 05.25.08, 08:11 AM Flag
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non sib, sorry no chance at all. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 08:13 AM Flag
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They only have 50 or so spots and there are over 200 99s in the city and many will make it there first choice. Of course there will be 99 shut-outs. 98s do not stand a chance unless a sib. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 08:24 AM Flag
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No. We're 98 and ranked it first but know we have no chance. If only there'd been onsites this year! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 08:34 AM Flag
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Same here! I think my 98 would have kicke *** in an onsite--very charming (unlike my shy 99) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 09:45 AM Flag
[ - ] If you had 2nd DB in mid-thirties (33-35), how long did it take you to conceive? 15 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 08:07 AM Flag
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db #3 at age 34..took 1 try. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 08:12 AM Flag
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37 and still trying for #2 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 08:20 AM Flag
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35 just had #2 took 2 months. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 08:24 AM Flag
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Got pg with 3rd at 34. Took 3 months. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 09:08 AM Flag
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33, 3 months off bc, but 1st month that i actually thought about the timing of ovulation. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 09:20 AM Flag
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^ have friend, same age ttc #2, and been ttc now for 11 months. luck of the draw i guess. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 09:20 AM Flag
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Been trying almost 2 years for #2. I'm 35. It took 2 years for #1 and I was 29. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 09:22 AM Flag
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THe first time 15 minutes, the second 3 months, the third and last time 3 months. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 09:46 AM Flag
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#1 at 35 took 1 yr [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 10:10 AM Flag
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oops, hit enter too soon. 2nd took 9 mos at 37, 3rd took 10 mos at 39. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 10:14 AM Flag
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db#1 at 34, db#2 due on bday - 36. first time took 3 months, 2nd time took one month [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 10:16 AM Flag
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2.5 years + IVF [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 10:44 AM Flag
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At 36 took 3 mo, then had mc, then 1 mo. #1 took 3 mo at 34. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 10:45 AM Flag
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4 months [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 11:05 AM Flag
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^^^^I was 34 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 11:05 AM Flag
[ - ] Made chili on Friday night. It's been sitting on the stove in a pot (covered) until this morning. Is it still good? 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 08:06 AM Flag
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if there's meat in it, no [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 08:07 AM Flag
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ugh, that's what I thought. I totally forgot all about it. Oh well. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 08:09 AM Flag
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No. It's gross. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 08:07 AM Flag
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from Friday to Sunday? good GOD woman are you nuts??? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 08:08 AM Flag
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no, just lazy and tired. Well, come to think of it, a little nuts too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 08:09 AM Flag
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8) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 08:10 AM Flag
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ummm..lets see...save 5$ worth of chili or get food poisoning...hmmmm...can't decide [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 08:09 AM Flag
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it is a tough one. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 08:10 AM Flag
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we are here to help you [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 08:10 AM Flag
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chili = yum (usually); bad chili = fitting into my bathing suit :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 08:12 AM Flag
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thats a consideration [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 08:13 AM Flag
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see. It is a tough one. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 08:13 AM Flag
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sometimes you don't lose weight with stomach virus [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 08:14 AM Flag
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very good point. In the garbage it goes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 08:17 AM Flag
[ - ] poll: when did you start potty training your ds? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
Toddler 05.25.08, 08:00 AM Flag
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3 months before 3rd birthday for ds#1--took 1 day . for ds#2 started same age and it took FOREVER dd --age 2 and a half--took 1 week [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 08:04 AM Flag
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Dude, hang in there. It's hard as hell but it WILL be ok. It never really 100% goes away - I'm still pissed off at my younger sister ;) - but it becomes less hard. Especially if you're emotional, potentially experiencing heightened PP hormones, it can be an awful experience. Hang in there and know that it gets better!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 08:09 AM Flag
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I love this response [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 08:11 AM Flag
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2yo both times, took 1 week [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 09:16 AM Flag
[ - ] I have met one, NYC 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 07:53 AM Flag
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vivian? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 07:54 AM Flag
[ - ] Anyone been to Kennebunkport, Maine? Nice for long weekend? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 07:53 AM Flag
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worth the drive [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 07:54 AM Flag
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yes, great. teh Maien Stay is a nice bed and breakfast but make sure to be int he main house. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 09:09 AM Flag
[ - ] Does anyone know when eyelashes grow in a fetus? Ihad a preemie and overnight at 39 weeks, she grew eyelashes... 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 07:53 AM Flag
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interesting [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 07:54 AM Flag
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all 3 of my dcs arrived at exactly 37 weeks with eyelashes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 07:55 AM Flag
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she was born w/some but the grew considerably overnight [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 08:04 AM Flag
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that is pretty cool. I love this about babies [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 08:05 AM Flag
[ - ] Do you know any Vivians under the age of 5? Where do you live? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 07:52 AM Flag
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wow I never thought to research a name [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 07:53 AM Flag
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sigh, if you like a name USE IT> you can not drive yourself nuts wondering what other poepl will think...too popular? too trendy?? who cares, really [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 07:53 AM Flag
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Thank you, Ava's mom. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 07:55 AM Flag
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no...lol...David after his grandfather. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 07:56 AM Flag
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plus 3 other dcs with equally boring names (according to SIL) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 07:57 AM Flag
[ - ] 10yodd keeps tattling on 12 yo & 8 yo brothers,this is new and I can't stand it. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 07:52 AM Flag
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Figure out WHY, what is driving the tattling and respond to that with whatever she's in need of. Attention? Feeling empowered? Heard? Being thought of as the good one? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 07:59 AM Flag
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probably all of those reasons sigh [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 08:00 AM Flag
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I went to a lecture on bullying and the speaker said something interesting about tattling -- that you can remind DC that there is a difference between telling on someone b/c their behavior is unsafe (or mean or whatever) or telling to get them in trouble (and that's what tattling really is -- telling to get someone in trouble). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 08:05 AM Flag
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I do and still, the tattling. It's getting better-I talk to her about ti a lot. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 08:07 AM Flag
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It's too bad that it's not as simple as explaining it once and being done! Something about the distinction struck me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 08:25 AM Flag
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try not reacting. she gets a reaction from you when she tattles and you say you talk to her alot about it. Try doing other thigns with her so that it will negate the power of tattling on sibs. When she come sto you to tattle say somethign like "that;s interesting, what do you want for lunch and change the topic. just a thought. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 08:49 AM Flag
[ - ] anyone else having trouble reading old posts? when I click on a post, a new page pops up saying something is wrong and ub has been notified. Anyone else? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 07:48 AM Flag
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Happening to me, too. Disappointing b/c that's one of the things that I liked about the new UB! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 08:07 AM Flag
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Me too. I found if you click the plus sign next to the post in a search, it expands on the page. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 08:08 AM Flag
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op:thanks - this helped! I'm using the search function to read old posts on a topic and getting frustrated that I can't! thanks again [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 08:12 AM Flag
[ - ] I'm pregnant. At what point won't I be able to sleep on my stomach or back? How many weeks approx. (I'm at 13 now)? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 07:48 AM Flag
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Stomach when you start to show, for me, back sleeping ended at around 26 weeks- the snoogle pillow saved my life- I'd look into that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.08, 08:44 AM Flag
[ - ] similac or enfamil? 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
Newborn 05.25.08, 07:45 AM Flag
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