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[ - ] I don't think it's truly possible to "fall in love" anymore if you have been through a couple of failed relationships. It's just not possible, which is quite sad. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Each time I fell it love, it was weaker. Now I can't fall in love. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:42 AM Flag
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I had three "serious" boyfriends and then met DH. Married 25 years now. [ Reply | More ]
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I've never felt love. [ Reply | More ]
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i have felt that way, and have felt the same as first np, but here i am about to fall in love again, i think. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Breast cancer mom here. Went for my mammo today, going for MRI tomorrow. Routine check ups but first MRI in two years. The real fun starts next week when I sweat it out waiting for my phone to ring. Anyone on here feel me? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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My mom went through this 20 years ago and it has been a "journey." Haven't experienced it myself but I guess I'm close to the situation. Good luck. [ Reply | More ]
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Hugs, it will be all right. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] DH brought home 6 donuts. I think it's a sign that he likes me when I'm fat. If you're reading this DH, hint taken, I'm going to enjoy every single bite ;) 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:29 AM Flag
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Are you eating 6 doughnuts? Gross [ Reply | More ]
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I'd love to eat 6 doughnuts. [ Reply | More ]
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Yummy. Love your DH. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] My shower head has one hole where the water streams like normal, but recently, it's been spraying out of the same hole, but on the opposite side of the streaming water. Is it starting to wear out? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Screw it off and clean out the stones and grim. [ Reply | More ]
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OP: Thanks, I'll do that. [ Reply | More ]
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Yes, NYC water (or any other "hard" water) contains a lot of grit. You'll be amazed when you clean it. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Measles is now the Ebola flavor of the month. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Whatever you say. [ Reply | More ]
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Measles = Ebola 2.0 Everyone freak out - the sky is falling [ Reply | More ]
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No thanks. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Toured ps 166 today. Nice school. did not like the principal. a lot of emphasis on how the G&T and gen-ed are exactly the same. So...what am I missing? Why are people giving up spots at great schools like 199 and 87 for 166? 17 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:24 AM Flag
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Enrichment [ Reply | More ]
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87 and 199 both have enrichments [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:31 AM Flag
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I want to believe this but I didn't see any real evidence of enrichment. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:34 AM Flag
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i didn't get to see the dance class but the music class seemed just like a sing along. The art class seemed cool. But I got a better feeling a about enrichment at 87 and 452. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:36 AM Flag
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All the schools seem to have good non-academic enrichments. My concern at 166 was the teachers and the engagement level of the students. I was not impressed by either. Also, they seemed over the top obsessed with common core standards. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:42 AM Flag
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That is because there isn't ANY difference in curriculum AT ALL [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:38 AM Flag
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Enrichment [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:26 AM Flag
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Because they believe their child is too smart for general Ed. Because they like being chosen. Because they want bragging rights. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:27 AM Flag
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And the enrichment comment a ove is silly. They are the same curriculum. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:28 AM Flag
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A mom I know is freaking out because, she says, her child is too smart for gen-ed. She is desperate for a spot at 166. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:35 AM Flag
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They claim it's the same curriculum. The lower grades looked the same. The upper didn't in size only. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:37 AM Flag
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I was there, too. There was something I didn't like that I couldn't quite put my finger on. It was odd that a third grade gen ed class only had 15 kids . It made me think people flee the school for some reason. I toured 87 and loved it. I toured 452 and liked it but had reservations but I think I like it better than 166. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:29 AM Flag
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It's cold and flu season. Did you find the name chart and count? We're the really only 15 assigned to the class [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:30 AM Flag
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The tour guide said that was "normal" for gen Ed. She said that g and t gets overcrowded and it looked like it. I was an ICT class but I've not noticed the same hung in other ICT classes in other schools. There were only 16 desks as well [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:33 AM Flag
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^It was an ICT [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:34 AM Flag
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Could it have been a self contained special Ed class? That is different from ICT. We had one of those in our elementary with only 12 students. Sometimes moms giving tours get confused [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:40 AM Flag
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She said ICT. They had a printed schedule and I only noticed one teacher in the class. I'm used to seeing ICT with paras and a second teacher but wouldn't self contained have more than two teachers? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:42 AM Flag
