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[ - ] Last weekend I texted a guy I just started dating "Meet me at the bar with your dick out" He came right away but probably going to need to put him in my "not going to have a relationship with him-EVER" category. Lol 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:30 AM Flag
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Why? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:32 AM Flag
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Wanted to hook up [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:33 AM Flag
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+1 - eeewwww! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:27 AM Flag
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Because he came right away. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:27 AM Flag
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literally? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:36 AM Flag
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I wish there was a forum with the tone of UB, but for those of us who are single/dating. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:26 AM Flag
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so cute. texting didn't exist when I met dh, and I don't think we even had email. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:27 AM Flag
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Np: what about this is cute? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:36 AM Flag
[ - ] Does anybody else change minor details in posts? I feel so guilty doing it. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:29 AM Flag
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More like leave out details that are identifying [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:23 AM Flag
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That's what I do... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:31 AM Flag
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Me too [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:33 AM Flag
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all the time. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:25 AM Flag
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Kid's grade or sex. Never specify school. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:26 AM Flag
[ - ] I am 35 years old. I studied drama at college and have been working in retail and bar jobs to support myself since. I have been in a few off broadway plays and student films. Last year was my most successful year-I had two lines in a popular tv series, i was a speaking extra in a soap opera and I was in a commercial. Be honest, should I give up? I enjoy socialising with the theatre/acting community 26 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:23 AM Flag
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If you love what you do, then no. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:24 AM Flag
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What commercial were you in? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:18 AM Flag
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Op I don't want to out myself as I was the only actor in the commercial and my wife and her friends no doubt use this site [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:28 AM Flag
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Are you happy living like this? Do you earn enough? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:18 AM Flag
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^i am a DH ps. My wife largely supports us [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:25 AM Flag
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Is she ok with that? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:19 AM Flag
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She says she is but I feel guilty sometimes as she works a boring corporate job and I know she is secretly creative...she earns so much money though that she would be foolish to quit her job [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:28 AM Flag
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Do you have kids? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:21 AM Flag
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No. She is 30 and I am 35 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:31 AM Flag
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You should ask your dw and decide as a family. We do not know the dynamic of your marriage and how is this affecting you. I used to dance, I was not great but rather pretty. I was always swan number 99 on stage left ( you know what I mean 1/1000000) I wanted a family and decided to quit. I miss it terribly, but ... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:31 AM Flag
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Is there any way you can pursue a different career while keeping acting as a hobby? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:19 AM Flag
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No unless you don't love it anymore. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:26 AM Flag
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How does DW feel? Her opinion should be more important than ours. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:20 AM Flag
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I worry that she secretly resents me. It's not just that I don't contribute financially, it is that my lifestyle is so different to hers. I sleep in, am free during the day etc [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:30 AM Flag
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Not that it matters, but I would resent the shit out of you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:24 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:26 AM Flag
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Op: even if you had been crazily in love with me when we started dating. Fwiw ours was quite a whirlwind courtship, marriage etc [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:33 AM Flag
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yes [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:34 AM Flag
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Honestly, I wouldn't have been attracted to you to begin with. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:29 AM Flag
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This. I could see it if he was doing the acting thing, maybe while the kids were in school, but otherwise was kind of playing the house husband role. He just sounds like a freeloading dick. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:36 AM Flag
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np So stop sleeping in. How do you do that with dcs anyway? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:25 AM Flag
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Do you you do lots of things to make her feel special? make her life easier? Maybe drag your ass out of bed and have breakfast with her, then go back to sleep.... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:26 AM Flag
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This will be handy once you have kids. But fwiw, I'd resent you if there was something else I really wanted to do but couldn't because you wouldn't get a 'real' job. if I liked my job, I'd be ok with it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:35 AM Flag
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It's a nice hobby, get a real job [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:31 AM Flag
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I'm 32 and would never consider doing something as a full-time career unless I could reasonably support myself (or contribute financially to my household). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:34 AM Flag
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Two words: Grow up. She's your wife. Not your mommy. Take responsibility for your life and your kids. What if something happened to her? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:35 AM Flag
[ - ] My DS is entering to 1st grade G&t program. He was gen-ed in kinder. Which reading level is required in average? How well do your gt kids write? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:19 AM Flag
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Probably F and up. Writing is a wide range. Boys tend to be behind the girls in writing but not always the case. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:21 AM Flag
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Mine is in I level in reading now in kinder, but not really good at writing. Only a few sentences including inventing spells. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:20 AM Flag
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Same as you, mine is an F. Doesn't love books at all but he makes 3-d models on the computer and loves chess. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:29 AM Flag
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His writing is so- so [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:30 AM Flag
[ - ] Most embarrassing moment: 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:18 AM Flag
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Driving back from weekend place alone with kids. Should preface by saying I have a bladder of steel (usually). Got stuck in traffic and had to pee--was DYING. Had on a dress and cardigan and knew I had to pee now just before I made it to the midtown tunnel. Had to take off cardigan, hike up dress, and pee (not whole bladder, but enough so I could drive and walk). Somehow, I managed not to pee on the seat or on the sidewalk on the walk home. Kids were SO nice about it (but it'll probably come back to haunt me). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:29 AM Flag
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Eh, whatever, I do this all the time. Do what ya gotta do. No biggie! -Paramedic Mom [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:34 AM Flag
