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General Topics 02.14.16, 05:18 AM Flag
[ - ] Crazy how many people on right wing sites think Obama had Scalia killed. People are nuts. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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At the same time, anything is possible. Especially at that level. That's where the really crazy stuff happens because the stakes are so high. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 04:48 AM Flag
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It should tell you how much people trust him. [ Reply | More ]
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I had to edit a book by people alleging that the Clintons had people killed. It became a bestseller, and drove me away from the company. Now I'm unemployed (the Medicaid poster below). Sigh. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 05:07 AM Flag
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Why now? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 05:09 AM Flag
[ - ] I'm on Medicaid, the United Community Plan, and would like to find a therapist. Most of the practitioner listed in this plan's database say that, even though the site lists them, they in fact don't take Medicaid. If I definitely want therapy, what should I do - try to switch to a private plan that covers therapy, look in hospitals etc. for therapists that accept Medicaid, or look for therapists that offer a sliding scale fee system? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 04:41 AM Flag
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And how terrible is Medicaid, anyway? I lost my job and was offered it at the Unemployment office. [ Reply | More ]
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I was on it in california and it was great. Just have to find the right people [ Reply | More ]
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Thanks, that makes me feel better. I'm in NYC - any tips on finding a therapist likely to accept it? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 05:05 AM Flag
[ - ] UB told me account suspended a few weeks ago. So strange as I never post about politics and not even SAH/WAHM crap as I have friends in both and never have felt that was an issue with us and work part-time. I wish the UB people could tell you why you got suspended. That is just weird. Maybe it is part of feeling like you are in junior high and will get cut out of the clique? How many of you get just get suspended? I did nothing wrong. 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 04:36 AM Flag
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I wouldn't read much into it. The policing on this site is obviously terrible as is evidenced by all the spam that is posted after midnight. I am sure it was a random mistake. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 04:39 AM Flag
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+1. I have posted some outrageous things and never been banned. Random and no w/o reason, don't give it a second thought. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 04:42 AM Flag
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op: Thanks. I am so confused that I think that it was that I had saved some posts and they were trying to cut down on storage. I am not offensive and totally lost links to slip-over place on UES, blinds store, some kids books/games. I did nothing wrong. Please tell me what I did wrong for this site. Just weird. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 04:47 AM Flag
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^And urbanbaby people it is really lame when someone has done nothing and I had a ton of posts saved on kids furniture, recipes, ski areas, kids parks and vacation spots. Is it normal to just get cut out or did I use too much storage. I could have cut down and it was not that much. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 04:41 AM Flag
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Playing coy ... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 04:46 AM Flag
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op: No I think I saved too many links and used up storage now I know to just print them out. I like to think I am smart but I am not that interesting except that I get lots of likes on WSJ and NYT. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 04:50 AM Flag
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Print them out? Are you serious? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 05:36 AM Flag
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I've been here for 7 years, and talk about controversial things frequently. I also save lots of posts. And I've never been suspended. It was probably just a fluke. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 05:32 AM Flag
[ - ] Who do you like more, Brandon or Luke? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 04:29 AM Flag
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to date or marry? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 05:23 AM Flag
[ - ] How many of you think CRUZ and Rubio have tons of BOTOx in their foreheads? Serious Q 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 04:28 AM Flag
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^^^ oh yes and why are TRUMPs hand and eye a different color- he needs the moderator's tan person [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 04:30 AM Flag
[ - ] How much living space do you think a couple without kids (and no plans for kids) needs? I would love to be in NYC but my DH needs to live in burbs for his job. We are looking at houses and keep wavering -- the nicer houses are almost always larger but I dont know that we need the space. The small houses we have seen just look so crappy. Hard to find the right balance 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 04:06 AM Flag
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It totally depends. I like space. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 04:08 AM Flag
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Buy a small house that you can afford to fix the way you want it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 04:09 AM Flag
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We had a small house that I loved before we had kids. It was a turn of the century Victorian. 3 BR. So cute. In Morristown. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 04:11 AM Flag
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Morristown, yay! My hometown. I digress ... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 04:17 AM Flag
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If kids aren't really part of the plan I would go 1200 or so. And smaller would be fine. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 04:14 AM Flag
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From what I understand on here, people need over 2k sq ft to have a good quality of life. [ Reply | More ]
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1700 [ Reply | More ]
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Look for something that is smaller but closer to the town center and walkable to shops and restaurants and make sure you pick a town where you will still be able to have a social life without children. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 04:14 AM Flag
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General Topics 02.14.16, 04:19 AM Flag
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We've been living in a small (at least small for our town) house that is about 1800 square feet. It seems to be a good size for us. We could have gone bigger, but the house would not have been as nice or we'd have to move to a less desirable area. We lived in a condo before that with about 1500 square feet. It was also good. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 04:19 AM Flag
