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[ - ] Omg so cute 2yo just said "I can't wait for kwismas!" Lol 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.18.14, 11:38 PM Flag
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When I first saw that I thought she said Kwanzaa. [ Reply | More ]
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Do we still say TITBC here? [ Reply | More ]
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What does that mean [ Reply | More ]
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LOL [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] How long are you off your feet with a tummy tuck? Have 4 and 7 yr old. 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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I think you are asking the wrong board. There must be a forum for these types of questions. Just workout. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] DCs have a half day on the 24th. This just doesn't seem right. Their school has very strict attendance policy so I don't know if i'll be able to keep them home! 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.18.14, 11:34 PM Flag
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would you prefer a full day in school, or none at all? [ Reply | More ]
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None at all. Its Christmas Eve no way kids (at least mine) would be able to focus on anything. [ Reply | More ]
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Not psychic mom but I'm going to guess she wants none at all. [ Reply | More ]
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^OP: You would be correct. [ Reply | More ]
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That is odd. [ Reply | More ]
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I know! This has never happened to us before. [ Reply | More ]
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is it a Jewish school? I can't imagine any other school (public or private) having school on CE [ Reply | More ]
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No way my kid would be going to school on Christmas Eve, regardless of any policy. [ Reply | More ]
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Are they at a Jewish school? If not keep them home. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] I forget - did UB like carpet stair runners for wood stairs? Or no? 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.18.14, 11:30 PM Flag
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I like it if tastefully done [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.18.14, 11:33 PM Flag
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If you have small dc, you should do it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.18.14, 11:33 PM Flag
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Is it like a slipping thing or a bang your head thing or both? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.18.14, 11:33 PM Flag
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agree. and there are some nice runners [ Reply | More ]
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yes of course- especially if you have kids. make it classy tho [ Reply | More ]
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This reminds me of my parents' house in the 70s that had a plastic stair runner over olive green carpet. [ Reply | More ]
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don't do the plastic over the carpet. i can't believe people used to do that and on their couches [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Need suggestions for little gifts for DH. I got him one main gift. He has everything but is very appreciative. 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.18.14, 11:25 PM Flag
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Personalized M&M's. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.18.14, 11:26 PM Flag
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Blanking on the suggestions (so this is not all that helpful), but Allure had a good blurb about gift buying for guys and I loved the suggestions (but I'd already shopped for DH). Read it while getting my nails done the other night. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.18.14, 11:33 PM Flag
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some new underwear [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.18.14, 11:34 PM Flag
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MeUndies - they're so comfortable! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.18.14, 11:36 PM Flag
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shot glasses. [ Reply | More ]
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does he like nice chocolates? how about a pair or two of fancy socks? does he enjoy drawing or sketching? a nice notebook... [ Reply | More ]
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Do any men really like chocolates? Serious question. I never hear men going crazy over chocolate. [ Reply | More ]
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op here: I got him socks. He doesn't draw/sketch and shot glasses wouldn't be good either. Allure mom try and remember! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.18.14, 11:39 PM Flag
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book--fun paperback [ Reply | More ]
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They keep pushing these socks called bompas (?) and men's underwear from TommyJohn on sirius/xm [ Reply | More ]
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sorry - bomba socks [ Reply | More ]
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I got DH one of those iphone portable battery things. And a Reese's cup tree. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.18.14, 11:43 PM Flag
[ - ] Flame away but I did all my Christmas shopping at Walmart. 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.18.14, 11:24 PM Flag
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No flames here. I wish people would just be nice. It's the holidays. [ Reply | More ]
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What did you buy? 3XL tees and no name sweatpants? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.18.14, 11:27 PM Flag
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Shit that's what I buy for myself. Merry Christmas to me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.18.14, 11:34 PM Flag
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they actually have a lot of stuff there- in the toy dept. [ Reply | More ]
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evil corporation. sorry. it just is. [ Reply | More ]
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i am reading sam waltons auto-bio right now. [ Reply | More ]
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Anything sinister in there? [ Reply | More ]
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just in the beginning. sam walton seems like a very type a, driven man. will report back at a later time. [ Reply | More ]
