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[ - ] OK I know I should mind my own business about the family that lied to get into an oversubscribed school. But it would be a lot easier if I could hear stories about unscrupulous dirtbags who have gotten their karma payment. Know any? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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story? What school? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 01:10 AM Flag
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Karma was on my side and we got a G&T spot and released our oversubscribed fake adress spot. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Is anybody on that successfully changed their career at 40yo? I work in sales management in a very low paying, male-oriented manufacturing field and would like to transition in development in the non profit world (ideally education); the only thing I have going for me is event planning/pr experience from a lifetime ago. I don’t have that many connections in the city and so far I have had NO luck. Anybody btdt? Any advice? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 01:00 AM Flag
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Why do you keep asking the same question? btw you won't make a lot of $$$ in a non-profit. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:49 AM Flag
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I posted the other day and got zero replies so I figured I would give it a second chance. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 01:03 AM Flag
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You think you are going to make more in non profit education? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:49 AM Flag
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I would use your sales background to get into something growing and higher paying. Maybe digital ad sales? [ Reply | More ]
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Op here: I am aware this won't be a lucrative move but I hate my job and I really would like to do something that I am sure I will love. [ Reply | More ]
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Have you tried charter schools? they seem to be open to new and promising talent. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Does anyone know how this year 6th grade ELA compares to last years? I.e. % of fours? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Thanks. Couldn't find a citywide stat, but interesting to look at that info [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] S/o-when you say your mother was depressed and it was awful, can you please give some examples? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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My grandmother was and my mom talks about this sometimes. My granmother would not get out of bed for days and grandfather would have to take over caring for them. There where weeks when my mother had to live with relatives or friends because her mom couldn't take care of her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:48 AM Flag
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That is heartbreaking for both parties. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:51 AM Flag
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Yes and my mom has a lot of guilt because she grew up not wanting to be like her mom. My mom is amazing. I am so so lucky [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Important School Mom here. Any questions? 17 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
NY Schools 08.29.14, 12:53 AM Flag
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My ass is important. [ Reply | More ]
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Of course it is, but only to you. [ Reply | More ]
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I've been told it's the talk of the town. [ Reply | More ]
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I have no doubt you believe that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 01:01 AM Flag
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How important are you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:43 AM Flag
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I am not important, in my view. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:56 AM Flag
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Are you more important than the head of the school? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:45 AM Flag
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Please see my comment above. Also, there is no one more important in a school than the Head. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 01:00 AM Flag
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What are the Important Schools? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:57 AM Flag
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Trinity, Horace Mann, Brearley, Collegiate, Stuy, Bronx Sci and Hunter. [ Reply | More ]
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G-d, I hope my kid gets into Bx science. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:47 AM Flag
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You see. You recognize it as an important school. [ Reply | More ]
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GOD, GOD, GOD, GOD, GOD. [ Reply | More ]
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DOG, DOG, DOG, DOG, DOG is GOD backwards! [ Reply | More ]
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lol [ Reply | More ]
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What's the real name of the school [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:46 AM Flag
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Please see the above list of schools. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:58 AM Flag
[ - ] Can you tell if a child's mother SAH or WOH by the way they behave? There is so much disagreement between the two but as a SAHM, I've never noticed a difference between the way children behave at school or at the playground. Some kids are well behaved, some less so, some shy, etc - nature is nature I guess is what I'm saying. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:47 AM Flag
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The only generalization I can draw is that little ones with sahms tend to have a harder time with preschool separation. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 01:07 AM Flag
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you've not seen those who hang on to their nannies screaming at preschool separation? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:58 AM Flag
[ - ] Dd 3rd grade. Got a 4.08 in math and 3.11 in ELA. Not terrible, but I should tutor in 4th? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:46 AM Flag
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yes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:53 AM Flag
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tutor ela. math should be fine. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:54 AM Flag
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Op can I get one tutor for both? I 'm actually surprised, because she was doing much better in school in reading/writing than math [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 01:09 AM Flag
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Yes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 01:11 AM Flag
