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[ - ] My in-laws are idiots when it comes to money. They sink tens of thousands into remodeling their house (which still won't sell no matter how nice they make the interior because it doesn't have a backyard) and then claim they don't have any money so we have to pay for *everything* whenever we do anything with them. I'm getting tired of subsidizing their stupid decisions. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 09:06 PM Flag
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have dh deal with it- his parents [ Reply | More ]
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He is happy to cover everything for them. His dad was a university president ($$$) and my dad is just a prof at a small state school. This annoys me because my father is in his mid-70s and is still working his butt off teaching 4 classes a semester while his dad retired at 57 and is claiming poorness. There was no need for his father to retire so early if they were that cash-strapped. [ Reply | More ]
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I don't pay for in-laws' ill-advised mistakes. The whole personal responsibility thing. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] s/o if you think a blow job is a fetish, you've lived a very sheltered life. 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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I think it rises to a fetish when it is absolutely the only thing that will satisfy you sexually, to the exclusion of anything else. [ Reply | More ]
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This. [ Reply | More ]
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Wrong. It's that he's been conditioned that way. Read Dan Savage. If the guy wants he can transition to oral and hand, and then to other things. If that's what he wants. And if he doesn't want anything different then who cares, so long as he spends enough time on you making you feel good too? [ Reply | More ]
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Lol, you're a fucking idiot. You must be a naive college kid from a small town who grew up in a conservative family. Anyone who views Dan Savage's words as gospel has multiple problems and issues of their own. He's a charlatan. And you're too sheltered to recognize that. [ Reply | More ]
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If he has to have it each and every time we have sex and that is the only kind of sex he will have it is an obsession or fetish. All men love BJ's but they are able to come in many different ways, mostly by being inside a woman's vagina [ Reply | More ]
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It's a fetish if it's the only sexual act he'll consider. I think he's gay. [ Reply | More ]
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I don't get what this would have to do with sexual orientation. [ Reply | More ]
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Read response above; you don't know what you're talking about. [ Reply | More ]
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Hostile! [ Reply | More ]
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What makes it a fetish is that it's the exclusive way he gets off. [ Reply | More ]
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Man here: Here's the thing, though - oral feels A LOT better than vaginal sex. So it's not surprising that a man would angle for that every time if he could. [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
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Yeah, in other words, you're gay and too much of a chickenshit to get naked with a guy. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] I like Moncler jackets but already have one and seems like just about everyone else I know does as well. Any others ideas for a nice, warm winter coat? Thanks. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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north face [ Reply | More ]
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Canada goose. Brooklyn industries. Laundry by segal [ Reply | More ]
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Moncler was on Rue this week. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] I'm so pissed we moved to a country club, private school type town... If you plan to make a big move, choose your neighborhood and neighbors OVER the house. 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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But how do you figure this out ahead of time? We're looking at towns now and it's hard to get a good read I think. [ Reply | More ]
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ask the percentage of the town who go to the public school. [ Reply | More ]
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Do you have friends, co-workers, former classmates, family? Some of them live in suburbs! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 09:05 PM Flag
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Not really outside NYC/Hoboken/Jersey City TBH. Some in Westchester, but we wouldn't move there. [ Reply | More ]
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You have now co-workers who live outside NYC? No former classmates? No friends of friends? [ Reply | More ]
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ya think?!?! [ Reply | More ]
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Where? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 09:02 PM Flag
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Can you elaborate op? [ Reply | More ]
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Honest question, how did you not know the town's culture before you moved? [ Reply | More ]
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This sounds like Greenwich, CT to me [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] What is UB's verdict on Dyson vacuum cleaners? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 09:00 PM Flag
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Love mine. [ Reply | More ]
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+1. It's heavy, though. [ Reply | More ]
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+2. I'm very happy with mine. I like the way it works, and after years of using vacuum cleaner bags, it's nice to not have to worry about them and whether I'm running out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 09:10 PM Flag
