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05.24.13, 02:12 AM
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What is it?
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05.24.13, 02:08 AM
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You making money for posting this here?
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05.24.13, 02:15 AM
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lol, np here. I just got back from my first tinder date. I posted about guy in my building.
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05.24.13, 02:22 AM
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OK tinder marketing director. We get it.
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05.24.13, 02:15 AM
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+1 I usually dislike when people call "Fake" but there were some replies in that other Tinder post that just sounded strange. This new post confirms it. Marketing for sure.
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05.24.13, 02:13 AM
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This. There's been a sudden flood of tinder chat this week.
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05.24.13, 02:14 AM
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spamela
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05.24.13, 02:10 AM
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Isn't that a bit much? Quality not quantity.
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05.24.13, 02:12 AM
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Isn't that a bit much? Quality not quantity.
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05.24.13, 02:12 AM
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Is it for hookups only?
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05.24.13, 02:18 AM
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it is the most popular app on college campuses. it takes hook ups out of the frat house and in to the library
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05.24.13, 02:20 AM
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Fake + spam.
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05.24.13, 02:15 AM
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Yeah, that line definitely made that clear. Do better infiltrating!
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05.24.13, 02:16 AM
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I'VE USED TINDER AND IT FUCKING SUCKS!!!!!! TOTAL WASTE OF MONEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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05.24.13, 02:13 AM
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FAKE -- tinder is free so bullshit to say it wasted money
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05.24.13, 02:24 AM
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This is a guy writing this. But you have succeeded Mr. Marketing director. I'll go check it out.
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05.24.13, 02:14 AM
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Clever try, but fail.
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05.24.13, 02:16 AM
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Just log in to tinder right now. right this minute. it will hook you up within a half hour. Instant gratification.
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05.24.13, 02:22 AM
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come back to UB after your hook up is over and report back!!
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05.24.13, 02:22 AM
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plus one - - give us tha details
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05.24.13, 02:25 AM
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This spam is not effective - who the hell wants to have 5+ dates a week? Shouldn't you be marketing an image of customers who have friends, jobs, and interests?
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05.24.13, 02:22 AM
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Tinder is for those that want to date different people, five six or seven dates with different people each week. That is why it is popular at the ivies
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05.24.13, 02:23 AM
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I don't need Tinder for 5 plus dates. I get hooked up a couple of times a night with Craig's List casual encounters with the most awesome funny and wonderful people I could ever want to meet. I'm totally satisfied with the QUALITY and QUANTITY of great partners, relationships and fantastic sex I get on CL. Everyone of the ads on there is a real person who gets right back to me.
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05.24.13, 02:19 AM
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FAKE
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05.24.13, 02:26 AM
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Craig's list is fake but Tinder is R*E*A*L
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05.24.13, 02:27 AM
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Ha! I like you.
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05.24.13, 02:21 AM
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Haha. That mom from the other post talking about her daughter's use of this is probably FLIPPING OUT
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05.24.13, 02:23 AM
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05.24.13, 02:08 AM
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Mouth plate? Have you talked to the dentist? seems like a lot of kids do this
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05.24.13, 02:15 AM
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Yeah dentist said he'd grow out of it. I wonder when though. I figure out must be painful, and he already has a bunch of adult teeth. No molars yet, but still. Anyone know how effective the drugstore mouth plates are?
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05.24.13, 02:13 AM
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Get another dental opinion?
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05.24.13, 02:23 AM
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I know you're right but what a PITA. Oh god I'm the worst. I'll take him in.
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05.24.13, 02:25 AM
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Yeah dentist said he'd grow out of it. I wonder when though. I figure out must be painful, and he already has a bunch of adult teeth. No molars yet, but still. Anyone know how effective the drugstore mouth plates are?
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05.24.13, 02:13 AM
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05.24.13, 02:03 AM
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tough - good luck!
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05.24.13, 01:59 AM
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Work horse?
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05.24.13, 01:59 AM
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who is not articulate, apparently
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05.24.13, 02:01 AM
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It is broke,...?..
