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[ - ] Ok, who has had a face lift? Fess up! I want to know all about it as considering having one done. My face has done a major downward progression in the past few years. 19 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:46 AM Flag
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Oh, met too, just in last year. Arghhhh [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:37 AM Flag
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I hear you, it's awful. I want my old face back. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:52 AM Flag
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How old are you? are you sure you really need such a drastic step? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:47 AM Flag
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I'm 45. I know seems drastic but apparently the procedure has improved dramatically in the last few years. Plus I hope I don't look like i've had a face lift but i;d rather look like i've had a lift than look droopy/jowly. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:40 AM Flag
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Have you considered lasers as a first step? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:56 AM Flag
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Lasers take care of skin (wrinkles, brown spots) - my skin looks great - no wrinkles. My problem is that I'm developing jowls and there is beginning to be sagging under my chin. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:49 AM Flag
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Ugh. Makes sense. Damn gravity! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:50 AM Flag
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Plus one on the jowls. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:51 AM Flag
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Didn't think it would start happening this early! Couldn't figure out what the problem was at first but now it's clear as day. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:57 AM Flag
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I never thought I'd need one, but I look bedraggled, while friends are looking so refreshed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:37 AM Flag
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I'm thinkng about doing my chin/neck but not the whole face. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:38 AM Flag
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exactly - that would be a big part of it - chin and neck - makes you look a lot younger and fresher. have you found a good surgeon? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:51 AM Flag
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Haven't looks yet. Just started googling procedures. Really want to do it but feels like waste of $. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:45 AM Flag
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It's not a waste of money if you're happier and more confident. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:50 AM Flag
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Depends on how much money you have! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:58 AM Flag
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Well, yeah, like with everything. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:15 AM Flag
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Maybe when I'm 65. 53 and holding right now. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:38 AM Flag
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Face lift?! I need a whole body lift, especially after last DB! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:49 AM Flag
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My mother. Amazing results. She was 65 and had chicken neck and got lower half of face lifted. NYC East side STAR center. I forgot docs name but I think it started with an S. So worth it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 06:06 AM Flag
[ - ] For those who do IUI, how many do one per cycle? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:45 AM Flag
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One what ? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:42 AM Flag
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how many IUIs you did per cycle [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:55 AM Flag
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Oh. Just one. I didn't know you could do more. I did 3 cycles of iui, one sperm insertion each time. Got preg on third try. Pcos. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:47 AM Flag
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i was reading some forums about iui, some people had 2-3 per cycle, 2 3 days in a row [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:52 AM Flag
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That wasn't offered to me, but it certainly sounds like it would increase the odds! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:54 AM Flag
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We did two. I think they were 24 hours apart. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:26 AM Flag
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Um, did one cycle. Worked first time. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:18 AM Flag
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Skip it. My friends did a bunch and wasted a ton of money and got pregnant on IVF the first time. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 06:07 AM Flag
[ - ] s/o - fave cheese? I love Humboldt Fog. 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:44 AM Flag
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Morbiere [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:56 AM Flag
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Fromager d'Affinois [ Reply | More ]
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Humbolt Fog is delicious!!! Have you tried whipping it in the blender as a dip? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:14 AM Flag
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op: OMG no. But I sense an after-work project for tomorrow night. I love it with crackers and honey. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:17 AM Flag
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Throw in some toasted almonds.. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:23 AM Flag
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op: mmmmm, this is Thursday night dinner. Thanks / I hate you. :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:15 AM Flag
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Roquefort [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:20 AM Flag
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Stilton when it's really, really ripe. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:38 AM Flag
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Love it too. And I live in Humboldt. What about you, OP? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 04:01 AM Flag
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Also love warm Bulgarian feta. Yum. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 04:01 AM Flag
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Manchego. [ Reply | More ]
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St Andre [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 12:11 PM Flag
