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[ - ] Nanny questions: We have a nanny who we love who has been with us a year. I am due with a second baby in April. Do I need to give a raise now since we just passed the one year mark or can I wait until the second baby arrives in April? We pay her $15 per hour now. What is a typical jump for a second child? She only works part time (three days a week). Also, I travel home frequently to visit family and take my child with me. So she ends up getting about 6 weeks off a year of paid vacation while I am gone. However, I want to see if in the future I can save some of these days for when she does overnights or does a 4th or 5th day of work in a week. Is that a reasonable request to use those days as a credit to extra time other than her usual 3 day work week? We never discussed any formalities or guidelines when we first hired her- totally my fault! So I want to find a time to go over these things with her now as part of a one year check in. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:32 AM Flag
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Before you decide, you should spend a few hours monitoring her to see if she changes diapers properly. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:33 AM Flag
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Will you only need 3 days with 2 kids? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:33 AM Flag
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OP: I do freelance work part time only three days a week. Since I am self-employed, I am going to play it by ear how much time I am going to take off when the second baby comes, but I assume at least three months. Then I hope to get back into the swing of things and get projects again. Because it is freelance though, it's not guaranteed I'll be able to jump back in the game the second I am ready. Long story short, I don't want to commit now to more than three days a week when I have the second baby since I am worried what my income will be like. That being said, I am starting to get really nervous about juggling two children and keeping my sanity! Obviously everyone makes it work somehow and plenty of people without any help...just getting anxious. Regardless, don't want to commit to more than three days a week until I know my situation after the baby comes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:40 AM Flag
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Give her a raise now (regular annual raise). You do not need to give her raise for db until you get back to work and she takes care of 2 kids by herself. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:42 AM Flag
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How about a raise around the holidays (along with a bonus) and a discuss of how that's a raise for the second child but you wanted to offer it to her early b/c you so appreciate her [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:40 AM Flag
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Perfect [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:48 AM Flag
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OP: That's a good idea. Is it reasonable to move the rate from $15 to $16 per hour to be both the annual raise and the raise for taking care of two children? Or does it need to be $17 for two kids? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:51 AM Flag
[ - ] Have any of you conceived first try with more than one child? If yes, what age each time? Ty! 17 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:24 AM Flag
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Yes-3 times. 33 (miscarriage), 34, 38 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:29 AM Flag
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Yes , 30 and 34 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:31 AM Flag
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3 times too: 33, 37, 41 (not trying, but conceived) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:30 AM Flag
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Only first try with #2 (technically not yet trying but was planning to tv in next cycle) but I was 38. #1 was 3rd month. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:32 AM Flag
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How old were you with number one? [ Reply | More ]
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37 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:48 AM Flag
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^sorry was actually 39 for #2 but just by a week or two. Was still 39 when DC was born. [ Reply | More ]
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first try with DC3 only at age 40. Others were the third try. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:34 AM Flag
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Yes 3 times - 33, 35, 38 [ Reply | More ]
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Wow really? That's impressive [ Reply | More ]
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I used ovulation test first 2 times [ Reply | More ]
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34 and 37 [ Reply | More ]
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27, 29 [ Reply | More ]
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Yes, three times. First at 36 (miscarriage), second at 36, third at 38. But we timed sex, that makes all the difference imo. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 01:06 AM Flag
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Yes. 28, 31 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 01:05 AM Flag
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37...second time. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 01:12 AM Flag
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First try with both my kids. I was 31 and 34. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 01:24 AM Flag
[ - ] Tarot mom are you here? 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:22 AM Flag
[ - ] Heard some good gossip - Kelly Ripa's parents hate Mark and refuse to be in his presence because he doesn't "let" Kelly help support her disabled sister. 41 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:21 AM Flag
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It's not gossip. It's the truth. I hate mark. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:23 AM Flag
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Has anyone seen them in person? I did once and couldn't believe how short they were. They were like two midgets (I know that word isn't PC but can't think of the correct term) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:23 AM Flag
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Yes. I used to nanny for a kid in her kid's class. Saw them at pick up often. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:28 AM Flag
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and were't they crazy vertically challenged? i was shocked [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:30 AM Flag
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Haha. Reminds me of the time I saw Rod Stewart and his wife, Penny get out of his car. She was driving, BTW. He is tiny and she is an Amazon. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:31 AM Flag
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haha! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:33 AM Flag
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He wont let her???? I would rip him another. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:23 AM Flag
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I find this very hard to believe. While there's some truth to every rumor, she appears way too grounded for this to be the case. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:25 AM Flag
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What is wrong with her sister? That is so sad [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:24 AM Flag
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Car accident [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:25 AM Flag
