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[ - ] Sahm for five years. Emailed resume for a potential opportunity. Any advice if/when they call me? A bit nervous. 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:32 PM Flag
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Be honest that you wanted to stay home until your children were in school. Don't be sheepish about it, be proud. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:27 PM Flag
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Op: advice on how to get over insecurity that I "lost" it since I have been home for so long? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:28 PM Flag
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NP: Think of anything you did re staying in touch with people and aware of issues and trends or maintaining/developing relevant skills while you were home, and focus on those. If you can't think of anything, realize that lots of people who stay in a job they've done for a long time "lose it" as well, and that you are coming back refreshed, energized, motivated, and with new perspective. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:40 PM Flag
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np: can you lie and say you consulted? Started a successful in-home business? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:44 PM Flag
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Right, like no one will see through that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:54 PM Flag
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I disagree. To be a proud mom could come accross as proudly calling in absent when kid has the sniffles. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 10:34 PM Flag
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Get used to the fact that unless you have a personal contact within the company, you won't get responses from emailed resumes and online applications. If you want to go back to work, start networking directly. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:30 PM Flag
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Bingo [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:44 PM Flag
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+1. Try school network + peers from professional associations + two reliable recruiters [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:40 PM Flag
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Not OP but also a SAHM looking to return to work. I don't want to work in old field (law), have no good contacts, no professional associations and am pretty sure no recruiter will ever touch me. Feel like my only options are online ads, am I doomed? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 10:33 PM Flag
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This is so true ... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 10:12 PM Flag
[ - ] S/O of the nanny not liking OP's DS: After thinking about this post, I started wondering the impact of siblings touching each other with no reprimand. What is this teaching young DD's about their body? If the OP simply says "Well, he's out of control and I can't get him to stop touching her", is this sending a message to DD that people are allowed to touch her without her permission? With all the rapes and despicable actions going on in schools, how can we teach our daughter's to protect themselves, if we won't even stand up and make their brother stop touching her? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:26 PM Flag
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Wait, I thought she did reprimand him, just didn't want to spank him. Also, where are you getting that he is "touching her." Sounded to me like he was teasing her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:42 PM Flag
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np - the teasing was in the form of touching her hair, etc. Sometimes she was ok with it and sometimes she wasn't (which is her choice in my opinion). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:37 PM Flag
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np - the teasing was in the form of touching her hair, etc. Sometimes she was ok with it and sometimes she wasn't (which is her choice in my opinion). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:37 PM Flag
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is he touching her sexually? my two kids (b/g) both make contact in an attempt to hit/hurt. i tell them both must stop b/c they will start to cry/whine and i get a headache. when they are both 13 and can fend for themselves, they can go at it with reprieve. doesn't always work, though. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:37 PM Flag
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Absolutely. Her description made me cringe and also made me angry as I had younger siblings who were constantly bothering me. The mom needs to protect her DD. son sounded like a nightmare [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:56 PM Flag
[ - ] s/p high HHI post: some people commented that, while they have experienced upward social mobility, it took them a while to learn how to speak to rich people. So how do you speak to rich people? 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:25 PM Flag
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show them my PFS [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:26 PM Flag
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Like you would to anyone else. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:20 PM Flag
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OP: does this mean discussing expensive hobbies or vacations or having gone to TT school? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:28 PM Flag
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No. It means having conversation about ordinary things. The rich people I know are not braggarts. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:25 PM Flag
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With tightened lips and chin out [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:21 PM Flag
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Lower head, eyes downward, ask permission to speak [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:28 PM Flag
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Remove your cap, and tug your forelock if male. Curtsey if female. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:30 PM Flag
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I went from middle class to rich. You have to be discreet about your money, you can talk about going to the Hamptons, but don't mention that you have a 20 million dollar home there. Etc. People who brag about their money usually don't have it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:24 PM Flag
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this could be b/c i am aspie. i am from lmc and went to uc. but before i was uc b/c dh, i was umc on my own. i went on a date couple of times with some very white shoe sort of guy. i met a friend of his who was working at some company that had filed for bankruptcy. i knew about it b/c we had position in their debt at my job. the company was going to turn around (ie not dissolve) and i casually mentioned, "oh, you guys just filed for bankruptcy." and my date was mortified that i brought up "money" that way. i thought that was weird. but there's also a cultural aspect to being umc. when my family went to visit someone, we never brought gift with us and we never expected any when we hosted. we would have these very nice meals "because guests were coming" and it never occurred to us to be offended if nothing was given in return. it's the little things and nuances. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:44 PM Flag
