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[ - ] love of your life: your husband or your kid(s)? 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:30 AM Flag
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kids [ Reply | More ]
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Husband. [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
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Kids [ Reply | More ]
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Kids [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:49 AM Flag
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Husband. Kids are my kids - they mean so much but I define "love of my life" in a romantic way. If I could only save my DH or my children, I'd save my children - like he'd want me to (and vice versa). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:39 AM Flag
[ - ] Have you ever been dumped/cut off by a friend and you didn't know why??? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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yes once. not a close friend but we went from friendly to me feeling like she hated me or wanted to avoid me [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:24 AM Flag
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Do you have any theory about what caused this? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:27 AM Flag
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Yes just recently go un friended on FB by a woman I met on another message board, we both work in the same industry. Not sure why I got deleted. Kinda hurts! Lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:46 AM Flag
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Yes, my best friend in 12th grade. Finally found out why about 5 years later. If she had spoken to me about it at the time, we could have worked it out. The whole thing was very strange. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:41 AM Flag
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[ - ] omg. was having announcement party to announce new car. DH just came home, told me financing fell through. humiliated. anyone btdt? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:15 AM Flag
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#LongIslandproblems [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:16 AM Flag
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lol good one. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:27 AM Flag
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wtf? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:29 AM Flag
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Have an announcement party to announce that the financing fell through. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:21 AM Flag
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this lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:24 AM Flag
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What? you were having a party to announce a new car? how old are you - 16? this is pathetic. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:42 AM Flag
[ - ] I have a date scheduled Wednesday night - second with a man I had amazing chemistry with. He contacted me Friday about it. For some reason I thought he would have contacted me today but didn't. Am I being paranoid about this? It is my first time dating after separation. 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:00 AM Flag
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yes, you are being paranoid! enjoy your date! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 02:54 AM Flag
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Op thanks! I hope I still have one! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:09 AM Flag
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I think you are over-thinking this. Is it that you thought he would confirm the date the day before or something? Maybe he's just trying to lay off and not another you with phone calls about a date that he just spoke to you about yesterday. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:05 AM Flag
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^^Oops, just realized that you said Friday, not yesterday. Have you two spoken since Friday? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:06 AM Flag
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Op no that is why I am a bit nervous. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 02:58 AM Flag
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Smother not another [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:08 AM Flag
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Well. I guess you'll find out! It's probably fine. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:04 AM Flag
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Well. I guess you'll find out! It's probably fine. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:04 AM Flag
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Be ready to put his hog in your mouth. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:15 AM Flag
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Don't worry about it until tomorrow. If you don't hear from him just send something like "see you at 7 ;)" to make sure you're still on. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:28 AM Flag
[ - ] Why do people in tolerant states like NY stay in the closet? 22 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 02:59 AM Flag
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Denial. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:01 AM Flag
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As a lesbian woman married to a man (who is unaware) you can't really leave after you have spent your entire life living a lie. I have a husband now (who is the sweetest, most amazing thing, and I would hate to hurt him that way) and children. I couldn't abandon them like that. Also, my family is very religious and homophobic. The other day my mother was watching David Tutera and she made a comment like, "He must be so nice to all of those girls because he is gay and has been bullied/treated poorly so he understands" and you have no idea what a big glimmer of hope that gave me. I smiled for days. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:11 AM Flag
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That is so sad. Is it really that bad? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:14 AM Flag
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I have children and a husband I love, if not in that way. Many have it worse, don't spill tears over me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:14 AM Flag
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How did you find it in yourself to make love with a man? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:16 AM Flag
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He's sweet and gentle. It's a neutral act for me and I do it because I know it makes him happy. Having sex with a man grossed me out at first but you learn, much in the way you would adjust to sleeping with women (think about prisons). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:08 AM Flag
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Do you like militant Subaru driving butch, or do you like lipstick? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:17 AM Flag
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I believe that the butch/femme stereotypes are harmful to lesbian women. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:08 AM Flag
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more harmful than staying in the closet? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:13 AM Flag
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What nobody knows will not hurt them. Staying in the closet only hurts me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:25 AM Flag
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hurts your family by having them not know the true you. they know the person you pretend to be, but do not truly know you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:19 AM Flag
