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[ - ] I have serious apartment envy. I know stuff like this has been posted before, but I hate dropping off DCs for playdates and parties, I make DH do it. I know I'm being a brat, but it's just the stage I'm in. I see a woman my age, maybe less attractive, maybe less educated and she lives in an amazing apartment and doesn't have to work. I was so busy not being a gold digger that I didn't think about money at all! DH and I have lots of problems, so it's not like marrying for love worked out that well anyway. I know I should be thankful that this is my biggest problem. I know. 26 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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So apartments should be awarded based on attractiveness? [ Reply | More ]
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lol. Interesting how she's sizing up the relative attractiveness and educational level of women with nicer homes than hers. Talk about shallow. [ Reply | More ]
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I know I suck, I do, I just feel resentful right now. [ Reply | More ]
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NP: Calm down guys. Giving her the benefit of the doubt here, she's not saying that's how it "should" be done, she's saying conventional wisdom tells you the prettiest girls marry the richest men, blah blah blah. She feels duped because she did all of the "right" things- she dated for love, she worked hard and focused on her career, etc, and it didn't get her as far as just playing up her feminine wiles and making it a priority to marry a rich man. [ Reply | More ]
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thanks, yes this. of course I don't talk like this in real life, I'm just pregnant, hormonal, exhausted from my job and sick of having to drop DCs at some other amazing apartment. [ Reply | More ]
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Maybe she's delusional about how stunning she is. [ Reply | More ]
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no of course not, but I guess I think I should have married better! Having an alcoholic, smoking, money burning DH is the problem. When I married him he was in $50k of debt, I just didn't think money was that important, and now I resent him for many things. I was just dumb. [ Reply | More ]
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You really just need to grow up. [ Reply | More ]
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x2. Bitter. [ Reply | More ]
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You sound shallow. [ Reply | More ]
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Wore [ Reply | More ]
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Oh, my. In your zeal to insult, you forget a letter. Not a very good troll! We only do tt on UB, so time to move on. [ Reply | More ]
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KIEK [ Reply | More ]
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Again? Pathetic. [ Reply | More ]
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Your dad HSA aisd [ Reply | More ]
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Your dad HSA aisd [ Reply | More ]
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No wonder you can't get a bigger apartment.. you can't even spell. [ Reply | More ]
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who are you talking to? I'm op and I'm not calling anyone names, the responder obviously mean to type word. [ Reply | More ]
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Pipes it burn when,you fvdsnhvfsnuhfshivsfuhbvef [ Reply | More ]
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Maybe I am? I'm pregnant with my third DC, I think that's what's causing it, apartment isn't big enough, there isn't enough money, I should have left DH many years ago but I love/d him. [ Reply | More ]
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Curious as to how you know everyone's education level. [ Reply | More ]
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This. She must do a lot of Google stalking. Or she's interviewing everyone. [ Reply | More ]
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They probably are more attractive than you too, you're just deluded. [ Reply | More ]
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well, it's understandable. smart women, such as i, figure out early that you need education and your own career but you can't let that get in the way of making sure your partner is on board about financial security. maybe in the next life. [ Reply | More ]
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hehe yeah, maybe next time. [ Reply | More ]
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Grass is never greener. And it's okay to send DH. :) [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] I think I just had a pretty woman moment. A friend of mind been raving about this new boutique. I walked in earlier, 3 females in the 30-50 range turn around look me up and down and resume talking. I walked around, pregnant one finally said hi then turned her head again. The other two continued to ignore me and gossiping about some other woman who travels a lot apparently. How on earth is this place successful? 17 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Are you fat? You sound ugly [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
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Nope, fit and very attractive. [ Reply | More ]
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MAYBE TEN YEARS AGO LOL [ Reply | More ]
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I am 32 you creep [ Reply | More ]
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SLUT [ Reply | More ]
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LOL, UGLY ALUT [ Reply | More ]
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I do not get snooty salespeople. It's like they forget that they are the people who have to work in a shop and you are the person who can afford to buy things there. [ Reply | More ]
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Loo, CHINK [ Reply | More ]
