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[ - ] What do you think is a "perfect" age to get married. (Obviously there is none but if you had to pick one) 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:24 PM Flag
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28 [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Okay, so I'm probably going to be flamed here but I really need some advice. I have been staying home for the past few months thanks to some medical issues and over that time I have become personally friendly with my best friend's husband. Our kids are in the same class and so we have done a few little outings together. He's fun to be around, and very accommodating. Last night both of our spouses were working late and so I brought the kids over and we had dinner together. He kissed me, and honestly, I kissed him back. We didn't speak about it after that, but I got a text from him at 5:30 asking if we could go get coffee and talk. 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:19 PM Flag
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How is your marriage? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:20 PM Flag
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I love my husband more than anything and he is a great father/spouse. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:21 PM Flag
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Lady...don't shit in your own yard. I'm not going to lecture you on the morality of cheating but don't be stupid enough to do it with your best friends husbands...although I think you should really reconsider the best friend part. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:20 PM Flag
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I have no intention of sleeping with this man. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:23 PM Flag
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I'm sure your BF is going to thank you and be relieved you only made out with her husband. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:25 PM Flag
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Yeah sure. He'll talk you into it. Very common scenario. The. You will sleep with him and say you are in love and feel tortured etc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:27 PM Flag
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is the guy a stay at home dad? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:21 PM Flag
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No, he's an author. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:23 PM Flag
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Ugh. Sahd who is bored [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:28 PM Flag
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And the advice you require is . . . ? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:21 PM Flag
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I don't know what to do. I don't know if I should tell my husband or my friend or if I should cut off all contact. I'm so stressed out right now. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:24 PM Flag
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You should tell neither your DH nor your friend and stop the one-on-one outings. Eventually he'll tell his wife though, but in a way that makes you the aggressor. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:29 PM Flag
[ - ] DH here. Please help me tell DW to calm down. DC in 3rd grade came home from school last week with a certificate for being the most improved in "speed multiplication".. Apparently the class did a test in January, 100 questions in some short space of time. Then they had the last three months to practice and drill themselves and improve. DC got 41/100 on the first test and 96/100 this time. DW is upset that neither DC or the teacher told us that DC "failed" the first test. I say it was clearly a pre-test, and DD clearly took the poor score on board and worked hard to improve.I think it shows self-reliance and am proud of DD. DW disagrees and additionally wants to complain to the teacher next week. Am I missing something or is DW overreacting. 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:10 PM Flag
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Your wife sounds horrible [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:11 PM Flag
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She's not horrible but she has definite Tiger Mom tendencies despite not being Asian. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:13 PM Flag
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First child ! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:14 PM Flag
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You should never complain to the teacher about shit you think they are doing wrong. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:17 PM Flag
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like teach the DC to multiply? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:20 PM Flag
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Apparently they are the teacher of the year if the kid had a 41/100 in January and 96/100 in April. If you want to shit all over a teacher who does that, ok. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:23 PM Flag
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Trolls don't think through their own posts. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:26 PM Flag
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??? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:27 PM Flag
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It's a troll [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:29 PM Flag
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Have 3 kids and this will go away BTDT [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:26 PM Flag
[ - ] ESL: I went to le rosey and it was horrible. I don't care if you are bill gates do not send your kids there. I have posted before and am doing it again because it is a truelly horrible school. 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:05 PM Flag
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My high school boyfriend went there for the first year of high school. He ended up bailing back to Oslo and refused to go back. His father compromised and he ended up at Andover. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:09 PM Flag
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I don't blame him. It was horible for me. My parents insisted I go there even though I hated it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:13 PM Flag
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Boyfriend said he hated the people and the education was poor. He loved Andover, though. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:20 PM Flag
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What was so horrible about it? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:15 PM Flag
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+ 1 (can you give more details?) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:20 PM Flag
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No respect for authority. The teachers couldn't say anything negative to the kids. If they said you need to try harder. Then the next day the parents or representative of said child would be at the school. Same thing would happen if any kid got a failing grade in a subject. I was sent there not to learn but to make connections and my parents reminded me of this everytime I saw them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:29 PM Flag
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I have heard the same about other boarding schools that are somewhat out of the mainstream. You're being sent there for reasons that don't have that much to do with an actual superior education. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:16 PM Flag
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Thank you. You hit the nail on the head. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:18 PM Flag
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Mom who is considering Swiss boarding school here: could you elaborate a bit? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:21 PM Flag
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I don't know anything about other Swiss boarding schools but le rosey should not be it. Your kids will not learn anything because the teachers are afraid of the students/parents. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:31 PM Flag
