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[ - ] I am cold, shivering and nauseous. What are the chances that I am coming down with a stomach bug? I haven’t had one since DCs were little and I dread it! 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:18 AM Flag
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Sounds like it. Feel better! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:22 AM Flag
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Pretty high [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:23 AM Flag
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I have same. I'm in bed after just taking hot bath. No stomach symptoms. Shivering, achey, sore throat. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:24 AM Flag
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take an oregano oil capsule [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 02:06 AM Flag
[ - ] Is it really terrible to scream at your teen when you get infuriated with them? I’ve done it. It’s not a proud mother moment. It’s not often. But I have let loose on when it feel like the kid has so much that I’ve busted my ass to give her and then she doesn’t do a small thing I ask. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:16 AM Flag
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we treat our kids with suck kids gloves nowadays. it's amazing any of them have empathy or the ability to self reflect. I think you're good. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:19 AM Flag
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No. Perfectly fine. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:21 AM Flag
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Good for them [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:23 AM Flag
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Lol. It’s not the end of the world but it’s not good for them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:47 AM Flag
[ - ] Is it tacky to ask a BF how much he makes? 40 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:14 AM Flag
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You don't do it early on, no. You have your spidey senses out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:15 AM Flag
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What about at 1 year mark? I went down to part-time to do a masters, so I only make about 60k right now, but when I go to FT it will be closer to $110-150. I am super curious what he makes, but haven't asked yet. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:17 AM Flag
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What does he do? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:18 AM Flag
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Finance. So my guess is 100k to 250k. Probably on the lower end though. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:21 AM Flag
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just ask us- tell us more about what he does, age, yrs out of school, what school, what firm [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:24 AM Flag
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From linked in. CTP. Treasury Management Sales Analyst. He's 31, 6 years post MBA [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:37 AM Flag
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Although I sort of wonder if he hasn't updated his LinkedIn. I don't think he is still considered an analyst. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:39 AM Flag
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Treasury is a cash management job- not much above accounting. 100-150k. Not finance in the investment professional sense. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:42 AM Flag
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Hmm. So it could be possible that he started with his bank in this role. My understanding is he now helps manages a portfolio. So he has a "big boss" above him and his next promotion would be to that role, to manage his own portfolio. He said this summer "our analyst quit..." so I assume he is no longer an analyst. What questions should I ask him about work? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:45 AM Flag
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What does he manage - equities, fixed income, special situations, etc.? For whom - a bank, investment fund, hedge fund? Sounding like he's an ex treasury professional now an assistant portfolio manager in a fund. The question is which fund and what does he manage? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:46 AM Flag
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Ok, so same income projection? What kind of pay bump would he get if he manages his own portfolio? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:50 AM Flag
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Poster above- he doesn't manage anything but purchases of money market instruments likely [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:50 AM Flag
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Thanks [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:54 AM Flag
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This. Give us the deets and we will give you the answer. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:38 AM Flag
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Wait until he is in the shower and snoop for his tax returns. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:40 AM Flag
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All of this stuff is digital these days. Not even paychecks/stubs left around. lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:43 AM Flag
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What? If you use a CPA you get a hard copy. You must be poor and use turbo tax. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:48 AM Flag
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lol, I am a teacher and I do use turbo tax. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:49 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:43 AM Flag
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The important thing is to find out how much debt he has [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:40 AM Flag
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of course he went to a state school as an out of state student for his MBA. State school for his undergrad. He said he has some student loans. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:45 AM Flag
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My son says he and all his friends don't want to wind up married to women with tons of student loan debt. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:53 AM Flag
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I have a trust fund, he need not worry. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 01:03 AM Flag
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you do sound like CFA girl [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 01:06 AM Flag
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I don't think it's tacky after a year long relationship. If he's still tight lipped after a year and a half then he's not that into you. Move on. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:40 AM Flag
