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[ - ] Well I'm resigning on Monday. And then being escorted out by security. Trying not to think about it. But very very stressed. Babys first birthday party is tomorrow. Trying to focus. So far today, I went for a run and obsessively cleaned the apt. I'll go down to my office for the last time in a little bit. Pls pray this is the right move.... 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:49 PM Flag
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Good luck to you! Here's to new beginnings. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:53 PM Flag
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You are quitting voluntarily though? You have another job lined up? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:44 PM Flag
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Is your desk all picked up and organised? It's best to have all under control before resigning, so that you can walk out with nothing in your hands. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:44 PM Flag
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Good luck to you!! You made your decision, now don't second guess yourself. Don't burn bridges. Eyes forward! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:57 PM Flag
[ - ] What's on your nursery school list? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:41 PM Flag
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the usual. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:42 PM Flag
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c'mon just share; you're not talking about it with anybody else! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:35 PM Flag
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i am not a freak [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:49 PM Flag
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Pencils and rubber sheets [ Reply | More ]
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UES medley: 92Y, AS, MC, PAMDS, ECNS, St. Ignatious Nursery [ Reply | More ]
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PAMDS is not good. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:47 PM Flag
[ - ] does your DH have a temper/short fuse and snap easily? how do you deal with this? i can't take it anymore. tactics please. 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:32 PM Flag
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no. you need HIM to seek professional help [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:46 PM Flag
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I have a rubber band gun and when he mouths off he gets popped in the face. [ Reply | More ]
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Nice. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:36 PM Flag
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no I would like this!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:36 PM Flag
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My friend's DH blows up almost every time we visit (every weekend or every other). I have DC around age of her DC. It is scary- the kids start crying. Hard to tell the difference between harsh discipline and temper. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:37 PM Flag
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Honestly, the more sex and bjs, the las they snap. It's a guaranteed correlation, trust me [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:50 PM Flag
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are you joking or serious? because ive heard a girlfriend say this too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:40 PM Flag
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It's true. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:56 PM Flag
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Fifty shades of true, dh [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:56 PM Flag
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No. It's totally true. They are somple beings. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:58 PM Flag
[ - ] Name help for half Indian half Italian American dd. What do the masses think of Saloni, Usha, or Lopa? Please do not suggest Divya or Manisha (hate)! 94 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:13 PM Flag
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Runs with Bulls [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:27 PM Flag
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Hater be gone! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:15 PM Flag
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Lol! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:31 PM Flag
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that would be american, not southeast asian, indians. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:20 PM Flag
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Yep [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:36 PM Flag
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Saloni sound like salon or salami. No on that one. Usha, eh..... Lopa- no way. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:27 PM Flag
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how about more Italian names? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:27 PM Flag
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This. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:28 PM Flag
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The middle name is going to be my grandmother's name which is Italian. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:16 PM Flag
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Make that the first name. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:30 PM Flag
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Why? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:19 PM Flag
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because it is your grandmother's and that has so much meaning + your Indian choice of name will be random and you don't have an Indian name in mind you are absolutely in love with. There. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:36 PM Flag
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Good reasons but I have to consider dh too. We are raising our kids in NY I can throw him a bone with the name. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:26 PM Flag
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Men don't care. They really don't. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:39 PM Flag
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I got one that does. He wants dd to have some connection to India. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:43 PM Flag
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You know a name alone is not going to do that, right? It is up to your DH to teach your daughter the history, connect her to family and immerse her in that culture in order for her to "have some connection". [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:48 PM Flag
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Go with Elina or Ana then. Both very pretty, easy for all to pronounce and are strong names also. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:42 PM Flag
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this sounds good [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:45 PM Flag
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this mass says "Ecch". [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:16 PM Flag
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Darn, Divya was right on the tip of my tongue. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:29 PM Flag
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It's like the Jennifer of India. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:18 PM Flag
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OP: I'm looking for something that is not too flowery and frivolous as it seems a lot of Indian girl names are. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:17 PM Flag
