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[ - ] Would you plan a birthday party for your best friend and for your friend's other best friend, even if you weren't close with her at all? 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Is it a joint party? [ Reply | More ]
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no [ Reply | More ]
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why would I plan a party for a friend of a friend if I am not close to her? [ Reply | More ]
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because your best friend wants to have the party with her. [ Reply | More ]
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why bother at all [ Reply | More ]
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How old are you? I think it is time for Bday parties to be done with. [ Reply | More ]
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this [ Reply | More ]
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this [ Reply | More ]
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She's not a good friend if she asked you do this. Sorry. [ Reply | More ]
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how old are you people? [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Do your kids enjoy receiving books as gifts? I was surprised my 2 yo dd loved the Curious George books my MIL bought her for her birthday. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Mine do, definitely. [ Reply | More ]
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I find those books so racist! [ Reply | More ]
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what? why? [ Reply | More ]
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What??? [ Reply | More ]
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Yes! [ Reply | More ]
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Yes, love them. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] DD trying to decide between UC berkley and Stanford. She loves Stanford but is a little concerned because it's only 20 minutes from our house. She understadably wants to be off on her own. I reminded her that she'll be in college and won't see us if she doesn't want to lol. Would you take this into account? I know they are both wonderful schools. 18 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 01:42 AM Flag
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If you are CA resident, isnt there a big $$$ difference. What is her intended major? [ Reply | More ]
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If money is not am option, Stanford for Sure. How is this even a question [ Reply | More ]
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no kidding. [ Reply | More ]
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No school is best for every student [ Reply | More ]
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I did this. Once I was in the dorms I was fully immersed in it. My parents did not helicopter even though my dad worked there. [ Reply | More ]
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Remind her that Palo Alto is so much nicer than Berkeley. I graduated from Cal 25 years ago and it was pretty unpleasant around the school back then, can't imagine what it's like now. [ Reply | More ]
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I live on the Upper West Side of Manhattan. I have friends and neighbors with kids at Columbia, just over 2 miles away. The parents stay away from campus and it all works out just fine. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 01:49 AM Flag
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Stanford hasn't notified yet, so... fake? [ Reply | More ]
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Yes they have, so.. Nope! [ Reply | More ]
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If Stanford is 20 minutes to your house, then Cal is probably an hour or less from your house. I grew up in the Bay Area so I know the geography. This post smells so fake. [ Reply | More ]
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Not at all. It is a little more than an hour. To my daughter, 20 minutes just seems so close. [ Reply | More ]
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Where are you? Campbell? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 01:56 AM Flag
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Saratoga [ Reply | More ]
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Berkeley is a better party school. :P [ Reply | More ]
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Geography means nothing to me [ Reply | More ]
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I went to school in Chapel Hill. There were some local students, but they never felt to smothered by being close to their families. [ Reply | More ]
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I went to school in Philadelphia, from NJ, hardley ever went home [ Reply | More ]
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vba, blech [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Anyone take Prozac for post-partum depression? How long did it take before you stopped feeling sad and angry all the time? 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 01:41 AM Flag
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are you angry or depressed? are you angry at db? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 01:42 AM Flag
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Yes, yes, yes and at everyone. [ Reply | More ]
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my (terrible,awful) PPD went away on its own within a month or two. and it was so bad. but then it just went away. hormones. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 01:43 AM Flag
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Db is 16 months. Oh how I wish it would just go away but doesn't look like that's going to happen without some hard work on my end. [ Reply | More ]
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it's hard to imagine that it is PPD at this stage. perhaps you have something else going on? [ Reply | More ]
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I didn't get help soon enough (only started counselling a few months ago). It's definitely ppd tho. [ Reply | More ]
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Yes I did. Helped greatly. Just don't nurse on this medication. My DB got formula and was just fine. Frankly now that he's 8, he's too smart for his own good [ Reply | More ]
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Motherisk told me nursing was fine actually (especially since I nurse so infrequently now) [ Reply | More ]
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I'm taking Wellbutrin which works better for me than the zoloft/ prozac type of anti-depressant but I've stopped nursing, I don't think it's approved for nursing mothers. How are you doing? Most anti-depressants take about 10-15 days to kick in. [ Reply | More ]
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This is my first day on it, I have also been going to counselling which is helping too. Thanks for sharing your experience. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] How many long term married people here who have dabbled in an affair, attraction, emotional affair and successfully made it through without losing everything? What was the outcome? Advice? (repost) 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 01:40 AM Flag
