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[ - ] So fucking tired of sending dh's family money. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:52 PM Flag
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Where are they? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:54 PM Flag
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India. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:55 PM Flag
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That's not so bad. We have to give money to DH's perfectly middle class family because they fucked it away [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:56 PM Flag
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should've married someone with a well off family so that they could give you money. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:58 PM Flag
[ - ] Does it mean anything if dh shaves his pubes before going to work on Monday morning? He does typically shave, I just thought the timing odd. We had amazing sex yesterday, fwiw.... 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:32 PM Flag
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It's weird to shave there period. Trimming? Okay. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:38 PM Flag
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You think there's some rule of thumb for this? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:38 PM Flag
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Shaving is an easy way of trimming. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:38 PM Flag
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Do you ever shave your legs Monday before work? It's no stranger than that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:40 PM Flag
[ - ] I just found out that my MIL asked my aunt and uncle (not my parents) what I was "really" like as a child. DH and I have been married 15 years. I find the question very rude at this point. 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:15 PM Flag
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Ugh, MILs ... Cant live with them, can't live without them ... Lol jk yes you could! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:23 PM Flag
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It could just be a nostalgia thing, don't overreact [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:23 PM Flag
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This [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:39 PM Flag
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This strikes me as just a friendly question between parents. You're too sensitive. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:44 PM Flag
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She didn't ask my parents-she asked my aunt and uncle [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:47 PM Flag
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Okay. This just strikes me as a friendly question between a parent and adults who cared for you and knew you as a child. You are too sensitive. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:49 PM Flag
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This response makes it clear you're petty and just looking for something to be upset about. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:49 PM Flag
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I don't. What do you think is rude about it? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:51 PM Flag
[ - ] I just found out my bf of two years has been cheating. I don't know for how long. He is having his kids visit NYC (they are home schooled) and they are all staying with me?! What is the right thing to do?! Wait until after their visit to talk abt all of this?! 35 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:00 PM Flag
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Dump him and his kids - now! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:04 PM Flag
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OP: HOW can I dump the kids?! S*&(*()!!! I was looking forward to the visit! Is that the "right" thing to do? cancel the visit? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:06 PM Flag
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Let the kids stay with HIM! They are his kids, his problem! And HE made the problem! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:07 PM Flag
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op: Its true! I am heartbroken and now I get to either be an idiot for letting his kids stay or a bitch for not letting them stay. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:09 PM Flag
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You are not a bitch. He is a cheater. He ruined your relationship. Your relationship will never be the same again. These are not your children. His problem! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:10 PM Flag
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The kids should be further spared getting any closer to you. It will hurt them too. Cancel. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:12 PM Flag
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This. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:15 PM Flag
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How would it be bitchy to cancel under these circumstances? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:40 PM Flag
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Wait...so the kids aren't even here yet? Yes you should cancel the visit, and break up with him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:39 PM Flag
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She isn't going to break up. Clearly [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:43 PM Flag
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Does he know that you know about the cheating? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:12 PM Flag
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Yes, wait. The kids did nothing wrong [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:26 PM Flag
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Absolutely incorrect. Not her circus, not her monkeys. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:27 PM Flag
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kids are not monkeys [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:44 PM Flag
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Not her kids [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:57 PM Flag
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If there's no ring on your finger, it's not "cheating". [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:27 PM Flag
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Of course it is if he promised to be exclusive. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:39 PM Flag
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? Of course it is if you're in an exclusive dating relationship. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:46 PM Flag
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You must resolve this with your bf before bringing his children into the mix. Is he sorry? Will you forgive him? Can you ever trust him again? It won't be good for the kids to be in the middle if you are unhappy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:33 PM Flag
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he's not answering the phone. head in the sand. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:37 PM Flag
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^I wont forgive. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:37 PM Flag
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But I can out on an act for the kids for 2 weeks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:37 PM Flag
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2 weeks is a very long time if you are unhappy. Interesting that HE won't answer the phone. Obviously, he is pulling away. He just sounds like a mess and trouble. Don't forget more involved with his kids now. Not a good time for any of you. Take care if yourself. You deserve better! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:40 PM Flag
