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[ - ] DS is turning 4 soon, I always thought I just wanted 1, but starting to think I really want a 2nd child. I am 39 DH is 44. Is it too late? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:59 AM Flag
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Not at all! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 04:06 AM Flag
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Not even close. My kids are 7 and 16 months. I'm 44. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 04:31 AM Flag
[ - ] Thoughts on the name Nina? 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:41 AM Flag
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Very pretty. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:48 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:50 AM Flag
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Very feminine, pretty and classic. No one will ever mistake her for a man. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:49 AM Flag
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Love it, but unfortunately know a very annoying person named Nina! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:50 AM Flag
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A girly girl name, [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:52 AM Flag
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I don't know what is think of name if I'd heard in any other context from character on the young and the restless, and very promiscuous girl in high school, and judge on project runway. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 04:18 AM Flag
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Rappers sometimes use Nina as a slang for a "Nine" or 9 millimeter handgun. As in "riding around with that nina" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 04:38 AM Flag
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np: I learn something new on UB every day. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 05:19 AM Flag
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It's grown on me, but always struck me as a name that sounded a little bit "lightweight". [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 05:06 AM Flag
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Love love love it and used it for my dd. :-) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 05:14 AM Flag
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fat girl name. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 05:18 AM Flag
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Sounds Hispanic. nothing wrong with that, I just picture Nina as a little Hispanic girl [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 05:19 AM Flag
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My high school resident mean girl was named Nina, so I don't like it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 05:20 AM Flag
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Mina [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 11:16 AM Flag
[ - ] Why do parents allow their 10 year old to stay up until 11:30pm? 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:39 AM Flag
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Because it's summer and they don't care what you think? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:40 AM Flag
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Bad parenting [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:43 AM Flag
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Refer to the "they don't care what you think" portion of the post. Replace with "no one cares what you think". I think parents who get their panties in a wad over spanking are bad parents. Oh well [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:45 AM Flag
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I'm glad you're a perfect parent. Every DC of perfect parents I knew growing up went absolutely wild when they got on their own. Don't wish that for you, but it's what I saw. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:45 AM Flag
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Parents are so dumb. 9 and 10 year olds aren't adults. They would rather be their BFF [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:44 AM Flag
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Mine are not tired at all. Both still up. 10 and 14. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:46 AM Flag
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It's summer and 1130 isn't that late. Get over yourself [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:47 AM Flag
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This. When there were only 4 tv channels, and everything that happened in life after 9pm was tailored for adults, kids went to bed earlier and got up earlier. Now, every person has a different daily routine and no one is tied to a community-wide tacit agreement that some times are for certain things. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 11:55 AM Flag
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I wish I were asleep. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:51 AM Flag
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who cares if it's not yours [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:55 AM Flag
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As long as they don't have to wake up early, please tell me what the problem is? I personally like my kids to sleep in a bit so I can too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:57 AM Flag
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Get a life and MYOB. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 04:40 AM Flag
[ - ] How do you deal with friends with few technological graces? I have a friend who is decent when I see her but has a very weird and rude seeming communication style in text. Asks for things weirdly, rarely texts a thank you, texts often come through with massive typos (not that it matters that much, but it adds to the perception of her thoughtlessness). She writes for a living so I find it odd that she has such off putting written communication skills. In person however she is mostly very pleasant. Let it go? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:20 AM Flag
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yes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:24 AM Flag
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Some people just aren't into texting, its probably not personal. I find this to be more common in people late 30s and above. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:36 AM Flag
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Yes I find younger people to be much more stickers about spelling and grammar when texting. Totes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:46 AM Flag
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Np. Not so much the grammar/spelling, but the general awkwardness over text is definitely more common in the older demographic. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:59 AM Flag
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or - yes this is what I meant. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 04:29 AM Flag
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Op. Maybe I should have provided more detail. It's ruder than that. For example she'll ask me a favor and I'll respond and start on it, and then she won't even bother texting back that she doesn't need it anymore. Or once she texted to ask a favor and I said I couldn't bc it was my dcs birthday that day and instead of texting back a polite 'happy birthday" she just texted back a court 'ok'. Now that I think about it she mostly texts to ask favors and shows zero interest in anyone but herself and her dc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 11:50 AM Flag
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Curt [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 11:50 AM Flag
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If she a writer maybe tired of doing it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:46 AM Flag
[ - ] wow, ub has been overtaken by racist trolls tonight. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:19 AM Flag
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Tonight? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:21 AM Flag
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They're always here. This place is like stormfront. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:21 AM Flag
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Are you new? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:28 AM Flag
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It's one or two people with severely addled brains. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:29 AM Flag
