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[ - ] The Weiner pic.... I couldn't tell what his junk status was. Just a vague clump of underwear. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:36 AM Flag
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Welp, there goes dinner. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:39 AM Flag
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Big. Stewart cracked about that back in the day. They were friends in heir 20s. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 02:06 AM Flag
[ - ] Is this normal or pure laziness? Dh wakes up at am to go to work. Hes back by 5:30pm and doesnt lift a finger. Hes great with dc, loving and present but he has no physical strenght anymore by the time he gets back. I work part time but i am 8 months pregnant so it is becoming hard to do certain things. Am i expecting too much or is this how most dhs act? 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:32 AM Flag
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Op: i mean 6am. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:33 AM Flag
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Depends on what you do all day. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:34 AM Flag
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Op: i work 3 days a week. The other days i care for dc and take care of everything around the house. We make the same amount of money. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:36 AM Flag
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No it doesn't. I hate that argument. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:42 AM Flag
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Yes it does. Does she have children? How old? How many? Does she maintain the home, bills, investments? Does she spend 6 hours/day getting the kids to school/activities, or does the nanny do that? Very relevant. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:59 AM Flag
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Of course it does. If he works harder than she does, he deserves a break. She sounds so entitled. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 02:12 AM Flag
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She's 8 months pregnant, the DH gets waited on when he comes in? He may have unusual sleep needs, but he can't help clean up dinner or give dc a bath while DW does the other one? That's ridiculous. If DW is a SAHM, then I agree she shouldn't save chores for him that can't get done during the day. But he is a partner in things. Plus, he should be doing things like taking out the garbage, lifting things, etc. as common courtesy to pregnant wife [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 02:29 AM Flag
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is he fat [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:37 AM Flag
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Op: he is overweight but very tall so he doesnt look fat. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:43 AM Flag
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sleep apnea [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 02:00 AM Flag
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Can he take 20-30 mins before he arrives home to recharge so he can be more participatory when he gets home? My DH works a full day then does bath time and reading until kids go to bed. It would be good to set up a new routine before DB is born. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:46 AM Flag
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Definitely not normal. If DH is around and not working, he helps out with the kids a lot [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:49 AM Flag
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my husband wakes up at 7 with the baby (i get up at 730, after them). he gets home from work around 530 and yes, i still do most of the childcare stuff once he gets home, but if i state that i'm taking a break he never says a thing about it. for example today i just said i was going upstairs to finish my book and he was like that's cool, i'll feed the baby. not saying you don't, but maybe if you asked or just told him you were going to lay down, he'd be fine with it? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 02:13 AM Flag
[ - ] Do you suggest activities/a rough schedule when you have a babysitter all day (not a regular nanny), or do you leave them to their own devices? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:32 AM Flag
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Rough schedule. guidance is usually welcome if it's shared kindly. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:34 AM Flag
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General Topics 08.30.16, 02:17 AM Flag
[ - ] My husband thinks we should get a cottage in the country. Any thoughts about Litchfield CT? We're not earthy so Woodstock area is not really our thing. Definitely not Hamptons even though it can be lovely there (a whole lotta $ for small houses)...any other ideas? 23 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:31 AM Flag
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Bucks County, PA. Specifically in Solebury. Gorgeous. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:33 AM Flag
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Close too, right? Taxes are reasonable? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:33 AM Flag
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Very close and an easy drive. Never a lot of traffic. Taxes are low as well. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:37 AM Flag
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I'm from the area and have friends from Manhattan whose weekend house is here :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:35 AM Flag
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My SIL lives there. Striverville [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:44 AM Flag
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litchfield is pretty but kinda earthy - check it out different times of the year [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:35 AM Flag
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Salem ct [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:37 AM Flag
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What's that like? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:50 AM Flag
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North Fork [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:43 AM Flag
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Expensive now and the beaches aren't so great. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:51 AM Flag
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General Topics 08.30.16, 02:17 AM Flag
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Berkshires? Poconos? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:56 AM Flag
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Poconos is a little honkey tonk except for Buck Hill - are there charming towns there? Don't know much about Berkshires and interesting in hearing towns? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:59 AM Flag
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Berkshires are lovely. You can look at Great Barrington, Lenox, [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 02:03 AM Flag
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Washington, Ct in Litchfiled. Look there! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 02:09 AM Flag
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I love it there. Charming! How do you make friends in the country? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 02:14 AM Flag
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Too many bugs. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 02:14 AM Flag
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lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 02:18 AM Flag
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yes, wasps are a big problem in Litchfield County. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 02:24 AM Flag
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Of the bug variety or WASPs of the rich old money horsey set variety? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 02:29 AM Flag
