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[ - ] Has anyone noticed that millennial men's mannerisms seem almost gay? They all uptalk and almost vocal fry and are easily excitable. It's odd. 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:39 PM Flag
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No. There are 300 million people in the U.S. There may a demographic where the mannerisms "seem almost gay" as you describe it, but it's not universal. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:41 PM Flag
[ - ] Is 3000sq feet enough for 4 kids? Pregnant with twins. Have two kids now so we're looking at 4-bed rowhome. 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:24 PM Flag
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We manage in 1400 with 3 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:24 PM Flag
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3 kids or people. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:28 PM Flag
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We have 2500 in the city and it's perfectly fine. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:24 PM Flag
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Open layout? This place is pretty dated but we could update over time. It has a closed off kitchen though. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:26 PM Flag
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Yes it's enough for 6 people. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:27 PM Flag
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Not looking for that much coziness. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:31 PM Flag
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Not living on top of one another is one advantage of living in the first world. Dh and I lived in 3300 and DC are in college. It's not bad. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:37 PM Flag
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I think so too...DH is on the fence. -OP [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:32 PM Flag
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3000 square feet is enough for 8 kids. You are spoiled. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:36 PM Flag
[ - ] Random question - anyone try the step-by-step gyoza/dumpling/peking ravioli how-to that was on reddit the other day? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:23 PM Flag
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My late ex mil was Japanese and taught me to make them when I was a newly wed. Still one of my favorite things to make and eat. Love gyoza. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:28 PM Flag
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^^ I also saw that post and it looked good. I don't add as many onion things as they did though....green onions, onions, AND chives. I just do green onions, garlic, ginger, and cabbage [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:30 PM Flag
[ - ] I posted last night about having sex with my ex-husband. He broke up with her. I guess I'm a home-wrecker now? Wow. 20 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:12 PM Flag
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Don't sound so proud of yourself, wacko woman. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:13 PM Flag
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I'm not "proud of myself"? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:19 PM Flag
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He broke up with her? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:15 PM Flag
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Apparently. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:19 PM Flag
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guess so [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:15 PM Flag
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How did you find out? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:15 PM Flag
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He texted me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:19 PM Flag
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What did you respond with? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:21 PM Flag
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He wrote, "I broke up with her," and I said, "Oh?" and he hasn't written me back. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:23 PM Flag
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Time to give it another chance I guess! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:27 PM Flag
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Maybe you should give this a chance second time around. Sounds like that's what both of you want [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:15 PM Flag
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Isn't this what you were hoping for? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:16 PM Flag
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I wasn't hoping for it, and I'm feeling pretty guilty about screwing up their relationship, but there is that part of me that kind of hopes we could... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:29 PM Flag
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I think that poor fiancee dodged the bullet of having to deal with two psychopaths [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:18 PM Flag
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This. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:30 PM Flag
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Nothing like reminding him what a great piece of ass you are. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:19 PM Flag
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i don't think you can be a homewrecker if it was your home to begin with [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:19 PM Flag
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Um,he's her ex. Not her "home". She lost it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:30 PM Flag
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That's OK. He needed a nudge to move on. Are you thinking of trying again? Be honest with yourself. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:27 PM Flag
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Sleeping with an ex is so trashy. Why bother getting divorced?? You couldn't have paid me to have sex with my ex. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:31 PM Flag
[ - ] I am growing to hate my kid more and more every day. She has adhd, sensory issues, needs a special school, special meds and doctors which is all fine and I do because I am her parent and it is my responsibility to make sure she has everythubg to be successful. But the day to day with that kid just make me want to leave and never come back. I Hate my life so much! There are no happy moments in being this kid's mother. 24 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:55 PM Flag
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I wouldn't want to be in your shoes. But for your own sake you need to take some time to yourself. So you can recharge and decompress. Do you have an hour to you every day? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:57 PM Flag
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I do. I have time for myself. I dread picking her up from school. It is exhausting [ Reply | More ]
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How old is she? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:58 PM Flag
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7 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:59 PM Flag
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I do think it gets a lot easier around 9yo [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:00 PM Flag
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I hope so. I do feel for her. I am her mother and it is so hard for me to Tolarate her. I don't think kids like her get much love from others. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:02 PM Flag
