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[ - ] Big deal for child to miss last week (2.5 days) of public school? Why does the DOE end school so late, all the while having two school system related days off in June? They seriously need to revamp this. We also don’t need 7 days off in April. And we could start right after Labor Day. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 03:09 PM Flag
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only big deal in 4th and 7th grade if already have few absenses [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 03:12 PM Flag
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I took my dd out of school for the last two days last year so she could start camp. I won't do that when she's in 4th grade, but for now this is want was best for her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 03:13 PM Flag
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odd that you focus on April which is passover and easter. The Feb week has been discussed about being shortened from what I was told. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 03:18 PM Flag
[ - ] Why do you think we don’t have more ‘bring your own containers and refill them’ type shopping yet? It’s obvious single use packaging is killing the earth. Would you be willing to do it? Especially non food items like shampoo, liquid soap, detergent, etc. They should have big dispensers at the stores for this already. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 03:07 PM Flag
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Why should the responsibility fall on end-users? Why not ban all plastic manufacturing at the source? How many water bottles do we discard per day in this country? Who keeps churning out more to meet the endless demand? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 03:10 PM Flag
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because its hard to carry all this stuff around manhattan with you on your shoulder have to make other stops on the way, or go to office [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 03:13 PM Flag
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Bird brain alert [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 03:17 PM Flag
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I would welcome this. I bring my own bags already. I can can bring my own containers too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 03:19 PM Flag
[ - ] The scale says I gained 7.5 lbs in a day. Weighed both days in the morning in same PJs. How is this possible? I didn’t even eat carbs yesterday and stuck to a 4 hour eating window. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 03:01 PM Flag
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I move my scale around the bathroom and take the best of three weights. I think there is a dip or seam in my floor. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 03:08 PM Flag
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Did you eat salty Asian? Are you on your period? Were you super low for some reason the day before? I can easily gain 5 but it is usually a big meal on top of that time of the month. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 03:10 PM Flag
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Silly to weigh yourself every day. Go by how your clothes fit. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 03:11 PM Flag
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Rule #1: don't weigh yourself every day. Rule #2: weight is not only fluctuating because of FAT gain and loss, a lot of weight is water weight and also muscle weighs more than fat, hormonal fluctuations can increase swelling in certain body tissues increasing the weight temporarily, which isn't a fat gain. Look at yourself in the mirror and see how your clothes fit - this should give you a better idea whether you are making progress or not, weight will consistently come off at some point as you make progress. If you do extensive weight training you also will notice your weight increase at first as muscle weighs more than fat. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 03:12 PM Flag
[ - ] Lawn mowing mom here. I looked at the responses and gave it some thought. I do tend toward martyr. I have been working and managing everything. When my dh blows off my requests to bring in help i feel abandoned and it makes me reactive and unstable. He on the other hand does not priortize how the house and yard look at all. He shuts down and does nit understand why im so upset. I did not handle things well, but we are shopping for a landscaper just to cut, edge and blow out leaves seasonally. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:49 PM Flag
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You still have to deal with weeding, tree trimming and fertilizing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:52 PM Flag
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No i dont. I dont want fertilizer. My grass is weeds really, just kept cut and i dont care. We never trim our trees [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 03:03 PM Flag
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Maybe look at it in terms of hours per week spent on the house and yard and put a cap on the total number of hours you are willing to work and the rest goes undone or hire more help. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:58 PM Flag
[ - ] How much money do you feel like you need to retire? When do you plan on retiring? 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:31 PM Flag
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Single Mom...about $10-12 million...plan to retire at 58. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:32 PM Flag
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you must be joking [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:34 PM Flag
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Is that not enough? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:39 PM Flag
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Not this again.... Collapsing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:32 PM Flag
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byeeee [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:33 PM Flag
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$2 billion, 37 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:37 PM Flag
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Ideally I think $10 million for the 2 of us to be comfortable. That probably isn't realistic. But I'm hoping I get to at least $7. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:39 PM Flag
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I don't plan to retire, just to scale back. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:54 PM Flag
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Are you in an industry that will let you work until you're 70? So many kick you out in your 50s. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:59 PM Flag
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I hope to have between 6 and 7mm by age 60. I HOPE. If that happens I will find something to do I hope that just covers the bills (with no saving until) I’m 65. Then I can hopefully have 8-9mm which would make me feel ok retiring. I am single. I also on top of this would have home equity of at least 2mm [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 03:15 PM Flag
[ - ] Suggestions for where to buy my 2.5 year old DD a cool bed? I need to get her out of our bed. Don't know if it'll work, but it's worth a try. 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:25 PM Flag
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We went to Ikea and got the adjustable bed. When it fully extends it's a twin, but we have it on the middle setting for both my 3yo and 6yo DDs. We made a whole day out of it, went to the store, they got to pick their own bedding, they got some other toys there. So they felt like they had authority over choosing their own sleeping situations. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 03:19 PM Flag
