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[ - ] Any worriers on? What are the crazy (and not so crazy) worries you have? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 04:13 AM Flag
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I am a very big worrier. Anything and everything triggers worry. Health of myself and loved ones is biggest. Constant worry about cancer. Worry about car crashes, getting hit by a car. Financial ruin, my weight, that I will get fired [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 04:16 AM Flag
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that my kids end up anything like a couple of very crazy family members my dh has [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 04:22 AM Flag
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I constantly worry. I used to catastrophize and worry about major disasters or illness. But lately I tend to ruminate non-stop on my "to do" list. My mind goes round and round worrying I won't get things done on time or done well -- everything from making a pediatrician appointment, limiting kids video games, after hours work doubt or anticipation, need to buy a new jacket for ds, need to email that friend who wrote 6 months ago, etc. I actually handle major issues much better because I can compartmentalize. I use lots of techniques like making lists or alarms to text reminders to dh. I've also learned to delegate duties and hire help if I need it (though I can't yet get rid of the associated guilt). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 05:24 AM Flag
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I feel you sister. I was you. I've learned to let things go more. I realized constant worry is an extension of narcissism. Once I focus on causes higher than myself, I learned to relax more and let things fall into place [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 06:24 AM Flag
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Major worry: that my brilliant DH may not be so brilliant Minor worry: is my nanny going to quit and what role might I have played in such a scenario Lingering worry: after giving up a stellar career to spend time with young kids, are my kids not getting into HYP at the end? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 06:23 AM Flag
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I go thru phases of worry. Everything from world affairs to my to do list [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 11:50 AM Flag
[ - ] I'm in the mood for a Kiki. Let's have a Kiki. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:57 AM Flag
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and the delivery service? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 04:32 AM Flag
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Whats a kiki? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 05:04 AM Flag
[ - ] Horrendous pain around eye sockets, which is causing a headache. Any idea what the pain could be? Almost feels as if I've been punched in the face...(I haven't) and sensitive to the touch. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:29 AM Flag
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Sinus infection? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:30 AM Flag
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Maybe...getting over a cold,but still coughing like a granny smoker. Could be pressure from all the coughing. Wish I could take a sleeping pill and call it a night, but pregnant. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:50 AM Flag
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This is what my sinus infection felt like. It also hurt to look down, like at my armpits, say. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:49 AM Flag
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+ [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 04:34 AM Flag
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when sinus infections occur, they follow a cold and can be quite painful. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 04:07 AM Flag
[ - ] Any chance for city wide G+T with a 98? If we rank Anderson and Nest first before district wide G+T, would it decrease our kid's chance of getting into a district wide if predictably he doesn't get into a citywide? Is 98 even a pretty safe score for a D2 district wide or is it still far from a guarantee? 20 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
NY Schools 04.19.14, 03:21 AM Flag
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Maybe TAG [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:08 AM Flag
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what about 97 in D3, what's realistic? not even PS 165? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:31 AM Flag
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In same boat. Don't think ranking citywide hurts. When your number is called, you will get the top most ranking spot left available whether citywide or district [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 04:04 AM Flag
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It doesn't hurt in any way. List the schools in the order you want. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 02:18 PM Flag
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Nope [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 04:32 AM Flag
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We got a 98 last yr too and didnt even get district [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 04:49 AM Flag
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^^^in D2 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 04:50 AM Flag
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which district ones did you rank and not get? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 04:50 AM Flag
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Your best chance for citywide is the new one in Queens. ranking them won'thurt your chances with district. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 10:05 AM Flag
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That's a rough commute! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 02:19 PM Flag
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BSI took 98s the first year (the his was the applicant pool that took a chance on a school that didn't exist yet). It's been 99 only since then. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.20.14, 01:13 PM Flag
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One thing working in your favor is that 99%s dropped by 40% this year. So your 98, if selected first, is the equivalent of a mid pack 99 last year. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 12:12 PM Flag
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Sorry but when my kid tested for k there were less than a thousand 99s. We listed 3 citywides with 99 and got district. I know 4 other dcs with 99s from that year and no one got a citywide seat. Even with less than 1000 99s, there's still no chance for 98s at A, N, or BSI. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 02:18 PM Flag
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^^A, N, TAG, and BSI combined will have a total of less than 200 seats after sibs. Not sure about the new Queens school [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 02:20 PM Flag
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That seems wrong. I think about 15-20% of seats go to sibs, not 30‰. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.20.14, 12:54 PM Flag