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Adderall. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:59 PM Flag
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Fake [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:00 PM Flag
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Go away. I am not in the mood for you [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:01 PM Flag
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To be successful? Successful in what? It doesn't sound like that's in her cards. You have a dud, it happens. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:05 PM Flag
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My dud have a higher iq than your special snow flake. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:07 PM Flag
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Probably, because I really do have a special needs child, and your post is insulting. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:18 PM Flag
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Yes, you are the only woman under the sun with a special needs kid and all posts from parents venting about their kids are secretly aimed to insult you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:24 PM Flag
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Can you connect with parents from the school? It would be nice if you could vent to people who can really relate. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:05 PM Flag
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Thank you! That is a good idea. I feel bad venting in real life. A lot of her classmates have it worse and their parents seem to be so much more positive and patient win them [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:15 PM Flag
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That's interesting. What kind of special meds and doctors? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:06 PM Flag
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Is this the mom having the affair? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:14 PM Flag
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? No. I do not have respect for people who have affairs [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:17 PM Flag
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What type of behaviors? I feel like my mom felt like this about me and I was just sensitive and creative and a little mental too (slightly bipolar) but one thing I have always known is that my mother does not like me. Don't do this to your child. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:19 PM Flag
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I am trying..: some days are harder than others. How is your relationship with your mom today? When did you start thinking she doesn't like you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:25 PM Flag
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Since I was like 7 or 8 and my personality started to come out -- I was a dark and moody child. I am also adopted. She's a perfectionist, extremely uptight and a very unhappy person is all I can say. Today she acts like she knows better about parenting lavishes gifts on her grandchildren and makes backhanded statements to everyone. The comfort is that my sister now agrees with me about her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:32 PM Flag
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I think you need a support group that is not UB. I'm sorry--must be very hard. Can one of the therapists connect you with a parents' group? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:32 PM Flag
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Both Her psychologist and psychiatrist have me a list. I should really go. I didn't like the one from the school. All the parents are dealing with things so much more severe that I just felt like a whinner. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:36 PM Flag
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This. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:38 PM Flag
[ - ] I was raped in college. I had sent the guy sexually related IMs days before, and I had wanted to have sex with him, but then when it started I chickened out and told him to stop. He forced me. I don't think this was any less of a rape. 23 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:53 PM Flag
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It isn't - that's terrible, and even worse if some has made you feel like it was something less than rape. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:55 PM Flag
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Thank you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:58 PM Flag
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Well did you walk around your campus with the mattress on your head? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:00 PM Flag
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No, but I wish I had done something looking back. I doubt I was the first or the last. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:01 PM Flag
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LOL [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:32 PM Flag
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How long ago was this? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:00 PM Flag
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Many years ago, why? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:02 PM Flag
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Five spaceyears ago [ Reply | More ]
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This happened to my sister with her high school boyfriend. It was awful, he seemed like such a nice guy. She broke up with him but never told anybody but me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:01 PM Flag
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It was 100% rape, and he was a complete asshole. OP sounds like an insecure mother who is trying to protect the asshole men she might have raised [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:11 PM Flag
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My sons are fine. Their only exposure is the nutty girls being unleashed on the world by their nutty overly-involved mothers. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:33 PM Flag
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lol just sterilize you boys, you'll not have to deal with unwanted pregnancies [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:39 PM Flag
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Can you more detailed about how he forced you? Where were you? What did he do and how did you fight back? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:17 PM Flag
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Oh go fuck off pervert!!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:40 PM Flag
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I am glad you prosecuted. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:19 PM Flag
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Similar happened to me. I cried and begged him to stop. I bled for days. Still traumatized. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:23 PM Flag
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Similar happened to me. I cried and begged him to stop. I bled for days. Still traumatized. [ Reply | More ]
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CSB. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:32 PM Flag
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Zzzzzz [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:32 PM Flag
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Yeah so, lesson learned. Bet you didn't do that again. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:33 PM Flag
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You are an asshole. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:37 PM Flag
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Who are you people? I seriously wish bad karma on you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:41 PM Flag
