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[ - ] A debt collector contacted my sister and basically scared the crap out of her that U.S. bank was taking her to court over an acct from 2008. She gave a credit card number bc she was freaked. They sent her the agreement to sign through email. No of course she wants to investigate further bc she thinks it's not the right amount. Will they charge her card if she does not sign the agreement and send it back to them? Or is that illegal. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 12:13 AM Flag
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Don't you think this is a question your sister should be asking a lawyer or credit counselor? [ Reply | More ]
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The agreement should detail the amount owed plus any interest or penalties. If not, she can ask for it. If it doesn't agree with her records, she can tell them the correct amount. But 7 years of interest adds up. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] I have been married for 8 years, DH still sends his ex bday cards, etc. He says he made mistakes, etc. It annoys me. 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Unacceptable! [ Reply | More ]
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OP, only ecards? [ Reply | More ]
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Ex wife? Coparent? Or just an old girlfriend? [ Reply | More ]
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ex-wife , as he said, the mother of his child who had to do most of parenting. [ Reply | More ]
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It's fine. He should maintain a good relationship with her [ Reply | More ]
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This. Are there children? [ Reply | More ]
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yes, one DC [ Reply | More ]
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sounds like a decent human being. it goes around comes around. it really does. [ Reply | More ]
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I divorced my DH because he cheated. He still sends me small presents on the landmarks. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Why is everyone in my family throwing second baby showers? We're talking same gender, 2 years apart. They're going to want to throw one for me too and I'm going to politely decline but it'll be "a thing". Not a real problem... I know 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Every baby should be celebrated. Obviously established parents who have all of the basics don't need a bunch of extravagant gifts, but everyone needs diapers and onesies, and saying "meh" because it isn't the first baby is mean. [ Reply | More ]
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Np totally disagree. So tacky [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 12:17 AM Flag
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This. Showers started back when people actually had babies young and needed help. Now with registries for thousand dollar strollers it has become an obscene gift grab. [ Reply | More ]
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Do you skip the second child's birthday parties? [ Reply | More ]
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niece doing it, too. [ Reply | More ]
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Yuck [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Do people still care about Soho house? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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No. Not at all. [ Reply | More ]
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Yes [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Would you date a guy who works in finance? (mba/cfa type) 15 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Sure but it would depend exactly on what he did and what kind of person he was. You're generalizing in a way that's almost comical. [ Reply | More ]
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This. So much more important. Is he nice to you, nice to his family? [ Reply | More ]
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I wasn't aware there was one "mba/cfa type" [ Reply | More ]
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This. Many MBAs from lower tier schools could not pass CFA Level one on their best day. [ Reply | More ]
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Well presumably the guy that op is seeing is already certified.... [ Reply | More ]
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I also know people who have cfa but no mba. [ Reply | More ]
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Those guys are much more marketable. And women too. [ Reply | More ]
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Not really (I work in the industry). [ Reply | More ]
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a cfa is better than an mba from pace, surely. [ Reply | More ]
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a cfa is like an mba from a pretty good school without the recruiting. [ Reply | More ]
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Sure! Why not? [ Reply | More ]
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Of course. I am of that ilk, so birds of a feather.... [ Reply | More ]
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Yep but I am that type (mba/cfa). [ Reply | More ]
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Ugh I never say this, but I think this is clearly fake. [ Reply | More ]
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dated almost exclusively those types. was in it myself so not surprising. married one, too. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] 1 hour till Brucila!!!!! 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Hey OP, you spelled it wrong. [ Reply | More ]
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what is that? [ Reply | More ]
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Stop the spammer. I will never give the kardashians any clicks or media attention [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] PS87 moms please share your experience! I'm concerned about over crowding and only 1 teacher per class. And principal...... Would be very appreciated! 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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I have a 2nd grader. We are happy. Principal is more politican and APs have a lot of influence [ Reply | More ]
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How is the homework? Is there more than one teacher? [ Reply | More ]
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One teacher is totally fine. [ Reply | More ]
