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[ - ] Anyone waffling over whether to have another kid? My DD is 2. It was seeing Prince George and his sister that made me realize I have no intention of having another one soon and maybe not at all. Anyone? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:23 PM Flag
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Huh? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:25 PM Flag
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That was us for about 2 yrs. Older DS is very high energy and mildly special needs and I couldn't imagine having two like him. Eventually hit near 40 and said "now or never" so decided not to try and not to use bc. Pregnant on first month. Two years in, it is undeniably harder, but a lot of fun chaos and I love seeing how the whole family has grown. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:25 PM Flag
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I'm waffling. Our son is one. I'm 39 so it would need to be soon. Not sure we're ready. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:26 PM Flag
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Do it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:27 PM Flag
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You aren't but you never will be. This was me. We decided we would start TTC the following month - expecting it to take 3-4- and then I wound up getting pregnant just before we planned to start. Was half bummed at first because I felt I really needed that additional few months. DCs 21 mos apart are now almost 5 and almost 7. It's perfect. Am so grateful it all worked out this way. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:35 PM Flag
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I also have a 2 year old and am pretty on the fence. But I felt the same way before my first and I'm so glad I did it. So I'm thinking maybe I'll just for it again? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:27 PM Flag
[ - ] I know I'm old, but lady on the train, the whole world doesn't want to know you have a nipple ring. Either wear a bra or a thicker shirt please. Thank you. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:18 PM Flag
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pass-agg much? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:21 PM Flag
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Is this passive agressive? She is commenting on an anon board not the the person at all. Isn't that passive-passive? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:26 PM Flag
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It's a big world with a lot of different people in it. If a nipple ring bothers you that much, you might not be suited to life in NYC. Or to public transportation. You need your own car. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:26 PM Flag
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Stop looking at her boobs [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:29 PM Flag
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There is a girl at my gym with HUMONGOUS boobs, like in the G-H cup size range. The type where they clearly need a reduction. Has pierced nipples. So gross and only making a bad situation worse. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:29 PM Flag
[ - ] need recommendations for free typing apps or online typing lessons for kids. tia. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:13 PM Flag
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www.lmgtfy.com [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:17 PM Flag
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Why? [ Reply | More ]
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typingpal [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:35 PM Flag
[ - ] S/o. This weekend, went hiking with a bunch of friends and we all brought our dcs. My 12 yo could not keep up with the group, tripped over his own feet twice, and took forever to get up the steep parts. Huffing and puffing when everyone else was fine, even the youngest kids! Is it horrible to say I felt ashamed? Btw he plays a ton of sports, I don't understand how he is in such terrible shape! 42 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:11 PM Flag
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^^i think the other families are planning another hiking trip next weekend without us. :( [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:12 PM Flag
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are you serious? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:13 PM Flag
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Yes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:13 PM Flag
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sounds like the solution is more family hikes! get yourselves moving together. Ashamed is such a wasted emotion. get his cardio up. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:25 PM Flag
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What sports does he play? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:14 PM Flag
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Ice hockey, lacrosse, baseball, tennis. He is lazy at home though and spends a lot of time with video games. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:15 PM Flag
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If only there were some way for parents to have control over video games. If only.... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:19 PM Flag
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Op. He does well in school so I haven't cracked down on video games as much as I probably should [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:20 PM Flag
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I don't allow video games in the house at all. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:27 PM Flag
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Csb [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:27 PM Flag
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Np. I actually don't think this is a good solution, for many reasons. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:28 PM Flag
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My house, my rules. Video games are stupid time-wasters. Maybe by the time a kid is a teen you can ease up, but there is no reason on earth elementary kids need to own Nintendos and Playstations and veg out in front of them for hours. Disgusting. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:29 PM Flag
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Op's kid is 12. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:30 PM Flag
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Obviously he's been sitting in front of video games for some time. He can have them when he's 16. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:30 PM Flag
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If he's as clumsy and unfit as you claim, these are all a waste of time. He's going to make all his teams lose. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:30 PM Flag
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He's actually a decent athlete. He has good hand eye coordination which I suppose makes up for the fact that he's slow and unfit. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:31 PM Flag
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I doubt it. Maybe you can stick him behind home plate, but you can't play hockey or lacrosse or tennis at any level without being in good cardiovascular shape. You seriously sound like you don't understand sports at all. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:36 PM Flag
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Well, I've seriously been to all his sporting events and he is a starter on all his teams, so you are clearly wrong. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:36 PM Flag
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I highly doubt it, unless all his teams suck the big one, which I guess is possible [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:38 PM Flag
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Those are all "sprint" sports. They rely mostly on short bursts of speed and strength. Hiking uphill and climbing require longer stretches of sustained exertion and stamina. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:34 PM Flag