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Her numbers = 25%. I think it's closer to 20% (A said they'll have 42 k seats this year so that's close to 20%; we can assume similar at the other citywides). So total should be closer to 210 seats for A, N, BSI, and TAG combined. 1000 99s and 210 seats. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.20.14, 04:49 PM Flag
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OP here: how about district wide? which D2 district wide could we have a shot at with a 98? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.20.14, 01:27 AM Flag
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Other than LL, you have a good shot at all. But please, STOP WORRYING ABOUT YOUR CHANCES. Just rank them all in order of preference and hope. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.20.14, 03:25 PM Flag
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1. Ranking Anderson and Nest first will NOT decrease your kid's chances. You definitely won't get in right away. There is a _very_ small chance that you could be asked to fill a late vacancy (and as pointed out, TAG may have some initial placements at 98 [or may not]). 2. 98 will probably not get you in to lower lab. If you rank all the D2 schools, it _is_ a safe bet that you will get one. There is significant year over year variation in the demand for various district wide schools. Where are you living that you consider both Anderson and NEST to be good options? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.20.14, 03:23 PM Flag
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Only 99s at most popular D2 G&Ts for k last year. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.20.14, 05:55 PM Flag
[ - ] Did anyone choose not to know the sex until you gave birth? I feel like that would be such a crazy surprise! Can't imagine it. 25 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:20 AM Flag
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me [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:06 AM Flag
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were you surprised? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:22 AM Flag
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yes imagine how women handled the suspense before ultrasounds [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:22 AM Flag
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Didn't know with #1. It was a lovely surprise. Knew with #2. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:08 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 04:10 AM Flag
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No, but the ultrasound tech was wrong during my second pregnancy...my dd came home to a blue nursery and a closet full of blue clothing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:26 AM Flag
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You must be really old n [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:27 AM Flag
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Wth? I'm 37 and that baby is now 8. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:28 AM Flag
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Technology has come a long way in 8 yrs [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:36 AM Flag
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Whatever. It was hardly the stone ages. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:58 AM Flag
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This happened to my SIL last fall. Ultrasound at Columbia Presbyterian. I was psyched since I wanted a niece and we got to go nuts getting her tons of girly stuff since she had all boy clothes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 04:17 AM Flag
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omg lolol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:12 AM Flag
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Pregnant right now and we are choosing not to find out. Due in August, the anticipation is killing me! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:10 AM Flag
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It's a crazy enough surprise when they tell you at the ultrasound [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:27 AM Flag
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Agree. This far-fetched stuff like gender reveal parties is just too much drama for my tastes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:31 AM Flag
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Horrendous [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:36 AM Flag
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Yes, both times. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:45 AM Flag
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I bet you also want to know what day does pre-K starts in 2018. Is anything a surprise for the Millennium Generation? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:33 AM Flag
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LOl [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:53 AM Flag
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I read that as "choose not to have sex until you gave birth?" Must be time for me to go to bed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 04:22 AM Flag
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me too [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 05:01 AM Flag
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We did it with #2 and it was such a great experience to have. I was sure it was a boy and was shocked when they told me it was a girl. Was so amazing and different from hearing it from the ultrasound tech like with #1 (though we were glad to know with #1 so we could plan) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 04:44 AM Flag
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3 x surprises. Wouldn't have it any other way. Especially with #3 who had to be a planned C-section - I couldn't imagine anything worse that know "Cherie Blair will be born at 10.30am on Monday 26th June". Life should have surprises! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 05:02 AM Flag
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oh yeah, and if you have a wish for a particular gender, finding out early can be bad. Two friends desperately wanted girls, and found out they were having boys - rather than giving them 'time to accept it', they were so upset for the rest of their pregnancies and spent 5 months miserable about the pregnancy. Another friend who wanted a girl just as desperately, waited to find out and was sad when her son was born, but actually had the baby there in her arms to love and hold and that made the acceptance so much easier. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 05:05 AM Flag
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It's a surprise whenever you find out. Very likely you would have experienced similar joy and excitement regardless of when you learned the gender. I've never met someone who regretted their choice either way. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 05:26 AM Flag
[ - ] S/o. Does your DC come have the coloring you expected based on yours and DH's? 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:16 AM Flag
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what? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:16 AM Flag
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Does your DC have the hair and eye color you would have predicted based on you and DH? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:16 AM Flag
