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[ - ] Name Poll- Eden 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:38 AM Flag
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No [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:39 AM Flag
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Increasingly popular, people seem to get complements on the name. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:42 AM Flag
[ - ] Recommend a good steamer. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:32 AM Flag
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clam? clothes steamer? steamer trunk? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:34 AM Flag
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clothes steamer--lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:36 AM Flag
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For your vag? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:34 AM Flag
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Cleveland [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:39 AM Flag
[ - ] Objectively - what do you think your husband thinks when he goes to work every day and handles whatever gets dropped on his desk, like it or not, and then you tell him you need him to pay for a babysitter two days a week because you can't handle grocery shopping and organizing the linen closet with the kids around. 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:31 AM Flag
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Stfu you angry miserable person. Signed wohm [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:33 AM Flag
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OP, just curious, could you afford to stay home? Not asking if you WANT to but CAN you? For many, spending a couple hundred dollars for a little ease really isn't such a big deal [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:42 AM Flag
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^^mean as a separate response/question for OP! ITA OP sounds misreable [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:43 AM Flag
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He doesn't because I get way more shit dropped on my desk than he does. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:34 AM Flag
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Huh? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:35 AM Flag
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What do you not understand? That women work outside the home and do far more demanding jobs than dH? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:38 AM Flag
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My point is - I'm Not talking about working mothers. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:39 AM Flag
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So then don't say dH because you mean DH of Sahms and you are also a mean idiot to Sahms. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:40 AM Flag
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My dh has a very stressful job and handles around 30 people at work. But he has never spent a week alone with the 3 kids. He has called his mom, dad, aunt, our neighbor etc. in that order to come and help him. (This is when I had to go to the hospital in an emergency). He has never gone on single vacation with the 3 kids alone and has never showed up at school for any meetings. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:35 AM Flag
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^^^ so he thinks I am wonder woman already taking care of them full time with only "one" help [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:35 AM Flag
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That's not a reason why you can't handle the three kids. I know it sucks, but just throwing your hands up because it's hard is kind of childish. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:36 AM Flag
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OR: the money we spend on the help is insignificant to us. So why not be happy? My dh can save around 110K a year getting rid of his assistant but he doesn't. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:39 AM Flag
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And you've made my point - it's about being happy. Not about your kids or your family - it's about you being happy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:40 AM Flag
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Np: happy mom, happy kids. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:42 AM Flag
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OP: Well for my kids too. My 5 year old wants to go to the park every day after school. I have a one year old baby and sometimes it is too cold to sit in the stroller for three hours waiting for the older sibling to play. Then my 9 year old girl has ballet lessons every day. Do you really want me to schlepp all three to ballet for one to dance for 45 minutes and back? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:43 AM Flag
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LOL. Sunday night the WOHM mom claws come out. I almost feel sorry for you because your life must be so miserable, but you're too much of a cunt, so I'm just laughing at you instead. - signed happy, relaxed SAHM with LOTS of help :). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:42 AM Flag
[ - ] Can you recommend a speech therapist on the UWS? Thank you. 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:25 AM Flag
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Baba Wawa [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:28 AM Flag
[ - ] I need to find Mexican decorations and art for cinco de mayo... Can anyone recommend a place to find some? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:24 AM Flag
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How about CA or even better AZ [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:25 AM Flag
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Any party store. Target [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:26 AM Flag
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Here are some store listed, one is n the west village http://equmix.com/index.php/blog/hottestmexicantrendsetters/ [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:27 AM Flag
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Party city, oriental trading company. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:32 AM Flag
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Ask to borrow your cleaning woman's home goods [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:36 AM Flag
[ - ] Best month to find a new nanny? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:24 AM Flag
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Late summer [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:25 AM Flag
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Any month. They mostly fucking suck and are routinely fired. Whenever you get one, get a nanny cam and don't tell her about it. And avoid a woman over the age of 45. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:26 AM Flag
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Why not over 45? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:26 AM Flag
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Whenever I see a truly shitty, lazy, neglectful nanny, it's always some middle-aged, jaded Caribbean woman. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:28 AM Flag
[ - ] Anyone use a clairsonic? Facialist recommended it (surprise, surprise they sold at the spa) but looking for unbiased feedback. Skin relatively good condition and I'm sort of "no fuss" just normal aging concerns 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:24 AM Flag
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I really like it but don't overdo it. 2-3 times a week. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:27 AM Flag
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i think it inflamed my acne, i used it for three months and gave up - cleared up my skin and tried again, same thing happened gave up after a month - enough for me. i'm back to regular wash with cetaphil, then retin-a followed by super rich moisturizer by dermalogica at night. morning just ceaphil and tinted moisturizer [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:38 AM Flag
[ - ] Anyone use a clairsonic? Facialist recommended it (surprise, surprise they sold at the spa) but looking for unbiased feedback. Skin relatively good condition and I'm sort of "no fuss" just normal aging concerns 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:24 AM Flag