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I haven't asked. He's not cheap. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:45 AM Flag
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Lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:46 AM Flag
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What?!? He's not that into her if he won't share financial information? Ridiculous. Ask. If he hedges, ask why -- come to your own conclusions but please stop wondering and letting these crazy UB'ers tell you what to do. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:51 AM Flag
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Uh it's a year and a half of relationship and sex. If he loves her and perhaps wants her hand in marriage, he will happily reveal his income. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 02:35 AM Flag
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My H asked me after a few months. He's really into money and a bit Scrooge-y. I shoulda known. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:50 AM Flag
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Is the male equivalent of this going through his girlfriend's drawers while she's in the shower to see what her bra size is? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:51 AM Flag
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yes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:52 AM Flag
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Ha! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:58 AM Flag
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this must be cfa girl [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:58 AM Flag
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If you're in a relationship that is serious, this comes up naturally at some point. Have you told him what you make? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 01:08 AM Flag
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I think he knows. It's come up before. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 01:11 AM Flag
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So then do you know what he makes, too? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 01:15 AM Flag
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no, he said something like "I'm paid very well, but not one of those rich IB guys..." [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 01:19 AM Flag
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I wouldn't ask until he proposes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 01:40 AM Flag
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I would never ask him this until he asks for a prenup. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 01:53 AM Flag
[ - ] Stupid question.. what does sleeping on your left side means? Left side above or below? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:12 AM Flag
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does it have to mean something? I sleep on my left side. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:14 AM Flag
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It means you suck. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 01:05 AM Flag
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Your liver is on your right side. The idea is that you sleep with your left side to the mattress during pregnancy because it keeps the baby from pressing on a vital organ. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:14 AM Flag
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left side on the bottom, touching the bed. Right side in the air. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:15 AM Flag
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I heard sleeping on your left side is the best sleeping position if you have acid reflux. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:27 AM Flag
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Nothing [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:41 AM Flag
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That you like your left side. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:41 AM Flag
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This is side of the bed. Not side of your body. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 01:14 AM Flag
[ - ] Can anyone explain first choice letters to me? PSD says we can write up to 3 letters for our favorite schools - but doesn't that make schools you don't send a FC letter to much less likely to let you in since they know they aren't a top choice? Do people get into schools they don't FC? And who would even know if you wrote 5 FC letters? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:11 AM Flag
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sorry, thought my original post didn't work, ignore this one. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:12 AM Flag
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One of the few things agreed upon on UB is you don't FC more than one school. We didnt FC and we got into 5 schools. You can get into lots of schools without FC if your kid performs well on the playdates/tests or if you are superrich. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:26 AM Flag
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This. We didn't FC, and we have two at "TT" SS schools. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:36 AM Flag
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Easy. You can write to a school telling them "we love you and will accept if offered" (FC letter). You can write saying "we love you and would love a place" (ILU letter). Some schools will only offer you a place with one of these (they only want to offer people who will accept the places). Others don't care. And whatever your PSD says, you can always write more than 1 FC letter to "encourage" offers. Few issues with then turning down a school (unless you have DC #2 and want to apply there...!). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:40 AM Flag
[ - ] Advice please. (I'm a nanny). I have the best roommate ever. She spends most nights with her boyfriend and she works a ton. Very sweet person. The laundry machine is in my bedroom. I work weekends. Weird weekend nanny schedule of Thurs/Fri to Monday. I ask her to do the laundry then if she can. She usually spends the whole weekend at her boyfriend's place. She has been asking to do laundry weeknights from like 8-10/11. Should I just get over it? I am usually winding down and reading by 10 with lights off. Laundry machine is pretty loud. She could just send it out if she can't get it done during the weekend. We could also potentially switch bedrooms. 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:11 AM Flag
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Switch bedroom. Talk to her [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:13 AM Flag
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I've just been trying to accommodate because she is really great, the laundry is just annoying. Thanks for answering this banal question, I just want to get other opinions. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:15 AM Flag
