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06.19.13, 04:13 AM
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Are you the mom who is selling her paintings?
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06.19.13, 04:15 AM
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No. Another Mom posted earlier and someone asked her for the link. I can't decide which one I like better.
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06.19.13, 04:16 AM
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Art Mom - I like both of them.
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06.19.13, 04:19 AM
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Those are hideous and amateurish. Pass on both.
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06.19.13, 04:19 AM
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Grow up
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06.19.13, 04:19 AM
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You should not say that about other people's work. You troll.
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06.19.13, 04:20 AM
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They are really, really bad.
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06.19.13, 04:21 AM
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Why?
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06.19.13, 04:23 AM
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+1 but so is most of modern art
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06.19.13, 04:23 AM
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Second
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06.19.13, 04:19 AM
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OMG they're AWFUL! maybe the second one... But still...
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06.19.13, 04:20 AM
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You are a nice person.
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06.19.13, 04:22 AM
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Deleted within minutes. Couldn't take the criticism, huh?
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06.19.13, 04:22 AM
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06.19.13, 04:10 AM
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no one throws trash at you cuz you are poor. they just feel superior and look down. but no reason to feel bad about your standing in society. we all go to the grave empty handed. just work on getting a little financial stability for yourself/family. good luck.
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06.19.13, 04:12 AM
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Well thanks. Same to you.
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06.19.13, 04:06 AM
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There are many ways to be poor. If you're talking about having no money but are rich in health, friends, etc... you're lucky
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06.19.13, 04:07 AM
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this
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06.19.13, 04:16 AM
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i hate these platitudes. the rich have more health, more friends, more everything. that's why people want money.
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06.19.13, 04:12 AM
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I am poor
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06.19.13, 04:19 AM
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06.19.13, 04:01 AM
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maybe if i really hated or stopped wanting to have sex, i might let dh do it IF IF IF he were to be super discreet and safe.
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06.19.13, 04:03 AM
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I'm not in an open marriage, and I don't think that model would work for me, but my vows said nothing about forsaking all others. I mean it was implied, but not stated explicitly
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06.19.13, 04:14 AM
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the "forsaking all others" part is a religious invention and has nothing to do with the marriage contract. Open marriage are just made up of honest cheaters
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06.19.13, 04:08 AM
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Dh and I were hit on by swingers. I felt like I was innocent at that point. I thought that only happened in movies.
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06.19.13, 04:15 AM
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06.19.13, 04:00 AM
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Ok, have fun.
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06.19.13, 04:00 AM
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Good for your, hon.
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06.19.13, 04:01 AM
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My hon? I'm traveling alone, thanks.
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06.19.13, 04:22 AM
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Write with conviction. Why the question mark?
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06.19.13, 04:01 AM
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Are you seriously that dense? Don't answer that.
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06.19.13, 04:23 AM
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i like the new york palace.
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06.19.13, 04:03 AM
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^^ but not SUPER close to the park, though within walking distance.
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06.19.13, 04:13 AM
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Excuse the nastiness, I promise all ny'ers are not like this! How much do you want to spend? The mandarin oriental is near CP and amazing, so is Trump.
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06.19.13, 04:09 AM
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Essex house
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06.19.13, 04:10 AM
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OP: Thanks to all the helpful posters...
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06.19.13, 04:24 AM
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06.19.13, 03:31 AM
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There is no right thing. LL is a great public school. In the old days parents didn't overthink everything. And by old days, I mean way back in 2006 when NEST was the subject of ridicule on UB and parents used g&t programs to get their kids out of sub-par publics and not because they obsessed about their kids getting a special gifted education. Sad, and if the DOE would not have given in to the silly cry to establish more citywides, lots of this "nervousness" would be ended.
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06.19.13, 03:31 AM
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Do you have kids in GT? My older qualified but we didn't get a satisfactory placement, younger has a spot at LL. I don't think my older dc's school is strong enough and am worried that LL might be too intense in comparison. Oh we'll, I'll just get through this and then it will soon be time to worry about middle schools
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06.19.13, 03:36 AM
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I don't know what kind of school your older dc goes to, but if it is a good gen ed, it is strong enough. It is elementary school. Dcs don't need to be challenged all the time -- they need to learn the basics and retain a love of learning. The rest comes later.
