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[ - ] Thoughts on this marble backsplash? DH and I love it even though Chevron is so 2010: http://www.houzz.com/photos/11606889/Noe-Valley-Kitchen-transitional-kitchen-san-francisco 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Like it but I'd add something..let me look [ Reply | More ]
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Look at this http://edgewaterstudio.com [ Reply | More ]
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Love the lantern pattern [ Reply | More ]
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Caprio in the grey [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Are you ever envious of your CF friends? My best friend married an older divorced man and they do not/will not have children. On one hand, I'm jealous of her impeccable clothes and spotless apartment and the adventures they go on at a moment's notice. On the other hand, I love my DCs so much, I can't imagine life without them. Anyone else? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 10:30 PM Flag
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Not jealous but I never sacrificed to be a mother, some do. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 10:32 PM Flag
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At times I am envious. I have a few CF couples. They have a great lifestyle and are very happy. It's a myth that you need kids to live a fulfilling life. [ Reply | More ]
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OP: I agree with this. She is truly happy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 10:35 PM Flag
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Never. My life would be so one dimensional without my kids. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 10:34 PM Flag
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I am CF but please dont envy us that much. There are pros and cons to each lifestyle. You see us with more spare time, more income, more resources, and freedom. But in 30 years, you may have a nicer family and more reunions and events/memories- whereas DH and I will have to rely mostly on our friends and cousins or distant relatives for any family issues, retirement activities, etc. I am only in my late 30s but there are pluses to being CF but prob just as many minuses as I notice every time I log onto my FB and encounter comments from friends asking us when we are finalu going to breed, etc....*sigh* [ Reply | More ]
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Right at this moment I'd say "Yes, I am jealous." [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 10:41 PM Flag
[ - ] You need a life. You are pretty strange. We all are good for things, every race has strengths. Blacks are the best in American music, sports, and entertainment. Asians are leaders in science. Indians are leaders in technology. Hispanics are great dancers. What do whites do good? STEAL IDEAS FROM OTHER PEOPLE AND CAPITALIZE OFF OF EVERYONE ELSE. We all have our place in this world. What is yours? AND WHAT IS YOUR POINT? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Whites are responsible for every major advancement of humankind, from the Renaissance, to the scientific method. Blacks have added nothing. [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
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+1. I challenge the entirety of Urban Baby to list 3 comparable achievements. You're going to get a bunch of irrelevant nonsense like George Washington Carver's invention of peanut butter. Not a single accomplishment will match, for instance, white contributions to theoretical physics, literature, music, etc. [ Reply | More ]
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Whites are the best race, and it isn't close. We created Western civilization (the best civilization), we traveled to distant lands and discovered the world, we're the most physically attractive, we're the smartest (and no, Asians ant-people are not smarter, despite having a higher average IQ). Look around you: every single thing in your immediate vicinity was invented by a white (a white man, actually). Whites are the best, period. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 10:33 PM Flag
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Listen to this goyim. We Jews created everything and lead the world in all fields. Laughable that all the so called black achievements are thanks to Jews (we run the sports and entertainment industry and in that control all your sports stars, actors and "musicians"). Seriously laughing my ass off at this poor mud. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 10:38 PM Flag
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Jews are undoubtedly the master race when it comes to intelligence. The KKK types will never admit that. The better argument against the Jews is that they also are often evil geniuses, responsible for all sorts of financially devious crimes, financial panics, etc. That is a more potent and fairer criticism of the Jews [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 10:47 PM Flag
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The only color I see is pink. I decorated my whole condo with a pink scheme! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 10:42 PM Flag
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This racist bullshit is disgusting. You all are pathetic. [ Reply | More ]
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Nice racism there, mate. What about Malta and the Maltese? BIGOT! [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] We moved into new house and have to redo kitchen. Will likely be in the house 10 years, so even if we put in custom cabinets and better appliances it will be shot in 10 years and worthless in terms of resale. Should I just do Ikea, which I think looks very nice and I personally am happy with, or spring for the extra for custom and better appliances? 15 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 10:15 PM Flag
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IKEA cabinets and nice stove and fridge. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 10:15 PM Flag
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Good Appliances and wood custom cabinets...don't go out of style. Our kitchen is 10 yrs old and is very contemporary. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 10:17 PM Flag
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We went white cabinets and white marble counters. Repainted the island grey 2 years ago and redid the hardware as well. Easy fix. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 10:18 PM Flag
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for custom? I'm worried wood custom will wind up looking beat up in 10 years, while if we go with Ikea, we can just redo the doors if necessary for very cheap. Also the appliances have much longer warranty and are much cheaper--induction cooktop for example 1/2 of the lowest price KitchenAid I saw today. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 10:21 PM Flag
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Depends on what your going for, for a high-end remodel you need custom, Miele, Viking, Bosch...IKEA is low range remodel [ Reply | More ]