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This [ Reply | More ]
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just don't patronize the business. that's what i do. vote with your feet. also, let the owner know if it's really bothersome. [ Reply | More ]
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The thing is, I think at least 2 of them were owners [ Reply | More ]
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i would rather have them ignore me than hover [ Reply | More ]
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+1 i hate being asked how i am and if i need help finding anything. i'm not blind/retarded [ Reply | More ]
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That happened to my mom once when they moved to a new trial an in the south. She never went back and if they only knew. My mom could drop some $$$on clothes. [ Reply | More ]
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New city in the south... [ Reply | More ]
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Yelp [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] What are the characteristics of a high maintaence friend?? Maybe you don't notice at first, but then after a year or so, you do. TIA. 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Someone who needs a lot of attention? [ Reply | More ]
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someone who starts every conversation by complaining about how long it's been since the last time you contacted them. [ Reply | More ]
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Interesting [ Reply | More ]
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Someone who is constantly getting angry at you for little things [ Reply | More ]
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Example? [ Reply | More ]
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I have a friend who got mad at me for numerous reasons - I couldn't make it to her birthday party, didn't invite her to something once, etc. It wasn't just telling me she was upset, but she would not talk to me for months [ Reply | More ]
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I have a friend who tries to be friends with everyone and wants to be everywhere. If she's not accepted, she gets very depressed. [ Reply | More ]
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Someone who needs to rehash a new personal crisis every week. [ Reply | More ]
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Op: I have a friend I've know for a little over a year and she'a beginning to take out her anger on me and getting annoyed very easily. Kind of like walking on eggshells. [ Reply | More ]
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A friend who always has to meet in her neighborhood, not yours, because she is SOOOOOO busy (even though she stays at home with her kids). A friend who talks too much about her own problems but barely even pretends to listen to yours. A friend who, even during a lice infestation in her home, puts her coat on top of your coat when you go out to lunch and then gets offended when you ask her to move her coat. A friend who always wants to get together, but only on her terms and only if it doesn't conflict with her daily workouts. A friend who is obsessed with her weight and needs constant reassurance that she's not fat. A friend who you wish you knew how to dump but haven't quite found the words yet. [ Reply | More ]
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Yikes, she doesn't sound fun. [ Reply | More ]
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Someone who never asks you how you are doing. [ Reply | More ]
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Someone who is chronically late. By more than an hour. I drop those people, and they're always so confused, "you're never around." No, YOU were never around. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Hi moderator. Thank you. 18 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Shit on my face or jiZz on my chest------YOUR CHOISE [ Reply | More ]
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I have a big fat smelly penis [ Reply | More ]
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MODERATOR^^^^ [ Reply | More ]
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Nigger whore [ Reply | More ]
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Go eat the Cheetos mommy left on the formica countertop in your sad little shack. Then go down to you bedroom in the cellar and do your remedial 3rd grade math hw. [ Reply | More ]
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Lol WHORE [ Reply | More ]
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Eat a log of shit [ Reply | More ]
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This [ Reply | More ]
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Check out the Biggest Secret thread. [ Reply | More ]
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x2. What is this lunatic's problem?? [ Reply | More ]
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I couldn't even imagine. [ Reply | More ]
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IMAGINE BETTER, WHOAR!?));6,776,$;76;.75.76,$)?!$@ hfgfdcyrvguyfsrdrxctbyonnwjbwtf how has usurps iuv;6.6.7,&?&$,)657 [ Reply | More ]
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I wonder if he comes across as normal-ish out in public? Wouldn't want to meet up with him in a dark alley, that's for sure. [ Reply | More ]
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YOUR MOHTHER HAS SEX WTH DOGES [ Reply | More ]
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YOUR MOHTHER HAS SEX WTH DOGES [ Reply | More ]
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+547756567856(76$6876854352736,7)(,86(86,(.77(.,676,78),$&?$? [ Reply | More ]
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And you need to go back to pre-k to learn to spell. Gl. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] My 2.5 year old is starting to refuse to nap. Has been going on for almost 3 weeks. He'll nap a some days. I think I'm doing everything right. Help!! 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Ha. Just when you think you have it right, they mix it up for you! [ Reply | More ]
