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[ - ] Our networth is 6 million and we have no debt. DH is so frugal that I'm certain if he could have DD start working for a living next year (she's 11), he'd do it. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:18 PM Flag
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And? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:20 PM Flag
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Same here. My dh acts like we are a week away from the poorhouse. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:22 PM Flag
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Yes, OP here. DH actually hauled a desk out of the alley, which has drawers which don't fit. I want to buy DS a new desk for all of $150.00 and you would think it was a Porsche. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:23 PM Flag
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That's how you got a net worth of 6 million and no debt. Earning is not enough. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:27 PM Flag
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not necessarily a bad thing - my parents made us "work" babysitting, raking leaves, lifeguard, camp counselors, etc. did not seem to harm us and probably taught us a great deal [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:28 PM Flag
[ - ] Anyone here not a skinny, rich woman with gifted children? 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:12 PM Flag
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me, 53 year old with average but great kids and not rich but I work for the rich [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:16 PM Flag
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Ooh me! I'm poor and overweight (and pregnant) but generally happy. What's up? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:16 PM Flag
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1Thanks for replying. Me, 41, totally average kid and income. I wonder sometimes why I come here [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:17 PM Flag
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Im a fat, kinda rich guy with smart but fucked up kids. Does that count? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:17 PM Flag
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I hope this won't be too personal, but why do you think your kids are fucked up? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:19 PM Flag
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dd pregnant at 16. ds dropped out of tt. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:20 PM Flag
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I'm so sorry. Life is long, they can always change. Are there psychological issues involved? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:22 PM Flag
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Because one is on medication because he couldnt shut up in class for three years. The other one is young yet but probably has impulse control issues - he is the kind of kid who thinks tackling other kids he just met is fun. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:22 PM Flag
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I'm sorry. Is this ADHD? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:24 PM Flag
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Apparently. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:26 PM Flag
[ - ] New bf is in DC for the weekend with his friends and he keeps sending me pictures of his friends' babies. Do men have a biological clock too? Is this his ticking? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:11 PM Flag
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No. He's just sending you pictures so his friends feel like he is suitably enthusiastic about their baby. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:12 PM Flag
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this or he thinks this is what you want to see [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:17 PM Flag
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Yes and yes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:12 PM Flag
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Pedo alert!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:21 PM Flag
[ - ] Anyone watching Odd Mom Out? Is it any good? Just started Ep1 on in-demand. Home sick. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:56 PM Flag
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I think it's funny. It's a sit com so exaggerated stereotype of UES. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:03 PM Flag
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Disappointing. Had great potential but did not live up to it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:12 PM Flag
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General Topics 07.04.15, 10:16 PM Flag
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Folks on DC Urban Mom didn't like it, but I think Jill Kargman's presence and timing (apparently her real zany personality) are pretty good, considering she's not really a professional actor. Consider all these crazies and how phone they are in reality shows, and she appears to be very talented compared to those that kind of freeze up in those reality shows. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:19 PM Flag
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OP- thanks for the feedback. Liking it so far [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:22 PM Flag
[ - ] Can anyone recommend a sports bar on the UES where I can bring my kids to watch the women's world cup finals? 22 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:37 PM Flag
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You don't sound like you actually have kids [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:39 PM Flag
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Why? I need a bar that is casual about letting kids in. A lot of places in Brooklyn are fine with kids. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:41 PM Flag
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+1 on any planet where my kids would be interested in this, our "bar" would be the laptop or the iPad in the apartment. But we live on planet earth. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:42 PM Flag
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You are not a sports fan. Watching the game in a bar is going to be very fun [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:44 PM Flag
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This, these women are soooo boring. Staring at a fucking laptop in their cramped lonely little apartments vs a fun bar full of fans cheering. So glad my friends aren't like this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:49 PM Flag
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There is no bar in Manhattan that welcomes little kids at night [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:00 PM Flag
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Well disagree with this, serious fans usually prefer to be alone, focused, not drinking. Personally Would hate to watch in a bar with fake fans and people there for the experience not the game. That said, I'm sure it's fun for those people and could be fine for kids. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:00 PM Flag
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Yeah all husband prefer to watch Monday night football alone rather than with buddies in the man cave....Please! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:02 PM Flag