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Love and hugs to you. Please, don't let the MRA AVfM troll ruin your day. Don't give him another thought. You are a beautiful person and you didn't deserve what happened to you. It absolutely was rape. Go have a lovely day. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:42 PM Flag
[ - ] I am 41 and starting to realize I would look much better if I knew how to apply makeup better. I wear very minimal right now. Any suggestions on someone who could teach this? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:51 PM Flag
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Tammy Faye [ Reply | More ]
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you are me. am watching this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:01 PM Flag
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ask someone you know who has great makeup, or look on yelp. make an appt. i found a great person at niemans through nars and she taught me a lot (not in nyc though). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:17 PM Flag
[ - ] Took ZOFRAN . iM STIL NAUSEAS. i SUFFER FROM Gerd. zOFRAN IS NOT HELPING I FEEL QUEASY STILL 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:47 PM Flag
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Why are you taking Zofran? it's for nausea caused by surgery or cancer meds. Do you have a prescription for a GERD drug? "Zofran (ondansetron) blocks the actions of chemicals in the body that can trigger nausea and vomiting. Zofran is used to prevent nausea and vomiting that may be caused by surgery or by medicine to treat cancer (chemotherapy or radiation). Zofran is not for preventing nausea or vomiting that is caused by factors other than cancer treatment or surgery. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:58 PM Flag
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Zofran is often used for morning sickness too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:07 PM Flag
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np I was given Zofran for morning sickness. [ Reply | More ]
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+ [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] DH, thought he was just a metro sexual, seems Bruce Jenner's inspired him, he got his eyebrows done with his Saturday mani, a first. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:46 PM Flag
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Hi Trollie! Don't have a date tonight? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:47 PM Flag
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my dh gets manicures. [ Reply | More ]
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awesome! that's precisely what Bruce wanted, tolerance and understanding [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:57 PM Flag
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Have fun with that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:34 PM Flag
[ - ] Gave dh a blow job last night and he tasted clean and like coffee. As if he had showered within the last few hours (he didn't at home, he got home later than usual) and coffee. I thought it was strange, but then it occurred to me this morning that he could have gotten a blow job from someone who had just had coffee. WWYD? 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:42 PM Flag
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The Barista at Starbucks....I always hear a sucking sound there...now I know why.... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:48 PM Flag
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Ew wtf [ Reply | More ]
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Did he finish in the usual time or take longer than usual? [ Reply | More ]
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Masturbation with coffee hands? [ Reply | More ]
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wtf is coffee hands? are you dipping your hands in your coffee? [ Reply | More ]
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Was it Decaf? Cream & Sugar? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:53 PM Flag
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The cream came later, ba-da-bum! [ Reply | More ]
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What was his reason for getting home late? [ Reply | More ]
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mocha? [ Reply | More ]
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short espresso? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:58 PM Flag
[ - ] I'm at my wits end-- DH & I both have stomach viruses and oldest DD (4) will not play independently, poured baby powder over herself and DS1 (2) and has been back talking/screaming at us all day. I would never admit this to anyone, but since this is an anonymous board-- I really, really dislike my DD right now. How can I curve her behavior? She isn't responding to positive reinforcement or time-outs. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:40 PM Flag
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Step 1: turn on Netflix. Step 2: take a nap. [ Reply | More ]
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They won't settle down enough for TV, iPads, books, etc. [ Reply | More ]
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Really? If you put on a tv show they love they still won't leave you alone? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:53 PM Flag
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Find something they like. Frozen. There goes two hours [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:59 PM Flag
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Face it. Today sucks beyond your control. Move on. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:18 PM Flag
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Not responding to positive reinforcement and time outs. Imagine that. Smack her ass, and set it down I'm front of a video. 4 is old enough to keep her shit together for a few hours. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:35 PM Flag
[ - ] Ladies, please share any positive stories about kids that have "beat" autism. Gone on to college, careers, "normal" lives. Thanks. 22 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:32 PM Flag
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where on the spectrum? makes a big big difference.... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:39 PM Flag
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My nephew, so I don't know All the details but he tests well, is moving to normal kindergarten next year. But he's 4 and only speaks a little and has tantrums. [ Reply | More ]
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Schools says he no longer needs behavioral therapy, only speech therapy. [ Reply | More ]
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Please don't say "normal kindergarten." If you care about your nephew, learn the proper, sensitive terms, and don't ever use the word "normal." [ Reply | More ]
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OP is right. Enough with this PC crap already. If 90% of the world population had autism then having autism would be normal and not having it would be abnormal. I hate people like you. Always trying to spin negative shit to positive. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:00 PM Flag
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means less restrictive environment, which is the norm. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:20 PM Flag
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His mom used the word normal. I'm sure she cares for him more than you do. [ Reply | More ]
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+1000 autism is a huge spectrum. There's no one prediction that fits all. [ Reply | More ]
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Almost every guy I've met at Stanford (grad school). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:59 PM Flag
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LOL [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:03 PM Flag
