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[ - ] Did Horace Mann reach out to schedule parent interviews and playgroups? Haven't heard yet.. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:45 AM Flag
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It's a hard copy sent via snail mail. It might be on its way. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:57 AM Flag
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Yep [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:58 AM Flag
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HM Mom here. Any questions? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 02:03 AM Flag
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If ds gets in, should he go? [ Reply | More ]
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I loved HM. Good luck. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 02:10 AM Flag
[ - ] Trump was 'rude' so he shouldn't be president. Ok, thank you airheaded Venezuelen soap opera star. I think we have heard enough. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:43 AM Flag
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It's most important that our pres is a nice guy ya know guy you wanna have a beer with. Nothing else is important. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:44 AM Flag
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He's rude and stupid and relishes his ignorance. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:48 AM Flag
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Slap it on primetime, it is totally relevant that he called a fat model Miss Piggy in 1964 to whether he should be president. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:49 AM Flag
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She said... while trying to finish her 5th burger. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:48 AM Flag
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that that quality will work so well with other world leaders... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 02:07 AM Flag
[ - ] Clinton. News. Network. 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:42 AM Flag
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Yeah right. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:43 AM Flag
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Trump is bad man Hitler for being rude to Venezuelen soap opera star who won the beauty pageant then got fat. But her history of driving getaway cars and telling judges she is going to murder them 'is just part of life, and you know, we all make mistakes.' [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:46 AM Flag
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She didn't just get fat. She deserves the Record Guiness for getting fat the fastest after getting the crown. It's as if she avoided eating for an entire season to win. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:50 AM Flag
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This is all beside the point, people. Focus! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:52 AM Flag
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I'm focusing on the truth. Isnt' that enough? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 02:04 AM Flag
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Yes driving getaway cars and threatening to murder judges is just part of all of our lives. TRUMP IS MUGABE HE IMPLIED JUDGE WAS MEXICAN. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:52 AM Flag
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NY TIMES: TRUMP HITLER FOR OPPOSING ILLEGAL IMMIGRATION - SAME POSITION WE HELD IN 2000. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:54 AM Flag
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Oh my... the New York Times is frankly unreadable at this point [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 02:28 AM Flag
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I.don't.watch.that [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:49 AM Flag
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so you put a period everywhere exept at the end of the "sentence"? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:59 AM Flag
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Clinton. News. Network. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 02:05 AM Flag
[ - ] Moles? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:41 AM Flag
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They are my absolute favorite things to order in a Mexican restaurant, if the chef is good [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:42 AM Flag
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I HAVE A WINNING TEMPERAMENT. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:46 AM Flag
[ - ] family members booked their wedding and the contract basically says that the price will not be set until 90 days in advance. she tried negotiating a provision that said if price increased by more than 5% they would have right to cancel but place wouldnt budge. I told them that wasn't great anyway -- do they want to cancel wedding 3 months out after booking everything? I told them I would either want price to be set or within a guaranteed range or I would walk and find a new venue. Something easily replaced like a band etc I get, but when you have tons of family and friends flying in and are relying on this date to stand, it seems crazy to me to basically not know your price until 3 months out. They just updated me that they decided to go ahead anyway and assume it will work out. 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:40 AM Flag
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have run events for 15+ years at many types of venues. never run across this one! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:46 AM Flag
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So there is a base level (that could change by 5% and make you unhappy)- that isnt reasonable guidance? What happens to ppl who try to book over 90 days ahead? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:49 AM Flag
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I honestly dont know the details. I am guessing they were able to give them a ballpark of what the rate usually is or has been but they dont set it until it's 90 days out from the event. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:50 AM Flag
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This sounds nuts. Please promise to report back when the real price is in. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:54 AM Flag
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And we get to book 4 airline tickets and hotel under the assumption that this wedding is proceeding as scheduled [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 02:02 AM Flag
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Is that for the food? Have they ordered some weird market-price-driven item, like lobster? Or something subject to fluctuating exchange rates, like caviar? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 02:03 AM Flag
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i think this is for the venue in general. I really dont know, I have never heard of anything like this [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 02:04 AM Flag
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No lawyer, but I don't think a 'contract' without a price is a contract. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 02:05 AM Flag
[ - ] Do you think Trump will win? I am terrified! 22 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:35 AM Flag
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I'm much more scared of HRC [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:39 AM Flag