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I was referring to myself not men. But that's a good example- they prefer to be with like-minded friends, equally knowledgable and fanatic about their team, not strangers. I guess I don't have friends like that, so I prefer to watch solo. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:04 PM Flag
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I am a man and I totally agree. If its a team I am invested in I prefer to be alone or with a handful of friends at home. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:25 PM Flag
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I cannot imagine anything kids would be less interested in than this. Sounds like mom is gay, though. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:53 PM Flag
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For you veal parents, just imagine it was a televised chess match or the Van Cliburn competition.... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:55 PM Flag
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A lesbian bar [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:39 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:54 PM Flag
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Any of them. Sometimes we just go to a restaurant with a bar/TV-- that taqueria on 81/2nd; MexiBB; Shortys; Salvos; Mole; or go to Blondies on the westside [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:53 PM Flag
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Any that serves food. Maybe 5 Mile Stone? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:57 PM Flag
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Ever heard of Yelp? Grow up! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:57 PM Flag
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5 Miles Stone on 86 and 2nd. Ale House on 92nd and 3rd. And a lot of restaurants have big screen. We had a blast last year with the World Cup. Ignore the poster above. Watching soccer in bars or restaurants is very fun for my dc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:59 PM Flag
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You don't have to say "women's" -- everyone knows which world cup you mean. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:13 PM Flag
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Oh please. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:24 PM Flag
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Something Irish. Whatever Manhattan's version of Fado is. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:14 PM Flag
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Luke's Bar & Grill on 79&3rd. Get a table near the bar or in the back also has big TVs. Very family friendly. Grilled cheese, Mac & Cheese, burgers, etc. Great place. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:15 PM Flag
[ - ] Every morning I wake up sad that I didn't die in my sleep. I can't kill myself because I have kids. DH and I both got laid off in February. Our industry is dead and no telling when it will come back. Other options would mean huge pay cuts. I started a business, and although it's growing, it isn't enough to support us and we are out of money. He sleeps all day, is on medication for depression and rage, and refuses to look for a job even though he has better options than I do. I'm about to move out and go live with my parents and start in a new career at the bottom making no money and it will take two years before I'm anywhere close to where I was in old job. I'm so sad and depressed all I want to do is cry all day but I keep getting up and going through the motions. Today I'm listing anything and everything I have of any value on ebay. Less stuff to move... 23 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:35 PM Flag
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Sounds like you have a plan. Work the problem. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:37 PM Flag
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I feel for you. Agree that you should get behind your plan 100%. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:38 PM Flag
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Downsize. Sell off as much as you can. Then, rebuild. I think the problem is that you are holding onto what was. Forget that, move forward. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:08 PM Flag
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You're right. I waited to long to start downsizing. Layoffs are standard in our industry but it usually bouces right back. It hasn't and it took longer than it should have to admit that to myself. I'm selling everything that we don't actually need to survive. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:27 PM Flag
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There are no problems, only solutions. Thank god you have parents to fallback on. Good luck it will get better [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:39 PM Flag
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I do have so much to be thankful for definitely, I write at least 10 things down every morning but im terrified and defeated and every time I think we've reached the bottom something else happens. It's almost comical. I've been down before but never eth my kids. That's what kills me, having to constantly say no to them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:45 PM Flag
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if all you are doing is saying no, then no harm/no foul to the kids - they are fine as long as you are - stick to your plan, take care of yourself and your kids - your dh hopefully will wake up and take responsibility for himself and his kids soon, but you are smart for not waiting around waiting for it to happen - GL [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:49 PM Flag
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Thank you. I know you're right but it's so hard. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:58 PM Flag
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How are you out of money in July of laid off in Feb? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:46 PM Flag
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So this is your takeaway? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:50 PM Flag
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Yep. Everything that could break has, also we had some rental houses that we can't sell. One renter moved out and destroyed the house. We had to fix it to re-rent it or sell it. Air conditioners, major car repairs, extensive pathologist bills trying to help dh including expensive medicines. Plus starting a business, which actually only cost about a thousand to start but still, that's $. We thought in an emergency we could get the equity out of the rentals but that isn't happening. We have them listed at payoff just trying to get out from under them because we have to pay for any repairs, etc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:55 PM Flag
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*paychological not pathologist [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:56 PM Flag
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You are taking the necessary steps to rise from the ashes.So far you have not killed yourself because you should not. There is more to life than material things. I am proud of you, for the steps you have taken. Be strong, courageous and this too shall pass. BTDT. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:47 PM Flag
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The material doesn't bother so much as the uncertainty. What if I never do recover. What if the rest of my life is hard and miserable. That's what scares me. When I'm ok, I know it's going to be ok, when I'm in a dark space, I don't. It's so hard to keep out of the dark space though. It feels like my whole world is collapsing under me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:00 PM Flag
