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[ - ] My nanny plays dumb when convenient. I used to buy her "I misunderstood" or "I didn't know" statements but it has become really obvious that she is just playing me. She has also lied to me in the past but I didn't call her out on it as I see no point to doing it. Does this give me cause to fire without severance. It's an inconvenience to replace her but I am very frustrated with her and don't feel confidant that I can trust her 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:53 PM Flag
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Many employees do that. Time to look for new one. [ Reply | More ]
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Yes, but will I need to pay severance? [ Reply | More ]
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No requirement to pay severance. If you have been paying her under the table, she may report you, but unlikely if she is illegal. Best just to tell her something like you lost her job, really sorry, she has to go. [ Reply | More ]
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With nanny's if you don't trust her she needs to go asap - give her severance [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] I am willing to turn the cheek on my SIL being rude to me, but she crossed the line with being rude to m mother. We have place at the beach near SILs place. We bring my mom, who is great. We can go out to dinner. When my youngest needs a nap, she stays at house with him. She does laundry, helps keep house neat. Sunday dinner is entire family. SIL says we do not eat with the help, JK. I told DH no more meals with SIL. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:51 PM Flag
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Wow. Unbelievable. Yes, she crossed the line [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:54 PM Flag
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She is jealous that she does not have help on weekends. No excuse to dis your mom. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:55 PM Flag
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What did your DH say? [ Reply | More ]
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He understands, but does not want to cut his sister out of his life. I said, fine, he can see her on his tiem. [ Reply | More ]
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What did your mother say? You sil has watched too much Downton. [ Reply | More ]
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My mom is gracious and pretended not to hear. My SIL has less money than DH and I -- we earn more, and her DH came into her marriage with serious student debt. They rent, we own. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 07:01 PM Flag
[ - ] I'm a young professional; posted looking for a roommate for a 2BR on craigslist. Want a young, female professional like myself with a stable job who can be considerate and pay rent on time. Can I just vent about some of the ridiculous responses I've gotten? 1) a couple with a 2yo kid who wants to stay in 1BR together 2) a 50 year old woman who "hopes it's okay that she has three pitbulls" 3) a recent HS grad who works at mcdonalds and is 'trying to get out of the house, so can they do some chores in exchange for rent". WTF? stop wasting my time with these dumb e-mails! 19 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:31 PM Flag
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LOL love this [ Reply | More ]
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Any emails that are good? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:36 PM Flag
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I've gotten two out of fifty that I'd actually consider living with. not good! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:38 PM Flag
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Word of mouth is usually better [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:39 PM Flag
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What's your budget? Might just be easier to get a studio. I've never been happier. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:36 PM Flag
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OP: it's a long story, but I either afford a studio far from my office and spend a long time in traffic or live in a nice area with lots of shops, entertainment etc. within walking area with a roommate. I'm new to the area and would sort of like to live with a roommate for a time anyways....but maybe I'll feel differently in a while... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:38 PM Flag
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do you already have a place picked out? you could try looking for rooms on craigslist... that way you can choose who seems normal and reach out. FWIW I know my younger/single friends have had success on craigslist, but it does take a lot of patience. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:43 PM Flag
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Ah I understand. FWIW I had success on Craigslist before. Sometimes it's easier to respond to the people looking for roommates- it sounds counterintuitive, but you actually have more control because you can choose the people you reach out to. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:47 PM Flag
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On the renter side, when I was looking for an apt, replied, showed up, ridiculous apartment situations. "room" was curtained off area in living room [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:37 PM Flag
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wtf? what did you say? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:38 PM Flag
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Hasta la vista baby [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:40 PM Flag
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who WOULD agree to live with any of the people you described? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:40 PM Flag
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You will find what you are loooking for [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:41 PM Flag
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try gypsy housing on facebook, it's comes with a few less crazies. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:41 PM Flag
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The older I get, the harder it is to imagine meeting any of peoples' uber-specific criteria in a CL ad. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:41 PM Flag
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Np: I don't think "Young professional female able to pay bills on time" qualifies as "uber-specific" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:59 PM Flag
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Try the next door app. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:43 PM Flag
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What is next door app???? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:48 PM Flag
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It's a message board only available to people in the neighborhood, so you might get a better caliber of people who can recommend friends or something. There is a step or two to prove you live in the neighborhood, so it might take a day or two. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:50 PM Flag
[ - ] Feeling down. We are just sitting home in our NYC apt. 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:27 PM Flag
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Same but loving it [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:29 PM Flag
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everyone on FB is at some swank hamptons party [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:30 PM Flag
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So get off FB [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:33 PM Flag
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I hate the Hamptons. The people suck. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:57 PM Flag
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Why? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:30 PM Flag
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Huh? Very much enjoying hanging at home with family. I like lazy days [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:33 PM Flag
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i feel like we should have went away [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:37 PM Flag