[ - ] I need a strategy plan to get through my work day tomorrow. My boss is a shit. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:05 AM Flag
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Revise resume and start circulating it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:21 AM Flag
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+1 I have had two jobs with terrible, intolerable managers, and both times I swore I would just focus on my work and let everything the manager said and did just roll off. It never worked. The relationship always deteriorates and you either quit in a huff or get fired. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 11:57 AM Flag
[ - ] Want to fill a 10' wall with low shelves/drawers (lower than 3 feet). Any recs for something modular and low cost? Hate particleboard/and veneers. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:04 AM Flag
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If you find modular natural stuff, I'll be excited. Some ikea is wood, but otherwise I think the low end is gotham cabinet craft and its ilk. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:22 AM Flag
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I know you say you hate particle board and veneers but Ikea has a line (Besta) that's really pretty and probably almost exactly what you're looking for. We have it in our apt and love it and people always walk in and are shocked that it's Ikea. We've had it in one spot then renovated and moved it to another and it held up great, which is not always the case. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:41 PM Flag
[ - ] Spin off from the earlier post about "Boys Acting Like Boys." I agree, little boys can be wild and that it is "normal." However, little girls can be bitchy. That is "normal." Both need to be curbed IMO. Thoughts? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:03 AM Flag
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Boys can be wild. Girls can be wild. Boys can have attitudes. Girls can have attitudes. This is not a gender issues. Kids behave badly, but most of the time it's socially acceptable for boys to behave wildly and girls to have attitudes because that's what's been established as normal. Any undesirable behavior needs to be addressed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:06 AM Flag
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I think people need to stop using terms that are inherently masculine or feminine. Boys are never caled bossy, even when they are. Girls are never called rowdy even when they are. If people just started treating and referring to them as just children, maybe these issues wouldn't be so big. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:08 AM Flag
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Is this about the whole "I need to redshirt my 5 year old summer birthday boy because he's immature"? What a crock of shit. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:14 AM Flag
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You sound dumb. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:46 AM Flag
[ - ] I have been criticized on this site over the years for referring to Puerto Ricans as "deadbeats." Well guess what - now they are deadbeats in legal terms, because they missed a $58 million debt payment! I'm a prophet. Deal with it. 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:00 AM Flag
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General Topics 08.04.15, 03:02 AM Flag
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So because their governmental officials did not budget properly, every single Puerto Rican citizen is a deadbeat? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:03 AM Flag
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Yes, because they chose to vote for those politicians. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:09 AM Flag
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All Alaskans must be idiots then. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:09 AM Flag
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eh, they are largely white, so they get the benefit of the doubt [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:15 AM Flag
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60% of puerto rican citizens receive either medicaid or medicare [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:04 AM Flag
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Could just mean they're old. I'll bet a similar population in retiree parts of florida. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:41 AM Flag
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puerto rico does not attract retirees from the rest of a much larger country like florida [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:50 AM Flag
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you're missing the point. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:51 AM Flag
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no huge difference % of PR 65 than the whole US [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 04:05 AM Flag
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Would you say the same about Greeks? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:10 AM Flag
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Doubtful. They're not as brown. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:10 AM Flag
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Those feta-scarfing pseudo-Turks are MASSIVE deadbeats, and have been for CENTURIES. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:15 AM Flag
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You sound jelly [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:30 AM Flag
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Greek culture seems to celebrate being lazy, entitled and ungrateful. At least if my in laws are representative. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:40 AM Flag
[ - ] How much would *you* pay a nanny to watch 3 kids (ages 4, 2 and infant), 5 days a week from 7 am to 6 pm? I'm new to this, so I don't know the acceptable rate. 31 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:48 AM Flag
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60k/year [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:52 AM Flag
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This is about right. $25/hour, on the books, plus overtime. Paid holidays & PTO, of course, and health insurance. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 11:59 AM Flag
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Why is "you" in asterisks? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:52 AM Flag
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b*****h [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:53 AM Flag
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Um, this was a real question. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:03 AM Flag
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OP: Similar to italics, I suppose. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:53 AM Flag
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But I still don't get it. Do you want to know what I'd pay or what some fake version of me would pay. I don't get why "you" was being emphasized. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:03 AM Flag
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Good god. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:53 AM Flag
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What? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:54 AM Flag
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Trying to think what Id want to do this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:57 AM Flag
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$1000/wk to $1200/wk [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:56 AM Flag
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They're so little. Are you going back to work? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:57 AM Flag
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Yes. The baby will be 3 months when I go back to work. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:58 AM Flag
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Depends on how many drop off and pick ups she has to do. I find laundry and dishwasher duties to be very simple and manageable even with three kids, but I wouldn't expect too much. If you want the house tidied have her stay 15-30 min past the time you arrive home. That's also a ton of hours, so I would pay $16-18 for the first forty and then OT for the rest. I'll admit I cheat. My nanny works 40 hours on the books and I pay all OT in cash at a lower negotiated rate. She gets 12 hours of OT every week and sometimes more. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:03 AM Flag