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06.19.13, 03:38 AM
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Thanks. I think her gen Ed is just ok, I'm switching her this fall to a better gen Ed, but it's just not about academics, she hasn't really made any friends at school so I am hoping she may do better with a new groups of kids
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06.19.13, 03:52 AM
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np: i have lots of friends w kids at LL and not one of them has ever described it as "too intense" and these are not neurotic type A parents either.
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06.19.13, 04:14 AM
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perfectly good place. don't be nervous
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06.19.13, 04:10 AM
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06.19.13, 03:23 AM
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EW
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06.19.13, 03:23 AM
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op: Why "ew"? He was going to divorce her any way, it was a matter of time.
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06.19.13, 03:32 AM
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Hon, if you need it explained to you why you are disgusting, you are never going to understand.
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06.19.13, 03:27 AM
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op: Relationship was over when I got in the picture. Divorces are not caused by third parties,
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06.19.13, 03:29 AM
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right...
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06.19.13, 03:37 AM
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np: i agree that the divorce is not caused by a 3rd party. where i disagree though is that sometimes the option created by the 3rd party, creates a disincentive to try to work through problems in the marriage. not that all problems can be worked through, but IMO couples should at least make that effort, rather than running for the next relationship they assume will be better.
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06.19.13, 04:09 AM
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i think all problems can be worked out. but sometimes, people don't want to put in the effort.
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06.19.13, 04:14 AM
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stay classy
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06.19.13, 03:24 AM
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You guys deserve each other.
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06.19.13, 03:24 AM
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op: Thanks. We are in fact a great match.
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06.19.13, 03:31 AM
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It wasn't meant as a compliment, cunt.
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06.19.13, 03:25 AM
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NP: lol, OP is as stupid as she is skanky
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06.19.13, 03:25 AM
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op: I knew exactly what I was doing when I replied. OW gets all the bad rep, no one seems to ever believe that exes had anything to do with the end of the marriage. I find is interesting.
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06.19.13, 03:34 AM
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a 2 year affair isn't the catalyst, it's the cause. dang, you're stupid.
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06.19.13, 03:37 AM
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op: I know, I was being sarcastic. :-)
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06.19.13, 03:32 AM
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Skank.
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06.19.13, 03:33 AM
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ho fo sho
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06.19.13, 03:35 AM
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OP will be back here in a couple years bitching about how her DH has been cheating on her for the last two years and is now divorcing her ass.
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06.19.13, 03:28 AM
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Yup. That's a given.
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06.19.13, 03:36 AM
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op: We are in an open marriage.
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06.19.13, 03:37 AM
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lol of COURSE you are.
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06.19.13, 03:38 AM
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keep on skanking...
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06.19.13, 03:32 AM
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An open marriage is not a marriage
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06.19.13, 03:51 AM
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Open marriage? So basically the only difference between you and his first wife is that first wife wouldn't put up with his cheating but you will. If first wife had agreed to "open marriage" he'd still be with her.
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06.19.13, 03:54 AM
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Open marriage? So basically the only difference between you and his first wife is that first wife wouldn't put up with his cheating but you will. If first wife had agreed to "open marriage" he'd still be with her.
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06.19.13, 03:54 AM
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and you're so proud. awesome. remember, you are going to be that hag he's married to pretty soon. if he'll do it with you, he'll do it to you.
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06.19.13, 03:36 AM
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How can you say you are happily married? Do you have no moral compass? I.e., I couldn't look my husband in the face if he knew that I had done something so heinous. Is it "ok" with you because you both did it? Or is it that you don't think lying and cheating is wrong in every circumstance?
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06.19.13, 03:30 AM
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dewd, don't be melodramatic. people have varying degrees of morality. that's why we have laws.
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06.19.13, 03:32 AM
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Yes, that's my point. Immoral people have varying degrees of morality. I guess as long as you find someone who is on your level and want your children to have that level as well, it's all good...except for the original partners who got duped.
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06.19.13, 03:41 AM
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dewd, op sounds like a delusional ass but morality is grey. there are white lies. we also lie to protect someone. we steal when we are starving. we kill in wars. things happen.
