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[ - ] Catching up on madmen. spoiler question inside 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:23 AM Flag
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What is the name of the actresses who played Peat's affair, who later was beaten up by her husband. She looks so familiar. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:31 AM Flag
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I don't know her name, but she and the guy who plays Peter are engaged irl. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:31 AM Flag
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No, that's the girl he had an affair with in season 5, I want the name of the actress he had an affair with in season 6 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:39 AM Flag
[ - ] What are the top 3 cities you'd like to live in (aside from the one you're in now)? 19 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:22 AM Flag
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Miami, Philly, briarclif [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:25 AM Flag
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I live in Miami. I'm trying desperately to move. :( [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:37 AM Flag
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Why? Miami is awesome - born and raised there! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:31 AM Flag
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Same here! I'm just really tired of the lack of seasons and monotony of heat. I know I'll miss the beach, but I really want to experience some change. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:39 AM Flag
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Gotcha - I've been gone for about 20 years, I'd trade with you! :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:33 AM Flag
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Austin, Santa Cruz, Providence [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:26 AM Flag
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I live in Austin! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:30 AM Flag
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Bethesda, San Francisco, Denver [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:35 AM Flag
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Bethesda sucks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:36 AM Flag
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Really? Why? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:37 AM Flag
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I like Bethesda [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:32 AM Flag
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Bethesda in Maryland? Why???? Where do you live now? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:39 AM Flag
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Miami [ Reply | More ]
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Miami, DC, Los Angeles [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:36 AM Flag
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I love DC. I'd move there in a heartbeat if I had the money. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:39 AM Flag
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San Francisco, Rome, Singapore [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:36 AM Flag
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A costal town on east coast [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:37 AM Flag
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Paris, Telaviv, London [ Reply | More ]
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Santa Monica, Newport Beach, La Jolla [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:34 AM Flag
[ - ] UGH! In bed. DC is asleep for the night. DH pays no attention to me. I am all alone in my room. I miss love sex cuddling and fun! 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:19 AM Flag
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+1. DH is on his computer. I'm sitting here alone. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:22 AM Flag
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I just want to leave and go to a bar! I know awful... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:23 AM Flag
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Why don't you? Seriously. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:37 AM Flag
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me too, this is my life. if you think it's any better divorced or separated, just look at one of those tumblr sites that has all the "winners" on okcupid. no thank you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:31 AM Flag
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this is me. on UB in the bed alone. DH downstairs watching tv. I'm abt to masturbate. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:26 AM Flag
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^ This is how i feel. Iam so jealous of new couples in a restaurant...i feel so alone! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:28 AM Flag
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Makes me sad...and very lonely [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:32 AM Flag
[ - ] There's a TED Talk in which the speaker said that based on research one factor to a long-lasting/happy marriage was for the woman to be better looking and thinner than her spouse. Agree/Disagree? What have you seen in your circle of family and friends? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:17 AM Flag
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That seems based on some archaic idea that women are more vain and men are naturally unfaithful. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:28 AM Flag
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Disagree. The secret to a happy marriage is to have two people committed to their relationship; who genuinely like each other; more importantly - who love themselves; good communicators; intellectual equals. There's a TED talk on everything - just like I can do a 'study' to prove anything I want. The general public is pretty dim - not hard to get a bunch of idiots on a bandwagon. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:29 AM Flag
[ - ] What's a good gift for 9yr old girl? 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:17 AM Flag
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How much do you want to spend? Maybe the book and dvd of Anne of Green Gables? The CBC version is excellent. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:12 AM Flag
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It really depends on the girl. Mine is a geek/nerd. She turned 9 last month - her birthday list was "books." The surprise big hit was a Snap Circuits set - rudimentary electrical engineering. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:16 AM Flag
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Very cool! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:24 AM Flag
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np: Never heard of snap circuits. Just looked it up. What a great gift this will make for my son. Thanks! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:33 AM Flag
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np My 10 yo dd got that for Christmas (the big set--ils bought it). Loves it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:34 AM Flag
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Pandora bracelet - 1 charm? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:22 AM Flag
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no no no no no no no no no vomit [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:37 AM Flag
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Op-50 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:33 AM Flag
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Archeological dig. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:29 AM Flag
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Magic kit; science kit; experience (play - day out - whatever); advanced legos (mini - gears)... all depends on the girl. What's she into? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:31 AM Flag
