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05.22.13, 06:11 PM
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I wouldn't
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05.22.13, 06:06 PM
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ditto
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05.22.13, 06:08 PM
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OMG the OP is asking if you could, not if you would.
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05.22.13, 06:11 PM
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Girl I lived with for about seven months. She was awful, frequently threatened to kill herself for attention, made up stories about being molested. Now that I think about it, can you go on LinkedIN and write a nasty recommendation?
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05.22.13, 06:07 PM
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You have to request her as a connection and she has to accept. Then yes, you can write whatever you want.
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05.22.13, 06:14 PM
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Can't you delete a recommendation on your page, though?
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05.22.13, 06:15 PM
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Ugh fuck that. Trust me, nothing is worth dealing with someone who says that she's thought about cutting herself because you threw your coat over the couch and didn't hang it up in the closet.
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05.22.13, 06:16 PM
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05.22.13, 06:13 PM
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05.22.13, 06:07 PM
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Hey welcome to UB - great to have you here!
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05.22.13, 06:09 PM
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+1!
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05.22.13, 06:09 PM
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I had to google he name to figure out who you are, but good for you. You should yey the pumpkin waffles with all the fixings from sarabeth
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05.22.13, 06:10 PM
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With Nutella?
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05.22.13, 06:10 PM
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Why announce yourself? Needling the ego rub?
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05.22.13, 06:08 PM
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loved you in Portlandia
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05.22.13, 06:14 PM
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Hi Chloe, how do you say your last name?
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05.22.13, 06:09 PM
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Would you lend me a cup of canola oil if I asked?
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05.22.13, 06:11 PM
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05.22.13, 06:03 PM
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As my trainer says, "abs are 10% exercise and 90% diet" - you have to cut the carbs too.
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05.22.13, 06:04 PM
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You can't just spot-treat your abs, you have to do regular cardio
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05.22.13, 06:06 PM
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+1 I got good abs when I started running. Before that, nothing else worked
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05.22.13, 06:15 PM
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Cardio helps abs. Swim, run, sweat.
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05.22.13, 06:06 PM
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Me too! I'm doing a 30 day ab challenge. Good luck to you
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05.22.13, 06:11 PM
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cut the calories along with the exercising
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05.22.13, 06:09 PM
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05.22.13, 06:01 PM
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Do you know for certain that the positions you envision actually exist? If so, what about reaching out to people who already do what you hope to do, and get their feedback on your education plans
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05.22.13, 06:10 PM
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I am a JD--it doesn't sound like you need a JD for the type of positions you are talking about. Get your master's and then pause and see what the job opportunities are like before throwing yourself into a JD program.
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05.22.13, 06:10 PM
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These types of programs are money makers for the provider. Make sure there is going to be a real job for you when you finsih
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05.22.13, 06:10 PM
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05.22.13, 06:01 PM
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I would just laugh, that is so random and stupid.
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05.22.13, 06:08 PM
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^^^and I'd send her a picture of like a $2.99 Goody from DR.
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05.22.13, 06:08 PM
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Send her a link to mason-Pearson
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05.22.13, 06:08 PM
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op. lol!
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05.22.13, 06:04 PM
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Make sure to give her a list of the most expensive Mason Pearsons. That is all.
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05.22.13, 06:03 PM
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I'd send her some pictures of what you'd like - maybe 3 hairbrush pics and a pic of a pony.
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05.22.13, 06:10 PM
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Send her a link to Mason-Pearson....the most expensive one they have.
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05.22.13, 06:12 PM
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I like your own advice best. Thanks for thinking of me but a gift isn't necessary.
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05.22.13, 06:11 PM
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Play along with her but give her gifts of equal value when it's your turn to buy. She is setting the bar
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05.22.13, 06:11 PM
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05.22.13, 06:00 PM
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Or she could have been proactive in your visit/bonding as well, instead of choosing her book.
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05.22.13, 06:04 PM
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Haha. I know. She's going to come back in ten years when she has kid and beg me to take her out clubbing. I can feel it. She picked the lunch cuisine and saw the friends building, so I hope she enjoyed her day. I am looking forward to my peaceful weekend though!
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05.22.13, 06:07 PM
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You tried. It's not your fault she wasted half the vacation in NYC refusing to do anything except reading Gone Girl.
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05.22.13, 06:04 PM
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05.22.13, 05:57 PM
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I like the second one better - first one looks like a figure skating outfit IMO.
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05.22.13, 05:59 PM
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^^^that said, I think the fabric on the second looks cheap for a $300 dress. I think you can do better op!
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05.22.13, 06:00 PM
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Did you notice the limited sized available in each? The first one is only in a 2,4 and 8, and the second is only in 10 and 12. So your size will probably decide this.
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05.22.13, 05:54 PM
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I like the second one better,
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05.22.13, 05:59 PM
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Not a fan of either. I'd like the beige better in another color.
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05.22.13, 05:59 PM
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+1. Don't like little things about both.
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05.22.13, 05:58 PM
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very cute; what is it you need help with?
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05.22.13, 05:59 PM
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The second one is ok, but DVF's zarita is better
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05.22.13, 05:54 PM
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Def. I like the red or blue.
