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[ - ] math question, what are the chances that my 34 yo never-married cousin will be able to find a man to marry and have kids with before age 40? She lives in Queens, has a crappy job, a BA degree in a STEM subject from a state school, is about 20 lbs overweight, cooks well, isn't picky about a man's height or profession, absolutely will not date men with kids or anyone over 40, has no debt, and wears very thick glasses. She says 5% chance of it happening, I think it's around 25%. What do you think? 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:55 PM Flag
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0% you're both bad at "math" lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:57 PM Flag
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50-50 chance. The UB perspective is totally misguided. Overweight, less than perfect women get happily married everyday all over this city. I'm sure she will find someone if she's open minded. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:58 PM Flag
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80% if she relents on the kids issue -- meaning she is willing to date a guy with kids and gives up the dream of having her own. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:58 PM Flag
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+1 her pool of eligible candidates is dwindling unless she's willing to cave on previously married men with kids [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 07:06 PM Flag
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None of the stuff you listed matters. The only thing that matters is how proactive she is and how much she wants to get married. If she puts herself out there, meets lots of guys (online dating/asks friends to be match makers, etc), and marriage is a top priority, she will get married. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:58 PM Flag
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This [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 07:08 PM Flag
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Her chances will improve if she will consider a man who is 7 years older or has a child. Why so picky? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 07:00 PM Flag
[ - ] I'm dating a divorced man who has a dc. His ex dw just moved to the burbs with the child. Now boyfriend will likely have to take the Metro North train to pick up or return his son. I own a car but I haven't offered him rides. Should I? I honestly don't want to be bothered or involved in this in any way. I haven't met his ex dw and I hate driving long distances. Together for a year. 25 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:42 PM Flag
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Let him borrow your car [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:43 PM Flag
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op: He has an expired license. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:45 PM Flag
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Then tell him to renew it duh. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 07:03 PM Flag
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let him drive your car and give him head while he drives [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:46 PM Flag
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omg let this one go. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:45 PM Flag
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+ infinity [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:45 PM Flag
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What does this have to do with you? Clearly you don't care [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:46 PM Flag
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op: I honestly don't care. I don't think this should be my problem. The ex chose to move, she should find a way to bring the dc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:50 PM Flag
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She should not move because ex is too lazy to take the train? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 07:07 PM Flag
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For moves of this distance, generally court will allow, without requiring the moving party to do all transport. Kids may have hit school age, MS, whatever, and the ex might not have been able to afford to live in a good school district. Maybe your BF should pay more child support so she could afford to stay in the city. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 07:11 PM Flag
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How seriously are you dating? I mean, if it's been a year, does this look long-term? If yes, loan him your car. Or maybe he'll buy his own? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:46 PM Flag
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It sounds as if you don't care about him. He will soon figure this out. You might as well break up. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 07:04 PM Flag
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op: I care about him very much but I don't think I should be inconvenienced by his ex dw's move. This has nothing to do with me. We're not even married. Why should I spend my weekends doing round trips stuck in traffic? I will gladly let him borrow the car when/if he renews his license. I think it's important to set some boundaries there. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 07:07 PM Flag
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I agree with setting boundaries, but don't kid yourself. His kids and his ex will inconveinece you [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 07:09 PM Flag
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Expired license, visitation schedule, how desperate are you to get married? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:47 PM Flag
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op: Not desperate at all. I'm 28. He is a native New Yorker with no need or desire to own a car hence the expired license. His ex moving an hour away was not something he expected so we are all trying to adapt. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:49 PM Flag
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NP: It's too bad she moved, but he'll have to figure it out--I've always wondered why both parents don't have to deal with commuting for dropoffs and pickups, but whatever. I'd loan him my car. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:51 PM Flag
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^^^meaning he'll obviously have to renew his license. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:52 PM Flag
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Why is this such an issue? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 07:03 PM Flag
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I am guessing the ex has a car. She may not have been able to afford a good school district. OP says pick up OR return, so the ex may be doing half. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 07:05 PM Flag
