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[ - ] This is what three million would get you in Chicago.https://www.redfin.com/IL/Chicago/3708-N-Wayne-Ave-60613/unit-3/home/13384362 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Surprised me that it is new construction. I wonder what an old house of comparable size would be (in the same area). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:44 PM Flag
[ - ] My dh's family is a complete PITA, a bottom-less pitt of energy and time, a bunch of takers. I do feel as if I need to "save him" from his family. Any tips? Already cut her meth addict sister off. No regrets about that at all. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:36 PM Flag
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Keep asking until you get enough people to tell you it's perfectly fine to prevent your husband from seeing his own family for his own good. The fact is this is about you, and you're going to ruin your marriage because of it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:39 PM Flag
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why about me? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:41 PM Flag
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Let him handle his own business. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:42 PM Flag
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i feel that he deserves better. [ Reply | More ]
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myob [ Reply | More ]
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it is my business if it affects him. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] aaaargh i am hungry. that is all. 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:34 PM Flag
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do you have money for the internet but no money for food? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:44 PM Flag
[ - ] SIL is hosting a charity event. I already RSVPed that we wouldn't be attending, and we sent our regrets. Now, she calls me up asking if I'll reconsider coming. ?? She couldn't care less about me the other 364 days of the year, but I know she wants my husband to write her a big check. I feel like she's backing me into a corner and that I have to make up crazy excuses about why we can't go, but honestly, I just can't stand to be around her, and we really aren't in a position to make big donations right now. I get the feeling she's going to keep calling me until I give in. What do I say? 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:29 PM Flag
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get her talking. ask her about the event. the planning. the food. the decorations. everything. after she talks at you for 20 minutes, make your cell phone alarm go off and get off the phone. so sorry...gotta run. repeat. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:30 PM Flag
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OP. I wish I could hire someone to sit on the phone with her all day! Great idea. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:47 PM Flag
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Say "I'm so sorry, we're touched that you really want us to come. But we aren't going to be able to make it. Have a lovely evening." Repeat, repeat, repeat. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:30 PM Flag
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Is your husband her brother? If so, have him deal with it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:31 PM Flag
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OP. I wish that was the case. He works all day, he doesn't answer my phone calls, let alone hers. She knows that I book the social calendar. He just stays out of it. Husbands, am I right?? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:44 PM Flag
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I don't know that this is a social event. He needs to decide if he considers going to this a family obligation. if not, he takes the hit and tells his sister. But you need to explain to him in person what is being asked and let him make the call. A charity event is big enough that you can personally limit contact with SIL if you end up going. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:46 PM Flag
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Whatever the reason you first gave for not attending, keep saying it. Even if she asks you a million times, do NOT give in. You have the right to refuse to attend and the right to not write a check. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:31 PM Flag
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OP. Thank you for saying what I have been trying to tell myself. The hard part is that DH's entire family is going and I know she will tell them all how selfish I am. They already think I don't fit in with the family, so any ammunition I can give them, they absolutely LOVE. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:47 PM Flag
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can you donate a little bit? $50 and call it quits? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:32 PM Flag
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lol. what world do you live in that $50 counts as a charitable donation? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:33 PM Flag
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any amount counts as a charitable donation. op said they aren't in a position to make a big donation. i don't know what "big" means to her, but it sounds like sil is really pushing for some participation. and she IS the sil, so participating in some way seems like a nice thing to do. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:35 PM Flag
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yeah. she's pushing for $500 minimum, probably more like $5000 if op says big check. $50 is what you give to the girl scouts. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:35 PM Flag
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OP. She has dropped not-so-subtle hints that she expects to see 5-10k per attendee. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:45 PM Flag
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?? what are you talking about [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:36 PM Flag
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In what world do you live that $0 is a better donation than $50? Oh yeah. The world where it's all about keeping up with the Joneses and making your donations known, not actuslly supporting s charity [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:44 PM Flag
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She's prob just desparate to fill her fundraising quota- just keep saying no [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:35 PM Flag
[ - ] Help! Need a babysitter for thsi afternoon and all of my usual suspects are unavailable (nanny is on vaca also). Anyone have any luck finding babysitters on craigslist? Im on UES. 21 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:13 PM Flag
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I'm on UES. I'll watch your kid for $100 an hr. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:14 PM Flag
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op $100 an hour seems a little high! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:29 PM Flag
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it all depends on what you mean by "need" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:32 PM Flag
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desperate times calls for desperate measures [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:44 PM Flag