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That is a BIG job. Pay ALOT. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:05 AM Flag
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^ and I'd never leave a nanny for that many hours with so many kids at that age. When is she going to take a break? Does she get to eat? Go to the bathroom? Don't tell me nap time because you'll have her cooking and cleaning. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:07 AM Flag
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This. Only a mother could do this job right....it sounds grueling. OP you need to find someone to spell your sitter so she can rest a bit. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:11 AM Flag
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Yeah from like 2 - 6 p.m. lol. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:47 AM Flag
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I would only do this as a job share. No amount of money would entice * me * to take a job like this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:06 AM Flag
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Correct. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:11 AM Flag
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I did this with one baby as a job share. I always had two back to back shifts, ie. to lessen the transition time for the kids. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:33 AM Flag
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Put older kids in daycare, better for them anyway. And just have her watch baby and do pick ups and sick days. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:12 AM Flag
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How much would you pay for that? Quite a bit for the baby, since infant care is expensive, but how much for picking up the older kids? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:13 AM Flag
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850 a week [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:23 AM Flag
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But daycare would be another 4k/month [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:29 AM Flag
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This. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:14 AM Flag
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I hope this is fake! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:27 AM Flag
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Why would this be fake? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:30 AM Flag
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Haven't any of you complainers ever worked in a real job? This is nothing. Have done both. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:45 AM Flag
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She needs at least $25 an hour and you should work on having a back-up nanny (have someone differnt sit on weekends so she too can know your kids routine) because if primary one can't come someday for some reason it won't be easy to find a fill-in. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:50 AM Flag
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$22/hr [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:59 AM Flag
[ - ] I make 900/week after taxes as a nanny and $800/weekend before taxes as a tutor. Not too bad. 22 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:46 AM Flag
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Nice! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:47 AM Flag
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Damn! What subjects do you tutor in? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:50 AM Flag
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Reading and Math, most of my students have dyslexia or processing disorders. I'm a bargain. Highest paying client is $75/hr. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:55 AM Flag
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You make more than I do, and I have a grad degree in Statistics. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:56 AM Flag
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I have a graduate degree in education. I have two bachelors degrees and I am working toward a masters certificate in special education. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:58 AM Flag
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Good for you! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:19 AM Flag
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How many kids do you watch as a nanny? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:07 AM Flag
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One. He has special needs, so it's not a breeze. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:08 AM Flag
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My nanny makes more than you do. That's nothing to brag about if you are educated enough to tutor. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:46 AM Flag
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How much does your nanny make? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:50 AM Flag
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I'm paid on the books, but a large portion of my salary goes to taxes. 900 net is pretty competitive. Very few are paid on the books and net more than that. I also only work 8-6:30. I used to make more but I worked crazier hours. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:57 AM Flag
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She makes $1000 net and works fewer hours by a lot. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:59 AM Flag
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That's great for her. Jobs paying this much on the books are rare. I have a napping toddler and he receives several hours of therapy each day so I have plenty of down time. I am happy with my job and will continue until he goes to school. Then I will tutor part time for the same pay I earn now. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 04:03 AM Flag
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Education? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 04:14 AM Flag
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And do you pay health insurance? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 04:16 AM Flag
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Assume you are not in NYC with that low a salary. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 04:03 AM Flag
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Do you know how much I pay in taxes? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 04:08 AM Flag
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I make 70k from the nanny job. That is not really a low nanny salary. It isn't the highest ever, but it is fair and competitive. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 04:12 AM Flag
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How did get that job? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 04:14 AM Flag
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An agency. The parents really wanted a teacher. I really needed to get out of the school I was in. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 04:16 AM Flag
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How do you find tutoring gigs? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:48 AM Flag
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I found one through teachers college, one from CL, a few from wyzant and the rest were word of mouth from existing clients. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:58 AM Flag
[ - ] America is projected to be 29% Hispanic by 2050, with about 75% of that 29% originating in four nations - Mexico, Guatemala, El Salvador, and Honduras. 112 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:46 AM Flag
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What's your point? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:47 AM Flag
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If you want a vision of the future of America, perhaps the best place to look is Mexico today. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:49 AM Flag
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Mexico has over the counter birth control and mandatory paid maternity leave. And they don't invade other countries and bomb them for no reason. Sounds good to me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:05 AM Flag
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They also have a violent crime rate 5 times that of ours. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:29 AM Flag