[ - ] S/O At what point would you allow a child to swim with an adult other than you or DH supervising? What would the criteria be? 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:14 PM Flag
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Well...my DC does this several times a week at his swim team. He started at age 5. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:16 PM Flag
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Summer Camp before that ..age 4 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:17 PM Flag
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OP My kid does this too and also swims at friends' houses without my supervison. I was surprised by the anger about this in the MP post. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:19 PM Flag
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I was with the OP on that one. If my child is a good swimmer, has a parent assigned to them and it isn't an especially hectic setting I'd allow it at any age. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:17 PM Flag
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Depends on the kid, where, the nature of the outing and the adult [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:18 PM Flag
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DD had "gym and swim" in pre-school and they went went to a pool once a week. I didn't have any issues with it and that's where she learned to swim. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:19 PM Flag
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My brother and SIL have let me take my niece swimming since she was 6 months old [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:19 PM Flag
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OP So where were all of you on the post about rude 4 year old at a swim party? Lol. I agree it is fine in some circumstances but that didn't seem to be the opinion at all on that post. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:21 PM Flag
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"Rude" was supposed to be "the"... bad typo. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:22 PM Flag
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I think that was one nut posting repeatedly. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:23 PM Flag
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UB Moms think every male not their DH is a potential pedophile [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:23 PM Flag
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Except the responses to that post were that sending the little girl with the dad was fine but sending her to a pool party was not. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:23 PM Flag
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You mean the one in MP? I didn't really read that post with too much particularity. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:23 PM Flag
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Yes. Basically everyone thought OP was irresponsible for letting her kid go to a pool party without her. To me the circumstances made it a reasonable decision but that was not board consensus. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:25 PM Flag
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Didn't that post come up yesterday along with French Fry Mom and other ridiculous posts? I tend to zone out on weekend posts because they're usually something crazy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:26 PM Flag
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The responses were the crazy part. Or really, all of it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 03:10 PM Flag
[ - ] A friend tells me her 20-something daughter was diagnosed with autism. She's saying this is why her daughter hasn't been able to find a job (she also hasn't been looking). I told her it's probably not something her daughter should disclose to potential employers and she got all pissed at me. WWYD? 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:58 PM Flag
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Give her time to cool off. She is dealing with a lot right now and you couldn't have known that she wasn't ready for advice and just wanted a sympathetic ear for now. She'll get over it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:04 PM Flag
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Thanks for being nice. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:21 PM Flag
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No one really wants other people to comment substantively on the stuff that's wrong with their kids. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:04 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
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100%! she just wanted you to be a sympathetic ear [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:06 PM Flag
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Please apologize to her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:07 PM Flag
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What would I do? Probably take a charm course. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:12 PM Flag
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file that under unsolicited advice that no one wants [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:15 PM Flag
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When people complain about their kids- the only correct response is to say how delightful you find the child. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:19 PM Flag
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This! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:39 PM Flag
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Thanks all. You're right. Insensitive of me. I'll apologize next time I see her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:21 PM Flag
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OP again. Assuming I can keep my mouth shut, do people agree that it is something you shouldn't disclose to employers? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:22 PM Flag
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Just my opinion, but you only need to disclose things that will potentially impact the work. If it will, the employer can made accommodations. At least they're supposed to if they choose to hire. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:29 PM Flag
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No, I disagree with your advice. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:39 PM Flag
[ - ] My MIL took 2.5 year old DD for most of the day on Saturday to give me some time to get stuff done at home (still with 11 month old DS). DH was away. It was very nice of her. This morning, my neighbor tells me that he saw her take the stroller over a curb and that the whole thing overturned with DD in it. Do you think she should've told me? (DD is fine and didn't say anything about it to me.) 20 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:48 PM Flag
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No. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:49 PM Flag
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Your neighbor is an *ss. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:49 PM Flag
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+1 what a jerk [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:57 PM Flag
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No. Accidents happen, people fall, including kids, no injuries, no worries. $100 says your neighbor thought he was busting the nanny. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:54 PM Flag
