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[ - ] I haven't worked out in 2 days. I feel weird. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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csb [ Reply | More ]
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I haven't worked out in two months. I feel fat. [ Reply | More ]
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And? [ Reply | More ]
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This is the first time in 4 years. Trying to be more healthy [ Reply | More ]
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i havent worked in 2 years, I feel happy :) [ Reply | More ]
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I haven't worked out since last week. I had foot surgery so I'm limited in what I can do for 6 to 8 weeks.'im going to turn into jelly. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] What's an average reading level for a 3rd grader? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Mine reads at level Q. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Are there industrialized cities where panhandling and homelessness are virtually non-existent? 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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tokyo? [ Reply | More ]
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In Singapore, panhandling is illegal and prosecuted. [ Reply | More ]
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nice [ Reply | More ]
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Cool [ Reply | More ]
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scandanavian countries? iceland? [ Reply | More ]
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Charlotte. [ Reply | More ]
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When I was in college I had a friend come over from Sweden. When I was giving her a tour of downtown I pointed out a homeless youth center. The very idea of teenagers without places to live was confusing to her. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Did you marry for love, security, or to have kids? All three? Two out of the three? If you have been married now for many years, or divorced, what do you think you actually got, as opposed to what you hoped for? 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Money- the love and kids came. I am very satisfied with my choice. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:26 PM Flag
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I married because I loved him and wanted to spend my life with him. I also wanted kids and security out of the deal, but certainly didn't marry for those things. They'd be wortheless without love, so that's what I married for. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:27 PM Flag
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^What I got was love, kids and security :) [ Reply | More ]
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Just for love. I wasn't sure I'd want kids - but now that I have my DD I wish I could go back and have her earlier. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:27 PM Flag
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I wanted children but didn't marry for them. Married because I loved him. [ Reply | More ]
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General Topics 10.20.14, 10:40 PM Flag
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Married for love. Have all three now. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:34 PM Flag
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Companionship [ Reply | More ]
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Married for EU citizenship. Got EU citizenship. Now if marriage ever breaks down, I can work in US or EU, but have been pleasantly surprised by the success of the partnership and our happiness so far. [ Reply | More ]
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Love and to have children. Not sure which was the stronger motivator, if I'm completely honest. [ Reply | More ]
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All three - I got very lucky. [ Reply | More ]
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love [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:46 PM Flag
[ - ] Please pardon my naivety. I have an interview tomorrow for a job that isn't even open technically. They are planning to fire the current person as soon as they find someone new. It feels incredibly sneaky and underhanded-if they don't like the person in the position just let her go. I know she's still getting a paycheck while they fill the role, I'm thinking more long term...if I don't perform up to par, are they going to just ditch me too? Or is this normal corporate behavior? I have only had two jobs since finishing college, both for big companies with lots of openings and turnover. TIA! 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:22 PM Flag
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Normal. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:26 PM Flag
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Eh. It's normal. That wouldn't worry me. What would worry me is why you seemingly know so much. Normally you're just told it's confidential which is code for that, but you would never be told more details. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:28 PM Flag
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OP: It's a pretty close knit industry with big and small firms. I'm friendly with the hiring manager from a networking perspective and she has been really helpful being no bullshit about a lot of the job/company, etc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:29 PM Flag
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You're entitled to ask what their expectations for the job are or even for the example of an employee they do appreciate. [ Reply | More ]
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I'd be reluctant to work for a place like that. It will happen to you, too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:32 PM Flag
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If you think you're comfy cozy at your current job you're in for a rude awakening. We're all expendable. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:34 PM Flag
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Oh, I know. But this is worse. They have told her as much. Kind of like marrying a man who cheated on his ex-wife. They tell you they are assholes. Believe them!!!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:37 PM Flag
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Good point [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:40 PM Flag
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Jinx!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:45 PM Flag
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Most big companies have some sort of introductory/probation period for the first few months once someone is hired. That way if the person isn't a good fit they can let them go without any legal recourse. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:36 PM Flag
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I never understood this in NY. Aren't we all at-will employees? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:37 PM Flag
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My company has that BS, but it is only to reduce the quote of turnover when clients ask, i.e. if someone leaves after 3 or 6 months, it doesn't count. It has no legal significance. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:39 PM Flag
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Yes. It's totally shitty. And they will do the same to you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:45 PM Flag
