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[ - ] My SIL is bi-polar. I haven't seen my niece since April and my brother, who is miserable in his marriage, won't put his foot down and tell his psycho wife that our family is dying to see our little niece. WWYD? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 11:09 PM Flag
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Plan a visit to them? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 11:24 PM Flag
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We live close to each other. She refuses to either come here or invite us over. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 11:14 PM Flag
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This is your brothers wife? That he lives with? Sounds like he is refusing too (that's the issue, not his DW) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 11:17 PM Flag
[ - ] Investment banker mom here. Getting tired of the work. What other careers can I transition into? Not seeing many corporate development jobs. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 11:06 PM Flag
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how much of a pay cut can you take? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:59 PM Flag
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I am willing to work for a good base ($175-200K), ok living without a large bonus. Am Director level currently. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 11:25 PM Flag
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How do you expect to make this kind of base for something you basically gave not much experience for? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 11:28 PM Flag
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Unless you just love working, there really isn't. Buyside will be tough transition without a rolodex, or experience and track record for research. And everything else likely too much of a pay cut to justify working after taking into account longer hrs for start up at new job and child at costs on a pre-tax basis vs current position. Unless you just love working and then do whatever you want ( where you can find job). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 11:07 PM Flag
[ - ] S/O of business partner post... Is there any specific explanation why so many people fall for close friends of current partner or spouse? Is it just that they get to know them well, or is there some psychological phenomenon? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:37 PM Flag
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availability [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:26 PM Flag
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the "forbidden" element … the more dangerous and shocking the more thrilling. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:30 PM Flag
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I'm curious about this too. Friend had a no-fault marriage and ended up marrying her ex-dh's oldest, dearest friend years later. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:51 PM Flag
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^ex best friend, I should say [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:51 PM Flag
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it's whoever is available. it's easier to mess around with someone you're already talking with, which gives you a chance to test out the waters on the sly then have to risk rejection or worse with a random stranger. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:54 PM Flag
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You become friends first in a safe, non-sexually charged setting, and then by the time the attraction becomes undeniable you're already basically intimate, and it's easy to communicate and easy to find time together. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:51 PM Flag
[ - ] Would you be upset if your dh or boyfriend " liked " a sexy pic of your cousin or best friend on Instagram or Facebook? 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:32 PM Flag
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yes. dump if bf. dh, seriously consider dump. ok, j/k on the dump but he needs a slap upside his head. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:23 PM Flag
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I would get divorced. No self-respecting woman tolerates a man who gives compliments to another woman in public for everyone to see. How low does your self-esteem need to be to stay with that kind of humiliation? He may as well be saying "I wish my wife/girlfriend looked like you." Thoughtless. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:29 PM Flag
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it's thoughtless but a divorce? surely, it's not a one-strike item. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:30 PM Flag
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np. I'm pretty sure that was a joke. Then again on UB who knows. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:46 PM Flag
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I hope you're being sarcastic. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:44 PM Flag
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If that was the only offense of that nature, no. If there was some sort of history of cheating or other questionable behavior, I'd probably be pissed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:45 PM Flag
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^^ not purely because he liked it, but because he liked it knowing I'd see it as well as all our mutual friends [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:50 PM Flag
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i think the divorce person was kidding. a guy hit a like button on facebook. takes a millisecond. men aren't that complicated and aren't very thoughtful. he may not even have realized that the reason he liked the picture was because it was sexy. really. don't even say anything. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:46 PM Flag
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Most men view "sexy" pics differently from women and I think liking it would only be an indication he was trying to give her a compliment. I doubt he intended for it to be an affirmation of wanting to fuck her. So don't spaz. If he seems otherwise preoccupied with that person or tends to confuse sexiness with beauty, then I would reconsider. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:37 PM Flag
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no [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 11:03 PM Flag
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No. Not at all. Why would anyone care about this? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 11:29 PM Flag
