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[ - ] Has anyone had pocket doors installed. I was thinking of French Doors Pocket doors for my Baby Nursery, which is my previous dining alcove. I just wonder of the co-op will approve since its not a solid wall. its more of a decorative touch. I'll never close them anyway but its better than just sticking a crib with nothing around it. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.27.18, 12:10 AM Flag
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If you can’t get it approved you could use a folding screen divider [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.18, 12:14 AM Flag
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We installed French doors- no coop approval needed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.18, 12:44 AM Flag
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haven't had a problem about installing pocket doors to bedrooms in ny ongoing reno in a fussy co-op downtown. real issue is the noise leaking. Co-op might approve but unless the room fits the warranty of habitability, you might have DOB problems. [ Reply | More ]
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my ongoing . . . typo [ Reply | More ]
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It shouldn't be a problem with the co-op unless it is a structural wall. Their only concern should be safety. Most partition (non structural walls) are hollow inside, maybe filled with insulation against noise. That said, your concern would be noiseproofing your child's room. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.18, 01:04 AM Flag
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Zoning laws would prohibit it (Fire Codes). [ Reply | More ]
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You would never close the doors ? You will need to be able to make the babies room dark and quiet. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.18, 01:38 AM Flag
[ - ] We make OK money but have saved & invested our entire marriage. Part of investments are 2 oceanfront homes that we rent out. Some friends think we should just “give” them these houses for a week or two because we can. WWYD? 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Avoid those people [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.18, 12:13 AM Flag
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If people literally say to you that you should let them stay in your home for free when you could be renting it out for money they're not really your friends. They're freeloaders. [ Reply | More ]
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in sept [ Reply | More ]
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Just say these are income properties for us, we do have a friends and family discount, but giving it away does not work for our bottom line. Sorry [ Reply | More ]
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isn't it just easier to say it's fully booked? [ Reply | More ]
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I wouldn’t even do this. Just say “I don’t do business with social acquaintances.” [ Reply | More ]
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Consider being generous but only in the off season [ Reply | More ]
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Just say no. [ Reply | More ]
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Crazy. If you have 2 cars, do your friends think they can come drive any time? [ Reply | More ]
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Don’t discuss money with friends. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.18, 12:50 AM Flag
[ - ] My SIL wore a LulaRoe dress to my other SIL's wedding. Not only was it ugly but she looked so out of place. And she also wore dirty white flip flops... Ugh. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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For the record, men, this is why you don't marry trash you picked up by taking an enlist military wife. [ Reply | More ]
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I have a feeling that this post was directly lifted off a thread on Reddit I was reading earlier. I can't find it now, just FYI [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] I just signed up for JDate and 95% of guys are so hot 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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[ - ] Dh talks to me like I was a piece of shit. I don't say anything because he used to be a drunk and has stopped drinking altogether. Things are a lot better. Problem now is his attitude. Fml. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Dry drunk. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Recently read about the Australian professor who travelled to Europe to die at 105. Sometimes I wish we had something like DIgnitas in the the states. Thoughts? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Not a troll. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.18, 12:01 AM Flag
[ - ] Trying to decide btwn two preschools for DD. School 1- we have friends who send their kids there, and many will go on to public with DD for K, it’s $5k cheaper tuition, but DD cried during the tour- said she didn’t like it. School 2- beautiful, bright facility, DD really liked it there, $5k more expensive, and most kids will not go on to K where DD goes. Which would you choose? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Your DD has to learn that there are decisions that are taken by adults. Which is the better school and which is the best fit for your DD? That decision should not be based on $. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Why so many white men attracted to Asian women? I can't find the appeal. They're not ugly like some really ugly women I've seen, but they're bland, they all look literally the same and most have zero sex appeal. Someone explain. 33 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Have you visited the US in the past 15 years? [ Reply | More ]
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Yes, what part of the US do you live in? I mean, I know there are parts where it's 75% fat people, but there's other areas where there's skinny, good-looking women around. [ Reply | More ]
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The guys have low T mostly betas and they can hit above their weight because, to these women, they are HANDSOME. [ Reply | More ]
