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[ - ] I'm 28 years old and I have two undergrad degrees, a masters degree and half way through a masters certificate. I finally think I found my passion, but it will require a 1-2 yr masters program. I have to speak to an adviser to really figure out the length and if any credits transfer, etc. Once I complete that I will need additional coursework to specialize. The pay might not be so great at the end of the day. I'm not sure whether to go for it or not. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:39 PM Flag
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You are under 30, so I say go for it. After that, you are getting to be in the ridiculous zone. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:41 PM Flag
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Sounds like you've spent your entire life in school! But that aside, how do you know this is truly your passion- weren't your three/four other degrees also your "passion" at one point, when you started to pursue them? You sound a little flaky, I would work for a few years before getting into your 5th degree (5th degree!) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:43 PM Flag
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Don't. You sound flakey. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:43 PM Flag
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Never invest in a career in which the "pay is not so great". Either figure out a way to monetize it, or keep it as a side hobby for weekends. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:44 PM Flag
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I think you should try to put one of your other multiple degrees to use first, to see what you really truly want to do. Everything sounds exciting on paper, and then gets more tedious the further into the program you get- of course. The same thing will happen with this next passion of yours. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:44 PM Flag
[ - ] DH here with question about female psychology and a VBA. A young, very attractive colleague at work was definitely hitting on me at the company holiday party. It's not surprising that she would, after all I am rich, good looking, not that old, and occupy a high position within our company. But my question is, why would she first ask me about my wife and kids, her name, etc. And be all like, oh that's so nice. And then 15 minutes later basically start getting into sexy talk and more or less propositioning me. Why get into the family stuff at all? You would think that would be a topic to avoid if this were her agenda. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:38 PM Flag
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Maybe she was feeling out how you'd respond? Or maybe letting you know that she is aware you are married and she is still game for a fuck? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:39 PM Flag
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The latter. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:39 PM Flag
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To indicate she's safe. [ Reply | More ]
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This. she's saying loud and clear that she knows your situation and she still wants to get involved, and she's cool with the fact that it would be strictly physical [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:41 PM Flag
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Getting the lay of the land. Did you speak well of wife? If you came across as anything less than in love with dw, that's a yellow light to a man stealing 'ho. Anything neutral to negative is a green light. Some chicks just love the challenge to tempt a married guy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:40 PM Flag
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She was trying to see how much of an asshole you are [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:41 PM Flag
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She is an immature and emotionally insecure man-stealing whore. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] How would split custody work with a newborn db? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:37 PM Flag
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My Dh agreed to no overnight visitation until db was 2yo. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:40 PM Flag
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op. We also have a 4yo. I'm not sure how to make this work. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:42 PM Flag
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It would not. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:42 PM Flag
[ - ] I can't stand DeBlasio but this is not his fault. Peaceful protests are everyone's right. That said, I would not be sad if he is gone. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:31 PM Flag
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He stopped stop and frisk. He's a moron who's never worked a day in his life [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:33 PM Flag
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Where would the gunman have possibly been stopped and frisked? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:35 PM Flag
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he was a fugitive - if he was stopped, he would have been cuffed and taken to the station [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:39 PM Flag
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Oh ok. Oy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:43 PM Flag
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Ever been mayor? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:42 PM Flag
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The protests were not peaceful. Police officers were assaulted. Dinkins/Crown Heights over again. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] DS has an interview for HS admission at Dalton after break. Please dress us. What should we wear as a family? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:26 PM Flag
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assless chaps [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:29 PM Flag
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no, please I am serious. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:29 PM Flag
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Dh wears suit, you wear black pants and sweater with boots, ds wears nice pants and a button down shirt. He will look very formal next to the grubby high school kids who wear whatever, but it's an interview [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:33 PM Flag
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^you will also look more dressy than 90% of the parents but that's ok too [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:33 PM Flag
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heels on mom. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:34 PM Flag
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seriously, i have no idea. if it were me, we'd all be in work appropriate clothes- work suits for me and DH and khakis/button down for DS. but i don't know what the culture is like at that particular school. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:34 PM Flag
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go balls to the wall. Suit and tie on everyone. I don't think you can try too hard. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:33 PM Flag
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Husband and wife -- conservative work clothed, DS kahkis, blazer, collared "golf" shirt, nice shoes (not sneakers). It's way overdressed for regular dalton kids and parents, but that's what I'd do. you can also call the admissions dept and ask. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:35 PM Flag