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Or you just don't talk about it at all if you have any class. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:44 PM Flag
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Just be comfortable with yourself and don't make a big deal about it or think they have no problems because they are rich. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:49 PM Flag
[ - ] 3.5 yo Bugaboo stroller is out of alignment so it's virtually impossible to push one handed. How and where do I get this fixed. Thinking of using it for my next baby but if repairing is costly I may just buy a new stroller. 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:21 PM Flag
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It's not like it cost you very much, right? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:19 PM Flag
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Yeah they cost a fortune, which is why I'm not interested in sinking anymore money into it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:21 PM Flag
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You'd probably sink more money buying a new one. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:50 PM Flag
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I like my somewhat busted Maclaren so maybe not. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:51 PM Flag
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I just buy a new stroller, but if you really want to fix it call Babys R Us and ask if they recommend anyone? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:29 PM Flag
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Do I just give away the busted bugaboo? I have found it surprisingly difficult to give things away in this town and I can't fathom putting it in the garbage. I just had a lady demand a viewing of a free toddler bed that was hardly used. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:33 PM Flag
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call Bugaboo, they have excellent customer service [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:48 PM Flag
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+1. We called them for some problem with the bassinet, and they sent out a whole new one! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 10:05 PM Flag
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You could strip it down into component parts and eBay if you want to recoup some cash. So the seat unit. Carrycot fabrics, seat fabric, wheels etc. Bugaboo parts go for good money. Bugaboo customer service is good. Another option if the cassis is beyond repair would be to buy a replacement and reuse your wheels, seat, carrycot. I [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:58 PM Flag
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Chassis. ^^ [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:58 PM Flag
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Call Stroller Spa to get an estimate of how much it would cost to repair. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:47 PM Flag
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We have a city select and there's a lifetime warranty on the frame. They sent me a whole new frame and wheel when I had an issue. Try going direct to the manufacturer or through the store where you got it. A $900 stroller should make it through all your kids - even if your last name is Duggar. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:54 PM Flag
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You need to buy a new frame, you can try CL or buy a used bugaboo stroller with good frame and swap it. Either way it will cost you money, because you are beyond warranty. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:51 PM Flag
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Albee baby does stroller repair on UWS. Maybe Planet Kids. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 10:21 PM Flag
[ - ] C-Section Moms -- Did you use an arms reach co-sleeper? I'm thinking of getting one for 2nd baby but I'm still thinking I'll have to sit up and move around in order to change diapers, right? Does this really make anything easier? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:20 PM Flag
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Ouch, can you get help for a week after the c-section? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:25 PM Flag
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I can afford the help just not sure if I want it or what they'll do. I really want to make breastfeeding work this time around (last time I exclusively pumped for a few months). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:32 PM Flag
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I also exclusively pumped with first for 6 mo. With 2nd, had night nanny, but bf during day followed by pumping each time. Was able to sleep at night and nanny gave baby breast milk in bottle...my supply was fine for 6 mo, then chose to wean [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:42 PM Flag
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did your second just take to the breast better or did you get help with it? I just don't know why it didn't work the first time around but if I can get this one on the breast then your arrangement sounds excellent. At how many weeks were you able to generate enough milk for this? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:50 PM Flag
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Yes, second was and is big eater! Also, I demanded lactation consultant come in to hospital room on day of delivery to assure I had right latch. Honestly, I think second babies also tend to be easier as moms are more relaxed. Because second was better latcher,, he emptied breasts better and my supply was great from get go. Had night nurse start was soon as we got back from hospital at 5/6 days old. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 10:15 PM Flag
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How were you able to build supply without night time pumping. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 10:02 PM Flag
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I pumped for 20min after baby fed each time, before bed, and first thing in am. I had good supply with first too, so maybe just me... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 10:15 PM Flag
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I did not, and was ok on the painkillers. used the bassinet at the hospital and my dh stayed with me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 10:27 PM Flag
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I liked the co-sleeper a lot. Useful. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 10:29 PM Flag
[ - ] What was the lowest score 166 took this year? Not just for K, but for all incoming. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
NY Schools 06.19.13, 09:19 PM Flag
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97 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:42 PM Flag
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98 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:41 PM Flag
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you got in with a 97 for K? BS! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:46 PM Flag
