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[ - ] Why did the FBI blow up the North Tower? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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It was there [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] What are your thoughts on circumcision? http://abcnews.go.com/Health/mom-jailed-circumcision-dispute-agrees-proceedure/story?id=31235057 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 04:15 PM Flag
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Pro-circumcision but this case is insane. Just dial overreach to say the least. [ Reply | More ]
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Judicial not "just dial" [ Reply | More ]
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My thought is owner of penis decides. [ Reply | More ]
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+1 same with piercing baby's ears. cosmetic body modification is for the body owner to decide. [ Reply | More ]
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It's not cosmetic [ Reply | More ]
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It was, it isn't, 20 years from now who knows [ Reply | More ]
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Barbaric and medieval. No wonder only Jews do it. [ Reply | More ]
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I know you're trying to be provocative but you must know that Jews are not the only people that circumcise. [ Reply | More ]
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After seeing a penile infection firsthand, I am pro circumcision [ Reply | More ]
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This. I know three men who had to be circumcised at older ages due to recurrent infections [ Reply | More ]
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+1 I know two. [ Reply | More ]
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That's just a consequence of poor hygiene. That type of reasoning is comparable to removing a person's ears due to a risk of infections. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 04:25 PM Flag
[ - ] I'm in a huge fight with dh, and it's our 14 year anniversary on Monday. The details of the fight are completely stupid; he apologized, and yes, I'm a pain, but I don't think his apology was enough. I'm not sure what else I want, but I want more. I want to feel like he is really sorry, and right now I feel like he did something wrong, said he was sorry, and he expects everything to be fine. I don't think he should get down on one knee and beg for forgiveness, but he should do more. How do I move on from here? It's now snowballed, we aren't speaking, and I'm starting to feel angry and bitter about everything else that ever went wrong. It's getting worse. I just don't know where to go from here. I'm not trying to be a pain, but I don't feel like I should give In and just forgive him. 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:57 PM Flag
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Take some time, get some exercise, write a letter expressing your feelings and burn it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 04:00 PM Flag
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Sounds like you need a third party (mediation or couples therapy) to work through this shit. If you keep internalizing it, it's only going to get worse. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 04:01 PM Flag
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Probably, but that's not happening today/tomorrow. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 04:01 PM Flag
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Okay, well see first OR's response above, or, take a vacation from him (leave and stay in hotel). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 04:03 PM Flag
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We have three dc's, one is still being breastfed. I can't go anywhere. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 04:20 PM Flag
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just chill out about it, if you cannot actually express what it is you want from him how is he supposed to know [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 04:11 PM Flag
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Get over yourself. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 04:04 PM Flag
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Did he leave his dishes in the sink or have drinks with his ex-girlfriend and lie about it? Makes a difference whether you are a pain or in need of couples therapy. [ Reply | More ]
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Lets assume I am a pain. I ask for very little from him, but every now and then, this happens. [ Reply | More ]
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It's not your job to punish him [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 04:18 PM Flag
[ - ] DD gave me a bag of methamphetamine for mothers day. Should I smoke it all now, or save some for tomorrow? So excited!!! 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:56 PM Flag
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26 Federal Plaza, New York, NY. You're welcome. [ Reply | More ]
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What is that, Homeland Security? Lol. You seem dumb. [ Reply | More ]
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Yes, sweetie, and the FBI offices too. If you want to meet me there, I'll get you in on my ID. [ Reply | More ]
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Why does crystal meth feel so good to smoke with your 2 year old dd? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 04:16 PM Flag
[ - ] Trying again for today's crowd. DH wants to add a loft and a shower, to change our vacation condo from 2 bedrooms/1.5 bath to 2 Bedrooms plus sleeping loft/2 Baths. Will cost about 25K. Do people think it is worth it? I am taking RE value only (we have good bids). 17 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:54 PM Flag
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Sounds cheap. An added bathroom will help with resale and rental value goes up with an added sleeping area as well. Sounds like a good idea. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:57 PM Flag
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OP- what is your hesitation? [ Reply | More ]
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Right now, my 15 YO SD sleeps on couch, works out fine. Easier for her to be part of family. With her loft, she will hide more. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 04:09 PM Flag
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Does everyone else get a bedroom besides her? [ Reply | More ]
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no kid should have to regularly sleep on a couch, you say you have two bedrooms why isn't she using one of them? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 04:12 PM Flag
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She only comes every other weekend. Our 4 YO twins share one bedroom. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 04:14 PM Flag
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give the poor kid a sleeping space - horrible to make her sleep on the couch - why don't you and your dh give up your room for her if you don't think sleeping on a couch is a problem regularly [ Reply | More ]
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It is going from half bath to full baht. The plumbing for the shower had already been roughed in, so it is not a huge deal, but we would have to give up closet space. The sleeping loft is in an area with a cathedral ceiling, so it is adding steep stairs up. [ Reply | More ]
