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[ - ] Does your DH ever sort of force himself on you sexually? Mine sometimes likes it if I show or pretend to show a little resistance. Is this normal? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:56 AM Flag
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normal for you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:57 AM Flag
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No, but could be fun as long as he respects your "safe" word. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:01 AM Flag
[ - ] Too stressed out to masturbate. Recommendations? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:54 AM Flag
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Just browse some porn. It will come. No pun intended. Haha. What's stressin' you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:56 AM Flag
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Listen to music and have a glass of wine! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:57 AM Flag
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Yoga [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:00 AM Flag
[ - ] When did you become a bitch? Experiences? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:50 AM Flag
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i've always been odd. i don't empathize well. aspie. but seriously? it was when my kids started school. i freaking hate everybody now. and now, world charities will be millions less rich when i die because the kids are getting it all. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:56 AM Flag
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You sound lovely. Really. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:56 AM Flag
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i don't have a lot of duplicity. what you get is what you see. some people don't like that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:59 AM Flag
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Hah, I like it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:59 AM Flag
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ty! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:00 AM Flag
[ - ] Posted a few weeks ago about mother coming in from the burbs (to babysit on a friday night and spend weekend) and she was drunk and maybe on some anxiety-type xanex or something also. She was supposed to arrive at 1pm and I get a call from nearby building that she was there. She said she had been looking for my apt for 3hrs and didn't answer cell phone. Then I had her in for weekend (fri, sat) 2 weeks later. DH was away first 2 days so I slept on couch and let her take the master bed/bath. She decided to stay sunday night and DH blew up air mattress and put it in 2 yr olds room and she said that would be fine. Headed out for work for 11 hr day monday and nanny was here to take care of dc. I got home mon night and she was still here in PJ's and went to bed again in dc's room on double air mattress. Tues she left before I woke. Wed she called and ripped on me in away that she has never even though she has always been abusive. "I treated her like an old dog." She needed to sleep in the master bedroom and couldn't put her make-up on in the guest bathroom because of bad lighting and she is never coming again. I thought I would get a break for a few months but just got a vm today. Anyone BTDT with a mother or MIL that is just completely spoiled and insane and a rage aholic if not also an alcoholic. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:41 AM Flag
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Sorry that was too long to read. bottom line is my mother is nuts and will not leave me alone with demands and anger. Anyone BTDT? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:42 AM Flag
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Never BTDT, but hugs to you. Sounds excrutiating. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:45 AM Flag
[ - ] Do any of you wash your faces with plain old soap instead of having a fancy cleanser system? One of my girl friends chewed me out for doing this, but I think I look younger than all of them. I'm 30 and are often mistaken for 17-18. 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:38 AM Flag
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*am often mistaken [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:38 AM Flag
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Dried skin just looks dull and may create this viscous circle of wrinkles [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:39 AM Flag
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really viscous [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:45 AM Flag
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iPhone. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:46 AM Flag
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^^ are you a scientist? because that's the only way I can think of viscous coming into autocorrect first. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:49 AM Flag
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vicious. ;) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:47 AM Flag
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of course we all knew it was vicious! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:51 AM Flag
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you might be fine. all depends on the skin. don't use ivory. my college roommate used to use tone. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:40 AM Flag
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Dove is just fine. 90% of people actually think they look younger than they actually do. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:44 AM Flag
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i dobut that. but don't you think most umc women under the age of 35 look younger? i'm 45 and the guy at trader joe's thought i was 36. i don't even look good. dressed like crap. but made my day! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:53 AM Flag
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I think it's really hard to guess people's ages. I am usually shocked when I see people pushing baby carriages because I figure they have to be in their 30s or early 40s and most I would peg at late 40s if I didn't see them with babies. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:55 AM Flag
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well, i will take 9 years the other way anytime! totally look like shit, though. have to fix that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:58 AM Flag
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i also said, "no. 37. getting up in the ages. sigh" lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:58 AM Flag
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No. Soap and foaming cleansers leave my skin tight and SHINY. My face hurts afterwards it is so tight. I have to use cream cleansers. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:49 AM Flag
