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[ - ] Dh went to another country for 7 days. It has been lovely. He will be back tonight. Ugh. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:51 AM Flag
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You have problems lady! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:52 AM Flag
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my DH is gone till sunday. I loved it for the first day, and now I'm missing him a lot :( [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:54 AM Flag
[ - ] I just want to say, I have gotten so much helpful advice on here. And thanks in part to UB, my DC made it to R2 for Hunter. If he gets in, I will share the good karma and post what they do in R2! :) 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:48 AM Flag
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Aw. My dc is also going to R2. When is your session? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:53 AM Flag
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1st weekend. I'm glad I'll get it over with sooner rather than later. I'll be so relieved when it's all over, one way or another. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:54 AM Flag
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What kind of advice from here helped get your DC to R2? [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] How can I become a kinder person? I come home at the end of the day run ragged and look over my day and there were a hundred small choices I made that seem to sum up into me doing things that are hurtful to people, tuning out while subordinates talk, getting impatient with DH and frustrated with DCs, etc. I feel like my one-glass-of-chardonnay self is a good person but (or because) she's not around other people most of the time 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:47 AM Flag
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accept who you are. be kind when you can, don't beat yourself when you cannot. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:51 AM Flag
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Do random acts of kindness throughout the day, it really helps. The other day I found a guys wallet in a cab and tracked him down to return it; the other day someone had an expired metro card and I swiped her on the bus; tonight my DD got (yet another) Elsa doll from a relative for Hanukkah, so we are bringing it to the woman that did my nails today and told me she had a DD same age as my DD and is obsessed with Frozen. These little things make me feel good [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:52 AM Flag
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My mood dramatically improved when I got a less stressful job and made other changes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:54 AM Flag
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What did you used to do? What do you do now? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:55 AM Flag
[ - ] Why do Asian men make the most convincing transsexuals? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:46 AM Flag
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They are smaller-boned and shorter, like women [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:49 AM Flag
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ITA [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:52 AM Flag
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Only some Asian men from countries like Thailand, Vietnam, Laos etc. are convincing. Many Asian men of Chinese or Korean descent are extremely unconvincing. Prominent transsexual Meredith Talusan is Filipina and if you Google her you can see she isn't even convincing in her own self-portraits. [ Reply | More ]
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But are they more convincing than men of other races, is the question [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Almost every woman I know who has been married 10+ years has a marriage that is, maybe not necessarily on the rocks, but, they're not doing great. You? 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:40 AM Flag
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divorced at year 12, after two terrible years. I do know some people who seem fine, but who really knows what goes on behind closed doors? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:42 AM Flag
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really? 10 years seems like a pretty reliable number for things to last at least five to seven years more. but what do i know? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:43 AM Flag
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yes, what do you know about other people? nothing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:45 AM Flag
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i'm just thinking if people can make through ten years, they've seen everything -- kids, jobs coming and going, purchasing a house, selling a house, in-laws, waning of libido. just figure you've made it over the hump. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:53 AM Flag
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op - not so hard to make it last, but, possibly not so happy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:46 AM Flag
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we're doing pretty well. 11 years+. we have a lot of money so that helps some things. he's a pretty easy going guy, which helps, also. and i've mellowed out as i've gotten older, too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:42 AM Flag
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op - money doesn't seem to help us. we're very comfortable and both of us frugal so, no money doesn't even figure into the equation. he's so not easy going, that's the problem. wound up and sensitive. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:44 AM Flag
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yeah, that would suck. dh is a good guy. he used to be more of an ass but always a good guy. he's mellowed out some like i have as he's gotten older, too. we're 44. how about you? maybe age would help, too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:54 AM Flag
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Doing really well, but we are both professionally in a groove and don't have children. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:44 AM Flag
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totally different situation [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:45 AM Flag
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Or - agree [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:46 AM Flag
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no shit. things are SO much easier without children. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:54 AM Flag
[ - ] Someone I know professionally to be a scumbag has asked me to recommend his kid at ds's school (they are applying for K). WWYD?i 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:38 AM Flag
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Oh no. Good luck [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:38 AM Flag
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I'm sorry, I don't know your child well enough to write a recommendation. OR I've already written recommendations for this year. Or simply, I don't write recommendations [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:39 AM Flag
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He didn't ask for a written letter, just to pop in to admissions. I said sure. Now what? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:54 AM Flag
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tepid rec [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:41 AM Flag
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I'd be honest with either the school (do you really want that family there?) or let him know you're not very good at writing Isuzu things. I'd go with the first option. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:41 AM Flag
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^^ Isuzu? I don't even know what I was trying to say [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:42 AM Flag
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just don't do it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:44 AM Flag