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They're happy with this. It would hurt far more if they knew the truth. It would kill my husband and it would be disruptive to the lives of my children. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:20 AM Flag
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Shut up. She'd hurt her family if she left. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:21 AM Flag
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she is making excuses. she has already hurt her family. she refuses to help them by coming out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:36 AM Flag
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So you're equally attracted to women in Dickies overalls as you are to women in Yigal Azrouel dresses? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:15 AM Flag
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I'm attracted to women, period. Most of the women I have liked have fallen somewhere in between, like me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:19 AM Flag
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Are you seeing a woman/women on the side or just doing without that part of your life? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:20 AM Flag
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Doing without. I don't believe in cheating. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:23 AM Flag
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Do you love your husband? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:24 AM Flag
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Very much, but not in the way a wife should. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:25 AM Flag
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Family issues? Conservative profession like teaching? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:12 AM Flag
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I work in Manhattan at a Fortune 500 company. My DD is gay and is married to a woman. The man I work for makes comments on an almost daily basis about "lesbos". I am not in the closet, but he talks to me about his daughter and her dating life. His incredibly hostile comments make me nervous./afraid to say, "my daughter is married" (she is) to another woman. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:43 AM Flag
[ - ] Help me with this. I grew up LMC and since I was 16 my whole thing has been to try to escape that lifestyle. I took a more upper class career instead of taking a civil service job. But that job is making me absolutely miserable, and I really hate it. I fantasize about quitting and getting a shit job at a deli or as a bus driver or some shit, because I crave a low pressure job (and I'm willing to live a LMC lifestyle to get one, since that's how I grew up.). Should I just stop striving and admit - this is who I am, and embrace it? 15 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 02:58 AM Flag
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You can choose a career with lower stress without necessarily working at a deli. What career do you have. currently? Finance? What are your interests? What would be your dream job? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:03 AM Flag
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I want a shift work type job. My family all had civil service and shift work jobs growing up and they were around all the time, never worried about work, never had to leave their vacation to go to a work event,like I did today. Work was like the 4th most important thing in their life. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 02:57 AM Flag
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do you have kids? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 02:52 AM Flag
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Yes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 02:53 AM Flag
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don't do this to them just because you like being LMC. what does dh do? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 02:54 AM Flag
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Whoa Nelly. Stop and think before doing this. Surely there's a way for you to earn a good living and like your work. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:03 AM Flag
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A guy from my law school had the same situation. After a year of practicing, he quit and became a truck driver. Wish I knew him now and could ask how he is doing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 02:55 AM Flag
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We need way more information from your fake post. Current job and salary. Do you have a partner? Where do you live? How many kids? Full budget - rent/ mortgage.. taxes/ maintenance/ parking/ car/ insurance/ utilities / tuition.. etc.. HHI... debt - savings - your age.. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:08 AM Flag
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Lol. And she needs to get a job in the deli on the weekend to try it out first. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:09 AM Flag
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OP: why do you assume I never had one? I started working menial LMC jobs when I was 14 and did that until I graduated graduate school, when i went and got a "real" job. Those people I worked with had to take the bus to work, but they didnt lie awake at night worried about how clean the floors they had mopped were. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:03 AM Flag
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Do you want my tax returns, too? Suffice to say my kids would see no noticeable change in their day to day lifestyle. Maybe we'd take one vacation a year instead of two, and they'd eat regular corn instead of organic corn bought at the farmers market. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:00 AM Flag
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i like you. Maybe you just don't like your job, or you're working too many hours, maybe you need to cut back/de-stress. maybe it's not so much about LMC/UMC but just about the people you're around? I have been struggling with this a little bit except the opposite. I grew up in a very affluent UMC area, so did DH. We were always the MC families surrounded by very very wealthy kids. we both had a ton of friends, were popular, but we had jobs in h.s. and got loans to go to college. Not the end of the world, but it was kind of a drag. Now i live in a very working class area and I've realized now after about 10 years that it's time for me to go. I think i've kind of "dumbed myself down" because i still feel like i don't belong in the UMC world, but really i know i need to get there - for my kids. give them great schools and show them that lifestyle. i feel like i'm bothered more by the working class mentality than i want to admit and i need to get moving - literally.... i think it's a struggle and you shouldn't be so hard on yourself! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:17 AM Flag
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How do you figure? Got a bunch of savings? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:18 AM Flag
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We live well below our means and I don't make that much at this job I hate. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:09 AM Flag
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OR: yah we make about $220 HHI and live within our means but i feel like we could do what my parents did - move to a UMC or MC neighborhood and live better there. here i feel like we're just kind of dumbing ourselves down and it didn't bother me before but lately, i don't know - i feel like i need to do better by my kids... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:44 AM Flag
