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[ - ] DH here: I had gay sex last night and I think I'm traumatized. I've had a "sissy" fantasy for a long time. The idea of being a woman really turns me on or at least it does while I'm alone. Last night, I decided to go all the way and have sex with an actual man and it was absolutely terrible. I walked into his apartment and he started fondling me and calling me sexy but I was not into it at all. I didn't want to disappoint him and ended up going all the way, but the entire experience was horrendous. I woke up today and I don't feel like myself at all. I'm shaky and a nervous wreck. I feel like I've made a huge mistake and basically destroyed my masculinity for nothing. Its honestly making me sick to my stomach. I try not to think about it, but the thoughts of him touching and caressing me come back and then I feel like puking. I'm almost wish I would die. I have no idea what to do. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.05.15, 12:02 AM Flag
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sometimes one has to experiment across the spectrum to be confident in their sexuality. now you have lived out that fantasy, and know that it is not for you. you live and learn. stop thinking about it and move forward. i think the bigger issue is the betrayal to your wife. i would definitely not tell her if you are 100% sure you are not gay. just bury that experience deep in a closet. your life is ruined if she finds out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.05.15, 12:02 AM Flag
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tell your wife. [ Reply | More ]
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ew. faggot. [ Reply | More ]
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And again this post [ Reply | More ]
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You are a beautiful, brave transwoman. Congratulations! Welcome to being a woman! Now you can walk into ladies lockerrooms and bathrooms at will and show all the little girls your girlpenis. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.05.15, 12:09 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] As an outsider reading about news from Chicago, the city sounds like a total hellzone - twenty people shot and six killed in the city so far THIS WEEKEND ALONE? Am I missing something? That sounds awful! 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:59 PM Flag
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South side only [ Reply | More ]
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I think you are a troll. Chicago is safer than many other cities. Detroit, East st Louis and Flint for example [ Reply | More ]
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This is flagged [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Astronauts Wives. Why can't they just look at Mad Men and understand that's what the market will bear right now, not 1960s desperate housewives. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:52 PM Flag
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LMAO! [ Reply | More ]
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True, such a disappointing show. I miss Mad Men already! [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] I live in the suburbs and rent the house next door, which we also own. Renters have been there for two years and always pay, but always at least a week late and always with drama like saying it will be in our mail and it's not, asking us to pick it up at other homes, etc.. I have always suspected the mother is a drug addict and weird things always happen, like repo men coming to my door for her car, police investigating domestic abuse among others. Now I have heard from a third party that they are definitely dealing drugs. My DH is worried that our house could be in danger if they are found to be dealing in it. What would you do? Am I liable if they are dealing drugs? Can I kick them out if they always pay even if late? 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:48 PM Flag
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You are not liable for your neighbors or renters crimes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:50 PM Flag
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This is why my home owners association does not allow renters only homeowners [ Reply | More ]
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Your friend knows this how ? [ Reply | More ]
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Yeah exactly... good question [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:52 PM Flag
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One of their daughters goes to high school with their daughter and she said it is common knowledge in the school. Some high school kids apparently buy drugs from them. [ Reply | More ]
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This [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:59 PM Flag
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What race are your renters? [ Reply | More ]
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Do not answer that. There are racist moms here who want to pretend that certain races are more violent than others [ Reply | More ]
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OP: They're dealing drugs, that should be all that matters to you. But, since you asked -- black. [ Reply | More ]
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That wasn't me, I am the op. The renters are white [ Reply | More ]
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When is their lease up? I would inform them at the last legal possible minute that you are not renewing and be prepared for a lengthy eviction process as you may end up in that position. I would also consult a lawyer. You have my sympathy as I am also a landlord. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:57 PM Flag
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Duh, like if she rented to Asians she would have to worry about drugs. Asians are less impulsive than other races [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.05.15, 12:00 AM Flag
[ - ] I am triggered. You're unhinged. You sound fat. NOKD. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:37 PM Flag
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Fuck you Mary. I know its you. [ Reply | More ]
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STFU lindsay!! [ Reply | More ]
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You're unhinged. [ Reply | More ]
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Your husband is fucking your mother. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] What is a good, natural laundry detergent that is free of dyes and perfumes that can be safely used on kids' clothing? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:36 PM Flag
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^^ FILTHY kids' clothing but won't be harsh on the fabric in the least [ Reply | More ]
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Dreft [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] What do you think Kate will be wearing tomorrow? I'm excited to see the whole family! 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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me too! [ Reply | More ]
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^^can't wait to see how much princess charlotte has grown [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:34 PM Flag
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Me too! They are going to walk together. I wonder if George will behave! Will Kate push the pram? William? [ Reply | More ]
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Your face on her ass. [ Reply | More ]
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What's tomorrow? [ Reply | More ]
