• Filter the conversation
[ - ] We're moving from good public zone to top one this summer. Dc will be going into fourth. Would you move your dc at that age for the last two years? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 04:30 AM Flag
»
How is dc performing? Would the change drastically improve high school options? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 04:31 AM Flag
[ - ] We will be renting for a while and don't want to dip into savings. What should we spend on rent with HHI of $500k? Two dc's on UWS or UES. They're old enough that we greatly prefer separate bedrooms. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 04:14 AM Flag
»
You shouldn't have any trouble, just take a look at streateasy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 04:20 AM Flag
»
Thx, just wondering what's a reasonable limit for us. Nice enough but not huge 3 beds are $8500 or so to start. It's much higher than our mortgage was, but less doesn't get much with dc's approaching middle school. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 04:25 AM Flag
»
You will be fine. Apartments in your price range will be easy for you to find. StreetEasy is the best to help as said above. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 04:24 AM Flag
»
I think op is asking how much she can afford at that hhi. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 04:28 AM Flag
[ - ] anyone been to Amsterdam with teens? Looking for hotel/restaurant/cultural recommendations. TIA 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 04:06 AM Flag
»
Last time we went, we rented a fabulous houseboat on VRBO. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 04:25 AM Flag
[ - ] What would you have done in this situation? Went to a movie tonight with Dh. We sat next a grungy looking mix 30s couple. They were making out during the movie, which bothered me, but I kept quiet. But then the guy dumped his soda all over my lap. I didn't even know what to do. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:59 AM Flag
»
*mid 30s [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:59 AM Flag
»
Dry myself off. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 04:24 AM Flag
»
Not sure what you are asking. Did he purposely pour the soda on your lap? Did it spill while he was making out? Does his age matter? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 04:26 AM Flag
[ - ] We love our nanny. She has been with us a long time and is the only nanny we have had. How do we know if she is taking advantage of us? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:58 AM Flag
»
If you're happy, why start worrying? Troll? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 04:04 AM Flag
»
No, we are happy but reading some of these posts we seem to give her a lot more than most people? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 04:06 AM Flag
»
Perhaps you did receive a lot more, consider it a goodwill. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 04:09 AM Flag
»
how can we tell without detaisl? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 04:23 AM Flag
[ - ] Do you use sex toys with your SO? If so, who brought it up and how did that conversation go 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:57 AM Flag
»
Yes, we both did. It was fine. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 04:15 AM Flag
»
+1. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 04:26 AM Flag
[ - ] No spam tonight?Love Sundays. 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:53 AM Flag
[ - ] I had a date with the most pretentious man I think I have ever met. Unreal. He actually told me he was smarter than me. 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:31 AM Flag
»
Ew. I hope he at least picked up the tab. Sounds insecure. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:33 AM Flag
»
Wow, that's embarrassing (for him). How the hell does he date? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:34 AM Flag
»
i thought obama was married. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:34 AM Flag
»
More comfortable with George bush level intelligence? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 04:03 AM Flag
»
we know what his IQ is. bummer claims to be a genius but he won't release anything. we do know, however, that he couldn't even get into a good college out of high school even with affirmative action and he couldn't even hack a job as an associate at big law. so he's prob pretty damn stupid. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 04:24 AM Flag
»
csb [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 04:28 AM Flag
»
Why did he think he was so smart? Evidence to the affirmative? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:35 AM Flag
»
than I. :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:44 AM Flag
»
Lol reminds me of HS when I had a guy try to impress me with his SAT score which was good but not amazing. Mine was better lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:49 AM Flag
»
Must have a tiny dick. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:57 AM Flag
»
Bet he thinks he is the center of the universe too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 04:05 AM Flag
»
Smarter than I. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 04:10 AM Flag
»
Sounds aspie [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 04:27 AM Flag
»
Is he right? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 04:28 AM Flag
[ - ] Please no flames. Whenever dc drinks milk (cow or goat but in general I limit dairy) her belly resembles a big soccer ball. Is that normal? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:28 AM Flag
»
