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[ - ] can you refuse to show ID when you're shopping w your credit card? had to show ID to buy $50 worth of crap from old navy the other day. seriously, i bought a $4k watch a month ago and didn't have to. 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 05:20 PM Flag
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Why would you not show your ID if they ask for it? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 05:15 PM Flag
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Sure. And they can refuse to accept your credit card. THEY are the ones bearing the risk if the card is being used by an unauthorized person. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 05:21 PM Flag
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Why would you refuse? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 05:16 PM Flag
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You can refuse, but the merchant can then refuse to make the sale. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 05:17 PM Flag
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If I were a merchant, I would do this-- who needs such a PITA customer! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 05:18 PM Flag
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I wrote "Please ask for ID" on the back of mine. I would rather have them ask me and verify that it is indeed me using the card. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 05:18 PM Flag
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That's smart. But most credit card fraud is online these days. Retailers need to update their systems to spot fraud. Like when someone used my Amex to make 15 purchases of Starbucks card reloads inside a half hour totaling 2k. That should have raised a flag. The only reason the coffee card was canceled, by the way, was because I called Starbucks 800 number. Their initial reaction was that I should call Amex--until I mentioned the big chargeback. Then the card was canceled. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 05:22 PM Flag
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^^^I had the plastic, by the way. Still no idea who got my info. IP address was in the Bronx and Starbucks card was used once in San Francisco the same day. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 05:29 PM Flag
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Wow- talk about entitled! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 05:19 PM Flag
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More stolen credit card traffic through mass market stores like Old Navy, Target, WalMart etc than through Tiffany or Hermes. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 05:20 PM Flag
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This. Also, way to take a stand. I'm sure you really showed that Old Navy cashier who is the boss. I bet she wept all day. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 05:22 PM Flag
[ - ] Do you use an online savings account? Which would you recommend? We had ING Direct but they got bought out by Capital One and I dislike them. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 05:16 PM Flag
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Decision based strictly on interest rate and terms, then secondarily on Bank. Visit bank rate.com [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 05:23 PM Flag
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Why? Also at ING/Cap One. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 05:22 PM Flag
[ - ] Finance people, in general, If someone buys you out of a partnership interest in a business, how is that taxed? Yes, there is an accountant but I would rather not pass this by her, as she works for both myself and my partner. Just in general. My partner may be interested in buying me out, but I don't want to propose it just yet. TIA 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 05:10 PM Flag
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It is a complicated question. First, is the business structured as a partnership for tax purposes (can be either LLC or pship). Second, is buy out structured as a redemption? You need your own advisor. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 05:08 PM Flag
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Generally, any profit on the buy out would be taxed as a capital gain, unless you remain involved and they are paying you out for ongoing input/knowledge, in which case it might be taxable as ordinary income. LLC vs partnership makes no real difference, so long as it's taxed as a flow through entity and not a C-Corp. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 05:17 PM Flag
[ - ] Yogis: I have started going to yoga 3-5 times a week (in addition to running ~3x/week, which I have always done). How long until I start seeing results, in terms of muscle definition, strength, etc? Also, are there types of yoga that are better at targeting the core muscles? That is the one thing I feel like it lacks for me. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:58 PM Flag
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it depends on the teacher more than the type of yoga. i've been to some classes where they add some bicycle type crunch things at the end. you should see results in a few weeks. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 05:01 PM Flag
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OP: Thanks. The instructor I go to most often usually incorporates some bicycle crunches at the end, but honestly doesn't seem like enough to really make a difference. Though I suppose I COULD do crunches/core on my own..LOL. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 05:07 PM Flag
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vinyasa is good. wait 3 weeks as with anything to start feeling some results. if you really want fast results you should go all 5 times. but regardless in two months you'll feel & look different and be more flexible! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:56 PM Flag
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Thanks! Vinyasa is what I have mainly been going to, because I like how it is more active movement (though that does vary from instructor to instructor). Does it matter much if the classes are only and hour, vs 1.5 hrs? I go at the gym, so most classes are an hour, though today I went to an 1.5 class and it was great. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 05:06 PM Flag
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I've found that yoga is great for strength and flexibility but have never achieved any significant muscle definition. Not the place to go if you are trying for a 6-pack. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 05:12 PM Flag
