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[ - ] What would you do if adult male was staying at your small apartment after break up & being mean to you? He refuses to leave but is punching holes in the walls & yells bad names you. Don't want to call PD. Help. 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:23 PM Flag
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OP here: Adult male DS [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:24 PM Flag
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He is your son? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:27 PM Flag
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Does he have a brother or sister you could call? Or friend? This sounds awful. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:25 PM Flag
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No. Other brother lives out of state. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:27 PM Flag
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You broke up with him? I'd tell him to leave and change the locks. If he didn't leave, I'd tell him he was tresspassimg and you have no choice but call the police. Alternative have a friend or family member intervene. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:26 PM Flag
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It's an adult DS. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:30 PM Flag
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Then have a friend or family member intervene. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:32 PM Flag
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If my adult male DS was destroying my apartment and would not behave, I'd change the locks and put his stuff out. He can't stay with me if he can't behave. Let him go home and trash his own place if he's so upset. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:28 PM Flag
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This. Force him out. Or grow a pair and call the cops. People behave like this when we let them. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:34 PM Flag
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He's your son and his GF broke up with him? So he's taking his frustration out on you? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:28 PM Flag
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Yes [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:30 PM Flag
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Don't do anything and be prepared for us to read your obit. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:28 PM Flag
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Call Safe Horizon for advice. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:34 PM Flag
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Give ultimatum: he has to go into therapy stat, and if he is destructive or nasty ONE more time, he will find his stuff on the curb and the locks changed. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:36 PM Flag
[ - ] I am sort of looking forward to the debates, HRC is better educated, more disciplined, smarter and more knowledgeable... Its going to show. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:21 PM Flag
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She is. Just not sure how much practice she has in debating someone who is basically going to act like a mental patient. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:25 PM Flag
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I am sure this will be part of the prep [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:27 PM Flag
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she is smarter and more knowledgeable. but mccain lost to obama. plus trump is more belligerent and hillary comes off stiff sometimes. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:29 PM Flag
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Obama has an Ivy league graduate degree. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:31 PM Flag
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and? he is not a smart guy. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:34 PM Flag
[ - ] SIL is pregnant and asking me for baby stuff from my dc that I do not use anymore. She knows I have been going through IVF multiple times. I do not want to give up my things. I told her I gave everything away. I did give away all the clothes but am still hanging on to some other necessties in case I need them 15 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:18 PM Flag
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Yuck, she's nasty. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:18 PM Flag
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I am so annoyed by this. How do I explain to her that I want my car seat just in case. She should not have put me in this situation [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:20 PM Flag
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Just tell her you want to hold onto it. I'm really sorry you even have to deal with her. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:21 PM Flag
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^like without further explanation. "No, Jenny, I'm going to hang on to XYZ..." Who knows if she's half doing it to get your goat. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:22 PM Flag
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Be firm. "If it turns out I don't need it, you'll be the first one I give it to." Keep saying that. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:21 PM Flag
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When is her DB due? Csn you lend her thr infant seat and tell her you are considering having another DB and will need it back if you do. If she will be more than 12 mos ahead, it might be a moot point. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:24 PM Flag
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NO, do not do this. You'll never get it back, or it will be destroyed. SIL doesn't sound very considerate. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:25 PM Flag
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No, no, no [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:26 PM Flag
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Yeah, that's pretty tacky. Stay the course. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:21 PM Flag
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Just say, you know I am trying to have another baby and do not want to give up the things I still have just yet, you understand? Love you, xox [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:22 PM Flag
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She is selfish, thoughtless, and cheap. Turn it around. Offer to throw her a shower where she can get all this stuff. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:22 PM Flag
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No, no, no... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:24 PM Flag
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I don't have anything to give. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:22 PM Flag
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Stop taking her calls/emails. She'll get the hint. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:29 PM Flag
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how many children do you have? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:34 PM Flag
[ - ] A store in NYC that carries piano lesson books?Not at B & N. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:17 PM Flag
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Just googled it -- Sam Ash music stores? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:23 PM Flag