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But you can do that on any day. Not 4th of July. At least walk outside or something [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:57 PM Flag
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+2 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:36 PM Flag
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so go grab some ice cream and head to a park for a walk. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:38 PM Flag
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in apt, not even in NYC :( [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:45 PM Flag
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Same here [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:57 PM Flag
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You sound like the type who is NEVER satisfied or happy [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Want to paint our living room. Want a cheerful color that is no where close to white. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:23 PM Flag
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Beige or oatmeal [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:24 PM Flag
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Not too cheerful. Try light/pale green [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:25 PM Flag
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op: Why not too cheerful. I think of winter and everything is white. Its depressing [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:29 PM Flag
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It will be awful if painted bright yellow. Don't go past the first two colors on the card. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:34 PM Flag
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Black [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:33 PM Flag
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we did this and love it http://www.benjaminmoore.com/en-us/paint-color/smokegray it's much more blue thank gray [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:38 PM Flag
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I don't know what you find cheerful but yellow and red will look dated as its really out if style now. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Please help me name a U.S. celebrity with two DCs, 3yo and 6mo old, based on west coast. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:22 PM Flag
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No [ Reply | More ]
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Why? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:36 PM Flag
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Those are close to the ages of Sarah Drew's children. [ Reply | More ]
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Need more info [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Should we buy a summer home? DH and I WOH. We don't get summers off. Two young dc. It seems like too much work to travel from Manhattan to a summer home every weekend. 18 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:20 PM Flag
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You answered your own question. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:21 PM Flag
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We both work and love ours. We use it all year round. [ Reply | More ]
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np:where is it? [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:27 PM Flag
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Yes. How is this even a question? Summer home is a MUST. Not optional [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:23 PM Flag
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Why? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:27 PM Flag
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It depends on how far it is but it really doesn't sound like you have the energy for a summer house. We are just buying one and in general, a house takes work [ Reply | More ]
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Does anyone have a summer home within 1.5 hr from Manhattan? All the usual summer towns in LI and NJ are too far. [ Reply | More ]
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I know someone who bought a place on the Hudson. Less than 1 1/2 hours. My place is 2 hours away [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:37 PM Flag
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No. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:25 PM Flag
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You sound depressed. You need a summer home [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:30 PM Flag
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You need it more [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:35 PM Flag
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No, just take nice vacations. You can spend 2 weeks in the south of France and pick a new county and town each year. No hassle with maintaining a home [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
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This [ Reply | More ]
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We are looking to buy close enough to commute to work in summer. It all depends in your needs and financial situation. I prefer low key relaxed summers without camps and other activities. Love chance of pace... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:33 PM Flag
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Which towns? [ Reply | More ]
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We are looking in Putnam valley [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Yahoo - dc just took practice SHSAT and got perfect score on English! 19 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:17 PM Flag
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omg stop living through your DC! jfc so pathetic [ Reply | More ]
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NP what is wrong with you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:20 PM Flag
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Odd response [ Reply | More ]
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nevertheless an honest one [ Reply | More ]
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There is nothing wring with being happy about this. [ Reply | More ]
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First responder is an odd duck [ Reply | More ]
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That's great! When does dc take the real test? What's the test for? Public high schools? [ Reply | More ]
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October - public specialized high schools nyc [ Reply | More ]
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And thanks. [ Reply | More ]
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omg the practice ones are so easy. nbd [ Reply | More ]
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Really? How much did your DCs score go down on real test? [ Reply | More ]
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Sorry, I don't violate my DC's HIPPA to post scores on here [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:32 PM Flag
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Oh please. [ Reply | More ]
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Depends on which practice test. The ones our tutor assigned were harder [ Reply | More ]
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It happens to the best of us - probably nobody noticed. [ Reply | More ]
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What about math? [ Reply | More ]
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Missed 6 [ Reply | More ]
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That's approximately 650. Good score [ Reply | More ]
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great you will no have to pay for prep [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:47 PM Flag
[ - ] what are some good reddit subthreads to follow? with a lot of bitchy women like on UB? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:02 PM Flag
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r/creepshots [ Reply | More ]
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that doesn't sound like the UB crowd [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:10 PM Flag
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Ok so try r/upskirts [ Reply | More ]
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Aren't most of the good ones still down? [ Reply | More ]