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06.19.13, 03:55 AM
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Maybe I am the only one here - but I understand that emotions and relationships are complex and not black and white. I believe cheating is wrong, but I don't doubt that you and your husband are happy together. Maybe his wife was horrible. We don't know. I won't judge. I wish you guys the best.
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06.19.13, 03:37 AM
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fucktar alert!
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06.19.13, 03:32 AM
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Is that like Ishtar?
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06.19.13, 04:17 AM
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no, it's tar for fucking, obviously.
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06.19.13, 04:21 AM
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Hi OP!
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06.19.13, 03:39 AM
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I'm actually not op, I just don't get so worked up about it like most people on UB and I wanted to see if I am the only one. I guess I am!
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06.19.13, 03:41 AM
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NP--no, you're not the only one. I was going to say something similar. I don't agree with her actions but I don't necessarily think it means her marriage is doomed or that he is going to cheat on her
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06.19.13, 03:44 AM
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you don't think cheaters keep cheating. how bizarre.
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06.19.13, 03:39 AM
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I think often they do. But it's within reason to think that perhaps some don't
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06.19.13, 03:48 AM
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perhaps a very, very small, tiny, eensy, weensy minority.
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06.19.13, 03:58 AM
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yeah, you're the only knucklehead on this one.
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06.19.13, 03:37 AM
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Why are people freaking out? Are you all so afraid it will happen to you? Seriously, I am curious.
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06.19.13, 03:49 AM
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Who's freaking out? They're typing on a keyboard.
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06.19.13, 03:51 AM
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Jesus you're dense.
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06.19.13, 03:55 AM
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cuz it's gross. duh. i don't think cheating in itself is a horrendous thing. but breaking up a family and being proud of it, that's the nadir (or is it the apogee) of skankiness.
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06.19.13, 03:57 AM
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Don't feed the trolls.
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06.19.13, 03:39 AM
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Hi Angie! How's Brad?
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06.19.13, 03:38 AM
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now, that marriage was over when brad dumped her so unceremoniously, which was rude. but how about j aniston getting her bf to dump his wife/gf/whatever of like 15 years? they even had kids. you don't care about that, do you?
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06.19.13, 03:40 AM
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and what about julia roberts? do you get so worked up about those? i don't understand this weird obsession with a jollie.
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06.19.13, 03:41 AM
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Whatever op. I think you are sincere. Don't listen to them. I know you're not straight out of Big Love. If that works for you and him then so be it. I think it's the betrayal that hurts the most, but if they were already fighting to the point the demise of the relationship was apparent then so what? The ex=wife is likely glad to be out of that relationship and on to someone she has a good relationship with.
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06.19.13, 04:10 AM
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nobody cares but I wouldn't mention this to your kid
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06.19.13, 04:11 AM
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like he's not going to find out.
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06.19.13, 04:21 AM
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06.19.13, 03:22 AM
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Headhunter. I wasn't looking.
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06.19.13, 03:24 AM
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Through a work acquaintance (had met at a county Bar event)
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06.19.13, 03:32 AM
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My friend left her job and recommended me. My dh got his job bc we had a friend in the hr dept
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06.19.13, 03:25 AM
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Headhunter. That's not true - just an excuse people tell themselves.
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06.19.13, 03:28 AM
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Advertisement on an industry association website.
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06.19.13, 03:31 AM
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Company website. Knew no one.
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06.19.13, 03:39 AM
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Switched twice in the last 5 years - first was a headhunter, second was a former colleague hired me.
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06.19.13, 03:33 AM
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That's definitely true in my field.
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06.19.13, 03:34 AM
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What's the field?
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06.19.13, 03:36 AM
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Architecture
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06.19.13, 03:41 AM
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Online posting on a site specific to my field.
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06.19.13, 04:05 AM
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want ads
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06.19.13, 04:11 AM
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06.19.13, 03:22 AM
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no. if you want him to be different you should have married somebody different. Does he enjoy his frugal life? or does he like to be miserable?
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06.19.13, 03:32 AM
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He enjoys his frugal life because he tells me he manages to save $500K by living like a pauper for half his life. He used to bike to work so he wouldn't have to pay for the subway fares during the summer. He also drives a used car that someone donated to his boss at a charity event and his boss gave it to him as a bonus, so he kept it. (It's a 1998 sedan). We are married 3 years now, I earn a slightly higher income than him, but I never thought he would still be so frugal. I thought he would want to enjoy the money we bring home every month (about $11K after taxes).