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Make the Italian name the first name and call it a day. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:31 PM Flag
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I don't how to spell it but I love the name shabani [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:18 PM Flag
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Sundari? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:31 PM Flag
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NP: I kind of like this one. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:31 PM Flag
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Idk. It sounds like shibonnee [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:21 PM Flag
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Shinbone? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:38 PM Flag
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Maleeha [ Reply | More ]
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Rhadha [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:31 PM Flag
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Lopa you're okay with, but Divya you hate??? How about Indiana ;) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:32 PM Flag
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Lopa is cute! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:20 PM Flag
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no way!!!!!! it reminds me of George Costanza's office cleaning lady he tried to swindle. bad. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:37 PM Flag
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But think of the nn possibilities: lolly, loppy, poppy... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:29 PM Flag
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Why do you need a nickname when the original name is 4 letters long?! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:44 PM Flag
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Like a pet name. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:39 PM Flag
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Loppy is a good thing? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:45 PM Flag
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Lopa sounds not serious, let's face it. It sounds like an airhead. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:47 PM Flag
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How do you get Lolly from Lopa? I would think Lopey (as in slow), or Ropa or Mopa. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:47 PM Flag
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Oh, yeah, and Dopa. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:48 PM Flag
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Aja [ Reply | More ]
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Aja [ Reply | More ]
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Aditi [ Reply | More ]
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Ana [ Reply | More ]
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+ [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:38 PM Flag
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Mira [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:46 PM Flag
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I love Mira [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:57 PM Flag
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Elina [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:33 PM Flag
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Like. I will put it on the list. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:22 PM Flag
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It's not indian name. Signed ~ another indian [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:36 PM Flag
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NP it is a Sanskrit word per google [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:24 PM Flag
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It's not Sanskrit word. This is Swedish name. I have not heard this name in India. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:43 PM Flag
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I just asked dh who is very good in Sanskrit and he confirmed. OP. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:40 PM Flag
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you're out of luck! go with Malini, Ana or Priya [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:53 PM Flag
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Love this one. Pretty. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:37 PM Flag
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This sound Greek? It's pretty but everybody will spell it Elena. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:40 PM Flag
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Indira [ Reply | More ]
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+ [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:38 PM Flag
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Ishani [ Reply | More ]
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Jasmin [ Reply | More ]
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Muslim [ Reply | More ]
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Malini [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:34 PM Flag
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I love this name. [ Reply | More ]
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+ [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:38 PM Flag
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Aparajita Theresa [ Reply | More ]
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Priya [ Reply | More ]
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pretty common these days so it won't sound too foreign. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:40 PM Flag
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Anna [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:24 PM Flag
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Your husband is South Indian or North Indian ? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:37 PM Flag
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North Indian / Hindu. I'm Italian NYer / Catholic. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:27 PM Flag
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May be ask your husband's family for suggestions? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:45 PM Flag
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They said Divya yuck! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:40 PM Flag
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Riya [ Reply | More ]
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Maya, Lina, Tia, Diya, Anjali, Ami, Amaya, Aanya, Tania, Priya, Riya [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:27 PM Flag
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Are there any that don't end in a or i? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:41 PM Flag
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very few, and those that do are often hard to pronounce for non-Indians [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:32 PM Flag
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To be honest, i don't like any of those at all. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:31 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:45 PM Flag
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Sholani or Shaziya [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:32 PM Flag
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Yuck, just give her an Italian name. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:33 PM Flag
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Ok Racist mom is here [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:50 PM Flag
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How about Anika?? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:50 PM Flag
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That's not Indian or Italian. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:51 PM Flag
