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General Topics 07.26.14, 01:06 PM Flag
[ - ] So ex takes me to dinner - haven't seen him I'm almost 2 years - he apologizes for everything that went wrong in out relationship and he kisses my hand good bye. I wake up to a text that says that he enjoyed seeing me and that he's thinking a lot about our conversation and then he goes away for a week with his new girlfriend. Thoughts on this? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 01:02 PM Flag
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He's trying to set things for the occasional roll. Don't think of it as a grand romantic gesture. He has a girlfriend. Think about it this way... If you were to reunite, he'd likely have the same dinner with his ex in a year. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 01:04 PM Flag
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He grew up and realized he had hurt you, was unfair, was a dick or whatever, and cared enough about you to apologize. At the same time, it is not about getting back together. Did it help you that he did this? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 12:55 PM Flag
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I would have thought that except that he texted me to say that he's thinking about out conversation like laying the foundation for more and the catalyst for dinner was that he saw me at a wedding and I was there with another guy and he had emailed me to say that he felt jealous hurt etc [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 12:57 PM Flag
[ - ] Need carpet suggestions for my daughters room. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 12:52 PM Flag
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Carpet or rug? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 01:01 PM Flag
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Me too [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 12:54 PM Flag
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Something that hides dirt and isn't shaggy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 01:08 PM Flag
[ - ] My new boss is a bitch who fired my old boss who's the nicest lady. Sigh.... 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 12:42 PM Flag
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Nice doesnt work in corporate america. Only evil people thrive like bacteria. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 12:58 PM Flag
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It especially seems true for women, unfortunately. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 12:51 PM Flag
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That is ridiculous - way to generalize. Maybe the "nice" boss wasn't competent and OP loved her bc she didn't drive results. Or maybe the new boss is a jerk. Either way don't say all women in corporate are evil. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 12:56 PM Flag
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OP: but I don't even work in corporate America; I work at a nonprofit. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 12:55 PM Flag
[ - ] Would you master ate in front of DH if he asked? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 12:40 PM Flag
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Sure. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 12:43 PM Flag
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I wish he would ask. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 12:56 PM Flag
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of course! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 12:56 PM Flag
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masturbate? yes of course, it usually is part of our foreplay [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 12:58 PM Flag
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Me too, but I wish dh would learn something and do it for me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 12:52 PM Flag
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Yes. I have - it's not part of our "usual" routine, but happens every now and then. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 12:54 PM Flag
[ - ] A coworker has been gone for a while but he is in another group so I didn't really notice. He sent a "goodbye since its my last day email". So he just disappeared... He has been there for over 7 years. He emailed from his work account. Was he let go or did he quit without notice? What do you think? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 12:31 PM Flag
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Quit, when people are let go, they don't send the email [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 12:32 PM Flag
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Really? Most people at our company have been allowed to send an email if laid off not fired for cause [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 12:50 PM Flag
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I would guess he quit [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 01:01 PM Flag
[ - ] Life is easier, less stressful when our family is NOT on vacation. Dh goes back to the office each day, stops questioning everything I do. We used fold-out beds (convertible couches). When I put the pillows back in the zippered plastic bags, he would tell me I should put one pillow in each bag. He wanted me to push the stroller, but would point out the path I should take-- we are talking about a difference of maybe two feet left or right. 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 12:06 PM Flag
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ocd? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 12:08 PM Flag
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OP: yes! I think he had no control over anything when he was a little boy, so he has OCD now. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 12:11 PM Flag
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Why would you put up with that behavior? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 11:58 AM Flag
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OP: I really hate it, but I try to focus on how pleasant my life is, when he is at the office or golfing. But thank you for at least confirming that he is a massive dickwad. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 12:12 PM Flag
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When dh gets like that I deliberately do the opposite of what he wants until he stops. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 12:02 PM Flag
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OP: oooohh! I love this approach. It actually works? See, I think my dh would become enraged if I tried that. But I would love to try it, in front of his friends and family maybe... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 12:25 PM Flag
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He gets angry and I tell him that I'll keep doing it until he stops because he doesn't stop when I ask repeatedly. Eventually he stops but only try if other approaches fail. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 12:21 PM Flag
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Thanks for the advice. Awesome. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 12:39 PM Flag
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Only a last resort. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 12:32 PM Flag
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sounds like my dh and the reason we are currently in therapy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 12:28 PM Flag
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Np. Don't use this approach, op. you will escalate things and he will feel justified in the way he treats you. You need to ask him why he tells you what to do when the outcome makes no difference. Tell him you can't sand it. He needs to know and you shouldbe direct. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 12:23 PM Flag
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OP: I have to use your words: the outcome makes no difference. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 12:55 PM Flag
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OP: congrats that your dh is willing to do/open to therapy. Do you know why your dh is OCD? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 12:41 PM Flag
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He's a control freak like my ex-h. Did he have an alcoholic parent or other addiction issues in his family? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 12:59 PM Flag
[ - ] Am I racist if I wish I were Jewish? 19 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 12:02 PM Flag
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No but you are a racist if you wish all X people to disappear. Your argument is its simply not your problem [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 11:53 AM Flag
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No, this has nothing to do with what is going on right now. I just really respect and admire Jewish families, their values. My best friend is Jewish. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 12:07 PM Flag
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You don't have to be Jewish for that. You can just use some of the values you like and integrate with your own traditions, lifestyle and believes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 12:00 PM Flag
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It's only bigotry when you dislike someone. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 12:01 PM Flag
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You can convert and embrace Judaism. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 12:14 PM Flag
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Though it's not easy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 12:05 PM Flag
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It doesn't sound like OP has religious reasons. Many Jews are secular [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 12:05 PM Flag
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I can declare her an honorary Jew. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 12:07 PM Flag
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Here you go OP. you may use whatever elements you like from now on [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 12:08 PM Flag
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I declare you OP to be an honorary Jew! As a native NYer Jew I have that ability. Mazel Tov! Use it well. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 12:16 PM Flag
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OP: hee, hee. You guys are great! Love you. When I was a freshman at college, I was a little anxious the first day, but my roommate's mother was so loving and kind and said so many encouraging words to me, she put me right at ease. This roommate is the one who is now my best friend. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 12:32 PM Flag
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Go with God. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 12:24 PM Flag
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(Not that I really believe that stuff but it's what rabbis say sometimes.) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 12:24 PM Flag
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Wtf [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 12:25 PM Flag
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Typical Jewish mom right? Puts you at ease, is empathetic, helps you move in, the type of person you want to emulate for the rest of your life.........right? Maybe? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 12:31 PM Flag
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She's just nosy [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 12:55 PM Flag
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No. She is and was lovely [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 01:01 PM Flag
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Anybody want to sell a bike lock to me for $5?, [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 01:00 PM Flag
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Whoops. Please ignore that. Wrong thread. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 01:00 PM Flag
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