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But exactly how is every sibling supposed to indefinitely support a "disabled" sibling. I mean is it like she can't walk? Is it like she has crippling back pain that only lets her play mine craft all day? I am in this position and I will the fuck funnel any of my income towards my useless brother. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:34 AM Flag
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You sound lovly [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:43 AM Flag
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Lovely [ Reply | More ]
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He's a perv. Everybody knows it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:25 AM Flag
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I've never understood why she's still married to him [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:26 AM Flag
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She seems very insecure. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:31 AM Flag
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Beause he is fine! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 01:29 AM Flag
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I don't believe it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:26 AM Flag
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You better believe it. He is a monster, know him personally. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:34 AM Flag
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Fake [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:52 AM Flag
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Whatever. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 01:06 AM Flag
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Huh? Why? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:53 AM Flag
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How would he stop her? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:29 AM Flag
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Right? She clearly makes the $$$ so it's not like he can withhold it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:33 AM Flag
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This [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 01:06 AM Flag
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Don't follow their lives so don't know much besides the happy family PR stories and photos. What's the scoop on her DH? And isn't she worth millions? How could her much lower earning DH have any real say re finances? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:30 AM Flag
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She earns the millions and he fancies himself her financial manager [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:35 AM Flag
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I don't believe it, but what's wrong with her sister? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:34 AM Flag
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Perv? Monster? Please explain. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:40 AM Flag
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I know, so why did op make up this stupid story [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 01:05 AM Flag
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$15m goes quickly after lawyers fees [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 01:07 AM Flag
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Not hardly. She'd still have 2/3 of the amount ($10mm) tax free. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 01:31 AM Flag
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I watch the show and it makes sense. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 01:08 AM Flag
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Do you think he cheats? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:53 AM Flag
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With Bruce Bozzi. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 01:06 AM Flag
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Do you think he cheats? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:53 AM Flag
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Do you think he cheats? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:53 AM Flag
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Yes, with Andy Cohen [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 01:16 AM Flag
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Well that contradicts me seeing their family at brunch or kids activities in the Hamptons on many occasions, including with his family and hers. They are both very friendly. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 01:33 AM Flag
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There is no way you saw her parents out with Mark, sorry. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 01:57 AM Flag
[ - ] Another mother at my daughter's school found out, god knows how, about my extensive criminal record (it was 99% juvenile so it isn't public record) and my "life of crime" as a teenager. Now she's running this campaign against me and everything my six year old does is due to her relation to me. I don't know what to do, I don't want this to come back on my husband. 19 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:19 AM Flag
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*Also, funnily enough, everybody knows one of the women in her little group's husband committed serious financial crimes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:20 AM Flag
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Well as long as not PTA treasurer, not certain relevant. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:21 AM Flag
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lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:22 AM Flag
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They say things like, "Oh, Jenny did so and so. What can you expect, with a mother like that. God knows why he married her." They're blatant about it too, in a "bless your heart" type of way. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:20 AM Flag
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Are you otherwise NOKD? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:21 AM Flag
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I grew up dirt poor. I wrangled my way up. My husband has a significant amount of money, but I don't choose my friends based on social capital. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:21 AM Flag
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Wrangled way up does not equate with extensive criminal record. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:24 AM Flag
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How so? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:24 AM Flag
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Plenty of people pull themselves up out of poverty without an extensive criminal record. If you are OP, you need to stop making excuses for what you did. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:32 AM Flag
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I'm sure you'd know, but that was not the question. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:39 AM Flag
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I didn't say NOKD, but was responding to that train. Anyone who blames criminal record on poverty is NOKD. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:53 AM Flag
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I am sorry, but I would be more concerned about my 6 YO than my DH. [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
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All you can do is face it at this point, there is no shame as long as you weren't a serial rapist or something. You were a kid. Ignore the bs drama. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:23 AM Flag
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Phoebe Buffet? [ Reply | More ]
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From the Dark Knight: Lucius Fox: [to Reese] Let me get this straight, you think that your client, one of the wealthiest and most powerful men in the world, is secretly a vigilante, who spends his nights beating criminals to a pulp with his bare hands, and your plan is to blackmail this person? - show her why your past makes you someone not to be trifled with! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:26 AM Flag
