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[ - ] A woman I'm casually friends with left her DH of 15 years recently. She was with a guy 10 years younger than her almost immediately, and now is pregnant with his baby. Already has 3 DC, the youngest of which is 8. Midlife crisis much? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:52 AM Flag
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When men pick younger women it's not a mid life crisis... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:45 AM Flag
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To me it is. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:50 AM Flag
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She just made her life 10x more complicated and miserable. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:45 AM Flag
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the first set of kids will suffer [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:49 AM Flag
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Oy [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:54 AM Flag
[ - ] Do you ever wonder why some people are just annoying to you? It could be a perfectly nice person who does great things for the world and seems kind. But they annoy the shit out of you. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:51 AM Flag
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There is always a reason. You just havent found it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:53 AM Flag
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Personality clash [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:54 AM Flag
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Chemistry. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:55 AM Flag
[ - ] DH had a drunken, one night stand with a married mother of two at DC's school. I'm dreading the start of school. I have to see her for another 12 years! 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:47 AM Flag
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She is the one who should be mortified along with your DH. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:50 AM Flag
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Seriously. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:51 AM Flag
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you're staying with him? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:51 AM Flag
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I have forgiven him. His brother had just passed and he was a wreck emotionally. He's a sweet man and nothing but kind to me, great father. I'm not going to leave over this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:52 AM Flag
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Wow. Is this really real? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 03:06 AM Flag
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Your dh can't control his liquor? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:51 AM Flag
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You are a loser. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 03:04 AM Flag
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np. screw you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:54 AM Flag
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sorry that happened to you too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:55 AM Flag
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is she pretty? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:53 AM Flag
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I guess? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:54 AM Flag
[ - ] So, I posted a few days ago abo ut my inlaws hanging their wet laundry all over the patio furniture. Well, tonight, they've moved to hanging their wet laundry INSIDE on the dining room table chairs. I mean, it's a rental, so it's not my furniture, but still - this is fucking weird. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:45 AM Flag
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Let it go baby, just let it go. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:58 AM Flag
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Passive aggressive [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:58 AM Flag
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Oh man. They have no respect for other people's things. Awful. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:59 AM Flag
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my mil does this at my home, my washing though, she'll bring it out of dryer and drape it around the house.. "it's almost dry, might aswell save some energy by letting it finish drying in here" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:52 AM Flag
[ - ] I work FT and have one DB. GFs aren't married or engaged - our kids, if they ever exist, will be very far apart. I'm genuinely happy and do not have time for more than a few good friends... will I regret not trying harder to make mommy friends now? If I SAH later, what's the likelihood that I make mom friends? School-dynamic? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:44 AM Flag
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Mommy friends are transient and dependent on proximity - neighborhoods, schools. Once you or they move, or your kids go their different ways, they will forget you existed. Concentrate on your real friends, since you say you only have time for a few, and then spend time with other mothers as needed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:47 AM Flag
[ - ] Heard tonight that Brearley is selling its building and will be co-locating/merging with Collegiate in the new space on the UWS. 19 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:38 AM Flag
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It will be a co-ed school? Are you sure about this? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:41 AM Flag
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no i'm not sure. though the person who told me is very involved at brearley and seemed to be sure. it didn't exactly sound co-ed, more like you would go to one or the other but could take classes at the other school, the way barnard and columbia used to be. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:54 AM Flag
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^^but in any case a very different model than today. I think it will appeal to a lot of people. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:55 AM Flag
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disappointing [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 03:03 AM Flag
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in what way? i kind of agree but curious what you are finding disappointing about it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:56 AM Flag
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wow [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:52 AM Flag
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There was a WSJ article about a move last month. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:42 AM Flag
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Yes, about selling not about merging with Collegiate [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:43 AM Flag
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UWS is the new 'prep school row' [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:44 AM Flag
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What else is on the UWS? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 03:03 AM Flag
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Oh my god. This is seriously my worst nightmare. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:57 AM Flag
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OP: why? I mean I was really really surprised to hear this, but on some level it makes sense to me and sounds like a smart idea. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:58 AM Flag