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Charlotte's baptism [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:54 PM Flag
[ - ] Seriously, how does penis size enter into your equation? 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:15 PM Flag
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So now my vagina is an equation? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:17 PM Flag
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It really doesn't. I've had terrible sex with a huge guy and amazing sex with a small guy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:17 PM Flag
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It's a big factor. Last guy I was dating I had to dump because of small penis size. Bummer too because he was super into me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:18 PM Flag
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The guy with the small penis I dumped had issues that I believe stemmed from having a small penis. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:25 PM Flag
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That may have been an issue with this guy but I'm not entirely sure he was aware that he had a small penis. I didn't have the heart to tell him. If he had a bigger sick I'd probably have stayed for awhile at least to get laid for a bit [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:33 PM Flag
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As long as it's within normal size range, it's all about how he uses it that matters. [ Reply | More ]
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It's not a big deal. If everything else falls into line, in terms of the usual husband stuff, then I'd actually consider it a positive. Less likely to cheat. [ Reply | More ]
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Not at all. Average to small size has been more than satisfactory to me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:48 PM Flag
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I humiliate my DH regularly because of his micro, micro, micropenis [ Reply | More ]
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I humiliate my DH regularly because of his micro, micro, micropenis [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:48 PM Flag
[ - ] when do you feel you really slowed down w your 2nd pregnancy? Im 34 weeks and by the end of hte day with my toddler i am exhausted. not sure how to manage another 5 or so weeks 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:14 PM Flag
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I was fine, plenty of energy. Sorry you don't have that [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:16 PM Flag
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I've had zero energy from day 1, I'm jealous you are already at 34 weeks!!!nothing but a midday nap helps and even then I'm zzzzz by 930. [ Reply | More ]
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same!!! [ Reply | More ]
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I felt pretty bad at 32 weeks. Are you able to hire a sitter, at least on the weekends for a few hours? Hang in there! [ Reply | More ]
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i feel bad about doing that but probably should get over that... [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Divorce sucks! Separated from DH (his idea) and DSs were promised a camping trip for the 4th of July. Of course, he bailed for a trip to Ibiza so I took DCs camping. Thank goodness for out camping neighbors (who helped set the tent) but it is day 4 and I remember why I never liked camping. The dirt is killing me. 34 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:06 PM Flag
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What does this have to do with divorce? Sounds like poor judgment re: who you chose to procreate with [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:07 PM Flag
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Jeez, people can change. You are awful [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:09 PM Flag
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They don't change THAT much [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:12 PM Flag
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Yes they do. It's called a mid-life crisis. Try reading up on it. [ Reply | More ]
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Nope. There are ALWAYS signs/ red flags. You just chose to ignore [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:20 PM Flag
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How old are you? DH? How long married? [ Reply | More ]
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I'm 40. Divorced [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:26 PM Flag
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How long married? How long together? How old were DCs when divorced? [ Reply | More ]
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This isn't my post. My, you certainly are nosy!' [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:34 PM Flag
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No DCs..its obvious [ Reply | More ]
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Wrong. I have 3 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:38 PM Flag
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Then why are you bagging on this poor woman who is camping with her DCs she her DH promised to do the same? [ Reply | More ]
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Before my DH decided he wanted more freedoms and another life he was super adventure Dad. Took DCs camping every year, told everyone how lucky he was to have a wonderful family and generally was a good Dad and husband. In the last 3 months, you would think aliens took over. [ Reply | More ]
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I will add we have been married for 18yrs and my kids are preteens [ Reply | More ]
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^^ DCs also keep telling me how Daddy knows how to light the campfire, knows how to set up the lantern and I am biting my tongue as I want to tell them ..Daddy doesn't care enough to be here. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:09 PM Flag
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Wow what a bitchy thing to say about your children's father. Just because he doesn't want YOU don't take it out on your DC!! [ Reply | More ]
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I just said that I have bitten my tongue and I am more concerned about him bailing on their annual trip then I am with my own feelings. Not sure what your problem is. [ Reply | More ]
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Oh I read that. But no doubt your attitude comes through loud and clear to your DCs. [ Reply | More ]
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I hope it does. My attitude has been this trip will be great and isn't everyone loving it. [ Reply | More ]
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Your clearly not a Mom..troll. [ Reply | More ]
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Can you fucking read? Do you know what the words "biting my tongue" and "I want to tell them" mean? NP [ Reply | More ]
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HI shitty second wife. [ Reply | More ]
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Sorry, but you are being a great mom [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
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Thanks. I am trying, it is all I can do. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:19 PM Flag
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You apparently relish the martyr role. Gag [ Reply | More ]
