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[ - ] Lots of typos first time. What would happen if your DH knew that you never wanted to have sex with him again? Ever. 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:45 AM Flag
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I think he would be very concerned and hurt, especially if I showed no interest or willingness (or desire) to change the situation. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:51 AM Flag
[ - ] Was the movie "First Wives Club" any good? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:41 AM Flag
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Yes! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:43 AM Flag
[ - ] My DH worships his sister and thinks I am a horrible and lazy even though I work a full time job and make the same as him but have a few less less hours and we work in the city so he does not have to commute. I really love her also but she is hardly a workaholic and instead of doing the profession she trained to do in college for way more money works a silly part time job and one of the days is sat so her DH has to get up crack of dawn to watch kid. She has her husband commuting 2.5 hrs each way to the city which I would never ask of anyone. She did't breastfeed and got the formula in bottles and when I had to go back to work DH made us get the powered shit which is a PITA in the middle of the night when I was tired. He says she is a "bargain hunter" because she is always at marshals buying shit and their suburban house is full to the brim with shit and toys for 1 kid and I never buy much because we don't need that much shit. She does not cook and get home and do most nights. She runs her husband hard like a mule and he still loves her. Why does she get his admiration when he claims to admire thriftiness and hard work? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:34 AM Flag
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op: Sorry so long. She is nice and I guess blood is always thicker than water. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:35 AM Flag
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Sorry. But isn't your main problem not SIL but that your DH is holding you to an unreasonable standard? Why do you think he is so hard on you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:49 AM Flag
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This. If he is always comparing you unfavorably to his sister, I suspect it has more to do with wanting to assert control over you (psychological) than it is about admiring his sister. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:54 AM Flag
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op: SIL is great. I even love her despite being jealous that he likes her more. I don't know why he is so hard on me. I'm attractive and have a way better body but even when I was pregnant he would say he hoped the baby would get her eyes. My eyes are actually my best feature and an unusual green that I got best eyes in hs year book and hers are a pretty blue. When he was mean to me once I told him your sister's DH would never say such a mean thing and he said "you are nothing like my sister." [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 05:18 AM Flag
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op: He is competitive or something with me. Like he wanted a very well educated person with a good income and now he is pissed about it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 05:19 AM Flag
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Tldr; [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:37 AM Flag
[ - ] What wdo us happen if your husband unthought you didn't want to have sex with him, ever again? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:27 AM Flag
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The same thing that would happen if we had sex every night, lol. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:28 AM Flag
[ - ] Uws, do you feel comfortable on the subway before 7 am during the week? Or is it still too quiet? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:12 AM Flag
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Fine after 530 or so. Lots of people have early starts [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:31 AM Flag
[ - ] How would you set up this room arrangement?: 3 bedroom apartment for DH and I with our 4 kids: 8 year old DD, 4 year old DS, 2 year old DS, newborn DD. Who's rooming with whom? 20 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:07 AM Flag
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Short term- newborn rooms in with you and DH. Older girl gets her own room. 2 boys share. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:09 AM Flag
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Dh, ds, ds in one, everyone else in the other. Playroom in third. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:09 AM Flag
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Wtf? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:34 AM Flag
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DD in one room, the boys together, and newborn in your room/hall/etc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:20 AM Flag
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Db gets the hall. :( lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:22 AM Flag
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You should have stopped earlier. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:23 AM Flag
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But we didn't. Should I sell one now? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:27 AM Flag
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Yes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:37 AM Flag
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How about live in an apt that is big enough for your family. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:26 AM Flag
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np- get back to me when you find a 4 bedroom in the city. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:28 AM Flag
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Time to move to the burbs. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:37 AM Flag
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ew [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:47 AM Flag
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Not my problem [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:37 AM Flag
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Newborn with you, boys together daughter in her own room. Get a rolling tiny crib. Our DD slept in the kitchen of our studio for 3 years while we saved to buy a place. She loved it and got mad when we moved. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:38 AM Flag
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How did you have room for a crib in the kitchen? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:39 AM Flag
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How embarrassing [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:40 AM Flag
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If you live your life only aiming to please others with material possessions, sure. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:48 AM Flag
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your need for love and validation through children is now going to make everyone miserable. selfish [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:44 AM Flag
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You're a terrible human being. There are people who are deeply in love with their spouse and want a big family. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:47 AM Flag
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Could you split the master bedroom into two rooms? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 05:15 AM Flag
[ - ] Would you be upset or would you just laugh at the absurdity if your late-40's ex-DH married some peasant-looking girl in her 20's from rural Moldova (or somewhere similar)? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:04 AM Flag
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Maybe both? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:05 AM Flag