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I'm more afraid of you [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:40 AM Flag
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Thank you I guess. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:43 AM Flag
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As your hero would say: "Wrong!" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:44 AM Flag
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Wrong! Disliking Hillary more doesn't imply having Trump as a hero. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:51 AM Flag
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See?! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:53 AM Flag
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ikr! We can agree on something :-) Now, let's go back to... I'm voting for Trump! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 02:06 AM Flag
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Not after last night. If he did everything right starting from two nights ago, he would've won- but now its over. I cant believe a secrecy misappropriator will be President. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:50 AM Flag
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There are 2 more debates left. America has a short attention span. The only one that matters is the last one. Do they really matter anyway? I don't think so. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:51 AM Flag
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Maybe hillarys upcoming gains will fade but trump has lost one of his few remaining opportunities to shine the negative spotlight on Hillary- his only real chance to win. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:55 AM Flag
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He won every online poll. I think you are underestimating him and his supporters. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:57 AM Flag
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I want the guy to win but he only did well among those already voting for him. No centrist/undecided/educated person would vote for that. Three network gaggles of undecided voters all went sharply for Hillary-CNN's was like 90%. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 02:01 AM Flag
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ITA and I am not a Trump supporter. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 02:01 AM Flag
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She looked negative to me. She actually looked very strange last night. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:58 AM Flag
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ITA. There are no "undecideds." [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:55 AM Flag
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Rob Lowe said he's undecided to keep his job at the pro-Hillary CBS. Smart! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 02:07 AM Flag
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Please this was all already determined. It's all a set up. The president is chosen for us. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:56 AM Flag
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and who is that? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 02:09 AM Flag
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Np considering the lovey emails with the Rothschilds, Hillary. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 03:33 AM Flag
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Yes I do [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:50 AM Flag
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Let's just put it this way - he is now competitive in Minnesota and Colorado. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:56 AM Flag
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No way he'll win. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 02:14 AM Flag
[ - ] tarot-in-training mom here. have time for 2 quick relationship / career spreads. Ask your 1 Q below. No health or baby questions please. 17 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:32 AM Flag
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Will I get it? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:33 AM Flag
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yes, you'll get herpes, you slut. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:33 AM Flag
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OMG LOL ILY [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:39 AM Flag
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When will my husband find a new job? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:33 AM Flag
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within the next ~5 months (cards pulled: kind of pentacles R, 5 of pentacles R) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:39 AM Flag
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Thanks! I can survive that wait [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:59 AM Flag
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Did I make a mistake going back to work full time? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:33 AM Flag
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Yes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:35 AM Flag
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Will I stay at my current job long term? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:38 AM Flag
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another ~3 years (cards pulled: queen of cups U, 3 of pentacles R) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:41 AM Flag
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How will we do financially this year? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:38 AM Flag
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So-so, despite all the effort. You won't be happy about it. But the future will be better. (Cards pulled: page of cups u, knight of swords U, queen of cups R) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:44 AM Flag
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What should I do for work? I'm looking? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:39 AM Flag
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How will she do financially? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:46 AM Flag
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We [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:46 AM Flag
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Will my older DC be happy with his HS choice? [ Reply | More ]
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Next President? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 04:09 AM Flag
[ - ] Alicia Machado was accused of being accessory to murder and a Venezuelan judge said she threatened his life. Don't they vet things like this before name dropping on national TV? 18 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:21 AM Flag
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I don't know about this. But after reading that she put on 40 POUNDS right after being picked as Miss Universe (in just 2 months) I lost respect for her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:22 AM Flag
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She comes off as totally irresponsible and entitled. If you get hired for a job because of your body on a short term basis, freaking take care of it! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:23 AM Flag
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Classic UB [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:26 AM Flag
