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[ - ] If you saw a married male friend out for drinks with a (beautiful) woman (not his wife) would you mention to the wife? Knowing no other information? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
New York City 12.21.14, 05:50 AM Flag
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No. Never. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:52 AM Flag
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Which one was your friend first? I would not tattle, but I would say "I bumped into Joe at the diner last week," or whatever. If she asked who he was with, I might say a woman. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:54 AM Flag
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She was [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 06:22 AM Flag
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No. In the real world people interact with people of the opposite sex. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 06:42 AM Flag
[ - ] If a DH were cheating on his DW, would he still be having sex with her? Less sex? More? None at all? If looking at his phone is not an option, what are other clues besides obvious ones? 21 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
New York City 12.21.14, 05:37 AM Flag
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You've got it backwards. If dh is cheating on de, it's likely because she is not having sex with him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:39 AM Flag
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Is this always the case tho? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:40 AM Flag
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Not always, but likely [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:41 AM Flag
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No. I have a high sex drive but once husband and I married, he quit having sex with me (for the most part). He liked "dirty" girls. Strippers and just trashy women in general. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:43 AM Flag
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Wow. How did you find out? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:44 AM Flag
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My mother was my husband's office manager, and a sub-contractor went to the office to get paid, and he said, "Your SIL was seen by one of our laborers in astrip club Monday. He's a family man and that's not a family thing to do." To my MOTHER! So that opened the gates to everything. BTW, this was 30 years into the marriage. Even with hindsight, you couldn't have told by his behaviors, etc. NO ONE believed he was doing that because it just seemed so "not him". He's honest to a fault in everything else, so you assume... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 06:01 AM Flag
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So, are you still with him? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 06:10 AM Flag
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No, this is just an excuse DH uses to lure the OW in and justify his cheating. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 06:04 AM Flag
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It depends, often affairs start after less sex but some men also attempt to make up for it/make themselves look innocent by initiating sex. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:41 AM Flag
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The cliche is more sex. He is infatuated, he is thinking about sex, he cares about his appearance, he is happy... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:43 AM Flag
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So DH may initiate with DW more because he is more tuned into sex due to the affair? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:45 AM Flag
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That's what all the magazine articles and celeb shrinks say. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:52 AM Flag
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Put a keylogger on his computer. Put a voice-activated recorder in his car or office. If you can afford it, hire a PI. Look at phone records for a number that is being called/texted an unusual number of times per day. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 06:06 AM Flag
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^Frequency of sex is no indicator. Could be less (because he is getting it somewhere else) or could be more (because his sex drive is stimulated or he wants to throw you off track). However, if he tries to introduce something new into sex (e.g., something he learned from the OW), that might be a clue. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 06:09 AM Flag
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There is no way I will be able to get a key logger because I never have access to his computer and he does everything from his phone anyway, but he has some secure app supposedly for business that encrypts all his txts and calls and then deletes them permanently. So virtually his is evidence proofed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 06:26 AM Flag
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A big clue is that he won't let you see his phone or is very protective of it, e.g., takes it with him everywhere, including when he goes to the bathroom or takes a shower. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 06:08 AM Flag
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^^Another big clue is that he suddenly becomes hyper-critical of you or very moody when he comes home, faulting you for everything. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 06:10 AM Flag
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^^Also, if he starts talking about a particular woman at work for some reason and talks about her with unusual frequency. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 06:12 AM Flag
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^^Another clue is that he starts gaslighting you (Google it), saying things that don't quite add up and trying to make you feel crazy for doubting him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 06:13 AM Flag
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Just ask him out of the blue if you can see borrow his phone for a second because you need to use it and yours isn't working. If he makes up some BS excuse, acts suspiciously or otherwise doesn't give you the phone, hire a private investigator to gather evidence. Don't let him know that you suspect, or else he will just try to cover his tracks better. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 06:18 AM Flag
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He has some app on his phone that is a secure messaging app supposedly for business but it deletes all his texts and calls. Everything is private. So there is no hope to look at his phone. Or computer. I've never once used his work computer and it would be so suspicious to ask to now [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 06:25 AM Flag
[ - ] Do you have a UB name? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:33 AM Flag
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I'm tarot mom [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:40 AM Flag
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Do you really know tarots or do you just bullshit the moms on here? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:54 AM Flag
