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[ - ] Has anyone ever reported harassment, retaliation or discrimination to HR (without going to outside attorney)? Any advice?? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:56 PM Flag
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Back in the 80s. I was young but reported to a female supervisor. The guy was forced out. [ Reply | More ]
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Lucky you. Back in the 80s it usually backfired against the woman making the complaint. [ Reply | More ]
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Yes. I was told to shut up. Turned out the HR person was very close with head of firm and there had been many girls before me. [ Reply | More ]
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Macquarie? [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] what are your physical deal breakers for men? mine are short bad teeth fat balding pale 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Don't pay attention any more. Married 28 years. [ Reply | More ]
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You sound like you are in middle school. Time to grow up. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:58 PM Flag
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Short bad teeth or short, bad teeth, bald? I never considered height of teeth. I might measure dhs tonight. [ Reply | More ]
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Lol [ Reply | More ]
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I married a tall guy the first time. Now that I am done having kids - I would take a short guy. [ Reply | More ]
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lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 11:33 PM Flag
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Tall, fat, bald, bad teeth, bad features. [ Reply | More ]
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I don't know if I ever had these. I dated a hairy guy, a bald guy, and I married a fat guy. They were all great. Bad teeth usually go with an English accent, so that evens out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 11:35 PM Flag
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I guess I never dated or was attracted to a short guy. But I would do Peter Dinklage in a hot second so maybe I'm okay there as well. [ Reply | More ]
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Me too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 11:42 PM Flag
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fat stomach - grosses me out. fine with bald and bad teeth can be fixed as can pale - more outdoor time! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 11:53 PM Flag
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I'm usually attracted to the alpha male. Current squeeze is a short, balding man with a pot belly. He's absolutely sexy and the fantastic in bed! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 12:58 AM Flag
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Ily [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 02:42 AM Flag
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this. there are a ton of gym-fit guys who are are exciting as wet cardboard. sexy, confident, fantastic can fit into any package. [ Reply | More ]
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Not physical, but inability to use commas. [ Reply | More ]
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misplaced apostrophes. shudder. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 03:54 AM Flag
[ - ] I missed Lost. What are the best television shows to get into? 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:49 PM Flag
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The Americans -- binge now, and the final season will be on early next year. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:51 PM Flag
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Game of Thrones, if you can bear the violence. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 11:06 PM Flag
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Breaking Bad [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 11:35 PM Flag
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The Wire [ Reply | More ]
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Not really a binge because there aren't that many episodes but oh my god Catastrophe is hilarious [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 11:36 PM Flag
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Agreed!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 12:51 AM Flag
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Rectify! A great show. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 12:51 AM Flag
[ - ] What do you think of French versions of Greek girls' names, like "Olympé" for Olympia or "Dorcásse" for Dorcas? Classy, or overdone? 15 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Is this a troll posy? Dorkus is the worst name I can think of. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:51 PM Flag
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No way to sell Dorcas [ Reply | More ]
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Yup, Dorcas has got to go. [ Reply | More ]
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Oceane [ Reply | More ]
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Delfine [ Reply | More ]
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DD goes to a school with a lot of families of Greek origin. They just go for the original. Have not encountered anyone wo uses your French version. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:51 PM Flag
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Who [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:52 PM Flag
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Dorcas Malorcas? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:53 PM Flag
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Simpsons mom? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 11:09 PM Flag
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yes ;) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 12:03 AM Flag
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Both Dorcas and Olympia are just awful names on their own. No need to make them French and even worse. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 11:01 PM Flag
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Know several Olympias. Offensive if you're WASPy or insecure. [ Reply | More ]
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I love the name Olympia. But Dorcas is horrible. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 11:08 PM Flag
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Olympia Dukakis <3 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 11:37 PM Flag
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Pretentious. Makes you look like a dick and makes your dd seem stupid/full of herself. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 11:37 PM Flag
