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05.23.13, 05:13 PM
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I’ve told this one on here before, but in junior high we exacted revenge on a mean librarian by putting slices of lunch meat between selected volumes the day before summer break. Not proud.
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05.23.13, 05:15 PM
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I quit a job with no notice and never returned their calls. A parent had just died and I had a newborn. I just couldn't deal with work and did not give a fuck.
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05.23.13, 05:10 PM
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05.23.13, 05:11 PM
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To much makeup
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05.23.13, 05:07 PM
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05.23.13, 05:08 PM
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weight gain; parenting practices/style; working long hours; not spending every minute of your free time with DC
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05.23.13, 05:08 PM
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Apparently wearing gym clothes out of the house, parenting of any sort, weight gain, grammar, cheating.
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05.23.13, 05:10 PM
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Vagina grooming, clothes, parenting. Men really don't judge their friends much.
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05.23.13, 05:09 PM
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05.23.13, 05:10 PM
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05.23.13, 05:09 PM
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We kiss. I'm from an affectionate family, my grandparents kissed and held hands all the time. I remember her sitting on his lap in the den, it was cute.
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05.23.13, 05:05 PM
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same here. We don't make out but we are very affectionate. Maybe that is just what he calls it but i highly doubt they "make out". Then again what the hell do i know...
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05.23.13, 05:13 PM
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OP: We kiss too--but make out? To me "make out" implies a bit more than a kiss.
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05.23.13, 05:11 PM
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How many small children know the term make-out? They are an odd family but if it works for them...
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05.23.13, 05:05 PM
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Of course we kiss in front of the kids. It's very innocent but they call it "making out."
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05.23.13, 05:05 PM
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where did they even learn the term? My kids wouldn't know what that meant.
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05.23.13, 05:18 PM
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Always, good to show the love.
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05.23.13, 05:06 PM
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Whether people like it or not, that family seems pretty happy.
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05.23.13, 05:14 PM
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05.23.13, 04:57 PM
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No.
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05.23.13, 04:53 PM
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No, love the city. Don't think they are missing out on anything.
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05.23.13, 04:54 PM
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OP: I just wonder if i should be showing them more people who live very well, so they will know they can have that IF they want. Does that make any sense at all?
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05.23.13, 04:56 PM
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Np not at all. What are you saying?
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05.23.13, 05:03 PM
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+1. You can live well without a big house with a backyard. NYC has so many parks. And to me being able to use public transportation and not to worry about landscaping and maintenance is "living well"
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05.23.13, 05:06 PM
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Op: well i guess i feel like they're around a lot of kids who don't have a lot and i just wonder if they will settle? Like maybe if they were around more wealthy families, would they see that and think "i want that, i'll work hard for that" i don't know. i know it sounds crazy.
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05.23.13, 05:06 PM
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np-yes, it sounds crazy.
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05.23.13, 05:09 PM
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OP: haha - okay, i can take that.
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05.23.13, 05:12 PM
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You should teach them to be hard-working, follow their passions and try to be happy. It seems you want them to keep up with the Joneses!
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05.23.13, 05:10 PM
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true! OP here
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05.23.13, 05:16 PM
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I do know what you mean and you're not likely to get a positive response here, but it's a valid concern. We are also in the city, but dc are in private. I want them to be comfortable in nearly any situation.
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05.23.13, 05:07 PM
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No. They see plenty of that in NYC. Trust me.
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05.23.13, 05:01 PM
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I feel the exact opposite. I grew up in the burbs, and very nice UMC one, and wouldn't move my kids to that environment in a million years. Like you my kids are at a great public elementary and they will be going public all the way. I think the life we'er offering them is SO much better than the one they would get in the burbs, warts and all!!
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05.23.13, 05:11 PM
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No. With a "great public school," your NYC kids will have advantages that their suburban counterparts won't.
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05.23.13, 05:02 PM
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Op: true. I worry about the high school thing. I can't afford private and what if my kids don't test into or get a spot at the few great public ones. grrr.
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05.23.13, 05:03 PM
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NP-take in in 3-5 year increments. You always have the option to move if something doesn't work out later.