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latter [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 02:33 AM Flag
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i'm sick of having to 'splain everything to you. are non new yorkers just stupider? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 02:35 AM Flag
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Nice. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 03:36 AM Flag
[ - ] Bill Clinton wants to rebuild Chicago by putting all the Syrians there 18 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:26 AM Flag
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stop it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:26 AM Flag
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Sorry I meant Detroit [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:27 AM Flag
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He said there tens of thousand empty houses for them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:28 AM Flag
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That's true but they need jobs and there aren't a whole lot of them. that's why the houses are empty. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:29 AM Flag
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He's senile [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:38 AM Flag
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And has AIDS according to the national enquirer [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:39 AM Flag
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And Breibark. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:40 AM Flag
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What's that [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:51 AM Flag
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what? No way! When was this revealed? He does look sickly. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:51 AM Flag
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LMAO [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:54 AM Flag
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What's to stop them from moving to another state once they have enough money to move? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:39 AM Flag
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Why can't the people already living there "rebuild" the place? Many of them are unemployed/living on government assistance. Let them get to work on something productive. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:41 AM Flag
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He said there are plenty of jobs for the Syrians rebuilding the homes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:43 AM Flag
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He wants the jobs to go to the refugees [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:43 AM Flag
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There are no jobs in Detroit. There's no way to rebuild without jobs and a tax base from businesses, person income and property taxes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:52 AM Flag
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He said there are lots of jobs [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 02:10 AM Flag
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ISIS has a strong recruitment center in D Town. He's definitely right about that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 03:53 AM Flag
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Yeah, they can start tech companies! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:54 AM Flag
[ - ] Weird. The unknown balding Polish tennis player getting destroyed by Djokovic is sexy. Why? 22 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:23 AM Flag
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I don't know. He does look like James middleton. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:26 AM Flag
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who is that? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:27 AM Flag
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Kates brother [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:28 AM Flag
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thanks. lemme go look. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:28 AM Flag
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It might just be the beard [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:29 AM Flag
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yeahhh it's just the beard tbh. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:31 AM Flag
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just looked. not my type. this polish tennis player looks like james frey. why am i not repulsed by that resemblance? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:30 AM Flag
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He is not getting destroyed. They are very close in points won and the guy used to be a top 15 player- just got injured. This is a very difficult first round match for any seed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:36 AM Flag
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Yes, that's true. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:36 AM Flag
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See? He just broke Djoker with some serious rips. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:37 AM Flag
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Agreed. But.. see my followup below. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:38 AM Flag
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Although to be fair, he did get kinda creamed in the 1st set. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:37 AM Flag
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I didnt see it but 6-3 is just one brake as Djoker served first. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:39 AM Flag
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Hmmm. Interesting point. I will watch this game. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:40 AM Flag
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Hes falling apart. Just proves you cant judge a match by watching a little because no one can play their best for several sets in a row. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:48 AM Flag
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Hmm. So you believe Djokovic is falling apart right now? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:49 AM Flag
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No I meant Janowicz. He lost his break back at love and almost got broken again. He was lucky to win the game at 4-4 and now he's down 0-30 at 4-5. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:53 AM Flag
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5-5, sorry. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:54 AM Flag
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No prob. We just chillin. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:58 AM Flag
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Janowicz needs to chill a bit and pull back on the emotions. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:56 AM Flag
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Oh my god. Fuck. That roar of power. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:37 AM Flag
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I bet this Polish guy is a moaner. And a loud one at that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:43 AM Flag
[ - ] S/o I immigrated to the US from my home country alone, at the age of seven. Connected in Vienna. I asked the lady sitting next to me on the plane to help me find the gate. 100% true story. Grandparents dropped me off at airport in home country, parents met me at JFK. I was a refugee. [ REPLY | MORE ] 29 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:23 AM Flag
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We all have those stories. It was a different time. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:24 AM Flag
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Np-really? You have a story about immigrating as a child refugee? Lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:25 AM Flag
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This! I don't think she's talking about riding her bike around her suburban neighborhood without supervision. You don't seem to know the difference there. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:26 AM Flag