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This is not okay if her. Reiterate to her your preferences. They are totally reasonable [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:17 AM Flag
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I think I might try to allow it one night a week, just to get along. Definitely though you could tell her that you need to be asleep by 10, so the laundry needs to be done by then. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:19 AM Flag
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Yeah, this week I had an event Tuesday night but she wanted to do Monday or Wed. I let her, but her job is pretty unpredictable. I think maybe one night a week for emergency stuff and then ask her to do sheets and other stuff on weekends or send it out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:22 AM Flag
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Switch rooms. It's very inconsiderate to run a loud washing machine in the same room as soemone trying to sleep when she has all weekend to do it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:20 AM Flag
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Sounds like you have a pretty good deal with her gone most nights. See if you can deal with this one issue but I wouldn't treat it as a dealbreaker. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:54 AM Flag
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Tell her to take her laundry to her BF's to do it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 01:41 AM Flag
[ - ] Can someone explain first choice letters? I believe PSD said we can write up to 3 of them for our favorite schools, but doesn't that mean if we don't write one to a school they will know they aren't a top choice and are much less likely to let us in? Do people get into school they don't designate as a FC? And if you can write 3 FC letters, who would really know if you wrote 5? 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:08 AM Flag
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Three first choices? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:10 AM Flag
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PSD must have meant 3 FC or ILY letters. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:27 AM Flag
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what is the difference between a FC letter and an I love you letter? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:29 AM Flag
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FC = We pledge to enroll if offered admission; ILY = We love your school and see our child there but no promise. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:34 AM Flag
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Np can I do this for a private but if dc gets into hunter or Anderson (mouth to god ear) I would enroll there? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:36 AM Flag
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I'm not sure about Hunter as notification is same day- I imagine the schools understand taking Hunter- I think FC must mean FC among the privates. Anderson doesnt matter since you don't find out until April- if you get Anderson you can leave and give up your deposit. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:40 AM Flag
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ISAAGNY rules have changed. Schools can no longer ask for FC letters although you are welcome to send them. Now schools can only ask if you are a "top choice," i.e. top 3 choices. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 01:53 AM Flag
[ - ] I am so saddened by all these me too posts, but am I naïve to be surprised? I am 37, and have never experienced anything remotely like sexual assault or even true harassment. Sure, I've gotten a few (mild) sexist remarks and maybe been catcalled on the street once or twice, but that's it. 15 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:07 AM Flag
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If you're saddened, maybe take a break from social media. I'm not on any except UB (which doesn't really count), and I find the news doesn't affect my mood the way it does that of my more online acquaintances. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:09 AM Flag
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Well, good for you. It really isn’t that huge a deal to me. Cat calls, ass and boob gropes, drunk assed frat boys, drunk myself, whatever. Came close to date rape once; that would have sucked but luckily the guy stopped when I really said no. I do think much of this shit is the woman’s fault. In my case I know it was in some instances. No angel whites and devil blacks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:10 AM Flag
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And didn’t bother with me too. Who cares? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:17 AM Flag
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Also, grinding on the dance floor.. fine lines.. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:29 AM Flag
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You’re wrong [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:49 AM Flag
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Spoken like true boy man. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:57 AM Flag
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You said the magic word - "luckily." Some of us, not so much. And sure, there's responsibility on both sides. But its still far too weighted. And not in our favor. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 01:23 AM Flag
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You never had your butt grabbed? Anyway, I think some of it is a liberal application of what harassment means. Someone I know posted about a guy staring at her breasts when she never wears a bra and always wears low cut thin t shirts. I stare at her breasts too! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:11 AM Flag
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I have been lucky as well. Maybe I didn't notice some of it, I think I just go about my day and don't always file it all away. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:12 AM Flag
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I believe the stat is 1 in every 3 women have been sexually assaulted? It happens all the time. It is painful and embarrassing to talk about. Most of my friends do not know. And I am not going around saying Me too this week. This is my private matter to worry about. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:13 AM Flag
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+1 I was sexually abused growing up and have no intention of sharing. I also get overly sensitive when it's all lopped together. Sexual abuse and having your ass groped is not the same level of PTSD and shame. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:17 AM Flag
