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[ - ] Really miss cuddling and snuggling with a guy :( Oh welll...guess I'll be dead at some point 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 05:15 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 05:29 AM Flag
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shit, you too? how come? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 05:32 AM Flag
[ - ] Why is there such a cultural taboo in the west against having sex with your hot cousins? Not even mating with them, but just having some fun together? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 05:06 AM Flag
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Who knows. It is a very new concept. Last fifty years, really. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 05:10 AM Flag
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there is? awwww shit [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 05:34 AM Flag
[ - ] I don't particularly love them, but at least I vaguely understand why young, single girls are on here. I have no earthly idea why young, single guys are on here. 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 05:02 AM Flag
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it's one of the few anonymous, unmoderated forums left on the internet. this has wide appeal. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 05:03 AM Flag
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So you're saying if the mods step up their game, you'll go back to Reddit or wherever the hell you came from? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 05:04 AM Flag
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how is it not moderated?? there'a a flag button. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 05:07 AM Flag
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It's not well-moderated... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 05:12 AM Flag
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Don't people get frequently banned here? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 05:13 AM Flag
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Not nearly frequently enough. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 05:15 AM Flag
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What other anonymous, unmoderated forums are there? I'm guessing 4chan. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 05:16 AM Flag
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See? Single, childless guys, please head back to 4Chan. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 05:23 AM Flag
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why don't you particularly love young single girls? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 05:27 AM Flag
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Because this is a PARENTING website. However, I at least understand why the young girls are on here, and they are tolerable as long as they are not too innane ("Omg, I'm turning 22 tomorrow. When did I get so OLD?!") [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 05:29 AM Flag
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what else bothers you about young single girls? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 05:31 AM Flag
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Nothing. IRL the ones I know are all perfectly lovely. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 05:34 AM Flag
[ - ] Would you be grossed-out/offended if DH asked you to give him a prostate massage? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 04:51 AM Flag
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Use a glove. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 04:55 AM Flag
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not at all. i would love to penetrate a man. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 05:14 AM Flag
[ - ] I am so upset right now. Thanksgiving was very hard for me ( I just left my marriage due to spousal abuse) and my best friend called me up after dinner and gave me some support. I actually had thanksgiving dinner with his cousin. Anyways, his wife texted me acting like a lunatic, telling me to back off and calling me all these horrible things. And I just feel so bad. I'm already upset, why does she have to hurt me? 22 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 04:38 AM Flag
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You sound troubling. No effort to see her perspective? Everything in your post is me me me. Why is your best friend a man? You are confiding personal information to a married guy and he's calling you on a family holiday. If you are not also close with the wife, something is off here. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 04:43 AM Flag
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I have known this man since the day I was born. I have known his wife for four years, we don't have similar interests. I don't pick my friends for their genitals, but this guy has always been there for me and I have always been there for him. Either way, she had no right to say the things she did. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 04:46 AM Flag
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Don't piss in her territory. He married her. Find a therapist to talk to. And grow up. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 04:49 AM Flag
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So, because I'm a female friend she is allowed to berate me and call me horrible names? And I'm sorry I'm upset and want to talk to my friend, divorce does that to a person. And their marriage is another story altogether. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 04:53 AM Flag
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You don't seem to respect the adjustments that go along with a friend getting married, and it seems you ARE disrespectful of her. You should see a therapist about boundary issues and everything else that has happened. Again, it's a therapist you should be talking to. Not creating drama elsewhere. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 04:54 AM Flag
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Let's say she gets a therapist- her friends aren't allowed to be there for her? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 05:00 AM Flag
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Nothing is that black-white simple. She needs a therapist to unravel everythign that's been unsaid in this UB exchange. There is obviously a lot going on, and the OP clearly seems to lack maturity. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 05:04 AM Flag
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She does need a therapist, I'll agree. But she is allowed to have male friends, even married ones. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 05:07 AM Flag
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Np: yikes. You need to set up boundaries asap. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 04:57 AM Flag
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There have never been boundaries between us. That would be like setting up boundaries between a sibling. Strange. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 04:58 AM Flag
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Last time: You need to see a therapist. Things change when friends get married. Pay someone to help you grow up. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 04:57 AM Flag
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NP: You sound crazy. The wife needs therapy- who does that? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 05:07 AM Flag
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+1. The wife is correct. oP overstepping. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 05:32 AM Flag
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Are you sleeping with him? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 04:49 AM Flag
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N.O. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 04:49 AM Flag
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I'm sorry OP, for what you went for with your ex. Your friend seems like a great guy to be there for you during the holidays. Assuming his wife knows you well, this seems pretty off-base. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 04:53 AM Flag
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My guess is the friend is using OP as leverage against his wife. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 04:53 AM Flag
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What do you mean? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 05:09 AM Flag
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That's terrible. She's a nut job. Ignore. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 04:58 AM Flag
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Give some space. Step away from the husband and in a little while start to form a relationship with his wife FIRST. You are not married anymore, you cannot have a relationship with purge people's husbands. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 05:30 AM Flag
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Other [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 05:31 AM Flag