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OP - He knew it was my MIL. Our kids go to the same daycare. The reason he brought it up was because he said the same thing happened with his (same) stroller and suggested that I remove the double configuration adapter. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:55 PM Flag
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Who are you people with the neighbors who are always watching you [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:56 PM Flag
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OP - We live in Hoboken. Everyone on our floor has kids around the same age and most of them go to the daycare that is a block away. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:58 PM Flag
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okay, fair enough [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:00 PM Flag
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Suburban living. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:58 PM Flag
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They're always watching unless a child is swimming. Then nobody is watching. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:15 PM Flag
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HA! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:42 PM Flag
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Not at all. Everything was fine-- DD was unharmed, stroller not damaged. This happened to me when my oldest was about that age. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:57 PM Flag
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No. You're just looking for reasons to justify your dislike for and distrust of your MIL. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:57 PM Flag
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OP - Ha! I love my MIL. Just wondering what people thought. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:00 PM Flag
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It's ok if DD was ok. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:58 PM Flag
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No, i don't see why she'd tell you that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:15 PM Flag
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I'm sure she didn't want it to happen. If she is old, it might not be easy for her to push the stroller over a curb and she might fall alone with the stroller. No one is hurt, right? She was trying to help. Appreciate it. Life is hard. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:31 PM Flag
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I'm about as anti-MILs as anyone on here, but I've had a bizarre view from the other side of the divide. Have been puppy sitting, and I don't always tell my friend everything. She even mentioned some bright blue fibers in the poop, from an incident with a rope toy that happened at my house, but I pretended I knew nothing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:46 PM Flag
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But I did stop giving the puppy bones, because my friend thinks they're not safe. Not giving a dog a bone? What? But she's the mom. (We each have 3 kids, but I know nothing about dogs). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:48 PM Flag
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My dd fell down the stairs while staying at my parents house without me at age 2. My mom kept that a secret for years. If there was no harm, what I don't know doesn't hurt me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 03:21 PM Flag
[ - ] Besides the Ivies which group of schools give you the most bragging rights? Asking to settle an argument I overheard this weekend 98 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:41 PM Flag
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Whatever you overheard, I would march right up to the group and say: who cares? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:42 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:45 PM Flag
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Any school you can graduate from debt-free [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:44 PM Flag
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Morehouse!!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:47 PM Flag
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Can you even imagine that feeling? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:50 PM Flag
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Imagine how pissed off the parents are who made sacrifices and paid tuition so their kids could graduate without debt. [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
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I really, really don't want to nitpick such a generous gift, but I remember making decisions in college that were based on budget, and I passed up a lot of opportunities because taking them would have cost me debt. It's great that he did this, and a number of banks are going to be angry (yay!), but having the information four years earlier might have resulted in some very different education, career, work, internship, and summer job decisions that many of the students made. [ Reply | More ]
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Yeah you are nit picking and having known in advance would have made many people take things for granted or take advantage of the situation. [ Reply | More ]
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np Possibly, but all of those loans cost interest for four years, whether private or taxpayer-paid. Not taking out the loans in the first place is always better. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:09 PM Flag
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Most people defer. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:24 PM Flag
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Similar here. My grandparents died the year I graduated. The inheritance paid off my student loans. But my sister was still in high school and had a very different college experience because it was paid upfront. I'm grateful to this day, and I don't resent my sister's differences. But yes, before and after are a HUGE difference. [ Reply | More ]
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You are nitpicking and not a gracious person. It's a gift, a life-changing kind, the giver gets to decide what to give, no one else has the right to decide what would have been a better gift. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:13 PM Flag
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LOVE the thought behind the gift. But an endowment that reduced every student's cost every year might have been better. [ Reply | More ]
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Spelman for sure, but Morehouse doesn't seem to have the same level of cache that it once did... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:56 PM Flag
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Everyone who is criticizing this gift is awful. Please stop. The next time you make a gift of millions to help launch a graduating class of your college of choice, please feel free to do it your way. Until then, just be over there clapping and cheering for a generous gift. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 03:18 PM Flag
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+1. I know people from all backgrounds. Ivies don't give anyone bragging rights. College is college. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:27 PM Flag
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You don’t think people would brag more about getting into and graduating from Yale as opposed to Pace or Mercy? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:31 PM Flag
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Depends where you live and in some cases, your religion. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:52 PM Flag
