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[ - ] Nanny in the hamptons.. Shouldnt my young nanny be happy to live in at our weekend house in east hampton? 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:08 PM Flag
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We will give her sunday afternoon off so she can go to the boardy barn [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:09 PM Flag
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Why?? I have done Hamptons live-in jobs 7 of last 9 years. Ask me anything. It's not as fun as you think it is, when you're the help. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:04 PM Flag
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What hours did you work, did you live in 7 days a week, do you drive, what kind of accommodation do you have, was it always with the same family? [ Reply | More
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What hours did you work, did you live in 7 days a week, do you drive, what kind of accommodation do you have, was it always with the same family? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:07 PM Flag
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I'll take the job if she doesn't want it [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:10 PM Flag
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I'd rather chop my arm off. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:05 PM Flag
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OP - yes unless she is a spoiled millennial. I am now a Gen Xer and my summers babysitting for kids at a country club were still among the best I've had. Hang out at a country club all day with cute fun kids and get paid for it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:06 PM Flag
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^^ I am a GenXer [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:06 PM Flag
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Not necessarily. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:12 PM Flag
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Sorry, I am positive it is not very enjoyable. But, it's her job. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:13 PM Flag
[ - ] How competitive are you with your siblings? Growing up, my brother was a superstar. Made great grades, class president all four years, star of the football team, ended up at Harvard undergrad and Yale grad school. Growing up, I was average. Parents constantly gave him everything he wanted, praised him incessantly, ask why can't you be more like your brother? Now we're adults, both living in NYC and- I know it sounds horrible- It has made me really happy that after all that, DH and I make a lot more money than him, go on nicer vacations, live in a very nice apartment, ect. It seems to bother him a lot DM has even told me that it does at times. He comes right back being just as competitive though. This year we both applied DDs to private Ks, we ended up getting into his and SILs FC and he went on to say the only reason our DD got in is because we prepped her like crazy for the ERB and she would not have been accepted otherwise, that his DD is far more advanced than our DD and the school is going to regret not letting her in. That really crossed the line for me. I love my niece so much and would never make a cut at her like that. I was venting to a DF yesterday and she said her and her DS are just as competitive. Is this true with a lot of siblings? Feels pretty dysfunctional to me. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:03 PM Flag
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The original title was "War, what is it Good For?" [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:06 PM Flag
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Wow-I'm sorry your brother is carrying this on with your dds. No, my family is not this way. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:13 PM Flag
[ - ] DH wants another baby. I don't. My career is great and I am not going through pregnancy again. I said he can adopt a baby and be a SAHD, but I wonder if people would judge us? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:01 PM Flag
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Who cares if they do? More important to find a balance for you and DH. Your plan sounds fair to me! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:09 PM Flag
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judge you for what? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:10 PM Flag
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People gonna judge and you gotta live your life. Do you really want to live a life based on what other peoe think of you? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:04 PM Flag
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^^sorry people [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:04 PM Flag
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God I feel se sorry for some adopted children. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:06 PM Flag
[ - ] I am 40 years old and I think I may be a lesbian. I'm also married with 2 DCs. Do I live the rest of my life without pursuing my own needs? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:01 PM Flag
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Your needs always come first. Let your husband take care of the kids and find your true love. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:03 PM Flag
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OP: There is no way I can live without my kids. Why is that a requirement in your eyes? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:04 PM Flag
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Np I believe that was sarcasm. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:12 PM Flag
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No but this is fake [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:03 PM Flag
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Not fake, I can assure you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:04 PM Flag
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Whoa. Watching this carefully. I have no advice, but I do wish you well! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:11 PM Flag
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I am waiting it out til DC go away to college. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:07 PM Flag
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You honestly don't think you can do both? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:07 PM Flag
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If your DH has any intelligence and you feel like you can have an honest conversation with him, then you will be doing him a big favor by telling him how you feel. Depending on how old the kids are, this will be difficult for them. However, if you can split amicably and co-parent amicably, then this will give both you and DH an opportunity to develop new, more personally satisfying relationships, while still looking out for the best interests of the kids. (Remember though, there are a lot of "ifs" in my statements.) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:14 PM Flag
[ - ] Rec needed: just got word our pediatrician is retiring. Anyone great to recommend? My old dr was at NYU and we live in the village 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:00 PM Flag
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We like dr Vomvolakis on west 14th [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:02 PM Flag
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I have a friend who is very happy with 11th St pediatrics. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:09 PM Flag
[ - ] I have a 1-br in a rental building on the UWS. The management folks just emailed to say that they will begin charging us each month for water, sewer, and boiler costs. How much of a monthly charge am I looking at? They gave us no estimate. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:56 PM Flag
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$50-100? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:51 PM Flag
