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[ - ] Sorre for another acne post but this is the first time in my life I have acne! White raised spots on my cheeks. Scrub, cleanser, gentle spf lotion, what else? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:13 AM Flag
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^^Sorry, not sorre [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:13 AM Flag
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My kids get those too. It's actually not acne, the pediatrician says it's caused by dry skin/dry air. Moisturize and exfoliate! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:30 AM Flag
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Good to know! Thanks!!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:32 AM Flag
[ - ] I posted earlier about cystic acne and an event I have tomm. I did not make it derm today and I popped the dang thing. So...now the pus is gone, it's "deflated" but it's still all red. Now how to make the redness go down in 18 hours? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:05 AM Flag
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Are you 12? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:18 AM Flag
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Keep it clean, apply antibiotic ointment, no picking or makeup, hope for the best. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:19 AM Flag
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This and ice it. To take down any swelling. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:16 AM Flag
[ - ] Looking for a bunk bed for dcs and it seems like they're all either $1k-$2k, or they're from ikea and I'd worry about whether they're sturdy. Anyone know of a good bunk bed for about $500 or less? Thx! 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:57 AM Flag
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Are you in NYC or elsewhere? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:58 AM Flag
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NYC. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:49 AM Flag
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I wouldn't go cheap on a bunk bed. Bolts coming loose, wood cracking is not what you need when a kid can fall that far. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:48 AM Flag
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+1. Pottery barn Catalina [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:49 AM Flag
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Op. I agree! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:50 AM Flag
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You'll poke your eye out [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:59 AM Flag
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Mom? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:49 AM Flag
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Gothic cabinet craft. Made in NY & real wood too! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:48 AM Flag
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Good to know, thanks! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:50 AM Flag
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Wayfair.com [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:49 AM Flag
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Order from Room & Board. It is worth the investment. How old are kids though? Ladders are tricky. We paid over $1K and went with a non-name brand with stairs that are safe and double as dresser drawers, so we save precious space. Also spring for the under-bed drawers. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:57 AM Flag
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How old are the kids? We have an Ikea one and it's very sturdy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:12 AM Flag
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Pay for quality like ethab allen and separate them into twin beds later. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:01 AM Flag
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Very good, solid - Raymour and Flanigan. The price includes delivery and building it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:17 AM Flag
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maxtrix- it's amazing - very versatile, can get different configurations and styles, can split them apart in the future. Definitely google this. I got a "low loft" and it's fantastic. . [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:12 AM Flag
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We got ours from AMAZON. forgot the brand. Paid. 600 or more, not sure. Very sturdy. Dc is 5 though. Sleeps on top bunk every night. Will have to invest in some extra slats bc i see them warping, but only slightly. It looks great and was a great buy. Def check out Amazon. Good luck. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:18 AM Flag
[ - ] I am really struggling with whether or not to divorce dh. Can you humor me and ask questions about our relationship that would be deal breakers or makers for you? I get how pathetic this is but I don't want to put my real life friends through more stories about what an asshole he is so this is my way of working through this shit tonight :( 55 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:45 AM Flag
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Does he call you names? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:58 AM Flag
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Yes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:48 AM Flag
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Not good. In front of others, including kids? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:57 AM Flag
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Has mostly canned it in front of dd. Finally. Not in front of anyone else [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:08 AM Flag
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That is a huge red flag. It shows deep disrespect and a desire to knock you down. I'm sorry. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:27 AM Flag
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Do you love him? Is he a good father? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:49 AM Flag
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Yes and yes- but he's had moments of being a terrible father. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:50 AM Flag
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Would he try harder to be a good father if you weren't there? Would he be better as a single dad? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:53 AM Flag
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Wow I've never thought of that! My initial reaction was yes. He's great with her 1 on 1... but I don't know if he could keep his cool when I'm not there to step in [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:57 AM Flag
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You have a daughter. You deserve happiness but I know that's hard to justify, so think about what she is learning about men and relationships from you, her mother. I would divorce. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:59 AM Flag
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Np: This is not meant as an attack on you, but would he lose his cool less often if you're not around? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:00 AM Flag
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Describe these moments of terrible fathering. Were they worse than everybody else's? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:07 AM Flag
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I think so. The worst ever, she was only 9 months old, he was ranting at me and he got right in her face and said "I wanted to stay here and have dinner with you but your mommys a fucking bitch so I'm going to leave." He is generous with spankings lately [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:01 AM Flag
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Leave. Run. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:03 AM Flag
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Thats pretty horrible. BUT...the first year with a baby is so, so, so hard. I'm pretty sure dh and I said some choice things to one another during that time. Saying it to db is very bad, but at least she wasn't an age she could understand [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:25 AM Flag
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He went to a therapist after the above incident fwiw [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:14 AM Flag