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the Julliard store, I remember piano teacher mentioned as a place to get the practice books (we bought online) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:35 PM Flag
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We always order ours online. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:37 PM Flag
[ - ] I am looking to buy a diamond engagement ring and have lost contact with the jeweler we use to use. Does anyone have any good suggestions in NYC for me. Someone honest and not over priced? TIA 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:16 PM Flag
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Willing to go about an hour out in NJ? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:17 PM Flag
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Yes, for an honest jeweler. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:18 PM Flag
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http://www.airesjewelers.com/ - my inlaws have been going to them for years (since the father of the current owner was there). Ron made my engagement and wedding rings, and we've bought a few other things from them through the years. They are all such nice people. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:20 PM Flag
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Aires Jewelers is well known in Morris County. They have beautiful things and are very well thought of in the community. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:30 PM Flag
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pp: that's nice to hear. I'm not from the area, so I just know them through my inlaws. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:33 PM Flag
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Me too! Someone here recommended David Sachs (I think that's his name). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:18 PM Flag
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In NJ, there are some reputable Jewelers in the Millburn, Short Hills, Livingston area. Check out Oksenhorn Jewelers or Nancy and David Jewelers in Millburn, or Celeste Jewelers or George Press Jewelers in Livingston. I have purchased jewelry at all of these stores over the years. They all have good reputations and beautiful things. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:35 PM Flag
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DH used Fabrikant [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:36 PM Flag
[ - ] Fitness mom: whaa your (or a good) workout plan? No gym please! Running? Yoga? That Kayla Itsines workout plan? Any suggestions? Thanks! 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:14 PM Flag
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Kayla!!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:15 PM Flag
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Running. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:16 PM Flag
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Running for me (that's how I lost about 20 lbs) but honestly I am not fit all over -- arms are weak, tummy is a little soft. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:19 PM Flag
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I mean, you lost 20 pounds, that's a huge accomplishment!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:28 PM Flag
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I've been running 2 miles everyday now for about 2 weeks. It's very doable! I'm not the fastest but I feel great afterwards! I've lost 5 lbs in 2 weeks. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:25 PM Flag
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Wow! That's amazing! How do you get the energy to do it every day? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:28 PM Flag
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I don't sleep :( I wake up at 530am and am out of the door by 6am. I'm done by 6:25am and then walk the dog afterwards. I go to sleep very early! I'm also tracking all of the exercise on mapmyrun which is so motivating. Then I log my workouts on myfitnesspal. The more I exercise the better I feel during the day! It's good for my head :) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:33 PM Flag
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Woo hoo! Keep up the good work! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:29 PM Flag
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P90X [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:30 PM Flag
[ - ] MANAFORT RESIGNS FROM TRUMP CAMPAIGN 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:14 PM Flag
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csb [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:15 PM Flag
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oh, well. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:15 PM Flag
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Is this fake? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:16 PM Flag
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np: I just saw on MSNBC, not fake. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:17 PM Flag
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CNN now reporting [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:29 PM Flag
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It is real......hahahahahahaha......Trumpster Fire burning out of control now [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:18 PM Flag
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CHAOS [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:19 PM Flag
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LOLOLOLOLOLOL [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:26 PM Flag
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My thoughts on the shakeup: Some campaign staffers tried to have real talk with Trump and were asked to get the hell out. He then hired yes men to replace them. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:26 PM Flag
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The word's going to come out later today that he definitely did do something illegal. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:29 PM Flag
[ - ] What's going on with 452? Are people leaving? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:13 PM Flag
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I heard 452 can't even fill the seats for K this year. They are desperately making offers to out of zone parents, while the principal goes around claiming that the school is "overcrowded" and therefore needs to move. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:25 PM Flag
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The school is moving to 61st street, possibly next fall. People are fleeing left and right. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:29 PM Flag
[ - ] Do the G&T schools ever take a kid outside of the kindergarten admission period? IE can you put a second or a fourth grader on a waitlist for a TAG or an Anderson if they have the scores? 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:03 PM Flag
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You can take the G&T test up to 3rd grade. There is no G&T placement for 4th and 5th that I know of. All of them take new kids for 6th. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:06 PM Flag
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Thanks - so what if there's attrition on 4th and 5th? They just have smaller classes? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:06 PM Flag
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Yes. There's not that much attrition. Maybe a kid or two per year. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:08 PM Flag