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How did she find out? [ Reply | More ]
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I don't know. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:40 AM Flag
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Fencing stolen car parts mom? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:45 AM Flag
[ - ] Was D2 superintendent fired? What is the story? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Farina replaced a bunch of superintendents. She basically made everyone reapply for their job and took the best candidates. The D2 guy didn't make the cut. [ Reply | More ]
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Seems strange to me [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:17 AM Flag
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You are right re: reapply. But the D2 guy became her underling, he wasn't fired. It's like a promotion. [ Reply | More ]
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Oh, OK, that makes sense now. [ Reply | More ]
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Kicked upstairs is more like it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:30 AM Flag
[ - ] Is the world ending weather wise in NY? Because the fuck, I am in Boston and tree branches are getting ripped off 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:10 AM Flag
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Westchester -- light rain, nothing awful. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:18 AM Flag
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Me too and yeah--trees down. Crazy. Good night to be indoors. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:28 AM Flag
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OP me too - and I heard a very bad sound a little while ago. I'm not going to go look now. It's dark. But it was a bad sound. LIke a tree coming down. [ Reply | More ]
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I'm in csmbridge and it fine. Lots more branches here too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:34 AM Flag
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You are really not getting crazy wind ?? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:42 AM Flag
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No. Really aren't. And we have a yard w trees so it's not like I wouldn't realize it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:45 AM Flag
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Update: it's now pouring and windy here too. Should have moved the lawn chairs an hour ago! [ Reply | More ]
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Nor'easter [ Reply | More ]
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Nor'easter [ Reply | More ]
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I am near you, OP, and a woman just died in a car accident up the street. Her car looked like a crumpled up ball of tin foil. Be careful out there. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 01:08 AM Flag
[ - ] So I got flamed earlier today for asking how I should train my nanny (watch her do basic things for DB on first day and explain how I like things done). Ppl said things like "LOL if you have to train her to change a diaper, you shouldn't have hired her." Ignoring UB, I watched her change DD's diaper- and she wiped back to front. I explained to her why you shouldn't do that, and she was open to the feedback. BTW, she has 10 yrs of experience and great references. Moral of the story, never hurts to keep an eye on your nanny, esp in the beginning of the relationship- it's more work, but it's your kid, and it's worth it. 51 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:07 AM Flag
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Totally get what you're saying. On the other hand, I'd bet she'll keep on doing what she's been doing for the past 10 years. [ Reply | More ]
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Yeah, it's a possibility, but she didn't seem offended/annoyed. It's her first day with us, and I think she expected that I'd be showing her how I do things. I mentioned it to her in a very non confrontational way, like "hey, actually, they recommend now to wipe this way to prevent infection..." [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:11 AM Flag
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Please come back when your DC is 5 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:09 AM Flag
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Sorry I would fire - cut your losses - unacceptable - not kidding [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:12 AM Flag
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Didn't think it was that serious of an offensive, but certainly something that needed correcting. Glad I "hover" even though UB moms hate it! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:15 AM Flag
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^offense [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:15 AM Flag
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OP. I'm not even sure what this is supposed to mean. I like things done a certain way, and I have every right to convey that to my employee, just as a company trains it's employees. Sorry, but nannies are not the gods of child rearing regardless of how much experience they have. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:12 AM Flag
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^Also, I feel like a lot of the defensiveness I'm getting is from moms who neither have the time nor energy to manage details about how the nanny is raising their kid. I'm lucky and WFH, so I have this luxury. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:13 AM Flag
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Keep up the micromanaging, hope it works out for you [ Reply | More ]
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In the beginning, I certainly will! I don't micromanage the housekeeper, but someone who's taking care of my 6 mo old, you better fucking believe I'm all over it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:18 AM Flag
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With that attitude, she won't last 6 months. Good luck. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:25 AM Flag
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She knows the dynamic (I was very specific about what the working arrangement is during the interview) and she's more than fine with it. Are you flaming me bc I chose a nanny who takes direction well? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:31 AM Flag
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She has worked there a day and wanted a job...told you what you wanted to hear [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:40 AM Flag
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OP. Again, nice try, but she had several interviews, and comes highly recommended. She chose us, and we chose her. I was honest and direct in the beginning as to how detail oriented and specific I am. She doesn't mind, otherwise she would have chosen another family. It helps that we are generous with pay. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:44 AM Flag
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np: you sound nuts. Are you on the UES by any chance? I feel for your nanny. Where the hell did you grow up? How poor were you growing up? Can't fathom someone with your attitude IRL. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:57 AM Flag
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OP. Born and bred NYer. Def not UES. Don't care what you think about my "attitude." [ Reply | More ]
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^I also find it amusing that you think I was poor growing up. You keep thinking that sweetie ;). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 01:03 AM Flag
