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[ - ] DH here...want to chat? 15 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 05:59 AM Flag
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E or W Coast? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 05:59 AM Flag
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W [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 06:00 AM Flag
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north or south? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 06:02 AM Flag
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Where is DW? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 06:00 AM Flag
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Asleep [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 06:00 AM Flag
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What did you do today? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 06:00 AM Flag
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Spent time w/ family. Hosted some cray-cray folks too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 06:01 AM Flag
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How did you select your wife? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 06:07 AM Flag
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Select is a strong word. I fell in love with her b/c she's smart, caring, and attractive. I think she would say something similar about me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 06:17 AM Flag
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Would you ever let your dcs have a male nanny? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 06:16 AM Flag
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Yes. Why not? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 06:17 AM Flag
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Most male nannies are pedophiles...think about it, what kind of man would want to take care of dcs not his own? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 06:21 AM Flag
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You're mistaken. You have a narrow view of men. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 06:23 AM Flag
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Based on what [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 06:48 AM Flag
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dick size? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 07:06 AM Flag
[ - ] DH seems to be highly functioning alcoholic. I would not even mind him drinking so much than the fact that he is angry and yells many evenings. He wakes up and is happy and acts like we are happy and wonderful. He does not black out and remembers but says I provoke and nag him. Anyone know a good website to deal with this? My new strategy has been to just stop talking and go to bed or if in car just refuse to talk since it is not helpful to try to reason with his anger. 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 05:34 AM Flag
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op: Please help! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 05:44 AM Flag
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Please describe yourself. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 05:58 AM Flag
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op: Mellow and too accepting [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 06:02 AM Flag
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How do you know that? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 06:03 AM Flag
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op: From what I understand it is common knowledge in general group of friends I have had for 20 yrs. I am the "easy" person that does not get offended, lets people off the hook and tries to be the middleman when friends don't get along. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 06:15 AM Flag
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Ah, so you ignore your feelings and act in A/P ways? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 06:20 AM Flag
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op: What is A/P? If that means passive-agressive than no. Lots of the bullshit that my friends get mad at each other about I don't think is important as adults. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 06:27 AM Flag
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Do you nag? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 06:04 AM Flag
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op: Absolutely. Basic things though. Like "please don't belch or yell at me in front of the kids as you are setting a bad example." [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 06:10 AM Flag
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He is an alcoholic and the problem is that alcohol is a depressant. He feels OK at first, but at night as the sugar in the alcohol wears off he gets low blood sugar and acts like a dick. You will probably get divorced. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 06:34 AM Flag
[ - ] Anyone know why more males than females have Asperger's? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 05:24 AM Flag
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Dna [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 05:27 AM Flag
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It's genetic. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 05:33 AM Flag
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op: I know but does that mean that there is more mutations on the Y gene or there is something on the extra leg of X that helps women? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 05:36 AM Flag
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Males in general have more defects that females. It's estimated that there are 87 normal males for every 100 normal males. That's part of the reason that women have such a hard time finding decent men. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 06:35 AM Flag
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Meant 87 normal males for every 100 normal females. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 07:12 AM Flag
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The autism genes are on the Y chromosome. All boys have them. The autism genes in females haven't been found yet but they are not on the X chromosome. Because girls have two X chromosomes, if there is a deficit on one X, the other X can plug that hole. The Y chromosome is the smaller more fragile one, while the X chromosome carries much more information, or genes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 06:13 AM Flag
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Then no girls should ever have autism. But they do [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 06:16 AM Flag
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There are 30 million genes. They aren't all on the gender chromeosomes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 06:20 AM Flag
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Yes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 06:35 AM Flag
[ - ] All the mothers at my daughter's school are gossiping about this rather strange couple. Both are in their mid twenties and have a daughter going into first grade. The husband is ridiculously attractive, and while the mom is pretty she is not particularly beautiful. He is very well dressed, while she seems to buy 90% of her wardrobe from Forever 21. We all dismissed this, but over the summer another mom had a playdate at their home and discovered that they lived in a very expensive apartment. Googling revealed that the home was worth 15 MILLION dollars and it was actually purchased by the husband. The husband is a SAHD and the mother works for the city... no amount of research reveals any ties to family money. 26 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 04:29 AM Flag