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Double the fun! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:50 AM Flag
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So now the cross-dressers will have some options. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 03:01 AM Flag
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OP: Anyone else hear anything like this? I was shocked. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:51 AM Flag
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Will there still be a boys school? Or will everything be co-ed? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 03:02 AM Flag
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OP: as I said above i'm not sure. it sounded like there will nominally be a boys school but that a lot of the academic and extracurricular parts of the two schools will be co-ed and the schools will be co-located. again, not sure. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 03:03 AM Flag
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So disappointed to hear this. There are so few options for boys schools in the city. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:55 AM Flag
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The boys will be putting the girls on pedestals -- so they can look up their dresses. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 03:02 AM Flag
[ - ] I suddenly found myself in a crowd of very wealthy, UES/Hamptons crowd. I do not fit in, except for circumstantially. Seriously bummed that these are my people. Do not like the entitled, bs, superficial exclusivity. I guess I just should say no to these invitations. If I send DD to a SS school, is this what everyone is like? 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
New York City 07.26.14, 02:36 AM Flag
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I felt like Spence was like that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:29 AM Flag
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We are at MM - some families are like that but most are very down to earth, professional but not super wealthy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:43 AM Flag
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Have some confidence! You are awesome. They can smell your fear. Just fake it till you make it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:46 AM Flag
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Did we read the same post? She doesn't like THEM. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:49 AM Flag
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Ha, too much wine [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:51 AM Flag
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Don't assume all hamptons people are like that. We are down to earth and go there to hang out with family. No parties no scene. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:48 AM Flag
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there is pretty much no one like what you are describing in the hamptons. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:55 AM Flag
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lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:51 AM Flag
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ACT LIKE YOU BELONG AND NO ONE WILL QUESTION YOU. Best advice I have ever received. You have every right to be in the same place as them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:50 AM Flag
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Just act happy. Even if they hate you they'll envy that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:54 AM Flag
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I feel the same way. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:43 AM Flag
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what do you mean you "suddenly found" yourself in this crowd? Did you not participate in getting there? In choosing this crowd to be with? Do you live on the UES and the Hamptons? What makes you think you are different? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:49 AM Flag
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At SS, there will always be a clique like that, but other more down to earth kids, too. Especially in the more academically focused schools. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:55 AM Flag
[ - ] Long time reader, first time poster. How do you know when you are ready to have a baby? 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:32 AM Flag
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labor starts. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:23 AM Flag
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Haha, I'm sorry! I didn't mean that. I meant... how do you know when you are ready to start trying to get pregnant. We've been married a little over a year. We are both 31. We are both kind of scared of the idea, but after I have a glass of wine, like tonight!, I start dreaming of babies. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:36 AM Flag
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Just go for it. It's scary, thrilling, fun, hard--depends on how many kids you want I guess. If two, start now because you'll probably want three. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:44 AM Flag
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When you start thinking it might be okay, or you are one of those people I cannot relate to who were obsessed for years [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:37 AM Flag
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What do you mean? You mean like, they were ready for years but their husband wasn't? Or they just talked about it all the time but never pulled the trigger [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:42 AM Flag
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If I had it to do over again, I'd say when you've been married long enough that you are absolutely certain that your spouse isn't an evil sociopath. Really. All of the other things, possible conditions in your life (job, body, living situation), who cares. There is no good time to have a baby; you'll never be free of valid excuses to wait. Just make sure your marriage is solid, as a baby changes all. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:46 AM Flag
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good advice. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:47 AM Flag
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ITA. And having been married for 5 years I'm starting to feel sure of that. Not that you have to wait that long, but wait until you've been married a little longer! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:39 AM Flag
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I admit I am worried about this. Our marriage is solid, my husband is very dependable, we dated 5 years before we got married and lived together for 3 of those. He has no tricks up his sleeve. But I know the stress will make us both slack off on other things around the house and he already gets annoyed that I don't pull my weight with the dishes and the laundry. Just typing this makes me feel immature and not ready, actually. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:40 AM Flag
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When you are financially stable. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:47 AM Flag
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I mean, of course, that you have to be mature and psychologically ready first. But even then, don't until you can afford it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:49 AM Flag
[ - ] I have a small silver flip phone. Flame away. 26 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:20 AM Flag
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op: ama [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:21 AM Flag
