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[ - ] Thoughts needed. My sister who is married and has a decent paying job ( children out of college) just approached me for money to help pay her mortgage. I was totally shocked as I thought they were well off. Not rich but well off. She also said she was three months behind and threatening to foreclose. This is a sister who I truly thought was soooo together. I was in COMPLETE shock. Can someone shed light with some thoughts. They totally do not live beyond their means etc..... I am at a loss!!!!! 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 01:33 PM Flag
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You never know. About anything or anyone. It's why I'm never ever jealous of anyone, for any reason. Because who the heck knows what the real story is? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 01:46 PM Flag
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Op- that is such a good philosophy. You are SO right!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 01:46 PM Flag
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They obviously do live beyond their means. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 01:40 PM Flag
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Op- the thing is I don't see it at all. No fancy vacations, handbags etc... Two kids both had FULL scholarships!!! I am so worried about this. I am worried for her [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 01:44 PM Flag
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Maybe she is living beyond their means ? Debt for their kids colleges ? Maybe she doesn't have a decent paying job ? Debt can accumulate fast in a blink of an eye. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 01:42 PM Flag
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Op- 2 kids had full athletic scholarships, modest home, no great vacations etc..... This is weird. She is normally the level headed one. I am deeply concerned. I know where she works and it is decent paying for sure. Like I said not amazing but she shouldn't be in this position. I'm worrie there is more o this. I just don't know what [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 01:46 PM Flag
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Maybe an addiction ? Gambling ? Does her husband work ? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 01:47 PM Flag
[ - ] I'm not supposed to be here. I grew up in the midwest in a family full of crazy evangelists. I was never going to do anything but marry young and have tons of babies and run church bake offs and send my kids to Jesus camp. But I'm an atheist and I live on the UWS and I somehow managed to put myself through Columbia (with three years at a community college first) and marry a nice DH and have a great career. I just want to say it feels weird because most of my friends now assume their lives would always be this; privileged, secular, nyc, careers, et al. And I pinch myself every day. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 01:32 PM Flag
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Me either I randomly ended up here after college bc a friend got me a low paying job. I kept working my way up, met dh and stayed here w ds (I'm also on the UWS). I have things I never even knew I was supposed to want. I never take any of it for granted. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 01:35 PM Flag
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I was born and raise in another Country, move to the States with a summer job offer, came here with a basic English knowledge, met DH and ended staying. Crazy! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 01:38 PM Flag
[ - ] Would you ever send a non-urgent text on a weekend before 8 a.m.? To a former co-worker? (I'm sure she figured I'd be up b/c I have young DC...but I wasn't and it woke me up.) 59 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 12:05 PM Flag
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People really need to learn to respect boundaries. I have a friend who regularly texts me befor 7 am and another who sends messages after 11. I am 39 weeks pg and hardly sleeping as is. Drives me nuts. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 12:15 PM Flag
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* 11 pm that is! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 12:16 PM Flag
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Turn off your phone or text sounds. How is texting someone overstepping a boundary? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 12:31 PM Flag
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It's not. Some people can find fault with anything! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 12:39 PM Flag
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Texting is contacting someone, as is calling. You don 't call someone that early on a weekend. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 01:22 PM Flag
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nope [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 01:27 PM Flag
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I agree. I don't find texting invasive. I just don't even look at it, until I'm ready to respond. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 01:36 PM Flag
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Yes I probably would. But I don't sleep with my phone and if I do have it in the same room I have sound turned off. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 12:23 PM Flag
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I wouldn't specially if it is not an urgent matter, specially the weekend. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 12:20 PM Flag
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Yes. I've never thought of texts as something that depends on the person being awake. Turn your texts notification sounds off. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 12:26 PM Flag
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This. That's like thinking someone should be awake before you email them. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 12:27 PM Flag
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np I think the above sentiments are more common in the younger generation. How old are you, OP? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 12:27 PM Flag
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Define younger. I think of texting for anyone but very close personal friends to be something only the "younger generation" does anyway. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 12:31 PM Flag
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OP: I'm 34. It wasn't a business question. I sleep with the phone by my bed and I keep the sound on in case of emergency (I always keep the sound off for email). We don't have a land line. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 12:37 PM Flag
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By why do you text w her instead of email, given that you describe her as a former colleague rather than close friend? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 12:36 PM Flag
