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[ - ] I love spam-free Sunday's. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:22 PM Flag
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UB may be spam free, but not grammar-mom free! No apostrophe in plurals, silly! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:41 PM Flag
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ugh [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:46 PM Flag
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Might as well learn something on a lazy Sunday [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 02:01 PM Flag
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Sorry to offend. That was autocorrect. -OP [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 02:41 PM Flag
[ - ] I am interviewing to hire someone who will do both childcare and housekeeping. My kids are still little so with sick daycare, vacations etc I felt it made more sense to offer full time 40 hrs a week job vs pt as I found pt pay was higher per hour and quality of candidates was lower. On regular days this person will be with kids for 3 hours a day. I have two candidates: 1. Will be great with kids but more reluctant housekeeper 2. Ok and sweet with kids, good housekeeper. Both are not great at meal prep but ok. These are the best candidates after 3 weeks if interviewing and one excellent candidate not taking the job after I made an offer. We have 1 month before our nanny has to move away. Interviewing is time draining and frustrating. Should I go with one of the 2 top candidates. Which one would you choose? (Kids are 3,5,9 and both parent WOH) 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:14 PM Flag
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I'd go with number 2. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:19 PM Flag
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Go with 2. It will allow YOU to be a better parent. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:21 PM Flag
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OP: this makes a lot of sense. Thank you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:22 PM Flag
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if the kids are at school a lot of the day go with #2. if there is a day when someone is sick have her lighten up on the housekeeping and focus more on the kids. we have more of a housekeeper (she is sweet with the kids) and it's a great situation. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:23 PM Flag
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OP: yes, I would not expect her to do anything but meal pray and maybe a load of laundry if the younger kid is home and nothing but meal prep if all 3 are home. I think #2 is the right answer. This change is so hard. I wish we could keep our regular nanny for 2 more years. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:25 PM Flag
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Meal prep [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:35 PM Flag
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Had the same choice, went with #2 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 02:20 PM Flag
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^ (and zero regrets) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 02:20 PM Flag
[ - ] I just want to know if I will miscarry or not - slight pink spotting and digital pg test has shown 2-3wks instead of 3+ (I should be at 6wks now). History of losses. Feel like I'm going crazy - getting blood drawn tomorrow but waiting to see if I will start bleeding is killing me 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:12 PM Flag
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How old are you and do you know why you have Had miscarriages in the past? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:17 PM Flag
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do you have kids already? try to stay positive. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:24 PM Flag
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Probably. This is how my mc presented, measured 8-9 weeks when should have been 12. Bleeding of course. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:27 PM Flag
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I'm sorry to hear that. Btdt and there is nothing we can say that is going to make it better. I wish you the best of luck! I hope you get your keeper soon. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:28 PM Flag
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Hard to say. I was bleeding pretty heavily when pg with 2nd db. However, 8 years later he is sitting on the floor playing with his pokemon cards as I type. Saying a prayer for you and your db. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:57 PM Flag
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I didn't realize I was pregnant with #3 because I kept spotting -- I thought I was going to start my period. When I finally took a pregnancy test and it was positive, I still thought I was going to lose it because I was still spotting/bleeding. However, all was fine and he turns 2 next month. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 04:04 PM Flag
[ - ] So does anyone think that there are actually frat boys down at UVA who are quietly shitting bricks? Or do you think they are all still confident nothing will happen? I think those women mentioned in the Rolling Stone article are pretty confident about the identities of at least some of their assailants. 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 12:53 PM Flag
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I hope they try to plea bargain and give up names of older guys, now on wall street, who did the same. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 12:59 PM Flag
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The entire Greek system is suspended right now. They'd rather punish the entire campus than go after the guilty parties. Terrible, terrible leadership. An embarrassment. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:05 PM Flag
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I agree. Punishing all is the mark of people who are not intent on going after the really guilty. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:04 PM Flag
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Eh...the majority of frat guys are a problem, so I'm fine with this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:11 PM Flag
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You sound low tone. Between the ears. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:18 PM Flag
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If that's true then that's truly disappointing for UVA. There have been other colleges that have gone further on their own initiative even without the publicity. There was a big shakeup at Colby College a few years ago for much less than an actual gang rape. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:19 PM Flag
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UVA has handled this beyond horribly. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:28 PM Flag
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I have no love for the Greek system but I think suspending the whole thing comes off as desperate, like they're pretty much admitting how helpless they are to deal with this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:40 PM Flag
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That's exactly what they're doing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:45 PM Flag
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Who cares? Frats are social, not academic. They should ban them all, they bring nothing to the table but trouble. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 02:17 PM Flag
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Agreed. Suspend for now, investigate and bring them back reformed later if need be. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 02:31 PM Flag