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I'm glad to know you take the responsibility of having kids seriously. For that, I commend you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:55 PM Flag
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They are the only reason I get up. I have to keep things as normal as possible for them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:03 PM Flag
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Thumbs up. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:15 PM Flag
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It sounds like you are doing everything you can to help your family get back on its feet. It's great that your business is growing. How much potential do you see there? If the new career will get you back to where you were in 2 years, that sounds like a good path to pursue. Will your husband go to your parents' place as well? Good luck! I hope things improve for you soon. You're a wonderful mother. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:13 PM Flag
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I think there is potential. It's a niche, I have no real competition (there's always somewhere else people can spend money but no one doing what I'm doing.) dh is on his own, he's become very mean and hateful. None of his friends want to be around him which is making the situation worse. I'm not sure we'll end up getting divorced but I don't think he's going to come out of his depression unless I leave and he has to do something to survive. I've been keeping the utilities on and food in the house. I'm the only one making any income. He has several degrees and lots of options, he's just stuck in this really dark place and I can't help him any longer. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:25 PM Flag
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Hug. Baby step. You already have a plan. Just keep at it. Move out and move on. Good luck. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:14 PM Flag
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Move out of NYC. Take the pay cuts, but in a place with a lower COL. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:15 PM Flag
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Not in NYC, can't get any lower COL then where I live...Deep South. I'm talking the pay cut and keeping the business going, hopefully, but it's just the starting over. It feels overwhelming. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:18 PM Flag
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Get used to it. You'll probably have to do it at least twice in life. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:21 PM Flag
[ - ] I saw a picture of my 16-year-old niece smoking on a social medial site. Should I tell her mother? TIA. 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:35 PM Flag
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*media [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:35 PM Flag
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Yes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:35 PM Flag
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She knows. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:37 PM Flag
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I would [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:38 PM Flag
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Yes, take every opportunity possible to hammer it home that you are the better parent. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:40 PM Flag
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she probably already knows....but why not tell your niece how unbecoming it is to see her smoking, a couple of well placed comments from people who love her might just convince her not to smoke anymore [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:41 PM Flag
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please do not talk to the mother! She knows. If you need to stick your nose in there, talk to your niece. Not just about smoking, but about keeping her online presence. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:50 PM Flag
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Tattle tale!!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:55 PM Flag
[ - ] At my parents very large (6bedroom) beach house. 4 of 6 bedroom are taken by guests this weekend. Dh just talked to his parents who have never been invited to the beach "mansion" as they call it but have hinted about it ever since they saw photos of it three years ago. It isn't my place to invite them and my parents frankly don't like them and will never invite them. Obviously I can't bluntly tell them that. We are very fair about splitting holidays with both in laws. I won't feel guilty about spending this non holiday with my parents on the beach having a blast rather than watching tv in central jersey with my in laws. Don't guilt trip us! We only come out to the beach 2-3x a summer anyway so we aren't exactly stationed here all summer. We go away with his parents to Arizona for a full week every Christmas and don't even see my family then. 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:26 PM Flag
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Your parents sound like douches and you sound like a bitch, quite frankly [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:28 PM Flag
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This. I hate everyone in this story but the inlaws. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:38 PM Flag
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General Topics 07.04.15, 09:42 PM Flag
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I disagree. The ILs could be awful and her parents don't have to see them if they don't want to. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:39 PM Flag
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Np, this is a very common situation. One set of in laws doesnt want to spend time w another set [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:28 PM Flag
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Just never ever tell your husband's parents that your parents do not like them, people get sensitive about that. Just use euphemisms and velvet words [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:29 PM Flag
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Or, alternatively, tell her asshole parents to SACK UP and have them out for one weekend. Won't kill them. Hate ungenerous people. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:39 PM Flag
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This completely. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:17 PM Flag
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Why should my parents invite them, really? They have met twice in the last 10 years and they don't talk ever. It would be entertaining strangers. We have equal amounts of FaceTime with both in laws. It isn't an equity issue. My parents like to invite their many friends and family for the ten short in season weekends. They don't like my in laws for various reasons, one being they were extreme rude to my parents at our wedding and said something about them being cheap to their faces. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:43 PM Flag
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why are you talking to yourself? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:50 PM Flag
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They sound cheap. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:51 PM Flag
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The reason I'd invite them would be that they are my daughter's in laws. And my grandchildren's grandparents. But of course no one is obligated to this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:27 PM Flag