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maybe not longterm but 6 yrs married. took a year to get over. never told DH. all is well now in our marriage, better than it was before. [ Reply | More ]
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How long was the affair? What was hardest to get over, and how did you do it? [ Reply | More ]
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several months -- he got married, that helped -- and I just willed myself to stop thinking about it. [ Reply | More ]
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It's amazing how much it fades out over time. You'll be so glad you didn't risk everything for this nonsense. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] high school senior moms: I just defriended on FB a coworkers wife who could not stop bragging about what schools her child was getting into. plus, she was always taking glamour shots of herself. and guess what: I already feel SO MUCH BETTER. helpful hint!! 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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are you a high school senior? or is your dc? what does it have to do with facebook? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 01:43 AM Flag
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dc is senior. this post is directed at HS senior moms, a specific subset who will know exactly what this is. so will you when your kids get older. [ Reply | More ]
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oh ok I get it now [ Reply | More ]
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Why are you friends with a coworker's wife? I am not even Facebook friends with coworkers [ Reply | More ]
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I have never friended anyone, so I guess because she asked? our sons are same age. I am senior mgmt, she is wife of other senior mgr. [ Reply | More ]
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There's no need to put up with BS that annoys the crap out of you on UB. I've banished a few in my day. My newsfeed, my choice. [ Reply | More ]
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Meant FB! God, I wish I could banish people on UB...... [ Reply | More ]
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seriously. she is also a dry drunk, so she's got that going for her too. why did I not do this months/years ago???? [ Reply | More ]
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OP, it is super hard. If it's any consolation, everyone, including my dd, is really happy where they ended up, 2 years into college :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 01:53 AM Flag
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op I know this is true as I have one already there myself who's doing great & loving her choice. my ex-FB friends child may indeed be going to a great school but he will always be hobbit-sized like his parents. which somehow makes me feel better. lol. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Who here looks like Israel Kamakawiwoʻole? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 01:39 AM Flag
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My dh does. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] I have suffered from bipolar since I was 14. I feel nothing will ever work. So sick of it. So tired of it affecting my life. 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 01:36 AM Flag
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what have been the tangible effects for you? [ Reply | More ]
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resigning from jobs. marriage difficulty. [ Reply | More ]
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Hang in there! [ Reply | More ]
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Do you take your meds? [ Reply | More ]
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I do take my meds. Yes! I just want to be better. [ Reply | More ]
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I do take my meds. Yes! I just want to be better. [ Reply | More ]
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watching this. My cousin is bipolar. Have you read the Kay Redfield Jamison books? [ Reply | More ]
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I have read them. I have gone to The Meadows in Arizona (amazing.) I have tried everything [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Somebody had better explain to the GOP that the religious freedom restoration act signed into law in Indiana will not bring that many more old, white men to the polls. Some, perhaps, but not enough. : ) 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Nope, not enough!! [ Reply | More ]
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I am not getting how religious freedom can let you not let people in to your store. Do they wear a banner that says they are gay? [ Reply | More ]
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They probably wanted two men or women on top of the cake [ Reply | More ]
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So basically the law permits you to discriminate bc of good christian values? Omfg. [ Reply | More ]
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I'm a female and will vote republican [ Reply | More ]
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Why? [ Reply | More ]
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I'm a female republican and am too embarrassed to vote republican [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] What's the deal with Tidal.com... 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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[ - ] You know why I can't lose weight? and keep gaining on top of what I have gained this winter? Because I am not dating and have no motivation to ever date again and get out of my fat clothes of look good. If I had the motivation, I would find a way to squeeze in diet and exercise into my life. 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 01:30 AM Flag
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You are me!!! [ Reply | More ]
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OP: So my question is please help motivate me. I am 44 and have not been on a date for 4 years and seems like I have no desire to anymore. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 01:34 AM Flag
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Do you have children? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 01:36 AM Flag
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OP: Yes, one in college, and two teens at home. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 01:37 AM Flag
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Life-changing realization for me was that motivation comes AFTER you start and begin to see progress. You have to take the leap of faith that it will be worth it. Then increased energy and good feelings create a positive cycle. [ Reply | More ]