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pinchsitters, www.nypinchsitters.com [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:16 PM Flag
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op thank you! I'm going to sign up. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:30 PM Flag
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op Wow, 4 hour minimum? That's crazy! Back to the drawing board [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:37 PM Flag
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They're 7 and 9, super easy kids. Any ideas? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:24 PM Flag
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Ask parents of DCs friends. I assume it's a legit emergency. Don't leabe with strsngers. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:32 PM Flag
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op What do you think abotu strangers who have references? Is that ok? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:47 PM Flag
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Any playdates that you can set up last minute? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:32 PM Flag
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How much are you paying? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:28 PM Flag
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op $15/hour? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:32 PM Flag
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op SORRY i don't know how it posted four times... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:32 PM Flag
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op $15/hour? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:32 PM Flag
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well that's why you can't find anyone. pay $20. get good sitters and be first choice. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:32 PM Flag
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$15/hour is a fine amount. don't be a jerk. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:35 PM Flag
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op $15/hour? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:32 PM Flag
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op $15/hour? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:32 PM Flag
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Please, I am sure you are a good mom, but there has to be a better option than leaving your children with a perfect stranger that you found on Craigslist that morning. I am sure whatever you have to do is very important for you to even consider this, but there has to be another option [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:35 PM Flag
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op I know, I know. I found a great housekeeper on CL so I have positive feeilngs about it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:43 PM Flag
[ - ] Has anyone had laser removal for sun spots or hair? Recently had it done and I think I have a few burn marks where the DR lasered the sun spots.... 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:13 PM Flag
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I've had laser hair removal for my legs, armpits and bikini. I didn't have any burn marks. I used Skin Spa in Flatiron and was very happy. I love no longer shaving my legs. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:14 PM Flag
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Np. I had my first session last week, I have 6 booked. How soon did you notice results? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:41 PM Flag
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I've had sun spots removed, but there were no burn marks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:15 PM Flag
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Did they flake off after a few days? So there were no red marks or circles around the sun spot? [ Reply | More ]
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I'm told the marks aren't uncommon, and they fade after 4-6 months. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:42 PM Flag
[ - ] s/o If you're using running as an excuse to get away from things, you're doing it wrong. Run because you like to run, but don't run to get out of the house. SAY you're going to the gym, then go shopping for an hour and a half (hide the bags in the gym bag), then stop into Equinox to steam and shower. 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:12 PM Flag
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Sad [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:16 PM Flag
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You're missing the point. You say "I run because I like to run" because it's a socially acceptable way to ignore your family. If you said "I leave my family for an hour every day and four hours on Saturday to go shopping", people would rightfully call you someone who is avoiding their family. But if you run that much people say "oh, good for you!" So you get to both escape your family AND get the accolades of friends and family. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:16 PM Flag
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There is kind of a difference between getting daily exercise and staying healthy, and going shopping for clothes. But you know that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:32 PM Flag
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I disagree. But yes, that's how you get away with it - by saying "no, I HAVE to leave my family for hours a day to stay healthy!" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:36 PM Flag
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That's what all the runners keep telling themselves, while the kids feel neglected. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:40 PM Flag
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Okay Fatty McFatterson, STFU. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:45 PM Flag
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I'm actually not a runner so I don't have a horse in this race, but I do see a fundamental difference between someone taking an hour to work out (which is recommended by every single medical professional on the planet) and someone taking an hour to spend 400 dollars on shoes. In terms of what's good for the family and what isn't. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:41 PM Flag
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This is why I like living in a house. There's always another corner to retreat to where no one bothers you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:19 PM Flag
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What did you guys do to make your families so intolerable that you need to get away from them? I love spending time with mine. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:33 PM Flag
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Yes. I agree. You'll notice the SAHMS are always out running at 10am on Saturday? At least in my area they are. It's like they use running to punish their husbands by making them watch the kids. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:37 PM Flag
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Well, having the father watch the kids shouldn't exactly be a punishment. A good father will actually want to spend time with his kids. Can't believe that some would complain about this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:39 PM Flag
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DH here and I bought one of those jogging strollers - it was great. I had my run and DD waved at the tourists as we zoomed by. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:42 PM Flag
