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[ - ] Does anybody use match.com? I am constantly getting interracial matches, and I would like to filter this out. How do I do it? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:40 AM Flag
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Unsubscribe from match.com...subscribe to Aryan Nation or whatever your race equivalent is... Problem solved. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:42 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
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ily [ Reply | More ]
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General Topics 12.19.14, 03:47 AM Flag
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But I'm black and I don't want white guys to hit on me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:49 AM Flag
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you probably put "all" on the preferences setting. just change that [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:44 AM Flag
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jdate [ Reply | More ]
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Tinder...swipe right on the guys you like [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 04:03 AM Flag
[ - ] Came home @8:30 pm after leaving at 8 am this morning. Walked in and fire going in fireplave. Calledvpolice to search house and nothing obviously out of place or taken. Did use wood fireplace last night but flames out before going to bed. Should I leave for the night? 24 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:39 AM Flag
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You probably left some embers going. Just put out better tonight. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:40 AM Flag
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np I'm happy if a fire is going for two hours after I purposely light it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:56 AM Flag
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This. Depending on the density of the wood this can happen much much later. Any chance you had oak in there? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 04:17 AM Flag
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What did the v police say? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:41 AM Flag
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Couldnt explain but not concerned since nothing missing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:42 AM Flag
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No forced entry? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:43 AM Flag
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No. Very bizarre. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:44 AM Flag
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So either your fire didn't burn out last night (which is the most likely scenario) or someone has a key to your place and is fucking with you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:46 AM Flag
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np Even if that was the case, the fire would have burned out after 12.5 hours. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:54 AM Flag
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oh snap [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:56 AM Flag
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So it was a damn poltergeist, since science can't explain this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:57 AM Flag
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Embers can reignite days later. Are you really all this dense? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 04:15 AM Flag
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that's creepy [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:41 AM Flag
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GHOSTS [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:45 AM Flag
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Dcs terrified. They are asleep in my room. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:46 AM Flag
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I would because I wouldn't be able to sleep. [ Reply | More ]
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General Topics 12.19.14, 03:55 AM Flag
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um... did you check your crawl spaces? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:55 AM Flag
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police didn't offer to come to your house and look around? are you in nyc or elsewhere? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:57 AM Flag
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Stalker [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 04:00 AM Flag
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I'd be ordering a Drop cam if I were you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 04:05 AM Flag
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Embers reignited. Can't believe you called the police over this. Irreslonbible fireplace user lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 04:07 AM Flag
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Irreslonbible? Have another drink. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 04:10 AM Flag
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Typo. Much less dangerous of a mistake to make than not putting your fire out [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 04:13 AM Flag
[ - ] Just worked out for the first time in months. So proud of myself for finally working towards the goal of getting healthier. One foot in front of the other. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:29 AM Flag
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Good for you! I was smacked down earlier this evening by a bizarre poster who was anti-working out. He/she just wasn't getting it. Sounds like you're on a good path. Keep it up! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:34 AM Flag
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Good for you!!!! I'm hoping to start tomorrow. Wish me luck?! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:36 AM Flag
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Good luck!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:43 AM Flag
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Good for you! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:36 AM Flag
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Congrats!! I've been trying, but I have no motivation, so I just don't eat much. :( [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:37 AM Flag
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OP: Thank you all! I recently had DB and decided I needed to be healthy so I can be a good Mom to him. When I tire, I think about the fact that he deserves a healthy and happy Mom. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:48 AM Flag
[ - ] So my Columbia winter boots have worn out after ONE winter. They are crap. Need suggestion for good winter boots that are easy to put on and will keep my feet dry and warm. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:28 AM Flag
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love stuart weitzman or lacanadianne [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:28 AM Flag
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Sorel. North face, timberland. Merrel, patagonia, [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:29 AM Flag
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LLbean [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:30 AM Flag
