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[ - ] Live stream of girl locked in padded room for 24 hours as social experiment. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.24.18, 12:24 AM Flag
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And? Are you jacking off? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.18, 12:25 AM Flag
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No thanks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.18, 12:25 AM Flag
[ - ] Grandma Mom here. My youngest is going to Junior Prom. We are buying a wristlet. (am I actually writing this?) Should I order elastic or pearl? Definitely not rhinestones. Connecticut private school. Thank you 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
Teenagers 05.24.18, 12:21 AM Flag
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The biggest question of the night: what does she want? I'd be mortified if my mom was ordering and I'm fucking 54.. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.18, 12:23 AM Flag
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I don't know what a wristlet is. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.18, 12:24 AM Flag
[ - ] The older I get, the more I wonder why we didn't just let the south secede. Are we really better off as a country for having Alabama and Mississippi? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.24.18, 12:21 AM Flag
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Agree. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.18, 12:21 AM Flag
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I say this all the time. We had our chance and blew it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.18, 12:24 AM Flag
[ - ] If a standard sun hat doesn’t fit, it means I have a big head yes? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.24.18, 12:17 AM Flag
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Yes. I have a big head too. Lands End has some hats with sizes (so many are "one size fits all" but they don't). I also have one from San Diego Hat Company that rolls up flat or unrolls and you fasten with a velcro strap, so it's adjustable (but doesn't cover the top of your head. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.18, 12:22 AM Flag
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Yes. Try Wallaroo. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.18, 12:23 AM Flag
[ - ] Radio is such a weird medium. I was listening to a story about someone in the UK who was arrested because he threatened "a tax" on Prince George. It took me a few beats to figure out why and how someone would be putting a tax on a 5 year old kid. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.24.18, 12:06 AM Flag
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Lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.18, 12:11 AM Flag
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I was realizing recently that speech to text may have a weird impact on people who have poor reading skills. I can't remember the specifics, but a friend sent a weirdly corrected text to me recently and I had to read it out loud many times to figure out what she had said that text to speech had incorrectly heard. But if you can't read well and have poor phonological awareness it will be harder to figure things like that out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.18, 12:18 AM Flag
[ - ] I know I'm going to get made fun of, but I suck at "corporate culture" stuff. I interviewed with a company this week, I sent the person who interviewed me a thank you email, they responded to my email, and today they asked me for references. Are they dotting i's and crossing t's or are they actually interested? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.24.18, 12:03 AM Flag
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They're interested. They wouldn't bother asking you for references if they weren't interested. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.18, 12:07 AM Flag
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i agree- they are interested. but, most importantly, are YOU interested? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.18, 12:08 AM Flag
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OP: I am! I think we had a great interview, we chatted for about 45mins, but it was all very relaxed. The salary is what I want, but more importantly the hours are what I want, and the commute would be a 15 minute walk. I'm trying to play it a bit cool, but DH told me if I meet with them again I should show that I'm enthusiastic, and he said it's a good sign that they're "moving forward". [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.18, 12:18 AM Flag
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awesome- keep us posted! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.18, 12:23 AM Flag
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References are always the last step. In fact, most places are now trending towards making an offer first with that offer being contingent on having good references, since most places know that you're not going to give them a reference that is anything less than glowing so it's not that useful as a decision-making tool. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.18, 12:13 AM Flag
[ - ] Talk to me about Botox. I am turning 43, skin is pretty good and not too many wrinkles but small ones on my forehead are starting to bother me. Am I too late at 43? Where do I get this done (I’m in Brooklyn) a med spa? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.24.18, 12:00 AM Flag
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Don’t do it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.18, 12:01 AM Flag
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I want to hijack your post and ask about under eye fillers. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.18, 12:04 AM Flag
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Tell me more, please. Every time I smile, the skin under my eyes gets so crinkly. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.18, 12:08 AM Flag
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PP: I have no idea, Ive never had it. My problem is bags/eyes looking "sunken". [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.18, 12:20 AM Flag
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I am 43 and have botoxed twice. Started at 41. I love it. Get a good dr and start small. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.18, 12:06 AM Flag
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I tried Botox on my 43rd birthday. I don’t have any wrinkles but found that I was starting to get that resting b face. DH kept asking me why I looked angry. Lol. Turned my frown upside down. It was a subtle change and made a big difference for me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.18, 12:07 AM Flag
[ - ] Diagnose me- I have everything like most of you, but I’m blah about life. I know people will say it’s spiritual, but I am also spiritual. 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.23.18, 11:55 PM Flag
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What do you mean when you say you're spiritual? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.18, 11:57 PM Flag
