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[ - ] Tales from Europe... my sister told me about another lady at her university in central Italy (a grad student) who dated an African guy for a few months. This "destroyed" her reputation around campus to the point where the only guys who would talk to her were other Africans, and she ended up transferring to a different university to finish her studies. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 11:14 PM Flag
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Flagged and banned for racism. Blacks are murdering like crazy and you want to talk about how they date? Please leave UB. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 11:17 PM Flag
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This. [ Reply | More ]
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We're talking about social norms in Italy, not crime in the US. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 11:19 PM Flag
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Flagged for racism. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 11:20 PM Flag
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African Muslims are on a truly unprecedented gang rape rampage in Italy. Of course Italians would find your friend revolting http://www.express.co.uk/news/world/610376/woman-gang-raped-refugee-camp-activists-Italy-border-France-Ventimiglia [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 11:22 PM Flag
[ - ] Where does Humas son go to school? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 11:14 PM Flag
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Brearley [ Reply | More ]
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Liar. He's at Hogwarts. [ Reply | More ]
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Don't you think that kid has enough problems? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 11:22 PM Flag
[ - ] Ugh. Went to college at U Chicago and all my friends are in Chicago. So easy to get married there and buy a condo. One bought a beautiful place in a doorman condo in the best location in Chicago for 390 a square foot. That same condo would be 2 thousand a square foot in Manhattan 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Also, average UMC woman there is about 12 pounds heavier. Friends can eat what they want and not have to be thin all the time. And I can't get over the fact that doorman condos can be one fifth the price of Manhattan.... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 11:02 PM Flag
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So move there? [ Reply | More ]
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Can't. DH job keeps us stuck in NYC [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 11:05 PM Flag
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I seriously doubt condos in Chicago's best hood are 400 per sf. Maybe "best location" is something gentrifying or has shootings only every other day. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 11:09 PM Flag
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I believe her. Chicago is shockingly, disgustingly cheap. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 11:10 PM Flag
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I am the OP. My friends bought in the John Hancock tower which is indeed in the very best location on Chicago. Condos there do indeed cost 390 a square foot. Sad [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 11:15 PM Flag
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What do they rent for? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 11:20 PM Flag
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Because every one knows that living in a doorman condo is the apex of human civilization. Why would you even try for anything else? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 11:11 PM Flag
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This. I would rather pay 3 thousand a square foot in Soho than 400 a square foot in Chicago [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 11:16 PM Flag
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Sounds cold. brrr [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 11:14 PM Flag
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Yes, but you are in Chicago. [ Reply | More ]
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This. It's still Illinois. [ Reply | More ]
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Yup. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 11:18 PM Flag
[ - ] HELP! Dog just took a shit on my BRAND NEW stark rug! ARGHHHH!!! What do I clean it with???? I don't have anything in the house -- I got the poop off it but a huge stain…well need to send out professionally of course but what to do now? Salt? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:59 PM Flag
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Troll juice. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 11:02 PM Flag
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What kind of dog do you have? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 11:06 PM Flag
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All dogs poop to my knowledge. Mine loves rugs for whatever reason (np). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 11:12 PM Flag
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Dish soap and water [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 11:19 PM Flag
[ - ] Regarding private K applications, does it matter if I submit them now, next week or Ina month? And do the essays make an ounce of difference? I'm not sure my DH and I are going to survive this. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:52 PM Flag
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Some schools run out of spots for interviews, so the earlier you get the application in, the better. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:55 PM Flag
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YES. And the essays matter. They want to make sure you are not a nut. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:58 PM Flag
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Which ones run out of slots? Only know of Trinity so far. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 11:10 PM Flag
[ - ] I feel I am an "immature" person. Partly genetic and possibly aggravated by the fact that I am a physician and have spent a zillion hours just studying or working. What kind of things can I do to become more mature? 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:50 PM Flag
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Samples of your immaturity? [ Reply | More ]
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op: I am middle-aged and well-read but I think talking to me without seeing me you would think I was a teenager. No one complains about it but I just feel young and naïve. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:56 PM Flag
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Genetic? [ Reply | More ]
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op: My parents seem very young and their thinking is childish. [ Reply | More ]
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NP: I'm not a scientist but maturity is something that is gained through knowledge and experience. Just like I don't think there is an "asshole" gene, I don't think there is a maturity gene. [ Reply | More ]
