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[ - ] I was abused by my brother as a child. He is 5 years older than me. Nobody know about this except me and him. I think I will bury this secret with me. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Stay away from him at all costs. [ Reply | More ]
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CSB [ Reply | More ]
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??? HAVE SOME EMPATHY!!!! [ Reply | More ]
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??? Wtf? What is anyone supposed to say to that? She's clearly just blabbering on the Internet. [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
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how old are you? how are you handling? [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] European moms: I am visiting my uncle in Italy. What should I bring him from US? I am totally clueless since everything seems to be better in Europe. Any gift ideas? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 07:02 PM Flag
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Statue of Liberty key chain. [ Reply | More ]
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+100000 lol [ Reply | More ]
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American cheese [ Reply | More ]
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Beer. Italian beer sucks. [ Reply | More ]
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A coffee machine. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Need to set up email address for graduating 5th grader, who wants to stay in touch with friends next year. Any suggestions? I want to monitor it. Gmail address? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 06:57 PM Flag
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don't worry about monitoring it, kids don't use email, sorry. [ Reply | More ]
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What do they do? I'm not ready to get her a smartphone. [ Reply | More ]
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We set up one for DD via Yahoo. [ Reply | More ]
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Can't she change the password? [ Reply | More ]
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She's in 3rd grade and only e-mails her grandmother or me at work. She uses Facetime with her friends. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Molestation: how I survived it, and why I will do it to my children. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 06:56 PM Flag
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Go stand in front of microwave. [ Reply | More ]
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Which microwave? [ Reply | More ]
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That will take too long. Go stand in front of train or subway. [ Reply | More ]
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Never was "You're unhinged" needed more. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Josh Duggar: if his victims/ sisters forgive him and he has made amends then I forgive him too. 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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My fear is that he'll do it to his children. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 06:55 PM Flag
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The more I think about it, I do wonder. Apparently he picked the younger 4 of the girls to have his "mistakes" with. It was deliberate & repeated, even after being caught & presumably read the riot act. There is something deeper at work there. Not just normal teen sexual curiosity-religiously repressed or otherwise. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 07:00 PM Flag
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Sexually Abused Survivor Mom here: he's your basic perpetrator. Doesn't sound like he would have ever acknowledged this without the media scrutiny they are under. But he has, so you have to go with that. I hope the people around him are on red alert because without work on themselves, they will often do it again. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 07:02 PM Flag
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Yes! And you know his wife will keep popping out more kids. :( [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 07:05 PM Flag
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Exactly. He probably was molested too. [ Reply | More ]
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I think he already did. He molested 4 kids, not just one, not just once. He had no counseling, no punishment. People like this don't stop. It's not curiosity or being young or whatever. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 07:04 PM Flag
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He didn't do anything to you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 07:00 PM Flag
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THIS. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 07:01 PM Flag
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Op: yeah but I wont bash him like everyone else is doing. [ Reply | More ]
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NP: I have no problem with forgiveness...I think people should try to do so when they've been wronged. However, I think it is entirely appropriate to remove said people from the public eye and not hold them out as something they are not. [ Reply | More ]
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Op: I agree. [ Reply | More ]
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Who the fuck are you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 07:01 PM Flag
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Ew, you need to simmer down. Take a midol. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 07:03 PM Flag
[ - ] I have a lot of respect for people who abuse large amounts of drugs and alcohol every day. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 06:53 PM Flag
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why is that? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 06:57 PM Flag
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Well, only if they are still able to function. It implies an admirable level of physical robustness, because for these people, drug abuse serves as a performance enhancement rather than a hedonistic waste. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 07:01 PM Flag
[ - ] Fashion help needed. I want white jeans. I am tiny. Thinking of AG or maybe Jbrand (never worn before). Any others? Also need some nice tops for summer. I have a small chest and very thin. No more than $100 per top. Might also like 1-2 new dresses with color or print. Maybe skirts but need a lot of guidance there. 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 06:52 PM Flag