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If you're discussing "bragging rights" as some kind of goal you're doing higher education wrong [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:53 PM Flag
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Who is this holier than thou poster lately who must come in to judge everyone and every post. You ask which job pays more money? she comes in and pity you for being so materialistic. You wonder which school has a better reputation? She judges you for caring so much what other people think. If you're not interested in this topic, please move on. You must be really un-fun in real life, I bet everyone calls you grumpy old fart behind your back. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:06 PM Flag
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OP didn't say it was a goal. You're projecting. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:06 PM Flag
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100%! simply getting into a top college and graduating from there, shouldn't be the be all and end all of accomplishments. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:07 PM Flag
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Why were you eavesdropping on someone else's conversation? That's creepy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:55 PM Flag
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Do you put in earplugs when you go out in public? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:58 PM Flag
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No, but I also don't actively remember shallow conversations and drag them onto UB. [ Reply | More ]
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It's no big deal, really. UB is the perfect place for this type of thing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:44 PM Flag
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Troll [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:55 PM Flag
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In our circle Ivies do not give the most bragging rights, it's MIT, Caltech and Carnegie Mellon before Ivies. In other circles (regional), I know SMU and Rice give you more bragging rights in Texas, and USC and Stanford in CA. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:59 PM Flag
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USC? Not really. [ Reply | More ]
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USC is very prestigious in some circles in SoCal. UB easter coasters don't want to hear it but it's true in CA, much more bragging rights sending your kids to USC than Cornell. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:02 PM Flag
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For film school maybe? [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:46 PM Flag
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I can believe that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 03:16 PM Flag
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USC has like 20x the number of people with HHI in top 1% than the UC schools. Maybe you aren't familiar with demographics and what is attractive to certain types of families? [ Reply | More ]
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NP you can almost tell how much someone knows or has worked in the west coast by how well they regard USC. [ Reply | More ]
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+1. Very bragworthy. Also elitist. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 03:08 PM Flag
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Ha. Getting into the film school at USC is very prestigious. But maybe it is just a West Coast thing. [ Reply | More ]
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In some circles people don't give a shit about Cornell, Dartmouth and Brown. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:01 PM Flag
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No offense to Cornell, which is an amazing school, but i feel like Andy from The Office is their stereotypical graduate, sorry - not brag-worthy [ Reply | More ]
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Agree. People I know from Cornell tend to be pretty smart, top of their class from their suburban high school, but not that worldly. Big fish from small ponds. [ Reply | More ]
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But the most annoying is my grad school classmate who graduated from the College of Human Nutrition and always tells people she went to "Cornell." [ Reply | More ]
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np: Cornell people often assume you think it is a big deal, that's what makes it so unattractive. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:43 PM Flag
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Same as UPenn and Hunter people [ Reply | More ]
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Not like UPenn people. They are the absolute worst. Especially those who say they graduated from Wharton, knowing people will assume they mean an MBA from the biz school and they are only talking about being an undergrad. [ Reply | More ]
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UPenn = Penn State to many in the country [ Reply | More ]
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Many people from small ponds from my top 10 law school are doing better nowadays than the worldly pricks from NJ and NYC. [ Reply | More ]
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Again, that's a small-pond, chip-on-your-shoulder comment. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:51 PM Flag
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This. In CA kids have lots of good schools to choose from, private universities like Stanford/CalTech and USC, very good liberal arts colleges in LA area, plus excellent UC system schools with lower in state tuition, which are hard to get into. If your kid can get into UCB or UCLA or even UCD/UCSD, you are likely to not give a hoot about Cornell, Dartmouth and Brown, especially given the costs. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 03:20 PM Flag
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+1 I'll be proud of my kids no matter what they do after high school, as long as they are doing their best and they are happy. But I'd very secretly be much prouder if they got into Stanford than an Ivy. [ Reply | More ]
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+2 [ Reply | More ]
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Just 2?!?!? Lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:13 PM Flag
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Texan here. SMU and Rice are not remotely the same. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:15 PM Flag
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Another Texan: THIS! WTH [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:19 PM Flag
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Ditto! Rice, Austin College, Southwestern, Trinity... those are the schools to brag about. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:44 PM Flag
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Wait, so SMU is lower on the totem pole than Rice? I know a few now-atheists who had rather unpleasant experiences at Baylor, but that's all I know about TX colleges ... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:47 PM Flag
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Definitely. Baylor isn't that great either. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:55 PM Flag
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Texans love their football!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 03:01 PM Flag
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yep those are very good schools, plus UT Austin Plan II and of course Harvard, Yale, Stanford, MIT, etc. We do know about those schools too! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:50 PM Flag