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op: My relatives are really immature. Like children. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 11:11 PM Flag
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Stuff like this can be an on-going cycle. Doesn't make it genetic. You should know this as a doctor. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 11:13 PM Flag
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op: I think it is genetic. Like a missing chip. I didn't get it nearly as bad as some of the relatives thank god. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 11:18 PM Flag
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Impulsive and low IQ? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 11:14 PM Flag
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op: Yes!!! Bad decisions, divorces, bankruptcies and no remorse. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 11:17 PM Flag
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That's funny - I have a close friend who feels the same way. He just followed a proscribed path through early adulthood and never had to make any decisions for himself or experience the normal ups and downs of life in your 20's. The remedy: go out and take risks and learn everything the hard way, like the rest of us did. [ Reply | More ]
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I have a friend like this; a lawyer. I think part of maturity is allowing life experience to shape you and seeing more "shades of gray" rather than having to fit everything into the category of good/bad, black/white, right/wrong. The older I get, the more I realize how important this perspective is to cultivating wisdom and maturity. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 11:19 PM Flag
[ - ] I feel really bad for her. Clearly, she doesn't want to give up her marriage, but her DH leaves her no choice. His sexting has tanked his career, and will probably tank hers, if she doesn't let go. Then what will happen to the kid? Ugh! 22 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:44 PM Flag
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+1 If I ever found myself in her position it would feel like a death. I don't even want to imagine. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:46 PM Flag
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"Like a death" Not sure I can say it better than that. well said. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:46 PM Flag
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Absolutely. Losing a marriage is hard under any circumstances, but to have it play out publicly would be agonizing. Then, at some point, the kid's classmates are going to tell him that his dad was involved in a scandal and he'll see the pictures and be humiliated by it. That my DH would risk putting my DC through this would be devastating. She has really tried to make it work, but he's beyond help. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:52 PM Flag
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Yup. She tried to make it work. She could have dumped him years ago. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:54 PM Flag
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Did you read the news today? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:46 PM Flag
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Yes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:47 PM Flag
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I actually have a whole different (maybe conspiracy) take on this. What if that blind item was true and the marriage was just an arrangement? What if she was fine with him doing this? Yes the kid thing is totally gross, but what if we're blaming him and he really didn't "cheat" since this was all a marriage of convenience? Honestly I just think that because I don't believe any woman in her RIGHT MIND would marry that creep unless they had terms. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:49 PM Flag
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would stay with my DH through sexting IF it didn't mean public embarrassment, IF it didn't hurt my career, or hurt my boss. She and her boss are too well-known, and she cannot stay. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:51 PM Flag
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Lots of marriages are somewhat "convenient." She was not at all OK with him doing anything that would affect her career. If I didn't care I would tell DH to go to Thailand alone and do it really anonymously. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:53 PM Flag
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Lots of marriages are somewhat "convenient." She was not at all OK with him doing anything that would affect her career. If I didn't care I would tell DH to go to Thailand alone and do it really anonymously. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:53 PM Flag
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pp: If she didn't care about him cheating at least hide it well and not ruining her career and humiliate her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 11:01 PM Flag
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Or maybe divorce to help her save face. What a mess. [ Reply | More ]
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pp: He should have warned her so she could divorce. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 11:06 PM Flag
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Agree! WTF, man! You're a politician! You know how the game goes. At least give her a warning before you tank her! and possibly, her boss! Idiot! [ Reply | More ]
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pp: I wonder if he is passive-aggressive and kind of wanted to screw her and HRC? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 11:12 PM Flag
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OR- I honestly, 100% think they had an arrangement and she was fine with it. Only thing that changed this time was he got caught with their kid in the photo, and we're 2 months from the election. If he got caught with generic sexts on November 30th, this wouldn't have been an issue and she would have stayed (again). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 11:15 PM Flag
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If they had an arrangement, then why would he f---k it up? You make no sense. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 11:20 PM Flag
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What? My point was that he did fuck it up, which is why she's leaving him [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 11:21 PM Flag
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No. He's just addicted to sex. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 11:21 PM Flag
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She really had no choice with this one. I bet HRC wants to strangle Weiner. She should save her murders for this one. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:57 PM Flag
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Zero choice. In the middle of the campaign. Ugh. He just can't control it. They will have to divorce. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 11:01 PM Flag
[ - ] My bus home just took off a parked car's side mirror. What do you think is going to happe to the driver? Written up? Fired? I fee bad for the guy... 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:41 PM Flag
