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[ - ] Deadbeat is sentenced to 2 yrs in prison for failure to pay close to 1M in child support. http://www.nytimes.com/2013/05/22/nyregion/man-labeled-most-wanted-deadbeat-parent-gets-2-year-sentence.html?ref=nyregion&_r=0 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:38 AM Flag
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link: http://www.nytimes.com/2013/05/22/nyregion/man-labeled-most-wanted-deadbeat-parent-gets-2-year-sentence.html?ref=nyregion&_r=0 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:38 AM Flag
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Good. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:40 AM Flag
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i'm not going to read it but somehow, prison for child support seems an overreach. why can't they garnish his wages/earnings? or if he has no wages, then he obv can't afford 1MM in child support. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:40 AM Flag
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Sounds like one of those loser NBA/NFL guys who has ten kids and broke. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:41 AM Flag
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And how does this help the child? Wait until a mother is imprisoned for refusing access. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:41 AM Flag
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2 yr only? Seems like a bargain. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:36 AM Flag
[ - ] what do men who have affairs with married women think of what they're doing? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:37 AM Flag
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I had to read this four times. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:40 AM Flag
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op: can you find a way to rewrite my question so it reads better? I'm tipsy and at a loss. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:35 AM Flag
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Np "What is going through a man's mind when he is having an affair with a married woman?" [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:37 AM Flag
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:41 AM Flag
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I imagine they feel like they get to fuck someone without worrying about commitment, and they probably enjoy the idea that they got another man's woman. I've known women who seem attracted to married men for that reason. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:41 AM Flag
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They're probably fine with it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:42 AM Flag
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They love plowing another man's field. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:42 AM Flag
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op: so you think they seek out married women for the thrill? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:37 AM Flag
[ - ] I'm trying SO hard to meet single men I'd like to date. It's so difficult in NYC. I feel like they're all working 80 hours a week. I'm 29. 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:31 AM Flag
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Go out a lot and do some running/sport in the park Weekly. Do a summer house share with friends. Come to the bar with me. I need a wing woman. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:43 AM Flag
[ - ] Am no longer a mistress but pretty sure that while I was his wife knew, and she knew of at least one other before me. How does she go home every day to him? Why do you women put up with it? Fwiw she could be fine on her own financially. Bizarre to me. 20 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:26 AM Flag
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Why didn't he leave for you? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:34 AM Flag
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You'll understand if you marry one day. Good luck with that. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:29 AM Flag
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+1 you tell her [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:31 AM Flag
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+2 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:42 AM Flag
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monogamy isn't always thing #1 to a marriage. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:36 AM Flag
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sad. I would hate living in fear that one day DH really will fall for the new girl and all that time I spent building him, our family, and our lives will be forgotten. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:37 AM Flag
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sounds like his wife wasn't afraid of that--and he stuck with her, so she was right. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:38 AM Flag
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What what really did she get? A philandering husband who prefers sex with other women, but likes the way she irons his shirts? F- that. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:40 AM Flag
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Right about what? That he wouldn't leave? So what? She gets the prize? I have been out of this relationship for a while - I'm honestly curious, not hoping he would leave for me. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:41 AM Flag
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:43 AM Flag
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I would be interested in knowing why she puts up with it, but I would also be interested in knowing why you enabled his shitty behavior. Seriously, he made the vows and he's at fault too, but when you know a man is married, you don't do it. You don't. End of story. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:31 AM Flag
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Kids. Grandchildren. Partnership in old age. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:37 AM Flag
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np: but how do you respect him? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:39 AM Flag
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I get it - but when you know it's a facade how do you live with it? I'm just curious? Bc if I knew dh had a one nighter I might forgive - but a series of relationships - jeez you'd have to drug me to keep me propped up at the dinner table. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:39 AM Flag
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Op here - fwiw I am married - and I guess you all accept that - bitter much? Rationalize much? Good luck with that!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:38 AM Flag
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Proud of yourself, aren't you? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:39 AM Flag
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No I'm not - I'm amazed by the women on this board. So against cheating unless its their dh doing it! Lol. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:42 AM Flag
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not for a very long time or at least not happily if you're still obsessing about the DW of a man who didn't leave her for you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:40 AM Flag
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Ive been married for 20 years and I'm not obsessed - I'm curious - I didn't want him to leave fwiw. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:43 AM Flag
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So you're a little shit in the eyes of your own husband and your ex-boyfriend's wife? You rock! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:40 AM Flag
[ - ] Princess of LongIsland....LOL are they making fun of jewish woman? Sad. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:24 AM Flag
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Is it on now? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:31 AM Flag
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np premieres June 2nd I thought [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:29 AM Flag
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was Housewives of Atlanta making fun of black women? Was that OK? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:30 AM Flag
