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[ - ] My sis has been a SAHM for 6 years. My BIL is high earning but lost his job last month. It's a tough industry and he isn't finding a new position as easily as he initially expected and he is being pretty picky -- doesn't want to drop in seniority or change fields. Last night he told my sis that he thinks she should go back to work for now. (Her field is always in demand). They got in a huge fight last night and he stormed out. How do i advise her? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:25 PM Flag
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myob. tough! [ Reply | More ]
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To clarify, he was told he would be laid off 5 months ago but his termination went into effect last month. [ Reply | More ]
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If I was in this position, I'd go back until my DH could find a job. Who knows how long it will take, but if she can get some kind of income coming in, I bet it would help alleviate a lot of the stress her DH is feeling right now [ Reply | More ]
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She thinks that they should just ride it out on severance which isn't much and savings but he doesn't want to destroy their savings especially with no leads [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:28 PM Flag
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I think your bil is being smart, and your sister is a little delusional. At some point if your bil can't find a job, he might have to take a hit in seniority or change fields but for now if I was her, I'd step up for my family. [ Reply | More ]
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Why didn't she step up to the plate right away? I presume she's a nurse? Why couldn't she just pick up a few shifts here and there to show that she is a contributing member of her family and not just a leech who retired in her 30s. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:29 PM Flag
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Tell her to go back to work [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:27 PM Flag
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I wouldn't get involved with this. If she asks for your opinion, I would just ask if they have a plan. [ Reply | More ]
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if we don't know how much he earned, or they saved and their spending habits, its hard to give advice. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Giada and her cleavage. Ugh. It's daytime TV Giada! 26 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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SAHM? [ Reply | More ]
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your jelly is showing. [ Reply | More ]
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No, but she manages to find these cleavage shirts. It's so obvious. [ Reply | More ]
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prude then. [ Reply | More ]
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Lol [ Reply | More ]
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Do you think she's on TV because of her cooking? [ Reply | More ]
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Lol, this. [ Reply | More ]
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men watch food network? [ Reply | More ]
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^^ during the day? [ Reply | More ]
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lol [ Reply | More ]
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Good God. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:27 PM Flag
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ITA [ Reply | More ]
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Have never been able to tolerate. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:16 PM Flag
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She really gets around. I'm surprised more people don't realize it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:17 PM Flag
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What does that mean? [ Reply | More ]
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She's been ridden more than Seattle Slew. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:19 PM Flag
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I've heard this too. Don't know how true it is, though. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:20 PM Flag
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A friend works for The Food Network. Her nickname is Blowjob Queen. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:22 PM Flag
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CDAN! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:26 PM Flag
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I have heard this as well. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:28 PM Flag
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It's a distraction from her short little arms [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:19 PM Flag
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t-rex arms? [ Reply | More ]
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And giant head. She has a funny little body. [ Reply | More ]
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Agree. The proportions are off. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:24 PM Flag
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[ - ] I have to have a colonoscopy and the doctor works out of Carnegie Outpatient Center. A little nervous that it's not a hospital. Has anyone had a procedure done there? Also doctor is giving Properol (sp?). Is this general anesthesia or twilight? I don't want to be all the way out. Thanks. 35 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:09 PM Flag
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Propofol is sometimes called the "milk of amnesia," because of its milky color. You will be asleep, but since it titrates very quickly, you will wake up feeling rested, and not dopey as you would with an opiate. Perfectly safe in the right hands, which does not include the guy who gave it to Michael Jackson. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:11 PM Flag
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I'm OR from below. I was given rohypnol, not propofol. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:25 PM Flag
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Can't your doctor answer you question about anesthesia? [ Reply | More ]
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PP - IME, you don't meet the anesthesiologist until you actually get there. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:13 PM Flag
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^^any specific questions about the procedure, please ask. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:14 PM Flag
