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[ - ] Dr. wyrm = NIGGER 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 04:38 AM Flag
[ - ] I have unseen video of the aftermath from the first 2 days at the Twin Towers. Nothing gross but just of the whole area, the firemen talking the docs washing their eyes out, the signs of MORGUE->, all the donated equipment and bins of gloves and inside the surviving buildings and having to run because everyone thought another was coming down. I have not seen this on TV. What do I do with it? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 04:30 AM Flag
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Why havent u given it to the media?! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 04:41 AM Flag
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I just never did as I didn't realize how original it is since it was on a hand held camera and I was doing relief work and professional TV people were not allowed in. Depressing in general for me as I was there and lost people but the video is not really depressing but real never been seen video that people 10 years later would find interesting. The firemen at the main ground zero with the charts and figuring out stuff and what to weld next hoping for survivors. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 04:48 AM Flag
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Osama Bin Laden did nothing wrong. America must burn! Allah is great! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 04:42 AM Flag
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ITA [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 04:43 AM Flag
[ - ] http://www.easyways2fit.com/ 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 04:20 AM Flag
[ - ] Nordstrom or Saks? 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 04:15 AM Flag
[ - ] I think there's about 5 people on right now and two of them are trolls. C YA. 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 03:28 AM Flag
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I'm not, but I'm up way past the time I should be asleep, and I've got about 15 minutes left in me, and no wit or humor [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 03:33 AM Flag
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I'm here. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 03:35 AM Flag
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I am here too. Not a troll but I did bitch about my BIL and his tumor coming tomorrow. Also asked about the Greek debt and got a great link to an article about how they basically don't follow the tax system and I posted about Hillary and Republicans and how they can't get it together. Also was got some great recs on kids movies and some info on the california school system. I learn so much here and also get to vent. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 03:57 AM Flag
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So are you and your DH going to your mom's house in LI? Also did you get swimsuit for your BIL to hide his tumor? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 04:06 AM Flag
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Not going to Moms house and brother is coming to the beach but I think he will just where DH's rash guard and DH will where a tight biking shirt that looks just like a rash guard. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 04:11 AM Flag
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smart. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 04:31 AM Flag
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Yes but DH is totally pissed and I am pissed about his total lack of planning. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 04:32 AM Flag
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Did you get the rash guard? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 04:05 AM Flag
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ALLAH IS GREAT. ALLAH IS KIND. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 04:13 AM Flag
[ - ] Name poll. DAWN 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 03:28 AM Flag
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Makes me think of the babysitters club. sorry, that's the first thing I think of! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 03:35 AM Flag
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Dawn is Jay-den and Haylee's mom. And you know if because she has Jay-den and Hayloo tattooed across her chest. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 03:41 AM Flag
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tony orlando [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 03:53 AM Flag
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No no no [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 04:13 AM Flag
[ - ] S/O: I teach my sons to open doors for men and women. I also teach them to pick up the tab because I know we have more money than most and that is how my father raised me. My oldest is dating our former doorman's daughter, so of course he is picking up the tab. If we were middle class and he was dating a wealthy young lady I wouldn't expect him to pay for 200 dollar dinners simply because of his sex. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 03:24 AM Flag
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Actually, you should be teaching him that $200 dinners at his age are totally inappropriate. He should be saving his money and buying dinner for his dates at nice but inexpensive restaurants. Easy to find in almost any area. Do not teach your son to expect women to pay. Things are fucked up enough as it is. Thank you. #momfail [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 03:27 AM Flag
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We have money, a dinner is not going to break the bank. I have three sons, all of them are solid students and the one I was refering to is a wonderful man and he will be heading off to join his brother at HYP this fall. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 03:32 AM Flag
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Money is relative. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 03:34 AM Flag
[ - ] Pathetic that the Republican party will have to resort to Hillary's emails. I would like to see all their emails. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 03:19 AM Flag
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Newsflash: both 'sides' are pathetic. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 03:23 AM Flag
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op: I get it. Republicans need to drop the pro-life, anti woman thing and stop letting a bunch of guys duel it out until they all look like shit. Why doesn't the Republican National Committee sort of quietly pick someone and tell the others to back off. They will never win at this rate. Hard to believe Obama could win that second term but Republicans are not all on the same page. They need to compromise with each other if they ever want to win. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 03:36 AM Flag
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These were the emails she was sending as a public official, but using a non government email address. Emails from Republican candidates that are or were governors or senators are available using FOIA filings. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 03:42 AM Flag
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So they never send anything public on their private emails? Basically they are going to have to stick to the phone from now on. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 03:58 AM Flag
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Those private emails could be subpoenaed and retrieved if necessary. H specifically made it so they would be destroyed. Does any sane person on the planet believe a top 5 official in the US federal govt should be allowed that right? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 04:38 AM Flag
[ - ] When I was younger and poor I let the mostly wealthy boys I dated pick up the tab for dinners and vacations. When I made money I covered it. 21 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 03:15 AM Flag
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I would say in grad school it was pretty split, with IB guys it would be rude to pay and when I started making money and dated a teacher I made a point to pay and appreciated his protests but I would try to pick up the wine or the fish and he did the small extras. They were all gentleman though. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 03:21 AM Flag
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Which one did you marry? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 03:24 AM Flag