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I know you are the same naysayer posting throughout and I truly hope that no one suffers the anguish and heartache that myself and my children have felt over the last 3 months. I am a very fortunate person in many ways and am not wallowing in self-pity. Believe what you want but your posts have made me feel like crap. If that is your goal, then you have succeeded. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:27 PM Flag
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Please do not listen to that person, you are doing a good job. I think this is a man who was such a loser his wwife left him [ Reply | More ]
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Lol so wrong [ Reply | More ]
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If a random poster on the Internet can make you feel like crap you have bigger problems. Sorry to say... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:39 PM Flag
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I am so sorry that your ex-H has done this, OP. I hope he comes to his senses before your DSs figure out that he's lost interest in them. Don't listen to the nasty poster. He/she posts on a lot of threads, multiple times, almost taking over sometimes. I posted something about my divorce (filed recently, posted questions) and there was a similar comment about choosing who to procreate with. Ignore the comments and don't let them get to you. If you read other threads you'll see the poison all over the place. You're a great mother! [ Reply | More ]
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TY [ Reply | More ]
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Blind ignorance lol [ Reply | More ]
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You sound lie a terrific mom. Your kids may not realize it now, but they will eventually. 4 days is too long to be in a tent- UGH! Next time plan 2 nights. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.05.15, 12:04 AM Flag
[ - ] I am pretty sure my dh thinks I'm socially impaired or unable to make friends - and he's onto something :( for example, we were at playground earlier today and my 4yo was playing with a dc he just met. I was sitting by the parents and their friends and my dh was chasing our toddler around. When dh came over to sit, he asked me if I met any of the people. This has happened before - if I meet the wife of one of his old friends who move to our neighborhood/area. "You should hang out with her!" I have become pretty pathetic in my 30s. 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:55 PM Flag
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Do you remember the talk about making friends in the movie Meatballs (between the actor pretending to be a zombie in Zombieland and the bullied kid from My Bodyguard)? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:59 PM Flag
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Chris Makepeace [ Reply | More ]
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That whooshing sound you hear right now is the point flying over your head. [ Reply | More ]
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At least two points, by my count. OP: go watch Meatballs, and then spend next week in a marathon Community viewing. Everything you need to know about friendship and social impairment and should have learned in kindergarten, you can pack in in one week. [ Reply | More ]
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Well, a lot is whooshing around my head because it's July 4th and I'm pretty damned buzzed. And how are you? I was impressed that I remembered that actor. I'm sorry to intrude upon your very important talking. [ Reply | More ]
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I'm not convinced of the sincerity of your apology. I demand you perform the rite of hare kare this night. [ Reply | More ]
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OK. Now I kind of like you. What HBO/SHO series was or is your favorite? [ Reply | More ]
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LOL [ Reply | More ]
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I have no idea of what either you or OR are talking about. Then again I don't tend to watch movies titled Meatballs or Zombieland [ Reply | More ]
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The more important issue is whether you have friends, not if you are making more at the play ground? [ Reply | More ]
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playground is one word [ Reply | More ]
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Op I have friends but haven't made any in 10+ years [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Are there any toddler playgrounds on the UES? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Carl schurz at 84 th has a section [ Reply | More ]
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I hate Carl Schurz. Too many gay hookups trolling in bushes [ Reply | More ]
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not at 10am! [ Reply | More ]
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True [ Reply | More ]
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John Jay, Carl Schurz [ Reply | More ]
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Both are GREAT! [ Reply | More ]
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Carl Schurz, John Jay, st Catherine's [ Reply | More ]
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Your living room. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Moving sucks. 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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It really does, most of the time. [ Reply | More ]
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Wrong. It's the best way to clear out all of the junk you never needed in the first place and start fresh in a completely clean, uncluttered home. [ Reply | More ]
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This [ Reply | More ]
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But my back hurts. [ Reply | More ]
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Work out more often and build strength and endurance. [ Reply | More ]
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I don't work out. I walk everywhere instead. [ Reply | More ]
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And you wonder why a little strenuous activity wipes you out... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:47 PM Flag
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Probably. I am weak. [ Reply | More ]
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Where are you moving? Far? [ Reply | More ]
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From Charlotte back to the UES. [ Reply | More ]
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Look on the bright side - at least your boy friend /husband bought you a new house! [ Reply | More ]
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Do you mean to post on the passive aggressive thread? [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] I am 32. I haven't been taking the pill as DH and I have barely been having sex over the last few months as he has been too stressed at work and I thought I would give my body a break. We had unprotected sex twice in June. My period is late. My breasts are sore and my groin area is bright pink. I am on vacation in Vietnam with my sister now and can't buy a pregnancy test. Do you think I could be pregnant? I don't feel nauseous or anything typical like that 17 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:37 PM Flag
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So, you're trying to get pregnant without your husband's consent? [ Reply | More ]
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TMI [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:39 PM Flag
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I had sex. Could I be pregnant? [ Reply | More ]
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could there be a connection? could strangers on a website please confirm my pregnancy for me? [ Reply | More ]