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He is away and I asked his receptionist who is very nice but wasn't completely sure. No nurse to speak to. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:15 PM Flag
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You will be fine. I have mine at docs office. [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:24 PM Flag
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ask joan rivers when you meet her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:14 PM Flag
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Stop. You do not go to hospital for colonoscopy [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:16 PM Flag
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Wtf? Np here who has to have multiple colonoscopies and endoscopies each year. Always at the hospital. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:18 PM Flag
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Dh has to have, I have regular schedule never in hospital [ Reply | More ]
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NP [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:20 PM Flag
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+1 at hospital. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:19 PM Flag
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??? What do you mean you do t want to be out? Why not? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:14 PM Flag
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I was sedated, but I was totally awake and felt everything. I hear that I'm meant to have fallen asleep, but I guess I don't respond to sedation. It's unpleasant if you're awake, make sure to yell when it hurts and they will give you something for the pain. The most annoying part is the prep you take the day before. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:16 PM Flag
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I watched the procedure on the video screen as it happened. I was totally conscious. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:18 PM Flag
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Not my idea of fun. Out. At docs office [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:20 PM Flag
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OR. Anaesthesia makes me tearful and totally constipated - can't pee or poop. The pain is awful with a colonoscopy if you're awake, but I'd choose it over anaesthetic. It's less unpleasant than an endoscopy, which I was also awake for, but it takes a lot longer. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:22 PM Flag
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NP: does the prep involve drinking a liquid that makes you get diarrhea all day? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:18 PM Flag
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Yes, and it isn't a nice feeling. It doesn't empty you out, you just shit liquid all day, and you constantly feel like you need to shit. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:19 PM Flag
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PP: so I guess if I ever get this test, I should take the day off work to be close to a bathroom then? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:24 PM Flag
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Absolutely. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:24 PM Flag
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Other PP - not necessarily, you can get home from work and do the prep that evening. Don't go far from the bathroom and apply balmex copiously. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:25 PM Flag
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I had to take the prep 24 hrs before the procedure. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:26 PM Flag
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Never heard of that [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:29 PM Flag
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I'm in Cali, may be different here. Plus, everybody drives. [ Reply | More ]
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what is balmex? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:26 PM Flag
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Stands guard for your ass against burning. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:29 PM Flag
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You do it when you get home from work. It takes about 4/5 hours. You go in the morning to doc. Take that day off. Not prep day [ Reply | More ]
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Also take day following the procedure off if you drive, or operate machinery. Cannot drive for 24 hrs following sedation. [ Reply | More ]
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Can anyone suggest a good doctor in Manhattan? I just don't have a good feeling about this doctor and the practice. Thanks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:20 PM Flag
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Who is your doc? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:21 PM Flag
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I can, but no way will you like because they don't t do hospital [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:21 PM Flag
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I have had two....one at an outpatient center with versed, it was just awful, I said never again. Last time in a hospital with propofol, piece of cake. Propofol was the best! You will be fine! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:24 PM Flag
[ - ] Guys are annoying. Why does dating have to be so hard? 19 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Don't do it. Haven't you read enough about the women trying to get rid of their husbands on this board? [ Reply | More ]
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That's what I'm starting to think. Should I have children alone? [ Reply | More ]
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good god NO [ Reply | More ]
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NO [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:13 PM Flag
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doesn't your kid deserve a father? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:12 PM Flag
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I thought about being a foster parent. Some fathers are pretty lousy. I see your point though. [ Reply | More ]
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That would be really cool. [ Reply | More ]
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I've put a temporary hold on dating. I can't do it anymore. [ Reply | More ]
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What are they doing that is annoying? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:14 PM Flag
