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[ - ] Anyone have information to share on PS 527 - on the fence between that and commuting to chelsea G&T. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:41 AM Flag
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I would rather go to 527 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:42 AM Flag
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Thought the 527 tour was great and registered for K there. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:48 AM Flag
[ - ] Help me, please. We just bought a new place and all our old furniture is crap. I need to get new things. How do I get motivated? I look at houzz for ideas and get bored. Are decorators worth it? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:39 AM Flag
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What is your budget? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:40 AM Flag
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$15,000 for living room, dining room, kids room. Feel no need to spend it all, but that's how far i'd be willing to go. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:43 AM Flag
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Way too little to hire a designer. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:44 AM Flag
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Per room, right? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:44 AM Flag
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Ok. Guess I don't have enough then. Where do you go for ideas? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:46 AM Flag
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np: Houzz isn't too bad if you target something specific. Like if you have a very particular color in mind or style / piece of furniture. You just have to narrow your focus. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:47 AM Flag
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I wish I enjoyed the process more. It feels like such a chore. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:49 AM Flag
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Pottery Barn -- they have a free design service and you can bargain them into giving you a 10-15% discount on everything. Go to the bottom of the webpage and look for design services. They are GREAT [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:48 AM Flag
[ - ] Camp Mowhak or Camp Hillard? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:39 AM Flag
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It just doesn't matter!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:42 AM Flag
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DD did Camp Hillard; liked it; bus saved me. Not familiar with Camp Mohawk. You're looking for a day camp near the city? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:46 AM Flag
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+1 And even if we win, if we win, HAH! Even if we win! Even if we play so far above our heads that our noses bleed for a week to ten days; even if God in Heaven above comes down and points his hand at our side of the field; even if every man woman and child held hands together and prayed for us to win, it just wouldn't matter! Because all the really good looking girls would still go out with the guys from Mohawk because they've got all the money! It just doesn't matter if we win or we lose. IT JUST DOESN'T MATTER! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:46 AM Flag
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We love Mohawk. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:49 AM Flag
[ - ] really bummed that even with a 99 we didn't get into Nest or Anderson. We got placed for a district G&T but I think we might decline. Is there a chance if we decline to still get into Nest or Anderson if someone decided against the commute etc..? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:37 AM Flag
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Yes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:38 AM Flag
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Nest has a bitch commute. You don't want to go there. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:42 AM Flag
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Yes. There are attrition rounds in August and October. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:45 AM Flag
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Limited chance at anderson. Some chance at nest. Which district did you get? Ll? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:45 AM Flag
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no [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:45 AM Flag
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What's your zoned school? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:50 AM Flag
[ - ] I have been separated for several years from husband. During this time, he fathered a child with his gf. He asked the other day if there is any chance of reconciliation. I still care very much about him but I just don't think I can accept the child. Just too painful and I would not expect him to not be a part of her life bc of my pain. No way around this, right? 24 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:35 AM Flag
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That ship has sailed, it seems [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:37 AM Flag
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I mean, you could accept the child since it is an innocent child. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:37 AM Flag
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No. Why have you never divorced? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:37 AM Flag
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For me, I felt no urgency. I have been so consumed with parenting our dcs that it wasn't a priority. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:40 AM Flag
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How many dcs? Have you dated anyone? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:40 AM Flag
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A couple of dates. Honestly, I just didn't have the energy to seriously date. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:42 AM Flag
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Why did you break up to begin with? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:43 AM Flag
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How many children did you & he have? How old are they now? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:38 AM Flag
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2. 8 and 12. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:40 AM Flag
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Ah. So what we have here is a man who is responsible for three child support payments, but can cut it down to one if he moves back in with you. DTMFA. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:41 AM Flag
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DTMFA? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:48 AM Flag
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Whut. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:48 AM Flag
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You can forgive your husband for cheating, but blame the child for being born? People are so weird. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:41 AM Flag
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You don't get it. -np [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:42 AM Flag
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No. The child is innocent. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:48 AM Flag
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I don't blame the child. However, her presence is painful for me - I am just being honest. I would never be mean or treat her badly but I feel like it would cost me too much. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:44 AM Flag
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Interferes with the denial, I guess? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:46 AM Flag
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One way of looking at it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:48 AM Flag
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Mom? Is that you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:42 AM Flag
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Was your mother in this situation? If so, what was your opinion of what you thought she should do? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:45 AM Flag
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Yes currently. I don't think she can go back or will. She was with my dad since 14. She has finally gained independence for the first time and seems to be doing well. She is very sensitive but either way, much too painful. Very sad situation. Lift your chin up and move on is my suggestion but I don't know the details. Your Dh f'd up and he knows it, and clearly regrets it but there may be somebody else out there for you. :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:48 AM Flag