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I believe in a higher power, I pray, etc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.18, 12:00 AM Flag
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When you have too much, you have too much time to be blah. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.18, 11:58 PM Flag
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You have everything but don't appreciate it. Do something for another. Exert yourself. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.18, 12:03 AM Flag
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Learn a new language. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.18, 12:04 AM Flag
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I diagnose you with vague ennui, with a touch of affluenza. I prescribe the planning of a wonderful trip or learning something new (how-to, not knowledge). It's so refreshing to be a beginner, and adults lose touch with that experience. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.18, 12:13 AM Flag
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You're nuts [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.18, 12:17 AM Flag
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Freedom is being free of the "spiritual." [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.18, 12:21 AM Flag
[ - ] Kicked caffeine for the first time today. Although I had a perfectly good night of sleep last night, I'm tired all day. Will this ever go away? 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.23.18, 11:51 PM Flag
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why did you kick caffeine? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.18, 12:07 AM Flag
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reasons. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.18, 12:13 AM Flag
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Yes. Yes it will. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.18, 12:11 AM Flag
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OK is this what happened to you? I don't have headaches or anything just much more tired than usual. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.18, 12:13 AM Flag
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3-4 days. don't go back. tomorrow will suck. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.18, 12:13 AM Flag
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ok [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.18, 12:15 AM Flag
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what's weird is sleep isn't an issue [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.18, 12:15 AM Flag
[ - ] Sigh, looks like there will be more incel shootings. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.23.18, 11:49 PM Flag
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Hey, look over there! Where? There goes a Russian troll with her new boyfriend [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.18, 11:57 PM Flag
[ - ] I once roomed with an actress and didn’t realize her fiancé was famous. Lol but I did say you look familiar... 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.23.18, 11:47 PM Flag
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Can’t say who. I know I suck [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.18, 11:47 PM Flag
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np. That's okay. I know a very famous person from college (former A list, now more like C list) and I was there for both the terrible star vehicle movie and the terrible "album" that never came out because they were basically worse than Madonna as an actor and even worse as a singer. Even Scott Baio had an album that was actually released. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.18, 11:51 PM Flag
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"Let's play I know a secret but I'm not telling you !!!" boring [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.18, 11:52 PM Flag
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It's easy not to realize someone's famous if you don't pay attention to their industry, or certain parts of their industry. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.18, 11:54 PM Flag
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This. There are very, very many famous people who I wouldn't know from Adam. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.18, 12:14 AM Flag
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This. I once met someone who said she was an actress, and since I didn't recognize her I asked if she acts on stage. Turns out she had played the same character on a soap opera for over 20 years. She was very nice about it and said 'Of course you don't recognize me, you're at work during the day!" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.18, 12:14 AM Flag
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I am not impressed by celebrities. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.18, 12:15 AM Flag
[ - ] ma flo tighter than a dick in the butt 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.23.18, 11:43 PM Flag
[ - ] What are your hobbies? 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.23.18, 11:31 PM Flag
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I crochet, I quilt, I garden. This summer I'm growing marijuana for the first time, which is a lot more challenging than I thought. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.18, 11:33 PM Flag
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OOOH I remember you! I hope you post on your progress. This might be something I'd like to try. You're in California, right? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.18, 11:45 PM Flag
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No, MA. But I think there might be more than one of us here who do stuff with "Satan's oregano" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.18, 11:49 PM Flag
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Cooking! Yours? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.18, 11:33 PM Flag
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np I love to cook and bake too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.18, 11:49 PM Flag
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What are you cooking these weekend? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.18, 11:53 PM Flag
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Me too! My favorite thing to do on a Saturday or Sunday is pop open a bottle of wine with my fiancé, put on some jazz, and get cooking. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.18, 12:15 AM Flag
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Photography [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.18, 11:41 PM Flag
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Watching tv. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.18, 11:54 PM Flag
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I posted before that I workout and that started a debate as to whether that is a hobby. I also run (sporadically) though which I think is, and I read a lot. I took up a 'real' hobby this year by taking drawing lessons, so I do that too and want to branch out into painting etc. (was into it all when younger) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.18, 11:54 PM Flag