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Tell me they want a casual relationship. I say no. Now they suddenly want a serious relationship, but sex early on. One didn't walk me to a taxi. One texts me all the time. One rejected me with a lame excuse. [ Reply | More ]
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the frequent texter is annoying. been there. [ Reply | More ]
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He's the nicest one. But he is so desperate to see me. Just let me do my work and I will be free sooner! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:20 PM Flag
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NP: I am sorry. This is what makes dating tough. I went through that crap for many years until I met DH at the age of 31/32. You will know when the right guy turns up, just keep doing you and march along to the beat of your own drum. A guy who is worth your time wont play stupid silly text games or find excuses to just have casual sex. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:20 PM Flag
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All you are saying is that "all men behave differently" - which btw is how most men view women when they are dating... If they don't act the way you want them to, then move on... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:23 PM Flag
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None of those things seem like total dealbreakers to me. One guy rejected you - certainly his prerogative. One guy wants a serious relationship - probably because he thinks you're cooler than he thought and wants to be more serious. That sounds like a promising development. One guy didn't walk you to a taxi? Are you a damsel in distress? It sounds like you're looking for a guy who treats you really well, but doesn't bother you, but is always around, and who won't want to have sex with you right away. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:27 PM Flag
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It doesn't have to be so hard. But you do need to manage your expectations, just like everything. Expect to date 100 men to find 1 you think worthwhile... So act accordingly - make dates not a big deal, don't invest your heart on a profile or "just better than OK" first date, ruthlessly prune the list, drop the guys who don't feel truly special at first meeting, and trust your gut. And ENJOY the crazy experiences.... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:14 PM Flag
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I did wake up on a yacht Sunday. I will keep trying. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:17 PM Flag
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That's an unexpected development. Are you a Russian hooker? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:27 PM Flag
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^ this. When you are married and look back to the fun casual dating experiences you have, you will have great stories to tell. I remember being very antsy about every date, and would psychoanalyze every man to death, and over time, it really came across and was a turn off. When I look back on those years, I wish I was more carefree and just enjoyed the experience even if deep down, I knew the guy was totally Mr. Wrong or only Mr. (Right Now). It is a ride, and once you get older - those experiences will be harder to come by. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:23 PM Flag
[ - ] Are tutors the "little dirty secret" at privates? 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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One of them. [ Reply | More ]
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Not little or secrete. I don't think dirty, but that may just be me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:07 PM Flag
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come on, you pay thru the nose and still need to supplement at home? you could the same at public and much cheaper, unless you are paying for the peer group... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:09 PM Flag
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Peer group? Entitled affluent brats? [ Reply | More ]
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^^^ not brown, at least not the "unvetted" ones. [ Reply | More ]
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LOL, "peer group" at a bad private, that's good! [ Reply | More ]
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Yes [ Reply | More ]
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I know lots of kids who have tutors. I think it's wrong and unfair. The kids I know that have them aren't failing. [ Reply | More ]
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Why is it unfair? They are solidifying and expanding their knowledge, not cheating on exams or paying a teacher for grades. They are earning them through study. [ Reply | More ]
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For some, yes. But by no means for all. Basically, plenty of moms want their not-so-bright kids to stay at the "best" schools. And will do almost anything to keep them there... [ Reply | More ]
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Plenty of top of the class have tutors to stay top of class [ Reply | More ]
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+1 this is most common. [ Reply | More ]
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Every kid I know who has one is an A/B student and the parents want all As. [ Reply | More ]
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Yup [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:23 PM Flag
[ - ] WOHMs, be honest how long is your average work day and how much of it is work and not schmoozing/face time/paying bills/UB. How much do you make and what is your field? 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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You're going to get a skewed answer right now because the only WOHMs who are on UB right now are those who have the time to be. [ Reply | More ]
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+1 totally biased audience. [ Reply | More ]
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It really depends. I was working on something all weekend that had to go out this morning, so my day has been pretty light and I'm doing some catch up. Work comes in waves. Law/$160k. [ Reply | More ]
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8 hours, 30 minutes average each day, $250K, financial services [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:16 PM Flag
