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[ - ] How did you find out about the other woman? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:26 AM Flag
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She was made of words and paper. I was devastated. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:27 AM Flag
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Did you find emails, texts? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:29 AM Flag
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she wasn't real? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:29 AM Flag
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dh stayed home to "work" while dcs and i went on holiday... he told me after we came back [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:29 AM Flag
[ - ] I am married to a good man by anyone's standards - makes good enough money, doesn't cheat, helps out around house sometimes. But he is cold and unemotional. I almost never hear 'I love you' or 'you look beautiful/pretty'. I do sometimes get 'you look good' or the like. I don't get 'you're so smart, creative, talented' either, fwiw. And no, I'm not fat/ugly. Basically, I don't hear any of the things you'd expect to hear from a loving husband. I don't need this to be propped up, just feel neglected by his general lack of affection. On top of it, he has a bad temper and frequently speaks to me in a really awful tone of voice. Does same to my daughter and makes her cry. It breaks my heart when it does it to her too, bad enough that I get it. Sometimes I feel like leaving, but I know I won't. Just wish sometimes I'd married someone who knew how to be sweet, kind and loving. I will go to my grave with him never changing, I know that. Sometimes I feel like having an affair, although I would never go through with it. I just hate it when he talks to me like I'm a dog. Anyone else out there like me? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:23 AM Flag
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Say "please don't take to me in that tone" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:25 AM Flag
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op - I do, every time. I especially hate when it does it in front of my DD. Such a bad example for her to see. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:26 AM Flag
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You need to read love languages. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:27 AM Flag
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^the temper is separate, but not all people give compliments [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:28 AM Flag
[ - ] Anybody else tired of the cattiness on UB? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:23 AM Flag
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Hell yes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:27 AM Flag
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It's been a factor since I first started coming here, which has been quite a few years. The cattiness is one thing, but the place has been trollinaville in the last year, which I find irritating. I like to tease the trolls, though, like a good cat/human game. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:27 AM Flag
[ - ] Is there a fast over the counter HIV test? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:22 AM Flag
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OTC yes. I don't know about speed [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:23 AM Flag
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there is in the UK [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:24 AM Flag
[ - ] WHY does Obama keep allowing riots in American cities every few months? Worst president since LBJ. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:20 AM Flag
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yes, because he allows it, you are ignorant [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:22 AM Flag
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LOL. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:22 AM Flag
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He should man up, raid the police precincts and clean them up from KKK members [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:23 AM Flag
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Lol. Yep we should shoot them all or maybe just bring out the fire houses and then tomorrow night sneak into their homes and hang them from trees. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:23 AM Flag
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Exactly! Let's do what's right (snark). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:25 AM Flag
[ - ] Why are black people incapable of peaceful protest? It goes back to the "no justice, no peace" chant, which frankly is a threat that turns of mainstream whites like me. If they want to win the moral high ground, they need to start behaving like moral actors. 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:19 AM Flag
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This started as HS kids. You have to understand the life, the repression, the anger. People fight with the weapons they have. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:21 AM Flag
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That just tells me that the immorality of the black community starts young. I promise you that my high schooler isn't going to go out there looting, attacking the police, etc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:25 AM Flag
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I have kids in high school and I was thinking that for these kids today in Baltimore, maybe the most aware of them can tick off Trayvon and Mike Brown and accurately locate where and when those things happened. I'm willing to bet none of them have any knowledge of Rodney King or Watts. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:26 AM Flag
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whites do massive shootings in SCHOOLS without any reason. at least AA had plenty of reasons. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:24 AM Flag
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they need an excuse to loot [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:24 AM Flag
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stfu [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:24 AM Flag
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sandy hook [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:25 AM Flag
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This is a lone actor, obviously mentally ill. Baltimore is an example of hundreds of black men acting in concert. It's disgusting. It typifies the community in a way that the random white school shooter does not typify whites. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:29 AM Flag
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this is not a protest, i have been to those, for example, pro-choice rally. this is a riot, nothing more nothing less, these are thugs getting out their frustrations, all young teen boys... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:25 AM Flag
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.... and white kids take their daddy's guns and shoot up schools. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:28 AM Flag
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That's because white kids are too smart to riot en masse. White kids need to create their mayhem in small groups because white communities shut that shit down. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:28 AM Flag
[ - ] What would you do if your teen DS were making regular internet visits to far right-wing/racist websites? 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:16 AM Flag
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Talk [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:19 AM Flag
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this - find out wtf is going on [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:22 AM Flag
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oh no... like KKK? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:19 AM Flag
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Like Fox News, Stormfront, The National Review, The Daily Stormer, etc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:24 AM Flag
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like Pamela Geller? I'd face it head on and explain to DS why people like her are toxic [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:20 AM Flag
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she's the worst [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:21 AM Flag
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You seem anti-Semitic. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:28 AM Flag