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+1. I do the soap when I feel extra lazy and then have to run for the moisturizer. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:54 AM Flag
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I remember my college roommate could not fathom that I used regular dove bar soap on my face. She had grown up believing every one used Noxema. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:58 AM Flag
[ - ] Wen hair care. Who's tried it? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:31 AM Flag
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Too rich for my blood. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:44 AM Flag
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It has been great for me because I have some mild psoriasis of the scalp and it calms it. But if I use it more than 2 days in a row my hair is limp. So I switch off or even use it as a second rinse/conditioner. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:54 AM Flag
[ - ] Would you or have you ever used whipped cream in the bedroom with DH? What was that like? 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:26 AM Flag
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Haha. No. I'd be worried about attracting ants. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:27 AM Flag
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Op: lol! Yes, sanitation is a concern!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:28 AM Flag
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I had an ex boyfriend who bought chocolate syrup. He was so into pouring it over my body and I just hated it - Filthy and sticky and we never had sex that night because I ran to take a shower. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:29 AM Flag
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How do you know that he was so into it? (Genuinely curious!) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:31 AM Flag
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Sorry, I'm totally cringing writing this but the massive erection and moaning. Meanwhile I was just getting more and more upset and grossed out. It's sort of funny now....I can't convey the horror of being covered in syrup. It's just awful. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:36 AM Flag
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Hahahahahahaha! This seriously made my night :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:38 AM Flag
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^ not intending to be insensitive to your plight btw. I am sure that it was awful at the time! But the way that you have described it is just so funny! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:39 AM Flag
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LOL [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:46 AM Flag
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:) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:40 AM Flag
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Gross! That would not fly in my world. No honey, either. It only works in movies. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:32 AM Flag
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It melts upon application. BTDT. Then it slides off, leaving a greasy trail. But it was part of a hysterical laughing fit one night long ago w a college boyfriend. No sex that night, tho. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:35 AM Flag
[ - ] Are you in love? Happy in your marriage? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:21 AM Flag
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Yes, and yes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:26 AM Flag
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no and no. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:28 AM Flag
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am i in love? that is a weird question. do i love my husband? yes. am i happy in my marriage. yes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:41 AM Flag
[ - ] What's the most bizarre person you've ever dealt with? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:19 AM Flag
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Someone very high up at my job. Dont want to give details, but I'm fairly certain she's bipolar or has some other mental imbalance. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:20 AM Flag
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My father. Total wack job. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:21 AM Flag
[ - ] Where to get reasonably priced hotel quality sheets? 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:18 AM Flag
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Costco. Flame away. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:18 AM Flag
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Love costco [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:19 AM Flag
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What's the brand? Are they truly hotel quality? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:20 AM Flag
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Yes, imo. I think mine are Charisma brand from Costco. Very silky, soft cotton, gets even better with each washing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:20 AM Flag
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I hated those. I returned them. No good at all. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:30 AM Flag
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Mine are kirkland and I like them. Also from Costco. Np [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:32 AM Flag
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We use pratesi. Buy on sale. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:20 AM Flag
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I am super picky. The other day I was in the Frette outlet store and they had 2 different types of sheet sets that they called hotel sheets. The nice ones that were made in Italy were $180 for a set and the not so nice ones that were made in India ("Hospitality Collection") were $80 for a set. Big difference in price and quality, but the $180 sheets were definitely nowhere as nice as the $600 sheets. I already have fabulous sheets out the wazoo so I bought nothing, but I was interested in chatting to the saleswoman to hear her sales pitch. At the end of the day, it is a gamble when you buy sheets. Some are fabulously smooth and others are rough, wrinkled messes--no matter how much you spend. Try Tuesday Morning. They often have super high end sheets for a reasonable price. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:26 AM Flag
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Thanks. Is Tuesday morning better than Home Goods? What brands should I look out for? Staying in a great hotel right now and realizing I want this in my home. No brand listed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:31 AM Flag