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There were some parts where you had to pull yourself up rocks. That is short burst strength right? Well ds couldn't do it, at one point Dh had to help hoist him up. All the other kids could do it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:35 PM Flag
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He's having a growth spurt. Be gentle with him. He feels awkward and conspicuous. Go on your own hiking trip. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:15 PM Flag
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A growth spurt would make him unfit? Other kids on the trip were the same age and zoomed up the mountain no problem. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:16 PM Flag
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Growth spurt, center of gravity is off. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:15 PM Flag
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Just curious - what sport does he play? Hiking is a different type of exercise his muscles/lungs may not be used to. If it makes you feel better, on my AT thru hike I tripped over my feet countless times, even into the 1000 mile mark! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:16 PM Flag
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I posted above, I thought he was getting enough cardio with all his sports. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:17 PM Flag
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Those sports are a different type of cardio - short bursts, whereas hiking is more endurance/long paced. I met so many hikers who complained that they just weren't making the miles. Said they ran for their training, which again, uses the heart/lungs in a different capacity. With hiking you just gotta do it again and again. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:22 PM Flag
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Also, the tripping could be due to something as simple as his shoes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:28 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:17 PM Flag
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Is he fat? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:17 PM Flag
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Slightly overweight, which I've been told is normal pre-growth spurt. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:19 PM Flag
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there you go. Lock up the junk food! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:20 PM Flag
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Op. I don't think this fully explains it, I am slightly overweight too and had no problem on the hike. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:21 PM Flag
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OK, suit yourself~! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:22 PM Flag
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(1) does he have allergies or asthma? (2) did he compete in a sporting event or spend all week at a sports camp so his body was fatigued? (3) was he well rested and hydrated? (4) advice - more family hikes and you need to let go of judging your own kid. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:31 PM Flag
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Op. He does have allergies and asthma, I come from a very "allergic" family, even my grandmother had asthma. I think he was well hydrated. But he's not in good shape. He could also stand to lose 20 lbs. I just felt so embarassed [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:32 PM Flag
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^^i snapped at him at one point during the hike and now I feel bad about it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:35 PM Flag
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Anyone would be. They will probably never invite you on anything again. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:37 PM Flag
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Np. No, most people would not be embarrassed by this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:38 PM Flag
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well, he could have been huffing and puffing due to reacting to something in the woods or not taking his inhaler. I would definitely start doing more hikes/family walks, but also be aware of how his allergies/asthma could be impacting him during various activities. Good luck. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:38 PM Flag
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Did he eat a pan of brownies before he started up the hill? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:35 PM Flag
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Lol, no. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:36 PM Flag
[ - ] Best option for midsummer swimming class for not rich NYCers? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:11 PM Flag
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Ymca [ Reply | More ]
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Downtown community center [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] How much is a non passport NYSC membership? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:09 PM Flag
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If I remember correctly, $60 or $70. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:34 PM Flag
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What's the deal on the $19.95 a month membership? How can that be? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:36 PM Flag
[ - ] So is the EU doomed? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:08 PM Flag
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About as doomed as the US is whenever some state has a financial crisis or natural disaster or starts talking about secession. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:27 PM Flag
[ - ] When is Jennifer Aniston going to get married? 18 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:08 PM Flag
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Who cares? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:08 PM Flag
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America! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:10 PM Flag
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Never. She shouldn't. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:11 PM Flag
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Why not?? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:16 PM Flag
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Well, I guess that's just my personal opinion. I think she's probably not doing kids. She has so much freaking money. Why not just live with the dude in a committed relationship forever? Why get legal stuff involved. Splitting up is brutal enough without having to go through all the legalities of divorce. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:19 PM Flag
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She's probably married already. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:13 PM Flag
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Then why no media coverage? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:15 PM Flag
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Janet Jackson was married three times without anyone knowing until she got a divorce. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:16 PM Flag
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I doubt she'd be able to pull that off. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:15 PM Flag
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If she hasn't gotten married already, she should just let it go. It probably wouldn't go well anyway and she'll just lose a chunk of money [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:16 PM Flag
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prenup [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:16 PM Flag
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That just means she'll marry someone who will try to spend it like crazy or otherwise put it away during the marriage. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:17 PM Flag