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Many kids stop napping around now. It's normal. [ Reply | More ]
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No way. Not 2. [ Reply | More ]
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Yeesh, I suppose for some. Mine are older now but if they missed a nap at 2.5, bedtime was MISERABLE. [ Reply | More ]
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Kill your chuldren [ Reply | More ]
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My dd didn't nap after 2 yrs, 3mons - except in the car. [ Reply | More ]
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Did she die in a hot car [ Reply | More ]
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Normal [ Reply | More ]
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Sounds like the end of the nap. [ Reply | More ]
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Noger [ Reply | More ]
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+1 The good news is, he'll probably start going to bed earlier. GL [ Reply | More ]
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How could a 2 year old stop napping? My friend's 4 year old still needs her naps. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Lawyer moms: Just sold a property in the in burbs that I had purchased in '99. When I went to sell, it turned out that the septic was on my neighbor's property (survey that accompanied my purchase showed septic in a different location). No buyers' mortgage would approve sale w/o septic so I had to pay $20,00 for new system on property. Is anyone legally liable here? 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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You didn't clean out your septic system between 1999 and now? [ Reply | More ]
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why would cleaning it out help her realize that it is on neighbors property (assuming no fence)? [ Reply | More ]
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It would help her realize that it wasn't in the location the survey said it was. [ Reply | More ]
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we did, every year. The survey showed the head where it was (on our property) but the whole system (pipes, leach field) was on neighbor's. [ Reply | More ]
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Who would be liable and for what? [ Reply | More ]
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OP: I don't know -- surveyor? Previous owners for false representation? Title company? [ Reply | More ]
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Surveyor or previous owner. [ Reply | More ]
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Not a lawyer, but if you had a survey done when you purchased, they might be. [ Reply | More ]
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How did you not know about the septic when you purchased the property? [ Reply | More ]
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did you dig up the septic and make sure it was located where the surveyor said it was when you purchased a home? [ Reply | More ]
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You could have asked your neighbor for an easement to allow the septic to stay on her property. [ Reply | More ]
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It would depend on the type of survey, any contractual limitations on liablity and you are probably well beyond the statute of limitations in any case. [ Reply | More ]
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Not a lawyer, but something isn't right. Contact the surveyor who did the survey to find out where they got the information. Did they actually locate the septic field, in which case I would assume they are liable because surveys are certified to be true & accurate. They are legal documents. Or was some of the information reported to the surveyor by another party, such as the property owner or the septic installer? The records should note where the info came from. If a previous owner supplied the false information I would imagine that is the direction to go in. [ Reply | More ]
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Maybe title company. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] My daily intake - breakfast some salba seeds and scrambled eggs, lunch- salad with olive oil and lots of vinegar, dinner will be roasted veggies and grilled fish- I am trying to lose 5 lbs. Sound good? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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anybody? I also do strength training and walk everywhere [ Reply | More ]
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wtf is a salba seed? listen lady, move more eat less is the only way to lose lbs. and some are more genetically blessed than others. good luck to you! [ Reply | More ]
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+1. It's all about calories in and calories used. [ Reply | More ]
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Yawn. Nigger [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] How can someone with 260K HHI afford to pay $900 to nanny and plan on private school? This baffles me. Either I am doing something wrong or they are getting family help. 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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I make 260, pay nanny 750/week, and have cheap housing by NY standards. I could never afford private. [ Reply | More ]
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+1. It's a total ie. The trolls should do a little math first. [ Reply | More ]
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+2 we earn 320k, nanny gets 800/week, 3k per month housing (mortgage, maintenance, taxes). Not considering private for K-12. [ Reply | More ]
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yes, makes no sense whatsoever unless 260K is after taxes. [ Reply | More ]
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You will die fat and alone [ Reply | More ]