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true story! and a TON of them were after me without me being interested, so the relationships evolved into unusual friendships. so just ask! I remember them all and know how they are doing now. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:12 PM Flag
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"normal" lives... Not really, but almost anybody would consider them "successful" professionally. They all seem to suck at building long term relationships with women. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:18 PM Flag
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the few non autistic Stanford grads I've met were in a few departments: law, music, ... and that's about it. even the business school was chock full of aspies. forget about engineering, stats, math, physics, computer science... spectrum galore. i'd say even philosophy, linguistics and comp literature had many aspies. [ Reply | More ]
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My son is high-functioning spectrum and has gone to progressively less supportive schools and is making progress. It is exhausting though and I do worry. [ Reply | More ]
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how much of your exhaustion is related to your worry? say somebody guarantees you that's going to be ok, would you relax a bit and get less tired about it? [ Reply | More ]
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I am not even going to dignify that with an answer. There's no magic wand. I am doing all I can do for him and it would be unfair to assume if I did the "right" thing he would be ok. [ Reply | More ]
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lol [ Reply | More ]
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Thanks! [ Reply | More ]
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Half of the tenured professors in academia [ Reply | More ]
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MORE!!! [ Reply | More ]
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Friend's father was a math professor at top 20 university. Would never have guessed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:30 PM Flag
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I don't know if you can beat it. It's not one condition; it's a huge range from people who could pass for normal and even brilliant to others who are barely functional, with no language. My friend works as a special ed teacher with the latter, but I do know dcs with less severe cases who have done very well. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:31 PM Flag
[ - ] Anyone heard of a condition brought on by strep called PANDAS? Anyone know a child that had this? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:29 PM Flag
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Yes., Ped thought maybe add had it a few years ago when she developed tics [ Reply | More ]
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Can you tell me what treatment plan you followed and what have been the results? [ Reply | More ]
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It went away after a few weeks. No tx. [ Reply | More ]
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yes, you definitely want to treat the strep with antibiotics. Wait a week and if dc still has tics and still test positive for strep, you should do another round, possibly stronger. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:40 PM Flag
[ - ] What do you think is the best tasting bottled water? Not tap water. 19 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:27 PM Flag
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Water from my Soda Stream. Love that stuff. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:28 PM Flag
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Me too. Best gift ever. [ Reply | More ]
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Either Fiji or the flavored Glaceau sparking water. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:30 PM Flag
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Does that have calories? [ Reply | More ]
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There may be little micro organisms floating around in it. So yes, if you're counting minute calories, this is not the water for you. Strain your water. [ Reply | More ]
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whaat lol [ Reply | More ]
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PP: it's true! If people want to cut calories, they shouldn't eat or drink at all. :) [ Reply | More ]
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zero calories [ Reply | More ]
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Anything but Evian. [ Reply | More ]
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Evian is the worst [ Reply | More ]
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+ 1 seriously! [ Reply | More ]
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Evian tastes cloudy to me. I don't mind it though. [ Reply | More ]
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Poland spring or fiji [ Reply | More ]
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Dasani [ Reply | More ]
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blech [ Reply | More ]
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+ 1 I love it [ Reply | More ]
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fiji duh [ Reply | More ]
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Nanny? [ Reply | More ]
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Voss in glass bottle. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:57 PM Flag
[ - ] Thoughts on that Columbia University mattress girl? Turns out she was texting her alleged rapist "fuck me in the butt" the day before their tryst... not a good look. 139 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Scholars: Would this constitute "affirmative consent" in CA or not? [ Reply | More ]
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Who is the father of Paul Nungesser? If the alleged rapist had been minority he would have been investigated right away. Sounds like his family is a Columbia donor. [ Reply | More ]
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Smells like it. NYC moms: Does anybody know who the family of this Paul Nungesser is? [ Reply | More ]
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German family. [ Reply | More ]
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This woman is crazy and deserves everything that's coming to her. [ Reply | More ]
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"'fuck me in the but,' she said bluntly during one Facebook exchange." God I hope my DD acts like this when she grows up. What kind of parents did she have? [ Reply | More ]
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oops meant hope my DD NEVER acts this way. jesus. [ Reply | More ]
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I guess it's cool to be so on top of this stuff. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:25 PM Flag
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Uh this story is national news. Why do people always support the most unsympathetic victims? Rape is awful but this girl and the UVA one just seem like huge phonies. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:27 PM Flag
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Because I can discern between real stories and the sensational stories? I'm not going to apologize for that. And, this crap just adds to the thinking that rape isn't real. I hate this stuff. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:30 PM Flag
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So do you think this story is real or sensational? There are plenty of clear-cut cases we can get behind but instead this girl with her theatrics takes attention away from real problems. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:37 PM Flag
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I haven't caught up on this particular story. All I know is that for every crap story, there are a hundred legitimate stories behind it. We shouldn't give this stuff notice, as OP wants to do, because it limits how we approach real problems (and there are many). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:39 PM Flag
