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[ - ] So I just read the MP about the DH who flipped out because she moved the couch. And I was nodding and agreeing with everyone who said he was crazy until I imagined coming home and seeing the furniture in a different place bc my DH moved it. This would literally put me over the edge. I have a good marriage, have been with DH for 20 years...we've rearranged the furniture (together) many times. But I really would not be ok with that. Thoughts? 15 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:09 AM Flag
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But would you storm out of the house, refuse to talk to DH, spend the night at someone else's house, and control the thermostat on your phone so that DH remains sweltering in your apartment? I think the issue was more his over the top reaction, than the fact that he was upset the couch had been moved. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:16 AM Flag
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Hmm... I might have an ott reaction IF he got defensive and acted like it was nbd. It is possible. Were only getting one side of f the story. What if she's just in her own little world doing this kind of destabilizing stuff regularly? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:18 AM Flag
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Moving a couch two feet is "destabilizing"? It's annoying, sure, but even if she does move furniture regularly, a normal, emotionally stable adult doesn't act like her DH. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:25 AM Flag
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Yeah, moving furniture is destabilizing. I'm sitting in my couch right now in my (decently sized) NYC apartment, and there's no way you could move it 2 feet in any direction without it being weird [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:28 AM Flag
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*on my couch [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:28 AM Flag
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Ok, then I hope your DH doesn't move your furniture around. We have a different view of destabilizing, and a different view of the appropriateness of the MP's DH's behavior. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:36 AM Flag
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I'm sure most women here would flip if their DHs moved stuff around when they weren't around. My DH is actually a designer so he is better at it than most (and I'm not "in charge" of the home decor). Prob why he would know never to do this without consulting me first [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:39 AM Flag
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Really? So uptight. Neither of us would care if furniture was moved. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:47 AM Flag
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+1. I'd say, "I don't like it here. Can we move it back?" And he'd tell me why he moved it and we'd work it out. Neither of us would throw a tantrum. np [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 02:52 AM Flag
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psycho [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:51 AM Flag
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Not being ok is one thing, turning AC off, packing a bag and leaving that’s a whole other level of emotional Immaturity. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 02:12 AM Flag
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This. But I would be pissed too and move it all back. DH drives me nuts with hanging and rehanging pictures when I’m not here; we have argued about it more than once. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 02:32 AM Flag
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I move furniture around all the time. If DH asked me to move it back, I would. I truly don’t under why people can’t deal with this rationally. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 02:36 AM Flag
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well he should thank his stars he has a roof over his head and furniture at all. Hate first world problem people. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 02:42 AM Flag
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That DH also threw the artificial Xmas tree into the closet because the OP dared to put out a Xmas tree without his permission. I remember that post from last year and it was disturbing behavior then. It has just gone from one controlling incident to the next. The amazing thing is that she stuck around after the Xmas tree incident. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 02:55 AM Flag
[ - ] If a company removed a job posting from LinkedIn etc, does that mean that someone accepted an offer? I have been interviewing with a company and was supposed to have a follow up interview this week but haven’t heard from them. I was among the last 2-3 candidates. What do you think? I have seen so many crazy things during my search that I am not even sure they would let me know if they hired someone else. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:54 AM Flag
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It could mean so many things -- don't even try to analyze because you'll think crazy thoughts. Job on hold, posting auto expired and they didn't repost, they have enough candidates . . . [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:33 AM Flag
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this [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:44 AM Flag
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It’s been open for 2 months, but now it’s gone. They had narrowed it down to 2-3 people. You’re right, i shouldn’t over analyze but it’s hard when there’s so much uncertainty. In this case, HR isn’t even informed about all the steps in the process. The last person I talked to said there will be another interview and a skills test, and when I sent a thank you email to the HR person, she said they would contact me once they make a decision. So what is it? They’re deciding now or there will be another round? Weird... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 02:01 AM Flag
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They could just be done taking new applicants. My company only keeps jobs up for 2 weeks -- which I think is odd. That's when we start looking at candidates. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 02:08 AM Flag
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At my company most of the postings have already been filled by the time they put the post up. We also take forever to make an offer. Hang in there. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 02:27 AM Flag