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op: Yes, ex drives so for her it's no big deal. She made the decision to move and she drives. I believe she should be willing to bring dc for weekends, at least until the father can figure out a better way to get there. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 07:12 PM Flag
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If you are 28, either you are an idiot or he is very rich or you are not very attractive. Deal with the choice you have made, or find a guy without kids. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 07:11 PM Flag
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It may piss off the ex if you show up. She may think you are trying to displace her [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 07:04 PM Flag
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op: I have no desire to see her or to compete with her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 07:12 PM Flag
[ - ] Serious question. I made a comment on FB about Hillary's haircut (I think it was better last night than it's been recently was the comment). I got yelled at by a few big Hillary supporters for being sexist. How is that sexist? I also make comments about Trump's hair/skin/clothes on a regular basis. 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:35 PM Flag
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^maybe I'm a jerk for doing so, but I don't understand how it is sexist. I'm voting for Hillary BTW (former Bernie supporter). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:38 PM Flag
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forget them, they're unhinged. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:39 PM Flag
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People are extremely sensitive these days. They take any criticism of their chosen candidate way too seriously. Just avoid it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:41 PM Flag
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Yes, you're probably right. I intend to steer clear moving forward. It was meant as a lighthearted response to someone else's post. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:42 PM Flag
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People are definitely not lighthearted about this election. It's not your fault. I've seen people inject humor into some posts but they do it very, very carefully. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:43 PM Flag
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Lesson learned. Thanks for not flaming me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:44 PM Flag
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There was nothing flameworthy about your post. It's happening a lot these days. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:52 PM Flag
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This, I was just reflecting today on the extremely heightened emotions surrounding politics. It's sort of bizarre, if you ask me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:46 PM Flag
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Hillary has already had one run for President and it wasn't even close to this bad in terms of how people are so angrily divided across party lines right now. It's to the point where if you say you are a Democrat there are people who will tell you to your face that you may as well have ordered the execution of Americans, and if you say you're for Trump you are a nazi yourself. The rhetoric on both sides isn't just over the top. It's in the next solar system. There is only one element to this election that is new. Terrorism isn't new. Immigration isn't new. Struggle of the middle class isn't new. We have a Trojan horse at the gate. A big, gold Trojan horse. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 07:03 PM Flag
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Fake. Trump troll. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:45 PM Flag
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Uh, no, not at all. I think Trump is a tangerine fascist. I was a big Bernie person, and now voting Hillary (reluctantly). Made the comment in response to someone else's post about the Kaine pick. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:52 PM Flag
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Hillary votes are rabid harpies [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 07:00 PM Flag
[ - ] wot is the name pimpa short for? 19 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:31 PM Flag
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Pimpa Middleton? [ Reply | More ]
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LMAO!!!!! [ Reply | More ]
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Pumpernickel [ Reply | More ]
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np: now I'm hungry, thanks! [ Reply | More ]
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Pimpdaddio [ Reply | More ]
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pimpal [ Reply | More ]
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wot the fuck [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
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Usually Patricia or Penelope. I actually think it's so cute, and it's really too bad that orange social climber has ruined it through 2070 or so. [ Reply | More ]
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lolol [ Reply | More ]
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Pimpa Middleton is a Philippa. [ Reply | More ]
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^^^i meant pippa [ Reply | More ]
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lolol [ Reply | More ]
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Rumpimplestiltskin [ Reply | More ]
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Pimple Ann [ Reply | More ]
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John [ Reply | More ]
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Pimpadimpadodaday [ Reply | More ]
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Pimpmyride [ Reply | More ]
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WOT MATE [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 07:09 PM Flag
[ - ] why wouldn't a person return a locked iphone? Find My Iphone has it completely locked so it is a brick and can't be restored. 18 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:29 PM Flag
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I'm sure it can be sold and wiped out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:30 PM Flag
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even if that's possible, it is marked as stolen at all the phone companies. i checked the imei number on att, sprint, etc [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:32 PM Flag
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they can sell it to an unsuspecting person. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:31 PM Flag
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Maybe you dropped it somewhere and it wasn't actually stolen? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:34 PM Flag
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there's a message on there saying it is lost, reward if returned [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:35 PM Flag