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OP: We have kept in touch, but are not close friends. She initiated (the text wasn't in response to something I had sent earlier, it was personal, not business). I text with plenty of people (assorted age ranges and relationships) - but am mindful of timing, I've always assumed that people leave their text notification on at all times. For whatever reason, I consider email to be different (and maybe that's b/c I always keep the sound off on my phone for email). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 12:54 PM Flag
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I text whenever I feel like it, assuming the person's alerts are off if they're sleeping. Now I feel like a jerk! I'm gonna do a poll on fb now and make a note of how my friends deal with this. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 01:39 PM Flag
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So keep the sound off for text. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 12:38 PM Flag
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And I'm am sure everyone knows your phone rules and that it is on for emergency only. Come on. Get a grip. Its a stupid text. Get over it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 01:34 PM Flag
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+1. That said, I don't actually text w anyone but DH, nanny and a couple of mom friends w kid related stuff. Would always email for even remotely professional purposes. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 12:29 PM Flag
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^in answer to np, I'm 42 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 12:30 PM Flag
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Ah, okay. Well...I think age has something to do with it then. Get used to this. Texting is not something people constrain to moments when others are awake. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 12:40 PM Flag
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That's Ok. If my nanny, DH or girlfriend needs to text me at random times, I can deal. Everyone else would be emailing, especially a "former colleague" [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 12:43 PM Flag
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OP: posted above, we've kept in touch, but I don't consider her a close friend. It was a personal text, not at all business-related (and I don't mind that she texted instead of emailed - I text a lot - it's the timing that annoyed me). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 12:57 PM Flag
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I guess I'm saying that if you text the same way others email, you should expect to receive them the same as email too [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 12:56 PM Flag
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+1. I get annoyed when someone texts me early because it wakes me up - but it is my fault for not turning the sound off. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 01:33 PM Flag
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That's ridiculous...so now we have to turn so it off for the comfort of others ? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 12:52 PM Flag
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No, for the comfort of yourself. I sleep through text notifications. If I did not I would turn it off for MY comfort. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 01:24 PM Flag
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If you don't want to be freaking woken up then yeah [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 01:36 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 01:31 PM Flag
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I send texts when I think to send them. If they are asleep, I assume they won't answer right away. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 12:29 PM Flag
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But sometimes they just wake people up. It is annoying. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 12:34 PM Flag
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So turn off your text sounds. Would you be annoyed if I emailed you and your phone notified you? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 12:39 PM Flag
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I have those sounds off, but my texts are on in case of an emergency or an important notification. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 12:53 PM Flag
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If it's that important, you will get a phone call, even in the middle of the night. You can safely turn the text notifications off. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 01:29 PM Flag
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An emergency text? Wouldn't someone CALL if there was an emergency? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 01:25 PM Flag
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It's a TEXT. If you're sleeping, TURN OFF THE SOUND! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 12:43 PM Flag
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Apparently you don't care for sick parents, some ppl cannot turn off their text or phones. Just be smart and send an email instead of a text that will wake ppl. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 01:02 PM Flag
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I do have many people who rely on me. In emergencies they call. IMO, texts are not meant to wake people up for an immediate response or they would constantly beep until answered. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 12:58 PM Flag
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Some ppl are lite sleepers. Just send an email and be thoughtful [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 01:02 PM Flag
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this - texting is not for emergencies [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 01:22 PM Flag
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This this this [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 01:41 PM Flag
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Eh my emails sent an alert to my phone too. I don't have a problem w/people sending texts or emails anytime - if the sounds annoy me I turn them off. I don't have to answer them right of way. If they called me it would be more of a problem. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 01:23 PM Flag
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I send texts and emails in the middle of the night when I can't sleep and am catching up. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 12:44 PM Flag
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Ar you kidding, right ? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 12:39 PM Flag
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np I do this too. What's to kid about? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 12:40 PM Flag