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I’m mostly concerned though that they didn’t schedule the next interview this week, as they said they would. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 02:39 AM Flag
[ - ] Best online dating site for divorced 51 year old? 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:39 AM Flag
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I don't know the answer to that, but I have several friends who married/remarried at 50+ and honestly, every single one of them met their spouse through friends or coworkers. Are you out there socially meeting people? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:40 AM Flag
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Join more than one. Try out a bunch and see which ones you like. Some gives one match per day and some give the ability to search with criteria you want and some you have to swipe. Lots of options. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:41 AM Flag
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Chappy or Tinder [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:13 AM Flag
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I went on Match at 52 when I was separated. Met some people; dated; dated one man for a year; decided to end it; went back on Match; Met my husband. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:41 AM Flag
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website to find a cat to adopt [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:51 AM Flag
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Why do you want to date? I’m your age, and if DH disappeared I would miss him, but I would relish the solitude so much. No way would I go back to dating. Baffled. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 02:24 AM Flag
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+1000. i have my kids. why date again. ugh. waxing and all that ... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 02:30 AM Flag
[ - ] A little wisdom for the clueless poster re: Happy Ending Massage. The women are exploited and trafficked. If your DH does this and you approve you are a part of the system of exploitation. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:39 AM Flag
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Link? And ita with op [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:39 AM Flag
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Of course! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:54 AM Flag
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Yip [ Reply | More ]
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^YUP, rather [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:09 AM Flag
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Better yet, let DH sleep with OW. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:15 AM Flag
[ - ] My apartment is 100% haunted. Never believed in the paranormal until I moved in. Anyone else?? 19 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:35 AM Flag
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My friend's house was. You can get someone one to come get the spirits to leave. Good luck. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:38 AM Flag
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I’ve lived here for 2 years and I’m moving in April. Wish I had done something about it earlier but at first i thought i was crazy and then I tried my best to ignore it.... The poor unsuspecting tenants who move in next !! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:41 AM Flag
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Tell me more. We own a house built in 1810 but I've never seen or heard anything, and it's been 2+ years since we moved in. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:42 AM Flag
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you would know [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:44 AM Flag
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Why not tell us what you've seen/heard? I'm glad if what you're saying must mean we're not haunted. I wouldn't deal w that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:49 AM Flag
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My friend would have the sound of someone tapping their nails and running their nails along the wall above her bed at night, and the sound of people flipping through papers in the kitchen when there were no pieces of paper in the kitchen. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:50 AM Flag
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Are you the poster from above? Did she get an exorcism? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:53 AM Flag
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Op: from the first night we moved in, dd, then 2yo and a perfect sleeper, would wake up screaming in terror in the middle of the night and refused (still refuses) to play in her room even during the day. By the time she was 3 she said an old scary man lives in her closet. Even I would get a chill when I’d step into her adorable, girly, pink room. In the elevator one day, I was telling a neighbor how neither dd nor I had slept in over a year due to her creepy room, and she told me that the previous tenant was an elderly man who was dead in the apartment for 2 weeks before his body was found. It was my daughter’s room. I still want to throw up when i think about it. I’m not particularly spiritual but I’ve prayed for his soul ever since. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:13 AM Flag
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Yikes!!! I'd get an exorcism, stat! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:37 AM Flag
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My friend's apartment in Brooklyn was. Her toddler son saw faces on the wall and the cat would sometimes go beserk and launch itself in the same spot. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:47 AM Flag
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Probably a mouse in the wall. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 02:43 AM Flag
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NP: We have a friendly - I think - spirit who seems to inhabit the western half of our house. My ds, the nanny have described seeing a man, an old ish man and our dog who’s normally so calm will bark at the den and refuse to go in. Several times I’ve awakened to see a shadow in the corner that dissipates. Eye glasses, earrings sometimes go missing and then reappear. It seems to happen more I the summer. Let me say I grew up in a house built in 1912 and never felt anything unusual. Honestly I’m not scared when this happens but I don’t like it and I’m not sure I’d stay there alone. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:52 AM Flag
