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05.25.13, 11:13 PM
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Abortion.
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05.25.13, 11:08 PM
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05.25.13, 11:08 PM
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05.25.13, 11:11 PM
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+ infinity. We're done.
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05.25.13, 11:13 PM
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Shit.
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05.25.13, 11:08 PM
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05.25.13, 11:24 PM
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flabbergasted
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05.25.13, 11:08 PM
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Are you postmenopausal?
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05.25.13, 11:09 PM
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Yup. Early menopause due to chemo.
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05.25.13, 11:12 PM
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Sorry sister.
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05.25.13, 11:18 PM
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overjoyed!
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05.25.13, 11:15 PM
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Surprised. Super happy!
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05.25.13, 11:09 PM
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Excited.
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05.25.13, 11:09 PM
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not now.
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05.25.13, 11:16 PM
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I would be shocked since I have no uterus :). Immaculate conception
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05.25.13, 11:16 PM
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So you could be the one person who uses this word according to its original meaning: miracle.
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05.25.13, 11:11 PM
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Yup
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05.25.13, 11:20 PM
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I would be ok with it.
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05.25.13, 11:18 PM
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Conflicted.
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05.25.13, 11:20 PM
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Overwhelmed. I'd have Irish twins and a puppy.
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05.25.13, 11:15 PM
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I wouldn't want it & bf would.
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05.25.13, 11:22 PM
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Omg, double your birth control please
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05.25.13, 11:21 PM
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05.25.13, 11:07 PM
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what can't you get out of your head: that your mom was a mature grown up and realized that whawt was btwn her and her sister was btwn her and her sister? You would confide in the 13 yr old that you were "mad" at her aunt!????
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05.25.13, 11:03 PM
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^ and in turn make you feel badly about what you had done, just by letting you know it didn't have her permission? Your mom handled it right.
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05.25.13, 11:04 PM
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np: lots of parents act this way, robbing joy by throwing hissy fits and wrecking the mood.
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05.25.13, 11:08 PM
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You have a good mom. What's done is done. She saw no need to deny you the joy of the experience, even if she wasn't happy about it.
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05.25.13, 11:03 PM
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Great lady there.
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05.25.13, 11:07 PM
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05.25.13, 11:02 PM
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My favorite foods are still ribs and McDonalds. Oh and pancakes. I think I became more picky as time went on. Sorry.
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05.25.13, 10:58 PM
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We didn't go out to eat that much when I was a kid.
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05.25.13, 10:58 PM
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I don't know but lots of things I loved as a kid seem gross now - lunchables, cheap milk chocolate, american cheese!
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05.25.13, 11:07 PM
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My parents told me I was gumming lamb chops before I even had teeth. Loooove me some lamb chops!
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05.25.13, 11:02 PM
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It was a process throughout my 20's
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05.25.13, 11:02 PM
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05.25.13, 11:07 PM
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05.25.13, 11:17 PM
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I was always fed the same as my parents. I didn't have a cheeseburger until college
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05.25.13, 11:10 PM
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When I went away to college.
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05.25.13, 11:06 PM
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sometime in my teens...started enjoying ethic food meals w. my parents.
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05.25.13, 11:14 PM
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I never eat chicken fingers. Cause my mom won't make it. I eat what they eat. so does my dc. What's so hard? If you're picky, you go to bed hungry.
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05.25.13, 11:16 PM
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My mom never gave into my picky eating habits. She cooked one meal and that's it. It didnt consist of chicken finger or boiled chicken. I ate what they ate.
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05.25.13, 11:20 PM
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Age 20
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05.25.13, 11:21 PM
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05.25.13, 10:45 PM
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How long ago has it been?
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05.25.13, 10:52 PM
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around 5 years.
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05.25.13, 11:01 PM
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You should say, " Glad things are going well for you. Did you know I used to be so jealous of you."
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05.25.13, 10:48 PM
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05.25.13, 10:49 PM
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I like this.
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05.25.13, 11:01 PM
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Yes something like this!
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05.25.13, 10:56 PM
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This is the best way to go. Don't apologize for being a bitch because she might not have noticed, and/or you're putting her in an awkward situation by mentioning it. Just tell her that you used to be so jealous of her, and still admire her, or something like that. Then just move on to something else.
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05.25.13, 11:00 PM
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this sounds good and funny and a good way to start a friendship
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05.25.13, 11:08 PM
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No. Especially not in writing!
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05.25.13, 10:57 PM
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I don't think she'd use it against me. LOL.
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05.25.13, 11:01 PM
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No, but she could forward it to someone. I just wouldn't do it.
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05.25.13, 11:02 PM
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Oh, I never even thought of that.
