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[ - ] Would going into web design be a good career? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:53 AM Flag
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15 years ago, yes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 04:07 AM Flag
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programming is better now, i think. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 04:18 AM Flag
[ - ] We're having our first child, a girl. We both like the name Eileen but are arguing over the spelling. I like Aileen and he likes Eileen. Which one do you like? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:48 AM Flag
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Eileen. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:49 AM Flag
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this, easier to pronounce [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:52 AM Flag
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I would pronounce Aileen as A-Leen [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:50 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:52 AM Flag
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Me too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:54 AM Flag
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Is your list name Dover? Have a boy next. Eileen and Ben Dover. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:52 AM Flag
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Lmao [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:53 AM Flag
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Eileen for sure, I associate Aileen with Aileen Wuornos. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 04:19 AM Flag
[ - ] Monica Lewinsky may have been a disaster and a jerk, but Linda Tripp really ambushed her and pretended to be her BFF until the end. Sick. 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:39 AM Flag
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Agreed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:41 AM Flag
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Right before she was held up in that hotel room, Linda took her to lunch and pretended to be her good friend all while being wiretapped. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:42 AM Flag
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Linda Tripp is a big fat jealous trannie looking bitch. She's awful. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:46 AM Flag
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Seriously. Linda didn't have to inject herself into Monica's life. She loved to encourage her to persue Billy then threw it in her face. I don't care if Monica hoped she's lie under oath. She should never have gotten involved with Monica's mess. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:51 AM Flag
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How was Monica a jerk? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:42 AM Flag
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Cheating with a married man. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:43 AM Flag
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In the Oval Office. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:47 AM Flag
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Bill was more guilty, breaking his marriage vows. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:52 AM Flag
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Of the three players, Linda, Bill , and Monica, she is by far the most sympathetic. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 04:00 AM Flag
[ - ] I'm recently single with five kids. I'm self-employed, work a lot, and have a babysitters to help me out. I've been estranged from my mother for five years but recently she is nice....actually nice to me. She has offered to pay for a housekeeper (pt or ft, my choice) for my family. It's a great gift but I feel a kick to my pride because she thinks I can't handle or pay for my family's needs. WWYD? 15 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:34 AM Flag
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she is your mom, accept it. you will do the same for your kids [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:37 AM Flag
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You have to be Jewish. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:42 AM Flag
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nah [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:51 AM Flag
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Graciously accept but be willing to set boundaries if she uses it against you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:38 AM Flag
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Yeah good luck with that. OP, understand that if you let this happen you are opening the door to god knows how much controlling nonsense from her. There are no "boundaries". [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:42 AM Flag
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op. I understand that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:58 AM Flag
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op. Can you elaborate on boundaries? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 04:10 AM Flag
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depends why you have been estranged [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:45 AM Flag
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No. It doesn't. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:50 AM Flag
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Sure it does. There is a reason why she hasnt spoken to her mom in 5 years. Accepting the money may be opening pandora's box [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:57 AM Flag
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op. She stopped speaking to me, not the other way around. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:58 AM Flag
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Why [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:59 AM Flag
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op. To be honest, I don't know. She has kept in contact with my kids, that's what mattered to me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 04:01 AM Flag
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This is a strange situation. No loving mother doesn't speak to their daughter for 5 years. Maybe it is nice she wants to reconcile and pay for the cleaning but I wouldn't trust her [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 04:08 AM Flag
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op. Of course it's strange. She's coming for a visit in a few weeks, that's when I have to have my decision. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 04:13 AM Flag
[ - ] When do we get the results for the NYC ela and math tests? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:26 AM Flag
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When school starts [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:28 AM Flag
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I thought it was in August ? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:43 AM Flag
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aug [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:52 AM Flag
[ - ] If you had the money but no connections would you send dc to Episcopal preschool? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
NY Schools 08.05.15, 03:25 AM Flag
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I would just go to the closest TT that DC got into [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:27 AM Flag
[ - ] Can anything be done about loose skin above the elbow? I have toned the backs of my arms as much as I can but it's still there. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:24 AM Flag
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It's called old age. No, you can not do anything about it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:26 AM Flag
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Die. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:28 AM Flag
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Plastic surgery [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:31 AM Flag
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Stapler? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:32 AM Flag
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Nothing. Just be glad you don't have kp. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:41 AM Flag