[ - ] I'm truly lonely on Long Island - I am a square peg in a round hole. I grew up lower middle class. Although I'm comfortable now, I just never quite fit in. Find most of the people here shallow. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:13 AM Flag
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i understand. Invite me over. Im the same. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:20 AM Flag
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Are you on Long Island?? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:20 AM Flag
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np LI is pretty big [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:25 AM Flag
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True but that's not an answer [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:38 AM Flag
[ - ] Yesterday, I got on the subway going back uptown and this youngish white guy got on the subway and proceeded to pass gas (very, um, fragent!) and seemed drunk or high or something. Just holding on to the rail by the door and swaying. Everybody on the train was looking at him as he continued to pass gas. Strangely enough he was dress pretty normally. Didn't seem homeless or anything, that is. He got off the same station as me, swaying as he walked towards the stairs. There were a couple of moments when I thought he was going to fall onto the tracks, he seemed so out of it. We are talking about late afternoon...not really the "normal" time for someone to be in that state...if there is ever a normal time. He didn't seem sick though. Just really drunk or stoned....and smelly! 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:11 AM Flag
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Wow, sounds rather grotesque. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:13 AM Flag
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OP: yeah, it was. But I was also a bit scared for him as he got off the train. I really thought he might fall onto the tracks. But he did make it safely up the stairs. I just wonder--he looked like he was coming home from work--how could he possibly have been that drunk or high at that time of early evening...and he was really pungent... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:28 AM Flag
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New York is a crazy place. A lady once farted in my face during rush hour. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:20 AM Flag
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np You were seated and she was standing, I take it? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:23 AM Flag
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Yes, she farted in my face and then got off the train. It was really loud. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:25 AM Flag
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What did you do!? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:25 AM Flag
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Looked at the lady next to me and we both started laughing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:27 AM Flag
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He must have just moved from San Francisco. We have them all over the place. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:26 AM Flag
[ - ] If we didn't have childcare expenses we could pay off our mortgage in 7 years and I could then SAHM or work pt. We should have baught a bigger place right away rather than a starter apartment. Now I feel trapped 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:11 AM Flag
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Then you would have a bigger mortgage [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:07 AM Flag
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We would have been $250k more for the bigger family apartment. This was13 years ago and if we took a 15 year mortgage we would have been paid off in 2 years. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:21 AM Flag
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I feel the opposite. Should have stated in small space longer and saved money to buy bigger place later. Hate to be house poor. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:08 AM Flag
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OP: prices where much much lower when we baught our starter. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:17 AM Flag
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But didn't you earn less? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:31 AM Flag
[ - ] I don't get tiger moms. Aren't they exhausted from all the pushing and teaching? And, I assume, push back from their kids. It all sounds so darn tiring. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:11 AM Flag
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Oh, they are too self important to get fatigued. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:19 AM Flag
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op: Really? I guess so. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:14 AM Flag
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It is hard work no doubt about it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:23 AM Flag
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Not everybody can do it. I love my tiger mom, hope she can spend as much time as possible with my dc's. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:18 AM Flag
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They live through their children -- to the detriment of both. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:38 AM Flag
[ - ] Did anyone grow up in truly wealthy home where neither parent needed to work? What was it like? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:11 AM Flag
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Hardly, dahling. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:13 AM Flag
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I grew up in a single parent home where my mother was a trust fund baby and never worked. My father paid no child support. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:24 AM Flag
[ - ] Soon to be 38. Never married, have a bf. Can I ask for fertility testing to be done or will Gyn only do it if you're married and have been TTC for a year?? I asked at my last visit but the nurse practitioner gave me a business card for Reproductive specialists and said to ask about sperm donors??!! I was dumb-founded (I am not seeking a "donor", just want to see if I can get an idea of ovarian reserve, etc. are. Will they do this? What tests do you have done? Advice? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:08 AM Flag
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You can get a simple fsh test done. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:20 AM Flag
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Get FSH and AMH [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:17 AM Flag
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You can get fsh and amh blood tests to get an idea of your ovarian reserve and quality. However you never really know until you try. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:26 AM Flag
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OP: thank you! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:37 AM Flag
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Freeze your eggs or sign up for cat herding classes moron,. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:26 AM Flag
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They won't allow you freeze at 38. Moron. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] best pogo stick for 8yo dd? tia. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:02 AM Flag
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Most dangerous things ever. Get her a scooter. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:30 AM Flag
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It's time to get rid of the bubble wrap, they are no worse than most other toys, just use some common sense. OP - DD has a Maverick, bought on Amazon. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:33 AM Flag
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trampoline is better [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] If you are happy in your marriage, what do you think makes your marriage work? What do you think you do right and your dh does right that make it work? 20 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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We like one another, we lust after one another, we have the same values/hopes/goals/parenting style, we are a team, we laugh a lot, and when we fight, we know how to resolve it efficiently without residual damage. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:05 AM Flag