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np: ok….then you're just a rich bitch thats delusional. Yes, your 6 mod old is precious to you and you care about him/her. I get that. I onl allowed family to watch my dc when I WOH. BUT your attitude with your "help" as you call them is outrageous, almost neocolonial. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 01:28 AM Flag
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^^its [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:14 AM Flag
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Do you also monitor your DH or do you even let him watch the DB without you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:12 AM Flag
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My DH is wonderful with her, and always used to ask me questions in the beginning on how to do things since he was clueless with babies. He'll happily take whatever tips I give him :). Also, the level of love and attention is just different with the actual parents, and I obviously know and trust DH in a way that I don't a stranger I've interviewed once in my life. Why is this so difficult for you people to understand? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:17 AM Flag
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The nannies that I respect most refuse to work in homes where the Mother is a WAH parent. They say that the DCs get confused and they can't do their jobs properly with Mommy stepping in all the time. They are all for Nanny Cams but indicate the dynamic of a WAH parent is awful on the children unless they have a separate space and don't interact with the DCs. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:18 AM Flag
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OP. I have a "separate space" when I'm working (I'm not in front of DB). I do however pop in and out a lot, and will continue to do so. Just my preference, and I talked about this dynamic during the interview to make sure nanny was ok with it. She was a nanny for a family for 5 yrs before us where the dad was a SAHD. Her words "I have nothing to hide and don't mind at all if you are around. I'd be doing the same thing regardless." So, I do respect her for that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:25 AM Flag
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Did you read the post..it's about the kid, not you or the nanny [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:26 AM Flag
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My 6 mo old isn't "confused"- she knows mommy has a helper or a "friend" who comes to play with her PT. No different than a grandparent, etc who would watch DB PT. Also, there is less opportunity for neglect, abuse, an apathetic nanny always on her cell phone, etc with me being around- I've seen all these things a lot btw. [ Reply | More ]
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^Moms have NO IDEA what goes on when their "amazing nanny" is actually at the park gossiping with other nannies, smoking, and on her cell phone while the poor child looks completely zoned out and miserable. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:35 AM Flag
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LOL..you don't think we don't have friends report back on the Nanny [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:37 AM Flag
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She's had a nanny for one day! While you hovered! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:36 AM Flag
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No, it's totally about what a super-fabulous, all-knowing mother of one very small child the OP is! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:35 AM Flag
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OP. No, it's not about me being so great. It's about my right to observe and train my nanny. But nice try. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:42 AM Flag
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You were right. This is your child and you obviously picked something up on the first day. Ignore the flamers. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:23 AM Flag
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OP. Thank you for that. It's hard enough going back to work, I'm not going to feel bad for doing my best to make sure DB is taken care of the way I would take care of her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:27 AM Flag
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Your poor child is going to be friendless because she has a Sanctimommy [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:25 AM Flag
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Oh please shut up. Because I don't dump my baby with someone I've met once in my life, leave for 10 hrs, and never observe or ask any questions? Hope that works for you and poor child. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:29 AM Flag
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This is precisely why. No one cares that you observe or help train the nanny for a couple of days. It's the attitude. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:31 AM Flag
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I have an attitude on here bc of posts like yours BTW. You throw around labels and insults and expect me not to have an attitude. How does this work exactly? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:36 AM Flag
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What a smug, know it all bitch! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:37 AM Flag
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OP, don't worry about the flaming. The UB bitches are out in full force tonight- you brought out some insecurities in the WOHM. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:39 AM Flag
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OP. Ugh. I didn't want this to turn into a SAHM vs WOHM thing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:40 AM Flag
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I think it's more of a FTM vs. experienced mom thing. At least, I'm a SAHM of 3 and I find you annoying and it's not because I'm insecure about my diaper-changing skills. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 01:19 AM Flag
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Sorry, but if have been a parent for less than a year (and had a nanny for a day, LOL!) and think you have all the answers, you are in for a rude, rude awakening. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 01:16 AM Flag
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OP. Huh? I certainly don't have all the answers. I just don't get the flaming for observing and training my nanny. That's really it folks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 01:19 AM Flag
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You hired shitty nanny. I learned more from my nanny than I could ever teach her [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:37 AM Flag
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np. Then maybe you're not such a great mom? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:37 AM Flag
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OP. Nope. She has excellent references, we pay her above market, and she's been doing this for over 10 yrs (with each family for 5 yrs). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:37 AM Flag
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She has worked there one day!!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:42 AM Flag
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Huh? What does this have to do with her qualifications? I think OP is saying she is fine by being trained or with a WFH parent. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:46 AM Flag
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Just don't micro manage her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:48 AM Flag
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Most parents I know train their nannies, I don't get why OP feels the need to justify this. Her responses, however, are insufferable. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:50 AM Flag
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Oh absolutely. I stayed home two days with my new nanny, but then I am a bit Type A, I like the things the way I like them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 01:09 AM Flag
