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[ - ] Does ballet makes your thighs big? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 08:03 PM Flag
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muscular and gorgeous [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:53 PM Flag
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google image: ballerinas [ Reply | More ]
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No, but ballerinas don't eat a lot. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] I have a crush on someone on FB. He is a friend of a friend and lives 3000 miles away and does not KNOW me! I live in this fantasy world that we will meet one day and fall in love and get married. I have such a huge crush on this guy and don't know how to move on. I am single and need to date real people who live near me and not live for some guy who might never ever move to my town. 23 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Get off FB. You sound cray cray. [ Reply | More ]
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OP: I know. I have nothing else to do on FB but to stalk him. [ Reply | More ]
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sorry, we on ub can't really help with this level of problem. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:51 PM Flag
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Ummm.... yes, move on. Get to a bar tonight and single mingle! [ Reply | More ]
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I know how you feel. Many of my single friends have had crushes on out-of-town guys they barely know. It's easy to idolize someone when you aren't interacting with them enough to detect their flaws and find out whehter they even like you. Now get out there and meet LOCALS! [ Reply | More ]
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OP: didn't know others do the same. I wonder if it is because we are afraid of commitment or meeting someone real and having a real relationship. It is easier to live in my fantasy world with this guy than to really face some guy couple of times a week [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:56 PM Flag
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np. I think you're exactly right. [ Reply | More ]
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OP: and also this way there is zero chance of getting hurt. Basically in my fantasy I steer the relationship the way I want. [ Reply | More ]
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Yep. Makes sense. [ Reply | More ]
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OP: and also this way there is zero chance of getting hurt. Basically in my fantasy I steer the relationship the way I want. [ Reply | More ]
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oy [ Reply | More ]
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pathetic. Get a real life in your own city. [ Reply | More ]
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OP: I know I am beyond pathetic. I wish I could move on. This has really paralyzed me for the past couple of months. [ Reply | More ]
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np: is this fake? you sound dramatic [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:47 PM Flag
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OP: Not fake. I wish. I wake up and go to sleep checking twitter and FB to see what he is doing. He doesn't even know me. [ Reply | More ]
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np: I think you should stop following him and unfriend. This will go nowhere and you need to move on. [ Reply | More ]
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Is he single? [ Reply | More ]
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Sounds like my teenage daughter. She does this. But she's 16. [ Reply | More ]
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How old are you? [ Reply | More ]
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45 [ Reply | More ]
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God bless you! You are making everyone else on UB this Friday night of labor day weekend feel better about themselves. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 08:04 PM Flag
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Oh dear. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:53 PM Flag
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You are no different than people who follow celebrity news. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 08:05 PM Flag
[ - ] fashion moms: i have a 70s-ish sheer, long dress. never bought a slip for it but i want to wear it tonight - should i go for nude, black, short or long slip underneath? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:48 PM Flag
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No idea what your figure looks like but most flattering would be nude and long [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Honest question: Why were Christians, Jews and Muslims able to live over in the Middle East and North Africa for 1,000 years and now they can't live together. You would think the world would be becoming more open minded, not less. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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op: An I am not at all referring to Israel but specifically to ISIS, Iran and Iraq. [ Reply | More ]
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too deep for a friday. [ Reply | More ]
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because they didn't know other civilizations existed or the sheer fact that they could't really travel much, so societies fed off one another due to proximity. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:43 PM Flag
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Ever hear of the crusades? [ Reply | More ]
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Take away the Muslim ingredient, and everybody else gets along in the 21st century. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 08:01 PM Flag
[ - ] If my young adult child/late teen was considering to go fight for ISIS I would alert the authorities and then tell him I did so he would be on a no fly list. Not to ruin his life but to save it. Having "suspected terrorist" on your record is way better then "terrorist" or dead. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:43 PM Flag
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I would as well. And then be super disappointed in my parenting skills. And then I would beat his sorry little ass! [ Reply | More ]
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I would blame myself for letting him have juice and goldfish as a toddler and too much screen time. [ Reply | More ]
