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[ - ] I'm so tired of looking at that ugly mug of Michelle Obama. Did she really have to be in the NYT for promoting healthy eating? Really? Was Laura Bush featured in the NYT six years into the presidency? They'll find any excuse to blow the Obamas' stick. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 08:33 AM Flag
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isn't that counter-productive? i mean looking at her has got to kill the appetite. oh, but that's conducive to whittling away excess weight. i get it now. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 08:28 AM Flag
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Exactly [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 08:32 AM Flag
[ - ] What happened to the shamettes? 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 05:09 AM Flag
[ - ] Good brand of rum? thanks 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:44 AM Flag
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captain morgan or something? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:47 AM Flag
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Mount Gay [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:50 AM Flag
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The kraken [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:56 AM Flag
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Bundaberg from Australia. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 06:26 AM Flag
[ - ] I cheated years ago, and I feel guilty every single fucking day. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:36 AM Flag
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boo hoo hoo [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:45 AM Flag
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As you should [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:41 AM Flag
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+100000 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 07:37 AM Flag
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Get over it or confess. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:44 AM Flag
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therapy [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:55 AM Flag
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Confessing is the selfish thing to do. Pls don't do that to your dh. Write in a private journal or just decide its over, it happened and you move on knowing it won't be something you repeat ever again. Btdt and it gets easier if you try to learn things about yourself and make some changes. GL [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 05:05 AM Flag
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Confessing means transferring your guilt onto your husband. Don't do it. If you had the balls to cheat you need to put your big girl pants on and live with it. Alone. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 06:05 AM Flag
[ - ] I've never watched the Sopranos. Tried a bit, but didn't like it. And I LOVE TV. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:30 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:23 AM Flag
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Saw the first episode the first night and was hooked [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:31 AM Flag
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Seasons 3 and 4 were the best IMO. The first two seasons concentrated too much on Tony's relationship with his mother. The (excellent) actress playing his mother passed away, so that character died on the show, and it got much better. The last season and a half were mediocre. Gandolfini really was magnificent in the role, and so was his counterpart Edie Falco, who played his wife. Their scenes together were like master acting classes sometimes. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:57 AM Flag
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Suggestion: Skip the very beginning of The Sopranos on DVD and go straight to the Season 1 episode called "College". It was about halfway through the season, but it's pretty easy to follow the plot. If that doesn't hook you, then you definitely won't like the show. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 05:05 AM Flag
[ - ] Would you send white dc to an all black school? 17 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:26 AM Flag
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nyet [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:27 AM Flag
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No. Contrary to liberal fairy tales, black people don't like you. I know too many whites who have sent their kids to schools with a high minority population only to have to pull them out and put them elsewhere. Other cultures don't like to mix like we do. Not racist, just the way it is. Try sending your kid and let me know how it works out. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:35 AM Flag
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it's not "like we do." it's more like "liberals think they do." [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:36 AM Flag
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also, might happen if black kids in the UK or the caribbean or africa. blacks american kids, no. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:37 AM Flag
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i would not send any kid to a school in which they would be the ONLY anything, if i could at all find a different solution. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:43 AM Flag
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being the only black or asian kid is fine unless racist white demographic. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:38 AM Flag
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I was the only black kid in my local private growing up. It didn't bother anybody, and this was the south. It has more to do with money than race. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:48 AM Flag
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that's what i would think but assholes here would be all up in arms about it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:56 AM Flag
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Where is there a rich, all black, public school in NYC? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:51 AM Flag
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More rich people are white. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 05:00 AM Flag
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This. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:38 AM Flag
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Yes [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:42 AM Flag
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No but I'll probably send DC to a school where they are a minority. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:44 AM Flag
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We did this. In Hawaii. School 18% white. Worked out OK. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 05:12 AM Flag
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No way. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 05:05 AM Flag
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no. I wouldn't send my dc to all asian school or all white school, either. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 05:16 AM Flag
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that's stupid. you should just send them to the best school. sometimes, they are practically if not actually all white or all asian. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 08:17 AM Flag
[ - ] I don't get how the sister wives can sgarw? 17 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:21 AM Flag
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SGARW? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:22 AM Flag
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Share [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:23 AM Flag
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I assume it has something to do with believing your only purpose on this earth is to produce children. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:21 AM Flag
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I would not actually do it, but I love the friendship aspect of it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:19 AM Flag
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1/4 of the sex/time/love. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:20 AM Flag
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Cody seems like a total creepo. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:29 AM Flag
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Seriously. He seems like a pedo. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:30 AM Flag
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He is so disgusting to me that watching that show makes me shudder. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:43 AM Flag
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He is so ADD [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:54 AM Flag
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I think that's considered part of it - learning to get over their natural feelings of jealousy and rivalry supposedly helps them become better, less selfish women, just as rising to the demands of treating all the wives fairly and managing multiple marriages and families is supposed to make the men better. the women say kids know parents love all their children equally; if monogamy is not the norm in your culture, sharing a husband isn't much different than siblings sharing a mom. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:23 AM Flag