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Do the math, you get the crown and in 2 months you put on 20 lbs each. Kind of crazy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:30 AM Flag
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How is it possible to gain 40 pounds in two months??????? I don't believe this - the same way I don't think it's possible to lose 40 pounds in 20 months. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:30 AM Flag
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I know right? I read the Venezuelan media about this because I wanted the details. And saw the pictures. She turned into a fatty, but the surprising thing was the SPEED in which she accomplished this. She even started exercising in front of the media after she was told she was going to be replaced by her runner up if she didn't stop eating like a maniac. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:32 AM Flag
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Have you seen the pictures? She was a pig [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 02:12 AM Flag
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40 lbs is Trump's claim; if you look at the photo it looks more like 25 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:43 AM Flag
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No. That's Venezuela's media, that included not only interviews with weighting sessions, also gym sessions on air. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:52 AM Flag
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I thought she gained 12. Whatever. Who is floating this other rumor about her? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 02:13 AM Flag
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The orange guy himself. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 02:52 AM Flag
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Or granting US citizenship... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:23 AM Flag
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ikr! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:23 AM Flag
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Nah... being careful there could mean fewer Democratic votes going forward. The DNC cannot afford that one. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:24 AM Flag
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Triple threat: beauty queen, competitive eater, accessory to murder. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:35 AM Flag
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So she threatened to EAT him? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:38 AM Flag
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NP: I'd pay big bucks to see that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:40 AM Flag
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If she only knew... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:55 AM Flag
[ - ] Plumber threatened me yesterday that if I post negative review he'll come after me, and he'll sue me. I checked yelp and yes, he does this to other people. On the plus side, new plumber and contractor have both come twice since then, mold people came by, so we're now all floor-ceiling-and-wall ripped up with huge fans and dehumidifiers, moving slowly in the right direction. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:17 AM Flag
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Ok [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:19 AM Flag
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Congrats! And thanks for reminding me to check all my servicefolk on Yelp... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:27 AM Flag
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Interesting. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:56 AM Flag
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He is bluffing and simply trying to dissuade you from posting that review. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:29 AM Flag
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Thanks for the update and I'm so happy things are working out for you. Be sure to post that negative review to warn other people. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:40 AM Flag
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Post under another name. That's what people do on Trip Advisor. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:58 AM Flag
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Did you find out if you have a tankless water heater? My brother had a construction law case where it was an instant water heater + minerals in the water that caused pinholes in the copper pipes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 02:09 AM Flag
[ - ] How do I know you're not 400lb dudes sitting on your beds? 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:16 AM Flag
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You don't! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:17 AM Flag
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OMG! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:18 AM Flag
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we are [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:17 AM Flag
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Can a 400 lb stay sited in a soft surface? Don't they need more muscle strength to pull that one off? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:19 AM Flag
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The pain of their bedsores just makes them better at hacking. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:28 AM Flag
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Nearly 41 weeks pg, I feel like a whole bunch of 400lb dudes trying to squeeze on a single bed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:28 AM Flag
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Been there - you're almost done! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:35 AM Flag
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What's the difference? If the fat guy says something helpful, use it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:34 AM Flag
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I'm more like 160lb. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:35 AM Flag
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Because we fat-shame other women with an acerbity that only self-hating women can muster! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:44 AM Flag
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No, its my bed that's 400 pounds. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 02:07 AM Flag
[ - ] Watching the Voice. Miley has totally grown on me!! 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:14 AM Flag
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My 8 year old LOVES her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:40 AM Flag
[ - ] I had to hold my urine in for about two hours yesterday due to my meeting ms schedule and today I feel like a weight on or heaviness in my bladder. Something to be concerned about? I've been trying to drink a lot of water and go regularly today. Sorry if TMI. 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:12 AM Flag
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Unsweetened cranberry juice. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:15 AM Flag
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Doesn't work. D-Mannose. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:57 AM Flag
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LOLOL [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:21 AM Flag
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Yes, yes very funny... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:23 AM Flag
