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[ - ] Would you find it "queer" (haha, pardon my punnery) if DH admitted that he had a "complete relationship" for several months with an older man when he was a freshman in college? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:15 AM Flag
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I would think he is bi. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:19 AM Flag
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I'm finding the husband would have it reparable effect on my marriage. I wouldn't change the way I feel about him sexually. I wish this wasn't the case, but I fear it would be. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:20 AM Flag
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If he had a relationship with another male, he is telling you he is bisexual. (keep in mind this is something he didn't have to tell you) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:20 AM Flag
[ - ] do HM/fieldston/riverdale families ever live in riverdale? seems like it would make a lot of sense 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:08 AM Flag
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Yes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:09 AM Flag
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Some do, of course, but many live in Manhattan, Westchester, even NJ. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:09 AM Flag
[ - ] Realistically, could a family with a HHI of $350-400K ever qualify for financial aid at a school like Chapin, Spence, etc.? Sounds ridiculous but living in Manhattan makes it very difficult to afford both high rent and sending a dc to $42K a year school. 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:53 AM Flag
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Not going to happen. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:52 AM Flag
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No chance [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:53 AM Flag
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No. Maybe with 3 kids [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:54 AM Flag
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Go for cheaper rent. Spend the difference on tuition. That's what we do on that income. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:58 AM Flag
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Private school is not a right, it's a privilege. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:03 AM Flag
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the middle class (or at least NYC umc) shouldn't be stuck in the middle either [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:06 AM Flag
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This [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:07 AM Flag
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Privilege of what exactly? $$ [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:07 AM Flag
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Exactly. What happened to $25,000 a year tuition? Manhattan is a place for the very rich, not the middle class. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:14 AM Flag
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we are in this position with 300k and we have 2 dcs... we will do public. I'd rather save the $ for college/grad school. We'll see if we stick with in but (I know, boo hoo) we really are stuck in the middle... with taxes, retirement, crazy housing costs, and saving for college, 13 years x 45 k x 2 is not in the cards. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:05 AM Flag
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How many kids? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:07 AM Flag
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Troll [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:08 AM Flag
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op: I wish I was troll - that would mean that this isn't really an issue. Agree with comments above, thanks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:13 AM Flag
[ - ] Wondering if anyone here has any experience with reiki and if so, what your thoughts are about it. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:49 AM Flag
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Yes, I've done it. Loved it, but I'm open to that sort of thing and believe it can work. If you don't think it can work, I wouldn't bother trying it. You're not going to see big, dramatic changes if you do it, IMO. It's more of a subtle thing. I use it when I feel like I need to get really clear on something - a decision I've made, an experience I've had. I feel like I flush out any negativity I have/had around something and am able to move forward more easily afterwards. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:58 AM Flag
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Do you use it to treat physical pain? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:03 AM Flag
[ - ] Hockey coach mom here. Why am I still hung up on him? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:43 AM Flag
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which hockey coach mom are you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:45 AM Flag
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Op: wasn't aware there was more than 1. Have been having an affair with a younger coach for past year or more [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:49 AM Flag
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well then you have a contemporary who has been doing it a longer than that. Or you are lying. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:03 AM Flag
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I thought you ended it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:09 AM Flag
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I think she's the skankeeeyyyyyyyhhhhh one [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:51 AM Flag
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Sorry. I think she's the mom who can't keep her vagina inside her leggings [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:51 AM Flag
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Cuz your life is boring and you have low self-esteem. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:58 AM Flag
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What league? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:02 AM Flag
[ - ] Which district has better middle schools, district 2 or district 3? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:36 AM Flag
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3, IMO. Well, District 3 has one really good one. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:50 AM Flag
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one for all the qualified kids in D3? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:51 AM Flag