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^^^feel [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:42 PM Flag
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Absolutely nothing! It's called a union. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:46 PM Flag
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It's NJT if that makes a difference... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:48 PM Flag
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If they fired every driver that had a minor accident they would have no more drivers. I'm sure this is really common. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:50 PM Flag
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Accidents happen. An incident report will probably filed with the MTA so they can cover their own butts and apply the insurance. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:48 PM Flag
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^^and I imagine that NJT operates the same way. [ Reply | More ]
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Wtf nothing. It was an accident a mirror is nbd [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:49 PM Flag
[ - ] If you liked sapphire rings (i.e. please don't tell me you don't like the ring!), would you want one like this? I know this sounds crazy but it just looks *so* similar to Princess Diana's/Kate Middleton's and I don't want people to think I'm copying. Also this is not the exact ring. 19 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:39 PM Flag
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Yes! It's beautiful! [ Reply | More ]
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i like sapphire rings, but i don't love this one. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:43 PM Flag
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Same. Too gaudy. [ Reply | More ]
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You will be a joke if you wear this ring. [ Reply | More ]
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why do you say that? [ Reply | More ]
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Because it is really ostentatious and not elegant. [ Reply | More ]
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Because it's too much like the Diana / Middleton ring. People will make fun of you behind your back. [ Reply | More ]
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Agree. DF at work has a much more elegant sapphire ring. Google images and find something else. [ Reply | More ]
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Oh it's on sale! OP get on this [ Reply | More ]
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$350K!!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:59 PM Flag
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That's beautiful! [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:48 PM Flag
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Boring. There are beautiful sapphire rings out there in more interesting settings [ Reply | More ]
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Love!! [ Reply | More ]
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I like it! I have an oval one with somewhat bigger diamonds and love it! [ Reply | More ]
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^^^ by the way, the one that Kate has is a classic so it's not like she can lay claim to it. [ Reply | More ]
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I like the sapphire but hate pavé and cushion settings. Is this for an engagement ring or something else? I have a 3-stone engagement ring (sapphire, diamond, sapphire) on which I get a lot of compliments. You could do the reverse and have a larger sapphire between two diamonds. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 11:20 PM Flag
[ - ] You text your husband at 4 and say "do you have your normal appointment at 5 today? If so, I will expect you at 6:30." He responds by saying "no, I'll be home by 6." What time does he get home? 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:21 PM Flag
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6 or later if something came up at work or if there is traffic?? why is this a big deal? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:22 PM Flag
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Because it's a trend. Never, ever, ever home when he says, for years and years on end. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:23 PM Flag
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so? maybe he works while you play and complain [ Reply | More ]
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HEY! Being home all day IS work! [ Reply | More ]
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Oh, yes. Forgot. [ Reply | More ]
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Who gets home at 6? What job allows that? [ Reply | More ]
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Most? Not every job is being a spreadsheet jockey at a bank where you stay until 10 every night to avoid your wife. [ Reply | More ]
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10? [ Reply | More ]
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6 or before. He does not have the appointment. [ Reply | More ]
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This [ Reply | More ]
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7pm. Because he knew he could stay a little later at work because he didn't have his appointment, and then he started something that took longer than he had expected. I know because this is me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:57 PM Flag
[ - ] How do you join UES Mommas group? Do I need a reference from one of you ladies? Any secret code to give me? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:20 PM Flag
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Look for it in FB and click "join" [ Reply | More ]
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I've tried, they won't take me [ Reply | More ]
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You need another member to accept you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:35 PM Flag
[ - ] Blonde and tan, i.e. Britney Spears, does not age well 20 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:19 PM Flag
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you crazy. she looked great. [ Reply | More ]
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I HATE when the skin is darker than the hair. But she looked amazing. [ Reply | More ]
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I love it. Especially tan blonde kids. I keep mine pasty though. [ Reply | More ]
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kids is a different story. talking about trashy bleached hair with overtanned skin. [ Reply | More ]
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They look healthy. City kids look like mushrooms. [ Reply | More ]
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Lol [ Reply | More ]
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Ugh [ Reply | More ]
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pp: I am a doctor and my kids are genetically fair and we have lots of skin cancer in the family. [ Reply | More ]
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She looked great. [ Reply | More ]
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considering she is now mid 30s, she doesn't look bad. but i think she's looking "hard" [ Reply | More ]
