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[ - ] At what age did you have the first sex talk with dc's? Oldest ds is 7 and I feel like it's imminent, esp bc he seems to be accelerating w the tech stuff, at a rate I can't keep up with (I have two younger kids). Put all the parental controls in place etc but I hear internet porn is even worse / more easily accessible now 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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We try to limit it as much as possible but he's really into minecraft and likes to watch minecraft videos on YouTube and so far they seem harmless but I can't be on top of him all the time to see what he's actually watching [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] We just returned from a visit to California. Between the drought and the paper/plastic bag rationing, I felt like it was so difficult to complete basic household activities. I'm so happy to be home and not worrying about using water or asking for a bag at the grocery store. I'm not wasteful, but I do appreciate these little luxuries. 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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DC also has bag law. Grow up [ Reply | More ]
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DC also has bag law. Grow up [ Reply | More ]
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i live in california and it is not like this. you are trying to convince yourself you arent miserable to be home in your urine soaked shithole of a city [ Reply | More ]
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Lololololol [ Reply | More ]
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cool it, toots. life is about more than telling people how much water to use. Now go and be pathetic and coshower with your DH [ Reply | More ]
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Np pathetic is complaining about even having to think twice about the "inconvenience" of asking for a plastic bag rather than the global implications of these laws. You, OP, are bad for the species. We're evolving, catch up- start by getting some reusable shopping bags. [ Reply | More ]
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LOL [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 04:11 AM Flag
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Difficult? You're something else... [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Let's say I'm your daughter and I have a terrible addiction to UB. What would you say to convince me to stop coming here. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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You can spend hours here hitting the refresh button. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:21 AM Flag
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Dear daughter, I relate sexual encounters between your father and I on this forum. Do you really want to stumble upon THAT? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:21 AM Flag
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Addiction no. Go play some sports but if I had known 1/10 of what I have learned in the past 2 years since going on this site at college age my life would be dramatically different. [ Reply | More ]
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op: How would it be different? What would you say are the most important lessons you've learned on here? [ Reply | More ]
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what is this supposed to mean? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 04:11 AM Flag
[ - ] Mundane post of the night. Every time I try to wear a scarf to work I feel like it makes me look like an old lady. I'm 43. Does a silk scarf age me? Or do I just need to accept that I look old regardless? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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who the f cares? I like the way the silk feels around my neck. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:18 AM Flag
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When people start paying my bills I'll start caring what they think of my silk scarves AND my fat ass. [ Reply | More ]
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Op. I like you two. [ Reply | More ]
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one and the same and I like you, too. ps. I love my silk scarves. I really do. And I wear them because I love them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:24 AM Flag
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It ages you. That's not a style young women wear [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:37 AM Flag
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How old would you say these women are? In their twenties or in their teens? http://www.rurallyscrewed.com/14119/2012/12/23/4-super-easy-ways-to-wear-a-silk-scarf/ [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Feeling down. We are doing nothing for the holiday weekend:( 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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stuck in NYC [ Reply | More ]
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I am stuck in LA and wish I could be spending the weekend in NYC! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:47 AM Flag
[ - ] Black mom in private. At a mixer for new students, another parent trying to befriend us said something along the lines of "we're on FA, too,...everyone here is so well off, it's a bit off-putting. Don't you think?" We are not on FA. We are not rich but can afford full tuition but it is still a stretch for us. We believe in a good education and love the school so we're willing to sacrifice, but her comment stung a bit - the assumption (Yeah, I know...I need a thicker skin). 18 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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OP: But I guess, I should've expected this, and I sort of did. Makes me wonder if I made the right decision. [ Reply | More ]
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OP: I also probably wouldn't mind as much if I really was on FA. Instead of having to brown-bag it for the next 12 years [ Reply | More ]
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Wow, yes, people are so clueless. What did you say to her? [ Reply | More ]
