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[ - ] WWYD? A not so famous actor, but he has had a few parts that people would know, wants to go on a date with you. You can only think of him as his character in the show you've seen him in and it is so disturbing. Do you go on a date with him or pass? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:31 AM Flag
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Is this Mr Big? If so yes! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:32 AM Flag
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No idea but I just had this image of me on a date with Eddie Murphy and not being able to move past either a) Axel or b) Donkey [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:33 AM Flag
[ - ] If you had something in your possession, like 2 years of correspondence with a very famous murderer, what would you do? Burn, blog or e-publish? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:29 AM Flag
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e-publish [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:31 AM Flag
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destroy. Out of respect for the family of the murder victim(s). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:31 AM Flag
[ - ] Ugh- dark circles under eyes. Does anything work? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:16 AM Flag
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Cle de peau is a great concealer [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:20 AM Flag
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antihistamine, if it's allergy related. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:20 AM Flag
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Nope. Fillers are the only cure. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:22 AM Flag
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And I really would reccomend it. After years of concealer application I finally went and got juvaderm. It isn't cheap but I never wear more than foundation these days. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:24 AM Flag
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Derm. rec? Thanks [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:27 AM Flag
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RouxLough if you're in NYC. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:32 AM Flag
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This! And laser [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:25 AM Flag
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My daughter has awful dark circles. We are going and getting fillers before college starts. I was reluctant but she begged. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:28 AM Flag
[ - ] My daughter got her goddamn face tattoos removed. My life is complete, I have finally accomplished my goal as a mother. 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:15 AM Flag
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What kind of tattoo? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:16 AM Flag
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She has a star right under her eye where the cheek starts and a heart right around the spot where dimples would be. It always made me think of 18th century aristocrats. She got her creepy hs boyfriend's name tattooed on her thigh but that was removed last year. Thank god it was all in black. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:20 AM Flag
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As the mom of a young adult child with a lot of tattoos, not really buying this [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:19 AM Flag
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It's a troll, grandma [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:19 AM Flag
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This is freaking me out. How many moms here have kids with tattoos ??? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:22 AM Flag
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My friend's mom has one. But it's cultural for her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:30 AM Flag
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15 year old DD has one right above her butt. Not happy about it but what can I do [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:31 AM Flag
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A tramp stamp? Ugh sorry but those are the worst. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:33 AM Flag
[ - ] Feel like I have been mean to a friend who was getting on my nerves lately. Should have handled it graciously but just didnt. Too late to go back for either of us. Sad things ended sour. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:13 AM Flag
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It's not too late! make an appointment to see her in person tell her that you regret your lack of patience with her. If you value her friendship don't let it end. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:14 AM Flag
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More details please? Maybe you acted in the right. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:15 AM Flag
[ - ] I'm sick of my nanny using my stuff. First tampons, drinking my Fiji water, wearing my sweater. Now she's using my condoms to fuck dh. WTF? Does it ever end??? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:10 AM Flag
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Ahhhh. Classic UB ;) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:11 AM Flag
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at least your kids are still alive [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:12 AM Flag
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WTF? How is this in any way funny? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:15 AM Flag
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Np. It's. Dumb reply to a dumb post, op deserves it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:19 AM Flag
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You owe someone a lasagna. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:22 AM Flag
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Is she also using your forks to eat your shit? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:32 AM Flag
[ - ] Cheryl is such a classy name 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:02 AM Flag
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Cheryl is DH's ex wife's name [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:12 AM Flag
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Cheryl is the name of that weird aunt that posts inspirational shit on facebook. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:17 AM Flag
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meh [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:24 AM Flag
[ - ] Is this a big deal or not? The bride's friend and the groom's cousin are dating and both in the wedding party. While at a special location for wedding photos, the couple asked the official photographer to take pictures of them as a couple. 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:02 AM Flag
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Why a big deal? This probably took 3-4 minutes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:02 AM Flag
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Not a big deal [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:03 AM Flag
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NBD. It's mice to have pictures when you are all dressed up for an event. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:04 AM Flag
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Ha. Very tacky and be of them, but they're probably just clueless idiots. I'd let it slide but think less of them secretly. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:05 AM Flag
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I'm just sister of the bride, but this was the breaking drama this week when the photos went live. My sister had to email the photographer to take them down. To me, it was NBD, but my new BIL was enraged apparently. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:09 AM Flag
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Oh FFS [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:12 AM Flag
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OP: I was just wondering if my reaction was unrealistic. It seems some find it tacky, but it is closer to NBD than unfriend on FB if we were to scale it. There was other photo drama too…small town weddings. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:19 AM Flag
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Every wedding requires swirling drama,,no matter how inconsequential. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:15 AM Flag
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Groomzilla [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:17 AM Flag
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Tacky and rude. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:16 AM Flag
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Nah, they are all dressed up. Might as well. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:18 AM Flag