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You pulled the goalie without telling him? I'd divorce you over that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:40 PM Flag
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Go to the clinic or your doctor on Monday. It's still early enough to get a chemical abortion, which is much easier on your body. [ Reply | More ]
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well THAT was quite a leap. [ Reply | More ]
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OP: he knows I wasn't taking the pill!!!! What kind of person do you think I am?! [ Reply | More ]
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Then why wasn't he wearing a condom while you used a sponge? [ Reply | More ]
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*nauseated (Although you are pretty nauseous, too.) [ Reply | More ]
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If this isn't fake (ie, written by a loser man), you really shouldn't go on and off birth control in the short term. Not good on your body. [ Reply | More ]
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I'm pretty sure you can buy pregnancy tests in Vietnam. [ Reply | More ]
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Pregnancy kits (dụng cụ thử thai) are sold at pharmacies. [ Reply | More ]
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You're on urbanbaby at 545am? [ Reply | More ]
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Yes. This is definitely not a fake post written by an MRA troll, you conspiracy theorist! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:46 PM Flag
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From Vietnam? I call bullshit [ Reply | More ]
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I being facetious. Of course it's a fake post written by an MRA troll. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:11 PM Flag
[ - ] It looks like DOE is going to put PS 191 and PS 199 into the same zone and lottery the spots to fix the waitlist problem at PS 199. 91 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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No one will send their kid to 191 unless they mix up the upper grades. [ Reply | More ]
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They cannot mix u upper grades, but k children have very little interaction with older grades [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:41 PM Flag
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Yes, but eventually kids move from K to 1. Are you really this stupid? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:57 PM Flag
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They will move before first grade. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:00 PM Flag
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So? Within a few years PS 199 and PS 191 will shrink the gap. What many don't understand is that in USA people in one zone don't have the legal right to a better education than those who live in the zone next to it. Basically, the DOE can change the zones in a welfare positive manner every time it wants to. In this case, 2 problems get resolved at once: Waiting list on PS 199 and low testing scores of PS 191. [ Reply | More ]
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This. Lottery is fine. Both schools will be good. [ Reply | More ]
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+1. And the white kids previously zoned for PS 199 will have the chance to have a dose of reality. Not every parent can afford crazy housing costs and has a 6 digit HHI. This is a positive for these white kids as well. A dose of realism within their little bubble. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:06 PM Flag
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I do realize it, that is why many people move to districts (not like D3 or D2, but real districts) [ Reply | More ]
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And it's GREAT if the few SOBs who don't like it move to say: Scarsdale. It's a positive for NYC to get rid of white supremacists. [ Reply | More ]
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More likely they will move to D2. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:11 PM Flag
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They can do whatever they want. But to the city's government they are just like any other family. Regardless of address. This BS reminds me of the mess with the garbage in UES, since when these SOBs thought they had to right to send their crap to Bronx? It's 100% fair to force them to deal with it themselves. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:25 PM Flag
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D2 has more power, their schools are not changing. [ Reply | More ]
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LMAO! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:49 PM Flag
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I'm not at all "stupid". Even in first there is hardly any interaction with 4/5 graders. More often than not, they are on different floors with different restrooms. [ Reply | More ]
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And if there's interaction of white kids with AA/latino kids... what's the big deal? If the parents of white kids want an all-white city, they can pack and move to the burbs. Those types are not wanted in NYC. [ Reply | More ]
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Of course they are wanted in D2 [ Reply | More ]
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LMAO! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:25 PM Flag
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You are ElRo mom. Give up - isn't your dc in college by now? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:26 PM Flag
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LOL [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:27 PM Flag
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where else would the entitled racist go? the burbs are having more and more diversity now. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:27 PM Flag
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Not a lot of projects though [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:43 PM Flag
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Exactly. Those who don't like it, can go private. But it's an appropriate education, which is all they have the legal right for. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:00 PM Flag
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Waist always clear [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:43 PM Flag
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Parents at PS 199 were kicking and screaming for changes. Here they have it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:02 PM Flag
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Yup [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:27 PM Flag
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Are you kidding? If the doe does this the housing project kids will be mixed in with the others [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:46 PM Flag
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Plus one [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:46 PM Flag
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Are you for or against? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:48 PM Flag
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FOR! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:02 PM Flag
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You mean all children will have access to the same educational opportunities, regardless of class, race, or geography? Say it isn't so! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:49 PM Flag
