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[ - ] I deleted his number tonight. So tired of guys who play games. If he wants me, he will have to work harder than this. What's an acceptable time limit for responding to a text? I say 24 hour, but 48 under special circumstances. I only gave him a few hours, but that's all this situation warranted. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 04:10 AM Flag
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you already know this one is done. find someone who likes you more. good luck. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 04:12 AM Flag
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It didn't help that I ran into an ex at the event this guy blew off. I just avoided ex awkwardly. Not my night. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 04:16 AM Flag
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I must have missed the original post. He ditched you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 04:18 AM Flag
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+1 sorry OP he's a jerk. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 04:18 AM Flag
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You are doing the right thing. If he wants you, he'll pursue you. That's that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 04:18 AM Flag
[ - ] UGGGGHHH Why did I procrastinate? Why didn't I work diligently on this all the way along? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 04:09 AM Flag
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we're like that. we're optimists. and we didn't give that much shit about it because it's really not THAT important. when it's important, i get it done. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 04:13 AM Flag
[ - ] Just heard from Penn State today...it's official, DS is going Ivy! So excited! 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 04:08 AM Flag
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You must be retarded and so is your DC. The results didn't come out today [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 04:11 AM Flag
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Our email was down yesterday. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 04:12 AM Flag
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Your email must be slow like you [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 04:12 AM Flag
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¿ [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 04:13 AM Flag
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Congrats! Your ds will love philly. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 04:13 AM Flag
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My DC goes to Penn State and it is a very good school actually. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 04:13 AM Flag
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Ita, penn state is an excellent value for a public university. Especially if you study economics at the Wharton School, it's truly a hidden gem. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 04:15 AM Flag
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No that Penn is 60K a year. We are paying out of state tuition of 24K for Penn State. For in state I think it is 10K. She is an agriculture major and is working in Washington DC State Dept this summer. Paid internship. She is only 18 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 04:17 AM Flag
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I'm assuming you mean Penn, and not Penn state. Penn State is not an ivy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 04:18 AM Flag
[ - ] Is there a place in NYC where I can just go scream and cry? 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 04:02 AM Flag
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This is why you need a car. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 04:04 AM Flag
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np: for a period of time I did this late at night in my car in Brooklyn. Can't say it felt very safe though. Always wondered if my neighbor's saw me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 04:09 AM Flag
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Central Park. What happened? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 04:04 AM Flag
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I think you can trust us. What is going on? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 04:05 AM Flag
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Yes, trust us. UB is a safe place, lol. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 04:06 AM Flag
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i don't think anywhere if you don't live by yourself. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 04:14 AM Flag
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Mid life crisis. I just need to scream alone. Maybe I'll rent a car. But I like to concentrate when I drive. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 04:17 AM Flag
[ - ] No flames, please. Who does the most natural looking veneers in NYC? Thank you! 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 03:51 AM Flag
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Natural looking and veneers do not belong in the same sentence. They're like fake boobs. People don't really want the natural looking stuff. They want to show what their money can buy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 03:55 AM Flag
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OK, but who does the best ones in nyc? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 03:59 AM Flag
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The irony is that you would never know, would you? If someone has veneers it is REALLY obvious. They are too white, too straight, too perfectly shaped. If someone had really good natural looking veneers, you would never know. You would assume they are real teeth because they aren't too white, aren't too straight and aren't too perfect. Who wants to pay for that? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 04:01 AM Flag
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omg, unclench! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 04:02 AM Flag
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omg, unclench! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 04:02 AM Flag
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Dr. Ahsen A. Butt [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 03:58 AM Flag
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I thought that was Dr. Ahsen D. Butt. Maybe that's his father? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 03:59 AM Flag
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That must be Sr. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 04:02 AM Flag
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I hate veneers! I stopped going to my dentist after my first appointment because she had blindingly white veneers. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 04:04 AM Flag
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Nobody does veneers anymore. Why don't you just get braces and then bleach your teeth? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 04:13 AM Flag
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OP: Guys I had to get veneers after an accident. Please try to understand. Just wondering who can do my replacements so they look more natural. thanks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 04:16 AM Flag