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Oh yeah - go Mexico. Nothing wrong with that country. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 05:24 AM Flag
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Everyone gets paid maternity leave! We all know Mexican healthcare is the best! And prisons are so safe! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 07:50 AM Flag
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And here we have a new contender for the dumbest UB comment ever [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 10:48 AM Flag
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This. Most of us won't even be alive much past 2050. Not our circus. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 10:52 AM Flag
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Illegal too [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:47 AM Flag
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Woot! I am already Hispanic of Salvadoran ancestry. Someone has to start the ball rolling. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:49 AM Flag
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GO HOME [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:50 AM Flag
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Hey, Einstein, I am home. And my parents are more educated and successful than you probably could ever hope to be. Not every Salvadoran immigrant is the bottom of the heap. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:57 AM Flag
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That's true, I supposed - the coked-up street-racer who killed Paul Walker was a Salvadoran businessman who owned numerous exotic cars. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:58 AM Flag
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Is English your native language? You can't even write in English properly. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:59 AM Flag
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French Canadian but living in US since 2009. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:01 AM Flag
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or: Your parents should be deported. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:08 AM Flag
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so you're Native America right? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:09 AM Flag
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America is for WHITES ONLY [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:15 AM Flag
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lol, God you're so stupid it's hilarious. Someone certainly never took AP US history or passed high school history [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:09 AM Flag
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America is for WHITES ONLY [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:13 AM Flag
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I guess so--even though they are US citizens and hold Top Secret US Government security clearances. Shhhhhh. Don't tell the US Government they are from El Salvador! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:15 AM Flag
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clearly, that was a mistake. America is for WHITES ONLY [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:16 AM Flag
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They're white. Your ignorance is showing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:17 AM Flag
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You're a filthy spic [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:18 AM Flag
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your "home" is your third world shithole. fuck off, forever [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:25 AM Flag
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+1 Mexicans need to be gassed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:25 AM Flag
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You are also the descendant of immigrants. What gives you the right to decide to close the gates to other people in the same position as your ancestors? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 01:27 PM Flag
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Several comments here are from a vile bigot. First time I've ever felt compelled to flag posts on UB. This has nothing to do with beliefs about policy. This is pure, full on racism and hatred. Welcome to the modern GOP, folks. Wow. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:18 PM Flag
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CSB. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:59 AM Flag
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Cool. More Latin American restaurants. I love burritos. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:00 AM Flag
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Empanadas for all! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:51 AM Flag
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This is why I am voting for Trump. We cannot afford welfare for all of them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:00 AM Flag
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Immigrant hate is a common trait associated with the lower classes and lesser educated. Holds true in every country across the world. Enjoy being dumb. It must be nice for you having a brain that's set to off mode all the time. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:06 AM Flag
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BIG difference between legal and illegal immigration. btw, degree from Wharton with honors. The problem is that our society does not have enough jobs, housing or spots in school. We do not need more. Now the UK is saying, NO MORE to unskilled immigrants. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:09 AM Flag
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Now you're changing your argument. Your original post focused on race alone, and now you're trying to tie in immigration. Don't mix the issues. Lots of the growth in Hispanic population in the US will come from the offspring of legal immigrants. Yet you're trying to paint all Hispanics as illegals. You need to refine your critical thinking skills. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:13 AM Flag
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Read Dr. Richwine's thesis. An America with that kind of demographic mix will probably be poorer and will not be as productive in science or technology, much in-line with today's Mexico. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:16 AM Flag
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nope, you're discounting the element of exponential technological growth. Sure, maybe the average IQ of the US will resemble that of today's Mexico but all the really matters for technological progress is the success of the top 2% of IQ, and the research and discoveries made by people in that small group will benefit the quality of life and standard of living for everyone else below them [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:21 AM Flag
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Nope. Trump only wants to stop illegals. Two of his three wives were immigrants. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:16 AM Flag
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Oh right, the two wives he cheated on. His relationships overlap. There is so much dirt on this guy it's not funny and the RNC knows it. They'll never let him run. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:19 PM Flag
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Really? Wharton with honors? Did you miss the part where every single economist in existence, conservative or liberal, is pro-immigration? By that I mean more of it, and of all kinds (many are for open borders). Almost all of the actual research done in this area shows that immigrants of all types are a net gain, ie benefits outweigh costs. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 07:07 AM Flag
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Read the studies. LEGAL immigration is generally a plus. Many "studies" are a joke. They assume that spending patterns for immigrants are the same as non-immigrants, ignoring that they send billions home. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 11:42 AM Flag
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If Dems and libtards cared about the rest of the country, maybe they'd be anti-illegal immigrant too. They claim to care about the poor but don't actually give a shit about the issues that affect them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 05:35 AM Flag
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"Trump’s support base...skews slightly less educated than the average Republican"-David Brooks. That explains a lot. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 01:25 PM Flag