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Was this the woman who said she thought she screwed herself by paying her nanny off the books and now she can't get FA? As if schools GAF if you have less money to spend on school because you have a nanny. Our poor $400k a year poster may as well say "Well, we spend $1k a month on cabs, because we don't like the subway, and $3k a month on restaurants, because it's our hobby, and $30k a year on vacations because ... duh ... so, we need FA" [ Reply | More ]
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ha true [ Reply | More ]
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I remember that poster. We don't choose to take the subway. [ Reply | More ]
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My hhi is $350k, pay nanny $500/week and housing is cheap $2600/month and we send one dc to private. Considering applying for some fa when youngest is ready for K. [ Reply | More ]
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The difference in your nanny costs is 20K a year which is 1/2 of private tuition and you also net 45K more and you have cheap housing too. See how that is different. You have 65K more to spend on private without even the cheap housing consideration. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] What to do about Foister-Moms?! I live in a small, suburban neighborhood with not young families. Fortunately for my 10 yr old ds, however, there are 2 other boys from his school in this 'hood, and they get along great. Whenever they have free time after school, they are outside playing or at our house, playing indoors. Yesterday, a friendly woman and her son walked past the kids playing--the woman rather foisted her bigger, older middle school-aged son on the other kids and hung around for about 90 minutes. Towards the end of that time period, I went outside an introduced myself. The mom is new in town, said husband and 2 older brothers live close to the city, but she & her youngest son are here during the week to take advantage of the excellent Special Needs program in our school system. I could tell the younger boys were not really enjoying the new kids company--they were friendly and played as nicely as they could muster, but they were clearly upset when the new mom said she would bring her son over EVERY day to play with them! What the heck?! I feel that 5th graders are at an age where they deserve to be able to choose their friends. Yes, I feel badly for this boy with his problems and his mother living away from the rest of the family, but is this going to be MY problem now? How do I politely set boundaries here? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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So, compassion is not your strong suit, eh? Too bad because a relationship with this new kid is a great learning opportunity for your son and his friends. [ Reply | More ]
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Ok, I hear you… this boy was throwing the ball AT the others and not exactly playing nicely. He is much bigger. Say what you want about me, but my d.s. and his friends were polite to this boy, but he did not/could not (?) reciprocate b/c of his issues. Our public schools have Special Needs kids integrated in the classroom all day long. Is it too much to ask what little free time they have to themselves they get to choose who they play with? And what about the new mom who likes the idea of dumping and running? I doubt you'd be so generous of spirit if this was YOUR situation, judgmental one. [ Reply | More ]
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What does Foister mean? [ Reply | More ]
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She's foisting her special needs kid on OP's DS and his friends. [ Reply | More ]
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got it thanks. I thought it was make some new special needs term. [ Reply | More ]
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She's foisting her kid on the others. [ Reply | More ]
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If your son and his friends hang out every day, then is two days too much to give up and be nice to this kid? I have a 10yo too and I agree, he shouldn't have to be charitable (because that's what this is) every day, but work out what you think is reasonable, and then on the other days your son perhaps goes to his friend's house? Or you tell the mom that they are inside doing xyz today but how about Friday? [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Iam making this tonight for dinner http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7q9vT-w4NGs 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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csb I am making pizza [ Reply | More ]
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My intuition says do NOT click on this link. Troll is back. [ Reply | More ]
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I clicked and its ok. Its veggie lasagna. but you are right I shouldn't have clicked so fast [ Reply | More ]
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healthy? [ Reply | More ]
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I didn't watch the whole thing, tbh [ Reply | More ]
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it's a youtube link. what could be so bad? the op is a dunce, however, for not linking in the body. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Have you ever been to a wedding that you felt was a mistake? I have a friend who is marrying a man who seems abusive. How am I supposed to support this? The wedding is next weekend. 18 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Yup. My cousin. Married a man 20 years her senior who was very controlling. I was sick over it. There's nothing you can do without alienating them. You go, smile, and get drunk if that's your thing. Be there for her when the shit hits the fan. It's hard! [ Reply | More ]
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Also, any symbolic stand you try to take will just make you look like a jerk. [ Reply | More ]
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This. [ Reply | More ]