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Huh?? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 12:46 PM Flag
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Nope unless I was asked to send it early. I don't send text before 10am esp on the weekends [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 12:57 PM Flag
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Yea I think this is a generational thing and I am on the cusp at 32. I get texts at odd times from people who assume my phone is off-- and I don't mind it. But people older than me probably wouldn't. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 12:57 PM Flag
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Texting late is like calling late, rude. I refuse to turn off text or phone since I have elderly parents but if you need to end me anything late send an email...not a damn text. Think of others [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 01:01 PM Flag
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I disagree because it does not demand your immediate attention but you can always ask people not to text you after 10pm. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 01:24 PM Flag
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No, texting late is like emailing late. And you can turn off JUST the text sound if it bugs you. I have a hard time believing your elderly parents will text you in an emergency. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 01:26 PM Flag
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Never. Send an email, though this could also wake people up. Don't assume people can turn off sounds, many of us have to keep them on because of kids or parents. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 01:10 PM Flag
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Wouldn't that be the ringer that you need to keep on? Who is emailing/texting bt not calling in true emergency? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 01:09 PM Flag
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this! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 01:21 PM Flag
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You can turn off your text or email notifications without turning off your ringer, grandma. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 01:27 PM Flag
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I don't think it's the "grandmas" with this issue. It's the 30ish crowd who text everyone and have merged boundaries and want to impose rules on others rather than establishing boundaries. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 01:34 PM Flag
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Lol!!!!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 01:38 PM Flag
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If it is a work matter that I need to know before heading to work the next day, good send me the text, but if it is something you can easily tell me or text me the next day when I am awake, please don't text. This is why I leave my text sound on, but it doesn't mean I should be available to you 24/7 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 01:45 PM Flag
[ - ] Anyone know what the college placement was for Hunter, NEST, and Bronx School of Science and Stuy this year yet? Wondering if better than privates? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 11:47 AM Flag
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Way better, people don't want to admit but from an exmissions pov, private is a huge waste of $ they always mention intangibles like "connections" that it is so overrated, [ Reply | More
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For many people private education is not about what college your kids gets into!!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 12:39 PM Flag
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LOL riiight, you can tell this by UB obsessing with HYP [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 12:46 PM Flag
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Thank god I am not one of those people and UBers are not my everyday friends!! Quite possibly many UBers think that they are buying a ticket to HYP with a K admission to Trinity, but that would not be me. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 12:57 PM Flag
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You really have no idea what you're talking about. On a percentage basis, Hunter is the only one of the schools listed that is anywhere near Collegiate, HM, Trinity, Brearley, etc. That said, College bragging rights are not the only thing to think about when choosing a HS. These can be tough years and the right environment for a particular child can make such a difference - public or private. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 01:30 PM Flag
[ - ] I have an ethics question. When my DH was out of work for over a year, my parents paid our rent each month. We're in our mid thirties and want to start a family in a place we own. I've spoken to my parents about this and they say we should live our lives and pay them back later, but it feels wrong not to pay them back before buying an apartment, and I know they could use the money. At the same time, we aren't so young, interest rates are low and rising. WWYD? 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 11:43 AM Flag
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How about paying them back over time rather than in a lump sum? Would that allow you to honor your parents and still buy an apt? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 11:46 AM Flag
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It will, but this being New York, we aren't going to have a lot of money left over with mortgage and my parents are in 70s. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 11:55 AM Flag
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They've told me it's from my will money so that I don't have to pay them back,but it might be the entirety of will money and I feel an obligation to give them money back. Math wise, if we half savings between the two, neither goal will be satisfied for a long time. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 11:58 AM Flag
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np-I think if you have an honest and open conversation with them, then it is OK to not feel too pressured to pay them back right away. It probably is your inheritance that funded the rent, but it seems like the are OK with that. It's nice when it all works out (nice parents, appreciative/thoughtful kid). Best of luck! [ Reply | More
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Thank you. I feel so stuck with this, this was nice to hear. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 12:06 PM Flag
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I'm glad...also, maybe it's better, tax wise, for them to give it to you like this, rather than in one big chunk...I'm not a CPA, but my in-law gift a hefty chunk to spouse and in-laws once a year, so it's probably something similar. Maybe just make sure to let it be all open to your sibs so that when it all settles out, they understand (if you have sibs). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 12:44 PM Flag