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Another full bath adds value. Closet space shouldn't really matter in a vacation home. And lofts always have steep stairs. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 04:04 PM Flag
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I wouldn't let $$$ drive you, if you need more space and you afford it, go for it. No one can predict real estate values. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:59 PM Flag
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np, I agree that no one can predict values, BUT even if values go down, this place will be MUCH more marketable than it was. If OP has to sell, it will sell much easier. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 04:04 PM Flag
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This. No one knows the future. If DH/Op have to see the vacation condo when boys go to college, this unit will be MUCH easier to sell. [ Reply | More ]
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i only see an upside, making a 2 full bath and more sleeping space will only increase the place in value [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:59 PM Flag
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This. In a vacation condo, hard to believe that someone wont be able to climb up to loft. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 04:16 PM Flag
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Ahh..insensitive step mother is back!! Wants her teen SD to sleep on the couch and take care of her 4 yr old twins while she sleeps in. Stop being a cheap ass and give the girl some privacy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 04:01 PM Flag
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is this a troll, have not seen other posts - but it seems like a no brainer even without the added info - can not imagine what the hesitation would be [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 04:19 PM Flag
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Could be a troll, who knows, but it could be that OP doesnt want to lose her mother's helper, and is trying to argue money. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 04:20 PM Flag
[ - ] It's cold out! Wtf?! 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:41 PM Flag
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Yep, first Saturday in the Hamptons is a bust. The pool is warm, but getting out is torture. Sucks. [ Reply | More ]
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Waaaaaaaaa [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:50 PM Flag
[ - ] Was looking forward to doing nothing all weekend - siting outside, etc. MIL called and "would like to see the kids". Translation = I have to clean my house, go shopping and BBQ. How did I do this in the simplest, easiest manner? Hamburgers and salad? What sucks is that if its truly really simple, she will definitely say something like "I would have brought over food. Or come earlier to "help" you cook". So annoying. Work FT, in finance, and I didn't leave the office until 9pm last night. 3 dc's. 44 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:40 PM Flag
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How about tomorrow? Or Monday? Give yourself a day [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:42 PM Flag
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Next time tell her you're very tired and she can take the kids for the day. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:42 PM Flag
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Tell her, sorry, doesnt work for us, or tell DH to got to the store and barbecue [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:42 PM Flag
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No sympathy. "Oh, we're just hanging out this weekend, but let me talk to DH and we'll let you know if there's a time we can get together." They don't own you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:44 PM Flag
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This. Just say no. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:48 PM Flag
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I'm sorry. Is your MIL the queen of some country? I'd like to see the kids means I'd like to see the kids. You either say, "sure" or "no thank you." If the answer is "sure," you make what YOU want to make or order in and if she makes the OP comment, you say, "What do you mean? This food is fine." [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:47 PM Flag
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You tell her today won't work [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:49 PM Flag
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Op. I appreciate how strong you all are, but I'm not. I'm trying to be a good wife, and good DIL, and see it from her perspective, she wants to see her grand kids. But I do know, when I am the MIL, the only way I will come over is if I say "hi - wanted to see the kids! Can I come for 2 hours? I made two trays of chicken parm, salad and pasta. Is 1pm ok?" And I would clean the whole kitchen and leave after two hours. Anyway, any simple, easy, menu suggestions? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:50 PM Flag
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Gross - chicken Parm! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:54 PM Flag
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and the mil you aspire to be would make me fucking crazy - do not come into my house and entertain like it is yours - if you want to do that invite us to your house [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:55 PM Flag
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You are really evil and obnoxious. If she came to my house with food and cleaned up, I'd be thrilled. Why are you cursing? Why would this make you angry? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 04:00 PM Flag
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Evil? Take your meds, hon [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 04:01 PM Flag
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Whatever. Just know you're an angry, bitter person, and need help. [ Reply | More ]
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I'm a new poster [ Reply | More ]
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that's great for you, I am just saying it would make me fucking crazy...I don't want people forcing themselves on me and my home. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 04:08 PM Flag
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Same here. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 04:20 PM Flag
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It's not forcing. It's still asking. But it's coming with food and cleaning up. It's not expecting to be served. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 04:23 PM Flag
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Takeout [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:57 PM Flag
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A good wife and DIL does not let herself be walked over. Her perspective is that she is a person and should treat other people in kind. The correct thing to say is, "Hi. What are you guys doing this weekend? We miss the kids" and wait until the other person suggests something. -NP [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:59 PM Flag
