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[ - ] That fat retard communist DeBlasio better stay far away from these cops' funerals. His side is with the stupid ape savages, not with the cops. He made his bed. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:49 PM Flag
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Aside being rather asinine, it was a dumb political move. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:51 PM Flag
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I wonder if these particular officers filled out one of the "don't attend my funeral, DeBlasio" cards? Has he even made a statement yet? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:52 PM Flag
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i stop reading when i see "retard" used in a derogatory way. it immediately deducts 20 points from your i.q. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:53 PM Flag
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Then comes ape. A real quality individual. When did the white trash invade urbanbaby? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:54 PM Flag
[ - ] Want to download a relaxing novel. ...well written chicklit but nit about a 20something. Anyone? 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:44 PM Flag
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^not not nit. Like British and especially Irish writers btw... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:44 PM Flag
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Have you read Marian Keyes? I think they may be about 20somethings for the most part but I tend to enjoy them. But, I guess I'm only 29. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:47 PM Flag
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^oh and she's Irish which is why I thought of her. Definitely chick lit, too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:48 PM Flag
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OP: I have read a couple, should maybe try again! TY! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:51 PM Flag
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Do you like Tana French? Irish writer. Smart mysteries. The Likeness is told from a female cops perspective. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:47 PM Flag
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Never heard of her...thanks will check out! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:51 PM Flag
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I think Jane Green just put a new novel out. Her books are usually light, fun reads that focus more on marrieds or 30-somethings. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:45 PM Flag
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I like Jane Green (usually...a couple have not worked for me but have read most). Think the new one is out in January. Thanks btw! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:53 PM Flag
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YW! I still love Jemima J, and have reread it a couple of times on airplane trips over the past decade or so when I wanted something mindless to pass the time. Too bad it's so dated with its internet references, hah. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:55 PM Flag
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The Private Lives of Pippa Lee [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:52 PM Flag
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Op: oh I saw the movie...didn't even know was a book, thanks! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:53 PM Flag
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Hypocrite in a Pouffy White Dress. Know the gal. Went to Stuy (white chick, too! but Jewish). Stories of growing up in NYC. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:53 PM Flag
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Now that sounds cool, thanks! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:54 PM Flag
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I like Cecelia Aherne. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:55 PM Flag
[ - ] A guy shot two cops in Brooklyn... 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:37 PM Flag
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liberals and the media got what they wanted. this savage did this as "revenge" for Michael Brown. this blood is on the media's hands. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:46 PM Flag
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+1 It's going to get much worse. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:47 PM Flag
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The blood is on DeBlasio's hands. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:52 PM Flag
[ - ] Have you ever had your post featured on Most Popular? What was it about? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:35 PM Flag
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My Most Popular post was about Beyonce. I thought her body was banging. Some people thought she was fat and gross. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:40 PM Flag
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Niggers [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:45 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:46 PM Flag
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Something about cosleeping [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:50 PM Flag
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No. I'm not that controversial [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:53 PM Flag
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Veterans day [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:55 PM Flag
[ - ] ds has a really good friend from high school and she just transferred to his college. wish they would get together. i like her so much! my other ds as a girlfriend, he is in college too, but close enough to come home each weekend to be with her. i would love for them to stay together forever! i love her. young love is so iffy, dammit. 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:35 PM Flag
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Nobody wants love advice from their mummy [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:37 PM Flag
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i don't give advice. they're both lovely. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:38 PM Flag
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Get a life. Quit perving on your son. His sex life is separate from yours. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:38 PM Flag
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sure, because that's what i'm doing. where in my post is there any post in reference to that whatsoever. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:39 PM Flag
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Yeah. Dont count on it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:39 PM Flag
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lol. i know. but, it does bode well that they have such good taste in friends and girlfriends. it makes me happy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:42 PM Flag
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You will probably like whomever they end up with [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:50 PM Flag
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i think so. it makes me happy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:54 PM Flag
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Let them be friends in college. Let it be. After college they may just connect - too many temptations in college for boys to be good boyfriends - he might just ruin it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:52 PM Flag
[ - ] Hate "Manspreaders" on the subway, finally a NYTimes article about it 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:33 PM Flag
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Haha, I saw it on Facebook and also said "finally"!!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:34 PM Flag
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Now for "huge backpack" dude [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:35 PM Flag
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We all know who the worst offending group is, right? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:40 PM Flag
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Of course. I wonder if the NYT will ever do an article about them? No jk, of course they won't. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:51 PM Flag
[ - ] Reading about this police killing in Bed-Stuy as a garner revenge killing- this is what society gets when it decides to challenge the rule of law - unintended consequences... 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:30 PM Flag
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Shut up, dude. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:31 PM Flag
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wish there was a like button for you [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:32 PM Flag
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Wanna hang out and chat out here? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:35 PM Flag