[ - ] Need quick ideas for celebrating my anniversary with dh this week. I was supposed to be traveling for work, but trip just got postponed and now we have no plan. we were going to wait and celebrate later this month. we may still do that, but now our actual anniversary night and weekend is wide open. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:25 PM Flag
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ha ha. i almost forgot 11 years tomorrow. i always forget. dang. i might still forget tomorrow. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:26 PM Flag
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Watching....ours is Thursday! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:43 PM Flag
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do you have kids covered? if you were going to do something "big" later how about going to a nice local place you used to enjoy when you were first dating? Due to a bizarre set of circumstances my husband and i had our first "date" at a national chain restaurant (EEK!) and now we go there around that time each year. Its a fun way to remember what it was like when we were first dating. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 11:06 PM Flag
[ - ] Posted Sunday about trying to go a week without a drink. (Hadn't gone a day without one for a long time). Day 3 and feeling pretty good! 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:21 PM Flag
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good for you! keep strong! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:26 PM Flag
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Thank you! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:50 PM Flag
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21 days and you lose the thirst. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:50 PM Flag
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Right on girlfriend! Keep it going : ) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 11:24 PM Flag
[ - ] ub seems kinder and gentler. how did that come about? 17 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:16 PM Flag
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moderators finally doing their job [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:29 PM Flag
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weekends are the worst. more normal moms on during the week. it will get bad again at night. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:18 PM Flag
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no, the last few days seem better than a few months ago. i was off most of summer, though. maybe it's me. maybe i've stopped instigating people. lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:18 PM Flag
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Np - that's when the trolls get home from school and the wine and pills start kicking in for the moms [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:19 PM Flag
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The pills? Lol. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:41 PM Flag
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Teens and college students are at school during the week. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 11:15 PM Flag
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Since the post about the Spokeo web site collecting info about everyone from all online activity they engage in (like what's on your amazon wish list, etc.), the site has improved. And throwaway e-mail addresses are not the answer. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:23 PM Flag
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really? why isn't throwaway email the answer? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:37 PM Flag
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For one thing, using throwaway e-mail addresses makes you more of a target and a person to watch for the people in the US government who are looking for online activity that we don't like (like recruiting for ISIS, among other things.) They wonder what you have to hide. Read the wikipedia post on Tor for more details. Also, ISP's are easy to trace. There are many, many trails you leave on the internet that you're not aware of. And you've been doing it since you before first signed on to a computer. I found information about myself from a (good) personal check I wrote in 1986 to a local store. How in the world that ended up on my Spokeo account is truly a modern miracle. The store probably ran a credit check on me because the check I wrote was for more than $100 (oooh). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:45 PM Flag
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you are crazy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:37 PM Flag
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you wish [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:52 PM Flag
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ISP = Internet Service Provider. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 11:08 PM Flag
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they cough up addresses very easily [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 11:19 PM Flag
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You're probably on in the morning, when people are nicer. They get nastier as the day wears on and the claws really come out when the drinking accelerates at night. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:34 PM Flag
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No way. Early in the morning … particularly on Mondays at 9am-ish - people are mean. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:38 PM Flag
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Oh, I meant around 11-12. Seems OK to me then, usually. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:39 PM Flag
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I noticed it too. My theory is that I he hardcore spammers drove off all the casual spammers and trolls and people who wandered over here just as another outlet to be anonymously obnoxious or to purposely sidetrack our conversations just for kicks. The real UBers stayed because really where else would we go and we're actually not a bad group. We'll flame the shit out of you if you're acting like a douche and we don't sugadcoat but we're not bad. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 11:20 PM Flag
[ - ] Would you be uncomfortable if your boss had a younger wife, and you found out that their relationship had actually begun in her home country when she was 15 and your boss was in his mid-30's? He had been living in Panama as a local rep of a different company, and that's where they met. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:14 PM Flag
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no. not my business. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:16 PM Flag
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No, my work life is strictly business. Unless I had knowledge of something illegal, I wouldn't fell uncomfortable. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:31 PM Flag