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What I mean is, maybe nobody actually has it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:37 PM Flag
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and i reported it stolen on verizon [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:35 PM Flag
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so? if no one has picked it up....then no one is going to return it bricked or not [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:41 PM Flag
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it has been a few days [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:52 PM Flag
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This - was it actively stolen or did you lose it? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:48 PM Flag
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i dropped it and it is now gone from that small area. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:52 PM Flag
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Why don't you have your find my phone activated? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:47 PM Flag
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i do, that is the only way of completely locking it from being restored. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:51 PM Flag
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So what don't you go to where it is? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:55 PM Flag
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it can be anywhere in an apartment building [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:57 PM Flag
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But is it where u lost it? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:59 PM Flag
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She didn't say it's not activated. She was able to lock it using Find my IPhone [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:53 PM Flag
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DH lost left his phone at movie theater. Find my iPhone showed it there. We went. It was in an industrial sized trash dumpster. So, no go! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 07:11 PM Flag
[ - ] Opinions of this bathing suit for little girls (link will follow). The only ones I can find are Disney and hideous. 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:26 PM Flag
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Cute! Reminds me of those Polly Flinders dresses we all used to wear in the 80s. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:28 PM Flag
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fug [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:28 PM Flag
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Target and J. Crew (depending on your budget) both have reliable nautical-themed anchors/stripes/color block/etc. basic preppy-looking suits without Disney or theme characters. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:36 PM Flag
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I can't find anything anymore at my local Target and Crew Cuts seems to be for older kids. My dc is 9 months. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:42 PM Flag
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NP I just looked at Carters saw a few things. Check there as well. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:45 PM Flag
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Thanks! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:52 PM Flag
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Nordstrom has a great selection. Also boden USA [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:47 PM Flag
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it's fine. it's for a baby, not a 35 yo woman trying to snag the last half-way decent divorced dad left in the dating pool. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:49 PM Flag
[ - ] If close relative asked you to write her a check so she could show income (with the promise that she'd give you back cash on the spot), would you do it? For a rental property. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:26 PM Flag
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If she's able to give you cash, why doesn't she put that in the bank and show income that way? Where is her cash coming from? I'm not sure a personal check from a 3d party sounds like it looks like they have an income. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:33 PM Flag
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A check shows assets, not income. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:38 PM Flag
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Wtf. It goes to cash flow. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 07:10 PM Flag
[ - ] Medical moms: If a kid falls asleep in a hot car and then starts to get to dangerous levels of heat exhaustion would the kid not wake up and try to get out of the car? or would they just keep sleeping and then die? Trying to understand how this could happen to that poor 4 year old. Do you thinkshe tried to escape? Or was she not even aware she was dying and not even in pain? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:23 PM Flag
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Was she strapped in a booster seat? She may have panicked, and couldn't get out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:29 PM Flag
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I'll get flamed but my 5 yo can't unbuckle his carseat buckle by himself. I can't even think about what this poor little girl went through. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:30 PM Flag
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Yeah I mean she was probably already feeling the effects of the heat when she woke up. She was terrified. It is awful to think about. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:34 PM Flag
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So sad. I'm telling myself she just passed out and never woke up. Poor thing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:36 PM Flag
[ - ] My son is 5 years old and has been potty trained since 3 and stopped wetting the bed 6 months ago. Now he is having accidents 4/7 nights. What should I do? Any help would be great Thanks and have a great weekend 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:12 PM Flag
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Any big changes going on? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:15 PM Flag
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Camp/ HE is wiped after camp and swimming.. It is non stop activities from 6 am to 7 pm [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:16 PM Flag
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Wow. 5 is a bit old for these accidents. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:21 PM Flag
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np: Not at all, stop it. The kid is wiped out from camp and not sensing that he needs to go. OP, cut him off from liquids a few hours before bed and make sure he goes to the bathroom right before bed. He's just out of his routine. My DS had a similar issue last year (it was his first year of camp). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:23 PM Flag