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05.23.13, 05:01 PM
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Op: true. you are right. I tend to worry about things way in advance, as you can see. duh :)
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05.23.13, 05:11 PM
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I do too! I can relate. I'm trying to be more zen...GL to us both:)
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05.23.13, 05:06 PM
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OP: Yes, deep breaths! :)
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05.23.13, 05:14 PM
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I felt the same way - there are many more excellent MS and HS options than you might think at this point.
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05.23.13, 05:03 PM
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Yep, my concern is my crummy apartment with dirty streets and noise and not enough green grass and lack of ability to spontaneously play, everything is planned.
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05.23.13, 04:57 PM
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"Spontaneous play" in the suburbs is less common: kids need to be driven everywhere and generally don't play alone outside.
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05.23.13, 05:05 PM
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OP: ITA - in fact, i feel like we go to the playground 2 blocks away and they always have a playdate, something always comes up. My worry is more about schools and the education factor.
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05.23.13, 05:07 PM
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Op:yah see i don't have that problem. My neighborhood is not noisy and dirty. We live near a huge park so they are always out. I just worry about the upper grades.
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05.23.13, 04:59 PM
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Are you in Windsor Terrace, btw?
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05.23.13, 05:07 PM
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This. While I love the city, we are definitely going to leave the city before DB gets to preschool age. I was visiting a friend in CA a few weeks ago, and her life seemed so much easier. It was nice to be able to open the back door and let the kids run around the back yard while we cooked dinner, chatted and drank wine.
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05.23.13, 05:07 PM
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np-I have been dreaming of CA...where is she? Do they have good public schools? TIA:)
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05.23.13, 05:08 PM
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Ventura County. Not sure about the schools, but they seem happy with them (then again, they are not like neurotic NYC parents when it comes to school!)
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05.23.13, 05:09 PM
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OP: i'm not neurotic. If i were, i wouldn't be in a NYC public school. however, middle school and high schools are really chaotic and applications and all that.
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05.23.13, 05:06 PM
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Depends where you live. When DD was in elementary we were also afraid of MS; we are fortunate to live in District 2, where there are many excellent choices. And having gone through both systems, applying to public is easier than applying to private, IME.
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05.23.13, 05:14 PM
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Well why raise your kids in a crummy apartment? Just get a nicer one.
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05.23.13, 05:03 PM
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It will be a different experience. Think back to your K-5 experience. Most likely you had music once a week, art, library, gym once a week. Recess. Then in middle school you had to pick band, orchestra or chorus also sports were introduced at school. When I tried to remember truthfully what my experience was like at my good public in a small town that is what I realized. ALSO, there is no way to replicate 100% your experience. Embrace the differences.
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05.23.13, 05:04 PM
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Op: good point. thank you for such a thoughtful response. :) My kids have music, art, class trips, little league, dance, great friends. Do they have a yard? No. but they live near a park. Do they have their own bedrooms? No but neither did i. I worry about middle school and high school and what their opportunities will be if they don't get into a good one and I can't afford private.
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05.23.13, 05:08 PM
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Enjoy what you have now then, you could always move. Don't forget that schools in the suburbs also have bullying and drugs etc. It's easy to idealize.
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05.23.13, 05:04 PM
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NP: Schools in the city don't have bullying and drugs? If you think that, you are pretty naive.
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05.23.13, 05:14 PM
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she said they ALSO have bullying and drugs. And the suburbs have the issue of drinking and driving.
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05.23.13, 05:15 PM
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she didn't say that - she said SUBURBS DO ALSO> chill out suburban defensive Mom!
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05.23.13, 05:17 PM
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Yes, but a friend told me to apply to private schools and allow them to tell you what you cannot afford. Got in to a great private and got financial aid covering 85% of the tuition. $150 HHI.
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05.23.13, 04:59 PM
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I went to a kid's birthday party in the suburbs recently. Everyone was white, all the moms were overweight, the dads were all at the golf course, and the primary topic of conversation was what everyone recently bought at the mall. I wanted to kill myself.
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05.23.13, 05:03 PM
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Op: Ha ha - this is my fear! That is why i won't go! My friend just moved to NJ from upstate and is miserable.
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05.23.13, 05:04 PM
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THIS!!!!
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05.23.13, 05:05 PM
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Oh please. Way to generalize.