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simple. because most are much more traditionally feminine than the typical modern white woman. [ Reply | More ]
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Why don't you just jack off to some porn? So tired of these sexually repressed dummies) in UB. [ Reply | More ]
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Why are you so angry? [ Reply | More ]
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Why are you so angry? [ Reply | More ]
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Because dummies rule America. [ Reply | More ]
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And smarties rule Russia. How’s that working out for ya? [ Reply | More ]
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On UB, and no parenthetical, if OP understands that. [ Reply | More ]
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They have beautiful eyes and hair, and tiny noses. [ Reply | More ]
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tiny noses??? maybe after all the surgery they do in south korea... [ Reply | More ]
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Sorry your DH dumped you for a hot Asian chick [ Reply | More ]
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(asian woman married to a white dork) [ Reply | More ]
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Chick? Found the MRA troll [ Reply | More ]
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ESL? [ Reply | More ]
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the more difficult question imo is why do asian girls find autistic white dorks so attractive? that's really what's driving this trend [ Reply | More ]
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They need a ticket out of the Asian race. Sometimes even a dork will do it for them. [ Reply | More ]
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that's actually not hard to figure out at all [ Reply | More ]
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This. seems more like Asian women going out and snagging beta white men (or being the only ones willing to give betas the time of day) [ Reply | More ]
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Lol. You must be a chink in denial he belongs to the least attractive group of men on the planet. [ Reply | More ]
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Lol. You must be a chink in denial he belongs to the least attractive group of men on the planet. [ Reply | More ]
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Well educated, well groomed, not fat [ Reply | More ]
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Beautiful, smart, sexy, exotic, age well, bangin bod. what's not to like? [ Reply | More ]
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Lol!!!!! [ Reply | More ]
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Not hairy and age nicely. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Is it normal to be required to do a Financial Statement before even making an offer on a Co-Op when Financing ? I guess when you are all-cash it does not matter.? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Normal for both. Coops can still reject all cash buyers. [ Reply | More ]
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Indeed. They like to see that the maintenance is less than some specified percentage of income, so that the tenant-stockholder will have have difficulties paying that would then require the coop to chase after him/her. [ Reply | More ]
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They also might just not like you. I live in a small coop, and we still interview cash buyers to see if they’ll be good community members. [ Reply | More ]
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normal [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Where in NYC can I get Dd a dress for her bat mitzvah. Lord and Taylor and Bloomingdales didn’t have anything. If not nyc, please recommend a store in the suburbs. tia! 26 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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zara [ Reply | More ]
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Cheap [ Reply | More ]
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What do you have in mind? Height/weight of DD? Draper James or Kate Spade [ Reply | More ]
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5'1", 160 pounds [ Reply | More ]
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No, not op. She is 5’2” around 90 [ Reply | More ]
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lol now I understand why you couldn't find anything. [ Reply | More ]
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Bloomingdales basement for sizes 16+ [ Reply | More ]
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Sounds like you shop there often [ Reply | More ]
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Yes I do, that's where I met your daughter. [ Reply | More ]
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My daughter that barely weighs 90 pounds? [ Reply | More ]
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90 kilos? [ Reply | More ]
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What? [ Reply | More ]
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chloe & reese showroom . [ Reply | More ]
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^she's slightly overweight [ Reply | More ]
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Op what the hell is wrong with you people [ Reply | More ]
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When is the bat mitzvah? Put her on WW. [ Reply | More ]
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Np ha? What an I not getting here? [ Reply | More ]
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90 is overweight now ? [ Reply | More ]
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Op asked a simple question and it went totally south. Sounds like there is a nasty person here tonight [ Reply | More ]
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No - the OP said her DD is slightly overweight, we didnt say it - she did ! [ Reply | More ]
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Op where did I say that? She is 90 pounds!!! [ Reply | More ]
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^ 90 kilos [ Reply | More ]
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Try Walmart or Target. [ Reply | More ]