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Nah, use it as a way to get rid of them. They bring nothing but binge drinking and rowdy bullshit at best, assault and rape at worst. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 02:36 PM Flag
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That raoey song. My dd won't be applying to UVA. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 02:34 PM Flag
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Rapey [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 02:58 PM Flag
[ - ] I have a bunch of old computers that have been taking up room in a closet for years because I don't know how to get rid of them. Is it safe to use staples or similar store to dispose/recycle? May be paranoid but I'm worried about personal/work info. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 12:53 PM Flag
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Cant you pull out the motherboard and then recylce the rest? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:04 PM Flag
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lol. it is not the 'mother board' you need to worry about. take a power drill and drill holes through your hard drive. turn on computer and see that any temporary memory, cache, and desktop do not have stuff stored on it. you have a right to be paranoid. and i would never trust a staples, etc. to 'recycle' my old computers unless you are asking for your identity to be stolen. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:12 PM Flag
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I thought the cache is on the MB? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:31 PM Flag
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this [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:48 PM Flag
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Thanks, glad to hear I'm not just being paranoid. Dh thinks it's no big deal. I may try see what IT dept at office can do, I don't trust myself to be sure everything is done properly. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 02:27 PM Flag
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just pull the hard drives if you are worried and get rid of the rest of the hardware [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 02:36 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 04:21 PM Flag
[ - ] Recommendations for good bed wetting alarm to help dc? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 12:45 PM Flag
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Your hand [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:08 PM Flag
[ - ] Last night we had a new sitter. When DH and I came home she seemed very upset and said things didn't go well: our 4 and 5 yr old boys didn't listen and talked for 45 minutes before settling down. This morning my DS told me he took his penis out when she was reading a book and kept taking it out. Apparently sitter was laughing and kept telling him to put it away. I'm furious my DS would do this. 1) It's disrespectful 2) probably made her uncomfortable 3) boys were bad listeners. I doubt she will sit for us again and it's so hard for us to find sitters (we're new to this area/not in NY). WWYD? Should I punish my boys today? ARgh. 22 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 12:43 PM Flag
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Yes, that is awful behavior. If I was the babysitter, I would never sit for you again. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 12:47 PM Flag
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If I was you, I would take away electronics for 1 week and say if you want to behave like a baby you will be treated like one. No ipads . you are done [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 12:51 PM Flag
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Is your DH cute? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 12:51 PM Flag
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Didnt listen is normal. Pulling out penis is not. I would be concerned that someone has been inappropriate with your sons, and I would investigate. Have they been left alone with an uncle or cousin? Yes, you are going to have trouble finding sitters, but work on the issues. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 12:54 PM Flag
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You are joking right?? Obviously you do not have sons. I think you need to stop with the paranoia . Not everyone is a molester [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 12:55 PM Flag
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I have a son and a brother. Normal is not pulling out penis in front of sitter. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:00 PM Flag
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oh please [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:05 PM Flag
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This. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:06 PM Flag
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Np. Boys touch themselves all the time. But pulling out his penis in front of someone else really is not typical. I agree that you should explore this further. Why did he think this is ok? I would start to ask him these questions. Does he do this at school? You will not be able to Find a babysitter until at least this behavior stops. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:30 PM Flag
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THIS. Boy touching himself in private is VERY typical. In front of sitter is NOT. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:36 PM Flag
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I have a son & no way does he pull his stuff out in front of other people. He is well aware of inappropriate behavior. Yes, he actually uses the word inappropriate & is conscious of things that are. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 02:04 PM Flag
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God the parents on here aren't smart. The kid quickly realized that pulling out the trouser trout was a fast and guaranteed method of getting a reaction from the sitter AND his brother. He wasn't molested, wtf. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:34 PM Flag
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i agree with this as a mother of sons AND a preschool teacher [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:47 PM Flag
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This. He thought it was a game. Tell him penises are private and leave it at that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 02:19 PM Flag
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You have brats [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 12:52 PM Flag
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I agree. Their behavior was awful. I really want advice on what I can do to ensure this doesn't happen again. I'm furious. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:08 PM Flag
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Punish. Hard and today. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:33 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 04:22 PM Flag
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keep in mind their age. punish them, sure, but also sit down and have a very serious talk with them with your dh about why their behavior is wrong and what you expect of them. be serious and let them see you be disappointed in them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:50 PM Flag
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The fact that you're asking UB how to punish tells me you lack parenting skills. Read Love and Logic books and consistently discipline those kids. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:15 PM Flag
