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[ - ] You don't involve the school in a teenage nude scandal. That is just stupid, and cruel. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:48 AM Flag
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Ita!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:55 AM Flag
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The DS could get charged with possession of child porn. It has happened. Parent needs to protect him from serious lifelong legal consequences. Can't worry about the obviously disturbed girl. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:57 AM Flag
[ - ] Can anyone recommend a summer camp or program that does coding? tia 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:46 AM Flag
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For a girl: Girls Who Code. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:49 AM Flag
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lol no but seriously [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:51 AM Flag
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When you say code, is it like real code for programming or some other crap no one outside pk admissions understand? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 04:26 AM Flag
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Coursera [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 04:08 AM Flag
[ - ] My husband isn't coming home tonight, we had plans. We set aside a date to have a nice meal and watch our favorite crime shows.... And now he is going to be at work well into the AM. Oh well, he isn't getting laid anytime soon. 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:30 AM Flag
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You're going to punish him because he slaves away to support you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:31 AM Flag
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A lot of assumptions there. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:31 AM Flag
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Yeah, because OP seems sympathetic. Sarcasm on. NP. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:33 AM Flag
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Please, he doesn't have to work the hours he does. I'm upset, we had plans. I bought something pretty, I set aside the last two episodes of castle... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:33 AM Flag
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You don't tell your boss/client that you can't work late tonight because your wife DVR'd Castle. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:41 AM Flag
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It is our show. We have been watching it since it aired. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:46 AM Flag
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Oh in that case I'm sure boss/client will totally understand. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:51 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 04:13 AM Flag
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Probably is getting laid ... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:36 AM Flag
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If he was going to cheat on me he wouldn't schedule his date with the other woman on the same day he knew he could sleep with me. He isn't stupid. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:41 AM Flag
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Are you for real? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:41 AM Flag
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What? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:44 AM Flag
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I use it when I mean it. Or at least I think I mean it. 11 years married. 14 together. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 04:15 AM Flag
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Wrong spot [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 04:16 AM Flag
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But you are. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 05:42 AM Flag
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Enjoy your status as the first wife. 2nd wife to be is waiting in the wings, with her leather pants, heels, and a spur of the moment boob job ("I don't know, I just went for it"). Look out, SAHM-y whammy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:50 AM Flag
[ - ] When fighting w/ DH, how many of you threaten or bring up divorce whilst fighting? For some of my friends they say they never go there. Just curious if I'm the weird one. 17 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:28 AM Flag
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I've never threatened this and we've had some pretty heated arguments. Married 18 years. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:31 AM Flag
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I have never gone there. For me, it would just be something hurtful to say, not something that I'd ever mean...and I do try to fight fair. Divorce is a big thing, personally it's not something I ever really even discuss with DH, let alone use as a way to hurt him when our marriage would already be in a tough spot (the fighting spot I mean). If you want a divorce, the time to discuss it is not when you're both angry and throwing punches...just too heavy and words can't be taken back. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:31 AM Flag
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Never ever. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:31 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 05:42 AM Flag
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Nope. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:39 AM Flag
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It's fighting dirty in my book. Unless things are so bad that you really mean it, you are sending the message that your marriage isn't worth fighting for. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:40 AM Flag
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no [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:47 AM Flag
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Used to all the time. Now, never. Married 11 years. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:59 AM Flag
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You're the weird one for using the word "whilst." ;) Are you British, Australian, Canadian, etc.? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 04:01 AM Flag
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American. Don't see why it's weird but ok [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 05:21 AM Flag
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Only one time and I really meant it. His heart and mind were not at home at all, he refused to admit anything was going on. So I told him that he can go I'm not going to fight it, but he refused. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 04:07 AM Flag
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I use it when I mean it. Or at least I think I mean it. 11 years married. 14 together. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 04:17 AM Flag
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Never. If anything, I assure him it's not a option. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 04:57 AM Flag
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An [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 04:57 AM Flag
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All the time, because I mean it. Also I often say "you know where the door is, feel free to use it". [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 05:15 AM Flag
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Well I guess we're the only dysfunctional ones on here. We say it all the time and then makeup like its no big deal. We've been married 2.5 years. I also always say "find someone else then" when he makes a comment about how inflexible or whatever I am. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 05:21 AM Flag
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haha yep. I've been married for 12 years. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 06:32 AM Flag
[ - ] Bought a big box of ferrero richer at Costco...can not stop eating them. How much is too much? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:25 AM Flag