[ - ] My BIL recently married a 19 year old Thai girl. The girl is very timid and subservient, and honestly it is really creeping me out. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:04 PM Flag
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know the type. super dorky, right? it's beyond gross. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:08 PM Flag
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I wouldn't say dorky, but very socially conservative and focused on the 'traditional family'. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:10 PM Flag
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you don't think he's dorky because he's too close perhaps. but i bet i would think he's dorky. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:22 PM Flag
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So avoid them. [ Reply | More ]
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That's a child. That creeps me out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:24 PM Flag
[ - ] What area could I move to in San Diego where I could send my kids to a decent public school? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:02 PM Flag
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In San Diego Unified: Scripps Ranch, La Jolla/Bird Rock, Point Loma. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:24 PM Flag
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none, go to the bay area instead [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:26 PM Flag
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Outside San Diego Unified: Poway or the stretch of coast in North County (Del Mar, Solana Beach, Cardiff, Encinitas/Leucadia, Carlsbad. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:27 PM Flag
[ - ] Wanting to plan a trip to Disney in the near future. Best to go with a 3, 5, and 7 year old or 5, 6, and 8 year old? 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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5 6 and 8. I think 3 they'd be wiped out really quickly. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 10:57 PM Flag
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+1. it's way OTP. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 10:58 PM Flag
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Otp? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 10:59 PM Flag
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over the top. we were there last week of march and it was utter madness. if i had to be there with a 3yo i would tear the hair out of my head. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:06 PM Flag
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By 8, not as awe inspiring...I'd think. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:03 PM Flag
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i can vouch for that. took two 8yo and the answer was definitely that universal studios is way better. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:07 PM Flag
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definitely younger, you can always go back [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:06 PM Flag
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just came back with our 24month old and he loved it [ Reply | More ]
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:3,5,7 and rent a double citi mini from Orlando stroller rental. I'd look into renting dvc points and getting a 2 bedroom villa [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:16 PM Flag
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Just returned from Disney with 8 and 10 yr old. It is fun at any age. There is something for everyone. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:23 PM Flag
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Agreed [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:28 PM Flag
[ - ] 21 month old DD has been hitting and throwing things for a week whenever someone, usually another child, gets too close. I've said NO, STOP, strapped her in her stroller. Nothing works, please help. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 10:52 PM Flag
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give her the words for how to make people give her space without hitting or throwing. [ Reply | More ]
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By the time I've done that, she's already attacked. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:24 PM Flag
[ - ] If you're Jewish, would you rather live in a goyische area where you were pretty much the only Jewish person, or in an area dominated by a conservative sect such as the Satmars? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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OMG, DEFINITELY not the latter. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 10:52 PM Flag
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Satmar Hassidim will treat "regular" jews like n*****s. They will treat goyim better. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 10:55 PM Flag
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The Satmar website says their communities are based on joy and worship and love. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:01 PM Flag
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Maybe for one another [ Reply | More ]
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They are about their own community. They consider jews who are not of their particular view of faith to be lost at best, traitors at worst. [ Reply | More ]
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this [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:31 PM Flag
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LOL jews are so racists and radicals, it's weird that they hate each other even more than they hate the rest. the whole "self-hating jew" meme is nuts [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:28 PM Flag
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You shouldn't use the term goyim. It's a derogatory slur. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:30 PM Flag
[ - ] My half sister violently attacked the "other woman" and her mother is supporting her. My sister is probably going to end up paying around $50,000 to the OW and everybody is acting like I'm the biggest bitch in the world for not supporting her actions. Ok, she slept with your husband, you don't have the right to act like a maniac. 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 10:48 PM Flag
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yep. you're right. also, why attack the OW? her husband wasn't forced to have sex with her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 10:49 PM Flag
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That's generally the way these things work, I think it is mostly human nature to blame the other woman over the man who has made vows to you. In this particular situation I think a lot of it comes from the fact that my sister (and to a lesser extent, her mother) are financially and socially dependent on her husband. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 10:51 PM Flag
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Why 50K? Did she cut the bitch's face? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 10:51 PM Flag
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My sister knocked out a tooth (luckily the woman was able to have it replanted), but perhaps more seriously my sister's husband is a very prominent figure in my hometown and so nobody wants to go through the legal process. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 10:55 PM Flag
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You are right. Their insurance company won't cover it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:00 PM Flag
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she actually beat her up? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:02 PM Flag
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She shouldn't have done that, however, I see this as her husband's bill. He created this mess. [ Reply | More ]
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It's their mutual money if they are still married. If they aren't married, it's the half sister's money. [ Reply | More ]
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She should settle, then sue for alienation of affection. [ Reply | More ]
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You can't sue for alienation of affection anymore, not that you deserve it after knocking somebody's tooth out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:11 PM Flag
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Yes you can sweetie, if your DH leaves you [ Reply | More ]