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what if sibling? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 10:03 PM Flag
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what if sibling? [ Reply | More ]
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92 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 10:15 PM Flag
[ - ] NYC couple seeks loving nanny for their 2 children - Manhattan personal attributes: trustworthy, warm, takes initiative, intelligent, takes direction well. genuinely enjoys her occupation and brings a warmth to the workplace. willing & teachable, emotionally healthy. discreet - understands that We are private people. Must not discuss our family in outside world. Absolutely no postings on Facebook or other social networking sites. I.e.: "traveling with family to xyz this weekend." can complement our parenting style and also understands the parent-child relationship and does not interfere with that bond. reliable, prompt communicates well drives swims energetic (but not manic) understands the importance of reinforcing parents' behavioral standards and follows through. I.e. Manners, grammar, etiquette, treating others with respect, handling temper tantrums, reinforcing ec to wear glasses, removing shoes & washing hands when coming inside from play (before touching baby) etc. takes initiative: sees something that needs attention in the home and does it. Or asks JC if she would like assistance and takes care of it. Willing to work together with JC, ch, lc and housekeeper to maintain a steady flow within the household (S) . attention to detail: wipes off the finger prints on kids mirrors or empties the lint catcher in dryer without having it pointed out to her, replenishes paper towel, toilet paper, fills dog bowl with water. pet friendly - We have one 55 lb black lab. Parameters 3-5 year commitment live-out. Able to work some weekends in City & Hamptons early start time 3-4 mornings per week: 7:30am: assist with morning routine: breakfast, dropping E at School, Summer camp etc. Pick-up from School, camp. evenings 'til 6:30pm - assist with dinner, bath & transition to bedtime sets up play dates and encourages social activities for toddler and eventually baby. models appropriate grammar for children: doesn't say "what?", "yeah" or "huh"? no gum. recognizes teachable moments and implements them into the day. travel: Hamptons, Canada: 10 days - 3 weeks), Florida (1 week between xmas & New years) and family vacations (ski, Beach etc) can assist with packing & unpacking children's bags for trips. light housework: kids laundry & rooms, empty dishwasher & tidy kitchen, keep basement playroom tidy, vacuum rug if needed. prep and sterilize baby's bottles grocery shopping as needed. meal preparation: cooking a bonus. Keeps rinsed fruit and steamed vegetables in the fridge. o willing to run errands: pick up packages at man. Mailboxes, hardware store etc. If needed. willing to run dog to corner for a quick pee. (We do have a dog walker) . can keep track of petty cash receipts and communicate spending to personal assistant. can relay information to JC from vendors, workers, repairmen etc. keeps an eye on the household & nursery supplies and alerts when running low: basic groceries (milk, eggs, bread, jam, almond butter etc) and alerts JC or ch or picks it up herself. Pluses computer savvy: can perform online research, place diapers.com orders competent cook: for children additional language: can speak to children in 2nd language. Mac user / has iPhone: makes sharing calendars easy. 49 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
New York City 06.19.13, 09:17 PM Flag
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Is that you, Mrs. X? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:26 PM Flag
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yes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:20 PM Flag
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I know, right? OP stepped straight out of that novel. Hilarious. Run, Nanny. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:28 PM Flag
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This is giving me anxiety and I'm not even a nanny. Shutter. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:38 PM Flag
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Ha Ditto. I can't imagine worki g for someone like this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:43 PM Flag
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I Saw Your Nanny has or used to have a feature called Craigslist WTF. Is this from that? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:27 PM Flag
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I love this part: doesn't say "what?", "yeah", or "huh". Any normal person would RUN from this situation. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:27 PM Flag
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huh? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:28 PM Flag
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what? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:37 PM Flag
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Yea you heard me there a looney bins [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:42 PM Flag
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yeah. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:43 PM Flag
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yeah. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:43 PM Flag
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do what now? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:55 PM Flag
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Online research? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:21 PM Flag
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What's JC? Jesus Christ? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:21 PM Flag
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Jesus Christ himself washed the feet of his disciples. This crazy-ass JC can't even replace a roll of toilet paper without assistance. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:22 PM Flag
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I hope they pay well [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:21 PM Flag
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i'd dare say "they" are pretty well off! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:25 PM Flag
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Off their rockers. These people sound nuts. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:39 PM Flag
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What's JC, ch, lc? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:22 PM Flag
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Junior Cook? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:32 PM Flag
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ch is children, I think [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:34 PM Flag
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JC is the wife, CH is the husband, the child is E, not sure about LC [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:39 PM Flag
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There you go. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 10:05 PM Flag
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There you go. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 10:05 PM Flag
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Jennifer Connelly? No couldn't be.... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 10:06 PM Flag
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no gum? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:32 PM Flag