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Maybe the baby sitter will sue your son for sexual harrassment. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 04:35 PM Flag
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No. Don't punish them. Tell them it's cute and to please start doing this at school as well. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 04:57 PM Flag
[ - ] Where can I find a formal white dress for a 14 month old? My sister is getting married and wants my DB to walk down the aisle (in white). 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 12:42 PM Flag
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Isn't there a womans exchange in nyc? You can find a lovely handmade child's sress or order a custom made that will become an heirloom. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 12:48 PM Flag
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maybe david's briday? Whens the wedding? Lots of light colored easter dresses (including white) are come out maybe end Feb. Century 21 has a huge selection then. might also get lucky finding a chrismass dress in white. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:04 PM Flag
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This is a terrible idea. Tell your sister no. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:06 PM Flag
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+1 way too young to be walking down the aisle...could majorly disrupt wedding. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:07 PM Flag
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Nah, worst thing that happens is she cries. So what? It's cute. Ignore this crap, OP. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:15 PM Flag
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Zero cute about a stressed out baby screaming and disrupting the entire service. 14 mo is barely even a toddler. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:29 PM Flag
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Just ridiculously stressful and pointless. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:19 PM Flag
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I agree. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 02:40 PM Flag
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try a store, genius [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:51 PM Flag
[ - ] I am 42 and my DH is 52. We have 4 year old twins via IVF( fresh transfer) and surrogate and we have frozen eggs left. I want more kids and my DH is ok either way. Money is not an issue, I am just worried that something could happen if we try again. (i.e handicaps, delay, etc). Some background info, I was a special education instructor before being a stay at home. Any input would be great. Thanks and have a great day 33 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 12:18 PM Flag
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I think this is a decision best made between you, your DH, and perhaps a geneticist. Your reproductive doctor might have good stats, too. All depends on age of ages at retrieval, and obviously your dh is now 4 to 5 years older. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 12:24 PM Flag
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We used an egg donor that was 25 during retrieval [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 12:28 PM Flag
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Use the same one again. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:16 PM Flag
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How did you and would you resolve the ethical questions over surrogacy? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 12:28 PM Flag
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You are joking right? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 12:35 PM Flag
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I'd get going so if you think you have the strength and energy and the possibility of another set of twins doesn't discourage you, use those frozen eggs. Is a sperm donor our of the question? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 12:28 PM Flag
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Sorry , i meant frozen embryos [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 12:31 PM Flag
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A 52 year old man should be a grandfather, not a dad. He'd be nearly 60 when your dc is in kindergarten! That poor kid! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 12:36 PM Flag
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You mean rich kid. We are in the .001%, not that it matters but we are extremely wealthy [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 12:43 PM Flag
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So youre looking for an insurance baby, then? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 12:45 PM Flag
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Really want to go there. The reason I brought up money is because having more kids would not be a financial strain [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 12:49 PM Flag
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But the OR did not say it would be a financial strain... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:16 PM Flag
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But the OR did not say it would be a financial strain... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 02:00 PM Flag
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Sure, your dc will feel much better after getting teased for having the oldest parents around. "But I'm rich!!" Is what he can yell. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 12:54 PM Flag
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We live in NYC. There would be no teasing [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 12:56 PM Flag
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LOL [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:08 PM Flag
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No, it doesn't matter. Unless dh plans on hiring someone to play with his kids for him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:07 PM Flag
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Really, and all 25 year old dads play with their kids. Oh please, they are too busy working 70 hour weeks to support their kids [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:12 PM Flag
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not op, signed 44 year old mom of a 1 year old [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:12 PM Flag
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I would be concerned about using DH sperm. Significantly elevated risk of many problems like schizophrenia. Research first [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 12:49 PM Flag
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+1 old sperm is risky [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 12:53 PM Flag
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You're old and have enough kids. Enjoy them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:08 PM Flag
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I am 42!!!!!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:10 PM Flag
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Do you think you are young? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:33 PM Flag
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You're old. Hang it up. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 02:37 PM Flag
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What on earth makes you this is a normal age to take on a new baby. Your dh is 52. You can't even have them yourself! No buying yourselves out of the facts. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:20 PM Flag
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In all truth there are many NYers who have their last at 42 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:37 PM Flag