[ - ] I can’t do this anymore as a mom. My 5 yr old is horrible always shouts back, sensitive, cries, no respect to me. I failed as a parent! I sometimes don’t even want to live anymore. Separated mom of two kids. I am about to lose it I want to slap the shit out of my kid but I can’t. It’s emotional abuse by a 5 yr old. 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:41 PM Flag
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Put them in timeout and explain why we don't use hurtful words. Take away toys and privileges. Do whatever works for you, but do something. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:43 PM Flag
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Please take a deep breath, turn on some music and relax. You are a good mom. Now act like one. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:43 PM Flag
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I’m so sorry. I have emotions and often physical abuse by my 3 year old. I get it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:45 PM Flag
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How to talk so Kids will listen [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:50 PM Flag
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Big hug! Second, perfect your poker face. 5 year old is looking for a reaction. Don't give him one. Perfect your "You do not want to fuck with me buddy" look. You calmly take them by the arm, march them to their room, sit them down and let them tantrum it out. You don't reason, coddle, yell at. You keep your voice calm but stern. If he/she keeps it up. Get trash bag, go to room and start dumping toys in it. Throw toys away. Do not look back. About one or two of these sessions will establish who is boss. Also reward good behavior. Make it worth it to be good. Good luck. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:52 PM Flag
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Oh my gosh . You are my twin mom soul mate - I have this 4 year old - soon to be 5. BRAT. never listens. never does what i want. starts an argument about 90 percent of things. I have many many many times just had to nip it in the bud and shouted at her. this makes her cry. this makes me feel horrible. Then the cycle starts again. I am now trying a very nonchalant attitude. like the posters here have said. they are trying to get a rise from us -- WE are the one they feel safest with - they could never do this with their teachers or at school or with Grandma. it is where they are practicing their alternate personality . I do realize this, but like you it gets me so sad. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:58 PM Flag
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Don’t put so much on a 5 yr old. Cmon she has only been alive for 5 years. So she isn’t not respecting you, she isn’t getting good boundaries by you. I know it’s tough, but you have to be tough on her. “Is that how we talk to mommy”? No dessert. (Or whatever). “No, I want dessert”...”well if you talk nice to mommy tomorrow, you can have dessert tomorrow. It could take months, but this is parenting. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 11:39 PM Flag
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Just take responsibility for the fact that your parenting has been subpar and acknowledge that your divorce is probably exacerbating the situation. Then read some books on peaceful parenting, google authoritative parenting, and get a little family counseling. It could all be fine in the end. Or, if you don't take care of it, it could be shit for a very long time. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 11:39 PM Flag
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Read "10 Days to a Less Defiant Child". A great book, you can actually use it (as opposed to reading 300 pages and not getting anything you can actually use except a bunch of theories.) And, don't forget, at 5, they are doing the best they can. What sounds like disrespect, whining, crying is a kid who is just figuring out how to communicate, not a 35 year old who knows how to communicate and is being a jerk. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:48 AM Flag
[ - ] Now that you have to sign a legal waiver to consent to dance at a Princeton dance, are Democrats happy? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:39 PM Flag
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lol go crazy IRA [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 11:04 PM Flag
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Not quite yet [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] What is the max amount of rent a person making 75k a year can spend on rent? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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$1,500? in a dream worls, 25% or your take home. in NYC its closer to 35% if you are lucky. For you it may have to be 50% [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:42 PM Flag
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what is your monthly take-home ( after taxes and insurance)? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:43 PM Flag
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About 60 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:46 PM Flag
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after retirement? What is your take home monthly after retirement, taxes and health insurance? Shouldn't be more than 30% but if you carry no other debt at all, could go up higher. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 11:06 PM Flag
[ - ] What are you buying from the Shopbop sale? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Nothing. I have no patience to dig through websites like that in order to maybe find something I like that most likely won't fit properly or will be of poor quality. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:53 PM Flag
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Who has time to cull through the trash? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 11:40 PM Flag
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Nah [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 01:03 AM Flag
[ - ] Looking for a classic handbag that would work for dinners out and some what nicer occasions (bridal shower, etc.), too. Think I'd get the most use out of black, even though it's the boring choice. Don't like the trend of tiny bags. Style is polished and put-together. Willing to spend $ on something I like. Suggestions?? Thanks. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:37 PM Flag
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No black. Please, for the love of god, no more black bags. Check out Chloë bags, some are gorgeous. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:56 PM Flag
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I love my Chloe shoes. I'll look... [ Reply | More ]
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(I have a brown bag, a navy bag, a green bag, and a blue bag - which is why I'm thinking black! [ Reply | More ]
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That's a lovely bag! Not sure how it will hang on my frame, but under consideration for sure! [ Reply | More ]