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what about fun dip? what's your stance on fun dip? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:25 PM Flag
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"Swims energetic (not manic)". HILARIOUS. No manic swimmers need apply. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:25 PM Flag
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is this a joke? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:33 PM Flag
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Must not correct OUR grammar or Capitalization errors. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:27 PM Flag
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Picks up packages at the man? Who wrote this, Lou Reed? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:34 PM Flag
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yeah, Barry White helped [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 10:10 PM Flag
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Wow, do you want any part of your children's lives? And no fucking gum or saying "Yeah"? This has to be fake. AND they have to travel on holidays? Do they get any time off or do you just own them? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:35 PM Flag
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AHAHAHAHAHAHAHA. Are you the bitch with the nanny who hates and can't control your son? If so, THIS IS YOUR ANSWER FOR WHY SHE HATES YOUR FAMILY [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:36 PM Flag
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"Recognizes teachable moments and implements them throughout the day". Teachable Moment #1: don't grow up to be assholes like your parents [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:36 PM Flag
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Teachable moment #2 fingerprints is one word, don't misspell it like your mommy [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:43 PM Flag
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This must be a joke. Can you imagagine this princess? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:38 PM Flag
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If JC also has a housekeeper and a personal assistant (and a dog walker), why does 2/3 of the nanny's job involve housekeeping and personal assisting? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:37 PM Flag
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Because the housekeeper and dog walker keep quitting. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:45 PM Flag
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There's probably another ad out there for housekeeper and dog walker. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 10:31 PM Flag
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Setting aside the insanity of the expectations, this is the most incoherent, rambling job description I have ever read. The woman is crazy, on drugs or both. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:40 PM Flag
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It is like the UES ADD version of that song from "Mary Poppins". [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:49 PM Flag
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Hilarious [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:56 PM Flag
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Hilarious [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:56 PM Flag
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Sadly, I've seen many similar ads for nanny positions. Some people are nuts. There's one lady who pops back up on sittercity every few months, usually sooner. Her ads get crazier and crazier, she doesn't even post her first name, and she actually changed her screen name a few months back-- made me wonder if her first account got suspended (and that's unheard of!). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 10:17 PM Flag
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3-5 year commitment? Hell no. Actually with a 4 week commitment I'd say hell no. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:58 PM Flag
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Nanny here....sometimes I want to send comments like this to parents on sitter city. One mom was paying $300.week for 7am to 7pm. I pity the woman so desperate she had to take that job. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 10:37 PM Flag
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"We are private people"- but we look for our nanny on UrbanBaby. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 10:41 PM Flag
[ - ] OMG overbearing mom who is trying to be my new best friend caught me today. This is the hot "model type" mom in my town who is the live-in girlfriend of a guy twice her age (meaning, my age) who won't marry her. She's been trying to chase me down to be her new friend for at least a year and my mom is convinced it's because she's trying to hijack my DH. Our dc's aren't even the same sex, or in the same class, and she's constantly trying to get "all of us" together where of course I will look like Camilla Parker Bowles next to her Diana. Today she came up to my car window in pick-up line to tell me their pool is open so she will be calling me soon to get us to come over and swim. It sounded like more of a warning than an invitation. I don't even know her well enough for her to know we actually have our own pool. Back off, Giselle. 42 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:10 PM Flag
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Maybe she's desperately lonely and she thought you seemed nice? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:13 PM Flag
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I don't know what she'd base the nice on. Her dc and mine have never been in the same class. She came up to me completely blind last year because her bf had been to see my DH for some work and she thought we should all get to know each other. Oblivious to the fact that my DH has zero interest in getting to know patients. No other reason to come up to me blindly like that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:24 PM Flag
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maybe everyone thinks she's an asshole b/c she's the girlfriend "not the wife" and she has no friend and was hoping that tenuous tie would work with you. jeez louise. maybe have a heart. but prob not for you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:59 PM Flag
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Are you not interested in befriending her b/c you are embarrassed by her or threatened by her? Not trying to be rude just curious as to whether you dislike her b/c you are suspicious of her motives or not interested in feeling not as attractive by comparison. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:20 PM Flag
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She is 100% completely better looking than I am - I have 40 pounds and 20 years on her, she has another 6 inches on me. The one time I went over to her place because she insisted, she answered the door in a string bikini. She is GORGEOUS. Why would someone like that want to be my friend? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:18 PM Flag
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Honestly, I wouldn't want to be that woman's friend either. I would find that really weird and exhibitionist. I am not a lesbian. I am not impressed by you in a string bikini. And with my kid I would find it double weird. I'm with OP on this one. Not clear what this chick's agenda is but I would steer clear. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:33 PM Flag
