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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:48 AM Flag
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Sure, what do you have to lose? [ Reply | More
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her dignity. i say don't. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:49 AM Flag
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Why not? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:43 AM Flag
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No, he's inbred. [ Reply | More
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[ - ] Do you notice when people pronounce "important" as "impordant?" 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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Nope. if you do, you're being a jerk. [ Reply | More
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[ - ] did kim name the db? 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:40 AM Flag
[ - ] For someone 5'3", what is the ideal NYC weight? 21 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:39 AM Flag
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105 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:39 AM Flag
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Whatever weight doesn't cause the woman to think too much about it and obsess. That's my answer. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:40 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More
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+2 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:37 AM Flag
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115 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:40 AM Flag
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45 pounds. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:40 AM Flag
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omg ---- get a sense of self worth [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:40 AM Flag
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what about 5'7'' [ Reply | More
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2lbs [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:41 AM Flag
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bmi of 19 looked really good on me. 20.5 now and it sucks. http://www.nhlbi.nih.gov/guidelines/obesity/BMI/bmicalc.htm [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:35 AM Flag
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You have body image issues if you think 20.5 "sucks". Seriously. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:42 AM Flag
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believe me, it sucks. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:37 AM Flag
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that would be about 105 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:37 AM Flag
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NP--I just did that. Mine is 20 and I think I look fine [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:45 AM Flag
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I dont know about that thing. I kinda feel like it promotes unhealthy body image [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:42 AM Flag
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Oh Christ, why would this be different in NYC vs. everywhere else? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:42 AM Flag
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np. Because the UMC NYC shrews are more anorexic than most. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:37 AM Flag
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don't care about NYC weight but I feel great when I am 110. Need to lose 5lb. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:42 AM Flag
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11 pounds [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:37 AM Flag
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anywhere between 110 lbs and 125 lbs depending on your build. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:38 AM Flag
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So depressing. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:42 AM Flag
[ - ] my bmi is 44.9 and i want to die 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:39 AM Flag
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My BMI is 27.4 and it is technically 'overweight' but I look really good. I am fit and very strong...will never be thin but it is about feeling good...ignore the numbers! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:42 AM Flag
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one day at a time! start out with cutting out sodas or other caloric liquids. good luck. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:49 AM Flag
[ - ] Can mom who found blood in DDs underwear/leggings please post an update. I hope everything is ok. Been thinking about you and DD 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:35 AM Flag
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omg. stop ocding. they are fine. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:37 AM Flag
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it was probably a fake post anyway [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:40 AM Flag
[ - ] Why did I just get snotty responses when I asked why urbanbabyhood mom stopped posting? 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:34 AM Flag
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who [ Reply | More
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What [ Reply | More
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When [ Reply | More
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why [ Reply | More
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how? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:31 AM Flag
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Where? What the fuck are you talking about? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:32 AM Flag
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The non -showering mom who started urbanbabyhood.com. I loved reading her advice, even bought a few things based on it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:39 AM Flag
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o.m.g. Go to sleep no shower mom, we know its you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:34 AM Flag
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It's not. Genuinely curious [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:42 AM Flag
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lol [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:42 AM Flag
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So why don't you go for her site and ask her directly? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:36 AM Flag
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Que? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:39 AM Flag
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porque? [ Reply | More
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Spam! Do not feed spamella please. [ Reply | More
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donde? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:41 AM Flag
[ - ] Do all schools do K pick up and drop off from school yards now? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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NY Schools 06.20.13, 02:32 AM Flag
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Ella baker lets you drop at the classroom. They only have three K classes [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:43 AM Flag
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How does that work if you have younger sib in stroller? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:40 AM Flag
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You can leave your stroller downstairs and carry the younger [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:42 AM Flag
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Our public still does pick-up and drop off at the classroom door for K only. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:40 AM Flag