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If you have a rental contract, they can't raise it mid-lease. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:53 PM Flag
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op: It will start with the renewal (very soon). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:56 PM Flag
[ - ] My sister and 6 year old nephew are coming in for the weekend next weekend from the Midwest. What are some good activities in NYC for us to do together. 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:55 PM Flag
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Childrens Museum [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:53 PM Flag
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the kid is 6 AMNH is more like it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:55 PM Flag
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Go see the friends cafe in West Village. Midwesterners like crap like that. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:53 PM Flag
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:55 PM Flag
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That's the only thing my midwestern sister enjoyed during her recent stay. Didn't want to see Annie or go to any museums. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:59 PM Flag
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Doubt the 6 yo nephew will enjoy it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:02 PM Flag
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Your sister will. And you can get him an ice cream cone. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:05 PM Flag
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Hecksher playground, Union Square playground [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:53 PM Flag
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AMNH, the Intrepid, maybe the Met. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:55 PM Flag
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Museum of Natural History [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:56 PM Flag
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Walk along the Highline for an outdoor activity, any playground in Central park, grey line bus tour-6 yo will get a kick out of the double deck and it's cool to see the city this way sometimes even as a resident. Also AMNH. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:05 PM Flag
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Transit museum in bk, amnh [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:07 PM Flag
[ - ] My father who has always lived beyond his mean recently asked me for money to help support his cost of living and cosmetic repairs he deems necessary on the house. He drives a luxury car (which he trades out every 1-2 years), travels first class internationally, shops at high end stores only, and goes out frequently with friends. My DH and I live have always lived well below our means, save and sacrifice whenever possible (think Coach, not eating out a lot, shopping at discount stores/outlets, driving old cars etc), so that we can have security and put our kids through college which is our personal goal in life. Now what do I do? This is my father and I'm embarrassed for him that he even had to ask for money?! 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:54 PM Flag
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I wouldn't give him a penny. You don't subsidize the luxurious lifestyle of someone who is bad with money. End of discussion. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:59 PM Flag
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OP - Its true but he's so depressed about the whole thing. I can't imagine the embarrassment of having to ask your children for money? How do I reconcile not helping the person that put me through college? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:04 PM Flag
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Pay back your "college loans". [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:06 PM Flag
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This is a man who is living in denial. He is living a luxurious lifestyle that he can't afford. If he were legitimately broke that is another matter. I wouldn't feel the slightest twinge of guilt for not helping out someone who fritters his money away on first class international travel, luxury cars and luxury shopping. Again, I wouldn't give him a penny. Tough love and tough luck. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:12 PM Flag
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Offer to help him look at his budget and find a way to save some money. Start with his car. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:01 PM Flag
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OP - I've talked to him about his spending dozens of times before over the last ten years. He used to get angry and tell me his finances were "none of my business" and now twelve years later he went through it like water. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:03 PM Flag
[ - ] Boy Scouts vote to allow gay boys as members. They're not all the way there, but it's progress! 15 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:47 PM Flag
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no it's not. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:47 PM Flag
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np, yes it is! it is a step in the right direction. you may not be satisfied and that's fine - but to deny that this is not progress is just plain silly. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:50 PM Flag
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Np: it's not real progress because their still showing their prejudice and they gave in to allowing gay boys in because it had become a PR nightmare [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:54 PM Flag
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*they're* learn to spell. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:53 PM Flag
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Shut it...it's e freaking autofill [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:01 PM Flag
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The scouts have always had gay Boy Scouts as members. Now the boys don't have to stay closeted. Not PR, just joining the rest of us in the 21st century. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:57 PM Flag
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and again, it is real progress. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:13 PM Flag
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NNP: how many other youth organizations even feel the need to have policies and votes re: gay CHILDREN? it's not progress, just more of the same [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:59 PM Flag
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your logic is, ummm, interesting. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:13 PM Flag
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Good for the Boy Scouts. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:49 PM Flag
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Big shit...they want to impress me they take off any limitations on gays as it is. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:50 PM Flag
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I'm not sure it is to impress you - but all in good time my pretty. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:54 PM Flag
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Yes it was this damn iPad replacing damn words [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:01 PM Flag
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As if there weren't gay Boy Scouts for a hundred years. Step in the right direction. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:53 PM Flag
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I suspect the naysayers would never consider scouting even if they lifted the bay on leaders (which will happen - the handwriting is on the wall). It just takes some time to educate people that gay does not equal pedophile. Look at the ignorance on Urban baby. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:12 PM Flag