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06.19.13, 03:31 AM
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people are the way they are. but can't you enjoy life or does he chew you out if you spend money?
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06.19.13, 03:34 AM
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No thank god he does new chew me out for my spending money. We have separate checking accounts and only share a checking acct for housing and utility bills. He doesn't care how many shoes I buy every month or that I eat lunch out almost every other day.
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06.19.13, 03:58 AM
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so what's the problem? but i don't understand these marriages where wife/husb keep track of who's is what. that doesn't seem like a deep partnership.
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06.19.13, 04:10 AM
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That is really weird he eats breakfast at his moms every day
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06.19.13, 03:32 AM
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Her house is on his way to work. He gets in at 7:30 am so he stops by at 6:30 to have coffee. A first I thought it was sweet because he cares about her (she is 82 years old). But now I think it's because he's too cheap to grab a bagel and coffee at the deli! (I get up for work at 8 am).
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06.19.13, 03:27 AM
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OK. So you are not even awake when he has gotten ready and arrived at the office? There's the issue. I don't think it's frugality. His mother has his breakfast ready for him and he can socialize with her at the same time. If you were up having breakfast when he was up, I don't think he'd be leaving to have breakfast somewhere else.
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06.19.13, 03:42 AM
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True. That's probably the reason.
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06.19.13, 03:59 AM
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Everything sounded reasonable until the part about eating breakfast at his mother's house every day. What is up with that? Was he doing this when you were going out and before you got married?
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06.19.13, 03:36 AM
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i bet that's partly because he loves his mother and wants to check in on her every day. and i am sure it's a comforting routine. hell, i wish my mom would cook me breakfast every day and i'd even pay her to do it if she'd agree.
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06.19.13, 03:35 AM
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This behavior did not change when you got married. He was like this before you got married. You can't go into a marriage thinking you are going to change someone. It doesn't work like that. It says a lot about you that you would consider "cutting your losses and moving on" over something so trivial. You were never really into him were you? You felt like you were running out of time and had better get married, didn't you? This smacks of it. Sad.
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06.19.13, 03:52 AM
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No, I meant cutting my losses as giving up any efforts to change him. I did manage to change hoe he dressed. When we started dating, he used to wear awful shirts and shoes. Now he dresses a bit more fashionably because I am with him when he goes shopping.
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06.19.13, 04:00 AM
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If you love him, you love him. EVERYONE has faults. You could be with a guy who spends way beyond his means.
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06.19.13, 04:07 AM
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What about separate bank accounts?
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06.19.13, 04:10 AM
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Make your own money and spend it any way you like
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06.19.13, 04:11 AM
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Most people who are excessively frugal have insecurity about money - either grew up poor or had some kind of scary time of unemployment or lack of funds. the best you can hope for it to see a counselor about it and maybe a financial planner and come to a realistic compromise. One where you agree to save a certain amount of money every year but then also agree to plan for certain expenses that are important to you. FWIW, my frugal immigrant parents would never have dreamed of eating breakfast out - my mom was incredulous that the secretaries at her office who were always complaining about lack of funds would get their coffee and bagel/muffin from the "coffee cart" every day. she would go on and on about how inexpensive it was to make your own coffee at home and that they even had a coffee maker in the office but they were too lazy to make it and how much money they would save if they didn't spend that $2 every day. My parents now have a NW over $12M and while they are less frugal for them, they are still very frugal - my mom will meet someone out for coffee or go to a nice restaurant with friends, but she would never buy coffee or a beverage on the go or get lunch out as a convenience.
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06.19.13, 03:12 AM
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we switched to a sippy cup at 1 year and DD stopped drinking milk. i wish you better luck
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06.19.13, 03:16 AM
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This happened to us too! DS is almost 3 and just now starting with milk again..oy!
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06.19.13, 03:19 AM
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My twin dds are 13 months and we still do bottles for milk 3x a day - not in a rush to cut out. They use straw cups with water for meals, they get alot more milk from bottle and it comforts them plus pediatrician is fine with it. Bottle doesn't linger - they drink the milk then we take away. On the go we do the straw cups with water. We got them used to the straw cups very early
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06.19.13, 03:17 AM
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Oh and we do 6 oz each too
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06.19.13, 03:18 AM
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Cold turkey. Have one bad morning and it's all over. We had luck making a big deal about saying "cheers" and drinking. GL, might not be pleasant!
