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[ - ] I have a DC who is gorgeous with a high IQ. I am not exaggerating either. DC is 7 and people still stop us on street and ask if he models (he does not). IQ tested by neuropsych and had IQ of 139/140. Here's the rub: we have no money. Both in the arts. How much will looks plus intelligence plus strong supportive parents with no money go in this world? I feel like such a loser having no financial advantage. 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 08.23.16, 04:06 AM Flag
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Good looking at 7 doesn't mean good looking at 37. Try not to place too much importance on looks. If you are in the arts, why do you want to force your child into something? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.23.16, 04:09 AM Flag
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Force him into what?!?! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.23.16, 04:13 AM Flag
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Wondering about how far his "IQ and looks" will take him. Would you be supportive if he decided not to go to college? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.23.16, 04:19 AM Flag
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Why was his IQ tested? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.23.16, 04:09 AM Flag
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Because parents with no accomplishments needed to find some way to feel superior. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.23.16, 04:11 AM Flag
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Op: they we're concerned about dyslexia and when an NP does an eval they test IQ. Neither DH nor I have an IQ this high [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.23.16, 04:12 AM Flag
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Btdt. Just send to public school and get a library card. He'll go as far as he can with help. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.23.16, 04:12 AM Flag
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My next door neighbor should have been a child model. Then puberty hit and his nose got huge and face not attractive anymore. The transformation was shocking. Nice guy though. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.23.16, 04:15 AM Flag
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np: it happens. Also, plenty of people with high IQs are not successful. They don't have drive or they burn out or other things hold them back. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.23.16, 04:18 AM Flag
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I don't understand. If he were a dummy, you'd be fine with your financial position? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.23.16, 04:16 AM Flag
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DC sounds awesome. He or she will achieve and make you proud. Do not worry so much about money. Just concentrate on providing them with a safe and loving home. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.23.16, 04:16 AM Flag
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Change your shitty attitude and it should help. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.23.16, 04:45 AM Flag
[ - ] Ever noticed how few "actual gays" there are??? It's very rare to meet a dude/woman who has been 100% gay his or her whole life or even for a protracted time period. The vast majority of "gay" people are actually bisexual. 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 08.23.16, 04:03 AM Flag
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almost no actual lesbians, i agree with. find me a lesbian who isn't conventionally unattractive and/or claims she's been 'hurt by men in the past' or has some other psychological disorder [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.23.16, 04:04 AM Flag
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Ah, so you've met DH's niece? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.23.16, 04:07 AM Flag
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One of my closest friends is a lesbian and she is stunning. So is her fiancé. Neither claim to have been hurt by men in the past. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.23.16, 05:35 AM Flag
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Idiotic. I know plenty of gold star (have never fucked women) gay men. This is true for women though [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.23.16, 04:04 AM Flag
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Think of sexuality as a continuum between gay and straight. In this way, I think it's pretty easy to explain the difference between "gold star" gay men and women as likely just societal. Lesbo women are pursued relentlessly by dudes just the same as any other woman, so have to do very little work to get fucked in a hetero way. They just say "yes." Not true for "gay" men. Thinking again about the continuum of sexuality, it's not that these "gold star men" have no desire to fuck women. It's that the desire is not strong enough to have to jump through the 100 hoops that the rest of us willingly jump through to do so (especially given that these same dudes are pursued by other gay doods who they just need to say "yes" to). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.23.16, 04:04 AM Flag
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Gold star? Wtf? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.23.16, 04:14 AM Flag
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A "gold star" lesbian is someone who has never slept with a man. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.23.16, 05:36 AM Flag
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And something like a third to a half of all men have had a homo experience. It's amazing how basic math goes out the window when people start talking about wieners. I had to re-educate the whole board in one of those child molestation statistics threads. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.23.16, 04:04 AM Flag
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Nope. Never noticed this. I know many gay people. Sometimes people might feel societies pressure to conform. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.23.16, 04:05 AM Flag
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You could be pressured into having sex with someone you weren't attracted to? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.23.16, 04:14 AM Flag
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NP. Absolutely. Many gay men and women have had sex with people of the opposite gender. Especially if they come from a world where being gay isn't acceptable. They do it because they feel like they are supposed to. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.23.16, 05:41 AM Flag
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I'm a lesbian. I've known since I was a kid. "Dated" boys in high school because I thought I was supposed to. I have never slept with a man. i actually know a few lesbians like me who have never been with/been attracted to men. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.23.16, 05:34 AM Flag
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