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sorry, that should be "spouse and brother/sister in law once a year" [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 12:45 PM Flag
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+1. If it is money that would come to you eventually, in a way it makes sense for them to give it to you now, as you avoid inheritance tax. My only concern is that you say they could "use the money" - are they struggling to pay their own bills? if so, then I think you should repay them (at least some). If not, I would put aside whatever you can after mortgage etc, in anticipation of having to help them later. You say they are in their 70s - they could live another 20 years potentially. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 01:37 PM Flag
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It it is this then get the apartment and move on. Your parents may need you in others ways in 5 - 10 years. BUT if you think they really do need the money then pay it back. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 12:02 PM Flag
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If they are ok with this, then pay them back later or make small payments. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 12:28 PM Flag
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Pay them back later if they are okay with that. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 12:30 PM Flag
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If you have siblings, if this amount is material, suggest parents adjust their will, and subtract it, with interest. [ Reply | More
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I agree except for the interest amount. [ Reply | More
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[ - ] Any suggestions of how to cure yourself of obsessive thoughts? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 11:16 AM Flag
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If it is true OCD, which can be thoughts and not behaviors, meds and therapy. My DD has what she refers to as Sticky Brain. A thought comes in and sticks. A great child psychiatrist, the right meds and lots of work on her part. [ Reply | More
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Acknowledge, "oh that's me and my 'sticky brain' forgive yourself and move on. Keep busy. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 12:36 PM Flag
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NP: If it is true OCD, while the sentiment is nice, this alone will likely not be enough. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 01:38 PM Flag
[ - ] Should we go with Collegiate or coed with Horace Mann or Trinity? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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NY Schools 05.25.13, 10:46 AM Flag
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I think you should apply to all three. Don't limit yourself 4 months before the application process even begins [ Reply | More
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T is evident from your post that haven't got a clue about the K process. Your chances of you ds getting a spot at these schools range from ain't going to happen to very unlikely. You, my friend, aren't going with any school you mention. [ Reply | More
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This is obviously a fake post that is meant to stir trouble. [ Reply | More
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Collegiate is much smaller school. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 01:09 PM Flag
[ - ] oh, look. amanda knox feels worse for meredith than she does for herself "despite all the years she had her freedom taken away." what a champ she is. and she looks really pained, too. what a fucking psycho. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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oops http://www.cnn.com/video/data/2.0/video/world/2013/05/08/sot-cuomo-knox-regrets.cnn.html [ Reply | More
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the host looks like, "are you for fucking real?" [ Reply | More
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She has to be a bit aspy or something. Read this article. http://www.rollingstone.com/culture/news/the-neverending-nightmare-of-amanda-knox-20110627 [ Reply | More
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I just read her book, Raphaelle's book and John Kercher's book. I am 100% convinced that although she is weird and niaeve, she is not guilty of murdering Meredith. . [ Reply | More
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I still think that she knew something - or came in during or just after the murder. [ Reply | More
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[ - ] What happened to Honey Boo Boo. Haven't heard a peep out of them for a while. Is it still on air? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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She died, cardiac arrest [ Reply | More
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Her mom ate her [ Reply | More
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mama june got married! -not a Honey Boo Boo watcher [ Reply | More
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The new season will start probably in the summer [ Reply | More
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[ - ] What percentage of your time do you hate dh 20 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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90 [ Reply | More
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:( why don't you get a divorce? [ Reply | More
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Prob will [ Reply | More
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Me too. He gets mean when he fights, lots of name calling and never apologizing. Then he expects me to forget and go on as if nothing happened. Hate him most of the time now, other times indifferent. Will get out asap. [ Reply | More
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5% [ Reply | More
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OR - maybe less. But I think this factors for the intensity when we do fight. [ Reply | More
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Does he call you names [ Reply | More
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OR - no. [ Reply | More
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we fight but name calling is NEver allowed [ Reply | More
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Fight about what [ Reply | More
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anything. trivial to deep. but it;s only ever when we are stressed out. as soon as the voice is raised, i realize i am wasting energy. we figure out and/or move on [ Reply | More
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Ever cheat [ Reply | More
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+1 [ Reply | More
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37 [ Reply | More