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Nothing. I just laughed it off. But I guess this is what others must think. :-( [ Reply | More ]
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You'll laugh it off tomorrow. I have been mistaken for a delivery person in my own building. [ Reply | More ]
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Everybody thinks I'm the nanny (I'm hispanic). [ Reply | More ]
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When I was young somebody told me that 'service people go to the side entrance'. I was visiting my boyfriend. [ Reply | More ]
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My child is black, and at a pre-school interview I was asked if she was my biological daughter. I was accepted bur chose another school. [ Reply | More ]
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Story of my life. I'm mixed. Everyone gets all confused when I point to my mother - lol [ Reply | More ]
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Story of my life. I'm mixed. Everyone gets all confused when I point to my mother - lol [ Reply | More ]
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Someone told me I speak very well for being black and dark skinned. [ Reply | More ]
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"You're so white!" exclaimed the American to me, the very dark daughter of an African diplomat. [ Reply | More ]
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"I'm more black than you! Exclaimed almost all Hispanics that I meet." [ Reply | More ]
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Don't pay any mind to simple minded people and stop feeling sorry for yourself [ Reply | More ]
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You should've told her you're not on FA. [ Reply | More ]
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A mom came up to me at dd's preschool and asked me if I have any information about FA for a friend of hers. I was so taken aback I didn't have a good response available. I think I just mumbled, sorry, I don't have any familiarity with FA; It's one thing knowing that this kind of stuff will happen, and it's another thing actually going through it. So annoying. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:48 AM Flag
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I am from South America. I am white. At my daughter's school the teacher asked me " where did your brown go? Lol! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 04:03 AM Flag
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White mom in private here. I never have to deal with this but my friend does. It's horrible and I'm sorry it exists. I went to a seminar recently about unconscious bias and apparently it's something that we all have starting at age 3 and it's useless to try to get rid of it - the best we can do is try to better manage the results of it. And apparently the best way to change people's unconscious bias is through the element of surprise, which forces people to start thinking consciously. So, for instance, there was a story of a black man who hated that people crossed the street when they saw him, so he started whistling Vivaldi and other classical stuff and people crossed the street much less often. I'm not saying that it should be up to you to change people's assumptions about you based on your skin color (because, of course, it's their freaking fault), but if you actually want to change people's behavior and assumptions, you could do something very overt and stereotypically white-private-SAHM-ish, like wear three Cartier bracelets that lock (love bracelets?) on one arm (white gold, yellow gold and rose gold, bien sur), sport some Chanel boots, carry a Celine bag and talk about how tough it is that your husband is just ALWAYS in Dubai. My guess is that no one would ever assume you're on FA then... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 04:10 AM Flag
[ - ] I posted ages ago about being trapped in my room listening to my sister and her husband fighting about him cheating. Fast forward nearly a year and she might have cancer (and there is a good chance she is infertile) because he had to sleep with half of the state. I am so angry right now, if I could push a button and make him die... 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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:( [ Reply | More ]
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i remember that post! so sorry. [ Reply | More ]
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She has cervical cancer because he gave her STDs? So sorry [ Reply | More ]
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SO she knew he was cheating and she failed to a) use protection and b) get tested for STDS? Sorry but I can only feel so sorry for a person like that [ Reply | More ]
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She found out he was cheating about a year ago. Hasn't had sex with him since, had been tested, nobody told her anything was wrong. She went in recently and they told her she might have cancer and she will most likely need surgery. Called up old doctor's office and they claim they sent her a letter. [ Reply | More ]
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That saud what? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:25 AM Flag
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HPV. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:32 AM Flag
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They did some type of biopsy but they think it might be cancer. Either way, something is wrong. I didn't get many details because she was crying the whole time. So awful. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:11 AM Flag
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pre-pre-pre cancer. cone biopsy. relax. not cancer. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:43 AM Flag
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75% of people have HPV by 30. That is why you get a pap smear. If she has been doing that then it is just pre-pre cancerous cells and easily treatable. She could have caught it from high school or college boyfriend even with a condom. Sorry about the DH cheating but if she gets checkups she wont get cancer from HPV. If he gave her Gonnahrea she could have scarred falopian tubes but it does not affect ovaries and she can do IVF. You are angry but he did not give her cancer and infertility. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Do moth balls really work? I have moths. 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 02:57 AM Flag