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Well, la-de-da. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:07 AM Flag
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I was just answering the question. My life isn't perfect, but I am happily married and I think these are some of the reasons why [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:08 AM Flag
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how did you meet and how long were you together before you got married? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:10 AM Flag
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We met in our teens. We were together 9 years before we got married and are celebrating 20 years of marriage this year. [ Reply | More ]
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So sweet! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:26 AM Flag
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I used to kind of be embarrassed by the story. But now I embrace it. We were lucky that we realized we had a future so young. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:30 AM Flag
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DH and I met when we were 16, so I understand how you feel. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:26 AM Flag
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I am sure you do! Do you also feel like sixteen feels like yesterday? I can't believe it has been so many years! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:28 AM Flag
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Hi Bryna - How's Jeff? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:29 AM Flag
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give me an example of how you resolve your fight without residual damage. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:08 AM Flag
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We try to always keep on topic and stay focused on what the fight is about without bringing extra crap into it. I grew up in a house where every little fight turned into battle royals where they brought up decades of resentments that had nothing to do with the issue. It taught me a lot. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:11 AM Flag
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^royale [ Reply | More ]
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No score keeping. [ Reply | More ]
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+1. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:18 AM Flag
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We were friends before we married. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:14 AM Flag
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He worships the ground I walk on. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:17 AM Flag
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we work together as at team and have similar values and goals. We are also both homebodies and like spending time as a family. One of us isn't always going out and doing our own thing [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:19 AM Flag
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We like each other and are both fairly reasonable [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:21 AM Flag
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Contrary to popular advice, we WILL go to bed angry. A good night's rest helps to put things in perspective and to see more clearly a resolution. We really like each other, neither of us likes to hold onto anger (whereas my mother and step-dad can give each other the silent treatment for days as a passive aggressive expression of their anger), and we'd much rather see each other happy than be a source of upset. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:37 AM Flag
[ - ] Anyone want to don their tin-foil hats? Best conspiracy theory? 47 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 01:59 AM Flag
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Mine is Beyonce's foldable baby bump. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 01:59 AM Flag
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That was a real fake bump [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:05 AM Flag
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lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:12 AM Flag
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Moon landing. Oldie but a goody. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 01:57 AM Flag
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My ex-husband thinks we never made it to the moon... that it was all a sound stage in Hollywood. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:03 AM Flag
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I do too! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:06 AM Flag
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That Obama has a weather machine. It is the best in the sense that it is so unbelievably out there. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:04 AM Flag
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Lol. I never heard that one. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 01:59 AM Flag
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Alex jones has written about this. He is some kind of conservative nutbag who is now saying the tornado in Oklahoma was a gov't set up. He is insane. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:07 AM Flag
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Wow, I thought even wing nuts knew that weather was pretty much uncontrollable. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:08 AM Flag
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What about the Monarch Butterfly project? I tried reading that shit one time; still can't figure out what the hell it is. [ Reply | More ]
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I don't get why people are saying the Boston bombing was fake. I mean, what is the benefit in faking a bombing at a sporting event? [ Reply | More ]
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Right? Or that report saying that it was done by the government? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:07 AM Flag
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Yep. I just don't see what the gain would be from doing it.. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:09 AM Flag
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Or newtown? [ Reply | More ]
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Wow, I must have been living under a rock! People thought Newton was fake?!?!?!?! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:13 AM Flag
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Yup. A plot to repeal the 2nd amendment. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:28 AM Flag
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That Tom Cruise, thinking he was sterile, had unprotected sex with Katie Holmes on one of their first dates and she was already knocked up when he jumped on Oprah's couch. He shouted that he loved her, but he really wanted to shout, "I knocked her up". She gave birth a few months earlier than they said, hence the long delay in "revealing" suri to the world on the vanity fair cover. Oh, and like beyonce, she wandered around shopping in a giant fake belly/Mumu to give the appearance she was still pregnant when she was really already post-partum. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:08 AM Flag
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Please, that baby was made in a lab. He doesn't have sex with women. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:10 AM Flag
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He is the most asexual human being I have ever witnessed. He seems like a big ball of non-sexual anger. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:11 AM Flag
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I agree. I can't believe he was a sex symbol. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:12 AM Flag
