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[ - ] There's no excuse to neglect your health and blimp out over the holidays, ladies. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:28 AM Flag
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Why not? Men do it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:28 AM Flag
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Because at over 40 i just lost the five I gained in August. Not worth it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:34 AM Flag
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So your post was you actually talking only to yourself. Got it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:34 AM Flag
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Yes, that five pounds is going to make a huge difference to your health. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:33 AM Flag
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Because of what? Because we want to ... what? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:32 AM Flag
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Myob. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:39 AM Flag
[ - ] Are there support groups for women in crappy marriages? I have no one to talk to about this and I really think it would help - other btdt DWs. 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:25 AM Flag
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It's called divorce court. Take your life back. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:26 AM Flag
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Divorce isn't the only solution, not a fit for everyone. You can agree to live separate lives, or even agree to make your marriage better. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:28 AM Flag
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Being miserable isn't much of an option either [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:42 AM Flag
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Small kids, can't afford two homes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:29 AM Flag
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I have been. And the moderators, if female, are the most nasty, smug, prudish, unsupportive people ever. They love to shut down any anger. You're only allowed to express optimism and 'positive thinking'. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:27 AM Flag
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Weird [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:28 AM Flag
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Well, that's helpful, not. On the other hand, all out husband bashing wouldn't be either. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:31 AM Flag
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I'm leaving tomorrow morning [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:28 AM Flag
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Really? Why? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:29 AM Flag
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Al anon is good for a lot of things. And it's free. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:49 AM Flag
[ - ] Just saw my mentally ill sister for the first time in a year. She's insane. I feel helpless. We have no close family, just me and her... No parents or useful extended family. Just feel sad and like I can't help her. She's medicated but won't go to therapy. Blah 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:23 AM Flag
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Yes, you should just give up on your own flesh and blood, and declare them insane just to make yourself feel better. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:25 AM Flag
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Stop. You can't fix mentally ill adults. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:29 AM Flag
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She's 42. We haven't lived together in about 30 years. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:35 AM Flag
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Stop. You don't have to fix them. But you don't have to abandon them and write them off as people either. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:37 AM Flag
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What kind of mental illness. This is the worst. Sorry. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:26 AM Flag
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Borderline personality disorder. We were essentially abandoned as children. Our parents died and our extended family (wealthy) wouldn't take us in. We went to boarding school and basically have lived separately since age 12 and 14. Did holidays with different friends families. We have never been close. She won't get help and I can't force her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:28 AM Flag
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Oh, sad. I know one person with bpd. It is very difficult to deal with, even if the person does get treatment. Is your sister angry, clingy, emotionally unstable? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:39 AM Flag
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Anxious depressive and emotionally unstable. Has a govt job thank god so she won't be fired. She remarked remarked today that she could make more in private sector and I bluntly said yea and then your can have meltdowns at work becuase you'll be fired. She's just so messed up. Gets worse every year. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:40 AM Flag
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Does she live alone? Who takes care of her? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:29 AM Flag
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She does and herself. I imagine its awful but our relationship is too fractured to mend. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:32 AM Flag
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So sorry. It's clear you care about her a lot. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:50 AM Flag
[ - ] Oh shit. I very nearly totally went nuclear on a passive aggressive FB post. Instead in my panic to delete my response I also deleted the original poster's response. She will surely notice. Shit is on. 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:15 AM Flag
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Please be fake. No one can care this much about Facebook... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:17 AM Flag
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Adults on Facebook crack me up. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:20 AM Flag
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Np- I'm a Millennial- it's funny to me to see people 40+ stress out over things on Facebook because that was high school for me. Now I could not care less what happens- I only use it to see pictures of my extended family. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:24 AM Flag
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this.wtf. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:30 AM Flag
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OP I really don't. But this is a bitch I have had to deal with for a while. Long story. We both adopted children at the same time from a different country. We traveled together. I think she's always compared her child to mine. She's also a super Christian homeschooler and we're NYC. We also have older children who are just in college for the first time. My dd is spending TG with new college friends and I posted a pic of family without dd. She posted "you must feel so sad that dd doesn't want to come home?" And I posted (for like 5 seconds) "I know ... homeschooling forms a special bond. How is dd doing at XX (it's a community college) and hope you had a great turkey day." Then I realized it was totally bitchy and took it down. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:31 AM Flag
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Maybe she'll realize that her post was nasty and feel some remorse. You should feel no remorse for taking it off your page. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:41 AM Flag
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okay why exactly is your deleting of her comment a big deal? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:42 AM Flag
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NP- funny that response actually doesn't sound awful (her initial response is bitchy--want vs. can't come home) but why does it matter? Doesn't seem like anyone you come across IRL. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:42 AM Flag
[ - ] Happy thanksgiving! For all you UB women bemoaning the "porn culture", I bet you didn't know that jews are almost singularly responsible for this. Yes, Jews are ascendant in not only mainstream Hollywood, but also the pornographic objectification of women. Ron Jeremy, Seymour Butts, Reuben Sturman (the biggest porn producer of the 1970s), Steven Hirsch (owner of Vivid Video productions), and many others, all Jews. Bet this comes as a surprise to you.... (countdown to invocation of Godwin's Law) 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:12 AM Flag