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I like Madewell for white jeans. They have cute tops too. [ Reply | More ]
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wait, are you new to shopping or to your own body? don't you know better than we do what looks good on you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 06:55 PM Flag
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I am overwhelmed by shopping. I think I need a personal shopper. I hate having too many choices. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 06:59 PM Flag
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If you are thin and tiny, then you can wear whatever you want. AG is good for your body type. You might find nice tops in the junior section (no snark) or at Forever 21 and what not. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 06:55 PM Flag
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I have yet to find white pants/jeans that are not see through and i am a size 0/2. I am watching this, might check madewell, myself. [ Reply | More ]
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I have some from guess and Jcrew. Not see through but smallest sizes and they are baggy. [ Reply | More ]
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go to saks and get a personal shopper. [ Reply | More ]
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I love AG jeans. size down. JBrand tends to run smaller and tighter, thinner material. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 07:01 PM Flag
[ - ] Admittedly stupid post - MIL stays with DC/DH 3-4 nights once a month when I go away on business. Always complains we don't have food in the house for her. This time I was good and got a ton of food that she likes to eat and told her what I got for the house. Apparently she brought all her own food, so now a lot of the chicken, produce, etc. that I bought went bad already. Leave it alone or say something? 19 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 06:49 PM Flag
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I'm sorry, is she babysitting free for you? STFU. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 06:50 PM Flag
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Uh, I just bought her an iPad to say thank you for babysitting for me. Also my kids are in school during the day so it's just evenings. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 06:51 PM Flag
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um, that's a yes. why cant people just be gracious and say yes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 06:53 PM Flag
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And it sounds like your Dh (her son) can't handle parenting alone. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 06:54 PM Flag
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Well yeah. He works long hours, so unpredictable for pickup - that's the issue. [ Reply | More ]
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don't say anything. just ask her if she has a list you can pick up for her. [ Reply | More ]
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That's what I did this time, and she brought food anyway. [ Reply | More ]
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You should have frozen yours [ Reply | More ]
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I know. I wish I would have known, but she came to the house after I left for my trip. Just hate wasting food. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 06:58 PM Flag
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leave it alone but next time, talk to her ahead of time and work out what you will have on hand. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 06:54 PM Flag
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I did this time! That's why I'm frustrated. [ Reply | More ]
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so someone needs to talk to her. maybe it was a genuine miscommunication but you can fix it. [ Reply | More ]
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I just don't want to seem ungrateful that she comes, but maybe the next time I have a trip I'll just emphasize that I'm shopping from her list? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 06:59 PM Flag
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Well, just communicate how you would want to be communicated with..say--I noticed you like to bring your own food…is there a list of items you'd like me to have on hand next time. Maybe she didn't know you'd have supplied them for her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 06:54 PM Flag
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No, I called her and told her what I got this time. [ Reply | More ]
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freeze the chicken [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 06:59 PM Flag
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It's too late, I bought it Saturday. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 07:00 PM Flag
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I would say something nicely. Oh MIL, I noticed you brought your own food when I bought things for you. I am happy to buy anything you want if you want to give me a list or I can give you money to buy anything you want yourself. I don't want you to have to pay for your food when you are helping us out so much. Thanks! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 07:04 PM Flag
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This is perfect, thank you! I really don't want to be mean to her, but the wasted food is terrible! Appreciate this, thanks. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Anyone know about the British International School? Good reputation ? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 06:47 PM Flag
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For profit [ Reply | More ]
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For-profit, not particularly well regarded, despite having both "British" and "International" in its name. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Honestly, I stand with Josh Duggar. God hates fags, and he was right about that. 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 06:47 PM Flag
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That's a strawman if ever I heard one. Carry on.... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 06:49 PM Flag
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Oh jeez. [ Reply | More ]
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Really? Jesus ran up a mountain with 12 guys and you think god hates gay people? Never married, never had a family? Tell me more about this Jesus you love. [ Reply | More ]