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I don't know--can people really tell? I can't. Maybe the appliances. And the main issue right now is that since we will be in the house 10 years, even if we do a "high end" remodel, it will still likely look like sh-t or be broken by resale time so if I don't care, what am I gaining? Even though resale is 10 years off, that's still what I'm thinking of, that I'd likely have to redo stuff at that point no matter what. [ Reply | More ]
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Ofcourse people can tell. Regardless,your not going to need to replace a Viking stove in 10 yrs or a sub zero frig [ Reply | More ]
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np Easy to tell. Custom cabinets fit their space. Non custom have gap between top of cab and ceiling or need a bulkhead. Cabinets with solid wood boxes last a long time and can be refinished or painted. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 10:37 PM Flag
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2nd. Good wood custom cabinets can be touched up so they'll look new. I disagree that they'll look shot in 10 years. If they're good cabinets they'll age well, similar to quality furniture pieces. [ Reply | More ]
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FWIW, we have 12 year old Ikea cabinets and they still look great. We didn't have a lot of money for renovations going in so at the time it was the better option for us. Pleased with their durability, actually. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 10:16 PM Flag
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Are you asking for permission to install ikea cabinets? Go ahead. No one cares. [ Reply | More ]
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No, I'm not asking for permission but thank you for your helpful reply (and go on to post all the stuff people really do care about). I'm asking what happens in terms of resale since it seems in 10 plus years no matter what I buy will be beat up. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 10:38 PM Flag
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I love ikea kitchens. I'd do this in a heartbeat. [ Reply | More ]
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Kitchens unless your DCs are wild or you use cheap materials won't look beat up in 10 years. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 10:41 PM Flag
[ - ] Did you see the story of the "ebola" nurse detained at Newark thanks to Cuomo/Christie's panicking. What tools both those governors are -- every single move they make is about what they think will make them more "electable" when they run for President, and they have no inner core as to what is right. Good move - start detaining people without even thinking through the implications because once you announce it (for political reasons), you can't be bothered to follow up. 19 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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neither of them will be allowed to be president since they didn't go to the right schools. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 10:06 PM Flag
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Yes. Allowing potential Ebola carriers to roam the tristate area is a better move. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 10:10 PM Flag
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OP: It's not that they had to let them roam around. It is that they announced this for political reasons and had no idea how to do it. And frankly, did not care -- it was all show over substance. [ Reply | More ]
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The idiot doctors decision to go bowling is responsible. Cuomo and Christie realized that if trained MSF doctors can't be trusted to behave responsibly, mandatory quarantine was the only solution [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 10:34 PM Flag
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Exactly. The time to allow people to act responsibly on their own has passed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 10:36 PM Flag
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Amen [ Reply | More ]
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I agree the decision was irresponsible. I don't even mind if a quarantine policy was enacted. But what Cuomo and Christie did was all show over substance. Instead of actually figuring out how to go about doing such a quarantine, they just announced it! And it seemed as if the people who were supposed to take care of it had no clue as to how to go about doing it. It's what a dislike most about Cuomo. He is just a tool of whatever he thinks will make him more electable to Republicans. How about thinking about how to govern the best way? Even when I happen to agree with his policies, which I do, it doesn't feel as if he even has the courage of his convictions. It's all about his image. [ Reply | More ]
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Yes, the nurse who flew to Ohio, the lab person on the cruise, the doc who went Uber'ing and bowling? WTF? Where is the common sense? [ Reply | More ]
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Right? I get it that three weeks being stuck inside is a drag but it's a DEADLY DISEASE. Get Netflix and hunker down. [ Reply | More ]
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link? [ Reply | More ]
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^^this is her 1st person account. She was barely given any food or water for hours. Why? How incompetent because no one was in charge. [ Reply | More ]
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Come on, even a newborn can survive 3 hours without food. [ Reply | More ]
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I didn't say she couldn't survive. I said that the way it was done seemed to be the most incompetent way I have ever heard. WTH? Let's have a press conference and then drop the ball? [ Reply | More ]
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Just bc they didn't exercise the quarantine properly at Newark doesn't mean it's a bad idea. [ Reply | More ]
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I think it could be a good idea! But it is typical of Cuomo that he didn't actually care enough to devote any time or effort to figuring out how to make it work. He had to run and make his announcement because he had to prove he cared. [ Reply | More ]
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So are you against the quarantine or not? [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] What's the earliest it is reasonable to send out X-mas cards? Just ordered and was hoping to get them all done (expecting end of Nov) and out before I deliver..... 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Labor day. [ Reply | More ]
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Just do them all and out them away to drop in the mail the first week of Dec. [ Reply | More ]
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Is it not typical to send out before thanksgiving? Was hoping to send them out that week. [ Reply | More ]
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Too early. I aim for Dec 1. [ Reply | More ]
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Not before Thanksgiving. I am also thinking you have way too much time on your hands. [ Reply | More ]
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The day after TG is okay. [ Reply | More ]
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It's okay to skip a year. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 10:23 PM Flag