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Her body is amazing and her face looks good/ok for 35. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:34 PM Flag
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Anybody see Debbie Gibson lately? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:34 PM Flag
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She just isn't what she was as a performer. lost her luster. Sad! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:36 PM Flag
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A couple of shit marriages, two kids, and a mental breakdown will do that to you. Never mind she's on medication and still under conservatorship. She'll end up dying on stage wearing a cheap showgirl outfit and a pair of hooker boots. [ Reply | More ]
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It's all pretty tragic. I suspect she really did want love and thought thst Federline would be loyal. Instead, he was just a user. She came unraveled after that and the friend who was potentially drugging and also just using her and really can't trust anyone. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 11:12 PM Flag
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As opposed to you? [ Reply | More ]
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K. Let me guess. white women don't age well. I am black and I look better. Oh wait....I am fat! That's why my face looks sort of OK, and my body is for shit.... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 11:08 PM Flag
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Leave Britney alone [ Reply | More ]
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I saw this black woman on the street. She had one of those Hoverrounds. She was OBESE. She literally was sucking off one of those SUGAR bombs. I don't know what it was, some sort of soft sugar. So disgusting. And she was throwing it on the street. Her DH who had literally 3 teeth left was just as disgusting. Ugh. [ Reply | More ]
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Hmmm. White people don't look or act like this. Nope. Not at all. Certainly not in APPALACHIA. Or, I don't know, the MIDWEST. Certainly nowhere there is METH and/or OPIODS. Uh huh. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 11:14 PM Flag
[ - ] Shot in the dark. A while ago someone posed a link to comfortable shoes that were kind of chic. The name was a woman's name I think - unusual. Any ideas? I vaguely remember that the designer is a former dancer? Not sure though 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:15 PM Flag
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Manolos [ Reply | More ]
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this is what i found from googling - aminah abdul-jillil and phil laduca, and burja perez. [ Reply | More ]
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Thank you! None of those but I'll look at these! [ Reply | More ]
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Anyi lu [ Reply | More ]
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That's it! And they're having a 40% off sale! Thank you!! [ Reply | More ]
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Oh wow I see she's closing her business, hence the sale [ Reply | More ]
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Taryn Rose [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:25 PM Flag
[ - ] If you are at a restaurant with DH and you almost tip the table (and all the drinks on it) over on DH, is it normal for DH to look angry after the near miss? He didn't say anything, but looked angry and gave me a look- I thought it was unnecessarily mean since it was a mistake and nothing was actually spilled. 18 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Not very kind or compassionate [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:16 PM Flag
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almost normal. be thankful he didn't snap or make a scene. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:16 PM Flag
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What? He's abusive. Divorce him immediately. [ Reply | More ]
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Not sure if serious or trolling [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:20 PM Flag
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Lol. Amazing [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:20 PM Flag
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Did he say anything? Or stay mad? Or was it just a look then over? Seems like you're being over sensitive. If you were drinking or being careless it would definitely be annoying... [ Reply | More ]
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He didn't say anything or stay mad but gave me a sharp 'wtf?-type' look. I hadn't been drinking yet. We just got our drinks. [ Reply | More ]
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Get over it. Wtf is right! Be careful [ Reply | More ]
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He sounds like a real jerk! He should have been asking you if YOU are ok. [ Reply | More ]
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Nope, totally normal for an adult woman to act like a six year old and tip over tables in restaurants. [ Reply | More ]
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By tip over table, I mean that I needed more room and pushed the table away from me. I pushed too hard and the drinks almost fell off the table. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:20 PM Flag
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You're an embarrassment. I have been to a few restaurants in my day and have never pushed a table away from me hard enough to spill drinks. Why do you need to be coddled? You fucked up, just own it. [ Reply | More ]
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i would do this... i hate this about myself and am trying to change it. it's leftover from a childhood of having a dad who could not tolerate anyone making mistakes that were human. i am hardest on the people i am closest to, mainly my dh, and am working very hard on fixing it. maybe that insight helps... [ Reply | More ]
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This sounds really awful. What an uncaring DH. Wow. If he acts this way over merely spilled drinks, how will he act next time something really big happens? Explode? This is no good. Terrible sign. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:21 PM Flag
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He's probably annoyed about something else and this was just the crap on the cake. [ Reply | More ]
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this - plenty of times I might give an annoyed or exasperated look if a near miss like that happened, but it's because other things were also a shit show that day [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:28 PM Flag
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this is the most horrific response to something so small. is your dh abusive in more ways? [ Reply | More ]
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This thread is strange. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:35 PM Flag
[ - ] I call Huma and Weiner 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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I guess I'm not the only one who reads BG...that makes me feel a little better. :-P [ Reply | More ]
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+1! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:20 PM Flag