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Anyways, some of the other mothers made the claim that the woman got knocked up and that is why they are married. So one of my friends pried a little bit with the dad and he was very dodgy about his family, but apparently they both went to HYP. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 04:31 AM Flag
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Why are you all talking about me and snooping into the labels of my clothes? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 04:33 AM Flag
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He doesn't want you snooping. God, what is your problem? No wonder he's dodging. He doesn't want a bunch of busybodies asking nosy questions. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 05:35 AM Flag
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So they had a child when they were in college? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 04:32 AM Flag
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Yes, around senior year of college I figure. How that leads to a 15 million dollar apartment, I have no idea. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 04:34 AM Flag
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Is he foreign? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 04:39 AM Flag
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Would he have married her if she did not get pg? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 04:51 AM Flag
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I don't know them that well, but I assume they got married because she got pregnant. Their daughter is very smart and absolutely adorable, for what it's worth. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 04:53 AM Flag
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His mom is Norwegian, but he was born in the US. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 04:52 AM Flag
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Where did his parents make the money to gift him an apartment like that [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 04:52 AM Flag
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That is the question, there is nothing on the internet about him or his family that would lead me to believe he has that kind of money. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 04:54 AM Flag
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You sound crazy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 04:58 AM Flag
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This! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 05:17 AM Flag
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This happens. women tey to find out which guys have family money, and then they try to have an oops baby, Many wealthy guys will marry a woman who claims she unexpectedly got pregnat [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 04:39 AM Flag
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This. If the family has money they will gift a nice apartment as a wedding present [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 04:40 AM Flag
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Top Tier guys are willing to date women they would never marry, but if she gets pregnant they will marry her. this billionaire married an airhead that had an oops baby. they took the baby to the wedding. http://pagesix.com/2015/07/27/playmate-hope-dworaczyk-marries-billionaire-tech-investor/ [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 04:42 AM Flag
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Ugh. I hope this is fake. It's such a stereotype of the private school gossips who hang out in the lobby of the school after drop off and eye the people who are coming and going while whispering about them. I would hate to imagine what you're saying about me as I run out the door on the way to work. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 04:53 AM Flag
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Right? What a bunch of creeps. Ick. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 05:38 AM Flag
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Does he seem to like her. Maybe--gasp--he fell in love with her personality. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 04:54 AM Flag
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Exactly. Super handsome guys have their pick of women. They often aren't as superficial as average looking guys. They aren't as fixated on looks. I have an ex who was/is super handsome. His wife is pretty but not as good-looking. Guess what, they get along great and have lovely kids. God women can be such asses. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 05:39 AM Flag
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Why do you think you would be able to research family money? An old grandma dies and leaves an inheritance to her grandson. This would hardly make the news. What kind of "research" did you do? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 05:33 AM Flag
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maybe they are drug dealers. cocaine market is very lucrative [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 05:33 AM Flag
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god, get a hobby. And how the f do you know what stores a woman buys her clothes from? If you are able to tell this, then you spend way too much time at the mall [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 05:34 AM Flag
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Man, people are so creepy. Look at you all up in their business. Why do you care? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 05:34 AM Flag
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I'm confused as to why you think an inheritance is something you can research. It's not public record. Unless you're hired private forensic accountants to dig into this family's tax returns which I'm pretty sure is illegal, then how on earth would you think an inheritance can be something you research on google? My inheritance was certainly never in the news, and it was more than 15 million [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 05:52 AM Flag
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This. I want to know more about op's creepy research. Op, did you hire a genealogist or something? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 05:53 AM Flag
[ - ] All these anti abortion people piss me off, they claim to care about life but complain about paying taxes to support these kids. 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 04:18 AM Flag
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i hate anti abortion moms [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 04:28 AM Flag
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I hate one friend that was and I gave her the book feakonomics (sp?) and now she's pro choice. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 04:30 AM Flag
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Have not hate [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 04:30 AM Flag
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Who? OR or her friend? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 04:46 AM Flag
