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[ - ] I wonder if they would ever make a sequel to Mystic Pizza. 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:31 PM Flag
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They should not. It would ruin everything. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:33 PM Flag
[ - ] My mom is turning 60 in a month. She's insisting that we do something for her. We don't have the closest relationship. What would you do?? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:29 PM Flag
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Fruit basket [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:31 PM Flag
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take her out to dinner. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:32 PM Flag
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This should be enough, rt? I'm thinking she's expecting a lot though. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:31 PM Flag
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Have a party. It's a good way to get your place cleaned up. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:31 PM Flag
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A nice luncheon for family and close friends. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:31 PM Flag
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Sadly she doesn't have any close friends but I'll invite close family [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:32 PM Flag
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Brunch with the family. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:31 PM Flag
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Kingda Ka at Six Flags [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:34 PM Flag
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Hahahaha [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:34 PM Flag
[ - ] Dying laughing - Mrs. Crank on Modern Family - best teacher ever!! "Oh, a frowny-face stamp. I didn't know they made those." "Yes, I had to special order it from Germany." 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:21 PM Flag
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That was hilarious! And they were "buffoons" - Lily is the smartest one in that house! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:26 PM Flag
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Great writing on that show. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:35 PM Flag
[ - ] If you lived on the UES, would you list NEST over Anderson for G&T? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:14 PM Flag
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Depends on where on the UES. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:20 PM Flag
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I would put Anderson first. NEST is a major pain to get to and commuting will impact you and your child's life for all those years. Think of school events, conferences etc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:22 PM Flag
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the chance of getting either are tiny. 1000 get 99, Anderson has 35 non sib spots and nest about 75. Families at these schools live all over so harder to get together. from UES, I would do A, LL then Nest [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:21 PM Flag
[ - ] Thoughts on having an only child (in NYC)? Would it be a mistake to stop at one? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:14 PM Flag
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certainly makes nyc more manageable but not a good enough reason to stop at one if you want more than one. We only have one. For us it has meant that we can afford private school, did not have to upgrade to a larger size apartment, and can still save for college an retirement. With 2, we would have sent them to public school but stayed in city. No way we could stay with 3. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:18 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:23 PM Flag
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^^would also add that so many of the things that we love about nyc are easier to enjoy with one child--restaurants, museums, theater, etc. By the time dc was about 9 or 10, we had our old life back. We are more likely to take dc with us to the theater or to a concert than to get a sitter. Buying another ticket is often the same cost as getting a sitter. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:30 PM Flag
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That's an intensely personal decision. We have an only and it has been wonderful. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:20 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:21 PM Flag
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I am pregnant with DC2. I would have been fine with one and done. Caved to peer pressure. Will love this baby but would have been okay without another child. If your life is good with one and you don't feel the need for two, enjoy your life and child. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:26 PM Flag
[ - ] When are the school tours for NEST? Could not find any on their website. Can anyone go on the tour or do they only allow qualified applicants? TIA 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:12 PM Flag
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Last year, they had tours in the spring for families who scored 97+ [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:20 PM Flag
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haha! Anderson and Nest only allow you to tour with a 99, eventhough technically 97 qualifies. tours are in june after scores are released. 1000 get 99, and nest has 75 non sib spots via lottery!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:22 PM Flag
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If you are talking about elementary school, not until after G&T results come out and yes they only let parents of kids who score 97+ Attend and they are upfront that only 99's will get in. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:23 PM Flag
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Not until spring, unless you mean for middle and high school. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:24 PM Flag
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you can only tour once your dc gets a 97 or above on the test, so in the spring. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:26 PM Flag
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are you sure you could tour with 97 or 98, thought they only invited 99's or is that Anderson? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:27 PM Flag
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that's Anderson but realistically, why tour if your dc gets below a 99? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:29 PM Flag
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You could your but they are really honest and say only 99s get in if non-siblings. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:29 PM Flag
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*tour* [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:29 PM Flag
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Last year at Nest they made you show your 99 score before letting you in to the tour. Not allowed to tour with a 97 or 98. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:32 PM Flag
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it's so easy to alter the score using a copy machine... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:34 PM Flag
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Really? I don't recall that. I remember them checking scores, but I thought they were looking for a 97. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:35 PM Flag
[ - ] Someone I know just told me that her accelerated nursing degree will cost her close to 75K. I am shocked. Is this even worth it? How much money do nurses make these days? 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:10 PM Flag
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Over $100k [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:13 PM Flag