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Attorney here. Salary: $ 105K working in house, hours are 9 to 5:30 pm. I am in court 2 to 3x/week. I am able to surf UB/internet on office days when I am working on briefs or reports (like I am doing now). Otherwise, no one at my firm cares as long as I make my required billable hours every week and win my trials in court. I rarely work weekends, but sometimes have brought my work laptop home to fire off emails if I fall behind. [ Reply | More ]
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8-5ish; it depends could be all of it or less than half; $250K corp strategy [ Reply | More ]
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Corporate counterintelligence analyst. I work eight hours most days, and check UB on my lunch (west coast). I do read a lot of news sites, but at least 90 percent is related to my job. 110K a year. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:29 PM Flag
[ - ] Omg my 3yo who rarely naps and the baby are napping at the same time! What do I do? Nap? Clean? This is the first time I have had this happen 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:03 PM Flag
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Get off UB. Nap. Immediately. [ Reply | More ]
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This!! [ Reply | More ]
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NAP! Hurry, before one wakes up! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:13 PM Flag
[ - ] We moved into a much nicer and larger apartment 2 weeks ago. My 2.5 year is still saying "I want to go home" Is this normal? He is not very verbal and also randomly said "no one wants to play with us here." I knew the move would be hard on the nanny because she is now 20 blocks away from where she had make a lot of friends. I wonder if she is telling him that or he is saying on his own. He is not especially verbal. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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how sad! did you tell the nanny he is saying it? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:13 PM Flag
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Yes. He says it to her also. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:14 PM Flag
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is she surprised to hear it? or does she seem to agree? either way, you'll never know where he is getting it. but you can tell her to try to emphasize how fun the new apartment is when he says it to her, and you do the same. in another week, he won't even remember the old place. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:20 PM Flag
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op: She is not suprised. I am just suprised he is still saying it. Everytime he says it I say "Don't you want to stay here with Mommy and Daddy?" and in a really sad voice he say "yeah." [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:23 PM Flag
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oh this is so sad and so sweet. sigh. [ Reply | More ]
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Are you the one who moved into the haunted apartment where the baby died? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:23 PM Flag
[ - ] If you are married, how many ex-boyfriends do you keep in touch with. I've had three wanting me to meet their wives on recent trips to the city. Is this weird? DH thinks it is kind of weird. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:02 PM Flag
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Yes, a little weird. [ Reply | More ]
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I don't know if it is weird, I still keep in touch with two of my exes from 25 years ago, as does DH. [ Reply | More ]
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This. Maybe 2-3 where we exchange the ocassional e-mail, and I supposed if we were visiting the same city, we would see them. Why is this weird? [ Reply | More ]
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I keep in facebook touch with a few but we don't really talk. We are friendly with one of DH exes. Invited her to our wedding, invited to hers, met up with her and her now DH when they were in NYC for a weekend. She and DH went to school together and dated freshmen year of Hs [ Reply | More ]
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Both DH and I are friends with several exes. I think we had about 6 of them at our wedding. I know some folks can't be friends with their exes or their significant others object. Doesn't bother me or my DH though [ Reply | More ]
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yes its weird. Married 5 years now and am still FB friends with 3 ex boyfriends, and recently de-friended one because realized he wasnt much of a friend post-break up anyway (would make semi-snarky comments on some of my posts/pics). The other 2 were mostly physical relationships and now I keep them to remind me how much hotter my DH is than they are, lol. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:29 PM Flag
[ - ] This lady even looks crazy, her face. http://gawker.com/mommy-blogger-found-guilty-of-murder-in-poisoning-death-1688954115 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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She has an overbite: don't you think you're being a little judgy? [ Reply | More ]
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no it's all in the eyes. crazy lady eyes [ Reply | More ]
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If you say so, though IME you can't tell guilt from someone's eyes. Sad case. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:17 PM Flag
[ - ] Would you marry the pudgy wealthy guy with a micropenis? 34 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:55 PM Flag
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it's all about character, baby [ Reply | More ]
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I doubt I will ever marry again, so no. [ Reply | More ]
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Not just because he's wealthy. You'll pay for that everyday. [ Reply | More ]
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Not just because he's wealthy. You'll pay for that everyday. [ Reply | More ]
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He's also kind to me. Close in age. He likes to party more than I do. But I wonder if part of that is in an effort to meet women? [ Reply | More ]
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has he asked you to marry him? [ Reply | More ]
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Well, I'm asking if I should settle or move on? We aren't there yet. [ Reply | More ]
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Depends on his life insurance. [ Reply | More ]
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+1. Would he be missed if you took a hit out on him? [ Reply | More ]
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Yes. No prenup, then divorce. [ Reply | More ]
