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05.20.13, 06:10 AM
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We're not quite that range but started out with lower priced apartment and worked our way up. We at one point did have a jumbo mortgage on our current property (I guess it still may be but balance is below 500k) but even with that plus interest, the monthly was still much cheaper than renting. We currently have a 2500$ monthly. You need to save or work your way up.
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05.20.13, 06:55 AM
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We baught a 1.2mm apartment with HHI of 280k. We put down all we made on our smaller apartment sale so our mortgade is 550K with 1,600 maint+tax. Every penny we put down is self made. It is a lot of mortgage to have on our income but we couldn't afford to rent our apartment. I see our apartment as part of our savings plan.
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05.20.13, 09:59 AM
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We bought a smaller house first (395K), renovated it, sold for more and used the equity to fund the downpayment on the bigger house. DH and I between us made 300K at the time
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05.20.13, 10:10 AM
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We have a HHI of 180 & bought a house for 580k, putting in 40k of renovations at the start. We were both big savers (always rented below our means and worked hard for OT/bonuses). It helped that DH had no school loans from his parents paying for his schools & we also spent very little on our wedding, maybe 8k.
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05.20.13, 10:52 AM
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We are a different case - our HHI was always lower than average, but my dh was an awesome saver and lived at home until 28 - he was able to buy a place and had stock that appreciated and bought a 1 bedroom for 250k in 1998. Sold it for 560k in 2004 then moved into a 750k apt. Sold that for 800k then moved into a 1.3 million apt - Dh - also sold his business in the interim which was life changing for us. We are still pretty frugal and have enough cash for a bigger apt. but are waiting until kids are older. Our income has always been barely 200k. My short answer to your question would be savings. Our mortgage is around 600k but it makes sense for us with interest deductions and lifestyle due to savings cushion.
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05.20.13, 11:14 AM
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Save save save, live below our means. We don't spend a penny we don't have to. We make $150K and are looking at spending around $550k max right now. - We can't really afford anything more than that. I'd like to keep the mortgage at no higher than $350k, which means we'd put down more than 20%.
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05.20.13, 11:41 AM
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05.20.13, 03:34 AM
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Total no sequitur, and believe me I feel for you, but I hate when people say "on my period."
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05.20.13, 03:35 AM
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np why? genuinely curious
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05.20.13, 03:36 AM
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Just sounds old school in a gross way. Like something Tony Soprono would say to Carmella
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05.20.13, 03:37 AM
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what should people say instead
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05.20.13, 03:39 AM
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Have my period. Time of the month.
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05.20.13, 03:43 AM
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Have my period sounds worse
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05.20.13, 04:22 AM
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np: like standing "on line" ?
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05.20.13, 03:37 AM
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I have never heard anyone say that
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05.20.13, 03:38 AM
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Plus a tampon
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05.20.13, 03:39 AM
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lol
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05.20.13, 03:42 AM
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This is me.
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05.20.13, 03:31 AM
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me too
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05.20.13, 03:54 AM
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Me too, but add with wet hair and clothes on
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05.20.13, 04:23 AM
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05.20.13, 03:32 AM
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Insist = rape
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05.20.13, 03:35 AM
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Plus it's tighter than most those little whores vag's.
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05.20.13, 03:35 AM
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So what is the motivation for anal in hs?
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05.20.13, 03:36 AM
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same
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05.20.13, 03:40 AM
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I worked with Muslim teen boys and heard that was a common practice.
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05.20.13, 03:42 AM
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Help me understand. Muslim teen boys doing anal w muslim girls or christian girls? Who was the bottom
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05.20.13, 03:39 AM
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They do it for a different reason, they do each other, then search through their crap looking for their God, believing God will be born of Man...true story.
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05.20.13, 03:39 AM
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Muslim boys do anal with other muslim boys? Not w girls? The georgians in boston were not doing that
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05.20.13, 03:40 AM
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Strange how they sure were comfortable with the butt sex, eh?
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05.20.13, 03:47 AM
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OR: No! They do it with Muslim girls, who must preserve their virginity.
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05.20.13, 03:54 AM
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It doesn't really work... the girls let the semen dribble down into their vag or even worse scoop is out and put it in.
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05.20.13, 03:52 AM
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Seriously? You are nuts.
