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[ - ] the sad fact is...a nice guy who wants to be a teacher probably won't get super hot model chicks. If having a super hot wife is important to him, he should go into investment banking. I know it sounds harsh. I am a woman and I lost 50 pounds when I realized that being overweight was not going to lead to the kind of man I want. It is what it is. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:58 PM Flag
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Wow. Just wow. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:58 PM Flag
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I don't think your weight was the issue [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 11:02 PM Flag
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You're right. It's totally reasonable for men to expect that they can have mediocre jobs and still be entitled to the "hottest" girls- that's not misogynistic at all! But if a girl uses her assets to get the most valuable men, that's totally gold digging. It's not a 2 way street. Only men should get what they want. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 11:02 PM Flag
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That's true for the most part but there are always exceptions. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 11:04 PM Flag
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Super hot model chicks aren't going for investment bankers. They are going for business tycoons and billionaires. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 11:04 PM Flag
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ok, which asshole banker are you happy with now? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 11:05 PM Flag
[ - ] What is the best way to store a vintage formal dress? I'm never going to wear it again but my dd may want it when she's older. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:57 PM Flag
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your daughter won't want it. This almost never happens [ Reply | More ]
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Not trying to be a jerk, but I agree [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:59 PM Flag
[ - ] Per Se Violated Labor Law With ‘Service Charge,’ Inquiry Finds http://www.nytimes.com/2015/07/03/nyregion/per-se-violated-labor-law-with-service-charge-inquiry-finds.html?hpw&rref=nyregion&action=click&pgtype=Homepage&module=well-region&region=bottom-well&WT.nav=bottom-well&_r=0 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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“Today’s agreement ensures that workers at Per Se will not continue to be cheated out of their hard-earned tips — tips that customers intended for them,” Mr. Schneiderman said in a statement. “And it reaffirms the right of satisfied restaurant-goers not to be misled about whether a ‘service charge’ is actually paid to workers as a tip, which the law requires.” [ Reply | More ]
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In 2012, for example, Del Posto, an Italian restaurant in Chelsea run by Mario Batali and Joe and Lidia Bastianich, agreed to pay $1.15 million as part of a settlement with 31 current and former employees who had complained of problems with tips and overtime, among other issues. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:58 PM Flag
[ - ] How many losses did you have before having a live birth? How many DC do you now have? Had a D&C yesterday for a mmc (second loss). Just need some hope. 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:52 PM Flag
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No luck here yet either. But GL to you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:53 PM Flag
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Thank you. GL to you too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:58 PM Flag
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Did not have this experience but sending positive thoughts and hugs your way :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:55 PM Flag
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Thank you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:58 PM Flag
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How old are you? Is this your 1st? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:56 PM Flag
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28. Second loss, no live births yet. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:57 PM Flag
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You are young. You need to figure out the reason for the MCs [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 11:03 PM Flag
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First pregnancy we had a termination due to Downs. My OB said this one was just 'nature being cruel'. She really doesn't think the two are linked. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 11:06 PM Flag
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4. had my DS at 41. my last miscarriage was in 16 week. i expected to miscarry DS whole pregancy. he's a gift. persevere [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:58 PM Flag
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I'm sorry for your losses. We both desperately want kids and this has really been a kick to the guts. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] is there a style/fashion blog that you love?? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:52 PM Flag
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No [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:58 PM Flag
[ - ] I don't understand the prenup thing. If you enter the marriage with more wealth, that is premarital assets and not part of the marriage. if you inherit during the marriage, that is protected also from divorce. What's the point of the prenup unless you own a business or earna ton during the marriage? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:49 PM Flag
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Depends on the state/country. The old marriage vows included, "with all my worldly goods, I thee endow", so premarital assets became marital assets. Things can also be different from case to case; if there are children, for example, courts have been more likely to split all assets, so the children have roughly the same standard of living whether they are at mom's or dad's house, and shorter marriages are often treated differently from longer marriages. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:53 PM Flag
[ - ] Thoughts on Camp Vega vs Pinecliffe for dd for next summer? What do you know about each? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:39 PM Flag
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Vega is trashy. SIL' s kids go there [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:40 PM Flag
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elaborate. how is it trashy? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:55 PM Flag
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nope [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:46 PM Flag
[ - ] DH and I have not had sex in well over a year. I have made a pass at him at least once a month in that time, but he either laughs me off or tells me he's busy doing something else. I'm happy not having sex; I like doing my own thing. At this point, do I have any obligation to press the matter? Or can I just enjoy things as they are until he decides it's a problem? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:36 PM Flag
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Are you fat? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:38 PM Flag
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I'm about 15 pounds heavier than when we got married. (He's about 25-30 pounds heavier than when we got married, though, so I doubt that's an issue.) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:40 PM Flag
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Something is up. Sit down and ask him directly [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:41 PM Flag
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Keep making overtures, if he refuses he may be either ok with no sex or getting sex elsewhere, but he's apparently not interested in divorcing you immediately. You decide [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:39 PM Flag