[ - ] Would you date a guy twice divorced? I'm not looking to have more kids or marry again. 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 02:54 AM Flag
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Sure. I am and he is a great guy! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:18 AM Flag
[ - ] Spinoff of 1/25 NYers is a millionaire post: do you consider me a millionaire? 260k salary, own (no mortgage) 1.5 mil apartment, 200k saved for child's college, 700k saved for retirement. Single mom. 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 02:53 AM Flag
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You need 1 mil liquid. [ Reply | More ]
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OP: got it. Was going to say that I don't feel like one!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 02:57 AM Flag
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Regardless of the millionaire title, that's super impressive! :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 02:55 AM Flag
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Thanks! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 02:57 AM Flag
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Of course - salary doesn't matter - you have 2.4 million -less any debt. That = millionaire. Are you simple? Did you earn any of that $ yourself? or is that fantasy 260k salary trust fund + alimony? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:00 AM Flag
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As you can see, the answers vary. Some people think it needs to be liquid. Why do you feel the need to attack? The salary is my salary for working. I have no debt. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:05 AM Flag
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You are. To say that $1 million needs to be liquid is ridiculous. What about all of the super wealthy people out there who are leveraged up to their eyeballs? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:20 AM Flag
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wow. i wish i were you. i am serious! what is your job? [ Reply | More ]
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How did you save so much on that salary? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:33 AM Flag
[ - ] White chick here. Since moving to Westchester County a few years back, I've noticed what sometimes feels like a very hostile reception from certain types of women here. I can't tell what their ethnicity/culture is, but it's really different from mine (born in the MidWest, no accent.) They have really thick, heavy accents. Sort of 'typical New Yawker' type accents, if you know what I mean? I can't tell if they're Jewish, Italian, or what (and I don't really care what they are, frankly)... but without ever having spent much time with them, I feel like a get an unpleasant vibe from them. I'm tall, blonde/blue, in pretty good shape and I have an adorable daughter. It's weird, but they just seem so unfriendly with an undercurrent of jealousy/competitiveness - which is really funny because I'm not like that at all. I'm not wealthy either, although I've been told I look like I come from money. They're kind of like mean girls, but the grownup version. I'm nice to everyone so I've found this sort of puzzling. But I definitely feel it/see it. Anyone else not born here know what I mean? 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 02:45 AM Flag
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eye roll [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 02:57 AM Flag
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OP: Yes, exactly like this. Thanks for the demo! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 02:48 AM Flag
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STFU. Is that better? btw I know you are an obese cat lady and not the aryan youth you are pretending to be. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 02:51 AM Flag
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OP: Ooooh, you're out of cookies again, huh? [ Reply | More ]
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Yonkers/Bronx? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 02:58 AM Flag
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OP: I was just thinking this. Now that I've been here awhile, have been thinking that these are Y/B women who think they have 'made it' by moving to Westchester or something? They seem jealous the way nouveaux riche people are. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 02:49 AM Flag
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They're just tough. They're New Yorkers. Don't like it, move. Sorry peaches. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:01 AM Flag
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OP: Not moving. I ignore them entirely. They're kind of tacky, to be honest. Definitely NMK. Go fuck yourself, sweetheart. [ Reply | More ]
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Who's tacky? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:04 AM Flag
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OP: You ask, you get. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:04 AM Flag
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Fake. "MidWest"? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 02:49 AM Flag
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OP: Totally not fake. I'm from Ohio. [ Reply | More ]
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NP: I am from Michigan and I can tell the difference btw Jewish and Italian (and also btw real and troll) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:09 AM Flag
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Me, too, and we say midwest, not MidWest. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:20 AM Flag
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You seem quite jealous/competitive yourself. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:10 AM Flag
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Is there anything more annoying than a woman whose self-defined attributes are (1) blond, (2) fit and (3) adorable daughter? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:27 AM Flag
[ - ] I watched the Cremaster series once. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 02:45 AM Flag
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I actually worked on it :)) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 02:49 AM Flag
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very cool! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 02:55 AM Flag
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Very tiring, really loooong days. I don't love his work so much now [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] My parrot snores. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 02:44 AM Flag
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Cute [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 02:49 AM Flag
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What kind of parrot? I've always wanted an African Gray but feel I can't commit the time so decided against it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 02:40 AM Flag
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He's a severe macaw. I thought he was growling, but he was sound asleep and snoring. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 02:49 AM Flag
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hahahaha [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 02:51 AM Flag
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Hey, fellow parrot mom! Are you still on? I have a macaw, too, but mine does not snore. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:34 AM Flag
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Yes, still on between doing chores. What kind of macaw do you have? I also have am umbrella cockatoo. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:42 AM Flag