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But doesn't this seems excessive, 75K for 1 year of school? I thought it was around 20k actually. Silly me! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:16 PM Flag
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You're underestimating nurses. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:36 PM Flag
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about 75k [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:13 PM Flag
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Given that kindergarten costs $41.5k. ..seems cheap [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:14 PM Flag
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LOL [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:15 PM Flag
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Yes, it's worth it. It's a high-demand job and nurses get paid well. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:16 PM Flag
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Yup, plus you can do it anywhere in the country [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:22 PM Flag
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And have some flexibility in scheduling. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:24 PM Flag
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If I could do it over, I would have gone into nursing [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:26 PM Flag
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How old are you? From what I hear, many people, men and women chose nursing as a second career. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:37 PM Flag
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She makes back her investment in one year. Pretty good [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:22 PM Flag
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knowing how to protect yourself from Ebola with proper gear is priceless. at least she'll learn that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:27 PM Flag
[ - ] Anyone have twins vaginally? How was the recovery? I'm due with twins in a few weeks and since baby A is head down, my ob says we are good to go. Wondering what the collateral damage will be after reading the 10lb baby post below (these will be 5 & 6 lbs). 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:07 PM Flag
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I did! I had 1 ds first then the twins. I had stitches wth both and recovery was definitely harder w 2 but mostly just exhaustion not pain. Good luck! It can be done!!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:18 PM Flag
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My friend had one twin vaginally and then needed a c-section for #2. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:20 PM Flag
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well....accept that no matter how you have those lovely babies, your body will never be the same and not in a good way. I have loose ugly skin on my belly after 2 babies, sex sucked for the first year, I developed dandruff on my nose and cellulite which i didn't have just before delivering. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:20 PM Flag
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Or above. Do not listen to Debbie [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:21 PM Flag
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NP: what a lovely thing to share with someone. Get a life [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:23 PM Flag
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Really? OP wants to know about the damage. Should we lie and say 'oh your body will bounce back to exactly what it was pre-pregnancy'. That would be just cruel [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:28 PM Flag
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Shut up. Cellulite details is not what she wanted to hear about. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:32 PM Flag
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My body returned to the same tone and shape. I gained weight but it's in the same places I would have gained weight pre-pregnancy. Haven't lost it yet b/c I'm lazy. Everyone is different - twin mom here [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:33 PM Flag
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A lot of twin moms push hard on the first twin and the second one comes out easier [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:22 PM Flag
[ - ] Posted before but can't find responses - an agency mailing us every week, claiming we haven't paid for a magazine subscription to DH. He didn't order mag. We thought it was a little odd when we got a few months but didn't think anything more about it. Then started getting these letters. They indicate that if we contact them, they are entitled to use any of that info to collect the debt. What should I do? Who goes to such lengths to collect for a mag sub which we NEVER ordered in first place? Feel like this is a bait and switch. 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:06 PM Flag
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Don't respond [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:06 PM Flag
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tell them it's fraud and that you will contact the attorney general office in your state if they don't stop harassing you. put it in writing, certified mail. that will probably solve it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:07 PM Flag
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ITA [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:22 PM Flag
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Could it be that there is another debt they are trying to collect and the magazine is the bait. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:13 PM Flag
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Meant bait? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:14 PM Flag
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It's probably fraud. Does the mailing tell you which magazine subscription? I would call the magazine subscription corporate office directly and ask to speak to someone in subscriptions to find out if it's legit. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:14 PM Flag
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I responded. That happened to me. I sent a letter to the AGs office, the BBB, the whole 9 years. They still harrassed me for months and lowered my credit. Nip this in the bud. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:14 PM Flag
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Just ignore. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:23 PM Flag
[ - ] possible ebola at bellevue 29 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:00 PM Flag
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Okay. Get back to me when it's confirmed as a real case. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:02 PM Flag
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Thanks town crier. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:03 PM Flag
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I'm kind of over it now. Apparently the second nurse (Amber) is no longer showing any signs of the virus. http://www.people.com/article/dallas-nurse-amber-vinson-no-longer-has-ebola [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:03 PM Flag
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good to hear. this guy came from guinea last week- a doctor. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:04 PM Flag
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Sigh. Poor guy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:05 PM Flag
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who did not self quarantine. Idiot [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:09 PM Flag
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i am here. news is everywhere. yikes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:02 PM Flag
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Yeah, I've been a naysayer against the fear-inducing trolls but this one could be real since he worked with Ebola patients, and it is inside the most likely incubation window 8-10 days. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:09 PM Flag