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I prefer Miele. [ Reply | More ]
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Wondering this myself. We're in the market for a new vacuum and would love to get something that doesn't require us to keep buying overpriced bags, a la the Miele we're replacing. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] I still can't believe Korra is gay. WTF? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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No wonder my DD loves it [ Reply | More ]
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You're so obviously not a mom. [ Reply | More ]
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Why do you say that? [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] When is the best time of year to shop for clothes online? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 08:54 PM Flag
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End of January and August. [ Reply | More ]
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Thanks. So not end of December? [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] I wish I had a river I could skate away on... 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
New York City 12.22.14, 08:52 PM Flag
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I can see the Hudson river out my window [ Reply | More ]
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I can see Russia from my living room. [ Reply | More ]
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You must be hard to handle. Are you selfish? Are you sad? [ Reply | More ]
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Love that song! [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] I need to buy a vacuum cleaner today. What do you wise women recommend? We have one cat and almost all hardwood floors, with a few area rugs. Price not that important but ease of storing is. TIA! 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Love our Miele [ Reply | More ]
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People will disagree, but I've had the small Dyson for about 8 years and it's still working great. All hardwood and no cat though, but I shed like mad. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 08:57 PM Flag
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You do not need fancy expensive vacuum cleaners. A Hoover WindTunnel will work just fine. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 08:57 PM Flag
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Disagree. I thought this and bought a Hoover WindTunnel, only to have it break in a year and a half. (Our household is just DH and me, and we live in a 1-bdrm, so it's not like we were using it to vacuum thousands of square feet.) Bought a Dyson and it has held up great. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 08:59 PM Flag
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^^^ Small Dyson upright. I forget the model name. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 09:00 PM Flag
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You may have gotten a lemon. Mine are going strong (I have 2--one for upstairs and another for downstairs in a 5000 sf house) 10 years later. When one of the belts broke and I had to get a replacement, the repairman did not have complimentary things to say about Dyson. If your Dyson ever needs repair, you are looking at a lot of money to repair it. [ Reply | More ]
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I'm not too concerned. [ Reply | More ]
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I have no idea. Maybe I can forward your message to my cleaning lady. [ Reply | More ]
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OP Does your cleaning lady bring a vacuum? I need to buy one today because we finally have a housekeeper coming tomorrow and we trashed our $40 stick vacuum on our way out of our old apartment. But maybe I should have looked for someone who'll come with her own gear? [ Reply | More ]
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Clever response! I guess some of us are too poor to afford a cleaning lady who brings her own vacuum. Ours just uses the one we have at home. [ Reply | More ]
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Ewwww. That vacuum is all over someone's gross cat and dog and booger infested house [ Reply | More ]
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Hoover Wind Tunnel with bags. 10 years and counting. And...try it out in the store. Some vacuums are much heavier than others. Also, the bagless ones leak dust everywhere when you empty them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 09:09 PM Flag
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Shark, I just got a lift away and love it (had a wind tunnel before. It is small and light but gets up dirt really well [ Reply | More ]
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Miele is the best I've ever used but Shark is also good and a good value. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Dd lately eats bananas two at a time. Like Mowgli 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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She'll never poop again. [ Reply | More ]
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Lol [ Reply | More ]
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She'll be popular with the boys. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] I don't get it - an overwhelming number of posters bring in six figures a year, and everyone still shops at Ann Taylor, Old Navy and Banana Republic? 27 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 08:49 PM Flag
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I don't like to waste money on clothes. [ Reply | More ]
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Some of us are thrifty. [ Reply | More ]
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Not everyone who makes six figures wants to blow their disposable income on clothes. [ Reply | More ]
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I make six figures and shop at those stores (granted "six figures" is a wide range). Where do you shop? [ Reply | More ]
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I'm guessing OP makes low six figures, shops at "designer" outlets, and thinks she's better than everyone else. [ Reply | More ]
