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[ - ] If the weather is about 65-70 where we are going should we pack jackets? Thx 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Yes. At night it will be cold. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Posted earlier about my depressive/aggressive DH. He came back home safely. Within 5 minutes he was cursing at me again, I stupidly engaged and we got into a fight about how he treats me. The guy hates me and himself and the only reason he hasn't killed himself yet is the DCs. I don't know how much longer I can or should live with a ticking time-bomb (he says repeatedly that he will be dead within 5 years, tops). I would like to help him but cannot. Anyone btdt? I could use some light in this hell is darkness. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:45 AM Flag
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^^^ hellish [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:46 AM Flag
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You need a 3rd party (therapist) in your marriage. This is a mental illness. Marriages with mental illness cant survive without some kind of doctor or therapist. [ Reply | More ]
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We have his psychiatrist and a marriage counselor. He has been hospitalized for depression and is very resistant to going back. He always couches his suicide talk as "I'm not doing anything tonight, but I want to die." [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:52 AM Flag
[ - ] Anyone else watch My 600 Pound Life on tlc? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:42 AM Flag
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Sometimes. It's hard to turn away. I'm heavy (real world heavy, not UB heavy) and I use them as a cautionary tale. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:47 AM Flag
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See my post below about flattening my abs. Hope it helps. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] What is going to happen in NYC now? Do you think things will calm down 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:40 AM Flag
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Hopefully not, we need to purge this city of blacks [ Reply | More ]
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Ita [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:41 AM Flag
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We need to purge the city of republicans. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:43 AM Flag
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And billionaires. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:44 AM Flag
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And niggers. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] I love smoking methamphetamine 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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[ - ] What are ur favorite things to do with kids in Scottsdale and Tucson? Planning a vacation with dh and 10 yr old ds. Thanks 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:36 AM Flag
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Pool time [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:38 AM Flag
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visit grandma? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:39 AM Flag
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Just thinking of any nice places or restaurants to go to? Thx [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:46 AM Flag
[ - ] I have insomnia. I was able to flatten my abs in 3 months. Any questions? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:35 AM Flag
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How much meth did you smoke? [ Reply | More ]
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How you were able to do it in 3 month ? Did you lose weight ? How fit were you before you started? How old are you ? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:37 AM Flag
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Age 41. Was a size 16. Now a size 10. I did it by eating in an 8 hour window only every other day. On alternate days I ate meals every 5 hours (no snacking between meals). I exercised for 10 min a day. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:41 AM Flag
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Did you flatten them in the middle of the night? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:37 AM Flag
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What did you use to flatten them? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:39 AM Flag
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A paperweight. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:40 AM Flag
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What do you do if you are not eating at night? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:41 AM Flag
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Nothing. If I was hungry at night I ate but rarely. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Are the standards of living in London lower than that of NYC? I just can't see that to be true. I've seen SO MANY articles about people disappointed when moving to the UK from the US because of the lower standards of living but I'm guessing those aren't people from NYC moving to London. But I don't know... 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:22 AM Flag
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How is the standard of living lower here than in London? Any links to the articles? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:23 AM Flag
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I'm sorry, I meant the standard of living in London is lower than US [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:27 AM Flag
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Wow. Is London really that bad? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:28 AM Flag
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That's what I can't imagine. I'm just reading some discussion boards here so who knows, maybe these people are coming from a 4,000 sq ft house in the middle of a suburb to London... I can see how they would think that the standards of living might be different. But I can't believe that there's a big discrepancy between SOL in NYC to London [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:32 AM Flag
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I think it's different, not lower. The houses are smaller, the rooms are smaller, the heat and a/c don't work so well. People don't get their hair blown out constantly, there isn't a mani pedi place on every corner. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:33 AM Flag
[ - ] I miss my ex so much. I am a bad person. I hurt him a lot. I wish someone would find me and shoot me because I am such a bad person. I really hurt my ex. I don't deserve to live. I'm sorry. I'm so sorry. I hope he is okay now that he is away from me. I think I really deserve to get hurt and die for everything I did to him. Please somebody find me and kill me. 34 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:19 AM Flag
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Call a friend. Get a grip. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:20 AM Flag
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No friends. They were all his friends. So he got them all. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:21 AM Flag
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Call a family member. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:22 AM Flag
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No family. He was the only family. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:23 AM Flag
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Call a suicide hotline and start seeing a therapist. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:24 AM Flag