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They don't believe in premarital sex. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 04:30 AM Flag
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They don't believe but it happens. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 04:32 AM Flag
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They're solution is, don't have sex. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 04:37 AM Flag
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That solution very obviously does not work. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 04:53 AM Flag
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Yup. Saw a quote that said they are pro birth, not pro life. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 05:20 AM Flag
[ - ] gained 2 pounds of water in one day due to PMS. What do I do to get rid of it?? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 04:12 AM Flag
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just wait. who cares. it's 2 pounds and will be gone soon. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 04:20 AM Flag
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I always gain about 5 pounds during PMS, then they miraculously disappear! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 04:45 AM Flag
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It's so lovely to be a woman! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 05:40 AM Flag
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I gain FIVE pounds, but I go up day, and it's all gone the next. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 06:14 AM Flag
[ - ] At what age does it make sense to start tennis lessons for kids? My almost-6yo is very interested in playing (dh and I both played as youths and play VERY casually now), but I feel like it's kind of young. 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 03:59 AM Flag
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If you live in nyc there are free tennis clinics all over the city. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 04:02 AM Flag
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Yes, I realize that - but that doesn't answer my question. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 04:02 AM Flag
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Six is a great time to start just having fun. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 04:05 AM Flag
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Ok, thanks. I'll look into it for the fall. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 04:06 AM Flag
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Go to Arthur Ashe family day, it's free and has a lot of great tennis courses. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 04:07 AM Flag
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Great idea, thanks!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 04:36 AM Flag
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My son started at 5. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 05:20 AM Flag
[ - ] 37 y/o mom of two...DH just bought me a Coach bag as a gift. Is this bad? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 03:41 AM Flag
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Is it logo'd all over ? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 03:42 AM Flag
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Op: no, just plain color. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 03:49 AM Flag
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So why bad? Sweet... And not too bad interns of fashion. DH never buys me anything... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 03:56 AM Flag
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Op: it is sweet. I just wasn't sure if this was stylish or not. I remember buying these bags in my 20's. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 04:00 AM Flag
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Mine did too. I use it on weekends when no one is around to make him.happy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 03:44 AM Flag
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Lol. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 03:49 AM Flag
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At least it's real. DH bought me knock off birkin from china and he keeps asking when I'm going to use this lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 03:45 AM Flag
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Gym bag [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 03:51 AM Flag
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My GF bought a fake Coach bag and thinks it's real because she paid almost real money. She shows it off and brags to everyone, and it's a fake COACH. Nobody has told her yet, but I think everyone knows. She got so ripped off. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 06:17 AM Flag
[ - ] What is it with people making nosy comments about your family and life choices? I am 32, have 3 kids and absolutely no intention of having nay more. Yet people are always saying "Oh, never say never" or "you're so young you should not close that door". One of the obs in my practice refused to tie my tubes (another let me sign the paperwork but I ended up having a natural birth so didn't have a tubal and dh had a vasectomy). Why is it anyone's business but my own?!?! 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 03:34 AM Flag
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^^ sorry, ANY more! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 03:35 AM Flag
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Most likely they are older than you, have more experience, and don't want you to make a decision you'll regret. I'm 40, do you know how many people I know who tried to get reversals and failed? How many tell me eveytime I see then they wish they could have had one more...A LOT. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 03:37 AM Flag
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Perhaps, but not everyone is the same. I had horrible pregnancies and am not sure i could survive another. I think 3 kids is plenty and don't have the desire to raise any more! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 03:57 AM Flag
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So dh had a vasectomy. However it is not wrong of the doctors to deny it to you. There is always birth control as well. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 05:43 AM Flag
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Do they already have three? Three is a lot, even if you're done by 32. Also, however they might feel it is none of their business what OP chooses to do. Can't stand it when people comment on life choices like that. I am 35 and one and done (DH had vasectomy already) and when people ask if I'll have another I just say we'll see because I don't want to face the inevitable questions. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 05:36 AM Flag
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You're too sensitive. This wouldn't bother me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 03:42 AM Flag
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Liability. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 04:21 AM Flag
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Where do you live? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 05:36 AM Flag