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Huh? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 04:01 PM Flag
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Correct for MIL to say. Then, wait for OP to respond with her suggestion. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 04:07 PM Flag
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I can copy and paste her text -- something like -- "we'd love to see the kids, are you going away this weekend? We were thinking of stopping by" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 04:04 PM Flag
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Oh, that's fine. Then, say, "Sure. Can you come over at 4:00 tomorrow? We'll order pizza." If DH says otherwise, be honest. "I don't feel like cooking and I don't feel like cleaning up." [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 04:10 PM Flag
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^^Or even better, wait until they get there and then suggest, "Let's order in. Is pizza okay for everyone?" Like a previous poster said, stop treating them like royalty. And they aren't neighbors that you have invited for dinner either. They are family, they invited themselves over, and you see them all the time. Thus, they shouldn't have any expectations of you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 04:14 PM Flag
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That was the text and you felt like you had to host and BBQ and that it had to be today? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 04:21 PM Flag
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You don't have to treat it like a visit from the queen. Tell her the place isn't completely picked up but she is welcome, and you will order pizza and salads unless she would like a different kind of delivery, but you are not planning on cooking today. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:51 PM Flag
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I might just order pizza, but I think I should BBQ. I'm going to tell DH pizza, and he will say "I'll just do everything", but he won't and I'll be cleaning up all night [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:53 PM Flag
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Why do you have to clean up? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:56 PM Flag
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even more importantly, why would it take "all night" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:56 PM Flag
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He would put together hamburgers, use every dish and utensil in our kitchen, and pile it in the sink covered with BBQ sauce. It would take three dishwashers to clean and all night. Or most of the night. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:59 PM Flag
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Then, the problem is that you aren't in charge of your own life. Tell DH no, because he won't do everything OR leave it all and remind him he said he'd do everything. [ Reply | More ]
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this [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:55 PM Flag
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Burgers and some side salads from whole foods. If she says she would have brought it say "that would be great next time!" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:51 PM Flag
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This [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:54 PM Flag
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Yep. This. I am unapologetic about buying prepared food. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:57 PM Flag
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You guys are really mean. The woman wants to see her grandchildren. This is a GOOD thing. My parents died and my kids miss them so much. I thought no God they had such a close relationship. Make a simple meal. If she says anything say we like to keep it simple. Have a nice day. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:53 PM Flag
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Could you meet her at a restaurant? Or go to her house? If you have to have her over, I agree with pp who said go to whole foods and get pre-made stuff. If you think she would offer to bring food, could you ask her to do that? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:54 PM Flag
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Have DH do his share! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:55 PM Flag
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my response would be - that's great, come over sunday afternoon (gives you time to pick up a little) we'll get pizza or chinese so no one has to cook. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:56 PM Flag
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Order takeout! This is what we do in such situations. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:56 PM Flag
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Suggest she pick the dcs up and take them to the park then go have lunch somewhere. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 04:03 PM Flag
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I am a MIL. I did this last weekend! I drove 100 miles each way on a whim to see the kids. I brought spaghetti (plus some for freezer) and salad. I watched the kids and did several,loads of laundry/ mopped/cleaned kitchen while my son and DIL went out to do errands and have some alone time. I didn't expect the house to be cleaned or me entertained. We had a nice dinner and then I drove home, I hope I didn't irritate them. But, yes, I understand the OP's frustration and recommend take out food and a very quick kitchen clean up in advance. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 04:17 PM Flag
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so if MIL makes those types of comments, then use your words and say - I was looking for a relaxing weekend, why don't we get take out or go out to eat....she can then offer to bring food or not [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 04:22 PM Flag
[ - ] Nearly 39 weeks pregnant and I feel comatose most of the day. It's similar to extreme jetlag. Is this normal? 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Yes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:46 PM Flag
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Not everyone feels the way you do, but it is certainly not abnormal. Rest up. [ Reply | More ]
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I wasn't like this with my first. I had crazy amounts of energy so this is totally strange to me [ Reply | More ]
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can be different every time, but being tired in and of itself is not alarming [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 04:13 PM Flag
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Get a massage, take a warm bath [ Reply | More ]
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I feel comatose today. I was actually wishing I was pregnant so dh would feel sorry for me and let me stay in bed. Then I thought, "umm nope, you already got four kids!" [ Reply | More ]
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This is rest time, take advantage! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 04:18 PM Flag
