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[ - ] Boyfriend has a lumpy soft mattress. Mine is like a rock. I can't sleep at his apartment. What can I do to make it bearable? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:29 AM Flag
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Obviously, get him a new mattress [ Reply | More ]
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Wooden board under your side of the bed? [ Reply | More ]
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good one [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Sometimes I think therapy makes things worse by focusing on the problems. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Yep [ Reply | More ]
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CBT. [ Reply | More ]
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It gets worse before it gets better. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Is there anything more to little women LA than a bunch of "friends" yelling at each other? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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What are you talking about? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:17 AM Flag
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The tv show little women LA. Every time I click by it. It is a group of about 5 women and they are always arguing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:24 AM Flag
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Is this different than real housewives? Are they actually little? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:25 AM Flag
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Actually it is a bit similar. And yes, they are little people. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:27 AM Flag
[ - ] Was in Chicago this past weekend to visit friends. Wow! Such an amazing city. Beautiful, clean, great nightlife, food, gorgeous women. Basically it offers everything NYC has but is half the price and the people are way nicer. Such an underrated city while NYC is SO overrated. 27 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:13 AM Flag
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It has its own issues - the murder rate, the corruption, the winters [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:16 AM Flag
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The crime rate would be the only thing to worry me. YMMV. [ Reply | More ]
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The winters are pretty bad. My mom and sister both live there. It will be 9 degrees here, and -19 with ten feet of snow there. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:24 AM Flag
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Meh. This winter was pretty mild. [ Reply | More ]
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Cold is cold. [ Reply | More ]
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The professionals don't live anywhere near where crime is an issue. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:26 AM Flag
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It's in Illinois, though. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:16 AM Flag
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I agree. Been here for 15 years. Love the city. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:18 AM Flag
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I love Chicago, too. But our seafood selection can be iffy. In terms of crime, no UBers get anywhere near Englewood or the west side. I feel quite safe. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:23 AM Flag
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I agree on both fronts. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:30 AM Flag
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it's surrounded by corn fields. corn fields! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:18 AM Flag
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Yes, the famous cornfields of Gary, IN [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:19 AM Flag
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Don't leave the city. Problem solved. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:31 AM Flag
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gorgeous women LOL [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:18 AM Flag
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NP: for me, the only pro for chicago is that * I * would feel gorgeous there where in NY I'm a fat slob. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:26 AM Flag
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me too! wear sweatshirts to the bar [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:28 AM Flag
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I wear my dress hoody for special occasions. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:30 AM Flag
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go in dead of winter [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:23 AM Flag
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Because New York is paradise in January .... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:30 AM Flag
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better than Chicago [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:35 AM Flag
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Meh. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:26 AM Flag
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Yeah in Chicago you can get a large 1-bedroom in a nice luxury building for around $2K/month. That gets you a closet in manhattan. The cost of living and quality of life in Chicago are incredible. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:26 AM Flag
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Apples to apples, the apartments in top tier neighborhoods are one third the price of manhattan [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:30 AM Flag
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Like a doorman condo that is 1500 a sq foot here is only 500 there. Jelly [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:32 AM Flag
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Apartments aren't quite that cheap. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:33 AM Flag
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As has been discussed before, the top quality men on chicago are looking to lock it down by thirty, whereas their counterparts in manhattan are looking at 40 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:31 AM Flag
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Chicago is highly segregated. You can 100 percent avoid contact with blacks if you stick to the right neighborhoods [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:35 AM Flag
[ - ] Come on Rangers. WTF?!?! 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:11 AM Flag
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What's the score and how much time is left? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:31 AM Flag
[ - ] I am kind of despondent: I ran out of heavy cream and can't make homemade whipped cream for dinner. 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:11 AM Flag
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are you in CA? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:12 AM Flag
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no, NYC :( [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:12 AM Flag