[ - ] Any finance moms? Does anyone know what liquid assets and net worth you have to have for big banks' private wealth management group to pay attention to you? 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:31 AM Flag
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A couple more zeros than you have at the moment. Usually around $10,000,000 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:33 AM Flag
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really? thought less. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:36 AM Flag
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so if you have liquid assets of $1m, how do people manage their assets? You just do it yourself? Or use places like fidelity? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:30 AM Flag
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Fidelity is not a bad idea [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:40 AM Flag
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my dh manages a chunk but a friend whom i trust 110% manages about a 1-1/2 for me. he's been good. they aren't always. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:39 AM Flag
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You can get in the door with as little as ten million, but they won't give a shit about you. [ Reply | More
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$25 million at JPMorgan [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:49 AM Flag
[ - ] For those in real estate or with real estate knowledge. Is it worse to buy in a small about 6 units condo building vs a bigger one? Is it harder to get a loan? Should this affect price? TIA 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:30 AM Flag
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Looked into buying in a small building. Lawyer pointed out building didn't have a huge reserve fund so we would be on the hook for 1/8 of elevator boiler etc. we went with a larger building [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:33 AM Flag
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This building has no elevator but must have a boiler etc [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:34 AM Flag
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Look at their financials first, reserves like pp mentioned. I think monthly fees are higher for buildings with smaller units. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:42 AM Flag
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This building has no financials they are scrambling to produce now because of sale but maintenance monthly is low [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:44 AM Flag
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Walk away [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:46 AM Flag
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ask your mortgage person [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:45 AM Flag
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some large condos have been preapproved by some banks so you can get a mortgage easily. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:48 AM Flag
[ - ] 99 moms did you prep at all? Yes or no. Be honest, and remember, no one knows. Studies show that even people lie on here so really try your best to be honest. It would be interesting to find out 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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No. Twins got 98 and 99. Landed in district G&T. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:26 AM Flag
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for K, i did a couple of the sample tests with DC. for 1st grade, forgot to show DC the sample. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:27 AM Flag
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DD had a 99x3 and we prepped a good bit. Had a tutor come and help her prepare, he came for six sessions. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:35 AM Flag
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Where did she end up for K? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:32 AM Flag
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Chapin [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:32 AM Flag
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did not prep at all. i looked at the test once and showed him but he didn't practice. told him to stop and think before answering the day of the test. 99 and district g&t. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:36 AM Flag
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no. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:36 AM Flag
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6 classes for one hour each, started 6 weeks before the exam. Cost $200. What she got: exam simulation with a stranger + standing still for 30 min. A student teacher came home. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:37 AM Flag
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Did the practice questions in the book the night before the test [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:44 AM Flag
[ - ] #What happened with the mom who found her dd's underwear?? 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:29 AM Flag
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I don't know, but I hope she killed the fucking boyfriend. Actually, no. Not killed. Hired instead a Butt Fuck man to give him the full treatment for hours on end. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:35 AM Flag
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Are we talking about the same person? I thought she was married. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:37 AM Flag
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If she is married, I hope she is no longer, and I hope the asshole husband got what the previous poster suggested, only fifty times worse. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:33 AM Flag
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What was the last update???? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:41 AM Flag
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+1 she was definitely married [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:33 AM Flag
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She was married. OR has comprehension issues. DH is DD's father and everything, [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:40 AM Flag
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Why are you all so convinced this was real? Not that I think it isn't a terribly common occurrence, but who the hell comes on to UB and posts a blow-by-blow report of something like that? The whole thing seemed off to me. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:35 AM Flag
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+1. For "sophisticated" women, you ladies are pretty gullible. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:44 AM Flag
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I don't know if it was real or not. Why would you make something like that up, though? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:37 AM Flag
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The posters here make shit up all the time. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:45 AM Flag
[ - ] 99 moms did you prep at all? Yes or no. Be honest, and remember, no one knows. Studies show that even people lie on here so really try your best to be honest. It would be interesting to find out. 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:29 AM Flag
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No, not at all, and would never. Totally unethical. We did a lot of puzzles and looked at a lot of maps, but that is because DC was interested in them. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:30 AM Flag
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Yup, but I'm not sure it mattered in the end bc dc got a prepped 99 but unprepped sb of 155, and his twin brother got a prepped 95, and unprepped sb of 132. By the way, going with zoned school as we were shut out. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:26 AM Flag