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nope, I have a 19yo fair skinned blondie who came from two dark skinned italian brown hair/brown eyed parents. we call her snow white. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:37 AM Flag
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No. we both have dark hair. When kids were little, both were blond. Dd stayed blonde. The only one in entire extended family. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:22 AM Flag
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No, both dcs are blonde. DH and I have dark hair. I have blue eyes and so do dcs, but i didn't expect that they would because it's recessive. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:26 AM Flag
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Mine are both somewhere in the middle. DH is Latino and dark and I am very light, and both DCs are light skinned with light brown hair and eyes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:44 AM Flag
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Yep. Yellow and black. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 04:06 AM Flag
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Sure. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 04:27 AM Flag
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I'm am blond, green eyes, fair skin. Husband has darker skin, black hair, brown eyes. As far as color, hair, eyes, shape of face, DS #1 looks exactly like my husband, DS #2 exactly like me. They don't look at all related and we don't look like the parent to our opposite. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 04:59 AM Flag
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Yes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 05:13 AM Flag
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Yes. And I would have been really freaked out if she hadn't been fair with blonde hair. I'm not sure that she would have felt like mine if she had DH's dark hair. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] DD's third birthday is coming up in a few weeks. I'm 8 months pregnant and exhausted. Any ideas for what I should do? 19 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:06 AM Flag
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Invite the kids in her class for a Saturday afternoon party. Hire a clown to come and do magic tricks or whatever. Have pizza, soda, cake for the kids. Put out food for the adults -- cheese plate, sandwich platters, salads, etc. You can probably get all that stuff from the same place you get the pizza. Cocktails, beer, and wine a plus. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:08 AM Flag
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Tell DH to handle. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:13 AM Flag
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This. Delegate to other parent. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 04:44 AM Flag
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Do a kids gym. You just show up and pay. Kids will have fun [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:15 AM Flag
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op. Is that like the ones with the colored balls and stuff? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:17 AM Flag
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Not sure what your talking about but meant NY Kids Club, My Gym, Kidville etc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:20 AM Flag
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op. Remember when we were young, they had those gyms with the jungle gyms and the colored balls. "Discovery Zone" I think they were called. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:20 AM Flag
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Sorry. I have preschoolers but I think I'm older than you are! Also didn't grow up in NYC [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:22 AM Flag
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oh lol. I think it was a 1980s thing. I'm 31. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:08 AM Flag
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43... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:27 AM Flag
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Plan a bday trip with her, wherever she wants to go. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:00 AM Flag
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Invite a few friends with toddlers to a playground party. Or better yet, tell your besties and see if they'll throw together something small & unfussy for your dc. Don't host, you'll be cleaning and exhausted. 3 year old just needs a few friends, cake with candles and some presents. Could also just have a family party. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:16 AM Flag
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+1. A few friends, balloons, cake. At 3 they get overwhelmed easily anyway. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:04 AM Flag
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THIS. My DD didn't even attend her own birthday party at 3 yo. She had a tantrum in her room while the rest of the kids/guests enjoyed the party. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:21 AM Flag
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awwwwww [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:09 AM Flag
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Are you having a girl or a boy? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:19 AM Flag
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op. Girl, why? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:19 AM Flag
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I have 2 girls same age dif, it's awesome, best of luck to you! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:26 AM Flag
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Thanks :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:12 AM Flag
[ - ] Is Irish mom from Ireland, or just Irish heritage? Either way, the "Irish only" thing with names is ludicrous! 35 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 02:59 AM Flag
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Irish only mom is VERY annoying. I am Irish/Welsh and don't understand her at all. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:18 AM Flag
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ITA, I think it's flattering that many people like Irish names. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:18 AM Flag
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She can cause visceral hatred in the unwary. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 04:21 AM Flag
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Brendan Schwartz isn't ludicrous? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:09 AM Flag
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no [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:12 AM Flag
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Explain. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:17 AM Flag
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Andrew Schwartz isn't ludicrous, even though Andrew was originally a Greek name. William Schwartz isn't ridiculous, and William was originally a German name. So why is Brendan Schwartz ridiculous? Why are Irish names somehow considered "special?" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:18 AM Flag
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I don't know, but it is. You tell me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:25 AM Flag