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Well, I know a couple who lost a child. They had 3 kids. The husband had had a vasectomy and they tried to reverse it so they could have another. They even tried to get the sperm directly and it didn't work. They were devastated twice. I am 50 and I would never have had my dh get a vasectomy. If I died, I would want him to have the possibility of having more children. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 05:42 AM Flag
[ - ] I am struggling with abortion. I think I am still pro choice but after 2 dc and 3 miscarriages it upsets me. Why can't everyone just be in favor of comprehensive sex Ed, access to birth control, emergency contraception etc so abortions are way less frequent? Doesn't that benefit everyone? 21 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 03:18 AM Flag
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I agree with you but you have to understand that many people are just too stupid and or impulsive and or lazy to use birth control. abortion is the only answer [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 03:23 AM Flag
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I get it. But I wish people weren't too lazy to use bcp [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 03:29 AM Flag
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BC is not 100% effective. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 05:21 AM Flag
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If you research it, you will find that women with the smarts and organizational skills to succeed have few abortions while the dysfunctional drug addicted women have dozens of abortions [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 03:24 AM Flag
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this [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 03:25 AM Flag
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It's a personal decision. You need not worry yourself about what other women do. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 03:27 AM Flag
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Pssst. It's not really about preventing abortion as an end in itself. It's about preventing women having sex outside marrisge. The anti abortion thing just means that pregnancy can be used as a punishment. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 03:29 AM Flag
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You can be in favor of all those things. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 03:32 AM Flag
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I have a DC partly because I could not abort when I should have. I love her to pieces. But my ex left me when I was pregnant and after what I went through with him during the pregnancy I am even more pro-choice than ever. No one should have to gestate and bear a child they dont want, even those who got pregnant intentionally. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 03:33 AM Flag
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I am you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 03:41 AM Flag
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Sorry to hear. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 03:50 AM Flag
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9 out of 10 abortions take place before 12mo. The majority of those by 8 weeks.. before there is a heartbeat or nervous system and if you research women who are able to care for their children are not getting abortions. women in abusive environments, on drugs, uneducated etc.. are getting abortions. If you look at the hundreds of thousands of children in the foster care system suffering childhoods of horrendous abuse - I don't think we should force more uneducated drug addicted women to contribute more children to the fostercare system. You are not the demo. the worst shit you can imagine is. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 03:33 AM Flag
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The ones before 12 weeks are the more palatable ones. But abortion is and should remain legal until viability for good reasons. Dont hide behind the easier to like cases. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 03:46 AM Flag
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Heartbeat is at 5 weeks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 04:07 AM Flag
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studies show that free birth control is the best way to prevent abortions. At the very least birth control should be over the counter and not require a prescription. California and Oregon recently passed laws on birth control no longer requiring a prescription from a doctor, you just get a blood pressure screening at the pharmacy from the pharmacist and then take your birth control. Not sure how much this will cost though. If want the minimum possible number of abortions, then over the counter birth control is the way to go. Free over the counter birth control would be even more ideal. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 03:38 AM Flag
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While true this is really not the point. You are never going to prevent every poorly conceived pregnancy. If someone wakes up during it and realizes it was a mistake, thabk god there is a way out. Shit happens. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 03:53 AM Flag
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I would be in favor of offering government subsidies for low income teens to get long acting birth control implants if they so desire [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 03:38 AM Flag
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These exist. -MD mom [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 03:53 AM Flag
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link? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 04:11 AM Flag
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Why only low-income? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 04:56 AM Flag
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Because some are against contraception at all on moral grounds, to three think Iud or plan b are abortions, I'm in favor of all the above being cheap and available and that is how you cut down on abortions. Then if one passes the goal keeper or there is a physical issue or abuse, then abortion is the right choice [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 03:54 AM Flag
[ - ] I have no energy and always need to nap can this be because I take antidepressants and anti anxiety meds and they make me really tired? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 03:17 AM Flag
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Yes..could also be bc you are anxious and depressed though. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 03:33 AM Flag
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Have you checked your thyroid levels? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 03:48 AM Flag
[ - ] A dead lion? Oh no! Planned Parenthood butchers infants for money? HEY NOW MY BABY ABSOLUTELY SHOULD DIE IF IT THREATENS MY CONVENIENCE, IT'S MY BABY AND I CAN KILL IT IF I WANT lol liberals 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 03:15 AM Flag
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Zzzzzz [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 03:17 AM Flag
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Lol conservatives who believe in no abortion bit no help for kids once they're born into bad circumstances, or for the mothers who bear them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.15, 03:48 AM Flag
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