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[ - ] What are the chances that dh has cheated in 13 years of marriage? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:18 PM Flag
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Depends on how happy you have made him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:20 PM Flag
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This [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:20 PM Flag
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It depends on your husband. Ranges from 0-100%. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:20 PM Flag
[ - ] Racist cops are falsely acusing black men of rape when black men have sex with white women. This committed suicide thanks to racist cops http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1280926/Student-cleared-rape-emerges-second-man-committed-suicide-falsely-accused-woman.html 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:16 PM Flag
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Well, if he wasn't guilty of that he was guilty of something else. Fine. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:17 PM Flag
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Read the article. He was innocent, no crime. Police wanted him dead and falsely acused him [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:20 PM Flag
[ - ] What are the cool toys for 5 yo's these days? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:11 PM Flag
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^Boys. $25-$30 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:11 PM Flag
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Legos, Shopkins, board games [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:19 PM Flag
[ - ] I am freaking out that almost 3 yr old is about to start school and is not 100% great on the potty training. Can use training pants w plastic over. School is a block from my house and only for 3 hours. Also ds is touching it groin area constantly if he does not have something thick there. Is this pretty normal since we just lost the diapers 3 weeks ago. I remind him that the "easter bunny doesn't like that" but seriously he can't be doing this in class. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:08 PM Flag
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^thick I meant diaper or training pants. Any moms of ds on and have this problem? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:09 PM Flag
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Easter bunny wtf? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:09 PM Flag
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^^And yes, it's normal. You've described all 3 year old boys. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:10 PM Flag
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op: OK. Thanks. I think he does not really do it in public unless he has to goes to the bathroom but it does seem to be his new favorite toy. Like picking his nose he just does not get it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:20 PM Flag
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Leave the touching alone - he's three. He also has plenty of time if you ditch the diapers [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:11 PM Flag
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op: Diapers are ditched except for bedtime and swimming. Do I just drop the subject? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:21 PM Flag
[ - ] Isn't it terrible when you are married and you are attracted to other men? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:06 PM Flag
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why is this terrible? It's nature. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:07 PM Flag
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Yes. Very natural. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:07 PM Flag
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Op. Terrible because you used to act on the attraction and now you can't because you're married. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:09 PM Flag
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Well, that was 10,000 years ago or so. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:15 PM Flag
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Well, you can't because you've both agreed to be monogamous by default. Maybe DH wants to act on his attractions, too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:21 PM Flag
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It is terrible to have sexual desires that can't be fulfilled by your current circumstances, no matter what they are [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:18 PM Flag
[ - ] Someone emailed me, basically asking me how much money I make and if she should get a certification that I have. This is a stranger. Would you bother responding? I could also report the person to the company she emailed me through. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:04 PM Flag
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Do not respond and block her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:09 PM Flag
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She would be direct competition so I just don't feel like helping. Am I awful? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:12 PM Flag
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No. Anyone (other than a prospective employer interviewing you for a job) asking you how much money you earn deserves to be blocked. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:15 PM Flag
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I would respond. That's who I am. I would give her a range and discuss the certification pro/con. People helping people. Life [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:17 PM Flag
[ - ] I'm pretty sure something happened between dh and out 19 yr old babysitter. She was a secretary at his company first and then he suggested she babysit for date nights. The last time she babysat for us she was overly friendly with me and gave a hug. She and dh completely ignored eachother. When normally they were chatty about work and she was a bit shy around me. 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:04 PM Flag
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He probably tried to fuck her. Is he good looking? She might be repulsed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:05 PM Flag
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Op. Very good looking. She was a butterface. Nice bod and hair but not beautiful face. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:07 PM Flag
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Ha ha. You crazy women aren't stupid! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:08 PM Flag
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How old is he, you, your baby? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:08 PM Flag
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Op. We're both late 30's. DC is 8. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:10 PM Flag