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I haven't told my boyfriend I was raped yet, but I did share a few recent episodes of harassment on the street/bars that just happened this fall. I am not even pretty so I wonder how OP made it through with no harassment. I had one guy bend down to look up my dress this summer and had to have another guy removed from a bar for touching me [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:23 AM Flag
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I don't think much of the situation. I'm 39 and I walk away from people and situations I'm uncomfortable with or annoyed by. I've experienced sexist remarks but I can be just as obnoxious, catcalls are akin to car horns (noise pollution). I think I have a 'don't fuck with me attitude' that possibly has helped me avoid assault. One guy kept sending texts messages trying to get me to see him, but 1 guy out of a life time of guys does not make men disrespectful as a gender. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:18 AM Flag
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You have been lucky, that's all. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:54 AM Flag
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It's obvious from all these recent posts on UB that some women have no clue of what is not appropriate. What should I expect though, when half the people don't even know their on bodies. Example: I'm 37, am I going through menopause? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 01:01 AM Flag
[ - ] I'm so tired all the time. I sleep a lot at night but then want naps too. 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:02 AM Flag
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Check your iron level. Mine is fine so I’ve just accepted I need more sleep than most [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:49 AM Flag
[ - ] What are some jobs for a college grad who majored in history? Other than a teacher... 25 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.18.17, 11:53 PM Flag
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Lawyer, politician [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.18.17, 11:55 PM Flag
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journalist, editor, [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.18.17, 11:56 PM Flag
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Two dying careers. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.18.17, 11:56 PM Flag
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We need both. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.18.17, 11:57 PM Flag
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wrong - need more now than ever [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 02:12 AM Flag
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Um, anything. College is not vocational school. Someone who studied history might be a strong critical thinker, for example. I studied psychology and resented the mindset that my major meant I needed to either become a therapist, teacher, or the only role I could seek out in a large corporation was in HR (huh?). I've been successful in healthcare marketing for 15+ years and people of all backgrounds and college majors/career paths are at my company (ad agency). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.18.17, 11:58 PM Flag
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Instagram influencer [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.18.17, 11:59 PM Flag
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Funny. My English major grad writes for a tech start-up synthesizing marketing data into reports about instagram influencers in fashion, make-up and atheleisure. Makes just under $90,000 year, 1 year out of college. Totally self-supporting. Others in his department were English, creative writing,philosophy and history majors. All are strong writers. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 01:09 AM Flag
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Well my friend's dc became a ski bum pot head in Colorado after studying history so there's that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:02 AM Flag
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Novelist? Didn't Franzen major in history? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:03 AM Flag
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Very successful actor ? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:07 AM Flag
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Foreign service, lawyer, smart ones can apply for the big-paying business jobs if they were at a top school like the business majors- consulting, banking. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:09 AM Flag
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Writer on Drunk History, Jon Oliver, Daily Show. Art Curator, Start a tour company that take people on History tours in different countries (I would go on that). I find History majors to be smart and interesting. GL. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:10 AM Flag
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Interesting. Another history major here who kind of wants to get into comedy. Maybe one day I could be a writer. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:13 AM Flag
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History major can go to medical school if he or she took the other required courses. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:10 AM Flag
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Tutor. History seems to be the subject that most HS kids require a tutor. In NYC the TT History curriculum is far too advanced. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:11 AM Flag
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Interesting. I am a tutor with a history degree, but also literacy specialist and I never see requests for history tutors. Once in a blue moon for regents. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:16 AM Flag
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Why is history hard for anyone? This was one of the easiest subjects in HS for me. Physics, inorganic chemistry and calculus were hard [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:16 AM Flag
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That's wild. I've never heard of a history tutor. Math/science I totally understand, but how can you not "get" history. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:41 AM Flag
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I ran a not for profit for a while - now I am a nurse. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:35 AM Flag
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Did she do any activities or internships? That's how it's supposed to work if you're a liberal arts major - you turn your extracurricular into internships, and internships into experience to get you a job. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:39 AM Flag
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I’m a partner at a major financial institution and I was a history major. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:50 AM Flag
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ds loves history and wants to be lawyer. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:54 AM Flag