[ - ] Spironolactone for hair loss and/or acne. Anyone here with experience taking this drug? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 03:47 AM Flag
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Awesome for both. Makes you pee. dramatically more effective for acne than hair loss. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 04:00 AM Flag
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OP: Any other side effects? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 04:12 AM Flag
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I did. Did not work for acne. Just finished Accutane and skin looks good. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 04:11 AM Flag
[ - ] s/o - My husband is wealthy and I work. No, my job isn't life changing and I don't work at a non-profit, but I enjoy it and that's all that matters. Everybody (friends, colleagues, in laws) expect me to justify this. Colleagues resent me because I don't 'need' the job, friends and strangers suggest I dedicate my time to a non-profit or volunteer full time, etc. It is so annoying. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 03:46 AM Flag
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nobody actually cares. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 03:47 AM Flag
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Except, they do. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 03:49 AM Flag
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Why are you discussing your family's finances at with people? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 03:54 AM Flag
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My family's financial situation isn't exactly private or unknown... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 04:04 AM Flag
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No they don't. I went to an Ivy and have a ton of friends went t Ivy grad in law/biz/med who don't need to work and have amazing law/finance and medical careers with kids and no one resents them working. Bullshit story. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 04:04 AM Flag
[ - ] S/o someone mentioned getting hit on at the grocery store. What counts as getting hit on? If a man says something to you? 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 03:43 AM Flag
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they'll talk to you and tell you how pretty you are, how lucky your boyfriend must be, what's a pretty girl like you doing grocery shopping because your boyfriend should be buying you dinners, etc. they'll ask your age if you look young but act mature (becaues you aren't 25). you know. how can you not know? i'm aspie and even i know at some point. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 03:57 AM Flag
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Ok, just wondering if the produce guy makes a friendly remark that is considered hitting on you. I've always just considered it friendly. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 04:00 AM Flag
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is he talking to you longer than 8 minutes? he's hitting on you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 04:17 AM Flag
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LOL. 8 minutes? This has to be the aspie poster's response. That is such a random number and 8 minutes is a HELL of a long time! Try 30 seconds. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 04:19 AM Flag
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Um, this is the grossest thing I've ever heard. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 04:10 AM Flag
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those are the blatant ones. i've also had ones where i didn't even realize they were asking me out and i ended up on dates. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 04:18 AM Flag
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You really do sound aspie. That is not hitting on you, that is knocking you out and dragging you out. That is about as unsubtle and skeevy as it gets. Only an aspie would need to be clubbed over the head with cheesy lines to think she's being "hit on." [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 04:13 AM Flag
[ - ] Can you think of any other situations in which an adult would grow in height? Dh gained 3/4" from spine surgery, just brainstorming... 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 03:34 AM Flag
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Knee replacement straightened my cousins legs. He's now 2-3" taller.... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 03:45 AM Flag
[ - ] I have an opportunity to go to Cannes France for work this summer. But it would be a week Sunday-Thursday in June. It is a senior event and for exposure I want to go. But I really don't want to travel for almost a week during June. It is basically just entertaining clients and I would rather be around for my kids who are 5 and 3. WWYD? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 03:29 AM Flag
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Why not travel in June? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 03:33 AM Flag
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You better go. You will hate yourself for agreeing to it until you are on the plane and off the ground, maybe there, but you will be so glad you did and will enjoy every moment. It's ok. Just go, and deal with the anxiety until you get there. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 03:34 AM Flag
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Are you working as a yacht girl (AKA escort?). "Entertaining clients" is code for prostitute in those parts. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 03:35 AM Flag
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Go [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 03:36 AM Flag
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It's five days. You will regret not going. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 04:10 AM Flag
[ - ] Need to supplement my Passover seder menu, especially apps and desserts. Any recs for places on the UES? Thanks! 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 03:27 AM Flag
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you are kidding right? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 03:40 AM Flag
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OP: Not from here--never did seder before, etc. I know there are lots of places but wondering which are truly good and worth it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 03:46 AM Flag
[ - ] One antidepressant for the first time an hour ago and I'm exhausted and loopy. Anyone experience this? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 03:19 AM Flag
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No. You likely would have felt that way without the antidepressant. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 03:23 AM Flag
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Np. You don't know what you're talking about. Yes, antidepressants can make you very loopy, especially in the beginning [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 04:19 AM Flag
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Totally normal. Did you take a reduced dosage to start. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 03:36 AM Flag
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No. It didn't say to and I asked a dr friend and she said no bc it is the lowest. But I should have broken it b [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 03:40 AM Flag