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The new baby is a boy, so I guess not. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:45 AM Flag
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This is a complex question that has to factor in your emotions, your finances, your ability to have quality of life for your kiddos without him and many more things. Here's my opinion: if you take him back (assuming you will have to co-parent the new child in some respect) I would lay out my financial needs (like a pre-nup) because he may stray again. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:48 AM Flag
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Why do you think he has decided to try and reconcile? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:49 AM Flag
[ - ] If you don't enjoy sex with your DH because it's painful, and he knows it (you do it once or twice a month for his sake but never enjoy it) can the marriage work? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:34 AM Flag
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Yes, if you will go see your doctor and figure out what is wrong or accept a non-monogamous marriage. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:37 AM Flag
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If he is getting it why does it matter how I feel? I do it for him [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:39 AM Flag
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Because "getting it" once or twice a month from a partner who is not enjoying it, is not a fulfilling sex life. If you refuse to see a doctor and fix the underlying medical issue, and you refuse to let him have a fulfilling sex life with someone else, he shouldn't stay. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:41 AM Flag
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Menopause? There is meds for that. Dunno if they work, but look into it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:40 AM Flag
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I have GI issues and nothing helps [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:42 AM Flag
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Sorry. gl. If you love dh I would stick it out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:43 AM Flag
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I will but afraid he might not. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:44 AM Flag
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Not trolling, but have you tried anal? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:44 AM Flag
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That would be worse [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:46 AM Flag
[ - ] Embarrassing day for New York and Education in USA: "New York taps new education commissioner — a superintendent fired in Florida". The fatso was fired for being anti-special needs and anti-minorities. Who in their right minds think she's a good fit for New York? Besides, she didn't even learn how to eat in moderation yet. http://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/answer-sheet/wp/2015/05/26/new-york-taps-new-education-commissioner-a-superintendent-fired-in-florida/ 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:34 AM Flag
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OK...but why does her weight have anything to do with this? This makes you seems very ignorant. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:38 AM Flag
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Look at the picture! She's a whale. Educated people don't look like her, they aren't ignorant about how to maintain their health nor about proper nutrition like she is. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:39 AM Flag
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Pretending that obesity is ok = ignorant. It's a behavioral disease and it's an epidemic in USA. Time to face it head on. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:41 AM Flag
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Ugh [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:39 AM Flag
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wow, she doesn't have a neck! it's all fat. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:43 AM Flag
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Wow...you people are so kind. Do you let your kids call people names too? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:45 AM Flag
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FAT CAN BE FIXED. STUPID CAN'T BE FIXED! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:49 AM Flag
[ - ] Anything good on TV tonight? 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:30 AM Flag
[ - ] Friend is 8mo pregnant and was just laid off after 10 years and offered 2 weeks severance. Can she counter? Wwyd? 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:29 AM Flag
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Why was she laid off? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:30 AM Flag
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She said company has been slow lately [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:31 AM Flag
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Lawsuit. 100%. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:32 AM Flag
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Better than trying to negotiate with them? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:34 AM Flag
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What would she negotiate? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:36 AM Flag
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Amount of severance. She wants to ask for 6m and hope to get 3-4. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:38 AM Flag
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Bullshit. 3 months is too low. She should get three months for the baby and then 3 months on top of it. I would start with 10 months. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:49 AM Flag
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Lawsuit. This is bs. What type of firm. .? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:32 AM Flag
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This. One of their factors in determining who to lay off was her pregnancy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:33 AM Flag
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That's ballsy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:32 AM Flag
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She shouldn't take that--it's not enough, pregnant or not. What were the circumstances of the layoff? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:32 AM Flag
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Yeah, 2 weeks is terrible. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:34 AM Flag
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Not cool. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:38 AM Flag
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2 weeks is not severance. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:49 AM Flag
[ - ] Currently own a townhouse in NY burb and am dying to sell and move to a house. DH is a 7th year Biglaw associate. I really don't want to wait to see if he makes partner. He thinks he will but if not, will he at least make what he makes now? 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:27 AM Flag
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No. He can be pushed out and his job becomes less secure. This is a stupid time to buy a house. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:31 AM Flag
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When is a better time? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:32 AM Flag
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Meaning how long do we need to wait [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:33 AM Flag
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Until you know whether he made partner. If he doesn't he'll want flexibility to potentially take a job making less money, at least in the short term. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:35 AM Flag
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I imagine he's stressed out enough without you spending the money he isn't making yet. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:33 AM Flag
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He wants to move too [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:34 AM Flag
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Moving is stressful. He will have a better idea of true partner prospects in a yr [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:36 AM Flag
[ - ] MIL coming to visit for the weekend. DH will be working, so I'm the one hanging out with her. I'm the only one that seems to find this odd. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:26 AM Flag
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I guess it depends on your relationship w/ MIL? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:30 AM Flag