[ - ] How do you guys feel about swearing in the workplace? I've been okay with a little jokey swearing in the past, but my new officemate is foul-mouthed in the most aggressively negative, macho way. He uses multiple f- and s- words per sentence and curses while loudly complaining about his ex-wife and sons. I asked him to tone down the language but frankly I just wish he would disappear. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:26 AM Flag
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Not acceptable in general in my place of work (law firm). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:28 AM Flag
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Whoa, really? I work at a top 5 law firm, and a lot of people swear like sailors. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:59 AM Flag
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I think it really depends on firm culture and the particular group in which you practice. Not cool in my immediate circle. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 04:06 AM Flag
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Depends on usage, but complaining about ex and SONS? Totally out of place. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:41 AM Flag
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OP: Yeah, it breaks my heart. Sounds like they are twins who just started preschool. I hope they never find out what their dad says about them at work. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:43 AM Flag
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Unprofessional. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 04:06 AM Flag
[ - ] I just started a new job on Monday. Today, I overheard one of the administrative people talking to my supervisor in a conference room near my desk. He said my name, asked about me, and then said, "she's just SOOOOO skinny! Ugh." I've always been thin, but I'm not grotesque (I've had 3 kids, so I'm not a skeleton). Would you say anything about this? I feel very self conscious at work now. 26 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:23 AM Flag
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He really said that? So inappropriate to comment on colleagues' bodies in a workplace environment. To me it sounds like he thinks you're hot and is trying to fight attraction to you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:24 AM Flag
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OP: He really said that. I had a moment of "What the fuck did he just say!?" at first because it was my fourth day on the job, and this guy is already making public comments about me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:25 AM Flag
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Wait till your probation period ends and if he continues file a complaint. If you complain now you will be fired. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 04:02 AM Flag
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LOL. What a bizarre interpretation! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:28 AM Flag
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DH here. I think that interpretation is spot on. Seriously. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 04:04 AM Flag
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I wouldn't say anything, but I don't like to rock the boat. Sounds like this guy has a catty nature so calling him out will only lead to more gossip. Good luck. PS - weird time to start a new job. Are you out for the holidays? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:28 AM Flag
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OP: I just finished my PhD (got my diploma last week), so that accounts for the odd timing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:30 AM Flag
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Academia? Inappropriate body comments abound there. Congrats on the new job! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:39 AM Flag
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OP: Nope! Census! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:42 AM Flag
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I wouldn't say anything, but I don't like to rock the boat. Sounds like this guy has a catty nature so calling him out will only lead to more gossip. Good luck. PS - weird time to start a new job. Are you out for the holidays? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:28 AM Flag
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I wouldn't say anything, but I don't like to rock the boat. Sounds like this guy has a catty nature so calling him out will only lead to more gossip. Good luck. PS - weird time to start a new job. Are you out for the holidays? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:28 AM Flag
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General Topics 12.19.14, 03:31 AM Flag
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OP: Yeah, I knew it would seem that way, but I'm not trying to brag. In all honesty, my body is not very attractive because everything is saggy after 3 kids, thin or not. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:33 AM Flag
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just teasing! i'm sure she's just jealous. and that was really rude of her to say! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:34 AM Flag
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sorry mis-read- weird that he's a guy... maybe gay? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:36 AM Flag
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OP: He's older, too--- maybe late 50s, early 60s. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:36 AM Flag
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who gives a shit what he thinks really- i'm sure most women would kill to look like you! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:39 AM Flag
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OP: Aw, thank you! I doubt it, but thanks! :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:43 AM Flag
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Husband insight here: if speaker was a man and supervisor was a woman, the speaker is actually setting the stage to begin hitting on the supervisor. As crazy as that sounds. He's trying to show that he likes "real women", with "real bodies", like the supervisor has. There's no other reason a man says a woman is so skinny. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:34 AM Flag
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OP: Interesting take! My supervisor is a woman, so this could have been the case. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:35 AM Flag
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True [ Reply | More ]
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Ita [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:38 AM Flag
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OR: I have such insight because I've, umm, done it before, a long time ago. Works quite well on low self-esteem chubs but it kind of locks you into their world. You can't then be with a skinny, flashy, or sexy girl without appearing to be a fraud. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:52 AM Flag
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I'm a "chubs" and I would not find this charming, I would think it was obnoxious. For me, insulting other women's looks is a big turn-off. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 04:02 AM Flag
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Or he's trying to hide from the supervisor that he thinks OP is attractive. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 04:06 AM Flag