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05.24.13, 02:06 AM
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I can't tell, that's the problem
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05.24.13, 02:07 AM
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Do a trial run on a weekend day.
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05.24.13, 02:04 AM
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+1
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05.24.13, 02:06 AM
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This! Explore the new nanny. I would personally take the risk, nannies are a dime a dozen.
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05.24.13, 02:08 AM
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Our nanny is a gem though, I definitely don't think of her as a dime in a dozen, I'd just love someone who can interact more with DCs and command a little more authority over them, she spoils them too much.
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05.24.13, 02:27 AM
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Excellent suggestion!
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05.24.13, 02:18 AM
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I would keep the current nanny, b/c u would not need her for much longer in any case.
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05.24.13, 02:12 AM
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Keep the nanny you have and sign dcs up for preschool in september, preferably somewhere where the school day is at least 5-6 hours 5 days/week. Give the nanny extra cleaning and errand tasks while they are in school.
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05.24.13, 02:19 AM
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Thanks, this is definitely a good work around for the current nanny
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05.24.13, 02:15 AM
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05.24.13, 02:03 AM
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I have that friend. She works in real estate now.
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05.24.13, 02:04 AM
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Is your cousin DH's niece?? Nearly the same story.
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05.24.13, 01:58 AM
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op: No, she is my first cousin.
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05.24.13, 02:03 AM
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I get why you would be concerned, but keep it to yourself. She's an adult, but she has a lot of maturing to do. If she's got good ballast in the hull, she'll come about.
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05.24.13, 02:04 AM
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Awesome metaphor!!!
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05.24.13, 02:23 AM
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LOL thanks! I've always liked the fact that boats are female.
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05.24.13, 02:26 AM
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to each their own. it may or may not work out but everybody likes to hear the Cinderella story. It's not something I would do or support my own DD in doing but I know somebody for whom it worked out (at least from the outside)
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05.24.13, 02:05 AM
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wouldn't bother me - even if it were my dd. She's a grown woman - she gets to make choices about her life. Nothing here is worrisome to me.
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05.24.13, 02:00 AM
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i agree except the part about her becoming a trophy wife. i don't see any guarantees of that.
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05.24.13, 02:07 AM
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nothing in life has a guarantee.
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05.24.13, 02:11 AM
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What exactly is your concern? It would seem to me that she's happy and successful at something that's creating a lot of wealth for her at a young age. This in of itself is an admirable goal, especially for someone who dropped out of school and could otherwise be working in kmart!
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05.24.13, 02:06 AM
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np - creating wealth? She's a kept woman.
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05.24.13, 02:08 AM
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op: I am not concerned, she is not my child. I just think it is morally questionable. I don't think men would give her $20,000 watches because she has gorgeous eyes and a nice personality, they are expecting something in return and that does not sit well with me for some reason.
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05.24.13, 02:02 AM
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good think you are not the boss of her or her parents
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05.24.13, 02:04 AM
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You're not wrong, but there is no good way to tell your cousin that she is a prostitute. She can say she is a bartender and that these guys are "admirers" but you are right - they aren't giving her diamonds because she's a sweet girl. Keep your mouth shut and keep your DCs away from her.
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05.24.13, 02:12 AM
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I'm betting OP doesn't have any DCs and is relatively close in age to her cousin.
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05.24.13, 02:18 AM
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Eh, it works for her and as long as she gets a fair prenup, she'll most likely be fine.... or if she ends up getting dropped, she'll probably marry again.
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05.24.13, 02:06 AM
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I had a friend who did something similar (not to that extent). She did end up marrying a very rich guy who was about 10 years older, but he seems nice enough. Now she works for a luxury hotel chain and seems to travel the world staying in this luxury chain doing PR stuff but posting on facebook like she is staying in this amazing hotels on personal vacations. I'm glad it turned out okay for her. She still seems like a huge striver of course, but it could have been much more gross- I mean at one point she dated a 60 year old. At least she had the sense not to marry that one- just take expensive gifts and come across like an escort for a few months.