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My DH has a flip phone (though black, not silver). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:23 AM Flag
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It is the only cell phone I use, I honestly do not want to deal with an iPhone or whatever is most popular. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:25 AM Flag
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DH uses my iPhone to play Candy Crush and browse Instagram. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:34 AM Flag
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what does your dh do? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:24 AM Flag
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Teacher (so he doesn't get a phone from work, doesn't need 24/7 email access, etc.). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:51 AM Flag
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Makes sense. I worked in a similar field. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:43 AM Flag
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Where do you UB from? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:23 AM Flag
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Larchmont [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:24 AM Flag
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So foes my mom. It a senior citizen phone. There's a button on it "press here to call emergency contact." LOL [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:30 AM Flag
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*does [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:31 AM Flag
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lol i'm just in my late 40s [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:21 AM Flag
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So does my housekeeper [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:31 AM Flag
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ouch [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:22 AM Flag
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failed burn attempt [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:33 AM Flag
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explain. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:22 AM Flag
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I'm just not a huge technology person. I have a desktop mac, new televisions and my flip phone. I may be getting an iPad soon. When I replace my current phone I will probably keep something similar, I like my phone to be simple and basic. I could afford any phone I want but it's just something that does not matter to me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:24 AM Flag
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I have whatever my office gives me. Now its an iPhone but last year it was a blackberry. Whatever. Its free. I've never paid a cell phone bill in my life. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:28 AM Flag
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You go girl. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:31 AM Flag
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op: I would probably do the same if I worked someplace like that. I just used to be a lecturer at Sarah Lawrence College. No benefits like that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:33 AM Flag
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The problem with working someplace like that is sometimes you have to answer it when you don't want to. I have 10+ hospitals I'm on call for and that's life. (Not MD) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:40 AM Flag
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so you need the features on an iPhone, that's reasonable. So many people that have one don't even need or use the features. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:42 AM Flag
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The iPhone is great but I made it through Sandy with 10+ hospitals and a blackberry. And let me tell you, that sucked. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:45 AM Flag
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i believe it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:57 AM Flag
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My kid sister is like u. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:49 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:51 AM Flag
[ - ] What kind of underwear does your dh wear? 50 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:17 AM Flag
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just boxers [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:18 AM Flag
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tighty-whities [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:19 AM Flag
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Boxers [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:08 AM Flag
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Jock strap - I am not kidding. He needs the support. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:20 AM Flag
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gay…? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:21 AM Flag
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i would be surprised lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:28 AM Flag
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Bullshit. He likes the hug. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:15 AM Flag
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what do you mean? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:28 AM Flag
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He doesn't need the support. No man needs that much support. He just likes the feel. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:26 AM Flag
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Oh I thought you meant in a sexual way. He probably does just like that hugging feel. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:30 AM Flag
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briefs [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:21 AM Flag
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Boxers. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:23 AM Flag
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Boxers. Expensive ones. He's weird like that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:14 AM Flag
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Why is it weird? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:26 AM Flag
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do you not like boxers? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:26 AM Flag
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No, the expensive part is weird. He has them shipped over from London. I buy $1.99 underpants from TJ Maxx. We're different. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:18 AM Flag
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lol that sounds like a great deal of effort for underwear. Is it just his favorite little splurge/luxury or is he just metrosexual? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:19 AM Flag
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That's his thing. It's a running joke in the house. A big box arrived the other day from London. Guess what was in it? Yep. They were on sale, so he hauled long distance. :) And, yes, he's kind of metrosexual--he's British. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:33 AM Flag
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He sounds cute! I like this quirk. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:25 AM Flag
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Wildly colored vineyard vines boxers. I think they're adorable. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:26 AM Flag
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Same [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:18 AM Flag