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somehow I dont think Chip would be telling you about his aspirations [ Reply | More ]
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op: If he is ranting at the dinner table about it I would try to hack his computer. [ Reply | More ]
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op: I wonder if the parents/friends of all the people that go over there to fight had an idea or heard them talking about it. There should be an anomyous hotline parents or friends can call that can stop their kids without the kids getting into massive trouble if they have not already done anything. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:38 PM Flag
[ - ] S/o of the no snack daycare post. I was yelled at once by a mom because I moved her son to another table that was by the garbage. She was late picking her son up from morning preschool, so he was sitting at the table with the other kids while they eat lunch. He repeatedly put his fingers in fhe other kids food and milk after I told him several times to stop, so i redirected him to another table. The mom had a fit and told the director on me. A month later, they were kicked out the program. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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I had a son like this, always getting into things he shouldn't at 3 and 4, and I'd totally understand whatever the teacher had to do to get him to stop bothering other kids. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:47 PM Flag
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Np: when did it get better? Mine is like this and he is driving me BANANAS. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:49 PM Flag
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The mom thought he was the sweetest little boy, meanwhile at daycare. He was a little terrorist. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Where can i watch Arli$$? 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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[ - ] Woman killed at 79th and Madison. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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too bad. its bound to happen now and then in the city. the streets are so crowded, cars/taxis speed and so many people stand too close to the street when waiting to cross. [ Reply | More ]
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Terrible. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 08:07 PM Flag
[ - ] Honest question - why do people in the Islamic world have such trouble with fundamental concepts like "secularism" and "separation of church and state"? Why is their impulse to create religious "caliphates" rather than something more sane and modern like a nation-state? 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:32 PM Flag
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You should take a history class, not being snarky here. It this interests you [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:22 PM Flag
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NP- do you have any concrete suggestions? I am contemplating taking some online classes on topics that I am interested in. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:31 PM Flag
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Look at NYU's Continuing Education Program. They have some really great classes. I believe Columbia has a Cont Ed program also. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:34 PM Flag
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Their religion incorporates government. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:22 PM Flag
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Religion is a way of life. Governs everything. [ Reply | More ]
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Religion is god made > governments / laws which are man made Allah > man [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:25 PM Flag
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People in the American world have trouble with this too. [ Reply | More ]
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yep [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:42 PM Flag
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No, they don't. Gay marriage was legal in Utah recently. If that had been Saudi Arabia, suicide bombers would have been going off immediately. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:30 PM Flag
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So yeah...the entire planet doesn't operate under the US constitution. And even we struggle with it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:30 PM Flag
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How so? Where else but the Islamic world are new states being declared (in Iraq/Syria, northern Nigeria, southern Somalia, etc.) whose purpose is to implement a religious legal code like sharia? Where non-believers are openly murdered? Go ahead; let's have some current non-Islamic examples on that scale. Can you find any? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:55 PM Flag
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Um, separation of church and state is in the AMERICAN constitution. I don't know much about history, but sheesh - I thought everyone knew this! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:44 PM Flag
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It is mentioned in the US constitution, but it is an integral part of modernity, and the concept existed well before the US became a nation. In the west its origins came from the Enlightenment era and earlier; the concept had been mentioned even during the Reformation era. In East Asia the church, as such, was never really part of the government to begin with, so the concept did not need that kind of direct codification. In modern times, only the Islamic world still struggles with the notion. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 08:00 PM Flag
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Read The Closed Circle. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] What is the most effective cardio exercise with the fastest results? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:26 PM Flag
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Running, but bad for your face. Elliptical best bet for both, imo. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:18 PM Flag
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ummmmmm and bad for your knees [ Reply | More ]
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creates wrinkles with all that up and down. [ Reply | More ]
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research substantiating this? [ Reply | More ]