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yes, demographics of the US have been changing every decade since it's inception. That's kind of the whole philosophy behind the country. Are you new here? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:01 AM Flag
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No; the overall demographics of the US have been remarkably stable in racial terms since the end of the slave trade. About 85-90% white; 10-15% African. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:09 AM Flag
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nope. You're forgetting the huge Asian population in California. And the Western United States has been largely Hispanic for centuries, since, you know, it used to belong to Mexico. You really need to take a 6th grade history class. And Italians weren't considered white until recently, so your stats are completely wrong. You're just making shit up. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:24 AM Flag
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Asians are fine. They are willing to work, study, etc to get ahead. No one minds them. They are the Jews of the 21st century. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:28 AM Flag
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and hispanics aren't willing to work, study & get ahead? more racist UB bullshit! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:48 PM Flag
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have you been diagnosed with a spectrum disorder yet? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:29 AM Flag
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Largely wrong on all counts. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:29 AM Flag
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If you have to use curse words, it does not speak well of you. Mexico does not want Texas and the southwest back, they want to be part of the US [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:29 AM Flag
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You = retard [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 05:36 AM Flag
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Nice. Love salsa dancing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:01 AM Flag
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I agree - I love guacamole. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 05:36 AM Flag
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zzzzzzzz [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:01 AM Flag
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and? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:01 AM Flag
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more diversity means less racism. I'm excited for the rainbow generation to take political control [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:02 AM Flag
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LOL, you think there's "less racism" between Mexicans and blacks in LA than there was between blacks and whites? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:10 AM Flag
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There's less racism as a whole when there's more diversity since no group is overly marginalized. Take a sociology class. Or better yet, go to college in the first place. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:18 AM Flag
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Oh good lord... here's a hint: Yugoslavia 1990. Look that one up and get back to us. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:20 AM Flag
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you are incredibly dumb. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:28 AM Flag
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You're misguided. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 01:36 PM Flag
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In what universe does more diversity mean less racism? Did London become less racist when the Pakistanis moved in? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 05:23 AM Flag
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People just buy stupid shit they hear at school and on NPR no questions a asked. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 07:54 AM Flag
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What? Latin America has plenty of racism. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 01:36 PM Flag
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Millennial here. Studies show hispanics are more open minded. I'm all for a more diverse country. If the rest of the country starts looking more like NYC, I think the policies in the rest of the country will also more closely match NYC. I'm from the Midwest and the suburb I grew up in was literally 100% white. It was boring as fuck and disgustingly conservative. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:04 AM Flag
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spics are garbage, and so are you [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:08 AM Flag
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well-developed thought you have there. Your IQ must be so high. I'm sure you totally went to college. lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:14 AM Flag
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mow my lawn, spic [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:16 AM Flag
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I'm white, but clearly your IQ is too low to comprehend the idea of someone having the ability to think beyond their own self interest. Get help for your OCD. You desperately need Celexa or another SSRI [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:22 AM Flag
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shut the fuck up, spiclover. go wash my car. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:24 AM Flag
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Celexa, stat. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:25 AM Flag
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make me a burger, you garbagecollecting spic bitch. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:26 AM Flag
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UB if your staff exists at all, shut this down. This person is a complete psycho. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:20 PM Flag
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'Studies' [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 05:37 AM Flag
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Listen. They are not. Please go to the border towns that are 99% latino and see for yourself. I've even had gay Mexican Americans tell me they didn't these border towns because of how closed minded their thinking is. Please go there and see for yourself. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 07:19 AM Flag
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Open - minded in terms of what? Hispanics are fairly conservative. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 01:37 PM Flag
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This [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 01:59 PM Flag
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Hi RM. I'm curious, why the focus on race as opposed to gender? You know at the top 1% of IQ, there are far more men than women. Why no posts about that? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:08 AM Flag
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Just for comparison, Italian Americans are 6%, Irish Americans 10%, 2% Jewish Americans [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:11 AM Flag
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I'm 99.9% sure you are over the age of 50. The world will be better and less racist place when your generation dies out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:17 AM Flag
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OP here - I'm 26. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:20 AM Flag
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no, you're not. I'm 26, and I've never or encountered online someone in my generation who thinks like this [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:25 AM Flag
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kill yourself then. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:27 AM Flag
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not the voting population! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:17 AM Flag
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this [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:39 AM Flag
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No, not this. They will be voting. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 07:56 AM Flag