[ - ] I miss the show Parenthood already. :( 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:23 AM Flag
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Me too!!!! [ Reply | More ]
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i was over it. i had lost all patience for the constant chatter. christina was unbearable! i did like zeek and camille though. [ Reply | More ]
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op: Christina was my least favorite character too. What chatter did you find most annoying? I found Haddie annoying but I liked Amber. And Joel and Julia. [ Reply | More ]
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I can't believe I missed the last 5 min!!! [ Reply | More ]
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well, it's like they kept ending it again and again, one poignant photo montage after the other. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:33 AM Flag
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But what happens to all of them? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:35 AM Flag
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can we post spoilers in this thread? what was your favorite moment? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:33 AM Flag
[ - ] How long do you give a guy to figure out with his therapist whether he loves you 18 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Dear Lord. [ Reply | More ]
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If he has to 'figure it out', he doesn't [ Reply | More ]
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This [ Reply | More ]
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Ok now what if he is your husband? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:30 AM Flag
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I would seperate while he was trying to figure it out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:32 AM Flag
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Leave with the kids? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:34 AM Flag
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No HE MOVES OUT [ Reply | More ]
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Divorce [ Reply | More ]
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DH. + infinity. [ Reply | More ]
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Probably none. [ Reply | More ]
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Barring a traumatic brain injury where all memories are lost AND we e been married 10 years - five minutes [ Reply | More ]
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Lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:27 AM Flag
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Adults unable to know their own feelings are a complete waste of time. You are better than this [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:26 AM Flag
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Thanks [ Reply | More ]
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Hahaha ex-bf told me he needed a week to see if he wanted to marry me. He came back with a ring, I told him to leave and NEVER come back [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:33 AM Flag
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Did you marry someone else? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:36 AM Flag
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I was 30. Married my dh at 33. He is amazing! But I do sometimes think what if...... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:38 AM Flag
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Easy if you are in your 20s.... Blots more fish and all that. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] VBA: So happy....10 yo just moved to a new school. I was worried that she might have trouble fitting in socially where the other kids have known each other since K. Teacher said DD is so socially confident and popular that kids "line up to play with her" and she has no problem asking to join a group for play. And she is easily one of the top students in the grade :-) without my asking. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:20 AM Flag
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Sounds like a LEADER [ Reply | More ]
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Did she just switch schools... When? Or did you move? [ Reply | More ]
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That's great! [ Reply | More ]
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IDC [ Reply | More ]
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not to burst your air bubble, but kids this age flock to the new kid. it's more about them than the new kid. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] 43/64 mom here. He just stopped by to see me and I'm beaming. I really, really like this man. 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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csb [ Reply | More ]
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I am so happy for you! I was rooting for you from the beginning. I am here too much I guess. Good luck. I have a good feeling about this. BTW, I am dating someone 14 years younger and everyone said it wont work.. Here I am 4 years later, happier than ever [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:16 AM Flag
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np: We need more people like you on here and not these obnoxious trolls. [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
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thank you thank you! [ Reply | More ]
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and good for you & your relationship! [ Reply | More ]
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+1. Don't remember original post but very happy for you. Have known a lot of people in life (reatives and friends) who have experienced good things later in life). Good for you! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:20 AM Flag
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careful. it's cute now, but he'll be in depends when you're in your prime [ Reply | More ]
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She's 43. "Prime" doesn't really mean anything after a certain age (52 year old here). [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:25 AM Flag
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i'm op, and yes, i know...i'm starting to look and feel my age. i'm not at all disappointed that we're eating chinese food and watching masterpiece mystery tonight ;) [ Reply | More ]
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I'm 52 and I have a 65 year old DH. I've been married since I was 25. DH is in good health and it has been an amazing life. Wouldn't trade it at all for someone else just because they are my age. I love him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:38 AM Flag