[ - ] On vacation with DH and dcs. Just ran into a couple we know, they're here alone for 10 days. They have a 3 month old baby. To each their own but I'd never be able to relax being away from such a young baby for that long... 36 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:12 PM Flag
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As you say, to each their own. Don't pass judgment on people. You don't know their reasons for doing what they do. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:13 PM Flag
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Reasons for going on vacation are pretty straightforward... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:35 PM Flag
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Ita [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:13 PM Flag
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jelly [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:13 PM Flag
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You're on vacation for goodness sake. Why are you on here and why do you care what others do? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:13 PM Flag
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This is my mindless veg out junk food for the brain... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:16 PM Flag
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Get back to your family and your vacation surroundings. Stop gossiping about others. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:17 PM Flag
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DH is swimming, dds are sleeping next to me. Why do you care what I do? Lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:18 PM Flag
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You're gossiping in a mean spirit. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:18 PM Flag
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I didn't say they're awful parents. I said I couldn't relax if I did what they're doing. Sorry it struck such a nerve with you [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:20 PM Flag
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You implied there was something wrong with it. That is judgement. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:23 PM Flag
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Op literally said nothing about them except for stating a few facts and then her own feelings. Stop trolling [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:36 PM Flag
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Get back to having your own fun. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:15 PM Flag
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Jesus, you're on vacation and still on UB? Yikes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:18 PM Flag
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Sad! That's a huge chunk of a little 3 month old life to be missing! Who is with their baby? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:18 PM Flag
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Nannies [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:20 PM Flag
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They are awful, awful people. You certainly sound like a superior mother and human being. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:26 PM Flag
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They're not awful people, just awful parents. Lighten up! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:34 PM Flag
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ITA! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:19 PM Flag
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Mind your own business. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:20 PM Flag
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To each their own, but I'd never be on vacation with DH and dcs and spend time on UB. I would find that pathetic. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:24 PM Flag
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Except in this case they're on vacation, OP is there... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:32 PM Flag
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You're better than them. There, see how easy that is? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:24 PM Flag
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It's true! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:34 PM Flag
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I know someone who did this when baby was that young. I later found out they were undergoing treatment for an illness they kept very private. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:27 PM Flag
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You're a better mama [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:27 PM Flag
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I kneel done who did that. I would never leave an infant. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:28 PM Flag
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For that long. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:28 PM Flag
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I would never ever do that. That is the most horrific thing a parent can do. How can those people live with themselves? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:30 PM Flag
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Perspective please. It's not the most horrific thing a parent can do. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:42 PM Flag
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People do what works for their family. If you aren't nursing, plenty of people will tell you that a 3 month old won't even notice - way easier to leave them than a 1yo for example. Some people are worriers w newborns, esp FT parents. but not everyone is. although totally outside circumstances forced us to change our plans, we had intended to leave dc w grandparents for a week when he was 6 months old. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:35 PM Flag
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Worrying is one thing, you can worry leaving to run an errand. But 10 days is ergregious with a newborn! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:40 PM Flag
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You're a moron. 3 months is a "newborn" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:52 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:57 PM Flag
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Where? Who even wants to go on vacation 3months pp? Is it tropical? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:38 PM Flag
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Yeah. That's kinda weird. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 11:04 PM Flag
[ - ] At what age does "potty" chat stop being funny to kids? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:12 PM Flag
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Never if they're male. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:13 PM Flag
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40 year dh still talks like that [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:15 PM Flag
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Yep [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.16, 10:47 PM Flag
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