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[ - ] How do you think Chris Rock feels right now? He has always been a supporter of Bill Cosby but also has two young girls. Of course, they are black so he wouldn't be interested in them but it's hard when you heros fall.... 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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You have a mental illness. I'm not just speaking figuratively. You actually have something that a doctor could diagnose. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Moms with multiple-Ivy degrees- do you ever get frustrated that it's impossible to find t-shirts that have the names of both of the schools you went to on them? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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not Ivy, but I have a mug that says "MIT" when it's cold which turns into "Caltech" when hot water is in it. I love it because I went to both schools. :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:51 PM Flag
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So awesome. [ Reply | More ]
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Can't say that this is a problem for me. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] BILL COSBY DID NOT RAPE WOMEN. LISA BONNET DID NOT LEAVE THE COSBY SHOW TO ESCAPE BILL COSBY'S HARASSMENT. NBC did not give Lisa Bonnet her own show, "It's a Different World" to shut Bill up. I am SO SICK of these crazy allegations. The man played a sold out show in Florida two nights ago!!! What is this world.coming to? #sanity 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:39 PM Flag
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are you black or are you a troll? [ Reply | More ]
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I'm black, but I'm not the OP. What does race have to do with this? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:46 PM Flag
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it seems like SOME black people, like whoppi goldberg and tony williams, seem blind to what's obvious to others. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:49 PM Flag
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I'm obviously not watching this story closely enough. You don't give a shit about his victims do you? You actually enjoy this. [ Reply | More ]
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Occam's razor [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
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zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] My son has dyslexia but we didn't Ask for an IEP. Now he's failing English and I wonder if we should try it or if the stigma is worse than any additional help he might get. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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What grade? [ Reply | More ]
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6th [ Reply | More ]
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Public/private? [ Reply | More ]
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Do you like his middle school? Think they do a good job? Do you help him with homework? Is it just the crazy hard adjustment? Teacher has a bad impression? What happened at pt conf? [ Reply | More ]
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We received a late diagnosis of dyslexia (16 - although there were signs in the 6th grade - I basically blew it) I fought with the college board for a year and ultimately got him extra time. It changed his life - got great SATs and went to Ivy league Univ. Never would have been possibly w/o accommodations. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] RIP MMB 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Who? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:33 PM Flag
[ - ] So is Bill Cosby really a rapist? 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:19 PM Flag
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yes, he really is. and as odd as it seems, he seems to enjoy raping women instead of seducing them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:24 PM Flag
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seems disgusting. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:23 PM Flag
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Of course he is. Cosby used his power to and prestige to trick (or drug) attractive young woman into having sex with him. Ask yourself: what do these women have to gain? Why bring it up? i was sexually harassed in the workplace. When my female boss asked me if "Bill" was giving me a hard time, I denied it. Fear! But when others spoke out, so did I. [ Reply | More ]
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i can understand abusing power. what i don't understand is the drugging and raping. probably, many of these women would have had sex with him just because they wanted to get into show biz. but he seemed to enjoy drugging them and raping them against their will. it is bizarre. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:41 PM Flag
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It sounds like a fetish [ Reply | More ]
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what i also can't understand is how his wife seems to have tolerated raping, not cheating but raping, all these years. was it really all about the money and fame? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:44 PM Flag
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Probably, she wouldn't have been the first to overlook something creepy, plus he may have brainwashed her. He seems capable of being fairly manipulative and Machiavellian. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:46 PM Flag
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+1 raping comatose women [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:52 PM Flag
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There is no proof that this is the case. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:27 PM Flag
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No proof only because there's no trial. Statute of limitations has run. If there were a trial, there'd be proof. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:28 PM Flag
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Listen to his routine about "Spanish Fly" and see if it makes the issue any clearer: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LAorIG6MZnc [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:27 PM Flag
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yes. you knew it all along. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:31 PM Flag
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Sure seems like it. These rumors have dogged him forever. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:44 PM Flag
[ - ] Every Sunday during football season, my dh hunkers down to watch the games from noon to late night. We have done this for a decade. Currently with dc at a restaurant enjoying a glass of wine after shopping. Sometimes I feel resentful but today I am loving the one on one time with dc. Anyone else have a similar situation? 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:14 PM Flag
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CSB [ Reply | More ]