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I was told to dip cotton balls in lavender oil. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] What's the East Coast Anmer Hall? 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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[ - ] Sorry for the tmi post but I keep getting yeast infections and the gyne lotrimin from the drug store isn't working. Any suggestions? Thanks! 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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There's a pill, but it can cause bad nausea. Also was told to take probiotics everyday. [ Reply | More ]
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Have you done the one-dose one? The longer ones don't work for me for some reason. [ Reply | More ]
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Also, you can split the probiotic capsules open and put the insides of them down there. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] What resources can I turn to in order to figure out if dd would do better at a progressive sxhhol, traditional sxhool, same sex, etc. This k application pto cess is nuts.how are we supposed to know what will work through 12the grade? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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You don't know what will work through 12th grade - thats why it doesn't quite matter as much as people think. Ds attends a k-12 - if he stays through high school, great. If not, we re evaluate when the time comes. [ Reply | More ]
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OP--Lol, I seriously need to CTFO. Can't believe I'm posting about this stuff on a Friday night lol [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] What should I google? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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how to make fried chicken [ Reply | More ]
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iwastesoucmuchtime.com Funniest site ever [ Reply | More ]
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Sorry, it's iwastesomuchtime.com [ Reply | More ]
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or iwastesomuchmoney.com is also fun [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Long winded FTM preschool question coming up: My kid was born in March of 2014, making him too young for a 2's program this fall. He will be exactly 2.5 in 2016, and I am concerned that a) that seems like a long time to be with just his mom, and b) we might move to another town just before that, and won't know for sure until way way after we've picked the preschool and put good money toward it. Do I go forward with applying to all of these super competitive programs for 2016, knowing that the likelihood is, he will not be going to any of them? Should I apply to schools in the town we are thinking of moving to, or do I only apply based on where we'll be living now? Is this a strictly New York kind of question? Should I have timed my pregnancy so I had an August baby instead of this blasted March baby? 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Seems great to just be with mom. they don't really play with other kids until 3. [ Reply | More ]
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True--but some kids like it--parallel play, language development. 1/2 day is good. [ Reply | More ]
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op: can't seem to find any half days for younger kids [ Reply | More ]
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My son was an August baby and that was the cut off where we used to live. He was always the youngest in his class. [ Reply | More ]
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youngest is often better than oldest, in terms of long term learning. [ Reply | More ]
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I would guess you have a better idea by the fall; if not, apply to both and really figure it out before deadline in March 2016. [ Reply | More ]
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Mine is August and he will be one of the youngest. He is only almost 3 now but has been in pre-pre school for a year and desperately needs it. He is bored as shit just with the nanny even with me and DH home with him for 6 hours every night and weekend trips. He loves the classes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:49 AM Flag
[ - ] Any of you creative types give yourselves this same harangue? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ha7smLPz2GY 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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"Anybody know who you are?" "Who are you?" [ Reply | More ]
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I"M AN NYU FILM SCHOOL GRADUATE! SUCKA!!!!" [ Reply | More ]
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"WHO THE FUCK ARE YOU!? YOU ARE NOTHING!!!!!" [ Reply | More ]
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Omg. I'm laughing my ass off... [ Reply | More ]
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"I'm trained classically. I'm trained contemporaneously. NO!!!" [ Reply | More ]
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That is a riot. [ Reply | More ]
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I know. Gothamist said it's their favorite nyc video. [ Reply | More ]
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Reminds me of Woody Allen or Larry King. [ Reply | More ]
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That man is truly bizarre [ Reply | More ]
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I think that's an old video but it's still funny [ Reply | More ]
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I actually felt sorry for the little lunatic. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:32 AM Flag
[ - ] If you could have sex with one man without any consequences who would it be? 52 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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hmmmm.. that's a good one. Benecio del toro? [ Reply | More ]
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John Goodman [ Reply | More ]
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MMmm, love him. [ Reply | More ]