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That's a lovely bag! Not sure how it will hang on my frame, but under consideration for sure! [ Reply | More ]
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No leather bags in the evening I thought. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 11:45 PM Flag
[ - ] I am a Democrat and fairly liberal, and not a troll. But you know what I am tired of? All of my seemingly well educated east coast friends crowing about how 'stressful' their lives are now that Trump is in office, and fretting about how it's going to be so VERY VERY hard to be at dinner this thanksgiving with such and such relative that disagrees with them. 32 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:32 PM Flag
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Do you read The Onion? Or maybe it was Clickhole? There was an article this week: Thanksgiving is going to be hard, because I read news outlets owned by liberal billionaires and my relatives read news outlets owned by conservative billionaires. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:33 PM Flag
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Exactly this. I mean, my life isn't terrible, but at least I'm not that asshole complaining about how STRESSED I am over things like this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:35 PM Flag
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That is so accurate. That's why I never let the political strife go to far - if people on each side were honestly seeing the full picture, there wouldn't be this farcical acrimony. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:41 PM Flag
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^For example, my boomer mom who is great and very well-read, reads the Times daily, did not know who Juanita Broaddrick or Jeffrey Epstein were. I didn't know who Carter Page was til fairly late, b/c I had tuned out lib media, when actually you need to know who CP was. [ Reply | More ]
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I'm a lib and I read Fox News for that very reason. But I knew who Juanita Broadrick was without the conservative spin. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:59 PM Flag
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I'm a lib too - you are more likely to see Dennis Kucinich on Fox than on MSNBC. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 11:26 PM Flag
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Who [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:34 PM Flag
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Yes, I am hearing that a lot too. We've had the same makeup of guests/family for years and there are definitely some Trump supporters there. We just don't talk about politics at Thanksgiving and it works out fine. [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
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Ditto. We talk about it some, and there are certainly some different points of view, but don't hate each other over it. What astounds me is how simple and close minded my friends can be, and many have various impressive degrees from TT schools. Are these schools not teaching kids to think? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:38 PM Flag
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NP: My DCs are at private schools in the city, but we are teaching them to be open minded to all views and to come to their own decisions in regards to how they view the world. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:42 PM Flag
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Good to hear. I'm astounded by their attitudes and lack of critical thinking skills. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:46 PM Flag
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Definitely not teaching kids to think. Most people are lemmings and want to be told what to think. I am actually really interested in the psychology involved in getting someone to think independently, or cultivating that as a habit. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:45 PM Flag
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Its not hard, you expose them to different view points and have conversations about it. You also explain the importance of thinking for yourself and being educated to the point of being able to understand where someone else is coming from, even when you don't agree with them. [ Reply | More ]
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I disagree - it is absolutely hard. I could count on one hand the number of people I know who truly think for themselves and I am surrounded by very bright people. Explaining the importance of thinking for yourself doesn't do anything - it doesn't train them to identify bias, to ask qui bono, to spot contradictions, and generally to see beneath the surface of things. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:51 PM Flag
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For us its easy because its a conversation with our DCs. We are teaching them to confront bias and acknowledge it and then overcome it. We are also teaching them to learn both sides of a story before they make a decision. If you start young it is easier. I'm not talking about teaching the general public, that will never work. They are too one sided, but my DH and I decided early on that we don't want our children to be blinded by one side that they fail to see any other side, or the truth. [ Reply | More ]
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I doubt you are going to succeed. You seem overconfident. There is profound human psychology at play here and if you think it's "easy" to overcome, you're missing something. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 11:13 PM Flag
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Op. I'm curious about that too. How do you teach this? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:49 PM Flag
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Currently, with my kids, as we read, I ask them (1) what do you think about XYZ situation and (2) what does the author want you to think? But something I'm very concerned about and not sure how to counter is the effect of peers / media. It's not easy to hold to your own opinion when everyone appears to disagree with you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:58 PM Flag
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Expose them to a lot different opinions and challenge them to think of both sides of an argument when they are making decisions. [ Reply | More ]
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Big hugs. I'm probably like one of your friends, but DH and I are working this weekend and not traveling. Hello movies and Chinatown! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:36 PM Flag
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Yup. It's because they're snowflakes. I'm in the Bay Area and I can't even tell you how bad it's gotten around here. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:43 PM Flag