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oooooochild no it wasn't [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:30 AM Flag
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I am not Jewish, but the promo irks me. Do most Jewish women run around screaming, "I HAVE MANISCHEWITZ!!!!!!" like it's Veuve Clicquot? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:30 AM Flag
[ - ] Anyone know of a great site/book that details how to build a simple but elegant wardrobe without spending a fortune. I've got lots of pieces in my closet, a fair amount of it is junk I never should have bought. Want to declutter, start over, simplify. 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:24 AM Flag
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no shower mom has a site [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:29 AM Flag
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who the F is shower mom? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:30 AM Flag
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You shouldn't have to rely on a book. Come on, this is common sense. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:32 AM Flag
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OP: Not for me! You should see my closet... LOL [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:38 AM Flag
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I am trying to do this, but switching jobs, so waiting until I get the new job to start buying. Currently trying to declutter. Sell nice thing syou don't use on EBay, throw out or donate others. I actually started a blog where I post photos of me in all my outfits and friends and family comment anonymously on which pieces I should toss or what I should buy to go with them. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:40 AM Flag
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Hire someone [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:36 AM Flag
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You need me! I do this for a living! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:36 AM Flag
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How much do you charge? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:43 AM Flag
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OP: Can't afford you? Help a girl out? Give me some tips...! :) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:43 AM Flag
[ - ] how many glasses are in a bottle of wine? (normal sized) 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:20 AM Flag
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:29 AM Flag
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According to my extensive googling, there are 25.4 ounces of wine in a bottle. So, if you pour 6 oz glasses, 4 glasses. But if you pour 4 oz glasses, then there are 6. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:30 AM Flag
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OP-cause I just had 2 glasses and it looks like the bottle is half gone! :) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:31 AM Flag
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Not sure I drink straight out of the bottle. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:29 AM Flag
[ - ] People take childbirth classes in NYC? any place they liked? 21 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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New York City 05.22.13, 02:20 AM Flag
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Why bother. I didn't and the baby came out. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:21 AM Flag
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Absolutely this! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:23 AM Flag
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yes I agree not necessary but it is nice to know what my options are and what to expect. If you are hoping to go without meds nice to have some idea as to things to do, options and management of hospital, etc. baby will come out either way but nice to have some info... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:21 AM Flag
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It is a trial by fire. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:30 AM Flag
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I don't understand what that is suppose to mean? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:32 AM Flag
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You can read all the books in the world, but until you actually do it you have no idea. It is like the difference between climbing a mountain and reading about climbing a mountain. Your body just takes over and you do it. It just isn't an intellectual thing. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:37 AM Flag
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not so much true..you would want to know how to tie a knot, what gear you would need, etc before you climb...with some much interventions happening an a lot of it not always needed it is nice to know that you do have other options, it is not about attacking your doctor it is about having a smart conversation with them, they only way you know what questions to ask is by getting info before...like know you don't need an iv if you don't have pain meds...if you did not know this before you would just get a routine i.v. which can make it harder for some people to use natural options for pain management like shower, bath, etc. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:41 AM Flag
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Weill Cornell east side has one. It was a waste of time for me, but we useful for DH because he had to sit down and actually focus on what he needed to expect in the delivery room. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:30 AM Flag
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I did-at a place called "real birth" but I don't think it exists anymore. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:18 AM Flag
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I didn't take childbirth class but I took breastfeeding class before db was born (as my friend recommended). I thought that was very helpful. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:19 AM Flag
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where? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:20 AM Flag
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I did it at NYU hospital [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:22 AM Flag
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Did you take a sex class or did you and dh figure that out all by yourselves? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:27 AM Flag
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laugh...I did read books however... why make fun about someone wanting to educate themselves? Not everyone wants epidural and even if you do want epidural nice to know what all the machines are for. You mean to tell me if you need to have an operation you would not google info on this or ask questions? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:30 AM Flag
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Honestly, no. I might get a second opinion but google is NOT your friend when it comes to medical issues. You are not a doctor and you will just freak yourself out. I don't need to know and scare myself. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:33 AM Flag
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that's you. most people like to know about what is going to happen to them. I am not saying to tell doctors how to do their job but I would like to know what is going to happen to my body, it is after all happening to me...knowledge is a wonderful gift to have.. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:36 AM Flag
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Sorry, in terms of birth it is silly. If it gives you peace of mind and you like doing it go ahead, but don't expect it to really prepare you in any sense for the reality. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:41 AM Flag
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Um, we never did. Needed a team of professionals [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:34 AM Flag
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To out his winky in your hoo-hoo? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:38 AM Flag
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I met one of my best friends in the class. I [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:28 AM Flag