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I would definitely ask him to be a little more secretive if he wants to talk shit... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 04:10 AM Flag
[ - ] I'm 28 and still having breakouts on my face occasionally. I feel like this is not normal. I didn't wear makeup for an entire week (vacation), and my face went batshit crazy. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:20 AM Flag
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I'm 51 and still have breakouts. My dad is 76 and still has breakouts. I think there is some kind of genetic component, as well as the normal hormonal and enivornmental factors. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:23 AM Flag
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28 and I am 4 months into a treatment of accutane [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:25 AM Flag
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I had same problem at that age and switched to mineral makeup, made a huge difference. 10 years later, switched to oil free Laura Mercier stuff, which had been great too. It's frustrating but may be hormonal. If makeup change doesn't help, consider the pill? (made mine worse, though) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:26 AM Flag
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supposedly cutting out dairy helps. i love my dairy but cleared my skin up by alternating nights with retin-a and 10% glycolic acid [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:33 AM Flag
[ - ] How would you react if your parent/ILs disciplined DC while you were present? 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:18 AM Flag
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not ok [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:19 AM Flag
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General Topics 12.19.14, 03:31 AM Flag
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I'd be happy. I really hate when DCs are spoiled rotten by my in-laws and parents. I mean, I wouldn't like if it was some outlandish punishment, but I encourage consistency with the kids. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:19 AM Flag
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Totally inappropriate. Disrespectful to you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:26 AM Flag
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Depends what the kid was doing to merit being disciplined. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:29 AM Flag
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I don't see a problem with it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:29 AM Flag
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I don't mind them setting boundaries and calling DD out when those boundaries are breached, but disciplinary measures are for me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:30 AM Flag
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This. If they have a problem, they should talk to you or DH. Otherwise it encourages kids to disrespect you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:34 AM Flag
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yep [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 04:24 AM Flag
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What do you mean by disciplined? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:50 AM Flag
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Would totally depend on why and how. I can't remember what happened, but I didn't really love mil picking up 2 yo by one arm. Nor did I think it was cool that she wouldn't let him eat until he "folded" his hands to say grace for dinner--he was just 2. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 04:06 AM Flag
[ - ] A guy I just started seeing is Cuban. Those of you who have been in Cuban men-- how are they as lovers typically? 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:09 AM Flag
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been WITH* Freudian slip! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:09 AM Flag
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Stereotypes are usually wrong. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:12 AM Flag
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np- Meh, not always. Italian and Latin men are usually very giving lovers and very hot in bed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:13 AM Flag
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There are all types of Cubans. The families that came in when Castro took over are upper class and polite and nice. The ones now are more black and less Spanish. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:14 AM Flag
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OP: This guy isn't black. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:16 AM Flag
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Hot and passionate; lots of domestic violence though. It's not uncommon for those guys to go on sprees/rampages after being dumped, which we have seen many times in southern Florida over the years. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:16 AM Flag
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If you can get pass their self righteous attitude, they're ok in bed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:30 AM Flag
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OP: They think very highly of themselves? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:35 AM Flag
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Very, very, very highly of themselves. It's fucking exhausting. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:46 AM Flag
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They also cheat a lot. Like a LOT a lot. Be prepared. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 04:22 AM Flag
[ - ] Time to invade North Korea. Hwll hath no fury like a hacked Hollywood. jew. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 02:59 AM Flag
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jew.jew.jew.jew.jewellery [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:00 AM Flag
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Is Sony Jewish? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:18 AM Flag
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No but the folks who run the studio (studio head is Mrs. Bernie Weintraub) all are [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:51 AM Flag
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The studio isn't making the decision. The corporate body, which is probably Sony Pictures Entertainment (plus all their counsel) would be making those decisions. If there are Jewish people on that board, then maybe your point holds. Otherwise, not. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:56 AM Flag
[ - ] 4.5yo still needs pull-up overnight. Just wait until he starts waking up dry? Or at this age should we stop and get him up in the middle of the night? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 02:56 AM Flag
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we started taking our kids to the bathroom before we went to bed so, 10:30/11pm, and it worked great for older son. now ds6 still wets his bed, through is pull-up! [ Reply | More ]
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wtf? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:17 AM Flag
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Our ped advised NOT waking DC up in the middle of the night for bathroom. In ped's view sleep at his age is more important than getting out of pullup, and middle of night is disrupting deep sleep. Try cutting out any liquids 1.0-1.5 hours before bed. Then wait until he starts waking up dry. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:38 AM Flag