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05.23.13, 05:15 PM
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The kids I went to college with who grew up in NYC were certainly more "sophisticated" in some ways, but they definitely also seemed jaded.
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05.23.13, 05:11 PM
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I think that is largely the private school kids. The kids from our great neighborhood gen ed are really kind of naive, IMO.
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05.23.13, 05:07 PM
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Depends on the private--the kids in ours seem to be refreshingly normal kids. (Not TT.)
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05.23.13, 05:16 PM
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05.23.13, 04:52 PM
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There probably are, but this test doesn't actually measure 'giftedness' or "talent," rather aptitude. Different IMO.
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05.23.13, 04:49 PM
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it's a trick to avoid having to move to the burbs when not zoned for PS 9 or PS 6.
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05.23.13, 04:56 PM
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It's New York City Baby! Greatest City in the World!
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05.23.13, 04:58 PM
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no more than any other place per capita, no.
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05.23.13, 04:53 PM
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Actually, there ARE that many G&T kids in NYC. Bright parents "Tend" to have bright kids. Just because you don't buy into better education, don't hate on folks that do.
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05.23.13, 04:57 PM
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meh. I don't really believe this and have a ton of experience with kids.
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05.23.13, 05:02 PM
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you don't believe what? And maybe your experience is with average kids!
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05.23.13, 05:05 PM
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Mine is gifted but not talented.
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05.23.13, 05:04 PM
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People don't really realize how many kids are in NYC schools.
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05.23.13, 05:05 PM
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05.23.13, 04:50 PM
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Fucking cunt
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05.23.13, 04:45 PM
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I agree
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05.23.13, 04:57 PM
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Me too.
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05.23.13, 04:58 PM
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God Damn
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05.23.13, 04:46 PM
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so tame
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05.23.13, 04:52 PM
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Tell God that...
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05.23.13, 04:59 PM
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I don't accept your premise.
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05.23.13, 04:56 PM
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Godless creature
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05.23.13, 05:07 PM
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Twat
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05.23.13, 04:46 PM
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This
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05.23.13, 04:48 PM
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Twat is a curse word?
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05.23.13, 04:52 PM
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As in, "Twat do I owe this pleasure?"
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05.23.13, 05:02 PM
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LoL
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05.23.13, 04:57 PM
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DH
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05.23.13, 04:46 PM
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LoL!
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05.23.13, 04:55 PM
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Fuck
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05.23.13, 04:47 PM
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I'm sorry. I can't even type it.
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05.23.13, 04:56 PM
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lol!!
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05.23.13, 04:57 PM
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Dio Porco!
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05.23.13, 04:51 PM
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The N word.
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05.23.13, 04:52 PM
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You must be white, better not be uttering that shit...my nigga.
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05.23.13, 04:55 PM
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Okie Dokie, hunky.
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05.23.13, 05:02 PM
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np: On the street yesterday, I heard a girl yelling at her boyfriend on the phone. Every other word was, "my nigga." Seemed to be a term of endearment. So, the next time I texted DH, I tried to end it with that. I couldn't do it! Had to delete. I just couldn't "utter that shit."
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05.23.13, 05:01 PM
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I think it is awful when anyone says it. I am old enough to remember when black people didn't say it about themselves, but I was raised with middle class black friends who had civil-rights minded parents. It is so wretched.
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05.23.13, 05:03 PM
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Yeah. I live in a mostly hispanic neighborhood in Chicago. That's their favorite word to use for each othet. Im noticing the Arabs are getting into it too.
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05.23.13, 05:08 PM
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Cocksuckin'Motherfuckin'BlueballedBitch !
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05.23.13, 04:52 PM
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Ohhhh, Say it again!
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OK, if you insist Cocksuckin'Motherfuckin'BlueballedBitch !
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05.23.13, 05:12 PM
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Ohhh, shivers!
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05.23.13, 05:15 PM
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Cunt is worse.
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05.23.13, 05:02 PM
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ITA
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05.23.13, 04:57 PM
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I cunt hear you...