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This isn't cool at all. Or funny. [ Reply | More ]
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Hey, get AIDS and die. [ Reply | More ]
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AIDS is the cure for GAYS. [ Reply | More ]
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You are sad. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 06:59 PM Flag
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GOD HATES FAGS! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 07:01 PM Flag
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Not true. God loves everyone. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Good app for tracking period? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 06:46 PM Flag
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a calendar? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 06:54 PM Flag
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this - just put an X on the day [ Reply | More ]
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Any free one with good ratings. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] TMI Alert. Had some dark brownish reddish chunky discharge w/ itching today. What on earth is this?? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 06:46 PM Flag
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It's the TMI Alert guy again. Go back to playing your Black Ops. [ Reply | More ]
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No. I am a female and I hate my vagina. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 06:54 PM Flag
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Good god. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 06:51 PM Flag
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You left a tampon up there? [ Reply | More ]
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Don't use them. [ Reply | More ]
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Send us a photo. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Considering doing fwb with guy I know. I don't think I'm very good in bed and would like to practice and gain some confidence. Is it too weird if I set out some ground rules? 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Fwb is nokd. Just too complicated. Wait for the right man. [ Reply | More ]
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What if I meet him and I'm not good enough in bed, so he leaves me? I'm kind of old and not very experienced at all. [ Reply | More ]
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just date him and let things flow naturally. [ Reply | More ]
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He's not good enough to date. [ Reply | More ]
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then you aren't talking about a FWB situation. [ Reply | More ]
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Well, it kind of falls into that category. He gets sex, and I get some practice. [ Reply | More ]
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If he might leave you and you care about that, he's not a friend. [ Reply | More ]
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What do you mean leave me? Don't these arrangements naturally end when one or both parties find someone they are more compatible with? [ Reply | More ]
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just using your own words from above [ Reply | More ]
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The fwb won't leave me because I'm inexperienced. He's willing to work with me. Another guy might not be. [ Reply | More ]
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np: yes, but the left person may feel really, really bad. other than that, go for it! [ Reply | More ]
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This sounds like a Rom Com. You start sleeping with guy A to get experience, then you meet guy B and he's right on paper but really you fell in love with guy A even though you both promised yourselves you wouldn't! Cue scene of you running from the altar into guy A's convertible in front of a cute wood frame chapel. [ Reply | More ]
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That's fine with me. Guy A is too young and not mature enough. In five years he might be exactly what I want. Right now I just want sexual exploration. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] do you think camille cosby was actually awake when any of her kids were conceived? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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She seems like such a sweet lady. She doesn't deserve this Sugar Honey Ice Tea. [ Reply | More ]
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fuck her. she knows what her husband has been doing. her support has allowed him to achieve such a high number of victims. all the while, she has been the most smug self righteous fraud/ seriously, fuck her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 06:53 PM Flag
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Did something new come out? [ Reply | More ]
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No. Today is sexual predator day on UB. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] What is a nice, friendly middle class to upper middle class town with good schools outside of NYC with a decent commute? Does this exist?? 19 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 06:44 PM Flag
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Tenafly, Cresskill, Demarest. NJ [ Reply | More ]
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Bergen county is a joke. So congested. [ Reply | More ]
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Not in these towns. Far away from Rte 4. [ Reply | More ]
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But don't you have to go on RT 4 and RT 17 for things at some point? Like the Paramus mall? [ Reply | More ]
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The back roads. RT 4 is for the NYers. [ Reply | More ]
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Which town are you in? [ Reply | More ]
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Do you live in manhattan? [ Reply | More ]
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OP: anyone know anything about fair haven, NJ? DH can take the ferry. Living next to water would seem so nice. Laid back community. [ Reply | More ]
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100% yes. I live in this area and it's really great. The commute is long at about an hour and expensive, but people do it. It's a really nice place to live. I just went and picked up our pass for the beach club today! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 06:49 PM Flag