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kp? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:43 AM Flag
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keratosis pilaris [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:49 AM Flag
[ - ] Does anyone know anyone who had or has triple negative breast cancer? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:22 AM Flag
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Yes. whats up [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 04:04 AM Flag
[ - ] SA, will have to make up my mind. Yay or nay. Does anyone have anything good to say about them? We tried private and did not get anywhere. Zoned is somewhat ok, but no experience. Undecided, guess will be a toss. SA, seems has a middle school option already built in.. 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:20 AM Flag
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My dc is at SA, we are happy. Great curriculum, teachers, families. Wish the day were shorter and less focus on discipline. But overall it's a great school and cd is getting a wonderful education. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:23 AM Flag
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The discipline is the scary part for me. How does DC feel about it? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:25 AM Flag
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Dc is unfazed by it. Doesn't care if he gets a yellow circle or whatever. We don't put much emphasis on it at home, just make sure cd is on track academically and does not cause trouble. On the flip side, their classrooms are very orderly. Yet, I think the discipline is a bit over the top. Just my opinion. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:29 AM Flag
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Ugh dc not cd!! Autocorrect. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:29 AM Flag
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Is DC not tired after long days? How is the homework situation for the younger ones? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:32 AM Flag
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You can try SA for two weeks, and if you hate it, go public, no? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:32 AM Flag
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I guess, but they you'd need to buy uniform and it's confusing for DC to be taken from one to another. I do wonder if many people in this situation actually do this though. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:34 AM Flag
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What is SA? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:37 AM Flag
[ - ] Anyone who hasn't faced the realty of what HS girls are today is out of touch with reality. I have two DSes, college aged, and the stories they come home with - and show me on their phones - are stunning. The latest was from my younger ds who's waiting table this summer at the beach. Some giggling 15 yo With a group of friends wrote "I'd love to cook u diner then blo u" with her cell # on the guest receipt. So glad not to have daughters today....something's seriously wrong with these girls. 33 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:19 AM Flag
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Yikes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:23 AM Flag
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He has a gf - his age -and isn't interested. But he shows me this stuff because I don't believe the stories. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:25 AM Flag
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I have young daughters... It's scary [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:27 AM Flag
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Could be fake number. I used to give out fake numbers for fun. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:28 AM Flag
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LOL. He wasn't asking :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:30 AM Flag
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exactly. just toying with him and seeing his face. dont you get it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:38 AM Flag
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Np: Exactly. I picture these girls laughing bc they just learned what a blow job was and putting a random number down. Or maybe even one of their own, but not to actually give him a blow job [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:42 AM Flag
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Np - when did girls get to be such losers. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:47 AM Flag
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+1. Garbage. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 04:05 AM Flag
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LOL. Um, no. He was vaguely amused and then busy. She wasn't getting to suck his dick, if that's what you mean. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:43 AM Flag
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you still dont get it do you, I went to a girls school my whole life, this was meant to be a joke. he probably went home to tell his mom and he did ! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:55 AM Flag
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Yeah ok. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:58 AM Flag
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Stop condoning such skank behavior. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 04:05 AM Flag
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I have no respect for grown women who call teenage girls whores. Are teenage girls innocent angels who get pressured into sex? Sometimes yes, mostly no. But they are still children. Teenagers also think they're old enough to drink alcohol and make other adult decisions. Its the job of adults to guide them, not to judge them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:33 AM Flag
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Very well said. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:34 AM Flag
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wise one [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:39 AM Flag
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Wait till your sons marry and your DILs say to hell with you, bitch [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:36 AM Flag
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Hopefully they won't be whores. And my sons aren't going anywhere...their wives will fall in line. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:44 AM Flag
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This. And if my son found out that his fiancee was giving BJs to half the school he would kick her to the curb [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:50 AM Flag
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What about one quarter . [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:50 AM Flag
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Yup! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 04:04 AM Flag
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Lmao. This is so not true. If ur a mean both your did will send you a packin! She will probably insist they move at least 3 hours away from you if not out of state. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 04:08 AM Flag
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If you are a mean bitch, your dil will send u packing!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 04:09 AM Flag
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Men won't even bother getting married anymore. Why should they? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 04:10 AM Flag
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I really don't care either way. But when girls younger than sixteen lie to boys in order to persuade the boys to commit a felony, it bothers me [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:37 AM Flag
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Yes, the problem is definitely the CHILDREN, not the laws that aren't adapted to modern situations [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:40 AM Flag
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A 15 yo is hardly a "child". [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:44 AM Flag
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What are you talking about. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 04:02 AM Flag
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What are you talking about. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 04:02 AM Flag