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What happened to her? Are they still together? [ Reply | More ]
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It was only a year ago. She seems fine I guess, but he makes her wear her hair short. Cropped short to her head. He likes it like that, she says. We also met up for drinks after work once and he sHOWED UP unexpectedly, He was checking up on her! They didn't say as much, but I'm sure that's what was going on. It's really fucked up... [ Reply | More ]
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Abusive how? Has he hurt her? If so, then you should say something. I know at least one friend who didn't think I should marry my dh (not for that reason) but we're happy together. [ Reply | More ]
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I don't think there's any point in saying something, unless you are REALLY close with the person. Like a sister or something. And in that case I would think something would have been said already. [ Reply | More ]
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I do not know of anything specific. I know relationships can look different from the inside. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.21.14, 07:20 PM Flag
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But he's a total dick. He's called and yelled at her on the phone while we were at dinner because the kitchen was dirty. He made her leave a Christmas party because he didn't like the way she was acting (tipsy). She complains but will then make an excuse for he, it's infuriating and makes me want to dump her as a friend (I know that sounds heartless) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.21.14, 07:22 PM Flag
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They are adults. You go. You congratulate them. You go home. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.21.14, 07:20 PM Flag
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Sadly, I agree with this. You really can't say anything. I have a friend who married a jerk. We all knew he was a jerk at the wedding and he has continued to be a jerk. I think he does not bring out the best in her. But how could I say any of this without offending her? You just support your friend, or decide you don't want to be friends. (I am heading that way with my friend). When it comes to your or her husband, she's going to go with her husband anyway, at least until they get divorced. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.21.14, 07:34 PM Flag
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Yes, I have and the marriage ended badly. It was one of my BFs from high school. We tried to talk to her about him and she told us if we wanted to stay friends we needed to support her decision. Fifteen years and 3 DCs later she is broke and single and her ex-DH is living well with his new baby mama and gets a rise out of putting my friend down. He's a worthless POS and I can't believe another woman has fallen for his BS. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.21.14, 07:20 PM Flag
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yep and they have been married for 30+ years now two kids - whatever i felt they made it work [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.21.14, 07:26 PM Flag
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The biggest mistake I ever made was talking to my sister about the guy she was going to marry. I got disinvited to the wedding and we haven't spoken since. Unless he is physically or emotionally abusive to her and you have proof, it's better to let it go and say nothing. Keep a close eye on things and be there if something happens. PS- my sister is divorced now. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.21.14, 07:32 PM Flag
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great advice [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.21.14, 07:46 PM Flag
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You're not supporting the marriage or the abuse. You're supporting your friend as she makes her way through life, mistakes and all. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.21.14, 07:32 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.21.14, 07:46 PM Flag
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Former co-worker/friend hooked up with (read: broke up) boss's marriage (he's @ 15 - 20 yrs her senior); he knocked her up, they eloped. I can't be friends with her anymore, she is in an insane world where he allegedly "completes her." I think he's an alcoholic perv narcissist with 2 failed marriages already and 4 kids to support in addition to the new baby. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.21.14, 07:43 PM Flag
[ - ] I'm the mom who had colonoscopy procedure this morning (46yo): the first time, 7 years ago, I felt nothing, slept through the whole thing... this time, although was mostly out, I did feel a lot of cramping/discomfort during procedure. Doctor came by only for a few minutes after I woke up, said they found a small polyp which they removed and that I have some internal and external hemorrhoids... when I asked he said I should not worry, but said they will have the results from the lab next week. I hope everything is OK, I am so nervous... trying to get some sleep now, before dd comes home from school. Did any of you find polyps and after removing them it was all fine? He said I need to go back in 5 years. 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.21.14, 07:12 PM Flag
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More likely to find polyps than not - don't stress, better than 95% chance you are fine. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.21.14, 07:13 PM Flag
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This [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.21.14, 07:15 PM Flag
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op - thank you...doc also said I might notice some slight bleeding with next bowel movement, but to let him know if not just slight - now I'm even worried to have one! I wish docs would try to reassure you sometime, at least when they see a patient is really a chicken and unfortunately I am when it comes to these things... I should probably rest [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.21.14, 07:19 PM Flag