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05.24.13, 02:01 AM
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This. Plenty of young women date older rich guys. It works out well for most of them
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05.24.13, 02:02 AM
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Anna Nicole Smith was just like your cousin ... told everyone she was going to date only rich guys. she wound up marrying a billionaire. it can happen
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05.24.13, 02:10 AM
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Your cousin is using her feminine charms to get super rich guys to date her. why not?
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05.24.13, 02:10 AM
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It's a choice she made. Just like you made your choices. Thank god not all of us are the same.
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05.24.13, 02:05 AM
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Plenty of girls in their 20s date older wealthy guys. it is quite normal. plenty of $$$ in it
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05.24.13, 02:12 AM
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Not wrong, just intrusive.
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05.24.13, 02:07 AM
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are you really concerned about her lack of education/goals? are you worried she's going to end up destitute? OR, are you worried that she isn't? She's going to marry rich and never have to work hard in her life, thus undermining your security in feeling like you chose the right path by going to college and going to your white collar job every day
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05.24.13, 02:13 AM
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This
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05.24.13, 02:20 AM
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I sense tremendous hatred on UB from the hard working moms - the hard working moms hate the moms that marry a rich guy and never work
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05.24.13, 02:21 AM
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Hard working moms have bitterness!!!
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05.24.13, 02:21 AM
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wow amazing you all jump on SAHM for being whores but an escort is dandy
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05.24.13, 02:19 AM
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hahaha!
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05.24.13, 02:24 AM
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Strawberry strawberry!
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05.24.13, 02:26 AM
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OP, no you are not wrong. You just have a different value system. Your cousin's future depends on her wits and long term savvy. Look at what happened to Louise Brooks. Once the looks go, she'd better have something else to motor on with.
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05.24.13, 02:21 AM
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05.24.13, 02:02 AM
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Yep. Sorry.
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05.24.13, 02:04 AM
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Yes. Time to walk away.
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05.24.13, 02:11 AM
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Yup. Walk.
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05.24.13, 02:07 AM
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How long have you been waiting for him to call since he said he would?
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05.24.13, 02:10 AM
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How long since he hasn't called?
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05.24.13, 02:16 AM
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no, cuz he's already walked away and there's nothing away from which you need to walk.
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05.24.13, 02:17 AM
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Sister friend, he's just not that into you. Sorry.
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05.24.13, 02:12 AM
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yup
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05.24.13, 02:16 AM
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05.24.13, 02:01 AM
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Why tie up all your cash when you pay such a low interest rate on your mortgage? I would do safe investments.
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05.24.13, 02:10 AM
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THIS
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05.24.13, 02:13 AM
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What ate safe investments? More specific?
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05.24.13, 02:08 AM
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Balanced funds and S&P 500
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05.24.13, 02:09 AM
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No. You do not pay off a loan at 3.7. And lose the deduction? No.
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05.24.13, 02:08 AM
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+1
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05.24.13, 02:09 AM
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At what point is getting the deduction worth it?
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05.24.13, 02:22 AM
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are your children close to college age? If so, yes - put in in mortgage.
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05.24.13, 02:12 AM
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Personally I'd pay off the mortgage and invest the other $100k, but I'm pretty conservative.
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05.24.13, 02:19 AM
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NP:Well, for me personally, since my mortgage balance is just over 500K, I'd pay off my mortgage because it would mean I could stay home and be a full-time mom to my kids if I didn't have a $3K mortgage bill every month. We could live on DH's salary alone, at least for a few years, so I could enjoy my dc's elementary school years.
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05.24.13, 02:21 AM
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How secure is your income? If one of you were to lose your job, could you still cover the mortgage? Do you have an emergency fund? How old are you/close to retirement? I am older (mid 50s) and DH lost his job last year. Took him 6 mos to find another job. I would be beyond crazy if we had had a half a million dollar mortgage. We had paid off the mortgage 2 years earlier and we never felt the panic so many people feel. You just feel lighter without the debt. I think one reason DH found a great job was because he wasn't scared. I would pay off the mortgage and then start investing with the extra money.
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05.24.13, 02:19 AM
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