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No need. I deserve my punishment. It's only fair. Thanks for caring though. Good night. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:25 AM Flag
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General Topics 12.22.14, 04:33 AM Flag
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Please call for help. We care. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:35 AM Flag
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Thanks. It's very nice of you to say. There's nobody to call. And anyway I brought this on myself with my bad and uncaring behavior. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:37 AM Flag
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No. There are far worse people out there. Call a suicide hotline. Your ex wouldn't want this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:38 AM Flag
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No, I really hurt him. I was a very bad person. I just can't figure out how to be good. And in a lot of ways, I doubt that he wants me to live. His actions have made it pretty clear that he couldn't care less whether I lived or died. I think it would come as a relief to him if I was to die. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:40 AM Flag
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No. It's emotion calling, and it WILL pass. There is true evil out there, this is not it. It is clear that you two were not meant for each other, despite the signs that you were. I am not a trained therapist, but I've seen many, many things that tell me yours will get better. Please talk to a professional. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:46 AM Flag
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How do you know I was not evil? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:48 AM Flag
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There is true evil out there. Just read the papers, watch the news. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:51 AM Flag
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I sincerely doubt that. why are you beating yourself up? I've been hurt badly by two people--no part of me wishes they would hurt themselves. [ Reply | More ]
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He just didn't like me and found me very irritating and annoying. I know. Who can blame him? I know I was just a burden to him and he really resented that he was my only family. If I died, he would feel relief that he would never have to feel any obligation towards me any more. [ Reply | More ]
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I can blame him? Why was he so easily annoyed? Why didn't he wrap you in the warm embrace of his affection? You haven't found the one for you yet, that's all. Keep looking. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:52 AM Flag
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Then he wasn't the right one for you. [ Reply | More ]
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It will get better. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:40 AM Flag
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No one deserves to die, please get help.1(800)784-2433 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:39 AM Flag
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I guess you do if you treat someone very poorly. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:41 AM Flag
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No. [ Reply | More ]
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Sometimes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:43 AM Flag
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you sound like a narcissist. he probably doesn't even think about you. [ Reply | More ]
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He doesn't. I know I'm completely insignificant to him at this point. And I know I'm completely insignificant in general. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:44 AM Flag
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Aren't we all? It will look different soon. I've been there--this is only temporary. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:47 AM Flag
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I dunno. It's just hard to live knowing that I have been so cruel. [ Reply | More ]
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This and someone who needs to be the center of attention. If you truly feel sorry, you would QUIETLY get your shit together. Loud self lamination is the exact opposite of really getting your bad behavior. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:50 AM Flag
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I am in a similar spiral tonight, different circumstances. Let's find a book to read and distract ourselves for an hour. By then, we'll be out of the spiral. We can do this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:44 AM Flag
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I don't feel like I'm in a spiral. I just genuinely know that I would be happy to just be shot and killed and end all this torture once and for all. But I'm happy to help you in any way I can. I think Vonnegut or Dickens would be good options for you to read. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:46 AM Flag
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But you won't always feel this way. You're talking about a permanent solution to a temporary problem. [ Reply | More ]
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It's not a temporary problem. [ Reply | More ]
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What about Little Women? That's a soothing book... The women make mistakes, repent, try to be better... [ Reply | More ]
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No thanks. I hope you enjoy it though. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] DH and I are in the middle of moving our family (a 7 year old dd and twin 4 year old ds)from uptown to downtown. My in-laws really want us to come visit them for Christmas so we told them we'd make the 4 hour trip even though we're very busy. But now they announce that they're going to the house of their other ds' girlfriend's parents' home on Christmas eve and our kids are not welcome. So we'll be hanging around alone that night. In my opinion, it is what it is, but dh thinks they're being rude leaving us alone that night when we're coming all the way to visit them and the other couple lives so close which means they can see them anytime. It's always something. Thoughts? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:15 AM Flag
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They sound really rude. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:16 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:41 AM Flag
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I agree with DH. I wouldn't make the trip. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:17 AM Flag
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Dh is right. Don't go. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:23 AM Flag
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Don't go. You will have a totally relaxing, stress free holiday. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:23 AM Flag
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Geez. Rude rude rude. Cancel. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:24 AM Flag
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Very rude. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.22.14, 04:37 AM Flag
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I'm all for preserving family harmony but I wouldn't go under these circumstances. [ Reply | More ]
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I'll take the other side. Is it possible that this meeting with their DS's girlfriends parents is the pre-engagement meet up? If so, it may have been unexpected and kids would change the agenda tremendously. I would talk to them and see why things changed. [ Reply | More ]
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