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Why bad for your face? And how? [ Reply | More ]
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zumba! an hour of that 2-3 a week will do wonders! [ Reply | More ]
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Stairmaster [ Reply | More ]
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What about swimming? [ Reply | More ]
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This. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] What are the first things that come to mind when you hear the term "SAHM"? Genuinely curious. 36 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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I have to know the SAHM to tell you. [ Reply | More ]
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Committed [ Reply | More ]
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That I wish there was a less cringe inducing term, signed SAHM [ Reply | More ]
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NP- any ideas? I'm also a SAHM. Don't love the term but think it is just somewhat accurate [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:30 PM Flag
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pretty rich [ Reply | More ]
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^^ i mean rich-ish, she could be pretty or not, poor phrasing, sorry [ Reply | More ]
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only true in NYC. I'm in the burbs and decidedly not rich, but still SAH [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:46 PM Flag
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Nothing really. There is such a wide spectrum of "types". [ Reply | More ]
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Yoga pants. Me. [ Reply | More ]
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Patient! [ Reply | More ]
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Depends on how old their children are. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:29 PM Flag
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I usually think one of two things: Super cool, super educated, dynamic mother who has time to take care of her children plus read, keep up with the non-child world, engage in non-kid intelligent RELEVANT conversation, volunteers or takes a class here and there and I love to be around her happy self [ Reply | More ]
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OR, someone who was interesting and has now become "tired", complains often, can't really relate to things that don't revolve around children, always talks to people about whatever kid-related thing she's dealing with and basically has lost that "fire" she had before she became a SAHM. [ Reply | More ]
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oy, busted! i am the latter, you nailed it! [ Reply | More ]
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For the most part, I hate to say it, but that term alone connotes "boring" to me. Not necessarily true of all SAHM moms I know, obviously, but the term SAHM alone means boring to me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:33 PM Flag
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Maybe SAHM needs to be rebranded. Former marketing and advertising execs, any ideas? [ Reply | More ]
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SAHM needs to drop away and replaced with a new word. This is what I say. [ Reply | More ]
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lucky [ Reply | More ]
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what is the obsession with SAHM's? Get a life, really. No one actually gives a FK. [ Reply | More ]
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Plent do. [ Reply | More ]
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who ? Some miserable divorced WOHM? [ Reply | More ]
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NP- this. In my experience these women are the ones who hate SAHM [ Reply | More ]
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defensive [ Reply | More ]
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+1 just trying to stir up trouble. [ Reply | More ]
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Wealthy, rich DH, educated, committed to her kids [ Reply | More ]
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NP: That is not what I think. [ Reply | More ]
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My first thought on this post is OP is a judgmental bitch. [ Reply | More ]
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Why do you say that? What abut the question says that? [ Reply | More ]
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"defensive'! [ Reply | More ]
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boring and defensive. Nervous about going back to work. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:57 PM Flag
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Defensive is definitely very true in many cases! [ Reply | More ]
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Financially well off, DH raking in the $, lucky kids. [ Reply | More ]
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Cooking from scratch. [ Reply | More ]
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NO way! That is the last thing most of my SAHM do : ) [ Reply | More ]
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It depends on the woman. [ Reply | More ]
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I think she didn't have to dump her babies at daycare or much worse, with a creepy Nanny! [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] What's in-style for Fall? 17 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Minding your own beeswax. It is HOT HOT HOT. [ Reply | More ]
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Motorcycle jackets...everywhere. [ Reply | More ]
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As opposed to last year, when being a nosey parker was all the rage! [ Reply | More ]
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I remember when hysterical yenteh was all the rage. [ Reply | More ]
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Pick up the latest Vogue and look for yourself. Go to Barneys and see what they sell. Easy as that. [ Reply | More ]
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Dick. [ Reply | More ]
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Classy. [ Reply | More ]
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You are also a dick. [ Reply | More ]
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Classy. [ Reply | More ]
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Ankle boots [ Reply | More ]