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All it takes is one ... Weakest link syndrome [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:15 PM Flag
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What I don't understand is why this doctor wasn't monitoring himself? Did the fever come out of nowhere and this is first sign? If so, then hopefully he is not in the contagious stage yet. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:09 PM Flag
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because he is a moron - he was at a bowling alley in Brooklyn yesterday - contacts could be hundreds!!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:11 PM Flag
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Cite? Daily News said he self-quarantined. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:18 PM Flag
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Okay, I read it. But it sounds as if he was not near anyone and called as soon as he developed any symptoms. So far (knock on wood), no one seems to have been infected before the symptoms show up and even in the early stages of symptoms. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:29 PM Flag
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OP: ok- well i am getting out of here and going home. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:10 PM Flag
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huh? are you AT bellvue? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:12 PM Flag
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yup! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:13 PM Flag
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look for me-i will be the freaked out looking girl walking out of the hospital door on the news tonight... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:15 PM Flag
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hahaha! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:19 PM Flag
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Stuff will get interesting for you shortly ... I was in quarantine for SARS. Your family, friends and neighbors will all act very differently if this turns into a thing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:21 PM Flag
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were you close to the isolation area? Maybe you should self quarantine? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:22 PM Flag
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I am in psych dept. Just left and heading home! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:34 PM Flag
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It's good that he was taken directly to a hospital set up to deal with this. The spread in Texas seemed to be with hospital workers, and in the other hospitals that had ebola patients but were were knowledgeable, there haven't been other cases so far. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:29 PM Flag
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You are ignorant and should be fired [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:28 PM Flag
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OK we will have him shipped to your workplace. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:36 PM Flag
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Welcome back ebola mom. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:23 PM Flag
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He came in already identified and Bellevue has proper isolation procedures in place. Staff has no reason to panic. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:27 PM Flag
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This. It's Bellevue, not Texas General [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:30 PM Flag
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that's what she said! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:30 PM Flag
[ - ] I don't understand why US trained tax-payer sponsored doctors go abroad to treat patients in 3rd world countries while so many people in the US don't have access to the most basis health care. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 07:59 PM Flag
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1) We all do have access to the most basic health care. Any one of us could show up at any er anywhere in this country and they would be obligated to treat us. 2) If we don't stop ebola on the ground in Africa where it's spreading rapidly, we'll have a much bigger health crisis to deal with when it reaches the US and swamps our system. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:02 PM Flag
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Doctors who go abroad are usually very wealthy or have sponsorship for the volunteer trip, and they get to be hailed as heroes for being so selfless. Doctors who work or volunteer in underserved US areas usually just get bombarded with paperwork and then sued for malpractice, all while being snubbed for "only being able to get work in poor areas". [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:03 PM Flag
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+1 "Medecins sans frontiers" can't be sued for malpractice and they win awards. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:07 PM Flag
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One word Liability. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:18 PM Flag
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MD Mom. I completely agree with you, but I cannot say this in real life. Nobody praises you or giving you awards at galas for taking care of uninsured patients. A couple of docs that I know that loooove to spend 2-3 months a year going to medical missions, put a lot of strain on their partners who need to see more patients and do more work. My friend did a study survey of medical personnel who regularly participate in medical missions, and he found that their responses about their motivations were strange: a lot of wording like " You get addicted", "I was hooked", basically, like they need to feel important or to feel connected, and they do not get that in their lives otherwise. Also, my feeling is that meeting the healthcare void in a 3rd world country somehow relieves its government of responsibility toward its citizens. Yet, somehow, none of these issues are ever discussed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:33 PM Flag
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Uninsured patients here in the US< I mean [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:33 PM Flag
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seriously, WTF? thank you for your candor. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:37 PM Flag
[ - ] Shot in the dark: are there stores that sell used tv's in Brooklyn or Manhattan? Besides pawn shops. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 07:53 PM Flag
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Craigslist [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 07:54 PM Flag
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no I'm looking for brick and mortar-op [ Reply | More ]
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Maybe In alphabet city, there are some weird shops there [ Reply | More ]
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this. avenue a, b, 1 and maybe 2 btw. 14th and 8th. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:00 PM Flag
[ - ] A co-worker of mine is very hostile and stern towards me. She's a very matter-of-fact, intelligent person and is a bit cold to everyone, but I've noticed lately that she dismisses everything I say (yet will agree with someone else who suggests same idea in same context) and is very abrupt with me. She does not treat anyone else like this. She's more senior than I am but in a different group/domain. She probably hates me, right? 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 07:52 PM Flag
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Threatened by you [ Reply | More ]
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No way at all! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 07:57 PM Flag
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I say she's not threatened by me because she's more senior than I am. She also rolls her eyes a lot (in a subtle way, if you can imagine) around me or pauses and speaks slowly around me as if I were slow. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 07:58 PM Flag