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The chances of delay are really fairly small - yes the risk is elevated, but it's still a small absolute risk (don't listen to the hysterics on this board) - talk to a geneticist. My question is, do you really want your dh to have a newborn in his 50's? FWIW, I say this as someone whose dh was in mid-40's when our dc's were born so I'm not bashing older parents, but speaking from experience, I think you should think hard about whether he will have the energy for this. What if his health starts to decline when your kids are relatively young, etc. You already have two dc's, three is hard for anyone. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:17 PM Flag
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Frozen eggs or blasts? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:28 PM Flag
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Fake. A special ed teacher wouldn't use the term handicap. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:53 PM Flag
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So what exactly is wrong with THAT word now. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:57 PM Flag
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It's outdated, for one, and offensive. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 02:00 PM Flag
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At the risk of sounding trolly. I would stop while your ahead. I'm 34 and already feeling old! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 04:07 PM Flag
[ - ] My aunt is turning 52 next month and has always wanted a child. She confided in my mom that she recently changed ob/gyn doctors and that her new gyn did a complete check up and learned that my aunt and uncle has attempted 3 IVF cycles in the past 15 years that failed. This doctor recommended my aunt do one last IVF try because he thinks she can still pull it off, that her health is good, etc etc. My mom told me this and expressed surprise..that she thinks ob/gyn is looking at my aunt as a cash cow and given my aunt already failed w IVF, that another last ditch effort now will be a wate of time and money. Any thoughts on this? Would you agree w my mom or so you know of success stories like this? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 07:27 AM Flag
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Hell no! Adopt! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 07:33 AM Flag
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That is a hard decision - If she has the funds I say go for it so she knows she left no stone unturned. But she should be aware it is unlikely to work now at 52 if it didn't work in her thirties/forties (unless she considers a change in protocol like donor eggs). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 09:20 AM Flag
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I assume donor eggs are part of this recommendation? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 10:56 AM Flag
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If she's healthy, I'd go with donor eggs & sperm. We did it under different circumstances. Adoption is such a long wait. If she doesn't care about the infant stage or the experience of pregnancy, adoption could be a great alternative. But I think any RE who wants to try regular IVF at 52 with 3 unsuccessful attempts is scamming her. At some point, statistics must be weighed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 12:09 PM Flag
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No as though risking the health of the baby isn't enough she will die when the dc is still young. Beyond selfish. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 12:31 PM Flag
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Your mom is right. Your aunt is too old. These doctors getting elderly women pregnant need to lose their licenses. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:10 PM Flag
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It is a scam. No one conceives at 52 exceptnw donor eggs. No one. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:15 PM Flag
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I'm 50. Had my DD at 45 after IVF/DE. I'm also really healthy and I teach group exercise, have a lot of energy. No way in hell would I have a first child at 52. And yes, she'll need donor eggs. But don't. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 02:11 PM Flag
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Sorry, that's too old to consider having kids via Ivf or adoption. Time for her to accept that she won't have kids and move on. Even if she adopted she would 64 when the kid is 10. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 04:09 PM Flag
[ - ] Recs for best home security cameras? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 07:18 AM Flag
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Dont get Vivint. What a ripoff. Go w Slomins or ADT. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 07:29 AM Flag
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Make sure to get a WIRED system only. No wi-fi. Too easy to hack if you don't. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 07:33 AM Flag
[ - ] everyone's sleeping...should I try to go outside to smoke a cigg?? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 06:36 AM Flag
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Try and quit if you can. Make it a new year resolution. Your family and friends will thank you for it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 09:25 AM Flag
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No. Brew a pot of coffee and read a book in peace. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 10:57 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:09 PM Flag
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No yuck. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 12:31 PM Flag
[ - ] DH is into pulling my hair during sex lately. This is a new thing. What should I expect next? 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 06:18 AM Flag
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an std [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 06:23 AM Flag
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LMAO [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 06:31 AM Flag
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Totally this [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 04:23 PM Flag
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I HATED when my bfs did that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 06:27 AM Flag
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I love it and demand it during doggie style. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:10 PM Flag
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Porn move. Did you tell him you don't like it? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 02:22 PM Flag
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Eh, I like it, but it means he's watching a lot of porn -- will probably want you to shave (if you don't already) and do anal (if you don't already). If you don't like it, tell him to quit. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 04:11 PM Flag
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I love this, along with being spanked. But if you don't like it, tell him not us. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 04:36 PM Flag
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Whips and chains. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 04:57 PM Flag
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An introduction to Tyrone while DH sits back and watches. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 04:56 PM Flag
[ - ] How's La Guardia these days? Is too intense academically? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
NY Schools 11.23.14, 05:54 AM Flag