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OP: Thanks. This makes total sense. Another reason I have been demoralized is that it is getting much harder to lose even a pound. I used to drop a pound in a week if I just cut out soda and now, nothing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 01:38 AM Flag
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#1 stop drinking soda. [ Reply | More ]
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How did you make the first step and what did it involve? [ Reply | More ]
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Weight becomes more and more about health and mobility and avoiding injury as you get older. Walking is something you take for granted at 44. [ Reply | More ]
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why do you need someone else to motivate you? that won't ever work. you have to find the motivation within yourself. or just accept that you are a big fat pig with no willpower and no self-discipline. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Does anyone have a similar situation? My husband and I are living in two different states on account of our jobs. We see each other once a month, and my daughter (nine) lives with me. I feel I can't keep going this way. It's so hard. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 01:29 AM Flag
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Not my situation but sounds hard- of course living with. Dh has it's own problems [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 01:42 AM Flag
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My DIL did this for years [ Reply | More ]
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DH and I lived in different countries, but that was before DC. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] OMG, finally saw Gone Girl movie, wow. Now reading book. If you loved( both) , why? 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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I did not like either. Really fucking meretricious [ Reply | More ]
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good use of vocabulary word! [ Reply | More ]
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ITA, especially the book. horribly written and the plot is completely unbelievable. [ Reply | More ]
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Love the beginning and middle, hated the ending [ Reply | More ]
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Same…could not put the book down but the ending sucked. The movie wasn't great. [ Reply | More ]
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Yup, entertaining, but hated ending. Movie was too violent. [ Reply | More ]
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I thought it was very clever and the ending, although consensus is that sucked, I actually loved it for its messege [ Reply | More ]
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^message [ Reply | More ]
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Me too! I thought the ending was perfect. [ Reply | More ]
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I am somewhere in the middle. I liked the ending, but I do think it could have been better. [ Reply | More ]
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read the book. did not see the movie. was one better? [ Reply | More ]
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oh and i did not like the book, esp the wackadoodle ending [ Reply | More ]
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I preferred the movie to the book. Rosamund Pike did a great job of playing all shades of crazy. [ Reply | More ]
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I preferred the book, but I usually do. Movie was fine. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 01:53 AM Flag
[ - ] WWYD? DH's parents are very loud and overbearing, well meaning but hard to take. DH and I are very low key, and DH is not very close to his parents, so we don't see them that often, until summer when they invite themselves to our summer house. DH doesn't invite them they just start calling and suggesting they come. Can we just say no or avoid? It's so stressful for us when they're there, but I know DCs should spend more time with their grandparents. 22 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 01:25 AM Flag
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Say no. Your sanity counts. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 01:26 AM Flag
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Thanks, this is what I'm thinking too, and what DH wants, I just feel bad for them. [ Reply | More ]
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Be kind. Treat them the way you hope your dc will treat you, with compassion and empathy. And remember that your dc may adore her exuberant grandparents. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 01:29 AM Flag
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Nope. The lessen is be nicer to DIL. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 01:31 AM Flag
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She never says they're unkind. She says they are "well meaning but loud." This is not a crime. If this is the worst you adult children say about you you have done well and deserve better. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 01:37 AM Flag
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You cut out the overbearing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 01:43 AM Flag
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OP the biggest challenge is that they are overbearing. They constantly correct us and everyone else in our home. It's not enjoyable and they're mean spirited they just don't know any better. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 01:49 AM Flag
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NP - So this. Sometimes dc is tough to handle, but you hopefully take a deep breath and keep at it. How you treat your parents/in laws is how dc will learn to treat you. Modeling is the best way to teach... and I'm curious as to your nationality... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 01:33 AM Flag
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Not true. Your kids will learn from how you treat a lot of people. And no need to invite them for weeks over the summer. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 01:38 AM Flag
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American from NJ [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 01:41 AM Flag
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DCs get confused when they visit as in laws are constantly correcting them, me and our nanny. It ends up feeling very awkward all around and stressful [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 01:41 AM Flag
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Cut the visits shorter. They are downright rude. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 01:42 AM Flag
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Do they live in NJ now, can you do a day at their house every now and then. Cut down summer time. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 01:43 AM Flag