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The sheets that Tuesday Morning sells can be *really* high end. I'm talking $1,200+ sheets (they sell for about $500 or $600). HomeGoods tops out at about $125 when they get Italian sheets. You certainly don't need $1,200 sheets (they are stunningly beautiful to admire all pressed in the packaging), but you generally need to go higher than the stock $49.99 sheet set you find at HomeGoods. You can find really nice sheets at TM for around $125 or maybe less if they're on clearance. The lady at Frette said you want Egyptian cotton percale to get the hotel sheet feeling. You will need to iron them to get them super smooth feeling, though. We have Egyptian cotton sateen sheets. We like that feeling, but the lady at Frette said sateen is warmer than percale. Tuesday Morning sells a lot of Sferra and Anachini, among other brands. You have to search for the displays of the good stuff. They sell junk, too. Know the difference. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:42 AM Flag
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np: I feel like I've learned something from this post. I can't afford anything, but it's interesting (not snarky) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:49 AM Flag
[ - ] Anyone have DCs at Brooklyn Tech? DD will start there in the fall. What are the kids like? I know it's a big school, but I'm worried that the size of it means that there will be fewer highly motivated kids and a lot of slackers. Are most from Brooklyn? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:18 AM Flag
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I had friends at stuy and they all said brooklyn tech is for crackheads. Their words. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:19 AM Flag
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I went to tech. It was a fantastic education eight every type of student imaginable. Only more and more impressed by my classmates as we age. Most were from queens/bk, then Manhattan, then SI, Bx [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:46 AM Flag
[ - ] Spin off. Can you give me some flirting tips? I am single and I think I have social anxiety. Help! 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:16 AM Flag
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Alcohol. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:23 AM Flag
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I know, but what about in situations like when I'm grabbing my morning coffee? I want to learn to become more social and able to connect. The other day I think a guy was trying to talk to me and I sort of shut him down because I'm nervous and awkward. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:24 AM Flag
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Wha did you say that you think was a shut down? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:27 AM Flag
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One word answers [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:28 AM Flag
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So maybe force yourself to elaborate further next time? After you answer a question, you could ask him one to keep the convo going [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:30 AM Flag
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This. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:25 AM Flag
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Smile. Giggle. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:27 AM Flag
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Joke around, light compliments here and there if you know the other person reasonably well enough to do this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:39 AM Flag
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Show interest in him. By which I mean, give him all of your attention. Focus on him. Make eye contact. Smile at him. Listen to him. Do not look elsewhere! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:51 AM Flag
[ - ] Do kids start to have crushes in first grade? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:14 AM Flag
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neither of mine. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:42 AM Flag
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I had a crush at 2 years old in preschool. Kid had a patch on his eye that I thought was really cool. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:46 AM Flag
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Yes, I teach 1st and a handful of girls tell me they have crushes on the "star" boys. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:49 AM Flag
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my dd had a little kid come up to her and tell her he liked her. then he asked if she liked him. she said no. i said you crushed him. she said, "no, he just took it as a fact." [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:54 AM Flag
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^^1st [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:54 AM Flag
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A First grade girl is giving my K son gifts (stickers, a rubber ball) on the bus. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 04:00 AM Flag
[ - ] Need a probiotic. suggestions? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:09 AM Flag
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Yogurt [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:09 AM Flag
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Activia [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:10 AM Flag
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Culturelle from Costco [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:14 AM Flag
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Can't get to Costco. Don't you need a membership? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:17 AM Flag
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Yes. Can buy online too [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:18 AM Flag
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Femdophilus [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:30 AM Flag
[ - ] Does anyone have an amazing personal/admin assistant? Would really need this person to do simple research for me. I want to buy a blender that does x and y and present me with two to three options. I want Ds to take a swim class, same thing. Drop off and pick up dry cleaning or arrange for it to be done. But how do I find someone competent enough to do these menial tasks, but also interested in this job? What would I have to pay? This person would also help in my office making copies and filing. 27 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:06 AM Flag
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Omg you are retarded. Wow. How do you get dressed in the morning [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:07 AM Flag
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This [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:10 AM Flag