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God. Fuck yeah. [ Reply | More ]
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Well, I'd hope there'd be at least one consequence, maybe multiple. [ Reply | More ]
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+1 I would want herpes, maybe AIDS [ Reply | More ]
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Clever [ Reply | More ]
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Montel williams [ Reply | More ]
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Chris Christie [ Reply | More ]
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With a hundred dollar bill in his thong by his ass cheeks [ Reply | More ]
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A nice damp bill [ Reply | More ]
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*licks lips* [ Reply | More ]
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Rerun from what's happenin [ Reply | More ]
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Dig him up. [ Reply | More ]
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Idris Elba. [ Reply | More ]
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Joel Zimmerman [ Reply | More ]
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I mean Joel Kinnaman [ Reply | More ]
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Jesus. [ Reply | More ]
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Jesus, Moses or Jacob? [ Reply | More ]
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All three? [ Reply | More ]
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hmmm.. three way. I think Jacob would be the most willing. Jesus would be looking out the window and thinking about something else and Moses would just be holding out the commandments with a angry/disappointed look on his face [ Reply | More ]
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"Are you definitely not a neighbor's wife??" [ Reply | More ]
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Charlie Hunnam [ Reply | More ]
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Elon Musk [ Reply | More ]
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so you're a masochist? [ Reply | More ]
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Why, does he hit women during sex or something? He's brilliant and it's sexy. What's not to love? [ Reply | More ]
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I'd hit it-np [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:26 AM Flag
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I'd hit it too but DH would be upset if I hooked up with his boss haha. [ Reply | More ]
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Zuck. I bet he makes a really funny awkward face when he cums. It would be entertaining to say the least [ Reply | More ]
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lol [ Reply | More ]
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Why? He's not paying you. Why choose him? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:23 AM Flag
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because it would be entertaining to experience. why not? Why would someone else be a better choice? It's not like I'm going to have soul connecting sex with someone who isn't DH anyway, so I have to sit through a penis pumping session for 20 minutes, may as well make it one worthy of stories. Can't think of a better story than watching Zuck make awkward faces while cumming [ Reply | More ]
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That right there is a tough question, but I'm gonna have to go with Colin Farrell. [ Reply | More ]
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my ex boyfriend. So that I can be reminded that I have it much better now. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.15, 03:09 AM Flag
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Ew. Whyy. [ Reply | More ]
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old older lover I had sex with before getting married. He was great [ Reply | More ]
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How old? [ Reply | More ]
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How about Javier Bardem? [ Reply | More ]
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yummm [ Reply | More ]
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I would want to have sex with a girl if I got to chose. I don't consider myself gay but there are just no other penises out there that strike my fancy. I'm more of a sex for love kind of person that a sex for the sake of sex kind of person. I doubt I would enjoy sex with a guy other than DH who i don't love. But I think I would enjoy the novelty of sex with a woman, since it would be something new [ Reply | More ]
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Never met a woman who attracted me more than a man. Though I must say the woman who plays Kalinda from "The Good Wife" is very seductive. [ Reply | More ]
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Interesting. Do you ever masturbate? Your sound like you have a low sex drive. [ Reply | More ]
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No, I don't masturbate. Does lack of masturbating mean low sex drive? I've just ever been turned on by myself. [ Reply | More ]
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Angelina or Scarlett [ Reply | More ]
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It's not a celebrity but a good friend of my dh. He's a great big hoe, but he's funny and charming. [ Reply | More ]
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Jordan Ash [ Reply | More ]
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someone who is bipolar. I would want it to be without consequences [ Reply | More ]
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Why someone bipolar? During a manic state, a depressive state, or somewhere in between? [ Reply | More ]
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hyper sexual state. omg. I know this guy and he is soooo sexy. But he's unstable .. [ Reply | More ]
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My boss at my last job. [ Reply | More ]
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I'd want a really tall African guy who speaks French and plays the drums. [ Reply | More ]
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