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so preppy [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:26 AM Flag
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Boxers, but I'd rather see him in small briefs. He has the body for it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:27 AM Flag
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Those can look great on the right body. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:37 AM Flag
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Boxer-briefs are where its at. The perfect compromise. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:27 AM Flag
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Hate those. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:17 AM Flag
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Why? I like them, especially the ones that David Beckham wears in those commercials. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:20 AM Flag
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Those suck. They squeeze the thighs too much. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:30 AM Flag
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what kind of underwear do you like best then? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:31 AM Flag
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I wear boxers. But only ones that stretch. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:41 AM Flag
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link please? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:43 AM Flag
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I'm sorry I don't have a link to stretchy boxers. Just tug on them. If they stretch then you're good. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:51 AM Flag
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lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 03:05 AM Flag
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Boxers [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:18 AM Flag
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Jockstrap. But we are gay so... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:37 AM Flag
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easy access [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:30 AM Flag
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don't make it weird. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:38 AM Flag
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Wait. Why does being gay make this normal? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 03:05 AM Flag
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Awful cheap tighty-whities from costco. So mormonish. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:38 AM Flag
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Calvin Klein briefs and boxer-briefs. I think think they're hot. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:29 AM Flag
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Boxers. A wide variety. Some that came in a 3 pack from Target or somewhere, some from J. Crew that I bought him because I thought they were cute (I know... lame) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:33 AM Flag
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I'm pretty similar [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:37 AM Flag
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Hanro. So soft. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:34 AM Flag
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ok weirdo [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:34 AM Flag
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An ever-expanding random mix. It's a fun colorful collection. Similar to his colorful socks collection. Socks, underwear, and ties seem to be the only thing he is adventurous in, style-wise. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:37 AM Flag
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Calvin Klein underwear [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:50 AM Flag
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is he attractive/fit? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:51 AM Flag
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Regular old boxers. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:51 AM Flag
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Emporio Armani, Baby. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:58 AM Flag
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Boxers only. I think he would have a panic attack if someone suggested something different. He also owns a dazzling array of navy blue blazers... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 03:00 AM Flag
[ - ] I am at the Katy Perry concert and I have food poisoning. Any questions? 19 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:15 AM Flag
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Why are you on UB?? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:16 AM Flag
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While she is amazing, I can't sit and watch and do nothing else for two hours [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:19 AM Flag
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What are the five bad choices that led you to be in this situation? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:06 AM Flag
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1. I manage money for rich people. 2. Client last night invited me to come. 3. I never say no to this type of stuff because it helps a ton of client relationships. 4. My stomache started feeling a little weird last night. Today, I was achy the entire day. 5. I just yacked my brain out -- in public. Here I am. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:19 AM Flag
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Wow. You are my hero. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:09 AM Flag
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This was awesome. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:12 AM Flag
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Prob not food poisoning, which is often more sudden and violent. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:19 AM Flag
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ILU. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:37 AM Flag
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no, but you're funny. Have a good time! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:17 AM Flag
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In all seriousness, can someone tell me what to do for myself? Gatorade, saltines? I had a db waiting for me at home that I have to breastfeed. I'm still achy so I am scared I won't be able to [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:25 AM Flag
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First of all, get home right away. Don't stay at the damn concert anymore. Second, hydrate, hydrate, hydrate. You're going to be in pain, anything you can keep down is good. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:17 AM Flag
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Gatorade would be good, but if not then any kind of water. I doubt they will have saltines or any crackers at the arena. Maybe a banana, or a piece of toast (from the bread of a toasted sandwich?) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:30 AM Flag
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Formula for a day. I'm sorry, sucks to be so sick w a small baby. Glad I'm done w that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:20 AM Flag
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You're an alien. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:28 AM Flag
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Something coming at you like a dark horse? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:28 AM Flag
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So you're falling from cloud nine right now? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:46 AM Flag