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THIS [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 01:15 AM Flag
[ - ] what zip codes are the best zoned elementaries in manhattan/brooklyn? How much is a decent but not extravagant 2-3br? Will we be ok with 1.4? 25 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:02 AM Flag
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10028 and 10075. $1.4 would get a decent 2 bedroom, not a 3 bedroom. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:08 AM Flag
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Yorkville. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:12 AM Flag
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ps 158, ps 290 and ps 151 amoung the top 15 schools. 2 bedroom about $1.2m for 1200 sqft, and 3 bedroom closer to $2m. ps 151 least expensive of the 3. zip codes are 10028, 10021 and newer zip code just south of 79th street, don't know it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:33 AM Flag
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That is 10075 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:38 AM Flag
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Also the new 527 on 91st street. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:55 AM Flag
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1.4 mm apartment? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:21 AM Flag
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yes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:26 AM Flag
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Your best bet is to buy in the PS158 zone (3rd Ave east from 73rd/79th and York Ave east from 73rd/87th). UMC prices (yes, in 1.4 range) and school results almost indecipherable from the two schools to its immediate west. There are other great schools around Manhattan but all have prices well above the PS158 zone like Tribeca and UWS. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:30 AM Flag
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thank you! what is the zip code? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:33 AM Flag
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think it is parts of 10021 10075 and 10028 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:36 AM Flag
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I live right across the street from Yorkville Community- it's 10128 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:54 AM Flag
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I say FiDi. Good deals there. 10038 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:50 AM Flag
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Isnt that the PS that is going to have to share building with un-screened middle school. Also, be careful not on path to Marine transfer Station. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:53 AM Flag
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Yes and yes. Trash station at 91st adds garbage truck traffic on York and 1st eventually. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:59 AM Flag
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Note to OP, unscreened middle means thugs. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:45 AM Flag
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11215 in Brooklyn. You can get a good 2-3BD for that amount. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:35 AM Flag
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Np. The best schol is 234. Prices are a little higher than u want to spend [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:40 AM Flag
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Try a lot higher. And I don't think it's "the best". No school is THE best. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:51 AM Flag
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I would go for west village - ps 41/ ps 3. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:55 AM Flag
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This area is wonderful but she will find nothing under 2 million and even then the apartments will not be that great. Ps 3/41 are amazing schools. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:49 AM Flag
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I'm assuming you want at least 1.5 baths. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:51 AM Flag
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Not impressed by 3. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:08 AM Flag
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Not at that price. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:51 AM Flag
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Tons of good schools in District 2..elementary and middle [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 01:40 AM Flag
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Yes if you are talkimg primary school. But assume DD is not smart enough to get in to gifted and talented, then the middle schools in D 2 are all terrible for her.. except the one in BPC [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 05:29 AM Flag
[ - ] If you had to choose: Aidan or Big? 97 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.22.14, 11:59 PM Flag
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Jake Ryan [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:01 AM Flag
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+1 He would have been a catch. High school sweetheart, married forever. Five kids and still hot. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:13 AM Flag
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Was that mental institution guy? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:17 AM Flag
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This! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:31 AM Flag
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no way -- he blew off his old girlfriend. Should have handled that better. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:31 AM Flag
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His old girlfriend who had been date raped btw [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:36 AM Flag
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This is true. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:41 AM Flag
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His old girlfriend was insufferable. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:41 AM Flag
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who are you talking about?!? this is not satc [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:49 AM Flag
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How old are you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:56 AM Flag
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32, why? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:57 AM Flag
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Jake Ryan is from 16 candles. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:59 AM Flag
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I remember now. Thnx [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 01:11 AM Flag
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Big because more financial freedom [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:02 AM Flag
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alone [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:03 AM Flag
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Big. So damn sexy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:03 AM Flag
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Aidan was sexy and a good guy. Big was a dud with no personality and selfish [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:04 AM Flag
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this [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:23 AM Flag
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Aidan was too good to be true. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:05 AM Flag
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Did big ever even work? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:05 AM Flag
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Big. Aidan was by boring. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:05 AM Flag