[ - ] My DH says he is going to return his Eagle Scout badge because of the BSA's vote today to allow gay Scouts. I am proud of him! 22 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:43 PM Flag
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Is this an anti-gay post? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:40 PM Flag
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NP: I think so, I had to read it twice. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:47 PM Flag
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What a tool [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:41 PM Flag
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There are two sides to the issue. Gays deserve equal rights but do you really want homsexual men, men who find boys to be sexy, taking boys in to the woods for overnight campting trips? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:48 PM Flag
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Think. Would you let horny hetro men take your nubile daughter on a camping trip? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:48 PM Flag
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Double standard. Urban baby moms protect daughters but sacrifice sons to anal rape. It is the liberal thing to do [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:52 PM Flag
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my son is a scout and has never been raped. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:13 PM Flag
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Yes, please can we have the "does homosexual = pedophile" debt again? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:50 PM Flag
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It's so new! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:54 PM Flag
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You're an ass. You're saying gay men are pedophiles what a douche [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:45 PM Flag
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That would be a pedophile. Homosexuals find other men to be sexy. So the two troop leaders might be banging, but no dc's involved. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:48 PM Flag
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guess you didn't pay any attention to the facts, huh? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:55 PM Flag
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Fake. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:42 PM Flag
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The whole BSA always seemed like the gayest activity for a boy anyway. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:42 PM Flag
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THIS [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:51 PM Flag
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I bet he got it up the ass in camp [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:49 PM Flag
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Really? Proud to have him be a part of an organization that's basically calling adult gay men pedophiles [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:50 PM Flag
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You make a good pair then. I'd be so disappointed if my dh felt that way. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:53 PM Flag
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nice! love you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:56 PM Flag
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Sounds like a real prince. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:55 PM Flag
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I'm sure you already have this - but just to make sure you send that Eagle badge to the right place: Boy Scouts of America, 1325 West walnut Hill Lane, Irving TX 75038-3008 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:01 PM Flag
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Your DH is a dumbass. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:59 PM Flag
[ - ] What does "pay for college" mean to you? Just tuition? Tuition + X, Y, Z? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:40 PM Flag
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Plus living expenses: dorm, food. Then they canget a pt job for their partying. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:50 PM Flag
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What about study abroad fees? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:54 PM Flag
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in our family, it meant tuition, room, board & books. for DC it will mean whatever can legitimately be paid out of her 529. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:55 PM Flag
[ - ] What time does your DH gets back from work and how much time they spend with kids? 48 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:29 PM Flag
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6pm. 2hours [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:30 PM Flag
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8 and 10 seconds [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:31 PM Flag
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Why have kids then? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:33 PM Flag
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it happens [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:34 PM Flag
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Why don't you call him and ask [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:34 PM Flag
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He provides [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:35 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More
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+1000 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:31 PM Flag
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Usually by 4 or 5, spends about 4 hours with dd. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:33 PM Flag
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That is cool. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:35 PM Flag
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It is nice to have a lot of family time. Sometimes his schedule is more hectic but his good hours make up for it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:43 PM Flag
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Lucky you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:40 PM Flag
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What a lazy sack, minimum wage? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:35 PM Flag
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Such unnecessary hostility. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:32 PM Flag
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Doctor who has a great schedule actually. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:33 PM Flag
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So yes minimum wage [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:34 PM Flag
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You're right 600K is definitely minimum wage. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:41 PM Flag
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Un no I call bs [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:43 PM Flag
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Uh not BS he's an Anesthesiologist with a specialty that pays more. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:44 PM Flag
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You jealous bitch ...at leat her kids SEE their father and spend quality time with hi [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:47 PM Flag
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Thanks, I don't get the flaming for this at all. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:49 PM Flag