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NP: Seriously? that is your response? Get a clue lady [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:28 PM Flag
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No, it isn't, and especially not for a boy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:36 PM Flag
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You the guy who was talking about stuffing nerds in lockers on an earlier post? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:47 PM Flag
[ - ] The Krims had another baby and she's expecting again. So glad for them. Amazing couple. 22 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:07 PM Flag
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Bring them a lasagne to celebrate! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:07 PM Flag
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amazing? what am i for never leaving my kids with a sitter? [ Reply | More ]
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shut up, you nasty woman. [ Reply | More ]
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There is nothing "amazing" about the Krims. They're replacing their dead kids. Ok. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 07:03 PM Flag
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this. you either have a maid or a nanny. don't ask her to do both [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 07:12 PM Flag
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omg stop [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:25 PM Flag
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didn't he work in NJ so they didn't even need to live in the city? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:10 PM Flag
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Who are you to say where people "need" to live? Weird response. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:11 PM Flag
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it was obviously difficult for her to be a sahm in the city [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:16 PM Flag
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Oh please. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:18 PM Flag
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Don't be a jerk. Of course SAH moms should have help if they can afford it--I did when I was home and it not only helped me, it was good for the kids. Her family was the victim of a horrible crime, have some empathy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:25 PM Flag
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cleaning help. if you can't watch your kids you should get a job, since you're not doing your one fucking job [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:36 PM Flag
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Using that logic, I should do every shred of work myself in the office. But I don't. I have help. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:48 PM Flag
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but you have stuff that is your job [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:58 PM Flag
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LOL. She had one job. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 07:02 PM Flag
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I wish them the best. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:16 PM Flag
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yes! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:22 PM Flag
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So they will have 3 or 4 kids now? 3 right? Poor woman. I admire her for going on. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:27 PM Flag
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Old news. She had 2 more dcs after the murders, both boys - Felix and Linus. They recently posted on their blog that they were moving again - maybe out of the city? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:58 PM Flag
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Why do they give their kids such weird names. [ Reply | More ]
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"look at me" look at me!! [ Reply | More ]
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Who gives a shit. They need to maybe raise what kids they have. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 07:02 PM Flag
[ - ] I'm usually a very resilient person. I've been through some tough things and beat the odds. But, lately, I just feel emotionally drained and physically exhausted with everything I still need to do. I'm finishing up a PhD and raising two kids as a single working mom. I'm losing my grit. Any tips on getting it back? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:04 PM Flag
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Perhaps try getting a few days to yourself. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:07 PM Flag
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This. Be easy on yourself. You're too tired to be tough right now, you sound like you need to recharge. [ Reply | More ]
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I really really suggest you hire a hooker or get laid STAT [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:13 PM Flag
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meditation [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:16 PM Flag
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I think you just need to take a little time for yourself. Don't forget to acknowledge your accomplishments. If one of your friends were a single mom w/ 2 kids, a job and a PhD candidacy, you would praise her to high heaven. Do the same for yourself. [ Reply | More ]
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I think that when the end is in sight sometimes we let our guard down or start to fizzle. Do as the others have said and be kind to yourself etc, but if you look behind you and look ahead of you, for this leg of life (PhD) you've done so much and less is ahead of you than is behind you. Get through the days and ruthlessly prioritize and know that there is a big deep breath for you on the other side of this challenge. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:24 PM Flag
[ - ] Most disturbing movie you've ever seen. 24 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 05:52 PM Flag
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Hostel [ Reply | More ]
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There are many I have not seen. Human centipede comes to mind. No thank you! [ Reply | More ]
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ugh. I made the mistake of reading the plotline because people were talking about it. Disgustin.g [ Reply | More ]
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I read Roger Ebert's review. He basically said it was not so much a review as a warning to stay away from it [ Reply | More ]
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I refuse to watch American Sniper. I've heard from too many places that it's basically glorifying the idea of Americans picking off dark-skinned people almost like war is some kind of cool game. I don't think I could enjoy any part of that. [ Reply | More ]
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*eyeroll* [ Reply | More ]