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James Deen is Jewish as well. That guy has roughed up, slapped, choked and beaten so many women on screen. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:16 AM Flag
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Don't forget Al Goldstein (Screw magazine) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:24 AM Flag
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Paul Fishbein, founder of Adult Video News (AVN) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:25 AM Flag
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And all of them have cum HARD to the experience. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:44 AM Flag
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You mean we're going to talk about Nazis? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:14 AM Flag
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Lol. This loser shows up here all the time. Flag and collapse same way i do and eventually this will end [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:24 AM Flag
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Plus one. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:24 AM Flag
[ - ] Are women on this board really so dumb and limited, or are they just faking it. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:12 AM Flag
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But you're okay with the blatant racism, huh? Good call. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:13 AM Flag
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Dumb and limited. Growing numbers. Used to be full of smart snarky types. Now, sadly, it has been dumbed down. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:17 AM Flag
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"What do you make of women who are into football?" Uh, gee, I dunno. People like different things. Some women like to shop for overpriced handbags for hours on end. Some like Soul Cycle. Some like football. Different people *gasp* enjoy different things! It's like no one here has figured it out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:19 AM Flag
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Why do the smart ones have to always be snarky? Why can't they just be nice? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:20 AM Flag
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Lots of smart nice women too. Just not on UB. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:21 AM Flag
[ - ] What do you have planned tomorrow? 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 01:59 AM Flag
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going to the gym [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:04 AM Flag
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me 2 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:08 AM Flag
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Running [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:09 AM Flag
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Being miserably stuck at ILs house with no TV and plotting my escape. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:15 AM Flag
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Get a UK IP address and watch great BBC series all day. Or ITV. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:25 AM Flag
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How do you get a UK IP address? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:32 AM Flag
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Mike TV? How about reading a book for a change? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:44 AM Flag
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Absolutely nothing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:24 AM Flag
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Hanging out with my mom and dad! Maybe going to a barre class, and seeing a good friend from hs who I haven't seen in ages. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:28 AM Flag
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how old are you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:47 AM Flag
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Movies [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:31 AM Flag
[ - ] Anyone been to Cozumel? Thoughts, opinions welcome. 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 01:58 AM Flag
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That was one choppy ferry ride. Half the family barfed on the way over. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 01:56 AM Flag
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Oh no. Did your vacation improve once you got there? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:01 AM Flag
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Had a cruise ship stop for the day. Pretty island, nice diving, it was fine. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:01 AM Flag
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Mexico scares me. Not safe. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:09 AM Flag
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Why? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:09 AM Flag
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Yeah. But its just a little island. Could be anywhere. So why not go to a nicer resort. Or at least to Tulum where there are ruins, etc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:18 AM Flag
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Would if I could, but I can't. Did you do anything fun there? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:21 AM Flag
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Np: great diving and snorkeling [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:34 AM Flag
[ - ] Want to buy a bigger flat screen. Should I do it tomorrow or wait until after Xmas. Also, any recommendations. We use Netflix via Roku a lot. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 01:54 AM Flag
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of course it will be cheaper after xmas. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:00 AM Flag
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Best time is around Super Bowl Sunday. The new models come out then and you can get a great deal on this year's models. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:07 AM Flag
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Did not know this. Thanks! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:11 AM Flag
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NP--Yep, also Costco is a great source--possibly even worth joining. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:11 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:20 AM Flag
[ - ] I am high on crack and I love you guys!!!!! 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 01:48 AM Flag
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You'd have to be [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:23 AM Flag
[ - ] Can we please get an update from cheese and one pie lady? 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 01:43 AM Flag
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lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 01:43 AM Flag
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Lololol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 01:45 AM Flag
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Oh I am dying to hear. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 01:46 AM Flag
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me too, isn't it funny that we care about complete strangers?! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 01:48 AM Flag
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me too, isn't it funny that we care about complete strangers?! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 01:48 AM Flag
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ha ha- yes. the one who bought four pieces of cheese and one small pie when she was supposed to bring two homemade apps and a pie. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 01:55 AM Flag
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But it was a FANCY pie! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:00 AM Flag
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There was an update at the end of her post. SIL did not put out the cheese at all, and had made some great big apple pie that dwarfed OP's little pie. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:02 AM Flag
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lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:35 AM Flag
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What about where can I buy a turkey mom because she didn't defrost in time? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:09 AM Flag