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YUM! those f'ing things should be their own food group [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:26 AM Flag
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On my 7th...no end in sight. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:27 AM Flag
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jealous [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:28 AM Flag
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Me too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:40 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:47 AM Flag
[ - ] I am so tired of my DH snoring keeping me awake. I've tried everything. Tempted to make him sleep in the guest room but then we would probably never have sex. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:23 AM Flag
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Me too [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:25 AM Flag
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I leave and go sleep in dd's room [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:29 AM Flag
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OP: we are at my parent's for a long weekend. I don't want to sleep on the couch and give them anything to worry/wonder about. But generally at home, yes, I go sleep on the sofa and get some good rest. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:33 AM Flag
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Oh, I feel for you. bose headphones? kick him till he turns on his side? ambien? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:34 AM Flag
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^^or benadryl! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:34 AM Flag
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Op again :) I take melatonin at home and that helps too (was suggested on here when I was having trouble falling asleep-thanks UB!) but like a dumb ass forgot it amongst the 800 things that had to be packed. He has seen a doctor and has a spray that helps about 50% of the time. But until he has surgery to fix his septum I will stew in anger while he sleeps peacefully. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:42 AM Flag
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See a doctor [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:36 AM Flag
[ - ] Anyone else sensitive to other people's "energy"? I feel like I catch anxiety from dealing with extremely dark negative people... Any tips for dealing with said types? 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:12 AM Flag
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Need help with this too [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:16 AM Flag
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There are rocks you can buy and carry with you. They really help. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:17 AM Flag
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snarky snarky [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:21 AM Flag
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Which ones [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:23 AM Flag
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this comment wins UB [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:31 AM Flag
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OR- LOL, I have some at home and I love them. I bought them online after I heard someone recommend them. They are white. Just google them (I think they are called Apache tear) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:34 AM Flag
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You only need the ones between your ears if you believe this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 05:03 AM Flag
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I"m good with dealing with my own stress but if I have a bad interaction with someone it really stays with me...I get shortness of breathe etc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:17 AM Flag
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Meditation helps. Also recentering yourself by focusing on where you are. I am in the bathroom in my apt on 64th st in manhattan, the city of ny, ny county,ny state, etc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:24 AM Flag
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I heard that wearing black helps, especially tops. Whenever I'm around a lot of people I tend to wear black (not hard to do for me). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:27 AM Flag
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Don't deal with them. I don't interact with someone I get this feeling from. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:31 AM Flag
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I used to have a little mirror in my desk drawer. Would casually set it up to face the crazy negative energy person in the office [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:49 AM Flag
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Avoid depressives; they suck your soul. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 04:54 AM Flag
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Avoid dark negative people. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 04:59 AM Flag
[ - ] STM are you here? 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:57 AM Flag
[ - ] Dear women at DH's work: He's married. Don't openly flirt in front of his wife. (Also, my DH wears a sexy women's costume as a running joke every year and they all practically fall over him. Ugh.) 23 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:55 AM Flag
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Amen. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:01 AM Flag
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What kind of flirting? Is it tongue in cheek or is it aggressive? I like the first kind, it gives hubby a self esteem boost, i tease him, we joke. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:02 AM Flag
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It varies. They aren't shy, though. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:04 AM Flag
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Sorry - what is this about dressing like a woman "as a joke" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:09 AM Flag
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Running joke since college. It works because he has a good body, sort of a parody on sexy costumes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:24 AM Flag
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He brought his college frat party joke into the workplace? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:26 AM Flag
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It isn't an official workplace thing, but it is his company and 90% of our college friends work for him, so... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:29 AM Flag
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And you're shocked at the quality of women he hires to work in the glorified frat house? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:32 AM Flag
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None of us were ever in a fraternity. And they are all perfectly intelligent women, they just don't understand that if you are going to flirt with a married man you don't do it blatantly in front of his wife. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:35 AM Flag
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So no one that works for him respects you. Hmmm...wonder why? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:36 AM Flag
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Dear DW, I flirt with them when you're not around because they're not insecure frigid bitches. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:11 AM Flag
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But you are a loser because you have to go home to your insecure frigid bitchy wife. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:18 AM Flag
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Oh no, honey. Tonight he's "working late". And tomorrow he's "having dinner with a client". [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:20 AM Flag
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Yes, and still he needs to return back to the frigid cold bitchy wife. Total loser not to have the life he really wants and be stuck with someone he hates. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:35 AM Flag