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^^ sorry, meant to say District 2 has better ones. District 3 has one really good one, IMO (54/Delta) Unless the new school that starts this year turns out to be good. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:03 AM Flag
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Was underwhelmed by 54, plus it's in a crappy area. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:04 AM Flag
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NP: can you share your thoughts? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:10 AM Flag
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Dark, depressing building, extremely cramped and crowded classes. Labs and comupter rooms looked run down, like you know stuff is going to be broken and kids won't be able to do what they should do. Some of the teachers seemed super enthusiastic, which is great. Librarian was ranting about giuliani being responsible for school problems, which I found irrelevant and inappropriate for a school tour. I know the kids there are bright, whic is also a positive. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:19 AM Flag
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NFW. D2 by a MILE. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:02 AM Flag
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Do you really think its better than Lab? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:09 AM Flag
[ - ] Single mom with 5 year old.Took him out tonight for T or T and left a very full punchbowl full of very awesome treats (cheetos) out front with a sign to Take One. We rounded the block and when we had the bowl was gone so I refilled. The second time around the bowl was empty, kids had ripped the sign, threw the table and cracked my plexi punchbowl with a large stone which they left inside it. My 5 year old was upset. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:34 AM Flag
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This is the first year I have ever heard of people leaving bowls or "bins" outside for TOT. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:37 AM Flag
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I've seen it both in the past few years and when I was a kid! I wish I hadn't it was probably the same little bastards that just took multiple bags anyway. My neighborhood seemed to be the very young and the teens tonight. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:41 AM Flag
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NP- we set ours out when we were TOT with our kids or put them to bed. Noticed a few others this year too. Sorry to hear OP [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:05 AM Flag
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That is upsetting. I am saddened to read this. Maybe explain that some kids might have been of an age that they were trying to "show off" in front of peers, not to take it personally, the culprits are insecure, maybe come from less than ideal homes? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:40 AM Flag
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Actually I can understand that. I'm in NYC and kids are out of freaking control. Screaming on the street demanding candies in stores which don't have anymore. They start making a scene, trashing stores tearing signs down. Ridiculous... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:02 AM Flag
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Where do you live? Never witnessed this over the past 5 years. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:17 AM Flag
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I remember my first year handing out treats I was (naively) surprised that when I held out the bowl kids would take a handful of treats instead of just one., so I'm not surprised they would do it when no one was looking. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:05 AM Flag
[ - ] Can anyone whose DC went through Hunter R2 share any insight? We do not have the financial means to do Brighkids, but we would like to know what we can do to make sure my DC stands a chance. SB-V score is high enough for cutoff, so now I'm just worried about R2... 22 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:29 AM Flag
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Can't prepare buying making sure DC is in a great mood. Tell her not to be shy, to participate, and to talk when the facilitators ask questions. They will interview, it's not just play. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:31 AM Flag
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OK, ty! Should he dress up? What do they do on the interview? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:33 AM Flag
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I have no use, the parents are waiting outside. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:37 AM Flag
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*idea* sorry! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:39 AM Flag
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Dress up? Hunter is not private school. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:39 AM Flag
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Agreed, they won't even notice if you dress up, but you can... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:40 AM Flag
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I think that kids who look neat and clean mKe a better impression. Ds did not look starched but he wore a collared shirt [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:55 AM Flag
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^subconsciously, at least [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:59 AM Flag
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Try to make sure Dc doesn't get sick. They wont reschedule. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:34 AM Flag
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Also I'd DC can't separate, they just scratch him off he list. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:38 AM Flag
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If [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:38 AM Flag
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No prep required for R2, particularly if DC is in preschool or daycare. Arrive early, use the bathroom, and make sure your child isn't hungry or thirsty. Bring a book to entertain child. Only 1 parent permitted. Choose the parent from whom child will more easily separate. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:33 AM Flag
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Plus a snack/treat. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:37 AM Flag
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TY! He's already in Pre-K, so I guess he's set. Do they draw at the interview or do puzzles? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:38 AM Flag