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This is caled "life." You mean you need to hire someone to do life? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:07 AM Flag
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^^would probably be a part time position and I think some hours could be worked from the persons own home. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:08 AM Flag
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In the time you spent typing this post, you could have purchased a blender and found a swim class. You sound slow and incompetent. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:09 AM Flag
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You don't get it. These were merely examples. I have four dcs. I'd rather read to them after dinner than do all of this bs paperwork. I'd like to outsource what doesn't matter so I can focus on what does. I have a lot of little time consuming tasks Id like to write on post it notes and magically have them done. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:11 AM Flag
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You are wasting time on UB right now. Wtf? You don't manage your time well, clearly. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:11 AM Flag
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You sound like such a nightmare. It would take longer to manage this set of tasks than do it yourself. Actually wondering about this shit is more time consuming than actually doing these tasks. I feel so bad for whomever is desperate enough to sign up for your bs [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:10 AM Flag
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A college senior or graduate student would be a good choice. I pay $20/hr. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:11 AM Flag
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^^ It is more difficult if you want a full time person for this job. Most actresses have this set up. But many that take this type of jobs want some type of hollywood exposures. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:12 AM Flag
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Hmm. Do you employ someone like this? Obviously a 2yr+ commitment is desired, but I understand it won't be the kind of job most would want forever. Do students need time off around exams? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:14 AM Flag
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I do have someone like this. She was a graduate student and started as my babysitter. i started giving her more personal assistant duties since she is obviously capable of doing research, running errands, booking tickets, arranging hotel rooms, etc. I give her defined hours and let her have the flexibility if she needs to take a day or two off to study for exams. Depending on the grade of the person, when they graduate and move onto something else, you need to find a new person. So if you hire a first year student in graduate school, you can have her for two years. Obvious, she would travel home during school vacations. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:18 AM Flag
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Thanks [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:26 AM Flag
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People I know who have personal assistants have very busy social and/or work schedules, multiple requests per week for donations/gala tickets, etc., volunteer commitments, travel obligations with DH. It takes a certain type of person to want to do this job - flexible hours and great pay will be a big plus. It's very isolating. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:11 AM Flag
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Op is not some busy socialite, she's a frazzled mom who has not yet discovered non-iron clothing or asphalt greene. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:13 AM Flag
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The job itself is not isolating at all. it's just hard because it is partly professional and partly not. It's a cross between blue collar and white collar job. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:13 AM Flag
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You're usually working in someone's home, with no co-workers. You're not even making friends on the playground, like a nanny. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:19 AM Flag
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Op: this person would probably be in my office 1-2 times a week for a few hours and at my home 1-2 days a week for a few hours and then could do some projects from home. I envision this person as possibly having something else going on in life, although I could hire FT w/benefits at a lower pay rate. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:23 AM Flag
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Op: I currently have someone who can file and make copies. Not capable of the mini research type projects and I wouldn't trust him with my schedule. I'd like to find someone who can do a little bit more. I'd love someone to confirm appointments for me. For the most part I manage my own schedule and set reminders but even sorting mail is obnoxious to me. Would love someone who could help with all of this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:16 AM Flag
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find a bored sahm, offer the magic 10-2 hours plus flexibility for vacation [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:16 AM Flag
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Are you nuts? Sahm here. I already spend all day doing shit like this, I'm not gonna do it for someone else, [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:18 AM Flag
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Then you are sahm by choice probably. Some women are sah because they wouldn't earn enough to cover childcare. Some of those women could use a job like this if dcs in pre school. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:24 AM Flag
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I don't think you understand SAHM. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:19 AM Flag
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Please list the things you would need this person to do. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:19 AM Flag
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Buy gifts, schedule kids classes, make copies, pull and re-file files, order groceries online, set up new iPads. Just whatever needs to be done. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:25 AM Flag
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Then what do you do? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:28 AM Flag
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Work with my clients. I have so much prep work for each meeting. Would love a little assistance. And then when I am home I can read to my children, eat dinner, read and go to bed by 10pm! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 03:39 AM Flag
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