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[ - ] My job is making me physically ill, and I am about to quit. However, I am worried I I'll be destroying my career, as I am 45 DH is in an unstable industry. We do have a lot of savings, and I think I can get something part time. I just need a break or I may have a breakdown. Thoughts? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 03:27 AM Flag
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Apply out for a new job [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 03:28 AM Flag
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If your problem is specifically related to the job you have and not to unhappiness with life in general, there's nothing wrong with taking time off or just quitting since you do have savings. What about your job makes you so unhappy? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 03:29 AM Flag
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Do not quit until you have a new job [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Do you wash pre-washed salad? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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No [ Reply | More ]
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Always. I don't believe it's really washed [ Reply | More ]
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No I'm too lazy [ Reply | More ]
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This and it's too hard to dry [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] S/O - what sorority were you in (if any)? Gamma Phi Beta here. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Aephi [ Reply | More ]
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OP: my sister was an AEPhi! :) [ Reply | More ]
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The other gamma phi from below! Psi--what about you? [ Reply | More ]
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Epsilon Epsilon. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 03:29 AM Flag
[ - ] Tomorrow is International Badge Day - so sorority women, pull out your kite, key, quill, or quatrefoil pin and wear it proudly! 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Haha yes! Dusting off my badge now. [ Reply | More ]
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Columns! [ Reply | More ]
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Proud to wear the crescent moon! :) [ Reply | More ]
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OMG STOP. I just posted about Gamma Phi above. What schoo!?!? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 03:27 AM Flag
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Gross [ Reply | More ]
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Still bitter from bid day? Seriously, what is "gross" (as you so eloquently put it) about being in a sorority? [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] My latest idea - pls provide feedback. We sell our apt in NYC, will clear $350k, and also sell our weekend home, clear $200k, and buy a house in the burbs, with a 2 hour commute each way, but this house has a preschool attached to it. It's all staffed, runs beautifully, and I can own it, and put my three kids there and go to work. Dh and I can work from home 1-2 days per week. We make $450k. Save the flames, but we have no savings (just 401k). It's will give us some savings, daycare is covered, plus this preschool is revenue positive, and so adorable, what do you think? Or should we stay in NYC, and continue paycheck to paycheck, no savings. ever. 29 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 03:11 AM Flag
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Sounds like a hick town though [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 03:12 AM Flag
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It's not -- it's a very nice town. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 03:18 AM Flag
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Two hour commute would never be worth it for me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 03:13 AM Flag
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The thought/ hope is we figure things out and reduce the commute. Both our company's have offices 45 minutes away, so maybe we can relocate there. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 03:19 AM Flag
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4 hour round trip? Never. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 03:14 AM Flag
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Just 3 days a week. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 03:17 AM Flag
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No way [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 03:23 AM Flag
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Sing it sister. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 03:27 AM Flag
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Can't you move somewhere with a cheaper cost of living where you can also get jobs? That commute will get old quick. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 03:15 AM Flag
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We know this town really well. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 03:18 AM Flag
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No comparable jobs in this town? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 03:19 AM Flag
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About 45 mins away for real jobs [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 03:22 AM Flag
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I would seriously consider it in that case but 2 hours is a non-starter. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 03:24 AM Flag
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I wouldn't want the liability [ Reply | More ]
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Meaning someone gets hurt? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 03:19 AM Flag
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I wouldn't want the liability [ Reply | More ]
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that plus not being the one who's actually there running it- have to trust a previously unknown employee with such high stakes... [ Reply | More ]
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I wouldn't want the liability [ Reply | More ]
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I wouldn't want the liability [ Reply | More ]
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I wouldn't want the liability [ Reply | More ]
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I wouldn't want the liability [ Reply | More ]
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Just thinking the same thing, but 6 others posted before me [ Reply | More ]
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lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 03:20 AM Flag
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What kind of suburban house comes with an attached preschool? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 03:19 AM Flag
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This one. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 03:22 AM Flag
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Weird [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 03:23 AM Flag
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Right? This sounds like a Lifetime movie of the week in the making. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 03:25 AM Flag
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How do you plan to work and own a day care? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 03:29 AM Flag
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Sell your weekend home and start saving! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 03:30 AM Flag
[ - ] Help...I need a good ped from E. 55th to 72nd or so. Just took an apt on York. Moving back from Paris with an infant and a 20 month old. Thanks. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Manhattan Pediatics, 72nd and Lex. [ Reply | More ]
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+ dr Edelstein if he's taking new patients. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 03:16 AM Flag
[ - ] They say you shouldn't have a tv in the bedroom -- bad for a marriage. But I just LOOOOOOVE watching tv (especially movies) in bed. I do think it is taking a toll on my marriage though. How do you guys feel about a tv in the bedroom? 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Love [ Reply | More ]
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+1. Must have. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 03:16 AM Flag
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Alway had one, alway will. Happily married 25 years. My parents had their only TV in their bedroom. Just celebrated their 55th anniversary. It's not the reason marriages don't work out. [ Reply | More ]
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the best. only watch it by myself, husband will not watch in bedroom. it's my special place. [ Reply | More ]
