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[ - ] What's worse: husband having an affair or cheating escorts? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:46 AM Flag
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oops, cheating *with* [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:47 AM Flag
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Affair. There's an emotional connection there that he wouldn't get from an escort. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:48 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 05:02 AM Flag
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I think affair is worse, too. Although it would depend on how long he'd been going to the escort(s), too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:59 AM Flag
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Pp: I mean, if he saw the same escort weekly for a year, that would be more like an affair, so worse. If he's seen different ones a LOT, maybe some sort of addiction? But what really matters is how the wife feels. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 05:13 AM Flag
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Affair. Duh. If he's going to escorts, I can join him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 05:23 AM Flag
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Bisexual? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 05:23 AM Flag
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Meh. Bicurious maybe. I'm not into dating females or being in relationships with them, but I appreciate the female body [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 05:23 AM Flag
[ - ] What's the most selfish thing DH has ever done? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:19 AM Flag
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Post this again tomorrow. Bet will make most popular. Too tired to think of best answer right now [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:22 AM Flag
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Drugs. Not kidding. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:11 AM Flag
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My dh is incredibly selfish when he is sick. Freakin man colds... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:14 AM Flag
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My husband went to the ER in the middle of the night without waking me for what turned out to be.........GAS PAINS!!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:18 AM Flag
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Mine is the opposite. I'll be puking and, well, you know what.. at the same time and he'll tell me to shut off the lights and come to bed, he's trying to sleep. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:44 AM Flag
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When I was pregnant I sprained my ankle and stayed out of work with foot elevated. He went into kitchen and ate all the food and there was nothing for me to eat and I couldn't walk. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:58 AM Flag
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^Another classic was when I was 38 weeks pregnant and we spent the whole day out with friends in the hamptons boat and beach for the day and came home starving and I assumed we would get dinner on the way home. DH loves real estate so the wanted to se the Grocery store because it tells you a lot about the people. He came out with a half eaten Italian hero and then scarfed down the other half while getting out of the car. I was growing his baby and was very underweight and he didn't bother to see If I was hungry, or what I wanted to eat (there was a cute fish shack down the road.) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 05:04 AM Flag
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^ I also used to have to hide chorizo sausages in my closet while pregnant because he would eat everything. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 05:05 AM Flag
[ - ] My sister and I have been in a "love triangle" since I was sixteen. Long story short, I ended up marrying the guy. That being said, it was a very messy process and to this day some of my relatives hold grudges against me. I am continually blamed for my sister's current life (no future, dropped out of college, got pregnant with some loser, etc.) and I'm honestly tired of hearing that I wasn't supposed to be the "one" that turned out to be successful. At this point my sister's choices are her own and I don't know what to do. 17 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:16 AM Flag
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Define "messy"? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:19 AM Flag
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Our families pressured them into dating. They were the perfect match, everybody thought they were great together. I swear my mother already had their wedding mapped out. While we were all in high school my husband and I used to sneak out and make out- he would drive me up to New York and we would visit museums and such. It was wrong, but it was high school. A lot of things happened in between but eventually my sister and him ended up getting engaged when they were 21. Then during the summer about a year after they got engaged he broke up the relationship and we ran off and eloped without telling anybody. It was our own little love story, and even though we didn't make the best choices I don't regret anything that happened. That being said, the fall out was very rough for all of us. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:13 AM Flag
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how did sis feel about all this? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:22 AM Flag
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How old are you now? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:39 AM Flag
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36. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:52 AM Flag
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Then ignore them. People move on. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:43 AM Flag
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Actions have consequences. Sorry. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:29 AM Flag
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ignore, ignore, ignore. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:29 AM Flag
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Who was older, you or sis? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:25 AM Flag
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My sister. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:52 AM Flag
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You're pretty lucky your family still speaks to you at all TBH. Suck it up. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:36 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:47 AM Flag
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Ok so op fucked her sister's fiancee. Really? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:51 AM Flag
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There are other male in the world, you know? Bad decision. Now you'll have to deal with it. It's your sister. Relatives never go away. Even if you are responsible and move on with your life. The only way is to ignore them. No other choices but to cut them out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:42 AM Flag
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How old are both of your DCs? It sounds like your families are wealthy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:47 AM Flag
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How did you know how many kids I have? And yes, my family has money. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:55 AM Flag
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I think OR meant how old are yours and how old are sister's kids. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:59 AM Flag
[ - ] What are WASPiest LI towns? Manhasset? Garden city? 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:14 AM Flag
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Sand's point [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:51 AM Flag
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+1. No home for sale under $1 million. Def very upper crust. Signed, potential Port Washington resident [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 06:06 AM Flag
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Brookvilles, Muttontown, Lattingtown, Locust Valley, Mill Neck. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:58 AM Flag