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He was wooing her a d trying to "romance" her to get her to play along. I stand by my theory (even though I don't disagree with your assessment of his sexuality). He had a goal and this was the unexpected by prouduct. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:13 AM Flag
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Yeah, doesn't he hold "interviews" for his next girlfriend? He is super duper creepy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:14 AM Flag
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OR: yup. He was wooing various you g Hollywood starlets at the time in a desperate attempt to stay relevant to the younger demographic so his Q rating would stay high and he could sell movie tickets. I really think that she was already pregnant when he jumped on the couch. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:18 AM Flag
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That baby is ivf [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:27 AM Flag
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See, the reason I don't believe that is that I really think he is (for all intents and purposes) sterile. That is why is think he divorced Nicole. I think that her failed pregnancy was his baby, but he was convinced she was cheating because he thought he was impotent. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:32 AM Flag
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The whole illuminati thing. It is has been a conspiracy theory for almost 100 years now. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:11 AM Flag
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Lol. Growing up, my best friend's mom was a member of the Free Masons. Them people be CRAY-CRAY [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:14 AM Flag
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My grandfather was too, I think it was just a bunch of business owners in silly hats. He just did it for business connections. [ Reply | More ]
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This one is totally true though: "Fox News broadcasts invisible signals that affect your sense of smell. [ Reply | More ]
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Is that why I always smell bullshit when I flip past that channel? [ Reply | More ]
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I think I love you. [ Reply | More ]
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Or this one "J. Edgar Hoover created a hit squad made up entirely of homosexuals" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:13 AM Flag
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That Tom cruise is gay. People have no facts to support this but keep saying it.i think calling someone gay because you dont like them is using the word gay like an insult. It's not an insult to be gay so if you don't like him that's fine but saying he is gay based on your "gaydar" says more about you than him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:19 AM Flag
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I don't think he's gay at all. I think the only thing that can get Tom Cruise off is Tom Cruise. That man is not interested in any other human being. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:15 AM Flag
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Yeah. Like Liberace and his failed love affair with Betty White [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:18 AM Flag
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SHUT UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:27 AM Flag
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And Roie O'Donnell in love with Tom Cruise. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:29 AM Flag
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Oh my god, I remember that. On her stupid talk show. HAHAHAHAHAHA. I love this thread. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:27 AM Flag
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I like him, but he is gay and revealed this in auditing. Like John Travolta. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:15 AM Flag
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And now he can never ever leave Scientology. [ Reply | More ]
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There were some rumors that John Travolta's son died from an epileptic seizure that they refused to treat because they do not believe in medication. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:28 AM Flag
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That's fact. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:29 AM Flag
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I think most Scientologists are either gay or else hiding some other huge secret. There is no way so many people in Hollywood could believe in aliens. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:21 AM Flag
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Quarter water was used to spread aids in the black community or it makes you sterile. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:38 AM Flag
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I just looked up quarter water and it took me to a 50 cent website. Priceless. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:33 AM Flag
[ - ] DH annoys me. We are closing on a new apartment in a few weeks and agreed to watch our spending since it is costing us so much money (not buying a place we can't afford but the closing costs are so damn high). We agreed not to get many babysitters and to eat at home more since nights out can get so expensive. So now we never have real plans, just staying at home, so when his annoying friends ask if he is free for dinner/drinks, he always is. Somehow it has turned into us saving money by not getting a babysitter and me staying at home while he goes out and has fun. He always asks me if it is ok and I say yes but it bothers me. I do go out with my friends occasionally but everyone has young kids and it gets hard to do it too often. DH's friends are all child free so always want to go out. Need to rant because I am stuck home on a rainy night eating leftovers while he is out to dinner somewhere good. 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 01:58 AM Flag
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Put the kids t bed early so they get up super early tomorrow just in time or daddy's hangover [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 01:54 AM Flag
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Isn't him going out to dinner costing you $? I must be missing something [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:04 AM Flag
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Yes but much less since they go somewhere cheap and we don't have to pay a sitter. still, DH's logic is somewhat flawed [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:10 AM Flag
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I would love to go out to cheap dinner by myself to relax. Maybe you should do that next Friday and let him stay home [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:13 AM Flag
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this is really not fair. i would be super pissed and call him out on it. [ Reply | More ]
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np: this! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:06 AM Flag
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Not cool. Not cool at all. Make plans tomorrow night before his friends can snatch him up. How can he possibly say no if you've been so gracious? And you need to save money, so of course, no babysitters. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:09 AM Flag
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Your dh is acting thoughtless and selfish. I would not put up with this from dh. Can you find a way to express your concerns about saving without pointing the finger at him? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:04 AM Flag
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Why is he so clueless? I'd say you trade off each week on going out with friends. If you've got no plans, you can stay home. If he wants your night, make him understand it's saving you BOTH money and he can go out next week. Staying home is not the end of one's existence but in NYC it feels like it is sometimes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.25.13, 02:10 AM Flag
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