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You're wrong. I'm probably as, if not more Irish, than Irish Mom, and this argument doesn't hold water. Irish names go with almost any surname, provided they're the Anglicized spelling that everyone can pronounce on sight. If you use the Gaelic spelling, well, then even the Irish in most places won't be able to pronounce and/or spell them without a lot of rote memorization. Brendan Schwartz sounds like a very nice boy! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:36 AM Flag
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It is and they are. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 08:27 PM Flag
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Yes. Completely ludicrous. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:46 AM Flag
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No! It's the U.S. and many people have names that represent their various heritages. My son has a WASP-y sounding first name and a Latino last name. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:47 AM Flag
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And many Irish heritage families name their children from their heritage. Brendan's parents borrowed an Irish child's name for their Jewish son. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 09:24 PM Flag
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the irish in USA are pretty trashy and rarely highly educated [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:31 AM Flag
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Oh god. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:17 AM Flag
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Wildly inaccurate random trolling is not effective. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:37 AM Flag
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Considering that we make up over 60% of the US population, you've either got something...or you're dead wrong. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:50 AM Flag
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please! German and British are by far the biggest [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:59 AM Flag
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lol the Irish remind me of the Italian, not many but pretty noisy [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:46 AM Flag
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Italians make up less than 6%, but i know what you mean [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 04:12 AM Flag
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typically Irish illiterate bitch, the Irish-American are just 12%. talk about self-importance LOL [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:47 AM Flag
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This omg [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:52 AM Flag
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Racist. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 09:36 PM Flag
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60%? huh? that's not possible... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:52 AM Flag
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she's Irish so she valued more her beer than her education. she couldn't help it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 04:10 AM Flag
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Sorry, it's late and I'm a bit too tired to be posting. It's actually something like 6x the Irish in Ireland. It's still a massive number. Should've gone to bed three hours ago but baby's been screaming and I've been up with her. Yay. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 04:11 AM Flag
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have you notice the same pattern? the Irish women I know in USA have more kids than they should and started way too early to have them. better to have a profession first. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 04:04 AM Flag
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What happened to diversity? Different strokes, Cuddles. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 08:28 PM Flag
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"we make up over 60% of the US population" LOL if AA say this, they will get a ton of shit, why don't the Irish get a free pass? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 04:05 AM Flag
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Stay out of Bronxville. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 04:45 AM Flag
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1st generation here. Big law with JD, LLM from NYU. With my siblings we have 3 law degrees, two mbas and 2 masters. Wrong. The Irish in America value anmeducation above all else [ Reply | More ]
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I guarantee Irish Only mom is Irish-American. Not actually from Ireland. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:20 AM Flag
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OP: My family (both sides) only came to the US in the early 1900s, and they gave their children names that fit in here: John, Charles, Susan, Judy, etc. No one until my generation was given the "old" names except as middle names. I still qualify for an Irish passport, so I think I'm pretty Irish myself! ;-} [ Reply | More ]
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Not sure I understand why the distinction matters. [ Reply | More ]
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ita [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 04:51 AM Flag
[ - ] OMG,I'm watching Heathers on Netflix. Remember that movie? Winona Ryder and Shannon Doherty look like babies. 18 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Poor Martha Dumptruck. [ Reply | More ]
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Corn nuts [ Reply | More ]
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F me gently with a chainsaw. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 02:42 AM Flag
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Good old days. Wear old. [ Reply | More ]
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^^ we are old. Can't even fucking type. [ Reply | More ]
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How very [ Reply | More ]
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It's on Broadway now! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 02:47 AM Flag
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Christian Slater brings a gun to school. They wouldn't show that kind of thing today... [ Reply | More ]
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yep; with that, the smoking, and the clothes and slang, that movie seemed impossibly dated upon a recent watching. also, I cringed every time Christian Slater spoke, using that highly affected Nicholson impression. [ Reply | More ]
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The smoking was funny [ Reply | More ]
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No one at Westerburg is going to let you play their reindeer games. [ Reply | More ]
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What's your damage? Can we please jam now? [ Reply | More ]
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I got you into a Remington party. Lick it up baby Lick it up. [ Reply | More ]
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I have never seen that movie. [ Reply | More ]
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So sad that Heather #1 died of a brain tumor [ Reply | More ]
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Really? When? [ Reply | More ]