[ - ] WWYD? MIL was being cared for by SIL and dh at our home until she had to enter a rehab. We kept waiting to hear when she would be discharged ...it was always being put off. MIL was giving us a certain amount of money to help cover the bills (it's a rental unit) but SIL apparently closed the account, which we figured out when no check arrived in the mail. Dh mentions the problem to SIL who acts like it's all news to her (doubtful) and she then mid-month says she will make arrangements to move out. Radio silence on the money. It's a sensitive issue, MIL may not be with us much longer, but SIL has all but moved in, and now when asked, is 'thinking' about whether she can give us money for this month. We have no cushion, so the mortgage is now late. Have numerous renters interested, but we are totally on hold until SIL tells us what she is willing to to. If she doesn't give us money we will be spending the holidays cleaning and patching up apartment for a tenant, and dh will feel screwed over says if it goes down like that he will next SIL at their mom's funeral. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:28 PM Flag
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dh has to talk to her stat. it's only going to get worse from here. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:33 PM Flag
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Tell SIL she has until day x to decide. If she hasn't by that tume, she's out. Let her know you've got renters lined up. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:35 PM Flag
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or: ita, be honest with her about the money situation. you have every right to have this conversation. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:37 PM Flag
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Yes, today is that day. So stressed. She seems really not to care, or oblivious to the fact that we don't actually own the house outright, we have a major partner, the bank, that needs to be paid. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:39 PM Flag
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she is probably so so stressed by the care-giving aspect of her life --- that probably contributes to her behavior. are they the only two siblings? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:41 PM Flag
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NP: is she generally financially delinquent? IME people like this get numb to this and have no sense of urgency about paying bills. Not that I'm excusing her. You're in the right on this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:43 PM Flag
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Yes, she is. She has let MIIL's real apartment, at prime UWS address with near rent control rates, go to pot (physically and financially). She is a crazy maker so we are thinking losing this $, is the price of freedom as we will help her pack up everything and send her on her way. Ugh!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:53 PM Flag
[ - ] new co-worker with whom i share an office has something wrong with him. he is a pathological liar. he tries to skirt issues and when i tell him that i see that he did this, but i would like to see him do it this way --- i try to gently correct --he lies his head off. his instinct when asked to do anything is to go to "no, we don't do that!" in a loud voice as though he is a police captain. we are social workers in a nursing home and i am his supervisor. wtf? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:23 PM Flag
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^^and there is so much more than that, but i would bore the hell out of you. i have to talk to him net week and tell him what i expect from him and he is going to get all defensive. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:25 PM Flag
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Document all expectations in writing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:25 PM Flag
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And summarize all conversations in writing [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:26 PM Flag
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i have a job spec for him. it's a personality issue, probably a disorder. i have to be very clear about interaction with our residents -- it's a pain. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:28 PM Flag
[ - ] I was talking to another Hunter R2 mom today. First of all, she just assumes that her DC will get in. But what was even more hilarious was that she was talking about bringing in cupcakes for the whole preschool class after she gets the acceptance email from Kyla. There are 2 other kids in the class who are also going onto R2. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:23 PM Flag
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Last year, a DS from my kid's class got in. The mom dressed him in a Hunter shirt the next day. There was another boy who went to R2 from the same class. The mom also made a big deal about getting a thank you gift for the teacher. It was so gauche and made me feel so bad for the other family. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:26 PM Flag
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What was even more tragic was that I thought the rj DS was smarter, kinder than the one who got accepted. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:28 PM Flag
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Gross. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:30 PM Flag
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So gross [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:36 PM Flag
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That is so tacky. Why is she so sure her DC will get in? Is she AA? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:30 PM Flag
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I want to think this is fake. It's beyond stupid. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:41 PM Flag
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I knew a nuttier mom than that. She was sure her kid would be going to Hunter--before he even tested. Didn't make the cutoff. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:48 PM Flag
[ - ] Okay, have fun talking to yourselves, racist toads--bye! I recommend that we all leave them alone together to share their pathetic ugliness. It can be a dating site for them. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:13 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:14 PM Flag
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+2--happy holidays to the most miserable "people" on the planet!!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:15 PM Flag
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Lol nigger [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:25 PM Flag
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Seriously? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:42 PM Flag
[ - ] How do you deal with people like this? I say "this behavior of yours bothers me, for this reason" and they say "I'm sorry to hear that. What do you want me to do about that?" To me it feels like them saying "just tell me what to say and do to placate you." 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:06 PM Flag
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I think it really depends on what the behavior is. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:10 PM Flag
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Can you give a specific example? It's a different issue if your dh is not pulling his weight vs your sister not dropping everything to talk to you because you are worried that your dc has a cough that will surely turn into pneumonia [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:13 PM Flag
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Well yeah, that's probably what they are saying. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:18 PM Flag
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So an interaction would be, "DH, it bothers me when I make dinner and do all the clean up as you watch TV, because it makes me feel like you have all this down time when I have none, which doesn't feel fair." "DH says, "I'm sorry to hear that- what do you want me to do?" You respond "how about when I cook, you're in charge of the cleanup- and vice versa? Or we alternate days where we are each in charge of both?" He responds "Sounds good to me, sure". This sounds like a mature conversation between adults. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:20 PM Flag
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You're not entitled not to be bothered [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:45 PM Flag
[ - ] Where is the outrage at this terrible mayor, pandering to the same people who are shooting our cops? Two cops shot dead in Brooklyn, "execution style." Time to get De Blasio out of office and stop eviscerating our police officers. 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 09:51 PM Flag
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If he had any decency, he'd resign. Nutters like the guy who committed these murders are enabled by contempt for the NYPD. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.20.14, 10:50 PM Flag
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