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are you feeling hot n' cold? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:44 AM Flag
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she'll make it like your birthday everyday [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:45 AM Flag
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sounds like you are living a teenage dream [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:45 AM Flag
[ - ] Have any of you had a surgery to repair pelvic floor issues? I had a consult today and the doctor made a list of every gyn word ending in "cele". Sounds like a beating! He said recovery will be 6 weeks. From what I've read, that sounds ambitious. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:15 AM Flag
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I have a prolapsed bladder. I have an on/gyn that I trust completely. She said that the reason prolapse repair surgery has such a high failure rate is because there are many docs doing the surgery who shouldn't. Make sure you get a top doc who does this surgery all the time. Also recurrence of prolapse is high. I'm holding off on surgery until my sons are a little older. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:24 AM Flag
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Thanks for the input. The surgeon is highly recommended by my internal medicine and the urologist that referred me; I guess he's the go-to guy for this stuff in my area. I would hold off, but things recently became much worse. My bladder won't empty; I can literally see and feel it full. With pressure, it can deflate and empty. Going to the restroom has become a 16 step process. We are going to scare the first-time pregnant moms away with this talk! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:43 AM Flag
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Did medication help you at all? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:46 AM Flag
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Who did you see? My doc suggested Brucker, at NYU. He's very nice, gives lots of options and wants to try other options before surgery. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:40 AM Flag
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Dr Jody Blanco [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 03:00 AM Flag
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I'm no longer in NYC. I'll ask about medication. Today, he corked me with a pessary to hold me over! I haven't wet my pants once since, it's great. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:51 AM Flag
[ - ] For those who only do their shopping at whole foods how much do you spend weekly? 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:09 AM Flag
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You mean Whole Paycheck? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:01 AM Flag
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You sound poor. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:19 AM Flag
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Not helpful. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:23 AM Flag
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No, I sound well-read. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:37 AM Flag
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ugh, I'm afraid to add it up. Probably 80 dollars a week? Could easily be 50 dollars a week if I went to the Shoppers near me, but whole foods has the free range eggs, somewhat healthy ready made soups, organic produce, etc. that I prefer. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:13 AM Flag
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Actually I'm rethinking it... I go to the store twice a week and I think it's closer to 50 dollars a trip... probably 100 a week. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:14 AM Flag
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for yourself only? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:08 AM Flag
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No, me and DH. But to be fair we eat dinner out about twice a week and he eats out for lunch every day at work. So it would be way more otherwise. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:09 AM Flag
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Np- yes that would be low for a family, especially at WF [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:26 AM Flag
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Normally around 150-200 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:14 AM Flag
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when i do my weekly shopping at whole foods, it comes to $300 every time. and there are only 3 of us in this household. it is bananas. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:05 AM Flag
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So you only buy organic? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:08 AM Flag
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surprised so low especially if you only shop at whole foods - I would say at least 250 maybe 300 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:15 AM Flag
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Typically we spend about $80 any time we go there, we don't do all of our shopping there, though. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:19 AM Flag
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About $150-$200 per week for our family of 4. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:32 AM Flag
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$150-200. But then I have to do another small shop to get things I can't get at whole foods. Still I do spend less there, organic etc is cheaper there than my local rip off supermarket that marks that stuff way up [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:52 AM Flag
[ - ] Moral quandary time! I had a professor once who grew up on a farm, and he said that one day, he saw a couple of dogs, chasing one of the barn cats. The cat was older and was at risk of being killed. So he took his small "plinking" rifle and shot the dogs. However, since the dogs were large and the ammunition was small, the dogs did not die. They ran off yelping and whimpering into the woods. The professor (as a boy) later found the dead dogs days later near a stream. They had probably died slowly and in agony. Was it morally correct to protect the life of a cat by inflicting a rather brutal death on two dogs? 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:03 AM Flag
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no. such a sad story. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:16 AM Flag
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So the better option is to allow the cat to be ripped to shreds, or perhaps just brutally bitten and badly wounded but left alive and in great pain? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:07 AM Flag
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Jesus, how about just running after the dogs and scaring them away by yelling? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:09 AM Flag
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Would you really want a small boy to get in between two large angry dogs and their prey? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:23 AM Flag
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No, but these are all animals. Now say that two men are trying to kill you, and your husband shoots them to protect you, and they eventually die.... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:21 AM Flag
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Hello! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:29 AM Flag
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He was protecting a member of his "tribe". Not unusual. " [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.26.14, 02:30 AM Flag
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