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Agree Rice is a lot more prestigious but the Dallas crowd brag about SMU because it is the most expensive college in the country and you have a good chance of finding a rich husband there. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:46 PM Flag
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General Topics 05.20.19, 02:55 PM Flag
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Harvard gives you more bragging everywhere over Rice, USC, Carnegie Mellon, and Caltech. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:34 PM Flag
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DEFINITELY not over CMU and CalTech everywhere. You must be over 60 and don't know anyone who works in science and tech. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:38 PM Flag
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Ha! I got into Rice from NYC in the 80s and I keep telling people "It's a great school!" and got back blank stares. It IS a great school and I probably should have gone there. [ Reply | More ]
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It is a great school. SMU? Please. It is not bad but not in the same reputation league as Rice. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:53 PM Flag
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Plus a million. Rice is a pretty campus too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 03:12 PM Flag
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^For being an urban campus and right next to the worlds largest medical center complex it’s spacious with great oak trees. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 03:13 PM Flag
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np I'm impressed with Rice's "honor code." On top of being a strong academic school, they try to bring in core values that aren't attached to religion etc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:57 PM Flag
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You forgot top UC schools like Cal and UCLA, both nationally ranked in top 25 give or take, and ranked top 5 in most grad disciplines and UCB engineering is actually higher ranked than CMU. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 03:15 PM Flag
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Oxford/Cambridge [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:13 PM Flag
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Good one [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:40 PM Flag
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Starfleet Academy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:21 PM Flag
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LOL!!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:51 PM Flag
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Yes!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 03:22 PM Flag
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Bragging is nokd [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:33 PM Flag
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THIS [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:38 PM Flag
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I had a passing conversation with someone I don't know well and haven't seen for over 2 years recently, he managed to bring up within 30 seconds, off topic, that his son got into Hunter. Very NOKD. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:42 PM Flag
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Bragging rights? Haha. I went to Stanford, Cambridge and the University of Chicago and yet people on UB call me an idiot. ;) The only people who know where I went to school are my family, former classmates and employers. Do people really discuss where they went to school in the course of conversation? It never comes up ( but I don't live in NYC). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:43 PM Flag
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Yes people do! I had coffee with this mom once, we sat down, she took a sip and said this tastes so much like the coffee shop I used to go to when I went to college near Boston! That was the first and last time I asked her out for coffee:-) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:49 PM Flag
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You sound like you have a HUGE chip on your shoulder if this somehow rubbed you the wrong way. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 03:23 PM Flag
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+1 I never bring up where I went to college. after a few yrs out of college no one discusses [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:53 PM Flag
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If bragging was your thing, I think that you would definitely qualify with those schools!!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:56 PM Flag
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Btw, I think you are bragging now, no? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:57 PM Flag
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She is. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 03:14 PM Flag
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It can come up when talking about sport teams you root for. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 03:00 PM Flag
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Are you kidding? I have heard women brag that their DH went to Ivies! It's not even themselves who went. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 03:15 PM Flag
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Whichever schools accept my DCs [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:46 PM Flag
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Personally I'm more impressed with Williams, Amherst etc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:47 PM Flag
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In Chicago, Notre Dame def gives you bragging rights. It's our Ivy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:49 PM Flag
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Not U of C? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:52 PM Flag
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U of C is definitely prestigious, but it doesn't attract or produce the hearty, backslapping, Irish-American personality type so prized here. U of C is seen as a refuge for the socially maladjusted genius. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:56 PM Flag
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That’s true and very funny!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 03:04 PM Flag
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What about Northwestern? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 03:13 PM Flag
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Stanford of course. But also bragworthy are MIT, John Hopkins, UChicago, UCLA, USC and CalTech. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:58 PM Flag
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Not USC [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 03:07 PM Flag
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You forgot Berkeley and Carnegie Mellon if you go through trouble mentioning UCLA and USC [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 03:27 PM Flag
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If you are on the West Coast likely UC top schools would give you more bragging rights than the lower ranked Ivys, which aren't on every kid's radar over there. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 03:13 PM Flag
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Wearing the school’s clothing and driving around with a sticker on your car is bragging also, imo [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 03:19 PM Flag