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FAKE POST [ Reply | More ]
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nope [ Reply | More ]
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Op:not fake at all! Now u guys are scaring me... [ Reply | More ]
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why'd you decide to get married and be a football widow? [ Reply | More ]
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Op: but its only 4 mths a year and it his obsession! [ Reply | More ]
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^is his only... [ Reply | More ]
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well then you knew what you were getting into... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:22 PM Flag
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My husband runs off to shoot archery with his friends every Sunday. I hate archery and it annoys me but I'm glad to have the alone time some days. [ Reply | More ]
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No, it's the person below who got called out for being fake. Now he/she has to post "Fake!'l on every other post to detract from the fact that hers are clearly fake. Sounds nice, OP! Enjoy! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:20 PM Flag
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My DH watches football, now oldest DS joins him and younger DS and i do something fun. Doesn't bother me, it is annoying if he goes to games though as that is a long day [ Reply | More ]
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Op: our dc is 5 so not into yet but I can't wait until he is older. If he gets into it, it's free time for me! [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Anyone have a Duxiana bed? Are they worth it? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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we have one of those $6000 (or something beds) from sleepy's. it's a good bed. but it's not THAT good. [ Reply | More ]
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I have a Sherman which cost about 11k. Worth every penny. [ Reply | More ]
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1st or: i'll bet it really isn't. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] What do I do? My situation: I was the OW. He's 52, I'm 39. He has two DDs (14 and 11). He pursued me for about a year, I didn't even realize it b/c thought he was married & was just being friendly. We finally went out, he told me about his bad marriage, within 3 weeks his wife discovered our texts and they separated. She had filed for divorce before but they were trying to make it work. This was the straw that broke the camel's back. He told me he's never cheated with anyone else before. Fast forward two years, we're still together and madly in love. (continued in comments.) 43 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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I spend every night at his place unless DDs are there (every other weekend and Wednesdays). I am fully integrated in his social & work life and he in mine. We take trips, go to weddings, spend time at his country house etc. I met DD #1 once as daddy's 'friend' and have not met the other-- they reacted terribly to their mom's new boyfriend and have no interest in meeting dad's. However-- he knows that I want to get married and have kids with my soulmate. He knows this soulmate is him. Sometimes he gets down about it and says "I'm just afraid I can't ever give you what you want. I don't want any more kids and I'm not sure I want to get married. But I love you and want to be with you forever, you're the love of my life." Sometimes I can't help but think it's probably the tough divorce talking and he might change his mind in a couple years. Sometimes I think I love him so much maybe I can give up the idea of having my own child and have a life with him. Any advice on this matter? I feel scared and stuck, but I honestly love him to pieces and feel he is my soulmate. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:09 PM Flag
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you're going to ruin your dream [ Reply | More ]
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Why are you typing all this drivel to us? Same story, new poster. You want advice - here it is: you should not fuck married men. His kids will never fully accept you. He will not give you kids and the fairy tale you have spinned in your head. The end. [ Reply | More ]
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op- I realize my situation is similar to the one in the popular post- it's what prompted me to ask. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:18 PM Flag
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You're not stuck. You have to leave though. You need someone who wants children. Your clock is ticking. You messed up by getting involved with him. You spent 2-3 years on a married man, when, at age 36-37, you should have been looking for a single guy your age, who was ready to have kids. Are you in nyc? [ Reply | More ]
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op- Yes, I am. I know my clock is ticking and I've always dreamed of having a child but at this point I'm thinking maybe I can give it up. I've had many relationships and long term boyfriends, and have even been married-- but nothing has ever felt like this. [ Reply | More ]
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Fine. Don't have children. His resources will go mostly to his first children anyway. You'll save yourself the angst of always wondering why your child is put last. Why bring a 3rd child into that? [ Reply | More ]
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op- By the time my child would be 5 his kids would be getting ready for college. I feel the life stages would be far apart so this would be less apparent. [ Reply | More ]
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But he would be 57!!!!??? Your child may be denied private school for Kindergarten because first first kids would be looking for him to drop thousands on their education that years. [ Reply | More ]
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LMAO [ Reply | More ]
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She is 39. She is done [ Reply | More ]
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I've never understood the use of the word soulmate. It's like everyone that is in an affair justifies it by saying this person is my soulmate. He probably can't give you everything you want-- just fyi. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:12 PM Flag
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op- This is what I'm worried about. Sometimes he seems positive but sometimes he really doubts that he can, and he feels guilty because he doesn't want me to be disappointed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:16 PM Flag
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He's a wimp who couldn't put the effort into his first marriage. What makes you think he's man enough to make a life with you. I feel sorry for his children. He's peter pan. [ Reply | More ]