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Yes and yes. I understand that they will ask about the things you wrote about your child. If you said DC is into space, then discuss space with DC on your way over. GL [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:41 AM Flag
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^And, bring something for yourself to read. There is a lot of down time. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:37 AM Flag
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Wow, TY! This is v helpful. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:51 AM Flag
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Try to spend the next 2 months taking DC to visit friends he doesn't know well or has never met. Get DC used to talking to grown-ups he doesn't know. If you have a particularly kind friend, ask friend to do a project with DC during the visit, like baking cookies or building a lego set or something. Hunter R2 is very much about picking kids who are not shy, can focus on projects and are good with following instructions. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:55 AM Flag
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TY! He can be soft spoken, so we will practice speaking up and not being quite so timid. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:12 AM Flag
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The fact that you've a high score, means you've a bright child. Your dc will be fine in life. My dc may not make it to 2nd round, but I would love to see on of my friends' who will. GL. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:07 AM Flag
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^^ some of my friends. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:18 AM Flag
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Np - what does this mean? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:20 AM Flag
[ - ] Friggen DH decided to reheat a pizza this evening and pre-heated the oven. Now all my cashmere sweaters have been roasted crisp. He had to use the fire extinguisher. Now he thinks it is my fault, but who does not look into the oven before turning it on? Anyway, I am shopping with his card this weekend. 38 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:23 AM Flag
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ok, i'll bite- what did you cashmere sweaters do to deserve a place in your oven? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:25 AM Flag
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Why the fuck were your sweaters in the oven? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:24 AM Flag
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I'm wondering too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:34 AM Flag
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Huh?? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:25 AM Flag
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This is the weirdest post ever. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:28 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:33 AM Flag
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haha reminds me of the Seinfeld where Kramer puts his shirts in the oven [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:28 AM Flag
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op: Storage of course. We mostly used the toaster oven, microwave or toaster oven. I swear dh has rocks for a brain. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:28 AM Flag
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I'm thinking you do. Stupid place to put something flammable. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:35 AM Flag
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You're a fucking shit for brains, OP. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:44 AM Flag
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"of course"> LMFAO [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:54 AM Flag
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Fake or you need to move [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:32 AM Flag
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I live in the suburbs and my dc home from college decided one day to make something without looking into the oven. I had actually temporarily stored some plastic trays in there (because hey it's MY kitchen!) and stuff melted all around my oven. Fortunately it also was able to be picked off pretty cleanly. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:34 AM Flag
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I feel like this is a spinoff of some TV show I've seen where someone put their sweaters in the oven for storage. Can't remember which one. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:34 AM Flag
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I think it's a cliché, but I think I've seen it a couple of times on sitcoms. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:41 AM Flag
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SATC. Carrie mentions in a few episodes that she uses her oven or storage. SATC Obsessed Troll, however, didn't think this through- who would put their sweaters in a greasy, disgusting oven. Even if YOU don't use it, it's been used before. Gross. That's why God created storage ottomans. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:53 AM Flag
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OP: ok, i guess this is just a NYC thing, cause all these fly over moms have their panties in a twist over this post. go back to your minivan and walk in closet and stay off URBAN baby, ok. if you can not relate to us city living folk, be gone. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:01 AM Flag
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I live in Manhattan and I agree. Who would put clothing in an oven? Makes no sense...potential grunge, etc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:17 AM Flag
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Sorry, OP, but no self respecting Manhattanite would put delicate cashmere sweaters in an oven. That is so weird. It was funny when Carrie said it, but that was a TV show. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:21 AM Flag
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In Manhattan - never would occur to me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:21 AM Flag
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fake [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:43 AM Flag
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I turn on the oven without looking inside all the time. Wouldn't even occur to me to look before preheating. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:44 AM Flag
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Me either. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:17 AM Flag