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2001. She was only 32. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kim_Walker_(actress) [ Reply | More ]
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After that line about the brain tumor for breakfast, too, the irony. Sad. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:30 AM Flag
[ - ] What would you do if you found out your dh had spent several hundred dollars over the past few months visiting "cam girls"? 27 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 02:53 AM Flag
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i'd go shopping [ Reply | More ]
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He would be the one shopping. For jewelry. For me. [ Reply | More ]
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A girl who masturbates on web cam? [ Reply | More ]
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op: Yes. [ Reply | More ]
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Is there interaction with the woman or does he just watch? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:33 AM Flag
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Is there interaction with the woman or does he just watch? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:33 AM Flag
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op: He watches her, but she can't see him. They interact on chat. The girls are mostly in Russia and can barely speak English. [ Reply | More ]
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Ugh. Does he know you know? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:37 AM Flag
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op: Yes, I found out by looking at credit card statements. He said he does it while on business trips but it still bothers me a lot. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:22 AM Flag
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I can understand that. I'd be upset, too. I guess it's pretty much like watching porn only live. Not sure what I would do about this, but might want to really get to the bottom of why he needs the thrill of anonymous sex. [ Reply | More ]
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This. But it seems worse than regular porn to me, not least bc those women are likely horribly exploited, maybe trafficked. A lot of those sites do involve interaction btw - not sure he is being totally honest. The men pay to give directions etc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 05:17 AM Flag
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This. But it seems worse than regular porn to me, not least bc those women are likely horribly exploited, maybe trafficked. A lot of those sites do involve interaction btw - not sure he is being totally honest. The men pay to give directions etc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 05:17 AM Flag
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Take an equal amount for personal pleasure spending. Gold bracelet could be in the works. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:15 AM Flag
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It could be worse. Could be thousands or tens of thousands. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:18 AM Flag
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op: It's not so much the money the bothers me but the act itself. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:06 AM Flag
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???? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:32 AM Flag
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Omg. Mine too. I'm waiting until he's asleep to check this months Chase bill. Boys are gross . [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:05 AM Flag
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op: Seriously? I thought my dh was the only perv. I've always imagined dirty old men resorting to this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:07 AM Flag
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Have you read the business reports on porn, and these sites? They make billions of dollars . On the bright side he's not at strip clubs or massage parlors. It's the least aggressive of all pervy guy habits. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:28 AM Flag
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Not something I have to concern myself with. Luckily, my DH isn't into stuff like this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:10 AM Flag
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Np. Not helpful. And...or so you think. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:56 AM Flag
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Deliver a clear and concise ultimatum. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 04:35 AM Flag
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This. I found porn on DHs browser history. Stayed at my parents for a week and told him I hated seeing it, would not tolerate him jacking off to porn and then coming up w excuses like "i am tired" when I initiated sex. He stopped and now I randomly check the computer and theres no porn sites anymore...and he cant access it at work for obvious reasons, so he stopped that habit pretty quick! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 05:29 AM Flag
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Or he's deleting the history [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 12:04 PM Flag
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Nope. Ive been pulling any deleted history thru logs. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.20.14, 06:47 AM Flag
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you can't pull history through logs unless you installed a keystroke logger on your home computer, did you [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.20.14, 03:50 PM Flag
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Would not be happy and would let him know. Luckily my husband is too frugal to spend money on that [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 11:52 AM Flag
[ - ] With all the horribly sad stories in the news, the sinking of the South Korean ferry is unspeakably sad. Almost 300 passengers, most teens on a class trip, still missing. 19 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 02:52 AM Flag
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Those texts were nearly impossible to read. Extremely sad to think of what their parents are going through. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 02:54 AM Flag
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The latest news says the texts were fake, that no signals came through after the ferry began to sink. If that's true, someone should prosecute the #&$* out of whoever sent them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 02:56 AM Flag
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Now I'm even more sad...who does this? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:20 AM Flag
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the vice princiipal of the school who was rescued hung himself. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 02:59 AM Flag
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No way?! Link? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:03 AM Flag
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damn. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:11 AM Flag
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That poor guy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:05 AM Flag
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Sad that he felt responsible when there was nothing he could do. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:27 AM Flag