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It's a common pre-law major. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 01:13 AM Flag
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Anything. As long he gets a good postgrad. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 01:28 AM Flag
[ - ] OMG, it could be an LA - NY world series.... 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.18.17, 11:51 PM Flag
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OMG [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:00 AM Flag
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Yaassss! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:00 AM Flag
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Go Blue! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:03 AM Flag
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The astros are too good. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:09 AM Flag
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well they need to score more than 5 runs in 5 games if they want to show how good they are [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:35 AM Flag
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Is the game on NOW? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:11 AM Flag
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Who is playing? Yankees and who else? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:12 AM Flag
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My DH is actively hoping for this. He is from LA, and loves the Dodgers. He wants to share his affinity for the team with our boys by taking them to the games if they both make it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:16 AM Flag
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bring it on! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 04:21 AM Flag
[ - ] Rank the boys' schools after Collegiate: St. Bernard's, Buckley, Browning, St. David's 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.18.17, 11:47 PM Flag
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Buckley, St. Davids, Browning, St. Bernard's [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.18.17, 11:50 PM Flag
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never seen that one [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.18.17, 11:51 PM Flag
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Lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:55 AM Flag
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What a joke [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 01:08 AM Flag
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Buckley is most certainly not first. Perhaps 4th. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 01:09 AM Flag
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why don't you rank them, OP? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:01 AM Flag
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I have two girls. Now trying to figure it out for my son. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:21 AM Flag
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why don't you visit them and figure out which one is best for your son? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:22 AM Flag
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NP: why do you assume you'll get into any of them? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:40 AM Flag
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Collegiate, St. Bernards, St. Davids, Buckley, Allen Stevenson, Browning. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:12 AM Flag
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This is it [ Reply | More ]
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C, St B, Buckley, St D, Browning, AS. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:17 AM Flag
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No [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:23 AM Flag
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For you, for others that is the ranking. You can rank them however you like. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:24 AM Flag
[ - ] What is the deal with Edie-Parker clutches? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.18.17, 11:47 PM Flag
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Tacky, hideous, basic. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:03 AM Flag
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Donate to charity [ Reply | More ]
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i see them everywhere, they are lots of $$$. you can personalize [ Reply | More ]
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A socially ambitious UES SAHM’s fugly vanity project. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:52 AM Flag
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where do her kids go to school? [ Reply | More ]
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They were very cool a couple of years ago. Now they're just lame. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 01:24 AM Flag
[ - ] Thank you President Trump for taking on this horrible epidemic. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.18.17, 11:46 PM Flag
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He's not taking it on. He's shopping. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.18.17, 11:47 PM Flag
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Don't be an asshole. He is the only one who has tried to do anything about this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:07 AM Flag
[ - ] Anyone’s DC go to a democratic school? What has your experience been? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.18.17, 11:42 PM Flag
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This is such a stupid post. Really. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:11 AM Flag
[ - ] My best friend (a guy) is having an emotional affair. He is living with his gf and having an emotional affair with his exgf. This is going on for two years as the current gf is planning their wedding and supporting him financially. What should I do? 28 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.18.17, 11:34 PM Flag
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Make better friends. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.18.17, 11:37 PM Flag
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OP: I agree. But now this is what I got. I am sick to my stomach hearing about it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.18.17, 11:38 PM Flag
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No. You are into it. He's a loser if his fiance is supporting him. Feel sorry for her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.18.17, 11:59 PM Flag
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Tell him that stiff doesn't fly and he fesses up or you eat him out. It is not fair to do that to another human being [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.18.17, 11:38 PM Flag
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OP: I have done all of that. Ridiculed him, told him off, yelled at him, kicked him out of my apartment and all of that. He is fine (wont talk about it for a month or so) and then starts again with another text from exgf [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.18.17, 11:42 PM Flag