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Rape in ivy-league campuses not being properly investigated by the Universities IS A REAL PROBLEM!!! I wish you were the raped one. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:44 PM Flag
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Why is it the university's job to investigate a CRIMINAL matter? If she went to the police and there was evidence, they would prosecute. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:51 PM Flag
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Because the universities encourage the student to come to them. Because the universities are in charge of expelling the assailant. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:59 PM Flag
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What standards should they apply? Just expel anyone accused without evidence or a proper trial? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:01 PM Flag
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They try to keep everything hush-hush. It's a travesty. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:03 PM Flag
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You want her to be raped by an Ivy League campus? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:06 PM Flag
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Sounds like a compliment. I need some TT sperm donors. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:07 PM Flag
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Not the place for "jokes", asshole. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:09 PM Flag
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"In lieu of any formal finding, Paul Nungesser had paid a social cost. “He has gotten used to former friends crossing the street to avoid him,” Ariel Kaminer reports in the Times. “He has even gotten used to being denounced as a rapist on fliers and in a rally in the university’s quadrangle. … His name has been plastered on campus bathrooms and published in easily searchable articles. His face is visible online, too, in photos that detractors have posted as warnings to strangers.” Because Columbia failed to discipline Nungesser, Columbia bloggers, activists, and supporters have stepped in to exact their own punishment, and national media has fanned the flames." http://andrewhammel.typepad.com/german_joys/2014/12/a-german-exchange-student-in-the-middle-of-a-campus-rape-shitstorm.html [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:51 PM Flag
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This is absurd vigilante justice that has no place in America. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:25 PM Flag
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Gtfo. I know she msg on fb all sorts of crap but not that. This I'd also why I don't believe in date rape. There is rape with force/violence and then there's regrettable consensual sex. Moral lesson: tell dd and ds to not engage in casual sex. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:25 PM Flag
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I think there can be non violent rapes where someone is plied with drugs or has their drink spiked. Sounds like this girl just got mad that the guy wasn't into her texting that she loved him 100s of times and he tells her to "bring cool girls" to a party. That must have stung. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:29 PM Flag
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If there's drug involved, then it's forced. But don't drink with a practical stranger. There have got to be so many cases like this. There was a popular jock in my umc who had regrettable sex. She never screamed "Stop! Rape!" but was conflicted and unhappy the next day. Two lives screwed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:39 PM Flag
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People will disagree with me, but unless you're black out drunk and the other party is relatively sober, it's hard to call it rape. Many people drink on dates. I've even been quite drunk with men and slept with them, but they were drunk too. If they went to the cops saying they regretted it the next day, they'd be laughed out of the office. If there's no power imbalance, nobody is taking advantage of the other. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:43 PM Flag
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Getting a girl drunk to have sex is still rape. If Paul Nungesser or any frat boy engages in the same crimes as Bill Crosby, it's still rape. Regardless of the fact that they are rich white frat boys. They should go to jail as well. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:43 PM Flag
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What if the guy is drunk too? Why are drunk men held to a higher standard than drunk women? Unless there is force involved, it takes two to tango. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:48 PM Flag
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If the man is drunk, they are legally victims of each other and therefore it is a level playing field [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:55 PM Flag
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Not true, a man was recently expelled in just this scenario (both parties were very drunk): http://www.slate.com/articles/double_x/doublex/2015/02/drunk_sex_on_campus_universities_are_struggling_to_determine_when_intoxicated.html [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:59 PM Flag
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WTF? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:21 PM Flag
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bottom line: alcohol shouldn't be used as a beautifier and sex enhancer [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:00 PM Flag
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Humans have drank and fucked throughout history. It is perfectly normal. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:01 PM Flag
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There was a case at Harvard where the woman had known her assailant for two years. She thought they were having a drink (as a group) over winter break and he roofied her and another student. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:51 PM Flag
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most rapists attack women they know, same with pedophiles. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:01 PM Flag
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Alleged rapist Paul Nungesser is going after Columbia, the weird thing is that everybody else thinks that Columbia was too soft investigating rape cases along with the rest of the ivy-leagues. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:29 PM Flag
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he's obviously trying to destroy the victim's character. wondering whether Paul Nungesser will succeed with the other 4 girls who came forward testifying against him as well. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:30 PM Flag
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How is it an attack on her character to show she literally asked him to engage in that sex act with her and proceeded to contact saying she loved him for months and months after the alleged "rape." [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:32 PM Flag
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Therapist: Not uncommon. Sexual advances prior are irrelevant and many victims attempt to pretend as if it never happened by attaching to their rapist. Seen it more than once. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:48 PM Flag
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So basically he has no defense. If she cut off communication it'd be due to rape trauma, but if she acts attached it's due to rape too. Do you think it's fair to ruin someone's life based on he said/she said? That is not justice. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:52 PM Flag