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I used to stay with DH when he lived in Tribeca and I swear there was an angry male presence. He would only come out if DH wasn't there and he would bring a crazy negative energy with him. Once, DH had left early and I was still asleep. I woke to him sitting in his desk chair by the bed and was confused because DH had left. I looked closer and realized the hair was too dark a brown and he was wearing a blue hoodie. In a flash, whoever he was disappeared. I always felt like he had committed suicide (although not in the apartment) or died suddenly. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:54 AM Flag
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You know what's weird. My dad always told a story of sitting up late at night and suddenly looking up and man was sitting across from him in the chair. He was so scared he looked down and again the guy was still there. Finally the guy just vaporized. It scared me when he told this story, but who knows? Dad said he was telling the truth, (Chelsea apt). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 02:44 AM Flag
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IWP: I wish. I'm sooooo lonely. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:58 AM Flag
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Np- This is so timely as I've been discussing my experience with several people today. Since we moved into our home 3 years ago everyone has felt uncomfortable in DD's (5) bedroom. When I'm in there alone I feel an oppressive heaviness that causes me to want to leave. DD sleeps with DH and I, and I never get any sleep between her moving all night and DH snoring. However, I will not sleep in her cozy princess bed for anything. DH and I were discussing it the other day and he stated he feels it too. Mentioned to a friend who told me to take a recorder in the room and ask some questions. I did that yesterday morning before anyone else was awake. After each question there was complete silence, except for the question "what is your name". About 15 seconds after I ask that question you can clearly hear a weak voice respond "Martha", my grandmother's name. DH heard it as well. If it hadn't happened to me I never would have believed it. I didn't expect, as a normally rational and skeptical person, to be confronted with this. I feel so scared and helpless, don't know what to do with this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 02:16 AM Flag
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Burn sage. That's one thing. And you can talk to her and tell her it's time to go. She may feel lost. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 02:45 AM Flag
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Thank you for the advice. DF told me to be careful burning sage because if not done correctly it can make the issue worse. I'm holding that as a last resort. I wish there was a service I could just call, but people with experience with this tend to keep it quiet I suppose [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 03:25 AM Flag
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Also, if it my grandmother's spirit or whatever it is is somehow hanging out in my DD's room I finds it very depressing. She was my paternal GM, and my Dad died when he was 25. My grandma raised me after he died and all she wanted was to be reunited with her son someday in heaven. She believed that and derived comfort from that belief. I'm sad for her, and I know all of this sounds crazy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 03:30 AM Flag
[ - ] Brooklyn Heights Promenade to be closed for at least years. BQE will probably be routed on it while they repair the triple cantilevered structure below. Wow, all those multimillion dollar Columbia Heights residences next to a highway. http://gothamist.com/2018/09/20/bqe_repair_project_brooklyn.php 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
New York City 09.21.18, 12:34 AM Flag
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Well that sucks. I live right off the Atlantic Ave exit of the BQE. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:48 AM Flag
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Maybe I’m too cynical, but I would bet money that if they “temporarily”build a six-lane highway on the promenade site during repairs they will NEVER return it. In six years (really nine) when the work is done they’ll say increased traffic means they need both roads for cars. It is infuriating how much space in the city is given over to moving automobiles as fast as possible, and to hell with street life and pedestrians and bicyclists. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 02:41 AM Flag
[ - ] Does anyone know if 9th graders and 6th graders receive myschools invitation letters ? We did not get one this week . 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:33 AM Flag
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Hmmm, 9th grade parent here and you're right...we didn't get one. Not on my radar bc dc is not looking to transfer but yes, I suppose we should receive information about signing up for SHSAT [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:11 AM Flag
[ - ] Anyone have a kid on Metropolitan Opera Children’s Chorus? Mine starts next week and wondering what to expect. She audioned on a lark and got in.... 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:26 AM Flag
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Congrats ! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:32 AM Flag
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Sounds like fun - congratulations! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:51 AM Flag
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My friend did that in the 70s. Best experience of his life. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:06 AM Flag
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I sang with the children's chorus of a major symphony. It's a lot of fun, particularly if you are serious about music, as I am. I got to sing with big names on big stages, we filmed a show for TV, holiday concerts. The exposure to world class musicians and musical standards is very much worth it. [ Reply | More ]
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OP- we are super psyched and she has a lovely voice, but is so shy and sometimes spacey. I don’t want her to feel any pressure to be a star. I’m not trying to push her too far out of her comfort zone, just a tad bit. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:36 AM Flag
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My DD's friend did it. She won't be a star. They move all together in most operas. She loved it and made a lot of friends. She's at Laguardia now [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 02:34 AM Flag