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+1000 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 10:20 PM Flag
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Personally, I would be her friend. She sounds like she might be fun. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:16 PM Flag
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How old is she? 14? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:18 PM Flag
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I'm in my late 40s. She's in her late 20s. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:19 PM Flag
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Maybe people view me this way. I'm always drawn to women 10-20 years older because my own mother is a controlling bitch. I need a replacement. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:18 PM Flag
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im sorry but you sound insecure. That might not be the case but the fact that you keep mentioning her looks makes it seem that way. Why don't you give it a shot. Her guys prob a a-hole and she's lonely, needs some female companionship. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:19 PM Flag
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OP - let me put it this way, she kept trying to nail me down to a pool party date today where my DH would be available. Thank God it's one time when I can honestly say he's never available. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:20 PM Flag
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You sound insecure. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:22 PM Flag
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Really, do you invite Playboy playmates over to your house to hang out with your DH? Sometimes it's ok to be a little insecure and paranoid. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:34 PM Flag
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she might be. but either way, it's a safe strategy. i might befriend her but no reason for everyone, including dhs, to be at a freaking pool party. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:54 PM Flag
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Is he a plastic surgeon? Then I can see why she'd be trying to get an in with you...discounted work? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:31 PM Flag
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She doesn't need it. Her bf got botox, though [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:37 PM Flag
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Actually she met DH when she went in with the bf. DH says he doesn't remember her specifically. I figure if he had then she wouldn't be making such an effort to get to know me. And, I'm talking, write my cell phone number down the day I met her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:38 PM Flag
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She is shopping for her next husband...rich, plastic surgeon, no brainer! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:46 PM Flag
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Answering the door in a string bikini is a little much. I'd avoid as well. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:21 PM Flag
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Wait, she has a kid with a guy she's not married to? And he's rich? I'm trying to imagine what socioeconomic bracket these people occupy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:22 PM Flag
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From what I know, her dc is with either a former boyfriend or DH from when she was obviously really young. She said she left him and I have no indication he's in the picture. Her current bf has an ex-wife with at least one kid because the day we went to her house last year she said he had "visitation" but I didn't ask more. He's well off enough. The house is plain but well-appointed. Very little furniture or stuff inside - modern look; very much a guy's house if you know what I mean. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:42 PM Flag
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Maybe she thought you were nice. She was wrong. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:35 PM Flag
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She didn't know me enough to know whether or not I would be nice. For all she knew I could have been a crazy person; the only thing she knew about me was my DH. And obviously, she took the time to figure out who I was, to introduce herself to me. That meant research. Sorry, I find that creepy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:43 PM Flag
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Nobody wants your husband. Get over yourself. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:46 PM Flag
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having everybody over for a pool party when she'll be in a string bikini IS weird. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:57 PM Flag
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Eh, hot chicks are clueless like that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 10:07 PM Flag
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uh, i was a hot chick. i would never have done that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 10:17 PM Flag
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OP - she's from Brazil [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 10:28 PM Flag
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However by that comment no one should be falling all over themselves to be friends with OP, either. So which is it? You can't have it both ways. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 10:27 PM Flag
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She doesn't need to befriend you to steal your husband...Odd that the pretty girl isn't judging the old ugly one...it's the other way around.. Classy, hope i've get to have cool neighbors like you one day [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:31 PM Flag
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You seem like such a nice and secure person, I'm just surprised everyone doesn't seek out your friendship like this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:38 PM Flag
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Maybe she is already doing your DH and wants to be friends with you, so that she has a legitimate reason to "be" with him when you are not around. Instead of the sneaking around they are doing now. Late 40s men love attn from late 20s women. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:42 PM Flag
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If that were the case I think I'd be pinging in other directions. Right now she's just trying to be friends with me, and I haven't even told DH except for the one time. He says he doesn't care what I do but he's not going to just go hang out with people I meet. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 10:29 PM Flag
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Maybe she is already doing your DH and wants to be friends with you, so that she has a legitimate reason to "be" with him when you are not around. Instead of the sneaking around they are doing now. Late 40s men love attn from late 20s women. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:42 PM Flag