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There isn't a wait list.The DOE controls G & T placements through the lottery. Best way to try to get in is to file a request for transfer (Placement Exeception Request based on hardship).You would have already had to do this for Fall placement. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:08 PM Flag
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Is being in gen-ed considered a hardship? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:12 PM Flag
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It's if someone is being bullied or it's a dangerous situation [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:12 PM Flag
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Lol. "Snowflake is bored, gen-ed is endangering his genius." [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:14 PM Flag
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Or if you have another kid at another school and commuting is creating a hardship. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:15 PM Flag
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That is your decision. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:17 PM Flag
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Exactly. School is not there to accommodate you because you wanted Snowflake to attend a special school. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:21 PM Flag
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You people have such a 80s TV movie view of NYC publics. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:17 PM Flag
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I was the one who responded, this is actually true as well as the travelling hardship. chill [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:19 PM Flag
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LOL [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:16 PM Flag
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No chance for 4th grade. Did your kid score 99 for 2nd grade entrance? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:13 PM Flag
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Nope - 96 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:20 PM Flag
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Very hard to get 99 in 3rd grade if you get 96 in 2nd. Most kids who get 99 for K and test agin for 1st-3rd get up getting progressively lower scores because the test and scoring system get harder. Have some experience with this b/c my kid entered a CW in an off year, so lots of friends keep getting their kids tested, tell me their scores and ask about their chance of getting in. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:27 PM Flag
[ - ] UGHHHHHHH telling DH about an issue and he tells me to call the lawyer and walk him through it. Can't HE do that???? Do I have to do EVERYTHING????? I am going to kill someone today!!!! 29 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:00 PM Flag
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If you kill someone you're just going to need another lawyer. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:02 PM Flag
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I will refuse counsel and tell them to just put me in the chair. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:03 PM Flag
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make it your dh. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:02 PM Flag
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Are you and DH both at work? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:03 PM Flag
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YES and I do everything. Something breaks, I deal with it. Need an insurance quote, I do it. Not to mention dry cleaning, nanny, laundry, cleaning, food shopping, cooking.... All me. And btw, I make more money. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:06 PM Flag
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that's why woh sucks. so glad i don't. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:08 PM Flag
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You're lucky you don't have to. Running a home is a job in itself, never mind taking care of the DC as well. It is insane to hold a job with a 1hr commute and do everything else too. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:10 PM Flag
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i hear ya. i don't miss the glory. i salute you good women battling it out in the labor force. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:12 PM Flag
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Same here. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:24 PM Flag
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Totally agree. Too much juggling and stress. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:24 PM Flag
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Same here. Drives me insane. And in the rare instances when DH handles something, he calls me with 1000 questions and it would have been faster and easier to do it myself. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:11 PM Flag
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OP and yes, exactly! Like you have a brain, you have common sense, I don't need to opine on everything. Learn to execute! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:12 PM Flag
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so tell him to do some things - he can drop of drycleaning and laundry and clean and cook - I might not trust him with insurance, but maybe [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:15 PM Flag
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Either you're not married or your DH is a tota other as compared to my DH. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:23 PM Flag
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what wait, your issue and you want him to call a lawyer and discuss it, why not you? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:04 PM Flag
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WHY ME???? Why always me? He knows the lawyer, he can pick up a god damn phone and deal with something for ONCE. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:07 PM Flag
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it sounds like your issue and the lawyer would probably have to speak to you anyway to get details, geez, get a grip, this is not the end of the world [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:14 PM Flag
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Hahaha how did you get that???? It actually has to do with DH's car accident and I wasn't even in the car! Nice try though! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:15 PM Flag
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your op says your are telling your dh about an issue and he tells you to call a lawyer, that is why I thought it was your issue....no its his and he should do it [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:18 PM Flag
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you're sorry for the slip [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:19 PM Flag
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Men are hopeless, helpless, and overrated. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:05 PM Flag
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Now that is something I can drink to. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:07 PM Flag
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Ha! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:20 PM Flag
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Lol [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:24 PM Flag