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I use TG weekend to write & send xmas cards to my friends who celebrate xmas, and then xmas day to write & send new year's cards to everyone else. Since you're about to be very busy with your own new baby, I think you get a pass on sending them whenever suits your schedule. [ Reply | More ]
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You can have them all set to go. But don't put them in the mail until December. [ Reply | More ]
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FTM? If so you'll have lots of time after baby arrives. Or just do them all now and then drop them in a mail sometime during December Or get DH to drop them if you worry you won't be up to it (but I promise you that you will be fine!) [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] I just spiked my tea with bourbon. Am I a bad mom? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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i put cocaine in mine! [ Reply | More ]
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Yes but not because you're an alky [ Reply | More ]
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yes [ Reply | More ]
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why is this bad? [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] What makes you basic? 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Too many tums [ Reply | More ]
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Good one [ Reply | More ]
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I like lululemon and getting my hair blown out [ Reply | More ]
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Using the word "basic" this way. [ Reply | More ]
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I still handwash my dishes. That's pretty basic. [ Reply | More ]
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i find hand washing dishes therapeutic. [ Reply | More ]
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OR: me too. [ Reply | More ]
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I don't trust dishwashers. Not clean enough. [ Reply | More ]
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I like Tory Burch and Michael Kors- they are mainstays in my everyday wardrobe. I don't care what UB thinks. [ Reply | More ]
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my Coach bag. From the OUTLET! [ Reply | More ]
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The ultimate basic move is over-analyzing what makes one "basic." [ Reply | More ]
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If you look around and can't figure out who is the basic bitch, it's you. [ Reply | More ]
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asking about being basic. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] How does your school handle physical violence? It seems like my children's school has a big problem with this. We adore the school BUT both of my children have had kids hit them this year and so have their close friends. At the preschool age I understand that some children are still working these issues out but it seems to be happening a lot with the elementary school boys, specifically two boys who seem to hit frequently. At what point does a school counsel these kids out? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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It is not tolerated at any age at out school. If in K/1 the DC gets a warning, after that DCs are gone if there is physical violence. [ Reply | More ]
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You adore a school where your kids have been victims of violence? [ Reply | More ]
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they cut off hands (American school in Riyadh). [ Reply | More ]
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What school? I cannot believe this. [ Reply | More ]
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Are you sure your kids have not done any hitting? [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] No connection, MC(UB standard) HHI 350, some sort of diversity. Here's my list: IPS, CADS, GHS, Family school, Montessori Internationale, St Barts, CCDS. What do you think? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 09:51 PM Flag
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Depends on where you live. These are all over the place. [ Reply | More ]
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UES(close to Sutton) [ Reply | More ]
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Have you completed/received apps for all? Looks like a good list overall. [ Reply | More ]
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Not for CCDS(applied for the lottery). :-( [ Reply | More ]
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Good luck with the lottery. Good luck with the whole application season. Surely the diversity won't hurt. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] At what age would you get playstation for dc? I came across a really cool dinosaur game, my ds would love it but not sure I want to open that door yet. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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its about how often they play, not having it. If money no object, this is no diffent than playing games on moms phone [ Reply | More ]
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birth. [ Reply | More ]
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never [ Reply | More ]
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DC is 10 and no play station yet [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Thoughts on Saint Anne's? Is it really an arts school? Not a good fit for a science kid? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Arts and science are not polar opposites [ Reply | More ]
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Teacher: I think it seems like a great school. [ Reply | More ]
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It has great science classes. [ Reply | More ]
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Ann's. A science kid can manage there because the curriculum tends to be more self-directed. But, FWIW, it does seem like some science/math kids leave for Stuy (and perhaps other high schools). I do not believe you will have the strong science/math peer group at Saint Ann's that you will have at specialized high schools. [ Reply | More ]
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^I mean for high school, obviously. It is fine for elementary/middle school. [ Reply | More ]
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I think this is true, but SA offers way more to the student who wants to do more than just math/science. If your kid is a complete STEM geek with no other interests, then SA would not be a good fit. [ Reply | More ]
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That's not really fair. Other schools offer more than STEM interests, too. Dismissing kids at specialized high schools as STEM geeks shows you know nothing about specialized high schools. But how many students are taking truly advanced math and science classes at SA? To be fair, there may be far more than I think -- maybe there are 30 or 40 very high level math kids there. [ Reply | More ]
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^^by the way, I think there are more in lower school. I am talking about in high school specifically. SA seems wonderful for everything in their lower school. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Do you cater to your DH? Suppress your natural personality/instincts so as to not offend him? Stop hanging out with DFs he doesn't care for? Let him make all the major decisions or defer to his view on them? 23 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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no. who can live like that? [ Reply | More ]