[ - ] My hair salon charged me $190 for a color without a cut. Doesn’t that seem like a lot? 31 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:32 PM Flag
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go to suburbs then, will be 85 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:35 PM Flag
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It was in the burbs. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:39 PM Flag
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It's my whole hair budget for the year, so it seems like a lot to me. But it really depends on your own budget and how important it is to you to stay with your colorist. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:36 PM Flag
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For me it is. I get color, cut and blow for $60 in Brooklyn. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:40 PM Flag
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Op: yeah I think she over charged me. Do I call? Or let it go since I didn’t catch it until I checked the statement. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:42 PM Flag
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They charge what they charge. That's why I picked the place that I use. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:43 PM Flag
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It’s not usually that much. She just runs my card. This is more than usual. I wonder if it’s a mistake or the prices went up? Hmm. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:47 PM Flag
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I can't answer that for you. Only you can do the research and see if it's legit. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:48 PM Flag
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Check their posted prices and see. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:46 PM Flag
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They don’t post prices. But it’s usually not this much when I go. They just swipe the card. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:47 PM Flag
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Ask. Call and say it's more than usual, wondering why. totally fair question. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:49 PM Flag
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This. And if they don't post prices, and you don't ask before the service, then you pay what you pay. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:51 PM Flag
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What?! Where - that's crazy cheap. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:43 PM Flag
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South Brooklyn. I've been going there for the last 15 years. They do a high volume but the ladies are really good at what they do. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:44 PM Flag
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Share the name! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:59 PM Flag
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It's called J Salon. No appointments. Walk-in. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:08 PM Flag
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Can you give more info? Google didn't show a salon with this name but a bunch with similar names. Mr. J in Bay Ridge? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:42 PM Flag
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Yes, that's the one. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:43 PM Flag
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TY [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:46 PM Flag
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Is it one of those places all ladies leave with platinum blond hair? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:00 PM Flag
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No. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:08 PM Flag
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not really. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:50 PM Flag
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Please share where. Also in Brooklyn and looking for a new place. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:45 PM Flag
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yes, I pay $95 for color and blow out [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:50 PM Flag
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single process? did you get any treatments? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:54 PM Flag
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I pay $160 for a full head of highlights. I have shoulder length hair. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:56 PM Flag
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Regarding overcharging - my stylist constantly tries to push me to come Moreno often - this will result in my hair getting ever blonder and shorter (not a look I aspire to). He needlessly throws in toners which take 1 minute to apply and cost $65 on top of the already expensive highlights. When I say no to the toner he pouts. There is precious little talent in my area so I am stuck with him :(( [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:01 PM Flag
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I pay $220 for cut/color/dry at my salon- Cobble Hill [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:15 PM Flag
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Seems like a lot (this coming from a DIY colorist), but it depends on whether it's single process (easy and total rip off) or full highlights (requires great skill and is labor intensive). More info needed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:28 PM Flag
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I pay 200 for partial highlights. Long hair. My colorist is amazing and I barely have any white hairs so I only go twice a year (maybe 3x) and it never looks bad, even after five months. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:36 PM Flag
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That's about what my stylist (in NOHO) charges. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:44 PM Flag
[ - ] We have these friends that we have known for years - but casual dinners, lunches, etc. same age kids so it’s easy to spend time together and they are very nice. Yesterday, she tells me she cheated on her husband three times - and he’s disappointed but nbd. She also tells me she was suicidal after giving birth to her first. She asks us to go away for a week with them. Her kids always have ear infections and spit when they talk. At this point - I want to run away or keep it casual. Am I over reacting? 25 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:28 PM Flag
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Curious, what is the issue with her kids always having ear infections? And her being suicidal due to what I assume was PPD? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:32 PM Flag
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I hate when my kids get sick. I’m a germophobe I guess. So at a play date yesterday - she tells me her kid has an ear infection, and he is literally spitting all over my kids face when he talks. I was cringing. I wanted to scream and cry and run. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:34 PM Flag
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Ear infections are not contagious. If combined with an active cold, they can be, but not alone. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:36 PM Flag
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Ok great. I still don’t like other people’s spit in my kids’ faces. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:38 PM Flag
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So sequester yourself. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:39 PM Flag