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yes I agree, classes can be great to meet people. I still keep in touch with several people I took my class with [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:29 AM Flag
[ - ] Brad Pitt--just stop talking about how you hated your life before you met Angelina 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:19 AM Flag
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Just change the channel. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:28 AM Flag
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Ugh I know. He is so obnoxious [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:24 AM Flag
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+1000000 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:32 AM Flag
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He is such a DB. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:36 AM Flag
[ - ] 2nd night in a row dh has rejected my advances. He used to complain that I always rejected him, but I was fat and didn't feel good. Now I'm losing weight and would like sex 2-4 times per week, and suddenly he's tired and can't be bothered. Wish we could get on the same wavelength. 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:17 AM Flag
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Think he's sleeping around? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:25 AM Flag
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op: no chance. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:20 AM Flag
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Maybe he liked you curvy? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:26 AM Flag
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famous last words... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:32 AM Flag
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that would be my guess...any guy who doesn't want it is getting somewhere else... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:22 AM Flag
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Or aging, or stressed, or tired, or drinking too much, or on anti anxiety meds, or what the fuck do you know?! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:31 AM Flag
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wow a little sensitive...no guys is ever too stressed or tired...it is a lie they tell women so they don't hurt their feelings...get real and watch your mouth [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:28 AM Flag
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op: there's literally no chance--he works with only men and comes directly home to take care of db before I get home. He's a total homebody. I think he's just stressed/lazy/tired. I cajoled him into the idea, then db started crying--I spent 15 minutes getting her settled and when I came back dh was like, "I just want to sleep." Total bummer. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:34 AM Flag
[ - ] DH is so cranky. Found out he has sleep apnea and has to wear these insane nose plugs that apparently take a while to get used to. I am thrilled because I can now sleep without his snoring. And yet - feel bad. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:16 AM Flag
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He will get used to it. Better than you two sleeping in separate bedrooms, right? It's also going to be better sleep for both of you. With sleep apnea - is he overweight? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:20 AM Flag
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So far better sleep for me - he's finding it hard to breathe with them. He's actually pretty skinny, not sure where the snoring came from. Unfortunately, the other options are that scary-ass mask and surgery [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:18 AM Flag
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Sounds like he has the best practical solution, and he just needs to get used to it. But it's not your fault! You can feel sympathetic without feeling responsible. GL! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:27 AM Flag
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Don't feel bad. He will be healthier. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:19 AM Flag
[ - ] I feel like I don't buy my children all of the "extras". We go to people's houses and they have batman water bottles, special children plates/utensils/cups, a million pairs of shoes, backpacks...silly things, but we can certainly afford them, but don't buy it. Am I short changing my dcs? 25 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:16 AM Flag
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Not at all. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:25 AM Flag
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nah. we are in 0.1% and dc calls me cheap all the time and i am. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:20 AM Flag
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Thanks. I was starting to believe the hype. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:21 AM Flag
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Same here! 0.1% and our kids have 1/10th the crap my nephews have [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:28 AM Flag
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Of course not. High SES moms don't fall into these traps. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:26 AM Flag
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What is ses? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:22 AM Flag
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socioeconomic status? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:32 AM Flag
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No, you are long changing your bank account [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:26 AM Flag
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Hell to the no. Your parents didn't have that shit and I bet you didn't either. Don't fall for it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:21 AM Flag
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Op: a friend was puzzled that I didn't have a "stool" so the kids could brush their teeth and I just never felt like we needed it. [ Reply | More
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Can they reach the sink? [ Reply | More
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Op: yes they an reach. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:31 AM Flag
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PP: I have one, two actually, but I find them very useful for hand washing. Agree with you that not necessary for brushing teeth, but my DC who is 3.5 years can wash/dry her hands all by herself using the stool. Definitely couldn't do that on her own without it. So I find it useful. But yeah, batman water bottles? WTF My daughter has been picking all kinds of shit up in the store and giving me that 'can I?' look. Sometimes asks for it. I say put that back. When she asks why I say 'cuz we don't need it.' End of story. She's a good kid and seems to have learned that I do not tolerate the 'but I need it!!!!!' tantrum bullshit I've seen some kids pull. Always feel very sorry for them. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:28 AM Flag
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+1 I like you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:33 AM Flag
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NO. I hate all that stupid stuff. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:21 AM Flag
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We have that crap too, but I didn't buy it-comes from grandparents/aunties etc. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:22 AM Flag
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I had none of that and it didn't make a bit of difference. Don't plan on buying that tacky shit for my kids either [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:23 AM Flag
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Actually, you are doing them a favor. They don't need all that crap. And the more crap kids get, the more they crave. So you don't have to get into that unnecessary endless cycle. I am in the process of cutting back. It's a good thing. Also, you can think of it as sparing the earth from having to absorb the extra garbage when they are done with the extra stuff. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:29 AM Flag