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Some people are just super friendly. This is fake, right? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:50 PM Flag
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It's not fake. She could just be super friendly, but I still can't figure out why she pinpointed me in the first place. I have never, ever gone to a professional where I found out they lived in my town, and then stalked down their wife to be friends. Ever. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 10:30 PM Flag
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I would hang out with her, but always when DH is not present, basically limit his exposure to her. Pool parties only if DH is not present. If she starts mentioning or being concerned about your DH not being present, maybe then she has an agenda. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 10:01 PM Flag
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She already has. This afternoon I mentioned we were busy for the next few weeks but would be free in mid July. She said "great so your DH can come over, too" and I said, no, we're mostly free because he's on a business trip. And she said, "well then let's not do it then, let's make it for a time he can be there." [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 10:25 PM Flag
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Charles chose Camilla over Diana. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 10:23 PM Flag
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Just tell ther sorry, you don't have time to be friends with her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 10:40 PM Flag
[ - ] Ugh! 9 weeks pp. I knew it would take a while to get back to normal. But seriously, size 10 pants were too tight??? I'm usually a 4-6. WTF??? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:08 PM Flag
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You had a baby two months ago. Chill out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:12 PM Flag
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You had a baby two months ago. Chill out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:12 PM Flag
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This is my life [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:12 PM Flag
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Sorry to say that's history. You better own up to the fact your abdomen will never see 4 again. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:18 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:23 PM Flag
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i saw size 2/4 again with dc1. not so much with dc2. still have about ten pounds. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 10:07 PM Flag
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np: I hated when people would tell me to "relax" or "but you just had a baby." LIKE I F'N FORGOT THAT. Just keep eating clean and start back with cardio and weight training if you haven't already. You'll get there!! GL! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:39 PM Flag
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took you 10 months to get fat, you think it takes 9 weeks to go back? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 10:19 PM Flag
[ - ] Which private schools have the biggest endowments? 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:06 PM Flag
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No one is close to Exeter and Andover in terms of being well-endowed [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:15 PM Flag
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Would like to know as well. Anyone know of a website that would have this information? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:20 PM Flag
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Petersons used to have this info; not sure if they still do. You can check it out there. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:17 PM Flag
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Most schools keep this info confidential. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:39 PM Flag
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Guidestar.com can provide a lot of financial info on any nonprofit entity [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:41 PM Flag
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sorry, Guidestar.ORG [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:42 PM Flag
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Thanks [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:52 PM Flag
[ - ] I posted a while ago about losing a great job opportunity to this other woman. someone commented she must have bigger boobs. AND SHE DOES!! 28 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 08:55 PM Flag
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^ she also appears to be chubbier than me, according to FB [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 08:56 PM Flag
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But she probably radiates self-confidence and is a primo bullshitter. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:03 PM Flag
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Or she was a better candidate than you...signed someone with big boobs, but also a brain. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 08:57 PM Flag
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np: This - I've lost out job hirings, and I have huge boobs. Now I'm the boss of three people with smaller boobs, but it's not because of my bra size. I'm a better worker! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 08:52 PM Flag
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how big? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:01 PM Flag
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DD [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:19 PM Flag
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but I'd like to blame it on the boobs! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 08:53 PM Flag
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I wish my big boob would get me stuff. All I got from them is a backache. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:00 PM Flag
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how big? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:01 PM Flag
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36dd [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:09 PM Flag
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I'm really not serious about actually thinking she got the job b/c of her boobs, BUT I have tiny non-existent boobs and...I suppose maybe the grass is just always greener! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 08:54 PM Flag
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how old are you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:03 PM Flag
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Big boobs end up just looking matronly unless u have a thin waist [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:03 PM Flag
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After all the money I spend on bras that look like feats of modern engineering, I'd love to see some payback! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 08:58 PM Flag
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After all the money I spend on bras that look like feats of modern engineering, I'd love to see some payback! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 08:58 PM Flag
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Same here. np [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:02 PM Flag