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It looks like a prison [ Reply | More ]
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Honey they all do. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] It's such a cliche but DH is an ex-college athelete and your typical macho athletic testosterone guy. Our son is 7 and is not interested in sports at all and is very sweet, sensitive, and bookish. He had one close friend at school and DH is terrified that DS will turn out to be a loser loner who will get bullied. We love in a suburb where sports is king. DH's worries are completely unwarranted, yes? 15 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.24.15, 11:56 PM Flag
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no not in the burbs [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.24.15, 11:58 PM Flag
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my 8 yo ds is EXACTLY the same: books, science, nice, sensitive - I've had the same worries. my dh isn't into sports at all and neither am I, figured that's why he isn't. I do make him do one athletic activity each season though. he'll be fine in the long run but possible issues before he finds "his crowd" [ Reply | More ]
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We tried enrolling DS in a variety of sports, but he's not interested at all. He's prime bully material because he has know-it-all tendencies, which we are trying to work on. DH has recently accepted that DS won't be like him and since we have another DD, he wants to move to an area that is less sports-inclined. Scarsdale? Anyway, I find the whole thing ridiculous. [ Reply | More ]
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Because girls can't be sports-minded? [ Reply | More ]
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He tried with her. No luck. She's getting a Phd in princess right now. [ Reply | More ]
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I thought she was younger than your DS? [ Reply | More ]
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Your son should at least be in one of the martial arts, so he is confident in defending himself if he does become a target for bullies. It's a lot easier to be your own person (as a nerdy kid) if you know you don't have to be afraid of anyone. [ Reply | More ]
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+1 Two DSs, one bookish, one all about sports. We push both out of their comfort zones. Bookish one has to do an individual sport to stay fit and feel confident in physical situations. Athlete has to do something literary/language, so he won't pigeon-hole himself as a dumb jock or get stuck for words and rely on physical responses. [ Reply | More ]
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You are in the wrong burb. Move to Edgemont, with the Asians and Jews, not a great football town. [ Reply | More ]
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Could you list his height/weight percentiles? 7 is still very young. If by 9, he still shows no interest in sports, then that is a different story. Things will be easier on him if he is bigger. Sports are a big deal in the suburbs, so I don't think that your dh is totally off the mark (sadly) [ Reply | More ]
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PS: is your son in public or private school? That could also make a difference. [ Reply | More ]
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Public. We can't afford private. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 12:09 AM Flag
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He has consistently been about 60% weight and 30% height. Unfortunately, he got his height from me whereas DH is very tall. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 12:06 AM Flag
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Ah. Okay. Well a short, bookish kid with no hand-eye coordination in a suburban public school has not been dealt the best hand. But how is he doing socially? Does he have friends? How many and what are they like? Social skills actually play a more important role than athletic ability-- but athletic ability can make up for a lack of social skills. None of this will be an issue until he reaches puberty. Before that, he will be a happy little kid :) But puberty is so unforgiving and adolescents treat each other terribly... [ Reply | More ]
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You both seem really eager to pigeon-hole your kids and write them off. They're still really small! [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Boring post, have to buy a new vacuum, we have carpet, wood, tile and pets... suggestions? 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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We've had a Miele for almost 10! Years. Expensive but good [ Reply | More ]
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That's what I'm looking at, canister or upright? [ Reply | More ]
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+1, canister, so quiet too [ Reply | More ]
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Still have my Hoover windtunnel from 1996. Have had to change the belts a few times, but thing does the work. [ Reply | More ]
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my windtunnel died after 3 years [ Reply | More ]
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Sorry to hear. DH is good at fixing these things. [ Reply | More ]
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That's what we have that's broken! Second time it broke in two years and I was told at two different places that it's not worth repairing :( [ Reply | More ]
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Do NOT use Dyson on rugs or carets. [ Reply | More ]
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np. What? Why not? We have one and it works fine on our carpets. [ Reply | More ]
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We had a dyson years ago, had to get it fixed so many times I should've bought a new one earlier than I did. [ Reply | More ]
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Dyson is too strong for carpet fibers. Ruins good rugs and carpets! Ask any fine rug dealer. [ Reply | More ]
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You should not beat the fibers. [ Reply | More ]
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kenmore canister the higherish end ones with some power. [ Reply | More ]
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We hate our Meile. It's become a joke how much it sucks. The repair guy knows us by name. Definitely don't recommend, the upright at least! [ Reply | More ]