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So Walmart is evil but shopping at Henri Bendel is just fine? The combination of upper class income and sanctimonious liberal is what makes Manhattanites so dislikeable. [ Reply | More ]
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Heneri Bendal has nice quality rather than buying a two dollar shirt and having it rip. [ Reply | More ]
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not all of it is good quality. some of their own label stuff is shit-- and not expensive, actually. [ Reply | More ]
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Then send me to hell in a Walmart handbasket. I've sold my soul. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.18.14, 11:43 PM Flag
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The toys are probably half broken that's why they are sold for so cheap. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.18.14, 11:38 PM Flag
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gee- that makes a lot of sense. it's all the same crap you can buy at target, amazon, etc. if you late looking for some wooden european toy do not go there obviously. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.18.14, 11:43 PM Flag
[ - ] MAKEUP ladies: I want to buy a lipstick for my MIL (I have other gifts for her too). Suggestions for a nice shade of pink. Not too bright and can't afford Chanel - $20 range is fine. 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.18.14, 11:19 PM Flag
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Lipstick is tough to buy for someone else. Does she have a favorite brand/go-to shade? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.18.14, 11:22 PM Flag
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No. She is very low maintenance. I've gotten her Clinique in the past but can't remember colors. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.18.14, 11:23 PM Flag
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I'm not a makeup person at all, but have had luck with the Dior Glow line - it's seems to be universally flattering. (I have gloss - which may not be your MIL's style - and blush.) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.18.14, 11:32 PM Flag
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^^ NP [ Reply | More ]
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Rite aid or CVS usually have a fine selection [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.18.14, 11:25 PM Flag
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Clinique black honey looks dark, but really is almost universally flattering. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.18.14, 11:29 PM Flag
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going on 25 years wearing that shade - love it! NP. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.18.14, 11:36 PM Flag
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They also have one of their sticks, I think it's called Lots of Honey, and it also works for many people and is foolproof. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.18.14, 11:41 PM Flag
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What about that pink shade that Evelyn Lauder originated for Estee Lauder as a fundraiser for breast cancer research? I don't remember the name of the shade but the Estee Lauder counter anywhere probably stocks it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.18.14, 11:30 PM Flag
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wow thanks [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.18.14, 11:39 PM Flag
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I really love Stila's lipstick. Also tarte [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.18.14, 11:36 PM Flag
[ - ] When is the last day of school for your kids? Going away? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Today. Nope [ Reply | More ]
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Today - lucky. [ Reply | More ]
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December 23rd. Not going away. I like NYC during the holidays. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.18.14, 11:34 PM Flag
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tomorrow. sticking around for a few days to chill out and get organized, then leaving until the 3rd. [ Reply | More ]
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Today. Going to Mexico with ILs (annual tradition). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.18.14, 11:38 PM Flag
[ - ] Other than AMNH and Met (and CMOM), what uptown museums or exhibits are good for preschool/K kids? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.18.14, 11:11 PM Flag
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Pretend FAO is a toy museum. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.18.14, 11:14 PM Flag
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visiting friend wants to meet up at a museum; i will have kids in tow. they are well behaved but it will be best for everyone if there is at least something of interest for them. if i can't make it work, i'll come up with a different plan, but if i can figure something out to accommodate her, i would prefer that. [ Reply | More ]
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^^ OP. [ Reply | More ]
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Just meet at the MET something for everyone. [ Reply | More ]
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any other suggestions? [ Reply | More ]
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I haven't been but Historical Society on UWS has children's area [ Reply | More ]
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And a train show. [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] What can I get my boyfriend for christmas? He is 33, loves drinking, sports and comedy. Runs his own business so works really hard 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.18.14, 11:09 PM Flag
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tickets to standup? [ Reply | More ]
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Speaking of, go to Comedy Cellar on Saturday nights. A lot of great comedians pop in to test their material. [ Reply | More ]
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Drinkers Bible [ Reply | More ]
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A good bottle of whatever he likes, a flask, a copy of Jerry McGuire, and tickets to a hockey game. [ Reply | More ]
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Better question: what is how getting you? And if it's not an engagement ring, why are you worried about getting him anything beyond the obligatory sweater? [ Reply | More ]
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cashmere scarf? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.18.14, 11:31 PM Flag
[ - ] S/O - does UB also vehemently disapprove of cheating if no marriage or kids. So getting together with a guy that has a serious GF? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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not cool [ Reply | More ]
