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[ - ] Divorced. My house has rules, discipline, sit down family meals and vegetables. Whereas the ex has fun, candy and snacks. Please BTDT success stories? I need tips! 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:42 AM Flag
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I can elaborate. Ex = Disney, nanny, driver, maid... Me? It's just...me. And the only Disney is on screen, no Disney cruises and theme park just once. I feel like the poster below that wrote her child prefers Dad. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:45 AM Flag
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Try to reframe how you're looking at the situation. This is not a popularity contest. You are not in competition with your ex for your kids' affection. Love, stability and boundaries are real things that kids need to feel secure. And you don't need tons of money to have fun with kids. Kids enjoy being with YOU not your money. Also, try to be grateful that your kids get to experience Disney or other "luxuries", even though it's not with you. It's about them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 04:07 AM Flag
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Word. Signed, divorced mom. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 04:26 AM Flag
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Thank you both. You're right I need to reframe. I am grateful they get the benefits of funding and a fun parent. So many UBers post about a far worse partner. We are fortunate. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 04:52 AM Flag
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What is the custody split? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 04:09 AM Flag
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50/50 although since the divorce was final I have had them for all their unpleasantries: doctors appointments, dentist appointments, school... and ex has had them for all of the "fun" spring break, christmas, thanksgiving...it's not quite that unfair but I'm just in a self pity cry myself to sleep mood. Sorry UB! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 04:50 AM Flag
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Give your kids some credit. They notice everything and know more about what's going on than you think. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 04:10 AM Flag
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I hope you're right. They noticed ex and new partner smoke. at school they were taught that was the worst, so asked me confusedly why ex does it. Sigh. They're great kids. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 04:51 AM Flag
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This is me, tbh, but ex-husband has the "loving discipline" because dd respects him. Ugh, it's so annoying. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 05:06 AM Flag
[ - ] Who is getting their son the HPV vaccine? Doesn't seem to benefit them much. 26 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:30 AM Flag
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My ex is anti vaccine otherwise yes I would [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:32 AM Flag
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I am. Absolutely. HPV can cause genital warts in men and less commonly, cancer. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:37 AM Flag
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You mean rarely ever cancer, and warts NBD and not common. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 04:08 AM Flag
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There's a solid cancer risk for boys. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:40 AM Flag
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Link? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 04:09 AM Flag
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And to heterosexual men..I know about increased risk in gay men [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 04:11 AM Flag
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Me. MD mom. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:54 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 04:26 AM Flag
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Mine got it. [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 04:43 AM Flag
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Men get a lot of throat cancer that could be prevented. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 04:06 AM Flag
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Link? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 04:09 AM Flag
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Heard it on NPR...Hang on... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 04:10 AM Flag
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This says nothing about the risks of throats cancer in men if you do or do not have the vaccine [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 04:15 AM Flag
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"In addition, the improved version of Gardasil increases protection against HPV-related cancers in the vagina, vulva, penis, anus, rectum and oropharynx, which is the tongue and tonsil area at the back of the throat." The study it links to (CDC) cites the number of men with throat cancer due to HPV. You are correct it doesn't show how many of these could have been prevented but why take the risk?! If you can vaccinate against a certain time of cancer with any degree of certainty, wouldn't you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 04:18 AM Flag
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You do realize for men, most of the cancer is not associated with heterosexuals. I'd like to see scientific studies showing the benefit and a direct link...seems like a lot of speculation [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 04:23 AM Flag
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Heterosexual men also perform oral sex. And how do you know your son won't experiment with other men? I'm totally comfortable with the speculation, it's ‚Äča no-brainer for me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 04:26 AM Flag
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At my 11 year old's well visit last week the dr said that next year we'd discuss the HPV vaccine. I almost fainted. He weighs about 63 pounds wet. My baby! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 04:14 AM Flag
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11 year old girls get pregnant [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 04:16 AM Flag
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My 11 year old son has zero interest in girls (or boys) in that way yet. My 8 year old daughter.... her I'm worried about. Different personality. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 04:24 AM Flag