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Has he ever been physically abusive towards you or dc? This is the one no-questions-asked deal breaker. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:01 AM Flag
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No and I agree. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:50 AM Flag
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Has he ever hit you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:50 AM Flag
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No [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:51 AM Flag
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Does he lie? Cheat? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:02 AM Flag
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Yes. No, not that I know of. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:52 AM Flag
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Do you enjoy his company? Are you friends? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:52 AM Flag
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Rarely and not anymore. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:53 AM Flag
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What kinds of things do you enjoy doing together? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:55 AM Flag
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I guess being with our daughter, whatever we're doing. We pretend everything's fine [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:03 AM Flag
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Any substance abuse? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:07 AM Flag
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Just use but nothing crazy [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:07 AM Flag
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Would your kids be better off shuttling between two households, adjusting to a new stepmom/stepdad, etc? Would you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:08 AM Flag
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Don't answer this OP. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:57 AM Flag
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Not fair. Impossible to know. My Dad was the best thing that ever happened to my siblings (technically half siblings). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:10 AM Flag
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Ugh. I don't know :( that's so much to think about [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:05 AM Flag
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It's bullshit. Do not think on it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:07 AM Flag
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How on earth is it bullshit? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:20 AM Flag
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Because she's living with an abusive husband! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:09 AM Flag
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+1 If you don't realistically believe you and your kids would be better off post-divorce, you'd be nuts to get a divorce. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:21 AM Flag
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This is pragmatic and true [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:23 AM Flag
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Her husband is verbally abusive, spanks her child and has her afraid everytime walks in the door. Whilst your question is valid, in this situation, the difficulty of having a step parent pales in comparison to hers and her dds reality. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:13 AM Flag
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And it was asked before she posted any of those details. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:28 AM Flag
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When he walks in the door do you feel glad or sad/angry by his presence? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:57 AM Flag
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That is what has really changed. You kind of nailed it. I'm nervous, waiting to see what mood he will be in [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:06 AM Flag
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I'm the one who said to ignore the above question on step parents. I'm going to be blunt: time to step up as a mother. This environment is toxic, I grew up in it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:08 AM Flag
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But my dd will still be in it 50% of her time so isn't it better to be in it with her 100%? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:12 AM Flag
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No! I'm done with this post. I just can't... seriously? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:14 AM Flag
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np I think so, yes. It sounds like he could use help with his moodiness, you shouldn't have to be nervous around him. But it also sounds like he's willing to get help, since he saw a therapist after losing his temper. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:32 AM Flag
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Is he a blamer? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:09 AM Flag
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Yep [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:09 AM Flag
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Are you losing self confidence? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:14 AM Flag
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Eh [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:09 AM Flag
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Has he ever hit you or your dc? If yes, then divorce. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:19 AM Flag
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No [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:10 AM Flag
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He spanks your child. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:10 AM Flag
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Op, do you oppose spanking, or do you just think he's losing his temper and spanking too easily? Do you both spank? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:29 AM Flag
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He has spanked a handful of times and twice lately that I did not agree with his reasoning at all. I am not totally against spanking in all circumstances but it's not to be taken lightly and to dh it's no big deal - "swat" he says [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:18 AM Flag
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You need a therapist like they need water in the desert. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:20 AM Flag
[ - ] s/o--If your DH wasn't particularly close to his mother (not hostile or anything, but not particularly close) would that have been a red flag to you? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:42 AM Flag
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Duh. Yes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:44 AM Flag
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No - sometimes people just don't have much in common. If he were disrespectful or unkind, that would be a red flag. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:56 AM Flag
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My DH was not, and still is not, close to his mom. No one in his family is close. They sit in silence, or stare at the kids playing, or talk about the weather. We've been married 13 years and are still very close. he's great with my mom and our kids. So.... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:45 AM Flag
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Not necessarily. If he was a jerk to his mom, that would be a red flag, but family relationships are complicated and if he isn't close to his mother, it doesn't necessarily mean he won't be a loving, attentive DH. Particularly if he is close with his father, siblings and/or friends. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:49 AM Flag
[ - ] What are the biggest cultural shocks for someone from Seattle who becomes a foreign expat in Vancouver? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:36 AM Flag
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Good health care. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:49 AM Flag