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B&G macaw. Mine is quiet. I'm so lucky! He rarely makes a sound--except when repairmen come over. He can't tolerate repairmen! How squawky is your house? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:47 AM Flag
[ - ] DD (4.5 yrs) has developed some pretty intense fears lately: fear of the dark, fear of . She sleeps with her head entirely under covers/sheet. I sometimes go pull it off, she's a hot sweaty mess. Sleeps through the night okay, but I wonder about her fears and the intensity. I imagine typical for this age, right? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 02:40 AM Flag
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sorry: fear of (scary animals of all kinds) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 02:46 AM Flag
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So normal for her age. Do you leave her door cracked and the hall light on? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 02:56 AM Flag
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Sounds like she has found a way to feel safe. She will outgrow this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 02:57 AM Flag
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My ds was convinced a lion was in his closet. Every night the bedtime routine included checking the closet for lions. He outgrew it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:09 AM Flag
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Where did the lion go? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:12 AM Flag
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In your underwear [ Reply | More ]
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My ds was convinced a lion was in his closet. Every night the bedtime routine included checking the closet for lions. He outgrew it. [ Reply | More ]
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Be calm and matter of fact [ Reply | More ]
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Developmentally normal. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:04 AM Flag
[ - ] I have a handsome DH and am surrounded by gorgeous guys at the office all day; so why do I have a crush on the grandfatherly conductor on my train?? 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 02:40 AM Flag
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go to sleep [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 02:41 AM Flag
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He's nicer and you assume he will treat you better than the rest of them? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 02:31 AM Flag
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He is really nice, but my DH treats me wonderfully. It's weird to have a crush at my age. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 02:42 AM Flag
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taboo? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 02:44 AM Flag
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So you can save money? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 02:37 AM Flag
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Men in uniform are sexy [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 02:52 AM Flag
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This. Especially if it involves pocket watch. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:12 AM Flag
[ - ] I just turned 26 and am no longer eligible to be on my dad's health insurance. I get married next fall 2015, and can then be added to future DH's insurance, but I won't have insuramce until then. When do the penalties for not having insurance start taking effect? Not until 2016 right? 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 02:37 AM Flag
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op: so as long as I have insurance by then I'm good right? I don't ever go to doctors since I'm healthy and don't get sick or do risky activities that cause injury, and I just get my birth control at planned parenthood. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 02:39 AM Flag
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You may be healthy - till the bike rider crashes into you, or your appendix bursts or one of a 1000 things happens. Be an adult - get the damn insurance. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 02:55 AM Flag
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It could ruin your life financially if you don't have it this year. Just get the damn insurance. How much $ do you earn? You can get a plan for $400 a month, and if you make under 45k, you can get subsidies. Don't screw around with this. My best friend did. She broke her leg. Medical bills in excess of 20k. She would have qualified for HI for $75-100 under obamacare. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 02:41 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 02:55 AM Flag
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$400 a month?! Fiancé and I are grad students and do not have $400 a month. He has a job offer lined up for after grad with good health insurance for both of us,, but I'm just worried about this year. Not sure what to do. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 02:56 AM Flag
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op: ^ above was me. Sorry, forgot to say that [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 02:56 AM Flag
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OR: I was a grad student too. My university offered insurance for $200 or $300/month. I took the more expensive one. Some of it was paid with savings and student loans. It is worth it. If you maid $0 last year, you can probably qualify for medicaid. Better to have something than nothing. I went from parents, to 1 year of Columbia U insurance to 3 months of healthy NY to Obamacare. I was unemployed most of last year and my Obamacare is $50/month this year. Next year I will pay more because I am working. Get some insurance. Please. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:00 AM Flag
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op: thanks, I'll look into Obamacare some more [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:02 AM Flag
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Good luck. I don't know about registration, but if you are just coming off your parents plan now, you should be able to sign up "off season". If you aren't working, you should qualify for medicaid or the cheap plan. I have MetroPlus Health or Metro Health Plus, or something like that. I also get dental and vision! I pay $50.42/mo. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:10 AM Flag
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This is a case when you get married now, not later. Just get married and get on DH's insurance now. No brainer. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 02:51 AM Flag
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Seriously. Go to city hall and then have a ceremony later if that's what you want. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:14 AM Flag
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Obviously [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:19 AM Flag
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Find a way to get a major medical plan at least. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:12 AM Flag
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Do you have a job? Can you get on job's insurance? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.23.14, 03:13 AM Flag
[ - ] I sing the body electric. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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I celebrate the me yet to come. [ Reply | More ]
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I toast to my own reunion. [ Reply | More ]
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When I become one with the sun! [ Reply | More ]
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FAME! I wanna live forever... light up the sky like a flame (FAME!)... [ Reply | More ]
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