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Here's their profile for colleges: http://laguardiahs.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/11/School-Profile-13.14.pdf The mean SAT writing score is quite low: Critical Reading 564; Mathematics 571; Writing 507 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:42 PM Flag
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np: That wouldn't bother me given the focus of the school. The question should be, do they have a pathway and the offerings needed for a full and rigorous education if a student is capable? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 04:21 PM Flag
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No - academics continue to be a concern [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 02:12 PM Flag
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Haha, I went to Laguardia. Not academically intense at all. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 04:10 PM Flag
[ - ] Anyone have a "friend" that you spent a lot of time with and then you realize that she was a user? How come I didn't see it from the beginning? She didn't really care about me or my kids.. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 05:29 AM Flag
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I am 47 and don't expect anything from people in terms of friendship anymore. People's lives are too busy & complicated these days. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 05:50 AM Flag
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Exactly the same age and have exactly the same opinion. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 12:58 PM Flag
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Define user? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 05:53 AM Flag
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Try not to let it ruin your desire to make new friends. For every user there is always a good friend waiting around the corner. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 09:24 AM Flag
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I am 43 and a few years ago I had a "friend" I thought was a friend who decided I wss using her. I coukd not have cared less about using her, she had an inflated idea of her own importance and appeal and was just a bitch I am glad to be rid of. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:20 PM Flag
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lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 02:02 PM Flag
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Yes. I think it's easy to miss because in the beginning you care about your friend and you of course want to do things for them. It takes time to realize they're a serial parasite. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 02:02 PM Flag
[ - ] It's kind of inspiring how Bill Cosby has remained stoic, reserved, and dignified in the face of the horrendous slanders hurled against him in recent weeks. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 05:24 AM Flag
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go away [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 05:23 AM Flag
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yo mama's so big ass i had to take a train and two buses just to get on her good side. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 06:10 AM Flag
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extremely inspiring. all rapists should be like him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 06:10 AM Flag
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troll [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 06:23 AM Flag
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it's a simple case of he said, she said, she said, she said, she said. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 12:42 PM Flag
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He's a smart rapist. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 12:48 PM Flag
[ - ] I need a new protein powder. No soy, preferably organic. Vanilla flavor probably easiest. Recommendations, anyone? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 04:51 AM Flag
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I really like nutrikey whey protein vanilla powder. I actually like the flavor, don't feel the need to add any sweetness what so ever. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 05:02 AM Flag
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Garden of Life Raw meal. no soy. best ingredients [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 06:06 AM Flag
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google it - this stuff is horrible, dangerously high metal levels [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 02:32 PM Flag
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vega [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 06:20 AM Flag
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this one also has high levels of metals [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 02:32 PM Flag
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go with organic hemp protein or Tera Organic Whey [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 02:32 PM Flag
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General Topics 11.23.14, 04:18 AM Flag
[ - ] Do I break up with the guy I'm seeing or let him fade out? He's just not that into me; 10 weeks after meeting we're only meeting up once a week if that, he's still online all the time (my gf tells me), I get the impression he's seeing other people even though we've sort of had a discussion about exclusivity, he's very busy with his work, and gets distracted at the end of dates with work, he'll fall asleep mid conversation...I like him but at 36 I need things to move along. 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 04:17 AM Flag
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Lose. Yesterday. Signed, Older Mom who can see this for what it is, bad news. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 04:25 AM Flag
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Have seen this happen dozens of times. You want someone who is crazy about you. Drop him! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 04:36 AM Flag
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dump, obv. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 04:48 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 02:02 PM Flag
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Are you ringing him, are you organizing dates? This is one reason why I think women should never call a man or organize anything, if htey're keen they'll make the effort and if they're not they won't and you won't hear from them. sounds like if you don't call him then he'll fade out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 06:36 AM Flag
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OP: He calls when we have things to talk about, he texts to check in with me every night. Our dates happen on the weekend and he always squares them away by Wednesday, and he often comes up with things for us to do. He's just so busy with work (tv production) and works stupid hours. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:23 PM Flag
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mentally check out and fade away the contact, rather than formally breaking up. Formal breakup conversation tells him you cared, which would give him an ego boost. If you are unavailable and apparently uninterested, it stops him thinking he is king-pig and has a (small) chance of perking his interest [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 12:37 PM Flag
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The fade is already happening. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 01:30 PM Flag
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my thought exactly. and it's being initiated on his side. so move on. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 02:03 PM Flag
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