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OR: I immigrated as a child from Europe. I had to come a year after my parents and my grandmother got me on the plane. I flew alone. I was also born in a humble farm house with no bathroom. There are many stories like this out there. I am in my Late 50s. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:37 AM Flag
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PP-if you think we all have these stories, you're quite hyperbolic. I'm 47, and grew up in a suburb of San Francisco. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:39 AM Flag
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I guess. I just never thought of it as special but I guess it was. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:41 AM Flag
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Are you Polish? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:51 AM Flag
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Which one? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 02:18 AM Flag
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Very different times.... Wow, good for making it here and hope you are thriving and your life turned out well : ) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:25 AM Flag
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Yes, thanks! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:30 AM Flag
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Different times + traveling was different back then [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:25 AM Flag
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Omg [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:27 AM Flag
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LOL everything is SO MUCH HARDER NOW. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:42 AM Flag
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mustve been scary [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:27 AM Flag
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OP-it was exciting! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:28 AM Flag
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From Russia, right? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:30 AM Flag
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No [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:32 AM Flag
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Odd, your story is just like dh's, I guess many went through Vienna. Also, by Russia I meant soviet Union [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:34 AM Flag
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No, not Soviet Union. I think Vienna was a common connecting point back then [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:35 AM Flag
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^all the Russians I know came through Rome [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:46 AM Flag
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He did Vienna and then a small city in Italy [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 02:07 AM Flag
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I immigrated at age 5 with mother who spoke no English, with my baby brother and twin sister. Father had just been killed in an accident the week before. Church people helped us [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:32 AM Flag
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OP-wow! I hope your family found better times. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:34 AM Flag
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Mother died when baby bro was 17. But we all managed to get good educations, have good spouses and are financially secure. I have anxiety and take antidepressants. Thx. Hope you survived scary times and not too traumatized. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:42 AM Flag
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OP-I'm sorry to hear that! I have anxiety as well. My parents had a nasty divorce and have had a hard time of it. I think they have some kind of ptsd. I think people like us are all better off though, in spite of the cost. Thanks for sharing! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:44 AM Flag
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My mom had PTSD too,and probably a lot more but undiagnosed and untreated. We got the fall out. But yes, they say what doesn't kill you makes you stronger! I'm doing my best to not pass along the family neuroses. :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:57 AM Flag
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Yeah like in the 90s [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:34 AM Flag
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I started traveling alone at 5 yrs of age and so did my kids. When you have an unaccompanied minor in a flight, domestic or international, a stewardess hands you over to the receiving adult at destination. 7 year olds are not allowed to move about in airports on their own. I think OP has a memory lapse. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:35 AM Flag
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Yes, that's what happened. Strange things happened in the non-western world. The Austrians most likely didn't give a shit about random refugee riffraff, as long as they were on the next plane out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:37 AM Flag
[ - ] what is the area like under your waist, but in the back, above your butt called? Like where love handles are? Hips? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:22 AM Flag
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your back? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:27 AM Flag
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but like that back fat area. LIke I am super thin but have this back fat or love handles and hate it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:28 AM Flag
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yes that would be the love handle area [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:32 AM Flag
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Get over it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:41 AM Flag
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Flanks [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:33 AM Flag
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This [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:39 AM Flag
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Or haunches [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 02:07 AM Flag
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You mean the sacrum? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:40 AM Flag
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No that's tramp stamp territory [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:58 AM Flag
[ - ] Why is Novak Djokovic really handsome but not sexy? He has a fantastic body too but he just doesn't seem sexy. 30 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:20 AM Flag
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He isnt handsome. He is the Slavic version of a caveman. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:20 AM Flag
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What? Come on, those lips, that nice jawline, he's got great eyes too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:21 AM Flag
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Pp is a racist POS with ethnicity on the brain. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:23 AM Flag
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Yeahh, that was mean. Didn't have to go after his ethnicity. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:25 AM Flag
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Why is that mean? Its a compliment on the race insomuchas they dont fundamentally look like cavemen. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:28 AM Flag
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Oy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:29 AM Flag
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OR- that makes no sense. The commentary is entirely on his looks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:25 AM Flag