No, black and white hexagons are not normal, debbie [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:30 AM Flag
»
good one! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:33 AM Flag
[ - ] Wealthy DC couple in their 40s with no kids want to buy a place in New York. What neighborhoods would you recommend? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:23 AM Flag
»
tribeca [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:26 AM Flag
»
East Village [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:55 AM Flag
»
West Village [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:57 AM Flag
»
Financial District [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:58 AM Flag
»
Go somewhere with a less stellar school district as you will get more for your $$ [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 04:03 AM Flag
[ - ] My live-in drinks 2 cups of organic milk ($1.5), 2 pieces of bread with jam and butter ($0.5), 1 cup of yogurt with wheat germ ($1) and a cup of Nespresso coffee ($0.60) and some organic fruits every morning. Total cost about $5 to $6 for breakfast. Is that a lot? 113 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:08 AM Flag
»
no [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:08 AM Flag
»
two pieces of bread w/ jam and butter doesn't equal .50 cents [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:09 AM Flag
»
It does for what I bought. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:10 AM Flag
»
shop somewhere else then. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:18 AM Flag
»
We buy organic for everyone in the household. Do you suggest I get her different kind of food? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:19 AM Flag
»
No, we suggest you live within your means. You clearly can't afford a live in [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:20 AM Flag
»
LOL. You sound like someone who has no clue on how to manage household staff and run a household. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:22 AM Flag
»
I have had a live in nanny for the past 4 years. I don't police what she eats. You know why? Because I can afford a live in. You clearly can't. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:23 AM Flag
»
Liar liar [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:26 AM Flag
»
For how long have you been tolerating this? She's taking advantage of you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:10 AM Flag
»
1 year. She eats more for lunch and dinner. Do you think she is taking advantage of me? What can I do? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:11 AM Flag
»
Stop trolling ub, dumb troll [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:21 AM Flag
»
You can't be serious. What does she eat? Do you think she has a good addiction? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 04:08 AM Flag
»
Just limit her intake to 300 hundred calories a day if she is not exerting too much energy. A little more if she's doing light housekeeping. Worked for the Nazis. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:13 AM Flag
»
Buy some fiji water [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:13 AM Flag
»
If you can't afford to stop counting every slice of bread she eats you can't afford to keep her. And if you don't stop keeping tabs on every mouthful she's not going to want to stay anyway. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:14 AM Flag
»
This. Op is a troll, and so are all these responders. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:20 AM Flag
»
If you have to police you live ins breakfast maybe you can't afford them. I have no idea what anyone eats in my house. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:15 AM Flag
»
that's because you have no live in, dumb fuck. no one eats organic and mangos out of season like someone eating on your dime day in day out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:18 AM Flag
»
This [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:21 AM Flag
»
You certainly never had a live in. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:23 AM Flag
»
Np I don't understand why you keep saying this. I've had many live in nannies and never kept careful track of what they ate. I can think of one or two egregious instances (nanny ate an entire pie in one day), but mostly there were no issues. Stop making a mountain out of a molehill. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:25 AM Flag
»
that was your day babysitter. quit lying. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:29 AM Flag
»
No, they were not day babysitters, they lived with us. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:31 AM Flag
»
sure, sure. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:37 AM Flag
»
You sound stupid. Did you go to college? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:38 AM Flag
»
better than yours, without a doubt. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:43 AM Flag
»
Hmmmm somehow I find that very doubtful [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:44 AM Flag
»
So tell us how much you paid her, how was her hours like, how much did she eat, and what was her living arrangement. We simply don't believe you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:31 AM Flag
»
This was a few years ago (my dc are teens). We paid 700/week. Hours were 7 am to 7 pm on weekdays and free on weekends except for the occasional Saturday evening. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:33 AM Flag
»
See, it is clear that you are lying. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:35 AM Flag
»
I am not lying. I think you must be a troll. Have a nice night. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:36 AM Flag