[ - ] Do white women ever wear wigs just because they don't like their hair? I see black women who wear wigs or hair pieces all the time and many look great. My hair is thin and limp - I would like to buy a wig (nothing elaborate) but worry I will feel out of place. 18 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:44 AM Flag
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Why do u care what other ppl do/think? Duh. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:35 AM Flag
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My aunt always wears a wig - her hair is really sparse/thin/limp. Go to an area with high concentration of Orthodox Jewish people, the women wear wigs so you will have a good selection (not being snarky at all, this is what my aunt does). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:46 AM Flag
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yes, havent you seen the real housewives of atlanta? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:47 AM Flag
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Close your legs to a married man! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:48 AM Flag
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ha thanks for the laugh [ Reply | More ]
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Lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:08 AM Flag
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Bloop! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:46 AM Flag
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No but my sister needs one for chemo :( [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:41 AM Flag
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Sorry. Hope she is better soon. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:03 AM Flag
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Hairpieces more likely. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:53 AM Flag
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YES. My MIL [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:11 AM Flag
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Kim zolcziak [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:20 AM Flag
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Extensions , darling [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:33 AM Flag
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My mom wore one of those fake clip in pony tails. She has really thin hair. Looked good. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 04:15 AM Flag
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Orthodox Jewish mom here. Wear wig daily as do most of my friends/ family. Doubt you would be able to tell. Get a great human hair wig-- costs from 1500-5000 and you need to get it styled monthly. And it's hot in summer. But it does look good actually [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 04:06 AM Flag
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But sounds like you really just need extensions. That's what works if you just wanna give appearance of thick hair. Those can cost about 500. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 04:07 AM Flag
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I know one that does. She has very, very thin hair. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 04:44 AM Flag
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I wish. I would love it if it were in style. If you are older I think it is fine [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 06:09 AM Flag
[ - ] I have been binge-watching Greys Anatomy. Doctors and nurses: are hospitals truly full of continuously fornicating professionals? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:43 AM Flag
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Yes!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:43 AM Flag
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+ [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:54 AM Flag
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Even with the Chaplain! [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] your advice: spending weekend upstate NY visiting friends of DH. What should I bring to wear? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:40 AM Flag
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upstate like in Millbrook? or Catskills? or Adirondacks? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:02 AM Flag
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Clothes. And maybe shoes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:08 AM Flag
[ - ] I'm missing my cousin's wedding because I don't want to see my abusive mother there. My cousin doesn't know the situation so I just have her the whole "sorry I won't be able to make it that weekend. Hope you have a wonderful wedding." generic answer. But I feel really sad over this since this is the third time I've missed a cousin's wedding due to wanting to avoid my mother. I want this to be the last time this happens. Tell me how to handle it for the future if I do run into her. Like I know she will try to act like we are all buddy-buddy because people will be watching. And that just makes me want to barf. And she will go up and introduce herself to DH and act all charming and what is he supposed to do? He can't tell her off because that would make him look bad. What other way is there to handle this? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:40 AM Flag
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You can tell yourself that you deserve to be at the wedding, and you have no control over your mother. You do have control over your attitude, and you can enjoy yourself no matter what mom does. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:55 AM Flag
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I'd just keep missing the events she's going to be at. That's what I do. I hate her that much that i don't care what it does to the other relationships in my life. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:02 AM Flag
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You shouldn't have to miss out. Is she came up to you and tried to be friendly, would a whispered "please stop" work? You don't need to make a scene. You can tell her bluntly and quietly that you are there for your cousin and not for her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:03 AM Flag
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Abusive abusive or just mean? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 04:42 AM Flag
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It is ok to just miss a few things. Catch up with them another time. Don't introduce drama into your life if you are doing well now. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 06:12 AM Flag
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This [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 06:15 AM Flag
[ - ] Love our nanny!! Came home late from work to a sparkling clean apt, dinner in the fridge, dry cleaning picked up sonI have clothes for tomorrow, DCs sleeping and a wonderful account of their day. DH is in our den watching TV, if I left him in charge it would have been a tornado with the DCs still awake. 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:38 AM Flag
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FAKE!!! (j/k) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:39 AM Flag
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Ha! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:23 AM Flag
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how much do you pay [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:40 AM Flag