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THIS [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
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and what's wrong with the stores? Old Navy I get the disdain but not the other two. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 08:51 PM Flag
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Even ON is good for some things [ Reply | More ]
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exactly. like weekend tshirts. i do not need fancy tank tops or tshirts when i'm out on the weekend. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 09:11 PM Flag
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Life is expensive, unless you make millions spending designer price tags on clothes doesn't make sense, especially if you have kids to pay for. I love clothes and shopping for them but would never spend for expensive clothes these days save for the occasional nice bag. More fun for me to shop around for the looks I want at regular stores like Uniqlo and Zara [ Reply | More ]
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I make 250K and shop there. [ Reply | More ]
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Yeah? So? [ Reply | More ]
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You sound really young. You are in awe of "six figure" earnings. At the low end of that spectrum, that's not much money. [ Reply | More ]
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+1. Our HHI (Dual income) is ~450K but i still shop at anne taylor and BR. pants at BR are 100 bucks!! [ Reply | More ]
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+2 - we have HHI at around $300K which I know is not poor by any stretch, but I really do not have a ton of extra disposable income for clothes once we get done with savings, childcare, etc. [ Reply | More ]
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same, HHI around there and I can't even bring myself to pay full price at these stores! Things are very overpriced to trick you into thinking you are getting a deal when they have 40% off (which is all the time). [ Reply | More ]
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Do not accuse me of shopping at banana republic. [ Reply | More ]
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Why? what's so bad about BR? [ Reply | More ]
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I wouldn't know but I shop at the other two places. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 09:06 PM Flag
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$100K in NYC means $60K after taxes - if that. $5,000 a month gets you a decent one bedroom an three half way healthy meals a day. No money left over for anything other than Old Navy. [ Reply | More ]
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Yes, because I'd rather spend my money on good restaurants and travel (i.e., experiences) than clothes. Plus my job requires me to get dirty sometimes (repairing lab equipment) so I don't want to wear anything *too* nice to work. [ Reply | More ]
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I earn in the very low 6 figures (125k) and mix high (DVF, Theory, but on sale) and low (ON, Uniqlo, Banana). The people I know who shop exclusively at Bergdorf do not even work - they have trust funds or are married to big money. [ Reply | More ]
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THIS. [ Reply | More ]
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I would never shop at any of those stores. [ Reply | More ]
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I don't totally get it either - and I think it can be more expensive in the long-run b/c that stuff may not last. I just had this argument with myself - I was in Madewell and tempted by a sweater (everything is 30% off), but decided that I'd be better off paying a little more (even on sale) from somewhere like Vince or Joie. [ Reply | More ]
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I know a hedgie wife who shops at Marshall's. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] If you've been to Atlantis in Bahamas, would you recommend it for family with young kids (6 and 3)? Is it the best? Is a dining plan worth it? How many days would you stay? I've never been to the Caribbean before, prefer city vacations, don't have the faintest clue about resorts, but kids love the beach, so it seems like a good vacation to take. 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 08:38 PM Flag
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It's an overpriced dump imo. Think Vegas by the sea. And dcs that young can't enjoy the water slides. There are much better places to enjoy the beach if that's your goal. [ Reply | More ]
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It's awful. If they are that small you are better off at Disney. Atlantis is very over priced for what it is. The crowd is very B&T due to the casinos. The service is extremely slow and they charge you for everything. A bottle of water is around $6.00. The beach houses don't up until 11:00am and there is no one to help you do anything. No place to get water. There are some good restaurants but they are very expensive. Do NOT go. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 08:47 PM Flag
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B & T? Black and tan? Bacon and tomato? [ Reply | More ]
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Bridge and tunnel. [ Reply | More ]
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atlantis is bahamas -- not Caribbean. It's sub-tropical -- not tropical. Go to more upscale Caribbean resorts if you can afford it especially when winter when it may not be hot enough for beach [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 08:53 PM Flag
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Looks like hell. [ Reply | More ]
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It's OK. Your kids will like it Do yourself a favor and stay at the Cove. It's removed from the crowds, has its own beach and two pools, and the rooms are very nice. The restaurants there are better as well. [ Reply | More ]