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I am here too it is crazy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:49 PM Flag
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People who live in multi million dollar homes who have experienced essentially no ramifications from recent political events? I mean, I wish Hillary had won too, but I also realize my immediate life hasn't changed much. And I also realize that people who disagree with me aren't all idiots and Neanderthals. [ Reply | More ]
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I'm an independent. During the election, I challenged my democrat husband to wear a MAGA hat around San Francisco and see what he thought of the reactions. He wouldn't do it. I was happy about that though because I didn't want him to be physically attacked. [ Reply | More ]
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I'm also an Indep. in SF who voted for the only Democrat in the race, DJT - if you wear that hat in SF, you *will* be beaten, and *no one will care* - it won't even make the news. Totally insane. [ Reply | More ]
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This - my favorite presidents have been democrats, and I am sad that it has turned into the party of thuggery (at least around here) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 04:16 AM Flag
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You encouraged him to do something that you thought would lead to him being physically attacked? [ Reply | More ]
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I was making a point. And the point was well taken. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 04:15 AM Flag
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It's bad on both sides. But I think this year will be better than last. [ Reply | More ]
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Is this really happening? I'd think everyone would be feeling pretty mellow with the stock market gains. Trump is Trump but they're holding out hope for the pendulum to swing back. In the meantime, 42% gain in my IRA is making ME feel magnanimous toward my Trump-voting Midwestern cousins. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 11:42 PM Flag
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just don't do thanksgiving with them - i won't [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 11:56 PM Flag
[ - ] This isn't nice but it is honest - I'm feeling super sorry for myself, have done everything you're supposed to do -did well in school, supported myself married etc - such a rule follower - and I'm a non entity at work my marriage is stale money is a constant struggle - and I just found out that a girl I know who is so entitled, such a gold digger, got knocked up and then married the guy and she is living in this amazing house in an amazing place etc - I know it's all surface but my surface sucks and so does the substance. Feeling low. 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:29 PM Flag
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Don't compare her outsides with anything in your life. Sorry you're feeling low. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:31 PM Flag
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She's horrible. And I guess I am too for feeling this way. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:32 PM Flag
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You're not horrible for feeling this way. Everyone compares themselves. That's why I avoid Facebook. Overall, I like my life but for some reason Facebook invariably makes me feel depressed about my choices, the stuff I do with DC, etc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:33 PM Flag
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It's frustrating, I know what you mean. Being a "good girl" doesn't count for anything. Live and learn... [ Reply | More ]
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I don't have any advice, but I think many people feel like you do [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:38 PM Flag
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Just remember, there is honor in struggling. Resilience is an extremely important quality that some people don't develop, and they suffer for it later. Struggling builds resilience. You can't see it, but it's there. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:47 PM Flag
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Eh thx But I've suffered enough I could use some pleasure [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:50 PM Flag
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Read the Johnny Rotten memoir or something - inspire yourself to not be a rule follower. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:49 PM Flag
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ILY. [ Reply | More ]
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You're shallow [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 11:43 PM Flag
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Put more effort into your marriage. Change your attitude at work and either become what they want and shine there or move somewhere where you'll be excited to do more. Why is money a struggle? Spending too much? Stop. Downsize if you need to. And for Christ's sake get some perspective. You have every advantage in life. If you don't like how it's going, change it. Before it's too late. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 11:45 PM Flag
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Forget about this woman. You have no idea what her relationship is really like - or anyone's for that matter - and if she is really a horrible person as you say her existence is it's own punishment. Instant karma. Start shaking things up for yourself. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 05:21 AM Flag
[ - ] It's weird to think that the 50's and early 60's are thought of as a more stiflingly conservative time than now, but some of the most beloved songs of that era like "I Saw Her Standing There" allude to what the modern Conservative-Democrat party would call "pedophilia" when this is just the most vanilla example. There's a little bit of cognitive dissonance between the Dems creaming their pants when Jay-Z goes to the White House and their increasing moralism that puts them at odds with people like my 95-year old grandma b/c they are too uptight. 42 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:26 PM Flag
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Agree - Dems need to decide if they are 'sex-positive/not judgy' or if they are the Christian Coalition and Ralph Reed will be their next nominee - right now I am confused as to which they are. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:26 PM Flag
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Right. Life is totally black and white! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:28 PM Flag
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I am just talking about party message. B/c we need to know if we want to be a part of the party or not - and right now I am confused if they are crusading moralists or nihilistic hedonists. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:30 PM Flag