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No. I meant to take DC through the practice test once or twice, I repeatedly asked the parent coordinator when they'd be testing him so I could do it a couple days before (this was in kinder), then I asked his teacher close to the end of the testing window, and she said it had been done weeks before. I was LIVID. But I guess, nbd. He got a 99, and I know it was a real one, [ Reply | More
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That was 2011/12 school year, BTW. [ Reply | More
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where'd he end up? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:36 AM Flag
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Citywide. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:40 AM Flag
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We did the DOE practice tests and all the free sample questions I could find on the internet--probably about 5-7hours total work spread out over a month. Ds got 99 and we got 4th choice district in bklyn. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:35 AM Flag
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Honestly, no. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:35 AM Flag
[ - ] Gained a lot of weight first pregnancy, lost it all, and am now 15 weeks into second one. I want to stay in the 25 to 35 range (last time I gained 60 plus). For those of you who gained a normal amount, did you eat whenever you were hungry? In my real life, I go to bed even if I am a little hungry. I didn't do that the first time. But even if it is a healthy snack, calories are calories. So should I go to bed hungry if I have had a full calorie day or have cereal/cheese/another snack? 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:28 AM Flag
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I gained 30 and I ate whenever I felt like it. Honestly, MD mom might throw something at me, but if you're not overweight to begin with, 60 lbs doesn't sound that bad. If you're otherwise healthy. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:39 AM Flag
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For heaven's sake, you're pregnant. This is not the time to be dieting. Eat when you are hungry, don't eat when you are not hungry, and stick to nutritious foods. Don't be stupid and crazy. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:39 AM Flag
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Op--I know. Doc gave me a really hard time about the weight gain the first time, but doesn't have a lot of practical advice when it comes to managing my weight gain [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:41 AM Flag
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Calm down, and realize that it's dangerous to mother and baby to gain too much weight. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:43 AM Flag
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It's dangerous to gain too much weight if you're pigging out on junk. It's not dangerous to eat what your body needs. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:47 AM Flag
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Weight is weight. Your body doesn't need 4 bowls of cereal. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:48 AM Flag
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This was my exact thought. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:36 AM Flag
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Op--with this said, I am going to have some cereal. But I have already had plenty to eat today. Maybe tips for nice healthy late-night snacks? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:36 AM Flag
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Cereal is really not a great snack. Lots of calories, but not much else, and won't keep you full. Try plain yogurt, almonds, and a couple strawberries. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:44 AM Flag
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Fruit, a little protein, some whole grain cereal, yogurt, apple with peanut butter, hard boiled egg... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:44 AM Flag
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I should keep boiled eggs around. Yogurt w nuts sounds good too thanks. Fwiw I have fiber plus and soy milk as a snack to help things move along if you get my drift [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:40 AM Flag
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I had bad nausea and many food aversions, and really think this helped me to not put on excessive weight. Also, you only need 300 extra calories a day, so it's NOT an excuse to go nuts. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:44 AM Flag
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Honestly, in my third trimester I would get terrible heartburn if I ate before bed time. I would have to stop eating 3 hrs before bed. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:45 AM Flag
[ - ] Enough with UES & PS33 drama!!! 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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[ - ] Should I feel bad I did not lend my friend 10k. She did not directly ask but I know she needs it...... 21 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:25 AM Flag
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Do not ever lend money to friends. Never. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:33 AM Flag
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If she did not ask you, then why would you assume she wanted you to lend it to her? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:33 AM Flag
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yes you should. you are not a friend and that is ok but do not call her a friend [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:34 AM Flag
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So you judge friendships based on whether your friends give you cash? So, so sad. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:38 AM Flag
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what does she need it for? how good a friend is she? and how will it hurt to have it not returned? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:28 AM Flag
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yes hate girls like you [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:36 AM Flag
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Not sure will get money back really...needs money for legal expenses... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:34 AM Flag
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It will hurt not to be returned off course.. And my dh is against it which makes it harder for me to do it.. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:42 AM Flag
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What does she need it for? Can you afford to part with $10K if she can't pay it back? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:37 AM Flag
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BE GLAD YOU DID NOT DO IT. My absolute "lending limit" is $50. My finances would not even wiggle without it and I don't worry about getting it back. If I don't, however, I never front money to that person again. Have you been hit up before by this person? Coming in at 10 grand is pretty brazen. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:37 AM Flag
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great friend to have around. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:37 AM Flag
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I wouldn't lend a friend 10K unless I never expected to see the money again. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:32 AM Flag
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this but if she really needed it, i would do it even though i am not well off [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:34 AM Flag
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I guess I wouldn't want to risk ruining the friendship if it didn't get paid back. I lent BFF $300 a few years ago, I could probably get it back if I harassed her, but I decided to just let it go. 10K would be much harder to just let go [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:46 AM Flag