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Is this the same OP as trying to cook a frozen turkey mom? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:38 AM Flag
[ - ] I just ate a whole blueberry pie and drank an entire bottle of wine 19 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 01:41 AM Flag
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it was one of those 12 inch pies from whole foods [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 01:42 AM Flag
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drink lots of water because your liver is freaking out 'bout right now [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 01:51 AM Flag
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Np- from the wine? No way, I kill a bottle of wine in one night with some degree of regularity. Healthy as a drunk horse. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 01:56 AM Flag
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Let me guess, you're under 40, yes? Trust me, in 10-15 years, you won't be downing bottles of wine with pie. And OP, even if in 20s, should be downing LOTS of water tonight. She just pounded on her liver, something fierce. Signed, Nutritionist Mom [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 01:58 AM Flag
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Np: as a nutritionist do you agree 8 glasses wine per week is excessive? I was shocked at that recent report. I thought that was moderate drinking! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:07 AM Flag
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It depends on your age and the condition of your liver. Younger people can get away with it, the older you get, the more demands you are making on your liver and the more damage you are inflicting. Generally speaking, wine is pretty harsh on your system and while there are benefits, moderation is wiser at any age. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:08 AM Flag
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what is good for the liver? and how come europeans have a lot of wine with impunity? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:11 AM Flag
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Hmmm interesting feedback. I guess I should cut back. I drank heavily in my 20's and what I consider to be moderately in 30's (but now realizing it was actually excessive). Liver must be truly f@cked. Mind you none of my inlaws drink and they are all overweight and in terrible health due to bad eating. Not that it make drinking more virtuous but ... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:15 AM Flag
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what will happen if she has wine with pie in her 30s and 40s? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:07 AM Flag
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Nasty hangovers and liver damage. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:09 AM Flag
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what about just pie alone? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:12 AM Flag
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Or wine m [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:25 AM Flag
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Is it the combo of wine with pie? Or just the fact of copious wine? [ Reply | More ]
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Csb [ Reply | More ]
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Red I hope. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:02 AM Flag
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Lightweight! I'm on the last glass of the second bottle of wine. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:03 AM Flag
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Amen, sister. On the last glass of bottle # 2. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:19 AM Flag
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Are you drunk? How will you feel tomorrow? woke up today with a bad hangover after three glasses wine. It's age. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:43 AM Flag
[ - ] nanny here again anybody else working tomorrow? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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yep [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 01:55 AM Flag
[ - ] My 32 yo brother got married 6 months ago. Saw him and his wife today for the first time since the wedding. Little bro looks better than ever, but his wife has gained AT LEAST 50 pounds, if not more. I was shocked. She was slightly chubby before, but is now obese. 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 01:38 AM Flag
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wow. tell him to dump her ASAP. poor guy [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 01:40 AM Flag
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Is she pregnant? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 01:41 AM Flag
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No. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 01:42 AM Flag
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How do you know? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:05 AM Flag
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And this is your business why? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 01:44 AM Flag
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Op. I actually think it's a sign of some kind of mental issue with her. Maybe depression or something. Nobody gains that much weight so quickly. She went from like 140 to 200, easily [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 01:45 AM Flag
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maybe your bro drove her to it [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 01:49 AM Flag
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this [ Reply | More ]
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General Topics 11.28.14, 01:54 AM Flag
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Maybe your brother is a crappy husband. Don't ask questions you don't want answers to. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 01:51 AM Flag
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So what [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 01:42 AM Flag
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myob [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 01:55 AM Flag
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Health issue. I also gained 15lbs after losing two pregnancies so maybe something is up [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:16 AM Flag
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Np. This is common, many women just lose all self control as soon as they are married. Not just weight gain but other things [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:25 AM Flag
[ - ] repost: Looking for mid century Danish Dining chairs like these....does anyone know where to purchase something like this-I want to buy them used http://newyork.craigslist.org/brk/fud/4776781439.html these I like, but are far away and expensive? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 01:34 AM Flag
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Laid continually check sites like CL, Chairish, Chairloom, and Furnish Green. Also the vintage section of One Kings Lane. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 01:36 AM Flag
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I met an insane woman in Dobbs Ferry a while back who purchased an entire set of these, with a matching table, and then freaked out about buying them (cost her all of $250 or so) because previous owner was a smoker. I explained that for probably less than $100/chair she could have them completely reupholstered and would have a valuable set that would sell for $1200-1500 or more. Refused to listen to me and I think she dumped them back on CL for less than what she bought them for. They're out there, you just have to keep an eye out for them. Ebay is another place to look. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 01:54 AM Flag
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P.S. If that's you, Susan, and you're still looking for your freaking mid century modern chairs...? You're a bitch AND you're crazy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:04 AM Flag
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OP: not Susan, but this is interesting.... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 02:09 AM Flag
[ - ] Urban Baby used to be so much better. Now they let anyone on here 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 01:30 AM Flag
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STFU nigger [ Reply | More ]
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I just want the search function back [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 01:36 AM Flag
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Seriously, I come here lookin fo klassy white niggah mothafuckahs and all you got fo me's a bunch SAHM [ Reply | More ]
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