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Working out is definitely a hobby. It's not a hobby of mine, but it is a hobby. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.18, 12:16 AM Flag
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I spend a lot of time gardening. I am always trying to improve my outdoor space. I have just started growing water lilies in my pond, so I am excited about that. I also love to ski, scuba dive, sail, play golf, cook, paint, sew, etc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.18, 11:59 PM Flag
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Photography. Drawing/painting..etc. Outdoorsy stuff. Travel. Eating, lol. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.18, 12:12 AM Flag
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Gardening, hiking when I can. I am also an insatiable reader. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.18, 12:14 AM Flag
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Children's theatre, but we make money. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.18, 12:14 AM Flag
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Knitting, decluttering, binge watching scripted drama series. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.18, 12:15 AM Flag
[ - ] I've lived in the Northeast my whole life.. Kids are all going to be in college within a year and a half. I think I'm ready for a more laid back area of the country. I know the midwest is supposed to be very hospitable but the weather would kill me. Can't deal w/ the south and can't afford the West coast most likely. Where to go? Northeast transplants, any positive moving stories? TIA, thanks 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.23.18, 11:31 PM Flag
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I know of a gay couple with kids who just transplanted from LA to Tuscon, AZ ... I've been there a bunch of times since it's also where my DH's grandmother retired and we visited several times. It's nice there but we went in the winter. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.18, 11:34 PM Flag
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midwest is tough to break in to socially. People are very nice but also shut off if you didn't grow up there (or dh grew up there) or your family is from there. Look for someplace where there are more people coming and making friends. Focus on the city level and not the big regional level. It is easy to discount entire regions but cities can be very different within those regions. For example Austin and Savannah are both in the south but have little in common. New Orleans and Atlanta, same thing. All four of those cities are in the south but are all different. I live on the west coast and the cities here are not all super expensive. Focus on cities and go and visit them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.18, 11:35 PM Flag
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OP: Yes, that's good advice, thank you. I am more of a city person and actually have a relative who lives in Atlanta and I loved it there. Thanks [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.18, 11:40 PM Flag
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np. I liked Savannah when I was there, but the regular hurricanes and flooding intimidate me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.18, 11:44 PM Flag
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np: IA with the advice to move somewhere where new people arrive on a regular basis, it will be MUCH easier to make friends. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.18, 12:04 AM Flag
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I’ve posted on here about my mom who moved to St. Louis (dh and I thought we’d be settling there but ended up moving again) and she is having the time of her life. Lived in NY for 60 yrs. still goes back every 6 weeks to see my brother and see clients (she works remotely) but basically just counts down t he minutes till she can come “home.” She has the nicest friends, the most fun social life, and everything is just inexpensive and non crowded, people are courteous, there’s no traffic, etc., but she can still walk everywhere in her neighborhood etc (and ironically she has the most diverse friend group she’s ever had). What about seeing where your dcs end up? I’m sure you can find this in most cities [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.18, 11:45 PM Flag
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Colorado. Arizona. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.18, 11:54 PM Flag
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Idk but I also could not deal with the south [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.18, 12:16 AM Flag
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I have friends who moved from NYC to Tennessee and are very happy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.18, 12:19 AM Flag
[ - ] Do you post gushing or sweet things about your DH on social media? I always thought it was cheesy and overcompensating for something but DH has expressed disappointment that I don’t say nice things about him there. He seems to be a bit insecure and taking social media a bit too seriously recently and I guess he is comparing himself to others too much. I have posted a couple of things and he seems happy but I feel so fake (not because I don’t mean it but because it so isn’t me) 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.23.18, 11:30 PM Flag
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I don’t use social media, so, my condolences! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.18, 11:34 PM Flag
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Ugh, Is your DH in 8th grade? Tell him to get the f*ck off of social media if he's acting like this and so needy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.18, 11:42 PM Flag
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This. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.18, 11:54 PM Flag
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I do not gush about DH on social media. There might be three pics of him but no sweet messages. He doesn’t post anything about me either. No happy birthday, anniversary or holiday messages either. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.18, 11:43 PM Flag
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My DH is opposite and would be embarrassed if I did do this so I can’t relate but don’t fall victim to doing this. Just explain why you don’t to him. How old are you guys? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.23.18, 11:58 PM Flag
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never. happily married since 1986. I have absolutely nothing to prove. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.18, 12:01 AM Flag
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cont'd: neither does he. To be honest. I'm really not attracted to men who feel the need to post on fb. Very insecure. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.24.18, 12:02 AM Flag
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