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Re read my suggestion [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.18.17, 11:55 PM Flag
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Substitute rat for eat [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.18.17, 11:56 PM Flag
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Tell her. Before they have three kids under five whose lives will be ruined. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.18.17, 11:46 PM Flag
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The other girl is just playing . She has no interest in leaving her partner. She just flirts and perhaps wants sex with her exbf [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.18.17, 11:50 PM Flag
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But his next girlfriend might be more demanding. You can't honestly think they are in a stable enough position to marry and procreate. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.18.17, 11:54 PM Flag
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OP: She just wants a wedding and kids. She can't care less about anything else. And this guy is a really good guy and very nice (except for this one thing) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.18.17, 11:58 PM Flag
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Then give her the information and let her decide if she "just wants a wedding and kids." Pretty sure she doesn't want kids 50% of the time who are living with a cheating scumbag the rest of the time. Are you really the OW? You sound like it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:01 AM Flag
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This doesn't matter. The bride to be deserves someone who doesn't act like a dick. Tell her [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.18.17, 11:57 PM Flag
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Tell him he doesn't want to marry current gf. Can you talk about this with him? Be upfront. If you feel like cheating now, think about how you will feel when you are a legally obligated to this woman and you really dislike her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.18.17, 11:51 PM Flag
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OP: He says he only feels this way about this one (sort of like the one that got away)and he really doesn't flirt with any other woman. He says if his ex came back to him, he will leave his current gf for her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.18.17, 11:55 PM Flag
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Ouch....poor girl. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.18.17, 11:57 PM Flag
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Hmm..I can relate but I did the wrong thing and married a man that everyone really liked except me deep down. Then I had a dirty affair with the ex with the idea that we were "truly" meant for each other. The smart thing is to get rid of both and wait for someone that you don't feel like cheating on or with. Respect yourself enough to know that neither a or b are the correct option. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.18.17, 11:58 PM Flag
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What makes it an emotional affair rather than a friendship with an ex? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.18.17, 11:53 PM Flag
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OP: He told her that he loves her and if she leaves her bf, he will marry her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.18.17, 11:54 PM Flag
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Oh please, he's a liar. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:00 AM Flag
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I would lose him and tell his 'girlfriend'. I couldn't remain friends with someone who is flagrantly dishonest. I wouldn't be friends with thieves or abusers, etc, either. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.18.17, 11:53 PM Flag
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OP: As someone who was cheated on, this really hits me hard. I am almost thinking of telling him we can't be friends anymore. I have known him all my life. UGHHH [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.18.17, 11:56 PM Flag
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Your friendship is over. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:01 AM Flag
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Knowing someone all your life doesn't mean they can absolve into a lowlife and you just accept it. I expect more from people I know longterm. They are in my life because they deserve to be. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:01 AM Flag
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This. Lie down with dogs, you get fleas [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.18.17, 11:57 PM Flag
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Agree [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.18.17, 11:59 PM Flag
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Obviously he is in love with the old GF. and with the new one because she works and supports him. In this case, I'd recommend sacrificing the friendship and telling the girlfriend. Alternatively I'd go have lunch with the OLD girlfriend and honestly asking her if she loves him or is this a game. If they love each other, yes they should be together. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.18.17, 11:58 PM Flag
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wasn't this a movie with kate hudson & ginnifer goodwin [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.18.17, 11:58 PM Flag
[ - ] Anyone here psychic? or tarot mom? 45 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.18.17, 11:33 PM Flag
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What's your question? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.18.17, 11:38 PM Flag
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Will they break up or stay together and if they are going to breakup, around when? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.18.17, 11:41 PM Flag
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Does the couple in question come from two different backgrounds in terms of nationality? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.18.17, 11:43 PM Flag
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Both born in the US, but one is a different nationality/race. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.18.17, 11:44 PM Flag
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Yes that's what I was getting. They're going to defy expectations and stay together longer than anyone expects. I do see marriage. Did these two come together under kind of scandalous/shady circumstances? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.18.17, 11:46 PM Flag
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I don't think so, but maybe one cheated? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.18.17, 11:48 PM Flag