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OP: Manhattan based. Not fake and very common. You just do not use the oven without first checking inside. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:47 AM Flag
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that is true [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:47 AM Flag
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I never check my oven before turning it on. Nobody cooks in it but me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:50 AM Flag
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I'm in Manhattan (and always have been) and have never checked the oven. The only thing I've ever stored there, even when broke, was pots and pans. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:52 AM Flag
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ewww. i always check for cockroaches or rodents before i cook. I do not want them touching my food in the oven. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:54 AM Flag
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Ummm, many of us don't have roaches and/or mice in our ovens. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:05 AM Flag
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When i was in college, i used the oven to store my textbooks and laptop. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:53 AM Flag
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lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:56 AM Flag
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This is not common. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:19 AM Flag
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I can't how imagine how gross those sweaters would be from being stored inside an oven that evidently gets used for cooking sometimes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:54 AM Flag
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OP: well that is just it. we have a microwave, toaster oven and seamlessweb. The oven is not to be used for cooking! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:00 AM Flag
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OP, I want to thank you for this post. I have not laughed this hard in dayyyyyys. Amazing. Sorry for your loss. Hope you enjoy shopping! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:04 AM Flag
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OP: thanks for being on my side. That was nice of you. Do you happen to know of some nice double ply cashmere cardis on sale? Was thinking of checking out Century 21. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:07 AM Flag
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I wish I could help you. I'm the OP to the new post above who needs to get to the gym and out of my rut. I know it "burns" now but you'll be telling this same story while laughing in a couple of months and years. Go easy on DH tonight... but go out and get yourself something extra nice. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:17 AM Flag
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Fake..copied from a tv show. Too stupid to be true. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:21 AM Flag
[ - ] I am officially jealous of single, childless women. They get to look good, do what they want, keep their money, and oh yeah, do whatever they want. 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:23 AM Flag
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But they are often very VERY lonely. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:23 AM Flag
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They have no idea what the reverse of lonely is: NO PRIVACY. No time to yourself. No time even for girlfriends, or a manicure, or to work out or even cook!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:25 AM Flag
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I know how you feel. Over the summer we were staying with dh's family for a weekend. My SILs without kids would show up for every event on time with hair and makeup fully done and I could barely put down my 12 month old long enough to pull a dress over my head. But its so so worth it in the end [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:31 AM Flag
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They all look at your life and wish they had your problems. The grass is always greener. And as our children get older, we will get our lives back, but still have children. They may never get to have children. Short term losses, long term gains. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:44 AM Flag
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So why didn't you stay one? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:51 AM Flag
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I am not jealous, I LOVE having my dc's. But yes - I definitely looked way younger, was thinner and more fit, better-dressed and had more disposable income, clothes, shoes, etc. Such is the journey of life. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:58 AM Flag
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Thank you! That pretty much sums it up, yeah. That's my life! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:01 AM Flag
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I am this, it is amazing. I do not wish I was a mom right now. Tonight I might go make out with a hot foreign guy. Or just hang out with my friends at a bar. The world is my oyster. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:03 AM Flag
[ - ] NYC is wearing on me. I can't keep up with the wealth, even though I know I should be grateful for what I have, with so many homeless people around...it just feels like I will never be successful "enough." KWIM? Esp. now that I am in my 40's, I feel like my looks are gone and the future is bleak. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:22 AM Flag
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Are you single? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:21 AM Flag
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No, married and exhausted and jaded. FT WOHM. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:23 AM Flag
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Why do you care of you lost your looks then? I bet dh did too. So you are good together [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:23 AM Flag
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Because it's nice to look good?? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:27 AM Flag
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I understand the sentiment. There is something about NYC that makes you feel like a hamster in a wheel, more more more, you need more. And when you are young and energetic and the future is still wide open, there feels like a point to it, but after you get older, get married, settle into a pattern and a lifestyle, sometimes you feel like it might be nice to bow out of the ratrace and just enjoy what you have without feeling compelled to compare. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:38 AM Flag