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At least running gets me in shape and doesn't involve me spending $! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:47 PM Flag
[ - ] I am sick and was up all night with a sick baby. At 6:45 DH got up with kids so I could try to back to sleep. Older kid came in three times during that hour to ask me for breakfast, to ask where daddy was (apparently trying to sleep on a couch) and could I help get the baby dressed. When I woke up at 8 kids were not dressed for school, baby's diaper was dirty, DH in shower. I said "you didn't get them dressed?" And he said "I've been up with them all morning, screw you." Yelled so loud baby started crying and big kid said "stop arguing". Is he crazy or am I ungrateful? 27 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:10 PM Flag
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having kids suck. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:12 PM Flag
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You know the answer. He was clearly busted if older DC was looking for him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:12 PM Flag
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He's resentful that you requested him to do what he considers to be "your job" so he passive aggressively didn't do the job. Many men are horrible jerks about things like this plus get really annoyed when the wife is sick and can't do her usual work. It really sucks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:13 PM Flag
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a live in nanny would've taken care of all that, dh taken them to school and you sleep soundly. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:13 PM Flag
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we moved to latin america from NYC for this reason alone (at least that was my motivation for coming) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:30 PM Flag
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What time does he normally get up? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:14 PM Flag
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10 minutes before he leaves for work, around 8. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:15 PM Flag
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I think he is being an a$$ [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:15 PM Flag
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He sucks. But I'm also curious about how you approached him. Did you come out swinging or did you ask in an even tone? Regardless, he is super lame and inconsiderate. I'm just curious how the interaction went. I feel like you lose immediately if you come in hot. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:15 PM Flag
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I just said "you didn't get them dressed? They need to be ready in a few minutes?" I was clearly annoyed but didn't start ranting. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:17 PM Flag
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I am confused, he obviously woke up with kids knowing you were sick. Does he work today? Does he take kids to school? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:16 PM Flag
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Does he even know you are sick? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:17 PM Flag
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Yes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:18 PM Flag
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He works today and nanny takes the kids to school. I work too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:18 PM Flag
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You married him. I can't understand women who do this, marry a selfish asshole and then spend 30 years complaining about what a selfish asshole he is. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:16 PM Flag
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duh [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:20 PM Flag
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np. fwiw, mine wasn't a selfish asshole before kids. we each did our own thing really... now that kids are around and we each have to chip in to do things beyond "our own thing", he acts like Op's dh [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:31 PM Flag
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Exactly. I just posted longer version. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:38 PM Flag
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NP: I married the sweetest, most helpful and thoughtful guy who wanted nothing more than to have kids and be an involved dad, and I could have posted the exact same thing as OP. DH turned out to be not so sweet and helpful and excited about childcare once he was stressed and overtired and realized that taking care of kids wasn't just cooing at them and later playing catch. Congratulations to you if your crystal ball was perfect and your dh has always been exactly as you married him, but that's not always the case, Judgy McJudger. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:38 PM Flag
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Sing it sista! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:39 PM Flag
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He is a jerk [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:17 PM Flag
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get a job [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:20 PM Flag
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What makes you think I don't have one? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:21 PM Flag
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I hate it when people answer every issue with this. It's like you don't have a brain to come up with a better response. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:35 PM Flag
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OP: also, I happen to have a job, but I don't think DH's behavior would have been acceptable if I did not. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:36 PM Flag
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agree [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:41 PM Flag
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just let it go. tonight when everyone is together again and calm, if there is still tension there, explain that you were grateful that he let you get some extra rest, but that you assumed he would get the kids ready during that time, so you felt a lot of stress and disappointment and, yes, anger, that he didn't. you understand that he only sees it as you got extra sleep and he had to get up, but it's not that helpful if he didn't actually do anything. but maybe you could/should have been nicer about it. MEN. can't live with them, don't want to be a single parent... have to laugh sometimes, op! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:38 PM Flag
[ - ] Any How To Get Away With Murder fans? Did Rebecca kill Lila? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:09 PM Flag
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POSSIBLE SPOILER ALERT POST SO DON'T READ IF YOU ARE A FAN. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:09 PM Flag
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Nope. You're going to freak at the end. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:42 PM Flag
