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05.25.13, 11:43 AM
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How about paying them back over time rather than in a lump sum? Would that allow you to honor your parents and still buy an apt?
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05.25.13, 11:46 AM
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It will, but this being New York, we aren't going to have a lot of money left over with mortgage and my parents are in 70s.
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05.25.13, 11:55 AM
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They've told me it's from my will money so that I don't have to pay them back,but it might be the entirety of will money and I feel an obligation to give them money back. Math wise, if we half savings between the two, neither goal will be satisfied for a long time.
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05.25.13, 11:58 AM
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np-I think if you have an honest and open conversation with them, then it is OK to not feel too pressured to pay them back right away. It probably is your inheritance that funded the rent, but it seems like the are OK with that. It's nice when it all works out (nice parents, appreciative/thoughtful kid). Best of luck!
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05.25.13, 12:01 PM
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Thank you. I feel so stuck with this, this was nice to hear.
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05.25.13, 12:06 PM
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It it is this then get the apartment and move on. Your parents may need you in others ways in 5 - 10 years. BUT if you think they really do need the money then pay it back.
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05.25.13, 12:02 PM
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05.25.13, 11:16 AM
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If it is true OCD, which can be thoughts and not behaviors, meds and therapy. My DD has what she refers to as Sticky Brain. A thought comes in and sticks. A great child psychiatrist, the right meds and lots of work on her part.
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05.25.13, 11:45 AM
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05.25.13, 10:46 AM
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I think you should apply to all three. Don't limit yourself 4 months before the application process even begins
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05.25.13, 10:45 AM
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T is evident from your post that haven't got a clue about the K process. Your chances of you ds getting a spot at these schools range from ain't going to happen to very unlikely. You, my friend, aren't going with any school you mention.
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05.25.13, 12:01 PM
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05.25.13, 04:50 AM
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05.25.13, 04:53 AM
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:( why don't you get a divorce?
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05.25.13, 05:00 AM
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Prob will
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05.25.13, 05:06 AM
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Me too. He gets mean when he fights, lots of name calling and never apologizing. Then he expects me to forget and go on as if nothing happened. Hate him most of the time now, other times indifferent. Will get out asap.
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05.25.13, 07:23 AM
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5%
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05.25.13, 04:59 AM
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OR - maybe less. But I think this factors for the intensity when we do fight.
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05.25.13, 04:59 AM
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Does he call you names
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05.25.13, 04:55 AM
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OR - no.
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05.25.13, 05:02 AM
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we fight but name calling is NEver allowed
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05.25.13, 04:59 AM
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Fight about what
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05.25.13, 05:00 AM
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anything. trivial to deep. but it;s only ever when we are stressed out. as soon as the voice is raised, i realize i am wasting energy. we figure out and/or move on
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05.25.13, 05:05 AM
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Ever cheat
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05.25.13, 05:13 AM
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05.25.13, 05:05 AM
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05.25.13, 05:05 AM
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99%
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05.25.13, 05:33 AM
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0%. We argue, but I never hate him.
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05.25.13, 05:40 AM
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Me too
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05.25.13, 06:12 AM
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15%
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05.25.13, 06:46 AM
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05.25.13, 04:46 AM
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Nah. We have the best sex like 5 times a week as it is.
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05.25.13, 04:50 AM
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Anal
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05.25.13, 04:51 AM
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Yes
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05.25.13, 04:51 AM
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Yes with my ex. The sex was amazing.
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05.25.13, 05:05 AM
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Why
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05.25.13, 05:00 AM
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Because it was primal and amazing.
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05.25.13, 05:13 AM
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Did you come very time
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05.25.13, 05:09 AM
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Perv alert
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05.25.13, 06:15 AM
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Anal
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05.25.13, 05:08 AM
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Of course
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05.25.13, 05:06 AM
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Definitely.
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05.25.13, 05:45 AM
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05.25.13, 07:29 AM
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Women are skanks
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05.25.13, 05:50 AM
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Nope
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05.25.13, 07:53 AM
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05.25.13, 04:40 AM
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Big tits shaved beaver
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05.25.13, 04:42 AM
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I mention this same thing to my friend. The weight, teeth, makeup, and overall grooming of say 90210 then and now is startling.
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05.25.13, 04:49 AM
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Every era has their trends but it is odd to me how much more "perfect doll"-like female ideals are becoming.
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05.25.13, 04:50 AM
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i like watching older movies where actors had real teeth
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05.25.13, 04:50 AM
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Golden Girls?
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05.25.13, 04:50 AM
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Most any show pre-2000
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05.25.13, 11:47 AM
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I don't consider this to mean improvement.
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05.25.13, 11:34 AM
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05.25.13, 04:38 AM
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1-2x/week
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05.25.13, 04:49 AM
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At night
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05.25.13, 04:44 AM
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5 times a week using vibe
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05.25.13, 04:44 AM
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Usually daily when I get the chance, but sometimes I am just not in the mood. Hate that.