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Why does she need to get married? If I were her, no way would I ever get married again. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:17 PM Flag
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+1 only reason to get married in her shoes is for kids (coincidentally, the reason brad and Angelina finally got married) and she doesn't have any. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:21 PM Flag
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She's waiting for Brad and Angelina to get divorced. Then she will re-marry Brad. [ Reply | More ]
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I was going to marry Rob Lowe as soon as he broke up with Melissa Gilbert [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:31 PM Flag
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I don't understand why she would even want to, she has been married, it didn't work out. She is too old to have kids. I would just enjpy being in a relationship at this point and not worry about getting married again. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:21 PM Flag
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Basic bitch [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:36 PM Flag
[ - ] Any tips to help induce labor? SO miserable :( 27 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:05 PM Flag
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Go for a long walk. Like 5 miles. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:06 PM Flag
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Spicy curry + mango did the trick [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:06 PM Flag
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Cod liver oil [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:06 PM Flag
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I've heard this. Also castor oil. Are there supplements or do I actually have to drink by the spoonful. Ick. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:08 PM Flag
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Spoonful. Man up. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:08 PM Flag
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a spoonful of sugar helps the medicine go down. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:08 PM Flag
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I took a shot of castor oil with orange juice at 4pm and my water broke at 2am [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:17 PM Flag
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No. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:36 PM Flag
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Can cause diarrhea too. I wouldn't do it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:13 PM Flag
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Google. Not good. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:37 PM Flag
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Don't do this. Brings on labor too fast and can damage the baby. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:36 PM Flag
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long walk to a thai restaurant. i'm sorry, op. the last few days are the worst! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:10 PM Flag
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Thanks! I am so nauseous today.. really hope this means it's the end! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:12 PM Flag
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Do you have a strong urge to clean your whole house? This happened to me the day before I have birth, x2 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:19 PM Flag
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Major nesting this weekend. Yesterday I cleaned upside down and the day before I cooked 8 freezer meals! [ Reply | More ]
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Ok. It's coming. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:30 PM Flag
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red raspberry leaf tea [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:12 PM Flag
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No. OP these are really bad ideas. Do not do castor oil or raspberry leaf. Google. Ladies. Don't take medical advice on UB [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:38 PM Flag
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evening primrose oil and sex. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:18 PM Flag
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Plan something awesome you really really want to do. I had tickets to the Martha Stewart show where they were going to give away a ton of free swag. went into labor two days before [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:20 PM Flag
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LOL! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:23 PM Flag
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Ha! My sister swears this got her labors started!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:32 PM Flag
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Cinnamon. Parsley. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:20 PM Flag
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Pineapple. Spicy food. Long long walk or stairs. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:25 PM Flag
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Get a massage. It worked for me but even if it doesn't work, at least you get a nice rub. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:29 PM Flag
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I'm 34 and doing IUIs and IVF. I'd kill to have your problem. enjoy being pregnant. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:31 PM Flag
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Accupuncture [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:34 PM Flag
[ - ] Any idea what the range of salary is for in-house attorneys in the new York area coming from big law jobs? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:05 PM Flag
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What? it ranges all over the map. If you are becoming the head in house atty for a fortune 500 company it is very high . if you are an in house lawyer for smaller company very very low [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:06 PM Flag
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Ok, understood. How about salary for the type of position a mid level (3-6 years) big law associate would be able to get, such as a lower level attorney at a Fortune 500 company. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:11 PM Flag
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$125-$175 [ Reply | More ]
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thats high [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:36 PM Flag
[ - ] The reason i like the thread with fat kid so much is because it unifies all the moms here. It doesn't matter if you wohm or sahm, doesn't matter if you spend summer in East Hampton or breezy point. All of us have to worry about fat kids 15 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:04 PM Flag
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Truth. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:11 PM Flag
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I like ridiculous parents. "I don't know what to do...don't you tell me what to do!" [ Reply | More ]
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this this this. I hate it when people ask for advice and then immediately shit all over any advice they get [ Reply | More ]
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Those aren't ridiculous parents, those are trolls. The ones who keep arguing both ways to keep the thread going. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:19 PM Flag
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"My kid has weight problems and I left a whole pan of brownies out. What do I do?" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:19 PM Flag
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Don't tell me not to make brownies and leave them out on the counter unsupervised! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:20 PM Flag