»
You can't gave a rough schedule and pay; and it is not even anywhere close to resembling a typical live in. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:38 AM Flag
»
What? I just gave you her hours and her pay. What are you talking about? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:39 AM Flag
»
Sure, hours and pay that any one can simply fabricate. Tell us how her day was like. She can't be working from 7am-7pm every minute of the day. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:41 AM Flag
»
We had two small children and DH and i both left the house by 7 am. She fed them breakfast, got them dressed, took older dc to morning pre school, picked him up, fed them lunch, took dc to the park, fed them dinner. Why do I need to spell this out for you? Isn't it obvious? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:43 AM Flag
»
No, now it is very obvious that she is you day time nanny. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:44 AM Flag
»
No, she was not our day time nanny. She lived with us. In our home. Why is this so hard for you to grasp? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:45 AM Flag
»
Because you have no idea what a live in does. No one needs a live in that situation. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:45 AM Flag
»
Yes, we did need a live in, we were both medical residents and had variable hours. If emergencies came up, we needed her there. We could not rely on a daytime nanny or daycare. You are awfully dense. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:46 AM Flag
»
LOL. You just said she worked 7am to 7pm. Her hours were so non-variable. And how did you come up with $2700/month to pay her when you were both medical residents + $600 of food? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:48 AM Flag
»
Her hours were usually steady but somewhat variable, we made it clear we needed her in emergencies. And we could afford it because neither of us had any loans, we lived in hospital subsidized housing, and HHI was 100k. Any more questions? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:50 AM Flag
»
LOL. $100k hi means $60k take home. After her pay and food, you have $20k left. You kids went to pre-school? Come again. See, it is pretty difficult to make perfect lies. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:54 AM Flag
»
Yes, my parents paid for dc pre school. Here's a hint. People with family money can afford a live in. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:55 AM Flag
»
Wouldn't it be easier if you just said your parents paid for your live-in? Much better lies. LOL. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:58 AM Flag
»
Because they didn't. That's not how we arranged things, for a variety of reasons. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 04:01 AM Flag
»
you are just digging a bigger and bigger hole for yourself. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 04:02 AM Flag
»
And you are trolling. Habe a nice night [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 04:03 AM Flag
»
yes. this is why i hate having household help. i can afford it but it's still annoying. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:15 AM Flag
»
I hear you. I doubt she would do the something if this is on her account. I have never had any live in that abuse the system like this before. This one if really over the top. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:18 AM Flag
»
Such a troll post. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:18 AM Flag
»
This [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:20 AM Flag
»
This is ridiculous. She is practically eating about $15 to $20/day if breakfast is any indication of how much she consumes. Has your grocery bill gone up significantly? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:17 AM Flag
»
Yes, by about $500/month. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:18 AM Flag
»
Give her $300/month to shop for herself. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:19 AM Flag
»
Maybe I should do that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:29 AM Flag
»
and a shelf in a fridge. Don't withhold that Nespresso though. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 04:07 AM Flag
»
how is this $6, even if your fruit is $1 a piece... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:19 AM Flag
»
and, no this isn't a lot. I spend around $5 per person on breakfast, $10 on dinner and probably 5-6 on lunch [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:19 AM Flag
»
So you spend $20/person/day on food. If you have a household of 4 people, you spend $80/day, $2400 on grocery/month? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:21 AM Flag
»
Troll [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:20 AM Flag
»
You sound poor. If you can't afford to feed your live in nanny, maybe switch to daycare. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:22 AM Flag
»
You sound stupid. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:23 AM Flag
»
You sound ignorant and poor [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:23 AM Flag
»
Is everyone else eating organic milk and fruit or is she spending extra on herself? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:22 AM Flag
»
Everyone has the same food. But she seems to consume the most for some reason. I also don't appreciate that if I ask her to make certain things for dinner that she does not like, she will make some extra dish for herself with all the fancy ingredients. And she would always dump out the left over food that she does not like (even if I would eat it) to avoid eating it because we eat together. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:26 AM Flag