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You don't get why you calling someone who gets home early..lazy...offensive? Not everyone's dh is at "work" until 8 or 9 PM... [ Reply | More
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Anyone making a living is [ Reply | More
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No I don't get why someone flamed me for it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:48 PM Flag
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You are equating late hours to more money. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:56 PM Flag
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What? I don't equate more money with late hours, I think you're confusing me with the troll. He makes good money for his profession and has less hours so he spends lots of time with dd. [ Reply | More
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My response was to the woman who said "lazy sack". [ Reply | More
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op: My dh comes at 830 and he only gets to spend around 15-20 mins with him. [ Reply | More
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The few times he gets home before they are in bed for the night I put those "Hello, My Name Is" name tags on our DCs [ Reply | More
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lol [ Reply | More
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Snort [ Reply | More
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ahahahaha [ Reply | More
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Any sex [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:34 PM Flag
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We work together - usually whoever wakes up with db spends 2 hrs with him in the morning, then we have 4-5 hrs in the evening after work before he goes to bed. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:38 PM Flag
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8 2x a week - 10 the other days. It's the main reason I have help 4x a week. From morning to night with no help would be awful. [ Reply | More
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I hear you. In the same boat. [ Reply | More
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Oh dear god [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:48 PM Flag
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He does school drop-off and has the walk to school, can be available during the day for sick days but really doesn't get much time in the evening. He's home by 8ish and usually does a story or two. [ Reply | More
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4pm, different times depends on age and bedtime [ Reply | More
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Depends on the project he's working on, but he's usually home by 4 and able to spend a good four or five hours with our DSs. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:46 PM Flag
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he's unemployed and spends lots of time with them (careful what you wish for) [ Reply | More
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Both extremes are bad. [ Reply | More
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9-10. 0, they are in bed. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:47 PM Flag
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Any sex [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:57 PM Flag
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SAHD [ Reply | More
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between 6:30 and 7. A lot - he usually walks DC to school in the morning (she's at school at 8, he's in his office at 8:20) and they are at the hockey game tonight. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:58 PM Flag
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He works from home. Spends 5-7 PM with us, DC goes to bed at 7, he works some more. We both work in IT. Before you call him lazy, he makes 250k per year, which is more than adequate for our family and the flexibility is amazing. [ Reply | More
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That is amazing. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:02 PM Flag
[ - ] Artist moms: my ds is 13, getting to be quite serious about painting. What store has the best prices on brushes and paints? I'm willing to shop online or in NY. Thanks. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Pearl in Soho [ Reply | More
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thanks. [ Reply | More
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^^I feel like they are little pricier than Dick Blick? [ Reply | More
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They are pricier than dick blick [ Reply | More
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Dick Blick. [ Reply | More
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Dick Blick is where we get my dd supplies [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:42 PM Flag
[ - ] Psychic Mom: I am getting news on 3 deals at work which will get me over my quarterly sales goal. Will they all come in? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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I think PM left a long time ago or was fake. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:34 PM Flag
[ - ] What's your favorite special night out restaurant with dh in nyc? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Steak and no undies [ Reply | More
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Damn, that sounds better than hash browns and creamed spinach! [ Reply | More
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Hot dog stand *wink wink* [ Reply | More
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Blue Hill [ Reply | More
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rosa mexicana [ Reply | More
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Mas, lartusi, abc kitchen [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:07 PM Flag
[ - ] I want to here your story if you're very well-off and have no one to thank but yourself. I work my ass of year after year, and I just want to know it's possible without mommy and daddy, or marrying rich. 23 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:11 PM Flag
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It isn't [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:12 PM Flag
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yes. married rich but made $400K/yr in derivatives. firs to grad from college in family. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:21 PM Flag
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That is not rich honey [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:16 PM Flag
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say what you will. i was very proud to make that and it still put me in top 1% of country. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:17 PM Flag
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also, she said very well-off. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:23 PM Flag
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OP OK, reasonably well-off is fine too. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:22 PM Flag
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if you're hoping to make $5MM/yr, you might be disappointed somewhere down the road. most people are. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:36 PM Flag
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np - still pretty impressive. Anyone who gets derivatives should be rich. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:23 PM Flag
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who ARE you people? Have you ever been outside your fucking bubble??? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:32 PM Flag
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i do wonder... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:34 PM Flag
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Why you say dat [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:36 PM Flag
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OP i mean *hear your story. Sorry, i hate that. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:18 PM Flag