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op: thanks, really. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:42 PM Flag
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What? He cheated and you are trying to reach him and he isn't picking up? You are worrying about his kids? What is wrong with you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:42 PM Flag
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This. If he isn't answering wouldn't it be blatantly obvious that you won't be hosting his kids? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:46 PM Flag
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op; he texted me that his airplane had just landed. I texted we need to talk, now no answer. It MIGHT be blatantly obvious and that's fine. I am not 16 however, I talk. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:50 PM Flag
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How old are you? Does he know you know about the cheating? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:52 PM Flag
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Landed with kids? Are they coming right now? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:53 PM Flag
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op: good questions. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:54 PM Flag
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Can you answer them? Was this when the kids were expected to come? Was today the day they were set to fly in? Geesh, why are you being so evasive? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:57 PM Flag
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Trolling? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:58 PM Flag
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? You must know why he is at the airport. Is he there to pick up the kids? When did you find out about cheating? Does he know that you know? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:57 PM Flag
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op: good questions. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:54 PM Flag
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Sounds like you are planning to forgive him. Are you living together? Do you have a child with him? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:38 PM Flag
[ - ] Any suggestions for children's books, aged 6+. Need something a bit more advanced than she's coming home with from school. She's a strong reader and I want to support her love of reading at home, without burning her out or overwhelming her. Tia. 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 11:56 AM Flag
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Anything by Beverly Cleary [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:06 PM Flag
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You need to be more specific about what she's reading now. My child loved the American Girls Felicity books. The Catwing series by Ursula Le Guin and books by Dick King-Smith might be good as well, especially if your daughter loves animals. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:07 PM Flag
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My father's dragon [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:12 PM Flag
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Hard without more information - but I think Children of Noisy Village and its sequel are lovely. and Dahl is great too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:23 PM Flag
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This is a great age for advanced picture books. American Tall Tales by Mary Pope Osborne, illustrated fairy tales, books where she can learn from the illustrations as well as the words. Take her to the library and let her go crazy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:39 PM Flag
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Half Magic series, Boxcar Children, Narnia Chronicles, Little House series,, All of a Kind Family. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:41 PM Flag
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What is she coming home from school with? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:42 PM Flag
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How strong? What has she read and enjoyed? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:55 PM Flag
[ - ] I am going to be the Stay Puft marshmallow guy from Ghostbusters (DH will be the ghostbusters). What to wear underneath my costume (it's white plastic that blows up), what shoes to wear and what color to paint my nails? It's Monday morning-not too deep this morning. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 11:54 AM Flag
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white keds, white mime makeup, white hands, white nails [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 11:58 AM Flag
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What about clothes? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:00 PM Flag
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white "base layer" nylon suit [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:26 PM Flag
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White t-shirt with white shorts , tights or leggings [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:03 PM Flag
[ - ] Suburbs mom who work how do you keep your house clean? In the city we used to do 5-6 loads laundry 2x week and knock or out or send out (I had a cheap place). Now if I hire someone all she'll have time to do is laundry plus house isn't gigantic but much bigger than my apt and much more to clean due to being near outdoors and dirt etc coming in, 1x/week won't cut it. How much do you pay for cleaning/laundry? 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 11:27 AM Flag
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My cleaning service comes weekly they so my laundry and my afternoon babysitter does it midweek. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 11:33 AM Flag
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thanks we have easily 10 loads a week--how long does your service come and how much is it? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 11:40 AM Flag
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100 - they are usually at my house for 4-5 hours. Pay my afternoon sitter 20 per hour. I fill in in between but it is manageable. Good luck. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 11:46 AM Flag
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If you're doing ten loads, you must have older kids? Let them do it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 11:49 AM Flag
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This. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:44 PM Flag
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I do two loads a day [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:12 PM Flag
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What on earth are you people doing? Do you all change your clothes three times a day? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:42 PM Flag
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Np: we do 1 to 2 load mostly because its easier to do small loads than have it accumulate. Also, we don't have large capacity machines in our apartment [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:45 PM Flag
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This wouldn't be a true ten loads of laundry though. More like 5 max in terms of what you'd need the help to do. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:54 PM Flag
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How many kids and how old? 10 loads??? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:40 PM Flag
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This. I grew up in a family of nine kids and at her peak my mom was barely doing more loads than this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.20.14, 12:54 PM Flag
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