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Please, like you would enjoy men openly flirting with your wife. Can't have it both ways. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:21 AM Flag
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Women have done this with my DH. Maybe not flirting but overstepping their boundaries for sure. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:15 AM Flag
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Dear SAHM-for-life: In the grown-up world adults of different genders talk, especially when the work together. And no one thinks your DH-in-drag is hot. We have to be nice to him because he's the boss, but we laugh at him in the ladies' room. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:16 AM Flag
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I stayed home for six months and then went back to work, not my thing. I don't mind him having female friends, there are girls we have known forever but they don't cross that line with him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:22 AM Flag
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huh weird to deal with that. i would never flirt with another dh [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:19 AM Flag
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+1 when I know a guy's married, he's not flirt worthy. He's asexual in a way. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:29 AM Flag
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For most people it's so natural/spontaneous they dont realize they are doing it. Only a couple of nights ago i witnessed my female boss openly flirt with her boss while we were all out for drinks. It was clear that she was no consciously doing it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:40 AM Flag
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Ummmmmmm.., What?! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 04:04 AM Flag
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If you're secure it isn't abig deal. Be proud women want him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:55 AM Flag
[ - ] Is there anywhere on the UES that sells Wilton Candy Melts? I know that Michael's carries them, but I'd rather not go all that way. I'm sure that I've spotted them elsewhere, I just can't remember where exactly. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:52 AM Flag
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state news might have them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:54 AM Flag
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Np. Yes they do. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:11 AM Flag
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OP: Excellent! Third Avenue or 86 Street or both? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:15 AM Flag
[ - ] My sister didn't show up for my college graduation (she lived in the same city) - not at school and not the party I had at home either. How bad is this? 19 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:51 AM Flag
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We need more info. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:53 AM Flag
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Like what? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:53 AM Flag
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Like, her side of the story. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:55 AM Flag
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She hates you, for sure. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:59 AM Flag
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OP. I think this is actually pretty bad and she doesn't hide her hatred for me. She wants to maintain a relationship with my children (my college graduation was years ago but I just wanted to your opinion anyway). She has done pretty bad things in the past and I don't really care to maintain a relationship with her, not even for the children's sake. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:01 AM Flag
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what made you think about it today? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:08 AM Flag
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I am not in touch with her but she left a vm for my DD's birthday yesterday. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:12 AM Flag
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It might be best to pretend she does not exist. No relationships with the kids, she isn't their parent. Is there a compelling reason to let the kids associate with the loser anyway? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:14 AM Flag
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My sister always gives them gifts and acts like she is their best friend when I am in our old hometown. She has made it clear she will never visit (fine by me) but even when we all still lived in the same city she refused to come with me to pick up dd from preschool. This is after she professed to love her so much. My mom wants us to get along. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:18 AM Flag
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Older? Younger? Did you go to hers? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:55 AM Flag
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Older - dropped out of college. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:56 AM Flag
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I'm an only child, but my DH has a brother in MA and parents in two other east coast states. We went to college together. Only his dad showed up at our college graduation and no one from his side came to our wedding (low-key city hall wedding w/party). Personally, I think it's pretty bad. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:56 AM Flag
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Why didn't anyone show up? What happened in the family? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:59 AM Flag
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Nothing happened, that's the crazy part. They're all just totally self involved. My DH was the good kid who was always "just fine on his own". His brother was the one who sucked all the oxygen in the room. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:02 AM Flag
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^If she's anything like my BIL, your sister is the family screw-up who likes to suck up all the attention. She resents you for finishing college when she didn't, but will always find a way to take center stage and make it about her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:01 AM Flag
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I didn't realize that there were more of her type - I thought she was unique in that regard. She does hate me, is very jealous of my degrees and my family and always acts like her misfortune is either my or my parents fault. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:03 AM Flag
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Yeah, BIL is getting more and more like that as he gets older. In his youth he was flamboyant and "interesting". Now that he's older and no one cares for his games, he's blaming his parents for all sorts of things. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:06 AM Flag
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There are lots, trust me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:07 AM Flag
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College graduation is a punishment for your family, cannot blame her for not sititng through something excruciatingly boring. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:55 AM Flag
[ - ] Trying the evening crowd - give me recommendations for a good eye cream. thx 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:42 AM Flag
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They're all useless [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 05:10 AM Flag
[ - ] What do you think of Bushwick? Yay or nay? 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:26 AM Flag
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Some parts are nicer than others. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:28 AM Flag
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I think development there will be a nightmare. It will go from underdeveloped to overdeveloped and cheesy in the span of two or three years. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:29 AM Flag
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This. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:30 AM Flag