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"Hold my urine in for 2 hours" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:27 AM Flag
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Good that you're in tune with your body. I definitely recommend cranberry pills or unsweetened cranberry juice (check nutrition facts). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:29 AM Flag
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Don't you mean "great that URINE tune with your body..." ? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:54 AM Flag
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WOOT [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:56 AM Flag
[ - ] DH never wants to spend time with me. He only wants to spend time together when it's with dd, as a family. I appreciate that but I feel like we have little to no adult relationship. He doesn't seem to get it, or doesn't feel the need for it that I do. I feel like a pathetic woman constantly asking him to spend time with me alone. 38 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:09 AM Flag
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I am in same situation. DH spends most of his time with my toddler. I love their relationship but he does not have any time for me except when he needed sex. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:11 AM Flag
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Don't have time for him either, when he needed sex. Problem solved. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:12 AM Flag
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OP same but if he doesn't feel like sex w me (which I've never refused him) he just goes to porn as a substitute. It's like I'm just like a friend. We have sex infrequently and almost always at my request. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:14 AM Flag
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Just go to porn as well. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:20 AM Flag
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OP that doesn't satisfy me. An intimate sexual relationship with my husband does. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:22 AM Flag
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You sound a bit needy for his companionship capabilities (which seem quite limited). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:25 AM Flag
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OP Needy? I just want sex maybe once a week or more than once a month and to like... go for a walk or get a drink together at his request. I don't want much - just some effort or to feel like he wants to spend time with me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:27 AM Flag
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Do those things with another human being (not the sex part). It doesn't need to be your DH. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:29 AM Flag
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OP but I want to spend time with DH. He literally never spends time with me in any sort of way without me begging him to. You should be with someone who you want to actually talk to and hang out with.. otherwise what is the point. It's like I'm nothing to him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:31 AM Flag
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You are so needy. The minute you start not giving a shit about your DH not spending time with you, is when he'll be all up in your grill and wanting to hang out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 03:38 AM Flag
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What do you two after DD goes to sleep? Why can't you just make dinner reservations and go out? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:11 AM Flag
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OP we eat dinner and go to sleep. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:15 AM Flag
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So have a sitter watch her and go out for a late dinner. Or at least drinks. Reclaim your relationship. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:18 AM Flag
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This is me. It's liked shared custody under the same roof. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:15 AM Flag
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ikr! On the plus side, my DC is so much better companionship than my DH! In every possible sense, from sense of humor, to tastes, to habits. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:21 AM Flag
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Sounds healthy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:22 AM Flag
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It's a huge improvement generationally speaking. Look at the bright side. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:25 AM Flag
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Does he say the same thing about you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:24 AM Flag
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Pretty much. My DH is an angry alcoholic. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:26 AM Flag
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And heavy smoker. Which both my DC and I deeply dislike. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:26 AM Flag
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What a lovely household. Mom and kid ganging up on dad. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:29 AM Flag
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If he cared, he wouldn't drink nor smoke. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:29 AM Flag
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Smoking is waaay different than drinking. It's a vice that isn't great for health but doesn't affect parenting like drinking. If your spouse overeats or likes to lay out in the sun would you think it ok to turn the kids against him for that? Also I assume he smoked when you met? Must suck to be so undesirable that you had to marry someone who had habits you despise just because you were desperate to be married. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 04:42 AM Flag
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What would you like to do? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:17 AM Flag
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OP I would just like him to want to spend time with me. I don't care what we do. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:22 AM Flag
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I am going to give you some advice. Lower the bar. Men are not women. He probably has a demanding job and now he has the responsibility to love/care for/support a small child. At the end of the day, he is done. He loves you , that is why he married you and had a child with you. If you want to do something, plan it, get a sitter and tell him. But to make this artificial somewhat needy bar that you want him to want to is setting yourself up for trouble [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:26 AM Flag
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I agree. I don't expect much from men in general. When I watch a romantic comedy with a man who is a great companionship I remind myself that he's probably gay. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:28 AM Flag
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LOL so true! That is what OP needs, a gay male best friend [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:30 AM Flag
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THIS!!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 02:29 AM Flag