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He's not even brave enough to introduce his GF to his kids. Actually, he's not even brave enough to get a text from his GF when he's with his kids. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:22 PM Flag
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You need to eradicate the word "soulmate" from your vocabulary, today. It is a concept that holds women back from making choices that are in their best interests. If you stay with him, you will not have children of your own. If you want children, you'll have to leave him. Sorry, but it's that simple. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:24 PM Flag
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When people tell you something, listen. He told you point blank he does not want more children and isn't sure he wants to get married again. You're delusional to think he might change his mind. You're at the 11th hour when it comes to having children, so if you do want them, you need to come up with another plan. This relationship won't give you what you want. [ Reply | More ]
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csb [ Reply | More ]
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Has he expressed interest in developing a relationship between you and his DDs? [ Reply | More ]
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op- At first he did. He talks about them all the time and I know them both really well from that. He always says he knows they'll love me as long as they're not biased via his ex/their mom. But he really wants to follow their lead and so far they are not interested. We have a rule that I don't text or call him when he's with them (in case they look at the phone and see my name), but he calls me when they're busy. [ Reply | More ]
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You will always be a slut and a homewrecker to them, regardless if the mom says nothing. [ Reply | More ]
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if you stick with him, you will resent him in the long run. [ Reply | More ]
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Wow, I am shocked that you are 39, you write and sound like a 17 year old (no offense to 17 year olds) nice way to deflect your guilt in this whole mess, you are getting what you deserve. [ Reply | More ]
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op- Well I honestly don't feel like I broke up their marriage. He told me he was looking for a way out and wanted her to find the texts. Do I wish we had started after they separated? Of course. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:15 PM Flag
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What a spineless wimp. [ Reply | More ]
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He pursued you for a year because he was "looking for a way out"? [ Reply | More ]
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wtf! [ Reply | More ]
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You sound terribly immature for your age. [ Reply | More ]
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He doesn't want a financial obligation to you [ Reply | More ]
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Hmmm. This is harsh, but could be true. If his first divorce has been costly with alimony or child support, he surely doesn't want to go through that again. [ Reply | More ]
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Or pay for more kids. If he was your soulmate he would compromise. [ Reply | More ]
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I feel sad for you. You're not going to get married. You're not going to have a baby. You're not going to have a relationship with his kids. Sad. Sad. Sad. [ Reply | More ]
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op- This makes me sad to read. I really do believe that with time I will meet the girls and can be an aunt type to them (never a mom of course). I'm not sure he will ever come around to wanting more kids. Sometimes he says maybe he'd do it for me, since he knows how much I want one. But usually he says he's afraid he'll disappoint me. [ Reply | More ]
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He's screwing with your head. don't let him. [ Reply | More ]
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Depending on the girls relationship with there mom, they may never accept you. They will feel loyal to mom and might believe you messed up their family [ Reply | More ]
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And they would be right, somewhat. Their spineless father finished it off. [ Reply | More ]
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You realize that he's saying that so you will stop asking him for marriage and kids (out of fear of seeming "disappointed")? [ Reply | More ]
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He's stringing you along. He's self centered and immature. [ Reply | More ]
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They will always think of you as a slut. If dad says anything positive about you, they will say, oh yeah, she can teach us how to catch a married man. [ Reply | More ]
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I think karma is popping in for a visit. [ Reply | More ]
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And in 5 years, he'll be on the next. [ Reply | More ]
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If you are 39 yo you have to decide if you want kids enough to be a single mom. If yes, you tell you BF that you are going to try to have a child. He can be part of your life, he can leave or he can decide to be a father to this child. If you aren't ready to be a single mom you are too old to find that soulmate and have kids so you might as well accept your childless starts and make the best if your life as is. [ Reply | More ]
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Lol. He's playing you like a fiddle. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] No6 boots? What do you think? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Kind of played out. And not all that attractive. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:51 PM Flag
[ - ] It seems crazy to me that Haiti was a major Caribbean tourist destination right up through the 1980's (hence the line in Beach Boys's 1988 song Kokomo - "Port-au-Prince / I want to catch a glimpse"). I visited in 2013, and that place is a mess. And not just the parts of the capital that got hit by the quake. But everywhere. What happened? 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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i don't think haiti has ever been over $1000 in per capita income. so i am not sure you're right there. [ Reply | More ]
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No; it used to be a big tourist destination before the 1988 coup which led to a lengthy period of unrest and counter-coups. [ Reply | More ]
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Just like Cuba in the 1950s. Major resort destination. [ Reply | More ]
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but cuba was a real country. i haven't heard of haiti ever having developed to any extent since the french left. maybe it's a lacking spot in my understanding of history. [ Reply | More ]