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Many SAHMs I know do. They know their DHs cheat for example and choose to ignore. [ Reply | More ]
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There's a name for that. There's a name for SAHMs who live with men who abuse them emotionally and they stay because of the money. We all know what those women are called. Notwithstanding what they might tell themselves: kids, loyalty, duty, fear. Whatever. [ Reply | More ]
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Of course not. Why would anyone marry a person they have to hide their whole personality for? [ Reply | More ]
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I'm guessing OP is a troll. [ Reply | More ]
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See below, I am not. I want to tell my DFs to stand up for themselves but when I make the slightest hint, they say...but you have your own $$$ [ Reply | More ]
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Ah, got it. I will say though, i'm a WOHM by choice, but DH is super successful. I don't intend to "cater to him" but I am definitely a different person at work and with my friends than I am with him. I do feel like a Jekyll and Hyde of sorts sometimes. [ Reply | More ]
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come on now, all women are two-faced. [ Reply | More ]
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What? That's not what I meant, and no, we're not. [ Reply | More ]
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you know it's true. there are no honest women. there aren't a lot of honest men, either, but there are some. women need to be two-faced just to survive in the gossipy and back-stabbing world of female-female relationships. [ Reply | More ]
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So then I'm guessing you're a man. It looks like the women you know make poor choices with friends. My female friends are smart, wonderful women. We are not gossipy or back-stabbing. [ Reply | More ]
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guess they value their relationship/$$'s more than your friendship - it happens people grow apart [ Reply | More ]
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I ask because I have several DFs like this. They are all married to super successful men and they are like two different people when DH is around or if DH is working/traveling. [ Reply | More ]
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MYOB [ Reply | More ]
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Really? You'd let your best girlfriends degrade themselves? [ Reply | More ]
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most people lose themselves in their relationships, it's just the way it is. your "friends" are long gone. [ Reply | More ]
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I still see them several times a month. They are hardly Long gone. [ Reply | More ]
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they're gone sister, i was in denial for a long time too. [ Reply | More ]
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I don't agree w this at all. Have many good friends and behave around them the way that I dud in my twenties. [ Reply | More ]
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No. Sounds like you do perhaps? Are you worried about this? [ Reply | More ]
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Me..LOL. I have a 7 figure career. [ Reply | More ]
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Does he have an eight figure career? What are you worried about sister?! Perhaps you need to be in a more deferential role. Important question is, are you happy? The rest is all details... [ Reply | More ]
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I am super happy, my DFs, however, seem miserable and complain all the time about their DHs. I really don't understand why'd they agree to live in some modern apt when they prefer traditional architecture or stop wearing ballet flats because their DH wants to see them in heels. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] What ever happened to Alexis Stewart? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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She is hanging out with Melissa rivers on her mom's coattail [ Reply | More ]
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Nothing wrong with this. Melissa is the rightful heir. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 10:35 PM Flag
[ - ] 18 lbs lost in 80 days. Now I'm down to 143 and am 5'6". How am I doing? What should my goal weight be since I seem to have snapped out o that plateau -- which came from NOT running all week due to weather and work, weirdly. What's my goal to not be fat in UB terms? 17 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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WTF..who cares [ Reply | More ]
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NP: Whoa, you sound fat. [ Reply | More ]
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If you mean a size designer 2 is fat..yeah, I am [ Reply | More ]
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Let's go with your terms. I'm an inch taller and weight the same, just lost 12 lbs, plan to get to 135 and plateau. [ Reply | More ]
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Congrats! 5'7" and 135 would look great. I was thinking 135 but maybe more like 132? What size are you at 135 as a better gauge I suppose [ Reply | More ]
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Or body type..is she a DD or a small B? Hips? Waist ? [ Reply | More ]
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32D, size 4/6, not too much of a waist. 32D looks a lot like a 34B; I don't actually have a huge chest. I don't know what hip measurement I have. Jeans are a 26 or 27. If I weigh 135 instead of 143, I just have much less unnecessary fat. [ Reply | More ]
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I'd work on toning rather than weight loss [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 09:50 PM Flag
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I run a lot and gave good upper body tone...not really an issue (np directly above, not op) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 09:52 PM Flag
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Start weight lifting..most women have a glute imbalance...their legs work and not their bum [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 10:00 PM Flag
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I was a competitive runner for a long time, so luckily I've been trained to run well. Anyway. I'm not sure why I think other people would want to know this! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 10:02 PM Flag
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How did you lose all that? I'm your height snd 155. You're doing great! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 09:33 PM Flag