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mine get me free drinks at most bars [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:00 PM Flag
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how big? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:01 PM Flag
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looks like C/D cups. Big by my AA standards. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 08:55 PM Flag
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im a solid B . . . which seem to be okay . . . [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:03 PM Flag
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That means almost everyone is bigger than you, so you can't infer there is any relation to her getting the job. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 08:57 PM Flag
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Eh. Excuses, excuses. My A cups certainly haven't held me back in my career. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 08:57 PM Flag
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but they certainly havent helped you - [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:00 PM Flag
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Probably not. Thank God for brains :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:01 PM Flag
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To be fair, I'm a nature 34DD (sometimes DDD) and I get absolutely everything I want. I also work hard and have a great personality, but I know deep down it's the boobs [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:09 PM Flag
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ha! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:11 PM Flag
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It irks me when people assume my looks get me better positions. Even my brother has said this to me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:08 PM Flag
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Is she younger? Is she pretty? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 10:33 PM Flag
[ - ] Any fave smoothie recipes? Looking to use a bag of spinach 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 08:53 PM Flag
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How about a spinach salad with mandarin oranges? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 08:57 PM Flag
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Throw anything in: apples, pears, oranges, blueberries, etc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 08:53 PM Flag
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This plus ice [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:04 PM Flag
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I really hate spinach in my smoothies. You could make a salad with it, throw it in a soup, saute it with garlic and olive oil... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 08:58 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:02 PM Flag
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NP: Really?? I love it because I don't even notice it. I use yogurt, OJ, frozen fruit (usually berries and/or mango), peanut butter and a banana. Yum. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:10 PM Flag
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Please post a picture, I always love a good picture of a smoothie. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:36 PM Flag
[ - ] Do you have any mom friends that you think are cool? Beyond just the basic mom/wife stuff. Like they do interesting things, have hobbies aside from working out, etc? 20 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 08:41 PM Flag
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yes . . . one is a painter [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 08:43 PM Flag
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My good friend, too. She and her DH have done a "Big Year" birdwatching and they both illustrate things like catalogues with different breeds of poultry available for purchase [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 08:57 PM Flag
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my sister! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 08:43 PM Flag
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I don't know if I would consider that cool. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 08:37 PM Flag
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what? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 08:44 PM Flag
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having hobbies. I think hobbies are overrated to a degree. Can't people enjoy spending time with their kids? We do family activities. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 08:40 PM Flag
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are you the mom who thought reading books was a waste of time? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 08:48 PM Flag
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no, I like reading. I also read a lot with my kids :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 08:44 PM Flag
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i believe you, you wrote "a lot" unlike many UB moms. [ Reply | More ]
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I'm an Ivy AND TT graduate, so you would hope I could at least get that right! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:10 PM Flag
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yes. have a friend who does all sorts of thing: plays music in a band, does artistic stuff when she can, sits on a board, volunteers and a ton of stuff. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 08:38 PM Flag
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sure [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 08:45 PM Flag
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No. Nothing more than housewife stuff [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 08:47 PM Flag
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Yes, one is an actress and has a great sense of style. Another does a lot of pro bono work (law), and is very down to earth and fun to talk to. Another travels a lot with her family internationally. Like, off-the-beaten path, really interesting places. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 08:44 PM Flag
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I have one friend who is a doctor, very wicked sense of humor. Has a gorgeous home filled with treasures from traveling. [ Reply | More ]
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I have a very cool mom friend, doesn't have any serious hobbies etc but very cool to just hang out with. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:02 PM Flag
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I have a SAHM friend who is really cool. It's not because of anything job or hobby related. She's just one of those people that are really positive and fun to be around. Also she is a devout Catholic and somehow makes her faith seem fun and cool-- is never holier-than-thou or overbearing about it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:03 PM Flag
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My best friend. She's now a mom, so I count that as mom friend. I don't have other mom friends - all my other friends are men. A few cool cousins - some have kids. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:57 PM Flag