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I've heard they need a lot of repairs but it seems like if I get a cheap one I will just keep buying one every 2-3 years? [ Reply | More ]
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kenmore -- will set you back about $200 - $250. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 12:17 AM Flag
[ - ] Sorry for tmi, but How do you get rid of yucky, painful bumps on/under your butt... Mine have reached halfway down my legs in the back and I'm so self-conscious about them, especially for sex 33 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Have you gone to your gyn? Sounds like it could be herpes. Anyone can get it it doesn't mean your promiscuous. [ Reply | More ]
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The gift that keeps on giving. [ Reply | More ]
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sounds like a bacterial infection. Go to your Derm. [ Reply | More ]
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How does anyone just contract herpes? [ Reply | More ]
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WTF? What on earth is that? [ Reply | More ]
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+1 wha?? [ Reply | More ]
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Was this after ANAL sex? [ Reply | More ]
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What kind of bumps? Like pimples, or like warts? [ Reply | More ]
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Op. Jesus. No this wasn't anal and it's not herpes.. It's like pimples, I get them from sitting too long, I believe? Doesn't everyone have them? Dh does. I just have them more than usual at the moment... Wondering if there was anything I could do... [ Reply | More ]
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I don't have them and I sit/lounge the the best of them. [ Reply | More ]
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Do you weigh 600 pounds? [ Reply | More ]
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Are they actually imples? I mean - not to be gross, but - if you squeeze them, do they pop like pimples, or are they solid? [ Reply | More ]
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First, exfoliate. Second exfoliate with acne wash. After that I am with the herpes camp [ Reply | More ]
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Not with acne wash. It will dry out the skin and make it worse if it's KP. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 12:07 AM Flag
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Nope. Start with acne wash. [ Reply | More ]
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np. No, NOT if it's keratosis pilaris, as the other poster said. Regular exfoliation and moisturize with Amlactin or another lotion like that. [ Reply | More ]
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Not for KP. The cause of the bumps is not at all baterial. [ Reply | More ]
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It's KP. See lost below. You need to get St. Ives apricot body scrub and a pumice stone to exfoliate. Stay away from anti bacterial soaps - it will dry out your skin and make it worse. Go buy Amlactin lotion - ask the pharmacist for it as its sold behind the counter. Moisturize EVERYDAY with a lotion that does not contain petroleum. GL. [ Reply | More ]
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np. (every day) [ Reply | More ]
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Do you mean pinprick or pimple-like numbs? I get those (and they're worse in the winter). I recommend AmKactin lotion and TendSkin. [ Reply | More ]
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Probably Keratosis Pilaris. http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Keratosis_pilaris [ Reply | More ]
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np. This is what I was thinking. [ Reply | More ]
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Ick [ Reply | More ]
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It's quite common. 50% of the population has it. [ Reply | More ]
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Super common. [ Reply | More ]
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Yup. Even Beyoncé has it. [ Reply | More ]
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Almost half of the adult population has it. [ Reply | More ]
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But that's not what op is talking about. That would be a really odd place for it, especially if it's nowhere else [ Reply | More ]
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That's not true. I speak from experience. [ Reply | More ]
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How do you know that's not what OP is talking about? I'm still waiting for her to clarify. And evidently a lot of people with KP get it on their backside and thighs. [ Reply | More ]
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I worked with someone who had those all over her upper arms. She picked at it and it would scab. [ Reply | More ]
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Exfoliate, use tea tree oil then a light moisturizer. [ Reply | More ]
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What the Hell are you talking about?! [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Met a guy on an online site. We move to text and he asks for pictures immediately. Is that creepy or not? My profile has four pictures. One very recent. A full body shot, etc. 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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he's probably pursuing many leads at once and has forgotten which name goes with which profile. just send him the pics from your profile again [ Reply | More ]
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Wrong. He's trying to weed out the ugly fatties before he invests any more time. [ Reply | More ]
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np. This is what I think, too. I agree with the OR below who suggested sending him one quick selfie and suggesting you meet somewhere like a museum. See how he responds. [ Reply | More ]
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This. I used to get asked all the time for more pix. So annoying. [ Reply | More ]
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Yes. It's creepy. He already has pictures of you. He obviously now means nude ones. [ Reply | More ]
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LOL. Plz dont post nude pics. Will regret it. [ Reply | More ]
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Too hard to tell. He may have met a lot of women who posted old pictures, or he may be a creep. Send him a quick selfie and ask to meet at an interesting museum exhibit this weekend. Don't waste time texting. [ Reply | More ]