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good food [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:40 AM Flag
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lots of extremely wealthy Asians driving around in flashy cars in Vancouver. Also - housing prices are a little nuts. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:44 AM Flag
[ - ] Should I look to buy a summer house in Maine or is just too damn far?! 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:36 AM Flag
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Maine is beautiful but realistically how often would you be able to go? Might make more sense to rent. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:37 AM Flag
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So many bugs. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:21 AM Flag
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Stupid move. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:44 AM Flag
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No way. I wouldn't even consider it if I lived in Boston. Too far plus you have to winterize it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:30 AM Flag
[ - ] Overheard on Amsterdam: First Homeless Guy: "Hey how's your day?" Second HOmeless GUy: "Same as always. Full of shit." I don't know why I found this so hilarious. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:29 AM Flag
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I don't know, but it reminds me that we all put on our pants one leg at a time. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:42 AM Flag
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Because you have preconceived notions of the homeless. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:39 AM Flag
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Because it's hard to find convenient places to go #2 so that's a challenge every day. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:50 AM Flag
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Because they said they overheard the homeless on Amsterdam. Don't you get it? AMSTERDAM. That's in Manhattan !! That's why it's a joke. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:03 AM Flag
[ - ] Does your DH treat you as well, better, or worse than he treats his mother? 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:27 AM Flag
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As well [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:27 AM Flag
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Better, I guess since he realized she's an asshole and somewhat pushes her away now. In the beginning of our marriage she really was a tyrant and she basically screwed herself over for ever having a meaningful relationship with me or open access to our kids. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:28 AM Flag
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As well. He's great to both of us. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:40 AM Flag
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Now, much better. Several years ago, much worse. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:45 AM Flag
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That's encouraging. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:51 AM Flag
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better. by far. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:35 AM Flag
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He's great to both of us, but I have to nudge him to spend time alone with her now that she is really aging. I send them out to dinner about once every two months (which she thinks is all his doing). Love them both a ton. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:39 AM Flag
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Same. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:56 AM Flag
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Better in some ways, worse in others. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:51 AM Flag
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In what ways? Elaborate... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:53 AM Flag
[ - ] I'm done fucking around. Time to get up out of the mud and face the music. This is hard. 28 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:25 AM Flag
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? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:39 AM Flag
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Cheating [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:29 AM Flag
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Affair. I feel you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:41 AM Flag
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There's just too much evidence that I can't do this without disrespecting myself and my family. When I think of what he has done to his family it really makes me sick. When I sit down and stop and think about the things he has said and done it really makes me so sad for them that he has no conscience. I feel so sorry for his wife and especially his daughters. But that's not my problem - I need to protect myself. I just hate myself so making shitty choices feels normal for me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:32 AM Flag
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It dawned on me that I give his children more thought than he is. Np [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:34 AM Flag
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PRetty pathetic. Don't you wonder if the wives know? Maybe they are secretly relieved we're taking them off their hands some of the time. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:37 AM Flag
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Think most do not know. These guys are straight up liars!!! They say whatever it takes to have what they want [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:53 AM Flag
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I dunno about that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:43 AM Flag
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There's right and wrong and there's what a woman can live with IMO. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:46 AM Flag
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OR. I love my affair and he loves me, he doesn't lie to me even though the truth can hurt or be ugly. I don't want to give it up, I hate myself because I'm in this 100% aware of the realities of the situation. I can't pretend I'm ignorant or led astray. And I still don't want to give it up. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:37 AM Flag
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I guess you just have to hit your bottom. I got out before I agreed to get physical. That will be a hard fall. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:38 AM Flag
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We aren't physical. Yet. I feel like I'm hanging on by a thread. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:39 AM Flag
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? backstory? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:40 AM Flag
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In love with my colleague. So out of character. He's honest, I'm honest, we both wish it were different etc. I haven't slept with him because I feel like if I don't then we won't get in too deep emotionally, but we already said I love you, so screwed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:45 AM Flag
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General Topics 08.23.14, 02:38 AM Flag
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How did you know that? I'm confused. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:46 AM Flag
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I know that he started hitting on me when his wife was pregnant, continued when they were babies, I know he doesn't give a crap about anyone but himself and is just fundamentally not a good person. And I know there are LOTS of men like this. The "yeah, but it's just fun! No strings attached!" like the schmo who posted on here before ("Ever wish you could just have a purely physical and not emotional relationship?") These men are basically just looking for a hooker without having to pay for services. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:36 AM Flag
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What drew him to you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:52 AM Flag
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Men like women who tell them they are handsome and fabulous. It doesn't take much. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:41 AM Flag