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What middle school do you want? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 01:11 AM Flag
[ - ] Dh wants a divorce and sole custody of dc (teen) after 20 years of marriage because he can't take my highs and lows anymore. I suffer from depression that comes up every once in a while and I just went through an awful depression this past month (could not get out of bed, missed days from work) and he does not have the patience for it and says it is bad for the kids to see me that way. Seems so unfair. 35 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:44 AM Flag
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What's best for the kids? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:44 AM Flag
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shared custody. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:45 AM Flag
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Are you sure? What happens if you get into a depression again and can't get out of bed? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:46 AM Flag
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let them stay with ex until I get it under control. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:48 AM Flag
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You've had 20 years to figure it out and still can't get it under control. He's not saying they can't see you anymore, just that you can't --understandably--be counted on to perform the required duties of a parent. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:37 AM Flag
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Their father doesn't think he should have to wait for you to "let" him parent. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:38 AM Flag
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this makes no sense. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 01:05 AM Flag
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Your kids can't be expected to take care of themselves if you fall into a depression again. It's probably best if he takes sole custody while you get fair and generous visitation. Sorry, but I'm on the side of the kids. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:36 AM Flag
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I never know what people mean when they say "shared custody." The normal arrangement is there is one primary custodial parent (for some legal purposes, there has to be one), and the other has the kid(s) at certain times. The most common seems to be the noncustodial parent has the kids alternate weekends and one weeknight every week - with some variation as to when a weekend begins and ends. Holidays get split evenly and each parent is allowed to take some number of weeks for a year for a vacation trip. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:42 AM Flag
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Yep. That's the question, as a legal matter and otherwise. "Unfair" isn't really relevant. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:34 AM Flag
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My mother was like you and it was just horrible [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:45 AM Flag
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Do you wish your mother left you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:46 AM Flag
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My mother was the same and I wish she did leave me be [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:39 AM Flag
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that's sad. Seems kind of cold on your part. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 01:00 AM Flag
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If you aren't getting out of bed, you've already left [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:39 AM Flag
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OR: That's a tough one. If my father had been a modern, involved dad and my parents were getting divorced then yes I would have rather gone with him. I wouldn't feel that my mother had "left" us under that scenario as I would still see her. She was depressed and she couldn't help it and I understand that as an adult, but it was very scary. It made me feel both angry/resentful and also guilty/sad that I couldn't make her happy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:54 AM Flag
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You're in for a big fight if you dont get this condition under control quickly. This does not sound good for your custody battle. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:38 AM Flag
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Op, are you on medication? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:41 AM Flag
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Yes, I take Zoloft and it helps a lot but it takes a week or 2 for it to kick in and then it completely eliminates the depression. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:55 AM Flag
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But.... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:52 AM Flag
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but what? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:56 AM Flag
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What's unfair exactly? If you can't get out of bed for a month how will you take care of DCs? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:54 AM Flag
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Are you in treatment? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:42 AM Flag
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Is your depression untreated? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:43 AM Flag
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I assume that you are under the care of a doctor and using medication and therapy? If you are, husband should be supportive. Do you just have the one child because you said "kids". Are there younger kids too that don't understand? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:56 AM Flag
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2 kids. sorry meant teenS [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:57 AM Flag
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My mother was like you and I still was glad to have my mom. She was always kind and loving even if she was sad [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:44 AM Flag
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was your dad around and supportive of your mom? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:58 AM Flag
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If you are unable to operate sometimes I think it would be best for your kids to live with your husband. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:47 AM Flag
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Can you motivate yourself to give him good romance? This may keep him distracted from divorce thoughts long enough to give you time to get yourself together. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:50 AM Flag
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what do you mean by good romance? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 01:02 AM Flag
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You can't make your dh to stay with you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 01:05 AM Flag
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OP: I know this but am disappointed that he can't support me and wants out. Marriage vows say through sickness and in health. I would support him if he had health problems. I would not think of leaving him and taking the kids away. [ Reply | More ]