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We pay $22/hr on the books [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:41 AM Flag
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Wow, you are a lucky mama! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:40 AM Flag
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Weird that she was there with husband or did she go home when he got home? I don't mean this any weird cheating way, just that the poor woman probably wanted to go home! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:42 AM Flag
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She left after DCs were asleep and texted me to ask if that was okay. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:15 AM Flag
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Are you saying your DH watched tv all day while your nanny took care of his house and his children? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:52 AM Flag
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Nah..DH got home about 6:30 pm, read to the DCs and helped the nanny put them to sleep. The nanny left once they were asleep. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:12 AM Flag
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You posted before. I call fake. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:56 AM Flag
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I did not [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:11 AM Flag
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I have an awesome nanny too - same type of thing. She is WONDERFUL. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:24 AM Flag
[ - ] My life would be better if ______ 38 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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People around me were less serious and more fun. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:47 AM Flag
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Np. If I were less serious and more fun! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:07 AM Flag
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I made just "this much more" money. [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
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if I were married [ Reply | More ]
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It would not. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 12:12 PM Flag
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I were more outgoing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:41 AM Flag
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if I could stop loving him and move on [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:41 AM Flag
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If my brother in law just came out of the closet already. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:41 AM Flag
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And married me. I need a gay hubby, as I posted earlier. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:57 AM Flag
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I had a boyfriend. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:42 AM Flag
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Or a girlfriend. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:33 PM Flag
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I didn't love to eat [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:43 AM Flag
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We could find a cure for cancer. Or a crystal ball. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:53 AM Flag
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The lab monkeys would love for us to give it a rest already. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:09 AM Flag
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I wasnt so scared of what everyone else thought of me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:56 AM Flag
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I didn't feel jealous of all my rich friends' luxurious lifestyles. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:57 AM Flag
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My 'to do' list was finished and I could spend quality time with the kids [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:49 AM Flag
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I had a career. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:13 AM Flag
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Well paying career [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 04:43 AM Flag
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I could get pregnant and have another child [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:34 AM Flag
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I only had ______ 's husband. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:13 AM Flag
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OMG, so never wish anyone else's husband. They all seem gross to me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:34 AM Flag
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Me either. I don't know if I am picky but I would not want to be with any of my friends husbands. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 06:15 AM Flag
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Same here. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 09:07 PM Flag
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I couldnt be fired. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:25 AM Flag
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Amen! That would be so much less stressful ;-) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:34 AM Flag
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My father had loved me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:25 AM Flag
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$$$$ for travel. 25 and a loser. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 04:16 AM Flag
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Could stay skinny without starving myself. Also, a spaceship. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 04:17 AM Flag
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exercise a lot. you get to eat a lot more [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 12:49 PM Flag
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I were 10 yrs younger with same DH and same DS and more money and more energy. However I am a pretty happy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 06:14 AM Flag
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My door locked from the inside. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:03 PM Flag
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Hi inmate mom! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:11 PM Flag
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Hey, Sugar. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:28 PM Flag
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My dad was still alive. Five years and I still miss him every day. [ Reply | More ]
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I could work 4 days a week instead of 5. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 09:05 PM Flag
[ - ] How do you tell my angry, disrespectful parents that they are not included in our thanksgiving plans? 27 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:34 AM Flag
