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[ - ] If you live in Darien, what are the private schools to which people typically send their children? (Assume for sake of argument, that public schools are not an option.) 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:51 AM Flag
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New Canaan Country, St. Luke's, KLHT. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:53 AM Flag
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What about Greenwich academy? Too far? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 03:08 AM Flag
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Do those go through high school [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Non Native New Yorkers - do you consider the NY sports teams to be your team or the teams from where you grew up? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:50 AM Flag
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Omg. Just had this argument w dh's friend. DH is a native, parents are native, grandparents are native. You can only imagine how they all feel about their teams. Friend from the west coast who has lived here 8 years says he's a bigger "fan" because he spends more money going to games, etc [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:52 AM Flag
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LOL [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 03:03 AM Flag
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I'm not a huge sports fan. I love my hometown/state college football team, but have never cared about anything else that much. I could see myself becoming a casual Yankees fan-- but it seems there are more Mets fans in NYC? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 03:01 AM Flag
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Are you high? Mets are the stepchildren team around here. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:59 AM Flag
[ - ] S/o so my relationship w DH will get back to normal someday? Db is almost 1 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:48 AM Flag
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I'm the poster below with the 2 year old and missing my rship with DH - I sure hope so! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:57 AM Flag
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That's what inspired me to ask :( [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:56 AM Flag
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Sure. Don't let resentments build up. Reach out whenever you can. Say yes as often you can (and not just sex.) Include him in taking care of DB. Some moms cling to the DB and push DH out. Help him bond with the baby if he doesn't have a natural inclination. You will find your way back to one another. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:55 AM Flag
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This is great advice. Thanks! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:57 AM Flag
[ - ] What time is the powerball? I'd like to get this over with. 19 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:47 AM Flag
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10:59 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:48 AM Flag
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I'm going to win. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:48 AM Flag
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Well good on you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:49 AM Flag
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No you're not. A toothless guy from a gas station is going to win. Or JLo. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:50 AM Flag
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Lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:57 AM Flag
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I'm going to. Someone has to win and tonight is my night. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:53 AM Flag
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I feel like Charlie Bucket. I want it more than the other kids. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:54 AM Flag
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I am Charlie. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:56 AM Flag
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Some wealthy person will win. Ya know, money begets money and all that honky. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:53 AM Flag
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You're right. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:57 AM Flag
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I would get a deep tissue twice a day. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:55 AM Flag
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Are you the poster who spent all her savings on tickets? Let us know how you do [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:56 AM Flag
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If it's her, we'll find out. Most states require the winner to be publicized and to appear at one press conference. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:59 AM Flag
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No that's not me. I'm the winner tonight. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 03:03 AM Flag
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womp womp I lost. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:59 AM Flag
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Here are the numbers: 22 10 13 14 52, and powerball number is 11 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:59 AM Flag
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lost big time! Ugh!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 03:03 AM Flag
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I want my 4 bucks back for my dunkin donuts coffee and egg and cheese wrap. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 03:04 AM Flag
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I want my 4 bucks back for my dunkin donuts coffee and egg and cheese wrap. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 03:10 AM Flag
[ - ] Yeah so..that girl on LI who got shot dead....was shot by a cop. Racists, weigh in now! 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:46 AM Flag
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That whole situation is just horrible. Did the suspect pick a random house, was he targeting this house for robbery or what? I went to Hofstra years ago and it's surrounded by really bad areas. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:42 AM Flag
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Yes, I think they'll all be singing a different tune now. Still if the criminal didn't have her in a headlock, she wouldn't have been in a position to get shot. But why did the police officer shoot eight rounds when the guy had her in a headlock? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:44 AM Flag
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goodpoint - I think the police need to be retrained. I am sick over the black kid who was killed by cops up in the Bronx. The kid was unarmed and had weed on him. He was scared and that's why he ran. He also ran into his house where the cop chased him down and shot him dead in his bathroom! what happened to shooting people in the foot? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:53 AM Flag