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I really read tarot. People think that means I'm psychic and call me a fraud for that, but you do not need to be psychic to read tarot, and I do not claim to be. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 06:12 AM Flag
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apparently, someone calls me lrm. fame at last! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 06:22 AM Flag
[ - ] Pedophiles should be put to death 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:22 AM Flag
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some people who kill don't get put to death. try to be logical. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:25 AM Flag
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there is no logic to pedophilia. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:28 AM Flag
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maybe not. but that doesn't excuse you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 06:24 AM Flag
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homicides can carry many thing. crimes of passion, money, rampage etc pedophilia is what it is, there is no grey area. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:29 AM Flag
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how can you kill someone for just molesting someone, even a child, when a person can escape death even after taking another peron's life, even a child's as long as it wasn't through sex? would you rather your child be dead or alive after pedophiliac assault? which is worse? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 06:24 AM Flag
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Disagree [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:32 AM Flag
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Dick cut off. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:44 AM Flag
[ - ] The NYPD is an extremely well-funded organization. How is it that their patrol cars don't even have ballistic windshield glass, which would have rendered today's attack ineffective? Rather than being murdered, the two officers would have been safe behind the glass from handgun rounds, and could have simply run the suspect over. 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:20 AM Flag
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Or maybe the person would have shot through the doors which are not armored, or are they? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:25 AM Flag
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Armor packages for cars generally include glass, body panels, roof, and undercarriage. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:32 AM Flag
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I don't think it is as well-funded as you think and a lot of the money goes to pensions and benefits. This was a freak event. Cops walk around in public all the time. Shooter could have just waited and got one walking by. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:25 AM Flag
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The shooter knew that he would be a hero in the black community because he murdered cops. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:27 AM Flag
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Te desire to be great is wht motivated him [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:27 AM Flag
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Read the Article. mumia shot and killed a white police officer [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:28 AM Flag
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Killing a cop made mumia a hero to blacks [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:29 AM Flag
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Hi looney mom! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:54 AM Flag
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np: that's me, dumbasss. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 06:25 AM Flag
[ - ] It makes me sad to look at DB then imagine him being killed 18 years later as a soldier in some dumb war. And yet, for almost 7,000 American moms (and hundreds more from the UK, Canada, France, Spain, Australia, Italy, and other nations), that is what happened with Iraq and Afghanistan. Was it worth it? I don't think it was. 38 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:01 AM Flag
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it only happened to poor men. you're prob gonna be fine. it's just a tear in the salty sea in the end. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:04 AM Flag
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Cynical but true. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:05 AM Flag
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wisdom... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:07 AM Flag
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Four out of five people in my squad had master's degrees and came from well-off families. I know most UB folks think only proles have silly ideas about serving your country and patriotism, but it isn't true. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:17 AM Flag
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this doesn't work. i know zero people in my circle who went to serve. splain your situation. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:18 AM Flag
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Less than one percent of the populations serves, so even if you hung out with the poors, you still wouldn't likely know anyone who did. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:27 AM Flag
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*population. Sorry, multitasking. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:28 AM Flag
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This. I grew up very wealthy, my brother went to an academy, and now flies jets for the navy. I know 5 of his friends that have died over the years, and he has had other losses as well. They were a mix of military kids, ivy league kids, and guys that enlisted and then went to OCS. It is a stereotype to think that everyone in the military is poor. The differential between officers and enlisted is great. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:42 AM Flag
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Np Maybe you should explain yours. I went to a tt bs and several from my class either went to Naval Academy or served later. Dh worked on Wall St w several ex-marines. My brother's best friend from grad school is a former Seal. Father of dc's classmate is doing a fellowship at the local hospital - he is on loan from Air Force. How is your circle so limited? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:58 AM Flag
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Unlike yours, perhaps her circle is limited to those who "splain" things. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 06:26 AM Flag
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i don't know. but it is. but you know, even john kerry said "the dummies are the ones who serve." so obv, it's not a faulty stereotype. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 06:26 AM Flag
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Because John Kerry is a good authority on anything. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 06:45 AM Flag
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My Dh is third generation MD to serve in the military. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:32 AM Flag
