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General Topics 01.22.18, 05:47 AM Flag
[ - ] So embarrassed DH and I we're arguing about stupid taxes and someone called the police on us. So embarrassed and nokd. DH knew cop too so he was like did you guys hear an argument. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 01.22.18, 05:22 AM Flag
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^ so embarrassed. We all have flu too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.22.18, 05:22 AM Flag
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omg [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.22.18, 05:23 AM Flag
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How do I go outside again. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.22.18, 05:24 AM Flag
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I'd be embarrassed too. But I'd probably make a joke about it next time I saw the neighbors. Sometimes, the best way to save face is to own it, and joke about it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.22.18, 05:40 AM Flag
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Sorry op but lol! This is a funny story [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.22.18, 06:09 AM Flag
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Op I am mortified. The thing is all our windows are closed and I don't think we we're yelling very loudly ( we have horrible allergies so no rugs) so embarrassed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.22.18, 07:06 AM Flag
[ - ] I know it's spam time so I'll post again earlier tomorrow - but would like some advice. I had a falling out with a friend recently, I won't go into tedious details but basically it was because she has pretty bad anxiety and I had become the person that she vented to way too much, basically like texting me 24 7 with minute obsessive details. I finally couldn't take it anymore, it got to the point where her issues were dominating my life. So I tried to talk to her and set a gentle boundary with her, but she took it really badly and left then didn't talk to me for two months. Now she is texting - first she texted me about how much I suck and not to talk to anyone about her life (??) and then a couple of days later she texted to ask me what had happened between us. I haven't replied. Part of me is so done dealing with her issues that I just don't want to reply anymore but part of me wonders if maybe it would be helpful for her to hear my perspective on what happened. I can't decide. Do I owe it to my friend to have a real talk with her? It's actually been a sort of huge relief to not be interacting these months she's been ignoring me. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 01.22.18, 05:10 AM Flag
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You better not rehash this stuff. If you value the friendship engage on friendly and distracting terms. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 01.22.18, 05:25 AM Flag
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I had a friend like this before. It's a good sign that she's reaching out to you. I would write her back if you'd like to have her in your life again, but it also sounds like you've been relieved not to have to deal with her issues. Just think a few years down the road if you might look back and miss the friendship. If so, respond, but be prepared for a response that you may not want (with my friend, you could never tell). I would start with, "It's so good to hear from you. From my perspective, it felt like ... My intention in talking to you back in __ was to ___ because ___ ... I wasn't looking to end our friendship, but wanted to let you know how I was feeling about our relationship." Good luck! [ Reply | More ]
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