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you eat late [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:13 AM Flag
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i don't have a meal schedule. it's all in flux. each day is different. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:17 AM Flag
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got it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:24 AM Flag
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Aww hugs and prayers xo [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:14 AM Flag
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thank you, dear. [ Reply | More ]
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You're welcome. :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:29 AM Flag
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lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:36 AM Flag
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it's weird that youd post this at all, and its doubly weird you have posted this more than once. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:29 AM Flag
[ - ] I'm 6 months pregnant. Have gained more than I should have so far (17 pounds already), I know. I ate dinner tonight around 7:45. At 10 I felt I wanted a snack before bed so started to get something and DH starts in on my weight gain. I know he's right but It makes me feel bad about myself. How do some of the rest of you control cravings? 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:03 AM Flag
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17 lbs at 6 mos isn't bad? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:07 AM Flag
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I gained that in my first trimester! It all came off Why does he feel the need to comment? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:10 AM Flag
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I really hope this post is fake. You're pregnant. Sure, that doesn't mean to treat your body like a garbage disposal and eat every single piece of junk food in site, but realize that you're growing a child inside you and that the little voice beating you down because of "weight gain" is merely hormones. That said, it's fine to gain a pound a week-- Seriously, this is the time to let it go and relax about food. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:11 AM Flag
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Np: sounds like the real problem here isn't op's little voice but her dh's big mouth. Tell him to fuck off OP! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:28 AM Flag
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WTF??? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:12 AM Flag
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When I was pregnant, ignoring a craving would drive me crazy. Ignore him., [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:13 AM Flag
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My DH complains about my UB habit. He doesn't understand how well he comes off as compared to 95% of the men discussed here. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:13 AM Flag
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Lol lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:17 AM Flag
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And how much nicer to him I am than 95% of women. I even like his mother! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:18 AM Flag
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It will all come off. Don't worry and indulge while you can. But if you're looking to control cravings, try drinking water or warm milk first and see if it takes the edge off. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:15 AM Flag
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Wow I hope this is fake [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] How many friends do you have? 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:02 AM Flag
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2, an old friend from my 20s and my husband. the rest are acquaintances. I'm 50 and am a bit of a late bloomer. everyone else has their lives where they want it to be it seems, no room for me. they'll be friendly, have coffee even... but no emotional room for me. it's lonely, but there are worse things. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:04 AM Flag
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I'm 29 and the above basically sums it up for me too. [ Reply | More ]
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3 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:10 AM Flag
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3 long time friends, 2-3 mom friends [ Reply | More ]
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Define friends [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:18 AM Flag
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THIS [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:19 AM Flag
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I used to have so many! Then I went through a hard time and shut everyone out, leaving me with 2 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:19 AM Flag
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Having a party this weekend - and, much to my surprise, 20 people are coming! A few are work friends (I work in a social office). I have two best friends. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:20 AM Flag
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1 best friend since 5th grade. 5 very close friends from high school, includes the best friend. 2 very close friends I met originally at work 20+ years ago and one of whom I still work with. 3 very close friends I made when I divorced 15 years ago. and at least 1 other very close friend that doesn't fall into any of these groups. I am 43. then plenty of acquaintance friends. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:21 AM Flag
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and my husband! whoops forgot about him. so one more. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:22 AM Flag
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A TON, hard to manage sometimes. They are starting to complain if I don't answer quickly. I began to get to know more and more people when I became a SAHM. Before that, honestly I didn't have any time, so basically stuck with friends from university (NYC and Bay Area that ended up moving to NYC). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:27 AM Flag
[ - ] Have I finally lost my mind or is the quality of some of the clothing at Target gotten reasonably okay in quality? Or is it just that other staple brands like Banana Republic, J. Crew have fallen so low? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:00 AM Flag
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both. Target's quality can be decent. BR and JCrew have gotten sooo much worse in the past 10 years or so. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:01 AM Flag
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OP: Thanks. I went shopping today and bought a shirt and some leggings. Couldn't believe how cute the leggings were. And the shirt is actually pretty decent. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:03 AM Flag
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NP: I typically buy my kids clothes at either Baby Gap or Target, and I've got to say, I always browse my section while I'm at the shops and Target's quality and fit is so much better than anything at Gap. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:14 AM Flag