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Totally creepy [ Reply | More ]
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Not creepy, but definitely not for me. Moving offline to text/calls means 1st date soon after. If he's not prepared to meet in person, move on. [ Reply | More ]
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OP please tell us he doesn't have naked pictures of you!!! Cut this off or move to a physical relationship and meet him. [ Reply | More ]
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He doesn't. I told him that was creepy and he could schedule a date or not. He hasn't reaponded. He's just collecting photos for masturbation. Next. [ Reply | More ]
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Ah because he's a dirtbag. You need to suss out weirdos faster. Don't share so much personal info. [ Reply | More ]
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Tell him your pics are online. If he still wants more (I am NOT assuming nude pics--total dealbreaker there!), then forget it. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] How long does it take for prunes to kick in? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Drink a big glass of room temp water. [ Reply | More ]
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I think prune juice works better than prunes for some reason [ Reply | More ]
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So tempted to try ballerina tea but scared I'll get sick. Wouldn't do it today after the prunes but maybe in the future. [ Reply | More ]
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What's that? [ Reply | More ]
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Mom is so much better [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Adjustment Disorder (sporadically) said the clinical psychologist. Going through divorce. Having a diagnosed disorder makes me feel like I have arrived as a New Yorker. Woo hoo for me! 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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What is it? [ Reply | More ]
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The type of stress that can trigger an adjustment disorder/stress response syndrome varies depending on the person, but can include: Ending of a relationship or marriage Losing or changing job Death of a loved one Developing a serious illness (yourself or a loved one) Being a victim of a crime Having an accident [ Reply | More ]
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I meant what are the symptoms or is it just a generic dx for going through a difficult experience? [ Reply | More ]
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"Flash Depression" or "Pop Up Depression", but just moments that last 5 minutes or 30 minutes....(for me)....centered around the issue. For me though the Doctor did not think I needed any meds or anything. They just encouraged me to connected with life and the world... [ Reply | More ]
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I think it's just a garden variety diagnosis, nothing that serious. [ Reply | More ]
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Isn't that just life in the real world? How is that a diagnosis? [ Reply | More ]
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Everything needs a dx for insurance. [ Reply | More ]
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A way to get insurance reimbursement? [ Reply | More ]
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yep - which I appreciated [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] We are looking at a SFH next week that is currently being rented out. I think there's a strong chance we'll make an offer on it. Can we request to see a copy of the lease (with any sensitive info whited out, of course) before we make an offer? I'm concerned about making an offer without knowing all the facts and I certainly don't trust seller's agent to present everything we need to know. We are not working with buyer agent but have legal representation. Thanks. 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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why wouldn't you work with a buyer agent? It's not at all at a cost to you. [ Reply | More ]
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OP: Long story, but don't want or need one. Do you know the answer to my question? [ Reply | More ]
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well it sounds like you might need one. I don't know if your legal representation will be an expert at tenant law. [ Reply | More ]
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OP: They're an expert in real estate transactions, so I suspect they've seen this before. However, too early to bring them into the process. Was hoping someone here knows the answer. [ Reply | More ]
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np. Classic UB non-answer answer. [ Reply | More ]
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OP: Seriously, right? So funny. [ Reply | More ]
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And aggravating. I've decided I'm going to start pointing them out whenever I see them, after another poster tried to argue the other day that it's not common here. [ Reply | More ]
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OP: I've been on here for several years. I agree with you 100%. People here just looooove to argue and judge. A pretty miserable group, overall. However, some of them are fairly knowledgeable at times, so it's always worth a shot. [ Reply | More ]
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True, true! [ Reply | More ]
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It is at a cost. Please, brokers more likely to cut commission without another one in ther. [ Reply | More ]
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OP: It is at what cost? Can you expand on that please? [ Reply | More ]
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Brokers charge rack rate of whatever 5-6%. If sale gets tough, with one broker, they may kick in some $$$ [ Reply | More ]
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OP: Yes, I know what they charge. But I'm talking about getting all info we need before we make an offer. I cannot make an offer on the house without seeing the lease, it would be stupid. What I want to know is, if I ask them to give me that, will they do so and/or are they legally required to do so? [ Reply | More ]
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Selling an occupied house is very tough, yes they should expect to give copy of lease. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.24.15, 11:48 PM Flag