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05.25.13, 10:57 PM
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You could write her a message saying that you were awful, and that it was because you were jealous, and that you're sorry. I say just do it. You never know how the way you treated her may have actually hurt her at the time.
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05.25.13, 10:58 PM
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That's partly what I am thinking.
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05.25.13, 10:57 PM
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or: I went through some really brutal bullying in middle school and even now, if I were to get a message from one of those people saying that they were sorry, I would probably cry my heart out. It would still mean that much, even fifteen years later.
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05.25.13, 11:09 PM
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OMG, don't write the message!!! Just let it go
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05.25.13, 11:03 PM
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05.25.13, 10:39 PM
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When you have a bodily need that involves disrobing, I think you should go to a bathroom or some other private area.
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05.25.13, 10:49 PM
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Babies should eat in the bathroom? Are you fucking insane?
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05.25.13, 10:43 PM
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+1. OR should eat in the bathroom.
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05.25.13, 11:00 PM
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My friend had someone ask her "don't you have a blanket or something?" And she said "yes, why- are we bothering you? Do you want to put the blanket over your head?"
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05.25.13, 10:57 PM
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I love your friend!
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05.25.13, 11:05 PM
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Oh my god. This is amazing. I'm tucking that away for the next time someone bothers me about nursing.
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05.25.13, 11:05 PM
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Oh my god. Please
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05.25.13, 10:55 PM
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I'm sorry, but no one wants to see your veiny breast long nipple.
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05.25.13, 10:43 PM
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So then don't look at OP's nipple. This is an easy fix to a non-problem.
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05.25.13, 10:44 PM
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Don't look. I don't want to see some people's faces that I see out in public but I'm not going to tell them to wear a burqa
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05.25.13, 10:46 PM
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Are you saying you are unattractive? Because no one wants to see your ugly boobs, but no one is going to tell you to cover up.
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05.25.13, 10:48 PM
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No. How'd you get that out of that sentence. I'm hot, maybe that's why no one minds my uncovered breastfeeding
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05.25.13, 10:49 PM
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Sure you are.
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05.25.13, 10:54 PM
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;) right, how could a sexy mom be on UB, crazy!!!
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05.25.13, 10:56 PM
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Lol. One that bares her breasts no less!
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05.25.13, 10:58 PM
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Just hope you run into me when baby gets hungry! It'll be your lucky day!!!
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05.25.13, 11:01 PM
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For sure! Relax! No one cares. Just don't make stupid comments about people whose faces you'd rather not see. I'm sure you wouldn't.
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05.25.13, 11:10 PM
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Lol!
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05.25.13, 11:13 PM
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You do realize that a nipple may be exposed for a few seconds max...?
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05.25.13, 10:47 PM
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YES, BUT THE CHILDREN!! THEY ARE TRAUMATIZED BY NIPPLES, DON'T YOU GET IT?!?!?!
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05.25.13, 10:52 PM
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Anyone who would be upset about it is not really worth worrying about, OP. Some people are just uptight and looking for a fight.
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05.25.13, 10:46 PM
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The only time I've actually heard of this fight is here on UB. No one irl has ever said a word to me about it.
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05.25.13, 10:47 PM
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OR: I bet some people get a little miffed. They are either geriatric OR religious nuts (the same people who say that the Diary of Anne Frank is pornographic). Who gives a crap about them?
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05.25.13, 10:50 PM
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this - only on ub does it seem to be a problem....just like so many issues here - thank god people irl tend to mind their own business
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05.25.13, 11:04 PM
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05.25.13, 11:00 PM
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OP +100000000
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05.25.13, 11:00 PM
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+3. No sane person would be personally invested in your decision either way.
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05.25.13, 11:02 PM
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Because people are trying to tell others NOT to cover up. If i want to cover up, I cover up. Not because I have a skewed view of women or some hang-ups about my body. If your DB prefers this, awesome. I just don't like being told that my opinion is "wrong". And really, you cannot be surprised that many people would be uncomfortable with a bare breast in many circumstances. You may not agree with it, but it does not matter; your beliefs do not dictate other people's beliefs.
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05.25.13, 10:50 PM
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I totally get it. Most of my friends cover up, it's definitely the norm to feel more comfortable this way.
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05.25.13, 10:54 PM
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NP: I always covered up because I'm shy but I don't see it as the norm necessarily. Although to be honest, I don't think I really examine BFing women long enough to decide whether they have full, partial, or no coverage. It's more like: woman nursing a baby, kid on a bike, flock of birds, did I remember to buy eggs at the grocery store.