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I have seen two women die from cervical cancer. Yes, my ds is getting it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 04:21 AM Flag
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Prevents throat and anal cancer in men [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 04:26 AM Flag
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It prevents men from giving cancer to women. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 04:26 AM Flag
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It makes money for the manufacturer far more than it prevents cancer. They create the drug, the artificial "need" for it and the studies that say it's effective. Its only effect is extracting money from fearful parents. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 04:42 AM Flag
[ - ] RHOBH reunion 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:19 AM Flag
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I was bored to tears. Why are they showing Kim? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:22 AM Flag
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Worst housewives: Kim, JIll Zarin, Brandy [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:25 AM Flag
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Yes. Oh and that Puerto Rican pageant lady. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 04:26 AM Flag
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I know! She was on the show a total of 30mins but had to be on all the reunion shows?? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 04:26 AM Flag
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bunnygate [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:23 AM Flag
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lol exactly just nonsense [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:25 AM Flag
[ - ] I am probably the only teacher out there who dislikes summer vacation. It is too long for me. I get really bored. Yes, I know I could get some kind of a summer job, but I have found those to be a PITA. I like the rhythm of my classroom. I wish we only had 3-4 weeks in the summer, with longer breaks throughout the year. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:16 AM Flag
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I'm a teacher and I hate summer vacation because it is hot as hell out and all the fucking kids are around screaming and yelling with their loud trashy mothers. I prefer having time off when it's peaceful and quiet with few people around. I hate teaching by the way and lost my job due to the board of ed and business administrator fucking up the finances and budget - probably won't be teaching ever again or working ever again since I am almost 50 and therefore no one will want to hire me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:46 AM Flag
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You lost me at "fucking kids" "loud trashy mothers." Go into another field. You should be out of teaching. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 04:25 AM Flag
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Looks like she lost her teaching job. No surprise here. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 04:28 AM Flag
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General Topics 04.26.17, 04:28 AM Flag
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I'm not a teacher and I quietly refer to other people's kids this way too. 'Loud trashy mothers' is reserved for the loud trashy mothers. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 04:40 AM Flag
[ - ] How did they decide who got Princess Diana's engagement ring? If my older brother got it just because he was getting married first, I would be PISSED. Do you think Harry cared? Did she leave it to one boy? 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:05 AM Flag
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It's a family piece, and William is the "responsible" one who was also next in line. It's just a traditional thing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:08 AM Flag
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Older kid should get it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:08 AM Flag
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Offs [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:09 AM Flag
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Harry got the ring. William wanted her watch, the one she used to teach him to tell time. Harry gave the ring to william to give to Kate. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:10 AM Flag
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Aw Harry is the BEST [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:13 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:25 AM Flag
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Wow, I didn't know that. He's really a nice brother! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:39 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:19 AM Flag
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Harry originally got the engagement ring, but William asked him for it to propose to Kate. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:10 AM Flag
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meg must be pissed [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:20 AM Flag
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Actually I think that's kind of rude and demanding of William. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:40 AM Flag
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Not really. He's the future monarch. His wife is the future Consort. Harry was not marriage minded otherwise he would have said no. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:48 AM Flag
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who cares it's an ugly ring [ Reply | More ]
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'ugly' and priceless. [ Reply | More ]
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How long do you give the marriage of Harry and Meghan? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 04:03 AM Flag
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seems like a marriage bad luck charm [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 04:04 AM Flag
[ - ] Girlboss is so bad but I cannot stop watching! 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:02 AM Flag
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I thought the same thing, and then I got really into it over the last few eps. It got pretty good. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:04 AM Flag
