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[ - ] What things make you unreasonably crazy? Like you know that they are not a big deal to the real world but you yourself have an extraordinarily negative reaction? 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:51 PM Flag
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Being behind bikers on the road. They all look like fucking Lance Armstrong to me and I want to run them over. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:41 PM Flag
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Haha. Mine is cars that double park in the bike lanes, people who walk in the bike lanes, etc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:42 PM Flag
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Point taken! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:43 PM Flag
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LOL [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 11:00 PM Flag
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When my kids are quiet until a really good song comes on the radio. Then they start talking over the song. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:44 PM Flag
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taxes on tampons. makes me CRAZY [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:57 PM Flag
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Seeing people put their handbags on the ground or on a counter in a restroom [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:57 PM Flag
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Ugh, yes, yuck. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 11:01 PM Flag
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I'm very, very particular about how the kitchen cabinets are organized. I want glasses to be lined up, facing a certain direction, etc. I know it's slightly insane, but I can't help myself. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:57 PM Flag
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People at work who bring up some elaborate argument on why they should not be doing something. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 11:01 PM Flag
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When I'm walking behind someone on the streets of NYC and they just suddenly stop walking. I walk really fast and I always stop myself from crashing into them, but usually at the expense of my back muscles! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 11:01 PM Flag
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When waiters don't change my utensils between courses but instead take my dirty fork off my dirty appetizer plate and put it down on the clean table when they take my appetizer plate away so I can use it again for my entree. Makes me want to rip someone's head off. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:50 PM Flag
[ - ] Of your posts, what percent are truthful or lies/trolling? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:36 PM Flag
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I have posted a ton of very truthful stuff lately. A little worried about outing myself sometimes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:38 PM Flag
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Never trolled. I don't understand the purpose of doing that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:39 PM Flag
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In don't troll. All of my posts are because I genuinely want to have a conversation about something. My responses are 100% genuine. My own posts are 80% true and 20% fabricated details for anonymity. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:40 PM Flag
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Never trolled but I change my details sometimes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:43 PM Flag
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I lack the imagination to troll. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:45 PM Flag
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All lies and trolling unless I am asking something. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 11:01 PM Flag
[ - ] Mmmm.... just took homemade garlic naan out of the oven. Be jealous :) 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:35 PM Flag
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I am. What else are you having? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:36 PM Flag
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Curried red lentils [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:37 PM Flag
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Sounds wonderful. Enjoy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:40 PM Flag
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Is naan hard to make? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:40 PM Flag
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op: not at all-- here's the recipe I've been using for a couple years: http://www.manjulaskitchen.com/2007/05/22/naan-bread/ [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:55 PM Flag
[ - ] My now former therapist did not respect my decision to take a break from therapy. She then proceeded to use personal information I shared with her against me. She is also homophobic. Should I file a complaint? And with who? I will obviously never consider her in the future and will never refer her to anyone. WWYD? 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:19 PM Flag
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What exactly did she do [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:21 PM Flag
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Def need to know some level of detail. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:35 PM Flag
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I've described the scenario, and am not interested in divulging more. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:36 PM Flag
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Well then it's impossible to tell you whether to file a complaint [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:37 PM Flag
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Well then, you'll get nothing. No wonder you're in therapy. You sound nuts. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:26 PM Flag
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No, actually I'm not. She's nuts. Thought I might get some feedback here. Guess not. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:40 PM Flag
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You make some vague claims and ask if you should file a complaint. Why would we advocate hurting someone's career based on that? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:34 PM Flag
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You've given no details...and that alone makes you seem like the nutty one. How did she use personal info against you? What makes her seem homophobic? Step up or shut up, please. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:35 PM Flag
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Depends how she used info against you [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:48 PM Flag
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We're not being given anything more. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:37 PM Flag
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This [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:49 PM Flag
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If she violated her professional code of ethics (which it is hard to tell from the OP) then you should file a complaint with the appropriate licensing board. Who exactly that is depends on her credentials (several different types of professionals engage in therapy). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:52 PM Flag
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+1 otherwise just try to cool down and move on [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:46 PM Flag
[ - ] Most of the guys I know who ended up marrying Asian women seem gay. Thoughts? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:12 PM Flag
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u r jelly [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:21 PM Flag
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u r sadly out of date [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:31 PM Flag
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Asian women kind-of look like men. Maybe you have something there. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:22 PM Flag
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They look like men? Maybe like girls, not women, but not men. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:35 PM Flag