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05.25.13, 10:57 PM
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Right?!?!? +1 hahahaha
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05.25.13, 11:00 PM
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But I completely think you SHOULD do what makes you comfortable. It is about you and your baby and your level of comfort. I just don't like when I think people should act in their comfort zone, yet tell me to conform to their beliefs(not referring to you specifically). Then again, I have never been good with being told I am wrong :)
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05.25.13, 11:06 PM
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Its not, relax and enjoy your baby
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05.25.13, 10:51 PM
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who says it is a war - i have breastfed 2 kids and never once go "attitude" towards it and i did not cover up...half the time no one had any idea....not like I was banging a gong and pointing at my baby and boobs
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05.25.13, 11:02 PM
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Lol! No I should've clarified, people on here are so hostile about it. It's an e-war not a real life issues. It just leads me to believe that people must just be keeping quiet about their opinions irl
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05.25.13, 11:00 PM
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me to. I could not imagine someone saying some of the things I have seen on UB.
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05.25.13, 11:09 PM
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Good for you!! That's what they are for. Ignore the psycho prudes on this board.
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05.25.13, 10:59 PM
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I have nursed both kids till a year. I have nursed whenever and wherever. BUT i have covered up and when DB had fought the cover-up, I have gone to the bathroom. That is MY preference. I believe women can nurse with or without a cover-up, however, if its someone in the group nursing without a cover-up, it does kind of make it awkward. For some reason, most people's eyes just drift toward the boob and it takes effort to look away
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05.25.13, 11:17 PM
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05.25.13, 10:37 PM
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take a walk with an iPod
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05.25.13, 10:38 PM
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work out or go for a run... or call a friend
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05.25.13, 10:34 PM
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I just ate a bad salad and felt the exact same way
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05.25.13, 10:35 PM
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NyQuil and bed
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05.25.13, 10:41 PM
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so sorry, no idea....i have never not been able to eat
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05.25.13, 10:47 PM
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1/2 a xanax and/or Sleep.
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05.25.13, 10:50 PM
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Sounds like a panic/anxiety attack. Sit, breathe deeply w/ closed eyes.
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05.25.13, 11:10 PM
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why is it?
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05.25.13, 11:13 PM
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can you tell me what would cause this kind of physical reaction?
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05.25.13, 11:18 PM
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05.25.13, 10:35 PM
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me, too !!! I typed it all out then canceled it.
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05.25.13, 10:39 PM
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Aww. I posted earlier about a friend uninviting me to dinner. So bummed. And everyone said to cut her out but we have expensive plans in two weeks. :( I was thinking of all the petty ways toget even.
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05.25.13, 10:51 PM
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Me too. So cranky. Every weekend I expect some sort of minor "break" or at least a slightly lightened load given there is an extra adult around the house for 2 (this weekend 3!) days. But no, weekends are just as much if not more work for me...
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05.25.13, 10:45 PM
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NP: If it makes you feel better, my DH is working all weekend. Hang in there.
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05.25.13, 11:04 PM
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Bummer. It does make me feel better. At least he's here! Even if he is like an extra child...
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05.25.13, 11:03 PM
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I want to hear petty problems. Please share.
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05.25.13, 11:04 PM
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Basically all of my friends cancel on me last minute. I need to find new friends.
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05.25.13, 11:26 PM
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05.25.13, 10:33 PM
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Ectomorph?
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05.25.13, 10:35 PM
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I haven't heard that word since the 80s!
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05.25.13, 11:14 PM
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Dont worry op some of us are bright enough go know what an ectomorph is
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05.25.13, 10:43 PM
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I'm an actual genius and I don't know this word. I'm glad knowing it makes you feel smart though. Pat on the head to you...
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05.25.13, 10:51 PM
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np: You call yourself an "actual genius"? On what scale do you measure this?
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05.25.13, 11:12 PM
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IQ, Mensa membership
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05.25.13, 11:12 PM
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A high IQ's all well and good, but it doesn't make you a genius. My younger brothers and I all have IQs in the low 150s, and I'm the only one who uses mine.
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05.25.13, 11:20 PM
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I think we live in the same building!
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05.25.13, 10:55 PM
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You just gave OP a heart attack
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05.25.13, 10:55 PM
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05.25.13, 10:21 PM
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Have any wine? I'd just have pasta from the pantry
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05.25.13, 10:29 PM
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Steak sounds super, with a great Burgundy, asparagus and shrooms!
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05.25.13, 10:29 PM
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shrooms shrooms?
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05.25.13, 10:24 PM
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I always like bacon and eggs... and wine for dinner when I'm flying solo.
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05.25.13, 10:25 PM
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Also by myself tonight. And ordering in.