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OMG you are dumb. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:38 PM Flag
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And you are mean! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:51 PM Flag
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I get grossed out too--but then I remember that they are children and the exposure to germs is positive/helpful for building a health immune system. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:42 PM Flag
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I will try that. I’m still cringing though... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:51 PM Flag
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YOu're kind of ignorant if you think your kid is going to catch an ear infection. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:42 PM Flag
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Yes, you are overreacting, but that's who you are, so no, you are not suited for friendship and vacationing with this other family. Keep it casual and infrequent, and you will all be happier. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:42 PM Flag
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Thank you for helping identify my shortcomings and telling me how to deal with them. It really is that simple! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:46 PM Flag
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It really is that simple. Why put yourself through that level of discomfort when you are incompatible? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:52 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:55 PM Flag
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She’s a nice person - she didn’t do anything bad to me - she’s always just very nice so I feel bad... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:55 PM Flag
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Would you marry an incompatible spouse just because you feel bad? Would you spend a week of vacation *not* relaxing and enjoying yourself because you feel bad? You don't want to be her friend, so suck up the "feel bad" so both of you can find real friends. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:02 PM Flag
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She is an oversharer which to me is off putting. Sounds like you don’t want to spend time with her, so don’t. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:46 PM Flag
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Thank you. I’ve known her 10 years - and boom - this happened yesterday... it was truly too much and I wish I didn’t know this about her now... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:51 PM Flag
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Then you have your answer. You don't want to know the real her, so no, you should not be more than casual acquaintances. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:56 PM Flag
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np: while that is true, I'm surprised that OP is such a judgy friend. Clearly the woman needed someone to talk to and felt like they were close enough for her to share. After 10 years you'd think OP could handle talking woman-to-woman about some things that had happened in her life. To add the rude things about the friend's kids is over the top awful. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:47 PM Flag
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this [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:51 PM Flag
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She has horrible boundaries and bad judgment. Avoid her like the plague. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:53 PM Flag
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I’ll keep it casual [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:55 PM Flag
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Yes! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:59 PM Flag
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no. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:41 PM Flag
[ - ] Someone please help me. I completed some online video program two days ago and I haven’t smoked for three days. Now it’s Monday and I’m really just craving my iced coffee and cigarette. Not that it matters but I am a four cigarettes a day person. Stay at home mom. Please help me. I feel like I’m about to ruin my good streak and then I’ll be back to point zero. I’m not addicted to nicotine. It’s just so part of my routine. 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:28 PM Flag
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Make a new routine. I always kept some sewing around to pick up when I had cravings. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:29 PM Flag
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Go for a walk? Eat a brownie? Chew gum? Don’t smoke. Watch a lung video. It’s really gross [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:29 PM Flag
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Firs tof all, you won't be back to point zero because every attempt to quit is progress towards quitting for good. However, don't give in. Have your iced coffee. Chew some gum. You can do this. Do it for yourself, your family, your kids. Smoking kills. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:30 PM Flag
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Throw away any cigarettes you have left right now, in liquid if you can. Take them to the outside trash can or a dumpster if you're near one. Go for a walk. Have your coffee without the cigarette and really enjoy the coffee. Or give up the coffee if it's too big a trigger. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:30 PM Flag
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Go to reddit and discuss your favorite tv show. Keeps your hands busy and your mind occupied. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:31 PM Flag
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Go to the gym. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:39 PM Flag
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When you get as craving go for a jog, even just around the block. Put on a great podcast or book on tape. You got this, momma! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:43 PM Flag
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I agree that you should toss your cigarettes and go for a run. If you want, I'll come along and keep you from lighting up. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:46 PM Flag
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^^and the fact that tights (usually) don't have pockets makes my job easier! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:59 PM Flag
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When I was trying to quit, and stressed, I would smoke "air" cigarettes. Hold a pencil or whatever and take in deep breaths then exhale. That alone sometimes would relax me enough to take the edge off. Good luck! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:54 PM Flag
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Yes, routine is a big thing. You need a new routine. Tea, seltzer with fruit juice, whatever. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:54 PM Flag
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you can do it. don't give in. every day that you go w out, will make the next day easier. it will get easier. distract yourself . go for a brisk walk, chew gum, seltzer, tea, do jumping jacks. the cravings will get less and less with every week that passes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:47 PM Flag
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It's 11:23am. See if you can make it until 11:30 and then distract yourself. At 11:30, see if you can go 10 more minutes. Keep distracting yourself and keep trying to go 10 minutes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 03:24 PM Flag