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Fine they look like girls, who look like boys. No prominent secondary sexual characteristics (breasts, hips, butt). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:25 PM Flag
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Are you kidding? I know some very beautiful Asian women, not boyish at all. Somehow this is very racist. Not sure how. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:26 PM Flag
[ - ] S/o-- how many women out there will not or didn't date Jewish men? why? 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:11 PM Flag
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I dated a Muslim man. He was handsome, sweet and successful. He wanted me to convert to Islam so we could get married but I just couldn't. His mother and sisters were pretty progressive but they did cover and they had ideas about submitting to men that rubbed me the wrong way. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:30 PM Flag
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^^ by cover I mean they dressed conservatively and wore hijab. I dont think I could have adapted. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:31 PM Flag
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good call [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:22 PM Flag
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Never have, but not a choice per se. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:35 PM Flag
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What is this a s/o from? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:37 PM Flag
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The I am Asian. I find it very interesting... post. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:26 PM Flag
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height/athleticism and perception of a small "package" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:42 PM Flag
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Mommy issues. Tendency to cheat. Hypochondria. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:38 PM Flag
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hello anti-Semitism [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:46 PM Flag
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I wouldn't because I'm Catholic and I only date Christians. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:44 PM Flag
[ - ] We are just back from the summer abroad. New Yorkers are horribly rude, entitled, and ... damn ugly! 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:07 PM Flag
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Where did you go? I agree on the first two, but I have never noticed the ugly! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:11 PM Flag
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We were in northern Spain. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:04 PM Flag
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You sound like the rude and ugly one. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:14 PM Flag
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Have you actually been outside of NYC? lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:04 PM Flag
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I actually travelled to Antarctica last year. Those Adelies are quite hospitable. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:18 PM Flag
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No one whose traveled outside of NYC thinks New Yorkers are not rude and entitled. Sorry. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:22 PM Flag
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"who's". np [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:11 PM Flag
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Holy double negative Batman! How about "Anyone who has traveled outside of New York City thinks New Yorkers are rude and entitled"? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:20 PM Flag
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I have traveled pretty much everywhere and don't think that. I mean, some are, but many arent. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:36 PM Flag
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And? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:49 PM Flag
[ - ] Check out a couple of the local bars. Find one with a bartender you like. My bf is a bartender and she hooks people up regularly 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:02 PM Flag
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does this work? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:02 PM Flag
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what? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:23 PM Flag
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NP: What don't you get? Great idea. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:37 PM Flag
[ - ] Was at AMNH with dd today and saw Liev Schreiber there. He is really a good looking man! 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:02 PM Flag
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He is foine. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:17 PM Flag
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Yep [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:35 PM Flag
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Agree. And talented. Have talked to him in playground and he is very nice guy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:38 PM Flag
[ - ] My husband is singing I say a little prayer with my dd in the living room. This is so sexy. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:01 PM Flag
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It wont be when he and daughter attract all the fawning from strangers but your haggard self and daughter get none [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:35 PM Flag
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Dafuq [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:46 PM Flag
[ - ] Where do high WASPS get their children's clothing? I have never actually seen any of this stuff in stores and I shop in nice places. I am talking about the crazy colored pants, jumpers and short pants with suspenders for 3 year old boys, all the smocked dresses etc. I actually kind of think it is charming in a antiquated way. 57 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:00 PM Flag
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We can't tell. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 09:51 PM Flag
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Catalogues from Maine [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:05 PM Flag
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This is what everyone in the south wears. Lots of stores sell such things down there. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:08 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:03 PM Flag
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boutique stores where they live [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 09:57 PM Flag
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^ funny story: there was one such boutique store near my house called Ashley Madison; they closed [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:10 PM Flag
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i live in NY and shop in lots of boutique stores. I see some of the dresses but not the boys stuff. Is there one brand or store that is well known for this? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:00 PM Flag
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Orient Expressed is one. I think they are online. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:13 PM Flag
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^^^there is also lots of it on EBay and I am guessing you could also find it on Etsy [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:13 PM Flag
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Bergdorf Goodman [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:11 PM Flag
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I thought they closed their children's section. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:12 PM Flag
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A lot of hand me downs. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:00 PM Flag
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this too; plus church fairs, Junior League Xmas fairs, etc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:13 PM Flag
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Peaches N Cream, Potato Saks, Chatti Patti, Matilda Jane, Ragsland, Kelly's Kids, Castles and Crowns, Petite Ami, Bailey Boys [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:00 PM Flag
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np I live in the Deep South and all of these are popular here. Is this really what WASPs wear too? That would be funny. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:02 PM Flag