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If it's family money, there's a 0% chance this plan will work. [ Reply | More ]
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For $? No. For love? Yes. [ Reply | More ]
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Just how wealthy? [ Reply | More ]
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Several homes. A yacht. Plane. Plenty of money. [ Reply | More ]
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Then yes. Marry. [ Reply | More ]
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Nope. I married a very wealthy man (that I loved and was attracted to) and the money wasn't that beneficial. Certainly not to the point I'd sign up for that. [ Reply | More ]
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Hmm. Is he attractive in the face? Funny/charming? Can he cook? Dance? How are his oral sex skills? There would have to be something else. Wealth just wouldn't be enough. [ Reply | More ]
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He has some of those qualities. [ Reply | More ]
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Funny, I once dated a very wealty guy with a micropenis. But he was skinny, not pudgy. No, I would not have married him, that's why I dumped him. [ Reply | More ]
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define micro-penis.... exactly how big or small is it? [ Reply | More ]
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Smaller than 2.75" erect. [ Reply | More ]
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no no no no. btdt and it's disgusting. I"ll take my handsome man any day. [ Reply | More ]
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define micro-penis.... exactly how big or small is it? [ Reply | More ]
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Like finger size. [ Reply | More ]
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imagine how that will (not) feel after you've given birth once or twice. you could back a truck up into my vagina [ Reply | More ]
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That's bad. Really bad. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:16 PM Flag
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But does it really matter? You ladies all claim you never have sex anyway. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:18 PM Flag
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THIS! And it matters at lot less when you are 50... which is when the money Really matters. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:26 PM Flag
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I have a LOT of fun with my fingers.... sure you are not being open minded about this? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:23 PM Flag
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He can always wear a strap on. If that's the only problem, then sure, go for it. As long as you are both sexual and communicative enough to enjoy more than just 'penetrative vaginal sex'. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:18 PM Flag
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^^ and btw, if he was truly wealthy, kind, funny, etc., I'd do it in a heartbeat. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:18 PM Flag
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i think penis size and pudginess are not that bad if you otherwise share a lot of passions and hobbies and goals. The real issue is that about the only thing you can really have a strong impact on with your children is your genes. If you marry a pudgy micro-penis guy who may or may not have addictive tendencies, your are stacking the deck in favor of your child to have those same traits. SO, for your sake, i'd say marry him, but for your future children's sake i'd say run and run fast! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:24 PM Flag
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+1 you want only the best for your children, and that doesn't sound like the profile i'd pick at the sperm bank and either should you. Money can be earned and spent -, genetics last generations. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:26 PM Flag
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and how about the pudge factor: is he just husky, fat, or truly obese? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:28 PM Flag
[ - ] Why is it ok to disown your teen dd if she gets pregnant, but not your dog? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:50 PM Flag
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Who says you can't dump your dog? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:51 PM Flag
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F u [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:52 PM Flag
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Um, the church? [ Reply | More ]
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It's not okay in either case. [ Reply | More ]
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It isn't okay to dump your kid (in the eyes of the law) if said kid is still a minor. I gather more people dump their pets than their children. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:54 PM Flag
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This. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:59 PM Flag
[ - ] ESL mom here. I need grammar help please. Should it be "my daughter, Jane's, 4th Birthday in September" or "my daughter, Jane's 4th Birthday in September"? Or something else? Thank you! 49 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:50 PM Flag
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Does it need a comma? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:51 PM Flag
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The 4th birthday of Jane, my daughter, is in September. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:51 PM Flag
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are you retarded? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:53 PM Flag
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Lmao [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:24 PM Flag
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No [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:53 PM Flag
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Who writes this way?? [ Reply | More ]
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LOL [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:01 PM Flag
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Lmao hell no. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:01 PM Flag
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No, honey. Time to stop day drinking. [ Reply | More ]
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Lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:06 PM Flag
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Jerk. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:05 PM Flag