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Have you talked to him about it? I would find it weird if my dh just stopped having sex with me after a few months. Can't understand how it can go this long without either one of you bringing it up. How's relationship otherwise? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:42 PM Flag
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Really good. We never fight, we still share a bed, we laugh a lot, we cook together, we work together on some of our work projects. I've mentioned the sex thing a few times ("We haven't had sex in months, is anything wrong? Do we have a problem?") but he says everything is fine, he's just busy and focused on his business. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:46 PM Flag
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I wouldn't take a poll about something so personal. If it works for you that's all that matters. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:46 PM Flag
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How long have you been married? Sexual attraction fades after a while. It's no big deal and nothing to feel embarrassed or worried about, although our culture makes us feel it is. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 11:05 PM Flag
[ - ] My Volvo XC60 is giving me problems. I tried leasing a new one but am gettingvthe run around from the dealer because I want to order a custom car. I am thinking of switching to the BMW X3. Does anyone have any experience with it? I love my Volvo and it's my third but I think it's time for s change. 22 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:29 PM Flag
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Luxury cars are for sheep [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:29 PM Flag
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volvo is just as expensive [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:53 PM Flag
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You sound fat [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:33 PM Flag
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You sound poor and stupid [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:40 PM Flag
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I' m too smart to spend money on a strivermobile like an X3. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:41 PM Flag
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You have no money to spend. Go fuck off-- [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:49 PM Flag
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OP, we already told you. Go back to suburban baby where people will impressed by you buying an x3. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:50 PM Flag
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Hater. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 11:04 PM Flag
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Yes. I hate strivers [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 11:05 PM Flag
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go back to SuburbanBaby [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:38 PM Flag
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+a million [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:39 PM Flag
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ILY [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:39 PM Flag
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Go back to high school [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:44 PM Flag
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Wow that is a great response [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:44 PM Flag
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How do you drive a vulva? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:52 PM Flag
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I am LA, and I love mine. I lease because it's easier for me and then you get everything taken care of at the dealership. Really nice, fun to drive car. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:54 PM Flag
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You can go back to suburban baby as well [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:55 PM Flag
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What do you mean by "custom car?" What are you trying to order? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:56 PM Flag
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OP: I am trying to order a custom striver car [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:58 PM Flag
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she wants certain color with certain leather with heated seats [ Reply | More ]
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Leather heated seats, backup camera, tech package. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 11:02 PM Flag
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I'm on my second x3. We bought another one after the good experience with the first one. Great SUV overall. Great in the snow. No problems with either car. Originally I bought because I wanted an SUV for the snow after moving to a burb from the city and I wanted a SUV I would not have trouble parking. It has accommodated both of these things. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 11:06 PM Flag
[ - ] Back in the late 80's there was an incident at the county courthouse where a "difficult" inmate finally pushed his down court-appointed defense lawyer too far, and the lawyer beat him brutally. Like, really brutally; I think the guy almost died and had some pretty severe permanent injuries from getting extensively beaten with a chair and other implements. There was a bit of a controversy because the guards didn't really intervene after they heard the noise in the conference room; they kind of stood back for a while and let the guy get punished. The lawyer was neither arrested nor charged due to self-defense. It was an interesting case, but since it never went to trial, it's hard to find traces of it anymore online. I think it was noted in the local paper, but as a generic "fight." 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:20 PM Flag
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This is too long for me to read sorry [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:25 PM Flag
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Do you have a question? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:26 PM Flag
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Csb [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:27 PM Flag
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Oh yes I remember that incident from 25 years ago oh so well [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:30 PM Flag
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Well, it's more of a general commentary on the surprising transience of events from not all that long ago. Events which took place within the boundaries of the "information age" as it took shape in the early 80's. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:41 PM Flag
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You sound too smart for UB [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:46 PM Flag
[ - ] DH said UES moms are horrible. Said they're all tiger moms with FT nannies or very very catty and materialistic SAHMs with FT nannies. We're looking for an apt. There has to be a few down to earth moms on the UES? Or is this wishful thinking? 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:20 PM Flag
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All NYCers are horrible strivers [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:26 PM Flag
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Kind of this. Signed, born and raised in Manhattan [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:29 PM Flag
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Where's the best spot? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:38 PM Flag
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All of Manhattan and the desirable parts of Brooklyn and Queens are kind of cesspools right now. You can meet nice moms anywhere, but be prepared to witness a lot of pathetic behavior from others. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:47 PM Flag
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Are you going to be east or west of Lex? That makes all the difference, IMO [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:29 PM Flag