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Super gross, but I guess better than if you found out he slept with underage girls when he traveled abroad. At least in this case there's the potential that they have a real relationship and it was a fluke. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:34 PM Flag
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Pretty common in under developed countries…economically stricken families pray for a foreigner that will help them live better…I bet your bosses wife sends lots of money and goods to Panama, or has already gotten green cards or citizenship for her relatives. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:41 PM Flag
[ - ] What preschool is your dc starting? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
NY Schools 09.16.14, 10:13 PM Flag
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All Souls [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:41 PM Flag
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Episcopal [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 11:21 PM Flag
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Deblasio's school of hard knocks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 11:13 PM Flag
[ - ] At what point does working out become once sauce and overkill? How much working out/going to the gym is too much? 15 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:12 PM Flag
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If it's interfering with normal life (ie you turn down invitations to be with friends, work assignments or time with kids because you have to go to the gym), if it's a compulsion (you do it not because you feel good but because you feel guilty or anxious when you don't), or if it's hurting rather than helping you physically. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:16 PM Flag
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sane answer. this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:18 PM Flag
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Like other things, when it starts interfering with other parts of your life. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:17 PM Flag
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I mean going to the gym is always interfering with your life even if you only go a few times a week. That's time you could be spending with your kids or cleaning the house or staying late at the office... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:08 PM Flag
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Ok, and on that note, staying late at the office or cleaning your house is interfering with time you could be at the gym. I would think that regular exercise a few times a week is prolonging your life, not interfering with it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:09 PM Flag
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op: Right, everything interferes with something else. So using the interference definition is sort of circular logic when trying to determine priorities, no? Better to put a numerical value on the time. So how many hours a week is too much vs not enough vs just enough. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:11 PM Flag
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Sounds like you feel guilty about it though, which is getting more to the crux of the problem. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:29 PM Flag
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OR: not really the point I was making. I guess I could compare it with drinking. Like any other thing, alcohol becomes a problem when other areas of your life actually suffer (ability to maintain relationships; ability to do your job; etc.). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:24 PM Flag
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exactly. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:28 PM Flag
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You sound fat. (Just kidding) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:32 PM Flag
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Good lord I wish I had this problem!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:28 PM Flag
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More than an hour a day is overkill [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:21 PM Flag
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Nothing wrong with a long hike or spending a day at the beach once in a while but at the gym, ITA. There's actually a point of diminishing returns for muscle building and health anyway, since you build muscle during rest/recovery rather than while working the muscle. (The microtears heal and in the healing get bigger.) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:29 PM Flag
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^My trainer actually has to force himself to take a break from working out so often when he is trying to gain muscle. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:29 PM Flag
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As long as you're not going to the point of injury or passing out (or as others said causing problems in other areas of your life) I don't think there's too much. Unless you're like this girl in my class at the gym who works out for 2 hrs a day and has the body of a 12 year old. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:36 PM Flag
[ - ] Parents of seniors: what colleges are they applying to? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:12 PM Flag
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So far 1st draft from 1st to safety: Harvard; Yale; Dartmouth; Duke; Boston College; Emory; WUSTL; Lehigh/Bucknell/Villanova; St. Lawrence; Hamilton/Colgate; Trinity; Fairfield; UConn; Alabama. Where there are slashes we may not apply to all/both of them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:51 PM Flag
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Why Alabama? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 11:16 PM Flag
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We? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 11:16 PM Flag
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Alabama is geographically so different from the others? Are you s closet Southerner? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 11:20 PM Flag
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Columbia. NYU. UPenn. Cornell. SUNY Bing. SUNY Purchase. SUNY Stonybrook. Johns Hopkins. Boston University. Tufts. Northeastern. Not all in that order and not done. 1st choice is probably Cornell but it keeps changing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 11:11 PM Flag
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Does your dc really want to stay in NYC (columbia and nyu)? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 11:16 PM Flag