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What, do you read his history or something? Give the kid some privacy [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:20 AM Flag
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Bwah hah hah [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:30 AM Flag
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like UB?? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:25 AM Flag
[ - ] For all the moms out there who have a picture perfect life on the outside yet still aren't happy, what's missing? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:16 AM Flag
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The realization that the criteria you think will make you happy are not actually the right criteria. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:21 AM Flag
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My problem with alcohol. Hidden but acute. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:23 AM Flag
[ - ] Reposting for the night crowd: best real estate investment for $1 million? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:11 AM Flag
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House in Sunset Park [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:17 AM Flag
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Pure investment or primary residence? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:20 AM Flag
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Either one. We're happy renting where we are now but could move if something was a good deal. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:23 AM Flag
[ - ] The Baltimore mayor reminds me of Regina King. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:08 AM Flag
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Baltimorons [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:09 AM Flag
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Right, because all black women look alike. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:11 AM Flag
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holy fuck. No, because she actually looks and sounds like her. relax. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:11 AM Flag
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This. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:11 AM Flag
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np. I'm actually impressed she knows who regina king is. I would have expected UB to go straight for the Michelle Obama with a wedge cut. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:14 AM Flag
[ - ] Please help, I am terrified. Just moved to NYC and need a good gyn, preferably UWS. Apologies for TMI but I tried to use a tampon today and it would not go in, as if something is blocking it. 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:05 AM Flag
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like your used tampon? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:07 AM Flag
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You've finally filled it up. You're supposed to remove them, you know. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:08 AM Flag
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Lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:09 AM Flag
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Lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:09 AM Flag
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omg [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:12 AM Flag
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Not UWS, doesn't take insurance but dr Morrone is good (UES) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:08 AM Flag
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Like dr. Matut et all by natural history museum [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:09 AM Flag
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Thank you. Will try first thing tomorrow. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:11 AM Flag
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I bet you have a tampon in there. It happened to me once as well as some of my friends. It's gross but try to fish around and feel around at an angle. If need be have DH do the same if he can handle it but try not to freak out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:11 AM Flag
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lie on the floor, spread you legs and use a mirror... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:12 AM Flag
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See below. Definitely do not. :( [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:16 AM Flag
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No, I definitely do not. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:14 AM Flag
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Also not sure if they do vaginal exams but I am a huge fan of the new urgent care clinics on the UwS. The one on the west side of Broadway between 102nd and 103rd is excellent as is the mount sanai one on Columbus abd 91st. Very clean, quick and professional. I've been about 5-6 times for myself and dd for things ranging from colds/vomiting, rashes, consult for stitches and for a hemmoroids flare up. I have a obgyn and a general care practitioner but for last minute things that happen say at 8pm on a Sunday they are great. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:16 AM Flag
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Good to know. I need a gyn (not OB) so please feel free to refer. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:17 AM Flag
[ - ] Baltimore is a shithole. I grew up in the "ghetto" there...none of this surprises me, in fact, I'm a little shocked dozens aren't already dead. 17 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:04 AM Flag
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High school kids who are misguided. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:05 AM Flag
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So how did you get out? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:06 AM Flag
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I was third in my class at a poor, black, "inner city" high school. Golden ticket to the Ivies. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:08 AM Flag
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How did you like college? I hope you don't mind my asking. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:12 AM Flag
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I loved college. It was the best thing that ever happened to me. For the first time in my life I was surrounded by people who, in general, valued education and intelligence. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:14 AM Flag
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^Not to mention not getting beat up regularly, that was nice. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:16 AM Flag
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Can I ask another question? Did you feel like you found that other black students from different parts of the country generally shared and were able to relate to your experience from Baltimore, or did you feel like you were somewhat isolated by your being specifically from Baltimore and that not all low-income black students have the same experience? Just something I've always wondered. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:16 AM Flag
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A lot of the black students I met at college were UMC and privileged, but I did find a few people (black and white, who grew up in poor neighborhoods) that I related with on that level. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:21 AM Flag
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Cool thank you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:22 AM Flag
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np. This question strangely reminds me of something that happened in my dorm. A Chinese student didn't get along with his roommate (too sloppy) so the university moved him in with another "Chinese" student, not realizing that one spoke Mandarin and the other Cantonese and that one was actually from Taiwan. I guess they still bonded over their illegal rice cooker and tea. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:21 AM Flag
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Ha! I remember always getting put together with the other black girl on my floor. She was African (not African American), wealthy, and had attended Exeter. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:25 AM Flag
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Why not? You should have a lot in common! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:29 AM Flag
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I grew up in Baltimore, not in the "ghetto". It's a great city in an unfortunate and hostile situation. Have a little pride in where you came from. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:07 AM Flag