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Yes horrible. Horrible. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 02:47 AM Flag
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omg. CNN "divers see bodies in ferry. unable to reach them." [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 02:52 AM Flag
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One of the divers said he saw the missing Malaysia plane [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:13 AM Flag
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lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:32 AM Flag
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Wow. Just wow. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:57 AM Flag
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I read that the text messages were fake. Anyone else heard this or understand how this could be true? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 02:54 AM Flag
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I am wondering if this incident will change Korean's "obedience" culture as did 9/11 changed US to take action in difficult circumstances or as Commodore Perry changed Japan. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:22 AM Flag
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The obedience culture is much more than that. We could use some of it in the US. Then maybe your old ass won't end up in a nursing home. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:34 AM Flag
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Dense here. I don't understand your reference. Just taking the thread from CNN's Correstpondent, Ms Kyung Lah. FOX said same. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:46 AM Flag
[ - ] I just had scrambled eggs and toast. Yes, I live in America not in China. Am pig? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 02:49 AM Flag
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Very sensible 11pm meal, IMO. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:07 AM Flag
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Are you being sarcastic? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 02:58 AM Flag
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Not at all. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:17 AM Flag
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China? Doubt they eat that. Don't get your reference. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:50 AM Flag
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I think op means it's breakfast time in china. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:53 AM Flag
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Zzzzzzzzzzz [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 04:53 AM Flag
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+100000000 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 07:05 AM Flag
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Sounds good for breakfast today [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 11:49 AM Flag
[ - ] What do you think about graduation announcements such as these (I will post link bellow)? Are they common in NYC? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 02:46 AM Flag
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isnt this the same girl, but differnet name?http://www.pinterest.com/pin/229894755953062100/ [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:02 AM Flag
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Not an NYC practice at all. Wouldn't be well received, although I can see the appeal in principle. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:04 AM Flag
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The only graduation announcement that should be sent is from college or later grad school. Nobody cares that you finished K, 8th grade, 12th grade or anything in between. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:37 AM Flag
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These are fake- part of tinyprints advertising. One of the ones below I have seen in tinyprint's catalogs but with a different high school/college attending, etc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:38 AM Flag
[ - ] Precocious kids are exhausting and so annoying. 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 02:44 AM Flag
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Yes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 02:45 AM Flag
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this is how all kids are in nyc private schools [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:03 AM Flag
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Not all but most. Pretentious little snowflakes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 02:48 AM Flag
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Agree. It's a lot of joy, and a lot of hard work. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:04 AM Flag
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The 3yr old that try's to cook? Obnoxious [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 02:55 AM Flag
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MINE! 1st omelette at 2 and a half. surprisingly it was great. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:34 AM Flag
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*tries* Try to spell well. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 04:36 AM Flag
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I know. It's also exhausting being beautiful. Life is hard. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:17 AM Flag
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Agree. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:06 AM Flag
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Yes. Their 10,000 questions. Omg. My 3 yr old exhausts me mentally, not so much physically. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:14 AM Flag
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YES! i'd take a regular kid any day [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:33 AM Flag
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Yes, but all kids are tiring in one way or another, not just the precocious ones. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:35 AM Flag
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dull, mommy. Forestia Gump. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:28 AM Flag
[ - ] Alright I'm just going to take a bong hit and power through cleaning this place... 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 02:38 AM Flag
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Troll. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 02:33 AM Flag
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I should be doing the same. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 02:45 AM Flag
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I was gonna clean my room....but then I got high! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:05 AM Flag
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Ds? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 02:50 AM Flag
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It's a song, granny. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:14 AM Flag
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lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 03:53 AM Flag
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ILY! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.14, 07:06 AM Flag
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