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wow you make your thanksgiving plans really fucking early [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:25 AM Flag
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I wouldn't know. My parents are dead. Be nice. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:25 AM Flag
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Am nice and have no backbone. Nothing satisfies them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:26 AM Flag
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Sorry about your parents. Mine are just not that nice. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:37 AM Flag
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I was lucky. Until I wasn't. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:46 AM Flag
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np- oh come on, you know this is a different situation. you be nice. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:27 AM Flag
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I came on too strong, but I do thnk that people should be kinder more generally to their families. It can disappear in a second. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:47 AM Flag
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Op we hag been kind to my parent and they have zero respect for family and holidays. Then they turn it around and act like victims. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 10:56 AM Flag
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FFS [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:28 AM Flag
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+1 - "you're not allowed to have a problem because my problem is worse!" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:40 AM Flag
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Actually just meant that you should try to enjoy time with them because it is fleeting. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:46 AM Flag
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There should be a ban on holiday talk until at least mid-October! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:27 AM Flag
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Already have anxiety about ths [ Reply | More ]
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This [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:29 AM Flag
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Same here. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:10 AM Flag
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Meds. It's JULY. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 12:13 PM Flag
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I'm planning a preemptive email that states that I'm not talking about it until October. If I don't send it I can count on the queries starting the Monday I get back from a beach week with these people!! I might include warning that all replies to said email will be automatically routed to trash,! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:54 AM Flag
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We planned a trip to Hawaii last year..no relatives [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:39 AM Flag
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Good plan. Do Xmas travel as well. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:43 AM Flag
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Op everything is a personal grievance to my mom [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:30 AM Flag
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suggestion --> plan something else with them in advance of thanksgiving, like some sort of cool night out or day trip. Then after that , spring it on them that you are doing something different for thanksgiving this year. But it was great doing x with you. And we can do y at christmas. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:42 AM Flag
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Lie and say you are going away this thanksgiving. [ Reply | More ]
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I could but knowing my mom, she will contact my MIl and give her a piece of her mind. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:34 AM Flag
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What are your plans? Are you inviting your sibs but not your parents? your inlaws? Are you doing it at your house or going to someone else's? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:05 AM Flag
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I don't have siblings. Spending it with ILs at their apartment or Florida. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 11:05 AM Flag
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Need to know 2 things - have they always been like this, or is this a recent phenomenon? What type of a relationship do you want to have with them? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 11:29 AM Flag
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Mom has always been mentally ill (depressed, bipolar, NPD - you name it) and my dad has recently stopped defending himself and others, so he enables her. I am afraid to cut ties because it will result in a war on their end. I want them to see their grandkids a few times per year. That's it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:58 PM Flag
[ - ] Thoughts on Loyola Marymount University and Chapman University for a film major? DD wants to go to USC as her top choice school, but looking at the scores and acceptance rate for USC, I really don't think it's going to be in the cards for her. I think LMU or Chapman are better fits. Anyone on UB go to these schools? Thanks. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:33 AM Flag
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LMU and Chapman have great film programs. She can apply to USC as her reach school and the others as her better fit schools [ Reply | More ]
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Spielberg endowed the film program at Chapman. Good school. Nice town. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:46 AM Flag
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Did you look at Emerson? Their film program is highly regarded [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:54 AM Flag
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op: a little but will look into it more, thanks [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:46 AM Flag
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Friends ds applied for film this year. Also check Indiana U, they have a new, well-funded program. SUNY Binghampton also has a good one. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:37 AM Flag
[ - ] My DH and sons eat like pigs (they consume so much food it's crazy!) and never gain weight! 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:29 AM Flag
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I hear you. My DH is 6'1 and about 165/170 and eats 2 dinners and a pint of Ben & Jerry's almost every night. He does exercise but his whole family is like this. My children inherited his genes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:44 AM Flag
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How old is he? [ Reply | More ]
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My son is 6'7". Feeding him is a full time job. As is finding him extra tall and skinny clothes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:43 AM Flag
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and he schools me about proper eating habits. Ugh [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 04:45 AM Flag