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In like seven states. [ Reply | More ]
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Klassy [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] My kid coming off ADD meds is pretty much Emmet from the LEGO movie...."everything is AWESOME!!!" 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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parents who give their kids ADHD meds gross me out [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Oxygen is having some Sex in the City marathon today. Haha I totally forgot Fendi was a thing. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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I still have my Fendi Leopard print Baguette. [ Reply | More ]
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how much did I love that show when it was running!? it was pretty much my life on tv (slightly dialed down of course...but really not that much). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 10:48 PM Flag
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same here. whenever people say it's unrealistic, I think that I wish! [ Reply | More ]
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so true to life, it was scary. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] My ex-husband's girlfriend called me the "slutty wife" last night. What the fuck. 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Well, were you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 10:42 PM Flag
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Define slutty. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 10:43 PM Flag
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Haha. Just own it. [ Reply | More ]
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How did you hear this? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 10:44 PM Flag
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We were at a party and I went over and said hello. As I turned away I heard her say, "that's the slutty wife." [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 10:49 PM Flag
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listen, i'd rather be the slutty wife then the boring wife, yeah? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 10:49 PM Flag
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At least you were a wife. She's just a girlfriend! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 10:51 PM Flag
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Wow, she sounds horrible. She also sounds jealous of you. How is a wife "slutty"? I don't even know what that means! PS Why at a party with your ex and his new woman? Just bad luck? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 10:58 PM Flag
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My ex and I pretty much have identical social circles, and we are pretty friendly to this day. I honestly have no idea what she meant by that, perhaps a reference to our sex life? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:01 PM Flag
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My ex-husbands current wife told my DD that I cheated in the marriage. My DD hit her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:10 PM Flag
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^^^I was not the cheater [ Reply | More ]
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He probably told her the marriage broke up because you cheated. I wouldn't worry, everyone with a brain knows the one who says stuff like this is an idiot [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:18 PM Flag
[ - ] I am a digital hoarder. I save all my e-mails, photos, texts, and links to sites I'll never have the time to visit. Anyone else have this problem? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 10:39 PM Flag
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I was looking sideways at a few CDs of graduation pictures for my kids today. I don't even know how I would view them right now. [ Reply | More ]
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For CDs and floppy disks, you need to buy a usb attachable external drive. [ Reply | More ]
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thanks you are right. [ Reply | More ]
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digital hoarding >>>> physical hoarding. kudos to you, friend! [ Reply | More ]
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Digital is a gateway to physical hoarding. Beware. Been there, done both. [ Reply | More ]
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Don't most email services automatically save all emails? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:14 PM Flag
[ - ] I can't understand for the life of me why women agree to be the second wife. There's this woman on my block who married a guy with two preteen aged kids. She had one kid about a year after they got married and now 18 months later she's pregnant again. Her husband works constantly to pay for his four kids, and then on the weekends the step kids are over. This poor woman thought she was going to get the dream life with the husband, house and kids but really she just got a life of being home alone all the time except when these foreign teenagers move into her house on the weekends. 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 10:38 PM Flag
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Some people marry for love. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 10:43 PM Flag
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I wonder how that's working out for them? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 10:44 PM Flag
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Some people marry for what they think is love, and find out that marriage is a lot more than that special feeling between 2 people. [ Reply | More ]
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Yeah, agreed. Marriage, esp with blended families, is very very hard. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 10:59 PM Flag
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For the same reason many people marry. They think it will make them happier when in fact, if they think about the situation of bringing two separately lives together, it's more effort and headache than it's worth. [ Reply | More ]
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I have been a "second wife" for fifteen years. I have two kids of my own and a wonderful step-daughter... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 10:52 PM Flag
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np. Depends on how the first marriage broke up. My SIL has two kids with her 15 years older husband whose ex-wife was the one to leave him. Everyone gets along but BIL did not leave his wife and kids for younger SIL. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 10:57 PM Flag
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im a second wife. my husband was married for ten years, no kids from his previous marriage. Two kids w me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 10:59 PM Flag
[ - ] If George Lucas would do this in Manhattan or Chappaqua, http://money.cnn.com/2015/04/17/real_estate/george-lucas-ranch-affordable-housing/index.html?section=money_topstories 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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^If "only" George.... [ Reply | More ]
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What do you have against Chappaqua? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 10:34 PM Flag
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Nothing, just another place that needs affordable housing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 10:46 PM Flag
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When is affordable housing "against" anything. It's in desperately short supply in this area. [ Reply | More ]
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This is revenge housing. George wanted to expand Skywalker ranch and neighbors screamed NIMBY, too much traffic, so George said fine I'll build my expansion somewhere else and put in affordable housing. Are you happy now? This will be stuck in legal battle for years. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 10:37 PM Flag