[ - ] Dear DH, You don't know this yet, but I will be divorcing you within the next 18 months. So go ahead and do you. Definitely take the night classes that keep you gone 4 nights of the week, go to your AA meetings 2 - 3 times a week - please do stay healthy on a Saturday morning, meet your buddy Sunday morning for coffee, it's all good. Work early and late and let me take the kids from school and pick them up each day except for the the four times a year you make the time. Listen impatiently, fidgeting like a child, to my updates about the leaking roof, the broken fence, the pilled up bills, the kid's report cards, the doctor visits and insecurities. Continue, please. Walk around in the house with your shoes on, do. Don't lock the door as you come and go - the children have been trained to do it because we all know you will forget as you run off to do you. Enjoy the gym today, you look fit certainly. You look good. She appreciates it, I'm sure. Leave your stenchy piss in the toilet, it's fine, I gave on you actually putting up the seat years ago. When I was young. It's fine because I'm getting the gift of freedom, soon enough. 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:26 PM Flag
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Anger is a gift. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:27 PM Flag
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Sing it sister. I'm preparing to do the same, except I'm planning on giving it to him as a Christmas gift since he is unable to make it to his parents house this year for xmas. We leave tomorrow and I'm leaving it wrapped in a box on his side of the bed before we leave for the airport. His parents are aware and are completely on my side. Cheating bastards. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:30 PM Flag
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He isn't going to his own parents house because of his affair? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:31 PM Flag
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Made me cry. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:35 PM Flag
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Why? Good for her, fuck him. He sounds useless. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:42 PM Flag
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my ex has the kids today, he'll bring them back at 6. I'm getting high and watching TV. It's like a weekly vacation. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:40 PM Flag
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How long has the affair been going? Play dumb, collect records and just hit him with the papers. Good luck!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:41 PM Flag
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Keep your insecurities to yourself. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:42 PM Flag
[ - ] I'm a 35 year old woman. I live in a not so large apartment. I don't want any Christmas presents. I'm sick of smiling through receiving things I don't want. I would donate all presents I receive but they look for them when they come. I wish I could just tell people (DHs family mainly) that I'd rather they not give anything or just donate to charity in my name. But I can't because I'll look like a holier-than-thou frosty bitch. I know, I know a stupid problem. 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:25 PM Flag
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I feel the same way. Nothing you can do. Unless you have DH tell them that none of you wants presents, but he has to be on board. Plus they wont listen any way. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:30 PM Flag
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consider it your present to them to take the shit they buy you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:30 PM Flag
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We have a similar problem. DH and I make 10X what my inlaws make, yet they give us money every Christmas. I'm pretty clear on their finances and they don't have that much to spare. I wish they would keep it. It makes us feel so bad. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:32 PM Flag
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I'd keep it in a separate account to use to help them when they are older. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:35 PM Flag
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It's what parents do, and it makes them proud and happy to still give you money. Do you watch Psych? Watch the Christmas episodes - Gus's parents still give him & his sister money, and it's good comedy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:39 PM Flag
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regift [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:36 PM Flag
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Donate. Let them look for their gifts when they visit; when they find out you donated them, they'll stop giving. Everyone wins. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:38 PM Flag
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Try being less uptight. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:43 PM Flag
[ - ] Met an online date for a drink last night. He was average handsome and fairly wealthy. We met at 6:30. I told him I had plans with friends at 7:30. When we ordered our drinks he asked the waitress for an aspirin. When I asked if he was ill, he said he wasn't feeling well, but didn't know why. About 10 minutes later, he said that he had burped and now felt better. About 30 minutes in, he said if he sounded nasal it was because he had very bad sinuses. He tried to kiss me good night. I said I didn't want to, as he was sick. He kept saying, no he felt better. He asked me to go to a concert next Friday night. Thoughts? 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:21 PM Flag
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He sounds kind of neurotic to be honest. But probably harmless. If you otherwise liked him okay, I'd give him another shot and see how the second date goes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:24 PM Flag
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Go [ Reply | More ]
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Yuck! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:25 PM Flag
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Is it a concert you want to go to? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:25 PM Flag
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OP - No. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:37 PM Flag
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Then don't go. You're not into him, and you're not into the activities he is into. You'll be bored. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:40 PM Flag
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"Fairly wealthy"? I'd say get pregnant ASAP. Deal with the rest later. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:28 PM Flag
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OP - We are both in our 40s. No more kids, just nice vacations. : - ) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:37 PM Flag
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Give him one more chance [ Reply | More ]
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Dreck. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:40 PM Flag
[ - ] Any of you have relatives in Cuba? I would like to buy a waterfront prewar apartment, 3 br, with high ceilings, etc. Will do a total gut renov. Will pay 3x the current market price. Want to do this asap before I am priced out of the market. Deal? Get in touch. 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:13 PM Flag