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05.25.13, 04:51 AM
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At night?
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05.25.13, 04:47 AM
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Yup it knocks me out lol.
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05.25.13, 04:54 AM
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Props, porn?
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05.25.13, 04:49 AM
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Porn or imagination and vibes
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05.25.13, 04:58 AM
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Me too
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05.25.13, 04:53 AM
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Imagine what
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05.25.13, 04:58 AM
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Every night, anal beads and vibe
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05.25.13, 04:56 AM
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What are anal beads?
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05.25.13, 05:05 AM
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They are beads you put in your bottom and slowly pull out as you get excited
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05.25.13, 05:01 AM
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That's nasty
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05.25.13, 05:56 AM
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Often vibe and pinch nipples
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05.25.13, 05:08 AM
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05.25.13, 04:31 AM
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Yup
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05.25.13, 04:34 AM
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NYC sucks
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05.25.13, 04:52 AM
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no- people suck, not cities.
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05.25.13, 04:58 AM
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To many jews
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05.25.13, 04:57 AM
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what would you like to say to many jews?
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05.25.13, 05:01 AM
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lol
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05.25.13, 05:06 AM
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Good one!
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05.25.13, 05:06 AM
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Too
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05.25.13, 05:07 AM
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Failed in life and hate those that didn't?
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05.25.13, 05:07 AM
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Your ass is huge isn't it?
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05.25.13, 05:11 AM
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No, I'm a wealthy jew with a home gym and personal trainer 3 x a week and yourself?
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05.25.13, 05:23 AM
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Did you steal it
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05.25.13, 05:25 AM
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Aaaaaaaaah, so there we have it! If we are wealthy it MUST be because we somehow stole our wealth and this, somehow, directly impacted YOU. How about just realizing, you being a succesful human being, simply was not meant to be. I know you gave up a long time ago and I applaud you for this. There is no reason to strive for greatness in this life, when you clearly cannot achieve it.
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05.25.13, 05:30 AM
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P.S. writing this from my pied a terre in Montmartre/Paris. Does it hurt?
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05.25.13, 05:34 AM
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np: you sound really sad
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05.25.13, 05:47 AM
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Ha! Not at all. I live life to the fullest and I know how amazing the world/life is. I've never been called sad before. Besides the terrible things going on in the world, the last time I felt truly sad, was when my cat passed away, which was six years ago. She was awesome and didn't care that her family was jewish :)
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05.25.13, 06:04 AM
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Animals are so much better than people...
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05.25.13, 06:06 AM
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Agreed :(
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05.25.13, 06:07 AM
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+100000
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05.25.13, 06:11 AM
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Especially bigots!
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05.25.13, 06:11 AM
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And jews
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05.25.13, 06:36 AM
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05.25.13, 04:19 AM
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You need recs. for therapists?
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05.25.13, 04:20 AM
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So fucking what
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05.25.13, 04:21 AM
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You're not "objectively speaking" when it comes to your kids being gorgeous. Fwiw, there are lots of homely kids around with stunning parents.
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05.25.13, 04:29 AM
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Not in this case. There's lots of outside corroboration.
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05.25.13, 04:27 AM
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Right, they are obligated
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05.25.13, 04:32 AM
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Does he plow you in your starfish
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05.25.13, 04:26 AM
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Man, the midnight, insomniac, drinking crowd is rough.
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05.25.13, 04:32 AM
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Does he give you golden showers
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05.25.13, 04:32 AM
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I'll shit on him call me
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05.25.13, 04:42 AM
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What is the question here?
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05.25.13, 11:12 AM
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VBA I'm thinking. Very V.
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05.25.13, 11:35 AM
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05.25.13, 04:09 AM
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Op here...not in NYC. In burbs, not NY
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05.25.13, 04:10 AM
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cover up as much as possible, all black. black boots under black pants can work. it's also going to be raining, so sandals will look weird.
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05.25.13, 04:06 AM
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oh, thought you meant burb close to NYC. sorry! no idea how the weather is going to be around you
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05.25.13, 04:07 AM
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Sunny where I live.
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05.25.13, 04:08 AM
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But it will be on the cool side.
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05.25.13, 04:11 AM
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Dress nice - conservative - no flashy colors. Black, grey, brown are fine - black is best for the formal funeral - neutral blouse if wearing a skirt or pants. blazer or cardigan.. dress is also fine. No 5" heels. Have you never been to a funeral?
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05.25.13, 04:17 AM
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I just went to one 2 weeks ago. Very different demographic, however.
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05.25.13, 04:30 AM
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A "dressy sandal" sounds like an evening shoe to me.
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05.25.13, 04:38 AM
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No. Open toe is not proper at a funeral. You are not going to a BBQ.
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05.25.13, 04:35 AM
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05.25.13, 04:49 AM
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Not ok. Closed-toed shoes.