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Not cool at all. Lots of guys out there why choose one scummy enough to cheat. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.18.14, 11:16 PM Flag
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I did it as revenge when I was younger. My BF dumped me for his bitch roommate that was always sniffing around. They ended up in a LT relationship but first chance I got to sleep with him, I did it with a huge smile on my face. Felt great. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.18.14, 11:23 PM Flag
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You showed him (and you). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.18.14, 11:41 PM Flag
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My brother's girlfriend had some friends visit NYC from her home state. One of the friends was really into my brother. A few weeks later she booked a 2nd trip to New York without telling my brother's gf and invited my brother to get together for a drink with her. They hit it off. Brother broke up with old girlfriend and that other girl has now been my SIL for 15 years. Oh they're getting a divorce this year though. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.18.14, 11:33 PM Flag
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so yes, then? [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Had 3 dates with a guy (no sex yet, but heavy makeout sessions). Last date was Friday. He has his son every Saturday night. Sunday night we both had plans with friends. He texts me several times a day, but has not mentioned seeing each other. I think he is legit really busy. Works late most nights and he just might not have the time this week. Can I say something like, "Should I assume you are too busy...?" I am really bad at this! 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.18.14, 11:04 PM Flag
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Offer to make him dinner. [ Reply | More ]
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Do not say that! Follow his lead and keep dating other people. [ Reply | More ]
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Don't say that. I think that this time of year is horrendous for people. For now, banter - and assume that you'll more time after the holiday rush. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.18.14, 11:28 PM Flag
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i imagine it is especially hard for divorced parents [ Reply | More ]
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this. And the whole "follow his lead and keep dating" person is yucky. [ Reply | More ]
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The holidays are probably hard with his schedule, but a guy who has his child every Saturday, can't be all bad. I'd ask if he'd like to get dinner one night after christmas [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Crossfit good for 14 - 15 year old DS? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Over rated and too expensive imo. If he plays a sport most of them incorporate dry land training. [ Reply | More ]
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I wouldn't - at the risk of running afowl of the Cross Fit cult, many of them have terrible form and teach techniques that unless they're done correctly, can really injure you. [ Reply | More ]
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Another reason is you'll never hear the end of it. The joke is true - Crossfit is the opposite of Fight Club because the first rule is to never shut the fuck up about Crossfit. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.18.14, 11:17 PM Flag
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Same with marathoners. Please run away and tell someone else about your six minute mile. [ Reply | More ]
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THIS. A million times this. I know so many people with injuries from Cross Fit. One more fad. [ Reply | More ]
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i would not. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.18.14, 11:38 PM Flag
[ - ] Any suggestions for taking 11 and 13 year old boys to the Guggenheim? Any ideas for a fun and affordable place to have lunch, anywhere from Guggenheim to Penn. 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.18.14, 10:59 PM Flag
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Serafina's on Madison and 79th is a good lunch place or you can have lunch at The Met and see the tree. [ Reply | More ]
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EJ's [ Reply | More ]
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J. G. Melon's. [ Reply | More ]
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Shake shack of course [ Reply | More ]
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There is a Shake Shack on 86th between Lex & Third. Not festive though. [ Reply | More ]
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The one on 86th has a B. [ Reply | More ]
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Oops ate there tonight! [ Reply | More ]
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^ just read the violations- not so bad! No roaches or mice [ Reply | More ]
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Met museum. Give a nominal donation for admission, see the tree, eat in the cafeteria downstairs. PS - my kids 4 and 6 love the guggenheim! the spiral is interesting for kids. [ Reply | More ]
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Good to know! -OP of museum suggestion post above [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] How crucial are sliding doors on a car? Do they make that big of a difference in convenience for parents? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Easier to open the doors in tight parking places without damaging your or their car. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Ever noticed how SJPs DCs look nothing like her, but both DDs look exactly like MB? 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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That's the case with a lot of people I know. [ Reply | More ]
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But it is both DDs who look nothing like her. [ Reply | More ]
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Didn't they use surrogate? Maybe not her eggs? Or maybe the kids just don't look like her. [ Reply | More ]
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MYOB [ Reply | More ]
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If you are in the public eye, people have a right to comment. I saw it in the DailyMail and honestly, I think celebrities want to be photographed for this publication, they may even get paid for being photographed. [ Reply | More ]
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they definitely used a surrogate for the twins. [ Reply | More ]
