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[ - ] Your opinions please. Db is in our bedroom, so when he goes to sleep, we can't really go in and out. Dh comes home, changes, so his wallet is always in our bedroom. If we need milk or whatever, and he goes out, he has no wallet, so he takes my credit card. Three separate times, possibly more, he forgets to give it back to me. I wind up at the deli the next morning without a credit card, or in a taxi, without a credit card, me I don't carry any or much cash, and I don't have another one. So it sucks for me. So last night, when this happened, I said, " can you pls remember to give me back my card". He said, "ok, but can you remind me". I said no, "you should just remember on your own. You should realize what an issue it is when you forget, I can't take a can, I can't even eat breakfast or lunch". This then escalated into a full blown argument, I said there are certain basic things in life you should take responsibility for. He flipped out be said "don't try to teach me a lesson, just help me remember FFS". I hate that he is so disorganized and ANYTIME I ask him to do anything, he generally forgets. It's annoying and hard to live with someone like this. Opinions? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 10:56 AM Flag
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changes in patterns and habits make it really hard to remember. It's nobody's fault. Possible solution - create a "landing strip" where his wallet and keys go that is NOT in the bedroom so his stuff can stay with him and your stuff can stay with you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 11:02 AM Flag
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This. Or get a second card for him (same account, just a copy), and leave that somewhere he can get at it. And get a second card for you so you're not reliant on a single damn piece of plastic. It's not worth fighting over, just do what you have to do to make your lives easier with a baby. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 11:10 AM Flag
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np: remember, op--you're forgetting that he has your card too! It's not all on him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 11:18 AM Flag
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You're both too nice. Why are you letting him get away with this? It seems like your tip toeing around him. He should take some damn responsibility. He should come home dm the food store, and remember to give me back my card. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 11:19 AM Flag
[ - ] Oh Kate join the modern age and dress George the way you would have if you hadn't married the Heir to the Throne. George looked stupid in his outfit and get rid of that stupid pram. You looked like an attention seeking whore. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 10:40 AM Flag
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Time for therapy or meds [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 10:42 AM Flag
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zzzzzzzzzz [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 10:45 AM Flag
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Get a life. They all looked fine. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 10:45 AM Flag
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I think it's somebody's nap time! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 10:55 AM Flag
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Lol. Would you prefer she push a Bugaboo or a City Mini? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 11:07 AM Flag
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George's outfit wasn't that outlandish, I didn't think. It was old fashioned, sure, but christening is an old fashioned tradition/occasion. "Formal" dress for kids that age doesn't really change that much with modern trends. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.06.15, 11:13 AM Flag
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