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[ - ] name the best biography that you recently read?? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 01:20 PM Flag
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glass castle [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 01:21 PM Flag
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^^^sorry that's an autobiography [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 01:21 PM Flag
[ - ] all of you don't get it, you seem to think it is okay to rag all teachers and their union, because of a few bad apples. However, when it comes to police officers they are all perfect...a bad apple is a bad apple and we need to get rid of them no matter where they are... 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 01:13 PM Flag
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Police risk their lives. Teachers can do nothing and do not lose their jobs. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 01:15 PM Flag
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really what about those teacher that work in those areas with no support? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 01:17 PM Flag
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^^^teachers [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 01:18 PM Flag
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How many shot on the job? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 01:21 PM Flag
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how about the principal in red hook? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 01:22 PM Flag
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lol, you think all police officers risk their lives? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 01:20 PM Flag
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A lot more than teachers. Go outside in a uniform, you are a target, thank to our Deputy Mayor Sharpton (sarcastic) and Mayor Charlene and Deb. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 01:22 PM Flag
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not all police walk around in uniform [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 01:23 PM Flag
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A lot more police do than teachers. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 01:24 PM Flag
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I think many teachers are great and some suck, just like everyone else. What I have unqualified disdain for is the teachers' unions, which seem to exist for the sole purpose of protecting teachers from any form of evaluation. I'm sure most teachers care about the kids, but the union clearly does not. It's disgusting. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 01:23 PM Flag
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This. It take a poor administration before we hear from police unions. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 01:24 PM Flag
[ - ] Where do men put their business cards when carrying them around? In their wallets? I've never paid attention to this. 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 12:50 PM Flag
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yes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 12:53 PM Flag
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I'm buying DH a new wallet and he uses a business card now. He usually likes a slim wallet. What is still slim but has enough space to hold business cards? I"m doing this online so can't chech out the wallet. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 12:55 PM Flag
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Get a separate business card case. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 12:57 PM Flag
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Ha! Do you know my husband? He would love this. Works in education, this isn't too unprofessional, is it? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 01:00 PM Flag
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No, it's perfect. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 01:01 PM Flag
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Or in a business card case. But business cards are obviously dropping off, as it becomes easier to transfer data phone-to-phone or to grab it from an email sig. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 12:56 PM Flag
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Yeah, but he uses a BC now, so want to get him something that holds them. I think he would prefer to carry one thing (wallet). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 12:58 PM Flag
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Business cards get bent/creased/smudged in a wallet. If he still likes/needs them, go with business card case. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 01:02 PM Flag
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Makes senses. Thanks for advice. I'll get him a wallet and "Santa" will get him a whimsical business card case. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 01:05 PM Flag
[ - ] I hope NYC's piece of shit so-called mayor does not try to attend the funerals No way to know, but those officers might be alive today if that human fecal matter for a mayor had stood up for the police instead of pandering to the lunatic, race-hustler-incited fringe. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 12:48 PM Flag
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i agree. he is a piece of shit. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 12:53 PM Flag
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op: Just wondering. Am I being unfair to shit? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 01:04 PM Flag
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Maybe, but there will always be crazy that will find some cause that appeals to them. The media and internet just bring them all to the doorsteps. This guy could have just as easily taken over a coffee shop in solidarity with the guy in Australia. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 01:16 PM Flag
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OP you are racist. It's nto the mayor's fault. I dn't love him but it's not his fault [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 01:23 PM Flag
[ - ] I support the police union leadership in telling its members to look out after themselves, and call for back up immediately if responding to a call and not making quality of life arrests. If the community and the mayor do not support them, why risk their lives. 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 12:25 PM Flag
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How about if they just used some judgment? Don't chokehold a guy over cigarettes. They could have arrested him later on. Or let that particular one go by. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 01:24 PM Flag
[ - ] The fastest way to get ex-DH to show up to pick up the kids for his Sunday each week is to try to go to the bathroom and stay in there more than 3 minutes. Works every time. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 12:19 PM Flag
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I don't get it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 12:21 PM Flag
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Kind of like as soon as you leave your car windows down overnight, it rains [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 12:32 PM Flag
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I could probably also get him to show up simply by trying to take a 5 minute shower. He will be an hour late but that one moment when I try to get anything done in private, that's when he shows up. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 12:34 PM Flag
[ - ] J-I-M B-R-O W-S-K-I 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 09:25 AM Flag
[ - ] DH is Dutch and wants to dress up as Zwarte Piet? Should I allow this? Friends will be mortified. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 08:48 AM Flag
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Sure. If he is willing to lose everything why stand in his way. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 12:15 PM Flag
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Is he Dutch or does he have Dutch ancestry? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 12:31 PM Flag
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We celebrate Sint and Piet, but it was 3 weeks ago. Why would he dress up now? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 12:33 PM Flag
[ - ] so horny rn: rabbit or hitachi wand? 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 08:41 AM Flag
[ - ] If you saw a married male friend out for drinks with a (beautiful) woman (not his wife) would you mention to the wife? Knowing no other information? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
New York City 12.21.14, 05:50 AM Flag
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No. Never. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:52 AM Flag
