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[ - ] Are you concerned about the anniversary of 9/11 this year? Would you leave the city? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:54 AM Flag
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why is it any different than any other year? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:55 AM Flag
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Because the world seems to be getting crazier everyday. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 05:24 AM Flag
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Crime rates have never been lower. Stop watching Fox News, moron [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 06:08 AM Flag
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Go watch Strangers on a Train or something and see that the world is the same. There's no safety net of the 1950s. Remember the Alamo and the holocaust? The world is the same. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 06:35 AM Flag
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Why this year? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:56 AM Flag
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No, no [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 05:10 AM Flag
[ - ] Is my DH depressed: he is cranky, unmotivated, avoids healthy dialog about himself (me wanting him to address his issues) and says he doesn't even like his work anymore (sick of the entire Industry not just his job). He told me yesterday to leave him alone and to let him figure out his own stuff vs me trying to offer advice. I am worried about him... 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:14 AM Flag
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Did psychic mom log off? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:21 AM Flag
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Probably. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:36 AM Flag
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Don't need a psychic to know that he is. Leave him alone for a week and see if he comes out of his shell. Let HIM come to YOU. Otherwise you will just piss him off. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:25 AM Flag
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Don't offer advice. Listen. Leave him alone is not how partners act. Listen. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:28 AM Flag
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Trust your instincts. If you're worried maybe take the lead on setting up an appointment with a psychiatrist for him. That shows you care but also respect his need for space. What industry does he work in, broadly? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:31 AM Flag
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If my spouse set up an appointment with a psychiatrist for me without me knowing I would be very resentful and probably angry. Discuss this as a possibility with him... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:50 AM Flag
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If he's unmotivated and depressed, he nay appreciate it and thank her later. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:53 AM Flag
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Sounds like you're hassling a bit, he's asking you to back off. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:54 AM Flag
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Yes, this sounds a bit like depression. A word of advice (ironic given what I'm about to say): Don't give him advice. Be available as a sounding board and rather than trying to solve his problems, help him explore the topic (of his job dissatisfaction, his lack of motivation, etc.). When I'm too quick with my advice, my DH (who is also prone to depression), clams up. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:51 AM Flag
[ - ] Not quite sure what is going on but apparently a social worker was called in after an incident in school and they had a home visit, which didn't go quite well. What do you think will happen, does anybody here know what happens in situations like this? Not quite sure if the children are in state custody or what- nobody ever tells me anything. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:13 AM Flag
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Could you be more vague, perhaps? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:17 AM Flag
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I bet she loves to vague book to, updating her status with things like "not sure I can take this anymore" and when 50 friends say OMG I hope its all ok call me, Whats going on? , I love you call me? etc and she never responds to any of it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:59 AM Flag
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You need to explain more. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:28 AM Flag
[ - ] Anyone take the Myers Briggs personality test? What type were you? Did you agree? 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:12 AM Flag
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ENTJ, yes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:16 AM Flag
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INTJ - I've taken this test often because of my line of work and I always get the same result. I agree w my scores. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:43 AM Flag
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Sorry, meant to reply to the OP! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:44 AM Flag
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I haven't taken that one, but took the Disc one and I agreed with that [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:08 AM Flag
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ENFP, though I feel like I could be INFP [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:22 AM Flag
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I'm INFP and my soon to be husband is ESTJ - bad? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:36 AM Flag
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Depends. How old are you? If older then probably not bad. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 06:10 AM Flag
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I'm an INTJ or ENTJ depending on the day. I agree with it and believe that I'm truly in the middle of the Introvert-Extrovert spectrum, although as I get older I find that I'm becoming more introverted. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:54 AM Flag
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INTP [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 05:12 AM Flag
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ESTJ [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 05:17 AM Flag
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estp - considered ultimate realists and yes i would agree [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 06:27 AM Flag
[ - ] would you date or marry a man with a non life threatening but nevertheless noticeable deformity? be honest. 22 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:01 AM Flag
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I would if he has the important qualities that I am looking for [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:09 AM Flag
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I'm asking because my brother has this: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pectus_excavatum and he claims that no woman would ever love him. he refuses to even try to get a date and it's really sad :( [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:00 AM Flag
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That's not terrible. I liked a guy with severe scoliosis when I was a teenager (one shoulder was slightly higher than the other). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:05 AM Flag
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It's an excuse. Don't buy into his self-pity. There's a lot more to attraction than just looks! If he's self-pitying and insecure that will self-sabotage than any deformity could interfere. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:17 AM Flag
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this! insecurity is unattractive, deformities alone are not [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:16 AM Flag
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Ding ding ding. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:32 AM Flag
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This would not be a deal breaker for me. Can you even really tell when he is wearing a shirt? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:05 AM Flag
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You can tell if you are looking for it specifically, but it doesn't look too bad. He works out his chest muscles a lot to try to cover it up, so that's the first thing I think women would notice if they were looking there. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:08 AM Flag
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I think I dated a guy like this, though it wasn't so pronounced. Yes, plenty of women could love him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:18 AM Flag
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Does the deformity affect his penis? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 03:58 AM Flag
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yes, he has an extra growing out the base of his spine, like f*** tail. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:06 AM Flag
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I think when I was younger, maybe not, but as I get older and the ins and outs of marriage are SO hard with someone who is pretty attractive, that something like a deformity does not matter so much if the man is wonderful company. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:12 AM Flag
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I dated a guy who had moles all over 1/3 of his body (hey DeGrim!) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:13 AM Flag
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I know someone who was a thalidomide baby and it seems like he has a girlfriend who is "normal" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:19 AM Flag
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Not if he can be active. I went on one date with aguy with a sever limp and I admit I couldn't do it. If I already loved someone and they were in an accident or something, sure, but to start with someone who can't take a walk in the park with you is hard. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:43 AM Flag
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I dated a guy with a milder form of this. It never crossed my mind to not date him because of it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:45 AM Flag
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Absolutely. And I admit I can get hung up on really minor things (not proud of this, but being honest). This does not seem like a big deal at all. Your brother needs to just own it. I really think most people would not even notice this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 04:56 AM Flag
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He is using it as an excuse, I bet he is actually gay and afraid to come out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 05:13 AM Flag
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Maybe this [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 05:36 AM Flag
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I think he'd have an even harder time if he were gay. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 05:39 AM Flag
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No/No. Everyone is being very PC and I am going to go against the grain. Deformities are not attractive and I wouldn't be attracted to someone with one. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 06:46 AM Flag
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Probably. Then again, my husband has a life threatening but non-visible disability. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.03.14, 06:58 AM Flag
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