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That is awesome. After working with military doctors, I wish I could still get my care from them. I've seen them do so many incredible things. It's hard to imagine the kind of illnesses they treat overseas - just things that you don't ever see here. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:34 AM Flag
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My very wealthy West Point grad nephew was killed. Believe it or not, some still believe in service. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:26 AM Flag
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I'm very sorry for your family's loss. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:30 AM Flag
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Thank you. It's been pretty awful. Especially for his younger siblings. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:33 AM Flag
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I can't imagine. Now that I'm a parent, sometimes I feel guilty for the worry I must have put my family through. I don't know if you believe in them, but my prayers are with his family. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:37 AM Flag
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This [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:32 AM Flag
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Thank you! And when you criticize the military for recruiting young people, hillbillies call you a, "traitor." [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:09 AM Flag
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who should they recruit? 45 yos who might think and say, "wtf am i here in the middle of gun battle?" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:11 AM Flag
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also, 45 yos do not have the same physical endurance and healing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:12 AM Flag
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This, plus married men w kids at home are a lot less enthusiastic about deploying. A lot of young people from poor families go military for college tuition and to get experience. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:16 AM Flag
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And then they get PTSD. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:17 AM Flag
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^the people who join the military. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:17 AM Flag
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The military should give warnings about the consequences of joining the military. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:20 AM Flag
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Are you in the military? How do you know? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:45 AM Flag
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That is for them to say. Nobody was drafted. Obviously in hindsight the intel was bad, but hindsight is 20/20. I have military friends (some officers, some not) who went snd do not regret it. My guess is you wouldn't be any less sad if your 18 yo died of a drug overdose or in a car accident (God forbid.) It is always tragic. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:09 AM Flag
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The question is this - what strategic benefits (financial, geopolitical, etc.) did the US gain via the wars? It's very hard to answer that question, because for the most part, the wars caused a lot of tangible losses. And today's Iraq is a horrific mess, with Afghanistan not far behind. So I'd say that objectively the wars failed, and resulted in defeats, whether or not individual soldiers feel that their individual efforts had enduring value. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:14 AM Flag
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From someone who was there, you can always find something in your service to make it worth it. I provided medical care for people who surely would have died otherwise. I wished their country was in better condition, but they have a chance now. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:20 AM Flag
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That's a different matter entirely. OP is saying it is sad when young people die (of course) but I know people who say they would go again. They enlisted by choice, it is patronizing to say we know better than they do whether their sacrifices were worth it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:23 AM Flag
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Thank you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:28 AM Flag
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My father lied to get in the Navy when he was 17. He was 18 on a destroyer at Pearl Harbor. I have two adult kids (and one minor still at home), but I can not imagine them in the same place. My father didn't talk much about the war when I was a kid, and he said he didn't think much about it, but he was watching TV when the Challenger exploded, and it triggered a response in him so strongly, he had to be hospitalized for months and never did so great after that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:14 AM Flag
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I'm so sorry about your father. My cousin has PTSD and it's so hard on his family at times. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:21 AM Flag
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Thanks. It shows how terribly complicated our minds/emotions are, when you think you have no issues related to an event, and decades later, it pops up. War sucks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:33 AM Flag
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It does. I'm thankful that so far I haven't had any problems other than being jumpy at sudden loud noises, but I know it's a possibility, and I've instructed DH on what to watch out for. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:43 AM Flag
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Wishing you all the best that hoping your symptoms stay minor. You have the advantage of mental health care that they didn't have back then and having an "emotional issue" was just not done. He did get put off his ship for a few months for "battle fatigue", but no treatment. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 06:04 AM Flag
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That was sadly so common. A lot of mental illness among men in my grandfather's generation was probably PTSD - but everyone just called them "eccentric". [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 06:24 AM Flag
[ - ] How are nerds in bed? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:59 AM Flag
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they're like everyone else. good and bad and everything in between. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:03 AM Flag
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bad smells [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:05 AM Flag
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Haven't you seen Revenge of the Nerds? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:10 AM Flag
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I just met this stupid fucking nerd who was kind of hot. He got me all riled up and turned me on. Then he acted all shy and weird. And he got all nervous. Gah, what is wrong with them? Most other men are just so much better at showing consistent interest in a woman. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:15 AM Flag
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Sounds like he is actually pretty good at playing this game. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:46 AM Flag