[ - ] so that top jewish things post got deleted? i am slightly surprised. did the top wasp post get deleted, too? this place is becoming way too pc. 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:35 AM Flag
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fucking kikes need ot be GASSED [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:39 AM Flag
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santa, when am i going to get my x-mas present? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:40 AM Flag
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KIKE!!!!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:42 AM Flag
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i'll take moses if he can deliver. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:44 AM Flag
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This is the problem. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:42 AM Flag
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kumbaya my lord, kumbayaaaaaa (all holding hands) - wtf? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:43 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:44 AM Flag
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absolutely agree. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:44 AM Flag
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why? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:45 AM Flag
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cuz fucking troll replying to herself. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:54 AM Flag
[ - ] Why George clooney is supporting wrong side these days?? Is it Muslim effect on him?? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:32 AM Flag
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What are you talking about? What wrong side? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:36 AM Flag
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yeah its that turdskin SLUT he married [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:40 AM Flag
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i hate this fucking troll but she got the message across in a brief and acerbic way. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:45 AM Flag
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and another reason you should all agree it's a woman -- wtf says slut except women AND wtf is keeping track of who is marrying whom except, again, women? it is a she. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:46 AM Flag
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Fuck you cunt [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:53 AM Flag
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WHAT?? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:46 AM Flag
[ - ] How do I handle this problem? For Thanksgiving my SIL asked what she could bring, I said cold shrimp. What she brought tasted like rubber bands! Now for Christmas she wants to bring a shrimp platter. What should I say? 17 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:24 AM Flag
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Sure. Thank you. If you don't like it, don't eat it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:26 AM Flag
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this [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:47 AM Flag
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+1 other people ate them, right? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:47 AM Flag
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Oh, I already ordered one....hmmmm....could you bring rolls? I totally forgot them when I went shopping! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:26 AM Flag
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With grace: "thank you, that would be lovely." [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:30 AM Flag
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Try being honest. When you hide behind lies, that is what usually get you/ "No offense, but the shrimp that you brought on Turkey day tasted like rubber bands. Can you bring some cheese and crackers for Christmas? Thanks! Love you nd love having you in the family. Looking forward to being with you. Oh, no smelly cheeses, OK? Luvs again." [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:31 AM Flag
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Wtf [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:33 AM Flag
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Love having you in the family? OMG I would hate it if my SIL said that to me!! He is MY BROTHER! Love having YOU in the family. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:34 AM Flag
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np. ??? While the OR's suggestion is rubbish, your reaction is super crazy/projecting. We don't know which SIL OP is. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:40 AM Flag
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Rubbish? Step outside sister! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:41 AM Flag
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pp. Beginning any actual, out-loud sentence with "no offense, but" is clearly meant to cause offense. Rubbish, I say, and I'll stick to it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:46 AM Flag
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Ok. No SIL should say that to another. It doesn't matter if it's her husband's sister or her brother's wife. It's very condescending. The only ok time to welcome someone into the family is a wedding. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:46 AM Flag
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Not true. My SIL is my best buddy and we joke about the crazy fucked up rich family we married into all the time. We are sisters now....for better or worse (hopefully worse and FIL will kick the bucket soon and our DHs will get their fair share). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:52 AM Flag
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no, no, no - not this [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:34 AM Flag
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+1 don't eat it. damn y'all. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:47 AM Flag
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+100 I have to be on your side or. These witches do not know how to live in peace. They need too much drama in their live. Get mary j's album from 15 years ago and a new therapist. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:39 AM Flag
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Tell her you're doing a shrimp dish and ask her to bring something else. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:46 AM Flag
[ - ] I hate being overweight, but I keep doing things like accidentally eating a whole bag of tortilla chips without noticing it. They were "kale flavored" :( 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:23 AM Flag
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Don't buy that crap, don't bring any crap into your house! If it's not there, you won't eat it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:26 AM Flag
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I bought it for houseguests coming this weekend... Now I have to run out and get something else for them :( :( :( [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:40 AM Flag
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Get them some triscuts and easy cheese in a can. Between you an me, we will nto get tho this (I am soooo craving some ez cheese). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:44 AM Flag
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tipsy drunk dad here ^^^^above that is^^^^^ [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:45 AM Flag
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Hey drunk dad, do you like fatties? Because am pig. Wink [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:52 AM Flag
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Wink back at you. Gay fat dad, but love me some drinking gal best buddies. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:54 AM Flag
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I love you (as I sit here in my elastic waist pants eating Hershey nuggets with almonds) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:32 AM Flag