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Anika is indian goddess name (it's a another name of Laxmi) google [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:53 PM Flag
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Sorry name for goddess Durga http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anika [ Reply | More ]
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Alisha [ Reply | More ]
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^^^ Uma, Isha, Riya, Krupa, Samara [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:53 PM Flag
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Rita? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:41 PM Flag
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80's [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:54 PM Flag
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OP, do you like ANY of these suggestions? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:54 PM Flag
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I don't know why she can't just google. I did and found about 500 options. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:55 PM Flag
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Lollapalooza. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:58 PM Flag
[ - ] what is the recommended prep class for Hunter High School admissions exam? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:09 PM Flag
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Gin and tonic. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:00 PM Flag
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You can get disqualified for prepping [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:08 PM Flag
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Not as likely as getting disqualified for not prepping. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:11 PM Flag
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Not prepping is free [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:28 PM Flag
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Not for HS. Do you have a 3 yo? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:32 PM Flag
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High school ladies, its different then elementary school. prepping is ok [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:32 PM Flag
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This. [ Reply | More ]
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I thought Hunter entry was at 7th grade, not 9th. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:43 PM Flag
[ - ] Anyone been to the new Harry Potter world in Orlando? About how many days do you need? Any tips or suggestions? TIA 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Who? [ Reply | More ]
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two [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:32 PM Flag
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It is only a section of the Islands of Adventure, not a whole park. There are like 3 rides, some stores, you can eat. Try the frozen butter beer and the pumpkin juice. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:54 PM Flag
[ - ] This website gives me foodgasms. The best food porn on the internet. 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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fullcravings.tumblr.com [ Reply | More ]
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but they're all sweets. you can only eat so much sugar, esp chocolate, before you're sweeted-out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:02 PM Flag
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Well I'm not actually eating any of it. They're pictures. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:17 PM Flag
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So what are you doing with yourself while looking at the food porn? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:18 PM Flag
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i'd be more drooly over pasta dishes, racks of lamb, indian curries, korean side dishes, pot roast pics. but apparently, people accept lower-grade sweets much more frequently than lower-grade savory foods because we are wired to like sugar. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:20 PM Flag
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this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:46 PM Flag
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too much sugar [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:02 PM Flag
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It's cute but I am another one not so into sweets. A good paella? Sign me up [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:19 PM Flag
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There's a picture on there of brownies with full sized donuts on top of them. 12345675434567543245678 calories. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:22 PM Flag
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OMFG! I hate you :):) Why did you have to post this? :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:55 PM Flag
[ - ] So was the missing UVA student buying weed? 29 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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My SIL has a candle lit in her home for this missing student. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:46 PM Flag
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gtfo.. what about the thousand others? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:09 PM Flag
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np You can't do something in honor of one person without honoring literally everyone else ever? Really? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:35 PM Flag
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it just seems rather dense. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:36 PM Flag
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Nooooo [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:46 PM Flag
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Well she is known to have met up with an AA with dreadlocks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:49 PM Flag
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but someone said it must have been the white guy who reported the dreadlock dude cuz black men never kill white women. [ Reply | More ]
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And white guys don't? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:03 PM Flag
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he is SEEN walking away from her when the black dude (off-camera) takes the girl away with him in his car. denial is an amazing thing. [ Reply | More ]
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Not a lot of murders over weed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:09 PM Flag
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so your theory is this black dude who was last seen with this girl cannot be the suspect b/c he sells weed, ie commits a (not totally serious) crime? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:24 PM Flag
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I have no theory. Women go missing all the time, I'm not sure why this one is special. Getting in a car with anyone you don't know is really stupid. White or black. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:13 PM Flag
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yes, but someone (you?) actually believes this black man is less likely the culprit than the white man who voluntarily went to the police to give his info. why is that? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:19 PM Flag
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Who knows? Probably neither one of them did it and she is dead in a basement somewhere. She probably wandered off after buying weed and some weirdo picked her up. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:34 PM Flag