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Of course it's possible. Also, just because mommy and daddy give you stuff as an estate tax vehicle, doesn't mean you aren't wealthy already. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:29 PM Flag
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If they so much as paid for college, I don't want to hear it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:25 PM Flag
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Sorry. People don't all come from the same place. It's not fair but no one said that life is. Maybe you paid for college, but be grateful you were born in the US and not in Bangladesh. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:38 PM Flag
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I know life's not fair. That's why I want to hear inspiring stories about people succeeding despite life's unfairness. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:53 PM Flag
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So you just like to feel sorry for yourself, then [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:35 PM Flag
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Nope. And I don't. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:54 PM Flag
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I didn't pay for college. I had my full FA met. I had no more hardship paying off college than my DH whose parents paid 30K a year at the time. I don't claim any higher moral ground because my family had financial need. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:44 PM Flag
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OP - sorry, this wasn't about moral ground. Glad you didn't pay for college though! Neither did I, BTW. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:02 PM Flag
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Would this make your kids better people also? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:44 PM Flag
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Better people? Wtf? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:54 PM Flag
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We just worked very hard our entire lives. Got full scholarships for every stage of school and didn't cost our parents very much growing up. My parents were immigrants, and DH's parents were both public school teachers. It's definitely possible to achieve your version of the American dream. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:01 PM Flag
[ - ] Serious question, does your dh still make you come or do you fake it? I can't any longer with mine 115 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:10 PM Flag
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Yours does a good job with me [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:17 PM Flag
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Sorry he isn't gay [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:12 PM Flag
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lol [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:19 PM Flag
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Yes. Married nine years. He doesnt finish unless I do first. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:12 PM Flag
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How long does it take, I honestly would rather masturbate [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:13 PM Flag
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Just a few minutes of really going for it. Do you enjoy your hisband generally? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:16 PM Flag
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Yes but he doesn't get me wet [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:18 PM Flag
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Are you not attracted to him physically? Is he awkward? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:27 PM Flag
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No he is attractive just I guess a total bore in bed [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:29 PM Flag
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Are you also boring in bed? What do you expect? What is boring and what is exciting? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:27 PM Flag
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Was he always this way? What has changed? Sometimes you have to build up the tension a little bit, send him pictures, text while you are both at work. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:28 PM Flag
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I just can't get going with him.... I would rather masturbate and go to sleep. I get so horny I actually masturbate secretly while he sleeps [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:51 PM Flag
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NP I do that too and sometimes I just wake him up if I'm that horny. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:56 PM Flag
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How often do you have sex and masturbate, I am masturbating almost every night.. Wtf [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:52 PM Flag
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Wow, I wish I could go that (masterbate every night) but dh doesn't sleep THAT soundly;) I would say I'm more of a 3 or 4 x's a month kinda girl. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:59 PM Flag
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Does he know [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:04 PM Flag
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Is he trying? What does get you wet? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:23 PM Flag
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Thinking of random situations [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:30 PM Flag
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So do that. I also sometimes masturbate before I call him to bed just to move things along quicker [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:30 PM Flag
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NP, I'll do this too. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:37 PM Flag
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But a delay stops the motion.... So complicated. I have only been with my husband and I wish that wasn't true [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:41 PM Flag
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What do you think about him or something else [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:48 PM Flag
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Usually something else. I like erotic reading to start things off [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:48 PM Flag
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Suggestions? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:53 PM Flag
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Sorry cant remember the author but just watch erotica fiction on amazon. Lots of stuff out there. When I get home I'll check. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:01 PM Flag
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I love reading about gang bangs but I would never ever do one. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:04 PM Flag
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Yes, every time. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:19 PM Flag
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Newlywed [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:14 PM Flag
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11 years together and going strong. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:25 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:30 PM Flag
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np. Same here. Been together for >20 years. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:26 PM Flag
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And you still get excited, any cheating [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:44 PM Flag