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Plus his house in Suffern sucked. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:06 AM Flag
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He was so tall and sweet and rugged! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:09 AM Flag
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I loved that episode with the squirrel. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:11 AM Flag
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Oh, please. "A squirrel is just a rat in a cuter outfit." She was an idiot. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:24 AM Flag
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I'm sufferin' in Suffern! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:14 AM Flag
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"You can't be friends with a squirrel! A squirrel is just a rat with a cuter outfit." [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:20 AM Flag
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haha [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:34 AM Flag
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Actually both ok, too good for Carrie. Not a Big fan until the second movie when saw the poor guy just wanted to eat take-out after work rather than go to events his striver-ish wife wanted to attend. He cooked more than she did. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:06 AM Flag
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ITA. She was the worst. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 01:40 AM Flag
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This [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:01 AM Flag
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Roger ebert, whom I respected, always made a clear case for Big being somewhat mentally retarded [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:09 AM Flag
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Hahaha yes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:11 AM Flag
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Special needs for sure with the crazy eyes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:11 AM Flag
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Please link [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:11 AM Flag
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Really? Love Ebert. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:13 AM Flag
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Look for the Sex and The City movie review. Can't remember if it's 1 or 2 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:21 AM Flag
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Was there more than 1? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:21 AM Flag
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haha yes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:28 AM Flag
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Aidan, definitely. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:10 AM Flag
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AIDAN!!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:11 AM Flag
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Aidan. He was really nice and down to earth. Big was an ass. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:12 AM Flag
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Carrie was so inept that she would bring big to Aidan's country house. Who does that? After she had cheated on Adain with big in the past or had that not happened yet ? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:15 AM Flag
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She had already cheated with him, that's why they ended up getting into that fight. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:54 AM Flag
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I actually like her first boyfriend, played by the guy from x file. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:12 AM Flag
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Who? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:17 AM Flag
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David Duchonvy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:18 AM Flag
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Nut [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:06 AM Flag
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I wanted a man who would commit, not a man who was committed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:22 AM Flag
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he was definitely not her first.. more like her 6th [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:29 AM Flag
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Aidan. He was dumb and boring but he wasn't a snake and he adored Carrie and would have been true to her. Big, not so much. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:13 AM Flag
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She had true chemistry with Big, though. Chemistry will duck with your brain - it's intoxicating. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:19 AM Flag
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^fuck [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:21 AM Flag
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but he treated her like shit so you should always marry the nicer guy [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:22 AM Flag
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It will make you buy a candy striper costume and visit your man at a hotel. I think at that point I would question my position in the relationship. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:23 AM Flag
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No, he wasn't dumb and boring. He had his own furniture design business, and he loved the outdoors (which stupid Carrie could not appreciate.) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:20 AM Flag
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She's a real twit in a lot of ways. I'm still a sucker for SATC (show not movies) but IRL her charms would have worn thin really fast--always clomping around in hideous giant white heels and bubblegum pink Pom Pom hats...ugh. She and Big would've turned into the creepiest, most depressing couple ever. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:23 AM Flag
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+1 you're funny! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:24 AM Flag
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I'm a sucker for it too. It's held up well for some reason. Some things wouldn't fly today, like Samantha dating the black guy and the sister, but overall it is still relavent. Somehow the fashion doesn't even look too dated either, perhaps because it was so outrageous (aside from Miranda and her kitten heels) I agree she was a twit with her weird tutus and frills. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:27 AM Flag
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Why wouldn't Samantha dating a black man fly now? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:33 AM Flag
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NP--I think just the cheesy way it was handled, not the fact she was dating a black guy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:35 AM Flag
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It would but the way the sister freaked out about him dating a white girl and then Samantha getting in a fight with her.. seems outdated when watching it. Also how they treated trans which is so big and touchy now, etc [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:34 AM Flag
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The up-my-ass players outside of Samantha's window was freaking hilarious. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 01:24 AM Flag
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Some of it is insanely silly and superficial and there are just so many elements that are completely absurd (her apartment, the clothes, the idea that these women are really friends and find SO much time to hang out but also NEVER date the same guys!) but as a whole it's very funny and endearing. I admit--I got weepy over some of those final episodes! Favorite episode though--the Post-It breakup. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:39 AM Flag