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My DH loves give backseat opinions about stuff he previously couldn't be bothered to deal with. Especially issues where he doesn't know what the hell he is talking about. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:09 PM Flag
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Oh yes! Once you take the initiative he will give criticisms and when I get pissed off he acts like I'm certifiable. Oh my favorite: "you've changed" yes, I've changed because you have been slowly torturing me over the last 9yrs!!!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:14 PM Flag
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NP. Same here. Twinkle twinkle, little star, micromanage from afar. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:20 PM Flag
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My husband does the same thing. He makes me talk to everyone on the phone. He says people don't understand his accent. He's British. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:18 PM Flag
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Okay let's be friends. My DH also has an accent and acts like he is from another galaxy. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:20 PM Flag
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I feel so much better... Same on our end... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:37 PM Flag
[ - ] I miss Daffy's so much. And Loehmann's. Loehmann's is online but it's not the same. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 01:59 PM Flag
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I miss Daffy's too. I had so many great finds there! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:01 PM Flag
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Daffy's! So 90's!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:08 PM Flag
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More like 2000's [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:32 PM Flag
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I miss lohemanns too! And furtunoff!!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:01 PM Flag
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Found myself in midtown one day with time to kill and thought, "I'll pop over to Daffy's!" When I remembered it had closed I literally cried. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:09 PM Flag
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I hear you :-(( [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:12 PM Flag
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I spent many an hour combing the racks at Daffys in the late '80s and early '90s. I used to find the best French and Italian clothes. Still have some of them. I haven't lived in NYC for a long time, but I was sad when I learned they closed. Truly RIP. I loved Daffy's! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:13 PM Flag
[ - ] Anyone stuck in NYC this weekend? If so, what are your plans? 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 01:57 PM Flag
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Will go to the movies tomorrow with DD, then need to come into the office on Sunday to prepare for something next week. [ Reply | More
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Going to governor's island and renting bikes. [ Reply | More
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No, thank fully not! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:02 PM Flag
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Cleaning out my teens room - he's away and we got hazmat suits [ Reply | More
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Ha! Good luck with that. I still cringe at the things I found in teen DS's room [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:06 PM Flag
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Now that I'm pg I'm going to spend as many weekends as possible doing nothing. Maybe brunch and a couple of open houses on Sunday if it isn't too hot. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:06 PM Flag
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Citystreets! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:13 PM Flag
[ - ] Day 211 of Trump campaign getting back on track. 34 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 01:55 PM Flag
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Ye of little faith! This time he REALLY means it! [ Reply | More
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LOL [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 01:58 PM Flag
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This is the restart of the do-over. "Believe me!" [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 01:59 PM Flag
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The Bannon hire was like a gift from the Gods on Olympus. The ultimate con man is now himself being conned right in front of us all, in real time. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 01:59 PM Flag
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Thank you Gods on Olympus! I will be making offerings regularly until Nov. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:00 PM Flag
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Wax on! Wax on! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:00 PM Flag
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You know what, that's weird. I had the same thought. Trump is the cat's paw in this situation. The Breitbart guy is using Trump, not the other way around. His advice is nothing but terrible. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:05 PM Flag
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Love it [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:21 PM Flag
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his numbers aren't really too bad. you guys might be surprised in the fall. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:02 PM Flag
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I guess until Nov. 8 is here, anything is possible. But the best he's done so far in the general is to tread water, and he goes underwater with far more frequency. And now he's got a guy telling him people love him for his crazy shit, so keep doing that, but that's the opposite of what he should be doing to win undecideds and independents. The people who love the crazy are already voting for him. He might have the original Mystic Pizza of media appeal, but he's trying to sell the pizza to people who have already had lunch. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:13 PM Flag
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AND BREAKING NEWS, MANAFORT RESIGNS. GOOD LORD. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:13 PM Flag
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It's the NY Times report that did it. Trump probably didn't even know how deep Manafort was into Russia. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:26 PM Flag
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He's like 2-4 pts behind. LAT/USC has him down by .6 pts. No biggie. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:16 PM Flag
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Ignore LAT...used to be a good poll. Got sold. Now lousy.....She is up 8-10 everywhere else [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:20 PM Flag
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not really. it's closer than you think. and there might be the bradley factor, too. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:24 PM Flag
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bless your heart. It's going to be broken soon. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:28 PM Flag
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i'm not a trump supporter. i am just looking at the numbers. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:30 PM Flag