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That's me too. I'm 5'9" and the most I've weighed in my life is 162 at 9 months pregnant. I eat ice cream 5 nights a week in the summer. I work out quite a bit, but even when I wasn't working out, I never went over 140. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:02 PM Flag
[ - ] Wwyd? I was dating a wannabe hipster but we recently broke up. Someone left a stack of record outside of my door. I live in a walk up building on the ground floor. Hipster dude has a record player and is proud of his collection. Should I ask him if he would like these records that have been outside of my apartment for SIX days now? Every time I see them, I think of this guy. 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:28 AM Flag
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Sure, why not. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:41 AM Flag
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Sell them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:44 AM Flag
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Idk, will he take it weird? Or can you be friendly without strings? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:35 AM Flag
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I'm not sure. I should really hate him. And I would never date him again. But I see these damn records every day and think they might make him happy...and that makes me happy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:51 AM Flag
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um you are an oxymoron. I hate him. Him happy makes me happy? Just give them away to the record store. Or burn them. NOT HIM! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 04:04 AM Flag
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Leave them outside his door. [ Reply | More ]
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Ring and run [ Reply | More ]
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He lives so far away. He would have to come get them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:01 AM Flag
[ - ] 7 months pregnant and no one has offered me a seat on the subway yet. Wtf is wrong with people. 63 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:27 AM Flag
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I hear you. I had that happen at 9 months - huge and about to pop - clearly coming home from a long day at work. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:28 AM Flag
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ITA. You know who the only person who offered me a seat was? A really, really old woman. :-) [ Reply | More ]
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People in fact keep elbowing past me to take empty seats [ Reply | More ]
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+ latino and aa women - thank you, sisters! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:33 AM Flag
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She remembers!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:45 AM Flag
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+1 Yes! Older women were the only ones who offered me a seat. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:46 AM Flag
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+1 I turned one down and finally a young guy looked up from his phone and gave up his seat. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:08 AM Flag
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At 9 months pregnant on the Hoboken ferry, no one ever offered me a seat and once I actually fell down. NO ONE tried to help me up. People are animals. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:32 AM Flag
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What?! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:11 AM Flag
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:( [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 04:19 AM Flag
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Which line? Not to be mean but are you heAvy All over? I don't look sweet but Was consistently offered seats from 23 weeks onward both times [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:32 AM Flag
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oh shut up! you don't think people can tell someone has a 6 lb baby in their stomach? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:44 AM Flag
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+1, wench. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:47 AM Flag
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I agree with this. It can be hard to tell if people are pregnant. Don't want to offend anyone. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:47 AM Flag
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No, it's not hard to tell. Nice try. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:38 AM Flag
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I don't know. Pregnant women who want to sit have a look about them- touching their bump, etc. you can usually tell. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:39 AM Flag
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No, not heavy at all. Even by UB standards. 2,3 line. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:38 AM Flag
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The worst! I posted above. The C is nicer! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:10 AM Flag
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Thanks! The c won't work for me but maybe I will try the local! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:22 AM Flag
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I am 8 months and I'm finding it so rare this summer for someone to offer me their seat. Ppl were definitely nicer a few years ago. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:32 AM Flag
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I'll one up this- I was IN LABOR in a cab line outside my building (and it was fucking snowing) and some bitch jumped the cab line saying over her shoulder 'I'm in a rush' [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:32 AM Flag
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OMFG you win. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:33 AM Flag
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I can still see her face. Stupid hat. 160 Riverside Blvd. if I ever see you again, I'm going to spit on you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:33 AM Flag
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Elbow her under the chin. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:12 AM Flag
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I would find this bitch and end her life. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 04:20 AM Flag
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Tell me about it. Men sit, boys sit, I am baffled. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:44 AM Flag
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Exactly, especially young men in their 30s. What a bunch of dicks! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:37 AM Flag
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It is everyone! I always hear these conversations about what kinds of people are most likely to offer you a seat--but seriously, no one has. There are times when I wouldn't even take it, but still. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:41 AM Flag