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Lower end banker not one of the Hedge funders. Regrets? Not really. I like my job and am not cut out to look perfect, keep a perfect house, and keep such an active social life with benefits and high heels all the time. The high end uber successful IB and hedge funders are not just "a catch" but you have to perform at a high level also. I like a more mellow life and could feel it especially when I dated one that played polo and expected me to learn and play also. His wife does and looks great doing it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 03:44 AM Flag
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Ugh 28 and never had a guy take me on vacation [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 03:22 AM Flag
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Never been on a beach vacation with a guy? I did 38 countries before I graduated on somebody else's dime. Have to find the adventerous types. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 03:29 AM Flag
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or be an unemployed slut. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 03:45 AM Flag
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I was at an ivy. I worked my ass off to get into a top boarding school and a good university. Hell, I grew up lmc and look at where I am now. Hardly unemployed, although the slut part is debatable;) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 03:47 AM Flag
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you sound fat. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 04:18 AM Flag
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If she were fat none of these men would be footing the bill. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 04:24 AM Flag
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You sound like a hooker. This is not something to be proud of. How many guys did you have to sleep with and how did you find the time for that much travel in college? I imagine you did not do internships during the summers. What do you do now? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 03:47 AM Flag
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Ouch, I really offended you. Nah, people have always been generous with me. I spent the summer inbetween HS and college touring the world. My first serious boyfriend, a good friend of mine, brought me all over. Friends parenta covered travel expenses for large groups. My second serious boyfriend and I traveled all through South America and did a good chunk of Asia. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 03:51 AM Flag
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OK whatever. Everyone with connections were doing internships those summers so hard to believe but whatever. What do you do now? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 04:01 AM Flag
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Law. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 04:21 AM Flag
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did you go to andover by any chance? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 04:21 AM Flag
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Maybe, why? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 04:23 AM Flag
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I know you. What are you up to now? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 04:33 AM Flag
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I work as an escort in the South Bronx. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 04:45 AM Flag
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that responder is not me, but it is c, i think we were roommates junior year at a. i will hit you up on fb. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 04:48 AM Flag
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So roommate of crazy. Was she crazy at Andover? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 05:05 AM Flag
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A guy took me to the hamptons twice. Once before we were official and the day after we broke up. Both times I slept in my own room. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 04:02 AM Flag
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You are not a hooker so no one "takes you on vacation." When you get a serious boyfriend and you both want to go on vacation together you plan it and if he makes more money than you he may pick up the majority of the bill. You still pay some even if it your flight and a few dinners. They don't randomly take you since working people plan vacations 4 -6 months in advance and you decide together where it will be. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 04:09 AM Flag
[ - ] Does anyone here have experience with collaborative divorce, or mediation? I filed for divorce from my emotionally and verbally abusive husband, and he has now suggested these alternative routes. In theory I'd love to have a less confrontational and less expensive divorce, but I see no reason to believe that my husband would be reasonable. For example, I want custody of our teenage DC. He does absolutely nothing to take care of him, and never has. He couldn't name one teacher, doctor, coach, or friend he's ever had. He is a workaholic and he's never home (one reason I was able to tolerate the marriage for so long). He spends 5 minutes talking to him on weekdays, tops. And not much more on weekends. He's completely alienated from our older DC. And I am sure that he has no idea that I am entitled to half of his retirement accounts (as he is to half of mine). Mine are much smaller than his, because he's older and he has a higher-paying job. And I've always put our DCs first, so although I have a good career, my salary is lower than it would have been if I didn't have DC, or if I actually had had a partner who would help with them. Is there any point in trying this? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 03:01 AM Flag
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I would do mediation. Get your own attorney to advise you, but use the mediator to cut costs and determine how far you can get negotiating. If you use a collaborative lawyer, and the talks fail or don't resolve everything, you have to start over with new lawyers -- a huge waste of money. You're lucky you have a teenager - he can speak up for himself if necessary. Are you expecting he'll try to contest your primary custody - are you trying to prevent any visitation? Your teenager may just say no to that. You should be prepared for your financial future - you won't be getting child support for long. Can you guarantee higher ed expenses or will your ex fight you on that? Anyway, get your own lawyer, but try to mediate as much as you can. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 03:26 AM Flag
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Ita [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 04:17 AM Flag
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Thank you. I do expect that he will contest custody. I am not trying to prevent visitation, quite the contrary. Even though my husband is not much of a father, I encourage both DC to have as much of a relationship with him as possible. My younger DC is in HS and very busy (good student, musician) and he needs to live in one place. I always expected that he would have no problem saying that he wants to live with me. In fact, a couple of years ago he asked why I stayed in the marriage when my husband treats me so badly. I said that I didn't want to risk losing custody, or even partial custody. He asked me how I could even think that he'd choose to live with his father. But now that the papers have been filed, he's worried that his father will be angry if he says that he wants to live with me. He wants to live with me (he said, You're actually a parent.) but he doesn't want to have to openly make the choice. I don't want to put him in a painful situation so I'm at a loss. I can easily "prove" that I'm the primary parent (to say the least). But I don't know how that would work in mediation. If he doesn't want me to have custody, then he doesn't have to agree to it, no matter how strong my case for custody is. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 04:17 AM Flag
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^^ I am not concerned about college costs. We agree on the importance of education. And we have saved a large part of what will be needed in a 529. I am concerned about my financial future. If we total our assets and divide them equally (and they have been accumulated during the marriage) I would be OK, when I retire I will adjust my lifestyle to whatever my situation is. But more of the assets are in his name (retirement accounts) because of higher earning power. And I know that he considers that money his. And my retirement accounts mine. I know that a court would start out dividing everything equally, with perhaps minor adjustments. And if there is any fairness a court would award custody to me. But I don't think he'd agree to either of those in mediation. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.15, 04:49 AM Flag
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