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leggings are leggings... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:19 AM Flag
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Items in my wardrobe I get the most compliments on: #1. Coat from Target. #2. Boots from Target #3. Another pair of boots from Target #4. Coat from Forever 21 #5. Another coat from Forever 21. I am always proud to tell people that I got the boots on clearance for like 15 bucks. Some of my favorite items of clothing come from Target. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:16 AM Flag
[ - ] Confession: I had a quiet nervous breakdown and left work, skipping some meetings I was supposed to attend. Told them I was "under the weather" but I felt like I could sense their disappointment. My participation was not absolutely required but it would have been good. I even skipped my after work weekly therapy session because I felt like I couldn't handle it. Everything just felt too much for me (m/c, found DH didn't break off his emotional affair, etc). I hid in the back of a Think Coffee for 2 hours reading a novel about time travel and then came home and put DC #1 to bed. So many good things in my life that I'm so grateful for. Still I feel bad about myself and like I'm just an impostor WOHM who could never hack SAHM. TLDR I know... 19 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 01:59 AM Flag
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I'm sorry. Feel better. Good thoughts coming your way [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:02 AM Flag
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don't beat yourself up too much. Sounds like you have a lot on your plate, and it's ok to feel overwhelmed! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:03 AM Flag
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Sometimes, we all need to be kind to ourselves and just take a break. Am glad you did the right thing, you knew in your heart that you needed to peace out for your own sanity. I do these things sometimes or I will short-circuit. Your DH having an emotional affair and a MC are VERY hard situations to handle. Be good to yourself! [ Reply | More ]
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what is MC? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:32 AM Flag
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Tomorrow is a new day [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:05 AM Flag
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Lots of us SAHM feel like we could never hack the WOHM thing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:05 AM Flag
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Hah that's ironic. In my book, you guys are heroes. OP [ Reply | More ]
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hugs [ Reply | More ]
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Thanks everyone. Really appreciate it. OP [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:10 AM Flag
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Hope tomorrow is better. We all have these days. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:11 AM Flag
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You did the right thing by taking care of yourself. Hope tomorrow is a better day. Be kind to yourself. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:13 AM Flag
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Those are pretty big things, give yourself a break. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:14 AM Flag
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I'm a SAHM and feel I could never hack being a WOHM. I hope you feel better. Zero in on your relationship with DH, everyhting else will fall into place. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:15 AM Flag
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Totally valid mental health day by unanimous consent of the urban baby collective. Feel better. [ Reply | More ]
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X10000000 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:22 AM Flag
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I think you played it really smart. You could do some damage under that kind of strain. I think you need to see a therapist to see you through. This shit doesn't just go away. Good luck-- [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:19 AM Flag
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I work for a small company, under 50 employees. I manage one of the larger groups of them. I would totally understand if someone who worked for me came to me and told me the same thing that you are going through.... and I would send them home for a few days until they felt able to cope. I would cover for them, and it would be private. and we don't even have a real HR department. please consider doing this if you think it may be feasible. don't add losing your job to your heavy load. [ Reply | More ]
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NP, you sound wonderful, unfortunately you are in the minority. I don't think most managers would be so understanding [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:29 AM Flag
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but MC is medical. isn't it the law that they have to understand? and that it remains confidential? putting the kindness aside... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:33 AM Flag
[ - ] What's the minimum HHI you'd need to consider a $20k/year private elementary school? One DC. might be moving to DC burbs. 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 01:52 AM Flag
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After you pay for everything else, including retirement and education savings, and have $40K/yr pretax available with good job stability! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 01:56 AM Flag
[ - ] Sorry OP, you got a lemon for a nanny, just try again. My first and third nannies were duds as well. You sound like a great employer and I don't think you'll have trouble finding another nanny. Start looking now! 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 01:52 AM Flag
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where? my doula whom I love found this one. i mean, where? park slope parents groups? i just learned that you cant trust recommendations. [ Reply | More ]
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OP (would-be-OR, oops) - Park Slope Parents group is the worst for recommendations. Care.com and do very careful interviews of references. But the plain fact is that a great nanny for one family can be a terrible nanny for another family with different values. These days I only ever hire with a 3 month trial period after which either party can walk away, no hard feelings. [ Reply | More ]
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^ Meant to say, I do care.com and very careful interviews of references. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:13 AM Flag
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That's a great idea! Any other tips? I need to find a new PT nanny. I keep hiring crazies. :( [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:38 AM Flag
[ - ] Those of you with infants, or for those who can remember way back when......should a 6 week old baby have a "routine?" My MIL is tsk tsk tsk-ing me because baby doesn't nap at same time everyday and because she wakes up every 2-3 hours at night. I am so weary of the comments, sigh. Maybe I am doing something wrong? 22 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 01:47 AM Flag