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It is so bad. Actually knew her in real life during the era that they're depicting in the show, so it's extra weird and bad to see the strange hollywood interpretation of that time. I couldn't watch more than 10 minutes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:08 AM Flag
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Was she as horrible as she is depicted? abrasive? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:13 AM Flag
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She was more introverted than they show. but she was basically unfriendly and didn't pay attention to you unless you could do something for her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:16 AM Flag
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NP: Any other anecdotes? I'm intrigued. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:21 AM Flag
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I actually have some dirt on her that I have often thought the media would LOVE to know, since the whole bankruptcy fiasco especially. But it would be cruel to leak it. Sorry to tease. I really didn't know her that well beyond that though, she was a friend's roomie and we worked together briefly. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:32 AM Flag
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Who is getting their son the HPV vaccine? Seems not to benefit them much. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:29 AM Flag
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Oops! Thanks [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:29 AM Flag
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Well after the bankruptcy turns out not a girlboss. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:27 AM Flag
[ - ] My ex-husband is a better parent and it really hurts. 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:01 AM Flag
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A better parent than you? Why do you think so? Bet you're just beating up on yourself. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:09 AM Flag
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My daughter is infinitely closer to him, they just have that "thing" between them and for all his bad traits, he's a great mixture of silly fun and responsibility. Whenever I see them together it really sucks because she so naturally gravitates towards him, whereas she's always kind of removed from me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:11 AM Flag
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That doesn't mean you are a bad parent compared to him. You each play different roles in her life. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:13 AM Flag
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I don't think I'm a bad parent, but I'll never have that relationship with her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:20 AM Flag
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Yikes this must be how my dear husband feels. As a step mother I just assume that relationship is off the table for me so I don't hope / bother / try. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:30 AM Flag
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I totally get why she likes him (obviously I clicked with him at some point in my life and he has that fun/crazy/caring personality mix that people are drawn to), but at her mother it is so hard to watch. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 05:08 AM Flag
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It may be very different when she is older/has kids of her own. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:38 AM Flag
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Does anyone have that story? I can't think of anyone that ever shared, "Well one parent was really fun but jee I have to thank my unpleasant parent for being a real parent and teaching useful skills for life" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:47 AM Flag
[ - ] Which is right: "in the hopes of" vs. "in the hope of" 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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In hope of? [ Reply | More ]
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This [ Reply | More ]
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Really? So you could say something along the lines of: "he modified the business plan in hope of rectifying the previous error?" (strange sentence, i know). It seems like "the" should be in there to me! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:08 AM Flag
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No the [ Reply | More ]
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Np. Hoping to rectify.... [ Reply | More ]
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^^ and take out "in". [ Reply | More ]
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op: thank you both! [ Reply | More ]
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Nnp-- "in hopes of" [ Reply | More ]
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This [ Reply | More ]
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use the plural in this context [ Reply | More ]
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op: Thank you all :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:55 AM Flag
[ - ] Rate: 2 cups of coffee, splash of half & half, 1 string cheese, 1 sandwich with mortadella and mustard, 1 serving of pasta with broccolli, 1 otter pop, a glass of tea 15 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 02:57 AM Flag
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Lose the bread and pasta..need a fruit and way more vegies [ Reply | More ]
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Is mortadella just fancy way to say bologna? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:11 AM Flag
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Uh, no. [ Reply | More ]
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It tastes the same . [ Reply | More ]
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You sound fat. [ Reply | More ]
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I'm not, but if I was, nbd. You sound cunty. [ Reply | More ]
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Does hamburger and steak taste the same to you? [ Reply | More ]
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^Do [ Reply | More ]
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No. Unless it's a Steak Um. [ Reply | More ]
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yes [ Reply | More ]
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They are not the same. What has happened to UB? [ Reply | More ]
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Not enough coffee. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:46 AM Flag
[ - ] Found a tick behind my ear today. Suburb problem. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 02:51 AM Flag