[ - ] Curly haired moms: I'm wearing my hair au natural for the first time in a decade. I have a few questions. 1) The curl pattern is pretty decent, but the top of my head looks really frizzy. Is there anything I can put on now that it's dry to make it look better or is all lost with that? 2) How do you put on products? I was afraid to really touch my hair when it was wet for fear of messing up the curls so I didn't put anything on it. 3) The left side of my head is soft, beachy waves, the right side is loose ringlets. Is that normal to have two different textures? 4) People keep telling me "OMG I love your hair that way, you should wear it like that more often!" Do you think they mean that, or is it the kind of thing like you tell someone "Great outfit!" when they're wearing an outfit so shockingly hideous you don't know what else to say? TIA! 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:05 PM Flag
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I use Aveda products. My curls are ringlets but need product otherwise it's a frizzy mess. I use the Be Curly curl enhancer (not controller) with a little bit of Brilliant Retexturing Gel. I mix it together in my hands with four drops of Dry Remedy Daily Moisturizing Oil. I've tried all sorts of products over the years, and this is what works best for me. GL [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:10 PM Flag
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^Also, you can make your curls more uniform by taking your hair in small sections after you put the product in and twirling each section so that you are forming a ringlet in a way. (I don't know if I'm describing this well enough). Then scrunch your hair when you've finished. When it's dry (air or diffuser-I do air), you can lightly finger comb your hair to loosen the ringlets a little as they'll be very tight. This is how my hair looks the nicest and most uniform. I rarely do this though as I'm always rushing through the morning. I usually just scrunch with product in and air dry. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:18 PM Flag
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It is normal for different parts of your hair to have a different texture. The way I put on product is to only brush hair in the shower with conditioner in, leave in a little conditioner at the end of the shower, then tip my head upside down or to the side and scrunch in gel. You can scrunch out the wetness with a towel. It's fine to touch it when it's wet, just don't brush it or comb through your finders - scrunch in the product to keep the nature curl. Also, the BEST product is Devachan / Deva Curl. No poo, conditioner, and angel gel. If you live in the city, definitely go get a haircut there and they'll show you exactly how to style it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:11 PM Flag
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Are you in nyc? go to devachan for a cut or color or whatever, and they will explain everything to you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:31 PM Flag
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I put in product when my hair is soaking wet, upside down. Use one of those swim towels / quick dry towels to scrunch up and dry (regular towels snag and cause frizz). Then stand up and smooth product lightly over top. Once dry, I sometimes add gel or serum if there's frizz but not great results. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:41 PM Flag
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^^^ I mean once it's dry and gets frizzy, not great results from adding product to dry hair - I usually have to re-wet (though what I end up doing is sticking it back into a bun). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:42 PM Flag
[ - ] I was reading the Most Popular discussions and the one about the dh cheating hit home. My father was a fairly well known man in the 90's and early 2000's here in NYC due to his career. He cheated on my mother and humiliated her in social circles telling people my mother was a lesibian and that's why he was cheating. Thankfully she had a couple good friends in that social circle who confronted her about this. I imagine many high income white men use this excuse to cheat on their wives, always trying to save face. 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:02 PM Flag
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Scummy people do scummy things. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:03 PM Flag
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DH here- I dont find that excuse a prideful one. If a friend told me his wife turned out to be a lesbian, I would first be very skeptical and second, if I ended up believing it, wonder- WTF is wrong with you and your hunting instincts, bro [ Reply | More ]
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np. I would think the same thing. Being lesbian isn't like being broken, but marrying one when you are straight calls your judgment somewhat into question. I wouldn't be spreading that one around. [ Reply | More ]
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Haha I am OP and this made me lol. Well no it wasn't about pride. It was more about legitimizing his behavior and surprisingly many people believed it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:15 PM Flag
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what is your relationship like with your father now? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:04 PM Flag
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I love my father but I have very little respect for him. We live within 10 minutes of one another but rarely do we actually get together. When the sprain happened and until my mid 20s I always gave him a hard time. I feel a little guilt about my tactics back then but I think he deserved it. I was just always rude, sarcastic, and extremely honest with him. I used his mistakes as leverage to get things from him. He took it though without ever getting angry or upset with me, I think part of him knew he deserved what I put him through. That same part of him knows I will likely never respect him again. Since the divorce I've seen plenty of 20 somethings come and go from his life and he is always sure they leave with what they arrived with - take note 20 somethings looking for an old sugar daddy my dad is not a long term investment. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:12 PM Flag
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You sound very self-reflective, more so than your dad. he probably means well by you, but some people just lose their way. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:22 PM Flag
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Good, solid people do not lose their way. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:36 PM Flag
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I'm 50 and not never an OW, so nothing of mine to defend but your dad sounds cheap and eh, let's say 'not a good person'. Basically you're telling us he was a taker and never a giver. All his life, with everyone around him. Wife, kids, lovers, anyone who gave him something. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:35 PM Flag
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eh - not never - make that 'never' [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:38 PM Flag
[ - ] Bank Street- do a lot of families enter at 4s? I see on their site they have one 3/4s class and two 4/5s classes. Seems an odd model to be vis-a-vis the traditional 2-yr at nursery, then enter a lower school at k. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 03:56 PM Flag
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Most families enter at 4. Not a lot of spots for K. [ Reply | More ]
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It that unique to Bank St among UWS/UES schools? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:15 PM Flag