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I have no idea. He said I would be miserable on UES. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:32 PM Flag
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If you're so worried about this why not move to Brooklyn instead where people are generally more laid back. I've like Brooklyn Heights for 5 years and absolutely love it. Something for everyone, old and young. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:41 PM Flag
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We should. We'll start looking there. He's afraid that we'll never leave Brooklyn because it'll be too inconvenient and taxing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:42 PM Flag
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Look at UWS or downtown. UES moms really are horrible. There might be one or two nice ones, but majority are strivers. it's very high school mentality. Signed UES private school onFA. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:45 PM Flag
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We are yorkville and public school and it is extremely normal. Much more accepting than the burbs I grew up in. [ Reply | More ]
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sorry, wishful thinking. UWS is a fair bit better, but still not awesome [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:55 PM Flag
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Read primates of park avenue. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:57 PM Flag
[ - ] Will you take a job that has a lower base salary but higher bonus? 15 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:19 PM Flag
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In other words, the total compensation of a new job will be higher than current one but the base is lower than current one. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:20 PM Flag
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Depends on characteristics of both, but if money is the deciding factor, no. Bonus is not guaranteed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:26 PM Flag
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What if the job with lower base and higher bonus is with a big company, and the current job is with a small company, would you still make the same choice? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:31 PM Flag
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Why would that make a difference? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:33 PM Flag
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It would really depend on how much I needed the guaranteed part of the income. If I thought the small company had no future, I would consider that. [ Reply | More ]
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Yes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:26 PM Flag
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NO [ Reply | More ]
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What if the job with lower base and higher bonus is with a big company, and the current job is with a small company, would you still make the same choice? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:31 PM Flag
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Yes, I would ask they match the base. The only reason I would take lower base job is if the rest of the benefits add up to a better package (health insurance 401k match etc) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:45 PM Flag
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How much less is the base? Is the bonus gtd? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:30 PM Flag
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20k less. Current one doesn't have bonus, the new one can have 50k bonus, but not guaranteed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:40 PM Flag
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No, I would not [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:49 PM Flag
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Others factors would play into my decision: stability, room for growth, work/life balance, benefits and culture. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:36 PM Flag
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I did that on the idea it shouldnt matter- bad idea- the low base is a general indicator of the cheapness of the firm/unwillingness to keep employees happy. [ Reply | More ]
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Yes and I have done that several times. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:59 PM Flag
[ - ] DC takes a private tennis lesson twice per week. I used to watch the lesson and pick up the balls throughout, but it's so freaking hot and I'm exhausted as I have a 4mo DB who wakes 5x per night. I decided that I would sit in the shaded area away, which means that I am unable to watch DC during his lesson, and I drink water, go on my phone, and DB is able to sleep in his stroller for the hour as he's usually too uncomfortable to do so on the court. We live in Palm Beach and it's been in the 90s most every day. I feel like the instructor judges me for not being engaged. Am I being a lazy mom? 18 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:14 PM Flag
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A penis lesson? [ Reply | More ]
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no [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:16 PM Flag
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Besides Kim and Kanye, which celeb do you wish would disappear? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:24 PM Flag
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Who cares if he does? He's working for you. Take care of yourself and your baby. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:17 PM Flag
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This. (And the instructor is probably happier with you off the court.) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:20 PM Flag
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op - I don't know, he seems a little annoyed. He liked it when I picked up the balls because they would never need to stop a lesson in order to do pickup. DC and instructor were able to work continuously. The problem is that DB was always awake and then would get fussy, so I would need to hold him while picking up the balls and it was so miserable. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:24 PM Flag
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Of course he liked it! He was getting free labor. Not a good reason to expose a 4 mo to blazing sun. Would not give this a second thought, OP. [ Reply | More ]
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It's the instructor's & student's job to pick up the balls. Of course he's annoyed now - you were doing half his job for him and now he has to do it himself. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:27 PM Flag
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No. You're being normal. You were being a helicopter mom before. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:19 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:20 PM Flag
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op - But now the instructor says things like, "You missed a really great serve earlier." He seems like I should be watching DC. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:24 PM Flag
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And what if this was a drop-off lesson? Not everyone can sit around for an hour. That instructor can such his fuzzy yellow balls. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:26 PM Flag
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That's just small talk, letting you know your child is improving. You read too much into this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:27 PM Flag
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I think maybe you're just tired and vulnerable as a new mom juggling two kids, and you're over-focusing on this. This guy is a jerk and/or just doesn't understand your situation. Don't let him pressure you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:29 PM Flag