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Omg no. You are doing fine! I'm a scheduler and my kids weren't on a predictable schedule for 3-4 months. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 01:48 AM Flag
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^ now we did have a routine of basically eat, sleep, play... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 01:54 AM Flag
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Good lord, no. Tell her to bud the fuck out. Baby is still adjusting, no routines necessary until around 2-3 months. Infants waking every 2-3 hours are totally normal. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 01:49 AM Flag
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I had mine all three on a schedule by around 6 weeks (starting at 4) read the baby whisper book it helped me with my first and I used all the techniques with the other two. All slept through the night by 8-15 weeks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 01:52 AM Flag
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Would you like a crown? [ Reply | More ]
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whooot, whoooot, Tiger Mom in da house! Tiger Mom, red alert! [ Reply | More ]
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EVERY DAY!!!!!!!!!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 01:53 AM Flag
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Leave her alone, she has a 6 week old baby. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:23 AM Flag
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No, not yet. Closer to 3 months it gets so much better. Hang in there! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 01:54 AM Flag
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Three young DCs. Did a routine with all of them starting around the 2nd week. All slept through the night at 4 months. Very set feeding/sleeping schedule. Fantastic sleepers/eaters as toddlers and beyond...GL. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 01:55 AM Flag
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Same here. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:20 AM Flag
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Np- I did this too, but for one of them it absolutely didn't work. Still screams for an hour going to bed every night (she is 14 months), all over the place with naps. And I am pretty rigid sleep training/schedule person (for my own benefit). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:27 AM Flag
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We're still not on a schedule and ours is much older. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 01:57 AM Flag
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I breastfed when baby wanted it at that age and she naturally would do longer stretches at night. There was definitely no nap schedule that early. Tell MIL to kick rocks. You have plenty of time to start finding a rhythm. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 01:58 AM Flag
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My kids are in college - 6 wks is too young. Keep it dark and quiet for night feedings but no real "schedule" till 10-12 wks. Enjoy this time - it's gone in a blink. Just cuddle you baby and comfort her. MIl is wrong. [ Reply | More ]
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Just because her MIL is advocating a different approach than what worked for you does not make it "wrong". It makes it different from what you did. OP, do what you feel is right. If you'd like your baby on a more consistent sleep/feed schedule, get a book and follow its advice; if you are happy doing what you're doing, stick with that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:22 AM Flag
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Ugh. Your MIL sounds like a backseat driver. My MIL's mom is like that and it's so toxic. I'm sorry. You are doing nothing wrong at all. [ Reply | More ]
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By 6 weeks, I think it's something to be working toward -- and if you're already there, congrats, but anyone giving you grief about it at this point needs to back the fuck OFF. [ Reply | More ]
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OP here: thanks, ladies. I am bf on demand, taking her on lots of walk and outings, generally trying to enjoy this precious time. But I am very stressed about going back to work in 6 more weeks, i hope a 'routine' is a reality by then! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:13 AM Flag
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As someone stated above, keep it silent and super dark when you feed db between 9pm and 6am. During the day you can talk, sing, etc while breastfeeding (though she might fall asleep anyway). You're teaching her that lights out is quiet time and most babies get it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:21 AM Flag
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Six weeks is very early for a schedule, but you can start doing wakefulness windows - basically, during the day, try to put baby down about 90 min after the end of the first nap. That will eventually turn into a routine. Take care of yourself and baby and don't worry about MIL! You should also have DH tell her to put a lid on it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:17 AM Flag
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OP. I have several sleep books (Happiest Baby, 90 Minute Something) and we keep the bedroom very dark and quiet at night-- no lights, no TV, use a white noise machine. Daytime we are not quiet, even when she is napping. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:37 AM Flag
[ - ] I really like my new job but it's a bit overwhelming. Everything is being done differently from my previous job and frankly I think it just looks like I don't know what I am doing. I hope it works out ... 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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It will. But hate that feeling! Hang in there! [ Reply | More ]
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+1 we've all been there, and there's no quick fix. You just have to ride out the learning curve. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 01:59 AM Flag
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Me too. And I have one horrible board member gunning to get me fired. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:21 AM Flag
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Learning curve is a tough point in time for all of us. No one likes feeling like a dummy [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:16 AM Flag
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fake it til ya make it! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:35 AM Flag
[ - ] My vagina still sucks. How likely is it that the medicine didn't clear the BV? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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bv? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 01:48 AM Flag
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Bacterial vaginosis [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 01:57 AM Flag
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You missed days despite your vagina begging you not to miss any days. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 01:59 AM Flag
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I missed one night and made up for it at the end. Most people notice improvement after two doses of the medication. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:02 AM Flag