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I love it..dh can watch something in the living room and I can enjoy my shows in the bedroom. Sometimes we'll watch together in bed. Cozy. [ Reply | More ]
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+ [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 03:12 AM Flag
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No electronics in any bedrooms in our house. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 03:11 AM Flag
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You sound dictatorial [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 03:12 AM Flag
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Well, my husband and I made this decision together, so not a dictator. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 03:14 AM Flag
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Fair 'nuf. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 03:17 AM Flag
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My husband doesn't like it either. But sometimes I just want to be in the bed and watch my favorite shows. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] I have wanted that classic 2300 black prada bag forever. Then, I saw a clients daughter carrying it -- she is 25. They are not wealthy. It made me realize -- it's totally a striver thing. So what is a classy bag for a working 42 year old mother, for work, I work with rich people. I want to look polished and rich, but understated. 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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By definition, asking what brand name bag/"rich" bag to carry is not classy. [ Reply | More ]
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Well duh, I'm not classy, but trying to be,I am poor and low class. [ Reply | More ]
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Well duh, I'm not classy, but trying to be,I am poor and low class. [ Reply | More ]
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Well duh, I'm not classy, but trying to be,I am poor and low class. [ Reply | More ]
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Mulberry? [ Reply | More ]
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Chloe or Celine bag [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
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Pour la victoire [ Reply | More ]
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Mansur gavriel [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] San Diego moms. Thanks for helping me the other day. I've decided in Bahia hotel on the Mission Bay. Decent choice? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Close to Sea World, maybe 15 minutes to downtown and zoo, not much but the bay within walking distance. You could rent bikes and ride for miles on the paths around the bay. If you are going during spring break, you will want to avoid the insanity of close-by Mission Beach. [ Reply | More ]
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Who goes to Sea World these days? [ Reply | More ]
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OR: I assume vacationers who are staying at Mission Bay will go to Sea World. I prefer the Birch Aquarium up in La Jolla. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 03:30 AM Flag
[ - ] For the evening crowd. Who do you think killed Jon Benet? 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Parent? [ Reply | More ]
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Which one? [ Reply | More ]
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Mother [ Reply | More ]
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Why? [ Reply | More ]
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Jealous [ Reply | More ]
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She covered it up to save brother. [ Reply | More ]
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brother [ Reply | More ]
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Why? [ Reply | More ]
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jealous of all the attention she got [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
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agree [ Reply | More ]
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agree [ Reply | More ]
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I wish he'd write a book. Then again, he prob wouldn't tell the truth. [ Reply | More ]
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DNA connected him. [ Reply | More ]
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+1 but I think it was accidental-ish. [ Reply | More ]
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Let's say he accidentally hurt her, why not call 911 and take her to the ER? Could he really have killed her so fast? [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] If db wakes up at 6am, what time do you go to sleep 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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8pm [ Reply | More ]
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10:30 pm [ Reply | More ]
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12:30-1:00. And "DB" is 4.5 years old and still waking up at 6:00 sharp every day, ready for action. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Db #2 is almost 5 months and im still 12 pounds overweight, but breastfeeding, am pig? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Im 131, yuck! [ Reply | More ]
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5'6 [ Reply | More ]
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Not me!! Op [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 03:18 AM Flag
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Why even ask this? And, even if anyone were going to answer you honestly, 131 means nothing without your height and body type... I feel sorry for you that, with a healthy five month old, this is the biggest thought occupying your mind on a Sunday night. Hope for a better future for your sweet baby. This culture sucks. [ Reply | More ]
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My oldest has a medical problem, my youngest may suffer from the same thing, so worrying about my weight helps me stay sane,.. [ Reply | More ]
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Whatever it takes, I guess. I can't imagine that this insecurity keeps you sane, but I don't live your life. Wouldn't you rather put the energy into something productive? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 03:27 AM Flag
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I think a year to lose the weight is reasonable. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 03:20 AM Flag
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Me too. Almost exact same stats. It sucks. With db1 I lost it all and more by this point. I'm going to have to fight hard to get back to that point :( [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Thoughts on York ave preschool 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Why are you so obsessed with Preschools? Are you a school director or something? [ Reply | More ]
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Layoff, bitch- it's preschool admissions notification weekend. [ Reply | More ]
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oooooh so exciting!!! (rolls eyes) [ Reply | More ]
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yes it is exciting, Mr. Asshole, I've been sitting on this site all weekend. [ Reply | More ]
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Well said! [ Reply | More ]
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Ok angry mom, this is my first preschool post [ Reply | More ]
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Why can't you think for yourself? Go check the place out, apply and see what happens. Why do you need a bunch of anonymous opinions? It's YOUR kid. [ Reply | More ]
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nice facility, dont know how things change with student body when they merge with Elf, pretty disadvantaged on exmissions, community seems to think director Monaco is a little weird [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Preschool link to accepts/rejects? Thx 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Obsessed much? Get a hobby. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] For those whose DH left for the OW. What happened when they broke up? did he come crawling back? became a zombie or find someone else? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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You do know...they do get married on occasion. [ Reply | More ]
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Mine cheated but didn't leave for the ow exactly. But they did likely date after. And broke up. [ Reply | More ]
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My husband had been working his way out of his marriage for years before he met me. We started an affair, he left her two weeks later. That was 10 years ago. We have two kids. [ Reply | More ]
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Snd you feel special. [ Reply | More ]
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