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it is totally different. jealousy is a major problem and not always so easily glossed over. it's a woman's nature to not want to share her husband's resources/time. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:28 AM Flag
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I would prefer to have my husband to myself. I don't think you can really love several people like that at the same time. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:28 AM Flag
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i think repressed/suppressed jealousy is often a problem. but they are reared strongly to "keep sweet" above all else. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:31 AM Flag
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If it was with Cody I'd be giving my nights away. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:54 AM Flag
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I know! He is just SO gross. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 05:01 AM Flag
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I lived in Utah for awhile and knew a few polygamous families. It looks like it really works out for them. Most of the women were very, uh, homely looking. Don't know if they'd find a husband easily. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:49 AM Flag
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of course they would if they got a real haircut, a wardrobe, some makeup and a clue. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 05:05 AM Flag
[ - ] I took my son to the hairdressers tonight. Another of the hairdressers boy friends came in. He announces that he is going to get milk shakes does anybody want one. Naturally, all the children (3) including my son say yes. He offers to take my son with him. To my horror my seven year old said yes. I immediately said no, he can stay here. The guy said I am happy to take him. I said very firmly, my son stays here. Who the hell would let their kid leave with some strange guy. WTF? 45 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:14 AM Flag
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How many BFs does the hairdresser have? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:22 AM Flag
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It was the assistant and I think by the looks of her, she may have a few. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:16 AM Flag
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Oh, I see. It wasn't your hairdresser's other boyfriend. It was a hairdresser other than the one styling your hair's boyfriend. Sorry [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:20 AM Flag
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I may not have explained it very well, no worries. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:21 AM Flag
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Good opportunity to teach DS not to go with someone mom/dad doesn't give permission [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:22 AM Flag
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We discussed it after and he said because I was there he thought it was ok. I will have a further discussion with him over the course of the next few years!!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:18 AM Flag
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Definitely. His line of reasoning was in the right direction, just needs more specific instruction [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:28 AM Flag
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The guy was just being nice. Not that you did anything wrong by insisting he stay. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:16 AM Flag
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Some people don't think and some people are predators. Hard to know which one they are on a moments notice. I wouldn't have let my kid go either. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:16 AM Flag
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It is weirder that the guy tried to over-rule you. Not okay. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:17 AM Flag
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He's hairdresser's boyfriend. He does not have children. He is not tuned into a mother's paranoid mode. He was just being nice and you were being a protective mother. Let it go. He did absolutely nothing wrong. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:35 AM Flag
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There is nothing for me to do, it was just strange. First time for everything. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:36 AM Flag
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What? No way [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:42 AM Flag
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i probably would have let him go if there was no driving involved -- ie in the same shopping complex. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:29 AM Flag
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Hell to the no. You need to read "Protecting the Gift" by Gavin DeBecker. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:37 AM Flag
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you guys freak out too easily. what could have happened in the ten minutes they would have been gone in the same shopping complex? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:46 AM Flag
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You are joking? 10 minutes alone with a strange man that I have never met. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:40 AM Flag
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You should let your dh know that you would do that. I'm curious to know what he says. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:48 AM Flag
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he's be fine. what could happen in 10 minutes with some dude whose address/phone/name/birth is known to someone that i know? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:51 AM Flag
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Most children are molested by people who are acquaintances of the family. I don't leave my kid alone with anyone I don't know. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:54 AM Flag
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your logic fails b/c the man is not an acquaintance of your family. but it lends further support to my theory that nothing would happen. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 05:04 AM Flag
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You are an ass. I am not letting my child leave with a strange man for one minute. You feel free to let yours. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 05:03 AM Flag
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i do feel free. i might be an ass but your logic sucks ass. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 05:13 AM Flag
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Your common sense is missing. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 05:08 AM Flag
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no, your common sense is missing. fear, however, is there in full force. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 05:17 AM Flag
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How would you ensure that there was no driving. We live in NYC, it wasn't a shopping complex. 10 minutes is a long time, what does the mother do after 15 minutes, 20 minutes. Does she call the police and tell them she let her child leave with a complete stranger! You'd be flaming her on here if she did that. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:47 AM Flag
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wtf? you guys are nuts. if there is an ice cream shop five doors down, i would say, "if it's to xyz, that's fine." then i'd tell dc and the man, "you're just going to the ice cream store and back. i don't want you guys driving off anywhere so just come back if the store is shut." then if he's not back in 15, i go to the ice cream shop. i guess there's a chance he'd do something weird in the 10 minutes but i know his girlfriend, the girlfriend knows the man's name, address, birth date, etc. he'd have to be crazy to do something. maybe he is crazy. but if he's crazy, he might also get night vission goggles and stalk my house and break in in the middle of the night and kill everybody except my two kids and take them on some crazy cross-country journey. you guys keep being crazy, i'll let my kid enjoy some ice cream and show him that there are kind strangers in the world. maybe he'd grow up some day and do the same for some kid. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 05:02 AM Flag
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Your kid is going to wind up on a milk carton, you have very bad reasoning skills or you are just plain ignorant. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:56 AM Flag
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nope. you guys are just dumb. you don't understand statistics. your kid has a higher chance of dying from playing football than going for an ice cream cone with this guy. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 05:06 AM Flag