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I have an old-timey home remedies book from the 1930's, and it says to douche twice per day with a mixture of warm water and raw yogurt. This is supposed to reset the bacteria to something normal and healthy. It also says the first step is to douche with warm water and a little bit of baking soda to rinse out the existing material in there, but I don't know how much that helps or not, before you insert the yogurt mix. [ Reply | More ]
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+1 for yogurt up the yahoo... well-known home remedy from way back. can't hurt and much better than antibx [ Reply | More ]
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Does anybody think this really works? [ Reply | More ]
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no way [ Reply | More ]
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tmi! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:31 AM Flag
[ - ] Does anyone feel bad for Brian Williams, or is he really a complete asshole? 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Kinda both. [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 01:44 AM Flag
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+2. I think he is completely full of himself and world-class liar but I also think the pressure to do that in his position must be immense. [ Reply | More ]
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Just seems to dumb to lie about something where there are people out there that were with you and that know what you're saying is bullshit [ Reply | More ]
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that is where the full of himself comes into play [ Reply | More ]
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narcissist+liar = asshole [ Reply | More ]
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Total asshole. Anyone who compromised his position would be fired and without 30 million [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 01:47 AM Flag
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he just seemed so sweet [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 01:49 AM Flag
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HE IS A LIAR [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 01:51 AM Flag
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He is human. It is good to feel empathy toward others. His suffering is no larger than that of others. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 01:52 AM Flag
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I kind of feel sorry for him, but he got too full of himself. He's had the opportunity to live a life most will never so that must have been fun for him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:12 AM Flag
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He will be fine. Better off than many. No sympathy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:19 AM Flag
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His DW seems bitchy [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:22 AM Flag
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I think he's deeply insecure. It's sad, because he's obviously smart and can be incredibly funny. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:22 AM Flag
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I do not think he is smart at all. He had to lie to get ahead. Just average. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:33 AM Flag
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He definitely looks the part [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:36 AM Flag
[ - ] DH and I (no DCs yet) are moving to NYC this summer when I start my new job. DH works from home running a small tech business with his friend. Recently the friend announced that he and his gf would be moving to NYC too and would I be interested in the four of us living together in a two bedroom apartment for a year so they could work closely on growing their business and so we could all save money. Here's the thing: I love these people, but no way in hell do I want to live with them. I am very introverted and need my alone time. DH is introverted too and we both stay in on the weekends and read. His friend and friend's gf and big partiers and loud and extroverted. I love them as people but in small doses. How can I say no without making them feel like I don't like them? If I blame personality type differences I'm afraid they will take that to mean I don't like their personalities. 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 01:35 AM Flag
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say you're looking to live in an apartment for longer than a year- NYC can be a bitch with broker's fees for apartments [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 01:36 AM Flag
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Easy, business and pleasure do not mix. Tell them, with a smile. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 01:37 AM Flag
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Just say you want to separate work from home and don't think you will be able to if you live and work together. I think that would be a pretty normal reaction to that living arrangement. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 01:37 AM Flag
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this [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 01:42 AM Flag
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yes this. don't go into any further detail or preferences or any of that silly TMI that no one gives a shit about. keeping work and home separate is 100% ok and will be respected. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:37 AM Flag
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Say you were given a deal on a place by a friend or relative . [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 01:37 AM Flag
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Could you afford to invest in a three family house in bklyn or queens where you each have your own apt and another unit for rental income? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 01:38 AM Flag
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Do not do this! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 01:56 AM Flag
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You don't blame it on personality differences, you blame it on your own preference to have a ton of privacy which you phrase in a self-deprecating way as if it's your own weird thing and wouldn't matter who the potential roomies are (blame it on growing up as an only or growing up with an annoying sibling or a traumatizing college roommate situation if you have a to). But under no circumstances should you agree. This arrangement has the potential to go terribly badly even if everyone was on board initially. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 01:41 AM Flag
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omg you are right. do not do it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 01:43 AM Flag
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time to pull a Nancy Reagan and just say no. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:01 AM Flag
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I seriously don't understand why you are posting this on this site. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.07.15, 02:21 AM Flag
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