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+1 favorite episode [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:42 AM Flag
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She was just a horrible human being. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 01:42 AM Flag
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+1 not dumb and boring [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:49 AM Flag
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I would choose Aidan hands down. But CARRIE - she was a materialistic, shallow, go- for -the -money girl. So it's not surprising that she - idiot that she was- would prefer big. I think Aidan was better off without her. Why would a man like that want a woman who puts so much stock in her Manolos??? They were a bad match. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:22 AM Flag
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ITA. But that sort of mis-match was a running theme in SATC. I mean, would a straight-laced puritan like Charlotte really be friends with a ho like Samantha IRL? I think not. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:25 AM Flag
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Excellent point!!!! I never thought about it - but you're right. IRL, both would find each other distasteful. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:29 AM Flag
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True. They'd hate each other [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:39 AM Flag
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Yes, it was the ultimate horrible situation: Here comes the nice guy, perfect on paper but it's just not there. And you're 35. What do you do? Force it? She treated him just like Big had treated her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:29 AM Flag
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Frenemies was one of the best episodes....when Charlotte and Samantha each discovered they had a little bit of the others personality after all. When Charlotte gets drunk and screams at her sorority sisters how badly she wants to be fucked lol. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:32 AM Flag
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Haha. Charlotte releases her inner slut. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:33 AM Flag
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Was that the one where Samantha screwed Charlotte's brother? Where was the brother during all of her weddings BTW? also skipper, he disappeared w/o trace [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:37 AM Flag
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and none of them ever had parents except when Miranda's mother died. The guys had moms, we saw Steve's, Big's and Aidan's plus a few of the one episode guys like Vaughan. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 01:45 AM Flag
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^ I read somewhere once they did that deliverately, to illustrate these women considered their friends family or something [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 05:06 AM Flag
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I have friends that are very much a Samantha/Charlotte combo! Somehow they are best friends. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 04:38 AM Flag
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Big was sexy and confident. Aidan was too needy [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:24 AM Flag
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? really? Maybe I'm just basing it on the actor but every role that guy ever played seemed to be the foil or the paper towels for some crazier female character [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:44 AM Flag
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Richard Wright! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:26 AM Flag
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Based on what I've read on this site, I believe you! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:34 AM Flag
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he looked like a flaccid penis [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:39 AM Flag
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Holy shit--you are totally right. I just spit out my drink laughing! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 01:08 AM Flag
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It's actually not entirely about the money, he just seemed less into games and more straight forward than the others. Plus the sex seemed good. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 01:07 AM Flag
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True and the trip to Brazil. But still an asshole. He showed his true colors at the beginning when he wouldn't hire her because of her sexual history. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 01:12 AM Flag
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True, that was dickish. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 04:30 AM Flag
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Yuck! He was smarmy and gross. His only redeeming quality was a bracelet from Harry Winston. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:38 AM Flag
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Both annoying. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 01:21 AM Flag
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Berger [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 01:46 AM Flag
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100% Aidan. Good guy. Would have made a much better life partner not to mention dad. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:17 AM Flag
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+1000 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 05:08 AM Flag
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Big > Aiden [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:19 AM Flag
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Aleksandr Petrovsky [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:45 AM Flag
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THIS. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:56 AM Flag
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Why? He was entirely self absorbed and hit her, was icy towards her friends, used her as an accessory [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 05:04 AM Flag
[ - ] moving to NYC, in the winter do you recommend shearling boots? Or just rain boots? 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.22.14, 11:59 PM Flag
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Just rain, shearling will get filthy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:05 AM Flag
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Even the ones lined with shearling..clueless here [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:09 AM Flag
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Either [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:05 AM Flag
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Both. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:11 AM Flag
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Shearling are fine for dry weather. For snowy, slushy days you need more of a waterproof winter boot. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:13 AM Flag
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Any recs? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:19 AM Flag
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Ugg Adirondack II [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:25 AM Flag
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La canadienne, Sorel, LL Bean...depends on yr style. Ugh does make some good winter boots--you just don't want shearling on the outside but shearling on the inside is wonderful. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:27 AM Flag
