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[ - ] My 401k just crossed the 1 mil mark today 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:18 PM Flag
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Nice [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:19 PM Flag
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hi5! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:19 PM Flag
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how long have you had it? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:20 PM Flag
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since first year after college [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:23 PM Flag
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how old are you now? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:25 PM Flag
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congrats! I am only at 250k and fear I will die of old age at my desk. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:20 PM Flag
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Congratulations! Have you had company matching along the way or had great investment returns, or just got there with max contributions each year? Tell us how it's done! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:21 PM Flag
[ - ] I want to look fabulous on new years eve in a dress the juuuuust fits today...considering timing, would you spend your time running or going to Barre classes over the next week? I can budget about an hour/day to work out. FYI..don't need to lose a ton of weight - just want to look fit. 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:10 PM Flag
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Personally I would do Barre or Pilates - will help you stand in a way that looks lean and healthy, running a lot / daily can make people look gaunt if it is not part of their regular routine. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:23 PM Flag
[ - ] Has anyone done a kids' birthday party at Jekyll & Hyde? Thoughts? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:09 PM Flag
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sometimes its nice and sometimes it sucks so go figure [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:16 PM Flag
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OP: yes, the reviews are very mixed. It's $10 less pp at the Greenwich Village location, but I suspect that's because it's less polished. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:18 PM Flag
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be wary! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:20 PM Flag
[ - ] I think I'll get my boyfriend a pair of nice optical frames... Can anyone please recommend good eyeglass store? I work on UES. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:08 PM Flag
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With him trying them on, right? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:13 PM Flag
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Right [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:17 PM Flag
[ - ] Are guinea pigs disgusting pets? My kids want one so badly. We can't handle a puppy right now so I'm this close to getting a GP. Pros? Cons? 18 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:06 PM Flag
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absolutely disgusting. they fart a lot (esp if you feed them broccoli, had a college roommate who did this) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:07 PM Flag
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they bite, smell, squeal and are nocturnal - not sure if there are any pros [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:08 PM Flag
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makes a good mitten? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:09 PM Flag
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They are nocturnal and they poop a lot. Dogs are more work but much more reward. A fat little rodent is nothing like a dog. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:09 PM Flag
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GP are not nocturnal. Hamsters are. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:22 PM Flag
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My friend bought her dd a guinea pig instead of a puppy. She said it was the best thing they did. You have to stay on the kids to keep their cage clean. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:10 PM Flag
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Go with Chinese dwarf hamsters. Much cuter. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:11 PM Flag
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Their urine reeks like cat pee. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:11 PM Flag
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Gross. They smell and take up a lot of space. Also, if you have a cat allergy, you may be allergic to them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:12 PM Flag
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I've found the only pets worth having are cats and dogs. These caged rodents smell, and they aren't much fun for the kids. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:13 PM Flag
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We have them as preschool class pets and they're great! Very sweet and gentle and happy to be held and petted. They are stinky when you need to clean their cage but that's a fairly easy job. They are social creatures so I think it's better to get a pair (but make sure they are the same sex!) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:14 PM Flag
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OP thanks can you bathe them? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:16 PM Flag
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No! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:18 PM Flag
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Animal lover here- they are the worst pets. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:17 PM Flag
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I love em. Gentle, Sweet. Just change their cage every 2 days. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:17 PM Flag
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How about a rabbit? More interactive than a GP and can be litter trained very easily. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:18 PM Flag
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You, your apartment, your children, everything will smell like their feces, wood chips and urine. Plus I think it's mean. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:19 PM Flag
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We kept the class pet this past summer. It was similar, a hedgehog, and an awful pet. Others have mentioned they are nocturnal, don't do much and cleaning the poop off of its stupid wheel is the worst. ITA that dogs are much better. Maybe get an adult rescue rather than a puppy? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:19 PM Flag
[ - ] Hey North Korea: We Gonna Git You Sucka 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:06 PM Flag
[ - ] My dd 2yo woke me up this morning by stroking my face and whispering "mommy you're my best friend. I love you mommy". She went to bed last night trying to claw my eyeballs out... 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:05 PM Flag
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csb [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:06 PM Flag
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Well, you probably are his best friend ... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:08 PM Flag
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it's a her [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:08 PM Flag
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Oh, well, totally different then. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:08 PM Flag
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Then you know that toddlers are mercurial (like kids up until around 23) and you shouldn't spend much time worrying what they think about you or taking that stuff seriously. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:15 PM Flag
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Mean girls say those "you are my best friend" line at younger age these days. It used to start at 8yo, then 5yo, now 2yo [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:19 PM Flag
[ - ] Scene in the Suburbs: SAHMs who drink too much wine. 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:03 PM Flag
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I am an urban WOHM who drinks too much wine. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:04 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:07 PM Flag
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wow that sucks. never happens in the city. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:04 PM Flag
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Scene in the Suburbs: SAHMs who stay at home a lot [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:05 PM Flag
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how are you supposed to tolerate the burbs if you don't drink too much booze? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:06 PM Flag
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And they all think that they're big shots for drinking $15 bottles of Pinot Grigio. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:10 PM Flag
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Those suburbanites! Ha! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:14 PM Flag
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Don't get me wrong. I'm a born and raised suburbanite and I love living in the burbs. And I drink $5 bottles of wine all the time. But I don't put photos of me doing it on Facebook. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:16 PM Flag
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Said it once and I'll say it again: scenes from the most boring movie ever written. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:23 PM Flag