[ - ] S/O of Dennis Walcott post. What are your thoughts on all the mayoral candidates and how they will handle education. I don't have confidence in any of the candidates. There viewpoints can be found here: http://gothamschools.org/2013-mayoral-race/ 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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HEre's the link since it easier to click on within the post: http://gothamschools.org/2013-mayoral-race/ [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:57 PM Flag
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That doesn't exactly give a good over view. In general, I've been happy with what I have heard from Bill Deblassio. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 05:03 PM Flag
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If you have a better site. Please post it. I would love to see a succinct summary. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 05:05 PM Flag
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Do you see how many of them have "no opinion"? They're all jokers. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 05:14 PM Flag
[ - ] DH and I have been pondering getting a country place. I like the idea in theory but think I may just feel claustrophobic out in the sticks. If you have a country place (not beach) do you ever feel restless when you're there? Do you hate the weekend commute? Is it mainly for dcs benefit? Do you like your country neighbors? Thanks for feedback. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:56 PM Flag
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love the open space and peaceful weekend. neighbors are ok. commute is a pain but worth it. why don't you rent before you buy? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:59 PM Flag
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rent first! it's not for everyone. we love it but i've given the rent-first advice to several friends and i'd say it is about 50/50, some love it (and make the sacrifices/juggles to make it work), others cannot deal with the hassle. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 05:04 PM Flag
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I feel claustrophobic in the city, trapped on a high floor, unable to get into a car and get off the island quickly. I love the country, I feel safe there. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 05:11 PM Flag
[ - ] Cooking question: I want to cook chicken legs. How can I make sure the skin doesn't become chewy and rubbery?? I know I could just remove it but touching raw chicken really grosses me out so I'd like to avoid it as much as possible. Any tips? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:54 PM Flag
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Wear disposable latex gloves when you handle meat. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:55 PM Flag
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Cook carefully. check various recipes b/c legs often cook much faster than thighs or breast. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:58 PM Flag
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Dry the ckicken, rub with real butter or olive oil, salt, pepper. Bake on top most rack at 430F ~20' [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 05:01 PM Flag
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you can buy it with the skin already off. Also, get thighs, not legs! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 05:12 PM Flag
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Put them in the broiler for 5 - 10 minutes at the end. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 05:09 PM Flag
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Have you been microwaving chicken nuggets? That's when chicken skin becomes chewy and rubbery. In general, I brown chicken legs and thighs after they are dipped in flour, cook them covered in a pan with some liquid and uncover for the last ten minutes or so in the oven. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 05:21 PM Flag
[ - ] I have one friend. She ants me- she is going through a rough time, makes lots of facebook posts to make herself look good. Why do I let me one friend any me. What is wrong with me. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:52 PM Flag
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ants you? any me? Huh? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:59 PM Flag
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Annoy - sorry. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:55 PM Flag
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np I thought I'd had too much to drink, then I realized I haven't had a drink in days. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 05:22 PM Flag
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She is going through a rough time. Cut her some slack. You would want her to do the same for you, wouldn't you? As for her FB posts, just hide her from your newsfeed and you won't have see them. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 05:08 PM Flag
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You need to go back to school. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 05:09 PM Flag
[ - ] Please no flames. I know I sound like I don't appreciate what I have but I do feel sad about things that I would like to have had by 42 yrs old. Later in life I craved a house, 2 or 3 kids. I was so lucky to have one child who I love more than life itself. I never had a second. Now I am too old and. Had 2 previous miscarriages. I also live in an coop since we can't afford a house. I work part time cause we need the money. I wish I has 2 to 3 kids in a home I know this may sound superficial. I just feel a little sad. Feels like not having more babies gave me an empty spot, feeling 18 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:49 PM Flag
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Would you move out of ny? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:44 PM Flag
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I can't unfortunately [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:48 PM Flag
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sounds like you are getting ready for change in your life. good luck finding what will make you happy. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:51 PM Flag
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Thank u. I am sitting here crying. I don't know why I can't shake this sadness. I do go to therapy etc. just sad that parts of my life are gone. I suffered so much in my twenties from anxiety disorder and so much if my life and potential wasted. Thank god I had my baby. But again this is how I feel now that those yrs are gone. Hard to accept. Getting older. And miss the baby I didn't have [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:48 PM Flag
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Maybe you'll have some grand babies :) and, you can also try to make your home the fun, safe place to have dcs friends come...I bet about 6 teenagers will be sitting in your living room in a decade. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 05:00 PM Flag