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Hm. Great idea. But how do we find a good realtor that won't sell us a place in a bad neighborhood? [ Reply | More ]
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no realtors please. do not trust them. waterfront is usually key for the better neighborhoods. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:19 PM Flag
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So you want to buy apartment in Cuba on UB?? Nice [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:16 PM Flag
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looking for leads. inside deals. your granddad will make a mint and live grand for the last years, and I will be a property maven. [ Reply | More ]
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there must be some miami moms on [ Reply | More ]
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I've been to Cuba. It's going to be a looooonnnng time before your investment will be worth anything/you'll want to go there on a regular basis. I had power maybe 60% of the time. My water was brown. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:21 PM Flag
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i will pay the locals to ride stationary bikes hooked to generators. Will drink bottled water. Next problem? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:23 PM Flag
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np. I know this is a bullshit thread, but that was really interesting. I didn't know that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:36 PM Flag
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What are the schools like? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:27 PM Flag
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i think ok. ricki martin seems like a smart guy. plus i'd look to the privates. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:29 PM Flag
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Top tier [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] I'm not going to raise your child if you are going to look down upon my very existence. Homeschool your own damn kid. I'm going shopping. Bye. 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:10 PM Flag
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Are you a nanny?? [ Reply | More ]
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Teacher. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:18 PM Flag
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how was your existence overlooked? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:20 PM Flag
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np- she didn't say overlooked, she said looked down upon. maybe you need a reading teacher? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:25 PM Flag
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If you look down upon someone's very existence, that's overlooking them. But I guess that would escape you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:37 PM Flag
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No, when I overlook someone, I overlook them. When I look down on them, I think poorly of them but that is very different than ignoring or overlooking them- it's paying attention to them, by definition, to come to the conclusion that you look down on them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:40 PM Flag
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So quit. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:27 PM Flag
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You don't get to decide. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:41 PM Flag
[ - ] Like SIL is not enough!!! SIL's two years old only wants to be with DH. He does not want to be with his parents. At the same time my 7 months old DB cry for daddy's attention. I hate it that my own DB get ignored. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:09 PM Flag
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You're telling the wrong person. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:23 PM Flag
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Does SIL and niece live with you or something? If it's a short visit, whatever, he wants to dote on his niece a little bit, this is normal. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:26 PM Flag
[ - ] I have been seeing a man for the last several months. Incredibly nice, solid and stable, really likes me. I sincerely wish my feelings for him were as strong, but they aren't even though I think he is a good guy. Ending this is really the right thing to do, isn't it? 21 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:05 PM Flag
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I would. You dont want to hang on too long. Then you will end up cheating on him if some other guy comes along. You both dont deserve that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:07 PM Flag
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If you are over 30, wait and see... let him grow on you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:08 PM Flag
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I am 35 and have tried to let things grow between us (has been almost a year). I really hoped they would, as I do like him and he is a nice person. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:12 PM Flag
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Ok. A year is long enough. Put him in the friend zone. You may be revisiting this in another 4 or 5 years. That said df did just are you are, let the good, stable guy with the brownstone in Brooklyn go, while she continued alone, as a single parent no less. Flash to the future, they are still friends, he is married to a really nice woman has two smart, adorable kids in tt private school. She sometimes kicks herself. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:16 PM Flag
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So she sometimes kicks herself, but ultimately sounds like she made the decision she wanted to? I am also a single parent. Definitely not looking for "stability" in terms of money at all, but yes, I do have enough sense to know that nice, good, stable, decent guys are not exactly a dime a dozen. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:23 PM Flag
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Well, since her kid is not his, they were probably not going to have the cute, little nuclear family living stably and well. She recently had a hysterectomy and was completely out of commission for a month. He's the sort of guy who would have provided tender loving care throughout, instead she had a rotation of friends and neighbors and dd was farmed out to whomever, wherever should set up something. But yes, a lot of her stress is financial even though she makes good money herself. I don't think she regrets - she spends time with them at their home so I'm sure she wouldn't do that if she was truly envious. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:31 PM Flag
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Here is a mental trick I used early on. I basically just pictured him as an upstanding father and husband, twenty years later, with kids .... Because if you are lucky, that is the prize you are after. Everyone loses their looks, and lots of people make terrible marriages based on hormones. If the only red flag is that your gut doesn't do shimmies when you see him, and you are fine when not in his presence ... That is a good thing. Some people want to be married to their boyfriend forever. A good husband is worth twice that. [ Reply | More ]
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That is an interesting perspective. Yes, I guess I would say the main red flag is exactly that - my gut doesn't do shimmies when I see him and I am fine when he is not around. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:20 PM Flag