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Rape cases are difficult, but claiming this nulls anything is ridiculous. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:56 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:02 PM Flag
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So rapes should only be prosecuted if the traumatized victim is able to go straight to the police, without washing, and having an invasive rape kit done, which just happens to provide physical evidence, if she's "lucky" enough to have his DNA in her private areas? That's justice?? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:59 PM Flag
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Yes. Better to let the guilty go free than put innocent people in jail. That's the fundamental principle of our legal system. If there is no evidence then how can you prove it beyond a reasonable doubt? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:03 PM Flag
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You're an animal. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:06 PM Flag
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You are. You believe in mob justice. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:07 PM Flag
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Nope. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:09 PM Flag
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You believe someone can just say a bad thing happened and get a person shunned from their university or arrested. How is that fair and not ripe for abuse? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:10 PM Flag
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You need to read the actual research. People don't report rapes that didn't happen. The stats are INCREDIBLY low. The "problem" you present here is misleading and trying to control the conversation so that anyone who disagrees with you is portrayed as stupid or sticking their head in the sand or in favor of "mob justice." You are wrong and you know it but you don't want men to lose any of the power they have held for so long. It's pathetic. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:14 PM Flag
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If any innocent people get put away or expelled due to this policy, then it's wrong. We could do away with tons of crime of all types by making standards for conviction lower, but it's not right to do. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:18 PM Flag
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This! Most cases of rape go unreported. Bet many women who were raped don't even accept that they let it happened. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:02 PM Flag
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SURVIVOR. "Victim" is an outmoded and impolite term. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:32 PM Flag
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I think that's fair of him. They're sponsoring this "art project" when he wasn't even found guilty by the lesser standards applied in a university disciplinary board, let alone a criminal trial. I couldn't walk around with a sign claiming somebody is a child molester with no proof. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:31 PM Flag
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that's the issue, isn't it? that he has not found guilty even though 5 girls testified against him BECAUSE the university did not investigated. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:33 PM Flag
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Please. The other girls complaints were about things he did like grind up on them at a party, not rape. Is this guy a jerk? A cad? Maybe. Not a rapist. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:35 PM Flag
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Assault, at least. Which is still a crime. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:36 PM Flag
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You are an idiot. Everybody knows what happens if you're dancing in a frat basement. That's not assault unless it's unwanted and the guy continues. How do you feminists expect people to get together and mate? Two people sit across from one another at a table stone-cold sober asking "may I touch your hand? may I touch your arm? may I kiss you? may I touch your breast? the other one? . . ." [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:39 PM Flag
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Unwanted touch is assault. Take a rudimentary law school class and you'll learn the same. I didn't dance in frat basements because it wasn't my scene. Even if I had, I wasn't "asking" for unwanted touch. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:41 PM Flag
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So how should somebody know you want the touch before doing it? Read your mind? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:44 PM Flag
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You sound super slow. You don't know how to read human communication? Do you grow up with wolves? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:46 PM Flag
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You don't think people misinterpret signals? You're holding people to an absurd standard. If you don't say no or fight back, how can you expect someone to know what you want? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:47 PM Flag
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You need to grow up. Get back to us later. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:49 PM Flag
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"Take a rudimentary law school class and you'll learn the same." I know! She sounds like the mother of a guy who's been accused of rape. Trying to defend something that can't be defended. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:03 PM Flag
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It's an MRA, probably male. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:07 PM Flag
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LOL believing in taking responsibility for yourself isn't an exclusively male trait. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:08 PM Flag
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Run along, now, Trolly. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:10 PM Flag
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Who's trolling here? The girl with the mattress dragging someone's name through the mud? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:32 PM Flag
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exactly. wonder what kid of women tends to white-wash rape the most, those who suffered it but put up with it without reporting it? or those who have a close family member accused to rape? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:41 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:02 PM Flag
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http://i.imgur.com/ImY0DdY.jpg oh what a victim! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:31 PM Flag
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Watch the Film "The Hunting Ground" (showing at Sundance now). It is more representative of the epidemic of rape at colleges, particularly how frats prey on new freshman in the first weeks and months of school. Seriously everyone should see this film. The mattress girl is only given a passing glance in this film probably for good reason. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:31 PM Flag
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How about the movie "The Hunt" which touches on how people form witch hunts against those accused of awful things with no semblance of due process? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:34 PM Flag