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Haiti used to include much of what is now the Dominican Republic, but chronic mismanagement and brutality compelled the Dominicans to rebel and shove the Haitian border back toward the west. [ Reply | More ]
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i'm not including DR. they were only under haitian rule for like 15 years or something. [ Reply | More ]
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Was it? Wasn't Papa Doc (Baby Doc?) overthrown in 1986 or 87? I always got the impression it was unsafe in the 80s. [ Reply | More ]
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1st or: that was my impression, too. [ Reply | More ]
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1st or: that was my impression, too. [ Reply | More ]
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It's that "Devil's Curse" thingy. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Here is one reason why so many parents are confused about Common Core. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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OP: One reason is, the media chooses to not report on it properly. The very end of this article from DNAInfo quotes an educator about the challenges of meeting Common Core Standards with bilingual programs. DNAInfo chooses not to correct that there is no "teaching" Common Core or "developing" Common Core. Instead, educators are using whatever materials and curriculum they have to "meet" Common Core Standards. [ Reply | More ]
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I know people make this mistake ALL the time [ Reply | More ]
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It's really not their fault. "Journalism" in this country is just a joke. [ Reply | More ]
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Really not fair to judge all journalists by the quality of reporting in DNA info. Which is the online equivalent of the freebie papers of our youth. [ Reply | More ]
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I know this but I do not like the CC. It is possible to B intelligent and not support CC. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] What do you think about this building: 47 East 88th Street. Good location? Quiet? 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 07:55 PM Flag
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you can just go there, you know? [ Reply | More ]
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I like to get other's opinions [ Reply | More ]
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I am more into a specific apt than building. If its 800 sq ft there, or 1200 on York or 1st Ave, I'd go with 1200 sqft [ Reply | More ]
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It's 1900 sq ft [ Reply | More ]
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go for it [ Reply | More ]
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How much? [ Reply | More ]
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I live on 88th St very close to the to there. I love it- quick walk to the 4/5/6, but it's a quiet block away from all of the commercial hooplah on Lex/3rd/2nd. Plus, the Met is RIGHT THERE. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:39 PM Flag
[ - ] ok, i haven't been keeping track of this but i have $5MM in assets all by my lonesome. i guess that means i don't even have to take any money from dh if we were to ever split up, though i guess i might a couple mills. 23 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 07:54 PM Flag
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Keep dreamin' 'bout those mills. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 07:56 PM Flag
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my mills or his mills? he is actually obligated to give me more but i guess i barely have to take any. [ Reply | More ]
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How did you end up with $5 mills all by your lonesome? [ Reply | More ]
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admittedly, only about two of it was by my own industry working in finance. i earned about a mill of it on investment appreciation. then the rest from dh as gifts. [ Reply | More ]
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admittedly, only about two of it was by my own industry working in finance. i earned about a mill of it on investment appreciation. then the rest from dh as gifts. [ Reply | More ]
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All of that is marital property (i.e. not yours all by your lonesome) [ Reply | More ]
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it actually is. my husband has about $150MM. i'm entitled to only about $30MM of that. but i told him he doesn't get any of my money at all. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:26 PM Flag
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Princess Fakity. [ Reply | More ]
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believe what you will. doesn't make it any more or less true. [ Reply | More ]
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NP- I'm not doubting there are women on UB who are worth $5mm on their own. I'm just doubting that you are one of them. [ Reply | More ]
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suit yourselves. [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
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What does your wardrobe look like? Apartment? Living vicariously:) [ Reply | More ]
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5mm in assets isn't a ton. that can slip away faster than you think. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:13 PM Flag
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op: it's pretty good in my book. and i'm pretty diversified so it isn't slipping away without a major disaster happening. i will be able to live on it all my life and have some left, too. i guess i hadn't really thought about it before. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:30 PM Flag
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we used to live in greenwich. we're preparing to move overseas now so actually living with my parents out in the midwest. we live very modestly. my parents' house probably wouldn't even fetch $100K. you would never guess we have even a million, forget over $150MM. our car will be 15 years old in the new year. money is nice to have for the security, not so much what it can buy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:29 PM Flag
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How much cash do you have invested? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:31 PM Flag
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have about 1.5 of it in cash. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:36 PM Flag
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what do you invest in? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:42 PM Flag
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i have some businesses that my husband invests in for me. but the bulk of it, say 80%, is in US stocks and bonds, which a longtime friend of mine (used to actually date) manages for me. he's done really a super job of it but this last year has been just a tad disappointing, though as usual, he beat the market. it's kind of embarrassing how little thought i put into money as i am a wharton grad myself. but i really did not like finance. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:43 PM Flag