[ - ] Husband here. 31, wife 28. Fell for a co worker but told myself it was nothing. We met about 1 year and a half ago. She's married (27). She's intelligent and witty and extremely attractive. We traveled together for work two weeks ago and went to our hotel together after bar close. Instead of hooking up we talked about life while cuddling. Why didn't we meet earlier type of discussions. We made out for about two minutes before we left the hotel in the morning (I slept there). Nothing else. The last two weeks at work have been the same as always (flirty) but I want her more. I don't even want to sleep with her. I should've slept with her because I would be over this. Wife knows nothing. What should I do? 40 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 10:28 PM Flag
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You're in love with someone else [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 10:28 PM Flag
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You again? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 10:29 PM Flag
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You wouldn't be over it if you slept w/her, you'd be looking for opportunities to sleep with her again. You know the answer here, if you care about your marriage, then you distance yourself from her. If you don't care about your marriage, you have bigger problems to solve. [ Reply | More ]
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So you just want to sleep with her then and that's it? [ Reply | More ]
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I don't know what I want. I want her now. I think about her in many more ways than sexual. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 10:31 PM Flag
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Have you ever felt this way about your dw? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 10:32 PM Flag
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In the beginning when we were young. But not since. And I'm older now and I hope wiser. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 10:33 PM Flag
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np: Wiser, no. You're not acting like an adult. I'm not just talking about having feelings for someone else, I'm talking about, "We made out for two minutes and I think if I slept with her I'd get over this. What should I do?" Stop lying to yourself and decide whether you still want to be married. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 10:38 PM Flag
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Emotional affair [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 10:30 PM Flag
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You have posted about her many times. It's more than one time sex thing for you. Do you have kids? [ Reply | More ]
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How do you know it is? No kids yet. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 10:34 PM Flag
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You have posted before. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 10:34 PM Flag
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^^ you feel this woman is your equal match but don't feel same about your wife. In addition you also find this woman very attractive but its more than that for you [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 10:36 PM Flag
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So now what? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 10:36 PM Flag
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Do you stay married because you simply don't want to hurt your dw or is there more behind it? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 10:39 PM Flag
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I don't know. Part of it is the stress and destruction trail. Like the thought of having to deal with it. And would I feel the same for her if we faced real life problems together? [ Reply | More ]
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Do you see yourself married to your dw 15 years from now and having kids with her? What makes your dw special? [ Reply | More ]
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np: Yes, this is something to consider - you haven't had to deal with the coworker at her worst yet. This is part of the appeal of an affair. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 10:56 PM Flag
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You didn't get married for the right reasons, and got married too early. Hopefully you won't have any kids before you figure this out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 10:33 PM Flag
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do everyone a favor. break up with your wife. tell the ow how you feel about her and that you wish she would do the same so you could be together. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 10:38 PM Flag
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And prepare that her dh may want to kneecap you or take a bat to your car, but yes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 10:43 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
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But how do I know I want to be with her? Part of me just thinks it is the temptation. I don't know. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 10:46 PM Flag
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You have been pining for her for over a year. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 10:47 PM Flag
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Np define pining. [ Reply | More ]
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OR: if you're not sure then just get over it, yeah? take it from a girl, it's really easy to get guys to fall in love with you at work. that's all i'll say. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 10:51 PM Flag
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That's true. I am in a male dominated field and 1/2 of them wish their wives where like me. [ Reply | More ]
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Totes. young, pretty and smart. can play the game as well as the guys, sometimes better. all the other guys notice it too. the sahm are not even in the same universe. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 10:57 PM Flag
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I am not even that young... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 10:59 PM Flag
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exactly! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:09 PM Flag
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Which universe is that, exactly? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:05 PM Flag
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the in which your husband lives in ten hours a day, bitch. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:09 PM Flag
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Np. I must either be ugly or work with extremely decent men because this has never happened even though I am very close friends with some male colleagues. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:04 PM Flag
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well, ok, of course you have to be attractive or this is not the case. duh. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:10 PM Flag
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>> look, you can't really describe it or explain it. but men know it when they see it. and they just want it. young or old, married or single, senior or junior -- they all respond in the same way. not all of them, of course. but the ones that do are all in. what they do about it depends on self control and their value system. some feel it but don't do anything about it. and some don't care. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:19 PM Flag
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What field are you in? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:16 PM Flag
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Be a gentleman and step out of the picture so your wife can find someone to share her life with. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 10:48 PM Flag
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You're an DH with no children that browses UB? Why don't you just come out of the closet. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 10:49 PM Flag
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If you don't have kids yet it might make sense to break up with your wife. Clearly your eye will keep wandering. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 10:53 PM Flag
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How long have you been married? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.18.15, 11:06 PM Flag
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