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The same way as Williamsburg. So glad I never thought much of Wburg to head in that direction. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:06 AM Flag
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Blech. I don't get it at all. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:29 AM Flag
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Me neither. Though I don't get many Brooklyn neighborhoods. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:32 AM Flag
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I totally get Park Slope, Cobble Hill and Carroll Gardens. Also Ditmas Park and parts of Kensington. But Bushwick is just nasty and I'll go so far as to say a lot of Williamsburg is, too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:35 AM Flag
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Williamsburg is actually what I was thinking of! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:41 AM Flag
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Ha. It's Paris compared to Bushwick but it still sucks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:42 AM Flag
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Best line in "Fortress of Solitude": goodbye, Gowanus! Hello Boerum Hill! Same crappy hood. New real estate name. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:10 AM Flag
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Naw son... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:31 AM Flag
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Transportation blows. Took my babysitter well over an hour to get to Park Slope. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:33 AM Flag
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What subways go there? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:41 AM Flag
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The problem is the lack of infrastructure - schools are bad, no real subways other than the JMZ and the S shuttle. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:51 AM Flag
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I hate it there. Danger at night in some places. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:13 AM Flag
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The hasids are buying the place up and these kind are the cheap dirty ones. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:22 AM Flag
[ - ] MODERATOR: BLOCK THE PSYCHO TWEEN! 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:25 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:28 AM Flag
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+everyone who is about to give up on UB bc this nonsense goes on EVERY SINGLE NIGHT [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:00 AM Flag
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He's probably in his 50s... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:15 AM Flag
[ - ] I am one of the O.R.'s last night who advocated for the Affair Mom's abortion. I talked about a rumor that I was the product of an affair, and how my father denies it to this day. 18 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:18 AM Flag
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OP: My half-sister informed me of the circumstances of my birth publicly, during the weekend of her graduation from grad school. I no longer speak to her. I don't let her family see my children. She won't apologize, and I am afraid she will reveal this story to my children one day. Does anyone have anything to say in defense of my half-sister? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:19 AM Flag
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Maybe she is Mentally ill? Sounds pretty nasty to me, though [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:24 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:00 AM Flag
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that's a terrible way to reveal a secret like that. I'm sorry to hear it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:24 AM Flag
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OP: She, her aunt, and her grandmother told me just after the ceremony, and before the dinner. So, I had to sit there, staring at my plate, unable to speak. Her aunt called my mom a whore to my face. Uber-classy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:26 AM Flag
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NP: What awful people, so sorry this happened. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:37 AM Flag
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Thanks. They were dying to tell me. Like years of anger had built up and they finally had me face-to-face, so they could tell me. I was about 23 years old, so old enough to control myself until I could get the heck out of there. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:42 AM Flag
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It's almost too bad you didn't throw your plate in somebody's face and leave. Seriously, how evil to do that to you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:44 AM Flag
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She blamed me for most of her problems. In her eyes, it wasn't fair. My life was turning out better than hers, and she wanted revenge. She needed to hurt me. She did. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:45 AM Flag
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True story, my sister is actually the product of an affair too. She did not even know her dad was her dad until around age 8. She thought he was a family friend [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:29 AM Flag
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OP: Who told her, and how? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:40 AM Flag
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My mom told her, and eventually her dad did too. When she was 16/17, she found her half sister (same dad) and told her too. That's how and when his wife found out [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:47 AM Flag
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OP: If her dad was in her life, and a good dad from the beginning, then it makes sense to tell her. But if he was an absent father, then age 8 is too young to put this in a child's lap. You say she "found" her half sister. So she wasn't communicating with her other brothers/sisters throughout her childhood? It sounds like she was looking for her family, and looking for answers. Age 8 is too young to have this burden. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:59 AM Flag
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Your half sister and her family acted poorly by setting you up like that, but your dad and mom are the real villains of the piece. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:46 AM Flag
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Correct. He says he was separated from his wife at the time I was conceived, and that is was a purposeful action. My mother should have waited for him to divorce her, but she did not. She says she loved him, and needed to have another child. She was 29. It was selfish. He eventually did divorce his wife (hence the blame my half-sister puts on me). After my birth, my mother had her tubes tied. I was her 2nd and last child. She's in her 60's now. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:50 AM Flag
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Also I wouldn't worry about your kids. Rumors about your grandparents sexual escapades dating back 40 years just don't have much bite. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:47 AM Flag
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OP: Agree, and I hope you are right. When it does come out, they will be old enough to deal with it, and dismiss it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:54 AM Flag
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There's nothing to dismiss. Your mother was a homewrecker. That's the truth. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 05:45 AM Flag
[ - ] Found this bookmarked on dh computer. What would you do? http://newyork.craigslist.org/mnh/cas/4718645317.html 23 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:14 AM Flag
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General Topics 10.23.14, 02:14 AM Flag
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Omg LOL. That's probably the best sugar baby gig ever [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:19 AM Flag