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06.19.13, 03:17 AM
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lol. Same here. All my kids did the "cheers" and "cin cin" thing once they were using sippies. Really like the Nalgene cups, by the way (someone here recommended them and they're all I've ever used for #3). They don't look super babyish, either, so he can use them for water bottles until he's pushing 4.
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06.19.13, 03:22 AM
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or: LOL DS is big into the nalgene and Kleen Kanteen.
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06.19.13, 03:24 AM
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Brush teeth before bed. The whole 'no bottle at one' is ridiculous. FWIW- my first never 'got' the sippy cup. He was so obsessed with getting the water out and just made a big mess. Straw cups were fine. Bottles and/or nursing after 1 is just fine - it's comforting and only in our little competitive, neurotic circle is this even a 'thing' - go w/ the flow. #2 didn't want anything to do w/ the bottle or nursing at that age -- wanted to be like his big bro.. None of this stuff matters at all.
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06.19.13, 03:13 AM
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06.19.13, 03:25 AM
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Totally agree
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06.19.13, 03:25 AM
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What is your logic in wanting to take it away? They are still so young bottle won't hurt them.
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06.19.13, 03:24 AM
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Bottles are bad for the teeth and speech development. They're supposed to transition to a straw cup or a regular cup at one. I'm finding it's not that easy to make that transition, though.
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06.19.13, 03:54 AM
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np: i really think this depends. if kids are drinking water out of a cup and still taking milk a couple of times a day from a bottle, where the milk is drunk in 5-10 min and then it's done, it really won't impact teeth or speech. it's the carrying a bottle around and sipping from it all day long that causes problems, same as pacifier use.
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06.19.13, 04:11 AM
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Does she know how to drink out of a cup as well? If not, start that now (with water), even if you keep the bottles. Then when she's comfortable with a cup just start switching it out.
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06.19.13, 03:35 AM
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Why are you pushing this? Most kids will wean themselves to a great extent when they are ready
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06.19.13, 04:13 AM
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06.19.13, 03:12 AM
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I was 13, police were not involved. Technically I'm not allowed in CVS ever again. DH knows this and a lot worse
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06.19.13, 03:15 AM
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what's worse?
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06.19.13, 03:16 AM
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I used to cut myself
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06.19.13, 03:18 AM
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Whoa. How are you doing now?
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06.19.13, 03:13 AM
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Fine. I was a very unhappy teenager. I haven't cut, stole, or hurt myself in 10+ years
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06.19.13, 03:24 AM
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Do you have a steady job? Is your DH successful?
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06.19.13, 03:36 AM
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Yes and Yes
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06.19.13, 03:43 AM
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I was also 13. Not arrested but they scared the shit out of me. It was just a bottle of nail polish. Never did it again.
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06.19.13, 03:25 AM
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you got caught your first time?
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06.19.13, 03:19 AM
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No on is claiming they got caught the first time
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06.19.13, 03:27 AM
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so that was your first and only time? i find that hard to believe. also, is this on your record?
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06.19.13, 03:16 AM
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I don't think she said it was
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06.19.13, 03:18 AM
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Op - first and only time getting caught. Shoplifted 2-3x before this clothing items. Bound to happen. It was expunged from my record 5 years later - so virtually gone
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06.19.13, 03:22 AM
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(Never shoplifted after this ever! )
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06.19.13, 03:22 AM
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21 is pretty pathetic.
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06.19.13, 03:14 AM
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THIS
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06.19.13, 03:24 AM
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You are sad
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06.19.13, 03:29 AM
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Yep, people who have never shoplifted are the sad ones here.
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06.19.13, 03:24 AM
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You are sad judging her/calling her pathetic without knowing her backstory. She clearly had issues.
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06.19.13, 03:33 AM
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if you dig deep enough, everyone has issues. yet we still execute criminals and send themt o prison.
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06.19.13, 03:34 AM
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06.19.13, 03:37 AM
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I had issues. My mom died suddenly
In an elevator malfunction when i was 19 and I never really dealt with it.