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Since your daughter is petite she may find a nice dress at Fleurisse Leon. [ Reply | More ]
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Thank you [ Reply | More ]
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Muu Muus R’ Us [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Do you do anything to help your high schooler prepare for finals? Any guidance? Did has inattentive ADHD. I do too so I'm not the best help. She has a therapist-- I can not really afford any other help at this time. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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DD not did [ Reply | More ]
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DS (sophomore) 100% on his own. Would do better with my help but has to learn sometime and is a real pita so I’m letting natural consequences be the bad guy instead of mom [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] I am fed up of SUV's taking up 2 spaces (in the hamptons now). Happens every summer. So I decided to put carriages near their drivers door and right behind their car. I feel better 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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It happens in Bay Ridge Brooklyn. You're not special. [ Reply | More ]
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Bay Ridge is the new Sagaponack [ Reply | More ]
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Carriages? [ Reply | More ]
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Citarella Grocery Carts ? [ Reply | More ]
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just squeeze in and make their ass fit into a 5 inch door opening. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Crazy ask but any Dutch moms on? Having great difficulty finding any prepared Dutch food in Manhattan for a pot luck/ share your culture type thing HELP! 45 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Dutch food is everything those of us in Middle America grew up with. Boil yourself some potatoes and call it a fat. [ Reply | More ]
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A day, not a fat [ Reply | More ]
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Just bring egg rolls. No one here knows the difference between Dutch and Chinese. [ Reply | More ]
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Heineken beer [ Reply | More ]
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It’s kids [ Reply | More ]
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This! [ Reply | More ]
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Dutch baby pancake. [ Reply | More ]
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I’m perplexed by this. I don’t know much about yelp. There don’t seem to be phone numbers. Is this just a normal pancake that we find at any diner? [ Reply | More ]
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Only if the diner serves Dutch baby pancakes. Google it. The apple ones are soooooo good [ Reply | More ]
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It’s really easy to make. Beaten eggs, milk, flour, some flavoring and whatever you want to top it with when it’s done. [ Reply | More ]
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You can do black licorice: "the Dutch consumption of licorice is the highest in the world. You will come across it everywhere; the supermarket, the pharmacy, at the market and gas stations. ‘Drop’ comes in different flavors and sizes, but basically there are two major differences: salty licorice and sweet licorice." [ Reply | More ]
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Suggested this too but buying licorice in the US doesn’t seem to fit the bill for this one either :( [ Reply | More ]
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Gouda and Edam are both Dutch Cheeses [ Reply | More ]
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Thanks. I thought of cheese but was told that wasn’t enough [ Reply | More ]
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Who is this jackass? [ Reply | More ]
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There are a lot of dummies in tonight. [ Reply | More ]
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No I'm referring to the jerk who told this mom cheese wasn't enough [ Reply | More ]
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+1 I agree, this should be enough, with crackers etc. [ Reply | More ]
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My kid. Class assignment [ Reply | More ]
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Lol. Jackass. [ Reply | More ]
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Then, bring cheese and Heineken. [ Reply | More ]
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Gouda cheese, Windmill cookies [ Reply | More ]
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Is windmill the shape (and a joke)? Or is this a type of cookie that is Dutch? [ Reply | More ]
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The cookie is almond flavored and shaped like a windmill. Plate these up with your cheese and crackers. [ Reply | More ]
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Trader Joe's also had a windmill cookie. You can get your cheese and crackers there. Call them first [ Reply | More ]
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Thank you [ Reply | More ]
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These are in a lot of stores too. And I think TJ has. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stroopwafel [ Reply | More ]
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Thank you! [ Reply | More ]
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OP HERE. thank you so much for trying to help. I have a migraine and need to figure this out asap [ Reply | More ]
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Do the cheeses, cut into cubes and do toothpicks to tell which is which. Do grapes, and crackers. YOU ARE FINE. [ Reply | More ]
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I was going to say grapes too. Good idea [ Reply | More ]
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You're welcome [ Reply | More ]
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Op again. Amazon to the rescue! I got stuff thank you [ Reply | More ]
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What did you get [ Reply | More ]
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/Daelmans-Stroopwafels [ Reply | More ]