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The, fourth, birthday, of, my , daughter, Jane, is, in, September, [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:15 PM Flag
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lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:13 PM Flag
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My daughter Jane's fourth birthday in September [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:51 PM Flag
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+ [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:53 PM Flag
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In September is my Jane's birthday. She is my daughter. She will be 4. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:02 PM Flag
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you can liberate yourself and just dump all the commas these days. The oxford comma is getting old and worn out. My daughter Jane's 4th birthday in Spetember" (cap. "B"? why?) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:51 PM Flag
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Did you read the article in The New Yorker about the comma problem? That was fascinating. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:53 PM Flag
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No, but as a lawyer, we dropped commas long ago and it works [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:56 PM Flag
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PP: lawyer here too. Can't stand too many commas. I just thought the article was interesting because it went into an in depth analysis as to why the NYer has done this from an editing standpoint. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:58 PM Flag
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No commas at all. You're welcome. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:52 PM Flag
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This [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:53 PM Flag
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Can you just say "Jane's 4th Birthday September 2015" (do you need to put "my daughter?)? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:52 PM Flag
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This is good too [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:53 PM Flag
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this [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:54 PM Flag
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My daughter, in September, turns four. Her name is Jane. [ Reply | More ]
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+ [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:55 PM Flag
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lmao [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:55 PM Flag
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Yoda? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:57 PM Flag
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I am literally LMAO [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:01 PM Flag
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Hahahha [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:01 PM Flag
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OP: To clarify, this is not for an invitation. I am recommending a service to someone who asked me for information. I want to say. "I booked the basic package for my daughter Jane's 4th Birthday in September." [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:55 PM Flag
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So say that? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:56 PM Flag
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you have it right, no commas. Use commas only if daughter Jane is taking an action like "my daughter, Jane, invites you." In your sentence, daughter Jane is merely the object of the clause "for..." [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:58 PM Flag
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+1. But not to confuse you more, you only need the commas if Jane is your only DD. If you have more than one DD, it would be "My daughter Jane invites you..." [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:04 PM Flag
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OP: Thank you. I over think when writing things sometimes as I do not want to make a mistake in my grammar. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:01 PM Flag
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why do you need to give her the name? just say daughter's bday. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:03 PM Flag
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Four years ago this January was conceived my daughter Jane. Join us for the celebration. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:56 PM Flag
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no, four years ago this january was birthed... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:03 PM Flag
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.....a child. Jane. They called her Jane. So fair, so tiny. Doted upon by all. But in the forest, the deep dark forest, lurked evil. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:05 PM Flag
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Lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:06 PM Flag
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Four years, nine months, five days, and six hours ago, my egg was fertilized. Come join the celebration! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:15 PM Flag
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Birthday. September. Jane. Ugh. Ugh. Ugh. Ugh. Me Tarzan. [ Reply | More ]
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Lol [ Reply | More ]
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My dearest husband and I conceived, four years ago, our precious daughter. In the month of September will her birthday be. Jane is her name. [ Reply | More ]
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Yes, milady. [ Reply | More ]
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In the year of Our Lord Two Thousand Ten. [ Reply | More ]
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Lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:17 PM Flag
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JANE's 4TH BIRTHDAY [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:25 PM Flag
[ - ] Kate Middleton looks horrendous and miserable. I guess following Mummy's plan sucked. Life in a palace isn't all that it's cracked up to be huh? 17 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:45 PM Flag
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One slightly less-than-flattering photo of a woman in her 8th month of pregnancy, and you have her inner life all mapped out? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:47 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