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LMAO, too many will have felonies. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 11:43 AM Flag
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No they won't - we won't be handing over voting rights to former illegal entrants. I'm for work authorization cards, but citizenship and voting rights? NFW. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 01:21 PM Flag
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Whites can't decide who to befriend lol. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:53 AM Flag
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I am DAR and can't wait until we are the minority. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:57 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 05:10 AM Flag
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np: curious, why? I don't really care about this issue and don't care which races are what percent of the population, but what do you see as the advantage of being in the minority? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 05:11 AM Flag
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This. White people are annoying as fuck. Diversity brings vibrance and makes cities more interesting and eclectic. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 05:17 AM Flag
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Funny, I am also from a DAR family and totally agree. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 01:32 PM Flag
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Why don't whites make more children then? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:58 AM Flag
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Because they are educated and realize that they cannot support having 6-12 children [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 11:42 AM Flag
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Yes, it's extremely smart to select yourself out of the future. It doesn't take 6-13 kids to replace yourself; it only takes 3. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 01:39 PM Flag
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You know latinos make more children because they are PRO LIFE right? Just like you GOP are supposed to want everybody to be. Latinos are devout Catholics. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:22 PM Flag
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This is as meaningless to me as if someone posted "In 10 years there will be 3% fewer redheads, 10% fewer blondes, and 30% more brunettes?" I don't care. Never will. Why do you care? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 05:14 AM Flag
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I was at the beach yesterday and this Hispanic family had like 5 kids. When was the last time you knew a white family with that many kids? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 05:16 AM Flag
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Lots in my UMC burb [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:00 PM Flag
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Who gives a shit what other people's skin color is? For realz. This is such a stupid topic of conversation. I have Hispanic friends of all sorts of different personalities, intelligence levels, and interests. Grouping them into a category for the purposes of freaking out over more people "like them" in the future is so incredibly stupid. You sound like a 12 year old boy raised in a trailer park by a dad who lost his factory job due to alcoholism and now blames Mexicans for "taking our jobs." Go watch South Park. You could learn something. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 05:16 AM Flag
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Because societies tend to assume the characteristics of their underlying demography. To see how that works, look at Latin American nations today. That's the future of the US. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 05:21 AM Flag
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Have you ever been to Latin America? I spent a year abroad in Chile. It was beautiful. And the people were so happy. The students went to university for free, there were no pointless wars being fought, the architecture/food/culture was wonderful, and when I had to go to the hospital for an emergency the bill was completely free since they view health care as a fundamental human right like most developed countries do. If I would have gone to the hospital back home in the US for 2 weeks like I did in Chile tht would have costed tens of thousands of dollars. You have an irrational fear of Latin culture. I suggest you get out more and travel. I agree that US culture will look more like Latin American culture in the future. Again, not a problem. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 08:15 AM Flag
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You're suggesting the average Latin American society is like Chile, which you cherry-picked because it is the single most successful country there? No, the average Latin American society is more akin to El Salvador or Colombia - rife with urban violence. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 01:22 PM Flag
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I'm sorry, South Park? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 05:38 AM Flag
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Google South Park "they took our jobs." it's a meme [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 08:15 AM Flag
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If they are Americanized it is fine. Middle class and educated anyone is fine. It is the redneck Mexicans that no one likes. No one likes trash of any race. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 07:21 AM Flag
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I just don't want anyone coming to my house and trying to steal my things. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 11:43 AM Flag
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At least they're not black. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:12 PM Flag
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This post just supports the current MP poster's post about Republicans being bad people. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:46 PM Flag
[ - ] The man I love has apparently lost all interest in me. Ugh. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:40 AM Flag
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Oh, FFS! Find someone else! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:42 AM Flag
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It is on my to-do list. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:42 AM Flag
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At least he was once interested. Men don't love me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:57 AM Flag
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How do you know? Maybe it's miscommunication. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:11 AM Flag
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That's sad. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:52 AM Flag
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Ask him. If he says yes, men are like buses. Another comes along every fifteen minutes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:58 AM Flag
[ - ] Dh and I recently finished our PhDs and got jobs in Washington DC. Needless to say, grad school was a very long and difficult process for us. We have 2 young kids, and my MIL is being absolutely heinous to us because she's so angry that we're not moving back to her small ass town in North Florida (no way, no how). We just bought an apartment in DC, and all she does is shit all over everything. She shits all over daycare options. She shits all over literally every single thing associated with us moving because she is so genuinely furious. We've worked our asses off for this, and I can't help but be disgusted by her attitude. Advice on how to handle it? I'm biting my tongue, but part of me just wants to tell her to wake the hell up and smell the roses. 34 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:37 AM Flag
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Start by cleaning up your potty mouth. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:39 AM Flag
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Unclench. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:40 AM Flag
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lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:47 AM Flag
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This. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 09:50 AM Flag