[ - ] Our nanny has been with us for three years, since our youngest DC was born. Starting in September all three DCs will be in school and while we plan to keep our nanny I'm wondering how we should pay her. She does a great job with DCs and is very reliable which is critical for me as a FT WOHM, but do I need to pay her at the same rate? Also her third anniversary is coming up and the last two we gave her a pay increase but I wasn't planning to give one this time. 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 01:57 AM Flag
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She probably needs full time at even if you don't need full time help. See if you can get her part time work with another family while your kids are in school. She won't want less money. She may look for a job elsewhere. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:01 AM Flag
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Maybe she will agree to a date night 1-2x a week in exchange for a morning? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:04 AM Flag
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Thanks, she's not available to do any extra hours and I do plan to keep her on FT. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:18 AM Flag
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Find some chores. Things she is happy to do. I was a nanny to three children and when the littlest was in 3 day/week preschool there was a 2 month period in the winter when at least one of the children was home sick from school. You will get your money's worth, don't worry…and if you don't, your children are healthy and you have that to be thankful for. I didn't get a raise, but kept same salary to be on call. Good luck! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:21 AM Flag
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Good perspective, thank you. Do you think I need to give her a raise in this situation? I definitely don't want to lose her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:23 AM Flag
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Not necessarily. Does she make over $800/week? She won't find a better situation for $800, ime. I assume she will come in the morning to get the kids to school? Can you tell her the "raise" is a morning of no chores. For example it could be every wednesday she can leave, get a coffee, go to the gym, etc. And if she needs to make an appointment or something, that day can be flexible. If she gets "called in", that day can be pushed into the next week or something? You could also give a raise in terms of vacation days or paid holidays in lieu of money? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:27 AM Flag
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Why ask us? discuss with her- what hours you want. She likely can't afford a pay cut, and it will be very hard for her to find a job just for the hours while your kids are in school. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:02 AM Flag
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with 3 kids, even if they are all in the same school there will be frequent half days, events, colds etc, that you will need help. so If you can afford to keep her FT, ask her if she minds taking on more house work / errands while the kids are in school. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:03 AM Flag
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OP - yes I agree we'll need to keep her on full time, but she'll have a lot more down time. So I guess the question is do I need to give her a pay rise, or can I say we're keeping her flat despite the fact that her work load will decrease. She already runs some errands for me and does laundry but that's about it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:17 AM Flag
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get creative about the things that she could do for you and your family. be prepared that if you don't give her even a small raise , she might look elsewhere. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:22 AM Flag
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as someone once told me, "this is the cost of doing business." if you want to pay her less, be prepared that she will need to find another F/T job. Her expenses haven't changed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:18 AM Flag
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OP - the question is if I can pay her flat or do I need to give her a raise [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:22 AM Flag
[ - ] I just ate 12 dumplings. Am pig. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 01:52 AM Flag
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No. Treat yourself!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 01:57 AM Flag
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I can eat 40 easily and weigh 100 lbs. I have an infinite dumpling stomach. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 01:57 AM Flag
[ - ] STM are you here? 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 01:51 AM Flag
[ - ] I get a stomachache every time I eat. Ub , diagnose me!! 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 01:49 AM Flag
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how long after you eat? is it every meal, and where does it hurt exactly? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 01:52 AM Flag
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About a half hour. Every meal. My whole stomach aches. Its been about a week [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 01:53 AM Flag
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even a light breakfast? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 01:57 AM Flag
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Yes :( [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 01:58 AM Flag
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Are you regular? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:00 AM Flag
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Yes, normal [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:01 AM Flag
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Gassy? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:06 AM Flag
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Not really [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:07 AM Flag
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I think if I were you I would stop eating wheat (don't need to go gluten free) and take a 2 week course of Align probiotic. If not feeling better after that, see a GI. good luck [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:09 AM Flag
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... and also cut back on all Dairy except Yoghurt. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:09 AM Flag
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Gluten? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:01 AM Flag
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If it's gluten she'd have excess BMs [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:05 AM Flag
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Could it be the dairy? My husband became lactose intolerant in his 40s. It took him about a year to finally agree with himself to give up cheese. Big cheese lover. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:07 AM Flag
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why did he give up cheese? lactose pills work great. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:12 AM Flag
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He can eat cheese with the pills once in a while, but without getting graphic, I wouldn't say they work great. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:21 AM Flag
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drink a glass of water before you eat anything [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:11 AM Flag
[ - ] Tell me about the job and salary you had at 27 versus now. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 01:48 AM Flag
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i am 30 now. doing the same job as 27 earning almost same. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 01:54 AM Flag
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I work 1/2 as hard and make 4 X the money. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:10 AM Flag
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lol, I'm 28, so same job, salary went up about $100/week. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:13 AM Flag
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Same field, higher level job. Salary at 27 $50k. Salary at 39 $200k. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:27 AM Flag
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Same for me. Also stressful job but I can handle the stress much better now. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 02:29 AM Flag
[ - ] Dr pearlman for rhino. Yay? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 01:37 AM Flag
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Tabbal [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 01:50 AM Flag
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