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you'd be suprised [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 07:59 PM Flag
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Yes she does. Sorry. It is s*cks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 07:54 PM Flag
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I realize we don't all like each other but have never confronted this in my career. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 07:57 PM Flag
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Probably, but that can change. The same happened to me, now that she knows me-she likes me, and treats me properly. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 07:56 PM Flag
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Be respectful of her, but do not kow tow [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 07:57 PM Flag
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OP here, we've worked together for a few years. I'm trying really hard to pinpoint what might have happened or led her to dislike me so much. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 07:59 PM Flag
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"kill" her with kindness [ Reply | More ]
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I do, and I stay confident around her (not defensive, though). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:00 PM Flag
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i know it's hard. just keep being kind and document if necessary in cash she tries to screw you over. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:04 PM Flag
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Yes, hates you and thinks you're useless. [ Reply | More ]
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That's how I treat the people that I think are dumb in my office. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:18 PM Flag
[ - ] At what age can you start putting a baby on a schedule? 1 mos? 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 07:46 PM Flag
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First day [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
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General Topics 10.23.14, 07:56 PM Flag
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+3. If you choose not to feed on demand, then you can schedule feedings staring day 1. My twins were NICU babies and were scheduled like this from their birth. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:23 PM Flag
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Losers. I started in-utero. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:05 PM Flag
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My eggs were on a monthly schedule. [ Reply | More ]
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I started at 6 weeks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 07:50 PM Flag
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My baby is 11 weeks and we are just sort of getting into a schedule but its still pretty loose at this point. Breastfeeding is harder in my opinion. I pump/bottle feed so I feel like its been easier to create a schedule. Breastfeeding/clusterfeeding makes it harder in my opinion! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 07:50 PM Flag
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That's what I did and we just didn't really have a schedule. Dd always slept 7pm-7am and was generally happy so I just let her eat and sleep whenever, as much she wanted during the day. She's 2.5 now and naps most afternoons, is still a great nighttime sleeper. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:20 PM Flag
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You did have a schedule - she just put herself on it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:34 PM Flag
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sleep schedule? around 5 mos. earlier than that, it will be like banging your head against a brick wall [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:23 PM Flag
[ - ] Here we go nyc http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2805488/Doctor-treated-Ebola-patients-Africa-rushed-New-York-hospital-103F-fever-nausea.html 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 07:46 PM Flag
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Well, sh!t [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 07:53 PM Flag
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exactly. Fine with me if people want to go to africa and help others but then when you return you need to self quarantine! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 07:55 PM Flag
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So irresponsible [ Reply | More ]
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not 10 days ago look at his fb page he was in brussels only a week agohttps://www.facebook.com/craig.spencer.1884 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:05 PM Flag
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all these people on the planes with him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:09 PM Flag
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and the bowling alley YESTERDAY! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:12 PM Flag
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he went bowling yest??! [ Reply | More ]
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That's ok, you don't touch much at a bowling alley [ Reply | More ]
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people are so selfish. He knew he was at risk! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:20 PM Flag
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What a moron. I mean sure it sounds so selfless he goes to Africa to treat patients but then he just comes back home and goes on like nothing. Knowing that you have been in close contact with ebola patients in ebola ridden region, he should have not flown back period. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:27 PM Flag
[ - ] Divorced moms, did you do anything special after your divorce or was it just too depressing? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 07:44 PM Flag
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my BFF threw her rings in the Atlantic. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 07:45 PM Flag
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my BFF threw her rings in the Atlantic. [ Reply | More ]
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that was stupid. she should have sold it to the higest bidder and donated the money to charity [ Reply | More ]
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I put my wedding dress in the good will box. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 07:47 PM Flag
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Bought a new mattress and new linens. Never wanted to sleep on the same sheets that I slept with ex-DH again. And sold his gold wedding ring that I had. [ Reply | More ]
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Got a makeover [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Stop! Stop answering the SAHM troll below. Ugh, I love you guys but you're so clueless sometimes! 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 07:43 PM Flag
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But she's infuriating! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 07:49 PM Flag
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That's her point. She's a troll. And she's a really stupid, obvious one at that. I am begging you, be smarter than that I would rather see 15 spin offs of the same topic than let her make MP at our expense. [ Reply | More ]
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It's game. How long does it take the troll to get to: "Men and women are different. Because they JUST ARE." [ Reply | More ]
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^^^In this case, roughly 20 minutes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 07:51 PM Flag
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Yep! You can always tell it's her because she's the only OP who will respond to everyone with the intention of starting a fight. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:01 PM Flag