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Black women are the only ones who will. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:46 AM Flag
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And old ladies of any race. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:13 AM Flag
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I found young white guys would sit. Young AA and Latino men would offer me a seat. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 04:43 AM Flag
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I would definitely give you my seat. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:45 AM Flag
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Aww, you're sweet! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:38 AM Flag
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I was coming back from court downtown, came up lex, had to walk up stairs, carrying a bag. The only people who offered to help me (bag was empty, but you couldnt tell) were black. I am white. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:50 AM Flag
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It's so true. What is up with that? I'm ashamed of my race (white). There is no sense of community. Everyone is just out for themselves. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:55 AM Flag
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I train my eyes to look away from people on public transit. I'm looking at my phone or at the subway ads. I never make eye contact or look someone up and down, etc. I just font see you. If you want my seat and you are pregnant, just tap me on the shoulder and ask, I'll get up. The world doesn't stop for you b/c you are knocked up. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:46 AM Flag
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I just don't buy it. I am the same way but I notice when someone is pregnant and I offer her a seat. I don't think the world revolves around me and I don't think I accepted a seat when offered once during my first pregnancy, unless I got the sense I was making someone uncomfortable by not accepting. But now I am lightheaded and having contractions and it would be nice to be offered a seat. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:48 AM Flag
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Well, I'm a woman, I've had two kids and I would never ignore someone - particularly a pregnant woman- who needed help if I realized that they did. But on the subway, I'm in the zone. I don't see you. If you need help, speak up. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:52 AM Flag
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Well if you really don't see me, then fine. But if I catch you noticing me, be ashamed, lady! BTW, I would never in a million years ask someone to give up a seat for me. You've gotta be kidding! No one has that little self-respect. That's why you have to offer. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:04 AM Flag
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If I were lightheaded and having contractions I would absolutely say as much and ask for a seat. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 04:14 AM Flag
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THIS. I don't look at people either. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:49 AM Flag
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So if you were having a heart attack on the subway, I should just look away because the world doesn't stop for you b/c you ate too much cheese? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:53 AM Flag
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>> And if you were getting mugged, I should just look away because the world doesn't stop for you b/c you decided to get on the subway with a wallet full of cash? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:05 AM Flag
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You can see how this is different can't you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:56 AM Flag
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No, actually, I fail to see a distiniction. It's completely analogous. It's about helping someone that needs help even though it might put you out slightly. I'm pretty sure you've never been pregnant so you have no idea what it feels like. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:10 AM Flag
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Twice. And people didn't get up for me either. And I didn't think it was because there was something wrong with them, it was because they didn't notice me. It's not analogous. If there's a disturbance of dome kind, I'd pay attention.,look up, etc. if it's just a regular subway ride, I'm not paying attention to you. Not everyone stops what they are doing to pay attention to pregnant you. You have to give up dear , you are wrong and losing this argument. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:07 AM Flag
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Actually, I'm not losing the argument. Your argument is: I don't see you. Then your argument is: I don't care that your pregnant. So, which is it? You don't see me or you don't care? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:08 AM Flag
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I do think some people don't notice and that's fine. I'm sure I have been engrossed in work or spaced out and have not noticed pregnant women once in awhile. It is just odd that it is a whole train full of people every time who all apparently don't notice. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:21 AM Flag
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+1. The guy would be staring right at my huge belly which is right in front of his face and not making a move to give up his seat. They just don't care. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:12 AM Flag
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It's not a matter of looking away. I just never looked to begin with. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:56 AM Flag
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No one is that oblivious. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:01 AM Flag
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Nope. Wrong. Do you ride the subway every day? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:04 AM Flag
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Look, if you truly don't see me, that's fine. Only you know the truth. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:16 AM Flag
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This is a problem. I once saw a guy jump onto the tracks and run down the tunnel and NOBody else did because they were to busy on their phones. Look up once in awhile. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:15 AM Flag
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^too [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:17 AM Flag
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Same thing happened to me. I stood over them with my belly in their face. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:02 AM Flag
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LOL +1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:02 AM Flag
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+1 and I gave stink eye stares [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:15 AM Flag
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+2. I've done that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:19 AM Flag
