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[ - ] That nanny post is disgusting. I don't understand how you can treat someone that takes care of your children like shit. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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If you have to outsource your parenting, you shouldn't become one. [ Reply | More ]
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Urgh, enough. Go to bed. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] How much tv time do you allow your 4 yo? We started with 30 min twice a week and he has become completely addicted 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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He's not going to die. [ Reply | More ]
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He's not going to die. [ Reply | More ]
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Just let him watch! Geez, he's a kid. I feel so bad for out children... [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] How old were you when you let a guy fish stick you! 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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fish sticks in my mouth? [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Post your sat score, income, and job. 18 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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1590/1600, 0 dollars, student [ Reply | More ]
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For what degree? [ Reply | More ]
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Md [ Reply | More ]
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550 math 600 verbal, sahm [ Reply | More ]
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1440/1600, ~800k, trader [ Reply | More ]
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770V 670M, FWIW [ Reply | More ]
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Hf? [ Reply | More ]
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A little over 1400? 220,000. [ Reply | More ]
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1450 (old scoring system), $200k, mommy-tracked lawyer (would be $275k otherwise). [ Reply | More ]
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720 math 750 verbal, high 300s when I was working as a physician. Now SAHM [ Reply | More ]
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What specialty? [ Reply | More ]
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Anesthesia [ Reply | More ]
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1450 (old scoring system), $200k, mommy-tracked lawyer (would be $275k otherwise). [ Reply | More ]
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1450 (old scoring system), $200k, mommy-tracked lawyer (would be $275k otherwise). [ Reply | More ]
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Phone froze - sorry!!! [ Reply | More ]
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720 math 750 verbal, high 300s when I was working as a physician. Now SAHM [ Reply | More ]
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zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz [ Reply | More ]
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Maybe 500/500 (can't remember, but I didn't do well), $200k, communications executive [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] I took two pregnancy tests and they came back positive. Figured this was as good a place as any to get advice. I hooked up with longtime ex-boyfriend about two months ago and well, here I am. He isn't even in this country. I'm fucked, aren't I? 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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In what sense? do you have other kids? [ Reply | More ]
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I just turned 27, no kids. [ Reply | More ]
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why are you on this site??? [ Reply | More ]
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Well now she's preggo [ Reply | More ]
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yeah but how come she even knows about this site? weird [ Reply | More ]
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Do you know how many 25-30 year olds are on this site? [ Reply | More ]
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Do you want baby? What's life like for you? [ Reply | More ]
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I'm 27, I make a little over a hundred, decent hours, renting a one bedroom apartment... pretty normal. I've never really had a desire to have a child, and honestly I have no idea if I want this child. [ Reply | More ]
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Fake [ Reply | More ]
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this [ Reply | More ]
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Where is he? What country? [ Reply | More ]
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His mother's from Norway and he is staying up there for a while. [ Reply | More ]
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How long did you guys date? Are you amicable? [ Reply | More ]
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Fakety fake [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Do women really drink beer? This must be the least classy drink for women. 18 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Hi nana! [ Reply | More ]
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Zima [ Reply | More ]
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What does that mean? Is this English? [ Reply | More ]
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Google, circa 1994 [ Reply | More ]
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barf [ Reply | More ]
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So what, pray tell, is your poison? [ Reply | More ]
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Anything - wine, champagne, cocktails. I don't mind if other women drink whiskey or vodka or whatever, I just don't like it. But beer. Seriously? [ Reply | More ]
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Pp. Beer is great. It takes the edge off, when you don't want a stiff one. Easy. And especially refreshing on a hot summer day. [ Reply | More ]
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You don't mind if other women drink things you don't enjoy? My, how generous of you. [ Reply | More ]
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hell yeah! corona with lime please [ Reply | More ]
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+1 I also like Sam Adams [ Reply | More ]
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I didn't realize liquor was gender specific. [ Reply | More ]
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lol cosmos [ Reply | More ]
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I live in an area with really great craft breweries. I don't like all beer, but some are excellent. That said, I don't particularly like girlie drinks so maybe I'm an outlier, or just not as classy as you. [ Reply | More ]