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Thank you for posting this. For various reasons I am the same and the regrets are so hard. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 05:00 PM Flag
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I feel your pain, because at 39 I feel like I wasted a lot of my 20s/30s. However, be thankful for the child you do have. I don't have even that, nor a DH in sight (and I don't want to have a baby on my own). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 05:01 PM Flag
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You can still adopt and if you want a home, you can move out of nyc. There are choices you can make to change this! I'm in a similar situation with babies--I'm 45 and thinking of adopting domestically if I can figure out the process. gl! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:52 PM Flag
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df who is your age just adopted the most adorable, sweet 1 year old (domestically). she's so happy :) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:54 PM Flag
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NP: I adopted at 45 and am so thankful I did--talk to Spence-Chapin or Gladney for help and good luck! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:57 PM Flag
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I'm not being flip--I think you would benefit greatly from therapy. You're far from the only one who isn't living the life she thought she would, but it doesn't have to make you unhappy. Good luck. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:54 PM Flag
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It doesn't sound superficial to me. Make peace with what you can't have (another bio child) and then figure out what you can have that would make your life closer to your dream and go for it! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:48 PM Flag
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Thank u everyone. I am working very hard on accepting not having another child. My heart literally hurts [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:51 PM Flag
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you sound just like me a few years ago, but now i've completely reversed my opinions. i'm so glad that i don't have the troubles that a house comes with, love that i can shower my only with opportunities, and enjoy the responsibility of my job and the extra income and benefits it gives [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:56 PM Flag
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Thank you. I must must continue to be grateful for what I have and appreciate what god has given me. My daughter is a miracle to me. I know that I lucky. I just have to remember that [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:53 PM Flag
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there's still adoption. i know it might be not what you want, and it's a little more complicated, but if you truly want more children this might be an option. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:57 PM Flag
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I am thinking about it. Thank you [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:54 PM Flag
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I understand where you are coming from, and feel the same in some ways. But you must fight it, for yourself and DC. You aren't done yet, and still have the chance to make your life into something that feels right to you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 05:13 PM Flag
[ - ] who is your favorite person to have lunch with? and what do you normally eat for lunch? or do you prefer eating alone? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:48 PM Flag
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my co worker- she came 6 months ago. we had the most fun and whenever someone else joins us we are a little disappointed. it's nice to have a friend. we go to Japanese. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:49 PM Flag
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A woman in another department. We met at Starbucks and clicked. Alternate where we go but generally try to take lunch at the same time. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:50 PM Flag
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DH! once a week. come by his work! SAHM here [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:51 PM Flag
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lame [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:54 PM Flag
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jealous [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 05:04 PM Flag
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Really? I think it's awesome that a wife has dinner with dh every once in while, and I thought that even before I was married. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:59 PM Flag
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Really? I think it's awesome that a wife has dinner with dh every once in while, and I thought that even before I was married. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:59 PM Flag
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eat at my desk- as I am right now! no time. rather cut the day short and leave early. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:55 PM Flag
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My coworkers. We will either go grab a salad and come back to the office, or go to this little diner across from our office (Stage Door). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 05:03 PM Flag
[ - ] there are few things lonelier than being unemployed. when I get a job, I vow to help any unemployed friend as best I can. 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:46 PM Flag
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I'm unemployed and enjoying it! I've been gardening, reading, doing yoga and more workouts all around. I could get used to this! But of course am still job hunting. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:42 PM Flag
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that's fantastic. I now have more urgency, but because I've been successful in the past, few people really think I'll have a problem finding a job. But nothing is turning up. :( [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:50 PM Flag
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Me, too, it's been pretty great. We spend nothing but it doesn't matter. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:54 PM Flag
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Yeah, it is lonely. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:43 PM Flag
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Sure is. Please help me when you do. I have been looking a while, and am even considering a master's to make myself more desirable, but afraid that will just lead to more debt and still no real income. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:55 PM Flag