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Holding on to LAT USC. So weird. Hillary will take California. Where Trump thinks global warming is a hoax. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:27 PM Flag
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LAT and Rasmussen are the polls that skew to Trump and he's still down in them. He was down in the BREITBART poll for christ's sake. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:28 PM Flag
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he is down. he is just not as down as you'd think he'd be given all his gaffes. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:31 PM Flag
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not sure. i like hillary a lot. but she's got some baggage, especially because of the bad economy and surprisingly, b/c of her family foundation. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:17 PM Flag
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In what world do you think we have a bad economy? We have slower growth, but the economy is still growing (I think at just under 3% currently, and unemployment is about half what it was when Obama came into office in 2008. No one is saying we have a bad economy except for the Republicans. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:20 PM Flag
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omg. stop being an asshole. the economy sucks. slowest recovery rate ever. people actually think we're in a recession. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:22 PM Flag
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We're not in a recession. You don't sound too bright. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:26 PM Flag
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+1 it's the trump dummy [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:27 PM Flag
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i said people "think" we're in a recession because that's what it looks like to them. i didn't say we "are" in a recession or that economist think so. you are really stupid. but then you are an obama supporter so it's not surprising. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:28 PM Flag
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just under 3%. who talks like that? it's actually just over 1%. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:23 PM Flag
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False [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:27 PM Flag
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um, no, ignorant person. 1.2%, up from 0.8%. http://www.bea.gov/newsreleases/glance.htm [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:32 PM Flag
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Agree. They don't want to see it. Obama was handed a shit show. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:28 PM Flag
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you guys are so hilariously willfully blind. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:33 PM Flag
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Says the Trump supporter. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:34 PM Flag
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uh no [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:20 PM Flag
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it really isn't. you'll just have to see how it plays out. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:23 PM Flag
[ - ] Maybe I am in the minority here - but I think some secrets between husband & wife are a good thing. I do not tell my DH absolutely everything & I don't care if he tells me everything either. I feel like there needs to be some level of trust & separate lives. 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 01:54 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 01:55 PM Flag
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Always keep a little mystery. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 01:55 PM Flag
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Yep. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 01:56 PM Flag
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Yes, like my DH & I each have our separate nights out. He goes out one day a week, plays in a sports league & goes out for drinks after with the team. I couldn't care less & don't ask him about it other than "did you win? did you have fun?". Same here - I'll go out with my girls & he's never asking me about it other than "did you have fun". I feel like there are women on here that must have a roster with photos of every woman their husband encounters. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 01:58 PM Flag
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There are some seriously crazy insane women on here who misunderstood their wedding vows. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:07 PM Flag
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I do not tell my DH everything. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:00 PM Flag
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Also - I don't vent to him about everything. Like I'll vent to a girlfriend or a sister. He doesn't need to hear my mindless dribble only another woman would care or relate too. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:01 PM Flag
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Why not? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:12 PM Flag
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Every case is different. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:17 PM Flag
[ - ] I've accepted that a relationship I really want to have isn't going to happen. It sucks but I have to just accept it in order to move on. I know I will get over it. It's just waiting for that feeling that I'm over it to kick in that sucks. I'm in love with a fantasy person who probably doesn't exist, and definitely doesn't want me back. Anyone btdt? How'd you handle it?thanks 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 01:52 PM Flag
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I cringe when I think about the time and emotional energy I put into a relationship that was never going to become anything. I knew it at the time, but I was so needy and couldn't let go. It's so hard, but you just have to grieve and move on. Cease all contact. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 01:56 PM Flag
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Op: first of all thank you. Second of all I totally agree. Third of all I will be seeing him this weekend at an event, but it will be crowded and we probably won't speak. So that's why my anxiety is up a notch. I guess I am just embarassed. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 01:57 PM Flag
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New guy stat. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 01:57 PM Flag
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Girl, I'm in the same boat. It's been about year since it's been "over", but we still talk at least 1x week. I KNOW that talking is prolonging my feelings, but I can't come to terms with the idea of never speaking again. I wish I had advice for you, but all I can say is I know the feeling. The best thing to do is truly shut the door (but as you can see, it's easier said than done). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:02 PM Flag