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Ugh [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:10 PM Flag
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So find another sitter to try out and see what he does [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:17 PM Flag
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Op. 19 year old sister moved out of state to be with boyfriend. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:19 PM Flag
[ - ] Heartwarming story from Minnesota - vicious thug on a crime-spree killed by a bystander with a lawful concealed-carry permit before he could harm more innocent victims: 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:00 PM Flag
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how many innocents had to die as a result of lax gun laws to this one guy can be a hero? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:09 PM Flag
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Bullahit [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:11 PM Flag
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No, cowahit! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:19 PM Flag
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This really is true. I don't think Tunisia could have happened in the US. Someone would have shot that asshole before the third person wen down. I don't and never will own a gun but I don't mind the right to bear arms. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:10 PM Flag
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If you look it up you will see that huge gangs of thugs came to Koreatown to murder Koreans. The Koean families that had automatic rifles went up to the roofs and shot a few of the thugs. That caused most of the thugs to retreat back to Compton. Without automatic rifles, Korean women would have been gang raped [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:13 PM Flag
[ - ] So what can I do to help reduce the number of homeless people on the streets? 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 10:59 PM Flag
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Demand the US enforce immigration laws, more room for homeless in housing and shelters, less of a wait for medical care. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:02 PM Flag
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So how do I as a single person help with these efforts? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:06 PM Flag
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Come to rallies in support of Trump. He is the only one that will reduce the inflow of illegals [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:13 PM Flag
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let them come live with you [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:02 PM Flag
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Get involved in veterans groups by supporting legislation that takes care of veterans with PTSS. Work on finding ways to come up with affordable housing solutions for those pushed out by gentrification; come up with solutions for women and children who have been pushed out of the housing market by abuse and lack of options. Create better situations for elderly indigents who have been abandoned by family. Overwhelming job. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:04 PM Flag
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You'll have to kill them. Short of that, nothing, except maybe not give money to discourage homelessness. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:11 PM Flag
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it's more mental illness and addiction than anything [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:14 PM Flag
[ - ] All this talk of HPV, how do they detect in men? How often do they test? Is it routine? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 10:59 PM Flag
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I got it after my first partner (who also raped me). He refused to admit he had it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:00 PM Flag
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They don't unless they have a visible wart. They are still contagious without any visible wart and even with a condom. Sucks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:10 PM Flag
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There are strains that don't cause warts [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:19 PM Flag
[ - ] Buffy the Vampire Slayer the series - for what ages? 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 10:54 PM Flag
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11 and up? maybe a little earlier [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 10:55 PM Flag
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np: I'd say later. 13+. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 10:57 PM Flag
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OP. I'm trying to get my dd onto a new series and wean her off of cartoons. I need simple but engaging. She doesn't like Glee. I put on Buffy and told her it was on TV before she was born. She then asked "so are they all dead now?" Good news is I have season 1 episode 1 on and she's liking it, the high school part is pulling her in. We'll see. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:02 PM Flag
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How old is she? Clarissa explains it all is great [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:05 PM Flag
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I think she's beyond that but she'd probably love Sabrina the Teenage Witch - thanks for reminding me of that one [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:16 PM Flag
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Oh good, I almost rec'd that instead :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:17 PM Flag
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you can try charmed also [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:05 PM Flag
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why do you want to wean her off cartoons? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:07 PM Flag
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This. Let her keep watching cartoons, if that's what she's into. You don't need to rush her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:13 PM Flag
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No, she asked to watch something different, more "high school" but she didn't know what to watch. She's 13, I've been on UB, she's somewhat intellectually delayed. She likes more mature themes, but delivered in a TV way, if that makes sense. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:15 PM Flag
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agree, nothing wrong with thoughtful, witty cartoons [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:14 PM Flag
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Gilmore Girls. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:07 PM Flag