[ - ] My ex loved bjs and he loved anal. Sex- eh, not the same. We had regular sex but not as much as the other stuff- bjs and anal. WTF? 40 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 07:42 PM Flag
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Are you dense? Gay. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 07:43 PM Flag
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op: he loved my breasts though, my ass-- touching! went down on me! I'm not dense. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 07:44 PM Flag
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There are different levels of being gay. Some still like some lady parts! Those are a few years away from coming out! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 07:51 PM Flag
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op: I was thinking about that too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 07:52 PM Flag
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Sometimes they never come out and stay in the closet forever. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 07:59 PM Flag
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np. You ARE dense. Going down on you, paying a lot of attention to your breasts, etc. = classic ways for a guy to keep you satisfied enough that you don't push too hard for vaginal sex. Because he's desperate to avoid your vagina. Truly, you don't see that? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:37 PM Flag
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My ex never liked anal or even going near it, but only liked bj's. It was almost impossible to get him do regular sex. He would beg me to finish with bj and not do regular. (before and post baby) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 07:46 PM Flag
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see!!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 07:47 PM Flag
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It is very possible I am dating your exDH. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 07:48 PM Flag
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OR and you don't think gay? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 07:50 PM Flag
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He has some other attributes that would suggest a closet case, but I have a finely-tuned gaydar as just about 3/4 of my friends are gay men. I think he's just lazy and old. He wants to get off and doesn't want to get off but doesn't really want to put effort into it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:09 PM Flag
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In my experience these men are a few years away from coming out. I knew men well into their 60's who want to have regular sex. If he only wants bj's there is something else wrong here. What do you get out of it? does he at least reciprocate? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:14 PM Flag
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But why not come out at some point in your 14 years of marriage, or in your 6 years post-divorce? Some men want regular sex well into their 60s. Some don't even want it that much in their 30s. Everyone is different. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:26 PM Flag
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I think closet case [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:28 PM Flag
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I will keep your blind diagnosis in mind. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:32 PM Flag
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And you are ok with just oral (assuming he goes down on you too?) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 07:59 PM Flag
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Eh ... I would prefer more sex. Definitely. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:22 PM Flag
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my dh likes bj's and anal. he also watches porn. i accused him of being gay. he schooled me immediately. he pointed out that gay men dont watch straight porn. i would never have thought of that [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 07:45 PM Flag
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op: I was thinking- ass is so tight- it has to be better that the V. AND bjs must be so much feeling and stimulation. In this was, makes sense. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 07:48 PM Flag
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i think it is the tightness and BJ's are imp to men becuase it is very intimate for them and it shows that you are very into them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 07:49 PM Flag
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Are your BJ's essentially hand jobs? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 07:50 PM Flag
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op: NOT AT ALL. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 07:52 PM Flag
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No truth to that. My sister is gay and watches straight porn; I'm straight and watch gay male porn. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 07:50 PM Flag
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now this is something for logic class... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:00 PM Flag
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Looking for tightest options. Masturbates too much. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 07:47 PM Flag
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op: mmm and how should I have gotten him to like regular sex better? SO CURIOUS! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 07:50 PM Flag
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direct him to your vagina [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 07:50 PM Flag
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op: yeah but I would rather he wanted it. that he was dying for it like the other stuff. not me- directing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 07:52 PM Flag
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How long have you been with him and has he always been like that? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 07:55 PM Flag
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We are over- we were together less than a year. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 07:54 PM Flag
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Was he like that from the beginning or did he just get too comfy with you and lazy? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:17 PM Flag
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I find it impossible with these me. I tried with exdh for many years and was not able to make him like regular sex in any position. He only wanted bj's. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 07:54 PM Flag
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op: And he wasn't gay? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 07:54 PM Flag
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I definitely think he was, but apparently he is dating a women now. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 07:56 PM Flag
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op: did he like boobs? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 07:55 PM Flag
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He likes flat chested women and hated big boobs. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:00 PM Flag
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^^^btw many gay men love boobs [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:18 PM Flag
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Your jay jay stinks [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 07:50 PM Flag
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Gay or another one ruined by porn. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:06 PM Flag
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Tell him you want to suck his cock or stick it up your ass. That should drive them nuts. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.23.14, 08:24 PM Flag
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