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Meh. I had a Mia2. I returned it to Ulta. Not worth the $100 I paid for it (discontinued color + 20% off). Buy one from a place with a good return policy like Ulta or Sephora. Also, the manufacturer offers a 90 day money back guarantee, BUT you have to box it up and pay the postage to return it. Buy one from a local store for ease of returning. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:39 AM Flag
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Yes, it's ok. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:42 AM Flag
[ - ] DH taking questions 19 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:22 AM Flag
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For the love of God, no! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:23 AM Flag
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Lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:29 AM Flag
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How hung? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:25 AM Flag
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Slightly above average, lol. I think that 75% of men would say that though! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:34 AM Flag
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HHI, profession, age, location. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:25 AM Flag
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So mundane! $300k, Consulting, 45, NYC. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:35 AM Flag
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what is your go to fantasy? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:26 AM Flag
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This. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:29 AM Flag
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- 2 women showering me with adoration. One is DW of course. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:36 AM Flag
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How old are you? My bf is 14 years younger and seems not to mind not having kids of his own. My kids are teens and will be out of the house soon (from 2 to 5 years away). Do you think he is lying? can a man really not care either way if he has kids or not? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:27 AM Flag
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np. How much older is your BF than your children? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:29 AM Flag
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kids are 16, 12 and bf is 37 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:32 AM Flag
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OP: I think for most men this is true and you're right. This can be unusual. But that would also explain his attraction too. All that you are, plus more flexibility to have fun? Pretty good! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:38 AM Flag
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How would I know he is sincere? I have a friend who dated someone like this and got burned after 8 years [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:41 AM Flag
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No answers? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:27 AM Flag
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I look good in clothes but am not very fit. Dating a guy who wants to have sex. It's been a long time for me. Be honest. How much would you care about flabbiness? I'm 49. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:30 AM Flag
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OP: at our age men expect some. Unless he's 35, he knows that. He will adore the softness of your skin, and all the rest. No worries at all. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:39 AM Flag
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have you ever been with a guy? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:39 AM Flag
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OP: no. That string the other night was interesting. But no and not even a near possibility at some point. This is something most guys wouldn't say, but, while I'm 100% straight (not judging others, btw), yet once in a blue blue moon I'll have a dream with a man going down on me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:41 AM Flag
[ - ] If a place charges $300 for a birthday party then would $50 be an appropriate tip? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:21 AM Flag
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i would think #30 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:23 AM Flag
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$60 would be 20% [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:23 AM Flag
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Yes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:33 AM Flag
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OMG you are supposed to tip on a birthday party? I'm spending like $500 for DD's birthday at a kid's gym - I have to give them a tip? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:41 AM Flag
[ - ] Anyone go to Dr Steven Pearlman? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:20 AM Flag
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No I see Dr. Leo Spaceman [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:26 AM Flag
[ - ] Anyone have tips on how to get my math-oriented kid interested in reading? She will do math problems all day, but she is not yet interested in reading. Teachers aren't concerned yet, but I am a little worried. 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:18 AM Flag
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What grade? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:20 AM Flag
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How old is she? Are you still reading to her? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:21 AM Flag
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Yes, still reading to her. In private K. She is almost 6. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:22 AM Flag
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Definitely keep reading to her. What is her reading level? I can try to recommend fun books. Also will she read math books at least: you could get the math start books, the sir cinference book- there is also a series with two siblings by the same author, the Greg tang (I think) books. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:25 AM Flag
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Mummy math is one of the ones with the two siblings. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:27 AM Flag
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Thank you. She is interested in everything if we read to her. But she hates trying to read on her own. We are still working on BOB books--only through the first box. She won't read on her own at this point. Not sure reading level but probably the lowest. She is writing very well, so the teacher is not concerned, but she seems completely disinterested in decoding. I will try these titles though. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:29 AM Flag
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Given her level, you will have to read those to her. I liked the Now I'm reading series better than Bob - a lot better. Stories in color and there are stickers to give your kid. I am also a big fan of all those old beginner books- dr. Seuss and the old he bear, she bear, and inside outside upside down, etc. you can alternate reading pages as she builds her skills. I [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:33 AM Flag
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TY. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:37 AM Flag
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No problem. Leave her be. You want her to discover and love. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:33 AM Flag
[ - ] Does anyone know what happened with the mom who hired a 21 year old babysitter and her mom sent a threatening message?? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:16 AM Flag
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That was so stupid [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:20 AM Flag
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What was? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:21 AM Flag
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link? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:21 AM Flag
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I don't have a link [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:32 AM Flag
[ - ] Omg. Why can't my internet ever work? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:15 AM Flag
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Seems OK now. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:15 AM Flag