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If your parents ever let you have a week alone at the beach house, invite your in-laws. Otherwise it is not your place to invite them. I'm sure they understand that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:21 PM Flag
[ - ] Something I don't like about modern American political "discourse" - the notion that if something is impolitic, it is "wrong." No. Things can be (and often are) true and stated in an impolitic fashion. That does not negate their validity. This is basic rhetoric and logic. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:24 PM Flag
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Sounds like somebody is looking for an excuse to use the word "impolitic." Lol so lame [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:25 PM Flag
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I disagree it is best to not hurt anyone's feelings. Let's pretend that I am a member of a race with high genetic IQ and you are a member of a race that has a low genetic IQ. Should I talk about this in front of you? No way [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:30 PM Flag
[ - ] Wild card, but worth it to ask: Have any of you been to the Albuquerque International Balloon Fiesta? We're going to be in SW Colorado around that time so wondering if it is worth rearranging our schedule a bit to go. It looks like fun. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:16 PM Flag
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I've been - I live in the SW. It's pretty, but I'm not a fan of crowds and I don't really like Albuquerque. I can't really put my finger on why - I love Santa Fe and Taos. Besides, Colorado is beautiful, I'd stay there. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:18 PM Flag
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OP: Thanks. I have been to NM and Colorado a number of times. I agree. Not a fan of Albuquerque but wondering if this is a "bucket list" type of event since we'll be somewhat in the vicinity anyway. From the photos it looks pretty. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:21 PM Flag
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I might have been a little underwhelmed since we also have a balloon festival in Temecula - with wine! The NM one is bigger, but that also means more crowds, more tourists, etc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:26 PM Flag
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You sound like a whiny wet noodle [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:27 PM Flag
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OP: Temecula, as in California? My mother (RIP) used to live in Bonsall. I never knew there was a balloon festival there. Oh, well.... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:29 PM Flag
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If it looks like fun to you, do it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:20 PM Flag
[ - ] I am on a mission to get jeans and pants that fit well. The issue is I bike and hike a lot so my thighs and calves are a little large. The thighs I usually buy a size larger and take in the waist. The calves are becoming a major issue with all the more fitted sizes (larger sizes don't seem to be larger in the calf area). Any ideas? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:03 PM Flag
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Loft curvy in straight leg jeans. Dress pants called Julie. Only pants/ jeans I can wear and I have tried on many many $200 pairs at Bloomingdales which are all too too tight on my calves. Btw, I am a size 4 or 27 ish [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:12 PM Flag
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You sound fat. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:18 PM Flag
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How unexpected. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:25 PM Flag
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OP: what if I *am* fat and don't just sound fat???!?! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:30 PM Flag
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Lucky jeans. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 10:23 PM Flag
[ - ] I don't understand all the jappy people at the dead show in Chicago - come on?! 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:02 PM Flag
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Starting about 20 years ago their shows became something cool to say you've been to, like a tourist attraction. Now that they are on their way out for real (because they are all practically in walkers and on oxygen), it's sort of a joke. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:08 PM Flag
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It seems so disingenuous - I'm not a deadhead but I have a few friends who are legitimate - been to shows for forever and then I see all these wealthy suburbanites only FB feed and I can't get over it... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:11 PM Flag
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I'm sure it's a disappointment for them as well to have their shows not be at all what they used to be. But they've all got to be over 50, and all of us over 50 have to come to terms with being nudged out of everything, not just Dead shows [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:16 PM Flag
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what? such an odd comment....but this is UB on a holiday [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:12 PM Flag
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Why odd? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:28 PM Flag
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Just seems like you may have never been to a dead concert before....all walks of life have gone to their concerts for ages and yes, I am a 53 year old that has been to 22 shows - granted not since Jerry died [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:36 PM Flag
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Considering that the whole idea of a concert tour for a band whose lead singer died 20 years ago was a money-grab in the first place... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:30 PM Flag
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That sounds about right - but seems like an attraction now as opposed to what it was or appeared to be. I'm not a deadhead so I don't know just seemed weird to see all these peeps there. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:34 PM Flag
[ - ] Away with dh alone - kids in camp -'we've had sex every day but he can't do it more than that - and I feel Like we should be having sex all day!! 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 08:59 PM Flag
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Trade him in for a young stud. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:06 PM Flag
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wow nice job emasculating and disrespecting your DH [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:11 PM Flag
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Come fuck my husband. He won't leave me alone and I just want to read my book. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:12 PM Flag
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lol me too [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:18 PM Flag
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I'm jealous - Dh is not horny at all. Ugh. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.15, 09:28 PM Flag
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