»
How is she with dc? Do they love her? Is she cooperating with you? If yes I would let the breakfast thing slide. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:25 AM Flag
»
I can't beleive you are taking op seriously, she is a troll [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:25 AM Flag
»
No, she does not do child care. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:28 AM Flag
»
You shouldn't have a live in if you're this cheap and controlling. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:27 AM Flag
»
This [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:28 AM Flag
»
np- spending $5 on breakfast day in and day out is excessive. Op is not cheap and controlling IMO [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:29 AM Flag
»
God you people are so cheap [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:31 AM Flag
»
That's because you never had live in help. We are not talking about spending $5 on restaurant breakfast. We are talking about home food. You simply have no idea. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:32 AM Flag
»
You are so fucking dumb. Do you think no one on this board has had a live in nanny? We all have. Even the Sahms. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:34 AM Flag
»
LOL [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:36 AM Flag
»
This. If she spends $20/day on food, that's $600/month just to feed her. It is excessive. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:34 AM Flag
»
That's what it costs. Deal with it, or put dc in daycare. You cannot ration food. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:36 AM Flag
»
LOL. That's clearly not what it costs to feed a live in. You have no clue. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:37 AM Flag
»
Op is buying bizarrely expensive food items so maybe that's what it costs her. The point is, you cannot ration food. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:37 AM Flag
»
The point is that live in should not abuse it just because Op buys expensive food for her family. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:39 AM Flag
»
It doesn't sound like abuse. It sounds like a normal breakfast to me, especially if you have a day of work ahead of you, rather than sitting on your ass like op [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:40 AM Flag
»
How do you know that she has a day of work ahead of her if she is not doing any child care? And how do you know that op is just sitting on her ass? You sound angry. Anything happened in your childhood. If you give me your email, I can recommend a good therapist. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:43 AM Flag
»
You sound ESL [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:44 AM Flag
»
That's because I am [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:45 AM Flag
»
You are not a college graduate. No way in hell. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:45 AM Flag
»
I am ESL and hold 2 Ivy degrees. Any questions? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:47 AM Flag
»
Why are you obsessed with trolling Ub? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:47 AM Flag
»
Why do you keep on answering my post if you think I am trolling? LOL. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:49 AM Flag
»
Is she fat? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:32 AM Flag
»
Sort of. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:33 AM Flag
»
You should also tell her to limit taking showers: that water bill ain't gonna pay itself [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:35 AM Flag
»
Lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:36 AM Flag
»
I am considering telling her not to stir fry and stick up the apartment when she is only making food for herself. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:37 AM Flag
»
let her chew dry rice. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 04:10 AM Flag
»
My live in makes me buy all her toiletries [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:38 AM Flag
»
LOL. Mine too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:41 AM Flag
»
sigh [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:44 AM Flag
»
My live in messes up the kitchen and cooks her stinky food to stink up the entire house. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:45 AM Flag
»
LOL. Mine too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:46 AM Flag
»
Shop somewhere else. A gallon of organic milk in Wegmans costs $6 so 2 cups would cost 75 cents. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:56 AM Flag
»
There is no Wegmans here. Where do you live? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:58 AM Flag
»
NJ. Try Whole Foods, their 360 brand offers surprisingly low prices. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 04:00 AM Flag
»
Good suggestions. Thanks. Do they deliver? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 04:01 AM Flag
»
I'm surprised you didn't start with LOL. Loser troll. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 04:01 AM Flag
»
OR. I didn't write the line above. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 04:03 AM Flag
»
Yes, the fake doctor mom whose parents paid for her dcs' preschools and had a ghost live in wrote that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 04:06 AM Flag
»
LOL. What. Why are you asking us for advice if you think people are making stuff up. Most people here agree you are being crazy. I hope you are trolling. Otherwise, damn u crazy [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 04:08 AM Flag