[ - ] Smug, sanctimonious FB friend just posted a graphic on FB that says "I BELIEVE Dr. Christine Blasey Ford". I feel like I'm betraying the sisterhood by thinking, "Why? Do you know her? Do you know him? Is there some information you have that you'd like to share with congress or the FBI?" I mean, come on! Wouldn't you want there to be an INVESTIGATION if the tables were turned and a man accused a woman of something? Yes, you would. Support and investigation, don't blindly support someone you never heard of a week ago. Rant over. 39 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:26 AM Flag
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I believe her too. All I see from him is lying and dodging, dodging and lying. I wish he had to be in fear for his life and hiding out. He is SCUM. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:30 AM Flag
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1+ [ Reply | More ]
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+2 [ Reply | More ]
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+3 [ Reply | More ]
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I think you have to be a sister first? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:36 AM Flag
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NP: I <3 this [ Reply | More ]
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+100000 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:42 AM Flag
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I totally believe her. I grew up in Dc and went to the schools and country clubs discussed her. I would bet anything that it happened and that he truly doesn’t remember. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:43 AM Flag
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Discussed here. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:43 AM Flag
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I don't think it's not that he doesn't remember -- it's worse -- he thinks what he did isn't bad. That's why he's denying it. As if it was his right as a horny, douchey privileged white college boy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:29 AM Flag
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No, I think he absolutely thought like that at the time. As a result, he was blacked out drunk, acting like an a**, and just doesn’t remember today. Today, I doubt he would do anything like that and he just thinks they were crazy kids, having fun. He never really grasped that he hurt anyone. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:59 AM Flag
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Totally believe her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:09 AM Flag
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I bet he doesn’t remember. To him, nothing. To her, trauma. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:18 AM Flag
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Sadly probably this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:37 AM Flag
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ITA [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:45 AM Flag
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I’m surprised more women haven’t come forward. A person doesn’t do shit like this just once. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:33 AM Flag
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yeah, that's what we saw with Harvey, Cosby, Eric Schneiderman, etc. this is one reason why I've been skeptical of Ford's allegation. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:36 AM Flag
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The scuttlebutt is that Christine will be eating humble pie pretty soon. Mark my words. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:36 AM Flag
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Ok. Why? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:40 AM Flag
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np: one conservative writer everyone thinks is a straight shooter made cryptic comments about a big reveal, and then attempted to frame another kid using zilllow and google maps. Insane. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 02:20 AM Flag
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Maybe it happened. Maybe it didn't happen. If she were so traumatized by it, why didn't she report it to the police or her parents the day after? I believe it is totally politically motivated. If someone sexually assaults you, you report it immediately. You don't sit on the info for 35 years. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:44 AM Flag
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How would you know? Did it ever happen to you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:57 AM Flag
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Yes and yes, I reported it immediately. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 02:03 AM Flag
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What happened then? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 03:27 AM Flag
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No, that’s actually the opposite of what we know about sexual assault. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 02:00 AM Flag
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Most women don’t report sexual assault. There is a feeling of shame associated with it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 02:03 AM Flag
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And she wasn’t even a woman - she was a 15 year old girl. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 02:30 AM Flag
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More reason to tell her mother. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 02:56 AM Flag
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lolz [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 03:28 AM Flag
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Well good for you. I've been through this and never spoke about it until I became an adult. It's traumatic and you sometimes feel alone and blame yourself that you were somehow bad. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 02:48 AM Flag
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retard alert [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 03:26 AM Flag
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Dumb cunt [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 03:27 AM Flag
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Lol, what kind of investigation can possibly happen 35 years later? You mean you want a circus? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 02:05 AM Flag
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She and you and I all want there to be an investigation. Our favorite Trumpean party doesn't want that. That said, it's not blind support - there are lots of little details that lead one to believe her. Kavanaugh's and Judge's history of extremely heavy drinking in high school; the 2012 details (well before this nomination); her demeanor and reputation for careful work and stable mental health; that she has everything to lose from coming forward and he has everything to lose from fessing up. Of course that doesn't amount to proof beyond a reasonable doubt but it's quite convincing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 02:12 AM Flag