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OP, I hear you...and I grew up in NYC (ok, Queens and LI) but still I understand how you feel. I feel as if I make pretty good money but am always paycheck to paycheck. I would love to participate in what this city has to offer, but I spend so much of my free time running around doing chores that I never get to spend my weekends the way I want. I long for a car and a parking spot at every store I go. I long for a nice backyard that I can open my backdoor to and have my kids and their friends run out to. I long for DH to have a man cave and I have the rest of the house...... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:46 AM Flag
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Paycheck to paycheck means if you lose your job tomorrow, you will be on the streets at the end of the month. If you have assets, you are not paycheck to paycheck. You're just spending up to your means, like most of us on UB. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:04 AM Flag
[ - ] If you went on a few dates with a guy who seemed interested in you and then invited you to his place and then unzipped his pants and pushed your face (not aggressively) to suck him off, would you? Or would you run out? 28 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:21 AM Flag
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i never thought i would say yes to this question, but this happened to me a couple of months ago, and i was so attracted to him that i did suck him off, we are still together, and he's a great guy. . . we are having a lot of fun. so, i guess it depends on how you feel about him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:25 AM Flag
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It didn't make you feel like a prostitute? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:31 AM Flag
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OR: No, I did not feel like a prostitute, and in fact in my case this was the first date we went on, but i was totally into him and wanted to act one it. We are still together after a couple of months and so far so good. Having sexual desires and acting on them does not make me feel like a prostitute. OP says she had "gone on a few dates"; isn't it the norm that if you've gone a few dates with a guy one expects there to be mutual sexual attraction? what do you do once you realize you both are sexually attracted to one another? for me, the answer is start having sexual contact. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:46 AM Flag
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OP: Totally agree with you, but giving him a BJ to me is way too much for first sexual activity. Maybe I am old. I would think we would plan to go somewhere for the weekend and start having sex. Going back to his house after a dinner date and being asked for a BJ did make me feel like a prostitute. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:47 AM Flag
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^^^ Also this guy is pretty wealthy, so I felt like he just expects this from his dates. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:50 AM Flag
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Depends. How has he treated you on the dates? What restaurants has he taken you to? Is his place a rental or does he own? Coop or condo? Neighborhood? If I wanted to get a bit of his wealth, would only take his seed vaginally, otherwise a BJ is no big deal. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:27 AM Flag
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OP: Very wealthy. Gorgeous house. I am 40, so more kids for me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:34 AM Flag
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I'd act like a whore behind closed doors. Sounds like it is a good situation. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:47 AM Flag
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OP: I would too, but I need to warm up to the act ;) Just shoving your cock in my mouth does not do it for me [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:54 AM Flag
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You do not see how OR is a troll? Seriously? Damn girl, you dumb. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:55 AM Flag
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Of course I would run. And possibly report him to the police. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:49 AM Flag
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this wtf [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:52 AM Flag
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Report him to the police for making a move on you? An abrupt move, sure, but doesn't sound police worthy if you could just get up and leave. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:09 AM Flag
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I'd be out of there in an instant. Luckily, I have never dated assholes like that. Ugh. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:50 AM Flag
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OP: You and I are I guess the only ones who think this way. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:53 AM Flag
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Keep your dignity intact, OP. You are not a prostitute. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:55 AM Flag
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This happened to me once. He didn't push my face, but out of the blue had his pants down. I walked out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:54 AM Flag
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Is it the face pushing part that freaked you out? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:00 AM Flag
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OP: It's the expecting part that pissed me off. I felt like because he is rich and we have been going to nice restaurants, he expected it. I had no problem having sex with him, but to expect a BJ /first time sex was too much for me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:04 AM Flag
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DH- selfish as all hell [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:11 AM Flag
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Do you think it's because he is rich that he did that or all guys do that since they think we live in a porno as the poster below said! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:14 AM Flag
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How so? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:18 AM Flag