[ - ] Think Grace Church will become a downtown TT? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
NY Schools 09.16.14, 10:09 PM Flag
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no [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 09:59 PM Flag
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Isn't it already? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:13 PM Flag
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For downtown, it is TT. Competition is only Avenues, Leman and St. Luke's though. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:27 PM Flag
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and Friends [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 11:21 PM Flag
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I don't think so. Given the kids I know who went there from k-8, and also who left Grace for 9th in favor of other schools, I think they are going to have a tough time when it comes to college placement. If they don't have a good first few years it will be hard to recruit strong HS students unless they give a ton of FA. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:29 PM Flag
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^OTOH it doesn't seem like people are expecting much in terms of college placement, so maybe a mediocre showing with a few strong schools is a win. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:43 PM Flag
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downtown tt is an oxymoron [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 11:10 PM Flag
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Like Queens TT. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 11:26 PM Flag
[ - ] Moms with more than one. Did you plan the second db so that birthdays wouldn't fall in the same months or week? Or did you just go for it and not care? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:08 PM Flag
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i planned for a spring baby. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:09 PM Flag
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Didn't care. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:04 PM Flag
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Nope. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:30 PM Flag
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I had trouble getting pregnant and miscarried several times, so, no. I had two DDs and was happy each time that I was pregnant and was staying pregnant. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:32 PM Flag
[ - ] Why are people on here so against age differences in couples? Why do you care? I dated 2 guys 20 years older than me when I was in my early twenties. Have you talked to 21 year old guys before? No thank you. My idea of a good Friday night doesn't involve video games and beer pong. I'm now 28 and married to another 28 year old but I leaned a lot about myself and about life from dating older guys when I was younger. It's very hard to find a mature guy in his twenties. Luckily I found one and married him, but I don't criticize other twenty somethings for marrying guys in their 30s or 40s. Why does it make people so angry? 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:06 PM Flag
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Because women in their 40s feel threatened by women in their twenties and realize men prefer the younger women so they lash out at them [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:09 PM Flag
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Probably true. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:30 PM Flag
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i've always thought this gross. even when i was 20 myself. and frankly, i have trouble thinking i'd date 40 yos now, even though i'm 45 next month. lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:22 PM Flag
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This. Envy leads to hatred and malice. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 11:04 PM Flag
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No idea. When I met DH (I was 24 and he was 39), we really hit it off and others paled in comparison. We've been married for 25 years. Can't imagine life with anyone else. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:21 PM Flag
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Yes. And you will be a widow for 20 years despite your protestations. Oh i could get hit by a bus tomorrow! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:41 PM Flag
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So what? I don't regret a moment I've had with him. Feel free to live your life in a future that may or may not happen. I'm quite happy with the years I've had. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:44 PM Flag
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Some people on here seem to have limited life experience. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:11 PM Flag
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My mom's widow friends have plenty of life experience. They have experience dealing with dhs who were 20 years older and got dementia. Guess what. It's not so great [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:40 PM Flag
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So would they rather they hadn't fallen in love and married? There is a general unwillingness on this board to accept other people's choices and it's weird. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:32 PM Flag
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Yes. In hindsight they would have married men who weren't so old but they were seduced by the older guy because he made them feel young and hot. It's not weird. I am telling you what happened to real women later in life. Sorry if that bothers you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 11:16 PM Flag
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just gross [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:16 PM Flag
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I'm not against age differences and don't have a reaction when the woman is younger, or much younger. But I find that I'm sort of grossed out when the guy is 10+ years younger than the woman (like Demi Moore) and I know it's judgmental. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:34 PM Flag
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Because men have t bette. They get a hot young wife who takes care of them when they get oldx [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:25 PM Flag
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When I was 27 I briefly dated a man who was 48 (divorced). He looked great for his age though. Nothing gross about it. We had a good time and he treated me very well. Although I do recall when we'd go out places I'd get a few dirty looks every now and then. Maybe they didn't approve or thought I was an escort or something, who knows. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:42 PM Flag