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Actually in this film we see how the institutions' main concern is their bottom line and reputation and how they sweep these cases under the rug and STILL try to persuade victims to drop their cases. They give actual, recent statistics of how many accused student rapists have actually been expelled (very few - and some were given slap on the wrist punishments like having to miss a day of school or write an essay or make a poster on respecting women). I graduated college in 1995 (big state school). There is a 20-year veteran campus security head from Notre Dame who quit over the school's obstruction of justice. There was the conservative, Southern father whose daughter committed suicide over her rape that her school would not pursue. I am sure if you are a conservative you won't be able to watch this film and find it on that is a particularly "liberal agenda" or inflammatory film [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:44 PM Flag
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I don't think it's right to expel someone based on he said/she said. I believe in due process, yes. If there is a criminal investigation or physical signs of an assault, then absolutely let the law deal with it and kick them out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:46 PM Flag
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So the woman has to physically resist a man who's assaulting and raping her, risking her safety even more? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:01 PM Flag
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Or try to run away, yes? Unless the guy has a gun to your head you can say no or run away easily. It's hard to believe that something is so traumatic when the "victim" doesn't take even basic steps to extricate herself from the situation. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:05 PM Flag
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Animal. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:10 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:21 PM Flag
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Mean to say that I graduated college in 1995 (big state school) and knew NUMEROUS women who had been victims of sexual assault. It was really horrifying to see nothing has changed and that my alma mater is one of the schools being investigated by the Feds for administrators not handling sexual assault cases appropriately. There is also the issue of sports teams - did you know that on some campuses the police may not arrest a student athlete on athletic fields before a game. So one perp hung out in the gym so he could play 2 games before being apprehended. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:47 PM Flag
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Agree totally. My DF was raped at an AEP frat party at UPenn. Those state school frat boys are entitled pricks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:52 PM Flag
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BUT they are enabled by the institution, that disregards the girls when they report being raped and don't even have procedures to make sure that the victim doesn't have to encounter the rapist in the classes she attends. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:04 PM Flag
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Exactly. Paul Nungesser is just the tip of the iceberg. A culture change is what's needed, among parents of male students and also among the admins at ivy-leagues. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:34 PM Flag
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What about the parents of female students? Why should women text guys asking for anal sex, hook up with them, get drunk and then months later call it a rape when he doesn't return her calls? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:36 PM Flag
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your dh can rape you, having exchanged hot messages doesn't cancel the rape if he indeed raped you. can't believe this is so difficult for women to grasp. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:40 PM Flag
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It makes it less likely that she's telling the truth. Maybe she is. But most people don't text hot stuff to people and not want to actually fuck them the next day. There's no proof that what she's claiming is true, while there is at least some evidence pointing to a consensual encounter. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:49 PM Flag
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Do you realize how LOW the stats are on false reporting? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:02 PM Flag
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I'm talking about this particular report. She claimed it'd be "too hard" to pursue a legal case but had the energy to carry the mattress around? She knows she has no case. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:06 PM Flag
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"It makes it less likely that she's telling the truth" Not really. Most rapists and pedophiles attack victims they already know, not strangers like in the movies. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:05 PM Flag
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She sounds like a scorned lover. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:09 PM Flag
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This is an example of an anecdotal fallacy. Come back after you have seen the film we are discussing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:48 PM Flag
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If my boyfriend forces me to have sex with him, is it not rape? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:50 PM Flag
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It is if there's physical force. Not if you have 2 glasses of wine, don't really want it but go along anyway, but don't way no or push him away. Calling that rape cheapens the experience of real rape survivors. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:57 PM Flag
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Not really. It provides an incentive to men to make sure that what they are doing is consensual. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:08 PM Flag
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Only yes means yes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:08 PM Flag
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This is retarded. Nobody does this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:13 PM Flag
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"May I thrust again?" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:14 PM Flag
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Keep repeating yourself and posting multiple replies to appear not to be alone, troll. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:16 PM Flag
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Sorry we didn't all go to Oberlin. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:19 PM Flag
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You may be surprised to know that I went to a very small, very conservative, evangelical Christian college. Assmunch. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:32 PM Flag
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Why are you so mad? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:35 PM Flag
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And now you're trying to play the "hysterical woman" card. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:37 PM Flag
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I play the cards I'm dealt, sweetie. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:41 PM Flag
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It is rape of course. The moron that's trying to defend Paul Nungesser might only believe you if you have recorded the rape on video. This is just like white morons believing the police when they killed unarmed people in the street. Their disbelief is rooted in the certainty that they will NEVER be victims themselves. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:07 PM Flag
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There is no epidemic of rape. Just don't drink. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:39 PM Flag
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Hi, MRA. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:54 PM Flag