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eh. we took our kids when they were 5 and 3. they had fun but we signed up for all the kids stuff too (swimming w dolphins, swimming/feeding little sharks and picking up starfish, etc). the lazy river is nice but if you wanna do the slides, put the kids in the playroom/daycare thing for a few hours. they have fun there too. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Would you date an otherwise great guy who had a sex fetish? 44 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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what kind of fetish? [ Reply | More ]
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Only got off to blow jobs. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 08:34 PM Flag
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hmmmm. Sounds like a lot more work. [ Reply | More ]
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dh. I could see that being a problem. That, or he has a really good thing going. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 08:38 PM Flag
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no. too selfish. [ Reply | More ]
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He is not selfish in anything else though. Totally adores me, takes care of me, etc [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 08:41 PM Flag
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Gay. Gay. Gay. [ Reply | More ]
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Maybe. Especially if he's really into anal. [ Reply | More ]
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OP: He is totally not into anal or even being touched there. [ Reply | More ]
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Ugh, no way. [ Reply | More ]
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no [ Reply | More ]
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OP: His fetish is blow jobs. That is the only way he gets off. [ Reply | More ]
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Sure, if i liked him enough, and he was wonderful to me (and his oral skills were superb). It depends on the overall relationship. [ Reply | More ]
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Does he cum on your face or just in your mouth? [ Reply | More ]
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OMG. Sounds like Eliot Spitzer. [ Reply | More ]
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OP He prefers in my mouth, never on my face but doesnt seem to mind if I spit it out. [ Reply | More ]
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Did you ever hear that the cum has over 1,000 calories? Or is that a myth? [ Reply | More ]
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Uh...yeah, that's a myth. Are you stupid? [ Reply | More ]
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dh. If that were true, I'd have a pretty surefire weight-loss solution. [ Reply | More ]
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No [ Reply | More ]
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How does he do this? He fucks you, and then pulls out and you have to finish him off? This reminds me of a conversation they had on Sex and the City. Miranda got really grossed out tasting the guy after he was inside her. [ Reply | More ]
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No we start with bj and he always asks me to finish him this way. If we move to straight sex he would lose his erection or not be into it. That has only happened twice. Usually I just finish him off. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 08:41 PM Flag
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does he reciprocate (assuming you want him to)? [ Reply | More ]
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OP: sometimes. I can tell it is not his favorite thing but he is polite ;) [ Reply | More ]
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If you can tell it's not his favorite thing, and he's also not into intercourse, I'm wondering what's in it for you? [ Reply | More ]
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good question. [ Reply | More ]
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well a relationship is not just sex. He is great in every other way. [ Reply | More ]
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I hear what you're saying. I married a "great guy" - really wonderful, and we got along well. He also had a sexual dysfunction (premature ejaculation within seconds of entering me) that he could never do anything to correct. I'm ashamed to say that after 12 years, I ended up having an affair. [ Reply | More ]
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He never got over that? [ Reply | More ]
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No. He went to surrogates, and several other sex therapists. [ Reply | More ]
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He's got something psychological going on. he's afraid of being inside a woman.......It sounds like he has intimacy issues. [ Reply | More ]
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Or is he gay? [ Reply | More ]
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OP: Has never attempted anal or even touching his backside [ Reply | More ]
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That's because she was an uptight bitch. Samantha would have loved it. Carrie would have gone along if the guy was rich and handsome. And Charlotte would have gobbled that cock if the man was rich and told her she was pretty. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 08:43 PM Flag
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In answer to your general question, it would depend on the sex fetish. The fetish you're describing would be problematic for me. If the fetish were bondage or spanking, I would probably enjoy that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 08:48 PM Flag
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i ran into this once with someone who was relatively small in size, a bit older, and somewhat desensitized. It wasn't a problem for me, but i like oral sex a lot. Also, he reciprocated, and went down on me for hours. He also liked the pressure of anal sex, so it seems to have been more of a physical thing than a purely psychological one (and he wasn't like this when he was younger, or so he said)/ [ Reply | More ]
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I don't know if that's really a fetish. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 08:58 PM Flag
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Good point. Sounds more like a dysfunction. [ Reply | More ]
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That's kind of what I was thinking. It doesn't sound like a preference but a requirement for him. [ Reply | More ]