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Which one was your friend first? I would not tattle, but I would say "I bumped into Joe at the diner last week," or whatever. If she asked who he was with, I might say a woman. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:54 AM Flag
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She was [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 06:22 AM Flag
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No. In the real world people interact with people of the opposite sex. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 06:42 AM Flag
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Right? Why jump to conclusions? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 12:05 PM Flag
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No, why hurt the wife and create a situation that will end up affecting many people along the way. Mind your business. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 11:52 AM Flag
[ - ] Poll: If DH cheated, how did you find out? If you cheated, how are you caught? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
New York City 12.21.14, 05:48 AM Flag
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At first it's your gut, but everyone slips up eventually. The only way to keep it going for any long period of time is to have the spouse being cheated on intentionally look the other way, for whatever their own reasons are. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 12:22 PM Flag
[ - ] If a DH were cheating on his DW, would he still be having sex with her? Less sex? More? None at all? If looking at his phone is not an option, what are other clues besides obvious ones? 23 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
New York City 12.21.14, 05:37 AM Flag
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You've got it backwards. If dh is cheating on de, it's likely because she is not having sex with him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:39 AM Flag
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Is this always the case tho? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:40 AM Flag
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Not always, but likely [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:41 AM Flag
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No. I have a high sex drive but once husband and I married, he quit having sex with me (for the most part). He liked "dirty" girls. Strippers and just trashy women in general. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:43 AM Flag
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Wow. How did you find out? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:44 AM Flag
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My mother was my husband's office manager, and a sub-contractor went to the office to get paid, and he said, "Your SIL was seen by one of our laborers in astrip club Monday. He's a family man and that's not a family thing to do." To my MOTHER! So that opened the gates to everything. BTW, this was 30 years into the marriage. Even with hindsight, you couldn't have told by his behaviors, etc. NO ONE believed he was doing that because it just seemed so "not him". He's honest to a fault in everything else, so you assume... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 06:01 AM Flag
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So, are you still with him? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 06:10 AM Flag
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Oh no, he went to a strip club! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 12:18 PM Flag
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No, this is just an excuse DH uses to lure the OW in and justify his cheating. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 06:04 AM Flag
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It depends, often affairs start after less sex but some men also attempt to make up for it/make themselves look innocent by initiating sex. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:41 AM Flag
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The cliche is more sex. He is infatuated, he is thinking about sex, he cares about his appearance, he is happy... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:43 AM Flag
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So DH may initiate with DW more because he is more tuned into sex due to the affair? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:45 AM Flag
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That's what all the magazine articles and celeb shrinks say. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:52 AM Flag
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Put a keylogger on his computer. Put a voice-activated recorder in his car or office. If you can afford it, hire a PI. Look at phone records for a number that is being called/texted an unusual number of times per day. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 06:06 AM Flag
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^Frequency of sex is no indicator. Could be less (because he is getting it somewhere else) or could be more (because his sex drive is stimulated or he wants to throw you off track). However, if he tries to introduce something new into sex (e.g., something he learned from the OW), that might be a clue. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 06:09 AM Flag
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There is no way I will be able to get a key logger because I never have access to his computer and he does everything from his phone anyway, but he has some secure app supposedly for business that encrypts all his txts and calls and then deletes them permanently. So virtually his is evidence proofed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 06:26 AM Flag
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A big clue is that he won't let you see his phone or is very protective of it, e.g., takes it with him everywhere, including when he goes to the bathroom or takes a shower. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 06:08 AM Flag
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^^Another big clue is that he suddenly becomes hyper-critical of you or very moody when he comes home, faulting you for everything. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 06:10 AM Flag
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^^Also, if he starts talking about a particular woman at work for some reason and talks about her with unusual frequency. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 06:12 AM Flag
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^^Another clue is that he starts gaslighting you (Google it), saying things that don't quite add up and trying to make you feel crazy for doubting him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 06:13 AM Flag
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Just ask him out of the blue if you can see borrow his phone for a second because you need to use it and yours isn't working. If he makes up some BS excuse, acts suspiciously or otherwise doesn't give you the phone, hire a private investigator to gather evidence. Don't let him know that you suspect, or else he will just try to cover his tracks better. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 06:18 AM Flag
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He has some app on his phone that is a secure messaging app supposedly for business but it deletes all his texts and calls. Everything is private. So there is no hope to look at his phone. Or computer. I've never once used his work computer and it would be so suspicious to ask to now [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 06:25 AM Flag
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lol fake. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 12:20 PM Flag
[ - ] Do you have a UB name? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:33 AM Flag
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I'm tarot mom [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:40 AM Flag
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Do you really know tarots or do you just bullshit the moms on here? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 05:54 AM Flag
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I really read tarot. People think that means I'm psychic and call me a fraud for that, but you do not need to be psychic to read tarot, and I do not claim to be. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 06:12 AM Flag
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Can you do a reading for me? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 11:01 AM Flag
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apparently, someone calls me lrm. fame at last! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.21.14, 06:22 AM Flag
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