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+1 no sympathy for girls who get shitfaced at frat parties and jersey chasers [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:54 PM Flag
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what are frat houses still opened anyway. they have 0 to do with education. just close them and moved those low IQ - high muscle guys to community college. problem solved. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:09 PM Flag
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They're at practically every college. It's not all low IQ. Just don't drink and/or have casual sex. That's the lesson for everybody, boy or girl. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:14 PM Flag
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Please, you sound like a Puritan. Drink and have sex all you like, just don't say it's rape when you have a bad experience. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:16 PM Flag
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In all for having drunken casual sex, if you agree to never claiming date tape the next day. But if you want to avoid regrettable scenarios, don't drink and/or have casual sex. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:18 PM Flag
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Is he German? A German guy at Stanford used to have sex with girls while they were sleeping, forcing his way. In Germany that might be considered "sexy", a cultural difference. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:33 PM Flag
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YUCK!!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:41 PM Flag
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I believe the accused person in this case is a German exchange student. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:49 PM Flag
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Yep. It might be the case that in Germany women don't have as many rights when it comes to consensual sex as they do in USA. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:09 PM Flag
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I am German, I have not found my fellow German guys to be rapists. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:11 PM Flag
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Really? wow. Surprising, huh? I'd bet rape is very low in all the Germanic countries. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:24 PM Flag
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It is. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:26 PM Flag
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Bizarre racist comment. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:15 PM Flag
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I was raped in college. I had sent the guy sexually related IMs days before, and I had wanted to have sex with him, but then when it started I chickened out and told him to stop. He forced me. I don't think this was any less of a rape. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:47 PM Flag
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Sorry. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:53 PM Flag
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It wasn't any less of a rape. I'm sorry you experienced that. Thank you for speaking up. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:05 PM Flag
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It was 100% rape, and he was a complete asshole. OP sounds like an insecure mother who is trying to protect the asshole men she might have raised. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:10 PM Flag
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how did he force you? did he have a gun? were you in a deserted house 20 miles from another person? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:11 PM Flag
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do you understand the way physical force works? have you ever met a man? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:13 PM Flag
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Fucking asshole. Go back to A Voice for Men. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:17 PM Flag
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Did you scream, "Stop! Rape!" Women have to learn to make themselves clear. Very, very clear. You didn't want to make the guy feel bad and you felt a little guilty. That's why you shouldn't engage in casual sex. That is the lesson. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:17 PM Flag
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Okay, I'm calling troll on this one. Or are you run off from /r/redpill? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:21 PM Flag
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Oh it was so traumatic I'd have to tell him to stop and that might be awkward! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:24 PM Flag
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Do you realize what the actual fuck you are doing right now?? OR, please don't read any more. You don't have to listen to this asswipe MRA pseudo-human post multiple times trying to make you feel bad about yourself over something that was done to you. And I'm reporting and then getting off this thread now too, as it is CLEARLY a troll and not someone who's just uninformed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:21 PM Flag
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Casual sex? Husbands can rape you, so can boyfriends, friends, etc. In fact, the most likely person to rape a woman is a male friend. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:22 PM Flag
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Being raped by my husband would be FAR preferable to rape at knifepoint. OR could have avoided the entire scenario had she not wanted to play the sexy flirtatious sex-positive liberated coed. Don't play with fire lest you get burned. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:27 PM Flag
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why are the most prominent campus rape cases, also the least sympathetic? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:08 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:13 PM Flag
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Because campus rape is a fake epidemic. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:17 PM Flag
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ITA. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:19 PM Flag
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+1M. I have sympathy for rape victims. I don't have sympathy for women who've been raped in situations where they've contributed to the rape, by getting hot and heavy with the guy then 'chickening out' for example. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:38 PM Flag
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The Rolling Stone one was worse than this. Like completely fabricated with no research or evidence. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:33 PM Flag
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Even if they are false accusation, at least they are starting the conversation. That's what's really important. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 09:34 PM Flag
[ - ] DH and I was doing some Dr/Nurse play last night and I think he was channeling Dr. Dre when he said "now it's time for the doctor to check your ass." I started laughing and killed the mood. :( 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:13 PM Flag
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lol. a long time ago, my exbf asked me to talk dirty and I was giving a hand job so I just blurted out "I'm churning the butter." we both looked at each other and just started cracking up. needless to say mood was killed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:23 PM Flag
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Lmfao [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:25 PM Flag
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Lmao [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 08:24 PM Flag
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