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I don't think about his age at all while I am with him; it is only from an analytical distance that it's a "problem" at all. If I were in my 20s and he in his 40s I wouldn't bat an eye. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:42 AM Flag
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Ok gross. Are you willing to change his poop diapers soon? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:43 AM Flag
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lmao [ Reply | More ]
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Does he have money? [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] I met a man at a volunteer project about a month ago, when I was dating someone else. We exchanged cards for other purposes, but he was very friendly. Would it be wrong of me to suggest we grab a drink at a new spot I've been wanting to check out? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:12 AM Flag
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no! do it. [ Reply | More ]
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Thanks! Done! I have nothing to lose... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:25 AM Flag
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Go for it [ Reply | More ]
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yolo [ Reply | More ]
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Are you still dating the first guy? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:30 AM Flag
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Good question. We broke up about an hour ago. [ Reply | More ]
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fast! [ Reply | More ]
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I've been unhappy in the relationship for awhile. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] The Missing series. Without stating Spoilers should I venture in .... ? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:11 AM Flag
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Yes...great show, wonderful acting. Very powerful. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] I had a major accomplishment today, probably the biggest professional accomplishment of my life, yet I somehow feel angry. This happens whenever I have a success in life. I downplay it in order to reduce the cognitive dissonance of the fact that I grew up with an abusive mother constantly telling me how stupid and worthless I am. 22 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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op: Not sure how to escape this pattern. Tried therapy. Too scared of side effects to try meds. I'm looking into rapid eye movement desensitization. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:07 AM Flag
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You're just looking for drama and attention. You have identified the problem and put all kinds of fancy words on it, but won't do anything substantive to fix it. [ Reply | More ]
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+1 Collapsing thread. [ Reply | More ]
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It's quite obvious you're a troll who is responding to yourself. [ Reply | More ]
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Good advice. Collapsed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:13 AM Flag
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op: I like your tough love approach and all and that's why I come on here, but do you actually have a solution I haven't mentioned? I don't see how you can make the case that I "won't do anything substantive to fix it" when I've tried therapy, read about 7 self-help books on the subject, and looked into meds. Is your perspective that if I don't try meds then that means I'm not actually trying to solve the problem? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:14 AM Flag
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She's just trying to troll. I wouldn't take anything she says seriously. If she thinks cognitive dissonance is a big fancy word, then I doubt she's ever taken a psyc class, let alone even graduated college. Not taking meds doesn't mean you're not trying to solve the problem. If you looked into the option and decided against it, that's good enough. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:16 AM Flag
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op: maybe but sometimes I wonder if I subconsciously don't want to do the meds because if they don't work then it's like wow I'm really stuck like this with these feelings. But if I never try them then I can always say to myself "well if it gets really bad, I'll just make the jump and start taking meds." Does that make sense? [ Reply | More ]
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Yes, that makes perfect sense. Often victims of abuse form an identity around being the victim of that abuse since they have grown accustomed to it, and they fear not knowing who they will be without that element of themselves, so they don't seek treatment. I see this all the time. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:18 AM Flag
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Why don't you just stop obsessing about it and live your life??? You're wallowing in self pity and enjoying it way too much. The people who lost their children to ebola, or Isis strikes, or the Boko Haram have something to complain about. You do not. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:33 AM Flag
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This. There's a women on my staff that pulls this crap. Every time I gave her a project and then praised her performance, she'd come into my office later and say how much she appreciated what I said, but she couldn't enjoy the accolades because of her abusive mother and her terrible childhood. Guess what? I no longer give her projects and now she sits in her cubicle just spinning her wheels. She did good work, but there's no way I'm going to continue feeding that monster. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:41 AM Flag
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fwiw, I finally went on meds after years avoiding them. The side effects were minimal, and the difference in my happiness and confidence changed everything. I wish I'd tried them sooner, I feel like I lost a lot of years to anxiety and depression. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:11 AM Flag
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+1. No shame in meds. They can help [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:12 AM Flag
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Cognitive behavioral thinking helped me. Like giving myself credit for all the stuff I dud do-including emptying dish washer. It feels a little corny at first but it can really help shift the way you talk yo yourself. Your mothers voice needs to be abolished and replaced with a kind, loving and proud inner voice. Try telling yourself, "great job today!" I am smart, I am important" [ Reply | More ]
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Like think this all the time, esp. When her voice creeps in. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:13 AM Flag