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Already! Jesus. [ Reply | More ]
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I pulled one off my husband this weekend [ Reply | More ]
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She said, "tick" not "chick." [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 04:19 AM Flag
[ - ] i have a one month old and 3 year old and i'm having a tough time getting them both to bed. do u an dh split it? put one down then move onto the second? i feel like i'm doing 2 hours of bedtime routines and they keep waking each other up! 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 02:49 AM Flag
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If deal with 3 year old in room at bedtime and worry about baby later in my room [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 02:50 AM Flag
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One month old is too little to share a room with 3 year old. 3 year old should go to bed first with his own routine. One month old should be with you in a bassinet. [ Reply | More ]
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but what do u do with one month old while putting 3 yo to bed [ Reply | More ]
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Where is dh? [ Reply | More ]
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Sling if she'll stay quiet that way. [ Reply | More ]
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One month olds don't have a routine yet- they're usually all over the place. It'll get easier in 6 months. [ Reply | More ]
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Just baby wear the one month old while you tend to three yr old. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:14 AM Flag
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+1 - best thing I learned with #2 was how to nurse him in the ergo. I could read to older sis and put her to bed while DB was eating and then deal with him later [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:44 AM Flag
[ - ] What can I add to canned tuna for bedtime snack? Trying to stay away from carbs and sugar. 23 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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dijon [ Reply | More ]
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salsa [ Reply | More ]
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curry powder and lemon [ Reply | More ]
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Ooh, this sounds good! [ Reply | More ]
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Pickle [ Reply | More ]
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Celery yum [ Reply | More ]
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peperoncinos - peperoncini to be correct. [ Reply | More ]
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avocado. [ Reply | More ]
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Celery, a little mayo, a few crackers eat, brush teeth [ Reply | More ]
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Radishes, celery, Greek yogurt [ Reply | More ]
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Red onion, black olives [ Reply | More ]
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you like salt [ Reply | More ]
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No added salt. I could skip the olives...no salt. I personally prefer ice cream and chocolate [ Reply | More ]
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who doesn't? op is trying to avoid sugar though [ Reply | More ]
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garlic hummus or just garlic paste [ Reply | More ]
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Nutella. Oh. [ Reply | More ]
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marmite [ Reply | More ]
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Ambien [ Reply | More ]
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Mayo [ Reply | More ]
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don't snack [ Reply | More ]
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egg whites or whole hard boiled eggs, celery, dill pickle relish, kraut, black pepper, if you want a little red delicious apple [ Reply | More ]
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oil and vinegar [ Reply | More ]
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Giardinarra. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 04:42 AM Flag
[ - ] When was the last time you had sex? 33 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 02:44 AM Flag
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Fourteen years ago. [ Reply | More ]
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About that [ Reply | More ]
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Ouch, why so long? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 02:54 AM Flag
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Once the pregnancy test came back positive, my husband no longer wanted to have sex with me. It was devastating. I stayed in the marriage for a long time and never cheated. Recently divorced and now I just feel like it's been so long and I'm so old that it's all over for me. Very sad about that but otherwise my life is good. [ Reply | More ]
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Yesterday [ Reply | More ]
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This works [ Reply | More ]
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A year and a half ago :( [ Reply | More ]
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I've lost track [ Reply | More ]
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Wow, i meant this to be a happy post. So many without intimacy. [ Reply | More ]
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If we were having sex, we wouldn't be here tonight. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:09 AM Flag
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Could've had sex earlier today. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:11 AM Flag
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true. my dh is asleep and we're in our first night in a 100+ year old b&b. i'm a little sad but I have UB and he clearly needs the r&r [ Reply | More ]
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Tomorrow you'll have sex [ Reply | More ]
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with an orgasm or two? [ Reply | More ]
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Lunchish. [ Reply | More ]
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You rock. [ Reply | More ]
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Thanks lol. [ Reply | More ]
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3 years ago [ Reply | More ]
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Nearing a decade. [ Reply | More ]