[ - ] How would you handle this? 7 yo DS, his friend and their 2 3 year old brothers were chasing each other around after soccer. There was another kid running with them. Something happened while I was rounding up DS's bag and the other kid ended up on the ground crying. Not sure if he tripped, was tackled or a combo of the two. We made the 2 older boys apologize to him, offered to help him up, checked if he was ok (he said he was) and asked if we could find his mother. He said no so we left. His mother finally appeared and as we were almost to the exit from the field we could see her talking to the coach and pointing at us (this kid is on a different team and I don't know her). I don't know what the coach is supposed to do but I am scared the kids will get in trouble for some sort of bullying scenario which is not what was going on. As an adult I feel the situation was handled appropriately but obviously the other mother saw things differently (despite not being there). I fear he may get in trouble from the team which is a really big deal and, IMO, not warranted. I hate these type of situations, I would never go to the coach over something similar and in this case an apology was all that was necessary. Dreading checking my email now. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:20 PM Flag
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I would do nothing unless you get contacted about it. Then I would simply explain what happened. I think you're over-worrying here. Don't worry about it before anything has even happened. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:23 PM Flag
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why can't the two older boys tell you exactly what happened? was he 7 yo also? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:41 PM Flag
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You sound very conscientious, don't waste a lot of time fretting over this. [ Reply | More ]
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Who the fuck cares? Kids fall. Kids cry. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] How long do you keep spices, vinegars , etc before throwing them out? I have some jars that have been in my pantry for years! 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:12 PM Flag
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I do the same. But I am not a really picky person. If the vinegar looks a little too old for consumption there are a lot of household uses for it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:13 PM Flag
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Spices can last for years, but practically speaking, they lose some of their flavor after a year. Vinegar you can keep until you see stuff growing in it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:16 PM Flag
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I found a giant mushroom-looking thing growing in a bottle of old balsamic once. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:22 PM Flag
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Haha. That is scary! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:41 PM Flag
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What about spice jars? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:20 PM Flag
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Yes, I have some I know are up to 20 years old, haha. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:21 PM Flag
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Spices can last one to two years. If they are a little old, you can bloom them in oil or butter. Spices are only harvested once a year, so don't replace more frequently than that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:28 PM Flag
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A couple of years. Be careful, though! I have found insects in my curry. I keep a lot of spices in the refrigerator. Keeps the bugs in check. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:31 PM Flag
[ - ] SO from the post by the mom who would DIE if her daughter became a teacher. This seems like such a middle class mentality. Are you really sending your children to TT schools and investing in their education because you are looking for some sort of employment payout in the future? My parents were successful middle class immigrants, and that's how they raised me. Studying art or music was not a question. I became an MD, and they were pleased. But now that I've climbed the socio-economic ladder, I feel like I want something better for my children. I'm investing in their education because I want them to be well educated adults, that's all. I'm happy that they have the financial freedom to pursue less lucrative careers in the arts, and even, gasp, become teachers. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:09 PM Flag
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I meant to say that studying art and music was not an option (or, out of the question). I guess the two thoughts combined in my mind! [ Reply | More ]
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Another gasper. Bor-ring. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:17 PM Flag
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How do they achieve financial freedom having careers in the arts or teaching? Did you give them financial help? [ Reply | More ]
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You know that people are teachers and artists and they live independently. It not may not be the life you imagine for yourself. But people do it all the time and they are often happy. [ Reply | More ]
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General Topics 10.20.14, 10:37 PM Flag
[ - ] moms who have btdt: have to start the prep for a colonoscopy in about one hr (procedure is tomorrow morning - Doc gave me Suprep) I am so worried, hope it will go well. Can I keep drinking broth and other liquids (other than water) also with the second dose, which I need to take tomorrow morning at 5... or can I just drink water with the second dose? Also, I already have a headache from not eating all day, and so worried about taking prep and that it may bother me more... any suggestions to make this easier? Thank you! 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 09:58 PM Flag
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Can't remember but I think it was clear liquids the night before. Tmr is a cakewalk compared to this evening. Did you not get a print out of very specific directions? Gl. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:03 PM Flag
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There are different pre-procedure guidelines (pills vs plain old laxatives) so I would call dr's office tomorrow. Take it easy and drink clear fluids like chicken broth, Sprite, apple juice, if you are getting a headache. Actual procedure is NBD, the drug is amazing - best sleep of your life and it's over before you know it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:07 PM Flag
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I just did this a few weeks ago. You should have a number for a nurse on call to ask questions, get your answers from them. It is not fun but probably not as horrible as you think it will be. The procedure itself is nothing, you will be out of it for that. Then you just get to rest for the rest of the day, that's the nice part!!! [ Reply | More ]
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op- thank you everyone. I'm home alone w 9yo dd, so I guess I also worry because of that... but I explained that mommy will have to run to the bathroom a few times. Drinking the first dose of prep in 30 minutes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:24 PM Flag
[ - ] PSA: If your replies stop nesting, just give it up. No one cares to read two people going back and forth that can't even be distinguished. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 09:56 PM Flag
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I do. it's like a bad novel. One reads with mingled horror and admiration. [ Reply | More ]
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It's a duel to the end. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:19 PM Flag
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I got to that point once, plus the post was on the third page by that point, so I just quit. I went back later to see if any other (sane, worthwhile) responses had been added, and there was just a tirade about how I couldn't say things and then not defend my position and I was "clearly trolling". So now I don't respond more than twice to any post. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:46 PM Flag