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Federal Hill? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:12 AM Flag
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They don't call it Bodymore, Murderland for nothing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:13 AM Flag
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You didn't grow up in a Baltimore "ghetto." Get a grip. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:24 AM Flag
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it's been 20 + years since I lived there, I thought it was getting better, was very scary at one time...about 3 years ago I was in the city for business and it seemed better. But I guess with outside instigators (activists) the gangs could easily get riled up as well as normal non gang citizens [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:26 AM Flag
[ - ] Should people on welfare or those living in low income housing be allowed to have pets? 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:03 AM Flag
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Didn't we just do this? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:05 AM Flag
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np. Yes, yes we did... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:06 AM Flag
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They're going to have them anyway, it's not this is a population known for their strict adherence to the rules. Panem et circenses. Let them have their stupid cats. The only ones who would complain have their own things to hide. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:06 AM Flag
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yes, they should also be allowed to choose what they eat [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:06 AM Flag
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Really? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:08 AM Flag
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no. it is typically against the rules in the projects but disregarded. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:07 AM Flag
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My tenant got a dog. Pays less than half the contractual rent - trying to evict her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:27 AM Flag
[ - ] Is a Pandora bracelet a good gift for a MIL? 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:02 AM Flag
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It depends on the MIL. It's either the best gift ever or the ultimate insult. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:03 AM Flag
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Why insult? Too cheap? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:05 AM Flag
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UB hates them - they are on the same level as an LV or coach logo bag here. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:09 AM Flag
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Well I've never liked LC or logos in general. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:12 AM Flag
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OR - ps. I don't mind them, I love charm bracelets. But there are so many less expensive knockoffs that I just have fun with those. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:13 AM Flag
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It's hated because it screams suburban mall mom. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:26 AM Flag
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Depends. Does she wear bracelets. I hate them but I don't like anything on my wrists and just don't get why they are so expensive for something that looks like only a 12 year old girl should be wearing. Id much prefer a pair of pearls or simple diamond studs but that's about the only jewelry I wear besides my engagement ring and wedding band. Others are different and love pandora. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:21 AM Flag
[ - ] I am having a shitty bad day. Any words of comfort ?? 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 11:55 PM Flag
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hugs! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 11:56 PM Flag
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The sun will come up tomorrow! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 11:57 PM Flag
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Tomorrow is a whole new beginning. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 11:59 PM Flag
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Day is almost over. Tomorrow is a new one. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 11:59 PM Flag
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Listen to September by Earth Wind & Fire and dance for a few minutes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:00 AM Flag
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There's always someone who would trade with you in a heartbeat [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:01 AM Flag
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OP here: Thanks everyone. Surprised there are so many nice people here tonight :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:04 AM Flag
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Hope tomorrow is better! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:08 AM Flag
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Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying I'll try again tomorrow. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:09 AM Flag
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What happened? Tomorrow is a new day with no mistakes in it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:12 AM Flag
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You don't live in Baltimore so thats a comfort. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:23 AM Flag
[ - ] Apparently, women speak in a higher tone of voice when they are in the presence of someone they are attracted to. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 11:53 PM Flag
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I speak in higher tones when I am excited about something or drunk. But I do have one of those screechy high tone voices. Annoys the hell out of people. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 11:54 PM Flag
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Try to channel Lauren Bacall. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 11:59 PM Flag
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And to babies [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:00 AM Flag
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even pets and even if they're poor [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:08 AM Flag
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I don't speak at all! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:24 AM Flag
[ - ] Does anybody live in a 2br, 1 bath with 3 kids? How is it? 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 11:53 PM Flag
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I do. Mostly sucks. 2 bath but we really only use one. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 11:54 PM Flag
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Why does it suck? Is there an age when it starts to get worse? Right now, I only have 2 and they are young. Do you think the 2nd bathroom is important to have? Thanks [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 11:56 PM Flag
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Unless the apt is palatial it is too small for three growing kids. At some point oldest kid needs own room, then where do parents go? I always think 2 brs are important. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:03 AM Flag
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know many with 3 kids in 2 br, but some have 2 bath [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 11:58 PM Flag
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Taza lives in a 1br/1ba 5th floor walkup with 3 kids under 4 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:22 AM Flag
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who? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:27 AM Flag
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No but we live in a one bed with one dd and a baby due in June. You make due with what you have. If rental if say definitely go for it if it's best for your family budget. We are working towards a down payment so it's worth it. If buying maybe see if you can afford more space for the long term knowing teenagers require more space and privacy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.28.15, 12:23 AM Flag
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