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meds girl, meds. those thoughts will go away, or at least lessen in intensity. [ Reply | More ]
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op: I'm sure you're right about the meds helping the intrusive thoughts, but I worry about the side effects. To be honest my main fear is lack or orgasm. I would hate to either have to fake it with DH or tell him "it's not you, it's the meds" for the rest of my life. It just seems so unfair to him and I can't help but think it would make him feel guilty, even if that's not a rational thought. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:20 AM Flag
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i had trouble with orgasm for a bit, but it came back. There are also other meds you can try that don't affect orgasm. Having been in a similar position, you're just making excuses. I'm a huge believer in therapy and working through your problems. I also believe that if your anxiety and irrational thoughts are interfering with your life, meds can be a huge step. You don't have to be on them forever. But if you're not willing to just TRY, then you're just allowing yourself to be miserable. [ Reply | More ]
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op: You're right. Thank you for being so honest. [ Reply | More ]
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op: Thanks. This is a technique I've been trying to work on lately as I read more books on cognitive behavioral therapy. Any recommendations on CBT books or forums? [ Reply | More ]
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You need some therapy and maybe some meds. I'm not saying that in a throwaway manner. You need someone rational to talk you through your feelings. And maybe possibly some anti-anxiety meds. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:13 AM Flag
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Get the first one by calling your health insurer and inquiring about benefits. Call counseling centers close to your home or office geographically to see if they accept your insurance. Set up an appointment with someone who does your level of counseling - adult family relationships maybe. Start going. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:15 AM Flag
[ - ] If DC are "bratty" whose fault is it? Nanny or Parents? 40 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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both [ Reply | More ]
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Op- Should I find someone else? [ Reply | More ]
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Yes [ Reply | More ]
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Why must it be someone's fault? [ Reply | More ]
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lol. I guess your kids are brats [ Reply | More ]
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No. I'm simply not into the blame game [ Reply | More ]
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And yours must be assholes? [ Reply | More ]
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thats a bit much [ Reply | More ]
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Yep [ Reply | More ]
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Op- Dh keeps blaming me for my dd's attitude, tbh she spends more time with the nanny during the week days, Why I am the one to blame? [ Reply | More ]
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Why the need to blame? Work together to try and help dd. how old? [ Reply | More ]
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She just turned 4, she was being disrespectful and smack her dad, he got pretty upset and yelled at her, so I intervened and he got upset at me too, and proceed to blame me. [ Reply | More ]
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No big deal. Let it go [ Reply | More ]
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Op- I am trying but now we got into an argument because I brought up the nanny into the discussion. [ Reply | More ]
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It takes two willing participates to argue. [ Reply | More ]
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Op- Why would he blame me for it? As I said, the nanny is with dd all day during the weekdays. This is not my fault. [ Reply | More ]
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No one cares why. Why doesn't matter. Think loud singing here.... LET IT GO, let it gooooooo [ Reply | More ]
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Op- My dh is pretty much calling me a BAD PARENT. I am glad you are ok with this, but I AM NOT. [ Reply | More ]
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parents. They hire the nanny and, unless they are idiots, guide her on how the child should behave [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:05 AM Flag
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Kids fault. We totally overestimate the impact of parenting, and down play genetics. Parents don't make kids smart, or outgoing, or sociable, or introverted..... So stop worrying. [ Reply | More ]
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Agree. [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:14 AM Flag
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Nanny here: I totally disagree, Parents should set rules and follow them, letting your kid do whatever he wants and behave badly, because this due to "genetics" is lazy. I would be worried if my kid didn't behave or overreact because he doesn't get his way. No one likes bratty kids except the parents. [ Reply | More ]
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OR. We're not far apart. I agree. Parents can and do cause hell through poor behavior - usually related to concepts of boundaries limits discipline. Parents can causes mess. But are for sur emit the only cause. M [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:42 AM Flag
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Nanny here: I think the parents, they are the ones who should be setting boundaries and rules and the nanny should follow this expectations, the family I work for currently, is pretty bad a disciplining and following rules, they ds is bratty as bratty can be, there is nothing I can do about it, because his parents lack of authority, e.x kid hit me yesterday with a toy, had a fuss because I put him in time out, his mother showed up asked what was going on, hugged him, kissed him, told him "this is not good sweetie" and move on. I am about to quit this job, is miserable. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:11 AM Flag
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Then quit, the mother followed her instincts, you are not a very caring and nurturing nanny. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:18 AM Flag
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Oh gosh! Well I guess I am not a good nanny then. Jesus! [ Reply | More ]
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parents [ Reply | More ]
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Child [ Reply | More ]