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You might need to cut liquids at least 2 hrs before bedtime. 3yo DD needs 2 hrs liquid-free before bed to keep from wetting. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:59 AM Flag
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My younger DS needed an overnight pull-up til age 7. It was rough!!! (He's 8 now, and so far so good.... We had to do the alarm method). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 04:11 AM Flag
[ - ] High School Hypothetical- would you pick Columbia Secondary over Beacon for a science-loving DC who is not that strong in humanities. Why or why not? Assume these are only two acceptances (not possible, I know, but thinking about next years rankings). 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 02:56 AM Flag
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Sort of six of one, but since Beacon is free I would go with that. Neither is all that strong in science. [ Reply | More ]
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I agree, I would go with Beacon and use money for tutoring. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:15 AM Flag
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They're both free. This is not cgps. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 04:23 AM Flag
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Columbia Secondary but I have real problems with Beacon for many reasons [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 04:26 AM Flag
[ - ] I was just about a literal minutes late to my son's school event today (they start maddeningly on time) and when I got there he was crying thinking I wasn't going to show. At the end of last year I missed most of a preschool school thing because I had a technician show up to fix a house problem. I didm;t realize it was a big event -- thinking most parents work and didn't set him up for my being there but his teacher made a big deal of it. I work full time and am single and I am failing most of the time. He did tell me I am his favorite person tonight (not the other poster who said so). 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 02:49 AM Flag
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Can DH attend sometimes? What about grandparents or your siblings? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:07 AM Flag
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NP- did you not miss the part where she said she was single [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:08 AM Flag
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Did she conceive via immaculate conception? The DS has a father. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:14 AM Flag
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Really, are you that insensitive? Ever here of deadbeat dads...Single moms by choice. DS might have a father but doesn't mean OP has a DH. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:17 AM Flag
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You are projecting. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:19 AM Flag
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formerly single mom of 2 here. it was nearly impossible for me to make all of the parties & special occasions for my kids when they were younger, as I was FT employed, and I missed more than a few. of all of the things I wish I had done differently when my kids were little, that's probably one of the biggest. wish I would have made the time. it really is important to them. my super sweet & otherwise very mature 20 year old has never forgotten that I missed the mother's day lunch of 2003. oh the guilt! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:16 AM Flag
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Manage his expectations. Make special moments together on the weekends and weeknights when you are free. Children feel that effort and love and will forget about the "misses". [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:18 AM Flag
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I know it is not nearly the same,but do you have a friend or two who are close to ds who can attend some events when you can't and record them for you -- so he has someone there to cheer for him? And you are not failing - you are struggling (as I am) and I understand feeling like you are failing, but you are putting in efforts on all fronts. You need to enlist help wherever you can, give yourself credit for all that you do manage to do (you got there after all!) and go easier on yourself when you cannot do it all. [ Reply | More ]
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General Topics 12.19.14, 03:50 AM Flag
[ - ] My father, who loves us dearly, sits me and my sister down consistently to talk about 'the money' and where it will go when he dies. He is so incredibly proud of it (and also fierce that it shouldn't go to our spouses - he is adamant about wanting to protect it so they don't 'get rich'. I will never tell him that DH and I will inherit roughly 10 times the amount from DH's parents. When did I turn into the one protecting his feelings? 18 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 02:45 AM Flag
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How much money are we talking about? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 02:48 AM Flag
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100 MM [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 02:50 AM Flag
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WOW. My parents have about 1 mil I think - they don;t talk to me about it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 02:51 AM Flag
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Op? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 02:52 AM Flag
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That wasn't me. Much less. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:39 AM Flag
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seriously? that's a shitload of cash. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:01 AM Flag
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Such a strange post. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 02:49 AM Flag
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Just trying to figure out how I feel. He's so proud, and I feel protective of him, and I never want him to know he's not leaving us a fortune. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:47 AM Flag
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I get it. He is probably trying to protect you in case there is a divorce. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 02:50 AM Flag
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So you're getting 10M from your dad? Not chump change. Give the dude a break! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 02:51 AM Flag
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yeah OP. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 02:53 AM Flag
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I'm jealous [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 02:53 AM Flag
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OP's annoying. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 02:56 AM Flag
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Yes, but I'm still jealous [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 02:59 AM Flag
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Less, first of all, and second of all it will be split between my sister and me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:39 AM Flag