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That's what I was picking up [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.18.17, 11:49 PM Flag
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He is not the marrying kind, but I am afraid is dragging her along for $$ and good times [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.18.17, 11:51 PM Flag
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You never know. Men are unpredictable. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.18.17, 11:55 PM Flag
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I really hope they don't. She is not a good person. Do you think she is toxic? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.18.17, 11:59 PM Flag
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She seems fine on the surface and I can't get a sense of what she's all about - just see a big smile and can't see beyond it. The issues are more with him in terms of character. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:01 AM Flag
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Is he going to change his mind and come back? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.18.17, 11:55 PM Flag
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Kind of a murky situation. Do you have kids? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.18.17, 11:57 PM Flag
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I'm asking because if you're free to walk away that would be best. If children are involved be prepared for a lot of go round. You'll be the one to go cold though. He's acting like a child. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.18.17, 11:58 PM Flag
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Kids involved. He always acts like a child. Trying to move on. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:01 AM Flag
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Yes please make yourself the priority. You know that goo stuff kids love - slime? I just see a blackish green slime when I think of him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:03 AM Flag
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*that relates to Boundaries. You need to set them or he'll just ooze over them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:03 AM Flag
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Thank you. You are spot on. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:04 AM Flag
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Ah good to know I'm tuned in. Sorry you have to deal with this. You and your kids will recover without lasting damage. Just get over the hump of setting the new status quo. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:06 AM Flag
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Will I make money in this business? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:00 AM Flag
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Yes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:03 AM Flag
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*i see a tremendous demand [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:08 AM Flag
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I only work for myself. I don't have clients. Do you see me making money? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 01:00 AM Flag
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I see a demand for what you provide. Doesn't that make sense? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 01:05 AM Flag
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Will I ever date again? get married? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:09 AM Flag
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Can't get a clear answer. Sorry! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:42 AM Flag
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You said I shouldn’t worry about the job search, but savings are dwindling and life is on hold. How much longer will it be until we can get our lives back? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:11 AM Flag
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Is there effort being made to find something? If that's the case, a job will materialize. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:42 AM Flag
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Yes, of course there’s effort. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:58 AM Flag
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Don't worry! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 01:09 AM Flag
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I empathize with how totally stressful this is! You'll look back and wish you hadn't put yourself through all the stress. But I totally get how hard it is not to feel that way. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 01:11 AM Flag
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Will we get into a good private K? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:14 AM Flag
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I see a classroom with flowers on the wall and kids names in them. Ring a bell? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:43 AM Flag
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hmmm no - wracking my brain. See anything else? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:54 AM Flag
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Schools are my weakness. I got 72... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 01:09 AM Flag
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*as related to the adress/street [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 01:10 AM Flag
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TY, going to keep thinking on this! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 01:17 AM Flag
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*i don't know for sure what the 72 is related to. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 01:24 AM Flag
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Not sure if you are willing to comment on pregnancy, but do you see us with two kids or just one in the future? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 12:57 AM Flag
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Are you pregnant right now? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 01:12 AM Flag
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not as far as I know... but I've had some trouble and a couple MCs so not sure it's in the cards. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 01:14 AM Flag
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I saw you 6/7 months pregnant. Right away, very clearly. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 01:16 AM Flag
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So yes, another one! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 01:16 AM Flag
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Thanks, at least this gives me hope. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 01:17 AM Flag
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Count on it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.19.17, 01:19 AM Flag
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