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so, you choose to be in denial. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:26 PM Flag
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About? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:40 PM Flag
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Yes. You will tell your dd not to hang with AA guys but the vast majority of rape victims and murder victims were murdered by MEN OF THEIR OWN RACE. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:32 PM Flag
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anybody know the rate of black-on-white versus white-on-white crime statistics? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:43 PM Flag
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Whatever. You want to think that your dd won't get raped because this poor girl (someone's daughter asshole) made a mistake. Let's concentrate on the rapists and murderers for a change. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:32 PM Flag
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np: why so much anger. the op is just asking for some facts. of course her buying weed has nothing to do with her murder. but if i were her parents and could turn back time, i would make sure she wasn't so inebriated. we all need to warn our children against losing their faculties when drinking. [ Reply | More ]
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We need to create a culture where drinking is normal behavior, not some weird prized grown-up hobby. [ Reply | More ]
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Actually we need to create a culture where NOT drinking is normal behavior. [ Reply | More ]
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Lol, name one culture where people don't drink. People drink, it is only bad when you think binging is the way to have fun. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:51 PM Flag
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ha! muslims in much of the middle east do not drink. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:53 PM Flag
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And it's working out so well over there. Give me a sane example. [ Reply | More ]
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I will take drunks over ISIS any day. [ Reply | More ]
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can't cuz it's a type of drug and everyone (except me) likes it. [ Reply | More ]
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She died for political correctness. She was never told the truth [ Reply | More ]
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WTF does that even mean? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:35 PM Flag
[ - ] I'm hungry. What's for lunch? 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Eggs w/spinach & avocado on bread alone health bread [ Reply | More ]
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Taco Bell [ Reply | More ]
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Cinnamon scone. [ Reply | More ]
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tuna probably, about all we have in the house, have to go grocery shopping [ Reply | More ]
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Egg scramble with onions, mushrooms, tomato, jalapeño and garlic with turkey bacon. [ Reply | More ]
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I have a toasted apple bagel with cream cheese in my purse. The peanut butter and jelly sandwich I had at 9am is still holding me over. [ Reply | More ]
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Greek yogurt and a bowl of shredded wheat [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] I'm not going to worry. I am not going to worry. I am not going to worry. 20 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Ok ok ok ok [ Reply | More ]
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About what? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:43 PM Flag
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what are you worrying about? If it's work, every time something pops in your head, then think or if you are alone say "THat is a good question for monday" if it's something else, set aside 15 min a day to worry. If a thought pops in your head, think or say if you are alone "I can worry about that at 5pm" and move on. Worrying will not change anything, except it will ruin the moment you are in right now, which is all we really have. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:45 PM Flag
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Ok, good for you. I am a worrier. [ Reply | More ]
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I didn't come here to worry, I came here to obsess. ;) [ Reply | More ]
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lol. ok, I'm not going to obsess. GAAAHHHHHHHHH. [ Reply | More ]
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You're funny, I like you. [ Reply | More ]
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OP: Love to all. You guys are great. [ Reply | More ]
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What? [ Reply | More ]
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huh? [ Reply | More ]
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Who? [ Reply | More ]
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Where? [ Reply | More ]
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Why? [ Reply | More ]
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How? [ Reply | More ]
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Everything will be okay. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:11 PM Flag
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As a fellow worrier, I find it incredibly annoying when people say this. [ Reply | More ]
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i'm not a worrier, but i, too, find it patronizing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:03 PM Flag
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Me too. It's not ok. Things could have been so much better. It's out of my control. I can't change things. I can't change other people. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:16 PM Flag
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i hear ya, but on the other hand, in the grand scheme of things, it won't matter, right? usually they don't, anyway, though yours might be an exception. i guess that's what they mean, that it might not be ok but that in the long run it won't matter. [ Reply | More ]
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true. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] I have a friend going through chemo. Should I send her a gift basket of food or a set of really nice bath set (lotions, bubbles, etc)? 15 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:33 PM Flag
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I think bath set. Chemo people can be weird about eating - dont always have an appetite . Im sure she would appreciate either though. Candles would be nice to include. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:35 PM Flag
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I would say not anything skin-related because her skin may be super sensitive, and she may be sensitive to perfume smells. Maybe bland, comforting foods? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:35 PM Flag
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She might be nauseated and both food and scents should be avoided IME. If you know her well and this wouldn't be too weird (and she would like it), consider a gift certificate for acupuncture at a reputable place - this really helped my mom when she was having chemo. I think spa treatments in general are a good gift, because they can help ease stress (even a fancy mani/pedi). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:24 PM Flag
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Depending on the chemo she is having anything cool may be painful to the touch. Suggestion below about spa is a good idea, if she has the energy to get out. You might consider an itunes gift card to help her fill the time while sitting in chemo. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:40 PM Flag