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can you afford it and would it be easy to call it a loan yet in your mind think of it as a donation? I am very generous but very poor (probably linked ;) ) so I would say give it to her but only if it will not cause you angst if you never see that money again. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:33 AM Flag
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yes [ Reply | More
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Unless $10k means absolutely nothing to you, then do not feel bad (and do not let your friend make you feel bad) if you can't lend (i.e., give) her the money. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:39 AM Flag
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If you feel like giving her money, give it to her, but do not lend because you'll never get it back and the relationship will be ruined. And if you give it to her, know that she will be back for more next time she's in a bind, which will be in a few months. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:40 AM Flag
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Yes - if you have it and can afford it, you should do it. I did it many years ago for DF and never asked for it back. She repaid. My circumstances changed drastically and she lent me money (which I will repay this summer). That is what FRIENDS do. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:47 AM Flag
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yep [ Reply | More
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Don't feel bad if she didn't ask. If you have a lot of money and wouldn't miss it, you can offer to her... She probably feels weird asking you (if she does in fact really need it for a certain reason.) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:48 AM Flag
[ - ] Sometimes I play a game with myself on the street called "Fuckable or Unfuckable?" I look at men walking by and I have to make a snap decision about whether I would have sex with them or not. Almost none of them make the grade. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:25 AM Flag
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if you were a man, almost none of them would fail. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:27 AM Flag
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LOL! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:27 AM Flag
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Haha! When my friends and I made a trip to NY together, we played a version of this on the subway platform/train cars-- out of all the men visible, who would you kiss? I've since moved here and still play, from time to time :) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:30 AM Flag
[ - ] I am pretty upset with my DH. He honestly doesn't think before he speaks. He never tells my 11 year old DD that he loves her- never. I think she'd be so much happier if she heard her dad tell her that he loves her. He was doing math with her tonight and actually said "Now that's using your little brain". I saw that my DD looked a little sad/serious when he said that. She later told me that he must have a little brain for saying that to her. I think I need to really talk to DH and explain to him that he needs to show more affection towards her and tell her he loves her. That will help her with her confidence I think. I think it's crucial actually. Thoughts? 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:25 AM Flag
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He needs to think long and hard what kind of woman he wants to be responsible for becoming. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:33 AM Flag
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op: Thank you. I am with you. That father/daughter relationship is critical. She is hurting and I think it's as simple as him telling her he loves her every day and giving her that confident feeling of knowing that. I feel sick. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:29 AM Flag
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He needs to think about why he can't give your DD (or you) this kind of support. Would he refuse to feed her? Love and encouragement are critical to her growing up to be healthy and secure. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:49 AM Flag
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I think some men show their love instead of tell it. Of course it would be nice if he could say the words, but he obviously cares for her if he is doing math with her. You should encourage your DD to let her father know when he says something that hurts her feelings. I bet if she asked him, "Do you think I have a little brain?" he would explain that that isn't what he meant. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:28 AM Flag
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op: I agree with you. I told her he didn't mean it. I have a memory of my mom telling me that my dad loved me so much. I remember thinking that I wasn't so sure about that (as he never said it to me). I can tell you that it didn't help me that he never told me- that's why I am so aware of it. [ Reply | More
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op: Oh, and I know he loves her so much. He just has a very poor way of showing it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:39 AM Flag
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I know this is hard, but I just think if you try to intervene you will make things worse. The best thing would be for you to help your DD feel comfortable enough with your DH to talk to him on her own. If you try to force DH to tell DD he loves her, that will backfire, and if you intervene between the two of them it's no good either. But just my gut feeling here-I'm not a therapist. [ Reply | More
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op: You are smart to say that. I have actually tried before, but it doesn't seem to sink into his head. I will talk with my DD. But, I feel terrible, as I know that girls who have dads who are super warm and loving with them feel so fantastic about themselves and it sets the tone for future relationships for them. Again, I feel sick. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:46 AM Flag
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Does he tell YOU he loves you everyday? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:40 AM Flag
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op: Never. He is so immature. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:41 AM Flag
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Ok I only ask because if he doesn't say it to you then he's probably just the type of guy who doesn't like to say it. Explain to him that you are an adult so you understand that he loves you even when he doesn't say it, but dd is a kid and she needs to be told and reassured [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:44 AM Flag
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op: Thank you. I appreciate that. She tells me that she loves me every night at bedtime (that's because I tell her every night too :)) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:47 AM Flag
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a dh: He's a douche. Job #1 when you are a dad is making your kids feel special, loved, brilliant and all that. (I stress about being a father to my DD sometimes because I had no sisters and am awkward around women in general but if I ever thought shared time like that made her feel badly... I'd be crushed.) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:43 AM Flag
[ - ] Dammit 16w3d, I can't go 12 minutes without peeing. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:24 AM Flag
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Yep. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:25 AM Flag
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it will probably get better before it gets bad again [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 02:29 AM Flag
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