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Or that incident when all those people who got shot in Midtown - was it nine bystanders? - when the police were chasing a murder suspect there and just shooting haphazardly. I can't remember if it was earlier this year or late last year, it was that guy who shot his former boss/coworker, but he never fired at the bystanders. Got hushed up big time - I'm sure each of those people got nice payouts from the city because I never heard about it again. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:53 AM Flag
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It's not racist, it's fact at this point. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Is Cold Spring fun with a toddler? Is there a lake? We're looking for a few days getaway in August . 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:41 AM Flag
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Mohonk better at that age but I think Cold Springs is great as well. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:59 AM Flag
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no and no. Unless you hike with dc in a backpack. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:59 AM Flag
[ - ] Do you genuinely like your DH? How long have you been with him? 25 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:36 AM Flag
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Yes. Love him and like him as a person. 10 years [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:31 AM Flag
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Ditto - almost 29 years. Since we were teens. Doesn't feel like that much time has passed. Crazy [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:33 AM Flag
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Yes!! 14 years [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:37 AM Flag
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I love him so much. He is my everything. 10 years [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:32 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:46 AM Flag
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Love him. Been together since high school so 10 years. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:38 AM Flag
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Yes, 15 years. I love him and like him. Sometimes I want to slap him, but only occasionally. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:33 AM Flag
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Yes, and I have a ton of respect for him too. 15 years. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:34 AM Flag
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Ditto. Smart, funny, honorable. I am lucky. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:45 AM Flag
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I do, however I really liked him and considered him my best friend before DB came. We are in a bit of a lull right now and I don't feel as close to him like I used to. I am hoping this changes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:34 AM Flag
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Normal. It will. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:37 AM Flag
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Thanks - we have been together a total of 11 years. DB is 2 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:45 AM Flag
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Well, unlike you ladies, DH and I have only been together three years, but I can honestly say that he's one of the best men that I know. I love the hell out of that man. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:42 AM Flag
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Like him more than I've ever liked anyone. Love him more every day. 9 years. [ Reply | More ]
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28 years. Respect, admire and like him, although there are times when he has driven me crazy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:38 AM Flag
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Yes. Married 7 years. We were friends for years and years before we dating. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:40 AM Flag
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Yes. Favorite person in the world. Met 6 years ago, been married almost 5 years. 3 kids 3 and under. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:50 AM Flag
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I love this thread. Who knew UB was full of happy women? This is awesome [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:48 AM Flag
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Seriously! Had no idea. I'm not in that boat sadly. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:56 AM Flag
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Yes. 35 years yesterday. (2 years that we lived together first.) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:51 AM Flag
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Wow! Excellent! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:57 AM Flag
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I've been lucky. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 03:07 AM Flag
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Yes, he's the most amazing man on the planet. 4 years and still in the honeymoon phase. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:59 AM Flag
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Yes, 14 years. He's a great guy, I feel lucky [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:55 AM Flag
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Generally. He's a good person (and a banker--so that's a miracle in UB land). Have been with him for 16 years. Married for 14. I'm 7 years older. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 03:07 AM Flag
[ - ] I can't wait until my db is a little older so I can start going out again like a real person. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:33 AM Flag
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Not all the time obviously. But maybe once or twice a month. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:34 AM Flag
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And then you'll wish they were small again because you'll miss that phase. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:29 AM Flag
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I know, I know. I try to enjoy every second. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:36 AM Flag
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and I wish mine was tiny again so we could just hibernate at home and quit running around! [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Come on, Knicks!!! 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:30 AM Flag
[ - ] S/o of unpopular opinion post where some crazy person suggested America is the most unsophisticated country because most people are not world travelers. What country is full of a bunch of rich, world travelers? Just so all you America-haters know, we are one of the wealthiest countries. If we are not "sophisticated," then who is? 39 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:30 AM Flag