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99% [ Reply | More
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0%. We argue, but I never hate him. [ Reply | More
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Me too [ Reply | More
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15% [ Reply | More
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I get really mad at him but not hate involved. [ Reply | More
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never [ Reply | More
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[ - ] I love the blonde kooky actress Bridezilla lol. The one who sang horribly. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Honey boo boo [ Reply | More
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Kristen ? [ Reply | More
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Yes!!!!!! hilarious [ Reply | More
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[ - ] Honestly if you knew dh wouldn't find out would you go out for one wild night romp 15 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Nah. We have the best sex like 5 times a week as it is. [ Reply | More
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Anal [ Reply | More
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Why [ Reply | More
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Because it was primal and amazing. [ Reply | More
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+1 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 07:29 AM Flag
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Women are skanks [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 05:50 AM Flag
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Nope [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 07:53 AM Flag
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Quite possibly [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 12:37 PM Flag
[ - ] Watching a popular old show from the 1980s and the episode revolved around one of the major male characters falling for a "hottie"...was so weird to see how drastically what's considered sexy & beautiful has changed. Now the same girl (of course updating hair and clothing) would be considered just pretty at best. 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 04:40 AM Flag
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Big tits shaved beaver [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 04:42 AM Flag
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I mention this same thing to my friend. The weight, teeth, makeup, and overall grooming of say 90210 then and now is startling. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 04:49 AM Flag
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Every era has their trends but it is odd to me how much more "perfect doll"-like female ideals are becoming. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 04:50 AM Flag
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i like watching older movies where actors had real teeth [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 04:50 AM Flag
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Golden Girls? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 04:50 AM Flag
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Most any show pre-2000 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 11:47 AM Flag
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I don't consider this to mean improvement. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 11:34 AM Flag
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Neither do I. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 01:10 PM Flag
[ - ] How often do you masturbate 18 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 04:38 AM Flag
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1-2x/week [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 04:49 AM Flag
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At night [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 04:44 AM Flag
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5 times a week using vibe [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 04:44 AM Flag
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Usually daily when I get the chance, but sometimes I am just not in the mood. Hate that. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 04:51 AM Flag
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At night? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 04:47 AM Flag
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Yup it knocks me out lol. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 04:54 AM Flag
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Props, porn? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 04:49 AM Flag
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Porn or imagination and vibes [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 04:58 AM Flag
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Me too [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 04:53 AM Flag
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Imagine what [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 04:58 AM Flag
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Every night, anal beads and vibe [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 04:56 AM Flag
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What are anal beads? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 05:05 AM Flag
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They are beads you put in your bottom and slowly pull out as you get excited [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 05:01 AM Flag
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That's nasty [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 05:56 AM Flag
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np- stfu. Anal beads are completely normal. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 12:30 PM Flag
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Often vibe and pinch nipples [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 05:08 AM Flag
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Often / Porn and manual stimulation. I have a couple vibe but they do not do the work for me. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 12:31 PM Flag
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2x week [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 12:37 PM Flag
[ - ] God I hate this city full of want a bes and complete losers 25 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 04:31 AM Flag
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Yup [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 04:34 AM Flag
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NYC sucks [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 04:52 AM Flag
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no- people suck, not cities. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 04:58 AM Flag
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To many jews [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 04:57 AM Flag