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05.22.13, 06:07 PM
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YES, little details like the zipper back and lace edges make this dress actually worth it.
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05.22.13, 06:08 PM
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IDA. The visible zipper in the back is too trendy/over
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05.22.13, 06:15 PM
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05.22.13, 05:55 PM
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One in California the other in Vermont
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05.22.13, 05:58 PM
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yuk yuk
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05.22.13, 05:53 PM
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In a perfect world, 3 years, but timing is so hard to control. I wouldn't get too hung up on it.
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05.22.13, 05:53 PM
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ITA with your general sentiment. It's hard to control, and it's also hard to say what is REALLY the ideal spacing, because I think their personalities and other unpredictable life circumstances would contribute to what spacing worked best.
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05.22.13, 06:09 PM
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np THIS. I got pregnant (not planned!) right away after my first. They are 11.5 months apart. I certainly wouldn't recommend THAT little spacing (ideally you want to give your body a couple years or so to heal), and I concede that the first year or so with two so close was VERY rough. But now I've found that I really love how close they are in age. It's made it easy when planning fun activities and such because they are generally on a similar level. They are best buddies, and it's really been cool for us. I also know a friend with two close in age who feels like they are more competitive, and clash more because of the small age difference. So I think the ideal spacing varies greatly based on personalities, etc.
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05.22.13, 06:07 PM
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I cannot imagine an 11.5 mo and a NB! Bless your heart.
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05.22.13, 06:16 PM
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PG with #2 now. The will be 7 years apart. Much longer than I expected. I'll let you knwo how it goes.
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05.22.13, 06:01 PM
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NP - my brother and I are 7 years apart. It will be interesting for sure! :) GL!
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05.22.13, 06:02 PM
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My sister and I are 6 years apart. Lots of fighting when little (keep an eye on them and protect the little one), but she is now my best friend in the world, we talk 2x a day.
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05.22.13, 06:11 PM
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Four years so not in college at the same time.
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05.22.13, 06:06 PM
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Good point, but better make it 5 as that's the average college career
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05.22.13, 06:03 PM
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If I could pick I would shoot for about 2.5 years.
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05.22.13, 06:08 PM
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I didn't had my first at 38, and really wanted her to have a sibling. Knowing that my fertility was likely in rapid decline, we went for it again quickly. They are 17 months apart, and while it was crazy at first, I LOVE the spacing now!
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05.22.13, 06:15 PM
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05.22.13, 05:47 PM
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I used to sleep over at my cousins' house or my grandparents' house all the time when I was a kid, and I'd venture to say a lot of other people did too. From what I understand, molesters can be very shrewd about making enough alone time with a child.
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05.22.13, 05:55 PM
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are you the one who was molested by a cousin? did you ever tell your parents you didn't want to go? i am sorry to be intrusive, i think these stories are horrifying and unimaginable.
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05.22.13, 05:50 PM
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No, wasn't me (thank goodness). I can't imagine something like that happening, but sadly it does.
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05.22.13, 05:57 PM
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This. It's easy to say you would suspect your uncle, but you really probably wouldn't.
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05.22.13, 05:58 PM
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I posted about my uncle molesting my younger brother. We used to have sleepovers at aunt and uncle's house. Lambs to the slaughter.
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05.22.13, 05:53 PM
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Np did you tell your parents?
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05.22.13, 06:05 PM
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I know this is haunting, but my mother was molested by her step-father and she's absolutely certain her mother knew but was in deep denial about it.
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05.22.13, 05:55 PM
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Normal, imo
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05.22.13, 05:56 PM
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OP: yes, definitely stepfathers and mom's boyfriends are the most obvious culprits.
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05.22.13, 05:59 PM
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For me, my mom was asleep in their bedroom, my brother was in his room, and I would be watching TV on the floor in the living room on the weekends. My dad would come in the living room and tell me to come sit with him on the couch, and then "on his lap". Thankfully, once I got to his lap I would realize something was wrong and leave and he didn't force the issue, but he would still try similar things again and again. Not sex, but "touching". Lots of that. He's a sick MF, and unfortunately there's a lot of them out there. A lot of them were abused as children, so it's a cycle unless one gets treated to make the cycle stop.
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05.22.13, 05:59 PM
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Molested by my father. A lot of people looked the other way (including my mother)...easier to live in denial than to confront the harsh truth in front of your face. People like to sweep molestation under the table. You often hear that you should just "get over it".
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05.22.13, 06:05 PM
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My brother was molested by my uncle. He offered to watch all three of us kids for a week every summer so my parents could have a break. They weren't there. Greatest tragedy of my parents' lives.
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05.22.13, 06:05 PM
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The fact of the matter is, unless you are w/your child at all times, you can't prevent any molestation. For me, I was molested, but I did not leave my child alone w/anyone, not even a nanny, until he was old enough to tell me what was going on. My stupid mother would leave me and my brother alone w/my uncle, and he would go to town on both of us separately. People can be evil.
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05.22.13, 06:04 PM
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Wow. So many people here are survivors of child molestation. My heart goes out to you.
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05.22.13, 06:12 PM
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Thank you. That is very kind of you.
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05.22.13, 06:08 PM
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+1.
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05.22.13, 06:16 PM
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