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Are you joking? Hard to tell [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:53 PM Flag
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It isn't hard for me to tell. It's a good idea. Yea DOE [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:56 PM Flag
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So why wont DOE integrate D2 if it so good? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:00 PM Flag
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"Integrate"? They did redraw zone lines to solve overcrowding and clear wait list. What would you have them do to "integrate"? Which schools in particular? All the elementary schools are retry good [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:07 PM Flag
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+1 million, about time! We can't keep on having crazy levels of segregation of 2 public schools that are right next to each other. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:03 PM Flag
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What two elementary schools are you referencing in D2 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:28 PM Flag
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:) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:54 PM Flag
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ILY! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:03 PM Flag
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NP. They all have access to the same resources, it's only the student demographics that differ. It's not like one school has TT teachers and expensive technology and loads of after school programs while the other school has bare minimum and the dregs of the teaching pool. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:31 PM Flag
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Students make the school. People will move. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.05.15, 12:04 AM Flag
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Good. Wait list problem solved. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.05.15, 12:10 AM Flag
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That IS the idea. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:02 PM Flag
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AWESOME! Diversity... here we come! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:59 PM Flag
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I think it's a good idea. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:03 PM Flag
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Of course it is. One school: empty. The other school within a few blocks: waiting list that doesn't clear and over-crowding. It's a no brainer to do what the DOE is doing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:05 PM Flag
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And a brand new school [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:42 PM Flag
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This will also help the project kids zoned for PS 191. Half of them will have the chance of going to PS 199. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:59 PM Flag
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Aren't you clear on what is going on here? The housing project kids will be in the same school as your kids. When this has been tried before the results have been really bad [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:19 PM Flag
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lol fear-mongering much? if it suits you, move to Texas. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:26 PM Flag
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Seems to work when DOE adds g&t classroom. School improves due to more $ from parents and sibs attending. Scores go up - other famies come. G&t no longer needed and moved to a different school. I think this will be just as successful and faster. Lets see.... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:37 PM Flag
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Source? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:19 PM Flag
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This article is a month old. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:32 PM Flag
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So what? "CEC 3's zoning committee is in the early stages of taking public feedback and thinking through options for the plan, but the super zone idea is already a front-runner." [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:36 PM Flag
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For example the housing project kids arranged a gang rape of a middle class girl and then called her father and bragged to father what they had done https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/2009_Richmond_High_School_gang_rape [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:20 PM Flag
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Please. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:42 PM Flag
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Yea, high school and k-5 have lots in common [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:43 PM Flag
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Housing project kids of all ages violently attack the middle class kids. The housing project boys forced the upper middle class boys to give them bj's the last time NY tried mixing the two populations [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:47 PM Flag
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What year is this from cray cray? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:51 PM Flag
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OMG I just realized you and ElRo mom are one in the same. After all this time! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:52 PM Flag
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What is elro? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:56 PM Flag
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Nice try :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.05.15, 12:04 AM Flag
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So, can I expect apartment prices in PS 199 zone to drop? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:32 PM Flag
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Nope. All three schools will be good. Prices only goi g to rise. Sorry [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:47 PM Flag
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It's 3 schools not 2 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:40 PM Flag
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The 3rd school wouldnt open until 2018 because it needs to be built. the plan would take effect earlier for 199/191 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:44 PM Flag
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Ok - still 3 good schools in the super zone. 2018 is just around the corner [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:53 PM Flag
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The trick is getting more white kids into the system. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:58 PM Flag
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There are plenty of white children in NYC public schools. That's one of the reasons for overcrowding - less white flight [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.05.15, 12:05 AM Flag
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What do you mean by 2018? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.05.15, 12:02 AM Flag
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3rd school in "superzone" is new [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.05.15, 12:07 AM Flag