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Yes they live in NJ and we live on LI. The problem is that if we invite them for a birthday party or a holiday (one day) they'll show up for five days. They treat it like a vacation. DH finds them hard to manage so instead of saying join us for the day or you can stay over the night before, he doesn't say anything so MIL takes over. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 01:47 AM Flag
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Sounds like a possible sitcom. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 01:50 AM Flag
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They are likely awful to everyone, so they do not have many friends. DH needs to tell them, you need to stop being miserable to everyone. You get invited for one day, that is it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 01:53 AM Flag
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Yes this is how they are with everyone.. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 01:56 AM Flag
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If you could afford it, I would have a car service pick them up and take them home at the end of the day. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 01:53 AM Flag
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Lol they're in their early 60s so the only reason they don't leave is that they don't want to [ Reply | More ]
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They would have no choice. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 01:58 AM Flag
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No you cannot. Grow up [ Reply | More ]
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Of course she can. Her ILs are awful period who ruin everyone's vacation. Time to stop. And OP, your kids are not helped by negative people like this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 01:59 AM Flag
[ - ] Do you automatically assume most people grew up "comfortable" ? Most people with a college education? I was sooo poor growing up but recently a few different people have made comments alluding to me having an UMC upbringing, which is not the case at all. I don't know if I should say something or not. 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 01:24 AM Flag
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What about your childhood was "poor"? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 01:29 AM Flag
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My family didn't have any money. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 01:40 AM Flag
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I don't think about it a lot. I do make assumptions about someone's background based on how they speak or present themselves but don't voice this [ Reply | More ]
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I'm kind of relieved I don't stick out as "low class", and I feel like I should say something to help them see the world differently, but I guess part of me is also embarrassed and I don't necessarily mind them thinking I'm from a "good" background. [ Reply | More ]
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I'm you. Dh grew up middle class. We grew up kind of ghetto. Blocks of cheese, no camp no after hook activities just TV and potato chips. [ Reply | More ]
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Yeah, my upbringing was kind of embarrassing and a lot different from my friends who grew up MC to UMC on the east coast. [ Reply | More ]
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I would correct that assumption, if appropriate. [ Reply | More ]
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Most people think I am a spoiled rich brat. I am just s spoked brat, grew up extremely poor to a single mother in a 3rd world country. Made it to the U.S. on my own merit for college. [ Reply | More ]
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I do not assume that and I would presume that people who do are idiots with no knowledge of anything other than their own lives and background. defriend! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 01:47 AM Flag
[ - ] WDYT? Getting married in NYC. Most of my family is pretty poor, but I will do what I can to help a few relatives out with hotel costs during my wedding weekend. I thought I could just invite everyone and hope most don't come. Now I have a few people I definitely do not want to invite. I rarely go back to my small hometown, and could potentially never see them again. Maybe at a rare christmas party or something. Is it ok to not invite the trailer trash part of my family? I'd be embarrassed if they showed up. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 01:22 AM Flag
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I would invite your parents and siblings, and not invite cousins, aunts and uncles, unless one or two is special and you know you want htem. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 01:24 AM Flag
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+1. You don't need to invite everyone, but just have a logical reason for cutting (ie, I didn't invite any cousins at all) so that it doesn't seem like you are picking and choosing favorites. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 01:27 AM Flag
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^^also, not a great sign if you are embarrassed by your relatives. Are you afraid your in laws will judge you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 01:28 AM Flag
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No…I would be embarrassed if anyone knew I were related to some of these people. A few cousins are horrid. I would pay for hotel for all of my mom's siblings and spouses. I like some of my cousins and hate others. [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
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i agree. it's like my wedding was a dividing line between my old life and my new one. There were so many people there I never saw again and they receded further and further into the rearview mirror. Go with your feelings. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 01:42 AM Flag
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If you do not want them to attend you don't invite them. What could be simpler? Do you care about their potential hurt feelings? Why? [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] How does one become a trustee of an organization? Is it just about giving money? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 03.31.15, 01:20 AM Flag
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They ask you [ Reply | More ]
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Do volunteer work in that org, or a related one and yes, give money. [ Reply | More ]
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Like your kid's school? Or the local theater group? or the Metropolitan Museum? [ Reply | More ]
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give money. a lot. then you may be asked. it's that simple. [ Reply | More ]
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Influence with other donors, being a large donor, volunteering your time. [ Reply | More ]
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