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05.23.13, 05:03 PM
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cunt -- I remember reading Miller in college and all these wanna be lit majors pretended there was nothing offensive about the word. (I was a history major just filling core requirements so I thought I might be wrong. Looked it up. "Cunt" has been a highly offensive word since it entered the English language. Probably a bastardization of kuhne, the Dutch word for rabbit. (Interestingly, words for rabbit are the basis for slang about the female/female genitalia in many languages.) Kuhne is also the original name of Coney Island. It is said that when Hudson's men first landed in NY it was on a small island covered with rabbits.
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05.23.13, 05:03 PM
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05.23.13, 04:49 PM
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Isn't it visable pantyline?
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05.23.13, 04:46 PM
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I always thought so
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05.23.13, 04:55 PM
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Oh, oops. I got it confused with veiled brag attempt. hahaha!
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05.23.13, 04:53 PM
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Victoria's Secret has a line I've been wearing for years. Flat, nude, no line, comfortable.
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05.23.13, 04:53 PM
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listen thong wearers, there are still lines, just in different places!
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this
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05.23.13, 04:54 PM
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That means they're too small.
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05.23.13, 05:00 PM
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and if your butt isn't in shape, the traditional underwear is the way to go!
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05.23.13, 04:55 PM
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Sometimes they don't flatter the ass. This may gross some people out, but I go commando with a tampon. Even if it is not that time of month. I don't do this too often though. But sometimes, it works perfectly.
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05.23.13, 04:54 PM
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OMG.
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Yup!
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05.23.13, 05:11 PM
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You can buy really really thin, laser cut underwear that truly does not show. Best is the boy short cut
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05.23.13, 04:49 PM
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Love boys shorts. I think they're cuter than thongs and way more comfie.
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05.23.13, 04:53 PM
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What brand? boy shorts give me wedgies though
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05.23.13, 04:58 PM
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that depends on your shape. we can't all wear boy shorts.
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05.23.13, 05:01 PM
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Amen! Tried it, by the time i got the corner. They turned into thongs.
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05.23.13, 05:10 PM
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Boy shorts are made for teeny tiny women.
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+1
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05.23.13, 05:12 PM
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Visible panty line looks tacky, I don't want to see half of your ass cheek hanging out of your underwear through your pants.
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05.23.13, 05:01 PM
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I agree, it's only tacky when it's clearly supporting fat asses that would normally... hang down more. On a perky butt in yoga pants, I think it's fine.
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05.23.13, 04:58 PM
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OK, my butt is normal and perky. So that means VPL is OK for me?
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05.23.13, 05:07 PM
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or: I don't like it on anyone. "It's underwear, not show-through wear" as my mother would say LOL.
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05.23.13, 04:46 PM
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Ooops meant to say 2yo DS will be in a 2-day preschool program on Tuesdays and Thursdays which is a drop-off program.
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05.23.13, 04:47 PM
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yes, otherwise your money is wasted.
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05.23.13, 04:43 PM
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Usually places have six month grace period if you wear infant in ergo or Bjorn or whatever. I'd call and double check.
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05.23.13, 04:54 PM
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OP thanks, I just called and they told me this. I just need to make sure that after I go back to work in late November, nanny is comfortable wearing DB in a carrier! :)
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05.23.13, 05:03 PM
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05.23.13, 04:41 PM
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does she celebrate every season? it's fun in Kinder, but she's a grown up
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05.23.13, 04:48 PM
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Ha, I always thought "impending" had a bad or dangerous connotation.
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05.23.13, 04:44 PM
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+1 "impending doom"
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05.23.13, 04:54 PM
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The impending doom that is summer in NYC. Maybe "celebrated" was the wrong word choice. Should have been "upcoming."
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05.23.13, 04:57 PM
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No - it's fine.
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05.23.13, 05:04 PM
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Working for that celery stick would make me feel more than slightly tortured.
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05.23.13, 04:45 PM
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More importantly, why are you signed up for these e-mails and why do you read them?
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05.23.13, 04:54 PM
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That's an excellent question and I don't even remember when I signed up or why. Feels like I've been getting them forever. On the other hand, I don't have many sources for recipes using the dust of poor people and Fiji water, so I probably should keep on keeping on. :)
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05.23.13, 04:54 PM
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NP: I read them--they're alternately hysterically clueless and surprisingly informative. Her guides to cities have a lot of great insider info.
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05.23.13, 05:04 PM
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It's proper.
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05.23.13, 05:04 PM
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