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Everybody on ub is angry! Seriously though -- I come here once in awhile, it's a guilty pleasure like icecream or too much wine -- and then the negativity bums me out and I leave. It's good going down, like McDonalds. But in the end who cares what other people think!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:31 PM Flag
[ - ] I think I have a crush in my DH's business partner. I really wanted him to like me and it first I thought it was because since he was basically going to be like family, I told myself I loved him like a brother. But now I'm having sexual dream about him, so that theory is out. How do I deal with this? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:02 PM Flag
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fuck him [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:19 PM Flag
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You can appreciate someone's looks and even fantasize in your private time- but do not allow another man into your day to day thoughts. Just drop it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:40 PM Flag
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Appeal to his greed and just tell him that if he ever wants to take over the company and oust DH you could run off together and your settlement from the divorce will give him more than 50%. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:16 PM Flag
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By cutting it out. You're married. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:31 PM Flag
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omg. a sane answer. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:21 PM Flag
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Grow up. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:20 PM Flag
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avoid him like the plague [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:45 PM Flag
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You know the post a few pages back about how some people are more at risk for divorce than others? This is kind of proving the point. If a married person has to ask "what to do" about a crush, seems unlikely the marriage will last. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:50 PM Flag
[ - ] I was gifted a car by my FIL. A friend of mine naught my old car in October of last year and only changed the title this year in January. In the meantime she was driving it with my plates. She got almost $700 in tickets that she has not paid. She is ignoring my calls and emails. I didn't sign anything so she must have gone to those shady places to change the title. I know where she works and where she parks the car. Can I just go get it until she paid the tickets or will I get in trouble with the law. 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:01 PM Flag
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Sounds like a case for Judge Judy! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:03 PM Flag
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remember, possession is 9/10-ths of the law. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 09:52 PM Flag
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Unfortunately if the car was registered to your name, and nothing was ever signed, there is no proof that you sold her the car as you claimed, and that she was driving it and not you. You are on the hook for the 700 dollars. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:07 PM Flag
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then by the same token, she can take the car back and her friend would be sol until she pays up, right? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:08 PM Flag
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It sounds like the title was changed, just not for 3 months after OP claims she sold the car to the friend. I assumed the tickets had accrued during those 3 months. If the tickets accrued after the title was changed then I don't know how OP would even know about these tickets since the car is no longer registered to her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:10 PM Flag
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i see. i would still just take the car. that's how i roll. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 09:59 PM Flag
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I'd be tempted, but then OP would be in the wrong, and she'd end up with a) still the 700 dollars worth of tickets, because she has no proof it was sold prior to january, and 2) a car theft charge. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:02 PM Flag
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i'll bet it wouldn't be like that. there would have to be a lawsuit. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:17 PM Flag
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She'd have a lot more standing in the lawsuit without some sort of grand theft auto charge pending against her though. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:20 PM Flag
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OP: How would it be car theft if the title was changed without my signing anything. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:14 PM Flag
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how does a title get changed? did you have to give her anything even if you didn't sign it? i guess you could claim she stole it. i'll bet just threatening her like that will get things resolved. what a horrible friend. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:15 PM Flag
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This reminds me of when I was a naive 20 something year old. I let my dear friend borrow my debit card and trusted she'd use it to take out only the amount we had agreed upon, which was 20 dollars. She ended up taking out about 400 dollars but didnt tell me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 09:58 PM Flag
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well, that's your bad if you gave her your debit card and your pin. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:26 PM Flag
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don't listen, op. if you show kidness and someone takes advantage, that's on the other person. but lesson learned. get the money yourself and give the next time. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:17 PM Flag
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I would go get the car!!! Or slash her tires. Your friend sounds like a d-bag. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:25 PM Flag
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don't slash the tires. that'll give her bogus excuses for not paying you back. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.16.14, 10:27 PM Flag
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