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what would you like to say to many jews? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 05:01 AM Flag
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lol [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 05:06 AM Flag
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Good one! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 05:06 AM Flag
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Too [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 05:07 AM Flag
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Failed in life and hate those that didn't? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 05:07 AM Flag
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Your ass is huge isn't it? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 05:11 AM Flag
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No, I'm a wealthy jew with a home gym and personal trainer 3 x a week and yourself? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 05:23 AM Flag
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Did you steal it [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 05:25 AM Flag
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Aaaaaaaaah, so there we have it! If we are wealthy it MUST be because we somehow stole our wealth and this, somehow, directly impacted YOU. How about just realizing, you being a succesful human being, simply was not meant to be. I know you gave up a long time ago and I applaud you for this. There is no reason to strive for greatness in this life, when you clearly cannot achieve it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 05:30 AM Flag
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OR- If you are wealthy good for you, but bragging about money and possessions is tacky. It is sad this is the only weapon you have to attack the other nasty responder, you should try using your intelligence or just ignore her. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 12:29 PM Flag
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Hey. I get what you are saying and kind of agree. However, I tend to throw whatever irks people the most, at them. In this case, and just about any other, anti semites hate us because of our perceived wealth, which in my case is true. I revert to a 12 year old when i get pissed. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 01:04 PM Flag
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P.S. writing this from my pied a terre in Montmartre/Paris. Does it hurt? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 05:34 AM Flag
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np: you sound really sad [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 05:47 AM Flag
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Ha! Not at all. I live life to the fullest and I know how amazing the world/life is. I've never been called sad before. Besides the terrible things going on in the world, the last time I felt truly sad, was when my cat passed away, which was six years ago. She was awesome and didn't care that her family was jewish :) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 06:04 AM Flag
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Animals are so much better than people... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 06:06 AM Flag
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Agreed :( [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 06:07 AM Flag
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+100000 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 06:11 AM Flag
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Especially bigots! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 06:11 AM Flag
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And jews [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 06:36 AM Flag
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I don't live in NYC, but for 2 years I lived in NJ and had the chance to go to the city often, I would definitely live there. You do not need to hate every new yorker, every city/town has good and not so good people living in it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 12:27 PM Flag
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"want to bes"? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 12:36 PM Flag
[ - ] My husband is absolutely gorgeous. I am not beautiful. I could pass as a handsome woman. Anyway, he thinks I am beautiful and tells me every day. I've long stopped contradicting him because it upsets him. We have two gorgeous, objectively speaking, children. Some of my features are in theirs I guess. 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 04:19 AM Flag
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You need recs. for therapists? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 04:20 AM Flag
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So fucking what [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 04:21 AM Flag
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this. This is the weirdest post. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 12:45 PM Flag
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You're not "objectively speaking" when it comes to your kids being gorgeous. Fwiw, there are lots of homely kids around with stunning parents. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 04:29 AM Flag
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Not in this case. There's lots of outside corroboration. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 04:27 AM Flag
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Right, they are obligated [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 04:32 AM Flag
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Doesn't matter. Your opinion (especially of something as subjective as looks) where your children are concerned can not be objective. Your opinion could align with majority's opinion, or not, but it is not objective. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 12:43 PM Flag
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Does he plow you in your starfish [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 04:26 AM Flag
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Man, the midnight, insomniac, drinking crowd is rough. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 04:32 AM Flag
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Does he give you golden showers [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 04:32 AM Flag
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I'll shit on him call me [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 04:42 AM Flag
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What is the question here? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 11:12 AM Flag
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VBA I'm thinking. Very V. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.13, 11:35 AM Flag
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Your insecurities about yourself are going to ruin your marriage, now I doubt you have an absolutely gorgeous husband and kids. [ Reply | More
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