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What kind of investigation can there be? This is very much a he said she said deal, and quite frankly she comes across much more credible than he does. [ Reply | More ]
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Also the fact that’s he’s pretty loose with the truth, and likely lied under oath about other things. He has a credibility problem and should be out on that basis alone. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 02:24 AM Flag
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This. wtf. You don't even need her. He's lied and lied and lied. Enough! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 02:48 AM Flag
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They could look for supporting or contradictory evidence about the various things Ford, Kavanaugh and Judge have said, to support or undermine credibility. For example, asking their peer groups about the summer parties that happened (he claimed he didn't go to those sorts of parties); ask them about black-out drinking; see whether there was related behavior or lack thereof elsewhere; interview others to pinpoint the party and its details; confirm that Ford's the stable, straight shooter she seems to be. I think it would probably validate her but that's the point, to give Kavanaugh a chance if we're wrong and to support her if we're right. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 02:36 AM Flag
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She wants them to investigate. Come on. You really don't think this happened with all the crap that's been published about his fraternity and things written that are crass and drinking parties. AND the fact she spoke about it years ago to her therapist and dh. Or is everyone lying? I suppose they can all take lie detector tests about it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 02:47 AM Flag
[ - ] Should I sell Alibaba stock tomorrow, or hold on to? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:24 AM Flag
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You should have bought more yesterday. Buy more on dips. [ Reply | More ]
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Market correction coming... [ Reply | More ]
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Oh, who knows. [ Reply | More ]
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Hold on for the long run. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 02:48 AM Flag
[ - ] My DCs are 5.5 and 2.5. Is there any reason I should not get rid of my UppaBaby Vista and just use the umbrella stroller? I love the Vista, but we could use the space in our apartment. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Get rid of it. You won't miss it. [ Reply | More ]
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Toss it. I loved my UBV but when younger DC was that age, it was all over. [ Reply | More ]
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Just so everyone knows, strollers can be donated to a great charity called Little Essentials. Drop off is in midtown, I believe. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] If you have gotten a nose job, at what age did you start to want to change your nose? 24 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:19 AM Flag
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I got one at 43, it had been about a decade or so of wanting to change it. [ Reply | More ]
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I am 40 and I want to do this. Unfortunately, I can’t afford. [ Reply | More ]
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Doctors will finance. It's about 10K, best investment ever. [ Reply | More ]
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I’m really tempted. [ Reply | More ]
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Go for it. In NYC area? [ Reply | More ]
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Yes do you have a doc rec for me? [ Reply | More ]
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Above NP is wrong. Will be between $5-6K and is outpatient. Back out in a few days, after bruising and swelling is reduced. Easy. [ Reply | More ]
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In nyc? No. [ Reply | More ]
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NP - Go for it, it's a bargain in the big picture. You'll be so happy but do your research. Get the best doc you can. [ Reply | More ]
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put on 0% credit card and pay off by end of term. [ Reply | More ]
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Ask parents for the money, it's their genes that gave you the nose you don't like. [ Reply | More ]
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Lol. The worst thing is that my mom and grandma had nose jobs. They would pay if they had the money, but alas.... [ Reply | More ]
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Wanted since 14. Got at 28. Should have just done it at 18! [ Reply | More ]
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Got one at 17.5. Wanted one since 7... kids were horrible. [ Reply | More ]
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12. I got it at 30. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:39 AM Flag
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Basically around 12 was when kids started being awful about it. Age 30 is when I finished medical residency. I got a nose job with the signing bonus of my first job. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:48 AM Flag
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Was the desire to do well academically a result of the bullying? In that case it worked out well for you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:59 AM Flag
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Weirdo [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:46 AM Flag
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Op? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 02:02 AM Flag
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Do you think your medical training had an impact on getting one or how you selected your surgeon. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:10 AM Flag
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I got one at 23. I started to want one around 16, but it's better to wait until it stops growing first. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:44 AM Flag