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06.19.13, 03:28 AM
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so you shoplifted as therapy? how does that make sense?
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06.19.13, 03:34 AM
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np: it's an excuse people make to justify bad behavior
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06.19.13, 03:37 AM
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Op - I was just angry and didn't care if I lived or died so certainly didn't care about society rules. Just because I am giving you a reason doesn't mean it is right. I am glad they arrested me, woke me up and I never did it again.
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06.19.13, 03:49 AM
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You don't need to explain yourself to these psychos. Shoplifting is hardly the worst thing you could have done and it's been 15 years.
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06.19.13, 03:46 AM
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it just makes no sense that you started shoplifting as therapy for the death of your mother. drinking, maybe. drugs, ditto. taking on dangerous jobs (e.g. policewoman or firefighting), yes. shoplifting, no. it makes no sense.
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06.19.13, 04:00 AM
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np: this is the stupidest statement. it's not therapy - it's simply risky, attention seeking behavior. when you are in pain, you seek out things that will make you feel better and you don't care about the consequences. the things don't "make sense" they just are.
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06.19.13, 04:06 AM
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things always make sense. shoplifting is not attention seeking. it is furtive. if you want attention, you become a total slut. i am sure getting things makes everybody feel better. it has nothing to do with the pain of losing someone. you are crazy.
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06.19.13, 04:11 AM
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Why are you being so mean to the OP?
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06.19.13, 04:22 AM
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of course it's attention seeking. people are trying to see what they can get away with and how far they can push it until they get caught. but often they want to get caught. we're not talking kleptomania.
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06.19.13, 04:25 AM
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What!? This is the 2nd person I have heard of recently who died this way! Off topic, and I'm sorry, but how does this happen? And how common is it?
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06.19.13, 03:33 AM
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Not very common. Horrific. Elevator dropped suddenly at a power outage. Not that it comes close to the reolacement of our mother but we won a settlement with the elevator company.
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06.19.13, 03:50 AM
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I'm so sorry.
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06.19.13, 03:55 AM
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I got caught when I was like 18. Shoplifted some chips and fake nails. Even thinking about it now like 20 years later I feel sick to my stomach. I am a total nervous Nelly so imagining myself in that store stuffing something in my bag is crazy. No police just not allowed in the store.
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06.19.13, 03:42 AM
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Op - I am nervous nelly too! Cannot imagine an earlier version of me thinking it was ok.
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06.19.13, 03:45 AM
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yikes! I would never shoplift - even as a kid
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06.19.13, 04:13 AM
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06.19.13, 03:06 AM
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Yes....cheating on college bf
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06.19.13, 03:01 AM
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she's guilty, idiot.
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06.19.13, 03:11 AM
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Of what
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06.19.13, 03:12 AM
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she let someone into her apt and let let him kill her roommate including tying her up or otherwise incapacitating her from helping herself and not coming to her aid.
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06.19.13, 03:12 AM
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I shouldn't have said what led me to the question, Have you ever been accused of doing something you didn't do?
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06.19.13, 03:13 AM
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np: why do you think so? (genuinely curious, I don't know what to think)
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06.19.13, 03:19 AM
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just everything. but one tell tale thing is that she confessed that when her roommate let out a blood curdling scream, she covered her ears to block the sound. some people say that she just said that under police coercion. under police coercion, you make up stuff like, i did this. then i did this. then this and this. and they are all active things in the crime. they are not passive details that don't contribute like that the murder victim let out a blood curdling scream and that it bothered you so much that you covered your ears. you confess to that because it really happened.
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06.19.13, 03:22 AM
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She might be dumb but she's not guilty! For gods sake The person who did it already confessed and is in jail!
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06.19.13, 03:14 AM
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you're such a fucktard. so why did her boyfriend say that she's lying and that he wasn't with her the night of the murder?
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06.19.13, 03:12 AM
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what?! he didn't say that at all!
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06.19.13, 03:20 AM
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What's a fucktard. Her boyfriend never said that., sorry! Loser.
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06.19.13, 03:30 AM
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link above, idiot.