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Did you research this [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:48 PM Flag
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This plan might work. PS 199 is around 900 students, and 80% white/asian. PS 191 is much smaller, only 500 students who are 90% black/hispanic. If you blended these populations, you'd get on average a 55% white/asian school. This is definitely in the tipping point zone, but it could conceivably work. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:52 PM Flag
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Dissenter here. I dont think schools work where the black/hispanic numbers are > 1/3rd. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:53 PM Flag
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They don't. All this will result in is more losers in the lottery, and more moving out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:57 PM Flag
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Ok - overcrowding SOLVED. :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.05.15, 12:08 AM Flag
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Sorry, past the tipping point, Whenever Asians have been mixed in with ghetto kids, the ghetto kids have viciously beat the Asians, Not all the time but still http://www.cnn.com/2010/LIVING/10/22/philly.school.asian.american.attacks/ [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:55 PM Flag
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There will be 3 schools so the numbers are even better! It will work [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.05.15, 12:01 AM Flag
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When housing project kids were mixed with middle class kids the housing project kids started sexually assaulting at the age of five. http://abc7.com/archive/8983398/ [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:53 PM Flag
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The horrible legacy of slavery and Jim Crow causes them to lash out [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:56 PM Flag
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This [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:57 PM Flag
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Plus lower IQ is correlated to lower impulse control. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:59 PM Flag
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These kids cannot even remember that. Many people came to the US under awful situations. Jews were treated terribly, as were the Irish. They got up. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.05.15, 12:01 AM Flag
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Bullshit [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.05.15, 12:06 AM Flag
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So when Asian children are beat up by ghetto housing project children you put the blame on white moms., all of us or just the affluent ones [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:58 PM Flag
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True [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.05.15, 12:07 AM Flag
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Somebody needs their medicine [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.05.15, 12:09 AM Flag
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Well, the value of a bunch of coops/condos just went down. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.05.15, 12:05 AM Flag
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Do people buying those condos even expect to go to public schools [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.05.15, 12:07 AM Flag
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Some, yes. Not all. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.05.15, 12:07 AM Flag
[ - ] NIGGER 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:31 PM Flag
[ - ] Anyone have a child in boarding school? Or a child who graduated from boarding school. Do you regret your decision or was it a wise one? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:25 PM Flag
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For the kids who are truly ready for it and enjoy it, it is a great decision. You miss them, but some need to fly earlier. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:32 PM Flag
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Do they have enough independence in boarding school to know how to fly? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:37 PM Flag
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They are just ready to move beyond the home family unit and meet lots of kids from different cultures and different families beyond their home geographical sphere. If you have strong emotional ties with family that are not codependent, boarding school doesn't sever them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:42 PM Flag
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np--(who posted below): My daughter got experience traveling on her own between school and home during vacations, doing laundry, waking up on her own, making dining hall hours, studying, buying books in bookstore. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:12 PM Flag
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df went to boarding school and she loved the experience - it worked for her. Not sure it would have worked for me....I think it depends on the child [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:35 PM Flag
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I think boarding school worked for my child who just finished first year of college. It's a good transition toward being independent. One caveat is that my daughter was surprised by how hands-off college is compared to her boarding school. A big plus was that my daughter and her counselor really handled most of the college application process. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:47 PM Flag
[ - ] I finally watched the famous "Willie Horton" campaign ads online, and I don't understand why they were controversial. They're fairly straightforward campaign fodder. Horton was a violent maniac who never should have been released. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:22 PM Flag
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The campaign was effective. The man who decided to release murderers for the weekend was defeated [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:25 PM Flag
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Didn't you notice just a slight touch of racism and fear-mongering? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:28 PM Flag
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I'd say it was warranted to "monger" some fear in that case, since the notion of a violent criminal being given furloughs from prison is just insane. As for "racism," no. I guess some people see everything as racism, but it looked like a pretty straightforward campaign ad to me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:31 PM Flag
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NIggers are killers [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:31 PM Flag
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Or rapists [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:33 PM Flag
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+!1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 11:49 PM Flag
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The ad run by the Bush campaign did not have Horton's picture in it. Despite all the claims by the NYT types that this ad was racist because the man who raped a woman while on a weekend pass from his prison sentence for murder was black, Dukakis' campaign chair said afterwards that there was no excuse for his release. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:34 PM Flag
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