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After a run or intense workout, I love a very cold IPA while I shower. [ Reply | More ]
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Shower beer! [ Reply | More ]
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Yep. I like beer for the most part. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Please no flames or nasty comments. Please donate blood if you can. Thanks. 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
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lets get this to most popular! [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] My BIL just got married to the haughtiest, bitchiest, fakest girl. Very postured, image driven, and formal. I'm totally down to earth, informal, mom of 2. Got a cold, dismissive vibe the few times I've met her. So sad that this is my SIL and family now. Ugh- any tips for dealing? Just the thought of family meetings, holidays, etc is giving me anxiety. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 02.01.15, 03:51 AM Flag
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ignore. sounds like a fag. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.01.15, 03:53 AM Flag
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First question-- How long were they dating that you're just now getting upset over this. Second question-- How often do you need to see her? My DH's best friend (practically his brother) married a girl with the exact description and it's so hard to be in the same room with her or hold a conversation. [ Reply | More ]
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Less than a year. They live 4 hrs away, so maybe 6-7 times a year? Mostly holidays, etc. [ Reply | More ]
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^Yes, exactly, on the holding a conversation! I have nothing in common with her, and all attempts I've made to be polite, friendly, etc have been rebuffed. [ Reply | More ]
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Trust me when I say she's probably super intimidated or insecure either about herself or the fact you have your life "in order". [ Reply | More ]
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My brother almost married a girl like this. Thank goodness my parents made life a living hell and they broke up. +1 for mom and dad! [ Reply | More ]
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Ignore her [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] I don't understand why spouses have to ask each other before they make purchases, especially if the spouse (or both spouses) who earn money. I am an adult and I do whatever I please with my $$. Of course I pay rent and many other expenses but it would never occur to me to ask DH if I may buy a $5k bag, and I will never criticize DH if he buys an expensive watch. And no, we are not rich. 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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So what if he goes out and buys a car? What's the limit? [ Reply | More ]
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He has bought cars without me asking and owns several. The last 2 actually really annoyed me. There was no need at all. But a bag for $5k if the woman earns $130k and they only live on DH's salary? Or giving each other allowances of a few hundred bucks per month? What happens if DH starts begrudging your highlights? Do you need to stop getting them? Wth? [ Reply | More ]
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So you should understand why spouses ask each other, people have different limits, for you it was a car, for her it was a purse. Different strokes for different folks. [ Reply | More ]
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It's not a car. My DH owns a collection. He buys it with his own money and I generally don't care except that in this particular instance, he doesn't have any money. If he had income, I wouldn't even care. [ Reply | More ]
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Is it boring in Trollandia tonight? [ Reply | More ]
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I probably didn't express that properly. He has a collection and I think he is overdoing it. He has his own money but is not currently earning anything, so I am paying for most expenses. This is why it bothers me. [ Reply | More ]
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we have a $1k rule. sensible. [ Reply | More ]
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That is sensible. Ours is around 1k as well. But we are always aware if the other person is making that kind of purchase. [ Reply | More ]
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Why do you care if DH spends his own money? [ Reply | More ]
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We don't discuss purchases with each other unless they are for the house and we both have to live with them (furniture, TVs, etc.). That said, neither of us is an irresponsible spender, so it's not an issue. [ Reply | More ]
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This makes sense. I would not have married a crazy spender. I just don't think it's ok to impose limitations on adults. Especially not if they earn their own money and contribute to the household. [ Reply | More ]
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You seriously don't understand? Sure, you're adults, but most married couples plan their financial futures together. I doubt most people consult their significant others for minor purchases, but seems logical to do so for anything major (with the definition of "major" different for everyone). [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] 20something here, how do you get through pg w/o drinking? I'm not a BIG drinker but need a couple to relax on weekends with my TT job. 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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If you have to ask this, then perhaps motherhood isn't for you, dear. [ Reply | More ]
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why? I just can't imagine 9 mos without a drink. mind you, I never get drunk, just seems weird to me... [ Reply | More ]
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Awesome. Please don't procreate. [ Reply | More ]
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We're not all perfect. [ Reply | More ]
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No, but if you have to explain to someone how to "sacrifice" drinking during pregnancy and why the child's health should outweigh your hangover then you're kind of asking for it by posting it on a public forum. [ Reply | More ]
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You don't have to go 9 months without a drink [ Reply | More ]
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You just realize the health of your baby is more important than your buzz. Grow up. [ Reply | More ]
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both are important. I need to work a stressful job to support dc. [ Reply | More ]
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Dear "20something", get over yourself. [ Reply | More ]
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Get me a martini. [ Reply | More ]