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Wow, yes, I guess from your perspective it would be disappointing. But what do you think it's like for him? Do you have any sympathy or gratitude for the 20 years of support that he has given you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 01:11 AM Flag
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I think a lot of moms suffer from this type of depression you are describing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:55 AM Flag
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np: I don't know any moms like this. The only person who I knew who can't get out of bed due to depression was DH's ex, whom he divorced because he couldn't cope with her ongoing and seemingly unfixable mental illness. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:58 AM Flag
[ - ] What do you think of these pants- recommended in MORE magazine- nice?http://www.bodenusa.com/en-US/Womens-Pants-Jeans/Pants/WM352-LEO/Womens-Navy-Leopard-Print-Bistro-Pant.html 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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I don't love animal prints but I do like the solid colors. Boden pants do well for me. Wait till they have a 20% off coupon. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:44 AM Flag
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hmm, yes 20% off sounds good [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:55 AM Flag
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Hell, no! I fit the demographic of More magazine (over 50), but those are crazy pants that belong on the Norwegian Olympic curling team. Go for a solid color, please. [ Reply | More ]
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OP: I don't know they were recommended as slimming- and I am frickin sick of my solid blacks- anyone know if they run small or large [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:58 AM Flag
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They run pretty true to size. I get the sick of black thing but some of the other colors looks good - except the gold. [ Reply | More ]
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I like them! 30yo here. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:48 AM Flag
[ - ] A classmate from grade school just friended me on Facebook. His first message to me was "I had such a huge crush on you". Okay, that's cute. Now he has been bugging me for five days asking me to send him a picture of me. He has been begging me. I don't really have pictures on Facebook for a reason - I hate taking pictures! I have told him that but he is not relenting. Lord! What do I do now? 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:38 AM Flag
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Ignore him. [ Reply | More ]
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this [ Reply | More ]
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ignore, this is why you do not friend people on facebook [ Reply | More ]
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Unfriend him. No explanation required. [ Reply | More ]
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+ [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:46 AM Flag
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Send him a picture of porn star. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:35 AM Flag
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No say this is what I look like now. Send him a picture of George Foreman. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:37 AM Flag
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I am sure he wants to see if I got fat and ugly. I am fatter but I don't care to send him a picture to analyze. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:52 AM Flag
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Around what age are you? 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s? I'm asking because if you are both still single, maybe he has a serious interest. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:51 AM Flag
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We are both in our 40s and I am married with 3 kids. I don't even remember him [ Reply | More ]
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If married AND you don't even remember him, drop it now. Don't continue the conversation. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 01:00 AM Flag
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I had a similar experience with a friend from high school. I 'unfriended' and blocked him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:43 AM Flag
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this [ Reply | More ]
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this. he sounds like a creeper [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:59 AM Flag
[ - ] A frequent argument against circumcision is that it isn't done at all in Europe. I'm in my mid 30s and every guy I've European guy whose penis I've seen has been circumcised, including a German, Spaniard, and two English. What about you? Of the European penises you've seen IRL, how many circumcised/not circumcised? 18 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:36 AM Flag
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None. I'm 28 and have lived in Europe. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:26 AM Flag
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how many have you seen uncircumcised vs circumcised? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:42 AM Flag
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None, actually. Two Italians, one Dutch. [ Reply | More ]
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^oh, and my extended family were a bunch of hippie European nudists--no joke. None there either. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:48 AM Flag
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Sorry, I meant to say none were circumcised [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:48 AM Flag
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Well that's four. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:39 AM Flag
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Not a fake, I have been with about 100 men and about 20 of them were uncut. What can I say, I loved me some men back in the day [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:42 AM Flag
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Go girl. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:53 AM Flag
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i've had two bf's who were English and two French. None of them was circumsized and they all told me no one they knew was circumsized other than Americans. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:31 AM Flag
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about 1/2 and 1/2 for me, couple of italians were and a couple were not; same for the few french men i knew [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:35 AM Flag
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One German long term boyfriend - uncircumcised. Was never discussed. Never cared. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:40 AM Flag
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Me above. Also an English boy - also uncircumcised. UB are so neurotic. Jesus. They want their dhs to go down on them all the time but they hate a natural penis? That's ridiculous. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:52 AM Flag