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Yeah but what's his ethnicity got to do with the quality of his looks? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:28 AM Flag
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He looks like a caveman, just Slavic. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:33 AM Flag
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Okay, well, whatevs. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:41 AM Flag
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he's snarling [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:23 AM Flag
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snarling? how so? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:25 AM Flag
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I love him. I think he's totally sexy in a 1970's sort of way. And has a wicked dry sense of humor too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:25 AM Flag
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He seems like he would be mean in bed though. Like if you queef by mistake, he would act completely disgusted and put off and mock you for days and tell all his friends. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:28 AM Flag
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OR: No, I don't see that. 70's men were all natural and hairy and wouldn't care about the oddities of the beautiful human body. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:30 AM Flag
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Wow, interesting. Okay so how do you see him reacting if a lady did something 'embarrassing' in bed? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:32 AM Flag
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I don't envision him giving it any extra thought, especially if the sex was mind blowing. That's what truly matters. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:35 AM Flag
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Hmmm, interesting points. I will give this some thought. But are you conflating his 70s appearance with the 70s ethos? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:38 AM Flag
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Not at all, he screams Old Soul. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:45 AM Flag
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Then how come he has a contemporary haircut and is clean-shaven? He doesn't have that 70s style mane or facial hair ever. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:48 AM Flag
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Yes but he was so petulant in his earlier years. Awful. Hated on the tour. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:29 AM Flag
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Petulant like how? Tantrums after losing? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:29 AM Flag
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Hes better now but he couldnt taking riling from crowds, had a me-against-world attitude, had a parent problem (not his fault but attached to him), demanding on sponsors, not good. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:32 AM Flag
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Wow, that's amazing. Now he acts like he was born chill and relaxed. Had no idea it was so bad before. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:39 AM Flag
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It looked worse because Federer is/was so graceful. djoker told the crowd off once after beating Roddick here which caused him yrs of headaches. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:47 AM Flag
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Man, Djoker seems like a prick. Or at least formerly a prick. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:50 AM Flag
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people have short memories in sports. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:55 AM Flag
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This is so true! Their PR agencies all make the shifts so easily and quickly! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 02:00 AM Flag
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Agree. Not at all sexy. Now Rafa . . . He is hot! Marry? Fed. Sex? Rafa! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 02:08 AM Flag
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Yeah it's so weird! Rafa is balding and his hair loss pattern is kinda odd but he's still very sexy. Why is that? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 02:17 AM Flag
[ - ] How much should a full bikini laser hair removal cost? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:17 AM Flag
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1200 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:21 AM Flag
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op: okay. Guess I'm getting a good deal for 6 laser sessions for $400 then. Thanks [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:26 AM Flag
[ - ] A bunch of the new moms I met in my building when we were all new moms are now in the suburbs, sahms and have recently had number 2 (our first kids, or in my case only, are all a little over two - makes sense). Constant posts about how nuts it is with two, what will I do when the baby nurse leaves, can't wait to get a part time nanny, etc. I remember having a newborn and can totally see how challenging it could be with a toddler too, but - really? What did you think it would be? Btw, all of these moms had their moms in at least once a week with their first kids. 21 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:16 AM Flag
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Maybe expand your horizons and find some more down to earth moms who are more independent and/or don't have the inclination to whine? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:25 AM Flag
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This so much. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:49 AM Flag
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One can do one child standing on their head, having two is a whole new ball game. It just is. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:27 AM Flag
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I think the two close in age is very, very tough. Speaking from observations only because I only have one child who is 2, and I am at least a few years away from a 2nd. But people make it work, even without help. Guess thats where TV comes in. Really feel for those moms though. It doesn't seem enjoyable at all, although I'm sure the sibling moments are pretty cute, [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:44 AM Flag
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OR: Spot on. Our boys are 14 months apart. Very taxing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:49 AM Flag
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I almost went crazy when I had db #2. They are 20 months apart. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:54 AM Flag
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I think 30-36 months an a ideal. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:58 AM Flag
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Just had three, and while I was OK with two, surprised how hard newborn stage is [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:31 AM Flag
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My second was multiple standards of deviation more difficult than my first. We definitely would have been one and done if she were our first. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:39 AM Flag
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Ha! Same here. Everyone said db #1 was such a good baby but we thought every baby was just like he was. Then came #2. Lord have mercy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:52 AM Flag
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This is why you wait 4-5 yrs between kids. One is in school while you bond with newborn. No double college tuitions. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:40 AM Flag
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this is my ideal plan. did you do this? how close are siblings now? are they same sex? would imagine that makes things a little easier.. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:46 AM Flag