[ - ] What's the legal term for when someone is keeping you from selling your home? E.g., Building won't fix something they are responsible for and you can't even put your place on the market until it's fixed. Barring the enjoyment and use of property, or freedom of movement or something. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Preventing your "quiet enjoyment" might be what you are looking for, bur not really your sitution. They have a contractual duty to maintaim. [ Reply | More ]
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Thanks, but I thought quiet enjoyment includes being able to sell. There isn't another term that includes that? They definitely have a contractual duty but I want to remind them that we also can't sell our home should we decide to. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Favorite fancy/special occasion restaurants in SF? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Gary Danko [ Reply | More ]
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Yes! [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] German woman, 65, gives birth to Quadruplets 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Eew. [ Reply | More ]
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I secretly wish this will be me. I love babies and wish I had more. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:51 PM Flag
[ - ] Do people snort ridalin? (Sp?) I'm not a drug addict and never have used anything. Our guests were snorting something. I assumed coke, but maybe I am wrong. I asked Dh to speak with them about it and tell them it is not an acceptable activity for our living room. Wdyt? I have two small children and I'm pregnant. Is it wrong of me to ask them to leave? 25 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:16 PM Flag
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I wouldn't worry, as long as you are not snorting anything the baby should be fine. [ Reply | More ]
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When I went to bed last night, I had to clean their snorting board. If I hadn't done it, my children might have found it in the am. I am not cool with this! Someone did unload the dishwasher for me though. [ Reply | More ]
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How far along are you? I'm pregnant, too! What are you having, a boy or a girl? We're having so much trouble with names here. I don't know what to do. Wdyt? [ Reply | More ]
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18 weeks. We have a girl and a boy, so will be a surprise! I've used fairly classic names so far. Haven't decided yet. I like Phillipa for a girl, but not Philip for a boy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:27 PM Flag
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it is perfectible acceptable to tell people to leave your home if they are doing drugs and you do not approve [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:23 PM Flag
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I disagree. I mean, come on. Who here really has NO friends at all who don't put a little something up the nose once in a while? It's 2015, this isn't shocking anymore. I wouldn't have a problem with it if they keep it away from the kids. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:26 PM Flag
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Trashy. So so trashy. I have acquaintances who do this but I would never allow it in the house [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:27 PM Flag
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Op: if it were pot outside or maybe a line of coke in their bathroom, but this was a tray of coke in my living room. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:28 PM Flag
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they can do anything they want, just not in my house [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:28 PM Flag
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This [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:40 PM Flag
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Complete trailer trash. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:30 PM Flag
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who the fuck does coke when just sitting around the house? who wants to be up all night at home? Did they go out after? just seems weird, a little weed to mellow out fine, but coke just seems weird [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:31 PM Flag
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Yes. They went out and I went to bed. Dh didn't go out either. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:35 PM Flag
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are they really young? I woudl say something to them, they do not seem to know how to be good guests [ Reply | More ]
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I would ask them to leave. Completely inappropriate on so many levels. Who are these people? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:23 PM Flag
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they are her guests! Maybe she should have a chat with the mom whose inlaws do pills, booze and pot on the weekends. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:25 PM Flag
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Yes and her guests are behaving inappropriately. Who would snort something at someone's house? Especially if there are kids in the house ... At the very least you ask permission. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:28 PM Flag
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Or do it in the bedroom. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:41 PM Flag
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Dh has friends from college and his sister/her boyfriend. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:26 PM Flag
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Unbelievable [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:29 PM Flag
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Why not just ask them not to do drugs in public part of house? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:41 PM Flag
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You can't be serious. I don't think I'm a tight ass but I would never allow this. It's outrageous [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:33 PM Flag
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Well, I'm quite simple and displeased. I didn't know if I was overreacting though. [ Reply | More ]
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Yes you are quite simple. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:41 PM Flag
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Not over reacting. He should tell them to keep it away from kids. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:42 PM Flag
[ - ] Just saw heels on a 6 YO girl. Cringed. 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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(Kid heels, to be exact - she wasn't dressing up in mom's shoes) [ Reply | More ]
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I recently cringed when I saw some Mom tell their about 5 yr old son to "man up" . Crazy world. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:06 PM Flag
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np. We didn't do this but we had one boy who was seriously high strung. My DH and I would say "okay Mary Jane" when he decided the rain was too wet or he didn't like the color of the plate at the restaurant. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:13 PM Flag
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Awful [ Reply | More ]