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Dysfunctional and selfish. Drop him. [ Reply | More ]
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THIS. Listen to this person, OP. [ Reply | More ]
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OP: He would reciprocate if I wanted him too each time. So not sure if he is selfish. Also he is very giving and nice in other ways. Just in sex he can only get off with bj's [ Reply | More ]
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Does he make you come repeatedly? Would you like him to? Are you asexual? It sounds very lopsided to me - unless you don't even like sex. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 09:10 PM Flag
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Tell him to stop jerking off to blowjob videos. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 09:10 PM Flag
[ - ] Has anyone been to Guadalajara Mexico? Is it safe? We are staying at a very nice hotel, but dh will be out most of the day for business, so I will be alone with one dc. Just wondering if it may be safe to go shopping, etc. I read a few things on line and seems OK. But would love any feedback from anyone who has visited. Thanks. 15 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Do not leave the hotel. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 08:26 PM Flag
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Not politically correct to say, but Mexicans in that part of Mexico are violent and blood thirsty. In some other parts of Mexico they are tranquil [ Reply | More ]
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You could also just say "that's an unstable area with a lot of crime" without making a strange sounding racist generalization about entire populations [ Reply | More ]
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"Tranquil" huh? Are they also serene and placid? Are they imperturbable as well? Not politically correct to say, but English is not your first language, is it? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 08:40 PM Flag
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So, Americans in all parts of America are bloodthirsty. [ Reply | More ]
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Mexicans kidnapped and murdered 40 college students. They are violent http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/2014_Iguala_mass_kidnapping [ Reply | More ]
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Not all of them [ Reply | More ]
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That is 8 hours away. Surely you can find something more relevant to the area if you are trying to make a point. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 09:05 PM Flag
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I wouldn't leave the hotel. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 08:35 PM Flag
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op - wish I had known before... dh already bought tickets for the 4 of us... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 08:39 PM Flag
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That's not the safest place to go. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 08:41 PM Flag
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^Google "guadalajara cartel violence" and then decide. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 08:42 PM Flag
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Been there a few years ago. I felt safe... But do you speak Spanish? Or is it obvious you're gringos? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 08:42 PM Flag
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I am French and speak Spanish, not fluent but can get around [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 09:00 PM Flag
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So am I! I felt pretty safe there (and pretty much all over Mexico) but I am fluent. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 09:04 PM Flag
[ - ] News update: Joe Cocker died. Also, De Blasio calls for an end to protests. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 08:21 PM Flag
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DeB -- two lives too late. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 08:26 PM Flag
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All things and possibilities considered, he had a longer run than one would think. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 08:26 PM Flag
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ah, sad about Joe Cocker. It's hard to realize that all of these first generation rock gods are actually old men now. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 08:31 PM Flag
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I really liked Joe Cocker. I want you to cryyyyy me a river. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 08:40 PM Flag
[ - ] when did your pregnancy exhaustion start? for my first preg it was around 9 weeks.. today im about 6 weeks and already feeling sluggish.. not full blown pregnancy exhaustion but definitely drained.. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 08:17 PM Flag
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both my pregnancies i started to feel exhausted around 7 weeks and it was terrible until about 10 weeks when it got better. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 08:19 PM Flag
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7 weeks 1 day over here, and I feel like I could sleep all afternoon. Also a transactional lawyer so it is my busiest 2 weeks of the year. Joy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 08:34 PM Flag
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oh man....good luck. Thankfully im off this week, but im worried that if im THIS tired at 6 weeks, what am i going to be like at 7.. or 8/9! feel better! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 08:36 PM Flag
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Thanks, you too! I'm falling asleep at my desk. I had it around this time last pregnancy too, but it goes away! :) Be well! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 08:38 PM Flag
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Off and on the whole time. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 08:49 PM Flag
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