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Of course a little blood. They removed the polyp. This is what is great about this test. They find the problem early and it's gone. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.21.14, 07:25 PM Flag
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op- so one small polyp is usually no reason for a lot of worry? I just made the mistake of going on a medical website where they list really bad stories. Oh, I wish I could stop reading and just try to sleep.... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.21.14, 07:36 PM Flag
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Nothing you can do at this point. I know it is difficult to relax (I am waiting on results from a brain MRI so I know the feeling). But really, if your doctor told you your next one needs to be scheduled in 5 years, chances are you're fine. My mom had colon cancer and they knew immediately (4 inches of her colon were eventually removed). My father has had polyps removed at every checkup and no cancer. You'll be fine, relax! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.21.14, 07:40 PM Flag
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No biggie. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.21.14, 07:19 PM Flag
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Many people have polyps.Good to get the out early. If there's a 5 yr suggested wait, I wouldn't worry. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.21.14, 07:27 PM Flag
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my mom. she's been fine for years. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.21.14, 07:32 PM Flag
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When do most people get their first colonoscopy. Is it generally covered by insurance? Should everyone have one? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.21.14, 07:33 PM Flag
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50. usually covered for 50+ only. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.21.14, 07:37 PM Flag
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Typically 50 unless there is a family history. Insurance is all over the place right now so that one's difficult to answer - call the number on your card and ask. Yes, everyone should have one by 50. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.21.14, 07:38 PM Flag
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np: 50. It's 100% covered by insurance as a screening test, but if they find a polyp or something else, the coding changes to diagnostic and now you are looking at meeting your deductible with a co-pay. And that's how they zing you! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.21.14, 07:38 PM Flag
[ - ] "If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back." 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.21.14, 07:12 PM Flag
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trust me, not mine [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.21.14, 07:13 PM Flag
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General Topics 10.21.14, 07:14 PM Flag
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I have guilt about how easy my life is. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.21.14, 07:15 PM Flag
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aww [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.21.14, 07:18 PM Flag
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All but one of mine. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.21.14, 07:25 PM Flag
[ - ] So wait now that the moderator is on, saying "he's gay" will get you "removed"? That seems like a low bar. Unless the moderator knows who is doing it. 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.21.14, 07:10 PM Flag
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Link? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.21.14, 07:10 PM Flag
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I think it was the gay slur that was used [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.21.14, 07:10 PM Flag
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that's stupid, too. slurs are just words. people need to just get over it. the spamming so no one can follow threads is bullshit and needs to be banned. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.21.14, 07:33 PM Flag
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look below. cunt is totally allowed but faggot isn't? that makes no sense. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.21.14, 07:34 PM Flag
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What about retarded? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.21.14, 07:11 PM Flag
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OP I'm just surprised that there was nothing for a while and now the line is being drawn so hard. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.21.14, 07:14 PM Flag
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Apparently not. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.21.14, 07:19 PM Flag
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it's fine. it just means slow. like retarded growth. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.21.14, 07:37 PM Flag
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General Topics 10.21.14, 07:13 PM Flag
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I prefer more moderation than less. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.21.14, 07:29 PM Flag
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OP ITA but I guess I just find it interesting. I was wondering if it was all done by the same person and the moderator knew that or if s/he was just going through each one finding stuff. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.21.14, 07:32 PM Flag
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You're a delicate little thing, aren't you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.21.14, 07:38 PM Flag
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