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this. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:27 AM Flag
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I think most people buy kids their own cups and plates so the kids don't break the good stuff [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:30 AM Flag
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I don't believe in extras but I also don't see kids plates, a backpack or a water bottle as extras, those are simply things that get used every day in my house (I would like to keep my dishes and glasses so my kids get plastic). They only have a couple of pairs of shoes though [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:30 AM Flag
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are you pointed about it? Buying ALL that extra stuff all the time is wasteful and sends a bad message. (GUILTY here) but depriving your children of it just to make a point is also not healthy. A little goes a long way. Every so often buy some stupid indulgent thing like a Batman water bottle just because they like it. If you don't make a habit of it, it's fine. You will make them want stuff more, IMO, if you deprive them entirely. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:32 AM Flag
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Op: it is not intentional. I noticed today in one of my dcs classes that my child was one if the few that didn't have all of this stuff. Made me think I should buy it [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:29 AM Flag
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By not having stuff do you mean not branded stuff or nothing at all? Just curious, I always carry water for my kids and myself so we all have a reusable water bottle. I let my kids pick theirs out so it could easily be batman. Not sure how the water bottle is unnecessary junk though, better than buying bottled water. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:42 AM Flag
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ITA [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:31 AM Flag
[ - ] Cutest thing ever- DD was eating a bright blue ice pop while wearing her princess dress. I told her to be careful bc she might stain her dress. She's not even 5 and said back to me, "Not on my watch!" 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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LOL adorable. 2 y/o ds said to me "you sound like a bwoken record" after I told him it's time for bed [ Reply | More
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np That's kind of snotty for such a young kid. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:23 AM Flag
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very sassy [ Reply | More
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ita [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:33 AM Flag
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sweet [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:20 AM Flag
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Cute. My almost 3 year has been saying lately when in bind, "can I get a little help here?". It's killing me. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:27 AM Flag
[ - ] Exdh did not like me to get a job and wanted me to take care of the kids. Now divorcing. What should I ask for? IT is probably too late for me to start a career 18 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:10 AM Flag
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It isn't too late to get a job though. He will probably have to contribute more because you won't make as much as if you had started earlier and you should tell him that. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:17 AM Flag
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I want to get a job. What can I do? I am looking at temping. I need to learn some computer skills first. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:12 AM Flag
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Retail, watch kids. You could do that right now. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:21 AM Flag
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Hate both of those fields. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:28 AM Flag
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Suck it up sister. You don't have a lot of options and it is just a paycheck. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:30 AM Flag
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over-ask to start. it all depends on what you're used to, what you can get used to, etc. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:18 AM Flag
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You should be asking a lawyer about what you should ask for. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:21 AM Flag
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I am meeting with one in June. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:28 AM Flag
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OR: There is no one on this board who can answer the questions that you are posing. There are too many unknowns. You will have more clarity after you consult with your attorney. Deal with the career issues afterward. For now, you don't work, and if you haven't been working for years, then you go to court with that. You can ponder what you might like to do, and may start getting your ducks in a row, but that's probably irrelevant for the purposes of divorcing and getting a settlement. Your lawyer will clarify. GL. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:27 AM Flag
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I would look at anything in the health care field...they seem to hire a lot [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:21 AM Flag
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Ask for a lot of $ [ Reply | More
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upfront or is it better to get monthly? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:29 AM Flag
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Alimony + child support, of course. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:21 AM Flag
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And, custody + the house. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:21 AM Flag
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don't rush into work---if you're ex-DH can afford it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:29 AM Flag
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What are thoughts on going back to school? If he would pay for it [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:33 AM Flag
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I am almost 50. School is almost free where I live, but how many more years of waiting to work? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:39 AM Flag
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It took me almost a year, but I weasled my way in to PwC by taking a temp job, doing well at it, and looking around their office to see what I'd be interested in doing, then holding out for an opportunity to apply for an opening. Just a suggestion about how to work your way in. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:30 AM Flag
[ - ] I need a wardrobe makeover. Im tired of wearing sneakers and lulu everyday! I wanna dress up and wear makeup like the housewives 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:09 AM Flag
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Start with a nice pair of jeans, sandals and some simple tops from A. Wang/Rag & Bone. Pair it with some Hermes bangles and "natural" makeup and you've got my everyday outfit! I do look quite good, if I do say so myself :) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:11 AM Flag
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get a couple of easy go to outfits. dress and leggings are super simple and comfy but look put together. Use a scarf to pull it all together. For summer, easy thing is a dress cute shoes, buy a couple of easy one necklace you can just toss over in place of a scarf... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:17 AM Flag
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Find a comfy casual uniform. Most women looks good in slim, straight leg jeans, looser blouses and flats. Then you can mix it up from there by adding a blazer, trying fun prints, funky colors on the shoes, etc [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.13, 02:32 AM Flag
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