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Sorry. It was that and the fact that the guy by all accounts was an asshole and a liar. No interest. [ Reply | More ]
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You're quite sensitive. [ Reply | More ]
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I hate violence; walked out of movies like that. [ Reply | More ]
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No doubt. Kidz - came out in 1999 or so- One of Chloe Sevigny's first movies. [ Reply | More ]
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What makes it so off-putting? [ Reply | More ]
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NYC truant teenagers being juvenile, sleeping around, giving each other AIDS. Much of it besides that last part are perhaps unsurprising but the last part made it all seem horrifying, esp for an UMC rule-follower. [ Reply | More ]
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There was a rape too of a passed out/drunk girl who already had sex unknowingly with another HIV-positive teen. [ Reply | More ]
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I felt the same way about the movie 13 with Holly Hunter and Evan Rachel Wood. It just horrified me as a parent. It may as well have been a horror movie for moms [ Reply | More ]
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teen sex & drugz [ Reply | More ]
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no more like 94/95 [ Reply | More ]
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Ok I watched in 1999 on cable. Didnt care when it was made. [ Reply | More ]
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Not arguing just saying it was a big deal - it's like saying Sgt Pepper's came out in 1972 [ Reply | More ]
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Old Boy [ Reply | More ]
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I was gonna say that one. I've heard that the original is a masterpiece, but what I've read about it still says to me I don't think I want to watch that. [ Reply | More ]
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The Ring scared the shit out of me. [ Reply | More ]
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That stupid Blair Witch Project scared the crap out of me. [ Reply | More ]
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Yeah that one freaked me out when I first saw it, because I didn't know how it was going to end. Now it doesn't scare me at all when I come across it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:36 PM Flag
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Born on the 4th of July [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:50 PM Flag
[ - ] ww II jews were not killing police or blowing themselves up or sneaking into countries illegally. 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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zzzzzzzzz [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 05:52 PM Flag
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Coolio. [ Reply | More ]
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They were sneaking into other countries. Rightly so. Wouldn't you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:04 PM Flag
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not for welfare! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:08 PM Flag
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Oh my god, what a stupid post! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:05 PM Flag
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response to people saying that trump is like hitler creating scapegoats [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:10 PM Flag
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No, I responding to OP. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:16 PM Flag
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I am kind of impressed by how Trump has made Americans afraid in two different directions. If you're not an American citizen, you're a threat. But if you are an American citizen but you are a muslim, you're a threat and maybe your parents shouldn't have been let in 50 years ago. Plus those angry black people he's going to take care of with "law and order." He's got everyone being afraid of everyone. Way to go. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:39 PM Flag
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maybe someone has been victimized by a thug, or an illegal has molested her friend's kid. or are we only allowed to categorically hate all cops? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:59 PM Flag
[ - ] To all the parents "stuck" in the city. We are here at our beach house. Kids are watching TV in the basement, DH is sleeping, and I am cleaning up, getting meals ready. I could be doing this in the city with the help with my cleaning lady. WTF were we thinking of being out here for a 2 weeks. IT IS WORK 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 05:49 PM Flag
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There is an old Onion story about a woman enjoying the different view while watching dishes on family vacation. [ Reply | More ]
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LOL [ Reply | More ]
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Hamptons mom here, kids are also watching TV. it is too hot, go take a nap with your DH. Relaz, you need to chill. It is just beautiful out here albeit hot as a pizza oven [ Reply | More ]
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Glad to hear other children are watching tv. Mine is also after a morning class and running errands. Feel like we should be at beach or doing something more fun. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 05:52 PM Flag
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you need a personal chef with housekeeper in your beach house. duh! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 05:53 PM Flag
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I think you need to relax. And assign everyone a task too--no reason for you to do it all! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 05:59 PM Flag
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This. Why are you doing everything alone? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:06 PM Flag
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Martyr. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:13 PM Flag
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Why aren't you napping, too? I just woke up. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:27 PM Flag
[ - ] Feeling sad, irritated and at loose ends because dc is going on two week trip with father tomorrow. How do I make the rest of this day something we'll both enjoy? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Be glad that father takes dc for two weeks. Get a boyfriend, party, whatever. I'm a divorced single mom and father never takes dc and I have no family in the U.S. It is very hard and I wish I had a break every once in a while. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 05:51 PM Flag
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You would miss them terribly if they were gone. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 05:53 PM Flag