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I'm so glad I don't take the subway anymore. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:53 AM Flag
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The c train was a kinder train to me. The 2/3 people are mean! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:06 AM Flag
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I would give you my seat OP! - friendly Californian :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 04:07 AM Flag
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Wait until you are crippled with sciatica and preppy office guys steal your cab in the rain. Mean. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 06:17 AM Flag
[ - ] anyone else watching house hunters right now? It is pissing me off... family with two kids is looking for 5 bedroom house and complaining about having only one sink in the kids' bathroom. 34 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:18 AM Flag
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why do you care? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:09 AM Flag
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they should be happy with the houses they are looking at [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:22 AM Flag
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says who? maybe they have a big extended family and have a lot of people come and stay. WTF do you care? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:22 AM Flag
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you're a bitch! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:14 AM Flag
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and you're a malcontent. Who cares if they want 5 bedrooms. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:27 AM Flag
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I dont really care that much. Is my post so much more ridiculous than you coming on this website and reading shit about how someone hates black people or someone complaining about their nanny drinking bottled water? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:29 AM Flag
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I'm watching it too! You forgot to mention they live in Tulsa, Oklahoma and their budget is $200,000. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:12 AM Flag
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I'm not, but I'm rolling my eyes at them just reading this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:14 AM Flag
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You gotta love those people. Again, they would never make it in NYC. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:26 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:23 AM Flag
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i always chuckle to myself when couples say something like "we could not SURVIVE with a bathroom this size!" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:27 AM Flag
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also they get hung up on stuff like countertops, carpet, and paint colors. All the easiest things to change. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:28 AM Flag
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It always cracks me up when some mom from Texas opens up the high walk in closet the size of my NYC master bedroom and she thinks it's too small. Or not having double sinks. Use the other 8 bathroom sinks! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:16 AM Flag
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OP..yessss exactly. and their minimum for 2 kids on their 230k budget is 2500 sq feet [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:28 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:34 AM Flag
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Get a life [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:27 AM Flag
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Why is this post so much worse than someone complaining about their nanny or asking if they can take a book off the rental house bookshelf? lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:31 AM Flag
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They must get oaid to do this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:28 AM Flag
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^paid [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:28 AM Flag
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I have a friend who works for TLC and she said it is totally fake. Well, not TOTALLY fake.. but the people have already found their houses and bought them by the time the show gets in touch with them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:21 AM Flag
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Poster from below: Yes! My sister was on this show and they had already bought their home. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:26 AM Flag
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Do they just film before they move in? Cause when they "tour" the house it is always empty [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:38 AM Flag
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Yes, I have a realtor friend in CA who was on the show with his hysterically funny lesbian clients, they had already bought their house. They really hammed it up on a House Hunters. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:40 AM Flag
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I love HGTV. What other shows do you watch? I like Love It or List It and Property Brothers. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:25 AM Flag
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OP --- those are my favorites!!! I wish I could hire the property brothers to work their magic in nyc for me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:26 AM Flag
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I don't think there is enough magic in the world to help my apartment. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:38 AM Flag
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I do love those property bros. But completely unrealistic. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:38 AM Flag
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Why do you think it's unrealistic? Signed, Devoted Fan [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:43 AM Flag
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They do an incredible job (I'm a fan too) on a budget that no one else could meet. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:57 AM Flag
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I know, but I can dream can't I? :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:47 AM Flag
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My sister was on this show. They are directed to get annoyed at tiny things (paint colors, sinks, etc.). They had already purchased their house before the show was filmed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:26 AM Flag
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They actaully do not seem that fake. I mean if you compare them to like the kardashians, i feel like the non-actors are kind of more realistic than the kardashians in their made up situations. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:39 AM Flag
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What's the benefit of being on the show? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:32 AM Flag