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The only non American I slept with was Irish. Uncircumcised. I don't get what the big deal is. It's not really all that different. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:45 AM Flag
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It's the typical UB need to think their choices are clearly the "right" ones [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:47 AM Flag
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I had two American BFs who were uncirced. One was huge, and you couldn't tell the diff (head poked out anyway); the other was normal/small and it came to an unattractive skin point. [ Reply | More ]
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OP: I've only seen one uncircumcised penis IRL and the latter was my experience. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 01:04 AM Flag
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I had a baby in Europe. It isn't offered in the hospital and you have to schedule it explicitly. Those that it's a big deal will have it done but most Europeans don't care. As a growing number of Americans. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 01:06 AM Flag
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DH is English but he's also Jewish, so circumcised. I had 2 European boyfriends before DH. One circumcised (English) and the other not (German). I also had 4 South American boyfriends. All were circumcised. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:55 AM Flag
[ - ] hello everyone, I am a few weeks away from my due date and i am look for a good pediatrician in NYC. one who is flexible with vaccines and is also approachable, caring, with good bedside manners. also, did not get to register for cord blood. does any one know of any public company in the city that accept donated cord blood? thank you. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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You still have time to have your cord blood stored if you're interested. Just call them. And what do you mean by 'flexible with vaccines?' [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:42 AM Flag
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she's a troll. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:56 AM Flag
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Oh please. Get a grip. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:59 AM Flag
[ - ] I am prepared to get flamed, but I feel like I might get helpful responses so here goes: I am a SAHM with a full time nanny and I feel like I am exhausted and don't get time for each of the kids. What am I doing wrong? I will post what today looked like and maybe you can give me advice. 30 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:34 AM Flag
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I am not going to wait for you to post what you did today. I expect you are trying to parent each child as if they are your only so thats your problem. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:24 AM Flag
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Hmm... that's pretty much true. I feel so guilty that I am not "enjoying" the baby, and then guilty that I am not spending time with each of them alone. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:30 AM Flag
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I have 3 kids and I WOH. Stop expecting to be able to do what you could with 1 kid. A 3rd dc is a HUGE readjusment because someone is always with 2 kids and some kid is always getting shortchanged. My youngest is now 2 years old and I feel alive again. Take some time for yourself, don't be afraid to leave nanny with 3 for short periods of time and IMO give more attention to the 2 older kids as the baby will get you at night. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:38 AM Flag
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Without seeing the follow up post - how many kids to do you have? If you have more than 1, are maintaining a household, laundry, pickups/drop off,social calendar, cooking, bills, errands, etc, and aren't getting enough sleep, of COURSE you're tired, even with help. -WOHM [ Reply | More ]
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Thanks - I have three. 5 month old, 3 year old, and 5 year old. I deal with all the household stuff. I should also say that I used to work before DB was born, so I do spend a little time each day responding to clients, but not too much. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:29 AM Flag
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stfu troll [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:27 AM Flag
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Woke up at 5:30 AM, pumped milk (EBF 5 month old DB), went for a short run, showered, and was ready for kids when they were up at 7. Fed them breakfast, cleaned up, did a load of laundry, put baby down for a nap and read to the older two. Nanny came and helped me get lunch ready. I left with the older two (5 and 3 year old) to take them to a lesson and left nanny with the baby napping. Came home, scarfed down food for myself, and then had a meeting with contractors for house renovations. Breastfed db (takes awhile still, not sure why) while nanny played with the older two. Then I did 30 minutes of "alone time" with each of the older two, made dinner and we ate. Nanny took the older two outside to play while I gave DB a bath. She got the older in PJs and I just finished reading and putting them down. DH just came home. (He leaves at 7:30). I shouldn't be this tired, but I can barely stay awake. Advice? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:27 AM Flag
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Be nice to yourself! You have a baby! And 2 other kids! And you're breastfeeding! You're allowed to be tired. Do the best you can. -WOHM from before [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:40 AM Flag
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^^also you sound like you're doing great! IMHO. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:40 AM Flag
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I totally agree! NP [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:37 AM Flag
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Most people with a 5 month old that are nursing FT are exhausted, no matter what the other circumstances are. Use your nanny and take a nap! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:59 AM Flag
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This sounds like a very normal day. I think you're expecting too much of yourself. You're doing fine, Mom. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:41 AM Flag
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Sounds good to me. You showered and ran and spent some one on one time with each of your kids. That's great. When I was ebfing by 5 month old my life was a mess. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:32 AM Flag
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You are making me feel better. Thanks. I think I feel terrible tonight because 5 year old told me at bed time he doesn't get enough "special time" with me. And I was talking to mom friends who said they have finished back to school shopping and I haven't even gone through to look at what my kids need for the fall. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:34 AM Flag