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not really; it's very "aspirational" - to put it politely - these days to dress your kids like this all the time; maybe on Easter & Xmas and that's about it. mini-Boden is more popular with WASPs. more practical and less pricey. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:16 PM Flag
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mini-Boden is also popular here. Interesting to me that this is how WASPs dress as this is SO common in the south even among pretty poor people. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:18 PM Flag
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Lots of crossover between southern and wasp. Although northerners hate to hear it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:27 PM Flag
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I'm an UES WASP, and while some people do shop at Boden, it is not the nice clothing OP is talking about. It is playground wear. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:39 PM Flag
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Ok yes exactly so where does the other nicer stuff come fom? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:36 PM Flag
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Florence Eiseman. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:39 PM Flag
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Thats it thank you! OP [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:42 PM Flag
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Mini Boden is not WASP. Good grief. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:40 PM Flag
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In GA here and I recognize all of these as well. But don't know what WASPs wear. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:05 PM Flag
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what WASPs wear; Carter's, anything easily washable, tasteful, not garish. (no lace ruffles except maybe at Xmas on a velvet dress) and intensely practical [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:22 PM Flag
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Haha. No to Carter's. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:40 PM Flag
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Mayflower descendant here; it was Carter's for me [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:47 PM Flag
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I just looked at a few of these websites. You are thinking of something different these are not the clothes I am talking about. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:05 PM Flag
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post a link so we know what you're talking about [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:17 PM Flag
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You are thinking of Vineyard Vines (newer and brasher), LL Bean and Land's End. As I said, catalogues from Maine or with the Maine aesthetic. These people are too new money to understand this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:21 PM Flag
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Real WASP chiming in here: our New England folks wear the old LL Bean fishermen's sweaters and our Southern cousins put their kids in the Petit Ami smocked onsies, including boys. Smocked clothing is NOT aspirational, it's basic wear for nice occasions and church. Folks up north do not do this. They wear hand me down suits for nice occasions. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:13 PM Flag
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This. Little kids wear smocked. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:39 PM Flag
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more like the orient expressed website OR posted. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:10 PM Flag
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np I looked at them and they look like exactly what I thought OP's post was referring to. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:19 PM Flag
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High WASPs? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:07 PM Flag
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they smoke lots of grass. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:10 PM Flag
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ha, ha. high WASPs don't care too much about what their kids wear, as long as it's not ridiculous [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:26 PM Flag
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Yes...lots of LL Bean and Land's End...and hand-me-down dress coats. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:31 PM Flag
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I don't even know what that means. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:29 PM Flag
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OR. Me neither. Maybe it has something to do with the high church / low church distinction in Anglicanism? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:53 PM Flag
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I noticed that too. Odd. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:29 PM Flag
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The Southern idea of what kids should wear is a little odd to me, a Northerner. Can someone explain what it's about? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:24 PM Flag
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Dress nicely, no nasty graphic stuff or pleather, old fashioned clothing. Monograms. Checks and plaids. No neon or animal print. Tasteful. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:28 PM Flag
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Are the Peaches N Cream clothes considered tasteful? I have never seen them on any kids I know, and they look pretty garish to me (the bright pants with stripes and ruffles on the bottom look clownish to me) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:33 PM Flag
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Probably the further south you get, the more you'd see of it. And the younger the kid. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:42 PM Flag
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My WASP mother used to drive out to Long Island or New Jersey once a year in late August, & buy Carter's for us to supplement the hand-me-downs we wore from cousins, neighbors, etc. That was it for the year, except for a Xmas dress bought later in the fall. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:32 PM Flag
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^ she didn't take us with her to try on, because the fit was good enough and we didn't have a say in the style (or non-style, in most cases) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:33 PM Flag
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Could you tell me how this clothing style would differ from a Jewish aesthetic? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:32 PM Flag
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where do you live? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:23 PM Flag
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what in the world is a Jewish aesthetic in children's clothes? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:35 PM Flag
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LOL [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:29 PM Flag
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I thnk what we have learned here is that WASPs, like everyone else, have very varied taste in clothing. I am UES for generations and kids wear LL Bean, Vineyard Vines, Brooks Brothers, and then clothes from the small boutiques on Madison. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:42 PM Flag
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but the big divide is between the Northern WASPS and Southern WASPS [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:34 PM Flag
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The weather would account for a lot of that [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:42 PM Flag
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Not too many southern WASPs. The south was mostly settled by the Scotch-Irish. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:43 PM Flag
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lol I've never heard the term "high WASP" before [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:47 PM Flag
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and I'm as WASPY as they get [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.27.14, 10:48 PM Flag
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