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05.20.13, 03:59 AM
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Google it. A girl born with no vagina still got pregnant with sperm from blow job. Look it up. Knife fight leads ro blowjob pregnancy
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05.20.13, 04:08 AM
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DH keeps suggesting it as birth control. Sigh
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05.20.13, 04:24 AM
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05.20.13, 03:28 AM
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I understand.
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05.20.13, 03:23 AM
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That is the benefit of living in a doorman building. No awkward moments
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05.20.13, 03:24 AM
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Except all the small talk you have to make with your doorman
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05.20.13, 03:25 AM
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Lol
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05.20.13, 04:25 AM
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call 911
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05.20.13, 03:24 AM
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This.
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05.20.13, 03:36 AM
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can you call non emergency police number and ask if they can send anyone to help?
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05.20.13, 03:30 AM
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I definitely wouldn't go back outside, no.
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05.20.13, 03:31 AM
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no, don't go outside.
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05.20.13, 03:33 AM
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if he was black you would've screamed louder
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05.20.13, 03:29 AM
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True but not polite. Not at all
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05.20.13, 03:29 AM
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He probably was throwing out a body.
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05.20.13, 03:30 AM
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uh oh and now OP is a witness
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05.20.13, 03:32 AM
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Tomorrow's headlines: body parts found in UWS building. You already know who the eye witness is.
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05.20.13, 03:40 AM
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This is always how a Law and Order starts. If this was an episode, you would just have a bit part.
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05.20.13, 03:39 AM
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or that movie Bedroom Window...they saw a murder happen outside the window and the murderer saw them see him and kept coming after them.
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05.20.13, 03:37 AM
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I just googled it--that's not the plot at all (I remembered it wrong). sorry!
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05.20.13, 03:45 AM
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How much blood? Definitely sounds like a can collector but you should have been able to see the bag of cans.
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05.20.13, 04:09 AM
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Was there a garbage truck??
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05.20.13, 04:26 AM
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Probably killing rats and dogs for his restaurant.
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05.20.13, 04:36 AM
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05.20.13, 03:28 AM
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Russian girls are nokd
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05.20.13, 03:33 AM
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+10000000000000000000000
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05.20.13, 03:38 AM
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Nokd?
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05.20.13, 04:26 AM
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Anyone can get a tourist visa
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05.20.13, 03:43 AM
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Student or tourist visa, but they overstay
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05.20.13, 03:38 AM
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This
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05.20.13, 03:39 AM
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This. No visa enforcement in US. Everyone knows it.
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05.20.13, 10:35 AM
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link?
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05.20.13, 03:48 AM
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Are you serious? This article is from 2010.
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05.20.13, 05:35 AM
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they aren't looking to get pregnant--they're looking for a ring. And they've got plenty to offer in the transaction.
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05.20.13, 04:44 AM
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They will settle for a baby. With oodles of child support.
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05.20.13, 10:35 AM
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One snagged my brother. Now I have a Russian SIL. He never knew what hit him.
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05.20.13, 10:50 AM
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Tell us more!
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05.20.13, 11:16 AM
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05.20.13, 03:18 AM
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Spammy.
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05.20.13, 03:14 AM
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not quite, but thanks for playing. There are always posters here asking for new books. I'm one of them.
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05.20.13, 03:25 AM
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There's a black guy in 50 shades of grey?
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05.20.13, 03:21 AM
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no, but there's a whole industry of books like that with black protagonists that sell very well, especially to young black women. Some of them are horribly written, though - like the original 50 Shades of Grey.
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05.20.13, 03:26 AM
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You're not very eloquent about promoting your book
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05.20.13, 03:23 AM
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oh, give it a rest.
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05.20.13, 03:31 AM
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^I mean, seriously, if I was an author - which I am not - and my book just got featured as a "Book of the Times" and the review just placed online this evening, do you think I'd be diddling around wasting time spamming it on UrbanBaby? Really? SMH.
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05.20.13, 03:33 AM
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np - The writer's photo is currently on the home page of the New York Times website along with a headline about her book. In her shoes, I'd be getting hella drunk right now and texting every damn person I know, lol. I sure wouldn't be on UB! That's small time.
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05.20.13, 04:03 AM
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she talked about the flaws, it's not her book, and you are a bitch.
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05.20.13, 03:32 AM
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thank you. I hate it when you try to talk about books here and get accused of being the author. I had someone accuse me of being Donna Tartt once because I wrote something nice about The Secret History.
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05.20.13, 03:39 AM
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Love Chimimanda.