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Do you live in America or elsewhere. I can understand if you don't live in the U.S. If you live in the U.S. Our society has failed you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:33 PM Flag
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Sorry for punctuation issues. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:34 PM Flag
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Can you enlighten me as to what you are trying to say - your statements are vague and hard to grasp. [ Reply | More ]
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There's probably a language barrier. Big bear hug, if you know what I mean. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:38 PM Flag
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You still haven't communicated any substantive ideas outside of 'it's not like that' and 'you are Russian.' I am waiting for the money shot. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:39 PM Flag
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Wow, way to read into things not said. Sounds like your OP. Stand back and take a look at all this. You'd be creamed in court on these generalizations. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:46 PM Flag
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And you still haven't actually put forth any idea outside of 'no, that's not how it is/Russia.' [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:50 PM Flag
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Because your post was based on generalities. Not my job to prove your theory. That's on you. Get your own experts. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:53 PM Flag
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You still haven't said anything lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:57 PM Flag
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I see you're not a lawyer. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:59 PM Flag
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Dems in 2017: "Russia = Russia" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 11:02 PM Flag
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Funny you make that leap. Who said Russia? You did. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 11:07 PM Flag
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"Do you live in America or elsewhere. I can understand if you don't live in the U.S. If you live in the U.S. Our society has failed you." [ Reply | More ]
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You sound really young and lacking any kind of historical context. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:27 PM Flag
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Enlighten us. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:27 PM Flag
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No, this is pretty much spot on. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:27 PM Flag
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No it's not. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:33 PM Flag
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The girl in I Saw Her Standing There is 17. That may be a legal minor, but being attracted to a 17-year-old is not pedophilia. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:28 PM Flag
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Neither is 14. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:29 PM Flag
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If the 14 yo looks like a woman, I would agree with you. However, acting on that attraction in ANY way is completely wrong and illegal. It can also ruin young women's lives. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:34 PM Flag
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She looked like a woman. So what are we so worked up about? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:40 PM Flag
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That a 30 year old man was acting on attractions to someone below the legal age of consent? 17 is one thing because it's at least above the age of consent, but 14 is quite another. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 11:04 PM Flag
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dunno i could give a shit about the sex life of some Alabama rep literally during the Ford era. Was not even born yet and have never been to Alabama. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 11:13 PM Flag
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when you meet a 14 year old girl at her custody hearing, you know she's not a woman [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 05:24 AM Flag
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That's my point, though - Roy Moore was trying to make her into one. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 05:35 AM Flag
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Creeps [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:38 PM Flag
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Boris doesn't really research his talking points much. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:29 PM Flag
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Do you think the modern Dems would be stoked on a 32-year old Roy Moore dating a 17-year old? Does that ring true? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:31 PM Flag
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This. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:33 PM Flag
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Is that your understanding of the Dem party position? Now they are upset b/c Charlie Rose watched a James Spader movie? It's like Newt Gingrich in 1995 listening to these insufferable dweebs. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:34 PM Flag
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This [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:33 PM Flag
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16 is legal in Alabama. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:40 PM Flag
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The boy who is singing I Saw Her Standing There is not much older than 17. Not pedophilia. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 11:07 PM Flag
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Paul still sings it nightly tho [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 11:23 PM Flag
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This is a continuing effort to normalize sexual assault. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:33 PM Flag
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I don't get why people always jump in with 'Russia' - Russia was *allied* with the Democrats - Podesta, Clinton, Obama. Are people not keeping up with the news? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:36 PM Flag
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Uranium One [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:59 PM Flag