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And the sexist stereotypes perpetuate. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:27 PM Flag
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Lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:41 PM Flag
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LOL. I bet he is a homo now [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:54 PM Flag
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Lol, I say this to my dd when she's acting impossibly whiny. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:25 PM Flag
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That is awful. Also annoying to a lesser extent - girls on the playground in flimsy shoes instead of sneakers. [ Reply | More ]
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Yes! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:11 PM Flag
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Why on earth would parents do this. So hideous [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:11 PM Flag
[ - ] OMG so sad...mom pushing dead 3 YO on swing http://nypost.com/2015/05/23/woman-found-pushing-dead-3-year-old-son-in-swing/ 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 02:47 PM Flag
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Well, you definitely don't hear about something like that every day. That might be a first for me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 02:54 PM Flag
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I don't get how the kid stayed on the swing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:42 PM Flag
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Bucket swing [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:47 PM Flag
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Got it. The picture was a regular swing but must have just been an illustration. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:53 PM Flag
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I can't imagine it would have been wise to show a photo of the actual swing ... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 04:13 PM Flag
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I'm picturing a baby swing [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:51 PM Flag
[ - ] Help me pick a dress and shoes for my dd 5th grade public school graduation. I offered to take her shopping, she is not interested, it's up to me to order and hope for the best:) links please! 36 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 02:46 PM Flag
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this [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 02:58 PM Flag
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thanks for nothing [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:19 PM Flag
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She doesn't already have a dress? Sounds like she doesn't care [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 02:48 PM Flag
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Imagine that! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 02:53 PM Flag
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she doesn't care but I do, she'll care when other girls will look amazing and she will not. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:20 PM Flag
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For 5th grade "graduation"? Are you certain it isn't more that you care? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:24 PM Flag
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All the other girls will look amazing and she will not? What she go to the Ford K-5 school for future models? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:25 PM Flag
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she doesn't care but I do, she'll care when other girls will look amazing and she will not. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:20 PM Flag
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No, you will [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:48 PM Flag
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nothing wrong with that [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:56 PM Flag
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Describe her- height, weight, interests and style..punk? Preppy? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 02:56 PM Flag
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she is 11, on the taller end, very skinny, beautiful curly hair. Doesn't really have a style yet, she wears whatever I buy her and won't go shopping withe me [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:21 PM Flag
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Innes dress at johnnie b. (Boden USA tween/teen line). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:17 PM Flag
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Can't link because I am on my phone. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:18 PM Flag
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I can't find it:( [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:23 PM Flag
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If you go to dresses under johnnie b it is the last dress on the second page. Can't get to my computer right now. Also think some of the other dresses there might work. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:30 PM Flag
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thank you, they only have smaller sizes available:( [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:35 PM Flag
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Other Biden mom. I like this one too but they seem to be out of op's dd's Szeto. OP also 30% off this weekend. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:37 PM Flag
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That is really ugly. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:43 PM Flag
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I don't think so, I think it is good compromise between not looking inappropriate and not looking too young. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:50 PM Flag
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I don't think so, I think it is good compromise between not looking inappropriate and not looking too young. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:50 PM Flag
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I like this one. Seems good for the occasion and older without being inappropriate. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:45 PM Flag
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Zara has so many cute dresses. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:45 PM Flag
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This. The Boden and Busybee stuff looks too babyish to me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:49 PM Flag
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The Zara stuff is the same [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:54 PM Flag
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Link didnt work for me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:52 PM Flag
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I like it! shoes to go with it? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:57 PM Flag
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Our school tamped down the glam for 5th grade promotion when the fashions started getting outta control! Now they wear class t-shirts. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 04:20 PM Flag