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Take out Locust Valley. We have a name for it "low cost valley" especially cheap homes under $500k in tye numbered streets [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 06:07 AM Flag
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OP: Thank you. What are the easiest commute for WASPy towns? Thanks! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 05:19 AM Flag
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LIRR runs to various town like Locust Valley. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 05:20 AM Flag
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op: Thank you? How would you compare a town like Locust Valley to Manhasset to Bronxville. Thank you! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 06:01 AM Flag
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Locust Valley shouldnt be in the same sentence..lol. It is a nice area but much cheaper than Manhasset where average home is over $700K. LV is more like 600-700K but a whole section has lower income residents and working class people who service the rich in Lattingtown/Upper Brookville/Muttontown. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 06:09 AM Flag
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Garden City although it skews mostly Catholic/Irish. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 06:08 AM Flag
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WASP as in White Anglo Saxon Protestant?? Thats extremely rare now in LI, especially Nassau County where parts resemble Queens east. Most towns in north shore Nassau now skew heavily Asian (esp along Northern Blvd from Douglaston, Queens through Jericho and Syosset. Many Jews in Nassau. True WASP- maybe Muttontown, Sands Point and Lattingtown and Laurel Hollow where properties average price runs over $900K. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 06:12 AM Flag
[ - ] Thoughts on akris tote? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:11 AM Flag
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I've never had one in hand but it seems like it would be a pain to open and close? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:20 AM Flag
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Not a pain at all. I have one - it can get heavy, but when I carry it in my hand/on my elbow it's fine. Half the time I don't even close it, so I use it like an open tote. Not my coolest or most useful bag, but I do very much like the look of the closed trapezoid. The quality of the stitching, leather etc. is excellent. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:31 AM Flag
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OP: thanks. Deciding between this and rectangular celine bag [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:32 AM Flag
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Hard to go wrong with Celine. To me, the Akris is a more conservative choice, but maybe a little bit easier to wear? It doesn't feel out of place when I carry it with just jeans, whereas I would feel a need to dress up every time I wanted to carry the Celine. Maybe that's just me? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 05:22 AM Flag
[ - ] WWYD if teen DS came home one day bloody and severely beaten, and at the hospital when the police you called came to interview him, he simply said "I ain't talking to cops" and refused to say anything else? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:09 AM Flag
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Why did you call the cops? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:17 AM Flag
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depends on the kid. if he's normally a good kid, i'd be really alarmed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:23 AM Flag
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What race? Certain races have stop snitching as the mantra. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:52 AM Flag
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This [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:52 AM Flag
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Ask hospital to send a counselor etc - someone to whom he can open up. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 05:00 AM Flag
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I probably wouldn't force him to tell or they might seek retribution. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 06:02 AM Flag
[ - ] Does anyone here know Emmett's dad? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:08 AM Flag
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Uh, what? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:09 AM Flag
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The Emmett I know has two moms. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:09 AM Flag
[ - ] Penis penis bo-benis, banana-fana fo-fenis, meee-my-mo-meenis... Penis! 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:03 AM Flag
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Don't quit your day job. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 03:54 AM Flag
[ - ] Is urban baby an addiction or a lifestyle? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:01 AM Flag
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Oh, definitely an addiction. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:22 AM Flag
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eh, more like the back of the cereal box when you're eating breakfast. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:24 AM Flag
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Neither. It's a myth. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:30 AM Flag
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Addiction but positive on me. It motivated me drop weight..i have lost 30lbs and aiming to get down to the 120-150lb ranges i see thrown around in certain threads here. Before UB, I was happy with fitting into size 16/18 pants but now realize most UBers view that as obese..(cringe) so now I am obsessed with fitting into a single digit size pair of pants...:) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 06:14 AM Flag
[ - ] Where's everyone buying school clothes (and adult fall clothes)? I'm in fashion and genuinely curious. 32 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 03:46 AM Flag
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Old Navy [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 03:47 AM Flag
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nordstrom and net a porter [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 03:48 AM Flag
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Bergdorf, Barneys, Opening Ceremony. DC: Jacadi, Bonpoint, Barneys, Bergdorf, Flora & Henri, Gap. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 03:38 AM Flag
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Seriously?? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 03:40 AM Flag
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Yes. Why? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 03:40 AM Flag
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and you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 03:50 AM Flag
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where are YOU buying your crap? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 03:38 AM Flag
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You work in the garmento district? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 03:39 AM Flag
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I work for a fashion house, but on strategy, not design. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 03:58 AM Flag
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To elaborate, I've been focused on our mobile app most recently and, surprisingly (not bc there's anything wrong w it but just hasn't been traditional for this particular label), plus size market and potential. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:00 AM Flag
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What are the implications of introducing plus size for this label? Is it a high end brand? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 03:54 AM Flag
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It is. And we believe there's a real market for the product, it's a question of how to market it. Is kind of ridiculous that it's even a question, but some things take a while to evolve I guess. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:12 AM Flag
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I read something recently about the challenges of producing plus-size clothes. I wish I could remember where, but it was an interesting read about how the cuts have to be carefully considered the farther you go from the clothes being two dimensional images on a hanger. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:09 AM Flag