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Which antidepressant? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 03:47 AM Flag
[ - ] Where should i go after work tomorrow to pick up. Iam 39. One kid. Divorced. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 03:17 AM Flag
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Omg I was thinking something very similar. No one to booty call, do I actually have to leave the house to go out and meet someone??? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 03:26 AM Flag
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Tinder [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 03:30 AM Flag
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lol. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 03:34 AM Flag
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Watching this. keep me posted. I got hit on at grocery store tonight with dc and I am no longer hot. That has not happened in so long. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 03:35 AM Flag
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LOL. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 03:40 AM Flag
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Not really hit on..but the guy stayed in my line when there was one open and goofed around with my 2 year old. That is the most romance I have had in 3 years. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 04:06 AM Flag
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Ok, I walked by around 30 gorgeous men tonight: A hockey rink around 98th and 1st ave. Does anyone know who was playing there? The had 4 refs and all in uniform (they were in their 20's and 30's) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 04:10 AM Flag
[ - ] Feeling very constrained by my marriage, children, work, schedule etc. I am a musician and thought I would have a less traditional life, just sick of the 6:30 rush to work/ school schedule, and then back at 7 every night for the routine, bedtime etc.I am bored. Bored with DH as well, bored in bed as well. Want to be tied up, drive a convertible across the country, sleep with women, get a tattoo, and sty up all night listening to rock music- Jesus, is this a mid life crises, hormonal? I am 43. How do you all deal with this? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 03:07 AM Flag
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You look at your children, who you love more than life and realize how much their lives would suck living that way. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 03:15 AM Flag
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+1. I also live a little vicariously through my kids. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 03:30 AM Flag
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Join a roller derby team. (worked for me) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 03:17 AM Flag
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I don't think Jesus is on UB. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 03:30 AM Flag
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i am in same boat but I do really enjoy dc and I really can't afford divorce and don't really have enough energy to work and have kids and go back to dating lifestyle. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 03:39 AM Flag
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how about grow the fuck up. this is why i'd never date artists. cannot grow the fuck up. it's always me-me-me with them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 03:58 AM Flag
[ - ] would you rather be brilliant or beautiful? 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Brilliant [ Reply | More ]
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brilliant [ Reply | More ]
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Brilliant [ Reply | More ]
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I am brilliant. Beautiful would be nice. [ Reply | More ]
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Brilliant. There are plastic surgeons for a reason. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 03:22 AM Flag
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I'm both now, but haven't always been beautiful. If I had to choose, I'd take beauty and an average iq any day. It probably would have gotten me much farther than being a dumpy brainiac did. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 03:30 AM Flag
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further [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 03:31 AM Flag
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I'm both and if I had to choose... beautiful. Having experienced how I'm treated based on appearances alone and the constant assumptions that I'm daft and/or incapable, I know how to deal with that and would rather keep it that way- in ignorant is bliss thanks to my reduction in intellect. [ Reply | More ]
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brilliant [ Reply | More ]
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Stay the way I am. Beatiful and very, very smart. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 03:36 AM Flag
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I am a relatively brilliant MD. Was attractive but far from beautiful. I think I would be rather be beautiful because then you get the perks and don't blame yourself for stupid things you do. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 03:42 AM Flag
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I want to be beautiful, sorry. If I could be funny and beautiful that would better than brilliant in my opinion. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 03:54 AM Flag
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if you had to be beautiful and stupid or genius and ugly, you should go with genius. makeup can make up for a lot of sins. not so much stupidity. but right now, i can probably use 1/4 less intelligence and 1/4 more beauty. in general, it pays to be a little smarter than everybody else and a lot better looking. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 04:11 AM Flag
[ - ] Just watched Going Clear Doc on HBO and wow, just wow. I have a hard time even believing everything is actually true bc it is so perverse and bizarre. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 03:01 AM Flag
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Now I feel like I'll be hunted down for writing that. I love you Scientology! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 03:02 AM Flag
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that's ok but you're a dying breed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 03:05 AM Flag
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Lot's of weird shit goes on in this world. I mean really. Look at all the women running around in Burkas and assholes flying planes into buildings and blowing themselves up. You're just surprised because it's white people. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 03:07 AM Flag
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Ha. This! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 03:45 AM Flag
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It is really fucked up, but I guess ppl are free to spend their money on whatever they want. It just sickens me that they get away with being tax exempt. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.02.15, 03:17 AM Flag
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What do you mean that "everything is actually true"?? Do you think Scientology is real? [ Reply | More ]
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