[ - ] Someone posted this earlier, but I totally agree. Most posts on here are now fake. I started coming on here 4 years ago when my daughter was born, and I found some snark, but mostly legitimate feedback (even if bitchy). Some Fiji mom, sandwich dad, and Kiwi. But they were the exception. Now I feel like unemployed writers or bored law students are the bulk of the (fake) posts. It's too bad. 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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yet you're here. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.24.15, 11:36 PM Flag
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Every time someone posts something critical about UB, this is the easy and silly response. I get where OP is coming from. I still come on here, but more more rarely. Maybe you're exactly the kind of poster OP is describing? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.24.15, 11:40 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.24.15, 11:44 PM Flag
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+ [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.24.15, 11:54 PM Flag
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ITA [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.24.15, 11:55 PM Flag
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I know. I just logged in this month after some time off ( self imposed! This place is addictive). But this is just not what it used to be. I keep hoping though [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 12:04 AM Flag
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Yes. I posted that. Things have really changed here. Lots of trolls, writers, women hating men, fake dh posts, etc. i think i'm almost done with this site. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 12:07 AM Flag
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Yep [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 12:08 AM Flag
[ - ] Wish I had the courage to stop just fantasizing and really lived as I dream (sexually). Before I get too old I am thinking about vacation in a city where no one knows me, and letting the naughty in me live out. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.24.15, 11:34 PM Flag
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How old are you now? Are you attached? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.24.15, 11:36 PM Flag
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what are your fantasies? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.24.15, 11:39 PM Flag
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spit roast mostly, enjoying 2 men at once. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.24.15, 11:43 PM Flag
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fake - only a man would use the term 'spit roast' [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.24.15, 11:49 PM Flag
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Again another fake post [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.24.15, 11:58 PM Flag
[ - ] Housekeeper gets $200. She has been with me for a year. She is going on maternity leave for a year. How much should I pay her? 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.24.15, 11:32 PM Flag
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pay her? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.24.15, 11:33 PM Flag
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One year maternity? This has to be fake everyone needs a paycheck. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.24.15, 11:33 PM Flag
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Is Op a charity? I didn't get one year maternity pay. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.24.15, 11:53 PM Flag
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Np: in Canada (where I live) we get a year, in many countries they get more. The U.S. is the anomaly. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 12:10 AM Flag
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^^so if she was legal, she'd get some government support. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 12:11 AM Flag
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26 weeks full pay, 13 weeks half pay, 13 weeks sick pay in the UK. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.24.15, 11:39 PM Flag
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Lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.24.15, 11:47 PM Flag
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I don't understand [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.24.15, 11:54 PM Flag
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? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.24.15, 11:57 PM Flag
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Nothing unless she works. Get her a baby gift. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 12:02 AM Flag
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Fake [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 12:03 AM Flag
[ - ] 1.5 hours till Brucilla! 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.24.15, 11:28 PM Flag
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what is it? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.24.15, 11:29 PM Flag
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You really need to get some hobbies. And a life. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.24.15, 11:30 PM Flag
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Less than 1.5 hours till Brucilla! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.24.15, 11:35 PM Flag
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lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 12:05 AM Flag
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HuH? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.24.15, 11:31 PM Flag
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zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.24.15, 11:31 PM Flag
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Stop spamming for those horrible people. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.24.15, 11:36 PM Flag
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So grossed out by him. Absolutely repulsive. This sort of thing should be left at home, not prime time TV where it could be seen by young children. We have fallen so far. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.24.15, 11:41 PM Flag
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Oh, stfu and get back under your bridge, you stupid hag. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.25.15, 12:06 AM Flag
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