»
I am not fake you dimwit. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 04:08 AM Flag
»
Trolls be trollin [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 04:09 AM Flag
»
Yes, the fake doctor mom whose parents paid for her dcs' preschools and had a ghost live in wrote that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 04:06 AM Flag
»
Gawker troll [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 04:10 AM Flag
»
In one day ours ate 2 containers of the greek gods honey and strawberry yogurt, 3 kiwi's, 1 row of chips ahoy cookies. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 04:16 AM Flag
[ - ] We are running out of cash soon and have listed our place on the market. Meanwhile, we are applying for a home equity loan. However, the bank said that it won't be able to give us a loan because our place is for sale. Does anyone know if we can take the place off the market for a month or 2, apply for a home equity loan and put it back on the market? Would this work? TIA. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:04 AM Flag
»
sure [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:05 AM Flag
»
Have you done this before? Now that the bank knows that we intend to sell our place, would it believe us that we changed our plan if we take it off for a couple of months? Or would the bank recall the credit if it later found that we put the place back on the market again? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:09 AM Flag
»
Real estate person here - would be considered fraud. If you think you look good in Orange. Go for it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:59 AM Flag
»
Thanks. So if we plan to sell our place, how do we get cash out to tie us over until we sell our place? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 04:02 AM Flag
»
Fine line. Either ask a relative or talk to a mortgage broker who can help you do a cash out refi. Honestly, taking a HELOC or another mortgage before you sell will cost you more money in fees and closing costs. Try to go for a debt consolidation loan or something to that effect. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 04:09 AM Flag
[ - ] I de-registered from the organ donation system after that story about the thug kid in Atlanta who wasted two separate donor hearts. If those are the sorts of people receiving organs, then no thanks, I don't want to be part of that system. Doctors should be ashamed of themselves for screening donors so poorly. 45 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:00 AM Flag
»
Your choice [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:00 AM Flag
»
Screening donors so poorly or recipients? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:01 AM Flag
»
I hope he was an outlier. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:01 AM Flag
»
I used to be a transplant RN, and stories like this is more common than you would think. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:02 AM Flag
»
I was under no illusion that recipients would be any worse or better than other healthy people walking the streets. They just happen to be needing donor organs [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:06 AM Flag
»
The kid in this case already got a donor heart, failed to adhere to the medication protocols, and it failed. Doctors stupidly gave him another heart, which he destroyed in a car wreck while fleeing from police following a violent home-invasion robbery. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:09 AM Flag
»
If only donors can be conditional about who their organs go to. Eg. Lungs to a nonsmoker. Heart to a triathlete. Liver to a teetotaler. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:13 AM Flag
»
Yes, a lot of people with organ failure out there doing triathlons. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:21 AM Flag
»
A lot of former athletes have heart problems. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:36 AM Flag
»
Right, former. Not current. Because if you have current heart failure, you're not out there doing athletic things. You're probably resting at home. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:39 AM Flag
»
Right. They're not out their doing things thugs do. And if given a functional organ they'd work against having it fail, and rightly using what they were given. Thugs don't deserve donor organs! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:55 AM Flag
»
You're losing this argument left and right, you know - you might want to think of more useful ways to get the interaction you so desperately crave. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:59 AM Flag
»
They didn't want to give him a donor heart because they thought he was incapable of taking care of himself but they were charged by the usual suspects as racists. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:03 AM Flag
»
i was thinking today that the world is fucked up. the smart people with technology ought to invade the stupid fucked up places, take over and wage genocide. that is the natural order of the world. all this letting refugees in and crap is not natural. it's like we're subsidizing failure. enough is enough. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:10 AM Flag
»
You know what else is bad for your heart? The coke you're clearly on. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:19 AM Flag
»
+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:23 AM Flag
»
my heart's fine. the world is not. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:31 AM Flag
»
I notice you don't deny the coke. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:36 AM Flag
»