[ - ] I have decided to stay in my marriage and just have some life of my own to feel less oppressed and happier. I don't want another man but I want to have a fulfilling social life and some happiness that isn't just about kids. I am going to get a sitter as if for date night and am going to make my own plans with friends on Friday night after kids go to bed. I hope this works. 18 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 04:59 PM Flag
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What would derail you being social with your friends? Is your DH against this? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:00 PM Flag
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He is not against this in theory but if I go out he will call every 30 minutes and text to make sure I am going to get home soon and safe. My biggest issue is that I don't have anyone to stay with kids and that I feel guilty to leave the kids with a sitter. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:03 PM Flag
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Have you ever told him that your phone would be in your purse and you'll see him in 3 hours? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:09 PM Flag
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He knows where I am and who I am with. He just does this anyway. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:10 PM Flag
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But do you ignore his pestering or do you engage? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:18 PM Flag
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Good luck. It never does. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:00 PM Flag
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+1 btdt [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:02 PM Flag
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divorced? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:04 PM Flag
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yep couldn't handle it anymore, the separated but together crap [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:07 PM Flag
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Together but alone seems worse to me right nigh. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:09 PM Flag
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Sounds reasonable. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:01 PM Flag
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I suppose it's worth a try. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:02 PM Flag
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Build the life that you think you would have if you were divorced. Spend more time with family and friends. Develop an interest. Exercise and eat better. Have a good relationship with your kids regardless of what their relationship is with their dad. I guarantee you that your life will improve [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:03 PM Flag
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That is my resolution for 2015. TY! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:05 PM Flag
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You should've never stop doing that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:03 PM Flag
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I know but I did and am very unhappy now. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:04 PM Flag
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This is normal, isn't it? To have friends and interests outside of DH and DC? A bit sad if DH can't or won't spend time with his children but if getting sitters helps, go for it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:05 PM Flag
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He spends time with children just not with me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:06 PM Flag
[ - ] Any Sutton Terrace moms on? The staff list for the building is crazy. Do you think the doormen will be upset/angry if we do not tip? We just cannot afford to give this year. Do the doormen really except big $$ for Xmas, even though it is faculty housing? 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 04:57 PM Flag
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cannot imagine how much these guys rake in TAX FREE. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 04:58 PM Flag
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+1 It's not like they are waiters who depend on tips for a decent living wage. They are unionized and get overtime for any weekend/after 5 pm service. I won't be crying for them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:01 PM Flag
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is it true the doorman can make 50-80K? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:03 PM Flag
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But what gets me is that ST is not some fancy CPW building. It's subsidized faculty housing. I don't know anyone who tips at Payson House-- why are ST residents expected to tip? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:11 PM Flag
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What I really hate is the fake-nice they do around Thanksgiving. They ignore my kid all year and all of a sudden, "HI FIVE, LITTLE BUDDY!!!" Ugh. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:02 PM Flag
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^^The fake-nice starts around Thxgiving and stops right after Xmas. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:02 PM Flag
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OMG THIS [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:03 PM Flag
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LOL, so true. One of them never opens the door after Xmas, even if he sees me juggling a baby and a toddler in a stroller. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:08 PM Flag
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of course they will be pissed if you don't tip. Cut back somewhere else and you can afford it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:03 PM Flag
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+1. gotta play the game. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:05 PM Flag
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No, we really can't. We are taking care of my mom's hospital bills this year. DH is just a postdoc, and I do not work. Honestly, we cannot afford to give. I could barely scrape together $20 for my kid's class gift. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:06 PM Flag
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so is it bad to not tip at all or tip little? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:06 PM Flag
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Honestly, in your case I'd be straight with them. Just walk up to them and say straight out - "guys, you know I appreciate everything you do throughout the year, but you know I'm not working and my husband is a post-doc so things are tight this kind of year. I'd love to do something nice for you guys - what can I do? A case of beer? A few bottles of wine? Let me know." They're blue collar guys - they get that some years are rougher than others. It will only piss them off if they think you deliberately stiffed them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:14 PM Flag
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But they will be checking out your shopping bags and mail deliveries all year. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:17 PM Flag
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They do that anyway, of course. But yes, if you have the money, you should throw them something. If you really don't have the money, then what are they going to see in your bag? A loaf of bread? Milk? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:19 PM Flag
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When there are that many staff, how do you even hand them out? We have to go looking for them one by one in our building and it's a drag. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:23 PM Flag
[ - ] Need a new sectional couch but I have a 4yo. Any suggestions re a brand/fabric, etc that's easy to clean? I want something somewhat modern (so a little more modern than a pottery barn type). TIA 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 04:57 PM Flag
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OP: Sorry for multiple post. Computer glitch. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 04:57 PM Flag
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Room & Board. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 04:58 PM Flag
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+1. Go leather if you can. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:00 PM Flag
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+1 Have had fabric for several years -- tan with some texture/pattern. Easy to clean, and any lasting stains blend-in. Not the most elegant piece, but comfortable and decent looking. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:18 PM Flag
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IKEA ektorp sectional - washable covers [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:17 PM Flag
[ - ] DH is turning 40 soon. We have two DCs in pre-school. What should I get him? He is very into sports and doesn't really want/need anything. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 04:56 PM Flag
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tickets to a sporting event? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 04:58 PM Flag
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+1 - rangers tix [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:02 PM Flag
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blue pill [ Reply | More ]
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lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:18 PM Flag
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Telecaster. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.19.14, 05:00 PM Flag
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Life insurance. [ Reply | More ]
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