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Crop tops. So unfair. [ Reply | More ]
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they are out again already. that fad is over now. [ Reply | More ]
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NOKD [ Reply | More ]
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For teens and early 20's only. [ Reply | More ]
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grey anything, big knits, leather, flats, big coats - or at least that's the theme I got looking through the September mags [ Reply | More ]
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agreed!! I don't read vogue because I don't want to dress like Vivienne Westwood for crissakes! Read People style [ Reply | More ]
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People style is not "fashion". And you're watching too much Sex In the City. VW is hardly covered in that book. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:55 PM Flag
[ - ] anyone else watching Venus in the US Open? Tiebreaker in the third set. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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So, you're on UB and watching TV.... [ Reply | More ]
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yes, amazingly neither one commands my full attention and I can multitask this sh*t [ Reply | More ]
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I was on UB, with ESPN on my ipad, while on the computer at work. how's that for multitasking on a friday before Labor Day! [ Reply | More ]
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and giving dh a bj and texting the nanny [ Reply | More ]
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You rock! Go have a drink! [ Reply | More ]
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sing it, sistah! have a great weekend all! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:59 PM Flag
[ - ] is this work appropriate (law firm)? http://www.c21stores.com/women_apparel_dresses_day/uttam-boutique-floral-applique-peplum-dress 18 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:15 PM Flag
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Only if you have hot legs [ Reply | More ]
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It is really short and the flower is corny. [ Reply | More ]
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looks short but hard to tell with the model. description says she is 5'9. Looks short to me but if you are shorter it might be ok [ Reply | More ]
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Looks like what a junior associate would wear who is trying to flirt with the boss. [ Reply | More ]
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Um, no. [ Reply | More ]
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If you have to ask... [ Reply | More ]
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No, it ain't [ Reply | More ]
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Did someone wear this in your office and you're trying to make fun of them? No, of course, it's not appropriate. [ Reply | More ]
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Too short. [ Reply | More ]
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Not in Big Law. Not 'serious' enough. [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
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That outfit is not appropriate to wear anywhere. Too tacky. [ Reply | More ]
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If my lawyer showed up in court to defend me wearing that dress, I would be unhappy. [ Reply | More ]
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^^^come to think of it, I think she did. [ Reply | More ]
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For what, a secretary trying to find a roll in the hay? [ Reply | More ]
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if you are under 5 ft 4 inches and you get the black version. [ Reply | More ]
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Looks cheap [ Reply | More ]
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DEFINITELY not in NYC [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] How competitive is first grade g/t entry? Is it worse that entering in kindergarten? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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yes, because most of the spots are already filled with the rising kindergarteners. [ Reply | More ]
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Worth it to pay for test prep? [ Reply | More ]
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theres always a possibility, did your child take the test last year and if so how did they do? what district are you in? some g&ts are easier than others. if you live in a district where only a 99 will help you and your child got a 75 last year (and they weren't sick or anything) then its probably not worth it. [ Reply | More ]
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kid tested last year at an 83 (not ill, un-prepped). our district is a mess.. ugh, this whole school situation makes me want to leave the city.. [ Reply | More ]
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Citywide, dang near impossible if you are not a sibling. District G&T a bit easier, but there are still only a handful of spots. [ Reply | More ]
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We got a 1st grade spot at 166GT last year, which is the top GT in D3. [ Reply | More ]
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If a 98 or 99, chances are high for a district G&T. Very slim for city-wide. [ Reply | More ]
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Tip: rank your favorite districts 1st and you have a GREAT chance getting in. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:46 PM Flag
[ - ] Annoying DH rant: Calls me from work to argue about our son's immunization records. Annoying because he 1) didn't take our son for any of these shots. 2) I just had a conversation with the doctor about some missing ones. 3) I'm holding the list of vaccinations and record of what our son has or hasn't gotten in my hand. But please, tell me why I'm wrong...and then get snippy when I correct you. Asshole! 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:13 PM Flag
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What exactly is the problem? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:28 PM Flag
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Just moved from the UK back to US. UK has a different immunization schedule. Son starting preschool and is missing two standard ones give in the US. Not a big deal. Something I was aware of and something I discussed with our doctor. Husband of course insists that our son has had both missing ones and is pulling this information out of his ass. [ Reply | More ]