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If she has kids she might appreciate the food basket. her kids can eat it even if she doesnt. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:42 PM Flag
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might have food sensitivities and skin sensitivities. might enjoy netflix subscription or some dvds. that's what someone advised me based on her chemo experience. no books -- too taxing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:33 PM Flag
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Send her books or magazines, she needs a distraction. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:34 PM Flag
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This [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:10 PM Flag
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no, a friend who had cancer specifically told me books and other reading materials are not good for chemo patients because the effort to read is too much when you are sick. movies. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:24 PM Flag
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My daughter just got this incredibly soft, plush throw blanket ... So silky soft. Wish I knew what kind it is but every time I feel it it like holding a kitten. I looked it up ... Euphoria brand super soft fleece ... Amazon has them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:59 PM Flag
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I would send her a gift certificate to a massage place that specializes in cancer patients ( yes, they are out there). Also not a gift but jcc has yoga type classes for people going through and recovering from cancer treatment. If you really want to send food, I would do fruit. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:49 PM Flag
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Send her hot and erotic gay men's magazines [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:49 PM Flag
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violetsarebluenyc.com - Look at this site. A fried who has been through chemo developed a safe line of lotions, creams, etc for women undergoing chemo - and those who want "natural" cosmetics. It's great stuff. She donates a gift basket to patients at Mt. Sinai. Love the body butter. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:35 PM Flag
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violetsarebluenyc.com - Look at this site. A fried who has been through chemo developed a safe line of lotions, creams, etc for women undergoing chemo - and those who want "natural" cosmetics. It's great stuff. She donates a gift basket to patients at Mt. Sinai. Love the body butter. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:35 PM Flag
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What a nice thing to share. Thanks! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:56 PM Flag
[ - ] Does someone know anyone who has ridded themselves of cancer through chemotherapy? I don't think many really have. I think it is something that may work for a few lucky ones. 30 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:32 PM Flag
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Nope. But lasted two years instead of four months with nothing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:47 PM Flag
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Yes - happens a lot. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:02 PM Flag
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Of course. Many! Does not work for everyone, of course, especially in the long term, but you will not live very long if you do not treat the cancer, either. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:02 PM Flag
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I would rather not do chemo and die sooner if I were going to die anyway. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:51 PM Flag
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Sometimes people have kids and want to last as long as possible. Big difference between dying with a kid who is 11 or a kid who is 14. If all my kids were grown and doing well on their own I might feel the same way. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:09 PM Flag
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+1 also, when confronted with death, we sometimes feel otherwise. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:59 PM Flag
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Agree. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:23 PM Flag
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That's what you say, but you would fight for your life. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:22 PM Flag
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I think I'd rather die a different death. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:52 PM Flag
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Well. Who wants to die of something else at 90? Jesus. we WOULD ALL FIGHT. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:23 PM Flag
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Nope. Everyone I knew with cancer that went through chemotherapy eventually died. Of course, some people make it, but not IME. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:10 PM Flag
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OK. But you would fight too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:23 PM Flag
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Yes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:58 PM Flag
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+1 stage IV colon, which was against ALL odds. know a woman doing stage IV melanoma for 3 years now. she might be another against all odds case. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:01 PM Flag
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So many, including one who had a rare, aggressive cancer and who was told he had months to live. That was (knock wood) more than five years ago. And I can think several women I know who underwent chemo and radiation for breast cancer and have been in the clear for more than five years. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:18 PM Flag
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Yup. Breast cancer has a pretty high survival rate because it tends to be caught earlier than a lot of other cancers. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:08 PM Flag
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Two were caught late and had already moved into the nodes but both of those women (former coworkers) are doing well. Also, the father of a friend was diagnosed with late-stage colon cancer and beat it, which was unbelievable. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:27 PM Flag
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Yes. Anything can happen, and most people decide that it was their own constitution, not the research and the doctors who saved them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:37 PM Flag
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Uh...not in my experience. My friend with the rare cancer would be dead without an innovative protocol dreamed up at MSK. The dad with the late-stage colon cancer had it all--surgery, chemo, radiation--and repeated the chemo at least twice. He would also be gone without it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:42 PM Flag
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Also because of the stage zero cancer scam [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:17 PM Flag
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What are you saying? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:37 PM Flag
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Well, but that is only fairly recent, meaning the last 30 years or so. Would you rather be the one to die now, or the one who lives another 30 years. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:36 PM Flag