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What a whiner. Just get a life. Don't you have fiends, hobbies, interests? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:16 PM Flag
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Fuck you [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:25 PM Flag
[ - ] Something about this 4 year old hot car death is fishy. What do you guys make of this? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Did she just fall asleep and then die of heat exhaustion? Wouldn't a 4 year old be able to bang on the window and yell for help? Or would she not realize she was dying from the heat? I'm confused. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 05:51 PM Flag
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Yes, or open car door. My 4 yo niece gets herself in and out of carseat. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 05:54 PM Flag
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maybe the kid was special needs? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 05:56 PM Flag
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She may have been asleep, I don't think it takes very long for a car to reach dangerous temperatures, she simply may not have woken up. Internet says temps can get 40 degrees over what it already is outside within an hour. The car acts like a greenhouse. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:12 PM Flag
[ - ] I'm packing to move. It's the worst! Any good tips? 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 05:43 PM Flag
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I just moved a few weeks ago, so I feel your pain. If you are on the fence about things you are packing, just pack them and make the decision when you get to your new place. Box everything you can; it is way easier than carrying other types of baskets/containers. Trash bags are good for clothes and bedding/towels. And...just hang in there :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 05:46 PM Flag
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I got my boxes at U-Haul, seem cheaper than any other place and if you get boxes delivered (even if they say free delivery) you seem to pay more for them. I also plan to colour-code the boxes using duct tape so the movers know which room to put them in once we get to our new place. Easier than reading a label--just see blue and you know it's kitchen things etc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 05:46 PM Flag
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When in doubt, throw it out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 05:47 PM Flag
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The worst. My two moving games are (1) the "put 100 things in a box before I take a break" game and (2) the "don't move on to the next room until this room is completely packed and empty" game. Best way to start is bathrooms first IMO, because it's fast & easy and gets you motivated. [ Reply | More ]
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^and agree, just throw stuff out like there's no tomorrow. You'll never miss any of it. Purge time. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 05:49 PM Flag
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Label label label [ Reply | More ]
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One hour on one hour off. [ Reply | More ]
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toss it all [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 05:54 PM Flag
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Hire moving company. They will even pack for you! [ Reply | More ]
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No tips. I am the only human who loves to pack and to move. Sorry. I just wanted to go on record. But ... I will say that it provides a new start and you can rearrange everything, enjoy the things you own when you unpack them, get perspective and be in a new environment at the end of it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:01 PM Flag
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I hire it out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:16 PM Flag
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+1. I'll never pack to move again. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:36 PM Flag
[ - ] Honest answers - would you live in a town where you were going to be one of a small number of renters and probably weren't going to fit in very well, socially, if it allowed your dc's to go to a really good school? The area is very homogeneous and everyone seems to socialize as a family in clubs, etc. that you have to be invited to join or are extremely expensive. I personally don't care in regards to myself, but wonder if this is going to impact dc's social lives. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 05:43 PM Flag
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Scarsdale? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 05:49 PM Flag
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I met a family from there while on vacation in the Grand Canyon. They were rich but always carping about those who had a lot more. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:17 PM Flag
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or - yep, sounds about right. That's why I guessed it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:19 PM Flag
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No way! If Bronxville, especially no, do not do that t your child. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 05:59 PM Flag
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Wouldnt bother me at all. Find your own soc circle in another town. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:07 PM Flag
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I know people doing this in Greenwich and the problem is that the parents obviously feel inferior to other parents they meet through their kids. They should relax, I'm sure nobody really cares. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 06:28 PM Flag
[ - ] I find Linda Lovelace's story fascinating. I feel like the movie didn't cover nearly enough of her life. So sad. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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It is a sad story. I gather that she's a born again Christian now. I hope she finds peace. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 05:29 PM Flag
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^^ I should say "was." She died in a car accident/ [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 05:33 PM Flag
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What's fascinating? She was a porn star? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 05:30 PM Flag
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One of the first famous ones. She brought the porn industry to the forefront. It was back when there was "acting" in the porn industry. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.16, 05:39 PM Flag
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Yes but she wasn't aspiring to be one. She was forced into it by her husband. [ Reply | More ]
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Her husband Chuck was a total asshole. This is why I'm so protective of my daughter. [ Reply | More ]
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