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05.25.13, 10:35 PM
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By myself, eating leftovers.
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05.25.13, 10:35 PM
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Takeout, order chinese food.
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05.25.13, 10:46 PM
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I actually managed to pull together a really nice meal....got mad at myself for possibly throwing out food, so I just roast broccoli that was almost garbage, made quinoa and spinach that was also on it's last legs and grilled a few frozen shrimp. Makes me feel good I did not waste food and it came out very taste. the wine is yummy too
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05.25.13, 10:50 PM
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05.25.13, 10:15 PM
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How nice, "niggas in Paris". African Americans in Paris is an old thing of course with the most well known period being during the Harlem Renaissance. Now, "Niggas in Paris" is a new thing.
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05.25.13, 10:21 PM
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What happened to April in Paris?
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05.25.13, 10:17 PM
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She ran away to NYC to have sex with OP's DH.
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05.25.13, 10:22 PM
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This is a reference to the black Muslim thug who stabbed someone, I think.
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05.25.13, 10:49 PM
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You're quick.
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05.25.13, 10:47 PM
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Doctors say I'm the illest
Cause I'm suffering from realness
Got my niggas in Paris
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05.25.13, 10:56 PM
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It's Niggaz
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05.25.13, 11:15 PM
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no it's "Niggas In Paris" by Jay Z ft Kanye West
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05.25.13, 11:13 PM
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05.25.13, 10:14 PM
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Oh my God! It's the best! I hate myself so much, but I just can't look away...
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05.25.13, 10:15 PM
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I saw that little girl Sophia from the show on DWTS... she is INCREDIBLE.
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05.25.13, 10:18 PM
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I think Maddie & Asia are better!
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05.25.13, 10:22 PM
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or: Asia is amazing, but I just have such a soft spot for Chloe. Poor thing...
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05.25.13, 10:27 PM
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I love Chloe, I hope she becomes a ballerina. I think Maddie is incredible
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05.25.13, 10:34 PM
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I like Maddie but the same face at the end of every dance makes me crazy.
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05.25.13, 10:34 PM
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NP: Asia obviously has tons of talent and personality, but I always want to yell at her to point her toes and straighten her knees!
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05.25.13, 11:13 PM
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How can you? Those women are unbearable. And right in front of their children.
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05.25.13, 10:16 PM
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seriously. I don't know what it is about that show. Even I can see that it's staged, and it is the same thing, over and over and over again. But there's something about Abby and the moms and even the kids - they are genuinely watchable women and girls, and you want to root for all of them for their own reasons. The only thing that I don't like is when there's obviously some negativity tossed in there that is clearly somewhat real, because these girls aren't Anna Paquin and they don't cry like that on cue. They're obviously really crying and freaked out many times and that's not cool ... but I watch.
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05.25.13, 10:18 PM
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I agree, Abby Lee Miller is mesmerizing. Please, tell me, someone has already drag-queen optioned her - and maybe Christie (sp?) as well.
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05.25.13, 10:26 PM
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Christy would make a great drag queen for someone. I think someone could basically drag all those moms.
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05.25.13, 10:44 PM
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+1 I love it too....
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05.25.13, 10:20 PM
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I love it too...Season is over though, isn't it?
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05.25.13, 10:33 PM
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Sad.
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05.25.13, 10:36 PM
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05.25.13, 10:07 PM
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I think soul mate is an invented term. There is no 'one' person for you in this world. There are many who would fit the bill. I think soul mate is kind of a cinderella story word. Even if the perfect person dropped in your lap, you would still need to apply hard work and commitment to your relationship. 'Soul mate' seems to take away accountability in some way. But I do realize I sound quite cynical right now.
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05.25.13, 10:15 PM
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I agree. Completely.
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05.25.13, 10:17 PM
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+1
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05.25.13, 10:13 PM
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I don't think that sounds cynical, and I agree.
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05.25.13, 10:15 PM
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agree, sadly.
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05.25.13, 10:18 PM
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I don't believe in "soul mates". But I do think that DH and I are very well suited to one another and our commitment to each other and our relationship is more valuable than any wishy-washy concept like being soulmates.
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05.25.13, 10:16 PM
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+1
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05.25.13, 10:29 PM
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I think he's perfect for me, but I also don't think there's only one person in the world with whom I'd be very happy. And I fundamentally believe it's my responsibility to make myself happy.
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05.25.13, 10:26 PM
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Yes, I think he is my soul mate. Can't imagine spending my life with anyone else.
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05.25.13, 10:27 PM
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I don;t know about soul mate but I've never met another man I could image spending my life with.