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Different sex. They play great! 4 yr age difference. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:52 AM Flag
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Ugh. Two only children. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:49 AM Flag
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Gotta do whats best for momma [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:50 AM Flag
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Eh. Not everyone needs to have kids. It's fine. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:52 AM Flag
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Says the haggard hag [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:52 AM Flag
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Some people are up to parenting. Some aren't. Nbd [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:54 AM Flag
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yep! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:57 AM Flag
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Two isn't "nuts". These women are likely "older moms" and not really up to it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:49 AM Flag
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Breastfeeding plays a big part of this too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:53 AM Flag
[ - ] RIP Gene Wilder. 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:10 AM Flag
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I am not at all religious but you know what my first thought was? How incredibly happy he must be to see Gilda. They were such a couple. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:12 AM Flag
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He was remarried to someone since '91 I think. What about his love for her? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:14 AM Flag
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threesome [ Reply | More ]
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lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:18 AM Flag
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You do understand it's possible to love more than one person? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:17 AM Flag
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Apparently not [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:58 AM Flag
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Where does second wife get laid to rest if DH was widower when they met? With DH and the first wife? Sad to think the love of your life didn't feel the same way about you and first (dead) wife was his true love. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 03:31 AM Flag
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OP: I thought the exact same. True love . [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:15 AM Flag
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OR - right? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:20 AM Flag
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Definitely. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:23 AM Flag
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np - me too - met them in person and you could feel the love/attraction between them [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:23 AM Flag
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Do Jews actually believe in a resurrection-based afterlife in that fashion? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:24 AM Flag
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His marriage to Radner was quite challenging, as stated by him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:24 AM Flag
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Well, she was dying. So yeah. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:25 AM Flag
[ - ] Have we discussed Weiner? 53 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:09 AM Flag
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What about it? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:10 AM Flag
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I'd like to know what type of custody arrangement there will be. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:12 AM Flag
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Interesting one considering the likelihood of a two-city existence for at least 4 yrs. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:15 AM Flag
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He could make her life miserable. NY courts are making women miserable with this cutting the children in two attitude. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:20 AM Flag
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I feel so sorry for her right now. Man. I'd ring his neck. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:35 AM Flag
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Yes, he is ill and a creep. She was forced to leave him. Sad all around. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:11 AM Flag
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And a kid is in the mix [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:12 AM Flag
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+1 Hillary could totally fire her now. Her DH is beyond stupid asshole prick. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:16 AM Flag
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Birds of a feather stick together. ....... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:18 AM Flag
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+1 Men suck. [ Reply | More ]
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HRC could not.... Look at Bill. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:23 AM Flag
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Huma could totally "resign". For personal reasons. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:28 AM Flag
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True [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:34 AM Flag
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what a jerk. he needs help. His whole life has been compromised because he has to engage in digital flirting, sex with randoms. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:12 AM Flag
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But what about child endangerment. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:13 AM Flag
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How is it endangerment? The kid was sleeping and his wee wee wasn't exposed... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:14 AM Flag
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Imagine him applying for 50/50 custody. Imagine her showing judge this pic. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:20 AM Flag
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Um, I think the judge has already seen the pic. Lol! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:31 AM Flag
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Men are pigs. [ Reply | More ]
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Please stop with this. As many said this am, it's not endangerment. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 02:20 AM Flag
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Who's Weiner? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:12 AM Flag
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you know, if you are not from nyc, you should just get off this board. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:15 AM Flag
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Gfy [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:17 AM Flag
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meh, you know i'm right. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:18 AM Flag
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I think you're not being very nice. Clearly you are from NY [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:20 AM Flag
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Why? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:18 AM Flag
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cuz you have to 'splain everything to them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:28 AM Flag
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Maybe just don't bother so you don't feel angry about sharing specifics? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:53 AM Flag