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05.25.13, 04:50 AM
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All black and conservative (think job interview). Closed toe pumps. Peep toes could prob pass if you don't have anything else def avoid satrapy sandals
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05.25.13, 09:52 AM
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I just went to a funeral like that and people were not all dressed up or dressed in black. Black pants, sweater, flats is fine
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05.25.13, 11:23 AM
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05.25.13, 04:01 AM
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Please tell me you meant Tessa.
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Baby name Tinder?
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lolll
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Electric car?
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electric eel
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electric tinder
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Like the car? How about Chevette?
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Tesla girls, tesla girls- I'm in love with tesla girls.
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Nikola Tesla
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it has a physics connotations, of course, but i like it. and as it is a real name (last name), it is fine.
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05.25.13, 03:58 AM
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Prefer Nikola.
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Tesla Girls by OMD is a great song.
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05.25.13, 04:26 AM
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white trash future meth addicted stripper in a dive bar with daddy issues or an 80s hair band...you pick.
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Negativla
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Tea Collection & Mini Boden for most school clothes, Crewcuts for dressier stuff. Mixed in with RL, ON, Gap, Levis.
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05.25.13, 04:20 AM
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Mini Boden, RL, Crewcuts, Rachel Riley, Bon Pointe
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Brooks Brothers is surprisingly cute.
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Mini Boden and ON
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meaning three sections
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my sister had three 30 years ago. she's fine. a friend also had 2 vbacs 15 years after c-sect. she, too, is fine.
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05.25.13, 04:05 AM
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No decent OB will let you VBAC after 2 c/s. My OB told me I'd have to walk in with the baby "half out" for her not to do a third c/s. As it was, I didn't go into labor and had scheduled c/s as planned.
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05.25.13, 04:10 AM
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Not true at all. My friend had 2 vbacs after 2 cs. No problems at all
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05.25.13, 05:14 AM
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I am the product of a 3rd c section. As far as I know, all was well.
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05.25.13, 09:28 AM
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It's fine...it just takes a little longer for them to cut through
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05.25.13, 03:52 AM
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What is that
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05.25.13, 03:47 AM
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If the first thing you buy with your first giant paycheck is a luxury car.,even more striverish if you get a lease.
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05.25.13, 03:57 AM
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05.25.13, 03:52 AM
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Striver is someone who grew up with little or no money but through education or connections, rises from LMC or regular MC to UMC and feel the need to acquire material possessions to prove to total strangers (the Jonese) that they "made it".
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05.25.13, 03:59 AM
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That is me, first I bought was trips then a nice car then house
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05.25.13, 03:54 AM
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My dad is like this. Sad too because he's a genius but cannot live without his Maseratis and 5-br houses.
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05.25.13, 03:59 AM
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isn't that pretty much what some call "the American dream" and now complain that it disappeared?
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There's a difference between buying things because you truly want to enjoy the utility of it vs buying things purely to show off to people that you can afford it. To me, striver is someone who just needs to feel accepted by a certain group and they will use their purchasing power as a consumer to do it. Achieving the American Dream is more about proving a better life for your kids than you ever did by increasing their opportunities...ex. A striver will buy several $900 Louis Vuitton purses and pay more for it in the form of credit card interest, will lease a BMW, go into debt to keep up appearances...A non striver will buy a modest Nine West bag, will drive a new Honda Accord, and will wait until they have at least 20% down for a nice house. Strivers care about how people view them.
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05.25.13, 04:24 AM
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np What about people who buy LV bags and pay their credit cards in full each month?
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05.25.13, 05:04 AM
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Not a striver
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05.25.13, 05:15 AM
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I have a little LV - it's OK, it's been around for forever. Personally I think it would suck more to get rid of something just because "everyone" has found it. If you like it, you like it.
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05.25.13, 10:40 AM
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You don't have a tinder account
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05.25.13, 04:03 AM
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What is that
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05.25.13, 03:59 AM
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Nooooo, please don't ask this
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05.25.13, 04:07 AM
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double this
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05.25.13, 04:09 AM
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05.25.13, 03:51 AM
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I wouldn't give one penny to that guy.
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05.25.13, 03:48 AM
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He is the definition of plastic surgery gone wrong.
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05.25.13, 03:55 AM
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what about his brain? what went wrong there?
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05.25.13, 03:50 AM
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The plastic on his face melted on a really hot day and infiltrated his brain.
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05.25.13, 04:00 AM
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Shitty clothes
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05.25.13, 03:55 AM
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are local morons and turists still forming a line in 5th Avenue just to enter that store?
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05.25.13, 04:17 AM
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Yup
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05.25.13, 04:19 AM
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only when there is a half naked model there to take pictures with
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05.25.13, 09:56 AM
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A sign that they have come and gone, if the tourists love them.
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05.25.13, 10:16 AM
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