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If it made you feel weird than that's all that matters. But, I don't see what's subversive about blow jobs as opposed to any other sex act? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:13 AM Flag
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It's very selfish for one [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:16 AM Flag
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This is so freaking out of bounds I can't believe people are defending it. We do not live in a porno. If you were fooling around this might be understandable...were you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:05 AM Flag
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OP: We started kissing on date 4 or so and this was like date 5. I would have had sex, but BJ as first act is too much for me [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:06 AM Flag
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Vice versa. If you shove his face on your crotch, will he do anything? Is so, then we will talk. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:10 AM Flag
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This would not work for me. But I don't really know the context or the back-story or your preferences, so I can't say. My gut reaction is, he sounds like a jerk. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:18 AM Flag
[ - ] Violent thug children from the projects are invading my neighborhood for candy 19 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:08 AM Flag
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UWS. Me too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:13 AM Flag
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same. ds asked to leave w.69th after repeatedly being shoved by obnoxious kids (and their moms). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:17 AM Flag
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That's exactly where we were! It was shocking!!! And then we went trick-or-treating in a building on CpW (DH's parents) - and got an elevator with an operator personally shuffling us up and down to apartments with candy. Very sad comparison of how different lives are in this City. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:18 AM Flag
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it sucks because I love taking them trick or treating on that block, they go all out with the decorations and it could be so much fun. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:22 AM Flag
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to be honest I don't remember there being so many poor kids in years past...It was always a "neighborhood" thing where I saw other kids from mhy kids schools, activities, etc... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:26 AM Flag
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you're right, we've gone the past 4 years and it's always crowded but never this nasty... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:29 AM Flag
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Thug kids are not worthy of candy..... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:15 AM Flag
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It's the revolution! Vive les bonsbons! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:44 AM Flag
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Were their costumes sub-par like the UES poor kids' costumes? Was there a kid wearing a Superman T shirt in lieu of a costume? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:46 AM Flag
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big surprise [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:48 AM Flag
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I don't know how those on the UES townhouses deal. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:49 AM Flag
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Honestly, you guys sound really snobby and mean. Kids are kids, unless they are teens. Maybe an 8 year old from the projects is a bit more rough and tumble for obvious reasons, but they are still kids, nonetheless -- perhaps as adults, you should be a bit more kind. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:51 AM Flag
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you are more than welcome to feed the thug children. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:56 AM Flag
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No. Are you in NYC? Kids should not behave like this. I have seen older kids pushing toddlers off the sidewalks. I saw 7 yr old dragging a 4 yr old off the subway station. It's not right. Where are the parents? Lost of the groups walk around sugar high without any adults. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:17 AM Flag
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that's why they are thugs. no parents who care. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:21 AM Flag
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I'm at my mother's house in NJ right outside the city. The kids come from Newark and the oranges every year. But they are often well behaved and I'm happy to share the experience w them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:56 AM Flag
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UES. Horrible. I was yelled at and shoved by kids tonight! They asked for money..... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:12 AM Flag
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which st? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:16 AM Flag
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2nd Ave, in the 90s. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 02:20 AM Flag
[ - ] Can I just say I LOVE the world because apparently my cat jumped into the trash chute while I was putting bags in ... 2 days gone finally my best neighbor ever found my cat, thank you neighbor !!! 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:00 AM Flag
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Wow! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:06 AM Flag
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I know I am so happy !!! Plus kids etc. But this was my cat and I could not figure out where he had gone. We are on 2d and have a balcony. So bad thoughts. But apparently he hung out in the basement hiding, I am sooooo happy to have him back. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:08 AM Flag
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I TOTALLY thought your cat was dead at first. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:12 AM Flag
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OP I thought he was as well. :) I got my cat back though :) He is being his usual bastard self not understanding why I want to hug on him - but I love him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 11.01.14, 01:38 AM Flag
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