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The doctor told me if they do them at 18 then they can alter as you grow so it's better to wait until your nose is more set so age 23-25 is ideal. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:45 AM Flag
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I used to think I wanted one because I got made fun of growing up. But then as an adult I think I grew into my looks or maybe I just stopped caring. Now, a boob job, on the other hand.. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:04 AM Flag
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Who are the best doctors? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 02:13 AM Flag
[ - ] Remember that Amy Chua tiger mom person people would post about? Not a good day for her. https://abovethelaw.com/2018/09/details-on-the-allegations-against-and-yale-law-school-investigation-into-professor-jed-rubenfeld/ 26 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:14 AM Flag
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Her husband is under investigation for harassment, and she reportedly told students to look hot for Judge Kavanaugh. https://abovethelaw.com/2018/09/details-on-the-allegations-against-and-yale-law-school-investigation-into-professor-jed-rubenfeld/ [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:15 AM Flag
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np. Weird, you liked her a few years ago when you got to use her stuff for your race-baiter posts. Now you don't like her? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:07 AM Flag
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OP: I'm not whoever you're thinking of. I always knew she was a fraud. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:17 AM Flag
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lol you completely did not understand what I said. How up to date is your English? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:19 AM Flag
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OP: I wasn't even on UB a few years ago, so you're definitely thinking of someone else. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:21 AM Flag
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That's exactly the kind of thing YOU would say. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 03:01 AM Flag
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This is heinous but doesn't surprise me. Consistent with her general "no excuses, suck it up" mindset. This is exactly the kind of woman who thinks she's better than other women. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:30 AM Flag
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Yup. Glad this bitch got hers. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:32 AM Flag
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Which bitch got what? She's a professor at Yale Law School who has best-selling books and 2 daughters who went to Harvard. She's wealthy. Her husband is wealthy. She is American 1%. Who the fuck are you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:08 AM Flag
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You mean her husband with news story on how Yale is investigating him for harassment, and the news stories about her acting like a Madam and sexying up her students for their interview with Kavanaugh? I'm someone who doesn't have such disgraceful articles about me or my DH. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:17 AM Flag
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I can't really follow your broken English. Sorry. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:20 AM Flag
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I don't think they speak English. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:20 AM Flag
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Re-read it and try. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:24 AM Flag
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np If she was advising students how to get that clerkship, what’s wrong with telling them what kind of candidates he had hired previously? I once had an employment agent lady tell me to wear more conservative jewelry to an interview. Is that unethical? She was doing her job of advising them on how to get the best outcome. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 02:59 AM Flag
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What's wrong with telling them to dress like a model for Judge Kavanaugh? Never mind. This is beyond your ability to comprehend. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 03:03 AM Flag
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She was supposed to advise them on how to get the job. If the problem was that he had sole discretion to choose clerks by any criteria he liked, then address THAT. Or conduct interviews from behind a curtain, like orchestra auditions. But her not telling the candidates the truth about how to improve their chances would not have helped anyone. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 03:11 AM Flag
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Just read this. Probably started believing her own press releases. Good to remember that no-one has the world mastered and to trust your own instincts. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:31 AM Flag
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What press releases? She claimed to be a superior mother. She kind of was. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:09 AM Flag
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She told students to look hot for Kavanaugh. She told her daughter to interview with Kavanaugh. Draw your own conclusions. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:21 AM Flag
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She also told students applying for clerkships that kavanaugh preferred a certain look and there was a reason all of his clerks looked like models, but then she also wrote that he only had the highest standards in selecting clerks... guess she meant the highest standards for academics AND looks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:53 AM Flag
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This. She even insisted on reviewing her students' outfits to make sure they were sexy enough. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:18 AM Flag
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oh no that's oh noes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:21 AM Flag
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And in July she wrote a WSJ op-ed saying Kavanaugh was a friend to women. She's such a liar. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:23 AM Flag
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Asshole [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:59 AM Flag
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She’s insufferable. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:13 AM Flag