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It's tough with a baby. All last year I worried about my four year old getting enough alone time with me. He became very skilled at building elaborate lego creations when he wasn't a prek- and now that baby is 14 months everything is more civized. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:38 AM Flag
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Civilized! Anyway- you will get there. You are doing great. But I agree with poster who says use a little time here and there for yourself. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:39 AM Flag
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I'm shocked you went for a run [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:44 AM Flag
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you need a nap. why have a nanny if she cannot give you a break from all 3 kids? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:45 AM Flag
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She can, but I think I feel too guilty taking a nap. Also, it feels like when I want to nap it's fine to feed DB. He gets one bottle but I am too tired to pump any more. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:47 AM Flag
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take a nap WOMAN [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:51 AM Flag
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THIS. My SIL has a sitter come from 1-4 pm 2 days a week. She has 3 kids under age 6. She takes a nap, reads a book, gets a pedicure...whatever. They are not super wealthy but she says its the only way to survive with 3 young kids [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:47 AM Flag
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You have a baby, why are you shocked you are tired? Don't be so hard on yourself, the nanny is basically your extra pair of hands not someone giving you a life of relaxation and luxury and I bet every SAHM with kids those ages would love a nanny too [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 01:06 AM Flag
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Do you have twenty kids? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:40 AM Flag
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this [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:43 AM Flag
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When do you have time with your husband? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:32 AM Flag
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He gets home around 8, we hang out until about 10 at home and then I am too tired to stay up. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:34 AM Flag
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obviously you have had sex 3 times with him. SO i would say you are doing great mama.. Is your husband cute? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:35 AM Flag
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you had to know this was the case when you decided for child #3. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:46 AM Flag
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To be honest, this one was a surprise. Birth control failed. DH just got the snip snip. :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:48 AM Flag
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Same here op! Glad i am not alone in this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 01:00 AM Flag
[ - ] Has anyone's husband ever have a bi experience. My DH of 2 years told me last week that he hooked up with a guy after college once. He said it was no big deal. I kind of am and am not freaked out. 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:34 AM Flag
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He's gay. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:38 AM Flag
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thanks i don't think he is. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:40 AM Flag
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Depends on what he did with the guy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:54 AM Flag
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This would disturb me. I watch plenty of gay videos and have always been amazed at how straight many of the male actors appear to be. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:42 AM Flag
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They are straight. They are just doing it for the cash. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:46 AM Flag
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No they aren't. They kiss each other. Nothing wrong with this btw. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:51 AM Flag
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Eek. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:46 AM Flag
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Is not a big deal. Signed Bi Mom. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 01:10 AM Flag
[ - ] Saw a picture of Cynthia Rowley- wow she is 56 and looks amazing...What do you think she does to look that good? A kid a 47 as well- naturally you think, donor eggs? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:34 AM Flag
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wow what do YOU think, Einstein? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:27 AM Flag
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The odds of her having a kid at 47 naturally are about 1/1000. Yes, it's possible but extremely unlikely. Also, as to the picture thing. ALL pics of celebs are retouched even the paparazzi ones nowadays. And of course she has had work done. People. Celebrities are not magical beings. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:43 AM Flag
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Yes, but a lot of them have work- and dont look that good- do google images- she is 56 not 46 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:45 AM Flag
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what are you her publicist? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:57 AM Flag
[ - ] I am tired of people acting like I am the Duggar mom just because I have four kids. When someone has 3, that's normal. Once you have four, you must be Amish, or Catholic or have no idea about family planning. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:33 AM Flag
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Or Mormon. That's what I would assume. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:55 AM Flag
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Or really really rich. It's kind of a show-offy thing at private schools among crazy rich families. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:58 AM Flag
[ - ] Intermittent fasting. Yay or Nay? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:31 AM Flag
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Not sustainable. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:36 AM Flag
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Why? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:44 AM Flag
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My mom likes it and is able to control her weight that way but I don't think I could do it long term. She has been doing it for about 6 months. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:55 AM Flag
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Yay [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.29.14, 12:56 AM Flag
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