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op - Well, I also didn't mention that I have a middle child who also attends these lessons and he has decided that he no longer wants to attend (although he was never as much into it as his older brother) now that I'm sitting in the shade. He, too, has decided that he'd rather sit in the shade and I feel like the instructor feels that because I'm bailing on the lesson, I have provided DC#2 the excuse to bail on it as well. Or maybe I'm just reading too much in his moods. He's never been a big talker, but today he seemed irritated that DC#2 didn't want to attend the lesson (his fee per hour is the same regardless of whether both DCs attend). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:43 PM Flag
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Can you just drop your oldest off? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:50 PM Flag
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Yes, but it doesn't make sense to leave since it's only for an hour. The baby sleeps as soon as we get into the shaded area and it's pretty cool. If I leave, he'll definitely start crying in the car. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:54 PM Flag
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Are you nuts? Drop them off and go get a cold water and come back. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:48 PM Flag
[ - ] What's everybody doing for 4th of July? 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:10 PM Flag
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No plans! Kind of feel lame. You? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:11 PM Flag
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Op: Same here :/ [ Reply | More ]
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I'm jaded about holidays and am very happy to have no specific plans. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:15 PM Flag
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sing it out loud, sista [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:36 PM Flag
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Lake party, barbecue [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:18 PM Flag
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Universal Studios & spa time for me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:19 PM Flag
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My youngest went with aunt and uncle and their same-age kids/cousins to lake winnipesaukee. Two kids in college have their own plans. One in high school just wants to be with the girlfriend. [ Reply | More ]
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My plans are to have one hefty bag full of trash out of my house for every day I am child-free this weekend (ex has them until Sunday night). I am on a mission [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:37 PM Flag
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A "cleaning frenzy" - go for it! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:52 PM Flag
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Unpacking (moved a week ago but can only do so much at night after work) and doing picnic with BF's family Saturday. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:51 PM Flag
[ - ] I want to purchase private health ins for my mom who has just moved to the U.S. On a green card. Can I just call up an an ins co or do I need to go through a NY Heath ins navigator? Must cover pre existing conditions. Thx 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:06 PM Flag
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You asked 2 wks ago- my answer is the same- put her on Medicaid - half of NY state medicaid is administered by private operators anyway. We use HealthFirst. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:19 PM Flag
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It is MUCH easier to go through a navigator and the NY State of Health website. You will drive yourself crazy calling up insurance companies. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:33 PM Flag
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She can get on Medicaid with a green card (as long as she meets other requirements). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:40 PM Flag
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Exactly. She just needs a SS# [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:46 PM Flag
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Yep, our tax dollars at work. And OP and her family probably look down on the US. They should go home. [ Reply | More ]
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How is that even allowed? When my DH got a green card I had to submit all of my financial ststements to sponsor him. I remember signing something that said he would not go on welfare or government aid. I didn't dream this up. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:57 PM Flag
[ - ] It's official. Everything my husband does gets on my nerves. Please tell me this goes away (or comes and goes). Maybe it's part of bigger issues that rub me the wrong way. Sounds like time for couples therapy! 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:04 PM Flag
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maybe! A little therapy is good to take the edge off [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:06 PM Flag
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Op-agreed [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:13 PM Flag
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sounds like you need to exercise or have a glass of wine. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:12 PM Flag
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Op- yes and yes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:13 PM Flag
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Take separate vacations this year, and spend two evenings and one weekend day per week doing your own thing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:14 PM Flag
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I've been entertaining the separate vacation idea. I've never traveled on my own. I imagine it would be really liberating. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:24 PM Flag
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Do you have young kids? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:16 PM Flag
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No but he really wants a family. I'm on the fence. Mostly because we have problems getting through issues without it feeling so heavy and defensive. I'm also not comfortable putting my career on hold as the breadwinner while he doesn't have steady work. So yes, I have my hesitations. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:22 PM Flag
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How long have you been married? I would almost suggest individual therapy first [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:53 PM Flag
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Almost 3 yrs. 37yo [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:55 PM Flag
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Start having sex again. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 11:03 PM Flag
[ - ] I have a phone interview tomorrow. I have a job now. Can I ask about the compensation amount for this position at the beginning of the interview since I won't leave current job if money is no better? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:04 PM Flag
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No. If they sense money is your only motivation than they won't want you either. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:10 PM Flag
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Did you get the interview threw recruiter? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:15 PM Flag
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No, I applied for the position directly. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:19 PM Flag
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Of course not. You wait until they ask if you have any questions. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:19 PM Flag
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It's just polite. You wouldn't say "Oh, hi Betty, how much did your house cost?" right away. You'd yammer a little about the house and try to suss it out at the end. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.02.15, 10:28 PM Flag
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