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Are you blaming a 4 year old? Really? [ Reply | More ]
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Yes. Really. [ Reply | More ]
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Based on what? I am just curious. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:20 AM Flag
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Kid is brat. Kid is to blame. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:26 AM Flag
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Lol. ok troll [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:32 AM Flag
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You should be taking care of your kids, not a stranger. I am so glad I sah with my precious children. [ Reply | More ]
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Lol [ Reply | More ]
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You keep trying but no one buying! [ Reply | More ]
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Hire someone better [ Reply | More ]
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Parents 100% [ Reply | More ]
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General Topics 01.31.15, 12:28 AM Flag
[ - ] I can't believe someone on here is trying to scam admissions to both Bergen academies and the shsat schools by using a NJ address for one and NYC for the other. Duh. You can't say you live in NJ while attending a selective middle school. Disgusting. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
NY Schools 01.31.15, 12:02 AM Flag
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what if parents are separated? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:04 AM Flag
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You have to pick one. You have to go to school in Bergen county in 8th grade. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:07 AM Flag
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Because you, the school police, says so? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:10 AM Flag
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Website [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:13 AM Flag
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And think about it. How can you say you live in nj while your kid is in a public school in NYC? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:13 AM Flag
[ - ] Why don't people who need religious exemptions from vaccines send their kids to religious schools with other unvaccinated kids? 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:02 AM Flag
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For the love of all things holy, STOP [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:03 AM Flag
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General Topics 01.31.15, 12:18 AM Flag
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This is not going to happen, my dc are unvaccinated and go to public. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:04 AM Flag
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For religious exemption or personal preference? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:05 AM Flag
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Both [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:22 AM Flag
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are you vaccinated? probably yes, you are a very self mom... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:14 AM Flag
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Well, I am not. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:22 AM Flag
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bull shit [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:24 AM Flag
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Believe whatever you want, there is no need for me to lie on an anonymous post. duh! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:32 AM Flag
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Ignoramus mom. Hope your kids get measles and polio. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:17 AM Flag
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don't stoop to her level [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:18 AM Flag
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Only a piece of $h1et would hope some kids get polio. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:23 AM Flag
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OR is giving polio a foothold by not vaccinating [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:25 AM Flag
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Do you even know how polio is spread? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:27 AM Flag
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Funny story: Chrioprator - who was also Catholic - applied to send his kids to Catholic school (with the tuition discount for active parishoners). Got accepted, it was time for school to start and he submitted his religious exemption form (the only way you can exempt in our state). The law says you can't question someone's religious beliefs - if they submit the form, the school must accept it. The school came back to the chiropractor and said, "You say you are Catholic and should get Active parishioner tuition. But, you claimed a religious exemption. The Catholic Church does not prohibit vaccination. So, are you Catholic or part of a religion that opposes vaccination? You cannot be both... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:32 AM Flag
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Religions fuck everything up. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:34 AM Flag
[ - ] I posted in the coffee mom CA's post. Sure enough, my boyfriend broke up with me too. But in a much less respectful way. Via email. I knew it was coming and planned to let him know I wasn't happy at our date tomorrow. Should I even bother to respond? 22 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:01 AM Flag
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Tell him you planned on dumping him anyway so you could ditch the zero and get with a hero. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:02 AM Flag
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I already have two dates lined up and got his email 30 minutes ago. I was just respectfully waiting for the green light. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:03 AM Flag
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I wouldn't. Sorry sis. What a jerk. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:03 AM Flag
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His email was VERY VERY long and he said he wants to continue to be friends. I am not so interested in that option. I'd like to just move on and hopefully find someone else to date. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:07 AM Flag
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At least he didn't marry you while hating you because he didn't have the balls to say he didn't love you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:03 AM Flag