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I find that when times are tough in my house, remembering the initial spark I had with my husband (which of course faded, like all sparks) helps me through it. And you know what? Most of the time, I genuinely enjoy spending time with him and I'd rather be with him than almost anyone else. I don't think I could marry someone I didn't really want to be around. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:27 PM Flag
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This is important to me. I do want a long-term partner to be someone who I genuinely, completely, and comfortably enjoy being with. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:36 PM Flag
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If you could take him or leave him, and your feelings of warmth and love aren't growing after a year and instead are fading, I'd leave. You will end up resenting eachother. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:37 PM Flag
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I think you should reconsider. Nice, solid, stable, good men don't come along often. But if you can't get there, cut him loose. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:18 PM Flag
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I know. When you say reconsider, what do you mean exactly? Recalibrate my expectations? Try and nurture new feelings towards him? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:23 PM Flag
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Why end it? Do you have fun on dates with him? Why can't you keep dating him and see other people, too? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:23 PM Flag
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I do enjoy his company, but we are exclusive. So not really in position to keep dating him and see other people (also not really something I am comfortable with in general). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:25 PM Flag
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Wow - I have to say, I find it very weird that you have been seeing him for only several months and you are already exclusive. You rush into things way faster than I would. I would not be comfortable in general being exclusive with someone I'm not in love with and planning a future with. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:42 PM Flag
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How old is he? I will take him! [ Reply | More ]
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lol. He is 34 :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:33 PM Flag
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How's the sex? If its good, I'd stay [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:26 PM Flag
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kind of middling [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:36 PM Flag
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Think long and hard. It's not easy to find a nice guy when you are in your late thirties. You have him! Don't throw away this relationship unless you'd rather be alone. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:40 PM Flag
[ - ] Ds who is 7 is all gangly limbs and tall. He is like a big puppy who hasn't grown into his body yet. What can he do to be faster on his feet? 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:03 PM Flag
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Why does he need to be faster, crazy mom? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:06 PM Flag
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Yes, i must sound crazy. He just loves soccer and wants to play well but he is so wobbly w his long limbs, i'm wondering what he can do to train. I was the opposite. small and speedy and limber, a gymnast so don't know what to do with my long limbed kid [ Reply | More ]
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You might have to let mature take its course. [ Reply | More ]
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"Nature" [ Reply | More ]
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+1 He'll either grow into his body & learn to use it athletically, or he won't, in which case he won't be good at sports and will do other things in life. [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
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Age a few months/year? Don't rush time. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:08 PM Flag
[ - ] Has Obama made a statement of the police executions yet? 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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About [ Reply | More ]
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He shouldnt. He needs to stay out of these contraversial topics. [ Reply | More ]
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Yes like trayvon [ Reply | More ]
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I love Obama and voted for him. He needs to stay out of local matters [ Reply | More ]
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You're joking right [ Reply | More ]
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don't you watch the news? he made a statement yesterday, something about it be a sad day... [ Reply | More ]
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Blacks in London and Paris commit fewer murders than blacks in New York. we have to emulate London and Paris [ Reply | More ]
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This [ Reply | More ]
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Um, there aren't many guns in London. [ Reply | More ]
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They can stab or strangle [ Reply | More ]
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But if someone came up and started strangling the one cop, the other cop would stop it immediately and they'd both (or, worst case scenario, one of them) still be alive [ Reply | More ]
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Well we are never going to get any guns off the streets of New York City without stop and frisk [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:43 PM Flag
[ - ] Family holiday party last night. My brother got upset bc our nephew (sister's son) put a plastic bag over his son's head and tried to sit on him. They are 30 and 24 months old. The aggressor is the older nephew and for the last year he has been pretty violent towards younger one. How serious is this? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 02:52 PM Flag
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It's serious that your family allows toddlers to play with plastic bags. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 02:54 PM Flag
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Sometimes behind a violent child is a f*cked up parent. Do you find this to be true? [ Reply | More ]
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ITA with brother. That is atrocious. [ Reply | More ]
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Pretty serious and may lead to a fatality if unchecked [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:03 PM Flag
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Toddlers are, quite literally, sociopaths. This is why they need supervision and to be taught how to treat other people. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:09 PM Flag
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1) who lets toddlers play with plastic bags? this is how kids die accidentally. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:29 PM Flag
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It's incredibly serious if you're talking about how easily it would have been for your brother's child to be suffocated. It's not serious, really, in terms of toddlers acting out. No more plastic bags (WTF??) and better supervision are needed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:31 PM Flag