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How do you mean? What game? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 06:06 AM Flag
[ - ] How long has Urban Baby been like the Ku Klux Klan? There has always been a racism issue here, but recently it has gotten much worse. 32 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:51 AM Flag
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For a very long time now. The white women here hate everybody else. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:53 AM Flag
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the white women here hate all the other white women who aren't clones of themselves. and they are stoooooopid. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:58 AM Flag
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i'm looney mom down below yapping about the superiority of asian women (and men) so not sure qualifies as kkk. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:59 AM Flag
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The actual RM racist mom is Asian. It is usual one racist commentor talking to herself. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:00 AM Flag
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I see more hate against Asians than racist Asians here. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:01 AM Flag
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ain't that the fucking truth. they cannot stand it that we don't fail. yeah, well, screw you! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:02 AM Flag
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It's same with us Jews. It's like Nazi Germany in here combined with apartheid in South Africa and racism against Japanese people in World War 2. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:05 AM Flag
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i actually can't believe people are so antisemitic. i really think it's two idiots just tag-teaming each other because it is so ridiculous. prob the same with the asian hate. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:08 AM Flag
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np: Agree, I think it's a couple of people who know there are a ton of Jews on this board and are trying to be annoying. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:43 AM Flag
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Yawn. We got a black president and a black Supreme Court justice. What do you have? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:05 AM Flag
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we've got money. i'll take it over token presidencies. token presidency ain't gonna pay my rent. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:09 AM Flag
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Don't see too many Asian billionaires on the list. Might want to check your facts. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:23 AM Flag
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you still see them. for countries that were absolute backwater hellholes 50, 70 years ago, it's pretty damn impressive. korea was as poor as damn sudan, actually poorer, back in 1960. jhc. did you know that goldman sachs is projecting that it will become the second richest nation per capita income in like 35 years? that is amazing. astounding, in fact. you'd better be glad china is so screwed up. if china (like russia) weren't such an old screwed up giant place, they'd kill america. check your facts. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:29 AM Flag
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She does not want to hear the facts. koreans have high IQ DNA and Africans have Low iQ dna [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:32 AM Flag
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That is why Korea is more successful than Africa [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:32 AM Flag
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Correct. The white women here absolutely loathe Asians. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:05 AM Flag
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Hi Asian Racist Mom! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:08 AM Flag
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i really think it's like two. probably trolling. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:10 AM Flag
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That is by the racist asian mom. Usually she starts in on either crime rates in areas with small populations of black people or asian men and silicon valley guys. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:06 AM Flag
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i love your twisted logic. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:12 AM Flag
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She's right. RM has revealed that she is Asian several times. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:14 AM Flag
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how so? *eye roll* [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:20 AM Flag
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+ She has done whole Most Popular threads just talking to herself. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:07 AM Flag
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THIS. She's down below doing her rant on asians dating white men. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:11 AM Flag
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of course i am. i am refuting your (?) stupid thesis that asian women somehow relegate themselves to defective goods. not the case at all. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:21 AM Flag
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that's funny because i, the op and lrm, say the same about you! what a coinkydink! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:13 AM Flag
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You're not the OP of this post. Don't lie. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:19 AM Flag
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believe what you will. makes no difference. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:29 AM Flag
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The average black man in New York is 40 times as likely to commit murder than average Asian [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:30 AM Flag
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you're not really on topic. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 06:33 AM Flag
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This is why no cops frisk Asians [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:31 AM Flag
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There are trolls here that are talking to themselves. There's definitely an unmedicated person who shows up here almost every night."Park Slope Mom wants all cops to be killed." "And so does DeBlasio which is why he incites hate." "Blacks are 62% more likely to be arrested for gun charges." "Yes, read the stats." Etc. It's one or two people hitting enter and then continuing their monologue. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:40 AM Flag
[ - ] Have you ever witnesses heroism? 17 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:45 AM Flag
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None of them would want to be called heros, but I've witnessed many brave and selfless acts during my time in the service. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:47 AM Flag