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in other words I don't think he was "Drawn" or I tried to "draw" him. Men like attention. So do women. It happened. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:42 AM Flag
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hey I am the "schmo" who posted. how do you get off having any judgmental moralizing when you are having an affair!!? I was posing a theoretical question about trying to be open with my wife about natural feelings of wanted sexual variety while not sneaking behind her -- in contrast, you are flashing your cootchie for your coworker and having emotional affair, which is arguably worse, than a meaningless hookup. you are a complete b*tch and I feel sorry for your husband and kids [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:16 AM Flag
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Because she may as well be me right now! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:38 AM Flag
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? That would be an odd coincidence. That's got to be an uncomfortable existence watching UB to see if the OW posts... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:39 AM Flag
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Lol, I just meant that I knew what was hurting her because I'm doing the same thing with someone else and it's hurting me too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:42 AM Flag
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Ah, ok. Good luck. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:42 AM Flag
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OP - I know I do not love or am in love with him. I just like the attention and distraction. It is like a high, like an addiction, and it needs to stop. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:44 AM Flag
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Just drift... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:59 AM Flag
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Sorry, misunderstanding. Hard to track the posts on iPhone!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:43 AM Flag
[ - ] DH is rubbing my feet right now. Best man ever. 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:23 AM Flag
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He just wants sex. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:39 AM Flag
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OP here: that is now becoming obvious as he also just told me I look "cute" in these pjs. Well, he earned it... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:42 AM Flag
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OK, back now. What did I miss? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:52 AM Flag
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Multiple orgasms? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:43 AM Flag
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Nope. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:59 AM Flag
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We'll that was fast. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:51 AM Flag
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And even cuter out of the PJs? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:58 AM Flag
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while you're on the computer talking to us? Oh lord. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:49 AM Flag
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rotfl [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:40 AM Flag
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Hey! I took a break. It was not a rose petals and candle light situation. The game's on, so efficiency is key. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:49 AM Flag
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Some guys have a fetish regarding feet. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:40 AM Flag
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He doesn't but I really do not get the foot fetish thing. My mom once pondered maybe men develop it as babies/kids always staring at women's feet. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:01 AM Flag
[ - ] Married over ten years and I don't know how much more I can stand. Just got in big fight about all the crap I have to put up with, from him and his family. He's scared I will leave him but I feel like I have to just face the facts he will never change and decide whether to stay or go. I can't go on like this. I feel suffocated. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:19 AM Flag
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Never fight on a Friday night, save it for monday [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:32 AM Flag
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If he takes his family's side against you, it's time to cut bait. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:27 AM Flag
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He's gotten somewhat better at that but there is a huge, huge family issue he has not addressed that is a tremendous strain on our relationship. Mostly he just cannot fathom why certain things are insulting to me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:33 AM Flag
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What's the issue? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:47 AM Flag
[ - ] Only a NY kid would be upset that the macaroon he just purchased was under par! I laughed at him and he got so mad. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:16 AM Flag
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Macaroni or macaroon? Does anyone even sell macaroons aside from Passover anymore (which I love btw!)? [ Reply | More ]
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Macaron. Auto correct doesn't get baked goods yet I guess! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:26 AM Flag
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catholic who patiently waits for macaroons (but enjoys a macaron) right here! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:32 AM Flag
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Ditto. Learned to make them myself. They're not as good but a good substitute! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:47 AM Flag
[ - ] What do you think of naming DD after a federal law? Like "Erissa" for ERISA? Or Nagpra, or Foia, or USA-Patriot? There are many to choose from. 17 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:15 AM Flag
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Rico is cute [ Reply | More ]
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Clean Water Act. [ Reply | More ]
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Fannie Mae or Freddy Mac [ Reply | More ]
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Lol [ Reply | More ]
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'Tanf' has a special ring to it. [ Reply | More ]
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TARP [ Reply | More ]
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i wouldnt name DD 'Obamacare', but that's just me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:20 AM Flag
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PL 94-142 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:17 AM Flag
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Yeah, I would definitely go with RICO, and my other kid would be Bill Of Particulars. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:19 AM Flag
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Nafta? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:26 AM Flag
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Lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:40 AM Flag
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What about FASB? Like, Fazby? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:30 AM Flag
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Fafsa [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:32 AM Flag
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FATCA [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:34 AM Flag
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FINRA, GET YO ASS OVAH HERE! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:34 AM Flag
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"...and this is my son, Sarbox." [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:47 AM Flag
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Siffius, honey, put your shoes on! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:16 AM Flag