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The summer of love was a freer time tgan today. Go ask Alice [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:49 PM Flag
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This. -OP [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:54 PM Flag
[ - ] Being unsure whether to have another DC is the oddest feeling of limbo. Unsure whether my family feels complete, unsure whether to get rid of the old baby things 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:23 PM Flag
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I've never understood the "complete" part. Every kid is awesome. Don't know what complete means. Sorry. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:26 PM Flag
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I just felt done after my second. I wasn't sure I would have that feeling, but once it hit, there was no mistaking it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:29 PM Flag
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How did you know you were done? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:31 PM Flag
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Done or complete? Two very different issues IMO. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:35 PM Flag
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Maybe I'm articulating it poorly because I feel so in limbo. I'm not sure how to decide whether to have another [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:38 PM Flag
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Go for it. If you change your mind you can always sell it, assuming it's white and healthy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:28 PM Flag
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lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 11:45 PM Flag
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how many do you have now, and how much extra money and time do you have? if you have plenty of money time and help, GO FOR IT. otherwise, be grateful for what you have and reember that the grass is always greener [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:45 PM Flag
[ - ] I told my dad I was going out of town yesterday so I wouldn't have to deal with him at Thanksgiving. I really can't stand any of my immediate family, basically. 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:15 PM Flag
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So sorry...and s sad for you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:24 PM Flag
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OP:Thanks. It IS sad. But dealing with them is even more sad. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:57 PM Flag
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So jealous. I may do that next year [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:26 PM Flag
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OP: lol I highly recommend it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:58 PM Flag
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good for you!! Enjoy your day free of BS family stress and drama. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 11:21 PM Flag
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Good for you! There's no reason to let toxic relatives ruin your life. Have a fun day. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 11:46 PM Flag
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that's OK. you told the truth - no go have fun! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 11:58 PM Flag
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oops! now^ [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 11:58 PM Flag
[ - ] A Texas Congressman's nudie pics leaked. Two years ago that might have been the biggest political scandal we'd hear about. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:13 PM Flag
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It's gonna be a big scandal because it's revenge porn. A woman he was in a consensual relationship with leaked them to get back at him [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:19 PM Flag
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Lol if you think anyone will prosecute a woman for revenge porn. That's for malicious men [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:20 PM Flag
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Bad lady!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 10:21 AM Flag
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Bad lady!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.17, 10:21 AM Flag
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Link to the pics? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:21 PM Flag
[ - ] Princeton declares in a facebook post that consent must be continually sought on the dance floor 27 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:10 PM Flag
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Beyond merely asking "Do you wanna dance?" and waiting for an affirmative response, the infographic also instructs students to "frequently" ask whether their partner is "still into this" throughout the dance. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:11 PM Flag
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LOL, because apparently Princeton students have to be told — frequently — that it’s okay for them to stop dancing if they aren’t into it any more. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:12 PM Flag
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AHAHAHAHAHA omg we have fucked things up [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:38 PM Flag
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dear god they're gonna make their students more aspie than they already are [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:11 PM Flag
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They can't be more socially awkward than Columbia kids.. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:15 PM Flag
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I live near Columbia University - what is wrong with those kids? They seem really weird. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 11:08 PM Flag
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For dance types that aren't strictly pair based, like square dancing, is this what computer nerds call an N squared problem, where every dancer has to ask every other dancer's permission? Because as the nerds say, that doesn't scale well. But it seems you'd have to do that; merely announcing that those who no longer wish to dance can sit out seems to not be sufficient, since anyone can always do that without an announcement. And for, say, a 20 person dance - maybe a Reel - how do you handle the situation where #5 is willing to dance with everyone but #17 and #9, while #11 will dance with everyone but #3 and #2, etc. It seems that the choreography would get pretty complicated. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:12 PM Flag