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Maybe just don't bother so you don't feel angry about sharing specifics? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:53 AM Flag
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? read a newspaper, moron. Anthony Weiner, look it up. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:59 AM Flag
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Carlos Danger [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:56 AM Flag
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What about Governor Spitzer? Destroyed his life for sexual fulfillment. It's a weakness that continually shocks me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:13 AM Flag
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What about Dennis Hastert ? Eeeeew. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:15 AM Flag
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What about Dennis H.? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:16 AM Flag
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Never mind - I remember. Gross! And so sad. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:19 AM Flag
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And lied and paid to cover it up. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:21 AM Flag
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He was sexting with a boner with his kid cuddled up to him asleep. He texted it to the woman who seems like she might be a decoy for the Republicans. The women was texting half naked pics, but even she was like - uh, gross get a life - to half of what he was saying. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:22 AM Flag
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A boner (underpants obscuring it0 doesn't equal child endangerment. It's gross and sad but the kid wasn't in danger. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:26 AM Flag
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Carlos Danger! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:45 AM Flag
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He's a pathological sexter. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:16 AM Flag
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He's just a man. That's all. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:18 AM Flag
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Really. That is normal? 1 - 2 - 3 times? Apparently this was not even the only woman this summer. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:23 AM Flag
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Yes. Very normal these days. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:36 AM Flag
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Yes. Arnold Schwarzenegger, Sandusky, Petraeus, Clinton, etc etc etc [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:25 AM Flag
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+1 Roger Alies, Triple F, Bill O'Reilly, Bill Cosby. This could go on for hours. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:30 AM Flag
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For years! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 02:02 AM Flag
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No way. There is something wrong with him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:41 AM Flag
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Have you seen Internet porn lately? Men are complete sickos nowadays. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:44 AM Flag
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Yeah. My friend is doing online dating and the men are crazy. Into weird shit. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 02:40 AM Flag
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I don't understand why he's so stupid to get caught. My 10 year old could hide his identity and digital fingerprints better than this former Congressman. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:22 AM Flag
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His arousal comes from the risk he takes. If he were careful, he wouldn't get all excited. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:28 AM Flag
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Oh dear lord. [ Reply | More ]
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LOL [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:43 AM Flag
[ - ] Had a weird conversation with my mom tonight. She said that she loves my DCs (ages 1.5y and 3.5yo) and my brother's DC (8yo) but that she is an introvert and could really only be around children for about 4 hours max. My niece keeps asking my mom to spend the night at her house and she confessed to me that she says no because she just doesn't have "the capacity" and it would drain her mental energy. She's 62 btw, in good health. She lives in another state and I've never asked her to babysit. Do other grandparents secretly feel this way? 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:09 AM Flag
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There are parents who feel this way. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:10 AM Flag
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haha this [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 02:05 AM Flag
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You should know your mom. Did you grow up with her like this? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:11 AM Flag
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op: She left my dad and my raised us, but we maintained a good relationship. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:14 AM Flag
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Well.......... Sounds like she really can't handle childeen [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:59 AM Flag
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This. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 02:41 AM Flag
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Allow old people to be old. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:12 AM Flag
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At least she's honest with herself and with you about this reality. Better to be clear than have her be unhappy and uncomfortable. We all have limits and she's clarified what hers are. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:15 AM Flag
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+++ [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:19 AM Flag
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I am an introvert and totally get this, and it has nothing to do with being a grandparent. It's not every social interaction that is a major effort for me, but even when I'm feeling up for it I definitely start to fade after 2-3 hours. I don't hate dealing with people but I have to pick my spots and leave myself some recovery time afterward. So long as she is engaged when she IS with the kids, cut her some slack. I'm fiercely loyal to my friends and always that one who asks - and then actually listens - about what's going on with other people. Those are good qualities often severely lacking in the extroverts in this world. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:15 AM Flag
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My youngest will be graduating high school when I'm 62 yo. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:17 AM Flag
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Wow. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 02:00 AM Flag
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my parents LOVE being around my children would see them every day if they could [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 02:04 AM Flag
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Your mom is doing better than mine--mine sees my kids during the one week a year I fly them to her. We can't stay with her and she can only be in the room with them (not playing with them, just hanging out in the same room while we're there too) for under 2hrs. Then she always leaves. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 02:12 AM Flag
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I think alot are like this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 02:41 AM Flag
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I'll probably be just that way when I'm a grandparent. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 02:44 AM Flag