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If we have a snowy winter, the corners and crosswalks are a wet, slushy mess. You will need a warm, waterproof boot to walk around the city. Ugg type boots will get wet and filly. Hunter rain boots aren't warm. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:26 AM Flag
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neither, snow boots [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:34 AM Flag
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THIS. Rain boots even with socks are not warm enough. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:46 AM Flag
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I have a pair of suede boots lined in shearling (made in England!) that I bought from LLBean 25 years ago. They have walked the snowy streets of Chicago, New York, Boston, Paris, Vienna and Zurich. They are still going strong. They are the toastiest boots I own. I dread the day they wear out because I have no idea what I will replace them with. Go for a shearling-lined boot if you can. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:54 AM Flag
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Get some Sorels. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 01:00 AM Flag
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Or LLBean. You need something warmer than rain boots, but you need something with a molded rubber sole so you can wade through the 3 inch slush puddles without getting wet. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 01:02 AM Flag
[ - ] I like a second tier school best so far. Does that make me second tier? Sigh. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.22.14, 11:58 PM Flag
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No, it makes you thoughtful. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.22.14, 11:58 PM Flag
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Oh really? You just made my night. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:00 AM Flag
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Go with your gut and ignore the hype [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:00 AM Flag
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What school? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:07 AM Flag
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Nope! We chose a UB 3rd or 4th tier school over a TT b/c it was a better fit for dc and we liked it better. Best decision ever. DC is happy and thriving. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:46 AM Flag
[ - ] Favorite paint color for a master bedroom? We are remodeling and I'll also replace our comforter that the kids have destroyed. We didn't repaint when we moved in 5 years ago--a boring November Rain by Benjamin Moore. 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.22.14, 11:51 PM Flag
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nickel by Pratt and Lambert [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.22.14, 11:54 PM Flag
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Dark gray. Surprisingly calming. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.22.14, 11:56 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:26 AM Flag
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+2 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:34 AM Flag
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BM Sweatshirt grey is a nice dark grey. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:39 AM Flag
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Revere Pewter by BM [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:01 AM Flag
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Anything but gray. When everyone paints her rooms gray, it's out of style already. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:03 AM Flag
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this [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:36 AM Flag
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BM White Dove...use accents with color but keep the walls white. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:21 AM Flag
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farrow ball stiff key blue or Pigeon [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:22 AM Flag
[ - ] Our gardener is a convicted felon. Isn't this something the company should disclose before letting them on my property??? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.22.14, 11:50 PM Flag
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Hmm I understand your discomfort here, but to answer your question - no, I don't think they have any obligation to notify you of this ( unless it is a sex offender registry issue.) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:01 AM Flag
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Chances are good that your child's bus driver is one, too [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:18 AM Flag
[ - ] Got my act together and checked out the Renee Z pics. She's had the flesh beneath her cheeks hollowed out, her cheek bones lowered and her eyes widened, amiright? 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.22.14, 11:50 PM Flag
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No [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.22.14, 11:50 PM Flag
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I believe had an eye operation to remove the excess skin above her eyes. It's what gave her her signature look, and she has destroyed that. She looks absolutely awful. It's a shame. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.22.14, 11:53 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.22.14, 11:57 PM Flag
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Yeah. Really too bad. I think it went wrong 4-5 years ago, and now she comes to term with it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.22.14, 11:58 PM Flag
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She looked absolutely awful before. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:01 AM Flag
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Op: She's far from awful. Just not herself. The hooded eyes were her look. i just covered her eyes in allmpics of het online. And yes, the bottom hakf of her facecis the same. This is like what Jennifer Greg did. Pity. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:53 AM Flag
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^^^I think she got rid of flesh beneath her eyes too, making that part of her face longer. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:56 AM Flag
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I think her eyebrows also have a lot to do with it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.22.14, 11:55 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.22.14, 11:55 PM Flag
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You are pretty clueless about plastic surgery, aren't you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.22.14, 11:57 PM Flag
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I would take that as a complement. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.22.14, 11:59 PM Flag
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Compliment. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:19 AM Flag
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No it's all around the eye and maybe forehead. When she wears sunglasses, she's recognizable. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.22.14, 11:57 PM Flag
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I think face lift. look at her hairline [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.22.14, 11:59 PM Flag
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No it's more simple than that. She had her head removed, turned inside out, turned the right way out again, inflated with helium and sandblasted with emeralds. She then had it sewed onto her left arse cheek for two weeks and then reattached to her neck. I think that's what she did. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 12:15 AM Flag
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I'm thinking sapphires, not emeralds and possibly right arse cheek but I think you're in the ballpark. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 01:09 AM Flag
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