[ - ] Will hotels let you stay for as long as you want or do they have a max number of days? 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 02:36 PM Flag
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as long as you're paying ... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 02:39 PM Flag
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Are you moving into the Pierre? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 02:44 PM Flag
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No, most hotels have a max. Depends upon the hotel, some it's 21 or 30 days. Most will not let you stay for more unless you make prior arrangements. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 02:45 PM Flag
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get out. why not? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 02:50 PM Flag
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Because they are not condos, but a hotel. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 02:57 PM Flag
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Why would they care if you pay the bill? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:04 PM Flag
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NP, some places have zoning rules, no guests over 30 days. Burbs dont want cheap hotels turned into SROs [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:14 PM Flag
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Because after certain number of days you have tenants rights. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:44 PM Flag
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This reminds me of when I kept a rental car for six months [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:01 PM Flag
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Just call and ask? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:09 PM Flag
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My Dh lived in the savoy in London while working there before I moved over. But it was a residential situation. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:17 PM Flag
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I would love to occupy a penthouse suite in a luxury hotel longterm! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:35 PM Flag
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Didn't Tori Burch live in the penthouse of the Pierre for years? Maybe she still lives there. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:38 PM Flag
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Don't know. I'm sure a ton of loaded people do. Why wouldn't you if money wasn't an issue. These places are best located. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:40 PM Flag
[ - ] Does anyone think they are really going to be able to actually cancel the Duggar show? Networks brought back Dog the Bounty Hunter even after he admitted he uses the N** word and Duck Dynasty even though they're anti-gay. I think the show is going to stay on. 19 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 02:32 PM Flag
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This is considerably less awful than either of those situations. So you're probably right. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 02:34 PM Flag
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Less awful? Are you serious? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 02:36 PM Flag
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What???? How in earth is this less awful?? Children were hurt in a way that can't ever be undone!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 02:36 PM Flag
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np. I'm reading sarcasm in the or [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 02:37 PM Flag
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nnp. +1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:52 PM Flag
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Or The perp was also a child which makes it mitch less shocking than adults behaving badly [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 02:39 PM Flag
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Omg [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 02:39 PM Flag
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You have got to be kidding me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 02:42 PM Flag
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Although in this case we also have a bunch of adults behaving really badly. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:07 PM Flag
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I don't see that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:41 PM Flag
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If you really can't see what's wrong here, I can't help you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:52 PM Flag
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Never would have thought the Duggars or their PR people would troll UB, but it's really the only explanation for this poster. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:46 PM Flag
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I've been running that one through my head. How would they do that without addressing this situation? You can't have a show with Josh anymore. Maybe the two sisters and their married life, but then again it would be the big elephant in the room all the time. Sometimes other networks have picked up shows dropped by other channels, but I think in this case there are just as many christians distancing themselves from this than are attempting to defend them "because jesus can forgive anything." In any event, without advertising revenue, they can't put on a show at all. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 02:44 PM Flag
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I read something on another board last night that said it would always read more like "4-5 kids and counting ... " [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 02:45 PM Flag
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What was the deal with the Honey Boo Boo show that was canceled? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:01 PM Flag
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The Mom started dating a guy who had just been released from prison for molesting Honey Boo-Boo's older sister ten years earlier. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:03 PM Flag
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it's time for the show to go, but not just for this, but because their ideas are dangerous. They don't need a national platform to dress them up in tater tots and pretend that offscreen they don't actually belong to a hate group. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:06 PM Flag
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I can't imagine how they lived in that house. When they built it, did they make sure there was a lock on the girls' bedroom door? Did the girls all just know to "stay away from Josh, you know how he is?" In the pictures, are any of the girls ever standing next to Josh? Who had to sit next to him on the sofas? I feel like looking at all those pictures now. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:09 PM Flag
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Sexual misconduct (especially with underage girls who can't speak for themselves in this situation) vs. yahoos who say dumb things. Totally different. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:56 PM Flag
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