[ - ] What's your guess on Anthony Weiner's diagnosis? My immediate thought was sex addiction but now thinking it's something deeper. His very public life and his social media madness don't correlate as almost certain disaster & red alert to him. Something's missing and I can't figure out a possible diagnosis. 20 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:07 AM Flag
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Prickiosis [ Reply | More ]
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Hillary could totally fire her now. He is a total dick. [ Reply | More ]
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I'm starting to think they were already separated and just hadn't announced it yet, so he figured it wouldn't matter. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:10 AM Flag
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OP: But thinking it wouldn't matter is what's off with him. Even if they were separated, it had yet to be announced and his child was in one of the photos. To think that it wouldn't matter is not normal behavior. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:17 AM Flag
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Diagnosis: Horny schmuck [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:10 AM Flag
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Sex addiction, narcissism and maybe borderline? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:10 AM Flag
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OP: I think you're right w/ all 3. Definitely borderline if not full blown. Repeating inappropriate behavior, especially when publicly humiliated for the same behavior previously, is not normal. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:20 AM Flag
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do you think the getting caught part is the kink? like that's the ultimate goal? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:40 AM Flag
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Sure. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 02:43 AM Flag
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Sure. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 02:43 AM Flag
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He has a profound sense of inadequacy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:13 AM Flag
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Narcissism. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:14 AM Flag
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I think he's on drugs actually based on the Post story. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:15 AM Flag
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OP: OK, this makes sense to me. I hadn't thought about drug addiction but you may be right. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:18 AM Flag
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HUBRIS and EGO [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:18 AM Flag
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Immaturity. Acts like a 4 yo. Wanna see my wee wee? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:27 AM Flag
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Hypersexual disorders are normally genetic or occur because of sexual abuses in childhood. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:32 AM Flag
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OP: yes, this is what I'm searching for. It's deeply rooted and disturbing, which would make childhood sexual abuse seem plausible. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:40 AM Flag
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Could be any form of abuse in childhood (eg, neglect). Doesn't have to be sexual to prompt this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 02:23 AM Flag
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Sex addiction. It's a compulsion. All sex addicts have an element if narcissism, but their main problem is still compulsive acting out. He's sick. Hope he gets the help he needs. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 02:25 AM Flag
[ - ] At what age did you stop using baby monitor? 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:06 AM Flag
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3 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:09 AM Flag
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Ours recently broke and we haven't gotten a new one. We have a 3yo and a 4mo. I'd like to see if we can do without one permanently. [ Reply | More ]
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Op. Yeah that's why I ask. Mine broke. My kids are 2,and 9 mos but don't feel like buying new one [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:45 AM Flag
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4mo is still in our room so I may not be putting my money where my mouth is when I say we won't get a new one. -OR [ Reply | More ]
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I tried this and bought a new one when the second was just over a year. But I live in flyover so I have a house and wanted to be able to go sit on my front porch. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 02:29 AM Flag
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I still have it set up in DS's room. He's 9. I use it when he is sick. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:16 AM Flag
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OMG [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:17 AM Flag
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Omg [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:28 AM Flag
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Never really used one unless we were doing something outside. Then we tried to put 2 and 4 yo in the room and used one then, so we could see their antics. Eventually had to separate them, though, so didn't use it anymore. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:40 AM Flag
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16, use the iPhone app. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:57 AM Flag
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I used mine a handful of times. DBs slept in my room and my apartment was small enough that I could hear her during naps. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 02:32 AM Flag
[ - ] PSA: Did you know that white people are actually black people but with white skin? It's true! Research. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:05 AM Flag
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Speak for yourself, Casper. My skin is a lovely golden color. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:07 AM Flag
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And the vice versa is true too! I am not making this up. It's DNA! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:08 AM Flag
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I assumed you were being facetious and making reference to the fact that we're all the same species, but now I actually have no idea what you're saying. I was simply objecting to being referred to as having "white" skin. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:10 AM Flag
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Why are you ashamed of being white? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:16 AM Flag
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It has nothing to do with shame. I think the descriptors "white" and "black" are stupid and inaccurate. I'm Caucasian but my skin isn't "white." [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:25 AM Flag
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I am so white people comment on it but have .01 African and .1 Native American DNA according to 23 and me. I know a lot of white Southerners have African blood. One of the head white supremicists was found to have 30% or something. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.16, 01:18 AM Flag
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One of the surprising things about those DNA surveys is how LITTLE mixing appears to have taken place in the historical US. The average self-described "white" American is slightly under 99% European background. Lots of family legends of "Indian great-grandmas" have been burst by modern technology. [ Reply | More ]
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