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Huh, interesting. I never liked her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:17 AM Flag
[ - ] How many slots are there for non-legacy, non-sibling kids this year at Collegiate or Trinity? Am wondering if there aren't that many, maybe I should first choice something else. 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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you don't need to worry about first choice right now. You will get feedback from PSD. Wait. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:52 AM Flag
[ - ] What is your go to healthy lunch? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:13 AM Flag
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Salad I bring from home [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:17 AM Flag
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This. Salad (greens, avocado, tomatoes, cucumber, peppers or whatever else is around) tiny bit of vinaigrette, protein (chicken etc.). Also like leftovers..turkey chill this week, sometimes zoodles with sauce and chicken. Hard to buy a healthy lunch honestly, except for salad and I make a better one. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:12 AM Flag
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My local grocery has an amazing kale salad that I could eat everyday. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:19 AM Flag
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I don't have one. I just eat what I want. I made ramen today [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:13 AM Flag
[ - ] DH has been going for happy ending type massages. what should I do? 18 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
New York City 09.21.18, 12:10 AM Flag
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have you offered to give him happy ending massages? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:11 AM Flag
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OP here. We haven't been intimate that much recently, maybe once every few weeks. maybe I should [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:14 AM Flag
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well there is the problem. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:46 AM Flag
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How do you know this? If he told you, maybe that's a sign he's not happy with you being available every few weeks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:47 AM Flag
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Ask masseuse to use hot sauce instead of lotion. Pay $100. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:12 AM Flag
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ILY [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:21 AM Flag
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Work on your troll game; this is a piss poor attempt. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:12 AM Flag
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Not op: But my DH says he has gone to some when traveling on business. And I don't care. Happily married, great sex life here. As long as it is on a massage place. and a HJ and nothing else. My dh is a germaphobe [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:20 AM Flag
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Ok other sad troll [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:21 AM Flag
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Oh, I am sorry, so you think no ones DH has ever been to a chinese massage place? Whatever [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:22 AM Flag
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They are usually Koreans own. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:06 AM Flag
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But yet he can get these? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:22 AM Flag
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It really is no biggie. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:19 AM Flag
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Really? Having some other woman jack your DH off is no biggie? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:22 AM Flag
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Yes really, I don't care. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:28 AM Flag
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+1. No risk of STD or pregnancy. Seems like a win/win for me. Less work that I have to do. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:46 AM Flag
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+1 here also. No STD and no more babies [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:58 AM Flag
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Whatever you want [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:58 AM Flag
[ - ] DH has been going for happy ending type massages. what should I do? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
New York City 09.21.18, 12:10 AM Flag
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Nothing. Who gives a shit about that? Consider it like having a cleaner, doing crap jobs... I mean really, do you want to do it? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:15 AM Flag
[ - ] How to game D15 MS rankings now? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:09 AM Flag
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There is no game. Just put them down in the order you like them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:13 AM Flag
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When I figure it out, I'll post (only if it suits me). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 01:28 AM Flag
[ - ] I was watching a couple of montages of Murphy Brown's craziest secretaries, and I had this feeling overwhelm me ... not only did I forget how much I loved Murphy's 90s clothes, I wore a lot of those kinds of clothes myself. In the early to mid 90s I was still working and I had such cute clothes. Really made me nostalgic. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:00 AM Flag
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I worked in an office setting then too (I'm old, you too?) had some like Murphy but also veered a bit towards Corky with the skirt suits. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:09 AM Flag
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^^I'm about age of Faith Ford...still work, but dress more casually now for the most part. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 12:10 AM Flag
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Same. Moved to NYC in 1988 at 22 years old. Loved my cute little suits! is Barami Studio still in business. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.21.18, 02:25 AM Flag
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