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Wait are the sexless posters single or are you in unhappy marriages? [ Reply | More ]
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1.5 years above, single. And love it fwiw, except the lack of sex. [ Reply | More ]
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Recently single :( [ Reply | More ]
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Went from being sexless married person to being a sexless single person. The latter is better but I'm sad that my sex life was over so quickly. [ Reply | More ]
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Friday [ Reply | More ]
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+ [ Reply | More ]
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Almost 6 months, the longest I've gone in a decade. Really sad. But have no interest in dealing with men right now. [ Reply | More ]
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a few days ago. I didn't climax. It's been a week since orgasm. [ Reply | More ]
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Why don't you masturbate??? I couldn't survive [ Reply | More ]
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Masturbation does nothing for me. I try. Toys, pillow humping, romance novels, sexy shows, water shower hand held, massagers... If I loved myself that much I probably wouldn't have married my husband. But kudos to you! I'm jealous! [ Reply | More ]
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NP: :( I don't connect with men I don't have amazing sex with. [ Reply | More ]
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This afternoon. 12:30? [ Reply | More ]
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28 years ago and it was rape. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 04:47 AM Flag
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Monday night. First time with the guy I'm seeing. Also last time. I had to try it out to definitively decide whether to continue or abort. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 04:58 AM Flag
[ - ] Dinner date with DH: had sushi for lunch. Indian? But want healthy. We both like spice. Ideas? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 02:42 AM Flag
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just order tandoori chicken/lamb, skip the curries and skip the rice [ Reply | More ]
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thanks! [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Is the lady who joked about jumping in front of train below still on? Do u need to talk? Please don't! 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 02:41 AM Flag
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please don't. i had a friend that was a train conductor. it's sadly common and most conductors can't deal with it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:14 AM Flag
[ - ] I LOVE AMY SCHUMER 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 02:39 AM Flag
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ok Amy [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:06 AM Flag
[ - ] A few nights ago my11 yo dd was asked by her friend (lets call her Jane) about whether she liked another friend (Ann) via text. My dd said she was a little annoying. Jane didn't tell Ann what my dd said but that afternoon had Ann over while they texted other friends this question which caused a lot of drama. Now dh is forbidding dd from hanging out with Jane. We have talked to dd ,taken away her devices for month but this seems extreme. agree? 40 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 02:34 AM Flag
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WtF? your dh is getting involved in girl drama? he is insane. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 02:36 AM Flag
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Are you a troll? Insane?? It's called parenting [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 02:36 AM Flag
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No, it's called mothering and should be done by a mother [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 02:41 AM Flag
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Whoa. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 02:44 AM Flag
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Your DH is a weirdo. My DH doesn't even know who my kids are friends with...this is more normal. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 02:36 AM Flag
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This can't be normal! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 02:43 AM Flag
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? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 02:44 AM Flag
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Most of the dads I know are stricter than the moms. Probably because they operate in the adult world and understand what is expected there, as opposed to the eternal HS existence of SAHMs. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 02:45 AM Flag
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ok. I am not a SAHM, my DH is not a SAHD, and neither of us would get involved in this stupid kid drama. ugh. let the kids figure it out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 02:46 AM Flag
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So you let your DD be a little bitch to prove how cool, laid back and uninvolved you are? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 02:48 AM Flag
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so who is parenting and advising your kids about this stuff??? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 02:51 AM Flag
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Haha! My dh would rather get punched in the face than deal with pre-teen girl shit. He gets this really checked out look on his face when I relay anything about our dd's drama with friends. He just doesn't care. He cares if she gets into accelerated math. He cares if she makes the track team. If so-and-so is mad at our dd? Uh, no. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 02:46 AM Flag
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this [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 02:47 AM Flag
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"He doesn't care" isn't something you brag about [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 02:49 AM Flag
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I'm just marveling that OP married a weird unicorn guy absorbed in girl drama. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 02:52 AM Flag
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Seems like he is overly protective. Involved in girl drama sounds weird. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 02:53 AM Flag