[ - ] When I buy good ice cream, I eat the whole pint. Anyone else? 18 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 09:55 PM Flag
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I make my own ice cream so no [ Reply | More ]
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Csb [ Reply | More ]
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I milk my own cow and harvest my own sugar cane to make my own ice cream, so no. [ Reply | More ]
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Lmao [ Reply | More ]
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Lol! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:37 PM Flag
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this is why i don't buy good ice cream [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 09:57 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
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More often than I like. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:06 PM Flag
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of course. [ Reply | More ]
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I even do this with bad ice cream. [ Reply | More ]
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ILY [ Reply | More ]
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I got a bad pint of Ben & Jerry's once and was like "to eat it or throw it away..." and kept chowing down hoping that it would get better. It never did. So ashamed [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:20 PM Flag
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Happens all the time [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:21 PM Flag
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Why was it bad? Is Ben & Jerry's considered bad ice cream? What flavor? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:33 PM Flag
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It's so hard to waste ice cream. That's why I only buy it a few times a year lol. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:38 PM Flag
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With gelato, yes. I've got it bad for gelato. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:46 PM Flag
[ - ] anyone here regularly take adderall? thoughts? 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 09:54 PM Flag
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Bad idea [ Reply | More ]
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+1000 [ Reply | More ]
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In 10 years your kid will shoot up his school. If you can life with that, go for it. [ Reply | More ]
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huh? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:08 PM Flag
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Me until I got pregnant. My thoughts are if you have ADHD it can be a lifesaver, but there are also some great alternatives coming out now that are worth trying first. If you don't have ADHD, don't take it. It's not something to mess around with for recreational reasons. [ Reply | More ]
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A very tiny percentage of kids on these drugs truly have ADHD. [ Reply | More ]
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OR: OP was asking about adults, so I'm not sure how this is related to my comment. [ Reply | More ]
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I've been taking half a pill every morning for the last year. [ Reply | More ]
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Me. It's improved my performance at work by a lot, but I can't take it everyday because it loses its potency. [ Reply | More ]
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np I've been on the same script for 8 years. Haven't found it to lose any potentcy in terms of helping me with my ADD symptoms. I don't buzz around like I did in the beginning, but in terms of what it is supposed to do it still does that well. [ Reply | More ]
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Im not sure I actually have ADD [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Anybody else feel like there is a backlash against thin women now a days? 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 09:51 PM Flag
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not really [ Reply | More ]
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Not in the real world. And I am thin. [ Reply | More ]
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Yes. Poor you. The world is against you. Feel validated now? [ Reply | More ]
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Only on UB. Not IRL. [ Reply | More ]
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This. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 09:53 PM Flag
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I got a lot of crap from women when I was pregnant. I gained exactly what my doctor said I should and I didn't go overboard on the exercise either. But otherwise, no. [ Reply | More ]
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a store called torrid hates thin girl and will not sell to her [ Reply | More ]
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No. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:04 PM Flag
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Only online! There is a whole "embrace your curves" movement but as far as I can tell that is only curvy enough to look like a porn star with tits and ass, not actual fat places men/women don't want fat. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:07 PM Flag
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This comment reminds me of the war on Christmas. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:17 PM Flag
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A little bit. I am thin and have a fast metabolism-- so I eat what I want, I'm not starving myself to be this size. Was out for breakfast with a group of women recently, and I ordered an omelette and home fries. Some moron had to loudly point out "WOW I CAN'T BELIEVE YOU ATE ALL THAT! AND YOU'RE SO SKINNY!". Now, imagine that exact comment again, but substitute the word "fat" for "skinny". You'd be a lot less likely to hear that. I'm not complaining, I would rather have this problem than have to struggle with my weight. But the backlash does happen sometimes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:26 PM Flag
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Yup. "real women have curves" always pisses me off. Why can't we validate overweight women without putting other women down? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:31 PM Flag
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Overweight women have been put down for a long time. I can't believe you want to take that away from them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:42 PM Flag
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not at all [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:47 PM Flag
[ - ] My husband prefers me ten pounds heavier but I feel uncomfortable at that weight. I know he wouldn't fatten up for me... 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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My dh prefers me thicker too. But I feel better thinner, so I just go with that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 09:47 PM Flag
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Normal weight? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 09:47 PM Flag
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113-115. Perfectly respectable at five two and I eat everything. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 09:48 PM Flag
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He likes big jugs! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 09:49 PM Flag
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And over the shoulder boulder holders! [ Reply | More ]
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And probably a fuller, smoother, younger-looking face. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 09:51 PM Flag
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I gained some weight in the last year and I think it definitely makes me look older. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:34 PM Flag