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I'm just so annoyed I have to date again. This process is brutal now that tinder has destroyed all things for dating. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:08 AM Flag
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NP: How has tinder "destroyed all things for dating"? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:11 AM Flag
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Because people are no longer respectful. It's really awful. People are beyond rude. My friend has been doing it the past six months and she says she gets stood up, guys leave after 5 min if they aren't feeling it. Just not good. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:13 AM Flag
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That's because Tinder is a Hook Up App, not a Dating App. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:21 AM Flag
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But now the guys on match and all dating sites act like that. It's really bad. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:27 AM Flag
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wow. see my question below. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:35 AM Flag
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wow. see my question below. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:36 AM Flag
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I've heard this too [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:18 AM Flag
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Sorry to repeat, but, Tinder is an App for Hook Ups, not real Dates. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:21 AM Flag
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But this new way of dating has trickled into ALL apps/sites. Even paid sites like match are worthless these days. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:27 AM Flag
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Sorry, I'm a bit clueless. But doesn't Match, etc. guarantee to weed out the Jokers and the fake profiles? Yeah, what are they asking you to pay for?? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:34 AM Flag
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Match used to be for people a bit more serious than those on OKCupid, craigslist, whatever. Eharmony for those even more serious. I wish I were Jewish so I could use JDate. Oh well. And dates from Okcupid and Match used to be dates. You were polite and respectful for ONE drink minimum even if this wasn't going to be a relationship starter. Now guys line up five dates a night and then pick the one they like the best to booty call later. If they don't like the way you look in person, they will ditch you in 5 seconds. It's just brutal. I am not ready to be treated like that yet. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:40 AM Flag
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Why are you capitalizing app, hook up and date? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:32 AM Flag
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Probably Siri. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:37 AM Flag
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Why didn't you hyphenate hook-up or put a comma before "and" in your sentence? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:39 AM Flag
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what happened with coffee mom? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:22 AM Flag
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He did break up with her. She did post a little update. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:27 AM Flag
[ - ] I have posted this before, but it is time to post again - i'm a teacher who had a child in her class that got a religious excuse for not getting vaccinated, the child got the mumps and brought it home to his family, the mom was pregnant and she lost the baby and his little sister got the mumps too and died, please vaccinate your child, thank you. 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:00 AM Flag
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sorry, not true. Would have made the news [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:04 AM Flag
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i have been teaching since 1990, it happened in the 90s. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:05 AM Flag
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^^^brooklyn if that helps, i know it was in the baynews (local paper) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:06 AM Flag
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maybe it happened many years ago ? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:08 AM Flag
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one lost life that could have been prevented is one too many, the poor boy in my class had so much guilt (thought it was all his fault). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:10 AM Flag
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Thank you. I totally believe this--am from a foreign country where we weren't vaxed and these were "childhood diseases" everyone got. I had them all--my mom said it was terrifying. A kid in our building died of measles at the same time I was sick w it... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:06 AM Flag
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Thank you! We will be seeing a lot more of this sadly. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:14 AM Flag
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I had mumps as a child and it was absolutely no big deal [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:19 AM Flag
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so did i but more people died from the mumps than they would ever from the vaccine [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:21 AM Flag
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Its still not a big deal [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:27 AM Flag
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okay, lesson1, never try to make sense with crazy... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:33 AM Flag
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It can be. Did the mumps make you stupid? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:35 AM Flag
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I am also a teacher. I am about 12 weeks pregnant. We have unvaccinated kids at my school. If any of them bring measles in, not only will I walk out, I will sue the shit out of my school district for allowing a known communicable disease that could kill by baby in. If I contract any disease due to some idiot not vaccinating their kids, I will also sue the family for every freaking penny they are worth. I think even kids with auto immune diseases who cannot be vaccinated should be taught at home, at the expense of the district. Don't bring that shit in and hurt my unborn child. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.31.15, 12:40 AM Flag
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