coke doesn't make you stupid, knucklehead. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:39 AM Flag
»
Um, you'd have to be incredibly stupid to not know that people on coke say stupid, incoherent things. So yeah, you're not convincing me that you're smart. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:57 AM Flag
»
+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:10 AM Flag
»
Meanwhile, someone "worthy" of one of your organs will not have that opportunity because of your issue with this. Seems fair, I guess. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:06 AM Flag
»
That's the fault of the doctors for abusing their discretion in selecting organ recipients. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:14 AM Flag
»
Are you the person who felt it was unethical to build a website for a criminal defense firm? Because it sounds like you...thinking that professionals should pick and choose based on your own limited knowledge of professional conduct. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:16 AM Flag
»
+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:24 AM Flag
»
Remember when Mickey Mantle got a kidney transplant? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:06 AM Flag
»
You would deprive someone who needs an organ just so you won't provide one to someone who is very lost and sad? Your choice, as someone else said, but it's not a very generous one. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:08 AM Flag
»
those idiots will always get it. but if you don't and i don't give, someone else who needs it, like your kid or my kid, won't get it because of the assholes. don't contribute to that. you have to do your part despite the assholes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:08 AM Flag
»
Only if my family gets some kind of right of refusal with regard to unsuitable recipients. Otherwise, no, because American doctors have shown themselves unworthy of the trust required to divest a right of refusal. Maybe if I lived in Canada I would feel differently. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:15 AM Flag
»
i hear you but you still have to do your part for the common good because it costs you nothing and can mean a world of difference to somebody, maybe your kid or my kid. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:20 AM Flag
»
This. You have no idea who would get your organs - maybe your liver goes to a drunk, maybe it goes to a teenager who had the misfortune of getting run over by a drunk driver. The only way to insure it doesn't go to someone who desperately needs it is to refuse to donate, in which case you have no right to be angry when you or your dc needs a donation and can't get one. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:16 AM Flag
»
your attitude is very dangerous [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:10 AM Flag
»
That's the fault of the doctors who create these bad incentives in the first place by selecting crappy recipients who waste their donated organs. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:20 AM Flag
»
np I assume you're trolling, but you don't understand how the transplant recipient list works. Doctors don't get to pick who they want to receive the transplants. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:24 AM Flag
»
Yes, they have input. That's why they initially rejected that Atlanta kid for a heart transplant (the right decision) before inexplicably reversing themselves and giving him a heart anyway, which he promptly wasted. With that kind of crappy judgment, why do they deserve any trust from would-be donors? Honest question. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:27 AM Flag
»
Why do you care when you will be dead? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:17 AM Flag
»
because she's mad it's not going to someone who values it. i understand it. i'd do it different if i were in charge. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:21 AM Flag
»
And how, pray tell, Trolline, would you screen donors and decide who is "worthy"? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:18 AM Flag
»
+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:21 AM Flag
»
They'd all be umc white people, natch … [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:24 AM Flag
»
no criminal record would be good, for one. not being on public assistance of any sort, another. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:32 AM Flag
»
Who cares if they're on public assistance, especially if they're terminally. The purpose of organ donation is to save lives, not deciding which widget is going to be most "productive", if we can trot out that word I can't stand. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:36 AM Flag
»
if they're terminal, they especially shouldn't get it. of course it ought to be by merit. it is absolutely idiotic to do anything without merit. if you're stupd, you don't take care of your health. you're also more likely to be poor. poor is a proxy for stupid. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:41 AM Flag
»
Honest question: do you think you're smart enough to earn a transplanted organ? Because you sound borderline illiterate. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:58 AM Flag
»
So your organs will just go to waste over one story? Your prerogative, but I'm sure you've read the countless stories of innocent kids being saved. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:20 AM Flag
[ - ] Step DD is 32 weeks pg. Told us tonight she's got gestational diabetes, tests blood glucose 4X daily, requires insulin by injection at night, will need a C-section, baby is already in 99th percentile for weigh. Feeling anxious for her. Anybody have a happy outcome to share? 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 02:47 AM Flag