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There is absolutely no way that that is true, unless your clothing style became a little too frumpy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:43 PM Flag
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how old are you? I find in thin women those 10 lbs can really make the face look better. [ Reply | More ]
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np Perhaps. I kept on about 5-7 pounds after my first db and while I don't like how I look as much as before, I get SO many more compliments than I used to. It really seems like other people see me as more attractive now. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:30 PM Flag
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most men like women a bit curvier than they like themselves [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:47 PM Flag
[ - ] I hate Harry's shoes. They always convince me to buy things that aren't quite right - and it's always insanely expensive. I usually figure it out after the first wearing. No more for me. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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They have Svengali-like powers, those Harry's shoes people. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:02 PM Flag
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why do you keep going back? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:39 PM Flag
[ - ] This chick's lack of ability to make a decision is preventing me from leaving the office, as usual. So much for getting to the gym tonight. 15 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 09:36 PM Flag
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Ugh, my former boss used to start her 2 pm meetings at 5:30 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 09:42 PM Flag
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Such poor time management if this happened consistently. [ Reply | More ]
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Every. Single. Day. I admired her for many things but she was a god-awful boss because of her inconsiderate time management. [ Reply | More ]
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I couldn't handle this for more than 2 meetings. I'd be looking for a way out right away. How did she ever get to be boss? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 09:52 PM Flag
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I'm in the office from 9:00-5:00. I've made it clear to my superiors that this is an ample window of time for them to communicate with me. Once the window closes, it doesn't re-open until 9:00 the next morning. Deal. You have to lay down and enforce your own boundaries otherwise they will treat you like hired help and walk all over you. [ Reply | More ]
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You are more disciplined than I am. Most of my co-workers are considerate of each others' time but this person is not and then she gets annoyed and says "I'll do this myself." [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:11 PM Flag
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Fine. Let her do it herself. And you go home. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:12 PM Flag
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This is why it's always a bad idea to put women in positions of authority. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 09:49 PM Flag
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What are you, a member of the Taliban? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:19 PM Flag
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You need to set boundaries. Tell her that x:xx is your "out" time. Period. And stick to it. That's the only way they'll respect YOUR time. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:02 PM Flag
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I did tell her this morning I had to leave at 5:30 sharp. Clearly that did not work because she insisted I be the one to send out this document that she is toiling over. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:03 PM Flag
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No. You do not tell her that you "need" to leave by 5:30; that implies that you are answering to (and prioritizing) a third party superseding HER and makes you look passive. Tell her "I'm leaving at 5:30." PERIOD. If SHE can't get her act together to enable you to "send out" that document, it will have to wait until tomorrow. And stick to your guns. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:08 PM Flag
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Thanks, you are right. She is not even my boss! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:11 PM Flag
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OMG then why are we even having this discussion? GO HOME! NOW!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:13 PM Flag
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np and plus a billion and I "happily" stay when work needs to be done, but not when someone dicks around all day and does not give me what I need. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:22 PM Flag
[ - ] Tuesday is Taco night in my home. What is a good Queso recipe? Without Velveeta? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 09:36 PM Flag
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No such thing. You also need to use Rotel. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 09:37 PM Flag
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+1 velveeta & rotel= heaven [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 09:47 PM Flag
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Ummm it's Monday. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 09:41 PM Flag
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maybe op is planning for tomorrow. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 09:52 PM Flag
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Ummmm, she's probably planning ahead for tomorrow. Sounds as though you're not much of a planner? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 09:53 PM Flag
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I use Monterrey jack for queso fundido. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 09:48 PM Flag
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Velveeta? seriously? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 09:53 PM Flag
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Velveeta is the bomb [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:15 PM Flag
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A mix of white american and monterey jack works pretty well, though the best is if you can get some queso blanco. VERY FATTY that way, though. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:07 PM Flag
[ - ] Anyone want to help me out with a way TLDNR post I put on Reddit because I didn't want to get flamed here? Only if you are bored at work, it's super long...http://www.reddit.com/r/Marriage/comments/2jtm1t/have_you_forgivenforgotten_things_your_spouse_has/ 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 09:29 PM Flag
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I read it and the only advice I have is that you should really be in individual therapy and work through all of your emotions tied to your father and dh before you consider leaving your marriage. GL to you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:03 PM Flag
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Tks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:08 PM Flag
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IDK her emotions seem justified to me. If DH had done nothing at all yet she was suspicious all the time that would be cause for reflection but he has cheated on her repeatedly, not sure that means she has issues... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:20 PM Flag
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What do you want to do? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 10:20 PM Flag
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