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Just curious: if no plans for kids, why are you on UB? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 04:22 AM Flag
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We are on UES in Yorkville in 1000 sq-ft and it is more than enough for the 3 of us. DH and I have 20 min commute on bad days and dc has 5 minutes for the next 10 yrs. (preschool,k-8) Without kids it would be roomy but I would do smaller rather than commute but that is a personal decision. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 04:59 AM Flag
[ - ] I did not think I was fat and basically was not, but I have lost ten lbs since October and I still have this sort of sheath of fat over my stomach. It's not much but it still kind of rumples if I slouch forward. Looking forward to getting rid of it! 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 04:03 AM Flag
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^Went from 23.9 BMI to 22.5 BMI. Need to close up. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 04:06 AM Flag
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Do sit ups or something. Need to strengthen stomach muscles. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 04:10 AM Flag
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Need to cut body fat percentage [ Reply | More ]
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Both. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 05:18 AM Flag
[ - ] On the eve of Valentines day... what is your best relationship advice? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 03:58 AM Flag
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If you're dating a man, have sex. At least once a week. Once a day is better. That will solve and prevent so many problems. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 04:00 AM Flag
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give your significant other room to breathe. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 04:21 AM Flag
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Think of Trump during sex [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 04:29 AM Flag
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decide whether Rubio is gay, not that there's anything wrong with that [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 04:29 AM Flag
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postpone an orgasm by thinking of Chris Christie [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 04:30 AM Flag
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Hallmark holiday ! But some people like a card. Sex? Date? Present? I seriously couldn't care less, and DH only wants sex, maybe a kinky version. While dating could care less. We all need to instill into our DC that every day must be vd if you want to have a solid and happy relationship! Domyou agree? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 04:33 AM Flag
[ - ] Planning a trip to Montreal for DH's 40th birthday this summer. Any hotel recommendations? Looking in old town and would appreciate any tips or suggestions! TIA 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 03:58 AM Flag
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If you want large chains, the Westin is a good bet. If you prefer small boutique, there are a few and they are all good. I like the St-Paul, a bit off centre but lovely. The Nelligan has a great bar. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 05:07 AM Flag
[ - ] Trump dominates 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 03:56 AM Flag
[ - ] How old are you? 28 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Rude to ask [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 03:51 AM Flag
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I'm one of elderly here at 52. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 03:51 AM Flag
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Depends on the day of the week, time of the day [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 03:53 AM Flag
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True. But it's 99 percent of the time. I bow to the 1 percent. Hee. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 03:59 AM Flag
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Well, you have competition, a 59 grandma [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 03:55 AM Flag
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OR: snap! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 03:57 AM Flag
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65 this year on the outside, 27 on the inside. [ Reply | More ]
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34 and trying to break up with someone. No kids. Never even been engaged. Picky and hopeful. [ Reply | More ]
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Ha. Sounds like me. I'm the other 34 year old. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 03:59 AM Flag
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I am 32 and been single since 29, with endless first dates and no end in sight [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 04:04 AM Flag
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Nice to have company :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 04:18 AM Flag
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Yep. Seems like there are many of us :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 04:24 AM Flag
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Don't you ever want to just say yes to the promising man and move on to phase two? Endless dating is draining; not hopeful [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 04:41 AM Flag
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Yes, often. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 04:44 AM Flag
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The problem is I haven't met a promising one. There are always either big red flags or a complete lack of chemistry. And I don't really need much in terms of other criteria [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 04:48 AM Flag
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Same here. [ Reply | More ]
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General Topics 02.14.16, 04:33 AM Flag
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BUT HOW OLD ARE YOU? You won't even say at the outset, you must be a self hating Jew or ager, [ Reply | More ]
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General Topics 02.14.16, 05:17 AM Flag
[ - ] has anyone been to the Ritz in San Juan or the El Conquistador resort her the rain forest in Puerto Rico? Thoughts on either place? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 03:47 AM Flag
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I've been to Ritz. Very nice. Not as nice as the one in Naples but nice. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 03:48 AM Flag
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Is it far from things? Were you with kids? We will be with our three kids and wondering if there is anything to do... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 03:49 AM Flag
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Near other resorts. Quick cab to forts and old San Juan. Kids loved it. Nice pool decent restaurants. Lovely beach with good service. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 03:57 AM Flag
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Didn't really enjoy the Conquistador. It's in a weird area, it's huge, you have to wait for the boat to come take you to the private island. The level of service & food is just not there. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 03:54 AM Flag