»
Sure. Lots of people develop GD. Lots have C sections. It's fine [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 02:49 AM Flag
»
I've never heard of unborn baby bring referred to in percentile. The estimates of weight are often wrong - but no big deal. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 02:50 AM Flag
»
Mine was. Had US frequently due to VBac and fear of big baby. US gives percentile. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:01 AM Flag
»
My baby was diagnosed IUGR in utero bc size was below a certain percentile (and correctly). Big babies are common with GD so baby's size will be monitored closely. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:17 AM Flag
»
Mine was IUGR too. Under 10th percentile. Was monitored frequently for size, outcomes were given in percentiles. -NP [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 04:22 AM Flag
»
I had it from 24 weeks and was able to control with diet. I saw a nutritionist, endocrinologist and tested 4 times day. Everything worked out fine with my twins and I was back in my jeans in 2 weeks thanks to the diabetic diet! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 02:52 AM Flag
»
I had it from 24 weeks and was able to control with diet. I saw a nutritionist, endocrinologist and tested 4 times day. Everything worked out fine with my twins and I was back in my jeans in 2 weeks thanks to the diabetic diet! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 02:53 AM Flag
»
Completely normal. All will be fine. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:00 AM Flag
»
I had it. All was fine. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:07 AM Flag
»
Thanks! reassuring responses. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:11 AM Flag
»
all. the. damn. time. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:10 AM Flag
[ - ] I have a habit of watching gay porn. Man, after seeing tons of super straight looking men (thugs, jocks, boy next door) I don't know that I can ever trust a man is authentically straight even when he says he is. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 02:47 AM Flag
»
Everybody lies. Never trust anyone. Or insert any other profound saying. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:02 AM Flag
»
Well, I don't think those actors are trying to pass as straight. :) I think the key isn't what they look like, but whether they're banging other guys vs trying to bang you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:18 AM Flag
[ - ] how are the cakes at fairway? Need one on fairly short notice for a baby shower. 18 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 02:44 AM Flag
»
do not buy it!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 02:47 AM Flag
»
any other suggestions? Need something for next weekend and just want something that looks and tastes good. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 02:54 AM Flag
»
what hood are you near? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 02:57 AM Flag
»
Any place around UWS down to Chelsea would work. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:00 AM Flag
»
billys [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:13 AM Flag
»
Empire cakes - delicious (had for my friend's baby shower) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 02:54 AM Flag
»
thanks - checking it out now. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:01 AM Flag
»
Costco [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 02:59 AM Flag
»
I've heard their cakes are good, but it's a little too out of the way. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:02 AM Flag
»
Yum, Costco cakes! And super cheap. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 04:22 AM Flag
»
Whole Foods [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:00 AM Flag
»
good idea - thanks! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:02 AM Flag
»
Sugar and plumm? Not sure how much notice you'd need but the cakes are good [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:05 AM Flag
»
they're all fine. just cake. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:11 AM Flag
»
I lover their lemon meringue pie!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:20 AM Flag
»
Whole foods [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:58 AM Flag
»
bruno [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 04:14 AM Flag
»
Billy's [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 04:15 AM Flag
[ - ] Lately DH is constantly humming. It drives me fucking crazy. He's like an absentminded old man - can't stand it. 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 02:43 AM Flag
»
my dh does this thing where he sticks his finger in his ear and jiggles it really aggressively. can.NOT.stand.it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 02:51 AM Flag
»
Lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 02:52 AM Flag
»
My dh is now walking around the house mocking your dh [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:01 AM Flag
»
lolol! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:11 AM Flag
»
Could be worse. My DH loves to sing opera while he fucks me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 02:56 AM Flag
»
what is his timbre? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:03 AM Flag
»
lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:12 AM Flag
»
He loves it when he can make me hit high C. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.19.15, 03:21 AM Flag
Refresh » New Post »
close [X]

close [X]

Select a Category (only 1)

category
Stages
Regions