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You guys just don't understand my issue! My kid has a medical condition! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:21 PM Flag
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You already posted this. On the original thread. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:22 PM Flag
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The point is that many many people, not just kids, lack the willpower to not eat a bunch of brownies. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:23 PM Flag
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what is that the bible says - "lead us not in to temptation" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:23 PM Flag
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Really not true. There are obviously exceptions, but obesity is negatively correlated to income. Or however you propey say that the richer you are the less risk for obesity. Simply true. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:27 PM Flag
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But all of us have to worry about our kids getting fat. [ Reply | More ]
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"My kid is fat" is one of my favorite trolls around here [ Reply | More ]
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As in "my kid plays 4 sports but is overweight and can't do a hike I am so full of shame" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:37 PM Flag
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Yep. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:38 PM Flag
[ - ] I make $85k working from home in marketing. I'm mid level (not \ management)...is it worth getting a new job with a commute and managing employees to make 20K more a year? Right now I have a ton of flexibility but I feel so underpaid for my experience and performance. 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Managing people sucks. So does commuting. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:09 PM Flag
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This. [ Reply | More ]
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+2, signed another manager [ Reply | More ]
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+1000 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:30 PM Flag
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I have similar situation. i make 55k working from home in marketing as well. I miss interacting with others. I am not sure if i should get a job in office setting or continue working from home. I love flexibility of this job. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:11 PM Flag
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I wouldn't! I WAH part time and have a ton of flexibility in my current job. I am underpaid compared to other firms but still make a nice income and its not worth trading in my flexibility -- we have enough. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:11 PM Flag
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How much will it cost you to commute? Assuming you're driving, use the IRS $.56/mile number to calculate your increased cost. That comes out of after tax income so you'll need to multiply it by 50% (assuming here combined federal and state tax rate of 1/3) to figure out how much of your increase will go for just extra commuting expense. And that doesn't include your time. For a big enough raise it might be worth it but don't treat a 15% bump for a less flexible job as something great. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:14 PM Flag
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How much flexibility do you have. Many office jobs will allow you time for occasional school events and doctor apptmts. But not enough to allow you to pick up 2x week. [ Reply | More ]
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For me no. That equals about 15k after taxes. How much does commuting cost? How much will your wardrobe and cleaning it cost? How much is your time an energy worth? If you are happy with current job (other than lower salary) I wouldn't make a chance. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:20 PM Flag
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Longer term, the payoff could make it worthwhile. You'll be in a better position to jump to higher paying jobs. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:28 PM Flag
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Honestly, no. 20K after taxes is $10K and you will be giving up so much [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:32 PM Flag
[ - ] School dress code question: realize I may be spliting hairs here. Will an oxford shirt suffice as a dress shirt? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Yes [ Reply | More ]
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Apologies for multiple posts! [ Reply | More ]
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Can't imagine why not, though if you want to be sure you can just stand at the door at drop-off or pickup and see. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] size 12 is gross 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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You know what they say about men that have big feet? [ Reply | More ]
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Well so don't look at me. [ Reply | More ]
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That's my goal size. I look great at size 12. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:36 PM Flag
[ - ] I think I'm filing for divorce. I have an accounting degree & MBA. I put 5-10 hours/weekend into work for DH's business - business plans for investors & banks, company secretary tasks, dashboards for sales & expenses and trends and web stats, A/R, A/P, payroll, taxes, quarterly package to the CPA to keep the CPA invoice as low as possible. Yesterday morning I spent two hours creating a template for a process for him and training him on Excel & Word to use it. Then last night he was on the phone bragging that he didn't need a business degree to run a successful business and that business degrees are useless. I'm gutted that he has no value for my education or the work I do. I've been really dumb and have fallen into the classic trap - I make it look easy and seamless, so he assumes it *is* easy and any idiot could do it. How do I reboot this? Or is it a lost cause? 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:00 PM Flag
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You dont need an acct degree or MBA to do those tasks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:02 PM Flag
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This [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:34 PM Flag
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Tell him what you heard and tell him he's on his own for the next quarter and then get back to you. [ Reply | More ]
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^^the issue is about valuing you, by the way, because I don't think you necessarily need a business degree to run a successful business. You do need to be competent at certain skills, though, including knowing when to outsource, and sounds like he has that down pat. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:13 PM Flag
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Are there other reasons for the divorce or is this it? [ Reply | More ]
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If you're getting a divorce, I imagine you won't be helping him going forward. He'll learn your value the hard way. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:15 PM Flag
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Stop doing anything for DH's business. End of story. He'll realize the value you add at that point. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:19 PM Flag
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Ask him to be paid for your labor. Not a good reason to divorce. Easier to stop doing it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:22 PM Flag
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+1 Start billing him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:28 PM Flag
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Good managers hire the right people. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 03:35 PM Flag
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