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06.19.13, 03:36 AM
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I think Amanda Knox is guilty of something and as there the night of the murder. And yes, I've been accused of things I haven't done, but most people on a minor scale
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06.19.13, 04:15 AM
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06.19.13, 03:05 AM
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Manhattan/ Barbados or Rome
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06.19.13, 03:07 AM
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Seattle/Jackson Hole
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06.19.13, 03:11 AM
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San Diego and I'd take Jackson as well. Insanely, insanely expensive, however.
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06.19.13, 03:20 AM
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Maybe New Orleans garden district
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06.19.13, 03:09 AM
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Manhattan, Naples FL
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06.19.13, 03:12 AM
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Are you 80?
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06.19.13, 03:37 AM
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Miami, somewhere in California
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06.19.13, 03:19 AM
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I wouldn't live here if money were no object.
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06.19.13, 03:15 AM
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where is here?
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06.19.13, 03:31 AM
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NYC - 90% of us are here, no?
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06.19.13, 03:38 AM
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OP: I am not so that's probably why I didn't get it. I do think most people are in NYC though
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06.19.13, 03:35 AM
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San Diego - Kauai
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06.19.13, 03:25 AM
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Manhattan. South Florida. Already have a country house that we use a lot, but would love somewhere wrm, easy and cheap to get to.
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06.19.13, 03:32 AM
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Detroit area/Tuscany
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Austin/Barbados or Parrot Cay
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06.19.13, 03:42 AM
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Manhattan. Don't want to own any more property. Would love to vacation in lots of these places, but not own.
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06.19.13, 03:38 AM
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Singapore - Bali but if i lived in the US either tahoe or hamptons
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06.19.13, 03:48 AM
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NYC. Nantucket, Maui, London.
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06.19.13, 04:08 AM
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06.19.13, 03:05 AM
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Yes...whoops
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06.19.13, 02:59 AM
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Bahah atleast yours was a date! I slept with DH after we met at a bar...double whoops
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06.19.13, 03:08 AM
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Ha. I was pretty drunk.....don't remember much about it
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06.19.13, 03:02 AM
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06.19.13, 03:09 AM
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How LNG r u married
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06.19.13, 03:11 AM
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hmm, i went to college w dh, hooked up one night, had sex a week later, had our first date at least a month after that and have been happily together for 25 years :)
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06.19.13, 04:12 AM
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Actually I would have but HE held it off.
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06.19.13, 03:07 AM
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He did?!?!
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06.19.13, 03:01 AM
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Yes. He turned me down. Wanted to wait.
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06.19.13, 03:11 AM
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Ouch
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06.19.13, 03:12 AM
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Aw that's sweet! My DH said he couldn't wait to do the deed because he thought its be his last chance to get with someone "out of his league" lol he's such a dork
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06.19.13, 03:12 AM
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^it'd
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06.19.13, 03:12 AM
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How long you wait
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06.19.13, 03:13 AM
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We didn't! Lol we met at a bar and hooked up the same night. I left the next day and didn't give him my number and had no intentions of seeing him again, but I ended up accidentally leaving something at his place. He googled and found my email and we started texting. When I met with him the second time to get my styff back I was smitten.
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06.19.13, 03:18 AM
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06.19.13, 03:18 AM
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no, are you kidding me?
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06.19.13, 03:12 AM
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Oh come off it.
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06.19.13, 03:23 AM
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We had anal
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06.19.13, 03:17 AM
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I did, regretted it the next day but within a few months we basically knew we'd end up together
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06.19.13, 03:26 AM
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2nd date. first date was just drinks. it was meant to be, i have never felt so comfortable with someone. it was easy right from the start (the relationship, that is).
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06.19.13, 03:28 AM
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yes
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06.19.13, 03:48 AM
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Yes and like above it was not a date. Met in a bar, went home w him. Did it next morning. Together 12 yrs.
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06.19.13, 03:54 AM
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Yup. Bagged a real catch too!
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06.19.13, 04:02 AM
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YES! Already knew each other socially. Married for eight years now. Two kids. If a man decided I wasn't "marriage material" because I slept with him on the first date, then I would feel the same. Not at all attracted to spending my life with the kind of man who divides women into those categories, thinks less of a women for sleeping with him without "holding out".
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06.19.13, 03:57 AM
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yes, but it was a weekend day and I didn't sleep with him until the second day (if that matters)
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