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Roswell. Gortimer Gibbons [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:11 PM Flag
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Never heard of either of those - if she sticks with Buffy I'll look into those after. Thank you! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:16 PM Flag
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Did you actually watch Buffy when it was on? I think it's too scary for an 11yo, plus there's a lot of violence and sex. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:12 PM Flag
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She's 13 but I explained it above [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:15 PM Flag
[ - ] Am I the worst mother of all time? At dinner, I like to keep the TV on in the background so I can catch up with the news. Tonight, my 7 yo ds said, "can we turn the tv off tonight? I feel like you don't hear me when it's on." And then 6 yo chimed in "yeah and the news scares me." Ugh 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 10:50 PM Flag
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Try reading the skimm [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 10:51 PM Flag
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Sad. Your kids feel ignored. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 10:52 PM Flag
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I never have the news on with dc around - it is scary for me and I am 41! Too much for a 6yo [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 10:53 PM Flag
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Well la di da [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 10:54 PM Flag
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You asked the question [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 10:55 PM Flag
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My 6yo is not scared my news. But it's all on paper. I don't think she could take TV. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:13 PM Flag
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We watch the news and my children enjoy it. It's 30 minutes. Not the entire meal. You can have both. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 10:55 PM Flag
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National news - not if it bleeds it leads local crap [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 10:55 PM Flag
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You have just made me more sad than when that poor lion was needlessly stalked and killed [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 10:56 PM Flag
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Don't you have a DVR? The news depresses even my 17 year old (he thinks the boomers have fucked their generation by killing the planet) so I can't even imagine what it does to the younger ones. When our 8 year old walks in when we are watching we press pause or tell him it is not appropriate and he should close his eyes until I can change it. Sounds like you just need better technology and more focus on the kids. Life is too real right now even for me some days! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 10:58 PM Flag
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You're only the worst mother of all time if you don't listen to your perceptive, bright little cherubs and turn it off. You should be happy your daughters are telling you what they need. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:00 PM Flag
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This, very impressive to me how they communicated. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:02 PM Flag
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Ita. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:06 PM Flag
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It's fine. I assume you talk to them before and after? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:09 PM Flag
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Yes, but I work so I don't talk to them much during the day except for occasional phone call. I feel so guilty. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:10 PM Flag
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Stop feeling guilty. Just turn it off and tell them that you didn't realize it was bothering them and that you'd rather talk to them anyway. Then hit CNN when they go to bed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:13 PM Flag
[ - ] Please explain the difference between a veiled brag and a humble brag! 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 10:46 PM Flag
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I went to an out of town wedding a few weeks ago, I took my usual outfit I wear. I have lost a lot of weight recently ( not on purpose, due to stress) and when I looked in the hotel mirror I gasped "OMG my skirt is falling off!" (I looked awful, I was shocked.) My SIL said I was bragging, I hate her so much. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 10:50 PM Flag
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Did this really happen or is this just your example for OP. I have a similar thing going on but have been afraid to post my question for fear that I will be accused of bragging about my weight loss. So frustrating, you work so hard to get fit and people are immediately jealous or hateful of you for success. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:02 PM Flag
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OP^^^^yes, this recently happened to me. I felt like I was not bragging, but I guess I was misunderstood (as usual, LOL.) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:10 PM Flag
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Humble brag is like saying "oh it was such a blessing to me when I went to that 3rd world country and built all those homes for all those poor people." Veiled brag is more like "I'm having a real problem. I just don't know what to do with all this money, please help me figure it out!" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 10:52 PM Flag
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I would say veiled is, "you are so lucky you don't have to deal with the NY private schools. It is just so expensive with the tuition, uniform, benefits and it just never ends!" Humble brag, "I don't know about that since I just a grandmother with a pair of eyes and ears." [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:17 PM Flag
[ - ] I must be slow....just now realizing Amy Schumer and Chuck Schumer are kinfolk! 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 10:45 PM Flag
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Probably at some point [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 10:55 PM Flag
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They are cousins, I think! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.03.15, 11:11 PM Flag
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