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[ - ] BF and I bought apartment together in coop. We are equal on mortgage and ownership. He organized paperwork and has all my financial info including password to my bank account just so he could print off needed documents and I have nothing to hide. Now I asked to see his documents and he says it is unnecessary. I got mad and he said it is none of my business. I am tough on him about some very stupid donations and investments he has made in the past but why does he get to see my info if I cant see his? Can I get a copy of the mortgage documents from the broker? I think he has some stupid financial things on the record and he knows I will lose respect for him when I learn that he has made stupid decisions. We have a 2 yr old and no college fund, no retirement, no liquid investments. I am just beginning my career as a physician in NYC which is not big money but is consistent especially since he had been out of work for 5 years after the CMBS market crashed and he worked for countrywide. Do you think he owes it to me to show me the financials? WWYD? How is it none of my business since we are engaged, have a child and now an apartment and a huge mortgage likely based mostly on my FICO score and consistent income. How is this not my business? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.30.14, 05:30 AM Flag
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Sorry so long. bottom line is fiancé should show me his finances since we are now deep in a mortgage, he has seen mine, and he is not conservative with money. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.14, 05:44 AM Flag
[ - ] Starving, should I eat 1 bonnie bell round cheese not light, or apple with peanut butter? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.30.14, 04:33 AM Flag
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Apple sounds way better [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.14, 04:34 AM Flag
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it's 12:30, have a hit of siracha, a big glass of water, and go to bed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.14, 04:22 AM Flag
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ha, is that cheese so bad? it is 1 " wide, but I am trying to lose weight [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.14, 04:42 AM Flag
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why can't you just go to sleep instead of throwing in the cheese down your pie hole. you'll thank me in the morning [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.14, 04:32 AM Flag
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just threw it in, crap... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.14, 04:47 AM Flag
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it was good though, on to bed- tomorrow is another day [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.14, 04:47 AM Flag
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you made the right choice, the sugar in the apple would be worse while you slept [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.14, 05:09 AM Flag
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Mmmm.....pie. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.14, 05:00 AM Flag
[ - ] How was Christmas shopping different in the 60's/70's/80's than today? Aside from the greater use of gigantic holiday season catalogs from stores like Sears, I mean. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.30.14, 04:31 AM Flag
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how should i know? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.14, 04:23 AM Flag
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Some posters are old enough to have been there and can make the comparison. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.14, 04:37 AM Flag
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I was born in the 80's, IDK. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.14, 04:48 AM Flag
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Thanks for posting. Super helpful. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.14, 05:40 AM Flag
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No Internet shopping. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.14, 05:56 AM Flag
[ - ] Loved my summer and time with the kids...but SOOO looking forward to some overseas work trips where I can drink wine, fly business and wear some grownup clothes! 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.30.14, 03:48 AM Flag
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oh cool so you are actually a sahm and a wohm. csb. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.14, 03:40 AM Flag
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Good one! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.14, 03:58 AM Flag
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what does CSB mean [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.14, 04:30 AM Flag
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don't be coy now... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.14, 04:23 AM Flag
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BHF [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.14, 04:55 AM Flag
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what is your job? i wish i could travel for work [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.14, 04:24 AM Flag
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and how did you have the summer off with your kids yet have such a glamorous job? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.14, 04:27 AM Flag
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Answer: I am Angelina Jolie Pitt [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.14, 04:28 AM Flag
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Have a cheeseburger or two, Mrs. Pitt. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.14, 04:18 AM Flag
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Only about 2 weeks with summer fridays - I work in old time media [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.14, 04:30 AM Flag
[ - ] http://www.nydailynews.com/life-style/jilted-groom-turns-canceled-reception-charity-event-article-1.1921784 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.30.14, 03:38 AM Flag
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Just a nice story. Seems like a good guy making the best of a bad situation. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.14, 03:39 AM Flag
[ - ] Aussie mom here (to account for time). I'm getting ready to go out and just realised I have no conditioner, no time to get any and long hair that is super dry and overdue for a cut. Should I use my Shea hand butter for a ten minute treatment? Or olive oil? Before shampoo? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.30.14, 03:35 AM Flag
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Do you have mayo? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.14, 03:49 AM Flag
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yes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.14, 03:43 AM Flag
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Olive oil. When hair is wet. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.14, 03:53 AM Flag
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so before or after shampoo? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.14, 03:43 AM Flag
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Don't you use the stuff in the purple bottle with the kangaroo on it? Sorry, I'm from the 1980's, couldn't resist. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.14, 03:58 AM Flag
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I don't get the reference [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.14, 05:07 AM Flag
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In the time it took you to post this question and wait for responses, you could have gone out and bought conditioner. Prepare for a greasy hair day if you start putting oily crap on it! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.14, 03:58 AM Flag
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You clearly don't have dry, thick hair. Olive oil is great to use. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.14, 04:28 AM Flag
[ - ] For the state tests if a 3 is proficient and 4 is exceeds grade expectations then wouldn't the kids getting 4's have to be about a year a head or maybe gifted? For example 3rd grade students are expected to be reading at the end of the year at P but should kids really aim to be reading at S or T? In math should parents aim to push their kids to learn 4 grade math when the kids are in 3rd grade so they can get a 4 on the state tests? My dc is going to third this year and I can't figure out why a 4 wouldn't be proficient rather than exceeds. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.30.14, 03:29 AM Flag
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Oh boy [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.14, 03:19 AM Flag
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Please don't do this to yourself. Start the year. Meet the teacher. Take a deep breath. Go to back to school night. Then see which of these questions you can answer. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.14, 03:38 AM Flag
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We don't want our daughter to be bored in her classes every day, so we aren't pushing her ahead of grade level. But to keep her a little bit ahead overall, and to keep her from getting bored with the same subjects all of the time, she learns additional subjects outside of school hours. This year she's continuing in a foreign language and is going to a weekly science camp that does topics they don't get to in school. We're more than happy with high 3s, and are trying to reward work and persistence as much as results. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.14, 03:36 AM Flag
[ - ] Met a little boy named Jefferson Jackson. No kidding. 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.30.14, 03:28 AM Flag
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So? Because two presidents? I know a Clinton Washington. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.14, 03:19 AM Flag
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Jefferson is a last name. Np [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.14, 03:32 AM Flag
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No: Jefferson has been a last name for centuries. Other than Jefferson Davis, most of the examples I can think of are fictional, but still: Jefferson Almond, Jefferson "Mister" Smith, Jefferson Darcy (okay, maybe not a great example), Jefferson Berk. Also: Jefferson Morley. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.14, 04:09 AM Flag
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Because how is anyone going to know which one is the first and the last name?? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.14, 03:34 AM Flag
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Jefferson Davis didn't have any problems. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.14, 03:28 AM Flag
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William Jefferson Clinton? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.14, 03:45 AM Flag
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Bc it sounds dumb. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.14, 03:52 AM Flag
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I think that's a great name. No kidding. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.14, 04:36 AM Flag
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And? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.14, 05:08 AM Flag
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I met a little boy named Ur Highness. forget the actual spelling but this is true. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.30.14, 05:35 AM Flag
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