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That is my point. The fifteen year old pretends to be legal, signs up for tinder and has sex with dozens of sixteen and seventeen year old guys, all of the guys are now considered sex offenders [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:47 AM Flag
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If you bothered to read the article you would see that thirteen year old girls are using the internet for sex with tragic consequences [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:53 AM Flag
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Your son is probably very handsome. Have a little class girls, yuck! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 04:03 AM Flag
[ - ] Trying to get a better sense of the different towns in the Hamptons as I'm only recently in NYC. I read an article that said Amagansett is the TriBeCa of the Hamptons. If that's the case how would you categorize the other towns from Westhampton to East Hampton -- UES, UWS, Village, Midtown, etc? Thanks. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:18 AM Flag
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Westhampton is like an outer borough. No one will ever come visit you there. Southampton is the closest and good for families. Montauk is like meat packing. east Hampton is also nice for families. Water mill and wainscot don't have nice towns though. Bridge is where the Kmart is n [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:20 AM Flag
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Montauk is so NOT meat packing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 04:03 AM Flag
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Isn't bridge the big UES money? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:22 AM Flag
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East [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 04:03 AM Flag
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what about sag harbor? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:27 AM Flag
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Springs = Yorktown [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:52 AM Flag
[ - ] My 4 1/2 year old has a hard time staying focused on tasks. Lots of problems with this in nursery school. Starting to worry about K -- school is just around the corner and K seems so much more academic than nursery school. Any August strategies to help get her ready? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
Preschool/Kids 08.05.15, 03:13 AM Flag
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No worries. She is still young. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:17 AM Flag
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She's fine, our expectations these days aren't. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:54 AM Flag
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What were her issues in nursery school? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:56 AM Flag
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hopping from one activity to another. needing to be refocused back to original activity to complete task, etc. many of the kids in her nursery group were almost 6 months older so comparatively she was always in motion. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 04:03 AM Flag
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When will she be 5? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 04:08 AM Flag
[ - ] My friend told me that she thinks I would not be strong enough to love alone with kids - that I'm not the kind who could handle being divorced. I kind of agree with her assessment - how do you women do it? When the printer is jammed or the light is out dh does it - I wish I was stronger!! 19 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:11 AM Flag
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Jeez..my Nanny handles most of those things. Do you work? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:13 AM Flag
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I do work and my nanny is not here at 9 pm when my kids are printing something. Or when a light blows. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:16 AM Flag
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If a paper jam and burnt out bulb is your biggest concern, I suggest you stay. Your friend is right. You're not up to it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:13 AM Flag
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This. And I posted below about not being able to sleep without DH, so that's saying something. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:14 AM Flag
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Troll. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:13 AM Flag
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Are you asking divorced moms how they do it? I don't understand the question. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:14 AM Flag
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Yes I am asking that - what do you do when man related issues crop up. Dh always fixed computer glitches, changes bulbs and other little details that would trip up my day [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:17 AM Flag
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I am a fully formed and educated adult who doesn't recognize a light bulb as a "man related issue". And you're a troll. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:20 AM Flag
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Np. I guess I would invest in a step stool, but other than that I have no idea what you mean. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:22 AM Flag
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I'm not a troll and I don't know how to change a bulb in my hi hats -and I don't do that stuff - and I have a handyman and he doesn't live with me. Wow - I guess you're all super amazing women and I'm not but my bus and is a big help In Daily living [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:31 AM Flag
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No, we just haven't had everything done for us. You have a brain. Look at the lights and figure it out. Is your dh similar? Does he look at a washing machine and throw up his hands? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:43 AM Flag
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Um. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:45 AM Flag
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Oh ffs. You figure it out. You could do that now. Why don't you work on not calling him in next time. And FWIW these are not 'Man Issues'. What is this, 1950? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:40 AM Flag
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She's a troll. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:45 AM Flag
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Trust me. You can figure it out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:15 AM Flag
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She's a troll. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:22 AM Flag
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Did you marry your handyman? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:28 AM Flag
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I'm not a "handyman" and I think I could always change a lightbulb. You SN? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:31 AM Flag
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My ex is no more handy than I am. I do not have a printer at home. Print stuff at office or staples. I dont print that much. I can check circuits and bulbs. If you cant, live in a building with a super. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:35 AM Flag
[ - ] Anyone go from salary to freelance and not take a pay dip? I have a plan where I could freelance and make similar money but I wonder if I would work less if I'm not forced to be working every day. If I have the option to decline a project, will I? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:03 AM Flag
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They are not apples to apples. With freelance, there is no paid vacation or health insurance. You are responsible for your own taxes. There is no 401k contributions or company match. Although your hourly rate will be higher, there will be times you are unemployed. I work with a lot of contractors and they can definitely go a few weeks without a gig. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.05.15, 03:27 AM Flag
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