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Plan a lot and wear her out so she'll go to sleep early. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:30 AM Flag
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Yes, odd. Dh should take time away from work or mom comes when he is avail. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:31 AM Flag
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I'm a mil and my dil and I spend plenty of time together on our own. We spend an annual wkend at our country house together and I at their house often when my son is away. This might give you a chance to become more comfortable with her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:37 AM Flag
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Do you have dc? I mean, is seeing them the main reason for her visit? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:37 AM Flag
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NO!!!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:49 AM Flag
[ - ] S/o on unemployed English major son thread. There is a lie at the heart of liberal arts education. This is the lie: "A liberal arts education doesn't prepare you for a particular job, it teaches you to think." LIE! Every liberal arts major prepares you for a very particular job. For example, an English major prepares you to be...an English teacher. A history major prepares you to be a history teacher, etc. If you have no intention of becoming a teacher, well...good luck. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:23 AM Flag
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You are wrong. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:25 AM Flag
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Philosophy majors are making bank. Highly in demand by Fortune 500 companies due to analytical / deductive skills. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:28 AM Flag
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Urban legend [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:36 AM Flag
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Not really. My dh was a history major and doing very well in advertizing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:42 AM Flag
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History is not philosophy [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:47 AM Flag
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My adult son was an English major...now doing super well in sales/marketing. He likes to hire Eng majors too. It has so much more to do with people skills and work ethic, imo, than major. Unless you want to be an engineer. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:41 AM Flag
[ - ] Can anyone recommend any good single cup coffee brewers as a father day gift for my DH. He currently uses Tassimo which is getting old. TY 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:22 AM Flag
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Our cuisinart makes shitty coffee. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:24 AM Flag
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I love all of my breville appliances [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:30 AM Flag
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What does "getting old" mean in this context? The coffee's no good? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:31 AM Flag
[ - ] I went to a $20 nail place today and paid a good cash tip to the lady who was doing my nails.She kept the money at her table and we went to another room for my waxing.When we came back to the table the money was gone leading me to believe the owner took it. WWYD? 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:21 AM Flag
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Start screaming at the owner. Throw some tables over and demand answers!!!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:22 AM Flag
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I've been going there for a long time and didn't want to create a scene but now feeling bad. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:23 AM Flag
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Splash him with acetone! Or whack him with a loofah! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:24 AM Flag
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Your silly replies are not helping [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:25 AM Flag
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this is not a serious fucking topic cupcake [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:26 AM Flag
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Whatever [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:31 AM Flag
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Pick up a nail file- use it as a shiv to make people talk! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:27 AM Flag
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I would ask the lady who was helping you if she got the tip. Ask next time you go. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:31 AM Flag
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Maybe they pool their tips together. Did she seem to care it was gone? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:32 AM Flag
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Could be. Kind of stupid. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:34 AM Flag
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no she didnt seem to care [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:36 AM Flag
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Ask her next time. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:39 AM Flag
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These tips pay her bills. If owner takes them that is fucked. Might even be illegal. I would probe and not ignore, but that's me. Just ask your nail lady next time you go in if she got her tip. I'm not confrontational so I wouldn't myself confront the owner, but I'd make sure nail lady pocketed the tips you give her in the future. Good luck op. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:33 AM Flag
[ - ] I think I am a psycho. I feel absolutely no remorse for doing something wrong. 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:18 AM Flag
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Tell us what you did or give us a general idea and we will tell you if it's bad [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:19 AM Flag
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Listen to the excellent This American Life episode about sociopaths (not psychopaths, though there is one of those too!) or just look it up and read the main guy's book -- episode was tagged to his book. Do you think it's like narcissism, where they found recently that the best diagnostic tool, better than any long questionnaire, is just asking the person if they think they are narcissistic? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:22 AM Flag
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If you were a psychopath, it would not occur to you that you might have a reason to feel remorse. So, no, you're not. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:23 AM Flag
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Not really. I don't like getting caught because I don't feel like dealing with the consequences but no true remorse [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:26 AM Flag
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The fact that you think about whether you should feel remorse means you're not a psychopath. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:28 AM Flag
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OP is right. Thinking intelligently about it does not mean feeling it. This is like people saying "if you are asking a parenting question you must already be a great parent!" I am always glad to hear their kind words, but asking doesn't make me awesome. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:33 AM Flag
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This, op is not right (right in her post, not in her head.) No offense op. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:36 AM Flag
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Thin line, probably a scale like the Kinsey. She might be a little sociopathic. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:35 AM Flag
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I think intelligent psychopaths are usually aware that they are "different". [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:49 AM Flag
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Drama queen. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:29 AM Flag
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Yes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:33 AM Flag
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Yeah that's not good. I am the opposite. Just gave some rando 10 bucks because he needed to get to Ohio? I am overly empathic. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.15, 01:34 AM Flag
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