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OP I have a demanding job, have always been the "breadwinner" and also do most of the care taking with dd all week. I still manage to want to spend time and have sex with him... so why is it so odd I would hope he feels the same?? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:29 AM Flag
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It's not odd, but its not his thing. Will he refuse to go if you ask him to do something? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:31 AM Flag
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np. I don't disagree with you, but I find myself struggling to understand this kind of behavior. Are men like this (like my dh) not as invested in the relationship? Are they just lazy? If we stopped trying, planning, etc, would they start? It makes me feel insecure which I hate. I'm trying not to attach meaning to his lack of initiative but it's hard. Curious what others think. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:31 AM Flag
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They dont think so much. They are probably not as invested in the relationship and they are lazy for sure. I think most of them dont think much beyond today. If you stopped planning, would they start? I doubt it. Dont attach meaning, because there is none. Try to think of ways he does show his affection. My husband always puts up a pot of coffee for me in the morning because he knows I like it first thing. Is it knock your socks off romantic? No, but it is for him [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:35 AM Flag
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He probably wants to see you really happy and good at something. Take him bowling (or whatever it is you love doing? Rock climbing? etc.) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:30 AM Flag
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OP I always make the effort. Thats the point of my post. he doesn't make the effort. We both have one day a week free while dd is in school and he opts to spend it alone or meet up with a friend instead of with me. I don't get it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:33 AM Flag
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Maybe people will criticize me, but Google love languages. It's s theory that there are five ways to express love and each person does it differently and needs something different. Quality time is one of the love languages. Maybe use this framework to help yourself come to terms or to help dh understand what you need [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:29 AM Flag
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I think that is a great book and I completely agree with you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:32 AM Flag
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OP thanks [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:33 AM Flag
[ - ] I really don't like the attitude of entitled Hispanics when they force their Spanish on non Spanish speakers. It seems ironic that they want to spread the language of their conquerors. I think I will learn to say that in Spanish so they will stop telling me to learn Spanish. I will also learn how to tell they are an embarrassment to the Spanish language becalmed that's what Spaniards from Spain think when they see their pidgeon, misspelled Spanish online. 23 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:07 AM Flag
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The government needs to make English the official language of the US so we can stop this shit. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:13 AM Flag
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This. If they cannot teach English to their kids by the time they enter public school, then we should just send them back. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:16 AM Flag
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"they want to spread the language of their conquerors" Indeed. Just ask them to repeat what they are saying in Mayan, Quechua, Azteca or whatever indigenous group they really belong to. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:13 AM Flag
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Heh. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:58 AM Flag
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I'm sorry your panties are in a bunch. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:15 AM Flag
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Grandmother? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:20 AM Flag
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Pas encore. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:23 AM Flag
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The truth is that the Latino immigrants that come to USA for the most part cannot even speak Spanish properly. They lack vocabulary and even make grammatical errors. So it's not clear whether learning proper Spanish will help communication. Most of these people didn't even finish middle school back in their third world countries. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:15 AM Flag
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Now you're making me feel sorry for them. I am just reacting to how I feel when they tell me to speak Spanish, but now I see maybe they are defending themselves because they are insecure about their circumstances. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:19 AM Flag
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I don't run into these situations. How is this happening to you all the time? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 02:00 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 02:08 AM Flag
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They're just dumb. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:59 AM Flag
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What you're saying applies to mestizos and indios, but white Hispanics (essentially Spaniards) are abundant too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:46 AM Flag
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seriously, when does this happen? when we first got married my grandmother told my white husband to learn spanish but that was so she could talk to him, and it was half joking. otherwise i've never seen or heard of a hispanic telling a non-hispanic to learn spanish. are you latino/a and they think you "should" speak spanish? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:49 AM Flag
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Lots of Hispanic immigrants are spoiled. They are lazy about learning English. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 02:06 AM Flag
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doesn't answer my question at all but thanks for your input [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 02:06 AM Flag
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np - I have never seen anyone force Spanish on anyone else. I'm not even sure what that would look like. This is probably just a troll, but sometimes racists see what they want. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 02:18 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 02:44 AM Flag
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I think it's because they cannot learn anything that demands some intellectual abilities. But they can learn manual labor, for ex. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 02:31 AM Flag
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It's pidgin. Maybe you should stop being a disgrace to the English language before you throw stones. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 02:16 AM Flag