[ - ] In a busy parking lot today, some dude yelled "no way, bitch!" when he thought I was attempted to cut him off (or something). So I rolled down my window and said "That was seriously rude, I'm just trying to get out of here like anyone else". He apologized profusely. I realize it was a risk and was a little scared of getting screamed at more, but I'm proud of myself! 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:13 AM Flag
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Goid for you! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:40 AM Flag
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CSB [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:29 AM Flag
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bet you wouldn't do that if the dude was black [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:29 AM Flag
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lol +1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:43 AM Flag
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Fo sho' !! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:47 AM Flag
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... He WAS black. I didn't want to say it because someone would call me racist, but he was! And he had a buddy in the car. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:36 AM Flag
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FAKE [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:40 AM Flag
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ok [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:46 AM Flag
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good for you; I'm too timid to challenge those guys [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:30 AM Flag
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Me too. These days I'd be scared they'd blow my head off. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:58 AM Flag
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try this in Bed Stuy [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:05 AM Flag
[ - ] DH and I had sex in the dark tonight for something "exciting". We always have the light on. I feel like the stereotype is that women always want the light off. What do you do? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:08 AM Flag
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Troll [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:19 AM Flag
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More like a bored DW with a glass of wine in hand ;) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:20 AM Flag
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We don't even notice the lighting. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:20 AM Flag
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But... aren't you able to think back and consider which happens more often? We aren't "noticing" the lighting at the time either, but looking back I realize it's always on. And when I suggested turning it off tonight it was fun. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:12 AM Flag
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Nope, we don't waste time messing with the lights. If they are on when we start, they stay on. If it is dark already, it stays dark. Still... Always good to mix it up. Have fun. :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:37 AM Flag
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If it's on or off, whatever. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:18 AM Flag
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DH must have lights on, says can't see me in the dark. Guess I'll worry when he insists on lights off [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:33 AM Flag
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Ha! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:37 AM Flag
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Always with the lights on. I never think to turn them off. But I walk around half naked anyway so nothing to hide [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 03:01 AM Flag
[ - ] Unhappily married but won't leave. No abuse, just total indifference. Dh is out drinking a lot, idc because like I said, we are indifferent to each other. When he's here we parent in shifts... His weekend, my weekend etc. Will stay married because that is what is best for dc. Is that what is best? Am I teaching my dc to settle for indifference? I can't make myself love dh. I never have. Am I screwing up my kid? 21 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:08 AM Flag
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No but how will you feel if he just walks away from you one day? Men need companionship and a partner (women are different) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:10 AM Flag
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I'm ready for it. Financially and emotionally. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:13 AM Flag
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You will regret this when you are 80. You need to love and be loved! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:06 AM Flag
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Is that just a female thing, or are we both going to regret this? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:19 AM Flag
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I think he is either cheating, will be cheating and/or will leave soon [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:23 AM Flag
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He definitely has someone. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:25 AM Flag
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Why do you think that? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:34 AM Flag
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Women are ok living like this "for the kids". Men are not. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:25 AM Flag
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I am and I'm not. I'd like to be more selfish and have love. But I have a dc who I owe a family. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:30 AM Flag
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Owe? What about yourself? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:31 AM Flag
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Hard to consider that with a dc. But I do worry what we (dh & I) are teaching our dc about relationships. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:32 AM Flag
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Men are selfish. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:30 AM Flag
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What makes you say that? Am I pushing him to that? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:25 AM Flag
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Is it considered cheating if she doesn't love him / indifferent toward him? Sounds like he has his own life without her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:30 AM Flag
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Why settle? Have you worked on this? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:10 AM Flag
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I think it's better for the kids if you stay together. They won't notice if you're indifferent. Besides, in time you may find each other again. Marriage is tough in the young child years. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:10 AM Flag
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We didn't have each other to start with. Married because I was preg. He is out 5-6/7 nights a week. For dc's sake, I wonder if she would see him more if we split. He avoids me, not dc. We are indifferent. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:24 AM Flag
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Out where? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:14 AM Flag
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Part of it is his job, lots of client entertainment. I was out as much as him prior to dc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:28 AM Flag
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He has someone else? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:23 AM Flag
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I think in high school it was easy to see the parent's marriages for what they were. Your child will get older, smarter, see what other families are like and see hers for what it is. Are you doing her a favor to live a compromised life? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.23.14, 02:48 AM Flag
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