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both of my ds look just like me. Nothing of DH's in their faces. I didn't cheat. Genetics are funny that way. [ Reply | More ]
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nope - my kids are adopted so maybe I am more incline to just see a family as a family and not wonder about how they got their children [ Reply | More ]
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Yes, you are more inclined to think this way. [ Reply | More ]
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Donor eggs. [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
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Eh, I look nothing like either of my parents. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.18.14, 11:40 PM Flag
[ - ] We went to our DD's holiday concert a few nights ago and all the parents stand in line in order to get good seats. We went an hour early and were in the middle of the line. Just as the doors opened, some Chinese parents began bum-rushing to the front and cut hundreds of people. People in the front were so in shock that they just kind of stood there. This is a Christian school so I think people were being extra nice, but seriously? It gave me flashbacks to my time in China. Would have been hilarious if a brawl broke out. 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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I was with you until you got to Christian school. Do you think people are nicer there then at a secular school? [ Reply | More ]
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This is a Christian school in progressive LA. I'm actually shocked a fight didn't break out. It was seriously insane what they did. Can't stop thinking about it. [ Reply | More ]
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I am a poster from LA who once commented on similar cultural differences. Not making a sweeping judgment per se, but just noting that the influx of folks from China add a very different vibe to local cultural events. I was flamed to holy hell. [ Reply | More ]
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Well, I love the diversity of LA, and yes, even the influx of Chinese. I must say that you can tell that they loved the Christmas program. Cameras galore. It made me happy to see that. But someone needs to speak to them regarding cutting the line. [ Reply | More ]
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np - FWIW there are tons of Chinese families who have been in LA for many more generations than you white people. [ Reply | More ]
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christian in LA... oh boy. [ Reply | More ]
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What I don't understand about this is why don't they realize that that they're making a terrible impression on everyone around them. Do they not care what people think? [ Reply | More ]
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I worked in China a little bit and there was no concept of standing in line. And even if there were lines, people cut like crazy. But I was really shocked when they cut so flagrantly at the Christmas program. I'm honestly trying to wrap my mind around it given that they are such a collectivist culture. [ Reply | More ]
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lmao at the "brawl" visual! Hilarious! Everything is an SNL skit to me, somehow….so I loved that comment! Glad you saw the humor in it. :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.18.14, 11:42 PM Flag
[ - ] I have heard that they google the parents. Parents who are in interesting or careers that show that they are intellectually gifted are put in the slots for the first weekend. The slots are all about genetics. So basically if you are a loser or in finance your kids get shuffled to the second weekend. 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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That would be the best UB poll ever. "R2 time slot, parents' careers and degrees, most embarrassing recent Facebook post." [ Reply | More ]
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hilarious [ Reply | More ]
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Who is they? [ Reply | More ]
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OP: I was told that the admissions team at Hunter does this. This is why we get our time/date slot so long after the cut-off is released. Think about it.. if it was just random or something simple they would give you an appointment right away. They have an entire team of googlers in the admissions office. [ Reply | More ]
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they also run background checks [ Reply | More ]
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the take the kids with the highest scores first [ Reply | More ]
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the government [ Reply | More ]
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LOL. Good one. [ Reply | More ]
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You are on crack. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.18.14, 11:17 PM Flag
[ - ] Forgive my cattiness but my exDH really put me through the ringer (cheater, cheap, etc.) Now he has a new GF, older like us, but never married. She was slim and fresh-looking when they started dated when she was 39. Seeing her photos with him on Facebook now and she's ballooned, now 42, still not married to him and no kids. My read: she's getting sucked into his miserableness, isn't she? I'm actually feeling sorry for her. Am I totally not seeing this accurately? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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blech could be [ Reply | More ]
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You aren't feeling sorry for her. You are thrilled!! As I would be too. You obviously have kids and she doesn't. It's called Schadenfreude and it's natural. [ Reply | More ]
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OP here: I guess I could be thrilled. I am feel more vindicated that I got out for the right reasons (was feeling like maybe I should stay and he'd change, etc.) even though I don't have actual tangible reasons to think this, that's why I ask here. It's just a gut feeling based on her appearance. I will add, exDH looks HAPPY and really into her which I'm actually glad about too. I just keep putting myself in her shoes and I think, damn girl, don't you see what's going on? He's manipulating you and bringing you down. And now you're just about too old to move on and have kids elsewhere. Which, weirdly, I think that dynamic is actually why my exDH is happy. [ Reply | More ]
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You are the winner in this one [ Reply | More ]
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Feel vindicated but try to stop focusing on them and focus on yourself and your kids. Tis the season. [ Reply | More ]
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The best revenge is a good life. Stop following her. [ Reply | More ]
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