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Ask your friend why his wife feels threatened by you. I am sorry you went through abuse and divorce, that's really tough . But she clearly feels threatened, and is less interested in your situation than her own - and can you blame her? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 05:31 AM Flag
[ - ] Feel bad. I snapped (a bit) after dinner after vowing not to do so. She is very critical and likes to point out mistakes and argue about things - if u say black, she says white, etc. - it's who she is, nothing personal. But after 6 hours of being "corrected" about everything, I just couldn't take it anymore! 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 04:30 AM Flag
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who is she? mil? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 04:31 AM Flag
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I hate people like that [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 04:31 AM Flag
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To clarify I'm talking about MIL. I didn't snap at her directly -- I just said with a long sigh and in angry tone, "Can you just give me a break, please! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 04:33 AM Flag
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We come from a culture where u never criticize mothers so everyone looked at me like I was being disrespectful. Feel really bad! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 04:34 AM Flag
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they probably feel the same way inside. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 04:37 AM Flag
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good for you. i don't see a problem with that response. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 04:35 AM Flag
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I'm telling myself that. But relatives are currently avoiding eye contact and the atmosphere has turned awkward. I really was trying to hold my tongue - I swear, it just slipped!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 04:37 AM Flag
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my god, the way you're talking about it, it's like you killed a family pet or something. calm down. you really haven't done anything wrong. your mil was asking for it. are you indian? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 05:18 AM Flag
[ - ] My friend's mother is about to pass. She wants funny videos etc to distract her. Any suggestions? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 04:24 AM Flag
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What's up Doc (1972) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 04:44 AM Flag
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thanks [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 04:45 AM Flag
[ - ] why do some hot guys settle for ugly women at like 24 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 04:23 AM Flag
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Low self esteem and lack of experience with women so they cling to the first one that gives them attention and affection [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 04:27 AM Flag
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THIS. And the ugly ones lay it on thick and are aggressive in bed so the guys fall for it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 04:29 AM Flag
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Some people are attracted to character and personality more so than looks. Maybe that is what they found. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 04:37 AM Flag
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This [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 04:50 AM Flag
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See, here's my perspective.. If a bro has such low self esteem that he is willing to overlook physical deficiencies and date an ugly, there's also a strong possibility he is overlooking her character flaws as well. He may be so beta that all he cares about is the fact that the girl likes him , even if she is a terrible person, AND ugly. That was the case for me at one point when I was in my early 20s. I dated one chick for far too long who was not only fairly weak aesthetics-wise (she was just great at makeup) but also had a terrible personality. Luckily I wised up and built up enough confidence to dump her - was an incredibly easy decision for me at that point. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 04:59 AM Flag
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I'm sure she is devstated that she's not married to a childless dude who trolls mommy forums. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 05:04 AM Flag
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wow, you must have a really tiny penis. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 05:19 AM Flag
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He used the word "beta", so I'm willing to bet it's 3 inches, rock hard, at an absolute maximum. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 05:26 AM Flag
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Yup. Also balding. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 05:30 AM Flag
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He used the word "beta", so I'm willing to bet it's 3 inches, rock hard, at an absolute maximum. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 05:26 AM Flag
[ - ] Confession, I have become the worst mother ever. My 20 month old ds refuses to eat any normal food. He has not gained any weight since August. The pediatrician is concerned. So last week I caved and bought him a happy meal. He ate in within minutes. So I bought him another one. Fast forward, he is now on a mcdonalds/ pizza diet. Am I awful? I am just glad he is finally eating. 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 04:20 AM Flag
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If he will eat pizza, that's good. I would try to go heavy on the pizza, light on the mcd's [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 04:23 AM Flag
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Op. Yes he will eat pizza. Today he ate a slice of warmed up pizza. He would not touch any of the thanksgiving meal. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 04:22 AM Flag
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Yum [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 04:24 AM Flag
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Don't worry, I had a kid like that, didn't want to eat, so skinny. I fed him a lot of fries just to get food in him. He is now 7, still thin but healthy and eats a lot more things. Do what you have to do [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 04:29 AM Flag
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Thanks [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 04:27 AM Flag
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If you have a picky eater, it's about control. Find a vegetable and a protein that he likes and will eat, and if he doesn't want to eat what the family is eating, he can get the veg/protein and eat that instead. No cajoling, no tricks, no fighting. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 04:29 AM Flag
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He will not eat any vegetables. I can sometimes make him take a few bites of breaded chicken, but that's it. If it weren't for chocolate whole milk, I think he'd have starved by now. Like I said he stopped gaining weight months ago. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 04:31 AM Flag
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"I can sometimes make him take a few bites of breaded chicken" -- I understand you mean you can cajole him into it, but you realize you actually can't make him eat anything? When toddler eating goes over the deep end like this, it's a control battle. It's not about food or taste. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 05:06 AM Flag
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Did you have a picky eater? Np [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 04:32 AM Flag
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You can actually sneak a lot into pizza if you make it yourself: whole grain crusts, puréed veggies in the sauce. Almost anything you want him to eat can be puréed and hidden under yummy cheese. Btdt [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 04:29 AM Flag
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Thanks I will try this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 04:31 AM Flag
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^^he will not eat whole grain crust, btdt. My only fear is if I try to sneak veggies in, he will notice and then go on a pizza strike. Which leaves us with mcdonalds [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 04:35 AM Flag
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spoon feed [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 04:38 AM Flag
[ - ] I'm loving the AFFAIR! 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.28.14, 04:15 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
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