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I wouldn't turn to UB to determine your goals. Most of the posters here are trolls with no morals or values. Take a good look in the mirror and decide whether you like how you look. Go for a jog or play some tennis with a friend and decide whether you feel energetic & strong enough. Set your goals based on you, not the riff-raff here. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 09:34 PM Flag
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I am that weight and 5'4". Trying to get to 132. Having a hard time. Congratulations to you! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 09:48 PM Flag
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You're eating too much. NP. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 10:38 PM Flag
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Yeah, but I am so hungry all the time. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 10:41 PM Flag
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congrats! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 09:50 PM Flag
[ - ] My 'employer' is a truly incompetent woman. She can't do anything, and of course, she thinks she's always right. A little nutty, too. Her DH and I exchange 'oh, god' looks behind her back. I wonder if she realizes everybody thinks she's ridiculous. 36 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 09:24 PM Flag
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Are you sleeping with him? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 09:25 PM Flag
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Her husband? Why does everybody on this site assume men and women are ALWAYS having sex? (FYI he's fifty and my gay friend and I are 85% certain he's gay). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 09:25 PM Flag
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suuuuuuuuuure [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 09:26 PM Flag
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Trust me, nobody wants to fuck your husband. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 09:30 PM Flag
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no, but you sound like you want to fuck that husband. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 09:32 PM Flag
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I have a strange fetish for old gay dudes, you caught me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 09:33 PM Flag
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i don't doubt it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 09:35 PM Flag
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What does his being 50 have anything to do with the situation? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 09:35 PM Flag
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That makes him twice my age...? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 09:37 PM Flag
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have you not noticed that women are SEX-crazed maniacs? Aside from kids/dogs/cats, it's all they can think and talk about. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 09:57 PM Flag
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what job do you have? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 09:26 PM Flag
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Nanny. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 09:26 PM Flag
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Oh, another nanny who thinks she's the coolest and the parents would be lost without her. Collapsing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 09:45 PM Flag
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---Oh, and the women at school are always rolling their eyes and talking about her behind her back, making fun of her "career". [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 09:31 PM Flag
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trust me, sweetie. they all think you are the bigger asshole making fun of her employer. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 09:33 PM Flag
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I keep my mouth shut, but trust me, darling, they all do it.. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 09:33 PM Flag
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are you condescending SAHM? same writing style? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 09:34 PM Flag
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what? no, i woh. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 09:36 PM Flag
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Why did you put "employer" in quotes? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 09:32 PM Flag
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She doesn't pay me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 09:32 PM Flag
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You work for free? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 09:35 PM Flag
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No, but she doesn't pay me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 09:38 PM Flag
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Is she your boss? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 09:41 PM Flag
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So then why call her your employer at all? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 09:42 PM Flag
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so the trust fund pays you? still her money [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 09:42 PM Flag
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Guessing the mom is a SAHM and OP is trying to make a statement about how it's "his" money. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 09:44 PM Flag
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OP is just envious. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 09:52 PM Flag
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you work for free? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 09:35 PM Flag
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Is it S.R.? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 09:34 PM Flag
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She's the mother. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 09:39 PM Flag
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Yes, she is. But I spent two weeks in a hospital with her child, she popped in to bring trinkets and rant to the nurses about GMOs. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 09:40 PM Flag
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so what was she doing instead? of course you had to go to the hospital because that's your job to take care of her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 09:49 PM Flag
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If that is all you got..your the nutty one. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 10:13 PM Flag
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So quit. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 09:44 PM Flag
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you sound like you would be much happier in a different position or a new career. what are you longer term goals? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 09:52 PM Flag
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Ugh, you are so disgusting. You sound like you are jealous of her life, and the fact that you think she doesn't pay you is bizarre. Who is paying you darling entitled nanny? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.25.14, 10:11 PM Flag
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