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Yes. It's interesting. Strangely a similar challenge for infant vs toddler (and older kids clothes - is why crew cuts doesn't do baby clothes...different from just making small clothes)...similarly plus size isn't just making clothes bigger. Is a different pattern, shape , etc [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:25 AM Flag
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Interesting! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:28 AM Flag
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Burlington for their coats. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 03:52 AM Flag
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crew cuts [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 03:52 AM Flag
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Kids: a combination of target and Denny's. Me: for work, saks and for casual, little boutiques [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 03:41 AM Flag
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i buy off ebay -- crewcuts, mini boden and hanna anderrson [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 03:55 AM Flag
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Love mini Boden. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:06 AM Flag
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OP: For kids, not buying a lot. Usually start w summer clothes and buy fall a bit later on sale. A mix of designer and fast fashion for me - BG, H&M and Zara. Some local boutiques. My kids are older and don't let me pick out there clothes anymore. I used to love buying kids school clothes! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 03:55 AM Flag
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What do you mean? How do they get their clothes? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 03:56 AM Flag
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^^If I'm paying, I'm picking. They can weigh in. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 03:57 AM Flag
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They have credit cards at this point and allowance. I do have some input if I really want to weight in, but they wear uniforms to school so don't usually fight this battle (even when I hate what they pick, like ridiculously short shorts) because there are plenty of others. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:06 AM Flag
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try uniqlo [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 03:44 AM Flag
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not for kids, though. formaldehyde. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 03:57 AM Flag
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huh? dd has a few summer dresses [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 03:58 AM Flag
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have you ever read the labels on the kid packaging? they state it on there. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 03:59 AM Flag
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i shop in store, no package [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:00 AM Flag
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For my boys: Vineyard Vines, Nike, Levis. For me, Nordstrom. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 03:53 AM Flag
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anthro, nordstrom, bloomingdales, madewell [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 03:57 AM Flag
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Me: loft and anthropologie. That's it. Kids: cotton on, h&m, gap, old navy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:24 AM Flag
[ - ] I can't wait until Monday. DH taking the kids all day to make up for going to US Open tomorrow and I already have planned: an early workout, blowout and pedicure, lunch with my book and shopping in the afternoon 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 03:44 AM Flag
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sounds awesome [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:29 AM Flag
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OP: thanks. Just need to make it through tomorrow with 2 toddlers, then R&R hear I come! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:38 AM Flag
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^here. Just so excited! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:39 AM Flag
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Jelly. Enjoy! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:48 AM Flag
[ - ] This guy I know who is Catholic is married to a Jewish women and they agreed to raise their kids Jewish. The DS had a bris and DD a naming. Then he secretly took them into his basement and baptized them. Pathological? 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 03:39 AM Flag
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no just smart as God prefers Catholics to any other religion. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 03:41 AM Flag
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Actually, I know of other people who have done the very same thing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 03:43 AM Flag
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NP I have to restrain myself from doing it for a child I am close to. What makes it easier is I am sure a relative has done it already. I don't even believe, but the pull is there. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 03:44 AM Flag
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Are you kidding? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 03:44 AM Flag
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no, actually... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 03:58 AM Flag
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part of the sacrament of baptism is agreeing to raise the kids catholic, so pretty pointless. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 03:45 AM Flag
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so the important thing about baptism if the kid dies he won't end up in limbo. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 03:48 AM Flag
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Yes, if you were born in 1950. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 03:54 AM Flag
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Don't you need to have a priest do it? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 03:49 AM Flag
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no just the holy water [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 03:50 AM Flag
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Anyone who does this does not understand Catholicism. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 03:54 AM Flag
[ - ] Yoga or Pilates? Why? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 03:36 AM Flag
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I like just doing headstands. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 03:37 AM Flag
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I prefer hand stands. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 04:12 AM Flag
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I prefer yoga. Feels like it builds overall strength better. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 03:55 AM Flag
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I prefer yoga. I have bad hips and pilates hurts - yoga feels good [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 03:59 AM Flag
[ - ] I had a very early miscarriage. They said chemical pregnancy. But I can help but feel sad...even weeks later. Feel like it made me crazy..and put my hormones in a spin. has anyone experienced this? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 03:36 AM Flag
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HUGS OP. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 03:37 AM Flag
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thanks [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 03:50 AM Flag
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yes. been there too. 2x I'm sorry. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 03:38 AM Flag
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I'm so sorry and sending you hugs. Treat yourself well [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 03:42 AM Flag
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I pictured another kids (it would be our 3rd). I saw us making a room for the baby. I am so happy to have a boy and girl now, and grateful but I feel sad. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.31.14, 03:49 AM Flag
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