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Sooo nice!! Are you in Fair Haven? Which town is also down to earth? I would love to crab on the weekends and such. Buy a boat. Etc [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 06:51 PM Flag
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I'm in the Fair Haven/ Rumson/ Little Silver area, yes. Little Silver is like Fair Haven, but has the benefit of having the train station in town and is slightly closer to the Parkway. Rumson is a bit rich for my blood. Lots of clubs to keep a boat on the river, sailing and crew lessons for the kids, etc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 06:53 PM Flag
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But doesn't fair haven share same high school as Runson? Where do little silver students go to high school? Would you choose fair haven over little silver or vise versa? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 06:54 PM Flag
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This is actually a good question. Yes, Rumson and FH share a high school. It's very rich and very wealthy and very good. Little Silver shares a high school with Red Bank and Shrewsbury. So the Little Silver kids go to school with (gasp!) black and Mexican kids from Red Bank! The academics at the school Little Silver shares are also very good and all the kids at the school tell me they really enjoy it there. It's the difference between your kid going to school with a first generation Mexican kid of day laborers and your kid going to a school with kids who all get new BMWs for their 17th birthdays. [ Reply | More ]
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Oh ok, thanks. This is helpful. They really get beamers for their birthdays? Ugh. So little silver and fair haven are pretty much the same exact towns. Same vibe, people, etc? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 07:04 PM Flag
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Pretty much, yes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 07:06 PM Flag
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What about monmouth beach? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 06:54 PM Flag
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Monmouth Beach is not a real town. It's one block wide along the beach. It's fine for a beach house but you wouldn't want to live there. They also send their kids to a kind of average school district (or a bad one - I forget exactly where those kids go.) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 06:59 PM Flag
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Got it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 07:04 PM Flag
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Op: Larchmont? That's on the water too. But wondering about the snob factor? I heard a lot of parents send DCs to sleep away camp and might not be easy going. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Blacks are ashtr 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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[ - ] SOOOOOO addicted to GARDEN SALSA SUNCHIPS! 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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They burn my mouth. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] I am so devastated that Bill Cosby is a monster. I don't want to believe it :( 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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I don't know about "monster." But, like many other fans, I'm very disappointed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 06:39 PM Flag
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I think monster is the only accurate term. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 06:41 PM Flag
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Did you just wake up from last year? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 06:39 PM Flag
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Is there something new in this case? Hasn't this been discussed to death like 6-12 months ago? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 06:40 PM Flag
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No just thinking randomly. [ Reply | More ]
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Old news. Are you watching a Cosby show rerun or something? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 06:42 PM Flag
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Let's move on, the statute of limitation has pasted. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 06:43 PM Flag
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But he's still at large. [ Reply | More ]
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His penis is still at large. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 06:45 PM Flag
[ - ] an old friend's dh just passed away suddenly. we used to work together 10 years ago and haven't kept in touch other than just being fb friends. i think i will go to the wake. should i circulate the funeral information to people that we used to work with? it was a while ago when we all worked together so i wonder if it would be considered too intrusive to have people who aren't super close now show up to visiting hours? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 06:37 PM Flag
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i think when you've suffered a tragic loss, you will never begrudge that someone cared enough about you to show up and pay respects. [ Reply | More ]
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this. [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 06:49 PM Flag
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Yes, I think you should circulate the info. People may very much want to pay their respects. That's the whole purpose of a wake. They will want to know. [ Reply | More ]
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This [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 06:43 PM Flag
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No, she does not want to see ahole coworkers there. Just family and friends. [ Reply | More ]
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Disagree. Why assume anyone is ahole? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.22.15, 06:48 PM Flag
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you are wrong. I had a sudden sad loss and was touched by old friends and co workers who cared enough to come. [ Reply | More ]
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I appreciated hearing from each and every person at that time. If they came to the funeral or paid a call, sent a card, or even an email, I was deeply touched and grateful. Made me feel better. [ Reply | More ]
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