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Suppose 300 people are dancing in the mosh pit, and #44 doen't wish to dance any more with #77, while #33 doesn't wish to dance with #44 anymore. Who has to leave? If #44 leaves to make #33 happy, can #77 now return? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:13 PM Flag
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Lol "are you still into this?" is some needy fucking shit. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:13 PM Flag
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I'm now imagining dinner dates where someone keeps asking, "So, are you having a good time?...Are you still having a good time?...You know if you're not having a good time at any point, it's really fine for you to go home!" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:31 PM Flag
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worst date ever [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:57 PM Flag
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Cultural marxists set out decades ago to destroy Christian morality, but as with everything confused and hypocritical they do, they at the same time ran into obvious contradictions with various parts of their class and victim-based politics. So they have muddled their way along and cobbled together a Frankenstein facsimile of a moral system, of course, without God, Natural Law, tradition, sin the 10 Commandments or anything like that. We now have Progressives and dimwit Leftists making up “rules for the dance floor,” replacing something Emily Post might have done many decades ago, without any grace or refinement, and more like rules for a mixed-martial arts cage match. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:13 PM Flag
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Being on the dance floor does NOT imply consent to dancing [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:14 PM Flag
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it's like footloose, but instead of a pastor, you have ultra-lib university administrators. comical. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:14 PM Flag
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So feminism is now advocating we treat women like dumb children? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:14 PM Flag
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I just read this post to DH who said, "does that mean every woman I ever danced with in college sexually harassed me?" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:14 PM Flag
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This pronoun shit is crazy: If your/zhur/zir/zum partner consents, remind him/her/zur/ze/ree/kee/ghee/pree that it's okay and totally cool to end the dance early if they/zhey/zhem/zeem choose. After all, dancing is about having a good time! So get consent, and let's/zhets/zets/rets/kets dance! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:14 PM Flag
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What? Are you having a seizure? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:23 PM Flag
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No, that's literally what princeton published [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:30 PM Flag
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And this is the school that is #1 on my DS' college list. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:18 PM Flag
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My prediction is that 95% of students will not actually pay any attention to this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:32 PM Flag
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My DS is a feminist ally and is very serious about this kind of stuff. I don't think he's the outlier in his generation [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:36 PM Flag
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Good for him! It would be nice to think things will be easier for the next generation of young women. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:50 PM Flag
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OMG [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:38 PM Flag
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Democrats [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:38 PM Flag
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Have you never been to a club where you are dancing with friends and guy gets behind you and tries to start grinding you. ANNOYING! I'm old now so it doesn't apply to me but it was super annoying when I was younger. Usually a fuck off look worked. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:57 PM Flag
[ - ] Whose hair do you admire/wish you had? What is your hair really like in its natural state? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:05 PM Flag
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I love QE I's hairline. Wish it was still in style. Right now I'm mor Neanderthal than Homo Sapien. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:07 PM Flag
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More [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:07 PM Flag
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Remember Duff from mtv? I always wanted something like that, or like what Catherine Zeta-Jones had in that burlesque movie or what Uma Thurman had in Pulp Fiction, I know their wigs but I always just wanted straight dark shiny hair in a very blunt Bob maybe with or without bangs I'm not sure. What I have is fine, thin, dark brown hair that is slightly wavy but not curly and I keep it really really short in a severe spiky pixie which I like a lot -- it's taking me a long time to accept that when I try to grow it out it's never gonna look good! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:08 PM Flag
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Very fine, mostly straight with a slight wave, dirty blonde. i wish it had a little more heft/body to it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:10 PM Flag
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Alicia Keys. Big and curly. Elon Musk's mother. Gorgeous silver and healthy! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:19 PM Flag
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I love long, naturally straight, shiny hair -- like on many Asian or latina women. Mine is wavy, dull and dry. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:29 PM Flag
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its crazy, because jennifer anistons real hair doesnt resemble AT ALL what she transforms it into, but it always looks so good. Honestly, she has a good hairline and a high crown, so she looks like she has volume even when her hair is totally flat. Does this make sense? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:47 PM Flag
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Yep, I get it. And agree, her hair is something only time and money can buy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.22.17, 10:59 PM Flag
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