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Thanks. I have let similar situations drag on for years because I was convinced I couldn't handle the pain of cutting off contact. This situation is a bit trickier since we are kind of one degree apart in social circles, but I can definitely throw enough shadow of boundary to make myself clear. Like I said it's a crush and in my head and I'm sure he has no idea and couldn't care less. So it's really me vs. me. I think once tomorrow passes I will feel a bit relieved as there doesn't seem to be any forthcoming events where I would see him. My advice to you of course is to block your guy and be kind to yourself while you get over him. Some men loooove to see women get all frazzled over them, it's a huge high. They are like commodity traders, and your feelings are the commodity. They basically just use you for their ego and let you go when they're sure you are hooked. I've had a few of these and inevitably they come back asking for more, once I have positively moved on. I don't expect that to happen in my current case. Just trust if someone really wants you, and it's meant to be, they will pursue you and behave accordingly. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:07 PM Flag
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It's good you've accepted it. Maybe there is something about him that would validate part of yourself. Try and let go and appreciate yourself. It's hard, I know. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:03 PM Flag
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Oh absolutely. In my fantasy I want to feel beautiful, desirable, irresistible and fun. Truth is no one can make you "feel" anything. If I believe I am these things,but doesn't really matter what anyone else thinks. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:13 PM Flag
[ - ] Would you rather your daughter be she-male like Ivanka or wear ridiculous fake hair like Malia does? 30 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 01:51 PM Flag
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They are both perfectly fine. I'll take my own DD, thank you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 01:52 PM Flag
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That fake hair is ridiculous, isn't it? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 01:55 PM Flag
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Eh. It's fine. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 01:56 PM Flag
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I'd be so embarrassed if anyone in my family had to resort to wearing someone else's hair to be presentable. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 01:57 PM Flag
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Good thing for you thst you aren't black then -- but I suspect that's already how you feel. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:20 PM Flag
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More ridiculous than fake breasts? The hair is removable. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 01:57 PM Flag
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But you can't tell they're fake like Malia's extensions. And she's just a teenager, not an old hag like Ivanka. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 01:59 PM Flag
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huh? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:03 PM Flag
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Idiot "huh" poster. Figures. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:09 PM Flag
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Wait, Malia has fake hair? Pic please? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:00 PM Flag
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Oh, girlfriend, fake ignorance better! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:04 PM Flag
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Malia because history will treat her family far more kindly than the Trumps [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 01:57 PM Flag
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I don't think so. They're just the first affirmative action first family. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:00 PM Flag
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I think so [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:00 PM Flag
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^treat Obamas well....Trumps not so much [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:02 PM Flag
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History will not treat the Trumps well at all [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:01 PM Flag
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If he doesn't win, it won't give a shit. But he'll at least still be a billionaire. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:04 PM Flag
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There's your racist reality and then there's the truth. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:02 PM Flag
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Why am I racist just because I hate the Obamas? Not that there's anything wrong with being racist in and of itself. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:09 PM Flag
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You can hate them and not think he's president because of affirmative action. But if you think there's nothing wrong with being racist then no one can help you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:11 PM Flag
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Racists are people, too! And anyway, I'm not even sure what is racist but there is no question the races are different and you might not like the traits of one or another. It's no different from hating "uneducated red necks" or Republicans or Nazis or whatever. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:14 PM Flag
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I would rather have two sons who look low rent Media Don Jrs. who spend their free time spending tens of thousands shooting endangered animals [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:01 PM Flag
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They do not shoot endangered animals. They shoot big game. You ought to read upon these things if you want to sound so smart. As ridiculous as they look, and they do, at least they don't talk about doing blow. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:05 PM Flag
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I disagree with your premise on both. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:12 PM Flag
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OK. Ivanka doesn't always look like a she-male. And she actually seems like she could be a nice person. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:18 PM Flag
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Aside from Ivanka's parentage, I would be happy if my DDs turned out like either ladies. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:19 PM Flag
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Oh, no. You don't want Malia. There's still hope for Sasha, but not the older one. The Obamas are not very smart so they can't raise children like Bill and Hillary did. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:25 PM Flag
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Oh, I see, you're just racist. Bye/ [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:34 PM Flag
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What about Michelle and Barack makes them not very smart? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:37 PM Flag
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Malia's hair is not fake. Her mom would never put a weave in her hair at this age. Check her hair progression. It's not overly long so get a life. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.19.16, 02:33 PM Flag
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