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If I was a straight dude, I dunno if I'd want some old dude slobbing my knob. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:36 AM Flag
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I'm in my mid-20s. 1) late 30s is not old!! And 2) 20-something dudes will let just about anyone or anything "slob on their knobs"... Really not the most discerning demographic. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:41 AM Flag
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You have a point. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:45 AM Flag
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Well, is your DH a "Laid back rich guy here, late 30's, decent and normal looking guy (with family and kids)"?? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:28 AM Flag
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He is almost 40, and we have money, but he would never post something like this. Could it have been bookmarked on accident? Or a virus? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:35 AM Flag
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Oh, please. Why oh why are there so many fake posts these days? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:36 AM Flag
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You think I faked this? I don't even know how to use Craigslist. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:40 AM Flag
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well, this post was "updated 2 hours ago." has your dh been on the computer in that timeframe? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:56 AM Flag
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To be fair, OP had to write that post before writing this one.. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:06 AM Flag
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why ask rhetorical questions? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:07 AM Flag
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I guess? I don't think so? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:19 AM Flag
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Maybe he just realizes that this is HILARIOUS [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:04 AM Flag
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Or maybe they're doing it to out someone- who asks for a face pic but not a dick pic in these situations? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:09 AM Flag
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Or maybe they're doing it to out someone- who asks for a face pic but not a dick pic in these situations? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:09 AM Flag
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Maybe, I hope so. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:19 AM Flag
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Why is no one discussing the xray photo? Is rich dude (or your husband) a radiologist? wtf lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:52 AM Flag
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lol +1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:53 AM Flag
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Lolol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:04 AM Flag
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It's inverted. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:19 AM Flag
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Lmao [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:20 AM Flag
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This will be so taken down within hours once he gets responses alerting him to being outed via UB. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:06 AM Flag
[ - ] We're scheduled for a parent interview at Montessori Gold. This is probably our first choice school. What are our chances of getting in? 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
Preschool/Kids 10.23.14, 02:14 AM Flag
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Is it really that competitive? I remember touring it 3 years ago and not being very impressed. Looked like a souped up day care to me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:22 AM Flag
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>>BTW, I VERY pro-Montessori and we ended up at another Montessori school that wasn't as new and shiny as the Gold Street one, but had loads and loads of materials. DC went for 2 years and got a great preschool education. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:24 AM Flag
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OP: I didn't see your reply when I first replied. What school did your DC land at? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:30 AM Flag
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The Family School. There are two- east and west. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:34 AM Flag
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OP: Who knows? Isn't the whole preschool process in Manhattan hard to crack / overly competitive to begin with, with just a few exceptions? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:25 AM Flag
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OR: Honestly, I really loved our school but I don't think DC needed the amount of education he got that early. I didn't realize it at the time but they learn all of that stuff anyway in K and 1st and it truly doesn't matter what preschool they go to. Rinky dink is just fine. I'm planning to apply to all UPK programs for younger dc and save my money. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:32 AM Flag
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OP: Respect your decision, although we might go a different way if we get in. BUT my question remains: How hard is it to get in? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:36 AM Flag
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OR: I would like to know too. Because I kind of think that unless it's an on-going TT, none of them are that difficult to get into. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:40 AM Flag
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We applied for my son, now 8. Hated it. Did a good job of seeming interested during interview, he got in. We passed on spot. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:52 AM Flag
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^^They never met the kid, just us. Found this process beyond odd. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:53 AM Flag
[ - ] Moderator - can you disable the cut and paste function on the site? It may help deter the whackos. Thx 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:12 AM Flag
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Or just block the IP address. Clearly blocking the username isnt helping. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:13 AM Flag
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np: i agree with you both. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:12 AM Flag
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If c&p is disabled, we won't be able to share links, which is really a big chunk of posts. Yes, on here too much. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:14 AM Flag
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We could just direct those people to Google. We don't have to post links. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 02:20 AM Flag
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General Topics 10.23.14, 02:25 AM Flag
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Np - I would vote for being able to link. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:08 AM Flag
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Just publish the IP address. That's enough to dox him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:25 AM Flag
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General Topics 10.23.14, 02:14 AM Flag
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Or maybe block him? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:05 AM Flag
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I wonder why he posts in all CAPS. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:11 AM Flag
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Fine with me that as long as he is here that he keeps up the all caps. Makes it easy to scroll past. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 03:21 AM Flag
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