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op here. They were being supervised by my brother. As I mentioned, nephew has been aggressive in the past and we know not to leave him alone with younger boy. Unfortunately, there were plastic bags around bc others brought Christmas presents in them and it was a little chaotic with present opening, etc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:42 PM Flag
[ - ] OK, I have serious bags under my eyes, I think my eye sockets are just too large for my face and have some dark circles. Is surgery the only solution besides wearing tinted glasses. It just gets worse with age plus I am thin. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Surgery is the only way to get rid of them but if you want to camoufage them, put your concealer directly below the bag line and blend. Dont put the concealer directly under your eye. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 02:47 PM Flag
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Look into plastic surgery. I had those fixed years ago. So glad I did. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 02:47 PM Flag
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Name your procedure. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:07 PM Flag
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Any recommendations for surgeons? Same problem here. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:12 PM Flag
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I am afraid they will change the shape of my eye and give me that stretched cat lady look [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:14 PM Flag
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Didn't they say that Renee zellwegger had the eye bag surgery? blephoraplasty or something? being stretched out looks creepy enough but looking like a totally different person is another. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:23 PM Flag
[ - ] 11 yo fever and cough and says he is having trouble breathing. No asthma. Came on suddenly last night. Anything going around? How to know if it's something serious? 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 02:36 PM Flag
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I would not ignore a complaint of trouble breathing. Go to urgent care. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 02:38 PM Flag
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op: He's super healthy and has never had a cough before so I think he's not used to it. He is sitting up and breathing fine now. If it persists will do. Thanks I always forget about the Urgent Care places. Are they any good? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 02:41 PM Flag
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In 11 years of existence, your child has NEVER had a COUGH before? Mmmmmmmm-hmmmmm. (Side eye) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:15 PM Flag
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OR: I have been to CityMD twice, once for myself and once for teen ds. Both visits were efficient and effective and far better than any ER experience. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:35 PM Flag
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Np: urgent care can be very useless. Call ped first [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 02:44 PM Flag
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Why not go to ER. Urgent care places suck in my experience. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 02:44 PM Flag
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No reason to go to ER. You can tell if his breathing is shallow. Just keep an eye on him [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 02:50 PM Flag
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..if someone says they can't breath, believe them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 02:50 PM Flag
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ER sucks. Call the pediatrician. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 02:54 PM Flag
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Croup? More common in under 5 but these are the symptoms, especially if cough sounds like a seal barking. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 02:53 PM Flag
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You don't get croup at his age unless you have some sort of tracheomalacia issue. Your trachea and larynx are firmer, stronger, etc. at that age. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:33 PM Flag
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Bronchitis. Go to urgent care. Nothing worse than not being able to breathe and a parent that is not acting to fix it. Also make sure he is not laying flat on the bed. Should be sitting upright, propped up by pillows. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:04 PM Flag
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ITA (ER, can't breath pp). My dd was really fatigued after Thanksgiving. Took her to doc and turns out she had strep. And lots and lots of symptom-less step going around. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:13 PM Flag
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Go to urgent care-- could be flu. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:42 PM Flag
[ - ] NYC ladies: MIL gets all grand kids Xmas pajamas. She couldn't find Xmas PJ's for 12 year old (boy). Where in Manhattan can I go buy a pair? Thanks. Would like them to be flannel and Christmas pattern. Tia. 15 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 02:32 PM Flag
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old navy? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 02:33 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:12 PM Flag
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+2 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:17 PM Flag
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LL Bean [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:24 PM Flag
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JCrew, R Lauren maybe H&M [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 02:39 PM Flag
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TJ Maxx or Marshalls [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 02:40 PM Flag
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op here: thanks. Anyone know for sure? Like all of you I'm very short on time this week. Need to go to a sure thing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 02:41 PM Flag
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and yes I will call the stores if no one knows for sure but you ladies know EVERYTHING. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 02:42 PM Flag
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Kmart, old navy, gap, target, Marshall, tjmax, [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 02:51 PM Flag
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Jcpenny [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 02:51 PM Flag
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This is where I found them for 10 yo ds [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:41 PM Flag
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Uniqlo [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 02:55 PM Flag
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There are options on Amazon. Can you just order and make your life easier? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:07 PM Flag
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LL Bean [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:24 PM Flag
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Macys online., pick up in store. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 03:40 PM Flag
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