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I've never cheated, no. My excitement level varies, as does everyone's I imagine. I'm pretty sure anyone who tells you they're always 100% hot and ready to go is FOS. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:53 PM Flag
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Thanks [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:04 PM Flag
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13 yrs and 99% of time. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:16 PM Flag
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Lier [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:17 PM Flag
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I believe it. Some women actually want their husbands. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:24 PM Flag
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some women also just orgams more easily or know themselves well enough to make it more fun for themselves. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:26 PM Flag
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In orgams you mean big breasts [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:37 PM Flag
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No way, who [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:36 PM Flag
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ha! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:37 PM Flag
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Me [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:32 PM Flag
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Vibrator? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:17 PM Flag
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or: ok, the caveat is that we only do it about once a week. but i wouldn't sleep with my husband otherwise anyway. what would be the point? also, no vibrator. but he's constantly going down on me. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:25 PM Flag
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What do you mean sleep with him otherwise [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:28 PM Flag
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what do you think it means? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:25 PM Flag
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So if he isn't fucking you then you sleep in separate beds? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:37 PM Flag
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Most of the time. If I don't come, I don't bother faking it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:22 PM Flag
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So what do you do take care of it yourself [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:18 PM Flag
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np here but in the same situation - I don't even bother take care of it myself. I'm, unfortunately, at a stage in my life where I'd rather catch up on reading or sleep. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:31 PM Flag
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Wow that is depressing, why [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:32 PM Flag
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np: sounds ok to me. her drive is more tepid now. happens, i'm sure. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:27 PM Flag
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I don't know. Work, young kids, knowing that DH will be there for next time.... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:29 PM Flag
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How often [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:38 PM Flag
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How old are you? I'm afraid of getting like this. I'm hoping I want (and get) some hard dick all the way up into my 70's. I joke with dh that when I turn 80 all bets are off, I'm getting male hookers, smoking cigarettes, drinking whatever I want and just throwing all the good girl shit out the window. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:35 PM Flag
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How old are you [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:44 PM Flag
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47 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:48 PM Flag
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I am 35 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:51 PM Flag
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How often do you fuck [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:52 PM Flag
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Once a week, maybe twice if I'm really in the mood. I'm the poster below ("it comes and goes"). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:57 PM Flag
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Impressive [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:02 PM Flag
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How many men have you been with in your life [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:03 PM Flag
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6 including dh. I was married for 10 years in my 20's got divorced, had 1 boyfriend, then met dh and we've been married 10 yrs. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:06 PM Flag
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Wow that is nothing [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:05 PM Flag
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No. I just go to sleep and know that in all likelihood he'll get me next time. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:31 PM Flag
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It comes and goes (no pun intended). Sometimes it's great, sometimes not so much. He puts in more effort than he used to and so do I and that adds up. Also, I'm fitter than I used to be and that helps too. 10 years married. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:23 PM Flag
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Any for play [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:19 PM Flag
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Yes, but not loads and it's more for him to get him hard than it is for me. I use lube and fantasy, but he takes a long time to cum so I have time to get there. I fake it if I realize I'm not going to cum and just want him to get done. We only have sex once a week, sometimes twice if I'm really in the mood. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:34 PM Flag
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How long, after five minutes I have had enough [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:38 PM Flag
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15/20 mins or more if I'm on a roll (feel like I'm going to have more than 1 orgasim), with a change of positions. But like I said we usually only get to have sex once a week. Sometimes we're both tired but still want to do it and get some sleep. Sometimes we're feeling more energetic and if they kids are asleep and we can sleep in in the AM, we'll take our time and enjoy ourselves. Extra glass of wine helps too sometimes. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:47 PM Flag
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Two org who did you marry long dong silver [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:52 PM Flag
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Hahahaha! No, he's jewish and avg sized, BUT his dick is shaped like an avocado so that seems to work for me. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:55 PM Flag
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Hahahah ah any oral [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:53 PM Flag
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No...well yes occasionally, but I know he doesn't enjoy it (gag reflex) so I can't really relax and enjoy it myself. So maybe once or twice every month or so and really it's only a placing glance. That said I don't give him that many blow jobs either, hey you don't give you don't get in my book. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:02 PM Flag