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Aw thanks, ILU2 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:43 AM Flag
[ - ] What's your favorite WHITENING toothpaste? Have been having too much tea lately... 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:20 AM Flag
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NIGGER JIZZ [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:41 AM Flag
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omg. lol. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:41 AM Flag
[ - ] Anyone feel like they've hit it out of the park professionally but behind closed doors their personal life is in complete shambles? 15 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:05 AM Flag
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shambles X 2 right here. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:09 AM Flag
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details please [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:10 AM Flag
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Sahambles ×2 here too. Mommy tracked to raise dc, then divorced. Wonder what life would have been if I never married, never became a parent, and made a real career for myself. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:11 AM Flag
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Im the other way around. Personal life is amazing, but i'm questioning my career and I feel like i'm back at square one. I don't know what to do. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:12 AM Flag
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Yes..doing extremely well at work, blessed to have a fantastic boss/mentor and respected by colleagues. None of them know I come home to an unemployed alcoholic. My life is night/day. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:15 AM Flag
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ugh, you posted the other day didn't you? this sucks. so sorry. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:28 AM Flag
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I'm so sorry. I work with an incredibly talented, smart woman and her DH is also unemployed and an alcoholic. She started going to AlAnon which has really helped. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:48 AM Flag
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No but it sucks that someone else is dealing with the same thing. Wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:49 AM Flag
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Yup. My kids are kind of assholes sometimes and I always think they are aggressive toward me because I'm not around as much as I should be. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:15 AM Flag
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Yep, kinda shambles x2 over here too. Have remained in a job that pays decently and is pretty stress-free. but is FAR from my ideal job so that DH can pursue his passions. Am very resentful because DH is never home [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:18 AM Flag
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Which way would you prefer to have it? I've found I've never been able to have, what I would consider, a successful career AND home life. One always gives. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:21 AM Flag
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Without the successful career I wouldn't have a roof over my head. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:22 AM Flag
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No. I have a great family but I was a SAHM for a long time and it killed my career [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:22 AM Flag
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this [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:29 AM Flag
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Ha, I feel the opposite. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:41 AM Flag
[ - ] North Korea has confirmed that it is NOT behind the Sony hacking case, so why is the Obama administration still trying to pin the blame on NK and distract from the actual culprits? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:04 AM Flag
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Nice try. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:23 AM Flag
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LOL. North Korea has confirmed...... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:34 AM Flag
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Haha, that struck me as funny too! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:35 AM Flag
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we confirmed, they confirmed. are you seriously trollling in the hope that no one else bothers to read the paper? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:48 AM Flag
[ - ] I am 6 weeks pregnant with my second baby. I was throwing up at this point with my first pregnancy, this time around I'm just really tired with sore boobs and indigestion, but no morning sickness. Is this a red flag that the pregnancy is not progressing right? It took us 7 months to get pregnant and I really hope it sticks! 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:03 AM Flag
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Every pregnancy is different. I'm pregnant with my 2nd dc and this has been completely different than my first. Good luck! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:07 AM Flag
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OP--in what ways? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:09 AM Flag
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I was symptom free with my first and felt great the entire time. This time around has been so different. I'm 16 weeks and finally started feeling human at 10 weeks. I feel like I got my comeuppance this time around since I was so obnoxious about how great I felt last time. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:11 AM Flag
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OP--my first one I threw up daily from 6-10 weeks and I was exhausted. This time I'm 6 weeks and definitely exhausted, have food aversions, but not vomiting or sick [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:13 AM Flag
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NP I've always heard that each pregnancy is different. I would definitely not be worried. Talk to your doctor if you think that will help calm your fears. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:22 AM Flag
[ - ] If you voted for DeBlasio, would you re-elect him? 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 01:53 AM Flag
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NO [ Reply | More ]
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Op. Is anyone happy with his performance? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 01:54 AM Flag
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I've been pretty pleased with it. I like how he's put a lot of money into the aquarium, as well as cut down on white collar crime particularly that involving the theft of laptop computers in local coffee shops. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 01:57 AM Flag
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Op. Lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 01:57 AM Flag
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Absolutely. I think he's done an awful lot, and I'm a huge fan of Carmen Farina. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:06 AM Flag
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Do you post about SA on UB? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:07 AM Flag
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Eh [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:18 AM Flag
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+1 sums it up [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:32 AM Flag
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Who voted for DeBlasio and expected something different than we are getting? I like that about him... no guile. We elected a progressive as mayor and all of a sudden people are surprised he is acting like a progressive. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 02:41 AM Flag
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Not even an antique eletric car company owner would reelect him. [ Reply | More ]
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