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Of course she's not. That would mean they will inherit $1B from her in-laws. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:46 AM Flag
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Yeah, no. Not at all. That's the whole point. My dad thinks he's giving us a small fortune. I'm worried a financial advisor or someone will say "well it will buy a nice house" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:50 AM Flag
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I think it is very sweet and entirely correct that you would protect his feelings about this. He is obviously fiercely protective of you and your sister, and you have that trait as well. Why diminish him? If somehow be finds out, you tell him that the value and security of knowing he was leaving something to you was immeasurable, allowed you independence in your marriage, etc whatever you need to say. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 04:21 AM Flag
[ - ] How often do you run into people that you know? Do you live in 'burbs/city? SAHM or WOHM? 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 02:41 AM Flag
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Daily, City, WOHM. WHy? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 02:47 AM Flag
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OP- just curious. when i lived in nyc it was very often but then always heard that the burbs were very isolating. now live outside the NY metro region and run into people daily (often 2x a day) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 02:56 AM Flag
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Pretty infrequently. City, SAHM. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 02:49 AM Flag
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+ maybe X2 a month [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 02:51 AM Flag
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Daily, burbs, very part time WOHM so basically SAHM [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 02:50 AM Flag
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Daily, Brooklyn, SAHM [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 02:58 AM Flag
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Me too! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:21 AM Flag
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Daily, Brooklyn, WOHM. I work in Manhattan and see a bunch of people I know there for various reasons. I see neighbors and acquaintances in Brooklyn because I walk everywhere. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:25 AM Flag
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Daily or every other day. City. Wohm. (Obviously excluding neighbors etc.) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:47 AM Flag
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all day everyday! love it. small town (6,000 ppl) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 04:01 AM Flag
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^SAHM but this is true of my WOH DH also [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 04:02 AM Flag
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all day everyday, City, Work part time [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 04:27 AM Flag
[ - ] How often do you run into people that you know? Do you live in 'burbs/city? SAHM or WOHM? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 02:41 AM Flag
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1x per 4 months. SAHM in NYC. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:51 AM Flag
[ - ] Well and now it's time to go, isn't it 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 02:40 AM Flag
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Nigger jizz. My asshole. SO FUCKING STICKY WHY??????? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 02:41 AM Flag
[ - ] Am an alcoholic and a smoker want to stop tomorrow (with the alcohol) please help. I am drinking right now and hate it. Yet I can't seem to function without it. I have a young dd who thankfully thinks that mommy is drinking soda. Any tips, criticism and ugly words are welcome. I just want help. I am a recently divorced single mother so can't go to AA meetings. Anything I can do on my own? Tia. 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 02:40 AM Flag
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You can go to AA meetings on your lunch break if you are worried about daycare. Is your ex at all supportive? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 02:45 AM Flag
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Be very.very careful about letting an ex know about this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 02:54 AM Flag
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He has to know. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 02:55 AM Flag
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But you do not want to give him any evidence. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 02:56 AM Flag
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You can also attend meetings online if you truly cant get away. Go to intherooms.com [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 02:54 AM Flag
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You need professional help. Think about you dc. You cannot hide it much longer. Get help now. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 02:51 AM Flag
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Alcoholic in recovery and I have a few thoughts on your op. 1) I'd bet the farm your ex knows you have a drinking problem. 2) Unless your daughter is under the age of 5, she knows you're not drinking soda. Kids are smarter than we realize. 3) You "can't go to AA meetings" because you don't want to go. Going to a meeting is admitting to others that you have a drinking problem. And once you do this, you see it as no turning back and this scares the shit out of you. 4) Of course you can do it on your own...put down the drink and don't pick up again. But I will tell you that doing it alone almost never, ever works. 5) You are afraid, and this is perfectly normal. It's going to be ok. Trust me, it will be ok. You are a great mom to your daughter and your life (thus your daughter's life too!!) will be better than you could have ever imagined. 6) Put down the drink, call a babysitter and go to a meeting. You will feel so much better. 7) I've been where you are right now and please know I'm thinking about you and sending you love and hugs. xoxo [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:20 AM Flag
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another poster in recovery and everything the above poster wrote is 100% accurate. You always found the time to drink (i know i did) and im sure you go to great lengths to get a drink if you need one..if you can work that hard for a drink you can work that hard to get to a meeting. go to a meeting and raise your hand and share what you just told us here [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:40 AM Flag
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Np. That's really nice! OP. Print this out and read it every day [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:48 AM Flag
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Np. That's really nice! OP. Print this out and read it every day [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:48 AM Flag
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Np. That's really nice! OP. Print this out and read it every day [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 03:48 AM Flag
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