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Those things are addictive. [ Reply | More ]
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The name cookie is derived from the Dutch word koekje, meaning “small or little cake.” Biscuit comes from the Latin word bis coctum, which means, “twice baked.” According to culinary historians, the first historic record of cookies was their use as test cakes. [ Reply | More ]
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Gouda cheese served ina wooden shoe [ Reply | More ]
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Speculoos cookies. [ Reply | More ]
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Gouda and a vase of tulips. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.18, 02:22 AM Flag
[ - ] You just have to watch this damning evidence of Morgan Freeman's sexual harassment. The lecherous perv was so entitled that he didn't even care that he was being recorded. This is why we need #metoo. 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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I'm sure you wouldn't be so concerned if he was a white man. [ Reply | More ]
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"Hi. I live to be offended. When I have no facts that are sufficient for me to feign offense, I make them up." [ Reply | More ]
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I am literally shaking at what a disgusting comment that is. What makes you think I'm racially motivated in my thread? You must be one of those revolting MRA trolls who live in basements. [ Reply | More ]
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Because you don't give a fuck when it's a white guy. Admit it. [ Reply | More ]
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Mmhmm. How's the view down there in your dungeon? [ Reply | More ]
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Fuck off MRA. You really can't see my point. Jack off to your young girls and get off UB. I hate you misogynist fucks. [ Reply | More ]
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Yeah, no one's buying it. [ Reply | More ]
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NP. I do care if they are white or black. All races sexually harass women. [ Reply | More ]
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I'm talking to OP, not you. [ Reply | More ]
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oh no, not Red from Shawshank! Get busy living or get busy dying... [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Dakota would call "Cody", Will, John would call "Jack", Hunter, Colby? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Uniformly awful [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
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William. [ Reply | More ]
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All gross [ Reply | More ]
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What’s wrong just Cody or Jack? I gave my son a name that I wanted him to have, no nicknames. FWIW, he just found out recently that a good friend of his named Jack is actually John (given name) and he thought it was dumb to have two different names. (But that’s a teenage perspective for you). [ Reply | More ]
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I agree [ Reply | More ]
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op. THANK YOU! you all just solved our problem. [ Reply | More ]
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Hunter Coby would be Hunky [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] I just binged Wild Wild Country. Anyone see it? 15 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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I still don't know what it's about [ Reply | More ]
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It's about a huge cult/religious movement in the 80s. The story centers on the power mad right hand woman of the guru. Super interesting. [ Reply | More ]
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Sheela! Creepy and fascinating at the same time. [ Reply | More ]
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Totally. She was a psycho. Anyone who can lie like that with cameras on them - she was a megalomaniac. But very capable! Do you think the guru was really in the dark about everything? [ Reply | More ]
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I really do. She was just too...I don’t even know....good at being bad?.....and he didn’t seem to have her level of cunning and understanding. [ Reply | More ]
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I agree she was on a different level and I do think she was doing some stuff he didn't know about but I don't think he was completely innocent. [ Reply | More ]
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There are articles on it everywhere. [ Reply | More ]
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I thought the lawyer guy was pretty hot. He became a handsome older man. But he's too much of a meathead (despite obviously having intelligence) because he had no discernment. Who worships a person like that, like that? [ Reply | More ]
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What service is it aired on? [ Reply | More ]
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Netflix [ Reply | More ]
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So fascinating, and truly unbelievable. Can't believe all the characters - and their state of mind. Seemingly intelligent too. SCARY. [ Reply | More ]
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Such a testament to the human need to believe in something greater. [ Reply | More ]
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It was a story about a woman who gave her entire being in devotion to a man who used her. The ending was fascinating. [ Reply | More ]
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I related very strongly to that. Went through something similar but not on that level of course. [ Reply | More ]
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I think she wanted to be him more than being in love with him. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Guy at work has been after me for years. We are both married ....mine is falling apart. The chemistry and ego boost is great but I know I need to say “no way”. Please tell me how you walk away from the intensity? 30 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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How does he show that he is after you? [ Reply | More ]