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I get this shit all the time. It's racism. I am thinking of things I can say to defend myself because I live in a Hispanic American majority area and I am a minority here. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 04:18 AM Flag
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"Pidgin." You're welcome. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 02:31 AM Flag
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Thank you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 04:16 AM Flag
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General Topics 09.28.16, 01:07 AM Flag
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Michelle Carlson at HSS [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:34 AM Flag
[ - ] Anyone want to out which celeb kids are at what school this year? 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:06 AM Flag
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Sure go for it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:07 AM Flag
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Someone start and then others will chime in.... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:16 AM Flag
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Well we all know where baron trump is [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:32 AM Flag
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Arabella? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:40 AM Flag
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In front of his computer [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:52 AM Flag
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CH is at S [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:42 AM Flag
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lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:43 AM Flag
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C is at SH [ Reply | More ]
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TG is at A [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:42 AM Flag
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i know you're making those up but what if you accidentally hit on the right combo of letters??? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:43 AM Flag
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I would chuckle softly to myself. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:44 AM Flag
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I know celeb kids at 41 and 234. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 02:15 AM Flag
[ - ] I'm mid 40s and my legs have started getting these kind of flat brown bumps and seem really dry unless I continually put lotion on them. I guess this is just part of getting old? I'm fair skinned and used to tan but now wish I had never tanned. What's the best cream or lotion (or anything else) for this? 30 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:00 AM Flag
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Are those called age spots? I don't think there's any cream or anything. Maybe laser. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:02 AM Flag
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No, they are slightly raised and derm said they are nothing to worry about, not like age spots you get on hands that are beneath. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:05 AM Flag
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Moles? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:37 AM Flag
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Moles? [ Reply | More ]
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Moles? [ Reply | More ]
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Moles? [ Reply | More ]
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Moles? [ Reply | More ]
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Moles? [ Reply | More ]
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Moles? [ Reply | More ]
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Moles? [ Reply | More ]
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Moles? [ Reply | More ]
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Moles? [ Reply | More ]
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Moles? [ Reply | More ]
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the animals that live underground? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:47 AM Flag
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It's either age spots or sun damage. See your derm. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 02:13 AM Flag
[ - ] Why in the hell does my toddler lie awake making noise for 1.5 before going to sleep? What am I doing wrong. 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 12:59 AM Flag
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if not screaming or upset just be happy [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:00 AM Flag
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there's nothing wrong with that [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:01 AM Flag
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Probably too early [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:03 AM Flag
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Is the room dark enough? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:03 AM Flag
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It's fine. It's like downtime for them. Their way of reading a book or surfing internet in bed [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:04 AM Flag
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love this analogy [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:30 AM Flag
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He's just amusing himself and winding down from the day. It sounds pretty healthy to me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:10 AM Flag
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How old is DB? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:33 AM Flag
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you left the lights on [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:41 AM Flag
[ - ] "I lie, therefore I am." -- HRC. 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 12:58 AM Flag
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You thought that one up all by yourself, huh. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:01 AM Flag
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Snazzy reply. I'm so proud of you, slugger. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:02 AM Flag
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I dye myself orange therefore I am. DT [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:03 AM Flag
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I'll take dye over lie, any day of the week. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:08 AM Flag
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Same here, but then... I'm not a liar. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:10 AM Flag
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ok but trump lied 50x last night so now what? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:28 AM Flag
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ILY!!! UB is cracking me up tonight. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:06 AM Flag
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:) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:09 AM Flag
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"I have seizures, therefore I am awake" - HRC. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.28.16, 01:09 AM Flag
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"I have a blood clot in my head, therefore I don't recall" -- HRC. [ Reply | More ]
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