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My best friend. She's now a mom, so I count that as mom friend. I don't have other mom friends - all my other friends are men. A few cool cousins - some have kids. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:57 PM Flag
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I don't have "mom" friends. I have friends. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 10:20 PM Flag
[ - ] Is it true downtown waitlists are cleared!?!?! 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 08:41 PM Flag
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2 classrooms were opened at 89 [ Reply | More ]
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PS 41 wailist definitely not cleared, but maybe that doesn't count as "downtown". [ Reply | More ]
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several 41 went to 3 and 11 this week. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 10:20 PM Flag
[ - ] What are your general policies on grad parties for HS seniors? I don't want to deprive DD, but all the recent news about Steubenville has me spooked. There will be alcohol and she hasn't had much exposure to drinking in the past. (Some, but not a lot). General guidance? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
Teenagers 06.19.13, 08:40 PM Flag
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Have it at a restaurant or other venue that only offers virgin drinks [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:03 PM Flag
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Deprive till they go to college [ Reply | More ]
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If an underage drinker is injured after consuming alcohol on your property, guess who's open to prosecution and civil damages? Sobering thought. [ Reply | More ]
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My dd is also a senior and has been to two of them. All fine. Know your kid. Talk to her about your fears re her drinking and let her know your rules regarding drinking. But be realistic. Tell her that she can call you at any time that she feels uncomfortable and you will come pick her up anywhere, any time, no matter what condition she or her friends are in - no questions at that time. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 09:26 PM Flag
[ - ] Can anyone recommend a modest, elegant swimsuit for me? I usually wear bikinis, but I need something more respectable for pool parties/playdates at dc's friends'houses, etc. I'm thin and flat-chested, boyish figure, I guess. 20 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 08:39 PM Flag
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so...get a one piece! I can't tell you what will look nice on you, but there are many options out there. I just bought 2 last year and there's some nice stuff out there, which can still be flattering but not provocative. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 08:36 PM Flag
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I'm having a hard time, though! A lot of the ones I've seen are miracle suit-types, for people who are curvier, and they look ridiculous on me. any brands you could recommend? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 08:37 PM Flag
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Lands end [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 08:47 PM Flag
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I have a karla colletto that's perfect. Modest, but still flattering. I am curvy, but slim so our figures are different, but you should check it out anyway. I too avoided miracle suits. I also have a VIX suit but it's a little too sexy for your needs. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 08:43 PM Flag
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Thanks, I love Vix! Having a hard time finding modest suits I like. Thanks for the suggestion, will look into KC. [ Reply | More ]
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Athleta [ Reply | More ]
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land's end has some nice one pieces that don't look frumpy. gl! [ Reply | More ]
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ooh, I really like this! thanks! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 08:50 PM Flag
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Boston Proper has nice bathing suits. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 08:54 PM Flag
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I love gottex halter one piece swimsuits: very flattering if you don't gve a chest [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 08:54 PM Flag
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http://www1.bloomingdales.com/shop/product/la-blanca-shirr-and-now-skirted-one-piece-swimsuit?ID=679279&CategoryID=5609&LinkType=#fn=SWIMSUIT_STYLE_M%3DOne Piece%26spp%3D78%26ppp%3D96%26sp%3D1%26rid%3D8%26spc%3D178 Or, if you don't think it's too matronly, something with a little skirt is cute. Bloomie's has a bunch. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.13, 08:56 PM Flag
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you can see her bottom [ Reply | More ]
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kids can't handle seeing mom's ass? if they're at a club or public pool, they'll see much worse [ Reply | More ]
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calm down, op was asking for modest [ Reply | More ]
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np the romper one they show off to the right side is cute! [ Reply | More ]
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np the romper one they show off to the right side is cute! [ Reply | More ]
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this is not cute, sorry. [ Reply | More ]
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Love! [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] How old were you when you met DH? 34 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Ditto. Met when 23, married when 28, had dc at 38. [ Reply | More ]
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19, but didn't date until later. [ Reply | More ]
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Single and 29 here. :( [ Reply | More ]
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20 or 21 [ Reply | More ]
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30, married at 37. [ Reply | More ]
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18, married at 27 [ Reply | More ]
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24. Engaged after 3 months, homeowners after 6 months, married after less than a year. I work fast :) [ Reply | More ]
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blech [ Reply | More ]
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12. 7th grade. [ Reply | More ]
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This is funny. Whenever I post on here about trying to find a man over 30, I get a million (fake?) responses saying, "Don't worry, I met my DH at 38 and by 42 we had 3 kids!" [ Reply | More ]
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I was 31! Many of my friends met their dh's in their early 30s. To be honest, I don't know a ton of couples who met later. [ Reply | More ]
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26. Broke up 2x. Engaged at 32. Married at 33. Had DS at 36. [ Reply | More ]
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hasn't happened yet, 26. Unless it happened saturday and I don't know it yet. [ Reply | More ]
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wait for it..... 12 [ Reply | More ]
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