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I don't believe world travel makes you sophisticated. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:32 AM Flag
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It helps. A lot. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:32 AM Flag
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I do. I'd love to be a Commonwealth citizen and really see Europe on weekends. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:35 AM Flag
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Monaco, Denmark, Sweden, Lichtenstein, Switzerland etc America is unsophisticated because money is what drives it's population. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:34 AM Flag
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And Monaco isn't money driven? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:30 AM Flag
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I suppose it is, but it is handled in a different way than what you see in America. Have you been? Flashy, but only because it is so concentrated in such a small area. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:38 AM Flag
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tiny countries with rich populations. If America isn't sophisticated, neither is China, Australia, India, Canada, or Russia [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:49 AM Flag
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Australia unsophisticated?! I guess you haven't been. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:57 AM Flag
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Oh so those people living in rural Aboriginal country are SOOO sophisticated. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:53 AM Flag
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Arent those all small homogeneous countries? America is too diverse to compete with that list. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:55 AM Flag
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We are not sophisticated because we're all morons. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:35 AM Flag
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Very few Americans have passports. Very few Americans speak more than one language. It's not the lack of travel that's an issue, it's the lack of education. If you don't know how other people live, you can't be sophisticated. Sorry. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:32 AM Flag
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THIS [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:39 AM Flag
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Agree [ Reply | More ]
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ITA [ Reply | More ]
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ITTTA [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:44 AM Flag
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Isnt English the dominated global language? If some other nation was leading the pack, educated Americans would pick up that language. Probably why there are many mandarin schools. You can't fault a nation because they don't have a reason to invest time in a skill that is unnecessary. What is the most sophisticated nation? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:53 AM Flag
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i know haha my English is terrible on my phone during traffic breaks [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:54 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:55 AM Flag
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Yes, because in other countries people speak their language and English. Because WE are the higher power and they HAVE to speak English to get anywhere in life. I speak English, Spanish and Italian, but realize that the only language most Americans need is English. 42% of all Americans have passports. Most people cannot afford to travel, you ignorant prick. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:48 AM Flag
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Bullshit. About 1/3 of Americans have passports. Look it up. Your excuses are pathetic. "We are the higher power?" Maybe 20 years ago. Not now. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:58 AM Flag
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Then why don't we all speak chinese? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 03:02 AM Flag
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Why more? Well, there are 40 million foreign-born U.S. residents -- 20 percent whom have immigrated (legally I might add) since 2005. They needed passports to get here, and that would mean an additional 8 million passport holders. Further, because of the 40 million foreign-born U.S. residents, about 43 percent have become naturalized U.S. citizens. That means that on the high side, there may be an additional 22.5 million foreign passport holders in the United States. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 03:03 AM Flag
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Spending a week in France and a week in Italy does not teach one how "other people live." [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:48 AM Flag
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Completely spot on. Americans are very provincial. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 03:02 AM Flag
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Seriously... American tourists are so goddamn obnoxious - SO FREAKING LOUD AND DEMANDING. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:43 AM Flag
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hmmm sounds like Germans. Also, ever been around chinese/japanese tourists, UGH! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:44 AM Flag
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No, Germans are not loud, but they do wear socks with sandals which is equally obnoxious. Japanese tourists are merely childlike, which is fine. Chinese tourists... I don't know if they or Americans have the worst travel etiquette. I would have to say Americans, since they have always been able to travel and it is relatively new to the Chinese. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:47 AM Flag
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Right, the loud ones. Do you notice well behaved American tourists? Isn't this kind of selection bias? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:56 AM Flag
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Americans travel far more than the vast majority of the world's citizens, most of whom have never left India or China. Americans travel. A lot. We just travel within the US. Given the vastness of the US, you could spend a lifetime traveling here and never see it all. Overseas travel is expensive and time consuming. Americans get much less vacation time than Europeans. Many people save travel for retirement, when they have the time and money. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:47 AM Flag
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Uh, driving two hours to grandma's house doesn't count as traveling. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:55 AM Flag
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You don't think French people travel to see relatives? All their travel is to exotic India? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 03:00 AM Flag