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So funny. I disagree. I thought that the Ritz was nothing special and the beaches were ehhh since it was so crowded in San Juan. I loved the El Conquistador because it was close to the rainforest which is fun for kids. We could take a day trip to old San Juan and see the fort. The El Conquistador is also closer to the ferry to Vieques, which is worth the trip. I liked taking to boat to the beach. It controlled the amount of people on the beach and from people leaving towels on chairs for hours on end when I can't find a seat, like the Ritz. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 04:37 AM Flag
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Bahia beach resort. Check it out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 03:57 AM Flag
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just did. place looks stunning, but at this point they do not have availability for two rooms to connect :( [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 04:40 AM Flag
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I went to El Conquistador many years ago...it's beautiful and you had to go over to a little island in front of the hotel if you wanted a nice beach and swim. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 03:57 AM Flag
[ - ] How old were you when you got married? What about your siblings? DH siblings? What is their relationship status? 24 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 03:44 AM Flag
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Never married. My siblings were young, like as soon as they legally could. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 03:45 AM Flag
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Siblings are divorced. [ Reply | More ]
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We met/started dating very early (freshman year of college) and got married at 24/25. My sister is about to turn 29 and as far as I know she is still single. One BIL got married at 31, the other has been with his GF a few years (very serious, living together, house hunting) and just turned 30. We thought he would have proposed already but maybe this year... his GF just turned 28. I am from NY, DH/sibs are from midwest [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 03:46 AM Flag
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As far as you know? [ Reply | More ]
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She keeps relationship stuff very close to the vest. We only found out about her last serious boyfriend when they planned to go to Jamaica together and she told my parents before the trip. But, they broke up a few years ago. Havent heard anything about a relationship since but she has a very active social life and I know she dates. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 03:51 AM Flag
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Got it. Thought that you didn't know if she was married. [ Reply | More ]
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26. Siblings were 23(divorced,) 28 (divorced,) and 30 (married.) [ Reply | More ]
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i got married at 35 and have been happily married for 12 years. my brother got married at 26, was happily married for perhaps 5 years, stayed married for 15+ years and got divorced. [ Reply | More ]
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I got married at 25; brother at 28 and sister at 27. Everyone still married. I married first and its 26 years and counting. Nearing 20 for the other two. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 03:48 AM Flag
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thats awesome [ Reply | More ]
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I agree. Congrats! Any tips? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 03:52 AM Flag
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Have fun and don't go to bed angry. It's okay to disagree but realize that you've been thrown together by love and that love is going to evolve and not in a Valentines Day way. I know, corny as shit. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 03:57 AM Flag
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These are great tips. Thank you [ Reply | More ]
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Me..28 (divorced), older sibling 21 (married) and younger sibling 31 (married) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 03:49 AM Flag
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Never married. Siblings did at 25, 21, 36, 25, 25. All still married. [ Reply | More ]
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How old are you? [ Reply | More ]
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42 [ Reply | More ]
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How do you feel about never marrying? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 03:58 AM Flag
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Well, I'm a single mom. I wish I had found someone wonderful to marry, but it just didn't happen for me. It's a bit lonely. But there are nice things too. My child is getting old enough that I think a relationship is realistic. I've dated but it's been hard. Hate it when I have to go to weddings and events. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 04:09 AM Flag
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Me 29. Brothers, 23, 31 and not yet (36). All still married (18 years, 10 and 1 year.) 2 of DH sibs married in their early 20s, divorced and married again. One married early 30s, married 20 plus years. One never married. [ Reply | More ]
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35 (met DH when I was 30), 2 DCs and still married at 42. Sister: married at 25, divorced at 29, never remarried. DH's brother: married at 33, now has 2 DCs, still married. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 03:59 AM Flag
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I got married at 40 and DH was 45 (first marriage for both of us). Happily married 15 years. My brother got married around 30 or so (can't recall exactly). He has been married 25+ years so far. DH's sister got married around 20 IIRC. She's been married over 35 years so far. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 04:01 AM Flag
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31 for me. Sister married first time at 26 or 27? Lasting marriage when she was 34. BIL on his second as well, married at maybe 34 and again at 42 [ Reply | More ]
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26. Sibling 30 (brother). Still married ... as are we. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 04:25 AM Flag
[ - ] How can Trump say he never declared bankruptcy? Why does no one call him on this shit? P 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
New York City 02.14.16, 03:41 AM Flag
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He didn't personally, his companies did. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 03:42 AM Flag
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LOL! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 03:49 AM Flag
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He hasn't personally, only his companies. He's playing with wording. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 03:43 AM Flag
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Yeah..he didn't have sex with that woman.. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 03:49 AM Flag
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Not really - there is actually a different. If Apple had gone bankrupt, it wouldn't have been correct to say Steve Jobs went bankrupt. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 04:02 AM Flag