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You don't understand child molesters. A man offering my child ice cream in exchange for him to leave with him. That is funking crazy. You are nuts and need to take the rose tinted glasses off. There is no way a stranger should ask to take a child they don't know for ice cream. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 05:05 AM Flag
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a child molester doesn't molest a kid he just met in the first ten minutes when he has no idea what the kid might do in reaction and whose mother has access to his personal info. a child molester gets to know a kid pretty well before he tries something like this. this is not a 30 minute outing with a random stranger who happens to walk into the shop. it is a hairdresser's boyfriend. take a chill pill. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 05:11 AM Flag
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You take a chill pill with your child's life. I'll do my job and protect mine. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 05:13 AM Flag
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whatev. he'll get brain injury from horseback riding and football. my kid will get an ice cream cone. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 05:16 AM Flag
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I. Would. Have. NEVER. Let. Him. Go. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:42 AM Flag
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THIS! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:42 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 05:30 AM Flag
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over protective batshit insane mom [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:58 AM Flag
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all right! someone else who isn't ocd crazy. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 05:10 AM Flag
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Two trolls found each other!! Why not ask Adam Walsh's mother what happened when her kid went into the next aisle? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 05:06 AM Flag
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but it wasn't her hair dresser's boyfriend who asked if he'd like some ice cream in front of his mother, was it? that's more like letting him sit at the ice cream parlor by himself while i am five doors down getting my hair cut. duh. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 05:15 AM Flag
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OMG SOMEONE WANTED TO BUY ICE CREAM FOR MY KID BUT HE PROBABLY IS GOING TO SNIFF HIS UNDERPANTS [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 05:28 AM Flag
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Does none of you know what happened to Jamie Bulger: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Murder_of_James_Bulger [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 06:12 AM Flag
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again, these were strangers who kidnapped the boy. they were not an intimate of someone who the mother knew who ASKED to take the boy. paranoia in the extreme. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 06:13 AM Flag
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A stranger to the mum though. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 08:03 AM Flag
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it was a kidnapping. totally different. she did not let those kids take him. they took him surreptitiously while she was distracted. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 08:21 AM Flag
[ - ] What's your biggest regret? The best decision you ever made? 24 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:09 AM Flag
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Picking up the New Yorker Magazine about 7.5 years ago that had an article on this website called UrbanBaby. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:05 AM Flag
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Good one [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:13 AM Flag
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You're not kidding, this site erodes brain tissue [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:08 AM Flag
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What was UB doing in the NYer? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:20 AM Flag
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It was New York magazine [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:14 AM Flag
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Was just curious on why it was article worthy [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:27 AM Flag
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Huge article about the crazy ass bitches and the shenanigans that go on here. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:15 AM Flag
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Ahhh makes sense now [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:26 AM Flag
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LOL!!! I picked up New York Magazine about 6 years ago while in the waiting room to get laser hair removal. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:20 AM Flag
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I picked it up as well. I can thank the magazine for telling me about it. Of course, back then the site was so much more different than it is now [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 05:13 AM Flag
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Starting smoking when I was 21 because a guy with a smoking fetish dumped me. Staying with DH even though he wasn't ready to say I love you as soon as I was. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:13 AM Flag
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Marrying my first husband. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:09 AM Flag
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+1000 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:31 AM Flag
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Not marrying college boyfriend, although I was definitely not ready for marriage at the time [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:17 AM Flag
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biggest regret. hmmm. who knows. maybe not being born rich? best: going to alma mater. thanks, mom, for pushing me as hard as you did. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:13 AM Flag
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Not being born rich isn't a regret. You didn't have that choice to make. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:25 AM Flag
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really? wow. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:29 AM Flag
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What? I'm saying one's socioeconomic status at birth isn't an option. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:31 AM Flag
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amazing! truly. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:34 AM Flag
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Not joining Google in 2001. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:17 AM Flag
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That's rough. But Yahoo seemed unstoppable back then. Who knew? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 05:23 AM Flag
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Giving up my "about to blow up" career in fashion when my mother died. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:29 AM Flag
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Were you a model? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:31 AM Flag
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regret: partying too hard in undergrad. best decision: working my fucking ass off at mba and taking the bull by the horns. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 05:30 AM Flag
[ - ] Crazy thought, but would the DOE allow you to trade G&T placements with another willing parent? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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NY Schools 06.20.13, 04:08 AM Flag
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That would be too much like common sense....so, no. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:09 AM Flag
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This [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:12 AM Flag
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I owuld bet no [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:16 AM Flag
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No, not fair to the next kid down on the waiting list. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:17 AM Flag
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What does it matter? Even swap? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:20 AM Flag
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If you are giving up a spot, the next kid down on the list should get it. Not somebody else of your choosing. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:30 AM Flag
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It shouldn't matter. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 04:41 AM Flag
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I pretty much would bet an 'absolutely not' on this, even though it would so make sense and hurt no one. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 06:52 AM Flag
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