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I will help you with or without your masters :) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:56 PM Flag
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I was you last yr. I threw myself at French. Took class during the day twice a week to get out of the house, meet ppl and stay sane. I'm at advanced intermediate/ lower advanced level now ( 1 yr later). I ended up getting two offers in the end. There is light at the end of the tunnel, it takes time no matter how talented/successful. Good luck! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:58 PM Flag
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merci bien! tu es très sympa [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 05:02 PM Flag
[ - ] where do autistic kids go to school? assume private. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:44 PM Flag
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many in public school [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:58 PM Flag
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The autism spectrum is large, so it depends on how severe the diagnosis. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 05:08 PM Flag
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let's say it's enough to be in a special school. what are those schools in NYC? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 05:14 PM Flag
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Learning Spring. The Rebekka school, I think also. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 05:17 PM Flag
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Not sure if this a comprehensive list, but here you go: http://nymag.com/urban/guides/family/schools/features/tipsheet_special.htm http://gocitykids.parentsconnect.com/sub-category/new-york-ny-usa/resources/schools/special-needs Good Luck! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 05:27 PM Flag
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They're called District 75 schools, and there are many. [ Reply | More
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Gaynor, Windward (sp?) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 05:28 PM Flag
[ - ] DH says after vasectomy (a year) his orgasm intensity is gone. I feel awful, I pushed him to do it! Is this common? WTF? MD's said nothing about that risk. 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:41 PM Flag
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Is it possibly related to age? Has he asked his MD? Signed DW who is going dh will get a vasectomy. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 05:15 PM Flag
[ - ] Why is it that when I buy something, my card is charged immediately, but when I return something, it takes days to be credited? So annoying. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 05:09 PM Flag
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I think that's very rare. Maybe psychosomatic on your dh's part? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 05:04 PM Flag
[ - ] Hangover cures: please help! No idea what I was thinking having drinks on an empty stomach last night.miserable and I have a meeting at 3 today. 24 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:40 PM Flag
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You need a burger for lunch. Not McDonalds. That will make it worse. Go get a real one. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:35 PM Flag
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Also, real coke. (not the drug, the brown soda) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:35 PM Flag
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vanilla milkshake [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 05:13 PM Flag
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two excedrin and something greasy (like burger, above) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:42 PM Flag
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and lots of water [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:42 PM Flag
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I second the excedrin! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:38 PM Flag
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it's because of the caffeine and aspirin combo. but don't take on an empty stomach if you're feeling queasy. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:46 PM Flag
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Lots of water [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:42 PM Flag
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I can't drink water when in hungover. If you're like me drink Gatorade or coke. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:38 PM Flag
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+1. Water makes me want to puke. But I have to drink anything slowly/in moderation otherwise that will come up too. And coke kind of hurts when it comes back up! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:50 PM Flag
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Ginger ale or seltzer. You need the fizz to burp and make your stomach feel better. BTDT. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:39 PM Flag
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Hydrate and take tylenol. I don't believe there are any real cures, sorry. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:45 PM Flag
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this. [ Reply | More
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np Do NOT take Tylenol for a hangover. Your liver won't like it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 05:24 PM Flag
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Take a long shower. Helps to hydrate your body. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:41 PM Flag
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coconut water [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 04:41 PM Flag
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THIS X 1986868767 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 05:01 PM Flag
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French fries [ Reply | More
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Big breakfast sandwich with bacon. [ Reply | More
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mmmm. bacon [ Reply | More
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This [ Reply | More
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Gatorade, egg and cheese on a roll, advil [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 05:02 PM Flag
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Bananas will save you. [ Reply | More
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Who schedules a meeting at 3PM on the Friday before a three-day holiday weekend? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.13, 05:23 PM Flag
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