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Did you witness many innocent women and children being killed or leave that to others? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:53 AM Flag
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We were a medical outreach team, so we were providing medical care to women and children that would otherwise had none. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:56 AM Flag
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So left bombing them to other people in "the service"? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:58 AM Flag
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Not everyone who serves is a murderous thug. The only people I saw killed died at the hands of the Taliban. Friends of mine lost limbs trying to rescue children from homicide bombings. Yes, innocent people die in wars, but to think the men and women on the ground enjoy that is sick and ignorant. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:03 AM Flag
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"Homicide bombings"? Lol, come on. That's straight out of Fox News's style guide circa 2005. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:04 AM Flag
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The fuckers driving the cars duck before impact, because their leaders have told them it increases their chance of survival. They aren't martyrs and they have no intention of dying if they can avoid it, so suicide bomber doesn't really describe what they do. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:08 AM Flag
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Love the passive voice "innocent people die in wars" as if no one at all is responsible. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:06 AM Flag
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They're killed by both sides. Americans killed innocent people in WWII and every other war - but you don't see anyone treating WWII vets like shit. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:13 AM Flag
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They were drafted. You volunteered to be a merc for Halliburton. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:15 AM Flag
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Over 30 percent were volunteers. Do you find out which before you give them any respect? And yes, mercenaries often volunteer for positions where their primary role is providing medical care to local populations. Your mother jones diatribe is both uniformed and boring. Have a good night and merry Christmas. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:25 AM Flag
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I did. On 9/11. By al quaeda. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:00 AM Flag
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So you decided -- if you can't beat 'em join 'em? Let's rack up our own murder count? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:03 AM Flag
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You obviously decided to shit talk people who make it possible for you to live in a country where you have the right to shit talk them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:31 AM Flag
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Yes, on 9/11 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:48 AM Flag
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I save snails. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:07 AM Flag
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Lol. I actually do catch and release any insects I come across. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:44 AM Flag
[ - ] ok. because i like being in your face, i want to bring up interracial dating. it seems, the vast majority of asian women, 75%, marry asian men. it appears, however, that the top men of every race prefers to marry out of his race. maybe it's that all men like exoticism but wealthier men can act on it because they care less about others' judgements? not sure. 18 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:44 AM Flag
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And now deep thoughts ... from Jack Handey. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:45 AM Flag
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well, it's true. despite ugly white women's protestations, we asian women are taking disproportionate number of the most eligible of your white dudes. but that's fair because you are taking a disproportionate number of the most eligible of our asian men. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:48 AM Flag
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So LM is Asian too? Maybe you should get together with RM. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:57 AM Flag
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i've been called both. you can just call me lrm if it'll make you happy. i'm all about peace and joy and happiness. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:00 AM Flag
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I think the issue is that you have a different opinion of who are the most eligible white men. White women don't care about the Zukerbergs of the world. They have money but nothing else going for them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:02 AM Flag
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that's just because you're dumb and like beefcake. that's fine. your progeny, too, will be meatheads and you'll be our janitors. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:06 AM Flag
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How's China doing was those billion geniuses? Surely it must have highest GDP per capita? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:09 AM Flag
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no, because it is state controlled. it is not a true meritocracy except within individual cities. look at korea and north korea. same concept. if you were smart, you'd know this or at least make the connection. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:14 AM Flag
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How did all those geniuses let that happen? Surely they can use those big brains to figure out how to set a democracy? Or does that robot-like quality Asians have limit them to only being good workers but never leaders? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:18 AM Flag
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let. me. explain. slowly. G U N S [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:22 AM Flag
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let me explain, too, they are leaders. they are oppressive leaders of their own people. maybe try thinking for a tiny second before asking Qs. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:23 AM Flag
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We don't like beefcake. We like alpha men. You can have the silicon valley nerds, I'll stick with my finance dh we'll both be happy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:10 AM Flag
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ok. have fun with your janitor alpha men. finance dh alpha. yeah, right. he was in research. admit it. lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:17 AM Flag
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You are so cute. You're like the little steam engine that could. So determined to get a big reaction. You need new material if you want to keep this going. Good night little one! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:20 AM Flag