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Just live your life. You guys both worked hard for this, have a beautiful family and starting a new adventure/chapter. That's the best revenge :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:40 AM Flag
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*But I get how it's easier said than done [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:40 AM Flag
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OP: I agree with you. I think this will mostly resolve on its own, but I feel like she's always going to making little comments about how the kids really love coming to visit her because she "has so much space in the house for them to play" (versus living in an apartment). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:45 AM Flag
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DH needs to handle. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:40 AM Flag
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OP: DH's is so calm and reasonable with her; it's just unreal. I love him for his level head, but sometimes I just want him to tell her that we've earned this and she needs to stop. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:42 AM Flag
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DH is** sorry! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:42 AM Flag
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Your husband is doing what he can. You are not helping the situation. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:46 AM Flag
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OP: I don't say a word about it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:47 AM Flag
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It's his mother. He loves her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:47 AM Flag
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OP: I know. I'm glad he has a nice relationship with her. I'd never want to change that. I just wish he'd say something other than "I know..." when she yells about how terrible our lives will be. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:49 AM Flag
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He know how to handle her. We smile and nod with my mom, easier and more effective that getting upset. We do what we want and see eventually gets over things. Dh gets frustrated but being contrary does not work well. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 10:56 AM Flag
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Why is this your problem? No way in hell that I would deal with an angry MIL. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:41 AM Flag
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OP: She calls several times a week. Sometimes she genuinely has helpful advice, but it's usually just a bunch of complaints. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:43 AM Flag
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WTH? she calls your home phone number? Or she calls your cell? If it is the former, just don't pick up. Tell your hubby to give her a call. If it is the latter, then that is a whole other can of worms... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:45 AM Flag
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OP: She usually calls his cell. She'll call mine occasionally, but I usually ignore it. Having young kids is such a nice excuse for not being able to get to the phone! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:46 AM Flag
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Do you listen in? How do her calls to DH concern you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:33 PM Flag
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Why and how do you have contact with her? I see no reason other than major holidays. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:42 AM Flag
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Np:finally got my relationship w mil to this level. No matter what she says or does to me, everything just rolls off my shoulders now [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:45 AM Flag
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Stop talking to her unless necessary. Tell her you cannot make personal calls at work. Tell her when you get home, you deal with kids. Be sweet, say sorry mom, got kid in bath. TTYL. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:46 AM Flag
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Wow, you sound like complete trash [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:50 AM Flag
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OP: Sorry. I'm very overstressed, and he's on the phone with her right now, so I'm quietly fuming. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:51 AM Flag
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Ignore the troll. You did nothing wrong. Congrats to you and DH for your hard work. Block crazy MIL's number. I would not put up with that shit in a million years. Time to cut her off [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:56 AM Flag
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His call, his feelings. Disengage. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:36 PM Flag
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Tell HER! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:54 AM Flag
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Why the f are you putting up with this? Ignore her calls. Or answer and then when says bitchy things tell her that's unacceptable and if she's going to be like that then the phone call is over [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:55 AM Flag
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Ignore...ignore...ignore. She will stop eventually. Also stop giving her information she doesn't really need, the fact that she knows what your daycare options are is a problem. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:28 AM Flag
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Stop talking to her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:42 AM Flag
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This. Let DH handle every conversation. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:59 AM Flag
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Eh, I would just acknowledge her comments, but counter with benefits of DC. So, if she says, oh, the kids would like it so much better here because they'd have more space! You can say, that's true, but then they wouldn't be able to go to the Smithsonian every week. And so on. Your list of positives has to be 10x longer than her list of negatives given the comparison between the two places. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 09:48 AM Flag
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So don't feed her any information. If she asks, everything is fine and nothing is new. Keep your conversations at that level and ask her about her life. I understand it's draining to listen to this, especially when your life is taking off. But just disengage. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 11:46 AM Flag
[ - ] If you could go anywhere in Europe for a week, where would you go? DH is a very picky eater and hasn't been anywhere. I've been to all the big cities and would prefer something lovely and off the beaten path. Five year old would come too. I speak French. He prefers Italian food. Something interesting or exotic - maybe tangiers? Santorini? Auvergne? Lucerne? Siena? Padua? Thanks! 33 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:29 AM Flag
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Palma but only in September. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:32 AM Flag
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Siena [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:33 AM Flag
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Um. Tangiers? Atlas, stat. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:33 AM Flag
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Luzern is most specifically not "off the beaten path" and is German speaking Switzerland,not French or Italian. Your list is quite weird and random. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:34 AM Flag
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I was jus thinking about it - I said anywhere in Europe. I'm looking for a new place to go is all. Not sure why the list is offensive. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:36 AM Flag
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It's not "offensive" but,for the record, Tangiers is in Africa, not Europe. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:41 AM Flag
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She's obv stupid [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:43 AM Flag
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Ugh, jeez, I know where tangiers is. Just humor me and recommend a place. Good god! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:45 AM Flag