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+10000 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:55 AM Flag
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This ... given scale of US vs Europe, going from ohio to florida takes longer than going from england to france. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:56 AM Flag
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You don't have to start in Ohio. Going from Atlanta to Jacksonville, one state apart, takes longer than to travel between England and France. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 03:04 AM Flag
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I think calling Americans unsophisticated is another way of saying Lower class Americans are tacky. Same with McDonald's and Walmart hatred. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:58 AM Flag
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But if we say dirt poor Africans are tacky because they wear rags and live in tents...PC shitstorm [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 03:01 AM Flag
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Theyre not tacky. Lower class Americans who buy drugs and 4 wheelers before paying bills, that's the tackiness I condemn. The kind I grew up with. "Why should I work? If I make too much the govt wont give you grant money." Direct quote from my dad. We were his 3rd family. Holy shit I got off topic. Yes I have issues lol. I can't stand people who take and rip off hard workers. I do think that system is strong in AA community, but not poor Africans. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 03:03 AM Flag
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With 2-3 weeks vacation from work, not much time I travel [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:56 AM Flag
[ - ] NYC women who are obsessed with being very thin: Not only are you not doing your daughters any favors, you're hurting your sons, who will grow up with a skewed view of what a woman is supposed to look like. I'm a size 4 (a 2 in some clothing) and play tennis. A Manhattan born-and-raised guy I had been on several dates with told me he liked my toned arms but that I was actually bigger than all of the women he'd ever dated. He said he normally doesn't date "athletic girls". I dumped him later that week - I don't need a guy with issues like that. He keeps calling but I'm over it. He's going to end up marrying some superscrawny chick and watching her weight as much as she does. 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:29 AM Flag
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You cray cray [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:32 AM Flag
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+1 OP, you need to get some real help with your anger issues. I'm a size 0 and I love my body. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:58 AM Flag
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Ha, he sounds gay. I mean seriously most normal men aren't that detailed and don't critique women's bodies the way you explained. I agree with you, OP - I am just saying that men shouldn't be that fixated on how toned a woman's arm is or that you are bigger than the other girls he's been with. He sounds like he has some major issues. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:33 AM Flag
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You dumped him because he called you athletic? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:33 AM Flag
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np: That was your take-away? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:50 AM Flag
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My mom was like that, it made me scared to see her if I had gained any weight. I knew I was going to get a scathing lecture. It was sad. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:35 AM Flag
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He can hold her hair back at the toilet bowl. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:35 AM Flag
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um, so you dated ONE weirdo from NYC and now blame ALL skinny NYC women for creating him? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:44 AM Flag
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"That's so funny that you say that because, while I like the slope of your nose, I totally misinterpreted the tag line on your profile that said, 'Big dick.'" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:41 AM Flag
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are you chubby? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:54 AM Flag
[ - ] What time does the powerball drawing take place? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:28 AM Flag
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11 pm EST You can usually find the numbers on a TV station website or the powerball website. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Tarot mom? 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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[ - ] What qualities do you most value in close friends? 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:19 AM Flag
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I enjoy their company and they enjoy mine. [ Reply | More ]
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kindness, sense of humor, honesty [ Reply | More ]
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This - and if we have some similar interests - it's like hitting the lottery. [ Reply | More ]
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Sure is! [ Reply | More ]
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Honesty, reliable, easygoing [ Reply | More ]
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sense of humor and not taking themselves seriously. I can laugh at myself, I want friends to be able to laugh at themselves as well. [ Reply | More ]
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funny and loyal. take turns talking/listening [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:20 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:30 AM Flag
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+2 - good point. I want a friend who isn't a conversation manipulator but also doesn't pump you for information while not sharing one iota about her own life. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:31 AM Flag
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Ease of conversation. Similarity in values, humor, lifestyle [ Reply | More ]
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humor, acceptance, intelligence, kindness, loyalty, shared perspectives [ Reply | More ]
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Sense of humor, ability to listen, kind, reliable. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:35 AM Flag
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A summer home. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.19.13, 02:53 AM Flag
[ - ] Bored now. Bye. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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me too [ Reply | More ]
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It's a boring night here. [ Reply | More ]
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