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^sorry "passing glance" [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:02 PM Flag
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He has gag reflex or you do [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:00 PM Flag
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he has a gag reflex [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:09 PM Flag
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From eating your pussy, wow weird [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:06 PM Flag
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Does he know [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:45 PM Flag
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I just roll over and let him pump for 45 seconds and it is over [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:30 PM Flag
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Gee, how exciting. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:30 PM Flag
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Exactly, I hate it [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:42 PM Flag
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S/O question: the only way i can come is if i master bate while he's in me. It works every time, and is better than masterbating alone. Does this count? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:27 PM Flag
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"Master bate"- Ahahahahahahahaah [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:30 PM Flag
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My iPhone does not recognize this word. Does yours? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:35 PM Flag
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NP I would love that, sounds sexy. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:36 PM Flag
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OR: It took us forever to get it right, and it was well worth the wait! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:34 PM Flag
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Reverse cowgirl [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:42 PM Flag
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No. Regular doggie. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:44 PM Flag
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Reach around [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:56 PM Flag
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No thanks. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:00 PM Flag
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Have you tried anal [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:45 PM Flag
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Never with dh. With old boyfriend. Hated it. I dont do anal anymore. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:45 PM Flag
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Try a butt plug, there is a strong g spot in your ass [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:56 PM Flag
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Not for a woman. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:06 PM Flag
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Um yes it is [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:02 PM Flag
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No thanks. The smell of anal juices makes me want to puke. Huge turn off. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:01 PM Flag
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Man? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:02 PM Flag
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No. OR. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:04 PM Flag
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It is the only way I can come [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:53 PM Flag
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Are you a man? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:57 PM Flag
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No [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:00 PM Flag
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Of course it does! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:33 PM Flag
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Whew! Thanks! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:53 PM Flag
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Does he know [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:39 PM Flag
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Yes. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:55 PM Flag
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So let me understand while he is in you pumping away you masturbate until you come? Does he come at the same time [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:01 PM Flag
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Yep. He holds out until i start to come, and then we come together. It is pretty amazing. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:59 PM Flag
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How often do you fuck and how many men have you been with to get comfortable masturbating in front of one [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:01 PM Flag
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np. Wow, I"m impressed. I don't think I could do this, even w/ dh. Masturbate in front of him, I mean. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:09 PM Flag
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I admit. It was weird for me at first. But not for him. He loves it. He has to stop himself from cumming! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:07 PM Flag
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Mine caught me masturbating [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:07 PM Flag
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How long have you been with him [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:06 PM Flag
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never faked in my life = never will. does not compute. [ Reply | More
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Do you have them [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 11:03 PM Flag
[ - ] Anyone have a cocktail recipe that I can prepare a large amount of for party - outdoors 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Do you like sangria? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:13 PM Flag
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I guess a white would be ok [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:14 PM Flag
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Mine's red. Sorry. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:19 PM Flag
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np: would you share the recipe for the red? thanks! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:28 PM Flag
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Make pitchers of Blue Hawaiians [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:15 PM Flag
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Ever clear and a glass [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:15 PM Flag
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Look up xrated fusion vodka [ Reply | More
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http://www.bettycrocker.com/tips/tipslibrary/entertaining/mason-jar-cocktails?nicam4=SocialMedia&nichn4=Pinterest&niseg4=BettyCrocker&nicreatID4=Post [ Reply | More
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there are some great punch recipes on chowhound [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:20 PM Flag
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Lemonade and vodka [ Reply | More
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I like it with rum better but both are great. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.23.13, 10:55 PM Flag
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Pomegranate martinis - recipe is on Google. Always a big hit. [ Reply | More
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