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First, you sleep a lot more. Second, you have 1/2 glass on a weekend and you are fine. Just steel yourself against the people who will tell you how awful you are. [ Reply | More ]
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First trimester, I had no cravings at all. All I cared about was sleeping. Second trimester I would have a glass every few weeks, but it didn't taste the same. It gave me heartburn. By third trimester I enjoyed a glass of white, but with a bunch of ice cubes in it. The cravings just weren't the same as when I wasn't pregnant. I also lost my taste for beer entirely and have never really gotten that back. [ Reply | More ]
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+1 I was the exact same way. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] What is the last book you read? Looking for something new to read. 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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King James Bible [ Reply | More ]
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I just re-read Jitterbug Perfume. Before that I read The Paying Guests and Deep Down Dark. [ Reply | More ]
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The Snowman [ Reply | More ]
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Big Little Lies [ Reply | More ]
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"Wild", "Detroit, An American Autopsy", "Brain on Fire" [ Reply | More ]
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A Year of Magical Thinking- Joan Didion. Was recommended to me when my father died this December. Loved it, very powerful. [ Reply | More ]
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We need new names. Loved it. Also check out americanah if you like that one. Both are about African girls/women who emigrate to America. Beautifully written [ Reply | More ]
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The girl on the train [ Reply | More ]
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The Martian. [ Reply | More ]
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olive kitteridge [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Did Bobbi Kristina die? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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No - she's in a medically induced coma in ICU [ Reply | More ]
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so sad [ Reply | More ]
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So sad. [ Reply | More ]
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It's a sad sad situation….and it getting more and more absurd. [ Reply | More ]
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Elton? [ Reply | More ]
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It's sad. So sad. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Any Meth/TiNA users here? 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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[ - ] Fine-tuning this post: how many people have told you "I love you" romantically? Age? Where do you live? How many since you've married? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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8/36/UES/2 including DH [ Reply | More ]
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Five, 36, NYC none [ Reply | More ]
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3. I am 32. Boston. Since I have been married? One... my husband. [ Reply | More ]
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Why do you care enough to keep posting this? [ Reply | More ]
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This wtf [ Reply | More ]
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+1. Loser alert! It's the late 20-something loser who is trying to measure just how empty and shitty her life is that no one has ever told her that he loves her. Pretty obvious. [ Reply | More ]
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I want to see what the range is. [ Reply | More ]
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No, I'm the late 20s loser and I am not op of this post. Np [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Any tarot/psychic moms around? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Ask and ye shall receive. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Very frustrated, potty trAined DS 1 month ago. It went really well--once he got the hang of it there were basically zero accidents. Today, total failure. DH forgot to have DS go potty in the morning and he ended up wetting his overnight diaper....after that two more accidents ( and he didn't go at all on potty). Tips on how to proceed--just treat tomorrow as another day? Do something else? TIA 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Why are men so incompetent [ Reply | More ]
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OP- seriously. One of the other accident was after my dad put DS to bed with out the overngint diaper...parents were babysitting and told them (or told mom) that we wee still using them at night. I know I am probably stressing about today but it was so nice t feel that this milestone passed. [ Reply | More ]
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np: I think that's your problem. Feeling like you're all done is a tricky place to be. Even if your DH had remembered to have him go potty, an accident still could have happened. Maybe just try to assume it'll still be a process over the next few months. You'll get there. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] I am buying a house that has mold. How much will it cost me to get rid of it? it is 1300 square feet 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Are you crazy dont do it [ Reply | More ]
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np: Eh, not all mold is black/toxic mold. OP, this is not the place to get that info. You need to have your place inspected by a specialist. [ Reply | More ]
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Have fun gutting it. [ Reply | More ]
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It does not look black at all. It is dotted green [ Reply | More ]
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Trollicious [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] DH just bought a DODGE CHALLENGER "HELL CAT" with 700 horsepower. Time for a divorce? This car is absurd and pollutes so much. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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lol must be fake. [ Reply | More ]
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My husband is a car collector, sometimes they have to get a car "out of their system" [ Reply | More ]
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this car is WT. [ Reply | More ]
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My husband bought a 1970 firebird once but then sold it 2 yrs later, they go thru phases [ Reply | More ]
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with a bird on the hood? LOL. [ Reply | More ]
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