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Nope. Posted on my phone. Can't open a Google doc. So annoying. We are switching next month. Twc sucks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:19 AM Flag
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That doesn't sound like your ISP. Make sure extensions OK. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:21 AM Flag
[ - ] Question of the day: have you ever experienced a 3some? OP - Yes: 2M / 1F. Unplanned. NYC in my mid 20's. Just went after two guys at once and scored. It still gives me inspiration when B.O.B. And I need it. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:15 AM Flag
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yes, and it was Ehhhh. not my thing. 2 other guys. Gay dad here. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:16 AM Flag
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Ha ha [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:18 AM Flag
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2M:1F in my mid 20's and went after 2 guys. And it happened and it was amazing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:21 AM Flag
[ - ] I gained 10lbs and feel pretty down about it. At the same time I have no energy or motivation to turn this around, there is too much stress going on in my life otherwise. Anybody who can relate? 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:14 AM Flag
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Me [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:16 AM Flag
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Thanks :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:18 AM Flag
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Anytime! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:19 AM Flag
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Anytime! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:19 AM Flag
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Raised hand [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:20 AM Flag
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Me also. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:21 AM Flag
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Me until my 10 year old took a picture and got the back of me in it. So awful (I had gained 15). Trying fit bit and eating less. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:22 AM Flag
[ - ] How upset are you when you have to be away from dh? Either he is traveling or you are? 21 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:11 AM Flag
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Not at all but we aren't apart very often and it's usually only for a few days. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:11 AM Flag
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Not at all upset. Kind of thrilled, actually. I travel more than he does. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:12 AM Flag
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We have a problem: we just moved to a house in the burbs (not NYC area) and knew there was a house with shady tenants in the area. Before we bought the house, we asked a cop who was parked by the local playground ( close to the apartment building) and he said it's safe and he's always relaxed when he's in the area. I found out that last week there was a burglary right across the house. An extremely shady man stepped on our property and asked my DH if he just bought the house and whether he could rent a room from us. What do I do now!? We have 2 young daughters. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:16 AM Flag
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Oops! Meant to start a new post! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:17 AM Flag
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Security system. Alarm [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:18 AM Flag
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Anything that will guarantee to keep the thugs out? I am scared! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:19 AM Flag
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Well, I'd be the one battling the intruders in my house, not DH, so I'm not the best person to ask. Get a security system and use it. Beyond that, there is not much more you can do. Even if your DH were home, what would you expect him to do? Beat an intruder? Shoot him? What, exactly? Get an alarm system, motion-activated outdoor flood lights, outdoor security cameras, etc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:21 AM Flag
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These guys look so strong even DH couldn't beat them. Would need a gun. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:23 AM Flag
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^^^BTW here's an app/website that is really useful. Search for the crimemapping app or go to crimemapping.com. You choose your local police department and enter your address and specify a reporting radius. If a crime happens within that radius, they send you an email immediately notifying you of any police report filed. You will know if a car was stolen or there was a burglary reported near your house, for example, within an hour of the report being filed. I think it's really useful. No way would I know what's going on around me without it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:27 AM Flag
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Thanks that's helpful. I just looked it up. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:42 AM Flag
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OP, dh is away for two weeks and I am crying like a baby... Feeling ridiculous. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:13 AM Flag
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get an escort [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:17 AM Flag
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Eww. How do you get through the day? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:18 AM Flag
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I know, I'm a loser. We both used to travel every week for work and I'd cry weekly. We changed jobs years ago so we didn't have to travel. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:20 AM Flag
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Are you a dramatic cryer in general? This seems extreme. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:24 AM Flag
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Probably but I guess I really don't know how much other people cry. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:42 AM Flag
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Thrilled. House is cleaner, less drama [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:17 AM Flag
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I live 99% dh free [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:18 AM Flag
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Elaborate. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:22 AM Flag
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I'm fine when he's here. I'm fine when he's not here. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:20 AM Flag
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I travel a lot. My level of upset-ness correlates with how many other people are going on the work trip with me. If I am by myself, it can get boring/miserable. But if I have fun colleagues with me, I don't get upset at all. It's like going on a vacation. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:39 AM Flag
[ - ] Name Poll: Maven 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:10 AM Flag
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I like it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:16 AM Flag
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No - it's a Yiddish word for something, not offensive but just not necessary. I think it means someone with a special interest or skill. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:16 AM Flag
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Amateur [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:20 AM Flag
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No. Go with Maeve. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:20 AM Flag
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Your child would share a name with a Mars orbiting spacecraft. But I think that's cool. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:23 AM Flag
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I think that's cool too. Not a huge fan of the name though, phonetically, but at least it's unique. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 04.27.15, 01:28 AM Flag
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