[ - ] WOHMs, if you've ever been unfortunate enough to have a boss who was not understanding, how did you cope or did you ultimately find a new job? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 03:54 PM Flag
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Got a new job. Much happier now. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 03:54 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:22 PM Flag
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Not understanding of what? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 03:55 PM Flag
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Did not respect your vacation time and expected you to work, wouldn't allow you to leave the office to bring sick DC to doctor, etc [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 03:57 PM Flag
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Jerk boss = look for new job. I have had 3 really jerky bosses in my 30+ year career. A nice boss is the greatest thing but a bad boss is torture. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 03:56 PM Flag
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I had a great boss who left my former company, and my new boss was a nightmare. He was so awkward, tried too hard to be formal, and would come into my office and tell me what a prize he was (he got his wife an MZ Wallace bag for Mother's Day! All the women in their town have giant diamond engagement rings and he's thinking of upgrading because he got DW her ring while he was still in grad school!). He made me take a vacation day for the 1.5 hours I had to leave office to bring sick DC to pediatrician. Of course, he was SHOCKED when I resigned. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 03:59 PM Flag
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Jerk bosses are a blessing. ..they make you appreciate the good, albeit imperfect, ones. That said, if you have a bad one it is unlikely to get better, so look for new opportunities. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:02 PM Flag
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I guess screaming in my face constituted "not understanding." New job, stat. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:23 PM Flag
[ - ] Anyone else considered ditching everything (job, dh, dcs) and going to Syria to fight alongside those heroes in ISIS? 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 03:45 PM Flag
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lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 03:45 PM Flag
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if we could ditch everything and go fight for something worthwhile, what would it be? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 03:46 PM Flag
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definitely the establishment of an Islamic caliphate in the cradle of civilization. we would be the new chosen people [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 03:47 PM Flag
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don't we have enough of those already? crazy Zionists in the closet: i'm thinking about you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 03:53 PM Flag
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I'm obsessed with the YPJ- Kurdish females who are fighting ISIS. What makes them all the more badass in my mind is that ISIS believes that if they are killed by women, they can't get into heaven. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 03:57 PM Flag
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wow, this is awesome. what strong women. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:11 PM Flag
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wow, i didn't know that. cool answer, thanks! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:11 PM Flag
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YW! Here is an article about them from December if you want to learn more http://www.esquire.com/news-politics/news/a30270/these-are-the-women-battling-isis/ [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:15 PM Flag
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thank you! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:35 PM Flag
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become wife slaves? lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 03:56 PM Flag
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Right? Like, maybe if ISIS fighters made $1M+ a year, but they only make $12,000 a year. That won't even pay one month's rent! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:09 PM Flag
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$12k might be something in areas with emerging market costs of living. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:19 PM Flag
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rent in the cave is very cheap [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:26 PM Flag
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Right? Like, maybe if ISIS fighters made $1M+ a year, but they only make $12,000 a year. That won't even pay one month's rent! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:09 PM Flag
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fighting against wage-slavely along with the men! open war against capital owners :-) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:31 PM Flag
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Definitely [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:18 PM Flag
[ - ] Anyone experience cramping from day of ovulation that continue for the rest of the cycle? If not PG what could cause this? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 03:44 PM Flag
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Endometriosis [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 03:57 PM Flag
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Do people usually develop that later in life? I am 40 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 03:58 PM Flag
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I think peak age is 40-44. An ovarian cyst is another possibility. I'd go get it checked out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:02 PM Flag
[ - ] I love smoking crystal meth with my 2 y/o DD! 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 03:42 PM Flag
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It's so hard to get them to nap tho. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 03:43 PM Flag
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Heroin and xanax help. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 03:44 PM Flag
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hi sister-in-law! just sent an email to your mom telling her we are cutting your household off [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 03:47 PM Flag
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that's ok, I can just fuck my dealer for meth [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 03:48 PM Flag
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But he's got guys and girls lining up for that so no dice. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 03:52 PM Flag
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take as much from your mom for your meth habit as you want. i can't care less about you or her. i'm done. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 03:55 PM Flag
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We know already. You post this everyday but all the drugs are making you forget. Your teeth are really super nasty as well and you likely smell like a stinky armpit. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.27.15, 04:36 PM Flag
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