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Tells me things like I look hot and he’d like his hands on my ass. Says he’d like to treat me like a queen. And more. [ Reply | More ]
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^^I get other guys who I work with who hit on me but none I think twice about. [ Reply | More ]
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That’s sexual harassment [ Reply | More ]
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Yuck. He's married. Look at how he's carrying on with you. Doesn't that say enough about his character? [ Reply | More ]
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I have known him for 15 years [ Reply | More ]
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And? How does that change what I said? [ Reply | More ]
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So you know his wife? [ Reply | More ]
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I do....she is not well liked but I always made an effort to be nice to her [ Reply | More ]
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Maybe she is grumpy because her husband has such poor boundaries with women! [ Reply | More ]
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She was grumpy 20 years ago [ Reply | More ]
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it's one thing if you don't even know her sheesh [ Reply | More ]
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I would walk away in my best fitting LBD, nude Louboutins, and doing the Pippa as if this the rent was due and the landlord was banging on the door. [ Reply | More ]
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I didn't realize that jessica Mulroney said she was gonna do a Pippa but when I saw her I was like who's this attention whore posing and strutting for the cameras. It was so transparent. [ Reply | More ]
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I wish. I have to work with him. [ Reply | More ]
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Gross [ Reply | More ]
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You have to internalize that it's hormones only - and that any married man who would be going after you is no catch at all. No one - NO ONE - will respect you for giving in to your hormones. You're basically just scratching an itch to have excitement and passion again, which will never last as long as you think it will. This is very different, keep in mind, from two marriages that definitely aren't working. "Chemistry and Ego Boost" gives away that these are basically just dangerous games to both of you. [ Reply | More ]
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I get that. How many people do you have such an intense attraction to? I can’t eat, can’t sleep, he is on my mind constantly....I resist. It may be just hormones but at my age of 42....I have not encountered such chemistry ever. [ Reply | More ]
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I went through it myself. I was a mother of a 1 year old in a low level job post-grad to pay the daycare bills and rent while my young husband completed a very demanding professional graduate program. My direct superior was very handsome and charismatic, and one night at the office Christmas party while my baby was with grandparents and my husband was doing yet another 36/12, we kissed. I spent the next year obsessing about us doing it again (complete with special songs I listened to on my walkman (!!!), which of course never happened, because he said it was a mistake. Even though it was clearly a stupid move to continue letting him occupy space in my head, it happened anyway. Chemistry is chemistry. But it's not always compatible with the realities of life. My 1 year old is 23 now. [ Reply | More ]
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Thanks. You appreciate the perspective [ Reply | More ]
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Learn from my mistakes. There are lasting things, and there are temporary things. Too many times we give up the things that could last for the things that won't. And you never EVER, EVER regain that respect that you have lost. At some point we are all older, no longer sexy or necessarily relevant, but we live on the reputations we have cultivated earlier. Sexy and exciting affairs are a desperate gambit to continue to feel relevant. It really only usually ends up making you look ridiculous and shallow on either side. [ Reply | More ]
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This is good. [ Reply | More ]
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Why do you "need" to do this? Jump his bones and the next stage of your life started. [ Reply | More ]
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I think once won’t be enough and I’ll want more. [ Reply | More ]
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I think you should do it. You've lived for your DH all these years and what do you have to show for it? I think you need to think about you for once. [ Reply | More ]
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Really? I know the affair would feel amazing but I don’t cross lines [ Reply | More ]
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Eh, I've had this kind of 'wake you up in the night dreaming about it' chemistry with a few people. It will utterly torture you for about a year, then, one day, it will go away. Avoid him. Deal with your declining marriage, it deserves a decision either way. You don't need to be distracted. And he is not trustworthy at all if he is married and hitting on you at the office! Guy has zero boundaries and lacks judgement. People will totally look down on you if anything happens - you will crush your professional reputation. Don't do it! You deserve better, so get better and keep your guard up. [ Reply | More ]
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This. Btdt made the wrong choice. Biggest mistake of my life. Changed everything. [ Reply | More ]
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np: I have a guy who hit on me at work. He's my boss. I backed away and it probably won't happen again. But, I am married and it sure is nice to be hit on sometimes! [ Reply | More ]
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Report him for sexual harassment. [ Reply | More ]
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