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yes, 4 people. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:19 PM Flag
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My friend had sage 3 breast cancer. 3 years have passed since treatment and no evidence of disease [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:24 PM Flag
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Yes. Happens all the time. And patients take the credit. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:38 PM Flag
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My mom had a friend who is 85 now who had breast cancer at 60. she is still alive. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:33 PM Flag
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Yes, several. Mostly breast cancer, but one leukemia and one skin cancer. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:34 PM Flag
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OK. I get what you're saying but in the past when people got cancer they died SOON. Research is very important. Chemo may be a sledgehammer. But the research is very important. Otherwise let's just let our children die at 2 of preventable diseases. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:22 PM Flag
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YES..a friend's son, leukemia at 12, just got married last wkend at 27. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:38 PM Flag
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Is there a word like "ridded"? Why not just "rid"? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:52 PM Flag
[ - ] If you had a childfree wedding, would you let your future stepson (12) attend? Would you let him invite a friend? 57 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:29 PM Flag
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Yes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:18 PM Flag
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OMG- how is this even a question??? A childfree wedding does not mean you exclude your OWN children! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:25 PM Flag
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Yes, I'd invite him. And bringing a friend along would be a great idea...very gracious. They're 12, not 3. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:18 PM Flag
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Yes. I had a child free wedding and made one exception. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:31 PM Flag
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Np. this makes complete sense. especialy if the exception is drawn very clearly (stepson only, for example) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:20 PM Flag
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Yes to both. Children of the bride and groom should obviously be included, and it's nice to let him have a friend. Also, 12 year olds aren't as annoying as little kids anyway. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:20 PM Flag
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12 yos can be plenty annoying. I'd invite a friend, but I'd have a no phones policy for the two of them for the duration of the service and their time at the reception. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:37 PM Flag
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Haha, probably true - no one I know has a kid that old and I haven't been that young in decades. No phones just seems like basic manners at the service, but I wouldn't care at the reception - people use their phones for pictures, etc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:26 PM Flag
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They'd be sitting there texting each other or other friends. Huge issue with kids this age. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:39 PM Flag
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Meh, whatever, keeps them quiet anyway. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:42 PM Flag
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why no phones, it will keep them busy and out of trouble [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:02 PM Flag
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Obviously. Super bad way to kick things off if you leave him out. Inviting a (calm, well-behaved) friend will make things more pleasant for everyone. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:33 PM Flag
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Is this the grooms" son we are talking about. Yes, yes, but seat him with relatives, such as grandparents or aunts/uncles. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:21 PM Flag
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OP. Future husband doesn't have much in the way of family. Both parents are deceased. :( [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:44 PM Flag
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Sorry to hear that. Do either of you have any friends or relatives that you can ask them in advance? Do not spring this on them as a surprise [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:04 PM Flag
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OP. Absolutely! Future DH's best friend is stepson-to-be's godfather/honorary uncle, so that's a pretty good suggestion. He and his wife have a daughter around the same age; I'll invite her. At this point, I'm tempted to invite the entire freaking middle school just to make a point to my sister. (That's a joke... mostly.) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:57 PM Flag
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LOL [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:11 PM Flag
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OP. Future husband doesn't have much in the way of family. Both parents are deceased. :( [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:56 PM Flag
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OP. Future husband doesn't have much in the way of family. Both parents are deceased. :( [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:44 PM Flag
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OP. Future husband doesn't have much in the way of family. Both parents are deceased. :( [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:56 PM Flag
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Absolutely to both. I wouldn't dream of not inviting him and making sure he has a good time. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:23 PM Flag
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OP. My sister is the one who has a problem with me including my future stepson and his friends but not her toddlers! She thinks it isn't fair. IMHO, there's a MASSIVE difference. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:43 PM Flag
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Absolutely! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:18 PM Flag
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I agree. Toddlers do not belong at an evening wedding. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:41 PM Flag
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I would invite the stepson and let him choose a handful of friends to invite. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:47 PM Flag
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I'd say one would be enough. It's not a bar mitzvah. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:40 PM Flag
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You are clearly not ready to be a wife and step mother. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:40 PM Flag
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OP. My sister is the one who has a problem with me including my future stepson and his friends but not her toddlers! She thinks it isn't fair. IMHO, there's a MASSIVE difference. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:43 PM Flag