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What's the rest? Real estate? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:43 PM Flag
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some reits, but mostly in us stocks and bonds. my biggest holdings outside private investments are delta airlines, citi and US Lime, about $130K each. that's just what my investment manager friend picked. he's got dozens and dozens of others. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:47 PM Flag
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some reits, but mostly in us stocks and bonds. my biggest holdings outside private investments are delta airlines, citi and US Lime, about $130K each. that's just what my investment manager friend picked. he's got dozens and dozens of others. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:47 PM Flag
[ - ] Gift ideas for a 13yo boy? Within $50. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 07:53 PM Flag
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board games: ticket to ride or settlers of catan [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 07:59 PM Flag
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Video games, movie tickets, ticket to sporting event or play, musical concert, dinner out with you, gift card to sneaker store, stocking full of choc, etc, do you know anything about his interest? A sports jersey, camping stuff... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:13 PM Flag
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Lighter fluid and a box of matches, a flint, a Leatherman... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:27 PM Flag
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Cash [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:31 PM Flag
[ - ] what is a good brand for a reasonably priced, soft, quality cashmere sweater? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 07:52 PM Flag
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i get it lord and taylor or land's end. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 07:57 PM Flag
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OP--does the LE fit in a frumpy way? I feel like their stuff could be boxy [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:02 PM Flag
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i guess i have bought most of it for kids, which have been fine. LT is not boxy for women. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:08 PM Flag
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LE cashmere is not high quality and will pill. you have to spend $$$ to get good cashmere. http://putthison.com/post/269043586/cashmeresweaters [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:48 PM Flag
[ - ] Tarot mom...I can answer a couple of questions :) 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 07:52 PM Flag
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what's in store for DH's job? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 07:51 PM Flag
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Is he an academic? I sense that you and your husband are a tight knit team. You're fairly successful as a couple and are beginning to get comfortable with a certain level of income higher than what you had in the past. It seems like he's at the start of a new career, and while there is some uncertainty there is also lots of confidence and optimism. There seems to be a powerful male figure who can act on his behalf, but also a female presents, someone older and highly respected, Who doesn't want him to succeed. Nonetheless, It's generally a positive reading; he has lots of opportunities in front of him and will soon be presented with a choice to make. He makes a decision that's good for both his career and your relationship. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:08 PM Flag
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thank you! he's in finance [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:16 PM Flag
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Will I go back to work at some point? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 07:52 PM Flag
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According to these carts, I think the answer is no. I also think you don't really want to go back to work, but some insecurity is making you feel like you should. Are you doubting The stability of your marriage, or your partner's ability to provide? Don't let negative people influence your frame of mind, and be wary of those who seem to be messing with you. You're not being paranoid. The outcome of this train of thought is you ending up feeling isolated and withdrawn. Enjoy both the emotional and material well you have around you now. If you have a solitary creative interest you want to pursue, like painting or writing, now is a good time to do it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:17 PM Flag
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when are we moving and to where? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 07:54 PM Flag
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Tara cards, at least the type of readings I do, I really designed to answer questions with specifics like where and when. Nonetheless, I thought I would draw for you and see if anything came to light. You ask when are "we" moving; The thing is, I don't think you are making a move with your current partner. There seems to be some dark temptations involved, and some new choices for you to make. I think you are starting out on a new journey of your own. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:25 PM Flag
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Does this guy view me as his "work wife"? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:03 PM Flag
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Will DH's start up take off and become a success? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:05 PM Flag
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Will I get the promotion? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:13 PM Flag
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Can you give me some clarity on my romantic life? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:13 PM Flag
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Mourning my DH's passing. What will the next year be like? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:17 PM Flag
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Not TM, but I'm so sorry for your loss...hang in there. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:16 PM Flag
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Thank you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:50 PM Flag
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Will my career be better or worse in 6 months? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:22 PM Flag
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R we going to close on our apt? Will I find a job? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.23.14, 08:29 PM Flag
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