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+2 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:49 PM Flag
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^^^ and may I add, a difficult pregnancy ... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:48 PM Flag
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+1 She just traveled to China, is eight months pregnant and is walking around in heels during a difficult pregnancy that included HG. Not my idea of a party. She just looks a little weary to me. Far from horrendous. [ Reply | More ]
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William is in Asia. Kate didn't go [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:14 PM Flag
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Lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:49 PM Flag
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I'm sure you've never looked horrible in a photo, ever. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:47 PM Flag
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She does look kind of miserable. I'll give you that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:49 PM Flag
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She looks like she is going to collapse in tear C [ Reply | More ]
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does it bug you at all to sound so transparently jelly? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:50 PM Flag
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I looked at the offending pics. She's still better looking than I am. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:52 PM Flag
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I think she looks just fine. A bit unhappy, though. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:54 PM Flag
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I think she looks tired and like she'd rather be scuffing around in yoga pants and a tshirt. Like most women who are 8 months pregnant. [ Reply | More ]
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This [ Reply | More ]
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Makes sense [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:07 PM Flag
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Being pregnant and nauseous is horrendous. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:59 PM Flag
[ - ] Best was to clean a brand new light oak plank floor with semigloss? Just a swifter? Also I have some white paint marks on floor from just from moving space heaters. What is the most damaging way to get those p? Just gently with a green rough sponge you would use on a pot 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:40 PM Flag
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get some bona. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:42 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:43 PM Flag
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op: What is bona? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:47 PM Flag
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google it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:49 PM Flag
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Microfiber mop and hot water or light steam for the floors and you can try a mr clean sponge to get the paint off just don't scrub too hard [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:43 PM Flag
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op: Thanks. [ Reply | More ]
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op: Thanks. [ Reply | More ]
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Be very, very careful with steam on wood floors. Can warp them. Mine looked awful after I used steamer on them for a while. Now I just damp mop with a Rubbermaid reveal. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:52 PM Flag
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I bought the battery powered Bona mop and it's so great! It saves so much time because it has built in fluid that you use a trigger to release and the mop portion vibrates so it cleans a little better than a regular Bona mop. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:48 PM Flag
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wow i need to get this. amazon? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:49 PM Flag
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op: Thanks [ Reply | More ]
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op: Thanks [ Reply | More ]
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I love our shark steam mop and just use water [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 08:29 PM Flag
[ - ] Which race of humans is hands down, the worst? 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:38 PM Flag
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Racists [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:39 PM Flag
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NIGGER!!!!!!!!!!?!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:41 PM Flag
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The 10 mile dash? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:40 PM Flag
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Lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:41 PM Flag
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The human race. [ Reply | More ]
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This [ Reply | More ]
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The Rat Race [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:41 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:41 PM Flag
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Not a race, but an ethnicity - Albanians. [ Reply | More ]
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Wrong. The correct answer is "Niggers" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 03.02.15, 07:42 PM Flag
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Lol, why so? [ Reply | More ]
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+1 There are some exceptions but on the whole I agree Albanians are pretty bad, totally backwards Neanderthals. But certain Africans are also some of the most uncivilized creatures with their capacity for brutality...it's just mindblowing. [ Reply | More ]
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Romulans are at the bottom, Vulcans at the top. [ Reply | More ]
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those aren't human. [ Reply | More ]
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They are humanoids. They certainly fall within the scope of "human." [ Reply | More ]
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Muslims [ Reply | More ]
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