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The question is for you: what does she have that you don't have? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:16 AM Flag
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Two decades of youth I suppose. Nothing I can do about that, though. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:17 AM Flag
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A little bit of both. When she grows up a bit she is going to rip on him about the cs and everything else that made him a PITA to you. They all grow up. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:40 AM Flag
[ - ] Can we stop the my husband interacts with professional woman and therefor he MUST want to fuck her attitude that is so prevelent on this site? Contrary to what some of you may believe, woman are often equally good at (and sometimes better than men) at their chosen profession. I was a cop and once had a woman freak out because I interviewed her husband (another time I had a man request to be questioned by a man because his wife would disapprove if she knew I had spent time with him alone). As if I was trying to have sex with somebody I was forced to interact with on an unpleasant professional basis. 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:01 AM Flag
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^There is a lot of 'OMG, my DH hired a woman!!!" freakout, as if women are incapable of being valued for anything other than sex. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:02 AM Flag
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+1 so degrading to women. one of the reasons it is hard for us to advance. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:02 AM Flag
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I was once fired from a job at an amusement park because the wife came in and thought I was "too pretty". I was sixteen. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:03 AM Flag
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wow [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:04 AM Flag
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+1 for babysitting gig when I was a senior in high school. mother told me she didn't feel comfortable having me around now that her husband was back. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:05 AM Flag
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Agreed. That said, I am a WOHM with a pretty demanding career and am good at what I do. And I absolutely have dealt with some sexual tension between myself and coworkers. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:03 AM Flag
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But the issue of what a man wants to do is a separate one from how good a woman is at her job. These responders aren't concerned about the women's ethics or professionalism- they mistrust their DH's. Some probably with very good reason. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:06 AM Flag
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The idea here is that it is impossible for their husbands to value said women for her professional skills, as if she doesn't have anything of value over a man. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:07 AM Flag
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These men probably don't value women in general, hence the insecurity of their wives. Some of the women might just be crazy, but I'd wager most know their husbands pretty well. The world is full of men like this and women who sadly stay married to them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:22 AM Flag
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ITA. I guess we should hide and wear burkkas because a man might want to fuck us. So stupid. Maybe they should hide or their wives should keep them from working so we can get on with work and life. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:45 AM Flag
[ - ] Omg the hotels in Italy are cheaper than Disney. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 03:53 AM Flag
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Everything is cheaper than Disney. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 03:56 AM Flag
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this. it's a tourist trap. all of Florida is. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:15 AM Flag
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You don't have to stay inside of Disney properties if you visit Orlando though. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:17 AM Flag
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But they don't make swans out of your washcloths and leave them on the bed! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:21 AM Flag
[ - ] What do I do if my DS never gets invited to a playdate? We are at a SS school and though we've had a few playdates (over half initiated by me), there has rarely been a repeat invitation. The feedback I have gotten from nannies/other moms is that he is polite and nice. About two months ago I asked a classmate of his (and one he has had a playdate with) if he would like to have another playdate with my DS and he wrinkled his nose and said, "No!" Ouch. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
Preschool/Kids 03.31.15, 03:44 AM Flag
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Age? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 03:49 AM Flag
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Whoa. How old are these kids? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 03:50 AM Flag
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Maybe he is too shy right now [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 03:50 AM Flag
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Have you spoken to the teacher? Have you volunteered in class to observe his interaction with his peers? Is he overly academic while the class leans sporty? Also some people do not reciprocate for whatever reason [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:06 AM Flag
[ - ] What accent is Melissa George's character in the Slap speaking in? I can't place it. 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 03:30 AM Flag
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omg I thought the same thing. it's super bad. like really really bad. some kind of northern working class dialect, but in the first few episodes I thought she was Polish. LMAO. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 03:49 AM Flag
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I think it's supposed to be south boston maybe? It's awful and inconsistent. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 03:55 AM Flag
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It's rough yes! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:07 AM Flag
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Def not south boston [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:10 AM Flag
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I couldn't stand her in the Good Wife. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:03 AM Flag
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She looked so much better. In the slap she looks pretty rough. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:06 AM Flag
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Op: I dislike her. Don't like her look, her voice, her accents, her characters are as annoying as she is. I'm liking The Slap, and she's kind if perfect for her character as Rosie actually. Stereotypically annoying hippyish urbanite. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:06 AM Flag
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It sounds like a mixture of Lown Geyland and marble mouth to me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:05 AM Flag
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how can no one on the show call her out on this? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:14 AM Flag
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The show is full of bad accents. Did you see the episode with Blythe Danner and her faux uppityBritish accent that kept going in and out? It was hilarious. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 04:19 AM Flag
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