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Go to Roussillon. Done. You can day trip to Avignon, Les Baux, St Remy, L'isle-sur-la-sorgue. Food fantastic, beautiful surroundings, lots of stuff to see. You won't get better advice than this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:51 AM Flag
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Hmm... That could work. Thank you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:53 AM Flag
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^^ south of France. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:54 AM Flag
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Sorry -- that's not good advice for a man who has never traveled and who prefers italian food. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 09:59 AM Flag
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You are vile. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:57 AM Flag
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To whom was this addressed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:12 AM Flag
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To OP. Anyone who asks for advice and then says, "Just humor me and recommend a place. Good god!" Does not deserve to receive advice. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:19 AM Flag
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Then why ask for someplace in Europe? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 09:57 AM Flag
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^^if you know where Tangiers is and you want to be in North Africa . . . [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 09:58 AM Flag
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San Sebastian [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:39 AM Flag
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Lucca [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:42 AM Flag
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You mean Luca [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:55 AM Flag
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Actually, I mean Lucca :) https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lucca [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:59 AM Flag
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It's Lucca [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:12 AM Flag
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Love Lake Como, Italy [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:43 AM Flag
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Varenna maybe? Where in lake como did you go? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:54 AM Flag
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Bellagio [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:18 AM Flag
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The problem is one week. Getting to places off the beaten path takes time and there goes your week. What time of year? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:50 AM Flag
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Spring [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:53 AM Flag
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I went to Madrid for a week last April and it was FANTASTIC. Provence always nice of course for something more rural. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:29 AM Flag
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Taormina, Sicily [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:09 AM Flag
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Can't get over the picky eater dh. Tell him to grow the fuck up. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:10 AM Flag
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Deadbeat boorish amerivvans best stay at home [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:23 AM Flag
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What time of year? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:28 AM Flag
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If DH hasn't been anywhere, pick a place that you really think he will enjoy so that the travel bug will bite him. Don't pick a place for you where he won't have as much fun and be disinclined to go anywhere next time. And don't pick someplace too exotic. Pick someplace that will be accessible for him. So, if he likes italian food, find someplace in Italy. Doesn't matter if you've been. What does he like? Rome, Florence, Venice, Capri, Pompeii -- there are tons of good options. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 09:55 AM Flag
[ - ] What are the best quality flats out there? 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:25 AM Flag
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Chanel ballet flats [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:27 AM Flag
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Chloe scalloped flats [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:33 AM Flag
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These are the most comfortable. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:36 AM Flag
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Do you have them? How long do they last? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:37 AM Flag
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I have 2 pair. I only wear them on weekends when I don't need to walk too far. They don't have much padding in the soul. They are comfortable and cute and come on great colors. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:41 AM Flag
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And they run very small. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:41 AM Flag
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But how long can you wear them before they look worn and need to be tossed? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:44 AM Flag
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My pwn soul is well padded. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:12 AM Flag
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I have little padding in the soul myself. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 03:13 AM Flag
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For the love of god, lady, it's SOLE. We keep telling you this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 09:59 AM Flag
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*sole* [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:37 PM Flag
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I wear mine all the time and wear a 38 with a size 7.5/8 foot. 2.5 yrs and they look great. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:43 AM Flag
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I get mine at gap. Nice leather, nice cushion, lots of colors - I wear them a ton, replace every summer. Or Bloch/Repetto (actual ballet shoe maker) makes them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:50 AM Flag
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AGL flats are magic. They are the most comfortable shoes I own. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:53 AM Flag
[ - ] This is really petty/juvenile. But I feel like I'm being replaced by this 42 yo coworker. One of my really good friend and used to work together (I left for another job). Now one of my ex coworkers who is 42 yo is really trying to be her bff. They just booked a vegas trip together, and she's constantly texting her. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:24 AM Flag
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Sorry for typo, on phone [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:25 AM Flag
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aw [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:25 AM Flag
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Why does her age matter? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:26 AM Flag
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Bc we are both 30. I dunno I just think she's trying really hard to be "cool" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:27 AM Flag
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She must be cool enough to take a trip with. Why the hate? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:44 AM Flag
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This. They booked the trip *together*. It's not like your friend booked the trip, and then the other woman followed her there. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 11:34 AM Flag
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Are you 50 or 30 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.04.15, 02:26 AM Flag
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