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05.20.13, 03:38 AM
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Me too. I love Chimamanda.
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05.20.13, 03:59 AM
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Thx, knew I had spelling wrong. She is brilliant.
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05.20.13, 04:09 AM
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That sounds like the most boring book I could possibly think of. Pass.
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05.20.13, 10:51 AM
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05.20.13, 03:16 AM
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It's never funny
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05.20.13, 03:24 AM
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Did u read below about the 45 year old man financially raped this way?
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05.20.13, 03:21 AM
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Please don't use the word "raped" this way. What was done to that man was truly terrible but using the word rape as slang is offensive to rape victims and lends itself to rape culture.
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05.20.13, 04:40 AM
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I don't agree. Women can use this method to fraudulently steal as much as 35% of a man's post tax livelihood. Losing more than a third of your life is very reasonably compared to a brutal assault. At least one can be recovered from.
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05.20.13, 09:24 AM
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a ho stole your son's sperm?
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05.20.13, 03:20 AM
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Horrible. This little grifter just wantes the money. Now she gets cash for 18 years
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05.20.13, 03:22 AM
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He should've bag it!!!!
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05.20.13, 03:35 AM
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Bagged
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05.20.13, 03:36 AM
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Oh god, this is a fear I have for my ds. I'm sorry if this is what you are going through. How old is your ds?
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05.20.13, 03:29 AM
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Talk to the nurse at your child's school. This is more common than you realize. Kids getting kids pregnant
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05.20.13, 03:25 AM
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If they are where I live, they are getting abortions, because no one leaves school before graduation or has baby.
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05.20.13, 10:37 AM
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Fake fake fakety fake fake.
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05.20.13, 03:29 AM
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Huge teen pregnancy problem. Dont u watch teen mom ?
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05.20.13, 03:25 AM
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On mtv ? Girls want babies
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05.20.13, 03:25 AM
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They get knocked up out of stupidity and carelessness, not an elaborate plot to trap your son.
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05.20.13, 03:35 AM
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Are u refering to girls on the show or in manhattan
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05.20.13, 03:30 AM
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Both. You are kidding yourself if you think it is on purpose.
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05.20.13, 03:39 AM
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Just saw Farrah Abraham take James Dean in the butt...nasty bitch took EIGHT fingers up her narly pussy, Sick!
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05.20.13, 03:36 AM
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True. But it is spelled gnarly
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05.20.13, 03:32 AM
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Ewwww either way.
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05.20.13, 03:38 AM
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She is a skank, hopefully not the norm
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05.20.13, 03:39 AM
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Pg
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05.20.13, 03:34 AM
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This is why we need a male BC pill.
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05.20.13, 04:02 AM
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Thank you.
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05.20.13, 04:31 AM
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Uhh, they're called condoms. Not like males would ever be responsible enough to take a pill every day anyway.
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05.20.13, 05:44 AM
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No condoms aren't safe enough. There have been women who've lifted them from the trash and impregnated themselves.
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05.20.13, 11:17 AM
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Spermicide or take it with you.
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05.20.13, 11:42 AM
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That is quite an accusation. What makes you so sure that was her intent?
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05.20.13, 04:31 AM
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I'm sorry, but any man who is dumb enough to let this happen needs his head examined. I'm not just talking about being responsible enough to use protection, but also in vetting out the golddiggers attempting to make this happen. It is so not hard to see, and if a guy can just think with his brain and not his cock, he should never run into this dilemma.
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05.20.13, 05:49 AM
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Hello!
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05.20.13, 11:33 AM
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I don't think it is funny, and I only have girls.
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05.20.13, 10:36 AM
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05.20.13, 03:15 AM
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No.
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Vomits
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05.20.13, 03:25 AM
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No. Do you know this is a "magical" place in many mermaid/barbie books right now?
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05.20.13, 03:19 AM
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it's also the continent that Australia and New Zealand are on
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05.20.13, 03:17 AM
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Oceania
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05.20.13, 03:29 AM
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05.20.13, 03:13 AM
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Pronounced: "crap"
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05.20.13, 03:19 AM
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I like "Alasia" better
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05.20.13, 03:14 AM
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lol, just lol
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Olympia
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The airline onLOST
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05.20.13, 03:30 AM
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Sorry, you sound black.
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05.20.13, 03:32 AM
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Very
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05.20.13, 04:55 AM
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O'sheawna
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Worst name ever
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