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You are right and your sister is wrong. That said, I can't imagine not including my nieces/nephews. I had a very formal NYC wedding w/o kids but I allowed a few that were near and dear. They were a non-issue. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:59 PM Flag
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OP. My sister and I aren't even that close! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:51 PM Flag
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+1 Our wedding was at a venue that is probably one of the most formal of its kind in NY and I couldn't dream of not having my own siblings' children there! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:19 PM Flag
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Same here. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:13 PM Flag
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who cares if she thinks it is fair or not, it's not her wedding [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:59 PM Flag
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Your sister is nuts. The grooms SON is different than the bride's nieces and nephews--regardless of their ages. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:00 PM Flag
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This. If you don't invite him, the relationship between the two of you might forever be strained. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:03 PM Flag
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OP. Future stepson is one of my fave people on the planet and the coolest kid ever. Future DH agrees. We are TOTALLY biased. ;) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:06 PM Flag
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Could you have him sit with you and attendants? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:08 PM Flag
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This. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:03 PM Flag
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OP. My sister and I aren't even that close! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:52 PM Flag
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Tell her it's child free with the exception of the bride's and groom's respective children. I'm assuming you don't have any, so that would be fiancé's son. Sorry, sis. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:17 PM Flag
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Your sister is a REAL idiot who is not looking out for YOUR best interest and your happy future. Don't listen to her AT ALL on this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:18 PM Flag
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Without judging, I'm afraid it sounds like that.... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:17 PM Flag
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Disagree. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:19 PM Flag
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He's grown at this age. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:48 PM Flag
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How is this even a question?! You would be a fool not to go out of your way to make your future husband's own child feel super comfortable at his own father's wedding!!!!!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:15 PM Flag
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If it's that important to your own sister to include her children at your wedding, why are you denying her this? A wedding should be a HAPPY occasion not only for you and husband, but for your entire family. You don't live alone and isolated in this world. If this will add happiness to the overall occasion and will help you start your new life on the right foot, you're being petty and short-sighted not to invite these kids. Is it really worth it breaking their hearts and changing the dynamic of your relationships forever? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:23 PM Flag
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NP: this is how I think, but clearly UB types think differently. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:14 PM Flag
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You are well-adjusted and have perspective. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:52 PM Flag
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np - seriously? I don't have a sister, but I could not imagine stressing out my sister before her wedding, just because I was too lazy to get a babysitter for my toddlers. Toddlers at weddings never work out well unless it is an outside daytime wedding. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:24 PM Flag
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you're an idiot and clearly too selfish. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:51 PM Flag
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i'm selfish for thinking my sister should have the wedding she wants? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:40 PM Flag
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IF, if, you had a sister and you were normal, you would want her kids to be there on the biggest day of your life. If you didn't, there would be something wrong with you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:58 PM Flag
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there are people out there that something like this would ruin their relationship forever? wow, it's one day - let the bride do as she pleases [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:25 PM Flag
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The bride doesn't want her own siblings' children there. What does that say about her view of family?! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:52 PM Flag
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she does not want any children - nothing wrong with that, you cannot make exceptions for one person (even if they are your sister) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:56 PM Flag
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i bet you don't have an ideal relationship with your family. no way if you think like that. no way. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:57 PM Flag
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huh? i have a great relationship with my family - it's you that I would guess don't have a great one since you expect everyone to bow to your wishes on how their event should be [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:59 PM Flag
[ - ] Anyone else annoyed at "pocket Ts" for women? I often find the perfect T, but it has a square, useless pocket affixed to one boob! 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:22 PM Flag
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We should all have your problems. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:37 PM Flag
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Yes but almost all t-shirts annoy me. Why hasn't anyone created a hip length, non-boxy t-shirt that doesn't shrink in the wash? They're all either too short or too boxy or both. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:42 PM Flag
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land's end? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:33 PM Flag
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Too short AND too boxy. And the fabric is too thick. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:48 PM Flag
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i don't think too boxy, maybe too short. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:06 PM Flag
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This. I rarely find tees that fit right. They never seem to get the proportions right for people that don't have the ideal midsection. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:01 PM Flag
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All Saints does a good job with this when they do a plain T. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:11 PM Flag
[ - ] Did the doctor take the selfie or not? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:21 PM Flag