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You're also leaving out the important qualifier to "doesn't care"...he is above total and complete bullshit. I admire this in him. I can get wrapped up in it if I'm not careful. It's always stupid. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 02:54 AM Flag
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But if your dd gets hurt by others or she hurts others you don't talk about it? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 02:56 AM Flag
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Yes, we absolutely do. In fact, in the recent past I got over-involved. Speaking to parents, etc. She's my first and I get concerned about bullying, etc. But the above drama has been going on since at least the early 80s when I was 11. I do think that providing measured guidance and a cool head is key with tween and teen girls. OP's DH is OTT. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:01 AM Flag
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Uh, he's not calling anyone's parent. Just saying not to be friends with the source of the trouble. Seems like common sense. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:03 AM Flag
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It's not "bullshit". How to treat people, how you want others to treat you, how to use (and not use) technology - all very important values and skills that DC need to learn before they become adults [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 02:59 AM Flag
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You don't do that by ending friendships for your child. This isn't teaching a skill. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:03 AM Flag
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Do you have a badly behaved DC that loses a lot of friends? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:04 AM Flag
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No. I wrote about this before. My dd's good friend got mad at her, had her password, changed it and wrote "ugly ass bitch." The parents at first believed her. I said that I would be checking into the IP address...the girl and her mother showed up on my doorstep in tears. The girl admitted to doing it. She was annoyed that my dd was sad when someone took her pictures on a class trip. She tends to get targeted, actually. That said, I regret that I took the matter so strongly. Kids can be dicks in school. My dd can handle it. She said that nothing was changed by the apology. It didn't help matters one bit. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:13 AM Flag
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I'm sure it helped that you got involved. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:29 AM Flag
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This. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 02:55 AM Flag
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your DH has a vagina. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 02:36 AM Flag
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Your child needs to learn this stuff is NOT allowed. Ever. Take the electronics. She's 11. She doesn't need them. Is take it for 30 days. I don't k ow Jane, but I would make sure janes parents knew and I'd ground dd for a week from Jane. Then have serious conversation with dd about if you lie with dogs you get fleas [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 02:39 AM Flag
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op Forbidding any playdates forever with this girl just seems unrealistic to me. I want her to know we have confidence in her decision making and we have talked about her mistake in all this and she realizes her friend was stirring up drama so will hopefully move away from her. No devices for a month. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 02:41 AM Flag
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Play dates? Absurd term for 11 year olds. What on earth makes you confident in her decision making? It's obviously a fail. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 02:45 AM Flag
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Well they come over from school sometimes and stay for a few hours or dinner. what is the term for that? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 02:48 AM Flag
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Hanging out, having friends over [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 02:51 AM Flag
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oy vey [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 02:52 AM Flag
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No, I agree with him. Jane sounds like trouble. The girls that were like this when DD was younger didn't change. Usually you can see why when you get to know the parents. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 02:42 AM Flag
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op Yes her parents are pretty checked out. Also kids always comes over with her phone and is on it the whole playdate.hmmm [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 02:44 AM Flag
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I'm with the OR above - the words "play date" and "phone" don't belong together! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 02:47 AM Flag
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Jane sounds like a PITA. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:11 AM Flag
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what is PITA? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:13 AM Flag
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pain in the a** [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:16 AM Flag
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pain in the ass [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:17 AM Flag
[ - ] My food today. 1 cup of coffee. 1 acai strawberry bowl from JP. Turkey burger with feta and lettuce. Dinner, Baked salmon and kale. desert raw chocolate ball. Seltzer and water all day. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 02:32 AM Flag
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sounds good! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 02:36 AM Flag
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I can't stop eating that strawberry bowl from jp. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 02:57 AM Flag
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What's jp? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:05 AM Flag
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guessing it is Juice Press [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:12 AM Flag
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Sounds good. Will try it! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.26.17, 03:15 AM Flag
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