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good question [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:44 AM Flag
[ - ] do you ever go to work with your hair wet? 21 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:13 AM Flag
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yes! i have curly hair [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:16 AM Flag
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this really is no excuse. wash it at night. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:33 AM Flag
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+1 - never could wash it at night. Needs to air dry. If you're judging my damp hair at 7 a.m. - I'm pretty sure I just don't care. Thankfully I work with mostly men and if you asked them about my hair they'd look at you with a blank stare. FWIW - my hair looks awesome by 10 a.m. and I try not to have many in-person meetings prior to that time because I'm tired, stressed, and busy. My mother also yelled at me for a good 10 years for leaving the house with wet hair - didn't work.. and miraculously I never got sick... maybe because germs, and not wet hair - cause illness... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 03:38 AM Flag
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never [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:27 AM Flag
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Gross [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:27 AM Flag
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gross? LOL. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:30 AM Flag
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yes, it looks like you don't care about yourself [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:44 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:23 AM Flag
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+2, it's...what's the word....sloppy, unkempt...just looks cheesy and gross [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:40 AM Flag
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Yes, I have curly hair. I can't sit around at home for 4 hours waiting for my hair to dry. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:30 AM Flag
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cant you blow dry it?? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:30 AM Flag
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Np: No, it turns into a frizz bomb if I blow dry it or with a diffuser, Shirley Temple spirals. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:32 AM Flag
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You must have straight hair. Blow drying it would turn it into a giant frizz ball Afro. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:33 AM Flag
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Yeah i do haha. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:24 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:32 AM Flag
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no [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:22 AM Flag
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Yes, curly hair [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:41 AM Flag
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Yes, but it dries on the way to work. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:47 AM Flag
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OK, I'll have dry hair if your straight haired ladies don't pull your greasy locks into a ponytail and try to pass that ish off. Nasty. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:48 AM Flag
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Weekends yes. Don't care. On the upside, I don't run around in sneakers and yoga pants. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 12:15 PM Flag
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Of course. I don't own a blow dryer. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 01:07 PM Flag
[ - ] I just can't tonight guys, I'm sorry. There's a lunatic poster on, probably some schizo dude from Ohio off his meds. I hate this site at night. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:11 AM Flag
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Totally agree. I just can't do it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:28 AM Flag
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the one who called me bigfoot? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:31 AM Flag
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Yeeesssss [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:22 AM Flag
[ - ] Yes, i am watching The Real Housewives of NJ. This new housewife is a crazy nutter. I realize she survived cancer so kudos to her but wow, she's really a piece of work. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:09 AM Flag
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not as wacky as those twins haha [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:13 AM Flag
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the fire drills are weird. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:14 AM Flag
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OP: she is so tightly wound. My DH would go nuts being married to her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:25 AM Flag
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How odd that you would admit this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:45 AM Flag
[ - ] Had c-section almost 2 years ago now and scar still itches sometimes. Is this permanent? 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:08 AM Flag
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Mine did for many years. Maybe five? Itchiness goes away. Slight numbness stays forever. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:13 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:27 AM Flag
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+2 c-section 17 years ago..still numb and itch every so often.. 2x year. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:39 AM Flag
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Yes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 04:49 AM Flag
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Mine is 5 and 2 years out. Sooooo itchy and numb. And if someone touches it or jeans/underwear go against it I go crazy! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:17 AM Flag
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Apply vit E [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:49 AM Flag
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I stopped eating gluten. The scars healed. No troll. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:48 AM Flag
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LOL [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 12:16 PM Flag
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Itchy then numb. And mine makes a crease with a little fatty pouch above it. Fun times. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 02:59 AM Flag
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Yes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 04:49 AM Flag
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Me too. So much better than having vagina messed up though. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 06:20 AM Flag
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Mine itched for years. It's fine...the nerves are coming back. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.24.14, 12:16 PM Flag
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