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12.05.13, 06:02 AM
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Nice. Whoever that bitch is, I'm sure this is what she truly believes. That fecal matter spam below this post ties it together perfectly.
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12.05.13, 06:19 AM
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What bitch? Why are you being so mean? My family and I are so happy! It's like a dream. Why wouldn't anyone want that for someone else?
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12.05.13, 06:20 AM
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Don't be jealous of my mad happiness!! Even your crazy can't bring me down.
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12.05.13, 06:22 AM
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Bonus points if they're addicts and/or abusive. That just makes them more wonderful! *Blindingly white teeth smile!*
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12.05.13, 06:27 AM
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Nope! All are college educated and much brighter than my adoptive family (who were not exactly dopes.) And much more educated. Why would you think they are addicts and/or abusive? One has a Phd, all the rest have Master's degrees. Super cool people. I just wish I could quit my job and spend all my time with them!
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12.05.13, 06:21 AM
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Oh, but didn't you see the one post where a crack whore (who was really just misunderstood) tried to take back the child after they were living with their adoptive family for nearly ten years? The family won, but the child was upset because she "lost". And the child should totally have contact with the woman because they share the same DNA!
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12.05.13, 06:36 AM
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What does this have to do with me, my reunion, and my joy? There are no crack whores involved in my situation. Just really awesome people that I am elated to have met, and who are elated to be back in my life. What on earth do weird druggies have to do with that?
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12.05.13, 06:26 AM
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Np. We all assumed you were the anti adoption troll .
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12.05.13, 06:28 AM
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Then why did they give you up?
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12.05.13, 06:46 AM
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I don't want to reveal all because this is not a sympathetic audience, it seems. My mother was single in a very conservative country, no support, no money, shunned by her family. She was young, there was no way she could support me. If she had lived in the US it would have been a different story. She went to another country to give birth and signed papers because in her country I would have been in an orphanage; in the other country the law was I would have a family. Months later, she went back to see if she could change her mind. They lied (she had a long window in that country and at that time) and told her she could not. She was depressed for many years. She and her husband searched for me a few years later and could not find me as I was adopted to a third country. They have mourned the whole time, and when I found them, they said it was a miracle and their family was complete. So hard to imagine from a modern American perspective. A true story, if people flame I will be sad, but I have my truth and my Mom and that's all that matters, really.
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12.05.13, 06:52 AM
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OP-In my situation, adoption was a tragedy for me. That is my truth. If that makes me a troll, so be it, but for me, reunion has been everything. I don't think my adoptive family is very pleased, but I am happy. Isn't adoption supposed to be about what is best for the child (now I am an adult, of course?) So my happiness should bring joy to all!
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12.05.13, 06:43 AM
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Well they prob feel they've been used.
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12.05.13, 06:46 AM
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OP- Yes, my first family definitely feel they were duped and used. My adoptive family is just confused as this was not the bill of goods they were expecting.
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12.05.13, 06:42 AM
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Your adoptive family put in the work but then again I'm thinking you're a decent, mediocre troll.
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12.05.13, 06:47 AM
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How am I a troll? This is a totally true story, one hundred percent. It is totally weird, involving three countries. But it's true! I would NEVER have believed it myself if it hadn't happened to me. I don't understand the work part...that was their choice. You should not have kids to guilt them. That is crazy. And emotional blackmail. As adults, we all can choose whom to love. Why are people not happy for me? Don't you all want your kids to find their happiness?
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12.05.13, 06:44 AM
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you are a faggot.
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12.05.13, 06:38 AM
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I am straight, but what does that have to do with anything?
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12.05.13, 06:44 AM
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OP- I should add, I was never in foster care, never in an orphanage, and went home with my adoptive family at 3 weeks old. They were not abusive, I just never really bonded with them, especially my adoptive mother. I don't hate them at all, but it just never felt right. I know other adoptees who feel differently, and I know yet others who have had my experience and have had amazing reunions. We all have a right to our feelings and experiences, don't we?
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12.05.13, 07:03 AM
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