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tell dh to be glad he wasn't in trading. got killed, absolutely KILLED on the damn ruble move even though we weren't invested in russia. stupid white people f-ing up everything. ugh! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 06:35 AM Flag
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Go away looney mom. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:52 AM Flag
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i will take the moniker. now, make me, retarded mom. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:53 AM Flag
[ - ] The 3 best UB threads of all times: 25 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:36 AM Flag
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Rhode Island missing kids, subtle pretentious, dalton sweatshirt [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:41 AM Flag
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Does anyone have a link for the Rhode Island missing kids? What was it about? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:48 AM Flag
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whats RI missing kids? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:59 AM Flag
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was 1 or 2 summers ago- something about how an OP in RI kept seeing 2 kids in the next door neighbors house but the residents never had kids. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:02 AM Flag
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The romney Obama debate commentary. Binders of women [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:41 AM Flag
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There was once some bitter Asian lady who came on insisting that all our husbands want to fuck young Thai prostitutes. She was unhinged but the comments were hilarious. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:47 AM Flag
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she's already fucked your husband so you can understand her bitterness and disappointment. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:56 AM Flag
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You are not funny enough to be her..sorry. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:11 AM Flag
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notice, i did not claim to be her. i said she already fucked your husband, hence her bitterness and disappointment. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:23 AM Flag
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Did he leave her for a young Thai prostitute? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:49 AM Flag
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(1) DMV Mom: Freshly waxed mom who went commando in a dress at the DMV. While standing in line, she thought she had to poot, but instead, a small pellet-like turd fell out. A man told her that she dropped something. She picked it up. (2) Labia Mom: The mom who trimmed her pubes while in her office on a conference call and accidentally cut her labia with the scissors. She came on UB to ask for ideas on how to stop the bleeding. Whole wheat flour, cornstarch, dog toenail styptic powder, etc. were suggested. (3) Shaved Balls Mom: Her husband came home from a business trip and ran into the shower and immediately started shaving off his pubes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:52 AM Flag
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All great [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:53 AM Flag
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Omg [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:12 AM Flag
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Please link please! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:23 AM Flag
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Too funny. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:33 AM Flag
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That one about the office affair nude pictures the other day was pretty damn good [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:54 AM Flag
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Missed it! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:29 AM Flag
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Crap, I missed that one too! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:45 AM Flag
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Lady who talked seriously, on and on, about what to wear to funeral of Madonna Badger's daughters and father killed in the Christmas house fire. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:01 AM Flag
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That reminds me of lasagna mom/Krims. (I think we were too hard on someone just trying to help and being naive about it.) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:16 AM Flag
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Has cat! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:12 AM Flag
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Lol this [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:19 AM Flag
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This is my all time favorite, a DH who'd inherited a cement mixing truck and would drive it around town like a regular vehicle: http://www.urbanbaby.com/topics/55243725 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:19 AM Flag
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That made my night. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:30 AM Flag
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Hobo mom from Thanksgiving this year. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 06:12 AM Flag
[ - ] Should I stock up on diapers before db gets here? Or should I wait to see which ones fit him best? 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:32 AM Flag
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Wait. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:34 AM Flag
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Buy a small pack of newborn size. When those run out you will probably need size 1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:36 AM Flag
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a small pack of size 0 (you'll need them for a few days) and a pack of size 1. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:37 AM Flag
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Small pack like 30 diapers? Or more? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:38 AM Flag
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That should be fine. You can also take a whole bunch frm the hospital [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:39 AM Flag
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I agree with getting a small pack. When you need more, order from diapers.com and get them the next day. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:45 AM Flag
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Wait. The brands I thought I'd use weren't a good fit on my ds. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:04 AM Flag
[ - ] I love picking my db's cradle cap. I could do this for hours. 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:30 AM Flag
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You want a party? Wipe it with olive oil, then backcomb with a cradle cap comb. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:35 AM Flag
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This but use coconut oil. Extra sweet smelling baby. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:04 AM Flag