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ps- don't mean to downplay yours... just saying you shouldn't be embarrassed about it. It happens. Cheers and have a good night :) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:34 AM Flag
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What did you pee into? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:35 AM Flag
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ILY. I was going to be jealous of you for having a weekend house but this is just too funny! Thanks for making me laugh. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:29 AM Flag
[ - ] I'm not going to contact him. If he wants to see me, he can do the work. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:17 AM Flag
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attagirl! they're interested, they call. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:17 AM Flag
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Good for you! This attitude will pay off eventually, tempting as it may be to reach out now. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:13 AM Flag
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And 20 years from now he will be kicking yourself you didn't call. Life is too short. Call when you want, don't follow rules, scribble outside of the lines. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:23 AM Flag
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Why will he be kicking her? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:22 AM Flag
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You do need to give him some encouragement [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:24 AM Flag
[ - ] Eye cream reccomendations? Not expecting a miracle, but I need moisture. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:15 AM Flag
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Caudalie. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:24 AM Flag
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Lancôme [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:21 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:24 AM Flag
[ - ] Considering switching from an SSRI to a benzo due to weight gain on the former. Has anyone btdt? 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:13 AM Flag
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Benzo's are very different from ssri's. They get you high and are super addictive. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:17 AM Flag
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OP: thanks. . knew about the addictive part, but in lower doses aren't they effective for anxiety (rather than giving a high)? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:27 AM Flag
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Benzos aren't great. Bad for your heart, make you sluggish. Ssris always make me lose weight [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:31 AM Flag
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OP: interesting. Can you share which made you lose weight? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:26 AM Flag
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Benzos are not antidepressants. Two completely different beasts. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:28 AM Flag
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OP: Right, but my issue is anxiety and I'm wondering if a different beast would work reasonably well. Am happy with the SSRI except for weight gain. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:29 AM Flag
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Lost weight on my SSRI. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:35 AM Flag
[ - ] I've been off UB for years. I was reading threads here...ugh...this is a harmful and ugly website that I've ever seen. Bye forever and Please get out of here ladies who have right mind! 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:08 AM Flag
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NO! don't leave without telling us your secret, how do you stay away? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:16 AM Flag
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Np- find a hobby, I used to be here for hours when my kids were little. I have since found other ways to occupy my evenings. This was also before UB switched hands [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:16 AM Flag
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talk to the hand... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:18 AM Flag
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Lollll [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:20 AM Flag
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Wha???? This is for fun. It's funny. And very informative. Good natured snark mongering. A time waster. Just what I am looking for at times. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:18 AM Flag
[ - ] RIP James Gandolfini 32 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:08 AM Flag
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So sad. I've always had the biggest celeb crush on him. He was so talented. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:02 AM Flag
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once again, obesity trumps all as a health factor. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:10 AM Flag
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I think it's more likely drugs. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:10 AM Flag
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really? interesting. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:04 AM Flag
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THIS [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:12 AM Flag
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Nah [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:32 AM Flag
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Well you certainly told him, didn't you? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:04 AM Flag
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what does that mean? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:05 AM Flag
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You're a know it all is what it means. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:07 AM Flag
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he was 51. puhleez. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:19 AM Flag
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Yes and ... ? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:13 AM Flag
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it's the fat, unless it was the drugs. but the fat aided the drugs. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:22 AM Flag
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Yeah there are no skinny drug addicts - eyeroll. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:16 AM Flag
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It means that no one wants to hear the preachy bullshit you're spouting. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:07 AM Flag
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np Insensitive, but she's right. He had that body you see on poorer men who drink a lot of beer and eat greasy food. Sadly, his son looks to be going the same direction. Should be an eyeopener for us all. Signed, fat mom. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:08 AM Flag
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You don't know if she's right or not, and neither does she! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:09 AM Flag
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Oh please. Being fat is not good obviously, but we don't know what happened. Give it a rest and may he RIP. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:09 AM Flag
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The nose candy he snorted likely did not help. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:10 AM Flag
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Pixie sticks? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:13 AM Flag
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It wasn't obesity. Trust me. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:13 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:16 AM Flag
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Any clue? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:09 AM Flag
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Np- coke? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:10 AM Flag
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DRUGS trumps all as a health factor. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:09 AM Flag
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this [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:24 AM Flag
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And as a fun factor. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:25 AM Flag
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Lol [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:27 AM Flag
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Once again, assholes trump all as posters. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:09 AM Flag
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+1000 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:11 AM Flag
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thanks! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:19 AM Flag
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ZING!!!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:24 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:13 AM Flag
[ - ] Advice for dating a new guy? Been out of practice for a looooong time :) 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.20.13, 03:03 AM Flag
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no handjobs on the first date [ Reply | More
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