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You lost me at "good Reddit" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:13 PM Flag
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np. I don't know. This thread today is as good as anything I've seen on UB. It actually sounds like UB, just with a lot more men on the thread. http://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/3c3mna/serious_redditors_who_are_actively_cheating_on/ [ Reply | More ]
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Men are what make UB suck. If we could get rid of all but the small handful of nice, non-pathetic men, I'd be excited [ Reply | More ]
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NOKD [ Reply | More ]
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I'd like to find one too. Or another forum with bitchy but educated commenters. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:28 PM Flag
[ - ] Has anyone been to a medium, healer, psychic, etc and had a good experience? I need a recommendation in NYC... 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Serious, no you don't. [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
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staceywolf.com. and I am not stacey. she's great. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Anybody else in Newport today? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Yes, have a summer home here. Love it [ Reply | More ]
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lol ^OP [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] What did you get it do on your best birthday? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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ESL? [ Reply | More ]
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I don't know, but this made me think of a bad birthday I had when I was in college. My mom gave a guy friend of mine in my dorm a hundred dollars to get me a cake and do something nice. This was in the old pre-internet days. Instead he stole the money and nothing happened on my birthday at all. My mom went into a rage on the phone when she found about absolutely nothing happened, but she didn't know his whole name and I wouldn't give it to her so she could call the student directory and track him down and make it all worse. I think that was my 18th. It sucked. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Any Chris Christie fans? What do you like about him? Maybe he should run as Khris Khristie. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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That's an excellent idea for an SNL skit! [ Reply | More ]
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You're right! I'm going to send them an email. [ Reply | More ]
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I love how corrupt he probably is! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:38 PM Flag
[ - ] Which people are supporting Trump? Why? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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I would consider voting for Ivanka. [ Reply | More ]
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I like him. He says it the way it is.... [ Reply | More ]
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would you vote for him as US president? [ Reply | More ]
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regardless of your politics, he is a moron and should never have responsibility for anything important; look at his numerous bankruptcies [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] UB is just terrible today. On the bright side, I hope everyone who's not here is having a great holiday :) 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Why? [ Reply | More ]
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you're sweet, but if someone is not here, they'll miss your nice holiday wishes. [ Reply | More ]
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OP. I'll watch my post and repost it tomorrow so I get credit :) [ Reply | More ]
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Agree [ Reply | More ]
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F-off [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] DH here: I had gay sex last night and I think I'm traumatized. I've had a "sissy" fantasy for a long time. The idea of being a woman really turns me on or at least it does while I'm alone. Last night, I decided to go all the way and have sex with an actual man and it was absolutely terrible. I walked into his apartment and he started fondling me and calling me sexy but I was not into it at all. I didn't want to disappoint him and ended up going all the way, but the entire experience was horrendous. I woke up today and I don't feel like myself at all. I'm shaky and a nervous wreck. I feel like I've made a huge mistake and basically destroyed my masculinity for nothing. Its honestly making me sick to my stomach. I try not to think about it, but the thoughts of him touching and caressing me come back and then I feel like puking. I'm almost wish I would die. I have no idea what to do. 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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You should confess to your lovely wife. Tell her all your inner-most secrets on this proclivity. Provide her with all the details of last night. You will feel much better after you get this off your chest. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 05:54 PM Flag
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LOL, worst advice ever. [ Reply | More ]
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Fake. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 05:56 PM Flag
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Chill out and take a valium for a week and you will be fine [ Reply | More ]
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But how does your ass feel? [ Reply | More ]
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sometimes one has to experiment across the spectrum to be confident in their sexuality. now you have lived out that fantasy, and know that it is not for you. you live and learn. stop thinking about it and move forward. i think the bigger issue is the betrayal to your wife. i would definitely not tell her if you are 100% sure you are not gay. just bury that experience deep in a closet. your life is ruined if she finds out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:06 PM Flag
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Spit out all the semen and brush your teeth before going home. Make sure there is no ejaculate on your back, lol. [ Reply | More ]
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Caitlyn Jenner? Is that you? [ Reply | More ]
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Sure this is a real post. Sure [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] DH just slapped me in front of our kid. I through a piece of bacon at him 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Before or after he slapped you? [ Reply | More ]
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slapped me hard across the face [ Reply | More ]
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wtf, seriously you guys throw and hit each other....god bless my lazy ass husband [ Reply | More ]
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after i through the bacon. we have been fighting [ Reply | More ]
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Stop it with the "through", ok? It's threw [ Reply | More ]
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Lol [ Reply | More ]
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he slapped you because you threw a piece of bacon at him? or he threw the bacon after he slapped you? what was the fight about? [ Reply | More ]
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^ you threw the bacon after he slapped you [ Reply | More ]
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well, did you deserve it? sounds like a little love tap [ Reply | More ]
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THREW: threw the ball. THROUGH: went through the gate. Capice? [ Reply | More ]
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It's spelled capisce you idiot [ Reply | More ]
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I'd slap her just for that error. [ Reply | More ]
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you two are made for each other [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 06:32 PM Flag
[ - ] What time will most wine stores close today? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Your wine stores are open? [ Reply | More ]
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