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Who knows? I have heard of much worse. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:04 PM Flag
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Much worse than taking a selfie of a woman during surgery? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:17 PM Flag
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Yes, there are doctors who have sexually molested patients under anesthesia and have taken nude photographs of them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:58 PM Flag
[ - ] Would you take a chauffeured limo everywhere if you could? 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:18 PM Flag
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I do! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:32 PM Flag
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no. But i would love to have a driver that I could take when I want. But i like walking places. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:20 PM Flag
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Who takes limos besides cheeseballs like Donald Trump and kids going to prom? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:22 PM Flag
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Limo, never.mtown car, sure. But I'd still walk some places and might take the train sometimes (it's so much quicker for longer distances, like uws to TriBeCa) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:22 PM Flag
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Np. What kind of town car do you like best? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:48 PM Flag
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I could, but I don't. Would drive me crazy to pay a guy to sit by all day ready to drive. I see them parked all over my neighborhood. I'm fine with a cab or car service or Uber. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:35 PM Flag
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Limo, no. Car, yes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:24 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:29 PM Flag
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I think its a lot more convenient to have a car and driver if you have kids than if you don't . Just myself I love to walk especially when I have time. If you are dropping kids off and have another one with you and its 20 min walk away, driver would be awesome. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:36 PM Flag
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No. I grew up riding a limo all the time and looking back I think it's a bit tacky (and very 80s!) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:02 PM Flag
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No, too tacky and ostentatious. But if could have a driver now and then in a regular sedan, I'd love it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:11 PM Flag
[ - ] What are you doing on this lovely Saturday ? 22 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Bunch of chores done this morning (cleaned fish tank, etc.); taking DD to soccer game in a few; shopping for hiking clothes later in the afternoon. Boring, but has to be done. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:17 PM Flag
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About to go for a long walk after that not sure. It sure it beautiful out. Also finished all chores while kids did their homework. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:18 PM Flag
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I'm at the salon. Dh has dc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:20 PM Flag
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Lucky! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:45 PM Flag
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nothing [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:22 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:15 PM Flag
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Sitting home with sick kid, nursing hangover and cursing undone chores. DH had a work emergency and is gone for a few hours. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:23 PM Flag
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Home sick - catching up on Tivo, feeling miserable. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:13 PM Flag
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I'm too ashamed to tell, but it involves purging tons of things [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:29 PM Flag
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Food or belongings? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:33 PM Flag
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Laxative mom? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:23 PM Flag
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Colonoscopy mom? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:36 PM Flag
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Is your personal shopper coming over to go through your fall clothes toss the old stuff and make a list for what to buy this fall? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:45 PM Flag
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Out at the beach this weekend. Just back from a bike ride to town with kids for groceries. Sitting on deck. Dh will grill lunch soon, then hang on beach, nature walk. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:24 PM Flag
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That sounds kind of perfect - kudos [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:34 PM Flag
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How do you carry groceries home on a bike? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:20 PM Flag
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Playing with DD. These days she's fascinated by the sink and with brushing her teeth. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:26 PM Flag
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Splitting time between dd's IEA horse show and casually watching polo practice on the other field. Really beautiful day! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:45 PM Flag
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Driving to Philly from NYC with my husband and one year old to visit friends and FIL. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:54 PM Flag
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Just took a lovely bike ride. (Waiting for the flames from people who hate cyclists) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:08 PM Flag
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I only hate the ones who are in front of me, haha. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:11 PM Flag
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I'm quite sure we were no where near each other so we can save our mutual hate for another day ; ) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 05:15 PM Flag
[ - ] Focus on the promise not the problem. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:09 PM Flag
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What? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:30 PM Flag
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I am not OP but when I deal with the teenagers in my life I try to focus on their promise and potential once they get through this period of their lives as opposed to permanently branding them as "problem kids" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:38 PM Flag
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I have a feeling, though, that OP might mean something about marriage [ Reply | More ]
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NP -- Whatever she means, there are no sensibles who'd write this without an explanation. [ Reply | More ]
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That's what I do with my teen! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.20.14, 04:34 PM Flag
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When you dwell on the problem, you forget the promise. [ Reply | More ]
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