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scan and email him the records so you each have a copy. why so upset? [ Reply | More ]
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Just a particularly sensitive subject since he REFUSED to take our son in for any shots because he didn't want to be the "bad guy". So the fact he is now the expert on what shots he has had is annoying. [ Reply | More ]
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You must be very stressed because this sounds like a silly argument and one that is easily solvable. [ Reply | More ]
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I am stressed and I just sent him the appropriate information so he would get off my back. We have made up. [ Reply | More ]
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I'm not trying to be a bitch to you. It's just easier to see this when it's happening to someone else. We all feel this way lots of the time. But try to get back on the same team with dh and don't assume the worst of each other. [ Reply | More ]
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he doesn't want to be the "bad guy". Yes - that would make me lose it too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:47 PM Flag
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He on 95% of parenting issues is awesome but this one is just ridiculous. I was out of town for one set of shots and told him to take our son. He paid the nanny to take our son instead and gave her instructions to buy him a toy for "daddy" for being brave. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:50 PM Flag
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this is such a small thing though and it's in the past. can't you just let it go? assume he's not going to be the one to take for boosters so you take charge of this one, small area of parental responsibilities. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 08:01 PM Flag
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is he dh or ex? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:24 PM Flag
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That depends on the hour of the day. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:43 PM Flag
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Why we're some missed? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:40 PM Flag
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See above. For valid reasons. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:44 PM Flag
[ - ] 43 years old and have always been active. Too the last couple of months off from the gym, just from starting new job, kids, etc. I can not believe how quickly my body is reverting to flab - I am so tempted to get lipo for my hips and thighs - the trouble area in which I have been struggling with all of my life. My ass looks like a CUBE, I just want to vent and cry and not feel lazy and hit the gym again. Anyone else go or lipo as the last alternative? What was your experience? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:08 PM Flag
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Stop writing on here and HIT THE GYM [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 06:57 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:10 PM Flag
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Two months is a long time for any age. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 06:57 PM Flag
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this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 06:59 PM Flag
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hit the gym and watch what you eat. Lipo isn;t the answer [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:15 PM Flag
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Just go back to the gym. You'll look great by New Years. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:31 PM Flag
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Lipo can help a lot. You'll still need to go to the gym but it gets rid of big fat deposits. There is some recovery though, so time it well. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:41 PM Flag
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35 and haven't been to the gym in 2 months. Yes I am flabby too, but my face doesn't look as good. Summer is over, time to start exercising again [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:44 PM Flag
[ - ] I need to be kinder to people, in general. This includes my mom, DH and son as well as strangers. What are some tips to work on being kinder to people? I don't like the stress case I've become... 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:05 PM Flag
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Watching this. Sometimes I feel like I give strangers the benefit of the doubt, but then I am really tough on my family. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:07 PM Flag
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I'm this way too. But way too nice to son and way too mean to mom. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:42 PM Flag
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Same. Nice to outsiders, and mean to the family. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:44 PM Flag
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Go back and re-read the first page of The Great Gatsby. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:12 PM Flag
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Smile. Breathe. Take an extra second before you speak. Remind yourself that everyone is dealing with something. Open the door for someone. Hold the elevator. Say please and thank you as often as you can. Be kind to yourself. Focus on the positive. All so trite but, hey, any of this would make the world a nice place. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:14 PM Flag
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Really? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:16 PM Flag
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zoloft. I'm serious. I think it makes me a much more tolerant and less edgy, therefore nicer person. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:29 PM Flag
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Think twice before you speak. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:36 PM Flag
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Step one: get off UB [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:25 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 07:41 PM Flag
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