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05.25.13, 10:31 PM
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OP - i know soul mate is cheesy but didn't know what other word to use. i don't feel like our relationship has any soul, if that explains it better.
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05.25.13, 10:48 PM
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Yes I do! No idea how to answer second part cuz I'm. happy living with my soulmate!
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05.25.13, 10:58 PM
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he was until he fucked someone else, yes I am bitter and yes I am slowly getting drunk tonight
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05.25.13, 10:58 PM
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yes i do. When i dated guys in the past and was getting close to marriage, there was always this niggling doubt that there was someone else out there for me. Not after I met DH
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05.25.13, 11:18 PM
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05.25.13, 10:00 PM
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Oh ew. just swim naked
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05.25.13, 09:55 PM
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Can't do that if someone pulls up in the drive, you can see the whole pool from there, but LOL at the idea
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05.25.13, 10:04 PM
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Yes, this.
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05.25.13, 10:23 PM
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Get swim shorts and a rash guard top.
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05.25.13, 10:05 PM
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I have no idea what a rash guard top is ... that's bad, right?
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05.25.13, 10:04 PM
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The swimming tshirt
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05.25.13, 10:07 PM
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From surfing - protects you from board rash
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05.25.13, 10:17 PM
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Do what you want but I'd think a wet tshirt would be uncomfortable in the pool
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05.25.13, 10:08 PM
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+1. The point for me would be nobody else has to see me in the bathing suit.
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05.25.13, 10:16 PM
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OP yes, a little bit of that ...
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05.25.13, 10:15 PM
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I meant that I'd just wear it without issue bc no fear of being seen. I take my kids to the pool almost weekly so this doesn't really inhibit what I do. I'm just a little self conscious about how I look, so I wouldn't be lounging around w out a towel etc
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05.25.13, 10:26 PM
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Put on a swimsuit and then shorts. You'll be more comfortable than in a t-shirt but you'll still have coverage.
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05.25.13, 10:10 PM
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OH that's a good idea!
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05.25.13, 10:34 PM
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get a 2 piece. Get the skirt on the bottom.
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05.25.13, 10:10 PM
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Vba
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05.25.13, 10:17 PM
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How is that a VBA? She is on urbanbaby talking about her suburban chubby mom dilemma. (And that is not a diss to you OP. I'm chubby, too. You carry on with your bad t-shirt-wearing self.)
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05.25.13, 10:20 PM
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How is it a brag? Backyard pools are tackeeeey
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05.25.13, 10:27 PM
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OP thanks .... I do understand that the ones in the front yard and on top of the house are the best pools. We also missed the boat in blowing out the side of our house to put one inside the house. Where's your pool?
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05.25.13, 10:42 PM
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At my club.
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05.25.13, 10:44 PM
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Where whatever you want. Your pool. But as someone chubby who swims 45 minutes a day, 4 days a week and HATES bathing suits, wearing a tee shirt would be a total drag. I would love my own pool so I didn't have to think about who would see be in a swimsuit. Will you actually be swimming or just floating around in the pool?
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05.25.13, 10:37 PM
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It's a new thing. I'd love to figure it out on my own. It's obviously not such a large pool where I'd be doing much swimming one way or the other.
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05.25.13, 10:49 PM
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My dream is a small swim-in-place pool.
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05.25.13, 11:14 PM
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05.25.13, 09:55 PM
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I want to meet the love of my life.
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05.25.13, 09:57 PM
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That life is not fair.
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05.25.13, 09:57 PM
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That bears shit in the woods
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05.25.13, 09:53 PM
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The pill isn't all that effective.
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05.25.13, 10:00 PM
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That Donald Trumps hair is ridiculous
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05.25.13, 09:54 PM
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This!
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05.25.13, 10:10 PM
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That I can't miss spinning class tomorrow am. I missed the 5pm deadline to cancel.
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05.25.13, 10:00 PM
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You just made me realized I missed my class this morning. Sigh.
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05.25.13, 10:17 PM
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That I have money to burn, but can't for the life of me find a handbag that I actually love
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05.25.13, 10:04 PM
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Then you haven't seen the right one. You'll know it when you see it, and it will SING to you. I promise.
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05.25.13, 10:05 PM
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That I will not be going to be eating pasta tonight.
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05.25.13, 09:59 PM
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love will keep us alive.
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05.25.13, 10:10 PM
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That I have three kids who love me and that my dh adores me
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05.25.13, 10:10 PM
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That I love my daughter.
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05.25.13, 10:30 PM
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Nature wins.
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05.25.13, 10:41 PM
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that life is an adventure.
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05.25.13, 10:54 PM
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When to quit.
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05.25.13, 10:58 PM
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that all things happen for a reason.
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