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Isn't that what I just said? Trump is taking advantage of the accusation that he didn't go bankrupt. Of course he didn't, his companies did. He's not correcting people though. [ Reply | More ]
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He was correcting them, unless i'm misunderstanding you. They said he went bankrupt and he said he never did, which is true. [ Reply | More ]
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Okay, so what's the issue? I'm not disagreeing with this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 04:12 AM Flag
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Steve Jobs was not Apple in the same way that Donald Trump is Trump Tower, Trump Palace, etc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 04:34 AM Flag
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Same way someone is wealthy but you can't collect child support or a judgement against them [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 03:46 AM Flag
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That's the Republican way and they get away with this crap. Just like Bush/Cheney administration never said that Saddam Hussein had WMD and if you thought that you were a stupid idiot. They just IMPLIED it in every way possible so that you would think that Saddam had WMD even if it wasn't true. So therefore, they aren't liars at all! Just because you want to deceive people doesn't make you a liar. Now if you are a Democrat, you are called a liar outright for less important things. I mean, Bill Clinton said he didn't have sexual relations with Monica Lewinsky because he didn't ever have intercourse or sex with her. It's technically as true as Trump never declaring bankruptcy. But Clinton gets a Congressional investigation while Republican lie (oh sorry, I mean "mislead") with impunity. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 03:49 AM Flag
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I think you forget about the Hillary?Petraeus example. He got punished while she is playing president. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 04:34 AM Flag
[ - ] Should we go to guadalope next month? Kids ages 9,6 and 3... 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 03:34 AM Flag
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^ woah, autocorrect Guadeloupe! [ Reply | More ]
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Davis Cup is there in the first weekend- France v Canada [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] What if any expectations do you have for V day? 27 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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None. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 03:32 AM Flag
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Sleep. Relaxing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 03:34 AM Flag
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I want sleep! I got up at 530 with our 16mo, couldnt get him to stay down and woke DH at 6, he tried and couldnt either so I ended up staying up with him and let DH sleep in. Played with him and his 4yo bro, let them "cook" in the kitchen, I made a full breakfast + green juice, and my 4yo insisted on bringing daddy breakfast in bed when he heard him waking up at 845. So, DH had a pretty nice morning. I am hoping he lets me sleep in tomorrow, even just until 730. Usually when I "sleep in" I have to wake DH, insist he let me go back to sleep and he wakes me before the kids have breakfast so I can help... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 03:38 AM Flag
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It gets a lot better when they get to the age where they want to sleep in too! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 03:41 AM Flag
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omg my middle schooler will not get up :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 03:43 AM Flag
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Yep! [ Reply | More ]
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lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 03:51 AM Flag
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my 4yo will occasionally sleep in now but the baby never does! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 03:43 AM Flag
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You'll get there! We've been through it! [ Reply | More ]
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If only my 16mo would sttn regularly... teething is the worst [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 03:47 AM Flag
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I know. Hang in there. It gets better. In six years or so! [ Reply | More ]
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at least they are cute :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 03:58 AM Flag
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Oh yes! [ Reply | More ]
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sleep and peace [ Reply | More ]
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General Topics 02.14.16, 03:37 AM Flag
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In my dream world he would propose. Instead we are likely reviewing a cohabitation agreement in which I am yet again reminded of the mistake? I made in leaving my career and relocating for a "date" that turned into an "IOU" and now a cohabitation agreement. WTF. Yes, I realize this is my mistake. Please don't beat this horse. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 03:40 AM Flag
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sorry. how old are you? how long have you been together? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 03:40 AM Flag
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Closer to 40 than 30. A few years. This marriage, living together first, etc. is relatively recent (within a year). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 03:42 AM Flag
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Do you have any kids? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 03:42 AM Flag
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He does. We planned to, but...sorry I don't know how to get into this without feeling like a complete fool. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 03:44 AM Flag
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I'm sorry. Does he know it isn't working for you? [ Reply | More ]
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I want to say yes because we have open communication (cheers?), but he has a short term memory issue similar to alzheimer's. This is one of the reasons for the cohabitation agreement. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.14.16, 03:51 AM Flag
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np. It seems like it is not working out for you. Make a plan, set a deadline and leave. [ Reply | More ]
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I do not want to imagine and then plan for a life without him just because I lack financial independence in this new dynamic but that sounds like I am a gold digger? [ Reply | More ]
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np -It is okay to want marriage and children, and to not be okay with a cohabitation agreement. You get one life, don't settle. [ Reply | More ]
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None. I have never cared much about it. [ Reply | More ]
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Zero [ Reply | More ]
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