[ - ] Has anyone had success with preventative couples therapy, and do you have an NYC therapist to recommend? DH and I are usually happy together, and this is not a divorce discussion or anywhere near it. But we have small kids, and we work long hours, and we are REALLY not good at communicating with each other on things I find important (e.g., discipline for the kids, financial issues). I just don't want to get to a place where I am reluctant to raise issues with him and feel more and more isolated. Any experiences or recommendations you can share would be appreciated! 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:22 PM Flag
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Having gotten to that place and then passed it and gone over the cliff, I am here to tell you, get the counseling now. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:30 PM Flag
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OP - thank you :) This is what I said to DH last night. He was casually dismissive of something I asked, and I couldn't ask again because I knew I would be dismissed. Finally, I said I can see all of our family history dynamics playing out here, and we need to talk to someone. Usually he is kind of dismissive of this suggestion, too, and thinks everything is fine. I told him it is not fine, and I feel unheard, etc. He agreed we should do something to find a better dynamic. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:33 PM Flag
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My business partner was divorced, remarried, and his new wife insisted they do Amago therapy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:54 PM Flag
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I think you mean Imago [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:43 PM Flag
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Or be like most women, give up on the man doing his fair share, plow through the small kids phase on your own with hired helped and when the kids get older, the problems start to magically clear up again. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:55 PM Flag
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or they don't and you divorce. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:43 PM Flag
[ - ] Parents who do not believe kids need naps-that a nap will cause the child to not sleep at night. The general thought is to push through like an adult does to get over jet lag. Why do they think this? Neighbors don’t believe their kids need naps and their kids are HORRIBLE come the afternoon. 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:19 PM Flag
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I never spent enough time with other families to reach this assessment. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:20 PM Flag
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I mentioned yesterday when neighbors 15 month old was crying uncontrollably because he was exhausted at 2PM “do you want to take him home for a nap? I’ll watch your other son.” And the mother responded “oh no he doesn’t take naps-he won’t sleep at night then.” I almost threw myself down on the floor [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:24 PM Flag
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So this is how you reached "the general thought is to push through like an adult does to get over jet lag?" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:27 PM Flag
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15 months- that’s nuts! My DD is 3, still needs a nap but if it doesn’t come by 3, we push through to get her down by 7:30- even though she is usually very cranky by dinner. I hate it but falling asleep late afternoon leads to too late nights [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:35 PM Flag
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I agree and this kid was toast-it was actually awful to see-almost abuse [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:42 PM Flag
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At 3 y/o, mine was sleeping from 7pm-7am, with a 2 hour nap every afternoon. To force a 15 m/o to stay awake all day is cruel and yes, borderline abusive. At that age, mine would have simply fallen asleep in the middle of whatever was going on, regardless of how noisy it was and what else was going on. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:48 PM Flag
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Some kids just don't nap. DD gave up napping all together at 18 months. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:55 PM Flag
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My DS also gave up around this age, basically as soon as we took him out of crib. His older brother napped until 3. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:37 PM Flag
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Same with my younger one. I never realized what a blessing it was to have a child sleep during the day. Gave me a breather. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 03:02 PM Flag
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Crazy and cruel. Plus adverse effects on health and well-being. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:56 PM Flag
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sleep begets sleep [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:56 PM Flag
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I have never met someone who believes this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:58 PM Flag
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+1. OP posted last week and everyone told her the same thing. This is not a school of thought. And she didn't just "mention it yesterday." [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:32 PM Flag
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The opposite is true. When kids are overly tired from not napping, they have a harder time falling asleep at night. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:10 PM Flag
[ - ] s/o from the Europe and travel posts. Is there a version of UB in Europe, where we can ask questions about kids, babysitting, neighborhoods, etc. when we travel in Europe? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:19 PM Flag
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I would think you'd run into a practical language barrier with a "Europe Board." [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:36 PM Flag
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Translating is easy these days. Everyone gets on just fine on reddit and imdb. I'm sure it would be fine! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:43 PM Flag
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Oui nous avons quelque chose comme ça mais je suis pas autorisé à donner le mot de passe à des étrangers [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:40 PM Flag
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If it has a password, it's not like UB. Looking for an open parenting board. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:48 PM Flag
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bonne chance [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:41 PM Flag
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A stranger is just a person who doesn't annoy you yet. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 01:49 PM Flag
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eh. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:43 PM Flag
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the mistakes in your French grammar give it away that you aren't a native speaker, so get off your high horse. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.20.19, 02:46 PM Flag
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