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+ also better for db than most olive oils. Coconut has anti fungal properties. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:13 AM Flag
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Do you also like picking zits and for dandruff? You might be a skin picker [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:42 AM Flag
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Yes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:45 AM Flag
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Isn't everyone a skin picker? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:45 AM Flag
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It's a toe of OCD [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:46 AM Flag
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Type [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:47 AM Flag
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Just use dandruff shampoo, like Head and Shoulders. Recommend by ped, it was gone in a week. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:43 AM Flag
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Two of my three kids had that off and on, most on, for years. We tried everything. Dandruff shampoos (with different ingredients), oil soaks, steroid creams, etc. I am NOT a picker of other people's scabs/zits/cradle cap, etc. Doctor told me not to try to mechanically remove it as it can cause sore spots that can get infected. (That was 2 separate docs for two different kids and with 20 years difference in the kids.) One of my kids had it, but she only had it a few months. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:58 AM Flag
[ - ] What's a good tablet for almost 80-year-old woman? She'll be just looking at photos and maybe go online through our WiFi tethering when we are visiting. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:24 AM Flag
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Ipad [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:24 AM Flag
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iPad [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:25 AM Flag
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The lightest one [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:34 AM Flag
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Who are you? Can we be friends? Can we hang out please? You are the only sensible person in this thread. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:39 AM Flag
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Cyanide tablet. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:44 AM Flag
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LOL [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:56 AM Flag
[ - ] My scalp gets oily and has an odor very quickly. What am I doing wrong here? Any products you recommend? 24 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:19 AM Flag
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you sound fat [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:20 AM Flag
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This [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:21 AM Flag
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I am actually a very skinny Asian. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:25 AM Flag
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that explains it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:38 AM Flag
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you sound dumb [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:31 AM Flag
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shampoo [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:21 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:24 AM Flag
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Ummm [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:21 AM Flag
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Do you wash hair daily? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:21 AM Flag
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You sound like my schnauzzer [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:21 AM Flag
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I had a schnauzer and they are hypoallergenic and don't get smelly [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:25 AM Flag
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Haha. When I read the post, my first thought was those hairless dogs and cats that leave grease stains where they sit/lie. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:39 AM Flag
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Do you have dandruff? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:22 AM Flag
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No dandruff. I wash every other day. Hair is dry but my scalp gets oily [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:26 AM Flag
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You need to wash your hair every day, use good conditioner so it doesn't get dry. Np [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:27 AM Flag
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maybe witch hazel or apple cider vinegar? I would use these home treatments once per week to see if it helps. Personally, I don't use shampoo. What might be happening is you are washing your hair TOO frequently, thus stripping your hair of essential oils each time. Your follicles then ramp up production and make more oil than normal, so it's out of balance... just a thought. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:28 AM Flag
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No. She needs to wash her hair daily. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:29 AM Flag
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wash daily but don't wash the hair strands every time. dig your finger tips into the scalp and wash that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:51 AM Flag
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You have overactive sebaceous glands in the scalp. This is actually rather common. One technique people use is to wash with shampoos containing witch-hazel oil. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:30 AM Flag
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witch-hazel is not an oil. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:31 AM Flag
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You could have a fungal infection. There is a type of Selsun Blue that has an ingredient other dandruff and regular shampoos do not. Dc had to use for a while. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:38 AM Flag
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Dry shampoo. I swear by it. It gives my hair more body and volume than washing it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 04:59 AM Flag
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which brand? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:00 AM Flag
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I have used them all. I think I prefer Suave best. I'm trying to think of the most expensive (Fekkai?) which was the worst. If I were you, I would look on some boards like maybe at Make-up Alley for some recommendations, because some of them leave a white residue. That's okay with me, because my hair is silver and it doesn't show, but I'm assuming you are not gray and will need to adjust accordingly. The volume is great and it gets rid of that slightly stale scalp odor. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:09 AM Flag
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